Play Therapy: You Don’t Have To Talk To Be Heard Developed by Shanika Fridhandler, M.Sc., Prov. Psych. with Lindsay Hope-Ross, M.Sc., R. Psych. Healthy Minds/Healthy Children Outreach "Play is the highest expression of human development in childhood, for it alone is the free expression of what is in a child's soul.” - Friedrich Froebel Creator of Kindergarten Outline ¾Why Play? ¾The Power of Play Typical Versus Atypical Play Play As Communication Play As “Self” Developer Play As Reparation Facilitator ¾Play Therapy: Entering Another’s World Building Blocks of Play Therapy 1 Outline Entering the Play Child-Led Play ¾Play Therapy Approaches Non-Directive Directive ¾Play Therapy Dimensions Model ¾Play Therapy Tools ¾Play Therapy Process Outline ¾Special Considerations First Session Therapeutic LimitSetting Aggression Sexualized Content ¾References and Resources ¾Contact Information Why Play? ¾ Play is universal and is one of the earliest emerging forms of human communication. ¾ Play is children’s language and toys are the words they use to express themselves. ¾ Play is enjoyable and spontaneous. ¾ Play is how children learn and explore their world. 2 Why Play? ¾ Play is how children come to understand their life experiences. ¾ Play is how children express their feelings, perceptions, and reactions. ¾ Play is a natural self-healing process. To enter into a child’s world, one must enter the world of play. The Power of Play “Play can miniaturize a part of the complex world children experience, reduce it to understandable dimensions, manipulate it, and help them understand how it works.” - Jerome Singer American Psychologist Typical Versus Atypical Play ¾Typical Child’s Play Light-hearted Free and spontaneous Enjoyable and fun Voluntary Not necessarily goal-directed Often chat through out Explore the whole space available Often use a large variety of toys Aggressive play clearly expressed as such, and is contained 3 Typical Versus Atypical Play ¾Atypical Play Serious, heavy, or depressing themes Cautious, deliberate actions or Chaotic, compulsive, driven, and intense behaviour Repetitive Signs of dissociation, freezing, and/or pivoting Often a mismatch between content and emotion May be completely silent or nonstop questions/conversation Aggressive play often destructive and poorly contained Play as Communication Why play works as language: ¾ Experiences that occurred before a child was able to speak are coded in nonverbal memory. ¾ Due to their cognitive level of development, children’s feelings, thoughts, and reactions are often not accessible verbally. ¾ Traumatic memory is stored differently than the memory of non-traumatic experiences, and is often fragmented and/or compartmentalized, only one part of which may be stored in verbal memory. ¾ Some experiences are too distressing to talk about directly. Play as Communication " You can discover more about a person in an hour of play than in a year of conversation.” - Plato Greek philosopher 427-347 BCE 4 Play as “Self” Developer Through their play, children: • learn how the world works, including developing and practicing life, social, problem-solving, conflict resolution, and other skills ¾ “try on” roles that they will need for adulthood ¾ make sense of the complex world around them ¾ develop a sense of “self” Play As Reparation Facilitator Through play, children are able to: ¾ gain understanding of life events, ¾ gain control and mastery over things that are or were overwhelming and out of their control in real life (for example, natural disasters, trauma, divorce, and so on) ¾ resolve their situations in ways that they want (that is, they can change what happens or the ending) ¾ feel empowered Play As Reparation Facilitator Through play, children are able to: ¾ “play out” their feelings, experiences, and problems, just as adults “talk out” their feelings, problems, and so on ¾ symbolically revisit distressing or confusing experiences, feelings, conflicts, impulses, and relationships, within a safe, nurturing environment and, thereby, be provided a degree of protection and emotional distance from directly acknowledging or confronting these. 5 Play Therapy: Entering Another’s World “The playing adult steps sideward into another reality; the playing child advances forward to new stages of mastery.” - Erik H. Erikson American Psychoanalyst 1902-1994 Building Blocks of Play Therapy The therapeutic conditions necessary for growth and healing (Landreth, 2002). include: ¾ focus on the child, rather than on the problem; that is, giving complete and undivided attention to the child ¾ genuineness ¾ unconditional acceptance (note: this means unconditional acceptance of the child, not necessarily of all behaviours) Building Blocks of Play Therapy ¾sensitive understanding ¾safety and permissiveness in the relationship ¾patience, thereby allowing the therapeutic process to unfold naturally ¾trust in the child’s natural tendency toward growth and self-actualization 6 Entering the Play ¾ Rather than being a playmate, the therapist acts as a participant – observer. ¾ Play, itself, does not necessarily produce