The LuxLetter A Publication of the Luxmanor PTA What’s Up This Month November 2 No School Professional Day November 3-6 Eat a Rainbow Week November 11 Early Dismissal 12:55 p.m. Parent Conferences, Report Cards Distributed November 12 Early Dismissal 12:55 p.m. Parent Conferences, Report Cards Distributed November 25 Early Dismissal 12:55 p.m. Thanksgiving Holiday November 26 No School Thanksgiving Day November 27 No School Thanksgiving Vacation December 1 PTA Meeting November 2015 Issue From the PTA President Fall is “officially” here and the leaves are turning beautiful colors and starting to fall. The first marking period is ending and soon report cards will be coming home. These first months have been so busy that they have really flown by. I would like to start off this month’s letter with a plea to our community. The PTA is hoping to have many wonderful events for our students and our community this year, but we can’t do it without your help. Our PTA voted on a budget for this year that is based on the support of our families with both PTA Membership and Direct Donations. The Luxmanor PTA does not participate in traditional fundraising programs such as gift wrap and pizza or cookie dough sales. Instead we rely on the Direct Donations to fund all that we do for the students and the staff, including Supplemental Instructional Material for Classrooms, the Back to School Picnic, Cultural Arts Assemblies, the Science Fair, International Night, Staff Appreciation, Scholarships for Students in Need, etc. As of now, we are not sure that we will be able to fund all of the programs and events that we have planned for this year. We are currently at 77.8% of budget for our membership and only 57.2% of budget for direct donations. We have hundreds of families at our amazing school, but only 62 fabulous families have contributed to our Direct Donation Campaign so far this year. We hope that parents who have not yet joined the PTA will do so at this time and will consider contributing to our Direct Donation Campaign. If you have already joined the PTA, but have not yet contributed to our Direct Donation Campaign, you can fill out another membership form or simply send in a donation with a note indicating it is a Direct Donation. Remember, your donation is taxdeductible! No donation is too small and every little bit will go to provide our children with the programs and events that help make their Luxmanor years so special. Now, on to our events! We rolled into October with the ending of our Scholastic New Book Fair. Tri-Chairs Stacey Cooperman, Sangita Pradhan and Sheri Weiss did an outstanding job along with their dedicated group of volunteers in helping our children to find some wonderful books to buy and also raising some funds for our school. We are working with Traci Ambrosi, our Reading Specialist, to use the funds to update all of the classroom libraries for all of the grades! … The LuxLetter, Page 2 The LuxLetter Published monthly during the school year by the Luxmanor PTA *** Principal Ryan Forkert Assistant Principal David Nguyen PTA President Debby Orsak PTA PresidentElect Marcie Peters Newsletter Editor Meta N Awuah-Offei Submissions Deadline The 20th of every month. E-mail submissions to [email protected] Or place in the LuxLetter box in the School Office. All submissions are welcome! *** Luxmanor Elementary School 6201 Tilden Lane Rockville, MD 20852 PHONE: 301-230-5914 FAX: 301-230-5917 http://www.montgomerysc hoolsmd.org/schools/luxm anores/index.aspx November 2015 (continued from previous page) On Wednesday, October 7th we had a lot of children and parents participate in International Walk to School Day. They were greeted by one of our Health & Safety Chairs, Wendy Hookman-Vassa, who gave all walkers a sticker to show they participated. Walkers then entered the raffle for prizes. On Monday, October 12th, our Bake Sale Chairs, Debra Cohen and Lesley Potash, did an amazing job coordinating and manning our Bake Sale at the Open House. It provided visiting parents with something to munch on while they were visiting their children’s classes. Our Annual FAB Dads Breakfast was held on Friday, October 23rd and Bruce Dincin, the chair of the Fathers Advisory Board (FAB), gathered volunteers and donors to put together another successful