bulletin Beth Tzedec Bulletin volume 63, no. 2 | kislev 5774 • november 2013 | www.beth-tzedec.org Wishing everyone a Happy Hanukkah ˙ From the Heart Gala Event with HOMELAND’s Gideon Raff and the Hon. Irwin Cotler—November 21—p.2 Jews in Sports Series—Wednesday nights in November and December—p.26 Hanukkah and Havdalah Family Dinner and Trivia Night—November 30—p.6 ˙ 8 Days of Tikkun Olam—Contribute much-needed items throughout Hanukkah ˙ to support a fabulous Beth Tzedec Youth Project—p.18 Annual December 25th Family Fun Day—p.24 2 commentary Rabbi Baruch Frydman-Kohl Demographics, Decision and Destiny The Pew Report gives us the metrics for what we already knew. the recently released Pew Report on Jewish Identity described a statistical disaster engulfing America Jewry like the waters of Noah. Canadian Jewry faces comparable challenges; looking at American trends gives us a lens to see what is ahead. In reflecting on the Flood, it is important to recall that Abraham was a source of hope, despite demography. The Pew Report suggests that secular or cultural Jews are less connected to Jewish organizations and less likely to be raising children as Jews. The study shows that the rate of intermarriage remains very high, particularly among younger Jews, those with little connection to Jewish life, and those who live away from strong centres of Jewish population. Most of the others who identify as Jews say that being Jewish is primarily a matter of ancestry and culture. Beyond ethnicity, markers of Jewish identity are remembering the Holocaust, leading an ethical life, working for justice, having a Jewish sense of humour and religious practice. The study shows that the modern Orthodox, Conservative and Reform Jewish communities are experiencing losses, with higher retention among the fervently Orthodox. About three-in-ten say they are “just Jewish”. The revival of Jewish observance seems to take place within the various movements, not between them, which indicates that outreach efforts are retentive rather than transformational. The Conservative movement is aging, but Conservative and Reform Jews with day school and Jewish camp experiences have higher rates of commitment than others within the same movements. The Pew Report gives us the metrics for what we already knew. Young Jews are marrying later, deferring Jewish families, having fewer children and connecting less to Jewish institutions and Israel. They are choosing a “sovereign self” filled with pride, but with only partial engagement in community. This picture of Jewish life has been developing for some time, just as Noah built the Ark over many years. Avraham was different. Unlike Noah, Avraham did not retreat into the protection of the Ark. Like us, he had a tent open to the world. From the beginning, Avraham was counting descendants, concerned with carrying on the Covenant. Professor Jon Levenson of Harvard writes that Avraham is “the realization of the hoped-for reversal of the curses on Adam. The man without a country will inherit a whole land; the man with a barren wife will have plenteous offspring; and the man who has cut himself off from kith and kin will be pronounced blessed by all the families of the earth” (Inheriting Abraham, p. 20). The saga of Avraham is about a revolution of hope, about going against common expectations. Avraham is not only a noble warrior who stands against the high culture of Mesopotamia; he is deeply concerned with building a people, a covenantal community, from his own family in the Land of Promise. In a similar way, the Pew Report points to pride in Jewish identity and attachment to the Land of Israel. While Jews tend to be less religious than the American public, 80 percent say being Jewish is important to them. Even though the content of that pride is thin, we are challenged to galvanize that pride to construct a more substantive identity from it. Jews in the Pew Report said that leading an ethical and moral life is essential to being Jewish. These are central values to Judaism, but are not unique to Jews. In the century before 1492, teachers and scholars emphasized the singularity of traditional Jewish practice to withstand the pressures of the Spanish Inquisition. Can we strengthen the core of home and synagogue, school and camp to enable us to face social integration? We are working very hard at Beth Tzedec, using many models for Jewish engagement. Meditation services, outreach to interfaith families, Mishpacha programs for young children and parents, youth activities and the active involvement of shinshinim, teen trips for service learning, sports and cultural initiatives 3 continued Rabbi Baruch Frydman-Kohl for young professionals and much more. We are constantly trying new approaches for outreach and engagement. Our Adult Skills and Knowledge (ASK) program offers opportunities for adults to become bat or bar mitzvah or to upgrade their early Jewish education. We are limited not by our imagination, but by our budget. The metrics of intermarriage can’t be ignored, but those who connect to community and tradition are more likely to raise Jewish children. Can we develop programs for single Jews to meet each other, actively encourage conversion and support mixed families as they raise Jewish children? The Pew Report seems to indicate that this is an area of opportunity. That is why Rav Adam and I work with so many potential Jews-by-Choice and why Beth Tzedec has sponsored The Mother’s Circle for non-Jewish moms. At Hanukkah, we think of the successful efforts of the Hasmoneans to ˙ secure independence, restore national identity and revive religious practice. Hanukkah is a festival that celebrates the victory “of the few over the ˙ many”, creating a model of “great deliverance and redemption for Your people Israel to this very day”. In the midst of the dark of winter, we kindle small lights of hope, harbingers of the future light. Judaism was transformed in the period from the Maccabees to the Mishnah and spread out to the world. The determination of the few created a new destiny for the many. Following the 1964 Look Magazine article, “The Vanishing American Jew,” Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel declared, “Our community is in spiritual distress and our organizations are too concerned with digits. The significance of Judaism does not lie in being conducive to mere survival but in being a source of spiritual wealth and source of meaning to all peoples.” Can we draw on Jewish wisdom to bring meaning to a wide swath of our society? Professor Jonathan Sarna, who spoke last year at Beth Tzedec, has pointed to many creative reversals, unexpected developments in Jewish life in earlier generations. There are many possibilities for innovation to build a Jewish future. Jewish life is built on the past, but pointed forward. Past trends are not necessarily indicators of the future. What can we do to influence the yet to come? Avraham and Sarah represent hope despite demographics. Hanukkah symbolizes pride in who we are and the possibility for creative ˙flourishing. On a micro-level, each of us is challenged to intensify Jewish living and learning and to have the faith that others might also find meaning and fulfillment in what we love. After all, the miracles were in “those days and in our time”. beth tzedec bulletin Winter Volume 63, Number 2 Kislev 5774 • November 2013 Editorial Council Carolyn Kolers, Dena Libman, Debbie Rothstein, Ted Zittell Beth Tzedec Congregation 1700 Bathurst Street, Toronto, Ontario Canada M5P 3K3 Tel 416-781-3511 / Fax 416-781-0150 www.beth-tzedec.org President Carolyn Kolers [email protected] Chair of the Board Dena Libman [email protected] klei kodesh & educational leadership Rabbi Baruch Frydman-Kohl, Anne and Max Tanenbaum Senior Rabbinic Chair ext. 228, [email protected] Rabbi Adam Cutler ext. 219, [email protected] Cantor Simon Spiro ext. 223, [email protected] Cantor Sidney Ezer ext. 296, [email protected] Ritual Director Lorne Hanick ext. 240, [email protected] Director of Education and Family Programming / Congregational School Principal Daniel Silverman ext. 231, [email protected] Youth Director Aily Leibtag ext. 239, [email protected] administrative & program support Executive Director Randy E. Spiegel ext. 211, [email protected] Receptionist Avital Narvey 416-781-3511, [email protected] Events Coordinator Florence Bendelac ext. 213, [email protected] Communications Coordinator Terri Humphries ext. 212, [email protected] Would you be interested in joining Rav Baruch Frydman-Kohl for a Bar/Bat Mitzvah Family Tour to Israel in December 2014? To learn more, contact Lynn Levy at 416-781-3514 ext. 227 or [email protected]. 4 Membership Coordinator Sheri Federman ext. 220, [email protected] Librarian Zina Glassman ext. 225, [email protected] Museum Curator Dorion Liebgott ext. 232, [email protected] TO CONTRIBUTE YOUR news, congratulations, member updates or other listings, send an email to [email protected], call 416-781-3514, ext. 212 or fax 416-781-0150. from the president Carolyn Kolers Building Community We’re listening; we’re planning; we’re doing! U i’m not sure where the month of october went, but I hope yours was a good and productive one! Like many of you I expect, I spent the start of October recovering from the earliest-possible High Holy Days, before delving back into “normalcy”. Thanks for Tabbing Down and Please Be in Touch! Thanks to those of you who tabbed down your cards at Rosh Hashanah. We’ve already been in touch to tell you what’s next: Please send your email address to our Membership & Development Coordinator, Sheri Federman at [email protected] and complete the Volunteer Engagement Form that Sheri will provide. If you didn’t tab down but still wish to get involved, email Sheri—it’s not too late! I’m sure many of you have thoughts to share about our High Holy Day services and programs. Your feedback is critical to us in planning for next year and the future. Please send your constructive comments to me by email at [email protected], whether about the Hot Topics! Sessions, the Youth Programs, the Family Service, the Parallel Service or the Sanctuary Service, and if you joined us over the week of Sukkot, please share your thoughts about that too. Please join us for the From the Heart Event on Thursday, November 21 We are busy with planning and ticket sales for the upcoming special event that we will co-host with the Canadian Shaare Zedek Hospital Foundation. This extraordinary evening, called From the Heart: Celebrating Humanitarianism, will take place Thursday, November 21 here at Beth Tzedec. As you know, that night we will welcome guest speaker Gideon Raff, the award-winning Executive Producer and writer of the television show HOMELAND and director and writer of Israel’s television show Hatufim (Prisoners of War) on which HOMELAND is based. Gideon will be interviewed by Jonathan Kay, Managing Editor for Comment at the National Post. share your thoughts with Carolyn about the High Holy Days at Beth Tzedec at [email protected]. In addition, the Hon. Linda Frum will be presenting the inaugural Kurt and Edith Rothschild Humanitarian Award to the Hon. Irwin Cotler. Please order your tickets today for this exceptional evening. The net proceeds will support the Israel Defence Forces (IDF) Clinic at Shaare Zedek Medical Center which also serves as a peacetime military hospital, annually treating more than 12,000 soldiers, and, for Beth Tzedec, will help fund the launch of the physical renewal of our Synagogue building, beginning with the updating of the Mezzanine level. The USCJ Centennial In mid-October, our Chair, Dena Libman, and I accepted an invitation to attend the Centennial Conference of the United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism. We were privileged to be among 1,200 passionate and outspoken Jewish rabbis, cantors, lay leaders and others of all ages (including a very enthusiastic USY contingent), from the U.S., Canada and South America, who descended upon Baltimore for The Conversation of the Century. While the 100th anniversary of USCJ was marked, the real focus was on the future of Conservative Jewish life, for individuals, communal organizations and synagogues, and the Conservative movement itself. Speakers explored the need to define and express Conservative Judaism in a positive way, focussing on our love for tradition that’s informed by modernity, the creation of spiritual, caring communities, and renewal. The experience left us enthusiastic and energized, and feeling proud of our shul—not just because Beth Tzedec’s name and stature are recognized by so many (which is indeed the case), but also because we are already engaged in many of the recommended activities that were discussed: We develop programming not just to entertain but to allow members to build and deepen relationships with one another—the experience of participating in our wonderful Purim Family Musicals is just one example. We recognize that the boundaries and impact of our shul extend beyond our building, 5 from the president Carolyn Kolers allowing us to take our programming out to the community, whether for teen community service trips or other educational and social activities. We seek input from our community to build the programs and educational opportunities that people are looking for. We seek and attract Generation X and Millennials to become more involved and take leadership positions on our Board and committees. Of course, there is still lots of work to do. At the conference, Professor Arnie Eisen, Chancellor of the Jewish Theological Seminary, spoke about the need to do a better job at whatever we do, prioritizing “more serious learning at all levels, more passionate tefillah, more adults and kids having more experiences of community at camp or shul or school, and more work to repair the world and impact individual lives” so that our communities—our kehillot—will “touch people deeply at extraordinary moments and at routine moments, making a difference in their lives and in the world”. We are lucky to have the capacity here at Beth Tzedec to offer all of that to you—it is here for the shaping and taking. You may have already found your opportunities for deepening your connection to Judaism at Beth Tzedec, whether you were facing difficult personal times, grieving for a loss, engaging with your child’s journey in becoming a Bar or Bat Mitzvah, planning to celebrate an upcoming marriage, or supporting a loved one embarking on a conversion process. Whatever the impetus, those who have taken advantage of opportunities to connect here have found their lives enriched by the experience, finding positive reasons to make Beth Tzedec a personal destination and to build relevant spiritual, cultural and social connections at and through our synagogue. We want to offer more of you more opportunities to deepen those connections, whether through prayer (tefillah), study, or acts of loving kindness (tikkun olam/hesed). We say this because we ˙ mean it. Please share your ideas with us; please be part of the continuing conversation. We’ll all be richer for it. Wishing you all a Happy Hanukkah—or ˙ Thanksgivikkah (for our American friends). Saturday, November 30 at 5:30 PM Bring your family for a special celebration of the Festival of Lights! Havdalah and Hanukkah candle lighting, followed by a delicious dinner, games and festive activities, ˙ featuring Magen Boys Entertainment for the kids and a trivia challenge with PubStumpers Trivia for the adults. Special raffles for Leafs and Raptors tickets, too! $20 for adults; $10 for kids ages 4-16; Children 3 and under free. Must pre-register by Monday, November 25. For more information or to RSVP, call Avital Narvey at 416-781-3511. 