NOVEMBER 2014 Heshvan/Kislev 5775 VOLUME 72 NUMBER 3 STAY CONNECTED UPCOMING facebook.com/groups/BnaiIsraelCong/ www.bnaiisraelcong.org Schilit Nursery School OPEN HOUSE See p. 16 for details. One Team, One Goal UPCOMING Scholar-in-Residence Weekend B’nai Israel TAILGATE SHABBAT Saturday, November 1 9:00 a.m. Wear your favorite colors or jersey to show your team spirit. Join us for a tailgate kiddush of hotdogs and all the trimmings! See p. 15 for the complete service schedule, which includes 3’s Shabbat, 3rd Grade Shabbat, 5th grade Shabbat, and special visitors for Camp Ramah Shabbat. Prospective members are welcome. with RAHEL MUSLEAH Friday–Sunday, December 5–7 See p. 11. Inside B’nai Mitzvah .................................................................... 2 Rabbi’s Message ............................................................. 3 Notes by Cantor Josh ................................................. 4 Leadership Message .................................................... 5 Mitzvah Day ...................................................................... 6–7 Adult Education .............................................................. 8–9 Shabbat around B’nai .................................................. 10 Scholar-in-Residence .................................................. 11 Family Education & Day School Update........... 12 B’nai Israel’s 21st Annual Mitzvah Day is Sunday, November 9. Shabbat Magic ................................................................ 13 Schilit Nursery News .................................................... 16 Talmud Torah Update .................................................. 17 Teen Scene ....................................................................... 18 Blumberg-Zalis Family Library ............................... 19 Sisterhood .......................................................................... 20 Projects Collections Mitzvot See p. 7 for details. Men’s Club ......................................................................... 21 Members in Mourning ................................................. 22 Mazal Tov to Our Celebrating Members ........... 23 Donations ........................................................................... 24 B’NAI MITZVAH devn ipa Joshua Seth Diewald November 1 9:00 a.m. Josh, son of Debra and Allen Diewald and grandson of Dale and James McManus and Gilbert Diewald and the late Donna Shurberg and the late Dr. Harold Shurberg, is a 7th grade student at the Charles E. Smith Jewish Day School. For his mitzvah project, Josh worked as a CIT at Camp Katan this past summer. He will also be making a donation to Johns Hopkins Children’s Center to further support food allergy research. He plans to organize a run to benefit food allergy research. Emma Evelyn Ash November 8 9:00 a.m. Emma, daughter of Melissa and Darren Ash and granddaughter of Carol and David Ash and Carol and Dennis Elliott, is a 7th grade student at the Charles E. Smith Jewish Day School. For her mitzvah project, Emma is helping children develop skills for ballet. She is volunteering in children’s classes at the Maryland Youth Ballet where she dances. Raymond Lyle Ash November 8 9:00 a.m. Ray, son of Melissa and Darren Ash and grandson of Carol and David Ash and Carol and Dennis Elliott, is a 7th grade student at the Charles E. Smith Jewish Day School. For his mitzvah project, Ray is collecting sports equipment for underprivileged children. He will be donating the equipment to Leveling the Playing Field. Orli Yaffa Katz November 15 9:00 a.m. Orli, daughter of Naomi and Dr. Joshua Katz and granddaughter of Arlene and Dr. Seymour Katz and Dr. Judith Lax and the late Dr. Melvin Lax is a 7th grade student at Bornblum Solomon Schechter in Memphis, TN. For her mitzvah project, Orli is helping A Wider Circle, which provides furniture, food and household supplies to families who lack basic essentials. She helped sort and prepare donated items and is collecting pasta, canned goods and dental care products. Sarit Kleinwaks Luftman November 22 9:00 a.m. Sarit, daughter of Elise Kleinwaks and Eric Luftman and granddaughter of Ruth Luftman and the late Alvin Luftman and Doris S. Kleinwaks and the late Norman Kleinwaks, is a 7th grade student at the Charles E. Smith Jewish Day School. For her mitzvah project, Sarit is collecting 1,000 gently used books and funds to set up a library in Swaziland for kids in grades 4 through 8 under the auspices of the African Library Project. Ariel Margolis November 29 9:00 a.m. Ariel, son of Clara and Avi Margolis and grandson of Zvia Margolis and the late Stuart Margolis and Harriet Smith and the late Paul Smith, is a 7th grade student at the Charles E. Smith Jewish Day School. For his mitzvah project, Ariel is volunteering at Red Wiggler Community Farm. 2 N O V E M B E R Welcome to the Newest Members of Our B’nai Israel Family (September 15 – October 13) New Members . . . Alexis and Marc Anolik Karen and Ariel Brio Gail Bronson Tammy and Gil Cohn Stephanie and Gabriel Eber Melissa and Joshua Hausfeld Molly and Peter Jekel Jade-Snow and David Joachim Norda Kittrie and David Levin Angela Rosenbloom On behalf of the Membership Committee we want to welcome our new members. We know the entire congregation shares our joy in welcoming you into the B’nai Israel family. Though we are a large congregation, we strive to make each and every member feel at home. Save the Date! Schilit Nursery School Open House 2015–2016 Friday, November 14 10:00 a.m. or Sunday, November 16 10:00 a.m. Learn more about our half- and full-day programs and tour our school. Meet B’nai Israel’s staff and clergy. RSVPs are appreciated but not required to Karen Gerton. Individual tours are also available throughout the year. 2 0 1 4 RABBI’S MESSAGE BY RABBI JONATHAN A. SCHNITZER Why did I decide to teach a course about Shabbat this fall? One of my favorite ways to think about Shabbat is that in Jewish terms, this distinctive “time zone” encompasses one-seventh of each week, one-seventh of each year, one-seventh of our entire lives. Clearly, by any mathematical standard, Shabbat represents a very significant dimension of our Jewish experiences. Yet, sadly and ironically, many Jews view Shabbat as a litany of endless prohibitions. In that mindset, the “don’ts” associated with Shabbat far outweigh the “do’s.” Shabbat thus becomes a form of Jewish drudgery —even oppression, totally devoid of the positive potential that Shabbat ideally should be fostering for us. Beginning on Tuesday evening, November 18, I hope to explore the concept of Shabbat on various levels: historical, theological, legalistic and contemporary in an effort to frame Shabbat as one of the most precious gifts and resources which our Jewish heritage offers us. I recognize that there is no “one size fits all” formula for Shabbat among Conservative Jews in 2014, but I am convinced that in its broad strokes, Shabbat with its amalgam of family, community, study, prayer, pleasure, rest, peace and renewal (both physical and spiritual) provides a critical antidote to the stresses that pound at most of us on every other day of our week. Dr. Abraham Joshua Heschel, who was my teacher at the Jewish Theological Seminary and whose writings continue to influence our American Jewish community, may have said it best: “To set apart one day a week for freedom, a day on which we would not use the instruments which have so easily turned into weapons of destruction, a day for being with ourselves, a day of detachment from the vulgar, of independence of external obligations, a day on which we stop worshiping the idols of technical civilization, a day on which we use no money, a day of armistice in the economic struggle with our fellow men and the forces of nature – is there any institution that holds out a greater hope for man’s progress that the Sabbath?” (from The Sabbath). FLORIDA REUNION Please join me for four Tuesday evenings— November 18, November 25, December 2 and December 9 at 7:30 p.m. here at B’nai Israel as together we “unpack” one of the greatest and most relevant ideas of Judaism. WELCOME TO OUR NEW STAFF Susan Cairnes, our new Events Manager, is a Certified Meeting Professional who comes to us with an extensive background in professional meeting planning and event management. B’nai Israel’s development event management, facilities rentals, event schedule management, and High Holy Day seating are in Susan’s very capable hands. Sunday, January 25, 2015 Ballenisles Country Club Palm Beach Gardens Join us for brunch and to reunite with your B’nai Israel family. Please notify us of your Florida address. Invitation to Follow. Originally from New York, Susan resides in Silver Spring and enjoys spending time with her family. beautiful facilities. Jose ‘Pepe’ Strauss, our new Facilities Director, comes to us from Shaare Torah where he was the Facility Director for eight years. Pepe directs the management and maintenance of our Originally from Mexico and Israel, and fluent in Spanish and Hebrew, Pepe resides in Rockville with his wife and two children, and has been the director of the Kesem/ Yesodot Israeli dance program for the past twenty years. N O V E M B E R B’nai Israel Congregation is an accessible building. 2 0 1 4 3 NOTES BY CANTOR JOSH Jokes of the Month A Football team was on the field during practice, when to their surprise, a big turkey suddenly walked up to the coach and demanded a tryout. FROM OUR TABLE TO YOURS VOLUME II B’nai Israel Schilit Nursery School Cookbook LEADERSHIP MESSAGE BY April Kaplan “Are you crazy,” hollered the coach, “we don’t give tryouts to turkeys.” Before he knew it the turkey started dashing towards the football and made a fantastic catch. Thank you; thank you; thank you. Thank you, November, for having so many opportunities to say, “thank you.” The first thank you is for the extra hour of sleep you give us on November 2. Remember—fall back, spring forward. On November 11, we thank our men and women in the armed forces and take a moment on Veteran’s Day to thank them for their service to our country. Thanksgiving day is a special day of thank you which offers opportunities to thank the people you work with, the ones you live with, or people you see on the street on a daily basis. Thanksgiving is a great opportunity to just say, “thank you.” Hopefully, these three special days in November will inspire us to make a regular habit of saying thank you. Most often we go through our day taking miracles for granted, let alone gestures of kindness from others. And so personally, for each and every one of you reading this article, I say, “thank you,” and also to those of you not reading this article I say, “thank you.” To the family and friends and the people I work with, I say, “thank you.” May we share many more years together, acknowledging each other in a thankful and appreciative way. “That was amazing”, exclaimed the coach “I have never seen anything like that! How much do you want for a year?” “Don’t worry about money,” said the turkey, “let me just ask you something, does the season go past thanksgiving? Q: Who is not hungry at Thanksgiving? A: The turkey because it’s already stuffed! Q:Why can’t you take a turkey to the synagogue? A: Because they use such FOWL language! Support B’nai Israel’s Gift Card Program! Purchase Giant Food, Peapod, Moti’s Market, and Shalom Kosher Market gift cards at face value and use them just as you would cash or a credit card at those stores. Buy them in the Education Office during office hours and Talmud Torah school hours. Cash or checks only! Questions? Contact Julie Mintz ([email protected]), Ellen Robinson ([email protected]), or Sharon Safra (240-221-2500, sharons@ bnaiisraelcong.org). A collection of over 450 recipes including Jewish holiday recipes, family favorites, child-friendly foods and many more organized in a professionally designed 3-ring binder. Buy a few—From Our Table to Yours, Volume II is a great gift for a holiday, house warming, birthday, bridal shower, hostess gifts, etc. Don’t miss out! Volume I sold out in record time. Available in the Schilit Nursery School Office for $25 per book. Support B’nai Israel by Shopping in Your Sisterhood Judaica Shop! We have all that you need for your holiday shopping as well as your other gift-giving needs. Thank you in advance for your support! See p. 19 for details. 