matters official newsletter of mater dei, camden issue 1 2016 inclusion for all A WORD FROM OUR CEO/PRINCIPAL D uring this term I read The Good Life by noted social researcher Hugh McKay. It is a compelling read. The opening chapter of the book is titled “The Utopia Complex” where the author describes in the most confronting way, the obsession that has emerged to not only seek but in fact to expect “utopia” in almost every aspect of our daily life, including the way we conduct our relationships. McKay says “In our perfect world, blame is easy to affix, revenge is sweet and outcomes are always positive (for us). Life should proceed from one thrilling gratification to the next, banners triumphantly aflutter, joy unbounded”. It is confronting in as much that they are attitudes easy to find. We have been conditioned to become “aspirational” and this is portrayed as a virtue. I often wonder whether it has been confused with “commitment”. The two terms elicit very different responses and manifest themselves in very different outcomes. There was a time when as children and young adults we had no “aspiration” to be anything other than conscientious and hardworking, faithful and committed to using our gifts and talents to the very best of our ability and that by being so, and by conducting ourselves with modesty, graciousness and humility in relationships, the outcome would be its own reward. Certainly we were encouraged to be aspirational to the extent that we were expected to do our best and be our best, to work hard, to not seek, let alone expect, constant praise and affirmation. But we were not very often encouraged to be “aspirational” for things; for possessions and for relationships that would gratify us. There was certainly no sense that such things, including “happiness”, were an entitlement. No…you made your own luck, you forged your own path to happiness and more often than not it was a consequence of self denial, sacrifice, perseverance and hard work. Our language has changed, and with it our expectations of what we believe we are entitled to and entitled to expect. As McKay says, “we are hooked on the idea of happiness as a natural entitlement”. He goes on “and yet, the more you examine our Utopian fantasies and our energetic attempts to turn them in to reality, the more you wonder if the very things we are so desperate to acquire as symbols of this imagined good life may be insulating us from deeper and more enduring satisfactions, fuelling our dreams while limiting our vision, encouraging us to settle for the most trivial and fleeting meanings of good”. It is one of the great joys of spending your day at Mater Dei. It is not Utopia and nor does it aspire to be so. In fact, our community is very imperfect and we are so much the richer for that. Through the lives of the children, students and their families, we are challenged, daily, to be “aspirational” ONLY in the sense that we aspire to value the enduring values of life and of relationships; forgiveness, love, tolerance, compassion…that we aspire to be better people, mindful of all that we HAVE rather than all that we WANT, and to be advocates for a more peaceful, more just and more inclusive world. Best Wishes Tony Fitzgerald student leaders 2016 T he aim of Mater Dei’s Student Leadership Program is to create opportunities for students to become active role models within our school and the wider community. By developing their leadership and communication skills, students also build confidence. Our student leaders wear their badges with pride as they strive to uphold and demonstrate the Mater Dei way of being kind, respectful and safe in all situations. Mater Dei’s new School Captains for 2016 – Paige McCue-Shore and Victor Fineangonofo – were elected at the end of 2015 by their peers and Mater Dei staff. They have significant roles to play in our school assemblies and liturgies as well as community events such as the Mater Dei Golf Day and Foundation Dinner. They are fantastic ambassadors for our school and the other students look to them for guidance, friendship and leadership. Our 2016 senior House Captains are Christopher V (blue), Sophie Mussett (yellow), Adriana G (red) and James Tabone (green). They have important roles in our school Swimming and Athletics Carnivals and weekly sport timetable. Our new Primary Student Representative Councillors – Etienne Petersen, Jye Cooper, Nathan Donoghue and Zachery Leone – are important role models in the younger school. Their opportunities and responsibilities include raising and lowering our school flags each week, and significant roles in school assemblies, liturgies and community events such as selling PEACE EGGs. Cover Photo: Sarah Vassallo and Ally Mallett enjoying the Swimming Carnival always say that Aimee was our surprise baby, our fourth child. I remember Ilooking into her brilliant blue eyes after i need to talk to you about she was born and vaguely hearing the paediatrician say “I’ll see you tomorrow” as he left the room. But I was rapt with my beautiful baby and although I fleetingly wondered “Why did he say that?” my hesitation quickly passed. The next morning the paediatrician came to my bed with a nurse who didn’t look at me as she briskly pulled the curtain around my bed. He picked up my baby and stated “I think she has Down Syndrome. I’ll order blood tests to confirm it.” My world fell around me at his words. How could this be? I have three other healthy ‘normal’ children. I took my precious baby home from hospital and later received the call confirming her diagnosis. I became hysterical. The other children asked “What’s wrong with Mummy?” as my family and neighbours consoled me. I was on automatic pilot, doing what I was told I needed to do. When I took my baby to her scheduled ECG she was only a few days old; and as I stood at the counter, the receptionist asked me what her name was. I stopped in my tracks. “My baby’s name is Aimee. This is Aimee”. From that moment onwards I was in overdrive. There was no time to feel sorry for myself. My whole existence became dedicated to helping Aimee walk and speak. At two years of age she began her intensive intervention program at a Special Needs Play Group. Aimee then attended a mainstream Preschool close to home, where she could learn from and interact with other children. One day, the Librarian at the Catholic primary school the other children attended, asked me if they knew about Down Syndrome. Although I wasn’t really ready to tell them, I sat the three of them down on the floor, put Aimee in the middle of our circle, and said “I need to talk to you about Aimee. She was born with a disability”. I told them about Down Syndrome and its impact, and how she would do things at a slower pace. Her aimee big brother and sisters asked if we could make Aimee better but I said “No, she’s perfect the way she is”. phone call from Mater Dei saying “We would like to offer Aimee a placement” and I started to cry. When Aimee was just four years of age, she absconded from her Early Intervention Unit during the lunch break. She was found on the busy main road by a student from the nearby High School. When I arrived to collect Aimee that afternoon I was informed about the incident, and the teacher added “It’s your fault for not teaching her”. My daughter had the right to attend school – and to be safe and happy – so I took her to the Catholic primary school my other children attended and said “I need to talk to you about Aimee”. Soon after, she started school there with a Teacher’s Assistant who remains a dear friend to this day. Over the years, Rhonda has mentioned the Living Skills Program several times, but each time I’ve said “Go away, I don’t want to talk to you, maybe next year!” Eventually, however, the family decision was made, and Aimee commenced her weekly placement in Year 11. The Living Skills Program has been a blessing. Aimee just loves being involved and comes home to tell us everything she’s been doing. It’s her opportunity to be independent and away from her family. We absolutely adore Aimee and miss her, but we also want to have her own time with her own friends. Then the worst time of my life loomed as Year 6 was drawing to an end. I started visiting High Schools only to run up against barriers at each one. In the midst of my apprehension, one of the children’s teachers suggested I attend the Mater Dei School information day. I thought “This might be the right place,” but as our home was quite a distance away, I didn’t dare get my hopes up. One night when I was cooking dinner, I received the The National Disability Insurance Scheme is now on the horizon and we believe that Aimee’s funding package will be of great benefit as she progresses from Year 12 to her Transition to Work Program. Who would have thought that my beautiful little baby would surprise and amaze me every day? My dream is for Aimee to be safe, happy and successful in whatever she chooses to be and to do in life. God bless you, Aimee. Tanya Youssef celebration of learning his year Mater Dei celebrated Catholic Schools Week by hosting our annual Celebration of Learning Session T on Friday March 4. More than 160 parents, carers and family members took the opportunity to visit and spend time in their child’s classroom, where students proudly showed their work. It was also a chance to show special features and displays in each classroom