6 Mazal Tov to our B’nei Mitzvah WHO HAVE COMPLETED OUR BAR / BAT MITZVAH PROGRAM November 16 Sam Aronoff son of Steven & Elyse Aronoff November 16 Casey Appleby daughter of Zale & Beth Appleby November 9 Julia Lauren Kay daughter of Michael Elliot Kay & Risa Lidsky Kay (in the little minyan) November 30 Benjamin Starkman son of Ted Starkman & Jenifer Lev December 7 Benjamin Weinstein son of Ola & Gary Weinstein voices of tomorrow beth tzedec children’s choir Children ages 7 and up who enjoy singing are invited to be a part of our Children’s Choir. This musical group will sing with the Beth Tzedec Singers, performing in concerts around the city and for the Congregation. For information or to register, please contact Marlene Laba at 416-781-3514 ext. 234 or [email protected] or Cantor Simon Spiro at ext. 223 or [email protected]. 7 lifecycle News and Milestones News received between May 1 and October 15 has been included in this issue. Milestones and celebrations can’t share U Remember—we your good news unless you Births Arielle Tamar, daughter of & JEFF LEVY, granddaughter of ANNELIE & DAVID GRYWUL and TAMAR & MEIR LEVY, born September 7. Jen Allen, daughter of LORI & AVI ALLEN, and Lance Singer, son of AVRIL & STAN SINGER, who were married on October 3. Greyson Halle, daughter of DARA & ADAM GURAU, granddaughter of SUZY & IRV GURAU and ELAINE & SID KOHN, great-granddaughter of GENIA ZELIGMAN and HELEN ROSENBAUM, born September 9. David Gale, son of BRENDA & and Kate Gertner, daughter of APRIL & LORNE GERTNER, who were married on October 13. Cory Russell, son of SERENA WOLFOND & J.B. PEIKES, grandson of HENRY WOLFOND & ROCHELLE REICHERT and LINDA & STUART PEIKES, great-grandson of PEDIE & MELVYN WOLFOND and TOBI & SAUL REICHERT, greatgreat-grandson of ESTHER WOLFOND, born June 21. Griffin Yale, son of RENEE KAIMAN & SAM LEVY, grandson of VARDINA & HOWARD KAIMAN and LYNDA & HOWARD LEVY, great-grandson of MARGARET & BENJAMIN UNGAR and RUTH KAIMAN, born July 17. Harper Sadie, daughter of ABBY TENENBAUM & HOWARD BRASS, granddaughter of CAROL TENENBAUM, MICHAEL TENENBAUM and JACK & RACHEL BRASS, born July 20. Catherine Michelle, daughter of CANDICE & BRIAN BACAL, granddaughter of SHARON & NORMAN BACAL and JENNIFER & PHILIP LOW, great-granddaughter of ESTHER WESTELMAN, FRAN BACAL, KOISHA HOSEIN, CHOY SAU and CHAN LOW, born July 22. Jordan Abraham Mansfield, son of JOANNA & ELI COOPERBERG, grandson of MARCIA & GARY MANSFIELD and JANET & AARON COOPERBERG, born July 25. Madeline Brooke, daughter of JODIE & JAMIE DAVIS, granddaughter of SUE & ALAN KAUFMAN and LYNDA & KEN DAVIS, great-granddaughter of FAYE WOLK, CEIL SINGER and LILIAN KAUFMAN, born July 29. Zoe Rose, daughter of CAROLYN & JEFF RUBY, granddaughter of CAREN & THE LATE GERRY RUBY and GAYE & JEAN PIERRE LEFEBVRE, great-granddaughter of IRENE ZUBATOFF, born August 1. Rachel Lilian, daughter of LAURA & BENJAMIN FREEMAN, granddaughter of FAYE & ALAN SHINER and CINDY & JOHN FREEMAN, great-granddaughter of GWEN & HARRY SMITH, born August 1. Noa Reese, daughter of MARIEL HELLER & MARK STEINMAN, granddaughter of BEVERLY KUPFERT & BRIAN HELLER and BERNICE & STAN STEINMAN, born August 10. Jaden Faith, daughter of JILL & ERIC KERT, granddaughter of NORMAN & ELLIN KERT, born August 21. 8 SANDRA Spencer Bram, son of & DEBRA WOLFE, grandson of HAROLD & CAROLE WOLFE and JEROHAM & BRENDA SINGER, born October 9. JEFFREY Weddings Jillian Lapedus, daughter of JAN & MARK LAPEDUS, and Andrew Bier, son of COLIN & ELAINE BIER, who were married on June 2. Noa Orzy, daughter of & RICK ORZY, and Jake Flaster, son of LINDA & MURRAY FLASTER, who were married on July 22 (in Jerusalem). LAURA Andrew Segal, son of BRIAN and Rebecca Vernik, daughter of IGOR & SVETLANA VERNIK, who were married on August 25. SEGAL & ROSLYN LEVINE, tell us about it. Send an email to [email protected], or call us at 416-781-3514 ext. 212, or send a fax to 416-781-0150. Deadline for the next Bulletin covering January to March, is November 25. MICHAEL GALE, Matthew Shogilev, son of & HOWARD SHOGILEV, and Alison Harding, daughter of HELEN & IVAN HARDING, who were married on November 10. LOUISE Daniel Goldenberg, son of KAREN & SYDNEY GOLDENBERG, and Mohr Schneiderman, daughter of MIRI AND THE LATE HILLI SCHNEIDERMAN, who will be married on November 16. Zach Simbrow, son of RHODA & JEFF SIMBROW, and Stephanie Nightingale, daughter of KAREN & BEN NIGHTINGALE, who will be married on November 24. Corey Romberg, son of SARI & EVAN ROMBERG, and Katelyn Ramos, daughter of CARRIE & ISRAEL RAMOS, who will be married on November 24 in Florida. Brian Gray, son of DONNA & STEVEN GRAY, and Jacqueline Rubinstein, daughter of SUZANNE & MARVIN RUBINSTEIN, who will be married on December 14. lifecycle News & Milestones continued Congratulations to Jonathan Born, son of DR. ABRAHAM & SUSAN BORN, and Kaylee Silver, daughter of DR. RISA FELDMAN & JEFF SILVER, on their engagement. Dr. Barney & Pearl Seetner, who celebrated their 63rd anniversary on August 1. Simcha Simchovitch, who received the 2013 Senior Achievement Award. Leonard & Cheryl Cappe, who celebrated their 40th anniversary on August 12. William Winston, who celebrated his 90th birthday on September 28. Bob & Sandy Cohen, who celebrated their 50th anniversary on September 5. Many Thanks to Ari Grossman, who received his Masters of Business Administration degree, and was appointed to Wilfred Laurier University’s Board of Governors. Daniel Kupfert Heller, son of BEVERLY KUPFERT & BRIAN HELLER, and Alex Taub, son of ANNE & MICHAEL TAUB, on their engagement. Rhodelle Hershoran, who celebrated her 97th birthday on October 16. Robbie Kaufman, son of CATHY & RON KAUFMAN, and Bailey Gutkin, daughter of JULIE & MARK GUTKIN, on their engagement. Hon. Justice Sidney B. Linden, who was selected as one of the University College’s University of Toronto 2013 Alumni of Influence, and celebrated his 75th birthday on November 9. Max Olanow, who celebrated his 99th birthday on October 6. Max & Betty Olanow, who celebrated their 75th anniversary on November 10. Alex Orzy, who celebrated his 90th birthday on September 13. Howard & Sylvia Gefen, who sponsored a Congregational Kiddush on July 20 to commemorate the yahrtzeit of Oscar Schlenger. Howard & Dyan Kirshenbaum, who sponsored a Congregational Kiddush on August 10 to commemorate the yahrtzeit of Izzy Kirshenbaum. Dr. Jerry & Riva Kirsh, who sponsored a Congregational Kiddush on August 17 in honour of the marriage of David Kirsh & Lilia Brandao. Sheldon & Patti Rotman and family, who sponsored a Congregational Kiddush on August 31 to commemorate the yahrtzeit of Joseph Rotman. Brian & Candice Bacal, who sponsored a Congregational Kiddush on September 7 in honour of the naming of their daughter Catherine Michelle. Gella & Paul Rothstein, who sponsored a Congregational Kiddush on September 19 to commemorate the yahrtzeit of J. Barney Goldhar. Galy & Mark Shapiro, who sponsored a Seudah Shlisheet on September 28 in honour of the marriage of Adam Shapiro & Allison Dalisay. Michael & Brenda Gale, who sponsored a Congregational Kiddush on October 5 in honour of the marriage of David Gale & Kate Gertner. The Orzy Family, who sponsored a Congregational Kiddush on October 5 in honour of Alex Orzy’s special birthday. Dr. Howard & Louise Shogilev, who sponsored a Congregational Kiddush on October 26 in honour of the upcoming marriage of Matthew Shogilev & Alison Harding. The Silverberg & Appleby Families, who sponsored a Congregational Kiddush on October 26 to commemorate the yahrtzeit of Edward Silverberg. Chava Kwinta, who sponsored a Seudah Shlisheet on November 2 to commemorate the yahrtzeit of Mike Kwinta. Michael & Risa Kay, who sponsored a Congregational Kiddush on November 9 in honour of the Bat Mitzvah of their daughter Julia. Zale & Beth Appleby, who will sponsor a Congregational Kiddush on November 16 in honour of the Bat Mitzvah of their daughter Casey. Louis & Pearl Litwin, who will sponsor a Congregational Kiddush on November 16 in honour of Louis Litwin’s 85th birthday. The Ezer Family, who will sponsor a Congregational Kiddush on November 23 in honour of Cantor Sidney Ezer’s birthday. Sheldon Greenspan and Judi Greenspan, who will sponsor a Congregational Kiddush on November 30 in honour of the B’nei Mitzvah of their children Aaron and Hannah. Ted Starkman & Jenifer Lev, who will sponsor a Congregational Kiddush on November 30 in honour of the Bar Mitzvah of their son Benjamin. Dr. Gary & Ola Weinstein, who will sponsor a Congregational Kiddush on December 7 in honour of the Bar Mitzvah of their son Benjamin. Snowbirds: Take note! If you would like a copy of the Bulletin to be mailed to your winter address, please call Sheri at 416-781-3514 ext. 220 prior to your departure to inform her of your temporary change of address—and send her your email address too! Sam & Elyse Aronoff, who will sponsor a Congregational Kiddush on November 16 in honour of the Bar Mitzvah of their son Sam. 9 This year, when you Celebrate • Honour • Commemorate Choose ‘Treasures of Beth Tzedec’ Tribute Cards Hanukkah, the Festival of Lights, is upon us and is a perfect time to ˙ send family and friends words of appreciation, thanks or remembrance. Our Hanukkah card features a hanukkiyah (pictured) ˙ Museum collection. from the Beth Tzedec˙ Reuben and Helene Dennis Or you can purchase a set of our ‘Treasures of Beth Tzedec’ Tribute Cards series featuring photographs of the timeless treasures of our Congregation with general, lifestyle and holiday themes. These beautiful cards are available in two ways: • Call us to order individual cards at a cost of $18 each and we’ll inscribe and send them for you; or • Purchase a series package of 6 cards for $50, or $10 for an individual card, and personalize and send them out yourself. All contributions for these Tribute Cards are fully tax receiptable. For information or to purchase, contact Avital Narvey at 416-781-3511 or [email protected]. You are cordially invited to join us On the Chocolate Trail Tuesday, November 26 at 7:30 PM Author Rabbi Deborah Prinz will speak about her book, A Delicious Adventure Connecting Jews, Religions, History, Travel, Rituals and Recipes to the Magic of Cacao. Following the lecture, we will have a chocolate tasting and share great recipes. Everyone is welcome. No charge. At 6:45 PM, Young Professionals are invited to enjoy an exclusive chocolate tasting and meet with the author. Sponsored by the Beth Tzedec Men’s Club and VIVA Retirement Residence. RSVP to the Synagogue office at 416-781-3511 or email [email protected]. Chocolate donated by Give and Go Prepared Foods. Chocolate gift baskets generously donated by Nutcracker Sweet Gift Baskets. Sponsorship is in honour of Leslie Aimée Gottlieb and Benjamin Joseph Shirinian on their recent marriage. 