Sexual Triggers: Rejection and Arousal Triggers

In our last video
 In video # 1 I introduced you to the idea of sexual
triggers and also went over the 6 types of triggers and
the mindset you need in order to get the best possible
results from this course.
 In this video I’m going to be breaking down our first 2
sexual triggers: Rejection Triggers and Arousal
Triggers.
Rejection Triggers
 Rejection Triggers are things that women recognize in
men either through evolutionary signals (Acne,
Overweight, Blood Types) or through learned social
behavior (Being needy,desperate) that lead them to
automatically reject you in the first few minutes of an
interaction.
 These are examples of what Nobel Prize Winning
behavioral economist Daniel Kahneman calls
“thinking fast.”
Why Women Reject You
 Women reject men for a variety of reasons some due to
personal taste but most owing to lightning quick
asessments they make as you approach them and
demonstrate interest by talking to them.
 These lightning quick decisions are the rejection
triggers.
The Rejection Triggers
 There are 3 rejection triggers, they are:
 1. The Nervous Trigger.
 2. The Desperate Trigger
 3. The “Loser” Trigger.
The Nervous Trigger
 How Women Spot It: Ummms and Ahss, Pauses, Bad
Eye Contact, Indecision, Uncomfortable Body
Language.
 Why It Triggers Rejection: Men who are nervous
around women tend to be de-selected, and thus needy.
 Fixes: Proper Body Language, slow deliberate
movements, relaxation through breathing.
The Desperate Trigger
 How Women Spot it: Coming on too strong, Not
taking hints, being too pushy, Male Sexual Bias.
 Why It Triggers Rejection: A man who is desperate is
either A: A player or B: Unattractive to all other
women.
 Fixes: Playing Hard To Get, Qualification, Push-Pull,
Releasing.
The “Loser” Trigger
 How Women Spot It: Boring conversation, lack of
emotional stimulation, lack of status, self deprecating
humor, supplication, ass-kissing.
 Why It Triggers Rejection: Women are evolutionarily
designed to seek men of higher status and means than
themselves. See Sperm Wars.
 Fixes: Story-Telling, Cold Reads, Teases, Hot/Cold,
Status demonstrations, Social Proof.
Arousal Triggers
 Arousal Triggers are ways to get a woman turned on
both physically and verbally.
 Arousal is a physical sensation first for a woman. The
same way that men get physically aroused so do
women and physical compulsion overrides everything
else.
 Arousal triggers start this process.
Physical Triggers
 Physical triggers are places and ways we can touch a
woman that will turn her on even if she’s not thinking
about you sexually in any way shape or form.
 Physical Triggers range from the innocent to the
dominant and send a strong message that not only do
you know what she wants sexually but you know how
to give it to her.
3 touch rule
 An easy way top start to trigger physical arousal is
simply by touching a woman at least 3 times in the first
5 minutes of your interaction with her.
 These don’t need to be sleazy touches but they will
convey your interest and begin the physical dialogue so
you can escalate later.
Examples Of Physical
Triggers
 There are a million examples of physical arousal triggers but
I will give you my 5 favorite.
 1. Touching a woman’s inner writs
 2. Controlling a woman’s waist
 3. Softly Biting her neck while pulling her hair
 4. Pinning her against something as you kiss her
 5. Picking her up in the air
Verbal Triggers
 Verbal Triggers are things we are going to say to the
woman that will cause her to get aroused physically as
well as create sexual images and symbols in her mind.
 Verbal triggers are equally important as physical
triggers for arousal.
 When using verbal triggers try to avoid physical
escalation as that can sometimes overdo it.
Examples of Verbal
Arousal Triggers
 There are a million kinds of verbal arousal triggers as well
but my favorite ones are:
 1. Sexual Teasing
 2. Sexual Framing
 3. Sexual Mind Reading
 4. Sexual Push-Pull
 5. Coquetting
Public Affection Frame
 The Public Affection Frame is designed to create 2 types of people in
the girls minds those that show affection and those that are attracted
to each other.:
 I can see you as being way too hesitant about things that you like to
do and more aggressive over things like…wait you totally have to
have all the lights off when you are with a guy. It is like the difference
is a couple that has public displays of affection and a couple that will
be normal in pubic but sneak off somewhere and have sex in a
bathroom, you need that excitement. The people who want attention
do PDA where as the people who are really into each other have
already snuck off.
 You don’t have fantasies about things like sex at work or in public,
cause if you do I have to stop talking to you.

I might like you too much.
Passion Frame
 The Passion Frame is all about getting a girl to feel her
passion.
 I bet that you’re a really passionate person. Like I bet
when you feel your feelings really intensely. When
you’re into someone you’re into them and when you’re
over them you’re over them. There’s no in between
with you and I bet because of that passsion people
either really get you or really hate you…
Review
 In this video we went over the first two types of sexual
triggers: The Rejection and Arousal Triggers.
 We went over the 3 rejection triggers, how women spot
them, why they reject you because of it and how to fix
them.
 We also went over the arousal triggers and I gave you
tons of examples of physical and verbal triggers for
arousal you can use.
Exercise:
 This week I want you to approach at least 5 women to
see if you’re triggering any of the rejection triggers
right now.
 If you are go back to the video and focus on cleaning
up that area of your presentation.
 If you don’t trigger any rejection triggers try to use an
arousal trigger.
In Video 3
 In our next video I’m going to be breaking down the 9s
and 10s triggers as well as the personality triggers.
 Once you’ve gone through that video it will be like
you’re reading the mind of every hot women you meet!
 Check it out now!