North Jersey Media Group providing local news, sports & classifieds for Northern New J... Page 1 of 3 Local News News Education Health Sports Entertainment/Living Food/Dining Columnists Lottery O HEALTH WOMEN'S HEALTH Login Search NorthJersey.com (last 2 weeks) Advanced Search Health Focus Doulas help women in labor keep to the game plan Heal Tuesday, January 3, 2006 By ABIGAIL LEICHMAN STAFF WRITER Select p Hea As her contractions intensified, Lisa Bisontis was on the verge of demanding the very pain medication she'd instructed her doctor not to give her. NorthJersey.com Site Map Help & FAQs To Advertise Contact - Internet Newspapers Subscriber Services Subscribe "I was getting ready to bail," she recalled, just 10 hours after giving birth to 8-pound, 8-ounce Paige. And maybe she would have, if not Julie and Derrick Butler using a birthing ball with for the encouragement of labor doula doula Roseanne Ebert's guidance. (SAL Marie Muller-Noonan at her side. BENNEDETTO/VALLEY HOSPITAL) N.I.E. (education) Contact Newspapers Readership North Jersey Media Group Like midwives, non-medical assistants called doulas (from the Greek word for a woman's servant) used to be a component of every mother's female support system in many parts of the world. As childbirth moved from home to hospital, doulas disappeared. But just as today's certified nurse-midwives have been welcomed back to the team, trained doulas are returning as well. www.njmg.com Partners GroundZeroSpirit.org Food Drive Advan Obesity S "Even though I was wavering a lot, Marie gave me hope that I could do it on my own," said Bisontis, of Ringwood. To Advertise E-Tearsheets Daily V In North Jersey, postpartum doulas are available for hire to help at home. And since May, certified labor doulas have been an option at Valley Hospital in Ridgewood. Select Healt pr Healt Bergen C Departme Services http://www.northjersey.com/page.php?qstr=eXJpcnk3ZjcxN2Y3dnFlZUVFeXk1JmZnYm... 1/12/2006 North Jersey Media Group providing local news, sports & classifieds for Northern New J... Page 2 of 3 "Hospital births have gotten so high-tech medically, and there are such high Csection rates - New Jersey's is the highest - that we thought it would be a wonderful compromise to be able to deliver in a hospital with a warm, caring, hands-on touch," said Cindy Ferestein, a registered nurse and Valley's parent education coordinator. Ferestein developed a doula training program at Valley and serves as one of its 10 on-call certified doulas. Expectant mothers may request a doula in advance (health plans do not cover the $495 fee) or may ask for one on the spot. In some cases, a labor-delivery nurse will suggest it. "I was being induced, and upon arriving at the hospital one of the nurses asked if I'd be interested in having someone to support me and give me ideas to ease the labor a little bit," said Mary Ellen Pardo of Rochelle Park, whose son Ryan was born in August. Ferestein was on call and soon arrived. She showed Jay Pardo ways to make his wife more comfortable, such as massaging her back. She taught Mary Ellen how to use a labor ball to ease contractions and better position the baby. "When it came time to push, I remember Cindy being right there in my ear, gently saying, 'Close your mouth, put your chin down a little.' Any advice to help me do it the right way was so helpful," Pardo said. Back in the day, doulas didn't have dads in the labor room with them. Today, they are trained to enable fathers to be more active partners in the process. TRAINING IS REQUIRED: Mothers, grandmothers, sisters - anyone who's been around mothers and children and "just loves that feeling of helping a woman in labor" can sign up for doula training at Valley Hospital, said Cindy Ferestein, parent education coordinator. To receive certification through Doulas of North America, trainees must complete a minimum of 15 hours of childbirth education classes and attend at least three deliveries. The next training is scheduled for May 1-4 at the hospital's Kraft Center and costs $500. Select graduates of the program are asked to join Valley's cadre of on-call labor doulas. For information, call Ferestein at (201) 291-6152. "Most men enjoy being involved in a positive way," said Ferestein. "But even if they're - Abigail Leichman eager and willing to help, they tend to get nervous as labor gets active. It's hard to see someone you love in pain. A doula may be able to read the mom a little better and incorporate her partner accordingly." In cases where the mother has to be prepped for an emergency Caesarean section, the doula stays with the father to offer information and support during what can be a scary and confusing time. She then accompanies the couple to the operating suite. While Julie and Derrick Butler of New Milford didn't encounter such circumstances with doula Roseanne Ebert while Julie was in labor with Annalise on Oct. 14, they welcomed Ebert's expertise. "Roseanne was there from the time I got admitted," said Julie Butler, "and she not only helped me with positions and relaxation but also helped my husband get more engaged in the birth process, guiding him to help me get through it. It took http://www.northjersey.com/page.php?qstr=eXJpcnk3ZjcxN2Y3dnFlZUVFeXk1JmZnYm... 1/12/2006 North Jersey Media Group providing local news, sports & classifieds for Northern New J... Page 3 of 3 a lot of pressure off him." Anthony Bisontis said he loved having Muller-Noonan's help in communicating his wife's needs. The two of them massaged Lisa's feet, back and head using reflexology techniques the doula showed him. "Marie showed me some things that would help Lisa relax, and I followed them all, and Lisa said 'Yes, that's great,' so we kept going," said Anthony. Lisa Bisontis said she was amazed at how these low-tech methods made her contractions more tolerable. Together with a supportive labor nurse, the three kept to Lisa Bisontis' medication-free birth plan. Paige was born at 4:26 a.m. on Dec. 15, and both Ferestein and Muller-Noonan came back to visit that afternoon. "Labor is such an intimate time that you can bond very quickly," said Ferestein, who also checks up on clients after they've gone home. "And we try to make it as special as we can for them." E-mail: [email protected] 6848100 *Businesses, learn how you can partner with The Record and Herald News! Copyright © 2006 North Jersey Media Group Inc. 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