The Local Leadership Training Manual CISV – USA 2006 CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 1 Table of Contents Introduction ......................................................................... 3 Chapter 1 ............................................................................ 5 CISV Background and Philosophy Chapter 2 .......................................................................... 17 Personal Attitudes and Values Chapter 3 .......................................................................... 20 Cultural Sensitivity Chapter 4 .......................................................................... 32 Roles and Responsibilities Chapter 5 .......................................................................... 52 Leadership Styles Chapter 6 .......................................................................... 60 Risk Management: Health, Legal, and Safety Issues Chapter 7 .......................................................................... 83 Program Guide Chapter 8 .......................................................................... 85 Communication Chapter 9 .......................................................................... 91 Working with Parents Chapter 10 ....................................................................... 97 Age Characteristics Chapter 11 ....................................................................... 105 Planning an Activity Chapter 12 ....................................................................... 109 “What Ifs” Chapter 13 ....................................................................... 117 Post CISV Experience Appendix 1........................................................................ 124 Local, National, and International Support Appendix 2........................................................................ 131 CISV Forms Appendix 3........................................................................ 133 Activities Appendix 4........................................................................ 145 Song Book CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 2 INTRODUCTION Welcome to the 2006 edition of The Local Leadership Training Manual. We hope that you will find it to be extremely useful and helpful. The purpose of this manual is to provide CISV Leaders, Program Staff and JCs with background information, tips and ideas to help enhance their CISV experience. The manual is also designed to help provide consistency in local leadership training from Chapter to Chapter in the USA and from year to year. Like any training material, this manual will always have room for improvement. Your feedback on the manual is vital to the continued development and improvement of our training program for CISV USA. This manual focuses on the elements that are required to be covered by local leadership trainers. The following table summarizes what is covered at LOCAL TRAINING versus NATIONAL TRAINING: LOCAL TRAINING 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11. 12. 13. 14. CISV Background and Philosophy Personal Attitudes and Values Cultural Sensitivity Roles and Responsibilities Leadership Styles Risk Management and First Aid CISV Forms Program Guide Communication Working with Parents Age Characteristics Planning an Activity “What Ifs” Post CISV Experience NATIONAL TRAINING 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. Cultural Sensitivity Risk and Incident Management Decision Making Group Behavior and Team Building Educational Content Evaluation Conflict Management Local Leadership Trainers should cover the items listed in bold type with all CISV Leaders, Staff, JCs and Seminar participants during Session 1. The remaining items are required for Leaders and JCs and will be covered during Session 2. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 3 1. The sections in this manual are there to be used as a guideline for your experience in a CISV program. Feel free to make copies of any sections to use with your delegations and families. The first page of each chapter contains an overview and purpose statement as well as a list of important handouts. Most of the handouts are included within this manual; if you are unable to locate a specific handout, please contact your Local Leadership Trainers. 2. The following list provides the current dates of CISV Program and Training Guides: Village Guide (2004) Village Host Staff Training Guide (2004) Summer Camp Guide (2003) Interchange Guide (2004) International Leadership Training Guide (2005) The appropriate Guide for your program is located on CISV International’s website http://resources.cisv.org. All guides, handbooks, and forms needed for use in this LLT Manual are also available at http://support.cisvusa.org where program forms are bundled according to role. 3. Please bear in mind that some sections of this manual make use of “he” when both “he” and “she” is intended. This has been done both to save space and to improve readability. 4. The first USA version of this Manual was prepared and organized by the Dallas Chapter’s Local Leadership Trainers, Linda Ratliff and Danny Poellot. The National Leadership Training Committee is grateful for their hard work and generosity in making this tool available for all USA Chapters and Steering Committees. In addition, the 2000 National Workshop for Leadership Trainers heavily influenced the contents of this manual. Both facilitators were instrumental in providing handouts and ideas. We offer many thanks to Gill Benson Uy, CISV Toronto, Canada and Jeff Parliament, CISV Waterloo, Canada for their continued guidance and support. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 4 Chapter 1: CISV Background and Philosophy What is covered in this Chapter? This Chapter is the starting point for our CISV Training Program. It provides background and historical information on CISV, facts about CISV USA, goals of the specific programs as well as international guidelines that govern all CISV programs. Why is it important? It is essential that all Leaders have knowledge of the goals of CISV at the outset of their CISV experience because these goals provide the framework from which all programs are designed. Leaders should instill these philosophies in their Delegates and Parents by planning group discussions and activities that fall in at least one of the categories of the CISV Education Circle. It will be easier for Leaders to facilitate planning meetings and heighten the program experience of their Delegates and Parents if the group as a whole understands the purpose and goals of CISV. Important Handouts. The Five CISV Principles CISV Philosophy, Educational and Program Goals CISV International Statement on Peace CISV Info File R-10 (9508) CISV Education Circle Specific Program Goals The CISV Song CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 5 2005 CISV USA Facts in Brief Maintained 20 Chapters in Ada-Findlay-Lima, Ohio; Brandywine Valley, Pennsylvania; Chattanooga, Tennessee; Cincinnati, Ohio; Dallas, Texas; Denver, Colorado; Detroit, Michigan; Gulf Coast, Mississippi; Jacksonville, Florida; Knoxville, Tennessee; Orono, Maine; Miami County, Ohio; Michigan City, Indiana; New York, New York; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania; San Francisco, California; Springfield, Massachusetts; Washington, D.C; and Youngstown-Cleveland, Ohio. Maintained Steering Committees (a pre-chapter status) in Omaha, Nebraska; Columbus, Ohio; and Atlanta, Georgia. Sent 50 delegations of 11 year olds and adult leaders to international Villages in 23 different countries, including the USA. Two hundred fifty (250) children and adults from all 20 Chapters and the Omaha, Columbus and Atlanta Steering Committees took part in this CISV program. Hosted 9 Villages in the United States in Brandy Wine Valley, Chattanooga, Cincinnati, Dallas, Maine, Michigan City, Pittsburgh, San Francisco and Springfield. Delegates, leaders, and Junior Counselors totaling 572 attended the various USA Villages. Sent 31 Junior Counselors to Villages in the United States and 10 other countries. Started 23 new Interchanges with families in 9 countries. Sponsored 24 Seminar Camp delegates from 18 Chapters. Camps in the USA and 8 other countries. Hosted a Seminar Camp in Detroit, Michigan for 19 delegates from around the world. Sent 13 Summer Camp delegations of 13 to 15 year olds to programs in 12 countries. A total of 65 youth and adult leaders from 13 Chapters participated in this activity. Hosted the first ever CISV USA National Camp in Jacksonville Florida. Sent 12 delegates to International Youth Meetings in Brazil, Germany, Italy and Sweden. Sent delegates to an International People’s Project in Germany. Conducted Local Work programs in the USA Chapters and the Steering Committees. Was represented at the Annual International Meeting and the International Junior Branch Conference held in Thailand by fifteen participants, in addition to the CISV USA members who serve as International officers or committee chairs. CISV USA The delegates attended The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 6 CISV Background and History Following the devastating effects of World War II and the hope generated by the creation of the United Nations, Dr. Doris Twitchell Allen, a psychologist at the University of Cincinnati (USA), founded CISV. She saw CISV as a way to prevent the horrors of World War II in the future. By bringing together young people from different countries and cultures she hoped to “sow the seeds” for personal bonds and for an appreciation of cultural differences. In this way she wanted to prevent the development of prejudices as these youngsters would grow up. Her long-range goal was a better, more peaceful future. Now, many years later, these thoughts still take up a central position in CISV’s philosophy. In 1951 the first CISV Village, a unique program for pre-adolescents, was conducted in Cincinnati, Ohio. By 1956 a constitution for the International Association of CISV was adopted at the annual meeting in Sweden. Soon members and past participants were demanding additional international programs. The Interchange Program was established in 1962 and reunion villages were reorganized into the Seminar Camp Program in 1971. Local Work designed to promote orientation and “follow-up” work at the Local Chapter level achieved co-equal program status in 1980. CISV’s premise is that individuals can best build peace when they have learned to live amicably, regardless of race, creed, culture or nationality. Thus cooperation, peace education, global thinking, respect for other points of view, non-violent conflict management and cross-cultural communication are important ingredients of CISV programs. Learning by doing and sharing responsibility in the daily process of decision-making are elements that can be found in all CISV activities. Education in CISV is a process where all can contribute, where everyone can gain through the talents of others and where an open mind is as important as one’s experience. CISV has grown from 55 participants representing 9 nations in 1951 to more than 100,000 program participants from 93 nations in 1992. Today over 9,000 participants learn to live and work together in peace and friendship in approximately 200 multi-national CISV programs each year. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 7 CISV International The CISV International Association is responsible for the cooperation, coordination and communication between CISV National Associations as well as for directing the progress and growth of CISV programs. The International Office performs the day-to-day work under the leadership of the President of CISV International and the Secretary General. The Five CISV Principles 1. That individuals will make close friendships around the world, that is, that countries will become known to them in terms of close friends rather than as abstract places on a map, or a stereotype built up from ignorance or limited experience. 2. That individuals will become aware of basic likenesses of all humans, and at the same time come to know and appreciate differences. 3. That individuals will develop personalities that are essentially free from barriers, for example, essentially free from the barrier of prejudice. 4. That individuals will acquire skills of communication with other individuals and with groups, even when many languages are represented and where no common language exists. 5. That individuals will acquire an active desire for world peace and a desire to work for it. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 8 CISV Philosophy CISV programs operate in accordance with the principles of the United Nations Universal Declaration of Human Rights, the United Nations Declaration of the Rights of the Child and UNESCO’s 1974 “Recommendation Concerning Education for International Understanding, Cooperation and Peace,” and “Education Relating to Human Rights and Fundamental Freedoms.” CISV programs foster a spirit of understanding, friendship, peace and global interdependence within youth demonstrating leadership potential irrespective or race, religion, political affiliation, sex or social/economic background. CISV was founded with the knowledge that transnational educational programs are most effective before substantial cultural perspectives or prejudices are formed. Accordingly, CISV programs begin with preadolescents (age 11). Continued participation is possible through other activities for teens (age 12-18) and adults. CISV’s emphasis is to contribute to peace by providing both national and international experiences which: Provide knowledge/information and the ability to process data concerning global issues, cross-cultural communication and non-violent conflict resolution; Encourage people to take responsibility for their own actions; Foster the decision-making abilities of individuals; Encourage involvement by participants, as individuals, in their local, national and international environments; Help produce mature informed citizens of the world; and Encourage involvement of participants in global cooperation and peace fostering activities. CISV educational programs are non-political and non-religious. Indoctrination is carefully avoided and cultural, religious and political preferences are respected. As an organization committed to the value of each individual, CISV neither practices nor tolerates discrimination within its programs or administration at any level. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 9 CISV Educational Goals CISV operates its educational programs for youth who exhibit leadership potential irrespective of race, religion, political affiliation, sex or socio-economic background. In some countries limited travel grants for qualified participants are available at the chapter/national level. CISV peace education programs operate on the premise that there is hope for the future and that the actions of individuals can and do have significance in community, national and international affairs. CISV programs emphasize friendship as an important element in learning to resolve conflict and live together amicably despite cultural differences. CISV educates through action and its activities stress cooperation rather than competition as an important educational method. CISV activities include aspects of program planning and administration by participating youth to develop skills in fair decision-making, leadership and recognizing responsibility for individual and group behavior. CISV’s Adult Delegates, on-site Staff, Junior Branch members or local volunteers provide appropriate program guidance and maintain safety/conduct consistent with local laws and CISV rules. CISV programs are based upon organizational goals that provide inspirational and educational value beyond any benefit solely gained from individually structured travel programs. CISV programs involve short-term sojourns or home stays with group activities during summer and major school holidays rather than longterm academic exchanges. CISV experiences form an important component in developing a global perspective and philosophy in life and an active desire to work for peace. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 10 CISV Program Goals for Participants To appreciate the likenesses and interdependence of all people while respecting and finding interest in the differences; To develop respect and appreciation for the way of life in other cultures; To provide the participants with experiences requiring cross-cultural cooperation in a natural setting; To provide the participants with knowledge and experience about everyday life in another culture; To develop the ability to behave constructively and flexibly when interacting with persons of another culture; To provide all participants with better cross-cultural understanding by having interesting and stimulating experiences as “family members” in another culture or as members of a “global society” within a multinational camp; To develop effective communication skills even where there is no common language or cultural perspective; To develop skills in resolving conflicts without violence and stimulate a desire to work actively for peace; To promote international friendships and a sense of personal responsibility for family, community and national behavior; and To provide a source of leadership for creating national and global communities respectful of cultural diversity, human rights and our physical environment. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 11 CISV International Statement on Peace by the Board of Directors Issued on August 11, 1993, at Newcastle, Great Britain We deplore the confrontations taking place in various regions of the world, as well as the degradation of the natural heritage and human dignity. These developments threaten the very existence of humanity. CISV is a non-governmental organization, educating young people around the world towards peace, and encouraging its members to act upon the following concerns, consistent with CISV philosophy: Lack of intercultural awareness Violations of human and particularly children’s rights Denial of access to education and possibilities for personal growth Internal and regional conflicts Tense international relations Underdevelopment Deterioration of the environment We urge all peoples of the world to work together for the peaceful settlement of all conflicts since, above all else, we wish to live together in harmony without the fear and the consequences of all sorts of violence and intolerance. Statement of CISV Educational Purpose Info File R-10 (9508) CISV’s purpose is to prepare individuals to become active and contributing members of a peaceful society. CISV endeavors to stimulate the life-long development of amicable relationships, effective communication skills, cooperative abilities and appropriate leadership towards a fair and just world. CISV volunteer programs and activities are planned to promote personal, cultural, intercultural, and international learning. This enables individuals to develop awareness of and positive attitudes towards others, and the skills and knowledge to live, play and work with them, irrespective of cultural background. Through participation, individuals come to better understand themselves and their own culture as well as others and their cultures. CISV offers opportunities for interested children, young people, adults and their families to explore relevant themes through independent, short-term, non-formal educational activities organized in international, national and local contexts. These may be in either residential or non-residential settings and are offered to qualified participants irrespective of gender, race, religion, ethnicity, political affiliation, socio-economic background, or distinction of any other kind. This summarizes the educational aspect of the Goals of CISV International stated in Article 2 of the Constitution, passed in 1961 and reaffirmed at the IBM in 1995. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 12 The CISV Education Circle International Education Global Awareness Education · Holistic view/universe as a whole · Education for world citizenship · Earth as life support system · Inter-connectedness of life · Inter-dependence of individuals (close or far) · Inter-relation of people and nations · International relations · Non-war attitude · Disarmament · International politics · Diplomatic/non-violent conflict resolution · History · Geography Human Rights Education · Fundamental freedoms · Justice · Individual rights · Civil rights · Women’s rights · Children’s rights · Minorities’ rights · Against prejudices: *ethnocentrism *xenophobia *religious intolerance *racism, etc. Human Relations Education PEACE EDUCATION Environmental Education · Caring attitude towards earth · Inter-relation man/environment · Influence of changes on earth eco-systems · Sense of responsibility for the world · Impact of one’s behavior on the quality of life of others · Go along with nature CISV USA Intercultural Education · Cross-cultural awareness · Cultural sensitivity · Cultural differences and perspectives · Awareness of own/others “cultural lens” · Importance of diversity · Cultural shock · Languages · Religions · Group life/group interaction · Cooperation · Group dynamics · Problem-solving · Crisis management · Protective/solidarity behavior · Denial and defense mechanisms · Communication skills: *non-verbal *empathy *dialogue *negotiation, etc. Small Peace Education Development Education · Education for international solidarity · Quality of life · Social Justice · Wealth distribution · Provisions of basic needs: *education *food *housing *health, etc. · Peace at the individual and the small-group level · Knowledge about oneself · Ability to relate individual values · Ethics, trust, honesty The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 13 CISV Program Goals CISV is for all ages: Village: 11 years old Interchange: 12-15 years old Summer Camp: 13-15 years old Junior Counselor: 16-17 years old Seminar Camp: 17-18 years old International People’s Project: 19 years and older Village Junior Staff: 19-20 years old Village, Interchange & Summer Camp Leaders: 21 years and older Village, Summer Camp & Seminar Camp Staff: 21 years and older Junior Branch is for youth until they reach the age of 25. In addition to the programs offered in CISV, there are always opportunities to volunteer at the local, national and international levels. Village The aims of the Village Program are: To provide an experience in active co-existence by creating a model of a society where its participants can learn the values of consideration for and cooperation with their fellow “villagers” in various activities including practical work; To provide the opportunity to participate creatively in decisionmaking; and To use the Village as a place for learning to understand and appreciate different cultures. Interchange The aims of the Interchange Program are: To develop individual and group attitudes consistent with the CISV philosophy through group activities; CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 14 To encourage understanding of another culture by living in that culture as a family member; and To incorporate these experiences into the daily lives of the participants and their families. Summer Camp The aims of the Summer Camp Program are: To encourage understanding of other cultures through participation in an international camp; To provide an experience where its participants can learn the value of consideration for and cooperation with their fellow campers; To provide the environment where youth can learn to take the initiative towards leadership and program responsibility; and To use the camp as a place to learn to overcome prejudices, to help build up self-confidence and to stimulate critical thinking. Seminar Camp The aims of the Seminar Camp Program are: To create a special environment which helps the participants to discover and formulate their own opinions about international and intercultural problems by exposing them to the ideas of young people from other nations and cultures; To provide a group living experience in which young people can examine their own motives, gain insight into their own behavior, and that of others, and appreciate the responsibilities involved in group living; To create a special environment which teaches the participants to accept conflict as a part of daily life and gives them practice in recognizing and coming to a resolution of these conflicts; To stimulate in young people an interest in the world and a sense of responsibility for its preservation as a basis for human survival; and To explore possibilities for individuals to increase the participation in shaping their own lives. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 15 The CISV Song Here in this Village you may see, Children living happily, Different race and different land, Here we come to understand, One another’s point of view, Learning through the things we do, How alike am I to you. Here we live and eat and sleep, Talk and laugh and sometimes weep, Here we share our hopes and fears, Build a bridge across the years, Sow a seed and plant a tree, Beneath whose branches there may be, All the nations gathered free. That our children so may grow, In a world we did not know, Sharing all they have to give, Learning how to love and live, In our hands the future lies, Seize the moment ‘ere it flies, Stamp the present with an act, Dare to make our dream a fact. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 16 Chapter 2: Personal Attitudes and Values What is covered in this Chapter? This Chapter explores the impact that personal values and attitudes have on the way we interact with other people and how we experience different events. Why is it important? Values contribute to our own personal identities and help us learn why some things we value are more important than others. In addition, we are able to recognize that there are both values that we could not live without and values that we could. Values allow us to learn more about our own culture as well as other cultures. They also help us learn to understand and accept differences between ourselves and other people. Important Handouts. Attitude Change and Personal Growth in CISV CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 17 Attitude Change and Personal Growth in CISV What is a Value? A value is something You cherish or believe in You learn from early childhood You publicly affirm or stand up for A value is a guiding force that determines the choices that we make in living our lives. Values differ from person to person and from culture to culture. These differences sometimes lead to misunderstandings and conflict. Growth in CISV In CISV we try to look beyond cultural differences by focusing on our similarities. Only by looking more closely at ourselves, our attitudes and values, can we begin to understand others and see the similarities and appreciate the differences. The following diagram represents how personal attitudes and values change as a result of personal growth, such as through a CISV experience. A Media Tradition Government Culture Family Religion Education History Personal Attitudes and Values B Relationships with Others CISV Experience Activities Similarities and Differences between Cultures Similarities Differences Relationships CISV Experience C Personal Attitudes and Values CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 18 A - Before CISV experience Attitudes, values and cultural differences are influenced by sources of information you are exposed to and the environment in which you live. B - During CISV experience You are encouraged to look at what you consider to be important and why. This helps you to compare your own values to those held by others. This can lead to personal growth through awareness and respect for other cultures or can lead to the development of stereotypes. Stereotypes can limit or prevent a person from discovering the deeper, more personal characteristics of people from other cultures. C - After CISV experience You achieve personal growth from awareness of one’s own values and cultures as well as that of others. What do You Value? (A suggested activity for your Delegation) Time Needed: approximately 30-45 minutes Purpose: To get your Delegates to think about what they value Method: Present the following questions to the participants and then discuss, ensuring that everyone accept each person’s response without judgment. 1. While walking down the street you find a $100 bill. There appears to be no one around. What would you do? 2. If someone does something to anger you, do you tell him? 3. If you had a weekend to do whatever you wished, which would you prefer – a weekend in a big city, a camping trip in a secluded area or stay at home? 4. Given your choice of never being able to leave your state or being able to go anywhere in the world but never return to your state, which would you choose? 