Parish of the
Assumption
Parish Resource
Directory
Churches of the
Parish of the Assumption
 St. Mary Church, Corner of Chestnut
and Third Streets, Dover
 St. Joseph Church, 150 Central Avenue,
Dover
 Chapel of the Nativity, Rt. 9, Barrington
Parish Schedules
Mass Schedule
Saturday:
4 pm at St. Mary
6 pm at Chapel of the Nativity
(Memorial Day through Columbus Day only)
Sunday:
7 am at St. Joseph
9 am at St. Mary
11 am at St. Mary
5 pm at St. Mary (Labor Day through Fathers’ Day only)
Monday - Friday:
8 am at St. Joseph
Holy Day Masses are scheduled at special times. Please refer to the parish bulletin or website
for those dates and times.
Adoration
Wednesdays after the 8 am Mass at St. Joseph
Reconciliation
Saturdays from 2:30 pm to 3:30 pm at St. Mary. To arrange for Reconciliation at another time,
please call the parish office.
Parish Office
Monday:
8 am - 3 pm
Tuesday:
8 am - 4 pm
Wednesday - Friday:
8:30 am - 4 pm
Parish of the Assumption
150 Central Avenue
Dover, NH 03820
603-742-4837
www.assumptiondovernh.org
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Letter from Our Pastor
Dear Friends,
The Parish of the Assumption is a family of believers, who together
strive to live the Gospel of Jesus. As you review this parish ministry resource
and directory of ministry, please take time to look through and see the many
opportunities to serve, to use the gifts you have received. Thank you to all
who participate and serve the community of faith in the various ministries;
we are truly blessed with great, gifted volunteers.
I am so blessed to be a part of this community of faith, which is truly
family for me. Your love, prayers and support are greatly appreciated. My
hope is that this parish ministry resource will help you to get to know one
another and to work together in a ministry. May this new ministry directory
help us to build new friendships and strengthen our relationships with one
another in Christ.
On your behalf, I thank the Pastoral Council for their support and
leadership in developing this new ministry directory. Our parish is blessed
with many volunteers who serve in a variety of ministries. I extend my
sincere gratitude and appreciation to all who give of themselves and serve so
generously. We are ‘the hands and feet of Christ’ in the love we share, as we
serve God and one another. May God continue to bless our efforts as a parish
family, who embraces one another as a community of faith, hope and love.
Yours in Christ,
Fr. Aggie Jean
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Welcome to the Parish of the Assumption
The Roman Catholic Parish of the Assumption is the faith community that was created from
the original parishes of St. Charles Borromeo, St. Joseph, St. Mary, and the Mission Chapel
of the Nativity. Our parish is comprised of the gift of faith and witness of these communities
from their foundation to the present day.
We are the total sum of their efforts, their belief, and their living faith passed down to us. The
true identity of the Parish of the Assumption is not its many campuses, buildings, or materials
from which they were built: the true identity of The Parish of the Assumption is the Body of
Christ that gathers every week. It is the people who create its life and energy, offer its
expressions of faith, and who serve to live out the Gospel mission given to us by Christ. We
are a parish community of approximately 3,000 families who come together from the Dover,
Barrington, and surrounding communities.
We are a parish that consists of members of all ages. We are a growing community that offers
a diversity of prayer and worship experiences, where parishioners bring their own unique
experiences of faith to life. The people of The Parish of the Assumption are dependent
on one another to provide not only the obvious financial support of our parish, but, more
importantly, to support each other in drawing closer to Christ. If you're new to the area,
consider sharing your gifts and talents with the community of The Parish of the Assumption.
May the Risen Christ fill your life with the power of the Holy Spirit, and may Mary, Our Lady
of the Assumption, intercede on your behalf. Peace.
How to Register
You may register in person at the Parish Office (Monday through Friday, 8:30 am - 3 pm),
pick up a registration form at the back of the church or download a registration form from
the website (assumptiondovernh.org), under the eCommunities tab. Registration forms can
be dropped in the collection basket or mailed to the Parish Office.