4 N O V E M B E R 2 0 1 4 As I write this Scroll article, we have just completed the high holidays and are approaching Sukkot. As I reflect back on this past year I am grateful for the opportunities life has offered Rob, our children and me. B’nai Israel has played a significant role in our family’s life. We’ve looked to B’nai in times of great sadness, times of great happiness, for education, spiritual guidance, friendship, parenting advice and so much more. It is because of what B’nai has given us that my husband and I feel the need to give back to B’nai. I have served in executive committee positions because investing financially, emotionally and physically in our Shul is what makes our “mini city”, as I refer to B’nai, available to us 24/7. Under my portfolio I have the opportunity to work with a wonderful team of volunteers and staff to assure that B’nai remains a strong, vibrant, egalitarian synagogue that provides each of us with a spiritual, educational, social and emotional community. To ensure that our “mini city” continues to thrive, we must all be willing to invest in the future. Our Annual Giving Hineini Society supports operating expenses like our staff, building, maintenance and security, which are so critical. We have to raise more money than ever before. Thank you to Debbie and Danny Glazer, Sarah and Doug Kotlove and Susan and Rob Loewy for being three amazing couples and offering to co-chair the Hineini Campaign. They have gotten us off to a great start. I also want to thank Drs. Stuart and Ellen Lessans for their overwhelming generosity. They have pledged to match all Annual Giving Hineini Society donations, dollar for dollar, once the challenge threshold has been met. While our Fall is focused on Hineini, it’s not too early to get ready for our exciting Spring events, including our annual Evening With, our exceptionally fun Golf Outing and our newest event, Ribs and Spirits. Details on how to participate and volunteer for all these events are forthcoming and I hope you will participate and volunteer. It takes all of our emotional, social, educational, spiritual and financial commitments to keep B’nai the warm and caring community, we have become accustomed to. ANNUAL GIVING Hineini Society B’nai Israel is here to be your Home for Jewish Life. When you need us, we are proud to say “Hineini—Here I am.” Now, we need you. Please tell us, here I am— make your pledge today to the Annual Giving—Hineini Society Campaign. http://www.bnaiisraelcong.org/ annualgiving 240-221-2519 There is ALWAYS something happening at B’nai Israel! STAY CONNECTED If you are not receiving our electronic Midmonth, please send your email address to [email protected]. N O V E M B E R B’nai Israel Congregation’s BLUMBERG-ZALIS FAMILY LIBRARY Awarded the Advanced Accreditation Degree by the Association of Jewish Libraries The Accreditation Committee of the Association of Jewish Libraries (AJL) is pleased to announce that B’nai Israel Congregation’s Blumberg-Zalis Family Library, under the direction of Jill Gendelman, received the advanced level Accreditation which is the highest accreditation given to Jewish Libraries by the Association and demonstrates an exemplary standard of excellence for its library. The Award was presented to Fred E. Goodman, Chairperson of the Library at an award ceremony which took place during the 94th annual conference of the AJL in Las Vegas, Nevada in June. With a superior, up-to-date collection of over 12,000 books, periodicals, videos, DVDs, audio, and other resources, The B’nai Israel Library houses one of the largest Jewish library collection in the Washington DC, Maryland amd Virginia areas. The library also hosts innovative book, author, film, and cultural programming open to the entire community. “Jill’s management of the library sets the bar very high for professionalism and creativity and we are thrilled that we have received this recognition from the AJL,” notes Fred Goodman while accepting this award. “Her programming skills, her material acquisition skills, her support of the pre-school, Talmud Torah, Teen and Adult Education programs, and selfless devotion to the library, hour upon hour, are a testament, and her personable manner makes her a favorite with both colleagues and congregants.” “I am also grateful for the steadfast support and encouragement for the Library by our Clergy, and by the Synagogue Management and by its Board of Directors,” said Goodman. For more information about the Blumberg-Zalis Family Library, go to http://www.bnaiisraelcong.org/library. For more information about the AJL, visit www.jewishlibraries.org. 2 0 1 4 5 SOCIAL ACTION N a t a l i e M e r ku r Rose, LCSW-C JSSA Synagogue Liaison It has been my privilege to serve as the JSSA Synagogue Liaison to B’nai Israel for the past 12 years. I’ve been able to help members, staff and clergy in many different ways and I’m pleased to be thought of as part of the B’nai Israel family. I’ve been contacted by members who don’t know where to turn… who have mental health or complicated family issues and are looking for someone to help them figure out their next steps. I’d like to share some specific examples of how I fit into the synagogue community to highlight when and how I can be helpful. Parents at B’nai Israel contact me when they have concerns about their children of varying ages. These concerns may be ordinary— bedtime, mealtime, setting limits, etc. or may be related to a transition in the family such as a new baby, a move, a serious illness or death in the family. I am able to meet with the parents to recommend new strategies and if necessary, connect them to other resources in our community. Adult children of aging parents contact me when they have concerns about an older parent declining either physically or cognitively, a living situation no longer meeting their needs, or additional support is needed to remain in their current environment. I am able to offer suggestions on how to broach these delicate subjects and introduce change and can link them to appropriate assistance. Members of various ages contact me when they or a family member have a serious or life limiting illness. I am able to link them with JSSA Hospice or Transitions Program, for information for the future or for immediate services. So too with folks who are interested in services for people with special needs, supported employment, adoption, and issues surrounding divorce. A member once called me for a consultation and said, “I put your information on my refrigerator six months ago. I knew one day I’d need you. And that day has come”. If you 6 have concerns and would like to speak to me, either by phone or in person, at B’nai Israel or at my JSSA office, please contact me (301-610-8319, [email protected]). Mitzvah Day COLLECTIONS Manna Food Sorting Sunday, November 16 10:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m. Support B’nai Israel’s PROJECT MANNA Urgently Needed Food Items (though we take all nonperishable food items) • • • • • • • • • • Cereal and Oatmeal Peanut Butter Tuna Fish Canned Soup Canned Fruit Canned Veggies Pasta, Rice, Beans (dried/canned) Tomato Sauce/Diced Tomatoes/ Tomato Paste/etc. Canned Pasta (Spaghetti O’s, etc.) Canned Fish (Salmon, etc.) Thank you for your commitment to this life-giving mitzvah! dpai cqg mler Please join us for B’nai Israel Congregation’s 21st Annual Mitzvah Day Social Action PROJECT Mark your calendars for our first of the new year Manna Food Warehouse food sorting. This is always a wonderful family activity. The Manna Food Warehouse is located at 9311 Gaither Road in Gaithersburg. Questions? Contact Andrea Nadelman ([email protected], 301-455-5934). Let Us Build a World of Kindness (Ps. 89:3) KEEP CALM Sunday, November 9, 2014 BETHESDA CARES Hospitality supplies such as: coffee, tea, sugar, creamer, instant soup, etc. COOKIES FOR TROOPS (Beginning Wednesday, November 5) Bring small containers of cookies, brownies or bar cookies INTERFAITH WORKS CLOTHING DRIVE Winter coats and winter gear 9:00 a.m. Morning Minyan 9:35 a.m. Continental Breakfast 10:00 a.m. Mitzvah Day projects begin Register online at www.bnaiisraelcong.org/mitzvahday Peace Players International Basketball Tournament (Michael Nevett & Karen Post) (www.crowdrise.com/BnaiIsraelMitzvahDay) Friendly Tennis Game to Benefit Israel Tennis Centers (Valerie Eisenstein) www.israeltenniscenters.org Be Brave and Shave to Benefit Children’s National Health Systems (Sima Berman) http://childrensnational.donordrive.com/ COLLECTIONS Support our ongoing collection of nonperishable food items. Unopened Bags of Dry Dog Food, and other pet care items. To see a complete wish list, go to: www.mchumane.org DO A MITZVAH NEW PROJECTS MANNA FOOD DRIVE MONTGOMERY COUNTY HUMANE SOCIETY AND Activities for mensches of all ages and stages! Montgomery County Humane Society Cookies for U.S. Soldiers Thoughtful Treasures Project Clothing Drive for Interfaith Works of Montgomery County Phoenix Computers Habitat for Humanity See p. 6 for details. See p. 27 for the registration form. MITZVAH FAIR Check out how you and your family can get involved in community service projects and mitzvot. Students who wish to showcase their mitzvah projects or organizations who wish to have a table should contact Kristen Mirsky. Participate in Our Annual Blood Drive to Benefit Inova THOUGHTFUL TREASURES Small Box Puzzles, Small Beanie Babies, Small Travel Games, Coloring Books and Crayons, Small Art Supplies All food items will be directed to the Manna Food Center. Mitzvah Day Chairs Mitzvah Day is made possible by the generous support of the Mildred and William Kaplan Social Action Endowment. ROBIN LENKIN 301-315-9541, [email protected] EMILY WEINER 301-983-1639, [email protected] Mitzvah Fair Chair KRISTEN MIRSKY 301-881-8892, [email protected] N O V E M B E R 2 0 1 4 N O V E M B E R 2 0 1 4 7 ADULT EDUCATION Learning Opportunities TEXT STUDY Monthly Lunch and Learn: Torah Study Instructor: Rabbi Jonathan Schnitzer November 3 and and the first Monday of each month 12:30–1:30 p.m. Registration: Free Join the eager group of congregants and others who assemble monthly to participate with Rabbi Schnitzer in a detailed engagement with the text of the Torah. Parashat HaShavua Discussion Discussion Leaders: Rabbi Jonathan A. Schnitzer, Rabbi Michael Safra, Dr. Louis Nagel Saturday, November 8 (Vayera) Saturday, November 22 (Toldot) 9:00–10:00 a.m. Join us for stimulating discussions on the weekly Torah portions. Our discussion will end in time to hear the Torah reading and the Haftarah in the Dweck Sanctuary service. HAZAK—Active Seniors News Media Meltdown: Discovering the Gaza War with Eric Rozenman, Washington Director of CAMERA – Committee for Accuracy in Middle East Reporting in America Thursday, November 13 Bring a dairy lunch at 12:00 p.m. Programs begin at approximately 12:30 p.m. Eric Rozenman has served as Washington director of CAMERA, the 65,000 – member, Boston-based Committee for Accuracy in Middle East Reporting in America, since 2002. From 1997 to 2002 he worked as executive editor of B’nai B’rith’s International Jewish Monthly, senior speechwriter and press spokesman. For five years prior to that Rozenman was editor of the Washington Jewish Week. HAZAK is our group for individuals 55 or older who want to share in interesting experiences. It’s never too late to make new friends! 8 B E R E AV E M E N T ADULT EDUCATION Learning Opportunities FOR ALL B’NAI ISRAEL MEN Bereavement Support Group Led by Natalie Merkur Rose 4 Wednesdays, November 5–December 3 No session on November 26. 