Win-Win: you win, I win, we ALL win!
G. Barron
Innovating Teaching and Learning
Through Technology Conference
Agenda
i.
Introductions: Name, School,
Grade and expectations of
session.
ii. Think Win-Win power point
presentation
iii. Activity: Role playing and
discussions
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Win-Win: you win, I win, we
ALL win!
Description: Habit 4: Think win-win,
focuses on the public victory and
leadership. Students will learn how to
balance courage for getting what they
want, along with consideration for what
others want. When conflicts arise,
students will look for a win-win
solution for everyone involved.
“What do we live for, if it is not to
make life less difficult for each other?”
George Elliot, Author
What is Habit #4
Think Win-Win?
• Win-Win is an attitude toward life, a mental frame of
mind that says I can win, and so can you.
• Its not me or you, it’s both of us.
• Think Win-Win is the foundation for getting along well
with other people.
• It begins with the belief that we are all equal, that no
one is less than or better than anyone else,
and no one really needs to be.
• Life is not always about competition. You cannot compete in your
relationships.
• How silly it is to say, “Whose winning in your relationship, you or
your friend?”
Discussion: How would you feel if your friend is always trying to be
better than you? What would this competition do to your friendship?
Win (you)-Lose (others):
The Totem Pole
• Win-Losers use other people, emotionally or physically,
for their own selfish purposes
• They try to get ahead at the expense of others
• They spread rumors about others
• They concentrate on getting their own way without
thinking about others’ feelings
• They become jealous and envious when something
good happens to someone else
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XVlaAIJC4eM
Lose (you)-Lose (others):
The Downward Spiral
• If I’m going down, you’re going down with me.
• War and revenge are great examples of a LoseLose relationship. Whoever is hurt the least
wins the war.
• Desire to win at all costs, whatever it takes.
• Are obsessed with others in a
negative manner. Example: bad
relationships.; they bring
out the worst in the couple.
Lose (you)-Win (others):
The Door Mat
• Set low expectations for themselves
• Have low self-esteem and never consider themselves
worthy or good enough
• Compromise their standards over and over again; they
will give in to being influenced by others to do drugs,
sex, crime.
• Allow themselves to be walked on with the excuse of
being the “peacemaker”
• Hides their true feelings.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=83gzM4HyQ9I&featur
e=share
Win-Win:
The All-You-Can-Eat–Buffet:
• Belief that everyone can win.
• You care about other people and you want
them to succeed. But you also care about
yourself.
• It doesn’t matter who gets the biggest piece of
pie because there is more then enough food for
everyone. It’s an all-you-can-eat buffet.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dNu6ZCvLHm
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How to Think Win-Win:
•
One : Win the private victory first
•
Two: Avoid the tumor twins.
Win the Private Victory First
How do I do that?
It begins with YOU!
• It will be difficult, hard, feeling insecure,
jealous.
You must make deposits into
your Personal Bank Account.
Take responsibility for your life, and
have a plan in place
Personal security is the
foundation for thinking
Win-Win.
Avoid the Tumor Twins
• There are two habits that, like tumors, can
slowly eat you away from the inside.
• There names are COMPETING and
COMPARING.
• It is impossible to think Win-Win with them
around.
• https://www.youtube.com/watch/?v=Wgm_K8
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The Fruits of Win-Win
• Win-Win can be applied in just about any situation, even
with your family.
• If you are big-hearted, committed to helping others
succeed, and willing to share recognition, you will be a
MAGNET for friends.
• Sometimes, no matter how hard you try, you won’t be
able to find a win-win solution.
• The other party may be so bent in win-lose that you do
not even want to approach them.
• If this happens, do not get ugly yourself (win-lose), or
get stepped on (lose-win), instead go for a win-win or no
deal.
• Win-win or no deal means that if you cannot find a
solution that works for both or you, decide not to play.
Activity
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Line up according to DOB, starting with
January.
Start a count of numbering 1-4.
All ones are in same group, etc.