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Table of Contents
Sacramental Information
Baptism ................................................................................... 7
Reconciliation ........................................................................... 8
First Reconciliation..................................................................... 9
Eucharist ................................................................................. 9
First Holy Communion .............................................................. 10
Marriage................................................................................ 10
Anointing of the Sick................................................................. 11
Faith Formation
and Religious Education
Youth Faith Formation .............................................................. 12
RCIA and RCIC....................................................................... 15
Men of St. Joseph..................................................................... 16
Mothers’ Fellowship ................................................................. 16
Catholic Citizenship .................................................................. 16
Run for God ........................................................................... 17
Bible Study............................................................................. 17
Cursillo ................................................................................. 18
Symbolon .............................................................................. 19
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Liturgical Ministries
Extra-Ordinary Ministers of Communion ....................................... 20
Ministers of the Word ............................................................... 21
Altar Servers........................................................................... 21
Masters of Ceremony ................................................................ 22
Greeters and Hospitality, Ushers .................................................. 22
Multi-Media Presentations .......................................................... 23
Music Ministry ........................................................................ 23
Wedding Coordinator ............................................................... 23
Parish Ministries
Coffee and Pastry ..................................................................... 24
Art and Environment Committee ................................................. 24
Respect Life ........................................................................... 24
Fundraisers ............................................................................ 25
Pastoral Care Ministries
Mercy Meals ........................................................................... 26
Our Daily Bread Food Pantry ...................................................... 26
Homebound and Facilities (Nursing Home/Assisted Living) Ministries .... 27
Dover Friendly Kitchen ............................................................. 28
Prison Ministry........................................................................ 28
Kairos Prison Ministry ............................................................... 29
Family Reception Center at Strafford County Jail .............................. 29
Symbols of the Church
........................................................................................... 30
Organizations
Knights of Columbus ................................................................ 31
American Heritage Girls ............................................................ 32
Boy Scouts of America ............................................................... 32
Parish Pastoral Council
........................................................................................... 33
Parish Finance Council
........................................................................................... 33
Cemeteries
........................................................................................... 34
How to Financially Support Your Parish
........................................................................................... 35
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Parish Contact Information
Pastor
Fr. Agapit Jean, Jr. 603-742-4837 [email protected]
Seacoast Deanery
Chaplain
Fr. Bartholomew
Okonkwo
603-742-4837 [email protected]
Religious Education: Ileana Hoeing
Grades K-5
603-742-4837 [email protected]
Religious Education: Chris Fortin
Grades 6-8
603-742-4837 [email protected]
Religious Education: Sharon Ranalli
Grades 9-12,
Life Teen Ministry
603-742-4837 [email protected]
RCIA/RCIC
Coordinator
Nancy Watkins
[email protected]
Parish Pastoral
Council
Denise Speechley,
Chair
[email protected]
Finance Council
Joe Covert, Chair
[email protected]
Parish Business
Manager
Mike Kazmierczak
[email protected]
Bulletin
CheChe Dupuis
603-742-4837 [email protected]
Administrative
Assistant
Linda Adamo
603-742-4837 [email protected]
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Sacramental Information
Baptism
Holy Baptism is the basis of the whole Christian life, the gateway to life in the Spirit (vitae spiritualis ianua),
and the door which gives access to the other sacraments.Through Baptism, we are freed from sin and reborn as
sons of God; we become members of Christ, are incorporated into the Church and made sharers in her mission:
"Baptism is the sacrament of regeneration through water and in the word." - Catechism of the Catholic
Church
Congratulations!
We celebrate with you the gift of life you have received in your child.
Just as you will provide for the best of life's opportunities for your
child, we rejoice that it includes providing the best for their spiritual
life that begins in the Sacrament of Baptism.
We have provided this information to assist you in preparing for the
celebration of the sacrament, and the Baptism life of your child.
Requirements for the Celebration of Baptism
By Church law, a priest or deacon can only celebrate the Baptism of an individual who is a part of
the parish family they are called to shepherd. Registration with the Parish of the Assumption is
therefore a required first step if it has not already occurred.
For families who have moved or recently registered with the parish, a letter must be obtained from
their former parish indicating that they are practicing Catholics.
For families from other parish communities who wish to have the Baptism take place here, a letter
of permission from their own parish community is required.
Parents must attend religious instruction ("catechesis") from the Church concerning the
responsibilities of Catholic parenting. We offer this instruction at the Parish of the Assumption on
a regular basis.
Baptismal dates are scheduled after the catechesis has been attended. This helps to avoid
postponements due to complications that could prevent parents from being able to attend the
scheduled catechesis.
