Section 20. MUSIC (3 Terms)

The Difference Between a
Money Prenup and a Couple Prenup™
HOSTILITY vs FUN
Preparing a Money Prenup is usually a hostile affair with substantial negative emotions and love
consequences.
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Preparing the Couple Prenup™ is fun and healthy for the marriage or relationship. It can be done in one
or more fun sessions anywhere.
PURPOSE
The purpose of a Money Prenup is to protect the assets and income of the wealthier spouse in a divorce
or breakup.
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The purpose of the Couple Prenup™ is to make sure a divorce or breakup does not happen.
COST
All Money Prenups should be prepared by an attorney who is knowledgeable and experienced with
them. Also, each party should have their own attorney, because their positions are in conflict. This will
cost thousands of dollars.
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Preparing the Couple Prenup™ costs only $2.99. You have no need for an attorney.
Why wait another day
to improve or save your relationship?
THE COUPLE PRENUP AGREEMENT
The success of a marriage or relationship is in the details. The Couple Prenup™ is all about the
details with over 300 terms in the agreement. Adopt the terms you want and get rid of the
ones you don’t. The Couple Prenup Agreement™ is divided into 40 sections that pretty much
cover almost all of areas of a marriage or serious relationship.
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THE 40 SECTIONS OF
THE COUPLE PRENUP AGREEMENT™
Section 1: How We Treat Each Other
Section 22. Technology
Section 2: Entertainment
Section 23. Time Apart
Section 3: Work
Section 24. Trust
Section 4: Housing
Section 25. Blended Family
Section 5: Infidelity
Section 26. Volunteer Work and Charity
Section 6: Vacations
Section 27. Prejudices
Section 7: Communication
Section 28. Social Media
Section 8: Irritating Habits
Section 29. Vehicles
Section 9. Meals
Section 30. Wedding
Section 10. Physical Appearance
Section 31. Expectations/Problems/Concerns
Section 11. Relatives
Section 32. Health
Section 12. Friends
Section 33. Counseling
Section 13. Housework
Section 34. Boredom
Section 14. Hobbies
Section 35. Finances
Section 15. Pets
Section 36. Alcohol, Drug Use and Other
Section 16. Public Display of Affection (PDA)
Addictions
Section 17. Children
Section 37. Domestic Violence
Section 18. Spirituality
Section 38. Politics
Section 19. Sports
Section 39. House Decorating
Section 20. Music
Section 40. Discussing Problem Issues or
Section 21. Physical Intimacy
Concerns
HERE ARE 12 SAMPLES OF THE TERMS OF THE COUPLE PRENUP AGREEMENT
FROM DIFFERENT SECTIONS IN NO PARTICULAR ORDER
You are able to modify any term of the agreement as you and partner agree.
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1. I agree that it is very important for our relationship to treat each other with (choose all that apply)
 Respect
 Tolerance
 Patience
 Consideration
 Honesty
 Good communication
 Other __________
9. I agree that once a month or every three months we will decide on a new activity or location, etc.
for us to engage in our entertainment.
 _______________ always chooses.
 We alternate
 We flip a coin
 We each choose two alternatives, and then we alternate by discarding one at a time
 One of us chooses two or three alternatives, and then the other person chooses one
 Other method
7. I agree not to criticize my partner in front of anyone.
 Yes
 No
11. I agree that the two of us are equal partners in our relationship and have the right to not be
bossed around by the other.
 Yes
 No
12. If my partner wants to sound off at me, I agree to actually listen for
 1 minute
 2 minutes
 3 minutes
 4 minutes
 5 minutes
 No
11. I agree to maintain my weight at no more than __________ pounds over an agreed weight.
 Ten
 Fifteen
 Twenty
 Twenty-five
 Other
1. I agree that if both of us are working fulltime that we will share the housework equally.
 Yes
 No
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2. I agree to have sex with my partner __________.
 Daily
 At least once a week
 Once a month
 When I feel like it
21. I agree that every three months we will decide on a new position, activity, or location for us to
have sex, and a new type of foreplay.
 _______________ always chooses.
 We alternate
 We flip a coin
 We each choose two alternatives, and then we alternate by discarding one at a time
 One of us chooses two or three alternatives, and then the other person chooses one
 Other method
7. I agree to adjust my sharing of my and my partner’s life on social media according to my partner’s
requests.
 Yes
 No

5. I agree to exercise more than once a week.
 Yes
 No
1. I agree that if my partner and I cannot agree in choosing the decorating style for each room of our
house that we will use the following method to decide.