5. You are at lunch with your friends and you notice that one of them has some food caught between his teeth – do you tell him? 6. You rescue a small child from drowning and the paper wants to write a feature story on your heroic efforts. Do you think the publicity would be flattering or do you wish they would leave you alone? CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 19 Chapter 3: Cultural Sensitivity What is covered in this Chapter? This Chapter addresses various issues regarding cultural sensitivity that is at the heart of all CISV experiences. Included are some ideas of activities that can be used to help further explore this topic. Why is it important? In CISV we interact with people from various cultural backgrounds. The differences between cultures can sometimes cause some difficulty. It is important that all CISV Leaders are aware of the important role that cultural sensitivity plays in all CISV programs and gain some skills to help them address these issues with their Delegates, thus enhancing the CISV experience for each member of the Delegation. Important Handouts. Cultural Iceberg An Asian View of Cultural Differences Awareness and Sensitivity Toward Other Cultures Gestures Culture Shock Coping with Culture Shock CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 20 Why Bother with Cultural Sensitivity? “While traveling in Algeria a number of years ago I was met in the Sahara by some nomadic herdsmen. They invited me back to their camp where a goat was slaughtered in my honor and couscous was prepared for the entire group of about sixty people. As an honored guest I was told to eat first. I immediately obliged by digging my hand into the steaming bowl of food. Instantly the room (tent) was silent in disbelief. The feast was over; none would eat. I had used my left hand, taboo in this culture. From that day on, I decided to sit on my left hand whenever I traveled in the Middle East so that I would receive everything in my right hand. While living in China a couple of years ago I quickly found out that this rule wouldn’t work. To be polite it was necessary to receive teacups with both hands.” Unknown Author From birth onward, each child is encouraged to be ethnocentric – to believe that his homeland, people, language, his everything is not only different but also superior to that of other people. In other places, they (“barbarians”, “foreigners”) follow a strange way of life. Ours is the culture; theirs is a culture. In CISV we interact with other cultures, and as we do this it becomes apparent that certain aspects of culture are shared by two or more cultures while other characteristics remain unique. Our goal is to find common points in all the cultures present so that we have a foundation for communication. Culture A Start point for communication CISV USA Culture B Culture C The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 21 What is Cultural Sensitivity? Cultural sensitivity is a state of mind and attitude. To be culturally sensitive means that we are aware that other cultures exist, that they are as valuable as our own and that we can learn a lot from them. Cultural sensitivity means having respect for customs, values and traditions that differ from our own. By valuing the diversity of cultures, one can begin to explore ways to improve systems and working relationships by using these differences as strengths, not weaknesses. One of the main goals of CISV is to help participants become culturally sensitive. This is achieved through living with and participating in activities with people from different cultures. Through celebrating the diversity of all the individuals in a Village, Summer Camp or Interchange, we can help our Delegates learn to appreciate both the similarities and the differences of the various cultures of the world. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 22 Awareness of Own Ethnocentricity Before we can learn and be sensitive to other cultures, we need to make sure we understand and are aware of our own culture. Our interpretation of what we “see” when we observe other cultures will always be made within our own cultural framework. The following suggested activities can help us to explore our own culture. Defining Culture As a group, explore what the word “culture” means by brainstorming about the word. What do you think of when you hear the word “culture?” In a brainstorming session, make sure that each person gets to share his idea and write down all ideas, no matter how “off the wall” the idea may appear to be to you. Ask the group to try and summarize the list into a group definition of “culture.” Debriefing this activity is essential. Ask the group to look at the list and compare what was written with the cultural iceberg. Just as 9/10 of an iceberg is out of sight, 9/10 of culture is “out of sight” to the casual observer and out of the conscious awareness of persons from that culture. The first step of cultural sensitivity is therefore to begin exploring the cultural issues that lie below the surface of the water of the iceberg. By first identifying these characteristics of your own culture, it helps you then look for and be aware of these elements in other cultures. My Culture Individually, members of the group will write down five ideas that best describe the key characteristics of their own culture. Discuss the differences and similarities that emerge. Culture Gram If time allows, ask the group to create a culture gram that describes their own culture in such categories as customs, courtesies, the people (attitudes, language, religion, family), economics, recreation, land, climate, government and education. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 23 Cultural Iceberg Classical music Fine arts Literature History Language Drama Dress Food Popular music Politics Ceremonies and rituals Economics Folk dancing Notions of modesty cosmology Conception of beauty Rule of descent Ideals governing child-raising Eye behavior Relationship to animals Definition of sin Arrangement of physical space Courtship patterns Patterns of superior/subordinate relations Conception of justice Incentives to work Notions of leadership Tempo of work Body language Patterns of group decision-making Theory of disease Conception of cleanliness Attitudes toward the dependent Approaches to problem solving Conception of status mobility Ordering of time Conversational patterns in social contexts Roles in relation to status by age, sex, class, occupation, and kinship Concepts of past and future Definitions of insanity Facial expressions Nature of friendship Patterns of visual perception Social interaction rate Preference for competition or cooperation Notions of adolescence Notions about logic and validity Patterns of handling emotions And Much, Much More Just as 9/10 of an iceberg is out of sight below the water line, so 9/10 of culture is out of sight to the casual observer and out of the conscious awareness of persons from that culture. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 24 An Asian View of Cultural Differences This poem helps show an alternative view to cultural diversity and differences. An Asian View of Cultural Differences We live in time. We are always at rest. We are passive. We like to contemplate. We accept the world as it is. You live in space. You are always on the move. You are aggressive. You like to act. You try to change it according to your blueprint. We live in peace with nature. Religion is our first love. We delight to think about the meaning of life. We believe in the freedom of silence. We lapse into meditation. We marry first, then love. Our marriage is the beginning of a love affair. You try to impose your will on her. Technology is your passion. You delight in physics. You believe in freedom of speech. You strive for articulation. You love first, then marry. Your marriage is the happy end of a romance. It is a contract. Your love is vocal. You delight in showing it to others. Self-assertiveness is the key to your success. You are urged every day to want more and more. You emphasize gracious living and enjoyment. It is to you a sign of degradation. You retire to the fruits of your labor. It is an indissoluble bond. Our love is mute. We try to conceal it from the world. Self-denial is a secret to survival. We are taught from the cradle to want less and less. We glorify austerity and renunciation. Poverty is to us a badge of spiritual elevation. In the sunset years of life we renounce the world And prepare for the hereafter. Dr. Mai Van Trang, as quoted in Dr. Carolyn Williams, Reasons for Living and Hoping, ICCB, 1990. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 25 Awareness & Sensitivity Toward Other Cultures There are three basic levels of cross-cultural awareness that people go through when interacting with cultures different from their own. In CISV our aim is to get to level three. Due to the fact that most program last only 3-4 weeks, we can hope only to provide a solid base from which participants can launch their own exploration and appreciation of other cultures. We can never hope to attain full cultural immersion in such a short time, as this is a very long process that takes years to achieve. Awareness of superficial or very unusual cultural traits This is the “tip” of the cultural iceberg. These are visual clues we receive about other cultures often through the media. Our reaction focuses on the exotic or bizarre nature of these different behaviors or ways of looking. Awareness of subtle cultural traits that contrast markedly with our own culture This is when we start focusing on the differences between our culture and other cultures with which we come in contact. These can result in feelings of frustration as different beliefs and behaviors come into conflict with one another. If we stay at this level, become increasingly frustrated and never get to the level of understanding and appreciating these differences. Intellectually analyze significant and subtle cultural traits that contrast with our own culture At this stage we try to begin understanding what is happening. It does not mean that we necessarily accept or adapt to these differences, but we move beyond the frustration level to one where we begin to recognize and appreciate the differences. By doing so we can try to establish new ways to interact with each other that helps to respect all cultures. Communication is the element that characterizes this stage as we begin to talk about our differences and begin to understand why they exist. Complete Cultural Immersion This is very difficult to achieve, especially in a CISV experience, as it takes years to attain. At this level, one becomes fully immersed in the culture and begins to accept the traits that at one time seemed “different” as their own ways of acting. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 26 As we begin the process of moving toward level three in cultural awareness, we must focus on improving our intercultural communication skills. There are several barriers to communication that we face when interacting with people from different cultures. These include the following: Diversity of purposes – when you are not on the same “wavelength;” when perceptions about what you are communicating about differ Ethnocentrism – an attitude that “our way is the best way” creates a barrier to communication as it makes us tune out any views or ways of doing things that are different from our own Lack of trust – when we enter a new setting, it takes time to build the trust between the people with whom you are interacting; only when this trust is developed can communication be open Stereotyping – we must first recognize that we all have stereotypes and that these will influence how we react to and interact with people Sense of power – this can be caused by speaking a dominant language or being of a certain sex; anything that puts you in a position of power over another individual can be a hindrance to communication In CISV we must aim to overcome these barriers to cross-cultural communication. Some helpful hints include the following: Know yourself – begin by first understanding your own culture, your own biases and your own beliefs; this helps you more clearly verbalize and articulate opinions Use a shared code – use your CISV experience as an opportunity to explore more about the other cultures to which you are exposed; take the time to talk about culture and the differences between the people in your Village, Summer Camp or Interchange Take time – recognize that cultural sensitivity and understanding take time; allow time for people to build trust with one another before embarking on any heated discussions on cultural differences, and take time to understand the differences you notice by talking with and listening to the other people in your group Improve your own verbal and non-verbal communication skills – this helps to overcome the barriers that language can create when interacting with people from other countries Develop empathy – try to understand where the other person is coming from and why this person feels uncomfortable with a certain activity or behavior Seek out the commonalities as starting points to understanding – the easiest way to begin to understand other cultures is to seek out the commonalities from which you can begin to explore the differences CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 27 Gestures (For more information on gestures, refer to Gestures: the Do’s and Taboos of Body Language Around the World (1991) by Roger Axtell) People all over the world use their hands, their heads, their eyes and their bodies to express emotions and communicate. Without gestures, our world would be static. We use gestures on a daily basis, almost intrinsically. As we travel the world we soon become aware that what may be a polite gesture in one country can be a grave insult in another. While trying to remember all the gestures to avoid, there is one gesture that is known the world over, whether you are in Canada, Finland, Brazil, Tanzania or the Philippines. It is rarely misunderstood whether used by a politician or a child. As you travel the world, this gesture can help you get out of some tough spots. What is this universal miracle gesture? It is the smile. Use it freely and use it often. The “OK” sign The “OK” sign in some areas of Latin America is the equivalent of giving someone “the finger.” In France, this means “zero” or “worthless.” In Japan, this is a symbol for money (making the shape of a coin with your thumb and forefinger). Just imagine the difficulty you could run into by simply letting someone know that everything is “OK!” The thumbs-up sign Pilots do it to signify that everything is OK, but watch out! In North America and part of Europe, hitchhikers commonly use this signal. However, in Nigeria it is a very rude gesture. In Australia, the thumbs-up sign accompanied by a slight jerk upward is generally used to signal “up yours!” The “V for Victory” sign The “V for Victory” sign, with an innocent twist of the wrist so the fingers face inwards could, in England, mean “up yours!” So if you’re not careful with the way you turn your wrist, flashing a peace sign could mean precisely the opposite! The crazy sign Rotating the finger around the front of your ear has two entirely different meanings. In Canada and the USA it is usually used to mean that someone or something is crazy. Yet in Argentina, it can be used to indicate that you have a telephone call. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 28 The beckoning sign When beckoning someone in Canada or the USA, the hand may be raised and the index finger curled back and forth. Yet, in places like Hong Kong and Australia this is used only for calling animals and to do this to a person would be very insulting. The crossed-fingers sign Crossing your fingers is used for a sign of good luck in North America and many parts of Europe. However, in Paraguay this can be considered offensive. The sole of your foot Showing the sole of your foot in places such as Thailand, Saudi Arabia, Egypt and Singapore is very offensive. The foot is considered the lowest and dirtiest part of the body. In Thailand, be cautious not to point with your toes, for the head is considered the most sacred and the toe the most inferior. Personal space In normal social situations, North Americans generally stand about 75 cm apart from one another. That’s considered the personal comfort zone. In contrast, Latinos and Middle Easterners stand much closer, sometimes even toe-to-toe. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 29 Culture Shock Adapting to another culture is always a major cause of stress and shock to our bodies. When we enter a new situation we encounter several things that are unpredictable, uncertain and different from what we are used to. Unlike diseases and viruses that you can be immunized against, culture shock is nonpreventable; anyone who travels is exposed to it in varying degrees of intensity. For some people culture shock is brief and hardly noticeable. For others it can result in psychosomatic illness. Most people, however, fall somewhere in between these two extremes. Culture shock is not the result of a specific incident or event, but rather comes from encountering another way of doing, living and valuing that differs from our own. It does not strike suddenly but rather is a cumulative building up from a series of events that are difficult to understand or identify. Culture shock may stem from any of the following: Having your own values being brought into question Being removed from our support systems Being put in a situation where we are perceived and perceive ourselves differently Being cut off from familiar cultural cues and known patterns Being put in situations where skill and speed are expected, but where the rules have not been well explained Some of the symptoms of severe culture shock may include the following: Extreme homesickness Boredom Withdrawal (i.e. reading all day, only interacting with people of your own culture) Change in sleep patterns Change in eating and/or drinking patterns Irritability A tendency to stereotype individuals in the host culture A tendency to talk negatively about the host culture or to blame everything that goes wrong on “them” Physical ailments (psychosomatic illnesses) CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 30 Coping with Culture Shock The key element to remember in dealing with culture shock is to not become isolated from others. This is a time when, although you may feel the need to be alone, you should allow others to surround you. Talk about your frustrations and your feelings and let other people know how you are feeling. As a CISV Leader, you should be on the look out for culture shock within your Delegates and help them work through it. Some helpful tips to overcoming culture shock include the following: Keep busy – find a routine and get into an active pattern Focus on and look for similarities instead of differences Take this as an opportunity to explore and learn – try to learn as much about your host country before your departure and keep on learning about it once you arrive Don’t make jokes or comments that belittle people in the host country Relax your grip on your own cultural traits – learn what you can from your hosts Do things that make you feel secure and make you feel good about yourself – reassure yourself that your “other life” still exists by going for a run, playing music, drawing and other activities you normally do Have faith in yourself, in the goodwill of your hosts and in the positive outcome of the experience Talk – don’t be afraid to let people know that you are feeling out of place and not quite yourself because it is possible that they can help you to adjust CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 31 Chapter 4: Roles and Responsibilities What is covered in this Chapter? This Chapter provides an excellent summary of the roles and responsibilities of a CISV Leader. There are individualized lists for each CISV program, as well as checklists that a leader may use as he moves through his CISV experience. Why is it important? The CISV Leader acts as both a counselor and a friend to the children in the Delegation as well as to the other children in the Village, Summer Camp or Interchange. A clear understanding of responsibilities and expectations of a CISV Leader will enable the Leader to better fulfill his role. Important Handouts. Responsibilities of a CISV Leader or Junior Counselor What Needs to be Done as a CISV Leader or Junior Counselor Responsibilities of Parents in a CISV Program CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 32 Responsibilities of a Village Leader Overall Role of parent substitute and friend, counselor and advisor; the leader takes full responsibility for the children during the entire experience Respect and adhere to the rules and guidelines of your nation, the host country, CISV International and Staff regarding: Behavior and cultural sensitivity Inappropriate activities Alcohol, drugs and smoking Arrival and departure schedules Use of telephone and other facilities Visitors Toward Delegation and their Families Regular meetings with Delegation and families to prepare for the Village experience including: National program presentation Booklets National outfit Souvenirs Oversee travel arrangements for the Delegation and communicate these with Village Staff Seek out ideas for activities, games and songs to use at the Village Orient Delegation upon arrival at the Village Communicate with families back home during the Village Act as a bridge between the Delegation and other participants at the Village Render practical help to your Delegation: Handling of money Laundry arrangements Health/Medical problems Homesickness Guidance with letter writing and diary entries CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 33 Toward Village and Yourself Be attentive to the well-being of all the children, Leaders, JCs and Staff Watch for signs of loneliness and homesickness amongst all participants Share rather than impose your ideas and/or opinions; be respectful and considerate for other people’s habits, feelings and customs Actively participate in all Village activities Respect program and Village timetable; lead by example by being on time, well-prepared and enthusiastic Be flexible – other Leader’s concepts may vary greatly from your own Encourage on-going evaluation of the Village program Use imagination and creativity in finding ways to work without words in communicating with participants at the Village Participate in camp social life – time goes fast so get the most out of it Keep mentally and physically fit (i.e. get enough sleep) to be able to fulfill functions and tasks in the Village – find and know your limits Toward Village Staff, Leaders and Junior Counselors Take an active part in Leaders’ meetings Contribute to planning, organizing and implementing the Village program Respect the JCs as equal participants in the Village; remember that JCs are “leaders in training” and help them develop their leadership skills while remaining aware of the unique position that they hold between the Delegates and the Adult Leaders Participate in discussing problems that may arise at the Village and bring up ideas and suggestions for solutions to those problems Volunteer for and accept specific functions and tasks as assigned Take initiative and offer assistance when needed Toward Local Chapter Involvement in chapter events before and after the CISV program Volunteer on specific committees (such as Leadership Training) for a year after your CISV experience Report any emergency situations or incidents to the chapter Chair, Local Risk Manager and Local Program Coordinator CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 34 What Needs to be Done as a Village Leader Before: Sign leader agreement form Ensure that Criminal Records Check is completed Attend all local and national leadership training sessions Acquire First Aid and CPR training Introduce Delegates and their families to CISV Goals and Philosophies Meet and bond with Delegation and parents to develop group cohesiveness Meet families on an individual basis Get to know each Delegate (i.e. allergies, fears, parental concerns) Discuss first home stay with Delegates prior to departure Talk with parents concerning return and possible changes in child’s behavior Set expectations for children Respond to Pre-Camp communications Complete travel plans, remembering to plan for contingencies along the way such as delays, losses of luggage/children, sickness, emergency funds Inform Host Chapter of travel arrangements Discuss traveling clothes as a Delegation with consideration for safety Begin to collect small souvenirs and CISV paraphernalia Obtain small gifts for Staff and host families Make national booklets Prepare national program presentation Gather ideas for activities to use at the Village (cooperative games, peace activities, simulation games and songs) Encourage parents to write to their children before departure Encourage diary/journal writing Forms and Documents: Ensure that all Delegates have valid passports and visas Distribute and collect all forms for each Delegate Complete Health Forms (HF 2000) no sooner than 90 days prior to travel Complete CISV Legal/Insurance Forms Acquire proper travel and health insurance Quadruple all forms – one to chapter, two to Village Director, one to yourself CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 35 During: Upon arrival, phone home to inform of safe arrival Follow with periodic updates to families back home Assist in planning daily activities Encourage evaluation throughout the Village Plan for daily Delegation time Practice national program presentation Keep track of funds Respond to needs of the Village (Delegates, Leaders, JCs and Staff) Be on the lookout for homesickness Monitor the Delegates’ hygiene and eating habits Ensure that the Delegates write home Verify return travel arrangements After: Complete evaluations and send to local chapter Meet with all families and Delegates to debrief the Village experience and share stories and pictures Assist Delegates in the re-entry process Ensure that extra funds are returned to the parents Collect outstanding funds from parents Submit an article to your local chapter’s newsletter Send thank you cards with your Delegation to Village Staff and Host Chapter Meet Delegation at various times during the next year to send greetings to other Delegations Encourage Delegates and their families to remain involved in CISV (i.e. Junior Branch, chapter activities) Continue involvement in CISV (assist with your local leadership committee) Relax – take some time for yourself CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 36 Responsibilities of a Summer Camp Leader Overall Role of parent substitute and friend, counselor and advisor; the leader takes full responsibility for the children during the entire experience Respect and adhere to the rules and guidelines of your nation, the host country, CISV International and Staff regarding: Behavior and cultural sensitivity Inappropriate activities Alcohol, drugs and smoking Arrival and departure schedules Use of telephone and other facilities Visitors Toward Delegation and their Families Regular meetings with Delegation and families to prepare for the Summer Camp experience including: Theme development Activities How to plan activities Oversee travel arrangements for the Delegation and communicate these with Summer Camp Staff Seek out ideas for activities, games and songs that explore the theme of the Summer Camp Orient Delegation upon arrival at the Summer Camp Act as a bridge between the Delegation and other participants at the Summer Camp Render practical help to your Delegation: Handling of money Laundry arrangements Health/Medical problems Homesickness Guidance with letter writing and diary entries CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 37 Toward Summer Camp and Yourself Be attentive to the well-being of all the youth, Leaders and Staff Watch for signs of loneliness and homesickness amongst all participants Share rather than impose your ideas and/or opinions; be respectful and considerate for other people’s habits, feelings and customs Work with the other Leaders and Staff to provide a learning environment to develop the leadership skills of the participants Act as a facilitator when assisting youth in planning activities; remember that they are “leaders in training” and help them develop their leadership skills while remaining aware of the different styles of leadership and the different stages of development of the youth Actively participate in the Summer Camp Respect program and Summer Camp timetable; lead by example by being on time, well-prepared and enthusiastic Be flexible – other Leader’s concepts may vary greatly from your own Encourage on-going evaluation of the Summer Camp program Use imagination and creativity in finding ways to work without words in communicating with participants at the Summer Camp Participate in camp social life – time goes fast so get the most out of it Keep mentally and physically fit (i.e. get enough sleep) to be able to fulfill functions and tasks in the Summer Camp – find and know your limits Toward Summer Camp Staff and Leaders Take an active part in Leaders’ meetings; develop activities toward the camp theme Participate in discussing problems that may arise at the Summer Camp and bring up ideas and suggestions for solutions to those problems Volunteer for and accept specific functions and tasks as assigned Take initiative and offer assistance when needed Toward Local Chapter Involvement in chapter events before and after the CISV program Volunteer on specific committees (such as Leadership Training) for a year after your CISV experience Report any emergency situations or incidents to the chapter Chair, Local Risk Manager and Local Program Coordinator CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 38 What Needs to be Done as a Summer Camp Leader Before: Sign leader agreement form Ensure that Criminal Records Check is completed Attend all local and national leadership training sessions Acquire First Aid and CPR training Introduce Delegates and their families to CISV Goals and Philosophies Meet and bond with Delegation and parents to develop group cohesiveness Meet families on an individual basis Get to know each Delegate (i.e. allergies, fears, parental concerns) Discuss first home stay with Delegates prior to departure Talk with parents about return and possible changes in child’s behavior Set expectations for children Respond to Pre-Camp communications Complete travel plans, remembering to plan for contingencies along the way such as delays, losses of luggage/children, sickness, emergency funds Inform Host Chapter of travel arrangements Discuss traveling clothes as a Delegation with consideration for safety Begin to collect small souvenirs and CISV paraphernalia Obtain small gifts for Staff and host families Discuss Summer Camp theme with Delegation and prepare appropriate activities, presentations or booklets as requested in the Pre-Camps Gather ideas for activities to use at the Summer Camp (cooperative games, peace activities, simulation games and songs) Encourage parents to write to their children before departure Encourage diary/journal writing Forms and Documents: Ensure that all Delegates have valid passports and visas Distribute and collect all forms for each Delegate Complete Health Forms (HF 2000) no sooner than 90 days prior to travel Complete CISV Legal/Insurance Forms Acquire proper travel and health insurance Quadruple all forms – one to chapter, two to Summer Camp Director, one to yourself CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 39 During: Upon arrival, phone home to inform of safe arrival Follow with periodic updates for families back home Assist in planning daily activities Encourage evaluation throughout the Summer Camp Plan for daily Delegation time Practice national program presentation Keep track of funds Respond to needs of the Summer Camp (Delegates, Leaders and Staff) Be on the lookout for homesickness Monitor the Delegates’ hygiene and eating habits Ensure that the Delegates write home Verify return travel arrangements After: Complete evaluations and send to local chapter Meet with all families and Delegates to debrief the Summer Camp experience and share stories and pictures Assist Delegates in the re-entry process Ensure that extra funds are returned to the parents Collect outstanding funds from parents Submit an article to your