About Parental Responsibilities
By Church requirement, parents must give their assurance that the child will be given every
benefit of Catholic upbringing. The responsibility of raising the child in the ways of the faith begins
immediately with Baptism and extends all the way to adulthood.
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If parents are not able to make this commitment to the Church community, they should consider
delaying the celebration of Baptism until they are prepared to undertake these responsibilities.
Choosing Godparents
Godparents are chosen by the birth parents to assist them in their Christian parenting. They
should, therefore, be models of Christian faith and examples of prayer, worship, and Christian
practice.
Only one godmother and one godfather can be chosen. The ideal is to have two Catholic
godparents; however, it is acceptable that one godparent is of the Catholic faith while the other is
of the Christian faith. Both must be active in their faith. Catholic godparents need to have been
confirmed and be practicing members of the Church.
If godparents are chosen who are not members of the Parish of the Assumption, whether they are
Catholic or otherwise, we require that each godparent obtain a letter or Certificate of Eligibility
from their pastor stating that they are members in good standing of their church.
When Are Baptisms Celebrated?
Baptisms are celebrated by appointment.
The Baptism Request form is available at assumptiondovernh.org (ECommunity/Forms Online/
Baptism Request). After completion, the form may be mailed to or dropped off at the Parish
Office or dropped in the collection basket.
The pastor will assist you in scheduling your catechesis, and, upon completion, the date of the
Baptism.
Reconciliation
Through the sacraments of Christian initiation, man receives the new life of Christ. How we carry this life "in
earthen vessels," and it remains "hidden with Christ in God." We are still in our "earthly tent," subject to
suffering, illness, and death.This new life as a child of God can be weakened and even lost by sin. The Lord
Jesus Christ, physician of our souls and bodies, who forgave the sins of the paralytic and restored him to bodily
health, has willed that his Church continue, in the power of the Holy Spirit, his work of healing and salvation,
even among her own members. This is the purpose of the two sacraments of healing: the sacrament of Penance
and the sacrament of Anointing of the Sick. - Catechism of the Catholic Church
The Sacrament of Reconciliation is offered regularly
on Saturdays from 2:30 to 3:30 pm at St. Mary Church.
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Anyone wishing to celebrate the Sacrament of Reconciliation at a time other than the scheduled
Saturday afternoon is invited to call the Parish Office and 603-742-4837.
Additionally, our parish normally celebrates a penance service during Advent and Lent. Dates
and times will be posted in the parish bulletin.
The Sacrament of Reconciliation, also known as Confession or Penance, is a sacrament of healing
and an encounter with Jesus Christ. The sacrament is necessary to our growth, healing, and
strength as Christians and disciples of the Lord.
First Reconciliation
The first experience of the Sacrament of Penance is celebrated during the second grade year as
part of the preparation process before receiving the First Eucharist. Children in both Catholic
and public schools are prepared for the celebration of the sacrament here in the parish. Our
parish offers a variety of ways to assist a family in helping their child prepare for the sacrament.
More information about the Reconciliation Program is available by contacting the Religious
Education Director at the Parish Office.
Eucharist
The Holy Eucharist completes Christian initiation. Those who have been raised
to the dignity of the royal priesthood by Baptism and configured more deeply
to Christ by Confirmation participate with the whole community in the Lord's
own sacrifice by means of the Eucharist. “At the Last Supper, on the night he
was betrayed, our Savior instituted the Eucharistic sacrifice of his Body and
Blood. This he did in order to perpetuate the sacrifice of the cross throughout
the ages until he should come again, and so to entrust to his beloved Spouse,
the Church, a memorial of his death and resurrection: a sacrament of love, a
sign of unity, a bond of charity, a Paschal banquet ‘in which Christ is
consumed, the mind is filled with grace, and a pledge of future glory is given to us.’” - Catechism of the
Catholic Church
Holy Mass is celebrated daily at the parish. Please consult the Parish Schedule page or website
for a list of times and locations.
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First Holy Communion
Preparation for First Holy Communion is normally celebrated in the second grade. Various
options exist to assist families in the preparation of their child for this
sacrament.
Please refer to the Faith Formation and Religious Education pages. All
children in Catholic as well as public schools are prepared within the
parish community and must participate in the second grade First
Eucharist preparation.
First Holy Communion is normally celebrated in the month of May.