10 from the executive director Randy E. Spiegel Something About Charlie While we try to provide the opportunities to connect, we need your help to make the connection. our beth tzedec community is made up of so many incredible people from so many different walks of life. Each person and family has their own identity, their own tastes, attributes and history. A kaleidoscope of human experience, our members come from and have relatives from around the globe, speak a variety of languages and observe a wide range of religious practices and traditions. We are a colourful tapestry of individual tastes that when tied together give colour and meaning to our Jewish experience. We are students, young couples, single parents, elders. Some of us come only three times a year while others attend services regularly. Some of us attend movie nights, concerts, Torah study classes, while many others have never experienced our courses or programs. Sometimes, our members can be almost anonymous to each other. We pass in the halls, wish each other “Shabbat Shalom”, sit together in services and break bread together. Sometimes we hide in plain sight. Many times, it takes a crisis to bring a member’s unique history to light. When this happens, we may ask ourselves how it is that we don’t really know each other. But it is never too late; it is never too late to meet Annette or Donna or Charlie. Charlie is part of our family and needs to meet you, too. There is something about Charlie that is all of us; some part that wants and needs to connect and share Jewish life. Through an experience, we can make a connection and that connectivity links us to community. How many times have you sat in shul and wondered about the person who was sitting next to you? Do you share the same interests? Do your parents come from the same town in Europe? Could Charlie use a “hug” as much as you could? When you come to a program or religious service, you have opened one of the doors to the community. Every door you walk though has real people on the other side who are like you and often need the same kind of encouragement to connect that you do. While we try to provide the opportunities to connect, we need your help to make the connection. Our Rabbis and program facilitators are here to work with U to make a gift or inquire about Beth Tzedec, email Randy at [email protected]. and for you but they cannot know your thoughts. When you come to Beth Tzedec and sit beside a new or even familiar face, say more than “hello”. If you meet someone who needs to talk or needs our help, please let the Rabbi know. If you know of a Charlie who would appreciate a Shabbat experience, let any of the clergy know. If you know that Charlie wants to connect but does not know how, let me know. You have heard me describe Beth Tzedec as a small city and I believe it is true. In every city, in every community, no matter the size, the citizens—our members—need to take care of their own. Our tradition teaches us that those who busy themselves with the work of the community engage in heavenly work, as if they busy themselves with the words of Torah—“ha’osek betzarhei tzibbur, k’osek b’divrai torah”. Beth Tzedec is fortunate to have many wonderful volunteers who try to make our community one that is caring and warm. Sometimes it seems like it is a difficult task, yet the more you connect to and experience with people who are Beth Tzedec, the smaller our building and our community becomes. A young family? Experience a monthly Family Service and luncheon. Have your kids meet our shinshinim. A single parent? Experience our Congregational School, our youth programs or one of our book reviews. A senior member of our community? Experience a Shabbat morning study group, a concert or a discussion group. We are all “Charlie” in need of meaningful connections and experiences. Welcome home Charlie, welcome home. For more information on any of our programs or events, to inquire about membership, or to make a gift to help sustain one of our outstanding programs, please contact me at 416-781-3514 ext. 211 or [email protected]. 11 Shabbat Shirah Weekend Cantors Simon Spiro, Steve Stoehr and Aaron Bensoussan together at Beth Tzedec! FRIDAY, JANUARY 10 AND SATURDAY, JANUARY 11 Celebrate this exciting weekend of music featuring Cantor Simon Spiro and his musical guests Cantor Steve Stoehr of Chicago Cantor Aaron Bensoussan Voices of Tomorrow Children’s Choir The Beth Tzedec Singers and more surprises! Friday Night, 6:00 PM Saturday Evening, 8:00 PM Musical Friday Night Live Shabbat Service followed by Shabbat dinner Shabbat Shirah Community Concert Kick off this musical Shabbat with a Friday Night Live service, followed by Shabbat dinner and entertainment. During dinner, our musical guest, the ever-charming Cantor Steve Stoehr, will deliver the first of three presentations, called Songs My Father Taught Me. We will learn new and old z’mirot, as Cantor Stoehr shares how Friday night singing with his father, a Holocaust survivor, made an impact on his life. Dinner by advance prepaid registration only. Dinner: $40 adults; $18 children ages 6 to 14; $6 children ages 1 to 5 Reservation deadline: Monday, January 6 Shabbat Morning, 8:45 AM Special Shabbat Shirah Morning Service This once-a-year musical service with Cantor Spiro and the Beth Tzedec Singers features Cantor Stoehr delivering a sermon-in-song, as well as Beth Tzedec’s children’s choir, Voices of Tomorrow. 12 This annual community event features Cantors Simon Spiro and Sidney Ezer, together with special guest Cantors Aaron Bensoussan and Steve Stoehr in an evening of music and revelry, with surprise guest musicians and top vocalists from across Toronto. This evening of Jazz, Sephardic, Hebrew and World Music will touch your heart and your funny bone! Dessert reception follows. Tickets: $20 in advance; $25 at the door (includes dessert reception) To register for the Friday Night Live Shabbat dinner or to purchase tickets to the Shabbat Shirah Community Concert, call 416-781-3511 or email [email protected]. cantor’s diary Cantor Simon Spiro Musical Prayer... and Lionel Richie This intangible thing called music is a great part of our lives. W a few weeks ago, i joined friends at Casino Rama for a concert by Lionel Richie, a songwriter who has managed to keep his career alive and thriving for decades. He looks sensational for a guy in his mid-60s— his voice, body and energy are those of a man half his age, and his songs have certainly stood the test of time. In the middle of his concert, he addressed the audience with a very interesting observation: “We’ve been together for a very long time. We’ve gone through a lot together, haven’t we? When I was in love, you were in love. When I had my heart broken, you had your heart broken.” He was referring, of course, to the way his songs have played a role in our lives over the decades. He went on painting a very familiar picture of us, his audience, coming home in a particular emotional state and putting on a CD (or record, cassette or 8-track tape) of his music to help share whatever we were feeling. I pondered that statement afterwards and I believe that he is absolutely right. Although Lionel Richie certainly does not hold a monopoly on the music that touches us, the point is exactly that: Music touches us. It reaches us no matter what we are feeling. How often do we change the radio station in the car, not because we don’t like the song, but because the style of music doesn’t fit our mood at that moment? The right music can make us feel better when we are sad, calm us when we are agitated or further elevate our mood when we are happy. It is this power of music that also helps us with our prayers. Isn’t it interesting that our religion has a profession dedicated specifically to the music of the synagogue? The traditional modes tell us where we are in the calendar year. The new melodies written by cantors, composers and songwriters— three distinctly different professions, by the way—reflect the writer’s interpretation of the liturgy and his/her hope to touch our hearts and enhance our prayers. I was brought up in a shtiebel with no formal Hazzan or choir. But the ˙ the services were always people leading competent, musical and faithful to nusah (the musical liturgical modes). This˙ resonated with me as a child. There were moments in services that were musically solemn in keeping with the text. At other times the music reflected the joyous parts in the prayer, thereby heightening the spirituality of the moment. Music most definitely connects us more closely with G-d, and let’s face it—isn’t that why we pray? The Jewish people have different music for every occasion. A wedding’s dramatic Sheva Brahot are followed ˙ Siman Tov after by the happy burst of the glass is broken, which ultimately leads us to the explosive and celebratory Od Yishoma and other horas. The El Maleh Ra hamim of Yizkor is musically ˙ and even unsettling at soul-stirring times, but at Beth Tzedec it is followed by the wonderfully soothing Psalm 150 (my arrangement of a lovely melody by the late Debbie Friedman, perfectly healing when sung by my wife Aliza). The holidays bring us the child-friendly and uplifting melodies of our Voices of Tomorrow children’s choir, while the High Holy Days have intense musical moments that make us tremble. celebrate robbie burns night (and all things Scottish) with the Cantor on January 25. See details on p. 36. With this rich musical offering, not only is our Shabbat morning service never the same two weeks in a row, but throughout the year I feel like a kid in a candy store, choosing from umpteen musical possibilities as we travel together through the Jewish calendar. Being Cantor of Beth Tzedec, the Music Synagogue of Toronto, allows me the chance to share with you these countless special moments of music. In concert, we enjoy the different ethnic directions featured at the Shabbat Shirah community concert, as well as the feel-good songs of Broadway, Hollywood or Popular Music in our major productions. I have orchestrated and performed such classics as the Shehecheyanu with a swinging Big Band, and for the past eight years we have enjoyed fabulous musical parodies in our Purim Family Musicals. The classes I teach often focus on Cantors and Jewish musical prayer throughout the ages, and of course, every week we have the unique sound of the sensational Beth Tzedec Singers to inspire us. This intangible thing called music is a great part of our lives. I’m excited that I have the privilege of sharing it with all of you on a regular basis. Whether teaching, performing, celebrating or leading services, I can’t help but reflect on the way Lionel Richie put it. “We’ve gone through a lot together, haven’t we?” Yes, we have. And I pray that we will continue to go on together in good health, with music enhancing every moment. 13 NEW SE R I E S NEW VOICES OF JEWISH WISDOM: Young Scholars Speak Meet Dr. Ilan Danjoux Presenting a selection of impactful cartoons from his captivating new book: Thursday, November 14 at 7:30 PM Join Young Professionals@Beth Tzedec for an evening of wine and cheese, and a chance to chat with this engaging young scholar. Everyone welcome. RSVPs preferred. Call the Synagogue office at 416-781-3511. Dr. Ilan Danjoux is a former Visiting Professor of Israel Studies at the University of Calgary and a recipient of the 2012/2013 Teaching Excellence Award for his courses on the Arab-Israeli Conflict and A history of Zionism. His research explores the role of political cartoons in predicting violence. Sponsored by the Beth Tzedec Men’s Club 14 commentary Rav Adam Cutler When Speaking the Truth is a Lie It is the responsibility of the speaker to anticipate the ways in which his words will be received. “the greatest swindle is the truth,” Faynkugl says in Sholom Aleichem’s play Yaknehoz. “Two Jewish businessmen meet on the train to Shpola, both going to the same town, both for the same business to the same big shot. Naturally, they try to hide business secrets from each other. One asks, ‘Where are you going?’ ‘To Shpola,’ says the other. ‘Oh yeah? Dealing with a Jewish businessman is no joke I tell you. You are telling me you’re going to Shpola because you want me to think you are going to Boybrik. But I happen to know you really are going to Shpola, so why are you trying to mix me up?’” Freud, who tells a similar joke about Minsk and Pinsk, poses the serious question: “Is it the truth if we describe things as they are without troubling to consider how our hearer will understand what we say?” Jewish wisdom repeatedly warns against lying. Exodus 23:7 teaches “stay far away from falsehood”, while Leviticus 19:11 legislates “do not steal, do not deceive and do not lie to one another”. The Talmud (B. Berakhot 4a) advises “teach your tongue to say ‘I do not know’, lest you be led to lie” as well as “one should not promise to give a child something and then not give it to him, because as a result, the child will learn to lie” (B. Sukkah 46b). Our tradition also acknowledges that there are limited occasions when our relationship with the truth is permitted to be less than faithful. The School of Hillel taught that on her wedding day, irrespective of her actual appearance, a bride is always described as “beautiful and graceful”. While the School of Shammai teaches that she should be described “as she is”, the halakhah ultimately follows Hillel (B. Ketubot 16b-17a). Although our tradition scrutinizes the words of the speaker, it rarely takes into account how these words are likely to be interpreted. While, thankfully, most people don’t assume that they are listening to someone intent on deceiving them, there are many for whom meaningfully deciphering another’s speech is a challenging task. In such a case, it is the duty of the speaker not only to speak truthfully, but to do so in a way that the listener will understand. The use of intentionally obtuse language or unnecessary legalese can be at times a form of deception; so too is failing to take into account the capacities of individuals with cognitive disabilities or the worldview of people grappling with mental illness. In the shtetl, according to one study, “[w]hen the scholar converses with his intellectual peers, incomplete sentences, a hint, a gesture, may replace a whole paragraph. The listener is expected to understand the full meaning on the basis of a word or even a sound.” Beth Tzedec is not the shtetl, and those who you encounter are not carbon copies of you. It is unreasonable to assume that an audience of thousands or even an audience of one will understand heavily jargoned or Hebrew-laden speech. Our Synagogue, in our adult educational offerings, youth activities and many other programs, goes to great strides to ensure that not only are the presenters at the top of their fields, but also that they can communicate their message in a way that the listeners are able to comprehend. So, too, in our individual lives must we be careful not only to speak the truth, but also say it in a way that they can communicate their message. Ours is a religion attuned to the multivalency of words. It is an interpretative tradition in which various readings are prized. It is the responsibility of the speaker not only to keep far from lies, but to anticipate the ways in which his words will be received. The Beth Tzedec and Phyllis & Ab Flatt Camp Ramah in Canada Incentive Program Family Fund is open to Beth Tzedec members with a child who will be attending Camp Ramah in Canada for the first time. For more information on summer camping opportunities, please contact Daniel Silverman at 416-781-3514 ext. 231 or [email protected]. 