and demonstrate some daily learning activities. All guests were treated to morning tea in our Sr Carmella Ritchie Hall, where CEO/Principal Tony Fitzgerald updated them on the initiatives occurring across the school in the areas of curriculum, staff professional learning and Structured Work Placement. It was a wonderful day that helped strengthen the relationships between everyone who has a stake in our school – students, staff, families and members of our wider community. swp focus – workin’ at the sk any senior student at Mater Dei, and they will tell you that one of their favourite parts of school is participating in A the Structured Work Placement (SWP) program. Ask any of their car wash parents or teachers, and they will attest to this being one of the most valuable experiences for students in Years 11 and 12. The SWP program provides students with practical and relevant learning experiences via their HSC subject ‘Work and Community Studies’. The subject provides students with the skills, knowledge, understanding, values and attitudes required for employment, participation and independence in the community. Whilst the community-based learning experiences with host employers are the most visible element of this subject, important school-based components of SWP operate in parallel to complement them. Students practice workplace skills in a supportive setting where they can learn comfortably and gain the confidence to take the leap into more independent scenarios in the community. These school-based supports are conducted in small groups, with familiar staff acting as supervisors in familiar environments, with medical and pastoral care and limited pressure; ensuring that students are equipped to succeed in more challenging environments. The school-based SWP formats change from year to year, depending on the interests, existing skills and goals of current students. This year some of our students are operating a weekly car wash business in the Mater Dei carpark. While learning to use a hose, bucket, cleaning chemicals, sponge, tyre-shine and vacuum may be somewhat useful in the future, the skills being learned are broader and more valuable. The car wash enables students to be increasingly and uniquely challenged each week in organisation, application of safe work practices, leadership, delegation, receiving instructions from supervisors, problem solving, cooperation and teamwork. Many of these skills are honed in the classroom well before they step foot into the carpark! What matters is not the shining of tyres or the polishing of windows, but developing the social skills our students will need as employees in other workplaces. I HAD A SECRET! i there. My name is Caden. I’m now 11 months old. You see, right from conception I had a secret. My Mummy had H all the scans and was told that I was a healthy, growing baby. I was so clever that I even arrived on my due date! My life started out scary, though. I even shocked myself when I couldn’t breathe on my own, as I had swallowed a lot of meconium and had my cord wrapped around my neck three times. It was a few days before my secret would be revealed. I have Down Syndrome – which had a great deal to do with why the wonderful doctors and nurses found it so difficult to intubate me when I was born (my airways were floppy). As I lay in the NICU (Neo-natal Intensive Care Unit) in Nepean Hospital, my Mummy and Daddy were wondering what this diagnosis meant, and what kind of life I would have. Then my Daddy phoned Mater Dei Early Intervention Program (MDEIP) and all their worries, questions, concerns and fears were answered. I met the MDEIP Team when I was six weeks old and I felt like a celebrity there! I believe that I’m the youngest baby ever to enrol at MDEIP. I’ve started my Occupational Therapy and Speech Pathology program and I’m now able to roll around everywhere and to sit up by myself. I have a big brother, Bentley, and he is awesome! I can tell we are going to be great mates. He showers me with toys, kisses, cuddles and won’t leave me alone – but that’s okay because I love him just as much. I’ve heard my Mummy, Lisa, and my Daddy, Jason, say that they want me to have a fulfilled life and that they will encourage me to do whatever I want to do – although I’m not sure what that means. They say that’s what every parent wants for their child. Mummy and Daddy say that I’m a superstar and that I’ve already left a mark on the world and brought so much to everyone who has met me. I just think every day is exciting and challenging and an opportunity for me to do the best I can – and to be Caden Butterworth, Bentley’s little brother, and Lisa and Jason’s younger son. Look out world, here I