Marriage
“The matrimonial covenant, by which a man and a woman establish between themselves a partnership of the
whole of life, is by its nature ordered toward the good of the spouses and the procreation and education of
offspring; this covenant between baptized persons has been raised by Christ the Lord to the dignity of a
sacrament.” - Catechism of the Catholic Church #1601
Jesus answered,‘Have you not read that the one who made them at the beginning “made them male and female”,
and said,“For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall
become one flesh”? So they are no longer two, but one flesh.Therefore what God has joined together, let no one
separate.’ (Matt. 19:4-6)
Congratulations on the decision to celebrate a commitment of life with each
other in the Sacrament of Marriage. This is truly a major decision for you and
your future. Weddings are a special time of joy and promise for you, your
families, and the entire parish community. Our Catholic faith tradition tells us
that as the bride and groom administer the sacrament to each other, before the
official witness of the Church, it is a time which foreshadows the great
marriage feast of the Lord in the Resurrection and eternal life.
In view of this religious significance, above and beyond the legality of marriage,
it is understandable that celebrating this sacrament in a faith context and church
setting must be entered into with prayerful planning. As a Christian
community, we want to provide you with the direction necessary to help you
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attain your goal - not only a wonderful wedding day, but a happy and fulfilling life-long
sacramental marriage.
Therefore, we ask that you contact the Parish Office at 603-742-4837 to obtain a copy of our
policies for weddings at the Parish of the Assumption.
Anointing of the Sick
By the sacred anointing of the sick and the prayer of the priests the whole Church commends those who are ill
to the suffering and glorified Lord, that He may raise them up and save them and indeed she exhorts them to
contribute to the good of the People of God by freely uniting themselves to the Passion and death of
Christ. (CCC 1499)
"Is any one among you sick? He should call the elders of the church to pray over him and anoint him with
oil in the name of the Lord. And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise
him up. If he has sinned, he will be forgiven " (James 5:14-15)
Any baptized person who has a serious illness, or who feels the need of strength and support
from the Lord, can receive this sacrament: it is not
necessarily restricted to those who are dying. The
Anointing of the Sick is often combined with the
Sacraments of Reconciliation and Eucharist. These give
the person additional spiritual strength and grace. If the
person is near death, the Eucharist is called “Viaticum”
which means “food for the journey." It strengthens them
for their journey home to God.
Please call the parish office to make arrangements for this sacrament. It can be administered
anywhere (at home, in a hospital, in a nursing home, or in church), and at any time.
Because of privacy laws, the priests of the parish are no longer allowed to call and make general inquiry as to
whether a member of the parish is currently in the hospital or nursing home. Often, we can only find out
about the sacramental need of a patient if a family member calls and informs the parish of their confinement.
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Faith Formation and Religious Education
Youth Faith Formation
The goal of The Office of Youth Faith Formation is to foster a closer relationship with the Triune
God (Father, Son, and Holy Spirit) and to help children and teens grow in their faith within the
larger parish community.
We offer a variety of program models to meet the diverse needs of the families in our parish,
both in public and Catholic schools, and to provide opportunities for life-long spiritual formation
and growth. Families select which program model best fits their style and needs. All program
models, grades kindergarten through high school, use Sadlier curriculum and materials. The
following is offered as an overview; please register through the Quick Links on the parish website
(assumptiondovernh.org).
Grades K, 1, 3, 4, 5
Children attending the Classroom Model meet each Sunday at St. Mary’s Rectory to complete
lessons and materials with a catechist and assistant.
Children participating in the Family Model are taught by their parents at home with materials
provided by the program. They and their parents also attend five Family Community Events that
include fellowship, refreshments, and faith enrichment. They participate in activities that are
designed to meet the needs of all children in the program and to help the parents and students
build community.
Sacrament Preparation - Grade 2 or older
Children preparing for First Reconciliation (in the fall) and First Communion (in the spring)
must have completed at least one year of a Catholic religious education program OR one year of
Catholic school AND previously received the sacrament of Baptism.
Children attending the Classroom Model meet each Sunday at St. Mary’s Rectory, by grade level,
to complete lessons and materials with a catechist and assistant. Parents and children attend two
Sacrament Preparation Retreats for each sacrament.
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Children participating in the Family Model are taught by
their parents at home with materials provided by the
program. Parents and children attend two Sacrament
Preparation Retreats for each sacrament.
Older children (4th grade and over) and teens preparing
for First Reconciliation and First Communion are grouped
by age and participate in a program four Wednesday
evenings.