15 @ EL C A EDE R H TZ I S BET with Dr. Dan Bahat A three-part series on Monday evenings 7:00 to 8:15 PM Dr. Bahat will use the tools of archaeology to uncover and then reconstruct the deep historical ties of the Jewish people to Jerusalem. November 25 Jerusalem in the First Temple The City of David area has been excavated with amazing discoveries dating back to the period of the early kings of Judah and Israel. What do the ancient stones tell us about the history of Jerusalem? December 2 Jerusalem in the Second Temple The return of Ezra and Nehemiah from Babylonian exile led to a small-scale reconstruction of the Temple and the resettlement of Jerusalem. From the Hasmoneans to Herod, the city grew and the ritual centre became one of the spectacular sites of the Roman Empire. What does the archaeological evidence reveal about Jerusalem during the period that gave birth to Jesus and early rabbinic Judaism? December 9 The Western Wall and the Connection to the Jewish People The excavations of the Western Wall tunnels and the Davidson archaeological garden disclose important new information about the history of Judaism with contemporary implications for the connection of the Kotel to the Jewish people. Professor Bahat, former District Archaeologist of Jerusalem and professor at Bar-Ilan University, and current professor at St. Michael’s College at the University of Toronto, is one of Israel’s leading archaeologists. He has excavated a number of historic sites including Herod’s Palace in Jerusalem, the City of David and the 1,600-foot tunnel which runs under the western retaining wall of the Temple Mount. Professor Bahat is considered the authority on the history and archaeology of the City of Jerusalem. Everyone welcome. No charge. For information, contact the Synagogue office at 416-781-3511. Sponsored in honour of the 50th wedding anniversary of Elaine and Albert Cheskes. Tuesday mornings from 10:00 to 11:15 am Torah selections in Hebrew and English from a woman's perspective. November 19 The Hardening of a Heart For information, call the Synagogue office at 416-781-3511 or email [email protected]. 16 in and around the shul A Weekend with the Mitzvah Man, Danny Siegel “To be is to do.” (Myriam Mendilow k”z) our scholar-in-residence Danny Siegel spent the weekend inspiring us to act. His strong message resonated: Every little thing helps. Over the course of four days, Danny left a mark on several generations of the Congregation, leaving people inspired and motivated to give of themselves and help others. On Friday night, Danny took part in a panel discussion speaking to 125 Young Professionals on the topic of “What do you do when you see a homeless person?” He provided a Jewish lens to the panel discussion and offered insights into the stereotypes associated with homeless people. He followed with an excerpt from Proverbs 22:22 which teaches that tzedakah never belongs to us—it belongs to the recipient—giving the halakhic view. Also on the panel were Avrum Rosensweig, President of Ve’ahavta, Krista, a Ve’ahavta Street Academy student who is currently homeless, and Amit, a staff member who works on their Street Help van distributing food and clothing. It was amazing to hear their inspiring stories and to start the conversation about tikkun olam—helping to repair the world. On Shabbat morning, Danny spoke from the pulpit on the subject of little-known Jewish laws and customs. His talk was humorous, educational and sustained a high level of interest. At the Kiddush following Services, he continued speaking to an excited group of 50 who stayed to hear more stories and ask questions. On Sunday morning, Danny talked with families from our Congregational School and the community, discussing how they can be more active in tikkun olam both at shul and in their own homes. In the afternoon, families worked on three different mitzvah projects: One for the shul—shining the silver Torah pieces and repairing Torah and Navi scrolls; the second for Out of the Cold; and the third, creating a “Mitzvah Tree” which is on display on the wall of the Men’s Club Walk near the parking lot entrance. Families can write their mitzvot on “mitzvah leaves” and add them to our tree. We are excited to showcase all the wonderful things that children and adults do and to celebrate them as a community. At his final presentation on Monday evening, Danny spoke about public figures making personal decisions to help others. These ‘mitzvah heroes’ (as Danny refers to them) such as Elizabeth Taylor, Paul Newman and Steven Spielberg use their celebrity to make a difference in very big ways— either by raising or donating millions of dollars to help children and adults. Others such as Ben and Jerry (of ice cream fame), Alan ‘Ace’ Greenberg, Bruce Springsteen and David Copperfield have all performed mitzvot in other ways not as wellknown, but still very important. Danny spoke in an informal manner showing pictures and newspaper clippings and asked questions throughout his lecture. Danny Siegel, the Mitzvah Man, left us inspired. He highlighted easyto-replicate projects, and challenged us to evaluate what we have and how we can share it with others. Identifying our skills and resources and sharing them with others helps us feel just as good as the recipient, if not better. Danny’s final comment: “It’s been an incredible time with you folks.” Beth Tzedec offers many ways to be involved in tikkun olam, through the Youth and Young Family and Hesed Committees. See page 18 for ˙details about our Eight Days of Hanukkah Tikkun Olam Project. If ˙you would like to get more involved in Beth Tzedec’s hesed / tikkun olam ˙ activities and initiatives, please contact Sheri Federman at 416-781-3514 ext. 220 or [email protected]. Im Lo Achshav, ai matai. If not now, when? (Avot 1:14). Now is the time to start giving back. Board of Governors Meetings Members are welcome to attend all regularly scheduled meetings of the Board of Governors. To accommodate the need for sensitive items to be discussed in private, each meeting will include an in camera portion, allowing the Board to deliberate confidentially without any guests. Upcoming meeting dates: December 10 and January 14 at 7:00 PM* * Meeting dates are subject to change. Please check with the office to confirm dates before attending. 17 8 Days of Tikkun Olam Be part of our annual Ḣanukkah mitzvah project! November 27 to December 4 On behalf of our community, Beth Tzedec Youth will collect donations of eight much-needed items throughout the eight days of Ḣanukkah. Please deposit your contributions at our special Tikkun Olam Ḣanukkiyah which will be on display at the back entrance of the Synagogue during the holiday. Each new candle represents a new mitzvah ! Day 1 Toys for JF&CS Day 2 Travel-sized toiletries for Out of the Cold Day 3 Lego for the Children’s Aid Society Day 4 Non-perishable food items for the Kosher Food Bank Day 5 New Socks for Soldiers Day 6 New arts & crafts supplies for the Hospital for Sick Children Day 7 Old cell phones to be recycled for Tzedakah Day 8 Adult books for Ve’ahavta For more information, contact Aily Leibtag at 416-781-3514 ext. 239 or [email protected]. Light My Fire: A Ḣanukkah App by The Jewish Museum Celebrate Hanukkah wherever you are! Select a contemporary or traditional Hanukkah lamp ˙ from the world-renowned collection of New York's Jewish Museum. Choose a ˙unique background to place it on, light the lamp and then share with your family and friends. You can also save the lamps to your very own collection. The blessings are available in English, Hebrew, and transliterated Hebrew. Go to: itunes.apple.com/us/app/light-my-fire-a-hanukkah-app/id577559908?mt=3D 18 upcoming programs Ḣesed ִHesed Report information hotline 416-781-3514 ext. 261 Visiting or Chatting with the Elderly We are always looking for volunteers who are interested in visiting with elderly congregants at their residence or nursing homes, or just chatting with them on the phone. If you are able to assist or if you know of a member who would appreciate a visit, please contact Lynn Levy at 416-781-3514 ext. 227. Driving the Elderly to Synagogue Volunteers are needed to drive members to and from Synagogue on an occasional basis. If you are interested in helping, please contact Lynn Levy at 416-781-3514 ext. 227. Jewish Family and Child Services Yellow Donation Box Your donations of nearly-new clothing and small household appliances in good condition are greatly appreciated by those in need in our community. Please drop off your clean, bagged items to the bright yellow collection box that is located in the upper level of our parking lot. Out of the Cold: Winter 2014 The 15th season of Out of the Cold resumes on Tuesday nights from January 7 through March 25, run jointly with Beth Sholom Synagogue out of their premises. It provides a hot meal, clothing, entertainment and an art program for 175 of Toronto’s homeless and needy, and offers sleeping accommodations, a hot breakfast, bagged lunch and a subway token for the 55 overnight guests each week. Registration is now open for volunteers for the Out of the Cold program. Shifts are available to help prepare lunches, serve dinner, socialize with guests, sort donated clothing, supervise overnight and help serve breakfast. The program is an excellent Bar/Bat Mitzvah project, and community service hours are available for high school students. To register as a volunteer, visit www.beth-tzedec.org and select the Out of the Cold link under the Social Action/Tikkun Olam page. This program is completely self-funded, relying on donations from members of the Congregation and the community at large. In particular, we require donations of new or gently used adult clothing (winter coats, boots, hats, sweatpants, sweatshirts, etc.), and new or gently used sleeping bags and warm blankets. Donations should be bagged, labelled and dropped off at Beth Sholom weekdays between 9:00 AM and 4:00 PM. We are also accepting donations of travel-sized toiletries (shampoo, conditioner, toothpaste, soap, etc.) which can dropped of in the donation box in the main hallway at Beth Tzedec. New Program for Seniors We are planning a weekly seniors activity group for participants to come out and socialize over refreshments and a game (cards, Mahjong, Scrabble, etc.). If you have expertise in a particular activity and would like to volunteer to teach others, contact the Synagogue office at 416-781-3511 and leave a message. Maureen Tanz Co-Chair, Hesed Committee ˙ WANTED: New men’s and women’s underwear and t-shirts for the Out of the Cold participants. A tax receipt for the value of the goods donated will be given. Please contact Maureen Tanz at 416-781-3514 ext. 261. 19 young families and youth Upcoming Programs and Events Teen Kiddush Club Shabbat, November 30 11:00 AM to 12:00 NOON Join your friends, Aily, Daniel and Rav Adam, for snacks, shmoozing and a little Shabbat learning too, with interesting and sometimes controversial conversations on hot topics, powered by your interests and ideas. Young Shamashim Shabbat @ Beth Tzedec Monthly Family Service December 7 and February 1 10:30 AM For children, parents and grandparents, our participatory service is led by Daniel Silverman and Aily Leibtag and the families and children who attend, with a monthly birthday blessing from Rav Adam and an aliyah for all birthday celebrants. Held in the Kimel Family Gym, followed by a complimentary luncheon in the Lower Hall. Junior Congregation Following Services on November 23 and 30, December 14 and 21 and January 11, 18 and 25 An intensive program for B’nei Mitzvah candidates interested in improving their davening—an essential Jewish skill. Following Shabbat morning services (except when there is a Family Service), meet for a nosh, z’mirot and learning. The year focuses on learning to lead weekday services. Shabbat Hockey November 23, December 7 and January 11 and 25 2:30 to 4:00 PM For children in Grades 1 to 6, organized by high school students Alex and Daniel. Youth Service (ages 10 to 12) 10:30 AM to 12:00 NOON Every Shabbat and Yom Tov except when there is a Family Service and over the December school break. This service provides the opportunity for youth to connect with Shabbat and develop their prayer skills and knowledge. November 16 and 30, December 14 and January 18 2:30 to 4:00 PM For children in Grades 1 to 6, come join our shinshinim Maya and Barak for an afternoon of games. A great way to spend a Shabbat afternoon! SMP—Shabbat Morning Program For Children in SK to Grade 2 (Nitzanim) (ages 6 to 9) 10:30 AM to 12:00 NOON Every Shabbat and Yom Tov except when there is a Family Service and over the December school break. This program gives children the chance to engage in fun Shabbat activities, challenge themselves and spend time learning with Maya and Barak, our Israeli shinshinim. The Hanukkah Challenge ˙ November 24 Sunday, 12:00 NOON to 2:00 PM Are you ready for Hanukkah? Celebrate the eight-night holiday˙ with eight fun Hanukkah ˙ challenges. From dreidels to candles, we’ve got it all! Cost: $10 (includes lunch) Shabbat Games Cook and Shook Tuesday, December 3 4:00 to 5:30 PM (ages 3 to 5) 10:15 AM to 12:00 NOON Every Shabbat and Yom Tov except over the Come join Maya and Barak for cooking and shooking! Learn how to make amazing new December school break. Children enjoy Shabbat stories, songs and snacks (leaving recipes and take home treats for Shabbat. While your food is in the oven, enjoy bits of parents free to attend services in the Israeli culture from the Shook, the Israeli Sanctuary or the Little Minyan). marketplace. Cost: $5 Mock Sleepover with Camp Ramah Saturday, January 19 6:30 to 9:30 PM Kids in Grades 1 and 2: Join us for a fun night at camp, with Havdalah, activities, games, treats, a campfire, sleeping bags and more. No charge. For Children in Grades 3 to 5 (Kokhavim) Get Ready for 8 Days of Tikkun Olam Sunday, November 24 12:00 NOON to 2:00 PM Be a part of creating our annual Hanukkah ˙ value of mitzvah project as we promote the tikkun olam during the Festival of Lights. Cost: $5 (includes lunch) Cook and Shook Tuesday, December 17 4:00 to 5:30 PM Come join Maya and Barak for cooking and shooking! Learn how to make amazing new recipes and take home treats for Shabbat. While your food is in the oven, enjoy bits of Israeli culture from the Shook, the Israeli marketplace. Get to know Israel with our amazing Israeli Young Emissaries! Cost: $5 For Children in SK to