Nature vs. Nurture Whenever differences between individuals are explored, one of the most commonly asked questions is, "Do I behave the way I do because that's my nature or because of things that have happened t o me in my life (nurture)?" The answer is BOTH! Nurture and nature are t w o facets of being that are almost impossible t o separate. If one study links behavior t o nature, another will find how nurture plays a role as well. Even in the womb, the realm of nature, the mother's actions (nurturing) are affecting the infant. So when type and temperament are considered, most researchers will support the premise that temperament and type are inborn - nature - although our character is formed as we interact with the environment - nurture. In contrast, gender differences encompass both sex differences based in biology (nature) and gender differences based in society (nurture). As a result of this weave between components reflecting nature and nurture, including sex differences, inborn type, gender, and character, identifying specific differences related t o type and gender is complex. hen working with individuals t o identify their true type, we have found that gender influence can sometimes color the way individuals answer the assessment. Because of this, it is important as a type practitioner t o combine the MBTl with your observation of your client's behavior, and a thorough self-assessment process, t o ensure the correct type selection. To shed light on this process, I will: ' Briefly discuss the influence of nature and nurture on behavior t o understand t o what extent type and gender differences are inborn or related t o environmental factors. ' Summarize the key differences between males and females from research by Deborah Tannen (2001) and others (Table 1). Provide a few examples of how gender influences type selection in business and work applications. 16 APT Bulletin Summer 2003 Confusions in Identifying "True Type" In working with individuals t o determine their best-fit type, gender seems t o influence the self-selection process. Many men, when they take the MBTP, think about their work role in answering the questions and, as a result, may identify a Thinking preference, when in f a c t they have a Feeling preference. This results from societal pressure on men t o be logical, t o focus on "report" talk, and testosterone! When working with men one-on-one t o verify preferences, many self-select the Feeling preference. Steps in Verifying True Type I was working with a Hardware Engineer who regularly tested as ISTJ. In observing his behavior and talking about his needs, there was no doubt that he Table 1. Male vs. Female Differences I FEMALES MALES d Males show greater visual-spatialquantitative ability as in solving mathematical problems, reading maps, solving mazes, and tracking patterns. (Influenced by society but linked t o the male hormone testosterone). 9 d Men, as a result of this cerebral wiring, tend t o be more aroused by pictures, videos, and gadgets due t o the visual and spatial orientation of their brains. 9 d May appear more aggressive, as aggression is linked t o testosterone, the male hormone, and may have been evolutionarily selected for hunting and protection. 9 d Men prefer t o have more space, privacy, and autonomy. They are also taught t o not talk about feelings as much. 9 d They find intimacy in working and playing side by side. 9 Females show greater verbal ability including fluency, grammatical accuracy, written prose, verbal memory, pronunciation, and verbal reasoning. (Influenced by society but linked t o the female hormone estrogen). Romance novels, soap operas, and verbal eroticism are more likely t o be stimulating t o a female due t o her more verbally inclined brain. ~~ ~ May appear as more nurturing, as they seem t o be more drawn t o interpersonal relationships. Women prefer closeness and report in numerous polls that they want men t o talk more about their feelings and emotions. They derive intimacy from talking face-to-face. ~~~ 9 d Men have a weaker connection between the brain's t w o hemispheres, which can result in difficulty interpreting emotional context and non-verbal information. d Want t o remain independent. d Report talk: Men prefer t o engage in communication t o preserve independence or t o negotiate and maintain a position. 9 d In public, men often talk more and for longer periods of time t o give a "report". By expelling knowledge or verbally performing (stories, jokes, etc.), men use communication t o get and keep attention. 