LP Life Skills 21 How to deal with Winning or Losing

HOW TO DEAL WITH WINNING OR LOSING
Learning Objectives
• To understand that it isan acceptable desire to win or to achieve
success.
• To understand that one cannot always win every time and one may
lose sometimes.
• To understand the meaning of good sportsmanship and various ways
of displaying it.
• Be aware and understand that one does learn something from losing
or a failure.
Computer skills objective
 Reading good stories on net with respect to the objective and building
appropriate content on it.
Instructions:Read the following questions and write answers for
the same.
1. Do you play games? If yes, which games do you like playing?
2. Why do you like playing these games?
3. How will you feel when you win the game?
4. How will you feel when you lose the game?
Instruction: Read the following passage and answer a few questions
on the same.
John and Smith were playing carom board. Just when John thought
he is going to get the red coin and win the game, Smith paid a lot of
attention and managed to get the red coin which carries more points
than other coins. This angered John and he knocked off all the coins
and pushed the carom board.
1. Why did John knock away all the coins and push the carom board?
2. How did Smith feel about John’s behavior?
3. How do you think Smith should react to John’s behavior?
4. What do you think of John’s behavior?
5. There are instances where you will lose a game and that may make
you angry and upset. Can you think of appropriate ways to control
your anger?
Instruction: Read the following.
Good sportsmanship:
Good sportsmanship is when teammates, opponents, coaches, and
officials treat each other with respect and fairness.
Displaying good sportsmanship isn't always easy: It can be tough to
congratulate the opposing team after losing a close or important
game but it is important to do so to maintain a healthy relationship.
Go to internet, look for different ways to build sportsmanship, give
example from real life for each. Copy and paste some images of
some famous people who have displayed it by their conduct.
Please scroll down further for next activity…..
Instructions: Read the following social story
HOW DO I DEAL WITH WINNING OR LOSING A GAME?
I like playing games, i enjoy them
The goal is to win
Winning is fun, and it can make me feel happy, proud and special
Appropriately, only 1 person or 1 team can be the winner
When I play games there will be times when I win and times when I
lose
WIN
LOSE
Losing is not fun but I can still feel good if I try my best, follow the
rules and accept my losing with courage and good sportsmanship
Courage and good sportsmanship means congratulating the winner,
not blaming or being mad at self or teammates for making
mistakes. I keep my emotions calm.
To stay calm I can take deep breathes
I can request a break from my teacher, coach, or parent by going to
the restroom or getting a drink.
I can still be a winner to myself, friends, teachers and family if I
accept losing with courage.