Grade 5 (Nitzanim and Kokhavim) Tu B’Shevat Seder Sunday, January 19 12:00 NOON to 1:30 PM Come out and celebrate the birthday of trees! Through games and activities, learn about Israel and nature, and enjoy our annual ice cream bar! Cost: $5 For Children in Grade 6 to 8 (Kesher) TOPs (Tikkun Olam projects) Sunday, December 8 12:00 NOON to 2:00 PM Join us for our special Middle School Tikkun Olam Projects (TOPS) group. We will discuss tikkun olam (repairing the world) and do hands-on projects to put this mitzvah into action! Cost: $5 Torah Tots and Nursery 20 For information or to RSVP for any Youth or Family Program, contact Aily Leibtag at 416-781-3514 ext. 239 or [email protected]. young families and youth Upcoming Programs and Events For Kids in Grades 6 to 12 (Kesher* and BTTeens) Beth Tzedec @ Out of the Cold Tuesdays, January 21 and February 18 5:00 to 7:00 PM or 7:00 to 9:00 PM Beth Tzedec and Beth Sholom’s Out of the Cold program helps feed and shelter the homeless in the Toronto community every Tuesday. On the above dates, take part in this great mitzvah with a special group of Beth Tzedec volunteers. *Note: Kesher age group (Grades 6 to 8) must be accompanied by a parent. For Teens in Grades 9 to 12 (BTTeens) Pizza and Games with JIAS Sunday, November 17 2:30 to 4:30 PM Join the Jewish Immigrant Aid Services (JIAS) for an afternoon of pizza and games. Meet and mingle with new Toronto immigrants over delicious food. Program will be held at the Lipa Green Centre (4600 Bathurst Street). Cost: $5 Hadashot ˙Thursday, November 21 at 7:00 PM Meet our shinshinim Maya and Barak at Aroma Café in Spadina Village to discuss the latest hadashot (news) from Israel. ˙ Whether you are confident about your understanding of current events or are interested in learning more, this informal setting is a great way to start the conversation. Charity Zumba Class Sunday, December 8 12:00 NOON to 2:00 PM Come out for a fun Zumba class and help raise money for Save a Child’s Heart. Dress up in your best Zumba outfit for a chance to win great prizes! Cost: $10 8 Days of Tikkun Olam Wednesday, November 27 through Wednesday, December 4 Be part of our annual Hanukkah mitzvah project! Deposit your˙contributions of eight much-needed items at our special Tikkun Olam Hanukkiyah which will be on display at the ˙parking lot entrance to the Synagogue during the holiday. For details, see page 18. Hanukkah and Havdalah ˙Shabbat, November 30 5:30 to 8:00 PM Tu B’Shevat Seder with DANI Sunday, January 12 1:00 to 5:00 PM Bring your family for a special celebration Join DANI (an organization for young adults of the Festival of Lights! Havdalah and with special needs) for a unique Tu B’Shevat Hanukkah candle lighting, followed by a ˙ seder to celebrate the birthday of trees. delicious dinner, games and festive activities, This buddy program provides the chance to featuring Magen Boys Entertainment for learn about the programming that DANI the kids and a trivia challenge with offers and to make a connection with the PubStumpers Trivia for the adults. Special DANI participants. Volunteer hours available. raffles for Leafs and Raptors tickets, too! Program will be held at DANI House (501 Cost: $20 for adults; $10 for kids ages 4 to Clark Avenue West, Thornhill). No charge. 16; Children 3 and under free. Must pre-register by Monday, November 25. For Families PJ Library Story Time (For children ages 6 months to 6 years) Sunday, November 17 11:00 AM to 12:00 NOON Come out for a cozy morning of stories, songs, games and other activities around the PJ Library’s book of the month. Treats for Tzedakah Monday, January 27 6:00 to 7:30 PM Put on your chef hat, tie your apron strings and start baking! Join our mitzvah of making bread and treats for the Out of the Cold program. No charge. (For children ages 6 months to 6 years and their families) Sundays, November 17, February 2 and May 4 11:00 AM to 12:00 NOON Grab your favourite sippy cup and join us for a cozy morning of stories, songs, games and other activities suggested by the PJ Library book of the month. PJ Library is an award-winning Jewish family engagement program, mailing free, high-quality Jewish children’s books and music each month. It is funded locally by UJA Federation of Greater Toronto, Centre for Jewish Education’s WOW! Initiative and generous community philanthropists. No charge. RSVP to Aily Leibtag at 416-781-3511 ext. 239 or [email protected]. 21 shabbat Programs and Synaplex™ Plus for full details of our shabbat programs, please visit www.beth-tzedec.org/shabbat The many creative ways we experience Shabbat Kabbalat Shabbat Services Every Friday night. Check the weekly eblast, our website and the monthly calendars for service and candle lighting times. Sanctuary Services 8:45 AM, every Shabbat morning. For everyone. Our musical Sanctuary Service offers a complete spiritual and liturgical Shabbat experience. Cantor Simon Spiro and the Beth Tzedec Singers lead Shaharit and Musaf, with varied music each week, ˙ including new arrangements of traditional pieces as well as beloved singable melodies. Rabbis Baruch FrydmanKohl and Adam Cutler offer insights into our Torah and tradition. Lorne Hanick and Cantor Sidney Ezer lead the preliminary service and are joined by a cadre of Torah Readers/Ba’alei Keriyah to chant the weekly Torah portions. Lift your soul in prayer as you sing along, or close your eyes in meditation and be carried away by the magnificent harmonic sounds of our inspirational Shabbat morning service. Little Minyan Services 9:30 AM, almost every Shabbat (through June). For those looking to be more actively involved in the worship experience, we offer a traditional service in a welcoming, relaxed, family-friendly atmosphere. Participants lead portions of the service, read Torah and Haftarah, study the Torah portion of the week together, and join together in singing various paryers. A song tape of Little Minyan tunes is available on request. Contact Hazzan Sidney Ezer or Lorne Hanick to arrange ˙ lead parts of the service. Torah readers, to learn and daveners and those wishing to give a D’var Torah are always welcome and are offered support and teaching. Come and experience an exceptional Shabbat morning service full of song, spirit and warmth. Monthly Family Services 10:30 AM, Shabbat morning, December 7. For children, parents and grandparents, these participatory services are led by Daniel Silverman, together with Aily Leibtag and the families and children who attend, with a monthly birthday blessing from Rav Adam and an aliyah for all birthday celebrants. Held in the Kimel Family Gym and followed by a complimentary luncheon in the Lower Hall. Youth Services see pages 20 and 21 for further details Junior Congregation (Ages 10 to 12) at 10:30 AM— Provides the opportunity for youth to connect with Shabbat and develop their prayer skills and knowledge. 22 SMP—Shabbat Morning Program (Ages 6 to 9) 10:30 AM—Gives children the chance to engage in fun Shabbat activities, challenge themselves and spend time learning with Maya and Barak, our Israeli shinshinim. Torah Tots and Nursery Program (Ages 3 to 5) 10:15 AM—Children enjoy Shabbat stories, songs and snacks (leaving parents free to attend services in the Sanctuary or the Little Minyan). Teen Kiddush Club at 11:30 AM, November 30—Join your friends, along with Aily, Daniel and Rav Adam for snacks, shmoozing and a little Shabbat learning, too. Young Shamashim following Services—An intensive program for B’nei Mitzvah candidates interested in improving their Shabbat davening skills. Meet for a nosh, z’mirot and learning. Can’t Get Enough Torah? Here’s more! Weekly Torah study with Professor Arnold Ages 9:30 to 10:30 AM every Shabbat. Traditional and modern interpretations of the weekly Torah reading. Lively Learning with Cantor Simon Spiro Following Services on December 7. Enjoy your Kiddush and study the weekly parashah with our Cantor. Explore fascinating commentaries of Rashi and other great sages, all presented with passion and knowledge by our amusing Hazzan. ˙ Torah Next Dor with Rabbi Adam Cutler 11:00 AM on November 16 and December 21. Join Young Professionals@BT in Rabbi Frydman-Kohl’s study, as we eat, drink and examine pressing topics from sources both ancient and modern. Jewish Meditation with Michelle Katz 10:00 to 11:15 AM on December 14. For men and women, centred on texts from our tradition, eliciting response and deep listening—a doorway to enhanced prayer. Michelle Katz is a certified Iyengar Yoga Therapist, Jewish Spiritual Director and Educator who has taught for 20 years, providing workshops, retreats and group classes in yoga, meditation and spiritual direction. Sponsored by the Beth Tzedec Men’s Club. your guide to Torah and Haftarah Readings November 9 6 Kislev Vayeitzei Genesis 28:10–32:3 Hosea 12:13–14:10 166–187 188–193 November 16 13 Kislev Vayishlaִ h Genesis 32:4–36:43 The Book of Obadiah 198–220 221–225 November 23 20 Kislev Vayeishev Genesis Chapers 37–40 Amos 2:6-3:8 226–245 246–249 November 30 27 Kislev Mikeitz, 3rd Day H ִ anukkah Genesis 41:1–44:17 2nd Torah: Numbers 7:24-29 Zechariah 2:14-4:7 250–270 807 1269–1272 December 7 4 Tevet Vayigash Genesis 44:18–47:27 Ezekiel 37:15–28 274–289 290–292 December 14 11 Tevet Vayeִ hi Genesis 47:28–50:26 1 Kings 2:1–12 293–311 312–314 December 21 18 Tevet Shemot Exodus 1:1-6:1 Isaiah 27:6-28:13, 29:22-23 316-341 342-346 December 28 25 Tevet Va’eira Shabbat Mevarkhim Exodus 6:2-9:35 Ezekiel 28:25-29:21 351-368 369-373 January 4 3 Shevat Bo Exodus 10:1-13:16 Jeremiah 46:13-28 374-394 395-398 January 11 10 Shevat Beshallah ˙ Exodus 13:17-17:16 Judges Chapters 4-5 399-422 423-431 See the Calendar of Events for service times. Call Lorne Hanick at 416-781-3514 ext. 240 if you would like an Aliyah on Shabbat or a holiday. Shabbat Hanukkah, November 30 Services at ˙8:45 AM Sara Urowitz is Program Manager for Palliative Care at Cancer Care Ontario where she is responsible for advancing the delivery of high quality, high value palliative care for all residents of Ontario. Prior to CCO she spent a decade working in patient education and cancer survivorship at the Princess Margaret Hospital. For information or to register, contact the Synagogue office at 416-781-3511. Enhanced Kiddush sponsored by the Beth Tzedec Sisterhood 23 Looking for something exciting to do with your family on December 25? Join us at Beth Tzedec for our fifth annual FAMILY FUN DAY 10:30 AM to 1 :30 PM Cost: $10/pe rson Maximum $ 40/family (f ( ree for kid s 3 and und er) Lunch availa ble at extra cost Pay at the d oor N o R S V P re q uired Three hours of activities and programs for children of all ages, including crafts, sports, bouncy castles, music, games, tikkun olam opportunities and music by the Magen Boys. For more information, contact Aily Leibtag at 416-781-3514 ext. 239 or [email protected]. 24 @ Tuesday, November 19 7:15 PM EL C A EDE R H TZ I S BET Israeli TV Night Our Israeli shinshinim Barak and Maya invite adults to the first of our four-part Israeli TV Night series. We will view a variety of different Israeli television shows, followed by facilitated conversations about the issues presented. Our first session will feature Merhak Negiah, a mini-series set in˙ Bnei Brak, exploring the relationship between a non-religious Jewish male immigrant from Russia and a young woman from the city’s ultra-Orthodox community. Program continues Tuesdays, January 28, March 25 and May 20. For more information, contact Aily Leibtag at 416-781-3514 ext. 239 or [email protected]. No charge. CON TINU I NG COU R SE ASK: Adult Skills and Knowledge (The Adult Bat/Bar Mitzvah Program) with Rabbi Adam Cutler, Cantor Sidney Ezer and Reverend Lorne Hanick Mondays 7:15 to 9:30 PM This dual-focused course of Judaic skills and knowledge will meet weekly over a two year period. Skills development will focus on Hebrew reading, davening, prayer melodies, Torah and Haftarah chanting. The knowledge component seeks an understanding of Jewish practices, history and text from within and without. While aimed at individuals who did not have a bar or bat mitzvah, this course is open to all. Graduates receive a certificate of completion and celebrate communally by being called to the Torah. 7:15 to 8:15 PM—Skills 8:30 to 9:30 PM—Knowledge Cost per year: $80/members, $100/non-members To register, contact Marlene Laba at 416-781-3514 ext. 234 or [email protected] 25 Four Wednesdays at 7:30 PM November 13 Jews and Baseball: An American Love Story Film screening followed by a discussion with producer Will Hechter A series of presentations by accomplished Beth Tzedec members November 20 Baseball as a Road to God: Seeing Beyond the Game Lecture by the book’s co-author Peter Schwartz, legal fellow at NYU and Bloomberg News contributor December 4 The First Basket: Jews and Basketball Film screening followed by a presentation by Mike Katz, former head coach of U of T Varsity Blues December 11 Jews and Hockey Presented by award-winning sports journalist and broadcaster, David Grossman Join us for five presentations by a variety of accomplished Beth Tzedec members No charge. Everyone welcome. For more information, contact the Synagogue office at 416-781-3511. Sponsored by Dr. Marvin and Dr. Mary Cooper in honour of Stephen Cooper, David Cooper, Zvi Cooper, Dora Cooper, Israel Katsnelson and Batia Katsnelson. Honourary sponsor: Larry Tanenbaum. 