local chapter’s newsletter Send thank you cards with your Delegation to Summer Camp Staff and Host Chapter Meet Delegation at various times during the next year to send greetings to other Delegations Encourage Delegates and their families to remain involved in CISV (i.e. Junior Branch, chapter activities) Continue involvement in CISV (assist with your local leadership committee) Relax – take some time for yourself CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 40 Responsibilities of an Interchange Leader Overall Role of parent substitute and friend, counselor and advisor; the leader takes full responsibility for the children during the entire experience Respect and adhere to the rules and guidelines of your nation, the host country, CISV International regarding: Behavior and cultural sensitivity Inappropriate activities Alcohol, drugs and smoking Arrival and departure schedules Use of telephone and other facilities Pre-Hosting Phase Clarify the roles of the Local Interchange Committee (LIC) and leader Schedule regular meetings with Delegation and families to plan a wellbalanced program that highlights cultural appreciation and peace education Actively build trust by developing a partnership with parents as well as delegates Delegate tasks so parents share involvement Communicate with parents following delegation meetings Communicate with the partner Leader about the following: Hosting program itinerary Confirmation of the arrival and departure information How to best support one another Plan your Leaders’ family week and/or weekend with the partner Leader During Hosting Phase Ensure each visiting delegate has a copy of the itinerary Visit each delegate at his host family’s home within the first five days Assure participants that friendships require time to build Participate fully in all group activities Assist delegates with any problems that they may encounter Plan for handling issues during both traveling and hosting phases Between Hosting and Traveling Phases Meet with delegation and families to evaluate and plan for the next phase of the Interchange: Practice National Night if appropriate CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 41 Encourage delegates to write thank you letters to parents that can be presented at the airport prior to departure or mailed so they’re received once the delegates are out of the country Pre-Travel Phase Regular meetings with delegation and families to prepare for visit to hosting country by learning more about your partners’ culture and language Oversee travel arrangements for the delegation and communicate these with the partner Leader Determine with parents how much money each delegate should be taking with them During Travel Phase Visit all host families in their homes as early in the first five days Participate fully in all group activities Watch for signs of loneliness and homesickness amongst all participants Render practical help to your Delegation: Handling of money Conflict Management Health/Medical problems Use of Airport/Travel Time Consider using this time to engage delegates in writing thank you notes to their host families. Break into small groups of two or three and make lists of things that were different or the same The leader can also consider sending the delegates’ parents a note expressing his gratitude for the trust placed in the leader and something positive about their child. Toward Local Chapter Involvement in chapter events before and after the CISV program Volunteer on specific committees (such as Leadership Training) for a year after your CISV experience Report any emergency situations or incidents to the chapter Chair, Local Risk Manager and Local Program Coordinator CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 42 What Needs to be Done as an Interchange Leader Before, as an Individual: Sign leader agreement form Ensure that Criminal Records Check is completed With LIC, participate in home visit/interviews of delegate applicants Attend all local and national leadership training sessions Acquire First Aid and CPR training Before, with Interchange Partner: Make contact with your Interchange partners as soon as possible Assist Local Interchange Committee (LIC) in making delegate matches Make certain pet allergies are considered in matching delegates with families Find out the following information about the host country: drinking age, use of drugs, sexual awareness of children, other “cultural” issues Before, with Families: Meet with families on an individual basis Introduce families to the CISV Goals and Philosophies and the Interchange program Meet with parents and discuss expectations and roles Define and decide on roles that each parent will take in the Interchange (treasurer, secretary, travel, phone tree) Talk with parents concerning return and possible changes in child’s behavior Encourage parents to write to their children before departure Determine a reasonable amount of spending money for travel phase. Before, with Delegates and Parents: Plan the hosting calendar (account for a family week and/or weekend) and send this information to the partner leader Plan a welcome party for the Delegates Prepare the national program presentation Prepare activities (cooperative games, peace activities, songs and crafts) Complete travel plans, remembering to plan for contingencies along the way such as delays, losses of luggage/children, sickness, emergency funds Discuss traveling clothes for Delegation using special consideration for safety Acquire small gifts and souvenirs for partner families CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 43 Before, with Delegates: Meet with delegates on a regular basis to develop group cohesiveness Set and communicate behavior expectations Get to know each delegate (i.e. allergies, fears, parental concerns) Learn about your Interchange partners and host country’s culture Each delegate should make a booklet about his family and other aspects of his daily life to share with his partner Encourage diary/journal writing throughout the Interchange Forms and Documents: Ensure that all delegates have valid passports and visas Distribute and collect all forms for each Delegate Complete Health Forms (HF 2000) no sooner than 90 days prior to travel Complete CISV Legal/Insurance Forms Acquire proper travel and health insurance Consider establishing a system for organizing money, passports, forms, letters from parents, “homesick” letters Triplicate all forms – one to chapter, one to partner leader, one to yourself During: Upon arrival, phone home to inform of safe arrival Ensure each host family is given a copy of the health/legal forms Visit each Delegate at his host family’s home within the first five days Respond to the needs of the delegates Be on the lookout for homesickness Encourage evaluation throughout the Interchange Verify return travel arrangements After: Complete evaluations and send to local chapter Meet with all families and delegates to debrief the Interchange experience and share stories and pictures Assist delegates in the re-entry process Submit an article to your local chapter’s newsletter Send thank you cards with your delegation to partner families Encourage delegates and their families to remain involved in CISV (i.e. Junior Branch, chapter activities) Continue involvement in CISV (assist with your local leadership committee) CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 44 Responsibilities of an Interchange Junior Leader Overall Assist the adult leader in leading group activities during preparation, hosting and travel Respect and adhere to the rules and guidelines of your nation, the host country, CISV International regarding: Behavior and cultural sensitivity Inappropriate activities Alcohol, drugs and smoking Arrival and departure schedules Use of telephone and other facilities Pre-Hosting Phase Attend regular meetings with delegation and families to plan a wellbalanced program that highlights cultural appreciation and peace education Actively build trust by developing a partnership with the adult leader, as well as parents and delegates Plan your family week and/or weekend with the partner junior leader During Hosting Phase Assure participants that friendships require time to build Participate fully in all group activities Assist adult leader and delegates with any problems that they may encounter Between Hosting and Traveling Phases Meet with delegation and families to evaluate and plan for the next phase of the Interchange: Practice National Night if appropriate Write your parents a thank you letter that you can mail prior to departure so it’s received once you are out of the country Pre-Travel Phase Regular meetings with Delegation and families to prepare for visit to hosting country by learning more about your partners’ culture and language CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 45 During Travel Phase Participate fully in all group activities Watch for signs of loneliness and homesickness among all participants Render practical assistance to your adult leader and delegates Toward Local Chapter Involvement in chapter events before and after the CISV program Volunteer on specific committees (such as Leadership Training) for a year after your CISV experience CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 46 What Needs to be Done as an Interchange Jr. Leader Before, as an Individual: Sign junior leader agreement form Attend all local and national leadership training sessions Before, with Interchange Partner: Establish good contact with your Interchange partner as soon as possible Before, with Families: Help the adult leader introduce families to the CISV Goals and Philosophies and the Interchange program Before, with Delegates and Parents: Assist in planning the hosting calendar and National Night presentation Prepare activities (cooperative games, peace activities, songs and crafts) Acquire small gifts and souvenirs for partner families Before, with Delegates: Meet with delegates on a regular basis to develop group cohesiveness Get to know each delegate (i.e. allergies, fears, parental concerns) Learn about your Interchange partners and host country’s culture Make a booklet about your family daily life to share with your partner Forms and Documents: Complete Health Form (HF 2000) no sooner than 90 days prior to travel Complete CISV Legal/Insurance Form Acquire proper travel and health insurance During: Respond to the needs of the Delegates Be on the lookout for homesickness Encourage evaluation throughout the Interchange After: Meet with all families and delegates to debrief the Interchange experience and share stories and pictures Submit an article to your local chapter’s newsletter Send thank you cards with your delegation to partner families Encourage delegates and their families to remain involved in CISV (i.e. Junior Branch, chapter activities) Continue involvement in CISV (assist with your local leadership committee) CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 47 Responsibilities of a Junior Counselor Toward Delegates Do not underestimate the profound influence you can have on the children; they will look up to you and your actions a great deal – you must be conscious of your behavior around the children at all times Be available to all children – do not show favorites Watch for signs of loneliness and homesickness amongst all participants Act as a special “bridge” between Leaders and children – be a “big sister or big brother” Be attentive to the well-being of all the children Encourage and support quieter and less confident children to be part of the group Be a positive role model and show leadership and authority when discipline is required Lead by example by being on time, well-prepared and enthusiastic Toward Village and Yourself Use imagination and creativity in finding ways to work without words in communicating with participants at the Village Participate in camp social life – time goes fast so get the most out of it Keep mentally and physically fit (i.e. get enough sleep) to be able to fulfill functions and tasks in the Village – find and know your limits Show respect and consideration for other people’s habits, feelings and customs, especially those of the host nation Actively participate in all Village activities Respect and adhere to the rules and guidelines set by the host country, CISV International and the Village Staff on matters such as: Behavior and cultural sensitivity Inappropriate activities Alcohol, drugs and smoking Use of telephone and other facilities Arrival and departure schedules Visitors CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 48 Toward Village Staff, Leaders and other Junior Counselors Be flexible – other Leader’s concepts may vary greatly from your own Be aware that the Village is run by all – share rather than impose your ideas and/or opinions especially regarding pranks and their possible negative impacts Pass on all important information acquired about children to their Leaders – the Leaders are ultimately responsible for their Delegates Take an active part in Leaders’ meetings; contribute to planning and organizing the Village program Participate in discussing problems that may arise at the Village and bring up ideas and suggestions for solutions to those problems Volunteer for and accept specific functions and tasks as assigned Work as a team with other Junior Counselors Take initiative and offer assistance when needed Watch for the exhausted Leader who needs a break from his Delegation or for the overworked Staff member – they will be very thankful Toward Local Chapter Involvement in chapter events before and after the CISV program Report any emergency situations or incidents to the chapter Chair, Local Risk Manager and Local Program Coordinator CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 49 What Needs to be Done as a Junior Counselor Before: Sign JC agreement form Ensure that Criminal Records Check is completed Read Village Guide, especially all sections applying to JCs Attend all local and national leadership training sessions Acquire First Aid and CPR training Become familiar with the CISV Goals and Philosophies Respond to Pre-Camp communications Complete travel plans, remembering to plan for contingencies along the way such as delays, losses of luggage, sickness, emergency funds Inform Host Chapter of travel arrangements Begin to collect small souvenirs and CISV paraphernalia Obtain small gifts for Staff and host families Make national booklets Prepare national program presentation Gather ideas for activities to use at the Village (cooperative games, peace activities, simulation games and songs) Get involved with Junior Branch activities Forms and Documents: Ensure that you have a valid passport and visa Provide all forms to the Chapter Complete Health Forms (HF 2000) no sooner than 90 days prior to travel Complete CISV Legal/Insurance Forms Acquire proper travel and health insurance Quadruple all forms – one to chapter, two to Village Director, one to yourself During: Upon arrival, phone home to inform of safe arrival Assist in planning daily activities Encourage evaluation throughout the Village Respond to needs of the Village (Delegates, Leaders, JCs and Staff) Be on the lookout for homesickness Monitor the Delegates’ hygiene and eating habits Participate in all activities Verify return travel arrangements CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 50 After: Complete evaluations and send to local chapter Submit an article to your local chapter’s newsletter Send thank you cards to Village Staff and Host Chapter Continue involvement in CISV (assist with your local leadership committee, provide new ideas in Junior Branch) Relax – take some time for yourself CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 51 Chapter 5: Leadership Styles What is covered in this Chapter? This Chapter provides information on various types of leadership styles that are present in groups. Some tools in identifying leadership characteristics beneficial to group development are provided. Why is it important? In any CISV program where we work with others to plan or coordinate an activity or event, we are faced with different leadership styles. While no one style is the “best,” it is important that we recognize these different styles and how they may conflict with the style of leadership we are used to using. Important Handouts. The Four Styles of Leadership Leadership Functions Successful Leadership CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 52 Leadership A leader is someone who gives guidance to a group of people in order to help them reach their goals or complete a specific task. You are a leader anytime you are responsible for organizing a task. The role of the CISV Leader is multi-dimensional. In CISV programs our role is to facilitate learning about leadership, peace education and crosscultural awareness. In doing so, it is helpful to keep this in mind, whether it is in planning training sessions for Leaders or activities for youth: “Do not try to satisfy your vanity by teaching a great many things. Awaken people’s curiosity. It is enough to open minds; do not Overload them. Put there just a spark. If there is some good Inflammable stuff, it will catch fire.” Anatole France In Quicksilver (Rohnke and Butler, 1995:5) Leadership Characteristics Effective leaders focus attention. They put things in perspective and articulate them in ways that are always explicit but have not necessarily been previously stated. Leaders emphasize “simple values.” What does the organization stand for? What is its value system? Effective leaders stay in touch with people. They constantly get feedback about what is happening from people in their organization and from outside the organization. Leaders avoid simple solutions. They believe in methods associated with professional management. Leaders manage change effectively. They can visualize where the organization needs to be a year from now and how to get there. Leadership is the Art of Consensus Building CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 53 The Four Styles of Leadership There is not just one style of leadership. Leaders and qualities of leadership vary greatly. No one style of leadership is “best” but rather different styles of leadership are effective in different situations. Leaders are successful when they are able to adapt their behavior and leadership style to meet the demands of a specific situation. Being able to adapt your style of leadership helps keep the group motivated and “on track” so that you are able to meet group objectives. To help you group reach a certain objective or complete a specific task, it is important for the Leader to use the style of leadership that best suits the situation. When leading an activity, you must decide two things: 1. What is the specific method (activity or action) that you want to use to reach your goal? 2. What is your role in relation to this? How do you want the participants to see your role? What do you want them to come away with from this experience? There are four basic styles of leadership: telling, selling, participating and delegating (Hersey and Blanchard “Center of Leadership Studies”). These four styles do not follow each other in sequence; each group is different and requires a different style of leadership, depending on the current stage of group development. It is important to identify your group’s stage of development and the type of leadership that would best help them achieve the task at hand. In the following, direction refers to the amount of active leading done by you (the leader) in any situation and relationship refers to the amount of time the leader is involved with the group (i.e. participating with the group, talking, giving ideas or support). 1. Telling (Directing) high direction/low relationship The style used here is more one-way communication with the members of the group. This style is best used when the participants do not know each other well and the group is new or just developing. The leader in this situation is directive, defines objectives and makes decisions. The leader must be very active in presenting information and attempting to motivate the group. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 54 The first days of your Village/Summer Camp/Interchange The initial meeting with the parents of your Delegates 2. Selling (Instructing) high direction/high relationship The leader in this situation has a large influence on the group in defining objectives and making decisions. The leader still gives most of the direction but more and more tries to instill confidence in the other members of the group to take on some of the leadership roles. Communication is starting to become a two-way street. Planning an activity or national program with your Delegation Introducing the CISV Education Circle as a planning tool for your Interchange 3. Participating low direction/high relationship As the group becomes more and more comfortable with each other and understands what they want to achieve, the leader can begin to participate and allow the group to take over. Here the leader allows the group to initiate their own ideas. Making a calendar of events for hosting phase of an Interchange Facilitating a planning group in your Summer Camp 4. Delegating low direction/low relationship Once people in the group become more comfortable with each other, the leader starts delegating specific tasks to group members. Participants begin to play an active role in running activities and the leader begins to take on the role of a participant. Daily planning groups at a Village or Summer Camp Giving total responsibility to youth Delegates to plan an activity for your Interchange or Summer Camp Note that it is not always possible for a group to reach the delegating stage. It depends on the personalities and dynamics in your group. Just because you do not reach the delegating stage does not mean that you have failed as a leader. The most difficult part of being a leader is to know when to give up control over the group. “Letting go” empowers group members and makes them feel they are playing an active role in the group activities. “Letting go” can sometimes lead to mini-disasters as the group struggles to complete a task without your guidance. Allow this to happen as a learning experience CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 55 for the participants, but remain cautious of situations where people may get hurt or of actions that may be culturally insensitive as a result of “letting go.” If you notice that a situation may become volatile in this manner, step back into your leadership role and help guide the group. Facilitation As a facilitator, the CISV Leader needs to learn the important roles of coaching, guiding, supporting, challenging and encouraging the other Leaders and youth they are working with to achieve the desired goals for the group. Facilitation is the act of providing the stimulus to a group that allows them to achieve, learn and grow from the experience. The key element in facilitating a group is to know when to be visible and when to be invisible to your group; knowing what kind of support the group needs and how best to give them the support they desire is a key skill. A good facilitator is someone who is present when needed but is indistinguishable at other times. Remember, the best growth for the group comes from within, not from the leader. A leader is best When people barely know that he exists, Not so good when people obey and acclaim him; Worse when they despise him. “Fail to honor people, They fail to honor you.” But of a good leader, who talks little, When his work is done, his aim fulfilled They will all say, “We did this ourselves.” Las-Tzu, Chinese Philosopher In Quicksilver (Rohnke and Butler, 1995:5) CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 56 Leadership Functions There are many different leadership functions that people take on in groups. It is helpful to identify what these functions are when working with groups as they help provide insight into some of the dynamics of the group you are working with as well as some of the challenges you may be facing as a result of these roles. The following information can be helpful when observing groups working together. Think about the effect that these various functions have on a group. What would happen if you had a group with a large majority of Initiators? Information-seekers? Opinion-givers? Task Functions 1. Initiator. Proposing task or goals; defining a group problem; suggesting a procedure or ideas for solving a problem. 2. Information-seeker. Requesting facts; seeking information about a group concern. 3. Information-giver. Offering facts; providing relevant information about a group concern. 4. Opinion-seeker. Asking for expressions of feeling; requesting a statement or estimate; soliciting expression of value; seeking suggestions and ideas. 5. Opinion-giver. Stating a belief about a matter before the group; giving suggestions and ideas. 6. Clarifier. Interpreting ideas or suggestions; clearing up confusions; defining terms. 7. Elaborator. Giving examples; developing meanings; making generalizations; indicating how a proposal might work out, if adopted. 8. Summarizer. Pulling together related ideas; re-stating suggestions after the group has discussed them; offering a decision or conclusion for the group to accept or reject; listening closely is implied. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 57 Building and Maintenance Functions 1. Encourager. Being friendly, warm and responsive to others; accepting others and their contributions; regarding others by giving them an opportunity or recognition. 2. Feeling-expresser. Sending and expressing the feeling of the group; calling attention to reactions of the group to ideas and suggestions; sharing his feelings or affects with other members. 3. Harmonizer. Attempting to reconcile disagreements; reducing tension through pouring oil on troubled waters; getting people to explore their differences. 4. Compromiser. When his own idea or status is involved in a conflict, offering compromise; admitting error; disciplining him to maintain group cohesion. 5. Gate-keeping. Attempting to keep communication channels open; facilitating the participation of others; suggesting procedures to discuss group problems. 6. Standard-setting. Expressing standards for the group to achieve; applying standards in evaluating group functioning and production. 7. Consensus-tester. Asking for opinions to find out if group is near a decision; sending up a trial balloon to test a possible group conclusion. 8. Follower. Going along with movement of the group; accepting ideas of others; serving as an interested audience. 9. Listener. Explaining an item that was not clearly heard, when necessary. Some Non-constructive Functions 1. Blocking. Interfering with the progress of the group by arguing, resisting and disagreeing beyond reason; coming back to the same “dead” issue later. 2. Out of field. Withdrawing from discussion; daydreaming; doing something else; whispering to others. 3. Digressing. Getting off the subject; leading discussion in some “personally oriented” direction; making a brief statement into a long nebulous speech. 4. Seeking recognition. Attempting to call attention to one’s self by boasting, imploring sympathy, loud or excessive talking or unusual behavior. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 58 Successful Leadership 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11. 12. 13. 14. A good leader will make decisions that will enhance the entire group rather than just himself. A successful leader realizes that he also has a superior. No one is ever elected to an office or level that they never have someone to be accountable to. A good leader is an example of fair play, integrity and dependability. A successful leader will genuinely listen to the needs, feedback and suggestions from all of the members of the group and not just a select few. A good leader understands that a leadership position is not a position of glory and popularity, but a position of responsibility. Good leadership involves responsibility to the welfare of the group, which means that some people will get angry at your actions and decisions. A good leader is willing to roll up his sleeves and help other members of the group when the going gets tough. A successful leader knows that he cannot be successful without work, support, and dedication of all members of the group. A successful leader will sacrifice personal glory and recognition so that it may be shared equally with all of the followers. A good leader works for the success of the entire group and not for personal glorification. A successful leader knows that whatever power he may possess was given to him by the members of the group. If improperly used, this power can be swept away and given to someone else. Good leadership encourages everyone’s evolution. Effective leaders create a climate where people’s worth is determined by their willingness to learn new skills and grab new responsibilities. Some situations require the leader to hover closely and be proactive, while others require long, loose leashes to resolve themselves. good leader knows when to employ each. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 59 Chapter 6: Risk Management What is covered in this Chapter? This Chapter includes a summary of the issues related to risk management, focusing on how to identify and reduce the risks from CISV activities. It is designed to provide Leaders with an understanding of risk management issues in CISV. This chapter also covers issues related to First Aid. Why is it important? Each year parents put their trust in CISV and the people whom we select as Leaders to take care of their children and to act as legal guardians for these youth during their CISV experience. This is a tremendous amount of trust imparted on our Leaders. In order to ensure that our Leaders act responsibly in their role as a guardian, it is essential that issues of risk management be addressed with every person acting in a leadership position for CISV. Because of its importance, this subject is addressed both locally and nationally in leadership training sessions. Important Handouts. Summary of Insurance Risks Health, Legal and Safety Issues for Leaders General Risk Management CISV Info File N-4 (0021) CISV Info File R-14 (0032) CISV Info File R-5 (9008) CISV Info File R-7 (0432) Crisis Management for Leaders/Chapters/National Associations CISV USA Crisis Management Protocol Handbook for Travel 2002* CISV USA Crisis Management Protocol Handbook for Hosting 2002* How to Handle Life Threatening Crises How to Handle Non-Life Threatening Crises First Aid Kit Contents First Aid Procedures *These handbooks are available at http://www.support.cisvusa.org CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 60 Leader Responsibility Legal Guardian As a legal guardian, the CISV Leader is responsible for the overall well-being and care of the Delegates under his care. In the case of an injury or illness and the parents cannot be contacted, the Leader becomes responsible for making any decisions regarding medical treatment for the Delegate. Reducing Risk In the role of a guardian, the CISV Leader must be aware of any activity that may have a high degree of risk, such as a high potential for injury. As a part of planning activities, Leaders must therefore ask themselves the following questions: What is the risk involved with this activity? Can the risk be reduced by modifying the activity or by taking some precautionary steps before the activity? If the risk cannot be reduced, is it too high such that the activity should be canceled? Incident Management If by chance an incident does occur, the first thing to remember is to act responsibly and with common sense (i.e. no heroics). The second thing to remember is that any incident should be documented, preferably on a CISV Incident Report Form. The form should provide all of the details about the incident, including a description of what occurred and how it was handled at the time. In the case of a medical emergency, a note of any medication administered should also be included on the form. Incident management will be further addressed at the National Leadership Training Workshops. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 61 Health, Legal and Safety Issues for Leaders The following are the minimum requirements. Your chapter/leadership training program may have more specific details and requirements that must be followed. Key Points to Remember Use common sense – act responsibly Document everything Throughout your CISV experience you are acting as the parent/guardian…always! What to do if I have a Problem? Inform and Document Ask for assistance – always have an emergency contact list available and do not hesitate to call Incident/Crisis Management If an incident occurs document all details as soon as possible on an Incident Report Form (IRF 2000) The Incident Report Form must be completed for any incident (medical or otherwise) which occurs during your program/activity (i.e. major injuries that require medical treatment, injuries or illnesses that require administered medications, major safety concerns at the site, or behavior which violates CISV International Policies) At the completion of your program, send the form to your National Risk Manager (keep a copy for yourself); the form will be kept confidential Language Barriers and Leader Availability There may be difficulty with translation for a child in the case of an emergency (i.e. a home stay weekend or Leader’s day off) Recommend that action be taken only when it is an emergency and that the Leader should be contacted immediately to provide assistance Give itinerary and contact numbers when separated from Delegates CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 62 Forms Every CISV participant must have completed Health and Legal Insurance Forms. These are required to complete claims and to keep records secure and confidential. HF 2000 (all participants) YLIF 2000 (all child and youth Delegates) TWAL 2000 (all JCs, Seminar Camp, IYM participants) ALIF 2000 (all Adult Leaders and Staff members) Make 4 copies of each form – original and one copy to the host chapter staff or family, one copy to your local chapter, and one copy for the Leader. Inform the host families of any medications that need to be administered for the Delegate while under their care. Personal Travel/Health/Accident Insurance Carry copies of each Delegate’s insurance policy with you Keep the international phone number of the insurance company with you in case you need to make a claim while out of the country Keep emergency money to pay for expenses as up-front payment for services as you, the Leader/guardian can be held liable for paying the expenses Health Carry a First Aid Kit on all trips Consult a physician or public health authority regarding recommended immunizations and precautions during your travels Difficulties Relating to Behavior and Cultural Sensitivity Know and understand chapter, national and international rules of CISV Be familiar with and bring CISV International Guidelines on Discrimination and Behavior and Cultural Sensitivity Info File R-5,7 Each participant is expected to follow and respect the laws and customs of the host nation, within the limits of their own culture – be aware of these laws and know that if you violate the laws and/or policies, you can be sent home at your cost CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 63 General Risk Management Insurance It is the official policy of CISV USA that anyone transporting delegates or other persons at the request of the Chapter or Steering Committee must be 25 years of age or older.” For every adult driver, an annual Motor Vehicle Report and copy of his Personal Auto Policy with liability coverage of at least $100,000 combined Bodily Injury & Property Damage Liability coverage is required by CISV USA’s Insurance carrier. Some CISV volunteers carry a Personal Umbrella Liability Policy for a limit of $1,000,000 or higher. This insures them over and above what liability coverage they may have through their Homeowner's, Renter's, or personal Auto Liability policy. A criminal background check is required by CISV USA’s insurance carrier when a volunteer involved with children/children’s activities becomes active. The background check must be redone every three years, unless specific state laws require it be done more often. Property Damage Insurance – CISV USA liability insurance does not cover intentional acts. Vandalism and misbehavior are considered intentional acts. Supervision is the key. Medical Proper medical treatment – this should be our number one priority All Leaders are to receive first aid training at the local level All Leaders are to have a complete first aid kit and knowledge to use these materials It is the Leader’s responsibility to ensure their Delegation receives proper medical care 1. Do not leave children unsupervised on water or land. 2. Leaders should not be isolated with an individual child 3. Training is risk management Training is required by international and national, but one of the main reasons we have training is to help you lead a Delegation of our children through a safe, happy, educational, cultural experience. One of the greatest assets of CISV is the trust parents place in us. Any damage to this trust will have dramatic effects on our ability to function as an organization. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 64 5. Behavior Problems There will be differences on acceptable and unacceptable behavior There will be value differences There will be cultural differences 1. Conflicts may arise because of these differences 2. Each participant is expected to follow and respect the laws and rules of their host nation, within the limits of their own culture - these rules and laws should be discussed at the beginning of your CISV program 3. Two types of unacceptable behavior a) Accidental misbehavior or unintentional misbehavior (i.e. pillow fights, rough housing, etc.) b) Intentional misbehavior (vandalism) c) Neither of these is covered by CISV USA insurance 4. Supervision is the key – does the behavior follow CISV guidelines and philosophy? 6. Incident Management If any action risks physical or mental injury to any individual, the action should be terminated Two key words to remember – Inform and Document Who should I tell? Who should I get involved? This will call for some judgment calls on your part. 7. Possible CISV USA Incidents Injuries, physical and emotional Property damage or destruction Misconduct Personality conflicts 1. Immediate action is essential (problems usually won’t go away and oftentimes, can worsen) 2. Respect the rights of the individual 3. Remember – even though we are volunteers, if we do not act responsibly, we will expose ourselves to some type of liability, so ask for advice and assistance 4. Document incident as soon as possible – details may be forgotten if this is delayed The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 65 INFO FILE N-4 (0021) HEALTH, LEGAL, AND SAFETY ISSUES WITHIN CISV GENERAL COMMENTS CISV (Children’s International Summer Villages) is an independent, non-political, volunteer organization promoting peace education and cross-cultural friendship. As a "people orientated" organization working with youth, CISV must have the health, safety and wellbeing of its participants/volunteers as its highest priority. Programme consideration to further the educational goals of CISV are secondary. The important CISV goals of building cross-cultural friendships, peace fostering and improving international cooperation and understanding require an environment where the minds and bodies of participants are free from worry about basic concerns of health, safety and legal issues. CISV addresses these fundamental requirements by observing local laws and CISV rules/policies, by careful attention to communication concerns, by maintaining a "global" rather than "local" perspective, respecting the cultural sensibilities of all participants, and by always remembering that we are the guardians of other people's children. CISV International's Trustees approved International Guidelines on Discrimination [Info File R-5(9008)]; Selection For Persons With Programme Responsibilities [Info File R-6 (9008)]; and Behaviour and Cultural Sensitivity [Info File R-7 (9940)] and CISV Electronic Communication Rules [Info File R-1 (9941)]. It is expected that all these Guidelines will be observed/enforced as well as specific/additional responsibilities for Staff, Adult Delegates and Chapter Officials during a crisis. LEGAL ISSUES As an International Association, CISV exists in 62 countries and therefore, must observe the laws of Great Britain, its headquarters, and also those of every country where it exists or conducts programmes. Responses to CISV's "Embassy Questionnaire" [Info File N-4 (8908)]- (will serve as a reminder that CISV is an International Organization and that programme coordinators, host families, staff, parents and adult delegates serve as guardians of youth given into our care for a complex educational programme which must observe differing cultural, legal, moral and educational perspectives. RESPONSIBILITIES OF PARENTS OF PARTICIPANTS While each CISV programme Guide outlines the obligations of parents of programme participants and of host families during CISV programmes, the primary obligations for parents of participants are: 1. That they have given official permission for their child to participate/travel; 2. That they have completed the necessary health and legal forms; 3. That their child has adequate health/travel/accident insurance; 4. That they/their children observe all CISV and legal requirements; 5. That they have paid all appropriate fees; and, 6. That they participate in all orientation, planning and de-briefing sessions. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 66 RESPONSIBILITIES OF PARENTS WHO HOST CISV PARTICIPANTS As the host of a CISV participant, parents serve as a guardian of the youth visiting their home and are expected to observe the moral and legal responsibilities that guardianship implies. CISV programme Guides outline the programme and practical considerations, including orientation, appropriate activities (regarding safety concerns), cultural sensitivity, and behaviour expectations for participants. RESPONSIBILITIES OF CISV PARTICIPANTS (YOUTH & ADULT) Participants are expected to observe guidelines on Behaviour & Cultural Sensitivity in CISV as well as specific information noted in each CISV programme Guide. Additional staff duties arise during a crisis. PARENTAL DECISION ABOUT TRAVEL TO CISV PROGRAMMES IN "RISK AREAS" Every year parents of CISV participants contact local or international CISV officials regarding CISV procedures to safeguard participants who have been selected to attend programmes in areas of the world with “local disturbances" receiving global press coverage. The following procedures outline CISV's efforts to assist parents make the decision about their child's participation: 1. CISV programme hosts are generally parents themselves and take the responsibility of hosting children/youth very seriously. They will be the first to cancel a CISV activity if it is not safe. 2. Hosting/traveling CISV Chapters observe selection procedures and are required to have a training programme for Adult Delegations/Staff. 3. Local public health standards are required for site facilities used by CISV participants. 4. CISV International officials visit the site for countries hosting their first CISV programme; otherwise, National Association/Chapter officials make inspection visits if requested. 5. If there are concerns about the physical safety of visitors, CISV consults appropriate Embassy or Foreign Ministry officials. 6. On request, the CISV International Office contacts host Associations for details or reassurances; 7. CISV parents take the final decision regarding their child's travel. LEGAL ISSUES FOR CISV AS AN ORGANIZATION As an organization, CISV must take reasonable action to meet legal and CISV International requirements. CISV officials must provide accurate and timely data, observe rules and complete all necessary forms, particularly those relating to legal, health, safety and personnel matters. During periods of international crisis or local conflict, special duties / responsibilities arise for the CISV host association and for programme staff. CISV officials must take periodic action to update/revise Guides and rules. In recent years, many countries have passed new laws regarding people working with children, and health / safety regulations for sites hosting children. In many countries both CISV and its volunteers can be held legally responsible for negligence. Individuals are personally liable for criminal violations. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 67 CISV INSURANCE REQUIREMENTS - LIABILITY INSURANCE CISV International requires every National and Promotional Association to have some form of public liability protection for the benefit of CISV participants / volunteers and CISV as an organization concerning claims for third party personal injury or property damage resulting from negligence for which CISV or its volunteers could be held legally responsible. Every CISV National Association must have 365 day third party/public liability insurance consistent with local regulations and CISV rules for itself and every Chapter. Since 1 June 1996 this regulation has been met via CISV’s Master Policy via AIG (or an alternate underwriter approved by our broker, Willis Corroon). Cover in Canada and USA for CISV Canada, CISV USA and CISV International has been brokered independently. While these policies have different terms and conditions for cover in North America, CISV’s requirement of having the equivalent of £1,000,000 has been met, and CISV’ers from Canada and the USA are covered by AIG outside North America providing any claim or legal action is filed in a jurisdiction outside North America relevant to the claim. CISV International periodically reviews its insurance requirements and sets minimum levels for local insurance. Minimum NA coverage is currently £500,000 or its equivalent, consistent with local legal requirements. CISV International provides a second "tier" of insurance so that all Affiliates, officials, volunteers and participants are insured to a limit of £1,000,000 by AIG (except those from CISV Canada and CISV USA, who are insured by local underwriters for the equivalent of £1,000,000 and AIG conditions noted in the policy). Additionally CISV has £500,000 personal liability cover for participants in international activities only. PERSONAL HEALTH / TRAVEL / ACCIDENT INSURANCE Every CISV participant must have personal health/travel/accident insurance coverage during his/her travel and the CISV programme/activity which is valid in the country where the event takes place. Advice about the amount of coverage required should be given by the CISV Host Association in "precamp or pre-meeting" information and / or secured from travel agents or local insurance brokers. Details concerning procedures to follow should the participant arrive without proof of insurance is provided by the CISV International Office annually. Programme coordinators must be informed of these procedures. CISV International provides the services of a Lloyds of London broker (Aon) for participants who have difficulty securing adequate travel insurance locally. Details for purchase of this Aon policy (and provisions of cover) are also available via the CISV National Office / INFO FILE). The £15,000 Aon travel insurance policy is the Trustee approved “default” travel insurance. Health/travel insurance details MUST be completed on the CISV Legal Forms used in all programmes. PROGRAMME SITE SECURITY, HEALTH AND SAFETY REQUIREMENTS CISV Host Associations must observe local legal requirements, CISV programme/activity specifications, and common-sense practicalities consistent with the educational goals required for participating international youth and adults. CISV does not expect or require sites/menus of a "hotel" standard, but clean, safe and private facilities are a must. Selection of host families for CISV participants must not be limited to the wealthy or those with large homes; loving families who can provide a safe and appropriate learning environment are the CISV norm. See programme/activity Guides for further details. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 68 DIET AND NUTRITION As a cross-cultural organization, CISV hosts should respect the dietary requirements of participants (whether they stem from religious, health, or personal requirements) and provide a varied, healthy international diet. CISV CHECKLIST RE HEALTH/SAFETY/LEGAL/INSURANCE STANDARDS 1. Selection of Adult Leaders / JCs / Staff conducted according to International and National guidelines. 2. Adult Leaders / Staff / JCs properly trained according to compulsory International and National guidelines. 3. INSURANCE: a. Health/Travel Insurance (mandatory for all participants); b. Liability/property damage insurance (required of all National Associations) consistent with CISV’s global cover; c. Drivers must be licensed and vehicles must be properly insured, including coverage for carrying passengers while on “CISV business”; d. Chapters must purchase local cover for rented or loaned property/facilities, unless it is included in the lease. 4. Health/Safety/Legal Issues at any CISV activity: a. Facility meets local public health requirements for hosting children; b. Facility meets CISV's educational / security / social requirements; c. Drivers and/or vehicles are properly licensed and insured; d. Youth have permission from parents to attend activities and parents have given CISV authority to make appropriate health care decisions; e. Host Chapter / Staff obligations check list: 5. Review participant's health forms / medical needs; 6. Staff trained in First Aid; first aid supplies on hand; 7. Hire lifeguard/train staff-leaders in water safety; 8. Fire drill/earthquake/civil defense routines known and practised; 9. Doctor, dentist, psychologist, hospital services available; 10. Pharmacy and ambulance services "on call;” 11. Nurse on staff or available for participants who are ill; 12. Counsellors/clergy available for emergency cross-cultural counselling to avoid post traumatic stress disorder; 13. Promptly report claim for illness/accidents utilizing the Aon/SAS Claim Form, claim details, receipts and a copy of the person's CISV Health Form (HF.2000) for insurance reimbursement, plus appropriate CISV Risk Management and Incident Report Forms; and, 14. Have addresses/phone numbers for appropriate Embassy & airline officials. 15. Obey all local laws and CISV rules. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 69 RESPONSIBILITY FOR MAINTAINING HEALTH & SAFETY REQUIREMENTS The responsibility for maintaining proper health and educational standards during a CISV activity rest with the host Nation Association and the Staff. This responsibility can NOT be delegated to participants. If the "team" of participants assigned does not do a good job, then "learning by doing" and "learning/accepting responsibility" as a educational programme/activity goal is less important than the obligation to safeguard participant's health. Staff / Host Chapters have ultimate responsibility. ADULT DELEGATE / STAFF SELECTION & LEADERSHIP TRAINING CERTIFICATION Every CISV National Association and Chapter must implement a mandatory leadership training/orientation programme for all programmes/activities recognized or approved by CISV International (including "experimental" programmes). Additionally, 1. Every NA, Chapter and Committee responsible for selection and/or training of participants must: a. observe all guidelines of CISV International; b. be prepared to produce, on request, certification that all CISV procedures have been observed. 2. Every NA Chapter and Committee must review CISV guidelines and notify all responsible persons that: a. selection procedures must reflect observance of legal, moral and emotional behaviour appropriate for an international peace education organization such as CISV; and, b. staff and leader training must include international health safety, educational and legal requirements appropriate for programmes dealing with children and youth. 3. This action is taken: a. to insure the awareness of all concerned of our responsibility for the welfare of those children and youth entrusted to CISV's care; and, b. to safeguard CISV and its members from the legal consequences of negligence. CONCERNS/GUIDELINES REGARDING SECURITY & ELECTRONIC COMMUNICATION Info File Section R-11 (9941) provides CISV’s Electronic Communications Rules. In the interest of safety re CISV delegates, information regarding host site, dates and nationalities of delegates is sent via regular post or fax and not electronically via e-mail or World Wide Web sites since terrorists, kidnappers, pedophiles, religious fundamentalists and neo-nazi/nationalist groups are highly organized internationally via the internet and can misuse CISV data and cause severe security risks for members. Safety and security of children and volunteers participating in CISV programmes/activities is the highest priority. No ‘personal data’ including name, address, e-mail address, fax and phone numbers, may be published/distributed electronically contrary to the wishes of the individual. ‘Permission of the individual’ generally means written permission.” The UK / EU Data Protection Act applies to CISV International. If there are any doubts whether the distribution of specific information is in compliance with the provisions made in local/national/regional laws or these guidelines, this information should not be distributed. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 70 INFO FILE R-14 (0032) CISV Communication Rules Introduction CISV International as an organization very much depends on the fast and efficient flow of information. However, due to legal (Data Protection Act) and risk management reasons (the safety and security of children/volunteers), the following Communication Rules have been adopted. The rules apply to all CISV members publishing and/or distributing CISV information. These rules replace Info File R-11 (9941), CISV Electronic Communication Rules, approved at the 1999 International Board Meeting and will be included within a new section, CISV Privacy Policy. NB: CISV Application and Legal Forms will be modified accordingly, following legal review. General All communication must be consistent with the policies, ethics, aims and objectives of CISV. NB: All CISVers must observe global copyright and other privacy/legal obligations. No ”personal data”, including names, addresses, e-mail addresses, fax and phone numbers, may be published or distributed without permission of the individual. Permission is always bound to a specific purpose. When the individual is under the legal age of consent for her / his country, a parent may act for the “minor” to prohibit publishing. ***CISV does not provide address information to other organizations, companies etc. Electronic Communications Electronic communications cannot be treated without differentiating public and private communication channels. Private channels are those directed to a well known set of recipients, for example password protected websites, closed mailing lists and personal email addresses. All other channels are to be considered public. Whatever can be sent by fax or letter may also be published through private channels. No personal information may be published through public channels unless prior written consent of the person was acquired. For further advice the Communications Guidelines should be consulted. They are meant to help applying the rules to typical communications requirements within CISV. Electronic Communication: Permission Restrictions (for participant / member notation on revised CISV forms) Communication/Publication Restrictions: Tick the box if you do agree with your personal information being distributed globally within CISV through private channels [___] CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 71 INFO FILE R-5 (9008) MEMORANDUM To: National Associations / Chapter Officials, CISV International’s Official Family From: Joe Banks, Secretary General, for the International Board Date: 14 September 1990 ---------------------------------------------------------------------REF: IMPLEMENTING NEW GUIDELINES ON DISCRIMINATION, SELECTION & BEHAVIOUR ---------------------------------------------------------------------Enclosed are official statements regarding: 1) CISV International Guidelines on Discrimination; 2) Selection Guidelines For Persons With Programme Responsibility; and, 3) Behaviour And Cultural Sensitivity In CISV. The language (and examples) used in the three guidelines are based somewhat upon past CISV experiences (confidential), concerns repeatedly expressed via programme evaluations and NA statements (alone or via regional motions), and legal requirements. In some cases the language is technical and can not easily be changed - for legal reasons. Examples of behaviour or qualities are provided instead of fixed standards and definitive lists since they will always leave out something critical. Where possible, language / examples from previously approved documents were used. The language in the discrimination and selection guidelines present some challenges, including: 1) Protection of privacy rights of members / applicants / participants – especially regarding past behaviour and / or sexual orientation; 2) Realization of CISV goals / rules in countries where “universal” human rights are not observed; 3) Distinguishing between custom and law in the local CISV culture; 4) Doing everything “reasonable” to protect CISV participants and the organization from persons who “predictably” may harm individuals / CISV / members of the public; and, 5) Determining “common sense” application of rules, fears and goals. The language in the behaviour guidelines present additional challenges, including: 1) Being “sensitive” to cultural / moral expectations without destroying the essence of CISV; 2) Being “specific” enough to provide assurance to parents / officials and guidance to participants; 3) Being “general” enough to protect CISV legally; 4) Being “flexible” enough to be universally accepted. CISV National and Promotional Associations may supplement these guidelines, but they may not contradict the wording or effect of official International Board policy. These guidelines take effect immediately and must be implemented / observed at every level of CISV’s operation, both in programmes and administration. Thank you for your cooperation. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 72 INFO FILE: R-5 (9008) CISV INTERNATIONAL GUIDELINES ON DISCRIMINATION As an organization committed to the value of each individual, CISV does not practice or tolerate discrimination within its programmes or administration at any level. In interpreting CISV’s guidelines against discrimination vis-à-vis “handicapped” applicants / participants, a “common sense” application of the guideline is expected. This means that local laws / requirements must be observed as well as CISV’s expectation that everyone participates fully within all programme activities. Guidelines to assist in selection / placement of participants for CISV’s programmes; * The candidate has the intellectual ability appropriate for CISV’s programmes; * The candidate has the emotional stability to be successfully integrated into CISV group / family activities and to appropriately cope / manage with the “stress” of international travel /living; * Housing / programme / transportation facilities can successfully accommodate the individual without excessive difficulties (consultation with hosts is required); * Appropriately trained CISV Staff / Adult Delegates are available and willing to accept the extra responsibility involved. In interpreting CISV’s policy against discrimination vis-à-vis the “status” of an applicant / member iin situations not included in the guidelines noted above, the following guidelines will be observed: * If local “customs” limit CISV in a manner contrary to the objects / practice of the organization (e.g. discrimination based on age, gender, race, religion, ethnic background, language etc), protection extended in the UN’s International Declaration of Human Rights, the Declaration of the Rights of the Child and other appropriate regional human rights “charters” (including the right to privacy) will be observed in CISV operations irrespective of local custom. * In balancing between the rights of the individual to participate fully within CISV’s programmes or administration and CISV’s obligation to protect the health / safety of youth placed in CISV’s care, the “balance” tips in favour of protecting the health / safety of the participants; * CISV’s observance of an applicant’s or member’s right to privacy is secondary to the obligation of such applicant / member to truthfully provide information that is “relevant” by law and / or CISV International guidelines when completing the CISV Health Form and applying either for a position of responsibility / trust in a CISV programme or as a CISV youth participant. * CISV National and Promotional Associations may supplement these guidelines, but they may not contradict the wording or effect of official International Board policy. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 73 INFO FILE R-7 (0432) This replaces R-7 (9940) BEHAVIOUR AND CULTURAL SENSITIVITY Appropriate behaviour is expected by and within CISV, at every level of the organization, in order to realize: • CISV’s objects as outlined in the Memorandum & Articles of Incorporation and Constitutional Rules of CISV International Ltd; • CISV’s educational goals and methods as approved by the Board of Trustees; and • the personal expectations of participants and volunteers. For most people appropriate behaviour is inherent within the concepts of common sense, good manners, or being a good host / guest / friend. Given the great cultural diversity within CISV, the Board finds it helpful to stress certain qualities in CISV participants’ behaviour -- especially in adults and juniors acting as “role models” for youth in an international educational programme stressing peace and cross-cultural friendship. Equally, participants who are guests of the host CISV Chapter, family or resident site are expected to conform to agreed upon concepts of behaviour. No list of norms can anticipate every situation; there is no substitute for proper selection (or de-selection prior to participation, if necessary), and appropriate training / orientation. Behaviour expected of all adults and youth in CISV programmes / administration falls within three categories: (1) Standards; (2) Guidelines: and, (3) Recommendations. Sanctions & procedures are set by Board policy. STANDARDS relate to a class / type of FORBIDDEN behaviour, violation or reasonable suspicion of which may invoke the most severe sanctions (including notification, exclusion, early return home or loss of membership). Forbidden behaviour includes: • intimacy / sexual relations between children or youth and ANY adult or older youth acting in a position of trust or as a role model within CISV (whether locally legal or not); • use of narcotic / hallucinogenic drugs or chemicals (whether locally legal or not); • criminal / illegal acts or failure to take action if legally required; • use of or access to firearms / ammunition or other weapons (within host family home or at CISV site); and • xenophobic behaviour, discrimination, intolerance or lack of cultural flexibility / openness. • physical / psychological abuse and corporal punishment. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 74 GUIDELINES relate to a class / type of UNACCEPTABLE behaviour, violation or reasonable suspicion of which may invoke serious sanctions (including notification, temporary exclusion or loss of membership). Unacceptable behaviour includes: • abuse of alcohol -- especially in situations where youth are present in an educational context; • nudity within CISV programmes or activities (games, swimming, etc) or within CISV’s community living arrangements (Villages, camps or family stay) which violate concepts of privacy or modesty, whether defined by the cultural norms of the host or guest; • sexual intimacy -- or the appearance of sexual intimacy in programme activities or between consenting adults, while “off duty” or between youth participants while taking part in an official CISV program or activity; • violation of public health standards which jeopardize the health or safety of the participant or others; and, RECOMMENDATIONS relate to a class / type of INAPPROPRIATE behaviour, violation of which may invoke a less serious sanction / reprimand (including notification, restricted participation or ban on being officer / staff). Inappropriate behaviour includes: • failure to respect / provide reasonable dietary, health, security and comfort requirements for participants (e.g. vegetarians, asthmatics, non-smokers, bathing privacy, adequate sleep, emergency communication); • failure to respect the privacy of participants, host family members or site staff (including their personal luggage or effects), except in cases of suspected illegal activity, violation of CISV standards / guidelines, or medical confidences when the participant’s behaviour is a threat to the health / safety of the participant or others (NB: standards of confidentiality regarding patient’s medical information / treatment vary widely); • failure to respect “house rules” of host families or sites hosting the CISV programme / activity (including insensitivity in observing known “local” customs or courtesies); • failure to respect differing personal and cultural standards of appropriate educational activities & discipline or sanctions; and, • failure to use appropriate methods to resolve personal / group conflict in intercultural living / activities. Respect for appropriate behaviour is considered so universally important within CISV that the content of this document must be observed and incorporated into CISV’s programmes, activities and administration at every level of the organization. CISV National and Promotional Associations may supplement these declarations, but they may not contradict the wording or effect of official CISV International Policy. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 75 Crisis Management for Leaders/Chapters/NAs What is a Crisis? A crisis can be any threat or event that creates chaos, and possibly suffering. A crisis is generally an isolated incident that interrupts normal activity/camp life. Purpose To provide a standard set of written procedures which allow Director/Staff/Chapter Executive/National Executive to deal effectively with a crisis To provide a communication plan which ensures information reaches all parties external and internal in an effective way during a crisis To categorize crises into two types; life threatening and non-life threatening, setting out procedures to be followed in each case Approach a Crisis Situation Do Be concerned for the care, welfare and safety of all children and adults Remain calm and in control Be polite Be specific in instructions Use your sense of humor, if appropriate Allow the person in crisis to leave, if possible Get help if you are anxious about approaching the situation Do not Offer opinion, speculation or names of those involved Parents must be notified before releasing the names of those injured or killed. If it is necessary to release information about the incident before the parents have been notified, a statement on the status of their notification should be included in the release (i.e. “Names of those involved are being withheld until their families have been notified.”). CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 76 Whom We Must Communicate with During a Crisis Depending on the nature of the crisis situation, many of the following people may need to be informed about the emergency: Parents Law Enforcement Fire Department Medical Services (Hospital, Ambulance) Public Health Officials Media Other Local Government Agencies Types of Crises 2. Life Threatening Crisis Any crisis that immediately threatens the health and the well being of a Child/Leader/Staff/Camp/Activity must be treated as an emergency crisis situation. The first and foremost response to this type of crisis is to react quickly and secure the safety of the children and Staff. Crises that could be categorized as life threatening include: Fire Bomb Threats Collisions involving Vehicles Abductions Death of, Critical Injury to, or Missing Children/Leaders/Staff Serious Disease/Epidemics (Hepatitis, Meningitis) 3. Non-Life Threatening Crisis If a situation exists where the health and welfare of a Child/Leader/Staff/Camp/Activity are not in immediate jeopardy but it threatens to disrupt the normal operations of the camp or if it could have a negative impact on CISV’s reputation in community, certain operational communication procedures must be followed. Crises that could be categorized as non-life threatening include: Misconduct Minor Disease/Epidemics (Measles, Lice) Vandalism Theft The appointed Chapter Risk Manager will be called by the Camp Director/Activity Leader and will be responsible for ensuring the chapter procedure is followed. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 77 How to Handle Life Threatening Crises Phase 1: Stabilize the Crisis Be concerned for the care, welfare and safety of the children and adults. The Director of the camp or Leader of the activity shall be responsible for the children and Leaders. Secure safety of Children/Leaders/Staff Evaluate (if necessary) Attend to victims Call emergency services for assistance Collect and report preliminary information on the crisis to Chapter Chair/National President, and communicate with external audiences Phase 2: Stabilize the Crisis 1. Document preliminary information and in cases where public authorities are involved (i.e. law enforcement) cooperate fully after they have been identified. 2. Contact Chapter Chair within 1 hour of initial awareness of incident. 3. Internal distribution of information – after speaking with Risk Manager and Camp Director/Activity Leader, Chapter Chair makes decision on who within the organization needs notification (i.e. parents, National Risk Manager, National President or National Secretary). National Executive and Chapter Chair will decide whom to call internationally, if necessary. 4. Contact parents of injured children first (a chapter member must accompany injured children to hospital and stay with the child until the parent/guardian arrives). 5. Media: The Chapter Chair or the assigned chapter representative is the only person who will be in contact with the news media. Refer all new media to this person. Staff/Director/Leader may only release information upon the instruction of this person. Phase 3: Secondary Distribution of Information After the immediate danger is under control, do the following: Gather and update as much information as possible (specific details about the crisis, cause, how it was handled, what effect it continues to have on the chapter/camp/activity). An Incident Report Form (IRF 2000) must be made within 4 hours of the incident – this is copied to other executive officers as necessary. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 78 How to Handle Non-Life Threatening Crises Phase 1: Stabilize the Crisis Be concerned for the care, welfare and safety of the children and adults. The Director of the camp or activity Leader shall be responsible for the children and Leaders. Phase 2: Preliminary Distribution of Information 1. Document preliminary information and in cases where public authorities (i.e. law enforcement) first bring the crisis to the attention of Staff/Leaders/Chapter President ask for identification of the investigating party, ask for as much information about the alleged incident as possible and cooperate fully with authorities after identification. 2. Contact Chapter President within 1 hour of initial awareness of incident. 3. Internal distribution of information – Chapter President makes judgment call on who within the organization needs notification (i.e. parents or a National Executive). National Executive and Chapter President will decide whom to call internationally, if necessary. 4. Media: The Chapter President will make a statement. Refer all news media to this person. Phase 3: Secondary Distribution of Information An Incident Report Form (IRF 2000) must be made within 4 hours of the incident – this is copied to other executive officers as necessary. Oral Report 1. Who to call – National President, National Risk Manager and/or other National Associations 2. What to state in your call Your name Where you are calling from The nature of the problem The people who initially saw or reported the incident The names and number of children and/or adults involved, if known Action taken at that time Reporting to Parents Provide as much confirmed information as is available to parents/guardians of injured children Avoid speculation about what caused the accident and/or related injuries Reporting to the News Media The Chapter President or the assigned chapter representative is the only person who will be in contact with the news media. Refer all news media to this person. Staff/Director/Leader may only release information upon the instruction of this person. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 79 First Aid Kit Contents It is suggested that all Leaders and Staff have current First Aid and CPR certification. This is strongly recommended for JCs. Despite what you may believe, even simple first aid items are not always available on planes, trains, homes, hotels or campsites. The contents of a good first aid kit should include: First Aid manual List of emergency numbers (for Delegates, camp, CISV) Scissors Tweezers Safety pins (15-20 in various sizes) Thermometer Cotton swabs Sterile absorbent gauze pads Roll gauze bandage Roll adhesive tape (preferably water proof) Band-aids (various sizes) Tensor bandage Triangular bandage Antiseptic swabs Antibacterial Disposable plastic gloves (several pairs) Burn ointment Prescription drugs (if required) Copies of doctors’ prescriptions for eyeglasses and medicines Fever/pain medication Air sickness medication Antihistamine or nasal decongestant Cough medicine Throat lozenges Caladryl (for insect bites) Sunscreen lotion Antacid Diarrhea medication Spare glasses and contact lenses Ample supply of contact lens solutions All medications should be carried in their original containers so they can be easily identified. The amount of medications taken should be enough for the full trip plus an additional two to three days. The first aid kit should be carried with you when traveling and not packed in luggage. It is a good idea to carry the kit (or a condensed version) on all excursions also. If you plan to include syringes and needles as part of the first aid kit, you must include a physician’s letter indicating the reason for the needles. The letter should be written on the doctor’s letterhead if possible. If you have these items in your possession without a cover letter, you may encounter problems at airports and border crossings. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 80 First Aid Procedures First aid is the immediate care given to a person who has been injured or has suddenly taken ill. Your decisions and actions will vary according to the circumstances that produce the accident or sudden illness, the number or people involved, the immediate environment, availability of medical assistance, equipment and help from others. You need to assess the situation quickly, remain calm and use common sense. Wounds Abrasion: outer layer of skin (i.e. floor burn) – clean with soap and water, apply bandage if needed Incision: caused by knife, rough edge or glass with rapid and heavy bleeding – apply direct pressure; may need sutures and/or tetanus shot Laceration: jagged, irregular or blunt breaking or tearing of skin with rapid and extensive bleeding – treatment same as incision Puncture: piercing of skin layers with a small hole – clean with soap and water, apply bandage if needed, could cause internal damage, may need tetanus shot Avulsion: tissue separated or torn from body with heavy and rapid bleeding – apply direct pressure, save body part and get to doctor immediately Head Injuries Scalp wounds bleed heavily and may require sutures. Wounds may not swell but watch for signs of concussion (dizziness, headache, vomiting and unconsciousness). Apply ice to area of swelling. Sprains Injuries to ligaments and tendons of joints - apply ice, keep injured part elevated, and see a physician Strains Injuries to muscles due to over-extension - apply ice and rest muscles Fractures Immobilize, apply ice and get to a physician CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 81 Burns Apply cold water or ice, seek medical treatment if burns are severe; if blisters form keep clean and do not break open Sunburn Apply aloe gel to help with discomfort, seek medical treatment if burns are severe; drink plenty of water, wear loose light-colored clothing Heat Stroke Symptoms include elevated body temperature, sweating mechanism disturbed, skin hot, red and dry, rapid and strong pulse, unconsciousness – immediately decrease temperature by sponge bath and seek medical treatment Heat Exhaustion Symptoms include fatigue, weakness, collapse due to decreased intake of water and increased sweating, normal body temperature, pale and clammy skin, profuse perspiration, nauseous, fainting, headaches – sip salt water, lie down, elevate feet and wear cool, loose clothing Heat Cramp Symptoms include muscular pain and spasm, mostly in legs and abdomen, due to decreased salt intake – rub spasm and sip salt water Seizures Cannot stop once one has started – do not restrain, do not place object in mouth, do protect from hurting self, may need sleep after seizure ceases Asthma Sip warm water to slow breathing, use prescribed medication and inhalers Diabetes Insulin reaction: sudden hunger, weakness, restlessness, pallor, sweating, dilated pupils, tremors, dizziness, unconsciousness – give orange juice or glucose paste Diabetic acidosis: drowsiness, dryness of skin, cherry red lips, increased respirations, nausea, vomiting, abdominal pain, can go into coma – give insulin, see physician CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 82 Chapter 7: Program Guide What is covered in this Chapter? This Chapter includes a list of important sections of the international program guides that each Leader should receive and review in preparation for his CISV experience. Why is it important? CISV Leaders, especially new ones, have a lot of questions regarding CISV programs. CISV International has developed Guides for each program to help answer some of these questions. Every leader should have a current copy of the Guide for his specific program. All CISV Program Guides are available for downloading and printing at home through the CISV-International website: http://resources.cisv.org or through http://support.cisvusa.org Important Handouts. The United Nations Declaration of the Rights of the Child Village Guide (2004) Chapter 2 Introduction to the Village 3 The Village Program 5 Host Staff 6 Preparation of the Delegation 6.5 Junior Counselor 7.5 Cultural Sensitivity Summer Camp Guide (2003) Chapter 2 Introduction of the International Summer Camp 3 Program Overview 5.2 Roles and Responsibilities of the Staff and Director 6.3 Roles and Responsibilities of Leaders 7.2.3 Knowledge about the Structure of the Summer Camp 9 Evaluation Interchange Guide (2004) Chapter 2 Introduction to Interchange 4.6 Policies of Interchange 4.9 Pairing Process and Criteria 5 Hosting a Program CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 83 The United Nations Declaration of the Rights of the Child The right to a name and nationality The right to affection, love and understanding and to material security The right to adequate nutrition, housing and medical services The right to special care if disabled, be it physically, mentally or socially The right to be among the first to receive protection and relief in all circumstances The right to be protected against all forms of neglect, cruelty and exploitation The right to full opportunity for play and recreation and equal opportunity to free and compulsory education, to enable the child to develop his individual abilities and to become a useful member of society The right to develop his full potential in conditions of freedom and dignity The right to be brought up in a spirit of understanding, tolerance, friendship among peoples, peace and universal brotherhood The right to enjoy these rights regardless of race, color, sex, religion, political or other opinion, national or social origin and property, birth or other status CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 84 Chapter 8: Communication What is covered in this Chapter? This Chapter presents some ideas on different aspects of communication that can assist Leaders in effectively working with their own Delegates and those from other chapters and countries. Why is it important? Communication involves exchanging messages using a variety of forms, including verbal, written and body language. An understanding of the different forms in which we communicate is very important in CISV experiences, as various language barriers and cultural characteristics challenge effective communication. In these cases one needs to take an extra effort to ensure that communication is not being blocked, especially when conveying important information. Important Handouts. Communication Influences on Communication Strategies for Effective Communication Examples of Conflict-Creating Communication Suggested Activity with Delegation CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 85 Communication Communication is the key to effective leadership. Skills in communication are necessities in today’s populated world. We must be able to express ourselves in a manner that enables others to understand our ideas. “I know that you believe you understand what you think I said, but… I am not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant.” Communication is shaking hands with someone, talking over the phone, giving a speech, waving to a friend at the airport or talking with your best friend over lunch. Communication is the act of sending and receiving messages by one or more persons. Communication is not always verbal. Communication is a shared experience. Communication is the key to understanding. Non-Verbal Communication The most obvious form of communication is verbal, based on language, usually in the form of speech or writing. However, verbal messages are almost always accompanied by non-verbal signals. Non-verbal signals are indirect forms of communication that can transmit different messages from those spoken directly. Non-verbal communication is going on all the time and coming from many different places at once. While we are engaged in conversation with one another, we are constantly being bombarded with messages from the other person’s face, hands, posture, intonation of voice and the distance separating us. Researchers estimate that non-verbal signals make up from 60-90% of the message during direct face-to-face communication. If these estimates are correct, non-verbal communications relay our frame of mind much more accurately than our most carefully worded comments. Non-verbal signals often overpower the verbal message being delivered. For example, if a person gives an affirmative answer but his face displays a negative expression, we tend to interpret the non-verbal message as the “real” one. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 86 Influences on Communication Whether you are the sender or receive of a message, you speak and hear according to your own unique needs and feelings. Everyone is unique in this aspect. This means that often people think they are being clear enough so that others can understand them when in reality they are not. This is not because they do not want to be clear, but rather because they see or hear things from their own perspectives. In other words, people’s perceptions differ. Perception is a process in which an individual takes what he hears, sees, smells or feels, and processes that information so that it has meaning to him. There are many factors influencing perception, as shown below. 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. Past Experience. People perceive a given situation in terms of their past experiences with family members, friends and other important figures in their lives. People with different pasts will have had different experiences and will therefore perceive the same situation differently. Cultural Influence. Cultures tend to differ distinctly in their non-verbal communication gestures. People from different cultures attach a wide variety of meanings to the same specific non-verbal behavior. Many misunderstandings between people from different cultures arise because non-verbal signs are read with different meanings. Body language differs from culture to culture and even within a culture. However, the physiological reactions of the human body are identical in all cultures. For example, blushing, perspiring, clammy hands, dry mouth, quavering voice and tears. Social Influence. People may adjust their perceptions according to peer or social pressure. For example, youth may be pressured to drink or smoke and will change their perceptions because of social pressures. Interests. What we care about has a way of capturing our attention and shaping our perceptions. People who are interested in sports might see things differently than people interested in music or politics. Values. What we value influences our perceptions, and what we value, we perceive as important. A value is something we prize, something by which we guide our lives. Each individual has a slightly different set of values; some may value honesty more than wisdom or some may value money over pride. Understanding and being aware of differences in perception can help in the communication process. In dealing with others who have different perception than yours, try to understand and respect the differences while explaining your point of view. One of the best ways to minimize miscommunication is to remember that it is rare for people to act deliberately disrespectful or insulting toward others, especially strangers or guests. Therefore, if you have the feeling that somebody has insulted you through a certain behavior or through the absence of an expected behavior, you probably have made the common mistake of interpreting his behavior according to the standard set by your own culture. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 87 Strategies for Effective Communication Many elements influence the communication process, but all of them are based on the following six main components: When the communication takes place Where the communication takes place Why the communication takes place How the communication takes place What the communication is about Who communicates with whom When the aim is mutual understanding, the following practices are helpful to ensure effective communication. Most of them apply to communication in general and all apply when communicating across language barriers. 1. Speak slowly and use simple, common words. 2. Watch the other person’s facial expressions. What are they “saying” to you? Are you reading their expressions correctly? Check with them! 3. Paraphrase – repeat what you think the other person is saying to you. 4. Ask questions – seek clarification to make sure that you understand what the other person is saying. 5. Face the person and don’t speak with your back to them. 6. Don’t worry about the “correctness” of English. 7. Listen and avoid interrupting. 8. Focus on the other person and avoid distractions. 9. Use non-verbal signals that match your body language with your words. 10. Be patient. 11. Be attentive and interested in what the other person is saying. There are many ways to send messages that can improve mutual understanding. For example, spontaneous humor is often a successful way to make people feel good. Here are some more effective strategies: 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. Show openness and honesty. Try to sense or identify the sender’s reality. Both sender and receiver must wish to communicate. The setting must allow communication (i.e. not too noisy). Give each other mutual respect. Find a common platform. Send clear messages. Give “I” messages that describe what is happening and the effect that it has on your feelings. For example, “When I saw most Leaders missed the meeting I felt disappointed.” 9. Use active listening techniques that show sincere interest. Active listening is the following: a. Send non-verbal messages like nods b. Rephrase what the sender said c. Ask for more information CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 88 Examples of Conflict-Creating Communication There are numerous examples of answers you might give that could be considered offensive. The examples listed below have a tendency to block communication. Imagine that someone comes to you with a problem and you respond in one of the following manners: 1. Command or give directions – “Stop complaining and do something about it instead!” 2. Warn or threaten – “You had better get started or you are going to be in trouble!” 3. Moralize or preach – “You’re here to take care of your Delegation; personal problems have to wait.” 4. Give advice or suggest – “You have to learn how to adjust, then it will sort itself out.” 5. Teach or use logic – “Let’s look at the facts; the program for tomorrow has to be planned tonight.” 6. Judge or criticize – “You are lazy or maybe you are just slow.” 7. Ridicule or humiliate – “You are behaving like a Delegate, not a Leader.” 8. Interpret, analyze or diagnose – “You are just trying to run away from the fact that…” 9. Praise or agree – “You are such a great Leader; I’m sure you can work it out.” 10. Calm down, comfort or show understanding – “Don’t worry, you’re not the only one feeling that way; you’ll feel better after the family weekend.” 11. Look into, question or interrogate – “Did you find this task too difficult, and if so, why did you wait this long before talking to me about it?” 12. Withdrawal, use sarcasm or jokes – “Come on, let’s talk about something more pleasant than this!” Some of these answers you might find to be obvious “blocks” but if you think it through you will find that we have all used some of these at one point or another. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 89 Suggested Activity with Delegation Instructions: Each person needs a pen and some paper. Split the group into pairs. Person “A” is the sender and Person “B” is the receiver. 1. Person “A” draws a simple drawing using geometric shapes that Person “B” is not allowed to see. 2. Person “A” gives Person “B” instructions on how to draw his drawing as precisely as possible. Person “B” copies the drawing according to the instructions given by Person “A.” Person “A” is not allowed to look at Person “B’s” drawing. Person “B” may ask questions to clarify. 3. Repeat the activity in Steps 1-2 but now use a time limit of 12 minutes. The facilitator increases the pressure by stating how much time is left every 10 seconds. Person “B” is allowed to ask questions of Person “A.” 4. Repeat the activity in Steps 1-2 but now no questions are permitted. 5. Repeat the activity in Step 3 but now no questions are permitted. 6. Reverse roles (Person “B” now draws and gives instruction and Person “A” tries to copy the drawing) and repeat the activity. Debriefing: 1. In which situation did you feel the most comfortable? 2. What other feelings arose in the other scenarios? 3. What frustrations did you have when giving the directions? 4. What frustrations did you have when receiving the directions? 