Grades 6-8
The Edge ministry program for youth aims at not only teaching the truths of the Catholic faith
but also guides every youth toward experiencing the unconditional love of Jesus Christ. This
program meets every Monday evening at St. Mary’s Hall.
Children may participate in the Family Model, taught by parents at home with materials provided
by the program. Children and parents meet four times a year with the program coordinator to
review what has been studied.
Bridges to Faith - Ages 8-11
This program is designed for children who have had little or no formal religious education. The
goal of this program is to help children understand what it means to be Catholic, spark a desire
to further investigate their faith, and grow in their relationship with God.
Confirmation Preparation - Grades 9-12
Students who are registered and active in the Parish, who have
already received the sacraments of Baptism, First Reconciliation,
and First Eucharist, and who wish to receive the sacrament of
Confirmation attend this two-year program. This is a concentrated
program featuring concise teaching, deep faith sharing and
development, and an invitation to deepen their relationship with
God.
During this two-year program, students attend four evening
programs, five Life Nights, and two overnight retreats.
Life Teen - Grades 9 - 12
Life Teen has developed a dynamic model to help Youth Ministers and adult program leaders,
known as Core members, execute comprehensive Catholic youth ministry in a parish setting. In
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the program, youth typically attend a Sunday Mass specifically intended for them, which is
also often attended by teens' families and other interested parishioners.
Music is focused on teens and teens are invited to be trained in approved liturgical ministries
such as lectors, ushers, altar servers, greeters, and extra-ordinary ministers of the Eucharist.
Following Mass, a "Life Night" is held from 6 pm -8:15 pm which incorporates teaching in
Catholic beliefs, interactive activities, and socialization. A meal is served as the opening for
each Life Night, facilitating community building and relational ministry. The Life Night
captures the teens’ hearts and minds in a relevant dynamic ways, with our goal always being
“Leading Teens Closer to Christ”.
Every Life Teen program is encouraged to host two overnight weekend retreats, and we offer
three retreats from which families may choose. We have many teens who attend every Life
Night and every retreat we offer all four years of their high school career. It is a great way for
teens to see they aren’t the only Catholics around!
Above all, the Parish of the Assumption Youth Faith Formation Program strives to assist
families as we all learn to “live a life of faith, hope and charity that is nourished through communion
with Jesus in the Liturgy, above all in the Eucharist” . (Feed My Sheep, Diocese of Manchester, NH)
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ARE YOU . . .
•Interested in becoming Catholic?
•A Catholic who wishes to receive Confirmation and/or First Eucharist?
•Interested in helping someone you know become fully initiated in the Catholic faith?
Then RCIA is for you!
The Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults (RCIA) is a program for adults who desire to become fully
initiated members of the Catholic Church. The goal of the RCIA process is full, conscious, and active
participation in an exciting life with Jesus Christ within His Catholic Church.
RCIA helps adults:
•grow in their relationship with God,
•become familiar with Catholic teachings and practices,
•get acquainted with the faith community, and
•get involved in service within the community as a whole.
A person who is considering the possibility of becoming a Catholic, or who simply wishes to learn more
about the Catholic Church, will find no better way to do this than to become a part of the RCIA Process.
Our Monday evening sessions begin with dinner at 6:00 pm. Our teaching sessions begin promptly at
6:30 pm and close promptly at 8:00 pm. They usually begin with a song, a prayer, a scripture reading,
and a presentation which includes group discussion followed by a closing prayer. A few months after
beginning the RCIA process, each inquirer is assigned a sponsor. The RCIA sponsor is a practicing
Catholic, usually a member of this parish, who goes through the sessions and rites (ceremonies) of the
process with the inquirer, serving as a friend and mentor. The group also attends Sunday Mass together
and, in a break-out session, studies the scripture readings and Gospel proclaimed each week. The Sunday
Mass times rotate each month so as to introduce the group to the parish community and to help inquirers
decide where they feel most at home for the celebration after being fully initiated into the faith.
Conversion is a serious matter of conscience: it is a matter of rejecting who and what we were to take on
a new spiritual identity; it is not rejecting a bad life and opting for a new and good one. To convert is to
grow in one’s understanding of one’s relationship with God and to act upon that new understanding when
one’s conscience compels one to do so.
So are YOU ready for the journey?