breakfast. There was good food and company and all of the children and dads loved getting their customized FAB Dads Hershey kisses! As I’m writing this, we are getting ready for our final two PTA events of October. On Wednesday, October 28th we are having our second family night out of the year at California Tortilla and Baskin Robbins. We’re hoping for a big turnout to show how much Luxmanor really does tock! Our final PTA event of October and the first quarter, is the Annual Halloween Parade and Class Parties on Friday, October 30th. The PTA has ordered the donut treats and water and the Room Parents have been busy planning some great activities for the Halloween classroom parties to help our kindergartners celebrate their first Halloween at Luxmanor, while our 5th graders enjoy their last. I know I can’t wait to see all of the kids, and the teachers, in their costumes as they go on parade! Now, as we look toward November, our PTA activities will slow down, but we kick off the month with a bang! The first week of November will be our first Eat a Rainbow Week of the year. The kids enjoyed it so much last year, that our Health & Safety Chairs, Cynthia King and Wendy HookmanVassa, are planning to have two this year! An informational flyer will be coming home with the kids to explain how it all works. This is an opportunity for our kids to try new fruits and vegetables from the different colors of the rainbow. We’re helping them to make good food choices and get a complete range of nutrients while making it fun! On Thursday, November 5th, the school will receive a visit from Snowday A Cappella Group. Our Cultural Arts Chair, Kate Bradshaw, arranged for this program for our kids, which features a quintet creating unique music using just their voices and no instruments! Snowday's talented singers present upbeat songs and moving rhythms that trace the history of a cappella singing and demonstrate how to create its harmonic partscomical introduction to percussion with amusing demonstrations and audience participation. … The LuxLetter, Page 3 November 2015 (continued from previous page) We have Parent-Teacher conferences on November 11th and 12th. These are also early release days for the kids, and when we get our kids’ first report cards for the year. All the best to you and your families and I wish everyone a safe and Happy Thanksgiving! Debby Orsak, PTA President. -x- The LuxLetter, Page 4 November 2015 Luxmanor PTA 2015 – 2016 Direct Donation Contributors Thank you very much to these Luxmanor Families for their donations! Diamond Level ($200 and above) Silver Level ($50 - $99) The Calderon-Marukhlenko Family The Eapen Family The Orsak Family The Singer Family The Suarez-Anzorena Family The Nozu Family The Oshinsky Family The Plotnick Family The Pradhan Family The Proger Family The Rogers Family The Rotton Family The Shugart-Brzostowski Family The Sivanesan Family The Tanenholz Family The Yokoi Family Gold Level ($100 - $199) The Bregman Family The Chen-Huang Family The Nekoui Family The Oh Family The Prince Family The Ragheb Family The Steinberg Family Bronze Level (Up to $49) The Awuah-Offei Family The Cameron Family The Dincin Family The Franks Family The Grossman-Zalowitz Family The Hookman-Vassa Family The Knotts Family The Kohda Family The Lee-Huang Family The Manchester Family The Ormiston Family The Oti-Odogwu Family The Rhein Family The Seidmore Family The Soares Family The Susanto Family The Won Family The Yoon Family The Zuckerman Family Silver Level ($50 - $99) The Balabanova Family The Bobb Family The Boisture Family The Bond Family The Ciangiulli-Levy Family The Darnell Family The Elliott Family The Gadesam-Valadri Family The Gibbs Family The Gomez Family The Hatada Family The Iwamoco Family The Kee Family The King-Eng Family The Koka-Johnson Family The Lanzo Family The Mason Family The Mendoza Family The Mieremet Family The Milstein-Hoenig Family -x- The LuxLetter, Page 5 November 2015 The LuxLetter, Page 6 November 2015 The LuxLetter, Page 7 November 2015 Luxmanor will celebrate Eat a Rainbow Week November 3-6 2015 EAT A RAINBOW! Rainbows are fascinating and beautiful—not just in the sky, but also on the dining table! When we encourage kids to "eat a rainbow" we’re helping them to make good choices and get a complete range of nutrients