7:00 p.m. Our Jewish traditions and rituals are important and comforting components of dealing with loss, but they might need to be supplemented with opportunities for more consistent and frequent companionship. Join others from the B’nai Israel community who have experienced loss for moderated discussion about the healing process, sharing, and mutual support. Jews and Brews: An Informal Jewish Conversation for Men Thursday, November 13, 2014 7:30–9:00 p.m. Lakewood Country Club This program is sponsored by the B’nai Israel Men’s Club. Join our rabbis and educators for drinks and schmoozing, followed by informal text study and discussion about ethical living in our modern world. JEWISH LIVING L . I . F. E . L E C T U R E S E R I E S World Religions: Spotlight on Judaism Susannah Heschel and Jack Miles Sunday, November 9 7:30 p.m. This lecture is presented live via satellite from New York. Participants will have the ability to submit questions via email in real time. Explore Judaism in the context of the world’s other great religions. What unique ideas has Judaism contributed to the world? How has Judaism been influenced by the traditions and beliefs of others? Susannah Heschel is the Eli Black Professor of Jewish Studies at Dartmouth College. Her scholarship focuses on Jewish-Christian relations in Germany during the 19th and 20th centuries, the history of biblical scholarship, and the history of anti-Semitism. Jack Miles, Distinguished Professor of English and Religious Studies at the University of California at Irvine, is the author of the Pulitzer Prize–winning GOD: A Biography and Christ: A Crisis in the Life of God. He lives in Irvine, California. Register online at www.bnaiisraelcong.org. L.I.F.E. Lectures are free of charge and open to all B’nai Israel members and the entire community. Questions? Contact Beth in Rabbi Safra’s office (301-881-6550, ext. 575, [email protected]). L.I.F.E. Lectures will be sign-interpreted for the hearing impaired, if requested at least three business days prior to the program to Beth (301-881-6550, ext. 575, [email protected]). N O V E M B E R 2 0 1 4 Shabbat: A Unique Time Zone Instructor: Rabbi Jonathan A. Schnitzer Chair: Carol Vogel 4 Tuesdays, November 18–December 9 7:30-9:00 p.m. Registration: $30 members, $40 nonmembers Most Jews have some general familiarity with the concept of Shabbat. But how did Shabbat develop into such a powerful aspect of the Jewish experience? Over the course of four sessions, we will explore core sources relating to Shabbat in biblical and Rabbinic literature. We will also discuss how we as 21st century Jews might be able to develop our own Shabbat style and spirit. F O R PA R E N T S BBM—The Blessings of B’nai Mitzvah Instructor: Rabbi Michael Safra Chair: E.J. Corwin 4 Sundays, December 14, 2014; January 25, February 8, and February 22, 2015 9:15–10:30 a.m. Registration: Free This series is intended for parents of 5th and 6th graders. Increase the feeling of “blessing” in your child’s bar or bat mitzvah process—from getting the date, to the actual date. Learn more about what it means to become bar and bat mitzvah. Increase familiarity with the Shabbat service and make the Torah portion more accessible. Parents will have the opportunity to share questions and concerns, and also to get to know each other better. J E W I S H H I S T O R Y & C U LT U R E Israel: Conversation Plus The Melted People of the Melting Pot Instructors: Pnina Agenyahu and Shelley Kedar 3 Wednesdays, January 14–28, 2015 7:30-9:00 p.m. Sunday, February 1, 2015; 11:00 a.m. Suggested Donation: $40-$150 (Your donations will be used to fund a project in our Partnership Region in Israel.) Connect with Israel with the head, heart and hand. Join two fabulous teachers for an exploration of the diverse cultures that make up Israel’s “melting pot”. The final session will be a chat via Skype with our partners in the Bet Shemesh/Mate Yehudah region in Israel. Participants will evaluate proposals and choose a philanthropic project to make a difference in Israel. All moneys collected will be matched by the Jewish Federation of Greater Washington to fund the project. Pnina Agenyahu is the community Shlicha (emissary) to the Jewish Federation of Greater Washington. Her amazing personal story is emblematic of Israel’s remarkable diversity. Born in Ethiopia, Pnina traveled to Israel with her family by foot at the age of three. Prior to coming to Washington, Pnina was the director of Hillel at Tel Aviv University. Shelley Kedar is the Director of Jewish Agency for Israel and Campus Israel Fellows at Hillel International. Prior to coming to America for her three year Shlichut, Shelley was the director of the International School for Jewish Peoplehood Studies at the Diaspora Museum in Tel Aviv. Both Pnina and Shelley are remarkable teachers who combine their knowledge of the subject matter with their personal stories. For more information on these courses and additional learning opportunities, go to www.bnaiisraelcong.org/adulteducation. N O V E M B E R 2 0 1 4 9 Scholar-in-Residence shabbat RAHEL MUSLEAH around b’nai Rahel Musleah was born in Calcutta, India, the seventh generation of a Calcutta Jewish family that traces its roots to 17th century Baghdad. With song, story, and pictures, she shares her rare and intimate knowledge of this ancient community’s history, customs and melodies. An ongoing, pay-it-forward Shabbat Dinner Program designed to expand your circle of friends within the B’nai Israel community The first night of Shabbat Around B’nai will be Friday, November 14. It is not too late to sign up to host to another B’nai Israel family for Shabbat dinner in your home on November 14. We are happy to provide guest suggestions if you would like, or you can choose your guests on your own. We hope that you will invite someone you don’t see all the time and would like to get to know better. You will receive a nice Shabbat bag for hosting, plus of course enjoy an evening of lovely conversation. Then, on December 19, the program will run again. On that date, we hope that all the original hosts will want to host again with a different family as their guests, but more importantly, we hope all the original guests will pay forward the hospitality by inviting another family to their home for Shabbat dinner. It is, in essence, a Shabbat dinner pyramid scheme. The program will run again on February 6, March 13 and May 1. Rahel is an award-winning journalist with hundreds of published articles to her credit as well as the author of several critically acclaimed books on Jewish holidays, the Jewish lifecycle, and the Jews of Calcutta. Her CD, Hodu: Jewish Rhythms from Baghdad to India, features ancient texts, authentic melodies, and contemporary rhythms. (“Hodu” in Hebrew means both “India” and “praise God”.) Rahel has received awards for her writing from the American Jewish Press Association, the Society of Professional Journalists, the National Sephardi Literary Contest, the Society of National Association Publications, and the General Federation of Women’s Clubs. A graduate of Columbia University and the Jewish Theological Seminary of America, she sings with New York’s Zamir Chorale. Rahel lives in Port Washington, NY, and she hopes to pass down the legacy of the Indian Jewish community to her two children, Shira and Shoshana. Friday, December 5 6:15 p.m. Shabbat Service, with Special Tunes from Calcutta 7:00 p.m. Indian-themed Shabbat Dinner (Dinner reservations are due by Monday, December 1.) 8:15 p.m. “Jewish Calcutta through Music and Memory” A fascinating personal story mirrors the story of Calcutta’s Jews with humor, poignancy, and song. Saturday, December 6 9:00 a.m. Shabbat services begin 9:50 a.m. Torah Service, featuring an intriguing medley of ancient texts, distinctive Shabbat rituals, customs and liturgy 11:00 a.m. Sermon: “The Power of Prayer to Create Community” 12:30 p.m. (following Kiddush) Q&A, informal discussion You do not need to know how to cook to host! You can bring in a prepared meal, or even pizza. It’s not about the food—it’s about the connections. It is not necessary to have a kosher home in order to participate, either. Just disclose to your potential guests whether your home is kosher or not, and if not, please serve a dairy or pareve meal. Saturday Evening “Awafi: An Intimate Evening of Music and Food” Hosted by Vicki Berman and Yeheskel Dori Join Rahel in learning about the cuisine and food customs of the Baghdadi-Indian Jewish community, singing its songs for motza’ei Shabbat (the end of Shabbat), and enjoying a cooking demonstration and dessert. Advance registration is required to Beth (301-881-6550, ext. 575). Light the candles, recite the blessings (we’ll provide them for you!) and enjoy a wonderful evening! Register online or return this form to the main office. Questions? Contact Jennifer Schwartz ([email protected]). Sunday, December 7 9:00 a.m. Morning Minyan, followed by breakfast 9:45 a.m. “The Blessings of a Pomegranate” The riveting legacy of the Jews of Iraq and an unforgettable return “home” to Calcutta. See p. 26 for a registration form. or register online at www.bnaiisraelcong.org/shabbataroundbnai. 10 Friday, December 5 – Sunday, December 7 N O V E M B E R 2 0 1 4 Special thanks to the Dollye and I. Wolford Berman Educational Initiative Grant for making this program possible. Register for the Shabbat dinner at www.bnaiisraelcong.org/scholar or use the registration form on p. 26. N O V E M B E R 2 0 1 4 11 FAMILY EDUCATION BY SHARON R. SAFRA FAMILY EDUCATION DIRECTOR DAY SCHOOL Update Staff Visits to CESJDS Day School “School’s Out Program” Members of our B’nai Israel clergy and professional staff will be visiting both campuses of CESJDS to see our B’nai Israel–JDS students. A fun day with our friends at Beth El on this first day of parent-teacher conferences. 6 Grade Family Mini-Shabbaton th Friday evening, November 7 – Saturday afternoon, November 8 As the Bar and Bat Mitzvah dates creep closer, we are all looking for ways to enhance the experience and to bring the celebration into the larger context of synagogue and communal life. This annual event for 6th grade families offers an opportunity to spend Shabbat together, form closer relationships, and strengthen the connection to B’nai Israel and each other. 6 graders and at least one parent are strongly encouraged to attend the Shabbaton which will take place Friday evening from 5:45–9:30 p.m. and Saturday from 10:00 a.m.