9 9 Susan M. Nash (ENFJ) is co-author of Teamwork from the Inside Out Field Book (20031,Turning Team Performance Inside Out (1999) and Dating, Mating and Relating (2000). As founder of E M- Powe r, Nash specializes in applying type and temperament t o improving organizational effectiveness. [email protected] Women seem t o read emotional context and peripheral, non-verbal information more effectively, which scientists believe is linked t o the better connection of the t w o hemispheres of the female brain. Want t o build intimacy. Rapport talk: Women tend t o engage in communication t o create connections and intimacy. In private settings like home and among close friends, women speak more than men t o build rapport. This can be viewed by men as chit chat because there is no specific data t o report. Summer 2003 APT Bulletin 17 Table 2. Verifying Type Preferences 1 Client takes the MBTl in a relaxed setting I Step One: t 1 Preferences are described and client makes tentative selection of type Step Four: Table 3. Type Analysis of FSFP and FSTP Type Analysis Temperament First function I Artisan (Fi): Valuing "When working with male Idealists (NF), a similar issue can arise. The comment often made about this is 'I learned a t an early age, both a t school and in my family, to camouflage my feeling preference by using logical arguments.' ESTP ESFP " I Artisan (Ti): Analyzing had a Guardian (SJ) temperament. His desire t o contribute t o the team and live up t o his roles and responsibilities was obvious. The challenge lay in helping him differentiate between Thinking and Feeling (which would involve using Extraverted Thinking-Systematizing, or Extraverted FeelingHarmonizing). Our observations of his behavior led us t o believe that Extraverted Feeling was a better fit for the following reasons: Although he was structured in his approach, he was not very organized (unlike Te). He had high empathy skills - everyone seemed t o feel comfortable with him (like Fe). In asking him leading questions about preferences, the key question that gave us clues was, "How do you feel about conflict?" When he indicated that 18 APT Bulletin Summer 2003 I he did not like conflict and would withdraw rather than address issues, this was a good indicator of a Feeling preference. After the self-selection process and careful reading of type descriptions (Table 2), he became convinced that his true preferences were for ISFJ. Conversely, women who have a Thinking preference may complete the MBTl and score as having a Feeling preference because of gender influences such as "rapport talk" and ability t o read emotional context. For example, an Office Manager was confused about whether she had preferences for ESTJ or ESFJ. We observed that she was a very quick, organized decision-maker; she had an event planned before most people had thought of it! (good example of Extraverted Thinking-Systematizing). In questioning her about conflict, her response was, "I would rather get it out in the open, say how I feel, and move on," which sounded much more like the Thinking than the Feeling preference. Finally, when she read more she decided that she had gravitated initially to the Feeling preference because, as a Guardian (one of the t w o collaborative temperaments), she was interested in the team. Again, combining careful observation of behavior, in-depth questioning, and further reading enabled the client t o verify true type. When working with male Idealists (NF), a similar issue can arise. The comment often made about this is "I learned at an early age, both at school and in my family, t o camouflage my feeling preference by using logical arguments." In comparison, female Rationals (NT) have commented on noticing being somewhat different from other students, because of their innate logic and reasoning ability. This seemed t o be viewed as "non-feminine". The issue of identifying true type can be facilitated by clearly understanding the hierarchy of functions. For instance, we were working with a trainer who had assessed as ESFP on the MBTI. In observing her behavior, the Artisan temperament seemed clear. She liked freedom, had an innate sense of fun, viewed herself as impatient t o "just get stuff done", and liked t o be noticed. As you can see from Table 3, the first function for both ESFP's and ESTP's is Extraverted Sensing. However, in discussing her prime decision making function, she talked about how logical she perceived herself to be, particularly in looking a t information from a variety of perspectives in order to improve a system. This definitely sounded like Introverted Thinking Ti: Analyzing. In addition, she talked about how she liked to create social harmony and have people agree, but when the chips were down, she would go to the logical answer. This sounded more like Extraverted Feeling (Harmonizing) as a third function, and we spent some time reviewing Introverted Feeling (Valuing), describing how this is a strong internal sense of right and wrong, a clear moral compass in guiding behavior. While she was clear on her values, she believed she more often used her Thinking function in making decisions. After further reading, she verified that her true type was ESTP. She realized that not only gender had influenced the way she had taken the assessment, but also her role as a trainer which required considerable empathy ski IIs. In conclusion, it appears that gender can influence the way individuals take the MBTl assessment and, therefore, the Indicator is normally best accompanied by careful observation of behavior, questioning, and client reading of type descriptions t o verify true type. References Tannen, Deborah. (2001) You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation. New York: Quill (HarperCollins, Inc.) W harness the power of archetypes Type shows individuals how they prefer to think and act. 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