May 21st is National Letter Writing Day and because happiness is most definitely handwritten, itвЂ™s time to celebrate. If you canвЂ™t make it to the Make Me Joyful Letter Writing Salon in London, why not host your own? Gather your friends, stir some drinks and indulge in the pleasures and prettiness of all things paper. If youвЂ™re hosting a letter writing event, it would be lovely to send your guests paper invitations. But if you need to gather people quickly and donвЂ™t have time for the mail, try Paperless Post. IвЂ™m of the opinion that a party isnвЂ™t really a party without at least one all-nighter crafting things out of tissue paper, swearing like a sailor and lamenting my insistence on a вЂ�creative visionвЂ™. Perhaps youвЂ™re more relaxed. But if you do like the idea of pom-poms or crepe paper fringing, here are two of my favourite tutorials: Pom-poms and fringe. www.makemejoyful.com Flowers are always a good idea. This is pretty much my rule for life, but even more so for parties. Local markets are great, but supermarkets can have a decent selection too. Split up bouquets and re-arrange in your vase/jam jar of choice. If the assortment isnвЂ™t amazing, choose blooms of one colour to hide the quality with a slightly more luxurious feel. DonвЂ™t forget the music. Now might be a good time for The CarpenterвЂ™s вЂ�Please Mr PostmanвЂ™ and The ProclaimerвЂ™s вЂ�Letter to AmericaвЂ™. Or maybe donвЂ™t be ruled by the theme and choose your favourite non-letter related tunes instead. Choose a selection of your loveliest stationery for people to use at your event. You can stick with a theme or choose an assortment. At the Make Me Joyful Salon thereвЂ™ll be a mix of designers so that people can be inspired by different looks. You can also add extras like rubber stamps (IвЂ™ve just designed some very joyful ones to use), stickers, sealing wax and any other adornments that suit your theme. If you have a particularly creative crowd, you can also encourage them to decorate their own cards. A little arts and crafts is always a good thing. My favourite places to buy supplies include: Etsy Search for вЂ�stationeryвЂ™ then be prepared to lose a few hours as you browse all things paper. The Green Gables For a more vintage, illustrative style, GabrielleвЂ™s postcards are a treat. Alice Gabb Love the splendiferous style of these decedent notelets. Present and Correct If youвЂ™re paper inclinations are slightly more quirky, this is the place for you. Studio Sarah This new studio is a recent discovery. SarahвЂ™s glossy, luxe cards are super stylish. www.makemejoyful.com Of course, you can also find great blank paper at places like Paperchase and Paper Source. Alternatively, ask guests to bring a selection of their own supplies so you get to mix and match. IвЂ™m still finalising the cake choice for the 21st, but if you want an easy but delicious chocolate fix, hereвЂ™s one of my failsafe recipes. ItвЂ™s even better the day after you make it which makes it easy to prepare ahead: Flourless Chocolate Cake 200 grams dark chocolate (at least 70% cocoa solids) 200 grams unsalted butter cut into 1cm cubes 250 grams caster sugar 5 large eggs 1 table spoon cocoa powder or plain flour 1 table spoon of fresh coffee or coffee extract like Camp (optional) 1. Preheat the oven to 190 degrees Celsius. 2. Butter an 8-inch round cake pan. For extra non-stick, line the base with buttered parchment. 3. Finely chop the chocolate and melt it together with the butter in a bowl above a pan of simmering water. Keep stirring the mixture to combine. 4. Add the sugar to the chocolate mixture and stir it in well. Leave to cool for a few minutes. www.makemejoyful.com 5. Add the eggs one at a time and stir well after each one. Then add the coffee if youвЂ™re using it. 6. Finally, fold in the cocoa/flour. You should have an unctuous, chocolatey batter. Try to resist eating it all at this stage. 7. Pour the mixture into the cake tin and bake for approximately 25 minutes or until the top is slightly crackled and thereвЂ™s still a slight jiggle in the centre. Jiggle is good. 8. Allow the cake to cool in its pan on a cooling rack for around 10 minutes and then turn it out. You then want to flip it upright so the crackly side is on top. Allow it to cool completely and donвЂ™t get worried if it starts to deflate. This is entirely normal. 9. Share it with your guests. Or eat it alone. I wonвЂ™t judge. IвЂ™m planning on serving my special Elderflower cocktail at the Make Me Joyful event. ItвЂ™s a very joyful mixture of elderflower cordial, vodka, limoncello and lemonade muddled together with ice and fresh lemons. You may want to do the same. If so, just mix the quantities to taste and remember that it may seem dangerously booze free, but itвЂ™s most definitely not. If youвЂ™re concerned about letter writing under the influence (and the secrets you may reveal), consider hosting an afternoon tea event. Share snippets of your favourite famous letters in the invitations or send guests home with copies. Have Google at the ready to check forgotten post/zip codes. Have postage stamps on hand and volunteer to post all of the letters at the end of the night so that mail doesnвЂ™t languish in the bottom of the guestsвЂ™ bags for the next month. If you have time for more than one letter, write a spare to be hidden on the way home for a stranger to be surprised by. Realise you love writing letters? Email me ([email protected]) with your address to be matched with a joyful pen pal. If youвЂ™ve been invited to the party, remember to send a proper thank you card afterwards. If you do host your own Salon, IвЂ™d love to hear all about it. Tell me what happened at [email protected] or on the Facebook page at www.facebook.com/makemejoyful Be sure to include any pictures too. Enjoy! //Photos courtesy of The Pom Pom Factory and Betsy Dunlap. www.makemejoyful.com