–2:30 p.m. th Registration has gone out to all 6th grade families directly. If you have not yet registered, please do so ASAP. See p. 26 for a registration form or register online at www.bnaiisraelcong.org/6thgradeshabbaton. Please contact me (240-221-2500, [email protected]) with any questions. Thursday, December 4 Beth El Congregation PJ Havdalah Saturday evening, December 6 JDS UPPER SCHOOL FAMILY EDUCATION PROGRAMS SAVE THE DATES Thursday, November 20 Our staff will once again be bringing pizza and dessert for the teens at our lunchtime visit. Please remind them to join us, as this is a wonderful opportunity for our students to meet and see their B’nai friends and to schmooze with our B’nai Israel staff. If you think your teen will be coming, please RSVP to Sharon (sharons@bnaiisraelcong. org; 240-221-2500) by Monday, November 17 so we know how much pizza to order. JDS LOWER SCHOOL Dates to be announced shortly. Look for an email with details! Calling All Day School Families! If you are a B’nai Israel family with a child(ren) at one of the local Jewish day schools, please contact Sharon Safra (240-221-2500, sharons@ bnaiisraelcong.org) to make sure your contact information is added to our Day School Family database. A family-friendly program with music, arts and crafts, bedtime stories, and dessert. Shabbat Magic PROGRAMS Schilit Nursery School PLAYGROUND FUN Mini-Minyan is for children in grades K–3. Junior Congregation is for children in grades 4–7. Torah for Tots is for toddlers, preschoolers, and their families. Crown of a Good Name and B’nai Torah Sunday, December 14 This wonderful celebration and family program is for all kindergarteners and new 1st graders. Latkes & Lights Thursday, December 18 Our family Hanukkah celebration is back —join us! Details about all of these events will be forthcoming in the upcoming weeks. Feel free to contact me (240-221-2500 or [email protected]) if you have questions or need additional details. Current Day School families who have not been receiving emails and mailings regarding our B’nai Israel Day School Family programming should also contact to Sharon to be included in our database. GOLD KIPPAH SOCIETY Mazal tov to the following new students who have demonstrated their mastery of the required tefilot (prayers) to reach: BLUE Sarah Ashe Brooklyn Levy SILVER Jason Altneu November 1 Tailgate Shabbat, 3’s Shabbat, 3rd Grade Shabbat and 5th Grade Shabbat 10:00 a.m. – Gold Kippah Chug 10:30 a.m. – Mini-Minyan, including 3rd Grade Shabbat 10:30 a.m. – Junior Congregation, including 5th Grade Shabbat 11:00 a.m. – Torah for Tots, including 3’s Shabbat November 8 November Birthday Shabbat 9:00 a.m. – Torah Discussion 10:00 a.m. – Gold Kippah Chug 10:30 a.m. – Teen Minyan 10:30 a.m. – Mini-Minyan 10:30 a.m. –Junior Congregation 11:00 a.m. – Torah for Tots 11:40 a.m. – Youth Kiddush honoring all of our November Birthdays November 15 10:00 a.m. – Gold Kippah Chug 10:30 a.m. – Mini-Minyan 10:30 a.m. –Junior Congregation 11:00 a.m. - Torah for Tots November 22 2nd Grade Shabbat 9:00 a.m. – Torah Discussion 10:00 a.m. – Gold Kippah Chug 10:30 a.m. – Mini-Minyan, including 2nd Grade Shabbat 10:30 a.m. – Junior Congregation 11:00 a.m. – Torah for Tots November 29 10:30 a.m. – Combined Junior Congregation and Mini-Minyan service 11:00 – Torah for Tots Participants at our Dor L’Dor (Generation to Generation) Sukkah Decorating program on October 5th. 12 N O V E M B E R 2 0 1 4 N O V E M B E R 2 0 1 4 13 MINYAN NOVEMBER 2014 MONDAY SUNDAY TUESDAY Monday–Thursday 7:15 AM | 8:00 PM Sunday 9:00 AM | 8:00 PM DAILY *Please note: Minyan times vary on holidays; changes are noted on the calendar. THURSDAY WEDNESDAY FRIDAY SATURDAY 1 2 3 4 5 12:30 PM Lunch and Learn p. 8 10:15 AM Sisterhood: Bingo at the Hebrew Home p. 20 9:30 AM Bonim & Machar: Players Fun Zone p. 18 9:30 AM Kadima & USY Tour of FedEx Field p. 18 7:00 PM Bereavement Support Group p. 8 9 10 10:00 AM Mitzvah Day p. 7 7:30 PM L.I.F.E. Lecture – World Religions: Spotlight on Judaism p. 8 7:30 PM Monday Night at the Movies – A Home on the Range: The Jewish Chicken Ranchers of Petaluma p. 19 11 Lech Lecha Tailgate Shabbat p. 1 Bar Mitzvah of Joshua Diewald p. 2 10:00 AM Gold Kippah Chug 10:30 AM Mini-Minyan (3rd Grade Shabbat) 10:30 AM Junior Congregation (5th Grade Shabbat) 11:00 AM Torah for Tots (3’s Shabbat) November is Jewish Book Month! See p. 19 for details. 10:00 AM Rabbi Matthew Simon’s Jewish Book Month Review p. 19 11:00 AM Book Presentation by Allan Goodman p. 19 Friday 7:15 AM | 6:15 PM Saturday 9:00 AM | 12:30 PM 6 7 6th Grade Family Mini-Shabbaton p. 12 4:43 PM Candlelighting 6:15 PM Hayman Chapel 12 13 14 7:00 PM Sisterhood Board Meeting p. 20 12:00 PM HAZAK – News Media Meltdown: Discovering the Gaza War p. 8 7:30 PM Jews and Brews p. 9 Shabbat around B’nai Program p. 10 10:00 AM Schilit Nursery School Open House p. 16 10:30 AM Book Discussion and Trip to the JCC Book Festival p. 19 8 Vayera November Birthday Shabbat B’nai Mitzvah of Emma Ash and Raymond Ash p. 2 9:00 AM Parashat HaShavua Discussion p. 8 10:00 AM 6th Grade Shabbaton Resumes 10:00 AM Gold Kippah Chug 10:30 AM Teen Minyan 10:30 AM K–5 Youth Service 11:00 AM Torah for Tots 11:40 AM Youth Kiddush Honoring November Birthdays 15 Chaye Sarah Bat Mitzvah of Orli Katz p. 2 10:00 AM Gold Kippah Chug 10:30 AM Mini-Minyan 10:30 AM Junior Congregation 11:00 AM Torah for Tots 4:37 PM Candlelighting 6:15 PM Hayman Chapel 17 16 9:30 AM Sisterhood: Seaboard Region of Women’s League of Conservative Judaism Education Day p. 20 10:00 AM Schilit Nursery School Open House p. 16 10:00 AM Manna Food Sorting p. 6 23 18 19 20 21 10:15 AM Sisterhood: Bingo at the Hebrew Home p. 20 7:30 PM Shabbat: A Unique Time Zone p. 9 11:00 AM Book Discussion: The Ice Cream Queen of Orchard Street p. 19 12:00 PM Staff Visit to JDS Upper School p. 12 6:30 PM Sisterhood: Paid-Up Membership Dinner p. 20 USY Fall Convention Weekend Schilit Nursery School PreK Dinner 4:32 PM Candlelighting 6:15 PM Hayman Chapel 24 25 26 9:30 AM Sisterhood: Chicks Who Stitch p. 20 27 28 9:00 AM Morning Minyan Offices Closed Offices Closed 22 Toldot Bat Mitzvah of Sarit Luftman p. 2 9:00 AM Parashat HaShavua Discussion p. 8 10:00 AM Gold Kippah Chug 10:30 AM Mini-Minyan (2nd Grade Shabbat) 10:30 AM Junior Congregation 11:00 AM Torah for Tots 29 Vayetze Bar Mitzvah of Ariel Margolis p. 2 10:30 AM Combined Mini-Minyan and Junior Congregation 11:00 AM Torah for Tots ROSH CHODESH 30 THANKSGIVING 14 N O V E M B E R 2 0 1 4 4:29 PM Candlelighting 6:15 PM Hayman Chapel N O V E M B E R 2 0 1 4 15 SCHILIT NURSERY SCHOOL BY KAREN GERTON DIRECTOR We will be hosting our annual Open House on Friday, November 14 at 10:00 a.m. and Sunday morning, November 16 at 10:00 a.m. Prospective families are invited to visit our school in anticipation of the 2015–2016 school year. Please spread the word and invite family and friends. As always, you are our best advertisement. If anyone has any questions they can call the nursery school office. RSVPs are appreciated but not a must. We love showing off our program! We hope all of our families with children in our PreK classes will join us for a Family Shabbat Dinner on Friday, November 21. It is a lovely evening sharing Shabbat with old and new friends. There will be a family service and singing with Rabbi Safra, Cantor Ilana and Cantor Josh followed by dinner. Please make sure all reservations are returned to the nursery school office. This is the first of our class Shabbat dinners—our other children will celebrate later this year. All nursery school classes will be busy preparing for Thanksgiving this month. Classes will be doing holiday-related art projects, preparing special foods and learning many Thanksgiving songs and stories. Each class will also be collecting tzedakah to help provide individual families in need with Thanksgiving dinners through the Jewish Social Service Agency (JSSA). Mitzvah and Tzedakah are always themes throughout B’nai Israel Schilit Nursery School. Children can learn at a very early age how important it is to give to people who are less fortunate. Our families will participate on Mitzvah Day on November 9 with our nursery school project, Thoughtful Treasures. In addition, our children bring in tzedakah to their classrooms each Shabbat. The beneficiary of our tzedakah money will be the Save a Child’s Heart Endowment Fund, continuing the work of Dr. Ami Cohen z”l. The money we collect will go toward the cost of providing life saving heart 16 surgery to indigent children from around the world who have come to the Wolfson Medical Center in Israel. We have implemented a new program, ”Kesher” for our PreK students. Kesher is Hebrew for connection. The goal is to build a connection with our colleagues in the Education Department. Dr. Louis Nagel, Education Director, Babette Cohn, Assistant Education Director and Sharon Safra, Family Education Director, rotate visits to the PreK classes for Hebrew and Judaic enrichment. The students will learn basic Hebrew vocabulary using games and activities designed just for them. Some time is also spent doing holiday activities, bible stories and B’nai Israel’s yearly Blessings theme. It’s a wonderful experience for other synagogue staff to meet all of the children before many enter the Talmud Torah or a day school the following year. As we continue to foster the relationships between Israel and Bnai Israel Schilit Nursery School students in our three-yearold and PreK classes are enjoying Israeli folk dancing on Fridays. Melissa Schwartz, B’nai Israel’s Youth Director, enjoys teaching the girls and boys folk dances— dancing to Israeli music. Registration for the 2015-2016 school year will begin next month. Continuing students will receive their registration materials in their backpacks. If you are not on our mailing list or have not received your packet please call the nursery school office. If you have friends, family, neighbors, etc. who are interested in hearing about our program —you are our best advertisement—tell them about our nursery school and have them give us a call. As you can see we are very busy. I am thrilled that so many of you are a part of our nursery school and synagogue. I am so proud of the work that we do and the friendships that we all share. We want your child to spend EVERY DAY with us! B’nai Israel BY DR. LOUIS NAGEL EDUCATION DIRECTOR Schilit Nursery School Jerry Seinfeld often opened his stand-up routine with a question beginning, “What’s the deal with….?” He then would go on about the tendency of assigning great importance to the insignificant. OPEN HOUSE Friday, November 14 Sunday, November 16 10:00 a.m. RSVPs are appreciated but not a must to Karen Gerton ([email protected]). If you are unable to attend, contact us to schedule a tour. • Ages 2–Pre-K • Before & After Care • Extended Hours 8:00 a.m.– 6:00 p.m. • Transitional Two’s • Innovative Pre-K Program • Balance of Play & Academic Programming • Enrichment Programs • MD State Department of Education License • Summer Camp Program I hope everyone enjoys their Thanksgiving holiday with family and friends. KAREN GERTON Schilit Nursery School Director 301.816.5578 www.bnaiisraelcong.org N O V E M B E R TALMUD TORAH 2 0 1 4 Along those lines, there is a Jewish joke where God is dictating the Torah to Moses. God says, “Do not cook a kid in its mother’s milk!” Moses writes, “Do not serve dairy and meat at the same time.” God says, “I simply said, do not cook a kid in its mother’s milk.” Moses notes, “Separate sets of dishes, pots and pans, and utensils for dairy and meat.” God again says, “I just said do not…” Moses chisels, “Do not eat dairy for six hours after a meat meal.” Exasperated, God says, “OK, Moses, have it your way.” In this case it is taking something simple and making it complicated. Our celebrations have evolved over the millennia, origins often rooted in an understanding of a phrase in Torah. In the process of questioning halacha we have diminished the significance of some minhagim (practices) and elevated the status of rituals that previous generations barely considered. Our way has been to bend and shape Jewish culture. The “Shalosh Regalim,” Sukkot, Pesach and Shavuot, for example, are certainly no longer defined by pilgrimage to Jerusalem. After the fall of the Second Temple in 70 CE, these pivotal celebrations lost the place to which to make the epic journey. In the aftermath, the Rabbis recognized the necessity to either re-define what it means to be a Jew or cease to exist. Let me pose a Seinfeld question, “What’s the deal with Bar/Bat Mitzvah?” In ancient times, Bar Mitzvah was a term interchangeable with “adult,” meaning having reached the age of responsibility to fulfill mitzvot. The child’s father proclaimed, “Praise God for releasing me from responsibility for this one.” That was it! No months of learning brachot and Torah; writing a “Bar Mitzvah speech; and no catered affair. Bar Mitzvah was a fact of having reached adolescence. It was around the time of the Expulsion from Spain that a minhag developed of a boy, having reached the age of mitzvot, read verses of Torah and delivered a “D’var Torah.” That talk, a drash, a lesson drawn from the text, was a demonstration of his learning. The event was followed by a modest seudat mitzvah, a celebratory meal, in honor of the fulfillment of a mitzvah. The moment marked a step into adulthood with the expectation that, having demonstrated these skills and capabilities, would continue