without having to think too much about it. Each day of the (four-day) week (Monday is Professional Day), we’ll assign a color for kids to eat that day. A flyer will come home prior to the event with the specific color/day assignments. Everyone who participates will receive a brightly colored bracelet and anyone who has four bands on Friday will receive a small prize. The real potential prize is better lifelong health. Eat a Rainbow Week was so popular last year that the PTA’s Health & Safety Committee is planning to have one each semester this school year. The next one will be March 7-11, 2016. What does it mean to eat a rainbow? • Choosing a variety of different-colored whole foods throughout the day and week. • The more naturally occurring colors on your plate at each meal or snack, the better. • It does not mean making a rainbow with artificially colored foods (gummy snacks,soda, popsicles, etc.) Why eat a rainbow? Consuming different color foods play a role in insuring you are getting enough essential nutrients, vitamins, minerals, antioxidants, fiber, and more. Eating this way can help to protect against many potential body ailments and chronic diseases such as the flu, cancers, digestive issues, declining vision, loss of bone density, and can even help with weight management. Besides, your mood will most likely be lifted when your plate is full of a variety of visually appealing bright colors versus covered in a dull white and plain blandness. Brighten up your plate and you will brighten up your health! Read on to learn more about some of the benefits of eating a variety of fruits and vegetables from the colors of the rainbow: … The LuxLetter, Page 8 November 2015 (continued from previous page) Red Red color tomatoes contain lycopene, a red pigment that may help with protecting against breast and prostate cancers. Tomatoes are also loaded with antioxidants from vitamins A and C to help protect against cell damage. Leave those tomato skins on and eat raw! In its little and plump ruby red seeds, pomegranates are packed with cancer-fighting antioxidants, and healthful soluble fiber when you eat the entire seed. Red beets are a good source of vitamin C for fighting the common cold, and betaine for cardiovascular health. Beets have zero fats, are low in calories, and are a great energy booster because they are high in carbohydrates and a natural source of sugar. Green The powerhouse of the dark green veggies is kale. Highly nutritious and delicious, kale greens are packed with vitamin K, A and C, iron, and antioxidants like carotenoids and flavonoids. Kale is a fantastic plant-based source of calcium. Green apples contain a lot of fiber good for digestive and intestinal health, especially when eaten with the skin on. They are low in fat and help to regulate blood sugar, which is important for individuals with diabetes. If you have a craving for a tart, yet sweet treat, apples are hard to beat! Orange/Yellow Orange color vegetables like carrots contain not only vitamins like vitamin C for immune health, but also compounds called carotenoids that aid in maintaining good vision health. Whole or squeezed, lemons have incredible immune-boosting powers, and lemon juice is fantastic as a digestive aid and liver cleanser. Drinking warm lemon water each morning is a great way to wake up and to flush out toxins. What great health benefits! Lemons also contain citric acid, vitamin C, calcium, magnesium, bioflavonoids, and pectin. Purple/Blue An analysis of the latest data from the National Health and Nutrition Examination Study (NHANES), a survey of eating and health habits, found that individuals who eat purple and blue fruits and vegetables have reduced risk for both high blood pressure and low HDL cholesterol (the “good” kind); they are also less likely to be overweight. Scientists believe that anthocyanins, compounds that give purple foods their color, are responsible for these boons. These compounds mop up free radicals and soothe inflammation. Currently, purple and blue foods like blueberries, plums, purple cabbage, black currants, eggplant and purple grapes make up only 3 percent of the average American’s fruit and vegetable intake, so aim to eat more! White Garlic is not only extremely healthy and tastes fabulous in cooking, but it also acts as