DEVELOPING THE
SERVANT L.E.A.D.-ER
IN YOU!™
Presenter: Gretchen Jones Torbert, Ph.D.
Certified Holistic Life Coach
www.The3iiis.com
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Minister
Life Coach
Servant
Stable
Who am I?
Teacher
Dedicated
I am ME!
Ignite.Inspire.Instruct™
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WHO ARE YOU?
Let’s Take the
Leadership Assessment Test
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WHO ARE WE TOGETHER?
Act. Share. Reflect™
Activities
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Lion Attributes
• detail oriented
• service oriented
• values family traditions
• helpful and trustworthy
• belief in policies,
procedures, rules
• value order duty,
loyalty
• punctual, precise
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Eagle Attributes
• spontaneous
• master negotiator
• competitive
• creative
• risk taker
• natural entertainer
• test limits
• high need for mobility
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Alligator Attributes
• intellectual
• standard setter
• independent
• visionary
• philosophical
• Cool
• perfectionists
• work is play
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Deer Attributes
• mediators
• optimistic
• sensitive to the needs of
others
• passionate
• encourage others
• has a kind word
• cooperative rather than
competitive
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The downfalls of Lions!
• rudeness and defiance
• breaking rules intentionally
• running away and dropping out
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The downfalls of Eagles!
• attention-getting behavior
• withdrawal
• passive resistance
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The downfalls of Alligators!
• refusal to comply or cooperate
•refusal to communicate; the silent treatment
•perfectionism due to severe performance anxiety
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The downfalls of Deers!
• complaining and self-pity
• anxiety and worry
• depression and fatigue
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Having success with Lions!
• remember to be on time
• try to be extra organized and efficient
• they are generous but like things returned
• be dependable, loyal
• respect their need for security
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Having success with Eagles!
• be active with them
• be spontaneous
• compete in fun
• be adventuresome and optimistic
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Having success with Alligators!
• be aware of their curiosity about life
• respect their need for independence
• respect their inventions and ideas
• give them time to process information
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Having success with Deers !
• be aware they wear their heart on their sleeve
• listen to them as they listen to you
• share your thoughts and feelings
• praise their imagination and creativity
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Working with Lions…
Others see a Lion as:
Choose to see a Lion as:
• rigid
• stable
• controlling
• providing security
• opinionated
• dependable
• system-bound
• efficient
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Working with Eagles…
Others see an Eagle as:
• irresponsible
• not serious when they
should be
• only do what they
enjoy
Choose to see an Eagle as:
• fun-loving, enjoy life
• proficient, capable
• problem-solver
• good negotiator
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Working with Alligators…
Others see an Alligator as: Choose to see an Alligator as:
• arrogant, heartless
• tough-minded, efficient
• don’t care about people
• creative, visionary
• think they are superior
• original, unique
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Working with Deers…
Others see a Deer as:
• overemotional
• bleeding heart
• too tender hearted
• too “touchy-feely”
Choose to see a Deer as:
• caring, compassionate
• see potential for people
• willing to work for a
cause
• unselfish
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Thank you!
You are an exceptional
Servant L.E.A.D.-er!
Please complete the survey so that we can better SERVE YOU!
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LEADERSHIP VIDEOS
Introduction
http://youtu.be/JETriceiLTw
Leadership Clip
http://youtu.be/0VZW54uJW4s
Leadership Clip
http://youtu.be/YVMBJ9kvl2g
Leadership Clip
http://youtu.be/XlTzLd6oXC0
Closing
http://youtu.be/SJR-MRVd1ok
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