21 points of Benefits about
the Manners of Kissing
21 points of Benefits about the
Manners of Kissing
Kissing a non-Mahram person is the Zina of the lips
There are authentic hadeeth that show spouses kissing
each other are among the best ways of intimacy.
It’s not permissible for a man to kiss his fiancée
before marriage.
It’s not permissible for a man to kiss the female cousin
on the father’s or mother’s side.
A woman can’t prevent her husband from kissing her at
all.
It’s not permissible for a non Muslim female to kiss a
Muslimah.
Kissing doesn’t invalidate a person’s state of Wudu.
A person, who is Mahram to a child can kiss that child .
However they mustn’t kiss that child on the mouth. The
same rule applies for kissing your mother-in law, etc.
and nonetheless, this kissing shouldn’t be done
excessively. So, what’s intended is a kiss on the cheek.
The husband and the wife can kiss each other any where
they like, except the areas that are physically and
morally shameful. In other words they shouldn’t act like
animals.
The only non-living that can be kissed is the Black
Stone. That means a person shouldn’t kiss Baital Maqdis,
A tomb, or the Maqam Al-Ibrahim.
A person mustn’t kiss the Quran or other books of
knowledge; as this act hasn’t been authentically
reported on the Salaf.
The Scholars in Fiqh unanimously agree that it’s
permissible to kiss a minor, even if it’s a non-Mahram
child. The non-Mahram child which you might kiss must be
under the age of nine, and by kissing him or her you
don’t get aroused. Otherwise you can’t kiss them.
If a man has more than one wife, he doesn’t have to kiss
each one of his wives equally.
It’s haraam for a man to kiss another man on the mouth.
A Parent can kiss their child, regardless if they are a
boy or girl. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon
him) kissed Al-Hasan ibn Ali and Abu Bakr kissed Aisha
(may Allah be pleased with them both)
It’s permissible to kiss a scholar,and a just ruler on
the head, cheek or hand out of respect. And this act can
also be done to someone who is bidding a farewell or
returning after a journey.
A woman can kiss her Muslim sister on the cheek when
they meet or when they part, however this shouldn’t
become a norm. i.e every time they meet they kiss each
other on the cheek.
It’s permissible to kiss the deceased due to sympathy
and compassion. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon
him) kissed Uthman ibn Math’un while he was dead. The
tears were flowing from Muhammad’s (peace and blessings
be upon him) eyes when he kissed him. Also Abu Bakr
kissed the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him)
after he died and cried and his funeral
If you are unable to kiss the black stone, but you are
able to touch it, you can kiss your hand. This act is
recommended.
If a man is in the state of Ihram during Hajj he can
kiss and touch his wife to show compassion, mercy, or
generosity. When he does these acts in this fashion,
then his Hajj is correct. He must not touch or kiss his
wife due to
a sexual desire while in the state of
Ihram.
If a woman is in her ‘Iddah of the first or second
divorce, her husband can take her back by simply kissing
her with the intention of taking her back.
Taken from “ Ithaafu Ahulil Qiblati bi Ahkamil Qublati”
Written by Abu Salah Muhammad Hesham Al-Afghani.(may Allah
reward him)
Shaykh Ubayd Al-Jabiree (may Allah preserve him) said, “I have
read the book, “Ithaafu Ahulil Qiblati bi Ahkamil Qublti.”
written by our brother, our student, and companion: Abu Salah
Muhammad Hesham Al-Afghani. This research hit the target; as
it contains most of
the important topics for this subject,
in fact it contains all the subjects…
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Translated by
Abu Aaliyah Abdullah ibn Dwight Battle Sr.
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