FAIRVIEW AQUATICS SWIM TEAM PARENTS’ ASSOCIATION HANDBOOK 2016-2017 SEASON www.fastswimteamny.com FAST Parents’ Association Table of Contents WELCOME TO SWIMMERS AND PARENTS…………………………………………………………………………………………1 MISSION STATEMENT………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………2 TEAM PHILOSOPHY………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………….3 COACHING PHILOSOPHY………………………………………………………………………………………………………………….4 PRACTICE SCHEDULE………………………………………………………………………….………………………………………….5 COACHING STAFF……………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………6 FAST PARENTS’ ASSOCIATION & BOARD MEMBERS…………………………….………………………………………….7 PRACTICE RULES & ETIQUETTE……………………………………………………………………….…………………………….8 UNDERSTANDING A SWIM MEET & TERMINOLOGY………………………………………………………………………..9 FUNDAMENTALS OF STROKES………………………………………………………………………………………………….…..10 USA SWIM MEET SCHEDULE &CHAMPIONSHIPS SCHEDULE…………………………………………...…………….11 OTHER DATES TO REMEMBER………………………………………………………………………………….…………………12 EMERGENCY CONTACT & MEDICAL RELEASE FORM………………………………………..…………………..………13 MOTIVATIONAL TIMES………………………………………………………………………………………………………………..……………14 TEN COMMANDMENTS FOR SWIMMING PARENTS……………………………………………………………………………………………………………….………..15 FAST Parents’ Association August 19, 2016 Welcome Parents & Swimmers, We wish to welcome you, swimmers and parents, to the Fairview Aquatic Swim Team (FAST). The FAST-USA Squad is an entry into a rewarding world of competitive swimming. Being part of a competitive swim club offers our young men and women equal opportunity to grow in an atmosphere that fosters physical challenge, team spirit, and mental focus; becoming involved with FAST means taking a step towards a lifestyle that provides significant health and social benefits. The FAST organization has programs in place to assist swimmers at all levels to attain their personal goals. Being aware of the long-term development involved in swimming, we are dedicated to developing our athletes’ ability to swim successfully at the university level, while keeping the sport fun and encouraging the development of a life-long love of the sport of swimming. This handbook provides important information and includes answers to frequently asked questions about our team and its members’ responsibilities. It is important to the success of our team that parents become familiar with its contents and discuss the relevant points with their swimmer(s). FAST Parents’ Association MISSION STATEMENT It is the mission of the FAST Swim Team to nurture swimmers between the ages of 5 and 18 with the goal of helping them develop the skills necessary to make them the best swimmers that they are each capable of becoming. The organization has professional coaches who receive cutting-edge continuing education to ensure that swimmers receive top-notch coaching. The team’s goal is to constantly raise the bar by continually challenging the swimmers and keeping the program fresh and exciting. The three ingredients necessary to guarantee a competitive USA team are: 1) Swimmers focused on improvement 2) Professional coaches 3) Committed parents Our swimmers individually and collectively define success and benefit from positive peer influence and social interaction. Team spirit and pride are developed through activities that teach self-discipline, effort, and perseverance. While fun is an integral part of our team experience at all levels, swimmers are expected to train for competition. This is not an exercise program. FAST is on the cutting edge of swim competition, first and foremost. TEAM PHILOSOPHY We are a family-centered diverse team with a sense of community that comes from working and playing together. Our swimmers work toward their personal best and encourage the achievements of their fellow teammates. As is usually the case with child-centered activities, this club runs on parents contributing their time, talents, and efforts. Our success as a team depends on everyone pitching in to do his or her share. COACHING PHILOSOPHY Our coaches believe that competitive swimming takes dedication and discipline and builds self-esteem in our young children’s lives. Swimming also provides an excellent source of exercise, encouraging a healthy lifestyle and positively affects other aspects of the children’s lives. In addition to honing skills as competitive swimmers, priority is placed on developing a sense of self-worth as an individual and as part of a team. Coaches will determine in which events swimmers will be placed at all meets, based on the strengths of all swimmers on the team and not solely on times. Because scheduling swimmers in events requires strategy on behalf of the coaches, the events in which a swimmer competes might vary from meet to