change. It is the therapist’s utilization and interpretation of the symbolism embedded in the play are extremely important in facilitating change. Child-Led Play Therapy Play Therapy is based upon the premise that the child will lead the therapist where the child needs to go. Basic tenants of child-led play include: ¾ be at the child’s level ¾ let your nose follow your toes (face the child) ¾ have the child catch you smiling and focusing on her/him ¾ follow the child’s lead Child-Led Play Therapy ¾ take off your “teacher’s hat” ¾ unobtrusively comment on themes and feelings in the play Child-led play can be taught to parents/caregivers to: ¾ build the bond between parent/caregiver and child ¾ foster healthy, normal child development ¾ remind a child that she/he is cared for, special, and worthwhile 7 Child-Led Play Therapy “Enter the children’s play and you will find the place where their minds, hearts, and souls meet.” - Virginia Axline (1911-1988) Founder of Non-Directive Play Therapy Play Therapy Approaches Non-Directive Play Therapy ¾ Founded by Virginia Axline in the mid-twentieth century ¾ Axline's Basic Principles of Non-Directive Play Therapy include: The therapist must develop a warm and friendly relationship with the child. The therapist accepts the child as she or he is. The therapist establishes a feeling of permission in the relationship so that the child feels free to express his or her feelings completely. Non-Directive Play Therapy The therapist Is alert to recognize the feelings the child is expressing and reflects these feelings back in such a manner that the child gains insight into his/her behaviour. The therapist maintains a deep respect for the child’s ability to solve his/her problems and gives the child the opportunity to do so. The responsibility to make choices and to institute change is the child’s. The therapist does not attempt to direct the child’s actions or conversations in any manner. The child leads the way, the therapist follows. 8 Non-Directive Play Therapy • The therapist does not hurry the therapy along. It is a gradual process and must be recognized as such by the therapist. • The therapist only establishes those limitations necessary to anchor the therapy to the world of reality and to make the child aware of his/her responsibility in the relationship (http://www.playtherapy.org.uk/Ab outPlayTherapy/AxlinePrinciples.h tm). Non-Directive Play Therapy Non-Directive Play Therapy: ¾forms the foundation of all play therapy ¾is also called “child-centred” play therapy, based on Carl Rogers client-centred therapy ¾the child completely directs the play. The therapist is nonintrusive and follows the child’s lead Non-Directive Play Therapy ¾the therapist observes the play and verbally tracks what child is doing (similar to play-byplay reporting) ¾the therapist provides the space and means for the child to express him/herself and play-out his/her experiences ¾is particularly useful in the assessment phase of therapy 9 Non-Directive Play Therapy Tenets for Relating to Children (Landreth, 2002; p. 54) : 1. 2. 3. 4. Children are not miniature adults. Children are people. Children are unique and worthy of respect. Children are resilient. Non-Directive Play Therapy 5. Children have an inherent tendency toward growth and maturity. 6. Children are capable of positive self-direction. 7. Children’s natural language is play. 8. Children have a right to remain silent. 9. Children will take the therapeutic experience to where they need to be. 10. Children’s growth cannot be speeded up. Play Therapy Approaches Directive Play Therapy ¾ directive techniques may be used in addition to nondirective methods as a way of being with a child ¾ the therapist participates in and/or directs (at times) the play ¾ the therapist actively interprets the child’s play, making the symbolism explicit 10 Directive Play Therapy ¾ when appropriate, the therapist introduces therapeutic activities, such as games, art, play themes, psycho-educational discussions, therapeutic books, externalization activities, and so on Play Therapy Dimensions Model The Play Therapy Dimensions Model ¾ developed by Ken Gardner and Lorri Yasenik, founders of the Rocky Mountain Play Therapy Institute in Calgary, Alberta ¾ the model postulates two primary dimensions to the therapy process: directiveness (the degree of immersion and level of interpretation used by the play therapist), and consciousness (as represented in the child’s play) Play Therapy Dimensions Model ¾ depending on the specific case and the therapist’s theoretical orientation, a clinician may work primarily in one of four quadrants, or may move across quadrants (this movement may occur across sessions or within one session) ¾ the quadrants are: Active Utilization Open Discussion and Exploration Non-Intrusive Responding Co-Facilitation 11 Four Quadrants Consciousness Active Utilization Open Discussion and Exploration Non-Directiveness Directiveness Non-Intrusive Responding Co-Facilitation Unconsciousness Play Therapy Dimensions Model Quadrant 1. Active Utilization ¾ Conscious/Non-Directive the therapist makes