to develop and refine those abilities through his lifetime. What’s the deal with this life cycle event? Are its best days in the past or yet to come? How are we bending and shaping it to fit a new age? Personally, I appreciate the family reunion aspect of the event, a snapshot of a family’s past, present and future. The Bar/Bat Mitzvah, that emerging adult, is recognized as a shining star in the family constellation, as the Talmud says, “a universe entire.” Just as Judaism evolves under the influence of time, space and place, I am encouraging reflection on the significance and meaning of this life cycle event that has come to take on a level of importance far removed from either its ancient or medieval understanding. In general, we raise our children with celebrations marking transition through the learning process. We see that progression as a multi-stage rocket that we hope will continue to stratospheric heights. Similarly, this festive occasion is only an intermediate stage in the Jewish life-cycle. Is it the booster stage of an ongoing exploration of what it means to be Jewish or the last step before a splashdown? It is what we make of it. Talmud Torah Directory We are excited to announce that we are teaming up with AtoZ Directories to provide our Talmud Torah families with a better than ever school directory! Do you or someone you know own a business? We are offering B’nai Israel families the opportunity to advertise in our 2014–15 school directory. What better way to reach the families of B’nai Israel students than by advertising in our directory! Please contact us ([email protected], 301-8165576). Thank you for your support! N O V E M B E R Be A Blessing In connection with Mitzvah Day (Sunday, November 9), the bracha of the month is the idea of “Be(ing) a Blessing.” The Torah first gave us images of God “blessing” creation, particularly sea creatures, birds and humans and the seventh day, Shabbat. Later, God blesses Abraham and goes on to say, “You shall be a blessing.” (Bereshit 12:2) Abraham came to personify Blessing through righteous acts (welcoming guests, resolving conflicts, righteous dissent, and defending the innocent). How can we step into this role and “be a blessing” to our families, communities and world?” Imagine Yourself in ISRAEL! Congregational Mission to Israel with Sharon and Rabbi Michael Safra July 27–August 7, 2015 To learn more about this experience of a lifetime, contact Rabbi Safra ([email protected], 301816-5565) or visit www.israeltour.com/rsafra2015.html. 2 0 1 4 17 TEEN SCENE BY MELISSA SCHWARTZ YOUTH DIRECTOR & UPPER SCHOOL COORDINATOR If you were to ask me to list the goals of the B’nai Israel Youth Department, I would answer by saying that I hope we encourage a connection to Judaism, to B’nai Israel, and to make new friends and memories. I want the children who participate in our youth programs to look back on their events one day and say, “I did that with my synagogue, it was a lot of fun.” Speaking of fun, our year has gotten off to a great start! We have picked apples, played laser tag, scooped ice cream, roasted marshmallows, and held several Sukkot events, including our USY Progressive Sukkot Dinner. Thank you to the Zuckerman and Wandersman Families for hosting a lot of hungry teenagers! But, the fun is just getting started! This month brings two special events, held on the same day. On November 4, while the adults are busy voting, Bonim and Machar are going to Players Family Amusement Center for an afternoon of bumper cars, mini golf, moon bounces, and much more! Kadima and USY will have their own fun event going to tour FedEx Field followed by a stop at the University of Maryland. It is going to be a great day. Another goal of the B’nai Israel Youth Department is to give our children and teens the opportunity to make new friends. What if I were to tell you that in the course of one weekend you could make over 250 new best friends? If you are a teen in grades 9–12 and come to our annual USY Fall Convention at the new Nesiya Lodge at Capital Camps and Retreat Center November 21–23, you can do just that! We are so proud of Ethan Meltzer who is one of the Chairs of USY Fall Convention. This year, Seaboard USY will welcome our “Changemaker in Residence” Jessica Abo to Fall Convention. Jessica is an actress, reporter and social entrepreneur in addition to being a proud USY alumnus. She was 18 most recently in The Amazing Spider-Man 2, and was also in Disney’s Delivery Man and in several episodes of Gossip Girl, among other TV shows and movies. She will be speaking to the USY teens about becoming “changemakers” in their own lives. B’nai Israel is fortunate to be able to provide scholarships for those going to USY convention. Please contact me for more information, I promise it will be the best weekend of your life! Finally, I want to thank our High Holy Day youth program leaders. With their help, over 500 children and teens had a wonderful, spiritual, safe, and fun High Holiday experience. Thanks to them and to all of you for a wonderful High Holy Day season. BLUMBERG-ZALIS FAMILY LIBRARY BY JILL GENDELMAN LIBRARIAN USY members getting ready to scoop lots of ice cream during our annual Scoop Night. I hope everyone had a lovely, joyful Sukkot and Simchat Torah. With November comes the celebration of Jewish Book Month, an important annual event in both the American Jewish community and the publishing world, sponsored yearly by the Jewish Book Council. To celebrate, Jewish book fairs are held in major cities, and all over the world, featuring lectures by visiting authors. Come celebrate Jewish book month by attending one of our many programs. JEWISH BOOK MONTH Programs Members of the Talmud Torah Upper School in the Fanaroff Sukkah during our annual Pizza in the Hut Dinner. Let’s get ready and celebrate! Rabbi Matthew Simon’s Jewish Book Month Review Sunday, November 2 10:00–11:00 a.m Members of Bonim having fun in the Fanaroff Sukkah during the Science in the Sukkah event featuring a performance by Mad Science. Join Rabbi Matthew Simon for his exciting annual book review session. Rabbi Schnitzer explaining to a ninth grade student about the history of Soviet Jewry during a field trip to the Voices of the Vigil exhibit at the JCC. YOUTH GROUP Events Machar secret agents having fun during their Spy Museum Scavenger Hunt. Bonim & Machar Players Fun Zone Tuesday, November 4 Kadima & USY Tour of FedEx Field Tuesday, November 4 USY Teen Minyan Saturday, November 8 Members of our Kadima chapter bundled up for an evening bonfire and hayride at Butler’s Orchard. N O V E M B E R Fall Convention November 21–23 2 0 1 4 Monday Night at the Movies November 10 7:30 p.m. A Home on the Range: The Jewish Chicken Ranchers of Petaluma (2014) – 56 min. English Jack London, California vigilantes, McCarthyism, the Cold War and agribusiness all come to life in this quintessentially American story of how a group of immigrants, Jews who fled the pogroms and hardships of Eastern Europe and traveled to California, and found their new home “on the range” where they became chicken ranchers. Book Discussion and Trip to the JCC Book Festival Friday, November 14 10:30 a.m. Please join our B’nai Israel book club as we head over to the 45th Lessans Family Book Festival at the JCC for a 9th Annual Book Club Brunch featuring Susan Jane Gillman, author of The Ice Cream Queen of Orchard Street (see description below). The cost of the program includes brunch and a signed copy of the book. Tickets can be purchased online at www.jccgw.org. They will be available for early pickup at the JCC box office. For more information call 301-3483805. Then, join our discussion of the book and author on November 19 at B’nai Israel. B o o k P re s e n t a t i o n by A l l a n Goodman, Author of Father, Son, Stone Book Discussion: The Ice Cream Queen of Orchard Street Father, Son, Stone blends history and mystery to reveal the secret of the most controversial religious site in Jerusalem —known to Jews as the Temple Mount and to Muslims as the Noble Sanctuary. The truth, when finally revealed, changes Jerusalem, and the people who live there, forever. Books can be ordered through our Sisterhood Judaica Shop. The captivating story of ice cream queen Lillian Dunkle. A young Russian immigrant, Dunkle, is all at once pathetic, sarcastic, ambitious, and bold. As a poor immigrant becomes the ice cream queen, the story provides historical insights on the development and franchising of the ice cream industry. Gilman is the acclaimed author of several books and has written commentary for The New York Times, The Los Angeles Times, and Ms. Magazine. Sunday, November 2 11:00 a.m.–12:30 p.m (following Rabbi Simon’s review) Library Hours Monday, Thursday, Sunday 9:00 a.m.–1:00 p.m. Tuesday 4:00 p.m.–6:30 p.m. Closed Shabbat and Holidays Wednesday, November 19 11:00 a.m.–12:00 p.m. Getting ready for Thanksgiving? Come and check out our extensive collection of Jewish and Kosher cookbooks. HANUKKAH HAPPINESS IS SHOPPING IN THE S I S T E R H O O D JUDAICA SHOP 301-770-7577 Hanukkah Celebration Items • Menorahs • Candles • Dreidels • Gelt • Latke Platters • Gifts for all Ages • and more! We feature the work of • Michael Aram • Gary Rosenthal • Artistique Design • Susan Fullenbaum • and many others! SHOP HOURS Sunday 9:00 a.m.–12:30 p.m. Monday–Friday 10:00 a.m.–12:30 p.m. Tuesday 4:15–6:15 p.m. For special appointments call Dottie (301-881-7115), Ellen (301-231-9312), or Miriam (301649-3770). To special order personalized kippot and benchers for your simcha, call Suzy Levy (301-460-9636). FOR ALL YOUR JUDAICA NEEDS! Looking for a good book? Browse through our state-of-the-art online catalog, available at www.bnaiisraelcong.org or http://birockville.mysurpass.net. Library cards are free of charge to members and $36 for nonmembers. Contact me, Jill Gendelman to receive your card (301-881-6550, ext. 524, [email protected]). N O V E M B E R 2 0 1 4 19 Sisterhood News Men’s Club Bingo at the Hebrew Home B’nai to Broadway Tuesday, November 4 (Wasserman) Tuesday, November 18 (Smith-Kogod) 10:15-11:30 a.m. A Gentleman’s Guide to Love & Murder Sunday, December 14 Join us for Bingo with the residents of the Hebrew Home. With just an hour of your time, you can help brighten someone’s day! Questions? Contact Dottie Cohen (301-8817115). Sisterhood Board Meeting Wednesday, November 12 7:00 p.m. Seaboard Region of Women’s League of Conservative Judaism Education Day “Our Journey: Past, Present and Future” Sunday, November 16 9:30 a.m.–3:30 p.m. Beth El Congregation in Baltimore Paid-Up Membership Dinner Thursday, November 20 6:30 p.m. $20 per person (plus $36 for annual Sisterhood dues) Join us at Sisterhood’s Paid Up Membership Dinner for delicious food, wonderful camaraderie, and outstanding entertainment by Steve Friedman, a Broadway educator and vocalist! Contact Audrey Suskind ([email protected], 301-9483389) or Susan Lazerus (301-251-2322, [email protected]). Please register by November 13. Chicks Who Stitch Sunday, November 23 10:00 a.m.