a natural health remedy for various ailments, strengthening the immune system and is used in fighting off infections, congestion, and the flu. Garlic is an excellent source of vitamin B6, which is needed to keep a healthy immune system and for new cell growth. … The LuxLetter, Page 9 November 2015 (continued from previous page) Try this Recipe for Rainbow Pepper Pizza! Eat a Rainbow Week was so popular last year that the PTA’s Health & Committee is planning to have one each semester this school year. The one will be March 7-11 2016. Safety next LUXMANOR PTA 2015-2016 Executive Board Officers Office President President Elect Vice President Recording Secretary Corresponding Secretary Treasurer MCCPTA Delegates (2) Diversity Chair Office Holder Debby Orsak Marcie Peters Lori Scherr Debbie Berger Ilene Steinberg Rachel Singer Wendy HookmanVassa Rebecca Rudich Nermine Demopolous Phone 301-770-2289 301-770-4346 301-230-1435 301-793-0711 301-564-5111 301-564-6267 301-564-6044 Email [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] 301-564-1963 [email protected] 240-888-9789 [email protected] Committee Chairs -x- The LuxLetter, Page 10 November 2015 Thank you Luxmanor Families!! The Fall New Book Fair was a success!! We were able to get a book into the hands of most if not all Luxmanor children. We had a fun and well attended Wednesday night Read a Loud, increased sales, increased the number of books in the classrooms and raised the profile of reading. Because of all of you, we are happy to report that we sold over $237 more this year than last year including online sales. Given our lower enrollment in Luxmanor this year, the increased sales are especially noteworthy. Thank you for participating!! Your donations made a difference. Parents bought more than 150 books for classroom teachers. The PTA donated 37 books for children in need in our community. We tried to make sure all children came home with a book. Summer Reading Awards were presented. The PTA also provided the five children with the highest number of Summer Reading minutes in first through fifth grade with a book award. The award winners are Eleanor Mieremet (5th grade), Fumihiko Kohda (4th grade-- most overall-- 8400 minutes), Aadi Gannavaram (3rd grade), Lana Eganova (2nd grade) and John Koegel (1st grade). The Book Fair proceeds will help our school. Our profit from the book fair will help our school with more books and assist the PTA. Your participation makes this possible. We also hopefully made reading fun and fostered a love of reading in our children. Thank you to all of the teachers and staff who worked with us. Acting Principal Meiners, Assistant Principal Nguyen and front office staff Barbara McGolrick and Lillian Flores were so helpful and encouraging. Traci Matturo, our reading specialist, gave us all the information we needed and much support. All the classroom teachers helped us with the class visits to the book fair. The building maintenance staff made our jobs much easier. Thank you to the teachers and staff who read to the children on Wednesday night: Mrs. Kaz, Mr. Nguyen, Mrs. McGolrick, Mrs. I, Mrs. Jamieson, Mrs. Cooper, Ms. Segal, Mrs. Silverberg, Mrs. Matturo, Mrs. Bradshaw, Ms. Kleponis. The children were delighted to see you after hours and hear you read! Thank you to our amazing volunteers!! We could not have undertaken this book fair without you: Dee Lucas, Beth Rivers. Abbe Milstein, Rika Granger, Stephanie Oshinsky, Kara Lewis, Dale Lewis, Marcie Peters, Rachel Manchester, Nitsa Ford, Mary Ellen Elliott, Lori Scherr, Isabel Gay, Laurence Cameron, Kate Proger, Yoko Komatsuzaki, Karen Greenfeld, Zoila Marroquin, Meritt Tollefson, Yumiko Yokoi, Beth Ciangiulli, Patricia Garcia, Damaris Molano, Rebecca Rudich, Shelly Eapin, Joanne Kee, Celina Schmidt, Alexandra Hayward, Sharon Plotnick, Giovanna Chavez, Claudia Israel, Anura Sivanesan, Jennifer Dooren, Sofia Arias, Yolit Yospe-Kachlon, Bridget Williams-Simons, Soujanya Giambone and Maria Velez. We also had a very helpful group of middle and high school students who earned SSL hours for their assistance. Debby Orsak and Rachel Singer gave us guidance. Thank you for special donations. Thank you to Jennifer Dooren for providing the milk, cookies and water for our Wednesday night event. Thank you to Abbe Milstein