26 membership news We warmly welcome our newest members Every member is an integral part of the Beth Tzedec community. We encourage you to take part in the many spiritual, educational and social programs we offer. We look forward to your continued presence and involvement! Jordan Anderson Lindsey Athias Amir Avni David Backstein & Marcie Leibl Ken Berger Fred Bergman Amanda Bezner Barry Blitstein Erma Blumenfeld Jake Brockman Matthew Burns & Nathalie Baena Michael Chaikof Julia Chasson Richard Rikki Cooper Bruce & Nancy Elman Daniel & Dana Ezer Charles Firestone Marc & Sloane Freeman Allison Hennick Shirley Herschman Galina Kanchik Michael Kaufman Adam Kwinter Gideon Kwinter Kayla Kwinter Daniel & Caroline Mandell Michelle Murphy Mark & Natty Nashman Joseph & Fanny Orenstein Bradley Pelman & Faith Halman Ryan Peters Gerald & Sherna Posner Sara Schacter Robert & Debi Schacter Michael Shainhouse & Helayne Sotnikoff Adam Shapiro & Allison Dalisay Daniel Sherman Stephen Sherman Jenna Soberano Amy Soberano Ralph & Nancy Soberano Deborah Staiman Robert Starkman Gary & Jill Stern Joseph & Toby Tanenbaum Alyssa Weale New 18 Year Old Members (children of members) Daniel Alberga Zoe Beckerman Jason Brown Jordan Chad Daniel Cohen Andrew Collie Shelby Dan Marni Elman Yael Feldman Deena Gangbar Jordan Gangbar Joshua Glied-Beliak Jordana Goldman Noah Gropper Charles Haar Zoe Haber-Kucharsky Ira Halpern Taylor Halpern Dylan Herman Cole Hock Jaclyn Jesin Jessica Jesin Jeremy Kay Jamie Landau-Crangle Jordana Levman Alexander Levy Shannon McLean Jordyn Miller-Burko Aaron Oelbaum Phillip Oelbaum Tyler Palef Benjamin Pape Summer Pasternak Jake Perlmutter Gillian Piltz Aaron Rabinovitch Myles Resnick Madison Rodness Alexander Rose Damien Rosemblit David Schacht Jessica Schacter Kyle Seigel Nicole Seligman Carly Shiff Lindsay Silverberg Jacob Swadron Lindsey Swartzman Madelyn Tannenbaum Rachel Trister Zachary Urback Jennie Wainstein Valri Weiss Jonathan Weitz Jordan Wilks Joshua Wine Cole Winston Adam Zimmerman Benjamin Zimmerman Cale Zimmerman Zachary Zittell WE'RE ASKING, SO PLEASE... Tell us about your connections to Israel! Beth Tzedec, in collaboration with UJA Federation, is launching an Israel survey of our members. In the next few weeks, you will receive an invitation by EMAIL asking you to complete this brief questionnaire. We’ve designed it to help us understand how our members engage with Israel today, and how we can continue to broaden and deepen Israel’s role in our synagogue programming. Please complete the survey—we need your input. If we don’t have your email address, you’ll miss your chance to be heard, and of course, to hear from us at Beth Tzedec in a timely way about things that matter. Please send your email address to [email protected] today! 27 Thursday, November 28 at 7:30 PM Perhaps the most significant development in the 20th century history of Orthodox Judaism is the founding of schools to teach girls Torah. In this lecture, we will explore the challenges faced by Sarah Schenirer, who in 1917 founded the first Bais Yakov School in Cracow, Poland and consider the role she played in the new movement for girls’ education, as organizer and symbolic figure. Everyone welcome. No charge. For information, call the Synagogue office at 416-781-3511 or email [email protected]. Naomi Seidman is Koret Professor of Jewish Culture and Director of the Richard S. Dinner Center for Jewish Studies at the Graduate Theological Union in Berkeley, California and author of A Marriage Made in Heaven: The Sexual Politics of Hebrew and Yiddish and Faithful Renderings: JewishChristian Difference and the Politics of Translation. FOR TEENS IN GRADES 8 TO 12 WITH A PARENT a parent-teen experience to share! This session includes a film screening and an engaging discussion facilitated by the dynamic Leora Schaefer, Toronto Director of the organization Facing History and Ourselves. No charge. I'm Still Here: Real Diaries of Young People Who Lived During The Holocaust Monday, February 10 from 7:30 to 9:00 PM This MTV documentary weaves together excerpts from the diaries of young writers between 1937 and 1944. Through an emotional montage of archival footage, personal photos and text from the diaries, the film celebrates a group of brave, young writers– first-hand witnesses to the horrors of the Holocaust–who refused to quietly disappear. Leora Schaefer 28 Facing History and Ourselves is an international educational organization whose mission is to engage students of diverse backgrounds in an examination of racism, prejudice and anti-semitism in order to promote the development of a more humane and informed citizenry. To learn more, visit www.facinghistory.org. in and around the shul Changes to Our Team A fond farewell and a hearty welcome farewell (tzetkhem l’shalom) welcome (brukhim habaim) After 13 successful years as Membership Coordinator, Beatrice Barzilai has officially retired. Beatrice was an invaluable member of the Beth Tzedec administration team and resource to the Membership Committee. Often the first point of contact for members, Beatrice’s warm personality and dedication were invaluable. Her interactions were always respectful, sensitive and kind. On behalf of all of her friends at Beth Tzedec, including the past and current chairs of the Membership Committee and the Board of Governors, we thank Beatrice for her years of dedication and the contribution she has made to Beth Tzedec. We wish Beatrice and her husband arichat yamim—many years—of good health, safe travels and happiness. We are pleased to welcome the newest member of our administrative team, Sheri Federman, who has assumed the new role of Membership & Development Coordinator. Sheri has many years of experience working in membership, and most recently was the Director of Programs and Operations at the Canadian Society for the Weizmann Institute of Science. Her enthusiasm, energy and creative ideas will help ensure that the needs of our members are well served. Sheri’s door is always open and she welcomes you to call or stop by to introduce yourself. Welcome aboard, Sheri! BET H TZEDEC SISTE R HO O D PR E SE NTS Peril: From Jackboots to Jack Benny with Author Pearl Goodman Thursday, November 14 at 7:30 PM In her poignant memoir, psychotherapist and author Pearl Goodman tells her story of being raised in Toronto by Holocaust survivors. Her memoir delves into how trauma destroys the resolve to live and how making sense of tragedy can rebuild that resolve. No charge. For more information, contact the Synagogue office at 416-781-3511. 29 Children ages 1 to 3 with a parent, grandparent or caregiver Thursday, November 8 at 7:00 PM Toddlers, Tunes and Treats with Tobie Seligman 9:30 to 11:00 AM in Room 200 at Beth Tzedec Tuesdays Wednesdays Fridays January 14 to June 10 (20 classes) Members $300 Non-Members $360 January 15 to June 11 (19 classes) Members $285 Non-Members $345 January 17 to June 13 (21 classes) Members $315 Non-Members $380 Drop-ins welcome where space permits. Please call before coming. Fees for individual classes: $15 Members / $18 Non-Members. For registration, space availability or program information, contact Jo Swartz at 416-781-3514 ext. 230 or [email protected]. Bar/Bat Mitzvah club Y Beth Tzedec Congregation continues the Bar/Bat Mitzvah Club, a program for children with difficulty in social situations. We are looking for students with a Bar/Bat Mitzvah in 2014/2015 who are seeking to prepare for this experience with peers in a program suited to their needs. This program is tailored for students who have: n difficulty with social situations in comparison to their same-aged peers (such as children with social anxiety, gifted learning disabilities, non-verbal learning disabilities and Asperger Syndrome); n challenges that can be re-directed with supports; and n an understanding, appreciation or knowledge of their own interpersonal challenges. The Bar/Bat Club spearheaded by a cadre of educators, clergy and committed congregants, Beth Mitzvah Tzedec Cong regatis ion 1700 Bathurst Street, Toronto Tel: 416.7 81.3511 416.781.01 together with a team ofFax: skilled, highly50trained experts in various fields, including group facilitators with email: info@ beth-tzede c.org many years of experience working with kids with special needs. The program will consist of nine evening sessions with dinner. A valuable and voluntary parent group will run concurrently with the children’s sessions. The highly subsidized cost of the Bar/Bat Mitzvah Club is $700. For information, contact Daniel Silverman at 416-781-3514 ext. 231 or [email protected]. partial funding provided by This program has been made possible thanks to the Elizabeth Rose Herman Education Bursary of Beth Tzedec Congregation 30 past events The Hendeles Chapel Please excuse our appearance while we make some exciting changes over the coming weeks, we will be making aesthetic improvements to the one room in our shul that is used for prayer services every day of the year: the Hendeles Chapel. These interim steps will refresh this important spiritual space until we are ready to move forward with a full structural renovation. During the month of November, we will repair the walls, repaint from floor to ceiling, install new carpet, replace the cushions and clean and polish the Aron Kodesh. This work will make our Chapel a cleaner, more comfortable and more welcoming prayer and program destination for Beth Tzedec members and visitors to our Synagogue and will undoubtedly improve the daily experience of so many of our members. Please bear with us as we work together to improve your Beth Tzedec. TOP LEFT: Rabbi Baruch Frydman-Kohl with Gilad Shalit at his Toronto appearance on his JNF Canadian speaking tour where a sold-out crowd of 3,000 people came to meet this dynamic Israeli hero. TOP RIGHT: Avishai Margalit, the 2013 Ralph & Roslyn Halbert Visiting Scholar, addresses the audience at one of his three sessions in early October. BOTTOM: The Toronto Jewish Folk Choir performs for the Haverim Program participants in September. ˙ 31 B ET H TZ EDEC REUB EN & HE LE NE DE NNIS M U SE U M PR E SE N TS THE POSTHUMOUS LANDSCAPE: Jewish Sites of Memory in Poland Today Photographs by David Kaufman Exhibition curated by Evelyn Tauben Continues through February 2014 Today’s Polish landscape is dotted with sites of Jewish community and memory as well as physical remnants of the Holocaust. For nearly a decade, photographer David Kaufman has explored these old synagogues, former Jewish neighbourhoods and ghettos, overgrown cemeteries and more, creating a series of compelling, memorable images. LEFT: Restored synagogue in Bobowa, Poland, July 2012 ABOVE: An “ohel” or small mausoleum amid a line of gravestones in the Okopowa Street Jewish Cemetery, Warsaw, April 2011. Photos © David Kaufman For details, contact Museum Curator Dorion Liebgott, 416-781-3514 ext. 232 or [email protected]. www.jsport.org CO-ED Recreational PRESENTS Sport Leagues for Young Professionals EXERCISE YOUR MIND BODY AND SOUL JOIN US AT BETH TZEDEC’S KIMEL FAMILY GYM Wednesday Evenings Men's Basketball 8 to 10 PM (Jan. 8 to Mar. 26) Thursday Evenings Co-ed Floor Hockey 7 to 10 PM (Jan. 9 to Mar. 27) For further information and to register, visit www.jsport.org. A 32 10% DISCOUNT IS PROVIDED FOR BETH TZEDEC MEMBERS! men’s club Winter News Making a Difference Silverman Siddurim Update Beth Tzedec Men’s Club members David Sigal, Jeff Mills, Ted Bluestein and Alan Abrams have continued to sort and catalogue the Silverman siddurim and have begun distributing those copies that have been dedicated to families or individuals. If you have dedicated a siddur but have not yet received a call, please contact the Synagogue office at 416-781-3511 and leave your name and contact information. July 28, 2013 dedication of the Jules Surdin Tikvah Campers Pavilion at Camp Ramah. Scholarship Awards Each year, the Men’s Club provides various scholarships to deserving students. These scholarships are given to qualifying candidates who are pursuing higher Jewish education or cantorial studies, teaching students with disabilities, and studying the arts. Those interested in applying for a scholarship for 2014 should contact Hersh Rosenthal at [email protected]. The Jules and Pearl Surdin Memorial Fund Help give teens with emotional and developmental challenges a Jewish camp experience by making a contribution to The Jules and Pearl Surdin Memorial Fund at Beth Tzedec. Make a gift that will enlighten the life of a Tikvah camper at Camp Ramah in Canada. To contribute, please contact Avital Narvey in the Synagogue office at 416-781-3511. Making Jewish Life Better Each year, the Beth Tzedec Men’s Club provides support for many youth programs, such as the Paperclips Trip, Mitzvah Day, Family Fun Day, Tu B’Shevat S’darim and the Purim Carnival. It also offers scholarship awards to deserving students pursuing programs in higher Jewish learning, and supports Jewish veterans and residents at the Sunnybrook Health Sciences Centre through their Sunnybrook Shabbat services. MEN'S CLUB MEMBERSHIP HAS BENEFI TS & PRIVILEGES Men's Club is providing a new updated card for their members. A $36 contribution provides members with: • A plastic card that includes a three-year Jewish Holiday calendar • Preferred seating at Men's Club sponsored events 33 New Horizons for Seniors with Ruth Cohen Mondays 1:30 to 3:00 PM November 18 and 25, December 9 and 23, January 13 and 27, February 10 and 24, March 3 and 24, May 26 and June 9 and 23 Join Ruth Cohen for engaging and lively discussions, and the chance to learn from each other as we face life’s challenges. A great opportunity to share and nourish the mind and soul. Ruth Cohen is the Manager of Recreation/Education and Special Events at the Bernard Betel Centre where she has built and led a broad variety of programming, including several conversation and support groups. Ruth is a child of Holocaust survivors and runs Café Europa, a lunch & entertainment program for Holocaust survivors, in partnership with Jewish Family & Child. PRESENTED IN PARTNERSHIP WITH THE BERNARD BETEL CENTRE broad heading Subheading HAVERIM ˙ PROGRAMS 2013 / 2014 Haverim meets one Monday each month at 1:30 PM ˙ Dessert, coffee and tea will be served December 2 DARA SOLOMON, Director of the Ontario Jewish Archives, describes the variety of ways the OJA documents and shares the stories of the Jewish community utilizing a range of archival materials. Bring your own family photos so that you can share your stories. January 6 RONA ARATO, children’s author, presents The Last Train, the harrowing true story of young brothers Paul and Oscar Arato and their mother, Lenke, surviving the Nazi occupation during the final years of World War II. 34 February 3 DR. BARRY DOV WALFISH, Judaica specialist at the University of Toronto Libraries and Curator of Judaica at the Thomas Fisher Rare Book Library, provides an enlightening illustrated talk