Solution-Focused Counselling in Schools: Beyond Questions Jeff Chang, Ph.D., R.Psych. Associate Professor Graduate Centre for Applied Psychology Athabasca University Overview Solution-focused (SF) counselling is more than questions! Think about the big picture and about solutionfocused presence an abiding belief that that clients are already doing a great deal of what they would like to do the skill to notice openings to inquire about what the client is doing that is in line with his/her goals the creativity to invite clients to notice and do more of what works. A bit about me Child and youth care worker Therapist/psychologist Private practitioner Program supervisor and director University teacher Researcher Books…. Chang, J. (2013) (Ed.). Creative interventions with children: A transtheoretical approach. Calgary: Family Psychology Press. Books…. Barker, P., & Chang, J. (2013) (Ed.). Basic family therapy (6th ed.) London: Wiley Clinical Supervision…. I love doing clinical supervision After supervising about 20 Provisional Registered Psychologists, I actually figured out what I was doing… … and developed an approach to supervision, the Contextual-Functional Metaframework for clinical supervision The “Faraway Fathers” Project Distinct family dynamics when families have to deal with one or two weeks away/ one or two weeks off. Looking for families (heterosexual couples with children in the house) to participate. High Conflict Divorce And Parenting Most of my current practice is dealing with high conflict divorce… Researching New Ways for Families, an intervention for divorcing parents to prevent high conflict parenting Six Background Principles Think “Big Picture” Think Coherently About Your Work Think Relationally Think Developmentally Think Positively and Optimistically Think Ecologically and Systemically Think “Big Picture” What keeps you going? What’s your mission and vision? Discourses: The “big ideas” that operate in our culture What are some of the trends and larger cultural stories connected with them? Think “Big Picture” We are often so close to them, we cannot see how discourses stand behind and sponsor our ideas and beliefs – we often cannot see the forest for the trees. the primacy of competition (capitalism?); the preference for knowing through modernist, western, scientific thought; gender roles the nature of childhood. Think “Big Picture” We are often so close to them, we cannot see how discourses stand behind and sponsor our ideas and beliefs – we often cannot see the forest for the trees. the primacy of competition (capitalism?); the preference for knowing through modernist, western, scientific thought; gender roles the nature of childhood. Childhood…. Think Coherently About Your Work Lots of exciting new ideas in counselling Counselling theories and common factors Psychotherapy integration Develop a clear way of working that fits for you personally. Think Coherently About Your Work Counsellors select their theoretical orientation based on what fit for them; it’s an aesthetic choice What are the models and theories that guide your work? How do you integrate? Think Relationally The working alliance is more important than technique Kids need connection more than therapy Balancing role as a teacher with the role of facilitator or supporter Think Relationally The biggest contributor to therapeutic outcome is the therapeutic alliance Emotional connection, but also, agreement on tasks, goals, and methods The relationship must support the intervention Take the time to privilege the child’s perspective Place yourself in the position of a Think Relationally Use your natural style to connect with the children who come to see you; use what works for you. Be someone they enjoy coming to see; be one of the rare people in their lives who is not interested in telling them what to do – just be present. Think of a child/youth who really connected with you… what did you do to invite that? Think Developmentally Cognitive and emotional development “Grown-ups read things they wrote as kids” The family life cycle Think Positively and Optimistically Not just thinking, but listening, perceiving, and being alert to contrasts Thinking positively does not refer to reciting affirmations or ignoring problems - Stuart Smalley Change peters out, rather than rippling on, if we do not listen for openings and explore them Noticing openings Think Ecologically and Systemically Help others notice Help others support When adults say,“Fix this kid,” get them to help you When possible, moving the work into the community to assist communities to develop supports Think Ecologically and Systemically Develop protective/resilience factors All child/adolescent counselling is “family therapy” in the sense that we must consider the context in which the young person lives Bonus Point: Problems are Negotiable and Change Happens In All Kinds of Ways What is the problem or goal? Matching intervention with what the client wants How do you talk about the problem? – buy-in My experiences: dental health and joint health: How does change happen? Reflect on one successful effort to change and one that went not so well? What contributed to each outcome? Five Interlocking Activities Setting and maintaining the relational foundation Listening for clients’ world view, strengths, and preferences Negotiating a solvable problem or an achievable project Opening meaningful experiences of difference Within session Between sessions Circulating these experiences of difference The Interview Context: Summer Externship at Calgary Family Therapy Centre Consultation/demonstration interview The P family: Parents: Kelly (F), Krista (M), Kody (12), Kori (9), Kamryn (5) Violent outbursts Kody was in day treatment in Grade 2 More responsive to Dad than Mom Mom had to restrain him at last session Setting And Maintaining The Relational Foundation Play with children before you work with them