and the Luxmanor Citizen's Association for donating the balloons to decorate the gym. Thank you to Child's Play for donating a cook book for our Guessing Jar winner. A special thank you to Rachel Manchester, who advised us and worked beside us throughout the book fair. We have no idea how you chaired by yourself last year! … The LuxLetter, Page 11 November 2015 (continued from previous page) There were 168 items in the Guessing Jar. Just in case your children ask. Congratulations to Jeremiah in Mr. Lakner's Fifth grade class who guessed 167 and won the contents of the jar (ugly dogs, shopkins and candy) and a cookbook donated from Child's Play. Thank all of you who brought in plastic bags! See you at the Spring 2 for 1 Book Fair!! Hold the dates -- May 11-13, 2016 in the Media Center. Sheri Steisel Weiss Sangita Pradhan Stacey Cooperman Book Fair Chairs -x- ****************************************************************** MEDIA CENTER HELP! We are still looking for volunteers to shelve books at the Media Center. An hour or two of your time will make a big difference. Parents who are interested should please contact Adria Schoen at [email protected] **************** The LuxLetter, Page 12 November 2015 Montgomery County Planning Department 2016 Subdivision Staging Policy The latest version of Montgomery County’s Subdivision Staging Policy (SSP - formerly called “Growth Policy”) is being updated for review and approval by the County Council by November 15, 2016. The Montgomery County community has been invited to be a part of the conversation to update this important policy. The intent of the SSP is to ensure adequate public facilities infrastructure - particularly schools and roads, associated with new development and growth. This update is an opportunity to revise the rules for our county growth. In partnership with Montgomery County Public Schools (MCPS) and the Montgomery County Department of Transportation, the updated policy will help to guide growth in the County for the next four years. Representatives from the Luxmanor PTA have attended meetings with the Montgomery County Planning Department. The kick-off meeting for the SSP review was held on Monday, October 19th and Wendy Hookman-Vassa has sent a more detailed outline of the issues on the Luxmanor listserv. As a follow up to these meetings, we are pursuing the following initiatives related to the SSP. 1) Change the "school level" based test to an individual school based test at each school level for the area impacted by the development project to account for the disparity within the cluster. Disparity rates within the cluster have never been so large. 2) Institute a moratorium on development if any one school in the cluster hits 140% utilization. 3) Earmark a portion of the recordation tax - ideally 50% - to be dedicated to public schools. 4) Confirm that the new rules apply to all applications that were filed, but not approved, retroactive to January 1, 2016. (The council has previously enacted similar retroactive mandates.) 5) Discontinue or limit extensions to validity period on approvals for development projects. 6) Increase the impact taxes to residential developments at rates based on 100% of the costs vs. the current 90%. This will help account for land purchases that are likely needed and other operational costs. 7) Consider increasing the impact tax from 90 to100% to account for operating costs beyond construction costs. 8) Recalculate Construction Cost index for 2015. (Current School Facility Payments are based on 60% of Construction Cost index calculated in 2007 and increased only for inflation.) 9) Consider increasing school facility payments to 75% to account for operating costs beyond construction costs. We discussed the possibility of dropping the trigger level of facilities payments from 105% to 100%, but there is a belief that change is probably not winnable, as MCPS does not plan for that level. If you have any questions about any of this information or would like to get involved, please contact Nermine Demopoulos, Debby Orsak or Wendy Hookman-Vassa. -x- The LuxLetter, Page 13 November 2015 LUXMANOR PTA 2015-2016 Executive Board Officers Office President President Elect Vice President Recording Secretary Corresponding Secretary Treasurer MCCPTA Delegates (2) Diversity