If you have further questions or would like to sign up, please contact the Parish Office at (603)742-4837
or Nancy Watkins at [email protected].
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Men of St. Joseph
James Fortin
603-749-8805
[email protected]
The Men of St. Joseph are a group of men committed to living a life of
conversion, integrity, and honesty, acting as a witness for Jesus Christ in daily
life, work, social, parish, and family settings. Through monthly prayer
meetings and annual pilgrimages, the men of this ministry aim to emulate St.
Joseph and become better husbands, fathers, sons, and brothers. Meetings are
at St. Joseph Church at 8 pm on the first Friday of each month.
Mothers’ Fellowship
Louise Tower
603-343-5027
[email protected]
This program is for ALL mothers, including mothers of babies,
toddlers, and teens; grandmothers, step-mothers, adoptive
mothers; ALL mothers! Mothers’ Fellowship meets at St. Mary’s
Parish Hall every other Wednesday, from 9 am to 10:30 am.
Catholic Citizenship Committee
Phyllis Woods
749-2177
[email protected]
The purpose and goal of the Catholic Citizenship Committee is to "Educate
and activate parishioners in matters of public policy according to the teaching
of the Church on all issues of Catholic social teaching."
Upcoming meetings will be posted on the website and in the parish bulletin
and are open to all interested parishioners.
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Run for God
Molly Wade
[email protected]
mollywade.wordpress.com
Run for God is a 12-week fitness program that embraces every aspect of a
person’s health - physical, mental, and spiritual - and trains each participant to
run a 5K road race. Participants meet each Saturday morning from January
through April at St. Mary Church, 9 am to 11 am. During the first hour, a
speaker presents a sports-related or faith-related topic; the group trains
together during the second hour. Participants are invited to run or walk,
depending on their health and fitness level. There is no age limit. There is a fee
for the program book.
Bible Study
Claude Malo
603-742-6170
The Constitution of the Sacred Liturgy promulgated by the Second Vatican
Council provided the Church with the Lectionary: the text used each day at
the celebration of Mass. It is comprised of a three-year cycle in which the
Church unfolds the whole mystery of Christ, not only from His birth until
His ascension, but also as reflected in the early Church in the days
following Pentecost, and the expectation of the Lord's blessed return.
The homilies at Mass give us great insight into the meaning of Scripture and its implications for our
lives today, and yet the Scriptures contain so much more than can be shared in that one context.
The Bible Study group explores the upcoming Sunday readings, using commentaries, and then
members share their own insights.
When Philip encountered an Ethiopian who was reading the scriptures, he asked him, "Do you understand what
you are reading?" The Ethiopian looked up from the book of Isaiah and answered, "How can I, unless someone
instructs me?" (Acts 8:31)
The Bible is not always easy to read with understanding. It not only requires some attention and
effort, but it may even require a little help. Come join us! Bible Study meets on Tuesday evenings,
from 6 to 7:30 pm, at St. Mary’s Rectory.
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Cursillo
James Fortin
603-749-8805
[email protected]
Cursillo (pronounced kur-see-yo) Christianity is a movement that, through a method of its own tries
to, and through God's grace manages to, enable the essential realities of the Christian to come to
life in the uniqueness, originality, and creativity of each person. In becoming aware of their
potential and while accepting their limitations, they exercise their freedom by their conviction,
strengthen their will with their decision, to propitiate friendship in virtue of their constancy in
both their personal and community life.
The 3-Day Cursillo Weekend
Approximately three dozen men or women (the weekends are not co-ed) meet from Thursday
evening until Sunday evening with a team of two priests (or one priest and a deacon or a nun).
Fifteen talks are given, ten by laypersons and five by the spiritual directors. The talks lead to
lively small groups discussions.
The three days are interspersed with music, sharing, laughter, prayer, reflection, and silence as
you discover what it means to say, "We are the body of Christ." Mass is celebrated each day
(except Thursday) as well as morning and evening prayers.
There is nothing dull about a Cursillo weekend. It is a joyous workshop in the fundamentals of
our beautiful Catholic faith where everyone learns by experiencing a living community. It is an
encounter with Jesus Christ.
Benefits
It is difficult to explain what the Cursillo does for a person, or what happens over a weekend.
Since each person comes to the Cursillo from a different place in time and a different relationship
with God, it is understandable that each will respond differently to the material presented and the
experience of community living in a Christian atmosphere.
