Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept
3-5
Learning to Live-Safety
Standard:
 Students will develop safety and survival skills
Indicators:
 Identify appropriate and inappropriate touching
 Describe personal safety habits
 Identify resource people in the school and community
 Explain how to seek the help of resource people in the school and
community
3-5 Lesson
Standards & Indicators are adapted from the SC Comprehensive School Counseling Model
Secrets
What is a secret?
Something that you are not supposed to share with others...
Secrets
Can secrets be both good and bad?
What is the difference?
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Secrets
Good secrets are things that can make you and somebody else very happy.
Secrets
Good Secrets vs. Bad Secrets
Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept
Some secrets should never be kept. When Lord Henry started
to tickle Alfred in a way that he did not like, was Alfred right to
tell him to stop? When Lord Henry did not stop, what should
Alfred have done?
Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept
Why didn't Alfred tell his mother about the touching and tickling right
away? How might Alfred have been feeling?
Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept
When should Alfred have told his mother about what happened to
him?
Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept
Should anyone tickle or touch your private parts?
Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept
If they do, what should you do?
Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept
What if the person says it is "our special secret"-should you keep
that kind of secret?
Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept
Sometimes there are good secrets, such as not telling your best
friend about a surprise party planned for them, or not telling your
brother or sister about a present your parents brought them.
But sometimes there are bad secrets, such as someone touching you
private parts. A secret such as this should never ever be kept. If
someone tells you to keep a bad secret, what should you do?
Resource People in School & Community
Who can you tell or go to for help?
Any Trusted
Adult
Resources
Standards & Indicators are adapted from the SC Comprehensive School
Counseling Model
"Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept"" By: Jayneen Sanders
"Do You Have a Secret?" By: Jennifer Moore-Mallinos
"I Said No!" A kid-to-kid guide to keeping private parts private!
By: Zack & Kimberly King