Chair Office Holder Debby Orsak Marcie Peters Lori Scherr Debbie Berger Ilene Steinberg Rachel Singer Wendy HookmanVassa Rebecca Rudich Nermine Demopolous Phone 301-770-2289 301-770-4346 301-230-1435 301-793-0711 301-564-5111 301-564-6267 301-564-6044 Email [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] Chair/s Debra Cohen Lesley Potash Stacey Moses Debby Orsak Wendy Rhein Kate Bradshaw Barbara McGolrick Bruce Dincin Robyn Rogers Phone 301-530-6334 301-468-2922 240-753-0033 301-770-2289 404-290-1751 301-230-5914 301-230-5914 301-530-6120 301-770-5668 Ryan Forkert VACANT Sharon Plotnick Michelle Raynes Cynthia King Wendy HookmanVassa Nermine Demopolous Sheila Franks Robert Oshinsky Barbara McGolrick Meta N Awuah-Offei Debbie Corwin 301-230-5914 [email protected] 301-564-1963 [email protected] 240-888-9789 [email protected] Committee Chairs Committee Bake Sales Calendar Cluster Representative Community Outreach Cultural Arts Directory FAB Dads Family Disco Night/Red & White Dance Fifth Grade Events Fun Fair Geography Bowl Health & Safety International Night Kindergarten Orientation Listserv Moderator Luxbucks Luxletter Membership 301-897-7395 301-816-0676 301-828-6205 301-564-6044 Email [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] 240-888-9789 [email protected] 301-231-7677 301-493-6018 301-230-5914 916-213-5337 301-881-4097 [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] The LuxLetter, Page 14 New Book Fairs Open House Popsicle Party Room Parent Coordinator School Supply Kits Science Fair Silent Auction Spirit Wear Square One Art Teacher Appreciation UNICEF Drive Used Book Fair Variety Show Webmaster November 2015 Stacey Cooperman Sangita Pradhan Sheri Weiss Runaka Anderson Debby Orsak Cynthia King Ashlei Lowery VACANT Kate Proger Runaka Anderson Beth Bobb Karen Greenfeld Wendy Rhein Sutton Ragheb Marc Israel Amy Kleponis 301-255-0032 301-984-4171 301-881-2633 240-543-4531 301-770-2289 301-828-6205 210-323-2243 [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] 301-881-3909 240-543-4531 301-468-8940 301-881-8234 404-290-1751 301-770-4034 301-806-7043 301-230-5914 [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] Please let the Chairs know if you would like to help with their committee by calling or emailing them directly. To volunteer for a vacant position, please email Debby Orsak at [email protected]. Thank you. ****************************************** The Luxmanor Website http://www.mcps.k12.md.us/schools/luxmanores The Luxmanor Website is not only very informative, but also includes links to numerous educational sites, many of which have fun and educational computer games for kids. The Website is updated regularly. Be sure to check it out and add it to your bookmarked sites. The LuxLetter, Page 15 November 2015 Announcements Luxbucks Earn FREE CASH and Equipment for Luxmanor! Welcome to all new and returning Luxmanor families! School will soon be in full gear, and so are the opportunities for us to help improve the resources available to our children and teachers. Luxbucks enables us to take advantage of the programs offered by various businesses/merchants, to that we can earn $$ for the school without spending anything extra…just as a part of our normal daily routines… Here’s how you can participate: Keep your eyes open for a flyer in your child’s backpack, fill it out, and I will take care of registering for you at Giant, Safeway, Harris Teeter and Bloom OR: 1. Register your Giant BonusCard in the A+ BonusBucks Program and designate Luxmanor, School Code 0725. This program earns CASH to the school. To register on-line go to www.giantfood.com (select A+ Bonus Bucks, Designate Schools). Last year we earned over $8,000 with this program! EVEN IF YOU REGISTERED LAST YEAR YOU MUST REGISTER AGAIN THIS YEAR! 2. Register your Safeway Club Card for their Education program and designate Luxmanor, School Code 6531272. AGAIN, even if you registered last year. YOU MUST RE-REGISTER and DESIGNATE LUXMANOR AGAIN THIS YEAR. To register go on-line to www.escrip.com. The web site will walk you through the steps to either renew your designation or register for the first time. 3. Register your Harris Teeter card with me. Send me your VIP number on the back of your store card along with your last name. I will be glad to key into their website. We earned almost $500 this past year with 57 active cards. I know there must be more active people to add to our earnings. Everyone must re-register their VIP card every year. 4. Clip/Send General Mills “Box Tops for Education” logos from MANY participating products. Each logo earns 10 cents. Besides General Mills products, some of the other products are Avery labels, Betty Crocker, Nature Valley, Pillsbury, Yoplait, Cottonelle, Viva, Poise, Hefty Ziploc, to name a few. Before you send the Kleenex box to your child’s teacher, take off the labels. 