5. What lessons can we get from this activity that will help us in our CISV experience? CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 90 Chapter 9: Working with Parents What is covered in this Chapter? This chapter will present some ideas on how Leaders can effectively work with the parents of their Delegates. Why is it important? The parents of CISV Delegates are critical members of the Delegation. It is important for all Leaders to work well with parents and to understand their needs prior to the program experience. If the group as a whole has a common understanding of their purpose as a Delegation, it will not only make Delegation preparation easier, but also heighten the program experience for everyone involved. Important Handouts. Parental Expectations of CISV Leaders Responsibilities of Parents of CISV Delegates Hints for Working with Parents CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 91 Parental Expectations of CISV Leaders The main concern of parents will be to see that the needs of their child when traveling are properly met. This varies from physical safety to moral and psychological support. Leaders should realize that some of these children may not have traveled separately from their families before or may never have been separated from their parents for a long period of time. Parents expect that the Leader will be a parent substitute while they are not around and yet be a friend to the youth during the experience. This is a balance that each Leader must work out as he prepares his Delegation. Leaders should also be prepared to deal with varying reactions from parents. A parent’s expectation of leadership skills is highly dependent on the experience from their professions or careers. Some, such as corporate executives, may expect Leaders to be very professional and organized, running meetings like a board meeting. Others may expect a very relaxed environment and more of a casual relationship. Leaders should understand that they are surrogate parents and that parents may need some time to develop trust in them. Responsibilities of Parents of CISV Delegates The main responsibilities of the parents will be to ensure that their child is properly preparing for the CISV experience. They should equip him with anything special that he might need to make sure he commits to regular meetings with the other members of the Delegation. Parents must ensure that their children cooperate with other members of their Delegation and listen and respect the Adult Leader. In addition, the parents will assist with the planning by being responsible for specific tasks and duties required when preparing the Delegation. This includes making travel arrangements, purchasing tickets, souvenir items, travel clothing, etc. These duties should be outlined in the first meeting. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 92 Hints for Working with Parents The First Meeting The first information/orientation meeting with the Delegation is important, as it will outline how future Delegation preparations will proceed. Leaders should be prepared to answer numerous questions from both parents and youth. Parents will be interested in knowing and understanding the Leader. Some will need to know more about CISV. Parents want to be satisfied that the Leader is trained and will be a vehicle for their questions. It is useful for someone (Chapter Chair, Liaison, Program Coordinator or Leadership Mentor) to attend the first meeting with the Leader. This individual can welcome the new families to CISV and answer questions that the Leader may not be able to. They can also provide a contact in case parents have other concerns. A welcome package is good to distribute at the first meeting and should include: CISV Background and Philosophies Goals of the Program Contact Names and Address Lists Calendar CISV Forms (Health and Legal/Insurance) Pre-Camp Information (if available) Parent Information An agenda for the meeting is very useful. The Leader should realize that it is his meeting, so he should be chairing it and making sure that all of the important items are discussed. Consider writing your agenda out or having copies available for the parents. Suggested items for an agenda include: Introductions (Who am I, Why are we here?) Expectations of roles (What is my role, What do you think my role is?) History of CISV Program overview Welcome package – distribute and discuss Costs and Budget (presented by Chapter Chair) Schedule of future meetings and calendar of events Assignment of duties and tasks to parents Financial Coordinator Travel Coordinator (tickets, passports, visas) Medical and Insurance forms Souvenirs and Gifts Surprise Activity CISV Song CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 93 There are various ways to introduce these topics. For example, Leaders can run a “name game” to introduce each person. Another idea is to ask each person to identify a famous person he would like to have dinner with and explain why. Leaders can use different techniques to introduce CISV and the program, such as videos, photo albums, scrapbooks, CISV souvenirs and other paraphernalia from previous Leaders. Have one parent responsible for taking the minutes of the meeting and distribute these at the next meeting. At the end of each meeting, recap what was decided upon at the meeting and any projects to be completed for the next meeting. Getting to Know Your Delegation Parents As a Delegation, the Leader and the parents must have consensus on a process for decision making as a group and stick to it. For all meetings, set “ground rules” with the parents (they can have a CISV parent present when discussing) such as follows: Everyone needs to agree, reach consensus Everyone needs to listen There may be times when a Leader must make the final decision Everyone has to understand and respect the philosophy of CISV If parents have concerns, they must talk to the Leader or the chapter program coordinator directly If the Leader has concerns, he must talk to the parents or the chapter program coordinator directly Another useful way to introduce discussion items is by using “What if” scenarios. A session with the parents can include the discussion of various “What if” occurrences to find out how they, as individuals and as a group, would like the Leader to respond in various situations. For example: “What if your son breaks his leg on an excursion? Apart from seeking medical attention, how would you like me to respond?” would be a good way to begin discussion on medical emergencies. Another could be, “What if a host family offers wine to your child during dinner as part of their culture and the Leader only finds out after the incident. How would you like me to handle this situation?” Chapter 12 of this manual contains additional “What if” scenarios. Encourage parents to invite Leaders over for dinner. It is a wonderful opportunity to meet the entire family and see how the child interacts with the members of his family, which will give you and indication of potential behavior. Another helpful idea is to get the parents to write you a letter about “A day in the life of ______.” This letter can give you valuable insights into your Delegates and their families as well as provide you some helpful tips that you can use when you are at your CISV experience. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 94 Communication During the CISV Experience Most parents will want to communicate with their children as much as possible during the experience. The advent of numerous forms of technology, such as telephones, faxes and e-mail, has made “instant” communication very easy, prevalent and at times a dependence for some families. Leaders should be very clear with the parents of their requirement for communicating news. Important messages, such as safe arrival calls during travel or emergency situations are imperative. However, daily contact is not necessary and is actually detrimental to the success of a CISV program. Leaders should discuss with the parents what is expected in the area of communication during a CISV experience and agree on an acceptable method prior to the departure. After the CISV Experience Leaders should stress that the children will need their parents’ help and support after their CISV experience. Parents will be expected to listen patiently to many tales of the experiences their children have had, and parents will need to help relate these to their children’s everyday lives as they grow older. Parents need to appreciate that their children may have changed somewhat when they return from their experience. They may seem different, more confident and mature. They will most certainly want to keep in touch with their many friends, and at first will write and receive many letters and e-mails. As time goes by, they might be less inclined to answer letters and again here is where parents can help. They can also help if an invitation comes to visit a friend in another country for a holiday and reciprocate, if possible, by inviting a friend to come and stay with them. The child should be encouraged to play a full and active part in the Local Work activities of the Junior Branch. They should be helped to realize that responsibilities continue in CISV when, as the magic of the experience wears off, they might want to channel their energies into other things. Just as in any other facet of education, parents have a vital role to play and should give the child their full support, both now and in years to come. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 95 Parental Involvement in CISV CISV has grown because of the determination of individuals; not through pressure from society, government or commerce, but simply because individuals have seen a need for CISV and have responded. CISV owes its very existence today to the involvement of parents at all levels and will cease to continue if the parents of today’s CISV youth do not equally respond to the challenge. Parents are needed to ensure the future of CISV for coming generations of children. They may involve themselves as fully as they may want, but CISV needs them however much or however little they can or want to contribute. Their child’s participation in CISV is the only invitation they need. They will see what CISV has meant to their child when he returns from his experience. They will want to make sure that other children also have the same opportunities. Volunteers and CISV Parents can volunteer in their local chapter in many ways, such as joining chapter committees for recruitment, selection or hosting. They can also help by supporting fund raising functions, hosting Delegates and contributing small items when required. Their time and effort are what is really needed. Parents can also become involved as members of the local chapter board and work to strengthen the chapter within the local community through their efforts. In addition, they might become involved with the National Association in strengthening CISV and establishing new chapters in other parts of the country. Parents can also apply to become Adult Leaders or Staff members. Parents could work with CISV internationally; in time maybe becoming the National Association’s representative on the International Board. Simply becoming an international member of CISV (life or annual) is also a tremendous contribution. CISV continually has vacancies for involving parents, and the degree of involvement is up to them. Without their participation in one way or another, CISV will begin to lose it character and influence. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 96 Chapter 10: Age Characteristics What is covered in this Chapter? This Chapter includes information about age characteristics of the youth that make up the CISV Delegations. General characteristics are outlined for each program’s age group. Please note: These are general characteristics only and are from a North American perspective and therefore may not be representative of all children or all cultures. Why is it important? An understanding of the development of a child is an essential component to begin a good leader of youth. This knowledge will assist the Leader with the programming during the CISV experience. Important Handouts. Age Characteristics of Youth by CISV Program CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 97 Age 11 Years – Village The eleven-year old child is an inquisitive person. He has an absorbent mind and is able to soak up information and impressions when they are presented to him. This aged child is still relatively uninhibited, however, he is increasingly more aware of his abilities and is starting to become more self-conscious. With the encouragement of the adults, and the example set by the adults, the child is usually willing to participate. Children at this age are usually willing to try out new languages, dances, songs and activities. The eleven-year old child follows by example. He is more willing to participate when he sees those in charge participating also. The eleven-year old child still seeks the approval of the adult. He is willing to try to please, however, the approval of his peer group is still more important. If you must discuss a problem or difficulty you are having with your Delegate, do not do it in front of his peers. Have the discussion with the child in private. Humiliation in front of his peers is a devastating event. Children at this age enjoy working with a group. They are increasingly more social and have an internal need to socialize with other children. Children at this age have a far more developed idea of right and wrong. They need explanations for different situations. What you may perceive as fair, they may not. Try to find a middle ground, allowing the participants to be a part of the problem-solving process. Most children at this age can handle activities that are approximately an hour in length. This is only a guide. You must remember that for some children, this will seem like an eternity. For many reasons, most not scientifically proven, children have a less developed attention span now than in previous years. This may be because of society’s tendency for immediate gratification (for example, faster computers, video games, drive-through restaurants). You may find that some participants begin to act “silly” or uninterested; this is an indication that you may need to take a break. Stand up and shake the sillies out! Children at this age like to participate in the planning of activities. They have not yet developed the skills to do it on their own completely. Allow them to work in a group with some adult intervention. If you want to give them suggestions, ask them first (e.g. “I see you are having difficulties with this section, can I make a suggestion?”). Remember that your Village Delegates of today are your Junior Counselors and Leaders of the future. Begin to teach them the skills of leadership and responsibility. Remember that this is their experience and help make it the best one of their lives. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 98 Additional Information on Age Characteristics From “Observing Children,” 11 years old General Girls may be 12 to 15 months ahead in development; menstruation is a topic to be discussed with parents and individual Delegates Ready to absorb knowledge, sustain interests, perfect skills and complete tasks Energy Boys and girls who are late in this phase may be very fidgety and squirmy Tremendous energy consumed (often hungry); may give little thought to other body needs, except when hurt or tired Relationship to peers Peer group becomes more important - “I” becomes “we” Close friendships with same sex may develop Verbal banter with opposite sex reveals interest and gaps in social skills Common goals may be achieved by sharing and cooperating Conflicts may be settled verbally (aware of coherence and logic in argument) More aware of the significance of others to himself – soon realizes the significance of relationships with others, particularly adults Very sociable with peers of the same sex – readily interacts and is seen at ease Relationships are easy-going and pleasant Language/Listening Can listen critically (detects flaws in reasoning of others, questions validity of conclusions, evaluates) Can appreciate the feeling and values expressed through poetry and music Attention can be held for a longer period of time; when something interests the child he is much more capable of concentrating and applying himself for a longer period of time as long as he sees the significance of what he is doing Able to begin to follow more closely the unfolding of a situation, an event and even a thought CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 99 Speaking Abstract concepts still developing (i.e. world geography) Ability to argue increases with ability to take another point of view Shows understanding of reason and consequences Aware of listener’s needs Possible distrust of some people At this age, the child is sociable but must not be betrayed; the child may develop distrust if he senses resistance in another, particularly an adult Demands to be treated the same as others his age Very industrious The child has many projects – he wants and likes to do all sorts of things Imagination is keen and alert Able to busy, amuse himself and play on his own Responds very well to projects Bodily awareness Particularly girls begin to realize the importance of bodily development; this is not yet a dimension that consumes all of the child’s energies, but signs of preoccupation with the body begin to appear How the profile influences the choice of activities Activities should take into account the connections the child is able to draw between objects and events Activities should provide opportunities for comparisons to be made between objects, situations and people Activities should also call for the completion of small projects At this stage, questions fascinate the child and he is able to devote considerable energy to finding answers Activities should involve people – social interaction is very important at this age; the child like to know people and learn more about them CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 100 Age 12-15 Years – Summer Camp and Interchange Young adolescents are in the search for self-identity. Their peer group becomes increasingly important in their lives and adolescents feel an intense need to belong. Peer pressures and gender differences increase and the adolescent experience a strong desire to experiment with new behaviors in their attempt to understand who they are. Through CISV programs, such as an Interchange or a Summer Camp, we have the ability to instill a sense of self-confidence in the youth participants at a time when it is most important. As children enter adolescence, school and community influences begin to compete with the home environment. Each setting where young people live, work and play provides opportunities for youth to strengthen both their identities and their social, emotional and intellectual competencies. Because of this fact, it is important to focus in on the educational content of your program. Allow your participants to be part of the process. Allow them to make decisions and live with the outcomes. Teach them the importance of evaluation. Youth need to feel that they are in a supportive environment and they need clearly defined boundaries form the people in charge. Contrary to what you may think, young adolescents like to know that there are rules and they are expected to follow them. Clearly defined rules of the group make the participants feel comfortable that those in charge care about their well-being. The young person of this age is marked by significant changes in relationships related to his emerging independence. Relationships with parents and peers change at this time. They work very well with a group. They are now able to better resolve interpersonal conflicts peacefully and are more comfortable communicating ideas and feelings. Early adolescence is a time when young people experiment and make important decisions related to sexuality and the use of alcohol, tobacco and other drugs. It is important to discuss these things with your participants before embarking on your Interchange or Summer Camp. It may be helpful as a group to make a list of goals and expectations for the experience. Talk about why you are participating in the program. It is also important to review the rules of CISV International with regards to sexual activity, drugs and alcohol. Remember that the adolescent is trying to figure out all of the feelings and emotions that he is experiencing. The opposite sex is an important aspect in his life. This is normal. If you develop a relationship with your participants based upon trust and openness, you will be better able to monitor their activities. They will not want to hurt you or lose your trust. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 101 As the Leader, it is your responsibility to care for the Delegates while they are in your care. You are responsible for making sure that their experience with the Interchange or Summer Camp is one of the most important of their lives. Through these experiences you have the ability to instill some very important characteristics in the youth that they will be able to carry on into adulthood. The following are some areas that you may want to think about trying to help your Delegates gain throughout their experience: A positive, secure and integrated identity Social competency and strong interpersonal skills Commitment to learning and evaluation Healthy, appropriate behavior choices Ability to adapt, to change and to cope with adversity Cultural understanding CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 102 Additional Information on Age Characteristics From “Observing Children,” 12-15 years old General Increased concern about body image Girls may mature 12 to 16 months earlier than boys Onset of puberty: girls 11-13, boys 12-14 Hormone changes result in physical and sexual maturation Energy Growth rate may result in fatigue, lethargy and restlessness Mood swings possible because of glandular changes Appetite increases as energy consumed increases Emotions more forceful, dynamic and fluctuating Language Can listen critically to reports and views and make pertinent contributions Can appreciate the feelings and values expressed through poetry and music Behavior/Self-image Rapid physical changes produce strain – the child may need privacy to reflect and gain perspective Seeks identity; tries out many roles Is uncertain and self-conscious about image Needs to integrate self-image with opinion of others Is responsible, self-critical and/or self-admiring Experiences mood fluctuations Has difficulty making decisions; is aware of so many possibilities Relationship to adults Is critical towards adults but needs adult approval and support (selects significant adult) Fluctuates between dependence and independence Understands rules as mutual agreements for the social good Abhors double standards Can be rebellious and uncooperative Test limits CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 103 Relationship to peers Requires close and trusted friends Group acceptance is important Peer groups less random and longer lasting Groups become mixed by the end of the phase Great interest in opposite sex (jokes and “sex talk” common) Likes to discuss social issues May have high interest in team games and group activities CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 104 Chapter 11: Planning an Activity What is covered in this Chapter? This Chapter provides a template for use when creating and planning activities. It contains lists of some valuable resources of activities that are appropriate for CISV and also includes guidelines of characteristics of activities that we should be wary of in CISV programs. Why is it important? The important thing to consider when planning activities within CISV programs is that all activities should reflect CISV’s unique goals and philosophies. The purpose of a CISV activity should always focus around the CISV Education Circle (refer to Chapter 1). In addition, if there is one thing that is certain for all CISV programs, it is that time flies – it is valuable then, for Leaders to have an outline to follow which allows them to plan activities more easily and more quickly. Important Handouts. Steps to Creating an Activity International Guidelines on Behavior and Cultural Sensitivity (from Chapter 1) CISV USA Guidelines on Inappropriate Activities Evaluation Methods CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 105 STEPS TO CREATING AN ACTIVITY STEP 1: Brainstorming Ground rules for brainstorming: No criticism is allowed – everything is accepted – be flexible and open to all ideas Get creative – the wilder the ideas the better Combine and improve – add, mix and match ideas Collect quantity – more ideas make for more creative activities STEP 2: Activity Selection The activity that you choose from the brainstorming session will depend on a variety of criteria that will determine if the activity is appropriate or inappropriate. There is a set of CISV International guidelines that outline characteristics of behavior and activities that are considered inappropriate or unacceptable in CISV settings. CISV USA has developed a list of games/activities that are to be approached with caution – consult this list and make sure that other participants in your program are aware of it (refer to Appendix 3). Criteria for selecting an activity: Does the activity fit into the CISV Education Circle? Does the activity follow the CISV Guidelines on behavior and cultural sensitivity? What are your goals and objectives and does the activity meet these? Comfort level of the group – how well do you know each other and should activities involving close contact be postponed? What age group are you working with – is the activity age appropriate? What space do you have available – is weather an issue? Is the activity feasible in a multilingual setting? What materials are needed and are they available? What is the number of participants required and will there be adequate leadership supervision? What is the time period required – would the activity take a long/short time? CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 106 STEP 3: Planning the Activity Things to consider: What time of day would be best for this activity? What participant energy level is needed – best early, mid or late in the day? How much time is available for the activity? Identify and make arrangements to acquire all materials, additional help and resources needed. Is this a large or small group activity - should a large group be divided and if so, how? What is the appropriate location and size of space for the activity? Can the activity be modified in case of sudden changes in weather, time and participant interest? Do we need to have alternate plans? How should the activity be explained – large or small groups? If the activity is “low-action” do we need an energizer before the activity? If translation is required to do the activity, have we allowed time for this? Does the activity require debriefing afterwards and how should it be done? STEP 4: Running the Activity Get there early to set up in ample time before participants arrive. Be prepared and tie up all loose ends so everything is prepared before beginning the activity. Explain the rules of the activity slowly and clearly and allow time for translations, if required. Is the activity working? If not, stop before the activity spirals out of control. If it is not working because of a misunderstanding of the rules, then explain the rules again. If the problem seems to be poor response from participants, then modify the activity. Make sure to evaluate the activity immediately to account for the problems. Be attentive to unexpected developments in the activity and modify if necessary to maintain control. Some of these developments may lead to positive outcomes – do not be afraid to let things continue to “see what happens” and evaluate afterwards. Watch the time – is the activity running longer than planned and is that OK? Is the activity dragging – let the activity end on a good note and don’t keep pushing on if interest and appeal has been lost. Encourage full participation from all participants and watch for and give support to the shy ones. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 107 STEP 5: Debriefing the Activity Is debriefing needed? Should it be done in large/small group discussions or both? Should the debriefing be completed by Delegations? Encourage feedback from all participants. Facilitate discussion to keep focus and control – if the discussion gets off topic but is important and relevant then consider allowing the discussion to continue as it may bring forth important issues. Try to relate the activity to the “big picture” of CISV’s philosophy and the real world. STEP 6: Evaluating the Activity This is particularly important for activities that experienced difficulties, so that the planners can learn form mistakes and modify the activity for future occasions. All activities should be evaluated. What method (written, verbal, pictures or drama) will we use? Direct evaluation to learn what participants liked and learned from the activity. Self evaluate (planners evaluate their activity separate from the participants) Was everyone involved? Did people lose interest and if so, why? What would we change to improve this activity in the future? Did the activity meet our aims and goals? CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 108 Chapter 12: What If’s What is covered in this Chapter? This Chapter includes scenarios that can be used to explore and dig deeper into each of the chapters in this handbook. Why is it important? The best way to learn is through participating actively in the learning process. Going through scenarios of real-life situations that have occurred in other CISV programs is an excellent opportunity for Leaders to learn from experience and to prepare for what situations they may encounter. After the National Leadership Training, many Leaders want to dedicate more time to discussing possible scenarios of events that may arise during their CISV experience. The following “What If” scenarios can be used in the following various ways: 1. Discussion Tool: Present each situation and have the group discuss how they would react to such a situation. 