 _______________ always chooses.
 We alternate
 We flip a coin
 We each choose two alternatives, and then we alternate by discarding one at a time
 One of us chooses two or three alternatives, and then the other person chooses one
 Other method
THE FOLLOWING IS A SHORT DESCRIPTION OF EACH OF THE
SECTIONS AND WHY THEY ARE IMPORTANT
SECTION 1: HOW WE TREAT EACH OTHER (5 TERMS)
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This section is a must for a great relationship. The terms go from to agreeing not to treat your partner
with contempt to agreeing to listen if asked.
SECTION 2: ENTERTAINMENT (9 TERMS)
If you are not in agreement with what constitutes entertainment, problems will arise. Also, in the ninth
term in this section, you can agree not to allow boredom into your relationship.
SECTION 3: WORK (14 TERMS)
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Work can be a major problem. Who works. How often. Going into business. This section covers all of
the potential resentments concerning this area.
SECTION 4: HOUSING (6 TERMS)
This section has terms as to where you agree to live, in general, and specifics including an agreed time
limit on commuting. Also, it includes agreement terms on buying a home.
SECTION 5: INFIDELITY (5 TERMS)
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This is an important section because a written agreement not to cheat is much stronger than a general
understanding that no one will. It also deals with flirting and even looking at attractive people when
your partner is present. Once again – get it in writing.
SECTION 6: VACATIONS (8 TERMS)
Resentments can be avoided using this section. Do you agree to take separate vacations, vacationing
with friends or relatives? Who chooses the type of vacation? They all are covered in this section.
SECTION 7: COMMUNICATION (14 TERMS)
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Communication is vital and there are 14 terms in this section. Once again it is in the details. The below
three terms are vital, and easily violated if only a general or oral understanding. The rest of the section
details set times for communication, compliments and thanking your partner.
SECTION 8: IRRITATING HABITS (3 TERMS)
This section is necessary because irritating habits can build a huge resentment quickly or over time.
SECTION 9. MEALS (15 TERMS)
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Meals in and out are extremely important. This section has terms on who cooks, who cleans, and is
eating together important. It sure is. What are the manners you agree on?
SECTION 10. PHYSICAL APPEARANCE (15 TERMS)
There are health issues here, and exercise programs. This section also discusses hair, clothes and the
overall changing of a general look.
SECTION 11. RELATIVES (10 TERMS)
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How annoying can relatives be, and how important they are? This section has terms that easily make
the issues of relatives a nonissue.
SECTION 12. FRIENDS (9 TERMS)
Just as the relative’s section is important, the issues of friends need to be addressed. When can friends
come over? Attitude is crucial also and is a term of the agreement.
SECTION 13. HOUSEWORK (9 TERMS)
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Housework differences can be a relationship breaker. This section solves that problem. Agreed terms
are made so that resentments don’t appear. What is fair can differ between couples. What about
tidying up after yourself? How important is that? Get it in writing.
SECTION 14. HOBBIES (3 TERMS)
Respect for your partner is put into terms you can live with.
SECTION 15. PETS (8 TERMS)
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Pets are important to almost everyone. However, problems can arise. Should a medium to large dog be
allowed to sleep with you? Who cares for the pet or pets? How many pets will there be? Work the
issues out before resentments arise. This section does that.
SECTION 16. PUBLIC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION (PDA) (6 TERMS)
From holding hands to unwanted major kissing or fondling is all discussed in this section. This is
important in the details of respect for your partner.
SECTION 17. CHILDREN (20 TERMS)
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Some of these terms are not necessary for couples. However, if you want or have children, please do
not allow the differences over children arise in your relationship. These 20 terms work on all of the
issues that can tear apart a relationship.
SECTION 18. SPIRITUALITY (8 TERMS)
This subject needs to be addressed in every relationship. These 8 terms discuss not making a partner
uncomfortable, religious choices and attendance at events.
SECTION 19. SPORTS (3 TERMS)
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Some couples will ignore this section. Other couples will need an agreement on these three terms
because one partner does not care and does not understand the importance of sports to some people.
SECTION 20. MUSIC (3 TERMS)
This section is similar to the sports section. To some, involvement with music is vital to their life. To
others music is irrelevant. These 3 terms can sort out the issues on music with a couple.