–12:00 p.m. Bring your knitting, crocheting or other needlework project and join Sisterhood’s Chicks Who Stitch. Newcomers are always welcome. Questions? Contact Harriet Levi (301-649-3429, augmom1800@verizon. net). Mah Jongg Cards The Judaica Shop is selling the 2014 Mah Jongg Card. The Standard Card is $8.00 and the Large Card is $9.00. Questions? Call Harriet Levi (301-649-3429). Join us as we travel to New York in style! A luxury motor coach will pick us up at B’nai Israel at 7:30 a.m. On the way we will enjoy a delicious continental breakfast. You must bring your own coffee or tea. We will arrive in New York City at approximately 12:00 p.m., three hours before the 3:00 p.m. curtain. Enjoy holiday shopping and lunch at the many fabulous eateries. After the show, the motor coach will pick us up right outside the theatre. Dinner will be pre-ordered from Ben’s Kosher Deli. An order form/information will be sent to attendees. Dinner will be served on the way home while enjoying a video. We plan to return to B’nai Israel around 11:00 p.m. The fee is $262 per person and includes everything but lunch. Payments are nonrefundable. Deduct $125 if you have already sent in a deposit. In the memo area, list the number of people in your party. Checks should be made payable and mailed to: B’nai Israel Sisterhood, 6301 Montrose Road, Rockville, MD 20852. Questions? Contact Gail Libin (301-871-3661) or Norma Krupenie (301-260-8283). Project Linus Do you have half-finished knitting or sewing projects lying around? Donate your washable yarn and quilting-friendly fabrics to support Project Linus, a Sisterhood Social Action project. The yarn and fabric are delivered to a Montgomery County group whose “blanketeers” create blankets and afghans to provide love, security, warmth and comfort to ill or traumatized children. You can donate yarn/fabric, knitted or crocheted squares (which are assembled into blankets), and new, homemade washable blankets, too. Project Linus has distributed nationally over 3 million blankets since 1995. Sisterhood Dues Thank you to everyone who has already sent in their Sisterhood dues. If you have not done so already, please do it as soon as possible! Your $36 annual dues will pay you back in many ways. Sisterhood’s educational, cultural, and social programs benefit our synagogue, its members and the community at large. Sisterhood offers camaraderie and community, religious and leadership skills, and connects our synagogue women with others from near and far. Please include a check for $36 made payable to B’nai Israel Sisterhood for $36 and include the following: Name, Address, City/State/Zip, Phone (Home and/or Cell), and Email Address. Mail to: B’nai Israel Sisterhood, Attn.: Membership Dues, 6301 Montrose Road, Rockville, MD 20852. Don’t miss out! We want to see you all at our Paid-Up Membership Dinner. Questions? contact Sisterhood Membership Coordinators, Juliann Goldman (301309-0832, juliann.goldman@yahoo. com) or Rhona Shemesh (301-230-0221, [email protected]). Kids Reading Network YOU can be part of the solution by volunteering to tutor children in reading, math, or other subjects. Mentor students learning English. Engage in weekly discussion groups with high school students. There are many options for you to help Montgomery County Public School students from PreK through high school improve and thrive academically, socially, and emotionally! This program is coordinated through the Jewish Council for the Aging (JCA). JCA has programs in many parts of the county so you can volunteer at a school convenient for you. For more information, contact Norma Krupenie ([email protected], 301460-8382). Training, training books and tools, and school locations will be provided. For more information or to arrange for collection, contact Juliann Goldman (juliann. [email protected], 301-309-0832). 20 N O V E M B E R The Men’s Club Political Forum on October 12 was attended by Maryland gubernatorial candidates Lt. Gov. Anthony Brown (D) and businessman Larry Hogan (R), along with Montgomery County Executive Ike Leggett (D) and his challenger, attorney Jim Shalleck (R). Many thanks to Jonathan Salant for serving as moderator. Dear Rabbi Schnitzer and Congregation, Thank you for your recent contribution of 526 pounds of food on September 2 and 5. The B’nai Israel Garden helps to provide fresh produce to many hungry families in Montgomery County. Manna marks 30 years of feeding hungry families in Montgomery County. Since 1983, Manna has distributed 46 million pounds of food to 2.8 million residents of Montgomery County in need of food assistance. Each year, Manna has seen a rise in the number of households it serves. During the first few months of 2013, Manna has already distributed over 2 million pounds of food. Our cornerstone Food for Families program provides clients with 70 pounds of nutritious perishable and non-perishable food. Food distributed by this program is sourced from local grocery stores, farms, and gardens and is screened and sorted by Manna’s dedicated volunteers and staff. The innovative Karen Goldberg Smart Sacks program provides food to more than 2,000 local elementary school children each Friday throughout the year as a supplement to the free and reduced price meal program. Students receive nutritionally balanced meals and snacks for the weekend when subsidized programs are unavailable. Through the Agency Food Distribution program, we are able to provide food, free of charge, to smaller agencies in Montgomery County, allowing them to expand their resources in addressing the cause of poverty. The Farm to Food Bank program distributes thousands of pounds of local, fresh produce to our clients’ families each year. Local farms, gardens, and orchards provide Manna with an array of fruits and vegetables that we pass on to clients who benefit from improved nutrition for themselves and their families. From all of us at Manna Food Center, thank you very much for your contribution to fight hunger and feed hope. For every dollar donated to Manna, $.94 goes directly towards feeding our food-insecure neighbors. We are all touched by B’nai Israel. It makes a difference in our lives. And it is our endeavor to ensure that it makes a difference in our community for many years to come. As our parents planted for us, let us sow the seeds that will make a difference for our children and grandchildren. –Talmud Ta’anit 23a CREATE YOUR JEWISH LEGACY www.jewishlegacygw.org As we celebrate our successes, we are grateful for the commitment and generosity of those who came before us. Dues and annual donations do not provide sufficient resources for all we must do to sustain Jewish life at B’nai Israel. And so we invite and encourage you to create your own legacy. It is so easy to make a planned gift or bequest through B’nai Israel’s Create a Jewish Legacy Program. Simply include B’nai Israel in your estate planning as a beneficiary in your will, under your retirement plan or life insurance policy. It carries no financial obligation in the present, but it will have a huge and lasting impact on our future. B’NAI ISRAEL Larry Trope, Executive Director 301-816-5563 [email protected] WWW.BNAIISRAELCONG.ORG Sincerely, Jacqueline DeCarlo, Executive Director 2 0 1 4 N O V E M B E R 2 0 1 4 21 IN SYMPATHY dkxal mpexkf B’nai Israel Congregation mourns the loss of our beloved members . . . Arthur Eden Ruth Silver Fannie Weintraub We extend our sincerest sympathy to our members who have experienced recent losses . . . Ann Eden on the loss of her husband, Arthur Eden. Visit MyJewishGeneticHealth.com, a new, free website designed to educate the Jewish community about genetic health conditions for which they may be at higher risk. consists of individual “lessons” covering various topics relevant to the Jewish community, including specific diseases and medical conditions, genetic technologies, and bioethical issues. Open your siddur or humash at home or away from home and participate in our Shabbat, festival, and High Holy Day services. Follow the reading of the Torah, study the parasha together with the congregation, listen to the comments of the rabbis on the many concerns of Jewish life, offer personal prayers, and sing familiar melodies along with the hazzan and our B’nai Israel community. The Shiva Kugel Delivery Program Up to 15 participants will be able to call into the B’nai Israel phone system between 9:00 a.m.–12:00 p.m. and listen to the live audio of our service in the Dweck Sanctuary. MyJewishGeneticHealth.com Elaine Potosky on the loss of her mother, Helen Fellman. Joseph Robinson on the loss of his grandmother, Evelyn Robinovitz. Erin Willcher on the loss of her grandmother, Phyllis Ross. Lori Eig on the loss of her grandfather, Alvin “Al” Sperling. Jason Eig and Dr. Matthew Eig on the loss of their grandmother, Jeanette Wineburgh. FROM THE DESK OF RABBI JONATHAN A. SCHNITZER One of the most important mitzvot in Judaism is bikkur holim—visiting the sick. It is a responsibility that the clergy of B’nai Israel take very seriously. When our members are ill or hospitalized, we want to know. In the interest of protecting confidentiality, hospitals today are extremely cautious about sharing patient names, even with rabbis. We need our congregants to communicate directly with us and to inform us of illness or hospitalization. Please call Rosanne Sharpe, Rabbi Schnitzer’s administrative assistant (301-881-6550, ext. 562) so that as clergy and as a synagogue family, we can be helpful in moments of difficulty or stress. 22 Join B’nai Israel by Telephone When You Cannot Be With Us at Our Services is seeking additional volunteers to visit shiva homes and deliver a kugel to congregational families who have suffered a loss. If you are interested in volunteering, please contact Suzy Levy (301-460-9636, [email protected]) or Pam Shalloway (301-765-8984, [email protected]). B’NAI ISRAEL CEMETERIES B’nai Israel Congregation maintains three attractive cemetery locations. For information about our Oxon Hill Cemetery, or our sections at Judean Memorial Gardens or Garden of Remembrance, please contact Executive Director Larry Trope at 301-816-5563. N O V E M B E R How to Use the System 1. Dial the regular B’nai Israel phone number, 301-881-6550. 2. When the automatic system answers the telephone, dial “7”. 3. You will be transferred to the live Dweck Sanctuary audio. Please Note: If 15 participants are already listening on the system, you will receive a message that the system is full. Please try again later in the morning. Fresh Vegetables for MA N N A Did you know that B’nai Israel maintains a vegetable garden and donates hundreds of lbs. of fresh produce to Manna each year? If you like to garden—or would like to learn more about vegetable gardening—and are willing to donate some time in B’nai’s garden, we want to hear from you. Please contact Anne Abend ([email protected]) if you are interested in volunteering. 2 0 1 4 mazal tov November Anniversaries Jeffrey Fenster and Rachel Wollitzer – 1 Eugene and Galina Sapiro – 1 Steven and Rachel Kerchner – 2 Michael and Michelle Logsdon – 2 Eric and Rachel Manchester – 2 Joel Michaels and Jennifer Russel – 2 David and Carrie Stein – 4 Ronald and Gail Minsk – 5 Alan and Elizabeth Warsaw – 5 David and Joan Geber – 6 Jeffrey and Stephanie Holtzman – 6 Doug and Sarah Kotlove – 6 David and Paulette Perlman – 6 Mike and Marissa Privman – 6 Yoav Schreiber and Leah Liston – 6 Asher and Jill Gendelman – 7 Stuart Lipshutz and Dori Silverman – 7 Jonathan and Stephanie Weiss – 7 Glenn and Danielle Benson – 8 Marty Butin and Barbara Freedenberg – 8 Peter and Rebecca Just – 8 Douglas Klayman and Marci Handler – 8 Craig and Robin Lenkin – 8 Michael and Dianne Michnick – 8 Andrew and Faye Mitchell – 8 Michael and Sima Berman – 9 Glen and Elise Goldstein – 9 Stuart and Sherry Kaswell – 9 Craig and Marcie Peters – 9 Aaron Bull and Lisa Garson – 10 Arnold and Nancy Fanaroff – 10 Stephen and Marjorie Goldberg – 10 Charles and Bonnie Harab – 10 Ronald and Gale Greenbaum – 11 Jeff and Sally Lachin – 11 Andrew and Lisa Shulman – 11 Ron and Sharon Gross – 12 Steven and Melissa Seperson – 12 Ernst and Nancy Billig – 13 Jason and Tricia Friedman – 13 Myles Getlan and Leah Schmulewitz Getlan – 14 Rob and Randi Poli – 14 Benjamin and Erin Willcher – 14 Jeffrey and Heather Goldman – 15 aeh lfn Steve and Kim Cohen – 16 Bryan and Amy Cole – 16 Howard and Sandy Arnold – 17 David and Michelle Marquardt – 17 Dale Morton and Irma Goff-Morton – 17 Stanley and Sandra Ratner – 17 Bernard and Cheryl Rod – 17 Joshua and Suzanne Schonfeld – 17 Leon and Ellen Taranto – 17 Arthur and Carol Besner – 18 Jason and Karen Silberberg – 18 Charles and Mindy Postal – 19 Harris and Michelle Bernstein – 20 Stewart and Barbara Bushman – 20 Eugene and Erica Cantor – 20 Ira and Kristen Mirsky – 20 Jonathan Forest and Pam Martin – 21 Mitchell and Stacey Jungreis – 21 Lawrence and Mindy