2. Role-play: Ask two or three individuals to take on a role of one the people in the situations. Have them act out the situation and then allow the group to add their input in a discussion after each role-play. NOTE: These are only suggested examples of situations. Ask former Leaders to present situations they faced during their CISV experience. Important Handouts. Village What If’s Interchange What If’s Summer Camp What If’s CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 109 Village What If’s 1. Persons involved: Leader (Hiroko) Leader (Joe) Situation: Hiroko thinks Joe is not strict enough with his Delegates. He does not make them be as quiet as Hiroko would like during translation time. 2. Persons involved: Delegate (Torsten) JC (Manuel) Situation: Torsten does not do what Manuel asks him to do. Instead, Torsten makes jokes about the things Manuel tells him and the other children to do. 3. Persons involved: Delegate (Sarah) Leader (Amanda) Situation: Sarah has not been participating in her cleaning group. Amanda, Sarah’s Leader, talks to Sarah about the importance of participation and helping out. Sarah is defiant and refuses to listen to Amanda and tells Amanda that she doesn’t have to listen to anything she says. 4. Persons involved: Director (Paula) Leader (Chris) Situation: Chris has slept during the better part of the last three Leaders’ meetings. 5. Persons involved: Delegates (Helena, Kim) Staff, Leaders Situation: It is time for the mid-Village homestay. Helena hates Kim, the girl she has been paired up with, and says she will not go. 6. Persons involved: JCs (Mark, Sven, Elena, Emilia and Lotte) Staff Situation: The group of four JCs has developed a tight group and is ignoring the other JC, Lotte. She is becoming quiet and withdrawn from the Village. 7. Persons involved: Leaders JCs Situation: None of the JCs are included in the daily Leaders’ meetings because they are told that they have to look after the children. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 110 8. Persons involved: Leader (Moira) JC (Lars) Situation: Tomorrow Moira will conduct a game that requires four rather complicated charts. She asked Lars to make them. He said nothing to her, but she overheard him calling her bad names while he was sitting with some children in Delegation at dinner. 9. Persons involved: Leader (Nic) Staff, Leaders Situation: Nic has been acting very childish during activities, often disrupting the group and provoking the children to misbehave. 10. Persons involved: Staff (Emma) Staff (Fredrik) Situation: Emma has been acting very affectionate with one of the JCs. One night Fredrik finds Emma and a JC alone in the Staff room making out. 11. Persons involved: Staff (Emily) Director (Susan) Situation: Emily, the Staff JC liaison, strongly disagrees with the Director, Susan, about how to discipline the group of JCs who were caught off site late one evening. Susan wants to call their parents. Emily feels that they can handle this problem internally. 12. Persons involved: Parent (Fernando) Leader (Maria) Situation: Fernando is concerned about the Leader Maria. He thinks that she is too young and inexperienced to take a group of children away. He has expressed his feelings with the other parents in the Delegation. 13. Persons involved: Staff (Nina) Leader (Walter) Situation: Walter is a dynamic and energetic Leader. He has been a Village Leader twice before and has some excellent ideas for activities. Nina is concerned that Walter is taking over and leading too many activities and not letting the other, less experienced Leaders develop their skills. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 111 Interchange What If’s T = Traveling Delegation H = Hosting Delegation 1. Persons involved: Leader-T (Lukka) Leader-H (Harold) Situation: Lukka is 21 years old. Harold is 40. Before the visiting Delegation arrived, Harold made up a list of all the things he wanted to show Lukka when they had time together. Now he is upset because all Lukka wants to do is watch TV. 2. Persons involved: Girl-T (Marquesa) Girl-T (Elena) Situation: Marquesa and Elena have been best friends for years. Now Marquesa sees that Elena has become best friends with her hosting partner. Elena does not spend much time with Marquesa during social events. Elena frowns when Marquesa tries to draw her away from the group for a conversation. 3. Persons involved: Boy-H (Bob) Boy-T (Kazuhiro) Situation: All the youth in both Delegations admire Kazuhiro’s swimming and diving abilities. Kazuhiro has much to tell about the championship medals he has won in competition. Bob does not swim very well, although he is an honor student in his school. He is beginning to avoid doing anything with Kazuhiro and now the boys in his own Delegation are saying unkind things about him. 4. Persons involved: Delegation-T Delegation-H Situation: At social events, the youth in the hosting Delegation seem always to get together and speak their own language, which the traveling Delegation does not understand. When they do this, there is a lot of laughter. The traveling Delegation is positive that the jokes are being made about them. 5. Persons involved: Family-H Girl-T (Parisa) Situation: Neatness is valued highly by the host family. Parisa leaves her things everywhere around the house. The whole family has said nothing but is feeling very tense and unfriendly around Parisa. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 112 6. Persons involved: Leader-T (Katrin) Leader-H (Gabriela) Situation: Katrin has expressed her concern about the affection being displayed between a boy in Gabriela’s Delegation and a girl in her own Delegation. Katrin feels that there is too much affection. Katrin spoke to the girl about this, but the girl said that Gabriela told her that Katrin was just being a “prude” and that the girl should pay no attention to her. 7. Persons involved: Boy-T (Chris) Boy-H (Dimitris) Situation: Dimitris has a very expensive model car that is a favorite possession. He knows that Chris has admired it. Once when Chris was not around, Dimitris had to go into the bedroom where Chris sleeps. He discovered that Chris had put the model car with his things. 1) Persons involved: Leader-H (Demitrius) Parents Situation: Demitrius and his Delegation are beginning to prepare for the hosting phase of the Interchange. In one of their planning meetings with the parents, Demitrius feels that many of the parents would rather plan for tourist activities. Demitrius thinks that these types of activities do not agree with the goals of the Interchange program. 8. Persons involved: Leader (Lisa) Parent (Nancy) Situation: Nancy feels that Lisa is neither organized nor responsible enough to lead the Interchange. Nancy has shared her concerns with other parents. 9. Persons involved: Local IC Chair (Suzan) Leader (Marco) Situation: Marco has been having some difficulties with the parents in his Interchange group and has asked the Local Interchange Chair, Suzan for some help. Suzan says that he is overreacting and that she does not have time to deal with his “trivial” issues. 10. Persons involved: Leaders - H & T Parent Group - H Situation: Leaders have organized CISV games and team-building activities for the upcoming mini camp, some parents decide water skiing would be more fun. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 113 11. Persons involved: Situation: Leader-H (Stephanie) Leader-T (Sophia) Boy-H (Luke) Boy-T (Leonardo) Luke and Leonardo have very different interests and personalities. Luke has told his Leader, Stephanie, that he hates Leonardo and does not want to continue with the Interchange if he has to spend another month with him. 12. Persons involved: Girl-T (Maria) Boy-H (Pedro) Situation: Maria and Pedro have become quite affectionate with each other. At a weekend mini-camp with all the Delegates, Maria and Pedro are found making out in the bushes. Later that evening neither can be found in their respective beds. 13. Persons involved: Situation: Leader-H (Paulo) Leader-T (Tom) Delegates-H (Alex, Marco, Juan) Delegates-T (Kristina, Eric, Susan) At the farewell party at the end of the first half of the Interchange, an open bottle of rum and a half empty case of beer is discovered. Alex, Marco, Juan, Kristina, Eric and Susan all appear to be drunk. 14. Persons involved: Leader-H (Jerome) Leader-H (Sonia) Situation: Jerome and Sonia are Co-Leaders and their Delegation is preparing for the hosting phase of the Interchange. While planning, Jerome feels that he is doing all of the work and that Sonia is not working as hard as she should be. 15. Persons involved: Leader-T (Mary) Parent-H (Lisa) Delegate –T (Suzie) Situation: Suzie is unhappy at her host family’s home. The host family opts not to participate in the first group get together. Mary attempts to schedule a home visit but is put off for two days by Lisa. Mary makes sure she is in the car when Suzie gets dropped off after the second get together so Suzie can show her something special she is excited about. Mary instructs Suzie to get it and bring it to the garage where Mary will wait to see it. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 114 Summer Camp What If’s 1. Persons involved: Leader (Steve) Staff Situation: Steve was really excited about his Summer Camp. The theme of the camp was something he had lots of ideas for and he had spent a lot of time preparing his Delegation. At the camp, Steve has noticed that the theme is not playing a central role in the camp. In fact, it has only been addressed once. 2. Persons involved: Delegate (Sarah) Delegate (Kim) Situation: Sarah and Kim have been best friends for years. Now Sarah sees that Kim has become best friends with one of the girls in another Delegation. Kim does not spend much time with Sarah. Kim frowns when Sarah tries to draw her away from the group for a conversation. 3. Persons involved: Leader (Katrin) Leader (Gabriela) Situation: Katrin has expressed her concern about the affection being displayed between a boy in Gabriela’s Delegation and a girl in her own Delegation. Katrin feels that there is too much affection. Katrin spoke to the girl about this, but the girl said that Gabriela told her that Katrin was just being “prude” and that the girl should pay no attention to her. 4. Persons involved: Leader (Chris) Delegate (Kevin) Situation: Throughout the camp, Kevin has challenged his Leader, Chris. Kevin is not contributing to the camp planning. Each time Chris speaks to him about his lack of participation, Kevin seems to draw himself further away from any involvement. 5. Persons involved: Delegate (William) Leader (Suzanne) Situation: Suzanne overhears William telling a racial joke with a group of youth at the camp. 6. Persons involved: Director (Robin) Leader (Philippe) Situation: Philippe has slept through the better part of the past four planning sessions. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 115 7. Persons involved: Leader (Pierre) Staff (Beto) Situation: Pierre has been acting very childish during the activities, often disrupting the group and provoking some youth to misbehave. The youth in one planning group got very frustrated with Pierre’s behavior and have gone to talk to Beto about it. 8. Persons involved: Leader (Tracy) Parents (Paul, Susan) Situation: Paul and Susan are concerned with Tracy as a Leader. They think that she is too young and irresponsible to take a Delegation to another country. They have shared their concern with the other parents in the Delegation. 9. Persons involved: Leader (Frank) Planning Group Situation: Yesterday during the Leaders’ meeting, the concern was raised that the activities planned to date have been too much like “Village” activities without enough depth. It is planning time and Frank’s planning group is discussing some games that he thinks are lacking depth and not related to the camp theme. 10. Persons involved: Leader (Fredrik) Staff (Gary) Situation: Fredrik is concerned that the Staff is too dominant and not letting the youth lead activities. 11. Persons involved: Staff (Nina) Leader (Walter) Situation: Walter is a dynamic and energetic Leader. He has some excellent ideas but Nina is concerned that Walter is taking over and leading too many of the activities. The youth in his planning group have asked Nina for her assistance. 12. Persons involved: Leader (Maria) Leader (David) Situation: Maria’s and David’s Delegations have become very close friends. Maria is concerned that their groups are becoming exclusive. 13. Persons involved: Staff (Sally) Staff (Kevin) Situation: The Summer Camp is progressing well and most activities are being planned by the youth planning groups. However, Kevin feels that Sally is not pulling her weight in performing her Staff responsibilities as agreed to before the camp. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 116 Chapter 13: Post CISV Experience What is covered in this Chapter? This Chapter includes important information to help Leaders and their Delegations upon their return to begin integrating their CISV experience and the lessons they learned into their daily lives. It intends to help them begin living “the CISV way” on a daily basis. Why is it important? The job of the CISV Leader does not end at the airport as their Delegates reunite with their families. There are still many things to do such as write letters, complete evaluations, give feedback on leadership training (both locally and nationally), catch up on sleep, share experiences with the chapter through presentations or articles in chapter newsletters and get involved in their local chapter and JB activities. The list seems endless, but Delegates and Leaders need to relate their CISV experiences to the “real” world. Important Handouts. Post CISV Experience Check List Re-Entry Tips for Parents on Re-Entry of Your Child CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 117 The Return You are exhausted, both emotionally and physically. You’ve just arrived home from your Village, Summer Camp, or Interchange. As your Delegates reunite with their respective families, it is important to remember that your role as a CISV Leader is not yet over. One of the most important things, aside from catching up on your sleep, is to complete the necessary Evaluation Forms (located in Appendix 2) for your program: FORM VILLAGE APVE.87 CPVE.87 INTERCHANGE IC 10.3.7 YDE.2000 Summer Camp, Interchange, IYM SUMMER CAMP App.8.9.1 YDE.2000 Summer Camp, Interchange, IYM CISV USA TITLE WHO SEND TO Post-Village Adult Leader Evaluation JC Post-Village Child Delegates Evaluation (Child Delegate) Local Chapter Interchange Evaluation Form Local Interchange Chair in consult with interchange participants and leader Youth delegates National Interchange Chair Adult Leader Local Chapter Youth Delegates Local Chapter Youth Delegate Evaluation Summer Camp Evaluation Adult Leader Youth Delegate Evaluation Local Chapter National Interchange Chair The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 118 No matter how positive or how challenging your experience was, your feedback is essential to help CISV continue to grow and develop. Not only do we need to hear about your program but also about your preparation for your program and the training you received. If you faced some challenges during your Village, Summer Camp, or Interchange, it is important for you to debrief these with your Local Leadership Trainer. If a debriefing session has not already been planned, encourage a get-together with other Leaders from your chapter to share experiences and to debrief your experiences. If any incident occurred during your program, please make sure that you complete a CISV USA Incident Report Form (Appendix 1) and send a copy to both the Local Risk Manager and the National Risk Manager. Hopefully after your Village, Summer Camp or Interchange experience, you and each of your Delegates will have learned something about themselves, about others and about the world around them. Now is the time to help your Delegates continue to live the CISV spirit in their daily lives. There are many ways of doing this: Meet with your Delegates to share photos and relive your memories. Talk to each Delegate soon after returning home to see how he or she is doing. Talk to the parents of your Delegates to see how their children are adjusting back into their home life. Encourage letter writing with the other participants in your Village, Summer Camp or Interchange. Get together to write group letters to people. Take photos to send along with these. In this age of e-mail, it is important to remember those participants who do not have access to computers. It is easy to forget to write a letter when you are sending so many e-mails each day. Encourage your Delegates to get involved with the local Junior Branch. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 119 Post CISV Experience Checklist Upon your return from your CISV experience there are several expectations and tasks that you as a Leader and/or participant have to complete: Plan a get together socially with your Delegates and their families after your return. Arrange to speak to the parents of your Delegates to discuss any incidences or concerns that you had while you were gone. Send thank you cards to Camp Staff/Interchange families to maintain contact. Complete evaluation forms for your specific program and return copies to the national office and your local chapter. Send any CISV USA Incident Report Forms to the National Risk Manager and your local chapter Risk Manager. Act as a bridge between the Delegates and the Junior Branch after the experience. Planning to meet at the events organized by the Junior Branch (JB) is an excellent method to remain “in touch.” Encourage Delegates to get involved with the local Junior Branch or other likeminded organizations. Encourage the parents of your Delegates to continue their involvement with and support for the local chapter to ensure that the next year’s Delegates will have the same opportunity to participate in CISV. Get involved in your local leadership training committee and assist in the recruitment, selection and training of Leaders. Encourage the children to keep in touch with each other and to realize that the end of the summer is not the end of friendships, but the beginning. You and your Delegates may be asked to make several presentations to share what you experienced at your program. Clarify these dates and plan a presentation with your Delegation. Write an article sharing your Delegation’s experience for your chapter newsletter. Check with your chapter for the deadlines. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 120 Re-Entry Returning to your own culture after having lived in another culture for a period of time is sometimes more challenging than the initial culture shock one feels when arriving in a new place. Whether you experience Danish, Thai or the CISV Village/Summer Camp culture, you are bound to experience what is referred to as “reverse culture shock” when you return. Unlike culture shock, re-entry stress hits almost immediately as you come face-to-face with “real life.” Each CISV program is an intense experience. In instances such as the Village or Summer Camp, participants experience what seems to be “another world” for three to four weeks. During this time, they are removed from the “outside world” and many of the world events that are taking place around them. Upon return, one can find himself feeling “lost” or removed from issues and events that happened during their CISV experience. When a participant returns home there are several typical behavior patterns that may occur. The following outlines some common reactions one may have as a result of reverse culture shock. This information may be useful for Leaders to be aware of and share with their Delegates’ parents. Alienation You may react negatively to your home culture, rejecting its attitudes, values, beliefs, and behavior patterns. In this case, it is important to realize that you may have become so accustomed to the new environment that you do not realize that you are experiencing the stress of readjustment. Reversion You may deny important personal changes that have taken place and immediately fit back in as the same person as before you left. Those around you inadvertently reinforce this, since this is the person they remember before you left. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 121 Integration You may try to integrate your changes into your home environment and develop a new and expanded identity. In this case, you accept the fact that you are in transition between two cultures and continue to learn through this process as when entering a host culture. An attempt is made to understand the changes that have taken place within you and in the home environment. Here, the re-entry can be a growth experience, but often one that involves a lot of doubt and contradictions. Becoming Bilingual-Bicultural You recognize that there are different ways of behaving, each depending on the culture. While abroad, you tried to act in ways that were acceptable to your hosts and at home you behaved in ways acceptable to your family and friends. In each case you are seen as an acceptable member of each culture, often to the extent that people forget you are capable of speaking and interacting in other ways. Multilingual/Multicultural You are aware of the various cultural dimensions between and among cultures. You recognize the interdependent nature of the world and strive to maintain a broad perspective of the multicultural aspects of people It is important to recognize that two things affect how you react when you return to your own culture: your expectations of yourself (your individual identity) and the expectations others have of you (your group identity). There may be tension between the two because of your need to be yourself and perhaps a conflicting need to be accepted as part of the group. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 122 Tips for Parents on Re-Entry of Your Child Be careful not to ask too many questions about your child’s experience. The information will be shared eventually, but it may take some time. Allow your child time to be alone if they need it. Planning a busy social outing immediately upon your child’s return may not be appropriate. Encourage your child to call the other members of his Delegation to keep in touch. Don’t expect your child to be the same as he was before his CISV experience since he has experienced a variety of situations and different feelings. Your child may well respond differently both to you and the world around him. Encourage your child to maintain contact with his Leader, to write letters and to maintain communication with friends from both his own local chapter as well as others. This will all help ease the process of re-entry. Encourage your child to become involved in new areas if that is his wish (i.e. contacting various ethnic groups, becoming involved in other charitable/peaceoriented organizations, learning more about other countries and cultures, etc.). Encourage your child to stay involved in CISV through areas such as Junior Branch, Local Work and other programs. Encourage get-togethers with the rest of your Delegation. They will need to talk to people who “understand” their experience. Communicate with other parents of your Delegation to share your thoughts, feelings, and observations. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 123 Appendix 1: Local, National, and International Support What is covered in this Appendix? This Appendix provides a list of your Chapter board members and contact information for each of them, a list of National Officers, National Association Trustees, Chapter Presidents and National Committee Chairs. The international listings include CISV National Association offices and CISV International Officers and Committee Chairs. Why is it important? A CISV Leader has many responsibilities. The Local Chapter or Steering Committee recognizes this fact and strives to provide many avenues of support for its Leaders. During the course of your CISV experience, you may find that you will need to contact a member of the local board for information. And if your program involves travel within the USA or outside the country, the additional National and International lists provide contact information for a worldwide support team. Important Handouts. CISV Local Board 2006 CISV USA National Association Directory 2006 CISV International National Association Directory 2006 CISV International Officers and Committee Chairs 2006 CISV USA National Leadership Training Dates 2006 CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 124 CISV Local Board 2006 OFFICE NAME ADDRESS PHONE CELL E-MAIL FOUNDER PRESIDENT PRESIDENTSELECT SECRETARY (Recording) SECRETARY (Corresponding) TREASURER VILLAGE CHAIRS LOCAL INTERCHANGE CHAIR SEMINAR CAMP CHAIR SUMMER CAMP CHAIR LOCAL WORK CHAIR JUNIOR RANCH PRESIDENT(SR) JUNIOR RANCH PRESIDENT(JR) JUNIOR BRANCH ADVISORS INSURANCE & RISK CHAIR NEWSLETTER CHAIR LEADER SELECTION CHAIR LOCAL LEADERSHIP TRAINING CHAIR FUNDRAISING CHAIR PUBLIC CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 125 RELATIONS CHAIR SUMMER CAMP PLANNERS PROCEDURES (Parliamentarian) SCHOLARSHIP CHAIR BUDGET & FINANCE GEN MEETING PLANNER JR COUNSELOR CHAIR INTERCHANGE CHAIRS STORE CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 126 2006 CISV USA Directory Office Name Address Phone Email Mary Brophy 12170 Thames Place Cincinnati, OH 45241 513.469.0274 [email protected] Justin Sitron 3855 Mill Road Ciollegeville, PA 19426 215.886.6467 [email protected] 5028 Cedar Avenue Philadelphia, PA 19143 215.472.4916 [email protected] 3 Robin Lane Croton on Hudson, NY 10520 914.271.8885 914.879.8812 (Cell) [email protected] 74 Golfview Road 941.697.8538 941.697.3214 (Fax) [email protected] 7761 Whitehall Circle East West Chester, OH 45069 513.755.6447 [email protected] Lydia Collins P.O. Box 1619 Mississippi, MS 39762 228.424.3878 [email protected] Ellen J. Miller 1375 Kemper Meadow Dr Suite 9H 513.674.9242 888.247.8872 513.674.9249 (Fax) 888.686.2478 (Fax) [email protected] [email protected] National President National Vice President National Secretary Jacob Blickenov National Treasurer Earl Faber International Representative Sharon Lipps Rotonda West, FL 33947 Presidential Appointee Chuck Catania Executive Youth Trustee National Office Administrative Director Cincinnati, OH 45240 CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 127 CISV International National Association Directory 2006 CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 128 CISV International Staff, Officers, and Committee Chairs for 2006 Office Name Address Phone Email Gabrielle Mandell MEA House, Ellison Place 44.191.232.4998 44.191.261.4710 (Fax) [email protected] 19772 Keifel Road Laurelville, OH 43135 740.385.6638 [email protected] Via Azzo Gardino 8 Bologna, Italy 40122 39.328.664.7148 [email protected] INTERNATIONAL OFFICE Secretary General NE1 8XS England Newcastle-Upon-Tyne INTERNATIONAL PRESIDENT Cathy Knoop INTERNATIONAL EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE USA Liason Tomaso Bertoli CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 129 CISV USA National Leadership Training Dates 2006 Program Staff/Planner Location Detroit Date March 31 – April 2, 2006 Village, Summer Camp, Interchange, Junior Interchange Leaders and Junior Counselor Training Location Jacksonville Miami County Denver Philadelphia Cincinnati (Site of 2006 NBM) CISV USA Date April 7 – 9, 2006 April 21- 23, 2006 May 5 – 7, 2006 May 19 – 21, 2006 October 27 – 29, 2006 The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 130 Appendix 2: CISV Forms What is covered in this Chapter? This Appendix provides the current forms used by CISV programs. A grid is also provided to assist the Leader in identifying those forms that are required of him and his Delegates for his specific program. Why is it important? Every participant in a CISV program is required to complete Health and Legal/Insurance Forms prior to participation in the program. Your program may require additional forms for the transfer of Delegation information and travel arrangements. The forms are necessary for the safety and protection of all participants. The FYI Category on the Form Grid means you are not responsible for filling out the form but you should be aware of it. Important Handouts. CISV Program Form Grid Village Delegation Information Form (VDIF 2000) JC Information Form (JCIF MIL) Participant Travel Information Form (PTIF 2003) CISV Health Form (HF 2000) CISV Legal/Insurance Form 1 (Travel Without Adult Leader, TWAL 2000) CISV Legal/Insurance Form 2 (Youth Legal/Insurance Form, YLIF 2000) CISV Legal/Insurance Form 3 (Adult Legal/Insurance Form, ALIF 2000) Village Delegation Leader Agreement Summer Camp Delegation Leader Agreement Interchange Delegation Leader Agreement Interchange Delegation Junior Leader Agreement CISV Code of Conduct In-Village Evaluation Form 1 (IVE 1998) Adult Post Village Evaluation (APVE 1998) Child Post Village Evaluation (CPVE 1998) Program Director’s Report Form (PDRF 2004) Summer Camp Evaluation – Adult Leader Summer Camp Evaluation – Youth Delegate Risk Management Checklist Report for Hosting Programs (RMCR) Leadership Training Evaluation (ILTC 2003) Staff Recommendation Form (ILTC 2003) Incident Report Form (IRF MIL) Unconditional Release of Liability & Agreement to Indemnify (Participant) Unconditional Release of Liability & Agreement to Indemnify (Parental) CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 131 CISV USA and CISV INTERNATIONAL FORMS Village Delegation Information Form (VDIF 2000) JC (Junior Counselor) Information Form (JCIF MIL) Participant Travel Information Form (PTIF 2003) CISV Health Form (HF 2000) CISV Legal/Insurance Form 1 (Travel Without Adult Leader – TWAL 2000) CISV Legal/Insurance Form 2 (Youth Legal/Insurance Form – YLIF 2000) CISV Legal/Insurance Form 3 (Adult Legal/Insurance Form – ALIF 2000) Village/Summer Camp /IYM Delegation Leader Agreement Interchange Delegation Leader Agreement Authorization Village Delegate DR’s Signature Notarized Notarized Notarized Village JC IYM Leader IYM Delegate Summer Camp Staff Summer Camp Leader Summer Camp Delegate None Adult Post Village Evaluation (APVE 1998) None Child Post Village Evaluation (CPVE 1998) None Program Director’s Report Form (PDRF 2004) None None None Seminar Delegate FYI FYI FYI FYI None FYI FYI None None FYI FYI None None None None Interchange Delegate None Interchange Jr. Leader None None Interchange Leader None CISV Code of Conduct In-Village Evaluation Form (IVE 1998) CISV USA Village Leader None None Youth Delegate Evaluation Interchange, Summer Camp, IYM Risk Management Checklist for Hosting (RMCR) Completed by Chapter Risk Manager Leadership Training Evaluation (ILEval.ILTC.2003) Incident Report Form IRF MIL Unconditional Release of Liability & Agreement to Indemnify (Participant) Unconditional Release of Liability & Agreement to Indemnify (Parental) Village Junior Staff None Interchange Junior Leader Agreement Staff Recommendation Form (ILTC.2003) Delegation Participation Attendance Form (DPAF) Summer Camp Evaluation Adult Leader Village Staff FYI FYI FYI The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 132 Appendix 3: Activities What is covered in this Chapter? This Appendix provides some ideas for games and activities that can be used in CISV programs. A list of inappropriate activities is also provided; certain activities are neither representative of the CISV Education Circle nor proper for the age of the youth involved in CISV programs. Why is it important? Every Leader in a CISV program holds the responsibility of planning activities that will promote the goals and philosophy of CISV. For many Leaders who are new to CISV, the best way to learn these activities is to participate in them at training sessions. Another way to provide a “bank” of activities during the CISV program is to have access to a list of activities that have been previously used with great success. Important Handouts. Sample CISV Activities for Leaders Inappropriate Games and Activities CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 133 Sample CISV Activity Ideas for Leaders Peace starts between two individual persons. It must be a basic goal in the CISV program to teach this through activities. It is important to clearly distinguish attitudes and activities that are peace fostering from those that create conflict. Many traditional CISV activities are peace fostering in a more or less wide sense if a little more effort is put on preparation and follow-up. Here are some concrete examples to show how this can be done. Hello Olle! This is a name game. Everybody lies down on their back in a circle with their feet toward the center. One persons sits up and shouts, “My name is Olle!” and lies down. Then all the people in the circle sit up and shout, “Hello Olle!” and lie down. The person next to Olle sits up and shouts, “My name is Manuel!” and the other people sit up and shout, “Hello Manuel!” and so on all around the circle. This is a good way of introducing all Village participants and may be followed by other name games. The Tangle The time needed for this activity is 5 to 10 minutes. The purpose of this game is to encourage people to cooperate. Put six people in each group. Participants form a circle and each one grabs two different person’s hands. A participant should not cross his own hands! Then all try to unknot the tangle so that a circle is formed. Everyone should hold hands throughout the entire game and be careful and gentle. This game can also be played with eyes closed. It can be tried a couple of times both with eyes opened and closed. Make Different Shapes Between twenty and twenty-five people hold hands and form a circle. The task is to form different shapes while holding hands. For example the group could form a heart, a square, a triangle, or a map of Italy. Observe the participants. How is the group succeeding? Who is the leader? Discuss afterwards. For a variation, everybody checks which person is opposite of them in the circle. Everybody closes their eyes and tries to change places with the opposite person. Everybody does this at the same time. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 134 Changing Shoes Make groups containing 5 -7 participants. Everybody takes off one shoe and puts it in a pile. Each person takes somebody else’s shoe and holds it in his hand. The group forms a circle and holds hands without dropping the shoes. The task is to find the owner of each shoe. When everybody has his own shoe (holding hands all the time) the game can be started over again. Interviewing Each Other A common and good activity in Villages is to let two children who speak different languages interview each other. To make this as valuable as possible, the Adult Leaders might supply the children with ideas on what to find out about each other. The children are paired so that the possibility to understand each other’s language is limited to a minimum. The children then report their findings by drawing pictures. The drawings are pinned up on a wall and children guess who goes with each drawing. Fantasy Land Place 4-5 participants in each group. This activity can last for several hours. It is important to really inspire the participants to use their imaginations. Each group makes up all or part of the following: Name of the country Map Flag Capital Government National song, dance and costume National dish Exports and imports Famous persons History of the country National resources Afterward the groups present their “countries” to each other by a performance and/or an exhibition. Adult Leaders then facilitate a follow-up discussion: Do you think these countries can live in peace? Are they dependent on each other? Can they benefit from each other? What conflicts can occur? How can they be solved? CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 135 Planetarians Create at least three groups with at least five participants in each group; there should be a maximum of five groups with at least five participants in each group. Place one experienced Leader in each group and one observer in each visiting group. The time needed for this activity is 10 minutes for dividing into groups, S minutes for preparation of the groups, 3 minutes for each visiting group and at least 30 minutes for the follow-up discussion. Ensure that there is enough room for the planetarian group and the visiting group so that they do not disturb each other. One group consisting of at least S persons is the Planetarians. The task is to create a completely new culture. It consists of four 4-6 significant cultural identifiers, such as language, communication, custom and feelings. The time for preparation should be about S minutes depending on the group, although more time can be given if needed. The rest of the participants are divided into two groups of five people with one observer. These are the visiting groups. Start the activity by telling a story of how the Planetarians came to visit a Village. The task of the visiting groups is to make up a strategy on how to approach, learn and understand the Planetarians. This plan is made while the Planetarians are preparing themselves. The observer watches the group’s behavior and strategy. The visiting groups visit the Planetarians for one minute, one group at a time on the following three different occasions: First occasion: observation Second occasion: observation and/or contact Third occasion: all possible strategies After each visit there is a follow-up discussion in which each group explains what they have found out about the Planetarians and their culture. After the third discussion, the Planetarians show their culture again, but this time they explain it in the visitor’s language. Then the observers tell what they have observed and a discussion follows: How did you feel? How was the contact with the Planetarians? How was the discussion in their group? Do they recognize the feelings from other situations? CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 136 Peace Book by Bemard Benson The Peace Book is available in several languages. The Adult Leaders and JCs might like to read it before the start of their CISV program. It can be read for children in language groups over three to four evenings. Whatever the children want to bring up should be discussed at once. The discussions will certainly provide ideas for drama and other activities. The whole book can be made into a theatrical production. Different sections can be staged in different languages or no language at all. The children can then perform in public on Open Day and/or for Delegation families. If it is difficult to get hold of copies, orders can be placed through “Association du la Paix”, Rue Bertulot 21, B-1000 Bruxelles, Belgium. Homo Sapiens (Bokforlaget Corona, Box 5, S-201 20 Malmo, Sweden) The book consists of 27 sentences in 15 different languages where every sentence is illustrated by a drawing. Some sentences are chosen and the children have a discussion about the meaning. They can make posters, carry them and then show them as a drama activity. An example of a sentence follows: 1. People are of different shape, 2. some are big, 3. others are small, 4. some are colorful, full of fantasy, 5. some are hard and stubborn, 6. a few are soft and easy to shape, 7. some fit together, 8. a few look as so they fit together, but they don’t, 9. instead of everybody being different, they are looked upon as if they were all the same. The sentence is presented to the Adult Leaders and they discuss how “A train of people” can be carried out, by Delegation or in language groups. Some sentences are very abstract and must be clarified for the children. When all children know and understand the text, they can work in groups to make posters showing the contents of the text. They can also write the sentence in their own language and the language of the host country. A show may be presented for visitors. The New State of the World Atlas by Kidron & Segal (Simon & Schuster, NY 1987) CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 137 Some following books contain good game ideas: Everybody Wins by Terry Orlick New Game Book and More New Games (Dolphin Books/Doubleday & Co.) New Games Foundation, P.O. Box 7901 San Francisco, CA 94120 USA A Handbook of Games by Neva L. Boyd (non-competitive activities) Children’s Games from Many Lands, by Nina Millen Arts and Crafts The wish for peace may be shown in many different ways, as listed below: design a stamp (ideas might be sent to the Postal Authority of the country) design a postcard design a flag design peace symbols make posters make peace doves make greetings to other Villages with a peace message illustrate the Peace Book (by Bemard Benson) illustrate poems illustrate songs Projects If the idea arises at the Village that the children feel like helping our “broken world,” a neutral project can be carried out with the caution that a Village must not embarrass any particular nation. Some neutral “world projects” could be as follows: help animals that are threatened plant trees recycle materials at the Village Volleyball, Badminton, Table Tennis The group tries to get the ball over the net as many times as possible. They then try to beat their own record. Tunnel Ball The children stand in a row with their legs apart. They pass the ball between their legs from the first to the last person. The last one runs to the front and starts over again. Count how many times the ball get through in two minutes. Do it a second time and try to beat the record. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 138 Towel Ball Two people hold a bath towel. They try to pass a soft ball onto another pair’s towel. Safety Game A group of four to six people can play this game. The aim of the game is for the group to collect as many points as possible. When they play again, they must try to get better results. During the game, the players will learn that they often get more points by giving them away to other players. A die, playing stones and a playing chart are needed. When you reach a safety circle throw the die. Safety 1: Knowledge 4, 5 or 6 gives you 3 points 1, 2 or 3 gives you 1 point Safety 2: To trust one another 2, 3, 4 or 5 gives you 3 points 1 or 6 gives 5 points each Safety 3: Togetherness and group feeling 5 gives you 5 points Other numbers on the die give you 2 points. If you give away your points to any of the others in the group, you may double your own points at the next safety circle. Safety 4: To know what is happening around you You get as many points as the die shows Safety 5: To care about one another 4 or 5 gives you 2 points 2 or 3 gives you 1 point If you get 1 or 6 you get 3 points, if you wait here for the next person Safety 6: Friendship 2, 4 or 6 gives you 4 points 1, 3 or 5 gives you 3 points If you want, you may throw the die once more. If you throw the same number again, all of your friends get 6 points each. If you get another number, you lose all your points at this station. Safety 7: Cooperation If you get 1, 3 or 5 you may choose between keeping 6 points yourself or giving 3 points to each of your friends If you get 2, 4 or 6 you get nothing CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 139 Inappropriate games/activities Introduction As a result of many concerns expressed by various nations during the last few years, the International Village Committee sees a need to consider different aspects of certain activities and games that might cause serious conflict in a Village. It is not our purpose to prepare a "BLACK LIST," however we do ask that you carefully consider the cultural perspectives of the games we have listed. We hope the following list will assist you in choosing games and activities that are culturally sensitive to all participants in a Village and will help you to evaluate other activities not listed herein. Newspaper Game The newspaper game is known in CISV as a name game. The participants are sitting in a circle and one person is standing in the middle holding a newspaper roll. Somebody calls a name of a participant and the person in the middle has to run there and hit the named person on the head. If the named person calls another name before being hit, the one in the middle has to run to the new person. The game continues until the person in the middle is successful at hitting someone before they can yell out a name, at which point the two players switch position and the game begins again. The concerns about this activity are as follows: violence (the players can easily be hurt) culturally insensitive (in some cultures it is very unpleasant or it is not allowed to touch the head of another person) Clothesline The participants are divided into two evenly numbered teams. This is a competition to see which team can make longer clotheslines on the ground using only the participants and the various clothes on their bodies. The concerns about this activity are as follows: embarrassing for some participants culturally insensitive (it is not common in every culture to get undressed in front of other people) competition (the pressure on a single child can be very strong in such a situation, so that he gets undressed for the team, but is very embarrassed and hurt) CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 140 Inappropriate games/activities (continued) Blanket Game (Sahara Game or Desert Game) One participant is sitting in the middle and is covered by a blanket. Then he is told by the others to imagine that he is in the desert and that it is very hot. So what should he do to feel better in that situation? Normally the participant starts to take off his clothes. The game is over if they throw the blanket away, because this symbolizes throwing the desert away. But most of the time the participant does not know the game and takes off his clothes first instead of throwing off the blanket. The concerns about this activity are as follows: embarrassing for some participants culturally insensitive Food Games Any type of game that wastes food should not be played because food is something we all need and we still have millions of people every year dying because they do not have enough food. So instead playing these games we should try to make the children aware of the meaning that food has in this world. Fire Drill In some of the camps the fire brigade of the town comes to show the camp participants what to do in case of an emergency. At the end of their explanations they often turn the water on and everybody has fun with the water game. This is a nice way to end the activity, but after the fun you should come back to the main point of the visit and talk to the children again about the importance of the fire drill and make sure that they understand what they should do in case of an emergency. Simulation Games Rich & poor game, system game, lifeboat, tug of war and others are very interesting games if they are prepared well, done carefully and ended with an evaluation. In these activities the participants are playing a certain role within the group and they should be able to handle this role. This is quite hard for an elevenyear old child for many reasons and it is often difficult to have an effective evaluation at the end of the game with the whole group because of the language problem. These games are normally more appropriate for Summer Camps or Seminar Camps. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 141 Inappropriate games/activities (continued) Kissing Games In every Village there are kissing games; since it is not common in every culture to kiss a person just for fun, often there are a lot of problems with these games. We cannot discuss all kissing games here, but everybody should be aware of the meaning of a kiss in other cultures and how children might feel in this situation. And why does it have to be a kiss, it could also be a hug or just a smile. The concerns about this activity are as follows: culturally insensitive embarrassing for some participants Rape Game or Sumo Sex Game The boys sit in a circle and each of them is given a number. The girls sit in the same circle and each of them is given a letter. One participant sits in the middle and he calls out a number and a letter. That boy and that girl run into the middle and if there is a boy sitting there already the girl tries to kiss him while the boy that was called tries to kiss the girl first. Normally a big fight starts in the middle of the circle. The concerns about this activity are as follows: violence games named this way are never appropriate and should not be part of our activities embarrassing for some participants culturally insensitive Wedding Game or Marriage Ceremony At the end of a camp we often have a lot of couples in the group, so it happens that there is a wedding night with a ceremony and a party. But not everybody has a boyfriend or a girlfriend, so sometimes they are not taking part or couples are just made up. Not everybody feels comfortable in this situation for different reasons. But again there is a cultural reason we all should be aware of - a wedding in most cultures is a serious promise, it is a holy ceremony and a commitment. The concerns about this activity are as follows: culturally insensitive not everyone is included age inappropriate CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 142 Inappropriate games/activities (continued) Love Statue Some participants are outside the room and the others are sitting inside as an audience. One person calls two participants inside and starts to build the statue of love, then another person is added and they go on building the statue of love. This is quite fun for the audience, but not always for the people in the statue, because they are forced to do things that they might not like at all. The concerns about this activity are as follows: culturally insensitive embarrassing for some participants group pressure Cross-dressing We are always looking for themes if we have parties at night in a Village. A favorite one is cross-dressing (when girls dress like boys and boys dress like girls). The concerns about this activity are as follows: culturally insensitive embarrassing for some participants Secret Friend or Moňitos Every participant in the Village takes a paper with the name of another participant and then he is the secret friend of this person. That means that he should do nice things for his secret friend for a certain amount of time and at the end of the time period there is a song and everybody finds out who was his secret friend. This activity can be quite fun, until some people forget or just do not participate. Then there are some children who never get anything from their secret friend and they feel left out. So if this activity is played in a camp the Leaders should make plans to ensure that it works for all children. One way to do this is to have Secret Delegations instead of secret friends, so that the entire Delegation does something nice for another Delegation. Practical Jokes and Pranks Most of the time, practical jokes are very rude things that are done with one person while the others are having fun. Most of the time it is not funny for the person on whom the joke is played. Again it is not very sensitive to do things to others that you would not like to have done to you. Most practical jokes also tend to limit the advancement of the CISV goals of peace and friendship. CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 143 Inappropriate games/activities (continued) Children’s Parliament or Camp Meeting This is a meeting where the children have the chance to talk about their wishes and what they would like to change in the camp. Therefore they name a chairperson out of their group and a secretary. The Leaders are just there to listen and to assist with translations. These meetings are very interesting and they can be of great help to the Leaders and the whole camp. But again they need to be planned very well and the children should know before they begin that there are certain things in a camp that cannot be changed (bedtimes, amount of free time, and food just to name a few). They should know which things can easily be changed and which things are simply parts of normal camp life. After the meeting there should be another meeting for the Leaders and Staff to talk to the children about their wishes and what they can do about it complete with explanations of why. If a camp meeting is not handled in a careful way, the children will get the feeling that it was a stupid activity and that nobody cared about them or their ideas. Drinking Games Drinking games should not be played in a Village or any other CISV activity. It is OK in some countries for the Leaders to drink a beer or a glass of wine at night when the children are in bed, while in other countries it is not allowed at all to drink alcohol at the campsite. Leaders should always keep in mind that they have the ultimate responsibility for the children and they cannot get drunk in that situation. Nobody should be forced to drink alcohol to be part of any game. The concerns about this activity are as follows: dangerous game culturally insensitive not everybody can play (due to age, religion) legal issues according to country CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 144 Appendix 4: Song Book What is covered in this Chapter? This Appendix provides some songs that can be used in CISV programs. Why is it important? Every Leader in a CISV program holds the responsibility of planning activities that will promote the goals and philosophy of CISV. Some of these activities involve the use of songs. The enclosed songbook is intended to provide Leaders with a “bank” of songs that can be used during their CISV program. Important Handouts. CISV Song Book CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 145 The CISV Spirit I’ve got that CISV spirit Right in my hand I’ve got it Right in my hand I’ve got it Right in my hand I’ve got that CISV spirit Right in my hand I’ve got it Right in my hand to stay Down in my foot… Deep in my heart… Up in my head… All over me… We’ve Got a Loud Loud Bang Bang We’ve got a loud loud bang bang rattle bang bang Let’s make plenty of noise We’ve got a loud loud bang bang rattle bang bang Let’s make plenty of noise CISV here’s to you We love every one of you We’ve got a loud loud bang bang rattle bang bang Let’s make plenty of noise We’ve got a soft soft shh shh rattle shh shh Let’s not make any noise We’ve got a soft soft shh shh rattle shh shh Let’s not make any noise CISV here’s to you We love every one of you We’ve got a soft soft shh shh rattle shh shh Let’s not make any noise BANG! CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 146 It’s a Small World It’s a world of laughter, a world of tears It’s a world of hopes and a world of fears There’s so much that we share that it’s time we’re aware It’s a small world after all It’s a small world after all It’s a small world after all It’s a small world after all It’s a small, small world There is just one moon and a golden sun And a smile means friendship to everyone Though the mountains are high and the oceans are wide It’s a small world after all It’s a small world after all It’s a small world after all It’s a small world after all It’s a small, small world Tiny Drops of Dew Tiny drops of dew, of dew Like a gem you are I believe you must have been a star CISV Villages Nations gathered free We have fun when we all live as one CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 147 Bomfiara Bomfiara bomfiara bomfiara oh oh Bomfiara bomfiara bomfiara oh oh I love the mountains I love the rolling hills I love the flowers I love the daffodils I live to love I love to live for all these beautiful things, fiara Bomfiara bomfiara bomfiara oh oh Bomfiara bomfiara bomfiara oh oh I love the Village I love the people here I love the feeling I love the atmosphere I live to love I love to live for all these beautiful things, fiara Bomfiara bomfiara bomfiara oh oh Bomfiara bomfiara bomfiara oh oh Swimming Swimming, swimming, in a swimming pool When days are hot, when days are cold In a swimming pool Breaststroke, sidestroke, fancy diving too Don’t you wish you never had Anything else to do CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 148 Linger I want to linger, hmm-mmm A little longer, hmm-mmm A little longer here with you, CISV It’s such a perfect night, hmm-mmm It doesn’t seem quite right, hmm-mmm That it should be my last with you, CISV And come September, hmm-mmm Will you remember, hmm-mmm The times we shared in friendship true, CISV For suddenly one day, hmm-mmm I’ll come to you and say, hmm-mmm Good morning here I am to stay, CISV Goink Goink Goink goink said the little mister froggy Goink goink said the lady froggy too Goink goink said they both together And their eyes went woo, woo, woo Then they kissed each other, kiss kiss Just like little froggies do And he said, “Goodbye” And she said, “Oh my” Kiss kiss, woo woo, goink goink “I’m coming too” CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 149 Once an Austrian Once an Austrian went yodeling On a mountain so high When along came a cuckoo bird Interrupting his cry Oooooooo, yodelay tee hee ah, yodelay cuckoo cuckoo Yodelay tee hee ah, yodelay cuckoo cuckoo Yodelay tee hee ah, yodelay cuckoo cuckoo Yodealy tee hee ah oh …skier (swish swish) Swedish girl (woo woo) …avalanche (rumble rumble) …St. Bernard (woof woof) …ambulance (whee whee) …CISV’er (here in this Village here in this Village) Von Spiro My name is Von Spiro And I come from afar Hey, Von Spiro, Von Spiro I open my music box, eee-eeek And out comes a Zumbaza Zumba zumba zumbaza zumbaza zumbaza Zumba zumba zumbaza zumba zumbaza Hey! …piano …viola …piccolo …telephone (blah blah blah) …radio (click) CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 150 Singing in the Rain I’m singing in the rain, just singing in the rain What a glorious feeling I’m happy again 1. Arms up 2. Thumbs up 3. Arms back 4. Chest up 5. Toes together 6. Knees together 7. Bum out 8. Head down 9. Tongue out Kiitos Kiitos ruasta Se oli makasta Takk fur maten den ver gud Vi er ale mette nu Ikke nu, ikke nu, ikke nu me nu Goodnight Sweetheart Good night sweetheart Well it’s time to go Good night sweetheart Well it’s time to go I hate to leave you but I really must say Good night sweetheart good night (replace sweetheart with Delegations) CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 151 Vem kan segla forutan vind Vem kan segla forutan vind Vem kan ro utan aror Vem kan skiljas fran vannen sin Utan att falla tarar? Jag kan segla forutan vind Jag kan ro utan aror Men ej skiljas fran vannen min Utan att falla tarar Who can sail without the wind Who can row without oars Who can part from a friend beloved Without shedding tears? I can sail without the wind I can row without oars But I can’t part from a friend beloved Without shedding tears Qui peut faire de la voile sans vent Qui peut ramer sans rames Mais qui peut quitter son ami Sans verser de larmes? Je peux faire de la voile sans vent Je peux ramer sans rames Mais je ne peux pas quitter mon ami Sans verser de larmes CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 152 Where Have All the Flowers Gone Where have all the flowers gone, long time passing Where have all the flowers gone, long time ago Where have all the flowers gone? Young girls picked them every one When will they ever learn? When will they ever learn? Where have all the young girls gone, long time passing Where have all the young girls gone, long time ago Where have all the young girls gone? Gone to husbands every one When will they ever learn? When will they ever learn? Where have all the husbands gone, long time passing Where have all the husbands gone, long time ago Where have all the husbands gone? Gone to soldiers every one When will they ever learn? When will they ever learn? Where have all the soldiers gone, long time passing Where have all the soldiers gone, long time ago Where have all the soldiers gone? Gone to graveyards every one When will they ever learn? When will they ever learn? Where have all the graveyards gone, long time passing Where have all the graveyards gone, long time ago Where have all the graveyards gone? Gone to flowers every one When will they ever learn? When will they ever learn? CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 153 Leaving on a Jet Plane All my bags are packed, I’m ready to go I’m standing here outside your door I hat to wake you up to say goodbye But the dawn is breaking, it’s early morn The taxi’s waiting, it’s blowing it’s horn Already I’m so lonesome I could cry So kiss me and smile for me, tell that you’ll wait for me Hold me like you’ll never let me go, ‘cause I’m leaving on a jet plane Don’t know when I’ll be back again, oh, babe I hate to go There’s so many times I’ve let you down So many times I’ve played around I tell you now that they don’t mean a thing Every place I go I think of you Every song I sing I sing for you When I come back I’ll wear your wedding ring So kiss me and smile for me, tell that you’ll wait for me Hold me like you’ll never let me go, ‘cause I’m leaving on a jet plane Don’t know when I’ll be back again, oh, babe I hate to go Now the time has come for me to leave you One more time just let me kiss you Then close your eyes and I’ll be on my way Dream about the days to come When I won’t have to leave alone About the time that I won’t have to say So kiss me and smile for me, tell that you’ll wait for me Hold me like you’ll never let me go, ‘cause I’m leaving on a jet plane Don’t know when I’ll be back again, oh, babe I hate to go So kiss me and smile for me, tell that you’ll wait for me Hold me like you’ll never let me go, ‘cause I’m leaving on a jet plane Don’t know when I’ll be back again, oh, babe I hate to go, I love you so CISV USA The Local Leadership Training Manual, 2006 Edition 154
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