come! one hot show n Friday March 11 all students from Year 1 to Year 12 visited the Camden Show as part of their Community Access O Program. The day was extremely hot and humid, but our early arrival and departure before lunch helped with meeting and accommodating the conditions for both students and staff. For some of our younger students, the short trip to the showground from school was one of the biggest highlights. For others there were many and varied highlights, including: being called up to dance on the large stage with students from other schools; patting and caring for baby animals; being given free showbags and items from Camden Council and other community services and projects; looking at the inside of a fire truck; saying hello to Mater Dei exstudents who were attending on the day with their day program service providers; or purchasing a cool drink or delicious ice cream whilst watching the busy crowds pass by. One of the biggest overall highlights was the second place ribbon awarded to the combined effort of 2/3 Polding, 3/4 McCabe and 4/5 Gibbons for their fantastic scarecrow in the schools competition. Congratulations! the stations of the cross aster is a very important time in our Church and School calendar, and each year our students celebrate and experience E the events of Holy Week through the poignant re-enactment of the Stations of the Cross. Each class selects a Station and is involved in the dramatisation, gospel reading and reflection passage witnessed by staff, students and our many visitors. The liturgy provides an important opportunity for our students to reflect upon the feelings and actions of Jesus, Mary, the Disciples, Pontius Pilate, the crowd, the two thieves, the soldiers and Simon (who helped Jesus carry the cross), and helps them relate to their own feelings and actions in everyday situations. swimming carnival & infants water fun day T he annual Mater Dei Swimming Carnival was held on Friday March 18 at Mount Annan YMCA Leisure Centre. Students in Years 3—12 had been preparing via their weekly in-school sessions, so excitement was running high. There were house-coloured posters, outfits, streamers, banners and LOTS of cheering, even before the buses departed! The day was a success thanks to the support from the many parents and friends who came to cheer for all students, and the individualised challenges set by our wonderful swimming staff – Jodie, Mark, Donna and Tanya. We are also thankful for the assistance of some remarkable Year 10 and 12 students from Magdalene Catholic High School, who helped out with marshalling and place-getting. Students competed in age races in freestyle and backstroke, and, following from the initiative established last year by our late friend, teacher and colleague, Gillian O’Riordan, selected students competed in two open-age 100m Individual Medley events. Younger students were inspired to see their older peers racing the different strokes. Staff members found great comfort in seeing the effort, the encouragement, and the stepping outside of comfort zones demonstrated by our students. Gill would have been very proud of everyone. Not to miss out on the fun, our Infants students had their own special day back at school! Students in Years K—2 engaged in many water-themed activities, including sensory exploration, art & craft, experimental ‘painting’ with different tools and brushes, building sand sculptures, and creating a variety of bubbles. A fantastic time was had by all. supporter q&a arg and Glenn are great friends (and neighbours!) to Mater Dei. They are both fantastic supporters personally M – with particular passion for the Living Skills Program - and also through their businesses: Fresh Creative Styling and TRN Group. Marg brings her creative flair to our Foundation Dinner, while Glenn is a very active and valuable member of the Race Day committee. We are very grateful for the many and varied ways that this dynamic duo impact upon and embrace Mater Dei, they are highly valued members of our community. Q How did you first become involved with Mater Dei? A Being the schools next door neighbour and Glenn being a St Greg’s “Old Boy”, our paths with the school crossed when Tony Fitzgerald, a former teacher of Glenn’s became principal at Mater Dei. We were at a function one day, Tony was there, and the rest is history. Q What have you learnt since you began your connection with Mater Dei? A How talented the carers, staff and teachers of Mater Dei are. shared learning ur Year 7 students wasted no time in tackling their new challenges for 2016, heading off to Magdalene O Catholic High School on day one of the school year. Students engaged with orientation and peer support