Nadel – 21 Joel and Jennifer Eisenfeld – 22 Neil and Marcie Jacobs – 22 Mark and Judy Lerner – 22 Ken Winer and Emily Hofmann – 22 Robert and Jacqueline Barnett – 23 Michael and Deidre Sacks – 23 Lee and Stacey Shenker – 23 Brian and Rachel Singer – 23 Glenn and Cindy Easton – 24 Michael and Nechama Fellner – 24 Steven and Laurie Forman – 24 Robert and Gayna Kieval – 24 Stephen and Ellen Kraft – 24 Ronald and Phyllis Levine – 24 Howard and Joy Isaacson – 25 Mitchel and Jill Kider – 25 Morry and Hanita Schreiber – 25 Kenny and Evalyn Cohn – 26 Michael and Suzanne Fanaroff – 27 Yale and Christine Goldberg – 27 Bernard and Norma Harrison – 27 Jerry and Carole Cohen – 28 George and Rona Eisenberger – 28 Howard and Sherry Greenfield – 28 Jacob and Dorie Ravick – 28 Jonathan and Victoria Goldberg – 29 Aaron and Jessica Lieberman – 29 Josh and Naomi Katz – 30 and Mazal Tov to . . . Gail and Dr. Peter Sherer on the birth of their grandson, Jonah Sherer. Nava and Ronald Dweck on the birth of their grandson, Noah Ethan Dweck. Nancy Abramowitz and Mark Ellenberg on the birth of their granddaughter, Isabella Katz Ellenberg. Dr. Richard Reff on receiving the Inaugural JCC Macabi Legacy Award and to Adam Kaplan, Hannah Ship, Harry Wandersman and Daniel Zuckerman on receiving the 2014 Hyman M. and Phillip D. Perlo Award for High School Athletes at the JCC of Greater Washington’s Dinner of Champions on November 22. Members of B’nai Israel’s High Holy Day Committee smile at the conclusion of a very successful season. “To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world. N O V E M B E R HAPPY THANKSGIVING from Your B’nai Israel Family The Synagogue offices will be closed on Thursday, November 27 and Friday, November 29. MINYAN Thursday 9:00 a.m. & 8:00 p.m. Friday 7:15 a.m. & 6:15 p.m. 2 0 1 4 23 B’nai Israel Congregation deeply appreciates all contributions directed to the various funds of our congregation. DONATIONS Due to increased printing and labor costs: 1. Each contribution will be acknowledged by mail to one designated recipient. 2. Only contributions of $18 or more will be printed in the Scroll. 3. Donor acknowledgements will be sent by email and will also appear on year-end statements. Donations Made in September | D O N AT I O N S C A N B E M A D E AT www.bnaiisraelcong.org Bruce R. Saypol Camp Ramah Scholarship Fund A speedy recovery for Israel Feldman by Jerry and Nancy Reed Hazzan Robert Kieval Music Library Fund In Appreciation Of: Cantor Perlman’s support of my family and leading the service at my home by Rebecca Adler In Memory Of: Jeffrey Van Grack by Steve Van Grack David Easton Endowment for Video Education In Memory Of: Annette Rayman by Cindy and Glenn Easton Annette Rayman by Jack Rayman Helen and Herman Glazer Youth Endowment Fund In Honor Of: The birth of Edith Black’s great grandson, Jack Riley Maier by Ellen and Michael Glazer Dr. Chester M. and Rita Mandel Stein Environmental Conservation Sustaining Endowment The following have made donations in honor of the birth of Emma Goldie Stein, daughter of Amanda and Jonathan Stein and granddaughter of Rita and Dr. Chet Stein: Mr. and Mrs. Michael Rabkin Susan and Larry Lesser Rabbi Seymour and Barbara Panitz Mr. and Mrs. Gerald Solomon Jerry Neil Memorial Sustaining Endowment In Memory Of: Stephen Hass by Wayne and Denise Berman Linda by Mincy Neil and Family Rosalia by Mincy Neil and Family Varda Reisner by Sanford Gold Esther Glickman, mother of Sharon Meliker by Denise and Wayne Berman ENDOWMENTS Dr. Jack and Miriam Dubit Newlywed Mezuzah Fund In Appreciation Of: Rabbi Schnitzer’s participation at Ryan Massa and Robyn Nadel’s aufruf by Mindy and Larry Nadel In Honor Of: Leonard and Marilyn Teitelbaum’s 60 th wedding anniversary by Barbara and Richard Daumit Dr. Mitchell and Thelma Goldfarb Rubinow Endowment for Special Needs In Honor Of: The bat mitzvah of Lolly Shapero’s granddaughter by Sharon Glickman Ethan Ross Alperstein Sanctuary Garden Endowment Fund In Honor Of: Cantor Josh for making Allison’s bat mitzvah a wonderful and memorable by Matthew, Julie, Allison and Natalie Mintz Hazzan Deborah Togut Memorial Endowment Fund In Appreciation Of: Cantor Ilana’s help with Allison Mintz’s bat mitzvah by Rina and Sylvan Mintz In Honor Of: Cantor Ilana for making Allison’s bat mitzvah wonderful and memorable by Matthew, Julie, Allison and Natalie Mintz Bella Manchester’s bat mitzvah by Edward Lieberman 24 Please note: Etz Hayim Humash dedication: $60, Siddur Sim Shalom dedication: $30 Louis and Helyn Fanaroff Sustaining Endowment In Honor Of: The Lessans’ new grandchild by Mr. and Mrs. Gary Bortnick The birth of the Stein’s new grandchild by Mr. and Mrs. Gary Bortnick In Memory Of: The Gould’s loving mother and grandmother by Mr. and Mrs. Gary Bortnick Mandel and Stein Prayer Book Fund In Honor Of: The birth of the Stein’s granddaughter, Emma Goldie Stein by Nanci and Jay Wechsler Sharyn Fuch’s years of service to B’nai Israel as a Shabbat and holiday greeter by Jay and Nanci Wechsler In Memory Of: Goldie Stein by Rita, Chet, Jonathan, Amanda and Emma Stein Murray and Rose Gottlieb USY/Kadima Scholarship Endowment In Honor Of: Rabbi Schnitzer’s kindness, support and caring following the loss of our mother by Dr. Elliot and Paula Aleskow Rabbi Schnitzer’s kindness, support and caring on the birth of our first grandchild by Dr. Elliot and Paula Aleskow Rabbi Jeshaia and Hilde M. Schnitzer Israel Scholarship Endowment Fund In Appreciation Of: Rabbi Schnitzer officiating at Robyn and Ryan’s wedding by Mindy and Larry Nadel Cantor Wolpert helping make Erin’s bat mitzvah so beautiful by Marti and Norm Jacobs In Honor Of: The bar mitzvah of my grandson, Noah Samuel Pearson by Judith Magiday Rabbi Schnitzer for making Allison’s bat mitzvah wonderful and memorable by Matthew, Julie, Allison and Natalie Mintz In Memory Of: Burton Benjamin by Marlene Brager Rabbi Michael Safra Adult Programming Endowment Fund In Appreciation Of: Rabbi Safra conducting the funeral of Stanley Goldstein by Rebecca Adler In Honor Of: Rabbi Safra for making Allison’s bat mitzvah wonderful and memorable by Matthew, Julie, Allison and Natalie Mintz The birth of Nathaniel George Evans, our second grandson by Larry and Becky Evans Rabbi Safra for participating in our son’s bris by Jamie and Jared Maier In Memory Of: Charles Oshinsky, my father by Bill Oshinsky Rachmill Schlafstein Memorial Bar and Bat Mitzvah Tzedakah Box Endowment In Honor Of: The birth of Emma Goldie Stein by Sheri and Dr. Steven Schlafstein In Memory Of: Burton Benjamin by Sheri and Dr. Steven Schlafstein Jeffrey Van Grack by Sheri and Dr. Steven Schlafstein Sara Levy Diener Memorial Endowment Fund A Contribution Has Been Made By: The Walter and Sarah Diener Foundation Inc. Toby Herman Memorial Educational Endowment Fund In Memory Of: Joan, a wonderful and caring lady by Robert and Karen Keats N O V E M B E R 2 0 1 4 Wilma and Ron Lenkin Holocaust Education Endowment In Honor Of: Bella Manchester’s bat mitzvah by Edward Lieberman FUNDS Adult Education Fund In Honor Of: The marriage of the Vogel’s son, Daniel to Andrea Hippeau by Suzanne Offit In Memory Of: Ted Kahn for the continued success of Lunch and Learn by Annette and Bob Friedman Aliyot and Honors Fund In Honor Of: Our aliyah at Allison Mintz’s bat mitzvah by Rina and Sylvan Mintz Robert Kaplan’s Hatan Torah honor by Shulamith Weisman Stan Favin’s 80th birthday by his loving children and grandchildren My Shabbat honor by Art Nimetz Richard Daumit’s Rosh Hashanah honor by Barbara and Richard Daumit My honor on the first day of Rosh Hashanah by Mike Chernikoff Capital Campaign Fund In Memory Of: Herman Iskow, beloved father by Denise and Sheldon Iskow Early Childhood Enrichment Fund In Honor Of: The birth of Emma Goldie Stein, granddaughter of Dr. Chet and Rita Stein by Rosa and John Yazdi In Memory Of: Eva Eisenberger by Mr. and Mrs. Gerald Solomon Edith and Charles Pascal Library Book Fund In Honor Of: Our granddaughter, Sydney Rose Zendel by Leah and Allan Zendel In Memory Of: Jeff Van Grack by Dr. and Mrs. Peter Sherer Burton Benjamin by Dr.and Mrs. Peter Sherer General Fund A speedy recovery for Izzy Feldman by Shulamith Weisman Contributions Have Been Made By: Jay and Nanci Wechsler Kenneth Winer and Emily Hofmann In Appreciation Of: Judy Kerbel for her help during my fall by Malka Finkel In Honor Of: Ruth and Lester Heltzer’s son’s wedding by Jerry and Nancy Reed Mort Greenberg with thanks by Herschel Cutler Marcia and Jules Levine’s grandson’s bar mitzvah by Linda Heller My recent aliyah by Mr. and Mrs. Richard Rose Stan Favin’s 80th birthday and aliyah on September 20 by Sue and Morty Rudo Bill and Thelma Fisher’s 60th anniversary by Elsa Weinstein Nanci and Jay Wechsler by Helen and Allen Farrar In Memory Of: Jeffrey Van Grack, beloved brother by Steve Van Grack Burton Benjamin by The Goldfarb Family Burt Benjamin by Stan and Madelene Brager Dr. Ian Sunshine and Beverly Sunshine by Jessica and Aaron Lieberman Rosalia Kider by Naomi and Richard Resnick Beverly Sunshine by Sam and Julie Gallo L.I.F.E. Lecture Fund Contributions Have Been Made By: Nanci and Jay Wechsler Michael Chernick Shulamith R. Elster Bernard and Cheryl Rod In Honor Of: Allison Mintz on her bat mitzvah by Carol and Donald Tender The marriage of Drs. Robyn and Ryan Massa by Susan and Rob Loewy The birth of Sophie Quinn Lessans by Susan and Rob Loewy The birth of Noa Emery Fleischer by Susan and Rob Loewy The marriage of Carol and Don Vogel’s son Danny to Andrea Hippeau by Mr. and Mrs. Gerald Solomon In Memory Of: Harry Chevan by Charlotte and Larry Freeman Morning Minyan Fund In Honor Of: All the good folks who come each morning to make a minyan by Dean Eisen Nursery School PTA Fund In Honor Of: Ryan Bauman’s bar mitzvah by Barbara and Richard Daumit In Memory Of: Esther Glickman by Marlene Brager Ritual Director’s Fund In Appreciation Of: Cantor Wolpert helping me prepare to read the Torah on Shabbat Eikev by Patricia Greenwel-Rojkind Sisterhood Fund In Honor Of: The marriage of the Vogel’s son, Danny to Andrea Hippeau by Meg and Marc Gold Talmud Torah Fund In Memory Of: Burton S. Hoffman by The Orloffs, Kaisers and Wilson Tzedakah and Welfare Fund A Contribution Has Been Made By: Arlette Snyder Yahrzeit and Yizkor Fund Contributions Have Been Made By: Dr. and Mrs. Allan Diener Robert D. Burk In Memory Of: Bess Rosenthal by Marc Lurie Rita Lenkin Hawkins by Wilma and Ron Lenkin Edward Katzman by Suzy and Sol Levy and family Albert Book by Elaine and Martin Book George Leshner by Lawrence and Linda Revzan Jessie Heineman by Thelma Barmack Dr. Marcos Rojkind by Dr. Patricia Greenwel Benjamin Glazer by Sherry and Lawrence Wachtel Lena Glazer Sherry and Lawrence Wachtel Donald Rosenthal by Ann B. Rosenthal Annette Waterman by Nancy and Paul Lande Helen Kieval by Diane and Gershon Kieval Marcelle Steinberg by Jill, Andy, Brad, and Caryn Klein Abraham Lipton by Laurie and Len Lipton Harriet Lee Cohen by Cameron and Brandon Cohen Jacob Cutler by Mr. and Mrs. Carl Goldberg Jospeh Cutler by Mr. and Mrs. Carl Goldberg Jeanette Ceppos by Judge Seymour Korn Frances Levy by The Taffet Family Bessie Taffet by The Taffet Family Mitchell Magiday by Judith Magiday Meta Abraham by Joan Barr Hannah Shamraevsky by Aelita Zagoskin Isadore Jacobs by Norman Jacobs Meyer Bobrow by Mona, Nathan and Bradley Bobrow Lillian Straus by Susan Kneller Annette Winnick by Dana, Todd, Dana Winnick Edith Meyer Pitler by Kay and Barry Greenberg and Children Abraham Schwartz by Alan Lipschultz Robert Abel by Debbie and Danny Glazer Benjamin Zatz by Dorothy Zatz Cohen Rose Zatz by Dorothy Zatz Cohen Bertha Baron by Sydelle Silberman Stella Emsellem by David Emsellem Joe Bortnick by Debby and Gary Bortnick Helyn Fanaroff by Debby and Gary Bortnick Rudolph Faller by Mort and Ruth Faller Sidney Goldstein by Jerry and Joan Goldstein Samuel Greenhouse by Jerry and Joan Goldstein Robert Johnson by Anne Jarrett Heshmat Moaadel by Arasteh