interpretive comments, such as making a connection between the play and what has occurred in real life the therapist brings a theme of the child’s play out into the open, but without interrupting the play the therapist triggers conscious responses from child Play Therapy Dimensions Model Quadrant 2. Open Discussion and Exploration ¾ Conscious/Directive the therapist initiates and structures an activity that is directly related to the child’s presenting problem the therapist uses a developmentally appropriate, cognitive play therapy approach the therapist provides conscious processing of the play and psycho-education to the child using therapeutic board games, role-playing, externalization activities, and so on this approach works well for anxiety and other issues requiring skill development 12 Play Therapy Dimensions Model Quadrant 3. Non-Intrusive Responding ¾ Unconscious/Non-Directive for example, Virginia Axline’s and Garry Landreth’s nondirective play therapy methods the child initiates and directs the play the therapist follows the child’s lead the therapist provides verbal tracking of the child’s play, with reflection of feelings the therapist may or may not join in the play when invited by the child when the therapist joins the play, she/he still asks for complete direction from the child (for example, in a stage whisper, “and then what does she say?”) Play Therapy Dimensions Model Quadrant 4. Co-Facilitation ¾ Unconscious/Directive initially the child directs the play following an invitation from the child, the therapist enters the play the therapist “stays in the play” and tests hypotheses or elaborates the play by inserting comments, actions, or subtle interpretations this may be used to interrupt compulsive repetition, incomplete, or circular play segments (such as when play becomes “stuck”) the therapist does not directly discuss or interpret the play the therapy works by shifting the play at an unconscious level (for example, when chaos shifts to more organization or when a new character is added as a “helper” to solve a problem or save the victim) Play Therapy Tools Toys and materials commonly used in play therapy include: ¾ baby doll ¾ baby toys ¾ nurturance toys such as a bottle, blanket, rocking chair, doll bed, stroller ¾ kitchen equipment ¾ play food ¾ dishes and utensils ¾ telephones 13 Play Therapy Tools ¾ play money ¾ cash register ¾ tool set ¾ dress-up clothes ¾ family of bendable dollhouse figurines (preferably of different races) ¾ dollhouse and furniture ¾ emergency vehicles (police, ambulance, fire truck) ¾ hospital and medical kit Play Therapy Tools ¾ animals: primitive (dinosaurs, snakes, alligators, bugs, spiders) wild (jungle [lions, tigers, giraffes, hippos, elephants, rhinos] and local animals [such as deer, moose, bears, cougars, coyotes, foxes, squirrels, rabbits], as well as birds [eagles, buzzards, owls, song birds]) water animals (sharks, whales, dolphins, fish, starfish, octopus, eels, sting rays domesticated (dogs, cats, horses, cows, pigs, goats, ducks, chickens) Play Therapy Tools ¾ fantasy figures (heroes, villains, and magical figures of both genders) ¾ toy soldiers and vehicles ¾ elements of nature (rocks, stones, trees, flowers, shells, twigs, bark, moss) ¾ jewel stones or crystals ¾ vehicles (airplanes, construction, trucks, cars, boats, train, school bus) ¾ weapons (optional, depending on personal preference) 14 Play Therapy Tools ¾ sand tray ¾ water tray ¾ art and craft supplies (Play-Doh/clay and tools, paper [white and coloured construction], felt pens, crayons, scissors, coloured pencils, paint, finger paints, glitter, beads, string, wool, fabric scraps, collage materials, mask-making supplies) ¾ musical instruments ¾ puppets and stuffed toys ¾ physical toys (balls, ring toss, dart board, basketball hoop, floor hockey sticks and ball, skipping rope) ¾ bopping doll Play Therapy Process Hypothesis Testing: Both hits and misses provide important information: ¾ Hits Intensifies play Elaborates play Pauses to process therapist’s response Increases affect Accepts/acknowledges therapist’s response Vehemently denies therapist’s response Pivots ¾ Misses (in content or timing) Ignores the therapist Corrects the therapist Distances her/himself from the therapist Stops playing Increase in anxiety De-intensifies the play theme Play Therapy Process Play Themes: Themes in a child’s play may represent: ¾ what the child has experienced or been exposed to ¾ reactions to what was experienced by the child ¾ feelings about what was experienced by the child ¾ what the child wishes, wants, or needs, and/or ¾ the child’s perception of her/himself, others, and/or the world (Landreth, 2002) 15 Play Therapy Process What To Watch For: ¾ content of play and symbols ¾ language surrounding play ¾ developmental level of play ¾ presence of regression or pseudo-maturity ¾ repetitive themes ¾ progression of themes/play story ¾ play disruption/pivoting ¾ post-traumatic play, especially when it becomes “stuck” ¾ affect and its’ intensity ¾ quality and level of interaction with the therapist Play Therapy Process ¾ be mindful about “over-analyzing” or “over-interpreting” – sometimes a cigar is just a cigar! ¾ best to have a balance and to be tentative in most of your interpretations ¾ remember that you are looking for patterns that persist over time which are accompanied by intense or incongruent emotion and/or are atypical for a child of that developmental level ¾ at the same time, pay attention to your “gut instinct” and when you sense a red flag ¾ it is important to seek supervision and consultation with colleagues on an ongoing basis Special Considerations ¾ Meeting with Parents/Caregivers Review confidentiality. Explain that parents/caregivers have a right to information concerning their child. However, therapy is often more effective when the child feels that he/she has a certain degree of privacy. Explain that, with parents’ permission, your preference is to respect confidentiality with the child as you would with other clients, but that if there is anything of concern or that is otherwise important for the parents to know, you will tell them (and will inform the child of this as well). 16 Special Considerations ¾ obtain background information to the problem, the child’s full medical and social history, and the parents’ view of the issue ¾ explain the process of play therapy ¾ explain that you would suggest regular meetings with them to obtain updates, as well as to provide them with general information about how therapy is progressing, themes arising in the play, and/or suggestions for strategies they can implement at home. Special Considerations ¾First Session With The Child: introduce yourself, tell the child by what name he/she may call you, and explain what you do describe what sessions will be like, including limit-setting talk about limits to confidentiality (age-appropriate) share with the child your knowledge of why they are coming to see you and ask her/him if there is anything he/she might like to add Special Considerations introduce the toys, saying something like, “In here you can play with any of the toys in most of the ways that you want”. if the child is extremely shy, uncomfortable, or reluctant to play with the toys, the therapist can choose a toy with which to start playing and acknowledge the feeling the child is exhibiting, for example, “sometimes its scary to come to a new place and meet a new person”. 17 Special Considerations ¾ Therapeutic Limit-Setting: reasons why children engage in behaviours that require limit-setting in the playroom: • they have not been taught otherwise • it is another way to show therapist what they have been through • they are testing whether the therapist will still want them to come • they are testing whether or not the therapist will follow through • the child wants to find out what the therapist does when angered; that is, how safe will I be with the therapist? Special Considerations the goal is to set limits while keeping the therapeutic relationship intact therapy cannot occur without limits limits are set only as the need arises limits are essential for maintaining the safety of the child, the therapist, the playroom, and the toys establishing limits communicates to a child that you will keep them safe Special Considerations limits help the child learn selfcontrol avoid inducing shame first reflect the child’s feeling, then in a calm, matter-of-fact and firm manner, state the limit. For example: “I can see that you want to throw that at me, but I am not for throwing things at. In here it is not okay for me to get hurt or for you to get hurt. Instead, you can throw that block at the big pillow”. 18 Special Considerations ¾ Refusal to Leave the Playroom: can be very challenging and stressful for both the child and the therapist acknowledge the feeling underlying the refusal to leave offer a fun way to leave the playroom have stickers/candy outside in the waiting room that they can choose once they have left the playroom allow the child to carry a toy with him/her, after explaining that they will need to give it back to you once he/she gets to the waiting room Special Considerations use a calendar to show the child when she/he will return for therapy and count how many sleeps until next visit draw a picture together or write a note and give to this to the child to take with him/her with children for whom this is regularly a challenge, • set up a ritual/routine for the end of the session (such as, cleaning up the toys, singing a song, having a snack) Special Considerations • provide reminders (10 minutes left…5 minutes left…2 minutes left) • use a timer that the child can be responsible for setting/turning off to give her/him some control In rare cases, there might be flat-out refusal to leave and/or acting-out behaviours (such as “trashing” the playroom) even after having tried the above strategies. In these cases, you may have to provide warnings (for example, count to 3) and, in the worse case scenario, get the child’s caregiver to remove the child. 