activities for their Shared Learning program, with the support of Mater Dei and Magdalene staff along with Year 10 peer support leaders. Shayley and Sylvia, usually quite shy young ladies, were made to feel extremely comfortable and welcome by their peers and leaders from Magdalene, showing enough confidence to participate fully in the ball games! with margaret & glenn fordham Q Do you have a favourite story to tell about Mater Dei? A We had afternoon tea with the students and carers in the Living Skills Program. Visiting them in their homes away from home is such a wonderful experience. We were greeted with excitement and an enthusiasm for life. We were bombarded with questions – the students were genuinely interested in us and our lives. Our favourite part, however, was after the students had showed us around and served us afternoon tea, just kicking back on the lounge watching TV, talking about the newest model iPhone and taking selfies! Q What is your mantra? A Marg: “If you had one shot, or one opportunity, to seize everything you ever wanted, in one moment, would you capture it, or just let it slip away” – Eminem. Q If you could invite five people to dinner, who would they be? A Glenn : One definite for me would be Jack Nicholson. Marg : Morgan Freeman, God, Benson my dog, Clint Eastwood’s sidekick Clyde the Orangutan, and my family. Sarah, Maya and Jake were particularly amazed at the size of the school grounds, and commented how glad they were to have been given a map. Patrick and Noah reported that they were happy to see a few familiar faces from their Shared Learning at St Clare’s last year. As far as first days go, this was an excellent one! Students returned to Mater Dei buzzing, excited, full of stories and asking when they could go again. This great start led to a smooth beginning the following Tuesday for Sport, and every week since. We are optimistic about the opportunities this new venture will provide for our students, and look forward to seeing it evolve beyond Sport for some students, and to growth in their learning as a result. another big hit for n Friday March 11, the 114-strong field of players were led onto the Twin Creeks Golf and Country Club course O by piper Ben Gursback for the 23rd Annual Charity Golf Day. A dedicated golf committee, led by Paul Wakeling, orchestrated another enjoyable and successful fundraising event. Camden Police, patrons of the event, were kept busy as players tested their skills throughout the day with various challenges. Once again golfers were given the chance to win a car from one of the sponsoring car dealers – Wakeling Automotive, Clintons Toyota, Macarthur Automotive, Macarthur Nissan and Hyundai – for a hole-in-one on holes 14 and 17. Unfortunately, the prize remained unclaimed in 2016. Congratulations to the winners of the day, the Sydney Trucks and Machinery team! Compliments also to the teams from PSK Financial Services and Right Way Mortgage Solutions – your golf prowess was most impressive! Players enjoyed a well-deserved post-game lunch and cold beverage, and the gifts from Campbelltown Catholic Club and PainAway were a much-appreciated added touch. Jimmy Smith, THANK YOU TO OUR GOLF DAY SPONSORS & SUPPORTERS MAJOR SPONSORS Campbelltown Catholic Club, Clinton’s Motor Group, Macarthur Automotive, Macarthur Nissan & Wakeling Automotive. SPONSORS Allianz, ANZ, Accurate Design & Drafting, Bradcorp Holdings, Catholic Education office Wollongong, Coca Cola Amatil, CBA, Hillross Macarthur, Hyundai, Ingleburn RSL Club, JMC Academy, Ken Shafer Auto Body, KPMG, Macquarie Leasing, Marsdens Law Group, Max Tegel, MJ Davis Valuations, PSK Financial Services, Right Way Mortgage Solutions, St John’s Park Bowling Club, Sydney Trucks & Machinery, Toyota Financial Services & Valvoline. SUPPORTERS Barry Breen, Caltex, Callaway Golf, Camden LAC, Campbelltown Golf Club, David Conroy, Fairway Golf Tours, Gemelle Restaurant Liverpool, Knapp Real Estate, Macarthur Mercedes Benz golf day back for his second year as MC, kept proceedings flowing whilst adding his own flair to the event. Guest speaker Wendell Sailor, who represented Australia in both rugby league and rugby union, entertained guests with a glimpse into the life of professional athletes and touched on the struggles they sometimes experience. Tony Fitzgerald provided insight to guests on the life as it is experienced by Mater Dei students. He shared his vision of creating a hospitality suite at Mater Dei to help prepare students to gain meaningful employment after leaving school. Tony challenged and encouraged guests to consider a monthly pledge, and it was encouraging and humbling to see so many guests take up this opportunity. School