on the variety of images of Queen Esther in art and literature. Just in time for Purim! March 3 DAVID WILDSMITH, musician and guitarist, delights with an hour-long concert, sharing his wide palette of songs from crooners such as Frank Sinatra and Dean Martin to Jazz standards, Rock and Blues. tributes Memory, yahrzeit, appreciation, thanks and honours Adam Kruger Youth Initiatives Fund Norman and Jackie Kahn, honouring Les Aaron on his 50th birthday. Rose Lindzon, honouring Nowell and Andrea Solish on Harrison’s Bar Mitzvah. Annual General Fund Earl and Robin Altman, honouring Norman and Sharon Bacal on the birth of their granddaughter Catherine Michelle Bacal. Janice Bennett, acknowledging Michael Weinberg and family in memory of Sheila Weinberg. Graham and Enid Berg, honouring Ruth Hyman on becoming Kallat Torah. Graham and Enid Berg, honouring Paul Rothstein on becoming Hattan ˙ Bereisheet. The Bongard Family, honouring Matthew Bongard on his Bar Mitzvah. Harvey Bordon and Gloria Wunder, acknowledging Millie Pollock in memory of Muriel Gorsky. Dr. Albert and Elaine Cheskes, acknowledging Michael Weinberg in memory of Sheila Weinberg. Murray Collis, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Max Collis. Rose Cooper and family, in memory of Cantor Joseph Cooper. Harry Giddens, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Jack Giddens. Helen Glazer, honouring Alex Orzy on his special birthday. Helen Glazer, acknowledging Millie Pollock in memory of Muriel Gorsky. Ruby Herman Green, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Michael John Herman. Mildred Kriezman, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Max Kriezman. Karen and Larry Leiter, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Abraham Engelbaum. Rose Lindzon and family, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Dr. Martin Lindzon. Sheila Lubotta, acknowledging Michael Weinberg and family in memory of Sheila Weinberg. Peter and Rochelle Miller, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Yale Pilz. Ana Moskovits, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Emanuel Moskovits. David and Devorah Pullan, acknowledging Prof. Arnold and Shoshana Ages in memory of Sharon Esther Ages (Goldberg). Nelson and Ruth Reuben, acknowledging Michael Weinberg and family in memory of Sheila Weinberg. Emma Rosenberg, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Saul Rosenberg. Harvey and Simma Shaul, acknowledging Prof. Arnold and Shoshana Ages in memory of Sharon Esther Ages (Goldberg). Leila J. Sprince, commemorating the yahrtzeiten of Anna Caller and Harry Caller. Miriam Weinstein, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Teddy Wohl. Lyon Wexler, wishing Mr. and Mrs. Hillel Kagen a Shanah Tovah. Lyon Wexler, wishing Ken and Clare Shapiro a Shanah Tovah. Lyon Wexler, wishing Mr. and Mrs. Joseph D. Shier a Shanah Tovah. Lyon Wexler, wishing Blake Teichman and Sharon Yale a Shanah Tovah. Bari and Teddy Zittell and family, honouring Richard and Laura Orzy on Noa’s marriage to Jake. Camp Ramah Scholarship Fund Ab and Phyllis Flatt, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Moses Flatt. Ab and Phyllis Flatt, wishing Rabbi Adam and Debra Cutler and Jacob Gershon Reuben a Shanah Tovah. Ab and Phyllis Flatt, wishing Marlene and Howard Black and Aaron and Adam a Shanah Tovah. Ab and Phyllis Flatt, wishing Rabbi Harvey and Cheryl Meirovich and family a Shanah Tovah. Daily Minyan Breakfast Fund The Alexandroff Family, marking the conclusion of shloshim for Harry Alexandroff. Amalia Berg and family, honouring Zoe Trister on her Bat Mitzvah. Beverley Black, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Ada Starkman. Susan Born, Bonnie Singer and Freida Sherman and families, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Chana (Ann) Salcman. Morley Brown and Glennie Lindenberg, commemorating the yarhtzeit of David Brown. Dr. Perry Cooper, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Doris Cooper. The Cummings Family, commemorating the yahrtzeit of George Cummings. Ilene Flatt and family, commemorating the yahrtzeit of P. Theodore Magram. Gerald Freeman, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Hilda Freeman. The Gangbar Family, honouring Anna Gangbar on her special birthday. Al Gelfant, commemorating the yahrtzeiten of Sarah Gelfant and Hendele Gelfant. Al Gelfant, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Goldie Herzog. The Gertner Family, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Samuel Gertner. Arlene Grajcer, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Brandon Grajcer. Jerold Grammer, commemorating the yahrtzeiten of Sarah Grammer and Milton Grammer. 2013 Tax Receipt Please remember: Any gift to Beth Tzedec paid before December 31, 2013 will be eligible for a 2013 Tax Receipt. To donate in memory or appreciation, please call the Synagogue office at 416-781-3511. To discuss opportunities for contributing to specific programs or initiatives, please contact Randy Spiegel, Executive Director, at 416-781-3514 ext. 211 or [email protected]. Make a donation, send a tribute card and include your listing here to honour your friends and loved ones. For more information about tribute opportunities, contact Avital at 416-781-3511. 35 Be part of a musical and historical, emotional and inspirational experience including a special trip to Normandy! Featuring daily guide Rachel Kolsky, author of the best-selling book Jewish London. Next Information Session Tuesday, December 3 at 7:30 PM For more information, email [email protected]. Saturday Night, January 25 at 7:00 PM Join your host Cantor Spiro for a sumptuous supper, samples of three spectacular single-malt scotch whiskeys, music and fun, and celebrate the birthday of Scotland’s favourite son! Have a great evening with friends and family! Seating is limited, so get your tickets now! Tickets: $75. For more information or to reserve, contact the Synagogue office at 416-781-3511 by Tuesday, January 21. 36 tributes Memory, yahrzeit, appreciation, thanks and honours Brian Heller and Dr. Beverly Kupfert and family, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Dr. Leon Heller. Mary Ellen Herman, Jane Hankoff, Barbara Caplan, Peggy Risen and Karen Haar and families, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Gilda Caplan. The Kerzner Family, honouring Joseph Kerzner on his birthday. Eva Kirsh and family, commemorating the first yahrtzeit of Gerald Gringorten. Esther Korn, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Aron Korn. Dr. Beverly Kupfert and Brian Heller and Bernice and Stan Steinman and families, honouring the birth of their granddaughter Noa Reese Steinman. Ruthann Lubin, commemorating the yahrtzeiten of Lillian Cutler and Ernest Cutler. Ruthe Mann, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Grace Longert. Helen Marr and family, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Gerald Marr. David and Leanne Matlow, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Jack Singer. Pauline Menkes and family, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Jack Weintraub. Saul Mimran, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Elie Mimran. Harvey Minuk, commemorating the 30th yahrtzeit of Lola Minuk. Harvey Minuk and family, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Randy Minuk. The Nemoy and Leibel Families, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Helen Nemoy. The Nemoy and Leibel Families, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Max B. Nemoy. Reta Newman and Kathryn, Brian and Bobby Feldman, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Gilbert Newman. Millie Pollock, marking the conclusion of shloshim for Muriel Gorsky. The Joyce Posluns Family, commemorating the yahrtzeiten of Louis and Leah Posluns, Wilfred Posluns, Mildred Cohen and Alan Brown. The Randolph Family, commemorating the first yahrtzeit of Morton Randolph. Joe Rosenthal, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Shmuel Rosenthal. Joe Rosenthal, commemorating the yahrtzeit of David White. Brian Segal and Roslyn Levine, honouring the upcoming marriage of their son Andrew to Rebecca Vernik. Alan and Faye Shiner, honouring the birth of their granddaughter Rachel Lillian Freeman. Howard Shogilev, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Ben Shogilev. The Sobel Family, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Bertha (Brucha) Chelin. The Sobel Family, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Ben Sobel. The Sobel Family, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Eli Sobel. Rose Sobel and Label and Vernon Chelin, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Benjamin Chelin. Sidney and Lola Solnik and Gordon and Joyce Strauss, honouring Sophie Strauss on her Bat Mitzvah. Sara Wunch Glick, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Moses Kamelgarn. Sharon Yale and Blake Teichman, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Bernard Yale. Myra York and family, commemorating the first yahrtzeit of Chaim Neuberger. Daily Minyan Fund Rosalee Berlin, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Rose Greenberg. Rosalee Berlin, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Kate Lee Moss. Lia Besunder and family, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Marvin Besunder. Elaine and Albert Cheskes Lecture Fund Gillian Rosenberg and family, honouring Dr. Albert Cheskes. Hesed Fund ˙ Frances Ackerman, honouring the Pellow Family. Frances Ackerman, honouring Ira and Miriam Walfish on the upcoming marriage of Binyamin to Devora Hauer. Dr Gerald Arbus and Joy Wagner, honouring Rabbi Baruch and Josette Frydman-Kohl on Amir’s marriage to Amanda Schneider. Graham and Enid Berg, honouring Marsha Joseph on her granddaughter Leah’s Bat Mitzvah. Graham and Enid Berg, honouring Harold and Ruth Margles on their grandson Adam’s Bar Mitzvah. Graham and Enid Berg, honouring Ralph and Judy Shiff on their grandson’s marriage. Beverley Black, honouring Rabbi Baruch and Josette Frydman-Kohl on Amir’s marriage to Amanda Schneider. Howard and Marlene Black, acknowledging Prof. Arnold and Shoshana Ages in memory of Sharon Esther Ages (Goldberg). Howard and Marlene Black and family, honouring Ruth Hyman on becoming Kallat Torah. Howard and Marlene Black and family, honouring Paul Rothstein on becoming Hattan Bereisheet. ˙Lois Buckstein, acknowledging Prof. Arnold and Shoshana Ages in memory of Sharon Esther Ages (Goldberg). Wendy and Elliott Eisen, honouring Mel and Lila Freedman on their 50th anniversary. Judy Feld Carr and Donald Carr, acknowledging Norman Rogul and family in memory of Anne Rogul. Faye Firestone, acknowledging Prof. Arnold and Shoshana Ages in memory of Sharon Esther Ages (Goldberg). Faye Firestone, acknowledging Harold and Ruth Margles in appreciation. Pearl and Kenny Garfinkel, honouring Mary Ellen Herman on her birthday. Drs. Owen and Sandra Giddens and family, acknowledging Prof. Arnold and Shoshana Ages in memory of Sharon Esther Ages (Goldberg). Drs. Owen and Sandra Giddens and family, acknowledging Anna Miller in memory of Isobel Sheila Sloan. Drs. Owen and Sandra Giddens and family, acknowledging David Morgenthau in memory of Lillian Morgenthau. Helen Glazer, acknowledging Prof. Arnold and Shoshana Ages in memory of Sharon Esther Ages (Goldberg). Helen Glazer, honouring Ruth Hyman on becoming Kallat Torah. Helen Glazer, acknowledging Rose Sobel in memory of Verne Chelin. Karen and Sydney Goldenberg, honouring Paul Rothstein on becoming Hattan ˙ Bereisheet. Mary Ellen Herman, honouring Dr. Melvin and Lila Freedman on their 50th anniversary. 37 tributes Memory, yahrzeit, appreciation, thanks and honours Marsha Joseph, honouring Ruth Hyman on becoming Kallat Torah. Marsha Joseph, acknowledging the family of Lola Weinstein in her memory. Shirley Krem, acknowledging Barry Goldman in memory of Jeffrey Warren Goldman. Murray and Adrienne Levinter, honouring Paul Rothstein on becoming Hattan ˙ Bereisheet. Sheila Lubotta, acknowledging Lillian Gozlan and family in memory of Irene Amram. David and Shirley Promislow, honouring Sidney and Lola Solnik on their granddaughter Sophie Strauss’ Bat Mitzvah. David and Shirley Promislow, honouring Mel and Ruth Steinhart on their 55th anniversary. Irene Reingold, acknowledging Rose Sobel in memory of Verne Chelin. Ruth Reuben, acknowledging Prof. Arnold and Shoshana Ages and family in memory of Sharon Esther Ages (Goldberg). Abraham Rutman, in appreciation. Paul and Mary Spring, honouring Rabbi Baruch and Josette Frydman-Kohl on Amir’s marriage to Amanda Schneider. Mel and Ruth Steinhart, honouring Rabbi Baruch and Josette Frydman-Kohl on Amir’s marriage to Amanda Schneider. Manley and Barbra Walters, acknowledging Prof. Arnold and Shoshana Ages in memory of Sharon Esther Ages (Goldberg). Esther Westelman, acknowledging Prof. Arnold and Shoshana Ages in memory of Sharon Esther Ages (Goldberg). Esther Westelman, acknowledging Judy Wolfe and family in memory of Linda Lewis. Lyon Wexler, wishing Moshe Chriqui a Happy Birthday. Lyon Wexler, wishing Norman and Jackie Kahn and family a Shanah Tovah. Lyon Wexler, wishing Lawrie and Ruthann Lubin and family a Shanah Tovah. Lyon Wexler, acknowledging Archie Richmond in memory of Esther Richmond. Lyon Wexler, wishing Dr. Daniel and Anya Schachter and family a Shanah Tovah. 