meet. Children swimming in the Stroke Development Program Junior Team are on a track that is moving toward competitive swimming. As such, at the coaching staff’s discretion, more advanced Stroke Development Junior Team swimmers may be chosen to compete in various home swim meets. FAST Parents’ Association Gold Training Squad & Silver Training Squad This group is for athletes preparing to compete at the highest local level. Swimmers must be able to balance the commitments required by FAST and their school before considering taking part in this group. The most advance level of training offered, requires full dedication to the principles of training Practice is 4x / week plus Saturday for 1.5 hours. No exceptions. Swimmers are encouraged to make a set practice routine, which they can maintain with their coaches in order to experience improved performance. Meets: approximately 2 per month. Swimmers are expected to attend all FAST hosted meets. Group goal meets: Senior Metropolitan Championships, Zones, Junior Olympics, and Silver Olympics Tryouts: available, Sept, Dec and April check team website @ FASTSWIMTEAMNY.COM for exact dates Bronze Training Squad This level allows group members to progress at a rate appropriate to their skill. Swimmers must be able to do all four competitive strokes legally. Provide structured practice sessions that emphasize stroke development as a method of learning proper conditioning skills. Emphasis will be made on training development based on time repetition as conditioning sets. Introduction to basic race strategies and understanding seasonal goals and plans. Swimmers are expected to practice 4 days per week plus Saturday. Meets: Swimmers are expected to attend all FAST hosted meets and Washington DC meet ONLY Group goal meets: Zones, Junior Olympics, and Silver Championships Tryouts: available, Sept, Dec and April check team website @ FASTSWIMTEAMNY.COM for exact dates FAST Parents’ Association PRACTICES During the 2016-2017 Swim Season, practice times are as follows: Gold Training Squad & Silver Training Squad Mon Tues Wed Thu 5:30-7:30pm Sat 7:30 - 9:00am Bronze Training Squad Mon Tues Wed Thu 5:30-7:30pm Sat 11:00-12:30pm Attendance is taken daily. Dry-land practices will be held by announcement. The coaching staff will advise parents via email and verbally who can attend dry-land practices. Additional practices may be scheduled. The coaches will advise parents and swimmers of any schedule changes or additions via email. FAST USA COACHING STAFF Head Coach: Ted Dowie Coach: Christian Delgado FAST Parents’ Association PARENTS’ ASSOCIATION Membership in the FAST Parents’ Association is NOT OPTIONAL. The parents of every swimmer on the FAST Swim Team are required to join the FAST Parents’ Association. Dues are $1,500.00 for all swimmers, per year, for the first swimmer in the family and 20% discount on additional swimmers from the same family. Membership provides added benefits for team members. Dues are used for a variety of things; including the purchase and/or upgrade of team equipment, maintenance of equipment, swim meet operation costs, supplies, website operation, swimmer caps & T shirts, USA and Metropolitan membership fees, Coaches continuing education, Coaches fees, social activities, gifts, etc. Money earned from fundraisers and concession sales at swim meets are also used to cover team expenses and purchase special items for FAST team members. Specific Fundraising promotions will be announced during the season as needed to fund additional activities. Parents are required to volunteer at meets, assist with food concession fund raising and anything that will help the team run smoothly totaling a minimum of 35 hours. It is recognized that parent schedules vary within families, as well as those with small children. Responsibilities shall commensurate with individual ability to assist. $300 penalty fee will be prorated on your total remaining incomplete volunteer hours for the season and billing to your account. NOTE: There will be a $45.00 penalty for those parents who register online for volunteer hours who do not show. Parents are expected to pay all fees in full at the beginning of the season. Anyone unable to meet this obligation must speak to the Board President, Sandra Lockhart who in turn will present all financial matters to the Parent Association Board for scholarship consideration or payment plan. Payments can be made Online at FASTSWIMTEAMNY.COM with password access. If you do not have password access to the website you may request to obtain a password by sending a Contact me email from the website. Upon receipt and confirmation of membership a password will be sent to your attention at the email address you have provided