5. On-line shopping, visit Onecause.com and link to some of your favorite stores. Choose Luxmanor to receive on-line rebate. At least 400 participating merchants will donate a percentage (up to 30%) to Luxmanor. 6. Bloom grocery store now has program to earn school products. So if you forward to me your Bloom number on the back of your store card along with your last name, I will be glad to key into their website. I know there must be more active people to add to our earnings. I can’t be the only Luxmanor person who shops at Bloom. 7. Use your Target VISA Card, or apply for one. If you find yourself shopping at Target more these days, this would be a great time to open a Target account. Target will give us 1% of in store charges and ½ percent anywhere else you use your card. Apply at www.Target.com or at the store. This year, with your participation, we have the opportunity again to bring great results. The key is for each family to register/collect, get the kids involved, and get relatives, friends, co-workers and neighbors to help too! This means free cash for our school. It’s free. No cost to you! Nothing to sell! Nothing to buy! It’s like recycling … if we don’t do it, we are wasting valuable resources. We are going to buy stuff anyway, so let’s make it count! Please call Barbara McGolrick at 301-230-5914 if you have any questions. Thanks for your enthusiastic support and cooperation! The LuxLetter, Page 16 November 2015 November Notes from your Counselor Gloria Silverberg Our Friendship Groups are in full swing now, meeting over lunch to address social skills and friendship needs. For our Banana Splits groups, we address the concerns of living in a changing family through divorce or loss. The children love these groups and it is an excellent opportunity to practice new skills and share with each other. A very large part of your children’s education involves the acquisition of social and emotional intelligence skills which they will hopefully use for the rest of their lives. Friendships can be very fluid throughout the childhood years, so the important thing is for our children to learn how to make and keep friends. This is a skill that is easier for some than for others, but one that can be acquired with observation and practice. A great tool for practicing friendship skills is to have children role-play social situations with them. I have included a wonderful resource book, titled The Unwritten Rules of Friendship, by Elman and KennedyMoore about how to help children navigate friendships. This book addresses every type of personality, giving excellent advice for all children in making and keeping friends. Another great children’s book about Friendship is “Making Friends is an Art” by Julia Cook. Social Skills For Children 1. Give Him the Words and the Praise Demonstrate and role play social skills with your child. Include skills such as maintaining eye contact, no interrupting, to using kind language. 2. Teach Group Dynamics Teach children to stand near 2 people you might be interested in meeting who are talking to each other. Look at them but just listen to see if you are interested in joining in with them. Notice if they look at you, because that invites you to join in their conversation. If they do not make eye contact, they probably want to remain alone. 3. Be a Play Date Observer Talk to your child about what makes someone a good friend, and what are friendship breaking behaviors. Coach your child on how to behave during a play date…say hello, don’t interrupt, say please and thank you. Parents who effectively coach their children intervene in the setting where and when the skill is required. 4. Work Together with your Child’s Teacher Ask your child’s teacher if she can pair up students to work together. 