MINDSET John d’Abbro, the head teacher in Channel 4’s popular TV show Jamie’s Dream School and recipient of an OBE for services to special education: ‘You must respect kids for them to respect you, be fair, trustworthy and honest”. The head of New Rush Hall Group, an organisation that works with children with behavioural, emotional and social difficulties, says: “Learning is an exploratory and uncertain process so children have to trust you to learn from and with you. A big part of it is about making children feel that you care about them. “That’s not to say we should be all lovey-dovey; and it’s not about getting children to like you either, you can respect someone without liking them. We need to go into class confident, and work to gain the respect of our students, making them realise we want to be there.” So, with his extensive background in handling students with complex needs, what wisdom does d’Abbro have to offer around behaviour management? Last week he came to the Guardian’s offices to give us his five top tips. Here’s what he said: Start the lesson well I always try to greet children as they come in. You need to respect them if you want them to respect you. If you came to my house I’d greet you as you came in, it’s just good manners. I’d also say, as a general strategy, don’t be noisy at the start of class because often a noisy teacher leads to a noisy class. I’ll get in trouble for saying that, but in my experience, it tends to be the case. At the start of a lesson the children have to take up their places as learners and, if they are coming in straight from the playground, you need a bridge – something to ease the transition from being switched off to being switched on. If children come in still sweaty and buzzing I might give them a starter activity that lets them talk for two minutes, but then it’s their turn to listen. Plan, plan and plan again As the old adage goes: failing to prepare is preparing to fail. Of course, there have been times when I’ve walked into a class to cover a lesson not knowing exactly what I am supposed to be doing, but I always have about three or four pre-planned lessons in the bag. If you have a relationship with children you can get away with being less prepared, but if not, it can result in chaos. So, always cover the basics to ensure you have a well-behaved lesson, including having the right equipment and a plan B for when things don’t go as you thought they would. Use a range of teaching strategies In some lessons I use a whiteboard and in others I talk to the children or adopt a kinaesthetic approach. This works because we all learn differently. One student might not respond well to the particular strategy you are using and become distracted and/or disruptive. So, if you use a range of techniques chances are that most of them will get on well with at least one of them, and you minimise the potential for disruptive behaviour. Mean what you say and say what you mean Never threaten to do something if you’re not going to do it. Kids need consistency and security. For example, with one child recently I said that if he directed inappropriate language at me he’d get 30 minutes in detention. He did, and I made him stay to the minute. It sends the message that if I say something then it happens. Having said that, you can always be flexible once you have a framework. About six months ago, for example, I had a kid in detention and as part of his bail conditions he had regular meetings with his youth offending team. He told me he couldn’t do detention because if he did he’d be late to meet them and be in breach. I said, “I am happy to ring the officer up and tell them” but he said it was his last chance and he’d been late all week. He said he would do the detention the next day and in the end I decided to meet him halfway. Sometimes I think you just need to adopt a more human approach. In that circumstance we’d built up a relationship – it was later in the year. At the beginning of the school year it is important that you set your stall out, and make the pupils clear of your expectations and the consequences of inappropriate behaviour. To quote that great Bill Rogers line (I wish I had said it): “The certainty of the consequence is more important than the severity.” Be confident There are days when you go in and you are not feeling a million dollars but you have to act as though you are. It’s not about being disingenuous – kids have a right to the best lesson you can give them. Source: The Guardian Our teachers have grown up in a society which reveres effortless giftedness and are part of an establishment which is steeped in fixed mindset systems – but the good news is that there are things we can all do to create a growth mindset culture in our schools. In our classrooms Let’s start with something that doesn’t require a huge shift in your teaching practice but, nevertheless, you might find surprisingly difficult: changing the way you speak. You’ll be amazed by how much fixed mindset language you use without realising; just think about your own classroom, with those bright girls on the green table who’ve got all that potential and your red table with the less able pupils who do O.K. but have to try hard. Perhaps start with changing just one word and ask the pupils to help by correcting you every time you say it, for example replace ability with skill. Here are some common examples of fixed mindset language, with suggestions for empowering alternative Another simple strategy is to give learners a chance to struggle. It can be hard to sit back and watch a pupil who is finding something difficult, especially when there is strong pressure to show ‘progress’. Yet it’s so important that children learn to embrace the feeling of struggling, that they learn to try harder and can look for alternative ways to find the answers. In our schools Begin by looking at your school policies to ensure they embody growth mindset principles. Reports are an obvious example and it could be extended to include performance management indicators, to prompt teachers to actively encourage growth mindsets. On a grander scale consider the school structures; is it really necessary to set pupils in any subjects? At the school where I teach, we developed a ‘Challenge All’ approach. Pupils who had been placed on the G+T register at primary school were still tracked as was required by Ofsted but this was not shared publicly with pupils or staff. This meant that teachers didn’t focus their extension activities on the same small cohort of pupils (who were selected as ‘gifted’ based on their performance in a oneoff test in Year 7). Instead, staff training focused on effective strategies for differentiating so that all learners at any given task in any lesson were encouraged to try more challenging activities. Do you reward pupils for effort or for ability? If you give prizes for effort that is at least in line with growth mindset thinking, however even this could reduce a child’s intrinsic motivation to learn. An alternative approach which we found to be extremely successful was to create a fund to which any pupils could bid for a specific item to help them improve at something about which they are passionate. Previous bids have included drama lessons, a graphic design tablet and more unusual items like specialist swimsuits for diving. At a later interview with the bursar and the head teacher pupils were required to show how they had tried to improve and become more expert with effort, devotion and resilience. There are many ways to develop a growth mindset school when you think creatively. I feel the starting point is to change the thinking of everyone in the organisation, by helping them to broaden their understanding of the concept of intelligence. I also think it is important to highlight that underlying everything is a ‘Slow Education’ philosophy. This recognises that transforming the way that teachers and learners think about intelligence from fixed to growth mindset, as well as adjusting their long-standing classroom habits, will be a slow process; it will take an investment of time and effort to bring about sustainable change and a culture of challenge. Source: www.teachsecondary.com
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