For some, it is a total turnabout in their lives; for others, it is a grand awakening; for yet others, it
is an enrichment of what they have already known and have been living.
We do not promise anything or judge anyone - we simply offer the program and rely on the grace
of God and the openness of the individual to produce its benefits.
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"What Is Expected of Me?"
There is no specific response expected of you. Just be open to what happens. Simply take a fresh
look at what the Church has always taught - the Good News - the miraculous and joyous
discovery of Christ's endless love.
You are not expected to know or do more, just reflect on being more! T here are no tricks or
hidden mysteries only revealed to the initiated. If there are any surprises, that is only because
the Christian life is full of surprises.
You may visit http://www.nhcursillo.org for more information.
Symbolon
David Deutsch
603-767-4320
[email protected]
Whether you are looking to grow in your faith or just learning about the Catholic Church for
the first time, Symbolon will take you through a journey into the timeless beauty and truths of
the Catholic faith and reveal God’s incredible love for us - the story of our salvation.
The ten sessions of Symbolon - Knowing the Faith will take you through the Creed, or statement of
beliefs that Catholics all around the world profess at every Mass. Filmed on location in Rome,
the Holy Land, Calcutta, and in the Augustine Institute studios in Denver, Symbolon is not just
about an intellectual understanding of Catholicism, but a journey of faith, discovery, and
friendship with Christ that will make a lasting impression on our lives. Featuring dozens of
nationally-know teachers, Symbolon unveils the beauty and richness of the Catholic story and
brings us into a personal encounter with Jesus Christ, his plan for our lives, and how we can live
this plan more deeply in our daily lives.
The Symbolon group meets at St. Mary Parish Hall on Thursdays from 6:30 pm to 8:00 pm.
There is a fee for materials.
You may also visit www.symboloncatholic.org.
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Liturgical Ministries
Fr. Aggie
[email protected]
742-4837
Extra-Ordinary Ministers of Communion
"In every celebration of the Eucharist, there should be a sufficient number of ministers of Holy
Communion so that it may be distributed in a reverent and orderly manner. Bishops, priests
and deacons distribute Holy Communion in virtue of their office as ordinary ministers of the
Body and Blood of the Lord."
Norms for the Distribution and Reception of Holy Communion Under Both Kinds for the Dioceses of the
United States of America [NDRHC] (August, 2002), no. 26 and cf. GIRM no. 162 and NRHC, no. 28
When the size of the congregation or the incapacity of the bishop, priest, or deacon requires it,
the celebrant may be assisted by other bishops, priests, or deacons. If such ordinary ministers
of Holy Communion are not present, "the priest may call upon extra-ordinary ministers to
assist him, i.e., duly instituted acolytes or even other faithful who have been deputed for this
purpose. In case of necessity, the priest may also depute suitable faithful for this single occasion
(GIRM 162)."
Extra-ordinary Ministers of Holy Communion should
receive sufficient spiritual, theological, and practical
preparation to fulfill their role with knowledge and
reverence. In all matters they should follow the guidance of
the diocesan bishop (Norms for the Distribution and
Reception of Holy Communion Under Both Kinds for the
Dioceses of the United States of America, NDRHC, no.
28). When recourse is had to Extra-ordinary Minister of
Holy Communion, especially in the distribution of Holy
Communion under both kinds, their number should not be increased beyond what is required
for the orderly and reverent distribution of the Body and Blood of the Lord. In all matters such
Extra-ordinary Ministers of Holy Communion should follow the guidance of the diocesan
bishop (IBID).
All ministers of Holy Communion should show the greatest reverence for the Most Holy
Eucharist by their demeanor, their attire, and the manner in which they handle the consecrated
bread or wine. Should there be any mishap--as when, for example, the consecrated wine is
spilled from the chalice--then the affected "area . . . should be washed and the water poured
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into the sacrarium [GIRM, 280]." (NDRHC, 29).
The mission of the Extra-Ordinary Minister of Eucharist is to assist the celebrant at Mass in the
distribution of the Eucharist and Precious Blood. Contact us if you share an interest in serving
in this important and helpful ministry! Upon acceptance on the local level, the candidate is
presented to the Bishop for final approval. In our Diocese, an Extra-Ordinary Minister of
Communion is typically commissioned to serve in this ministry for a period of three years,
renewable by request to and acceptance by the Bishop.
