Relationships: The 4th R

TEAMWORK
My supervisxr txld me that
teamwxrk depends xn the
perfxrmance xf every single persxn
xn the team. I ignxred that idea
until my supervisxr shxwed me hxw
the xffice typewriter perfxrms when
just xne single key is xut xf xrder.
All the xther keys xn xur typewriter
wxrk just fine except xne, but that
xne destrxys the effectiveness xf
the typewriter. Nxw I knxw that
even thxugh I am xnly xne persxn, I
am needed if the team is tx wxrk as
a successful team shxuld.
PARIS
IN THE
THE
SPRING
FINISHED FILES ARE THE
RESULTS OF YEARS OF
SCIENTIFIC
STUDY COMBINED WITH
THE
EXPERIENCE OF MANY
YEARS
OBSERVATION AND
ASSOCIATION
THE-LINK-SYSTEM
Following are five rules to help you in
forming ridiculous associations:
1) SUBSTITUTION – Using one object in
place of or instead of another object.
2) ACTION – Get movement or action into
your pictures
3) EXAGGERATION – See many items in
your pictures. (Millions)
4) OUT OF PROPORTION – See the
objects in your pictures larger than life or
smaller than life.
5) DISTORTION – See the objects distorted,
bent, or damaged in some way.
THE SUBSTITUTE WORD SYSTEM
OF MEMORY
Since it is always easier to remember what can be seen
rather than what is only read or heard, it is vital to develop a
way to picture all words.
The SUBSTITUTE WORD SYSTEM of memory is used to make
“unpicturable” words “picturable.” Many words are easy to picture in
your mind. You have no trouble seeing a tiger, elephant, flower,
automobile, or banana in your mind, do you? These are items that can
be pictured. In other words, you know what they look like because you
have seen them in a picture or perhaps in real life.
However, there are many words that cannot be pictured. Such a
word is BELIEVE. You can say, “I believe you.” But what do you see
in your mind when you think of the word BELIEVE? By developing a
substitute word, another word in its place, you will be able to picture it.
The Substitute Word that is developed will sound like the original word,
and this SOUND-ALIKE word can then be pictured.
Since the word BELIEVE can’t be pictured, how about this:
A bee on a leaf can easily be pictured or seen. You just saw it.
Now, BEE-LEAF sounds very much like BELIEVE, so bee-leaf will
remind you of the word BELIEVE. And most importantly, you can now
see a picture of the word BELIEVE because of the substitute word or
sound-alike word that was developed.
The Substitute Word System will be used when necessary to make
unpicturable words for the application of the simple procedures in this
book.
Popular Sanguine
Place in the puzzle:
Creative person
Best at:
Making initial contact with people
Creating enthusiasm & excitement
Encouraging & uplifting others
Insuring that the group has fun
Is apt to be:
Too easily distracted & forgetful
Presentation style:
Humorous with a light touch
Warning:
Can come on too happy or cute
Not considered serious or believable
Don’t let them handle money
Realize they
need fun &
adventure!
Perfect Melancholy
Place in the puzzle:
Detail person
Best at:
Planning and explaining the details
Keeping the financial records straight
Being sensitive to the needs of others
Making sure the group sees the long
range goals
Is apt to be:
Too negative & critical
Presentation style:
Accurate & sincere
Warning:
Might come across too intellectual &
remote
May make others feel less intelligent
Can get lost in the details
Realize they
need order &
understanding!
Powerful Choleric
Place in the puzzle:
Leadership person
Best at:
Motivating people to action
Controlling the plans & productivity
Giving quick & clear instructions
Making sure the group sees the
immediate gain
Is apt to be:
Too impulsive & intimidating
Presentation style:
Authoritative & Convincing
Warning:
May come on too overpowering
Seems to look down on others
Often intimidates less confident people
Realize they
need action &
excitement!
Peaceful Phlegmatic
Place in the puzzle:
Support person
Best at:
Making sure the group is relaxed &
comfortable
Always finding a middle ground
Staying calm & functional amidst chaos
Not overreacting to a negative situation
Is apt to be:
Too undisciplined & indecisive
Presentation style:
Believable
Warning:
May come across as too low-key, dull or lazy
Appears too unenthusiastic & unconvinced
Don’t count on them for motivation
Realize they
need rest &
some quiet
time.