Fine Tune your Attitude
Positive Attitude Vs Negative Attitude
Define Attitude…..
Define Behavior…..
Difference Between Attitude & Behavior
• Attitude is the way you think, intend to deal
• Behavior is the final action, you are judged with
Positive Thinking Vs Negative Thinking
Ambition for the future
Live life Now
Thinking
Positive Thinking Helps..
• Get the most out of every moment of your time
• Ensure that your are your own master
• Slave life
Two Types of Problems
Problems
Those you can do
Those you can do
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Your Attitude to Life
• If you do not get enough out of life, it is your fault
• Improve your life and opportunities, by having
the courage to be yourself
Be Real
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B-believe that you are unique to God’s creation
E -enhance your self
R-recognize your needs
E -encourage your self
A-accept opponents
L -learn from your experience
Positive Vs Negative Talk
Person
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Definition of Negative Thinking
Anticipation of Problems
Depression
Worries
Stress
Frustration
Negative Thinking
Creeping Fungus
Sneak and squirm its way into
all the corners of life
Negative Thinking is a Negative Attitude
Negative
• Envious intention
• Destructive to yourself and others
• Negative Aggression
• Fight to make others fail
• Negative towards success of others
Positive
• Good intention
• Constructive to yourself and others
• Positive Aggression
• Thinking to achieve
• Positive about success of others
Aggression
Positive
Negative
Basic
Mental Attitude
I’m OK
You’re OK
I’m OK
You’re not OK
I’m not OK
You are OK
I’m not OK
You’re not OK
YOU
WINNER
LOSER
Why are you a Loser?
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Doubt
Lack of confidence
Creating your own obstacles
Kill your inborn winning chances
Record, recall and play back all
the disappointed memories
Winner believes that…
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Life consists not in holding good cards, but in playing those you do hold well
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The world is round, and the place which may seem like the end may also be only the
beginning
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God gives every birds a seed, but never puts the seed in the nest
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Success is a ladder that cannot be climbed with your hands in your pockets
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It takes both rain and sunshine to make a rainbow
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There is a vast difference between hopeless end and endless hope
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Happiness is something to do, something to love and something to hope for
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You can give without loving, but you can never love without giving
To be a Winner…GIVE
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To your enemy, forgiveness
To an opponent, tolerance
To a friend, your heart
To your customer, service
To every child, a good example
To all men, charity
To yourself, RESPECT
The more you talk and act like a winner
the more winner-oriented you become
I Own the Problem
• You cannot change any body but yourself
• When pointing a finger forwards, accusing someone,
three fingers are pointing back wards, pointing at you
Determining your Aim in Life
• What do you want from life?
• What helps you feel fulfilled and happy?
• How to work on your strength?
Determine your Aims in Life
Start Considering….
• What would make life more meaningful
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What would give us more satisfaction
What would enable us to climb into bed in content
How to define your goals in life
What are your strength and how can you make better use of them
What gives you a feeling of happiness and fulfillment
What were the happy times
When have you felt happy
When have your felt proud
When you felt relaxed
When were you satisfied with achievement
Who were you with, when you were happy
What made it a special happy occasion
What can you do to make it happen more often
List some strengths, talents and abilities you would like to develop
State why
Write down what you need to do to achieve or acquire these
Answer quite honestly if you are prepared to make the necessary effort
Relationships
• Who is important to you
• How to develop better relationships with others
• How to win support from people
What to do to win support?
• List the people who encourage you, at work and in your private life
• Describe how they encourage you
• List the people who knock you down and depress you
• Describe how this happens
• Estimate how much time you spend with the encouragers
• Work out how to spend more time with them
• Make a plan to include more time with those who encourages you
Thank you