19 Special Considerations ¾ Aggression: there are varying approaches and degrees of comfort with allowing aggression and aggressive toys (guns, knives, swords, grenades, and so on) in the play forms of aggression may include: • aggression toward the therapist • aggressive play involving the therapist • aggressive play toward babies and child figures in the play Special Considerations reasons for aggressive play may include: • catharsis • symbolic or actual reenactment of trauma • displaced anger care must be exercised in order to not allow the play to retraumatize the child Special Considerations ¾ Sexualized Play: it can be disturbing to see sexual content in a child’s play • reasons for sexualized behaviour may include: • neglect • domestic violence • physical violence • sexual abuse • exposure to inappropriate sexual material 20 Special Considerations it is okay to express not feeling comfortable when a child is acting in a sexual manner toward you and it is important to set limits. Immediately offer validation and provide messages of safety and caring. Suggest another means of demonstrating what it is the child needs to express, for example, “I don’t feel comfortable doing that, but you can show me with the toys”. offer reparative messages, either within the play or verbally Special Considerations ¾ Child Protection Concerns: When to call Child and Family Services: there is a disclosure of neglect or abuse there are repetitive themes in the play that are concerning and atypical (such as sexual content, portrayals of domestic violence, victimization, and so on) be prepared to come up against a misconception or a lack of awareness, in that thematic material occurring in play is sometimes not taken seriously. it is important to explain your rationale for being concerned in the end, keep in mind that it is your ethical and legal responsibility to report a concern, regardless of how the information is handled. Special Considerations ¾ Termination: • • • • • • provide notice and count down the days on a calendar process ending with the child decide together what to do in the last session ritual is often a helpful way to terminate. Some suggestions: have a party with special snack and decorations have a tea party teddy bear make “You Are Special” rocks make a treasure box write therapeutic letters 21 References and Resources Axline, V. (1947). Play therapy. Boston, MA: Houghton Mifflin Company. Barnes, M.A. (1996). The healing path with children: An exploration for parents and professionals. Kingston, ON: Viktoria, Fermoyle & Berrigan Publishing House. Crisci, G., Lay, M. & Lowenstein, L. (1997). Paper dolls and paper airplanes: Therapeutic exercises for sexually abused children. Charlotte, NC: Kidsrights. Gil, E. (2006). Helping abused and traumatized children: Integrating directive and non-directive approaches. New York: The Guilford Press. Gil, E. (19940. Play in family therapy. New York, NY: The Guilford Press. Gil, E. (1991). The healing power of play: Working with abused children. New York: The Guilford Press. References and Resources Kaduson, H.G., Cangelosi, D. & Schaefer, C. (1997). The playing cure: Individual play therapy for specific childhood problems. Northvale, NJ: Jason Aronson Inc. Landreth, G. (2002). Play therapy: The art of the relationship, 2nd Ed. New York, NY: Brunner-Routledge. Landreth, G. (2001). Innovations in play therapy: Issues, process, and special populations. New York,NY: Brunner-Routledge. Lubimiv, G.P. (1994). Wings for our children: Essentials of becoming a play therapist. Burnstown, ON: The General Store Publishing House. Oaklander, V. (1988). Windows to our children. Highland, NY: The Gestalt Journal Press. O’Connor, K.J. (2000). The play therapy primer, 2nd Ed. New York, NY: John Wiley & Sons, Inc. References and Resources Schaefer, C. & Kaduson, H. G. (Eds.) (2006). Contemporary play therapy: Theory, research, and practice. New York, NY: The Guilford Press. Schaefer, C. & Kaduson, H. G. (Eds.) (1997). 101 Favorite play therapy techniques. London: Jason Aronson Inc. Schaefer, C. & O’Connor, K.J. (1983). Handbook of play therapy. New York, NY: John Wiley & Sons. Straus, M.B. (1999). No-Talk therapy for children and adolescents. New York, NY: W.W. Norton and Company. Webb, N.B. (2007). Play therapy with children in crisis: Individual, group, and family treatment, 3rd Ed. New York, NY: The Guildford Press. Yasenik, L. & Gardner, K. (2004). Play therapy dimensions model: A decision-making guide for therapists. Calgary, AB: Rocky Mountain Play Therapy Institute. 22 References and Resources ¾Play Therapy Association Web Sites: www.albertaplaytherapy.ca www.cacpt.com www.a4pt.org www.playtherapy.org Contact Information Shanika Fridhandler, M.Sc., Prov. Psych. Clinical Consultant Healthy Minds/Healthy Children Outreach Richmond Road Diagnostic and Treatment Centre 1042 – A, 1820 Richmond Road S.W. Calgary, AB T2T 5C7 Phone: 403-955-8441 Fax: 403-955-8184 E-mail: [email protected] Lindsay Hope-Ross, M.Sc., R. Psych. Clinical Lead Healthy Minds/Healthy Children Outreach Richmond Road Diagnostic and Treatment Centre 1047 – 1820 Richmond Road S.W. Calgary, AB T2T 5C7 Phone: 403-955-8644 Fax: 403-955-8184 E-mail: [email protected] 23
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