All Payments are to be made at our Website FASTSWIMTEAMNY.COM The association cannot be held responsible for items left in the pool office or left with Coaches. Payments retuned for any reason will be charged a $35 handling fee No exceptions FAST Parents’ Association BOARD MEMBERS The FAST Parents’ Association is comprised of Board members who make Team policy decisions in partnership with the coaching staff. The Board sets membership rates, proposes budgets and maintains fiscal oversight, Coordinates swim team activities, Coordinates hosted swim meets, oversees Grievance committee & various other committees. There are three executive positions on the Board: President, VP Treasurer and Secretary. The President is head of the Board and committees, acts as sole liaison to the Community Center administration, has authority to initiate and enter into contracts on behalf of the association, and oversees all association business and policy upon Board approval. The Vice President / Treasurer assist the president in all association business and is authorized to handle all association business in the absence of the President upon Board approval. The VP Treasurer is responsible for managing the Association’s checking account, collection of fees and for providing a monthly financial report to the Board. The Secretary is responsible for all communication, coordinating member files, board meeting arrangements and minutes. The board can authorize additional at large membership to committee chairs Decisions are made by the full Board whenever possible, by majority vote. In an emergency situation, the executive Board may vote on an issue. Committees are established to facilitate the smooth operation of the team. Committees may consist of, but are not necessarily limited to, fundraising, concession, and team special events. Everyone is both encouraged and welcomed to join committees to have a voice in the decision-making process and it is expected that each family will be represented on at least one such committee. Decisions about issues directly concerning the team (such as swim suit choices and special equipment) will be made by the head coach in collaboration with the Parents’ Association. Do not hesitate to contact a board member with any questions, concerns, or suggestions. One of the Board’s primary roles is to make the job of the coaches easier by being a buffer between the coaches and parents. Please let a board member relay your suggestions and concerns to the coaches and pool staff. Issues for the Community Center administration should be directed to the President. Under no circumstances is a parent to approach a coach on deck to initiate a conversation during swim team practice or during a swim meet. If a parent prefers to speak directly with a coach, please call the pool office or contact the coach on the website to arrange a meeting with the coach after practice or other agreed upon time. Your cooperation with this policy is appreciated. FAST PARENTS’ ASSOCIATION BOARD Executive Board President: Vice-President/Treasurer: Secretary: Meet Manager: FAST Parents’ Association Sandra Lockhart Sucy Formoso Noelia Camacho-Kelly Tandrea Lockhart PRACTICE RULES AND ETIQUETTE Swimmers: 1) Be on time. Parents, we realize that the children don’t drive, but whenever possible, let the coaches know when they will be delayed. 2) Be prepared. Have appropriate gear for dry land and swim practices. Always come with your practice equipment, two caps, and two pairs of goggles, suit and towel. Looking for replacements for broken goggles or cap is time consuming and can disrupt practice. For dry land practice, wear appropriate work-out clothing and be sure to bring a water bottle. 3) You are expected to attend practices every week as designated for each group. Attendance is taken daily. 4) Treat others the way you would like to be treated, cheer for your teammates, allow them to pass you in your lane, and respect other swimmers’ personal property. 5) Pay attention to your coaches and follow their directions. 6) Ask questions if you do not understand. 7) Do not leave the pool deck and building without Coaches permission. 8) If you have a problem with a teammate or at practice, talk to the Coach first. 9) If something is wrong, i.e. your leg hurts, you have an earache, etc., tell the coach before practice. Make an attempt to push yourself to work out despite discomfort. You will find that water workouts can help to diminish pain. If an injury occurs during practice, advise your coach immediately. 10) Do not sit on the lane ropes or run on the pool deck. Horseplay is not permitted. 