pettalk pettalk lifestyle dogtalk dogtAlk behaviour behaviour Dogs are our best friends, and treating them in an appropriate way will ensure a safe relationship without aggression ▲ Do you speak dog? Look out for these signs in a dog’s body language to help you determine whether he is friendly or if you should rather stay away. Friendly dog • Loose,soft,wigglingbody • Earsbackandflat • Mouthrelaxedandopen • Wide,fullcircularmotioninthetailwith the rear-end wiggling simultaneously Text: Noleen Fourie | Photography: Shutterstock and supplied Duncan Smuts with Honey, his medical alert dog ▲ Text: Noleen Fourie and Samantha Walpole | Photography: Shutterstock Making friends Staying safe when your best friend has teeth 22 A ll too often we hear about people, both adults and children, getting badly injured from being attacked by a dog. And often the dog gets the blame, while he was simply trying to communicate that his humans were making him uncomfortable. This can be prevented simply by learning the appropriate way to interact with our pooches. A dog-friendly meet and greet One would think that approaching a friend’s dog for the first time is safer than approaching a stray dog in the streets. According to animal behaviour practitioner Samantha Walpole, sadly this is not always the case, and the Animaltalk | August 2016 majority of dog bites occur in a home with a known dog. We are taught to ask permission before approaching a strange dog; this is correct, but what if the dog is saying “No, please don’t”? Samantha gives the following tips on making friends with a friend’s dog: • First protocol when entering a friend’s home is to ignore the dog completely. Keep your greeting low key with your friend (excitement and hands going out to hug your friend could be too much for a dog who is not comfortable with strangers). Rather err on the side of caution and make no attempt to engage with the strange dog. Keep an eye on the dog with your peripheral vision; no direct eye contact as this can be perceived as a threat from the dog’s perspective. Depending on where the dog is, make sure he sees you approaching – you do not want to startle a strange dog. • Beveryawareofspaceandexitroutes.We never want to corner a dog or remove his exit routes if he is feeling uncomfortable. Creating space and arcing around the dog with your shoulders turned toward the dog is ‘polite’ and non-threatening in dog language. Animaltalk | August 2016 Rather give this dog his privacy • Analoofdisposition • Barkingandgrowling • Earspushedforwardandalert • Hard,staringeyes • Bodystiffandleaningbackwardorforward • Freezestances • Letthedogmakethechoicetocomeand greet you. Do not encourage or coerce a dog to come and say hello if he is keeping his distance. Wait until the initial arrival excitement is over. • I f the dog comes up to you and nudges you for attention, the polite way to give him tactile affection would be to scratch his chest or under his chin for a few seconds. Do not pat the dog’s head or bendoverhim.Ifthedogwantsmore,he will remain with you and maybe nudge some more. • I fthedogwalksaway,youknowhedoes not want more. Respect this. It’s not personal! • Donotapproachthedogifheissleeping, chewing a bone, or playing with a toy – he may be a resource guarder and not approve of your invasion for fear of you taking the item away. The dog may bite. If you at any time feel uncomfortable in the presence of a dog, listen to your gut! Politely ask your friend to call the dog in a happy voice and put him away. Safety first, for you and for the dog (we let our dogs down when we place them in a situation where they feel they have no choice and react to protect themselves). Dog-safety for children Just like us humans can get irritated with one another, we also do things that our dogs don’t like! Teach your children that your dog will not enjoy it when they do the following – this will go a long way in preventing bites: Do not interfere with feeding time. Just like us, dogs like to eat in peace. We teach our kids not to steal others’ toys. We should also not be stealing our dogs’ toys! To build tolerance in a dog in case a child makes a mistake, the dog should be trained to give up his toys for a reward. That way he will willingly give the child the toy instead of feeling possessive. Keep your distance! A dog might get irritated with a child who puts their face in the dog’s face. Teach your child to respect Fido’s naptime. No one likes to be disturbed while trying to catch a snooze. Invading personal space is a big no-no! Dogs should never be stepped on or climbed on, and also no pulling of the ears or tail is allowed. Source: When Dogs Bite Back. Download your FREE copy from coolmags.com to learn all about safe interaction with your dogs. 23 See page 22 for tips on keeping your children safe from dog bites A t the age of three and a half years old Duncan Smuts, currently 12 years old, was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes. This was extremely stressful for Duncan and his family, especially considering that he is a brittle diabetic – this means that his condition is particularly difficult to control. Dangerously low blood sugar levels are always a concern, and that is where dogs can assist. Animaltalk chatted to Duncan and his parents, Greg and Jenny Ann Smuts, about his medical alert dog, Honey. How did it happen that Duncan got paired up with Honey? We considered getting a dog for Duncan for a few years, but they were only available from various associations overseas such as Dogs for Diabetics (D4D), and were very costly. By chance we came across Carien Meyer, a dog trainer in Melkbosstrand, who was very keen to assist us in training a diabetic assist dog. Carien found Honey, a Golden Retriever who she thought would be suitable for Duncan, but unfortunately was not able to continue with the training and handed over to Lucy Breytenbach (Just Dogs Behaviour Services). 