Captains Paige McCueShore and Victor Fineanganofo performed admirably in their roles as ambassadors for Mater Dei students at the event. The event raised in excess of $81,000 (nett) this year. The staff and students of Mater Dei sincerely thank sponsors, volunteers – and indeed the golfers – who worked tirelessly to create this fantastic event. Moss Vale Golf Club, PainAway, PING, PureForm, Rydges Campbelltown & The Cube, Scott Martyn & Highlands Golf Club, Twin Creeks Golf & Country Club, Upstairs@fred’s, Western Suburbs Leagues Club (Campbelltown) Ltd, Wests Tigers & Wollongong Golf Club. VOLUNTEERS Caroline Bambagiotti, Jennifer Dowdy-Pitt, Karen Witherspoon, Kathleen Saunders, Michelle Campbell. Also Alex Edge, Ben Gursback, Carol McVeigh, Colin Mitchell, Emily Dodd, Geoff & Nathan Cook, Jessica Ciccone, Leigh Furnari, Melissa Halls, Michael Wood, Morgan Kitchener & Tiana Velimirovic. GOLF DAY COMMITTEE Paul Wakeling (Chair), Michael Lavorato, Brendan Kinsela, Daniel Waterfield, Neil Williamson, David Abbott, Emily Pascoe-Thomas & Sharon Pascoe-Thomas. PEACE EGG still sweet EGG campaign has just completed its 17th year this year we raised a gross income of over $30,000. OurandPEACE Mater Dei would like to thank everyone involved, especially Caroline Bambagiotti, Neris Taylor and the parents, carers and friends who helped prepare and deliver the PEACE EGG for sale. This wonderful initiative is made possible thanks to the generous support of our volunteers, customers (including many schools and local businesses), Chocolatier Australia, Mark Harrop from A.W. Hollier and Tony Wolf & Son Quality Printers. thank you supporters MATER DEI RACE DAY Kembla Grange Race Course In addition to the funds raised from our Golf Day and our PEACE EGG we have received over $12,000 in donations since December 2015. Thank you to all for your generous support of our programs and projects. Saturday August 13, 2016 Sponsorship packages now available Major Donations $5,500 from the CDF Wollongong towards our school scholarships program. For more information contact the Development Office on 4655 7481 or visit www.materdei.org.au $2,000 from the Mater Dei P&F Association $2,752.25 from Southland Choir $1,000 from State Asphalts NSW Pty Ltd $1,000 from Philippa & William Blomfield OUR THANKS ALSO TO Mater Dei also acknowledges the support of DEEWR – Federal Department of Education, Employment and Workplace Relations in respect of the General Recurrent Grant and Chaplaincy Grant, the NSW Department of Education and Training and the Department of Ageing, Disability and Home Care. If you would like to support the children of Mater Dei into the future by leaving a bequest in your Will please contact the Development Office on 4655 7481 or visit www.materdei.org.au Newsletter Supporters Thanks to contributors to this edition of Mater Dei Matters: Jenny Bartholomew (graphic designer), Tony Wolf & Son Quality Printers and everyone who provided stories and photographs. Foundation Dinner Saturday September 10, 2016 Sponsorship packages now available For more information contact the Development Office on 4655 7481 or visit www.materdei.org.au The Catholic Development Fund, Diocese of Wollongong is a proud financial supporter of Mater Dei School. When placing your investment funds please consider the CDF. While receiving interest you will also be assisting in building and maintaining parishes and schools like Mater Dei. For further information call 1800 047 703 or visit www.cdfwollongong.org.au Disclosure: The Catholic Development Fund, Diocese of Wollongong (CDF) is not subject to the provisions of the Corporation Act 2001 nor has it been examined or approved by the Australian Securities and Investments Commission (ASIC) Deposits with CDF are guaranteed by CDPF Limited, a company established by the Australian Catholic Bishops Conference for this purpose. We welcome your investment with the CDF rather than with a profit oriented commercial organisation as a conscious commitment by you to support the Charitable, Religious and Educational works of the Catholic Church. CDF and the Trustees of the Roman Catholic Church for the Diocese of Wollongong are not prudentially supervised by the Australian Prudential Regulation Authority (APRA); contributions to CDF do not obtain the benefit of the depositor protection provisions of the Banking Act 1959; the CDF provides an opportunity for persons wishing to promote the charitable purpose of the Diocese. More photos of the Mater Dei events featured in this newsletter are available for viewing on our website: www.materdei.org.au i would love to support mater dei’s children! 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