11) Circle swim is the rule. Do not stop in the middle of the lanes as this can cause injury to a fellow swimmer. FAST Parents’ Association Parents: 1) PLEASE VOLUNTEER. Parents help is essential at swim meets and other activities such as fundraisers and social activities. 2) If you have a question, complaint, or suggestion, please bring it to a board member or coach. Please DO NOT ATTEMPT TO DISCUSS IT WITH A COACH DURING PRACTICE. These same rules apply during swim meets. 3) Arguments have no place on the pool deck. If there are any disagreements, the parties involved must wait until practice is over and arrange for a time to meet with Coach. Do not seek resolutions to problems on deck. Respect for others is of the utmost importance. PARENTS CAUSING ANY COMMOTION OR SCENE ON/OR NEAR THE POOL DECK WILL BE ASKED TO LEAVE IMMEDIATELY. PARENTS ARE NOT TO CHASTISE ANOTHER CHILD. PLEASE BRING ALL ISSUES TO A MEMBER OF THE BOARD OR COACH IMMEDIATELY. 4) Please drop off your child/children on time. Children who arrive late sometimes disrupt practice, so please make every effort to have your children ready to swim on time. They should be on deck warming up no later than their scheduled practice time. Determine how many days per week you and your child/children are able to dedicate to the swim team, notify the head coach and make it a goal to come to practice as regularly for optimum performance. 5) Children who arrive late for practice should suit up immediately, shower, and go on deck ready to work. Latecomers should not disrupt practice and should, instead, go to a coach and wait for direction. If a swimmer knows what he/she should be doing, he/she should get into the appropriate lane and begin the workout. 6) During dry-land practice, if a child is age five through nine is late, he/she must be accompanied to the practice during the outdoor season. 7) Parents are responsible for the meet sign up found on the FAST website and event information. The team website and bulletin board should be checked for updated information daily. 8) Meet results will be posted to the FAST website fastswimteamny.com under the Calendar tab labeled MEET SCHEDULE. Meet results can also be obtained on the Metropolitan Swimming link located on the team website 9) It is the parents’ responsibility to ensure the registration forms are accurate and coaches have up-to-date and appropriate (i.e. cell phone) emergency telephone contact numbers. Please also update all information on your Team Unify account via the website. FAST Parents’ Association CONSENSUS VALUES The traits valued by our membership are: Respect in the swimming community Respect among teammates, respect among teammates and coaches, respect among teammates and parents, respect among parents, and respect among parents and coaches; there is no room for disrespect of any kind Individually defined success Recognition Self-Discipline Social interaction among swimmers Social interaction among parents Parent participation Parent education Organizational efficiency Financial stability Ability Appropriate instruction and guidance Success in competition at all levels Family involvement Positive peer influence Professional coaching Staff development Pride in our organization Loyalty Increasing membership and embracing new team members Ability-appropriate instruction challenges each swimmer. Loyalty is developed among coaches and swimmers through: 1) Recognition 2) Parent participation and social interaction 3) An effective delivery of organizational services The FAST organization is committed to: 1) 2) 3) 4) 5) 6) Professional coaching Continued staff development Parent education Efficiency of operation Financial stability Success of the individual swimmer and the team FAST Parents’ Association MEET TERMINOLOGY For those new to the sport, swimming, like every other sport, has its own jargon. We will try to provide definitions and explanations for the most commonly used terms. Warm-Ups: Prior to each competition, there is a warm-up period during which swimmers not only warm up their muscles, but also get familiar with the pool. Meet: The swimming equivalent to a “game”. Dual Meet: Any competition between two clubs. Tri-Meet: Any competition between three clubs. Event: Any race or series of races in a given stroke and distance for a specific age group and sex. Example: Girls 8 & Under 25-Meter Breaststroke Individual Medley: Considered the true test of a swimmer. The individual medley commonly referred to as the “I.M.”, features all four strokes. Swimmer does 25-, 50-, or 100-meter (or yards, depending on the pool) segments of fly, back, breast, and free; in that order. Relays: A relay team consists of four swimmers. Medley relay is back, breast, fly and free. In a free relay, all swimmers swim freestyle. No swimmer may swim two strokes in the same