5. Friendships Start at Home Try inviting 1 or 2 friends to your home to do something your child enjoys. Plan some special outings with other children and their families. 6. Create Special Moments Plan 15 minutes of quality time with your child several times each week. Do fun things together, without directing or criticizing him/her. Building a relationship with your child pays off in terms of friendships. … The LuxLetter, Page 17 November 2015 (continued from previous page) Research has shown that when parents work on relationship building at home, they see better behavior in a child’s peer relationships immediately. 7. Find His/Her Passion Find out what your child prefers….team sports or solo activities. Team sports and group activities can teach your child skills that can encourage friendships off the field. 8. Be a Role Model When you make friends with other parents, have family over to dinner, and get involved in PTA or other group activities, you are teaching your child about social skills. 9. Deflect Teasing Good social skills can fend off bullying. The most effective technique for deflecting teasing is to use humor. Role play humorous comebacks to peers who tease your child. Never tease back, but you can use techniques like “Boohoo, So what?, And your point is?, or Whatever.” 10. Enroll in a Social Skills Program Sign up your child for a social skills program outside of school or talk with your school counselor to seek out friendship Groups and Social Skills Activities -x- The LuxLetter, Page 18 November 2015 2015-2016 Luxmanor PTA School Calendar 2015 Aug. Sept. Oct. Nov. 28 31 Open House, 2:00 - 2:45 p.m. Popsicle Party, 2:45 p.m. First Day of School 3 7 8 11 14 16 16 17 22 23 28-30 30 Back to School Night, 7:00 p.m. No School - Labor Day PTA Meeting & Volunteer Fair, 7:30 p.m. Back to School Picnic, 6:00 – 7:30 p.m. No School – Rosh Hashanah Parents Meet & Greet Breakfast Silver Diner “Run the Diner” Night ESOL Back to School Night, 7:00 p.m. Room Parent Orientation, 9:30 a.m. No School – Yom Kippur New Book Fair Teacher Read Aloud 1-2 2 7 9 12 16 23 28 30 30 New Book Fair Early Dismissal, 12:55 p.m. International Walk to School Day Fall School Picture Day MCPS Open House & PTA Bake Sale No School, MSEA Convention FAB Dads Breakfast, 7:45 a.m. California Tortilla/Baskin Robbins Night Halloween Parties and Parade, 2:00 p.m. 1st Marking Period Ends 2 11 No School, Professional Day Early Dismissal, 12:55 p.m. - Parent Conferences, Report Cards Distributed Early Dismissal, 12:55 p.m. - Parent Conferences, Report Cards Distributed Early Dismissal, 12:55 p.m., Thanksgiving Holiday No School - Thanksgiving Day No School – Thanksgiving Vacation 12 25 26 27 Dec. 2016 Jan. 1 14 18 22 25 28 No School – Winter Break Science Fair, 6:30 – 7:30 p.m. No School - Martin Luther King Day 2nd Marking Period Ends No School – Professional Day Science Fair (Snow Date), 6:30 – 7:30 p.m. Feb. 5 3 5 12 15 23-24 26 PTA Meeting, 7:30 p.m. Report Cards Distributed Red & White Dance, 7:00 – 9:00 p.m. Valentine’s Day Parties, 2:15 p.m. No School – Presidents’ Day Geography Bowl Early Dismissal, 12:55 p.m. Mar. 11 15-16 18 23 24 25-31 International Night, 7-9:00 p.m. Used Book Fair Silent Auction (Tentative), 7:30 – 11:00 p.m. 3rd Marking Period Ends No School – Professional Day No School – Spring Break Apr. 1 14 14 18 20 25 26 27 28 29 No School – Spring Break Report Cards Distributed Variety Show Act Approval, 3:30 p.m. Variety Show Rehearsal, 3:30 p.m. Variety Show Rehearsal, 3:30 p.m. Variety Show Rehearsal, 3:30 p.m. No School, Primary Elections Variety Show Rehearsal, 3:30 p.m. Variety Show Dress Rehearsal, 3:30 p.m. Variety Show, 9:00 a.m. and 7:00 p.m. May 3 4 10 11-13 18 22 30 PTA Meeting, 7:30 p.m. Staff Appreciation Luncheon 5th Grade Class Picture, 1:45 p.m. 2-for-1 Book Fair Silver Diner “Run the Diner” Night Spring Fun Fair, 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. No School - Memorial Day June 7 16 PTA General Meeting/Elections, 7:30 p.m. 5th Grade Promotion Ceremony, Clap Out and Party Early Dismissal, 12:55 p.m. - Last Day of School Report Cards Mailed 1 PTA Meeting 10 Staff Appreciation Luncheon 24-31 No School – Winter Break 17 27
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