5 ways pets are good for children 1 Pets can help improve your child’s reading skills – those who are just starting out might feel more comfortable reading aloud to their pets. Pets can get your kids away from those computer and TV screens! Playtime outside and dog walks can provide that much-needed exercise. Research has found that playing with a pet reduces blood pressure (this is great for adults too!). Feeding and caring for a pet teaches children responsibility for another living creature. Always remember though that children can be unreliable, and that you as parent have to take the ultimate responsibility for a pet. Children who grow up with pets tend to have stronger immune systems and suffer less from allergies. 2 Your first best friend In sickness and in health – pets are great for children! 3 4 5 16Animaltalk | August 2016 Animaltalk | August 2016 lifestyle more info When did Honey come home with you, and was there an adjustment period? Do you have any other pets who had to adjust to a new dog? Honey arrived in January after having been spayed, and then the training alongside Lucy began. We are still adjusting to having a dog in the house who goes everywhere with us and even sleeps on the bed, which was initially a no-go! Our cat is also still adjusting to the new member of our family. What exactly is the dog’s job in the family? Honey enjoys being with everyone in the family, but at the moment her job is to be with Duncan whenever he is around so that they can develop a special bond. Eventually she will pick up when his blood sugar levels drop and alert him. How has Duncan benefited from having a service dog? Duncan loves Honey and spends many hours a week in discipline and scent training. Would you recommend these dogs for others who need them? The training takes a lot of time and dedication, and therefore it takes responsibility to continue to work and improve the scent training. Honey woke Duncan one Sunday morning by pawing his face and his blood glucose level was low – we can only hope that is the start of her picking up future lows on a more regular basis. For those parents who have diabetic children, you will understand the lack of sleep due to testing their sugar every night. This is the main reason we got Honey – to serve as an early warning system! So for that reason we would definitely recommend them to take this on. From Duncan’s side, he has never had a dog before Honey. He loves having her around and says that she keeps him entertained. He especially enjoys the training work that he must do regularly with Honey. This includes training at least three to four times a day – and additional training with Lucy (Just Dogs) four times a week. Duncan agrees that with dogs come a lot of responsibility, but that they also play such a big role in a child’s life and helping A child’s best friend Many of us fondly remember the pets we had as children. They were always there for us – ready to lick away tears, to take part in the silly games we played, and to attentively listen to the important things we needed to tell them. According to research, kids experiencing problems turn to their pets even more than they do to their siblings. The research was done by Matt Cassels, a PhD psychiatry student at the University of Cambridge, who studied the social and emotional development of children between two and 12 years old. The study focused on children with low cognitive skills and looked at these children’s relationships with their family, peers, teachers and pets. Cassels’ research revealed that pets have profound and perhaps unexpected effects on kids’ social skills. Children in the study who faced hard times – their parents’ divorce, tough home lives or illness – tended to perform poorly in school. But these kids were also more likely to rely on their pets rather than their peers for support. “It is really surprising,” Cassels says. “They may feel that their pets are not judging them, and since pets don’t appear to have their own problems, they just listen. Even confiding in a journal can be therapeutic, but pets may be even better since they can be empathetic.” Kids who bonded strongly with their pets were also better in social situations, helping others, co-operating, sharing and interacting. Connecting with a pet bolstered their ability to connect with people. Source: mentalfloss.com families deal with type 1 diabetes. Duncan hopes to create awareness of medical alert dogs in South Africa to help others, like him, diagnosed with type 1 diabetes. 17
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