relay. Lane: The specific area in which the swimmer is assigned to swim. Leg: The part of a relay event that an individual swimmer swims. Scratch: Heats: Seed: Circle Seeding: Heat Sheets: Anchor: Course: To withdraw a swimmer from an event. Since all the swimmers entered in a race cannot swim at the same time, they are put into groups (called heats) of six or eight swimmers depending on the number of lanes in the pool. The heats are generally arranged so that swimmers of comparable ability are swimming together. To distribute swimmers among the heats and lanes according to their times. In Westchester-Fairfield dual- and tri- meets, the fastest swimmers are in heat one; in most other cases, the fastest swimmers are in the final heat of an event. To assign swimmers to their lanes according to their entry times. When there are eight lanes, the fastest swimmer in each heat is in Lane 4, the next fastest in Lane 5, next in Lane 6, Lane 2, Lane 7, Lane 1, and Lane 8. Using this seeding technique, no swimmer is further away than half a pool width from the most competitive swimmer. Circle seeding is commonly used at championships and USA meets. The meet program is called the heat sheet and is usually offered for sale at competitions. The last swimmer in a relay. The designated distance over which the competitive is conducted. Many pools are 25 meters or yards, or a short course, where someone swimming in a 50-meter or yard event would do a turn at the 25-meter/yard mark; 50 meters for Olympic competition, or long course, where someone swimming in a 50-meter event would not do a turn at the halfway point. FAST Parents’ Association Stroke & Turn Judge: A trained swim official that judges swimmers’ legality for the event. If a stroke & turn judge finds that the swimmer’s stroke is not legal, he/she disqualifies the swimmer. Marshaling Area: Before each race, each swimmer must check in to pick up a time card showing the heat and lane number. Swimmers wait for their heat to be called and follow the instructions of marshals who tell them when to go to their assigned lanes. Timed Finals: Many meets are run as a timed final, which means that the heat time is the final time. Order of finish is determined by ranking the times for all the heats from fastest to slowest. In other meets, the heats are used as qualifiers to make the finals. The 8 swimmers with the fastest times make the finals; the next 8 make the consolations, and two are named as alternates in case one or more swimmers are scratched from the finals or consolations. Qualifying Times: Some swim meets having qualifying times (time standards) that has to be met in order to participate. For example, to compete at the Silver Championships, swimmers have to have “silver times”. De-qualifying Times: Some swim meets have maximum qualifying times. For example, those with provincial time in a stroke cannot swim that stroke at “B” meets. Starting Blocks: To allow swimmers to get further out into the pool at every start, starting blocks are used from which racing dives are executed at the sound of a gun or electronic beep/strobe. Backstroke Flags: Five (5) meters from each end of the pool, a set of flags is strung across the pool to let backstroke swimmers know that the wall is near. Session: A session is a 4- or 5-hour period (morning – 7 a.m. to noon, afternoon – noon to 5 p.m. and for meets with finals, 5 p.m. to 9 p.m.). EX This notation is used for a swimmer who is swimming exhibition only. They are not qualified for the meet because their times are too fast. They may be placed in the fastest heat, but are not eligible to win a ribbon. DQ This notation is used for a swimmer who has been disqualified for some infraction of the rules. JD This notation is used for a judge’s decision. This happens when the Place Judge’s list of finishing order does not match the times. This usually happens when the times are within hundreds of seconds of each other. The Chief Place Judge follows a standard procedure for determining time and place. MT This notation is used for manual time. In some of the larger pools, there are electronic time pads at the end of each lane, in addition to three timers. The Chief Place Judge compares the electronic time to the manual time. If the time is obviously incorrect, because of a light touch on the time pad (i.e. the clock doesn’t stop when the swimmer finishes), or malfunctioning electronics, the manual time replaces the electronic time. FAST Parents’ Association FUNDAMENTALS OF STROKES Freestyle As the name implies, any stroke may be used, but usually the front crawl (Australian crawl) is chosen. Two kinds of turns: open turn (touch turn), hand touches first; flip turn (tumble turn), feet touch first. Some