38 Lyon Wexler, wishing Shoel and Eileen Silver and family a Shanah Tovah. Lyon Wexler, acknowledging Rose Sobel in memory of Verne Chelin. Harold and Carole Wolfe, acknowledging Prof. Arnold and Shoshana Ages in memory of Sharon Esther Ages (Goldberg). Harold and Carole Wolfe, acknowledging Sari Kichler in memory of Harry Alexandroff. Harold and Carole Wolfe, honouring Joanna Mansfield and Eli Cooperberg on the birth of their son. Harold and Carole Wolfe, acknowledging Catherine Weinberg in memory of Sheila Weinberg. Howard (Hy) Cooper Trust Fund David, Carol, Marissa and Yonit Grossman, honouring Ari Grossman on receiving his Masters of Business Administration degree (MBA), and on being appointed to Wilfred Laurier University’s Board of Governors. Israel Sydney & Pearl Wolfe Memorial Fund Caryl and Bernie Schwartz and family, commemorating the yarhtzeit of Pearl Wolfe. Jewish Family Living Fund Dr. Brian and Hon. Justice Kathryn Feldman and Bobby Feldman, honouring Norman and Sharon Bacal on the birth of their first grandchild. Dr. Brian and Hon. Justice Kathryn Feldman and Bobby Feldman, honouring Brian Heller and Dr. Beverly Kupfert on the birth of their granddaughter Noa Reese Steinman. Ab and Phyllis Flatt, wishing Dr. Arnold and Shoshana Ages and family a Shanah Tovah. Ab and Phyllis Flatt, wishing Sharon and Norman Bacal and family a Shanah Tovah. Ab and Phyllis Flatt, wishing Beatrice Barzilai a Shanah Tovah. Ab and Phyllis Flatt, wishing Marlene and Howard Black and family a Shanah Tovah. Ab and Phyllis Flatt, wishing Mr. and Mrs. Maurice Chriqui a Shanah Tovah. Ab and Phyllis Flatt, wishing Rabbi Adam, Debra and Jacob Gershon Reuben Cutler a Shanah Tovah. Ab and Phyllis Flatt, wishing Rabbi Benjamin and Lola Friedberg a Shanah Tovah. Ab and Phyllis Flatt, wishing Rabbi Baruch and Josette Frydman-Kohl and family a Shanah Tovah. Ab and Phyllis Flatt, wishing Zina Glassman a Shanah Tovah. Ab and Phyllis Flatt, wishing Lorne Hanick a Shanah Tovah. Ab and Phyllis Flatt, wishing Norman and Jackie Kahn and family a Shanah Tovah. Ab and Phyllis Flatt, wishing Carolyn and Eliot Kolers and family a Shanah Tovah. Ab and Phyllis Flatt, wishing Dr. Ron and Anna Lee Landsberg a Shanah Tovah. Ab and Phyllis Flatt, wishing Lynn Levy a Shanah Tovah. Ab and Phyllis Flatt, wishing Dena Libman a Shanah Tovah. Ab and Phyllis Flatt, wishing Dr. Clifford and Judy Librach and family a Shanah Tovah. Ab and Phyllis Flatt, wishing Rabbi Harvey and Cheryl Meirovich and family a Shanah Tovah. Ab and Phyllis Flatt, wishing Avital Narvey and family a Shanah Tovah. Ab and Phyllis Flatt, wishing Patti and Sheldon Rotman and family a Shanah Tovah. Ab and Phyllis Flatt, wishing Debbie and Randy Spiegel and family a Shanah Tovah. Ab and Phyllis Flatt, wishing Cantor Simon and Aliza Spiro and family a Shanah Tovah. Ab and Phyllis Flatt, wishing Rabbi Roy and Loretta Tanenbaum and family a Shanah Tovah. Ab and Phyllis Flatt, wishing Blake Teichman and Sharon Yale and family a Shanah Tovah. Ab and Phyllis Flatt, wishing Esther Westelman a Shanah Tovah. Erna Silver, honouring Sharon and Norman Bacal on the birth of their first grandchild. tributes Memory, yahrzeit, appreciation, thanks and honours Jules and Pearl Surdin Yom Hashoah Candle Fund Morty and Gayle Eisenberg and family, acknowledging Dr. Howard and Sheila Einstoss in memory of Rose Einstoss. Cathy Surdin, Lawrence and Brooke Schiff, acknowledging Dr. Howard Einstoss in memory of Rose Einstoss. Helene and Bob Smagala and family, acknowledging Dr. Howard and Sheila Einstoss in memory of Rose Einstoss. Kosher Food Bank Frances Ackerman, honouring Ira and Miriam Walfish. Sandra Appel and Jerry Shuman and Mira and Naomi, wishing Barry Appel a Shanah Tovah. Sandra Appel and Jerry Shuman and Mira and Naomi, wishing Linda and Alan Cohen a Shanah Tovah. Sandra Appel and Jerry Shuman and Mira and Naomi, wishing Maureen and Henry Molot a Shanah Tovah. Diane and Ronnie Ennis, honouring Rabbi Baruch and Josette Frydman-Kohl on Amir’s marriage to Amanda Schneider. Estelle Levy, acknowledging the Weinberg Family in memory of Sheila Weinberg. Max and Beatrice Wolfe Library Fund Library Books Men’s Club Scholarship Fund Ab and Phyllis Flatt, commemorating the yahrtzeiten of Samuel Albert and Nettie Albert. Donnie Friedman, with appreciation. Millie Pollock, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Faye Tobenstein. Cara and Paul Resnick, honouring Alex Orzy on his 90th birthday. Dorothy and Stanley Tessis, honouring Ruth Hyman on becoming Kallat Torah. Arthur and Carole Andrews, honouring Alex Orzy on his 90th birthday. Little Minyan Fund Harold and Carole Wolfe, wishing Norman and Jackie Kahn a Happy Sukkot. Phyllis Lindzon, acknowledging Rose Sobel in memory of Verne Chelin. Sharon and Michael Pupko, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Sarah Greenspan. Music Fund Dr. Stephen Abrams and Rosette Rutman, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Phil Abrams. Ab and Phyllis Flatt, honouring Ricky Zabitsky and Monty Kwinter. Ab and Phyllis Flatt, acknowledging Michael Weinberg in memory of Sheila Weinberg. Roger and Rose Goldstein, honouring Dr. Robert Varidi on the new arrival and wishing him a Gmar Hatimah Tovah. ˙ Shirley Krem, acknowledging Bernard Staiman and family in memory of Shirley Staiman. 39 tributes Memory, yahrzeit, appreciation, thanks and honours Shirley Krem, honouring Cantor Simon and Aliza Spiro. Shirley Krem and family, wishing Margie Posluns and family a Shanah Tovah. Sheila Lubotta, acknowledging Michael Weinberg and family in memory of Sheila Weinberg. Gary and Marcie Mansfield, honouring Blake Teichman. Gary and Marcie Mansfield and family, honouring Bob and Sandy Cohen on their 50th anniversary. Abe and Ella Rutman and family, honouring Rabbi Baruch and Josette Frydman-Kohl on Amir’s marriage to Amanda Schneider. Larry and Nina Wallach, honouring Rabbi Baruch and Josette Frydman-Kohl on Amir’s marriage to Amanda Schneider. Albert Weinstein, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Harry Weinstein. Albert Weinstein and Margo Brown, honouring Howard and Vardina Kaiman on their 35th anniversary. Lyon Wexler, honouring Noam Cotton. Harold and Carole Wolfe, honouring Norman and Sharon Bacal on the birth of their granddaughter Catherine Michelle Bacal. Harold and Carole Wolfe, honouring Gary and Marcie Mansfield on the birth of their grandson. Harold and Carole Wolfe, wishing Cantor Simon and Aliza Spiro a Happy Sukkot. Out-of-the-Cold Fund Lisa and Les Aaron and family, acknowledging Catherine Weinberg in memory of Sheila Weinberg. Ron Landsberg, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Dr. Harry Jolley. Ellis, Vicci, Joel, Raquel and Levy Macmull, wishing Patti and Sheldon Rotman and family a Shanah Tovah. The Marans Family, wishing Patti and Sheldon Rotman a Shanah Tovah. Anne and Mitch Max and family, wishing Rick and Jan Sutin a Shanah Tovah. Mitch and Anne Max, honouring Sue Torok on her 50th birthday. Honey and Irving Milstein, acknowledging Prof. Arnold and Shoshana Ages and family in memory of Sharon Esther Ages (Goldberg). 40 Ana Moskovits, commemorating the yahrtzeiten of Arpad Moskovits and Berta Berger. Barbara Nemoy Leibel and Hart Nemoy and families, acknowledging the Alexandroff Family in memory of Harry Alexandroff. Sherry and Arie Rogenstein and Carly, Matt, Lauren and Justin, wishing Sheldon and Patti Rotman and family a Shanah Tovah. Sheldon and Patti Rotman, acknowledging Gary Title in memory of Sheila Weinberg. Sheldon and Patti Rotman, honouring Norman and Sharon Bacal on the birth of their first grandchild. Sheldon and Patti Rotman, honouring Eudice Goldberg on her new condo. Sheldon and Patti Rotman and family, honouring Bob and Sandy Cohen on their 50th anniversary. Irving and Jeanne Salit, honouring Marsha Joseph on their granddaughter Leah’s Bat Mitzvah. Irving and Jeanne Salit, honouring Ralph and Judy Shiff on their grandson Adam’s Bar Mitzvah. Irving and Jeanne Salit, honouring Ralph and Judy Shiff on their grandson Alex Max’s marriage. Ken, Clare and Noah Shapiro, wishing Patti and Sheldon Rotman and family a Shanah Tovah. Ken, Clare and Noah Shapiro, acknowledging Gary Title in memory of Sheila Weinberg. Rose Sobel, acknowledging Vera Gold in memory of Carl Gold. Rose Sobel, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Anne Grimson. Rose Sobel, honouring Rabbi Baruch and Josette Frydman-Kohl on Amir’s marriage to Amanda Schneider. Rose Sobel, honouring Henry Wolfond and Rochelle Reichert on the birth of their grandson. Stacey Spiegel, commemorating the memory of Jules (Julius) Spiegel. Manley and Barbra Walters, honouring Alex Orzy on his birthday. Lyon Wexler, wishing Patti and Sheldon Rotman and family a Shanah Tovah. Prayer Book (Siddur) Dedications - Daily or Shabbat Beth Tzedec Sisterhood, acknowledging Sylvia Singer in memory of Bernard Kott. Harvey and Faggie Klein, acknowledging Michael Weinberg and family in memory of Sheila Weinberg. Susan Laufer and Barry Greenberg, commemorating the yahrtzeit of William Laufer. David and Shirley Promislow and family, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Sam Promislow. Shirley and David Promislow and family, commemorating they yahrtzeit of Reva Gandler. Alan and Lorraine Sandler, honouring Lorne Hanick. Alan and Lorraine Sandler, honouring Paul Rothstein on becoming Hattan ˙ Beresheit. Sylvia Singer and family, commemorating the memory of Bernard Kott. Sylvia Singer and family, commemorating the yahrtzeiten of Jacob and Chaya Kott. Joel and Adrienne Slan and family, honouring Bob and Sandy Cohen on their 50th anniversary. Mel and Ruth Steinhart, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Rose Siegel. Howard and Lisa Winston and family, acknowledging Fern Reich-Simpson in memory of Helen Oelbaum Simpson. Reuben and Helene Dennis Museum Fund Shirley, Rosalyn and Eliana Train, honouring Ruth Hyman on becoming Kallat Torah. Evelyn Wolfe, commemorating the yahrtzeit of Milton Wolfe. Victims of Terror Fund Moshe and Denise Chriqui, honouring Allan Phillips in appreciation and wishing him a Shanah Tovah. The Zeldin Family, acknowledging Issy Polakow in memory of Susan Polakow. tributes Condolences and Memorial Plaques Jewish Meditation with Michelle Katz Shabbat, December 14 and February 1 Classes held on the first Shabbat of every month, from 10:00 to 11:15 AM. For men and women, centred on texts from our tradition, eliciting response and deep listening—a doorway to enhanced prayer. Michelle Katz is an educator in English and Special Education. She provides workshops, retreats and group classes in Jewish Meditation, Jewish Spiritual Direction and Torah yoga. For more information, please contact Marlene Laba at 416-781-3514 ext. 234 or [email protected]. SPONSORED BY BETH TZEDEC MEN’S CLUB Condolences The Congregation extends heartfelt condolences to the families of the late: Frances Axmith Edward Brickman Verne Chelin Sidney Dick Adele Faust Belle (Bobby) Feig Isaac Graiewski Geraldine Hundert Cynthia Israel Rose Katz Bernard Kott Sarah Meirovich Annette Nesker Anne Rogul Barbara June Rosenberg Billie Samuels Helen Simpson Arlene Stone Eve Wolfman “May the God of mercy sustain and strengthen them in their sorrow.” Memorial Plaques Plaques in honour of the following individuals will be installed in the Sanctuary: Elias Gefen Jean Mouckley Creed Gluckstein Gerald Gringorten Marvin David Lipton Jeffrey Myron Paul Oscar Schlenger Sheila Carol Weinberg If you wish to honour the memory of a dear one, a fitting, traditional and dignified remembrance is through a memorial plaque and lamp. Each memorial plaque, bearing the name and yahrtzeit date, is mounted on a bronze tablet in the Sanctuary. The lamp is lit on the Shabbat of the week of the yahrtzeit, on the day of the yahrtzeit, and on the four festivals during the year when Yizkor is recited. To order a memorial plaque, contact Maya Vasserman at 416-781-3514 ext. 216 or [email protected]. 41 In the Path of Abraham Artwork by: Mark Podwal Join the second Toronto-based Jewish–Christian–Muslim encounter of the Holy Land March 4-13, 2014 Leaders: Judy Csillag, Rev. Dr. Karen Hamilton, Rabbi Baruch Frydman-Kohl, Fr. Damian MacPherson and Imam Abdul Hai Patel 3 religions, 2 nations, 1 land Join us to: • Educate ourselves about the three faiths in the Holy Land; • Explore the complexity of political issues affecting Israelis and Palestinians; • Facilitate improved relationships in our communities in Canada Visit places of Christian pilgrimage such as Mount of the Beatitudes and Basilica of the Annunciation in Nazareth; Jewish sites such as the Western Wall (Kotel) and Yad Vashem; Muslim sites such as Al Aqsa Mosque; Tomb of the Patriarchs. Spend time in Jerusalem, Bethlehem, Hebron and the Etzion area with face-to-face meetings with Muslims, Christians and Jews who hold these places to be sacred. For further information, please contact Judy Csillag at [email protected] *Price per person, based on double occupancy 42 sunday 5 tevet 8 8:45am Shaִ harit 12:00pm BTTeens Charity Zumba Class 12:00pm Kesher TOPs Pgm 4:30pm Minִhah–Ma’ariv 15 monday 9 tuesday 7 tevet 14 tevet 10 17 7:30am Shaִharit Shaִ harit 4:30pm Minִhah–Ma’ariv New Horizons Minִhah–Ma’ariv Dr. Dan Bahat Pgm: Western Wall 6 tevet 7:30am 1:30pm 4:30pm 7:00pm 16 23 30 6 21 tevet 24 7 31 7:30am Shaִharit 4:30pm Minִhah–Ma’ariv 28 tevet 7:30am Shaִharit 4:40pm Minִ hah–Ma’ariv 6 shevat Shaִharit 7:30am Shaִ harit Haverim: Rona Arato 4:45pm Minִhah–Ma’ariv ˙Minִ hah–Ma’ariv 5 shevat 7:30am Shaִharit 4:40pm Minִhah–Ma’ariv 27 tevet 7:30am Shaִharit 1:30pm New Horizons 4:30pm Minִhah–Ma’ariv 20 tevet 7:30am Shaִ harit 7:30am Shaִharit 4:00pm Kokhavim Cook & 4:30pm Minִhah–Ma’ariv Shook 7:15pm ASK: The Adult Bat/ 4:30pm Minִ hah–Ma’ariv Bar Mitzvah Pgm 13 tevet This page: December 8 to January 11 12 tevet 22 8:45am 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Havdalah Shabbat Shirah Community Concert 10 shevat 8:45am 9:30am 10:15am 4:25pm 5:47pm 8:00pm 10 11 9 kislev tuesday Beth Tzedec Congregation 1700 Bathurst Street, Toronto, Ontario Canada M5P 3K3 Tel (416) 781-3511 / Fax (416) 781-0150 www.beth-tzedec.org 7:30am 1:30pm 4:40pm 7:15pm 29 kislev hanukkah day 5 ˙ 7:15am 1:30pm 4:30pm 7:00pm 18 25 2 6th Candle Shaִharit Haverim: Solomon ˙Minִhah–Ma’ariv Dr. Dan Bahat Pgm: Jerusalem/2nd Temple 16 kislev 7:15am 4:00pm 4:30pm 7:30pm 12 19 26 3 wednesday 10 kislev 13 20 7:30am Shaִharit 4:40pm Minִhah–Ma’ariv 7:30pm Jews in Sports: Jews & Baseball 17 kislev 7:30am 4:30pm 7:30pm 7:30pm thursday 11 kislev 14 21 friday 12 kislev 5 6 Shaִharit Candle Lighting Kabbalat Shabbat Friday Night Family Service 3 tevet 7:30am 4:24pm 4:30pm 6:00pm saturday 13 kislev Vayeshlah Shaִ harit ˙ LM/Prof. Ages Torah Tots SMP & Jr. Cong’n Torah Next Dor Shabbat Games Minִhah–Ma’ariv/SS Havdalah 23 Vayigash 8:45am Shaִharit 9:30am LM/Prof. Ages 10:30am Family 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