Be a therapeutic “uncle” or “aunt,” or… “I Have No Idea.” Video removed Positioning As A Professional Think of one professional person (education, health, or mental health) with whom you interacted as a child in your growing-up years. Perhaps you were the patient/client, or perhaps a family member was. What did you appreciate and find supportive? What did you not? How, and how well, did the professional tailor his/her approach to “where the child was at.” Setting and Maintaining the Relational Foundation The relationship must support everything Who is concerned or involved with the problem? Include others in a non-blameful way Spend lots of time connecting with everyone, especially if the family is polarized Therapeutic relationship and problem definition/goal are interrelated – how you talk about it matters “I Have No Idea” – Part 2 Video removed Listening For Clients’ World View, Strengths, and Preferences Getting to know the child apart from the problem What are the parents' beliefs about this problem? and about parenting? what is the child good at? How did he/she get that way? “wonderfulness conversations” An Expert At… Video removed Listening For Clients’ World View, Strengths, and Preferences Sometimes you can find something to utilize… The child’s experience will give you ideas about how the child acquires skills, useful “character traits,” good habits, etc. … or sometimes not… “Do They Give You Power?” Video removed Negotiating a Solvable Problem or an Achievable Project Elicit a problem description that everyone can buy into – at least “sort of” Minimize blame and create space for respectful disagreement beware of clashing problem definitions/ beliefs child vs. parent parent vs. school therapist vs. parent “Mad or Bad” Video removed Negotiating a Solvable Problem or an Achievable Project Despite your best engagement strategies, things can turn negative in a hurry. Miracle Question: Hypothetical solutions that bypass the need for mutual blame Externalize the problem Naming the goal or project in a way that fits for everyone “Shared sense of purpose” – the most crucial aspect of the working alliance with families Opening Meaningful Experiences of Difference… Within Session “Inter-Viewing” What’s different? Behavioral sequence: Emotion Cognition Behavior Sensation Interpersonal Past real-life exceptions may be more accessible than hypothetical ones: “Can you remember…?” “When is it Different?” Video removed Opening Meaningful Experiences of Difference the highlight package using drawings to elicit exceptions scaling drawings miracle drawings exception/new story drawings rehearsal in sessions A Miracle… A Good Time With Dad… Interviewing for Exceptions Divide into groups of two or three The interviewee thinks of a time when he/she overcame a difficulty. It could be large or small, your own or someone else’s The interviewer (who may have two heads), from a position of undying curiosity, asks questions like: Interviewing for Exceptions The interviewer asks questions like: Describe what happened when you overcame ____ problem. What did you do? How did you get yourself to do that? What would others have noticed? (And if you run out of things to say) – What else? Circling Back…. A Hidden Exception… Video removed Find, Elicit, or Create Meaningful Experiences of Difference Contradiction/contrasts Identity and preferences What kind of person do you want to be? “Big Hearted or Good Hearted” Video removed “Two Pictures” Video removed Find, Elicit, Or Create Meaningful Experiences Of Difference Using numerical or visual means to track progress Scaling for: Progress Confidence Motivation What is different between a 3 and a 4? Detailed description of pattern, sequences, and modalities What’s the Balance? Video removed Disagreeing About Progress Video removed Circling Back Again: Recalling Another Exception Video removed Find, Elicit, or Create Meaningful Experiences of Difference Connecting themes Eliciting a past instance: An actual Macro-description Skimming the surface of exceptions and joining them Developing an attributional description Micro-description Detailed sequential description of: Actions Thoughts Emotions Sensations interpersonal Personal Agency: “I Never Thought Of That” Video removed Find, Elicit, or Create Meaningful Experiences of Difference Between sessions (end of session interventions) observational tasks for parents and teachers practicing one or two things bragging meetings reading a new story together “Notice…” Video removed Amplify, Anchor, and Maintain New Experiences rituals and celebrations certificates and letters reflecting teams Therapeutic Letters Offer commendations to individual family members and/or to the family as a whole, highlighting strengths and competencies Acknowledge problems and their effect Highlight particular words, ideas, or recommendations that stood out from the therapy session. Pose questions about future directions how to keep changes going what developments or new insights will follow Highlight what you are learning from the client(s) or from your work with them. Reflecting Teams Observing team exchanges positions with the client(s) The team presents mulitple perspectives tentatively Process: Physical separation Not addressing the clients direclty Owning one’s own persective Epxressing observations tentatively This permits clients to take or leave the team’s perspective, and for the therapist to interview the lcient(s) about what they noticed THE TEAM REFLECTS… After the Reflection 1 Video removed After the Reflection 2 Video removed The Most Important Thing Madhav Ghimire, the national poet of Nepal, said: “When you touch people with compassion, their good characteristics emerge” Contact: E-mail: [email protected] Permission • Feel free to use my work as long as you cite it. • Click here for publications and presentations.
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