part of the body must touch the wall on the turn. Backstroke Swimmers start in the water and remain on their backs for the entire race, except turns. The stroke is an alternating motion of the arms and flutter kick. Some part of the swimmer must break the surface of the water throughout the race, except during the turn and for a distance of not more than 15 meters after the start and each turn. On turns, they rotate onto their fronts, but must be on their back when their feet leave the wall. A line of colored flags, 5 meters from the pool ends, allows swimmers to judge turns. Breaststroke Rules are very restrictive. Both arms and legs move in a mirror image of each other. The arms and legs are recovered forward underwater, making it the slowest of all strokes. Because of this recovery, breaststroke is the fastest when the body is totally submerged. The kick is a simultaneous thrust of the legs called a “frog” kick. No flutter or dolphin kicking is allowed, except for the first underwater stroke, which can be a single dolphin kick. The rules allow one stroke underwater on the start and after each turn. The head may go under water, but it must come above the surface on each stroke. Both hands must touch the wall at the same time in the same horizontal plane. Butterfly Each arm and leg moves in a parallel fashion. Unlike breaststroke, the arms are allowed to recover over the water. A dolphin kick action is used. The swimmer must kick both legs together and may not flutter kick as in the freestyle. Once again, the hands must touch the end walls at the same time and at the same horizontal plane. The butterfly was born in the early 1950s as a loophole in the breaststroke rules. It became an Olympic stroke in 1956 in Melbourne, Australia. FAST Parents’ Association FAST SWIM TEAM USA MEET SCHEDULE (2016-2017) (Tentative) 2016 October: 8th & 9th- Hispanic Heritage Home Meet TBA – Travel Meets to be announced. November: 12th & 13th- T.Y.D. Home Meet December: 11th – 1st Annual William L. Carter Home Meet TBA – Travel Meets to be announced. 2016 January: 1st TBA – Travel Meets to be announced. February: 4th – 5th – Black Legends Home Meet TBA – Travel Meets to be announced. 10th – 12th – Washington DC Meet 18th – 19st- Senior Mets OME @ NCAC 24th-26th- Metro Silvers North @ Felix Festa March: 4th – 5th - Metro 8&U Championships @ Felix Festa/ 11th – 13th JO 14&U Championship @ LIAC OTHER DATES TO REMEMBER September 9, 2016 October 5, 2016 November 9, 2016 December 9, 2016 December 16, 2016 January 20, 2017 February 3, 2017 June 10, 2017 September 2017 TBA Registration, Parents’ Meeting Parents’ Meeting Parents' Meeting Parents' Meeting Holiday Party Parents’ Meeting Parents Meeting (Washington) Season Picnic & Awards Ceremony Start of New Season Course TDYCC TDYCC TDYCC TDYCC TDYCC TDYCC Ridge Rd Park Pavilion 3 TDYCC These dates are Tentative and subject to change all meets and Parent meetings will be announced on deck and posted on our website. Pool Closure Dates will be posted on our website Emergency Contact & Medical Release Information FAST Parents’ Association (This information will be carried with the coach to each swim meet in the event of an emergency) Name: __________________________________________________________ Date of Birth: ______/______/_______ Age: _____________________________ Address: __________________________________________________________ City: ________________________ State: ___________ Zip: ____________ Please answer each question completely. In an event of an emergency, this form will be given to the medical personnel who are providing treatment to your son/daughter. Thank you. 1. Do you have allergies _____ yes _____ no If yes, please list __________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ 2. Are you allergic to any medications _____ yes _____ no If yes, please list __________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ 3. Do you have seizures _____ yes _____ no If yes, please list condition(s) _______________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ (Epileptic, Brain, other) 4. Are you diabetic _____ yes _____ no If yes, please list type and medications______________________________________________________________ 5. 6. 