Moaadel Rose Greenbaum by Nathan and Beth Greenbaum Rose Liptz by Dr Joel and Beverly Reiskin Hannah “Beme” Shulman by Michael and Marlyn Heiserman Samuel W. Greenhouse by Robin and Dan Shapiro Albert Wulf by Audrey and Barry Suskind and Family Sharon Wieland by Beth Sanders Alvin Gelfound by Linda and Stanley Margolius Louis Needleman by Etta and Allan Doris Joseph J. Doris by Etta and Allan Doris Helyn Fanaroff by Wendy Fanaroff Charlotte K. Lewis by Doug and Rita Lewis Rose Rosenfeld by Dr. Mark and Susan Jaffe Dr. Daniel S. Jaffe by Dr. Mark and Susan Jaffe Sarah Forman by Lolly Shapero Gussie and Gustave Berman by Vicki Berman Lillian Schwartz by Bette J. Levy David Terner by Leslie and Benjamin Terner Morris Bressler by Adele Goldberg Benjamin Glazer by Debbie and Danny Glazer Irving Zane by Eleanor and Michael Goode My parents by Larry Rosen Adolph Stark, father by Evelyn Tabach Max White by Gerald and Myrna Cooperstein and Family Burton Schwalb by Estelle Schwalb Rose Tauber by Edward Tauber Jeanette Ceppos by Alan Pollin Jack Goren by Audrey and Bert Greenberg Sarah Forman by Mike Chernikoff Louis Fuchs by Arthur and Sharyn Fuchs Joseph Donald Berman by Linda and Mitchell Berman and Family David Frank by Gerald Frank Isidor Riebman by Judy and Barry Riebman Josef Kahan by Nellie and Joel Grover Charles Shaw by Lois and Steve Gutmann Edith Reznick by Steven and Elaine Keller and Family Gilbert Freedman by Mickey and Linda Freedman Fayga Broida by Fern Abrams Ruth Graff by Stuart and June Graff N O V E M B E R 2 0 1 4 25 Irving Niedelman by Gail and Steven Niedelman and Family Martha Reisner by Jeffrey and Linda Reisner Arthur Fingerhut by Earle Fingerhut Ivan Gerson by Adrienne Hass Yetta Epstein by Bobby Epstein Jacob Steppa by Sunny and Mark Polsky Helyn Fanaroff by Sunny and Mark Polsky Saul Modlin by Barry Modlin Dora Wartska by Mila Sobel Isadore Budman by Bonnie and Stan Favin Tillie Budman by Bonnie and Stan Favin Stella Emsellem by Irene Kaplan Faya Broida by Harriet Levi Jenny Hatwell by Ron and Rita Hatwell Arnold E. Sukrow by Ellie and Steven Kahan Steven Edeiken by Wilma and Ron Lenkin Dr. Gilbert Ottenberg by Dr. Ronald Ottenberg Howard Emen by Michael and Gayle Emen Louis Rubenstein by Stephen and Maureen Goodman David Wandersman by Suzanne Wandersman Youth Activities Fund In Memory Of: Martha Idowicz by Norma and Ron Karp Scholar-in-Residence Shabbat Dinner Reservations (p. 11) _______________________________________________________________________ Name Name __________________________________________________________________ Phone NumberEmail Address Phone Number Early Bird Reservations through November 30 # of adults __________ @ $20 member/$23 nonmember # of children under 13 ________ @ $5 member/$5 nonmember # of children 2 and under ________ free # of adult vegetarian meals __________ Total Enclosed $________ Reservations after November 30 # of adults __________ @ $25 member/$28 nonmember # of children under 13 ________ @ $7 member/$7 nonmember # of children 2 and under ________ free # of adult vegetarian meals __________ Total Enclosed $________ Any allergies that we should be aware of? If so, please list. _______________________________________________________________________ Shabbat Around B’nai (p. 10) Friday, November 14 Please make checks payable and mail to: B’nai Israel Congregation, c/o Eagle Bank, PO Box 360652, Pittsburgh, PA 15251 Questions? Contact Beth (301-881-6550, ext. 575, [email protected]). _______________________________ Name _______________________________ Address _______________________________ Phone _______________________________ Email 6th Grade Mini-Shabbaton Registration Form (p. 12) Registration is due by Sunday, November 2. ___________________________________ Name(s) of 6th Grader(s) ___________________________________ Name(s) of Parent(s) Attending _______________________________ Name/s and Age/s of Children _______________________________ Name of Family Being Hosted q I would like to host and would like suggestions for guests. Please return this form to the synagogue office by Wednesday, November 5. ___________________________________ Name(s) & Age(s) of Sibling(s) Attending ___________________________________ Email Address Please make checks payable to B’nai Israel Congregation and drop off in the Education Office. Or mail this form and your check to: B’nai Israel Congregation, c/o Eagle Bank, PO Box 360652 Pittsburgh, PA 15251-6652 Attention: 6th Grade Mini-Shabbaton SHABBAT DINNER on Friday Night (The adult meal is either baked chicken or a vegetarian entree.) __ # 6th graders @ $7 each = ___ __ # of adults @ $18 each = ___ __ # of other children ages 3+ eating adult meal @ $14 each = ___ __ # of other children ages 3+ eating kid meal (chicken nuggets or pasta) @ $9 each = ___ __ # of children ages 2 and under =0 SHABBAT LUNCH on Saturday Afternoon __ # 6th graders @ $5 each = ___ __ # of adults @ $10 each = ___ __ # of other children ages 3+@ $7 each= ___ __ # of children ages 2 and under =0 Because our food orders are due approximately a week prior to the event, registration received after November 2nd will be subject to a $3 per person per meal upcharge. If you are registering late, please add that amount in here: + ___ Total Amount Enclosed = ___ Is anyone in your family a vegetarian? (List family member.)_____________________ Any food allergies or special diets? (List family member.)_____________________ Register online at www.bnaiisraelcong.org/6thgradeshabbaton 26 Mitzvah Day Registration (p. 7) N O V E M B E R 2 0 1 4 Email Address Please return this form to B’nai Israel by Sunday, November 2. Mitzvah Day projects begin at 10:00 a.m. Please register for one of the following: SHUL CHEFS (Cooking) q Children’s Inn – Cook and deliver meals for families of sick children. (Laurie Havens) Please note: this activity is full. q Ronald McDonald House – Cook and deliver meals for families of sick children. (Cheryl Sheer) q **Martha’s Table, Montgomery County Coalition for the Homeless, and Bethesda Cares - Make peanut butter and jelly sandwiches for homeless shelters. (Wayne Berman & Debra Fredman) q Chase Shelter – Cook a meal for residents of Chase Shelter. (Andrea Nadelman) DONATE, SORT, AND SACK (Collections) q Montgomery County Humane Society – Donate supplies needed to care for animals and paint dog bowls. (Andrea Yaffe) q **Cookies for U.S. Soldiers – Help package cookies and cards for American soldiers serving overseas. (Debbie & Michael Oblon) q **Thoughtful Treasures Project – Decorate and fill small bags with little treasures for Children’s Inn patients and their siblings. q Clothing Drive for Interfaith Works of Montgomery County – Sort and organize donated clothing. (Mitchell Gross & Sol Levy) q Phoenix Computers – Bring in your old computers and printers on Mitzvah Day to be donated to a low income family in Montgomery County. Computers and printers cannot be dropped off prior to November 9. (Gerald Rosenkrantz) MOVIN’ MITZVAHS (Sports & More) q Be Brave and Shave (Sima Berman) q Friendly Tennis Game to Benefit Israel Tennis Centers (Valerie Eisenstein) q Peace Players Basketball Tournament (Michael Nevett & Karen Post) ** Family-friendly projects for young children and parents. q Fisher House – Cook and deliver meals for residents of Fisher House. (Elana Schanzer & Rachel Singer) VISITS WITH FRIENDS q **Hebrew Home, Wasserman Residence – Visits and singing with friends. Sponsored by Sisterhood. (Lolly Shapero) q **Hebrew Home, Smith-Kogod Residence – Visits and singing with friends. Sponsored by Sisterhood. (Sheila Franks & Christina Hersh) q **Revitz House – Activity and party with seniors. BLOOD DRIVE (Runs all Morning) Give the Gift of Life. Sign up to be a blood donor. Donors must be at least 17 years old. Please indicate your time preference, and a chair will call to confirm your appointment. (Marcia Kay, Barbara Kopelman, Paul Krupenie, Rob Loewy) Date of Birth ______________ Preferred Appointment Time ______________ (Leah Stein & Sammy Strent) q Kadima Activity – Participate in a cool friendship social with residents from a group home. CREATIVE CRAFTS q Placemats – Decorate placemats for Children’s Inn and Bethesda Cares Homeless Shelter. (Lauren Krauthamer) q **Packages from Home – Write letters and send packages to Israeli and American soldiers to thank them for their service. (Nechama Fellner & Andra Metz) q Linus Blankets – Cut and tie fabric to make blankets for those in need; participants do not need any special sewing or handicraft skill. Sponsored by Sisterhood; materials provided by the Mandelstamm Mitzvah Fund. We encourage havurot and other groups to choose projects they would like to participate in together. If your group would like to join one of the projects listed or to help plan and run an additional project at B’nai Israel on Mitzvah Day, please contact Rabbi Safra ([email protected], 301-881-6550, ext. 575). q I would like to be added to the Social Action Committee listserv to receive information about service projects throughout the year. (Jennie Bobman & Dottie Cohen) q **Glories Happy Hats – Help create and decorate hats “filled with happy thoughts” for children in local hospitals. Recommended for ages 7 and up. This is a great activity for parents and kids together! (Jill Needleman & Shari Weinstein) Register online at www.bnaiisraelcong.org/mitzvahday N O V E M B E R 2 0 1 4 27 Jonathan A. Schnitzer Senior Rabbi Michael J. Safra Rabbi B’nai Israel SCHILIT NURSERY SCHOOL We Want Your Child to Spend Every Day With Us! Schilit Nursery School Open House 2015–2016 Matthew H. Simon, DD, DHL Rabbi Emeritus Josh C. Perlman Hazzan Friday, November 14 10:00 a.m. or Sunday, November 16 10:00 a.m. Cantor Ilana Wolpert Ritual Director Robert Kieval Hazzan Emeritus Larry Trope, FSA Executive Director Dr. Louis Nagel, CJE Education Director Babette Cohn Assistant Education Director Sharon Rosenberg Safra Family Education Director Karen Gerton Schilit Nursery School Director Nancy Goldberg Schilit Nursery School Assistant Director Melissa Schwartz Youth Director/Upper School Coordinator Jill Gendelman Librarian Tamar Solnik Director of Finance Susan M. Cairnes, CMP Events Manager Jose (Pepe) Strauss Facilities Director OFFICERS Andrew Schechter President Deedee Jacobsohn Vice President Administration April Kaplan Vice President Development Jennifer Schwartz Vice President Membership Dr. Haidee Bernstein Vice President Religious Affairs Sharon Slotkin Vice President Youth and Education Douglas Sunshine Secretary Dale Singer Assistant Secretary Steven Rothenberg Treasurer • Classes for Ages 15 Months–5 years old • Half-Day and Full-Day Options • Balance of PlayBased and Academic Programming • Before and Aftercare/ Extended Hours from 8:00 AM–6:00 PM • Pre-K Challenging and Innovative Curriculum • Transitional Two’s • Parent Toddler Program • Summer Camp Program • Maryland State Department of Education License • USCJ Gold Award See p. 25 for details. Marla Schulman Assistant Treasurer Truck Day at B’nai Israel Lois Alperstein Immediate Past President Christina Hersh | Lynn Rayman Sisterhood Co-Presidents Joel Goldberg Men’s Club President Daniel Zuckerman United Synagogue Youth President Please contact Karen Gerton, Nursery School Director (301-816-5578, [email protected]) for information and a tour of the school. Steven Cohen | Arthur Fuchs | Judith Goldberg Dr. Fred Messing | Dr. Stephen B. Robbins | Jay Wechsler Gabbaim shabbat Schilit Nursery School 301-816-5578 Talmud Torah 301-816-5576 Fax 301-881-6221 Judaica Shop 301-770-7577 Affiliated with The United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism 6301 Montrose Road Rockville, MD 20852 301-881-6550 around b’nai An ongoing, pay-it-forward Shabbat Dinner Program designed to expand your circle of friends within the B’nai Israel community See p. 10 for more information. www.bnaiisraelcong.org 28 N O V E M B E R 2 0 1 4
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