SECTION 21. PHYSICAL INTIMACY (21 TERMS)
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This subject is vital. There are 21 terms and they discuss the details like the above two. The terms range
from what a partner is willing to do, to cuddling after sex, to how important attitude is. Term 211
prevents sexual boredom arising. Frustration over sex can destroy the relationship. Talk it out with the
aid of this section
SECTION 22. TECHNOLOGY (6 TERMS)
This section has terms about smart homes, and playing video or online games. Work out a compromise
concerning the issues before resentment shows up in both parties.
SECTION 23. TIME APART (2 TERMS)
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This section is necessary because of the difference between partners. Make an agreement here to
respect the wishes of both parties.
SECTION 24. TRUST (2 TERMS)
Trust is necessary in a happy relationship. Lies kill it and the relationship. There are only two terms
here, but they need to be agree to.
SECTION 25. BLENDED FAMILY (15 TERMS)
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This is a section that can be deleted by many couples. However, for those that do have a blended
family, there are going to be major issues and resentments unless they are dealt with in this section.
SECTION 26. VOLUNTEER WORK AND CHARITY (5 TERMS)
Rarely discussed, this section is important to avoid issues of the parties on differing views on
volunteering and charity. Please do not dismiss this section.
SECTION 27. PREJUDICES (3 TERMS)
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This section is necessary to prevent hurting your partner. Behavior in private and in public need to be
addressed.
SECTION 28. SOCIAL MEDIA (7 TERMS)
This section can be tough. The terms discuss passwords, accounts and access to the social media of your
partner. Aspects of trust come into these terms. Solve the problem here before they show up and hurt
your relationship.
SECTION 29. VEHICLES (4 TERMS)
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The 4 terms here must be discussed with the understanding of the value of compromise and different
couples will handle them differently.
SECTION 30. WEDDING (8 TERMS)
This is only necessary for the couples that might get married. However, if a wedding is possible the
issues in this section should be discussed and agreed to with compromises. They range from who pays,
to how much the wedding will cost, to where and how the couple is married.
SECTION 31. EXPECTATIONS/PROBLEMS/CONCERNS (3 TERMS)
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The three terms in this section discuss how often problems or concerns are discussed, what attitude is
to be used when agreeing to something to not being overbearing with your partner.
SECTION 32. HEALTH (13 TERMS)
This section is vital to every relationship. If you lose your health, you have lost everything.
This is a section of both parties helping each other to keep healthy - physically, emotionally and
spiritually. This includes exercising and having a healthy diet. It also talks about a major disability or
disease.
SECTION 33. COUNSELING (1 TERMS)
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The term in this section is not going to be agreed to by some individuals who don’t believe in seeing a
counselor who can be a relationship counselor, priest or pastor, or a friend.
SECTION 34. BOREDOM (4 TERMS)
This subject can take the love and romance out of the relationship quickly. The terms here recognize
that fighting boredom is very important. Since it is in the details, there are terms in many of the other
sections that specifically talk about doing new things in entertainment, meals, sex and other subjects.
SECTION 35. FINANCES (11 TERMS)
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Finances are one of the major causes of the destruction of a relationship. The 11 terms of this section
make sure that you will not have such problems. They range from who pays the bills to how to handle
investments to lending to friends and relatives. If a catastrophe happens, such as losing your job, the
trust developed using the terms of this section will help you as a couple get through the bad times.
SECTION 36. ALCOHOL, DRUG USE AND OTHER ADDICTIONS (2
TERMS)
In these times, addictions can happen to many people. This section contains terms that there is an
agreement to listen to your partner, seek counseling, and if necessary, you will have agreed to go to
rehab or not. Compromise is perhaps necessary in this section.
SECTION 37. DOMESTIC VIOLENCE (4 TERMS)
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If your partner will not agree to the 4 terms in this section, you must immediately review your
relationship. There is no place for physical or emotional abuse.
SECTION 38. POLITICS (6 TERMS)
Because positions on political issues can be very divisive, please review and agree to terms that will stop
differing views ruining a wonderful relationship.
SECTION 39. HOUSE DECORATING (5 TERMS)
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Decorating or landscaping a house can result in a lot of resentments. Every one of these resentments
can be prevented by working on the terms in this section.
SECTION 40. DISCUSSING PROBLEM ISSUES OR CONCERNS (4 TERMS)
These four terms give you a detailed method to discuss problems. Term #3 is of vital importance,
because some people are nonconfrontational.
If both of you use this Couple Prenup™ sincerely and do what you agree to do, we can absolutely
guarantee a relationship filled with love and romance.
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