7. a) b) c) d) Do you have sickle cell anemia _____ yes _____ no Do you have high blood pressure _____ yes _____ no Do you have any of the following conditions Heart disease (murmur, rheumatic fever, other) _____ yes _____ no Lung disease (asthma, pneumonia, bronchitis) _____ yes _____ no Kidney disease _____ yes _____ no Liver disease _____ yes _____ no Please list any other condition _______________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ 8. Have you ever been unconscious for a head injury or any other head injury or condition or hospitalization in the past 3 years _____ yes _____ no If yes, please list __________________________________________________________ 9. Have you ever had a neck or back injury involving bones, nerves injury in which you were disabled for more than 5 days _____ yes _____ no 10. Do you wear contact lenses during competition _____ yes _____ no 11. Have you had any shoulder injuries _____ yes _____ no 12. Do you have any other conditions that we should be aware of (surgeries, pin screws, sprains, strains, etc.). Please give specific details ________________________________ FAST Parents’ Association Ten Commandments for Swimming Parents by Rose Snyder, Managing Director Coaching Division, USOC Former Director of Club Services, USA Swimming and available on-line at http://www.usaswimming.org/USASWeb/ViewMiscArticle.aspx?TabId=1313&Alias=Rainbow&Lang=e n&mid=725&ItemId=3061 1. Thou shalt not impose thy ambitions on thy child. Remember that swimming is your child’s activity. Improvements and progress occur at different rates for each individual. Don’t judge your child’s progress based on the performance of other athletes and don’t push him or her based on what you think she or he should be doing. The nice thing about swimming is every person can strive to do his or her personal best and benefit from the process of competitive swimming. 2. Thou shalt be supportive no matter what. There is only one question to ask your child after a practice or a competition—”Did you have fun?” If meets and practices are not fun, your child should not be forced to participate. 3. Thou shalt not coach thy child. You are involved in one of the few youth sports programs that offer professional coaching. Do not undermine the professional coach by trying to coach your child on the side. Your job is to provide love and support. The coach is responsible for the technical part of the job. You should not offer advice on technique or race strategy. Never pay your child for a performance. This will only serve to confuse your child concerning the reasons to strive for excellence and weaken the swimmer/coach bond. 4. Thou shalt only have positive things to say at a swimming meet. You should be encouraging and never criticize your child or the coach. Both of them know when mistakes have been made. Remember “yelling at” is not the same as “cheering for.” 5. Thou shalt acknowledge thy child’s fears. New experiences can be stressful situations. It is totally appropriate for your child to be scared. Don’t yell or belittle, just assure your child that the coach would not have suggested the event or meet if your child was not ready. Remember your job is to love and support your child through all of the swimming experience. 6. Thou shalt not criticize the officials. Don’t criticize those who are doing the best they can in purely voluntary positions. 7. Honor they child’s coach. The bond between coach and swimmer is special. It contributes to your child’s success as well as fun. Do not criticize the coach in the presence of your child. 8. Thou shalt be loyal to and supportive of thy team. It is not wise for parents to take swimmers and to jump from team to team. The water isn’t necessarily bluer in another team’s pool. Every team has its own internal problems, even teams that build champions. Children who switch from team to team find that it can be a difficult emotional experience. Often swimmers who do switch teams don’t do better than they did before they sought the bluer water. 9. Thy child shalt have goals besides winning. Most successful swimmers have learned to focus on the process and not the outcome. Giving an honest effort regardless of what the outcome is is much more important than winning. One Olympian said, “My goal was to set a world record. Well, I did that, but someone else did it too, just a little faster than I did. I achieved my goal and I lost. Does this make me a failure? No, in fact I am very proud of that swim.” What a tremendous outlook to carry on through life. 10. Thou shalt not expect thy child to become an Olympian. There are 250,000 athletes in USA Swimming. There are only 52 spots available for the Olympic Team every four years. Your child’s odds of becoming an Olympian are about .0002%. Swimming teaches self-discipline and sportsmanship; it builds self-esteem and fitness; it provides memories and creates friendships that will last a lifetime, and much, much more. The intangibles will far outweigh any ribbon or medal your swimmers have won along the way. Swimming builds good people and you should be pleased that your child wants to participate. FAST Parents’ Association
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