This ministry as an Extra-Ordinary Minister of Communion at the Parish of the Assumption is
divided into two parts. A minister can participate in one or both parts of the ministry.
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Church: This part of the ministry is the one in which most people are familiar. The
ministers assist the celebrant at Mass distributing the Eucharist and Precious Blood
(consecrated wine). There are ministers at all of our weekend Masses and daily Masses,
holy days and special occasions as needed.
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Homebound and Facilities Ministries: This part of the ministry brings the Eucharist to a
member of the parish who is sick or homebound. This can be a long-term or short-term
assignment based upon the needs of the recipient. Once a need is communicated to the
parish office, the parish office notifies the coordinator who then makes an initial call to the
recipient. Then a minister is assigned to the parish member. The minister then calls the
recipient and arranges to bring the Eucharist at agreed-upon times.
Ministers of the Word
Ministers of the Word proclaim the Word of God at all Sunday, Holy Day, and daily Masses, as
well as other liturgical celebrations. Training, evenings of reflection, and workshops are held
throughout the year. We welcome our confirmed youth to become lectors. You must have the
ability to read in a deliberate, slow, and clear voice so that the Word comes alive for those
listening. Lectors read at Sunday liturgy about once a month.
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Altar Servers
Being an altar server is serving God and His people at Mass by assisting the priest in the
celebration of the liturgy. Members of this ministry serve at
Masses, weddings, funerals (if needed), Holy Days of Obligation,
and other Masses and services. Servers are typically scheduled at
their regularly-attended Mass and placed on a rotating schedule.
Training and on-going formation are provided. Boys and girls
who have received their First Holy Communion and are at least
11 years old are invited to become Altar Servers.
Masters of Ceremony
Liturgy is the work of the people. It is our prayer and ritual. The proper celebration of the
Mass and other rituals involves the assistance of servers. The senior servers will serve as the
coordinator of the servers, the Master of Ceremony. Normally, older servers - those
attending high school - will be invited to serve as the MC-Master of Ceremony, especially
during the special liturgies of the church.
Greeters and Hospitality, Ushers
These parishioners provide a welcoming and comfortable atmosphere for those who come to
hear the Word of God and share in the Eucharist. The goals are to put people at ease, answer
questions, assist in seating, secure a family to take up the gifts, direct the procession of the
assembly during the Communion rite, be aware of handicapped individuals who need the
Eucharist brought to them, and distribute the bulletins after the Mass. Members of this group
are assigned to a Mass of their choice and must have the ability to arrive twenty minutes early
and remain approximately ten minutes after Mass. All adults, youth, and teenagers are
welcome to join this ministry.
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Multi-Media Assistant
As a parish we are blessed with new technology, via the projectors and screens mounted in
the sanctuary. With this projection capability the music words are projected on the large
screens to allow the congregation to sing along with the choir as part of our Liturgy. At
times these projectors and screens can also allow us to give a closer look at special
celebrations like baptisms. As the multi-media assistant you help the congregation to enter
more fully into the celebration of the Mass.
Music Ministry
Amanda Russell
749-1503
[email protected]
Tom Kovalcik
644-7617
[email protected]
The spiritual environment is enriched through music and song. To
be a member of a choir, you must be able to match pitch and
commit to the majority of rehearsals and liturgies. Cantors must
have the ability to learn music on their own and attend additional training and
workshops as necessary. Instrumentalists are welcome and must demonstrate a
proficiency in their instrument.
Wedding Coordinator
The wedding coordinator assists the bridal party in the liturgical preparation for their
wedding event. They must be available on Friday evenings to lead wedding parties
through rehearsal and assist the same parties on their wedding day.
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Parish Ministries
Coffee and Pastry
Would you like to get to know the people you pray with every Sunday? Not just by sight but by
name? Then the opportunity awaits you!
Just come into the Parish Hall after the 9:00 am or 11:00 am Sunday Mass, grab a pastry,
donut, cup of coffee, tea, or juice, and enjoy an informal time of fellowship with other
parishioners. Make new friends. Become reacquainted with old ones.
Volunteer: Maybe you would be willing to help in the hospitality of the Sunday Morning
Coffee and Pastry. If you are interested in being part of our Coffee and Pastry ministry, contact
us or see one of the hospitality ministers at the Sunday morning event.
See you there!
Art & Environment Committee
Nancy Wood
[email protected]
749-0423
This Committee creates beautiful and peaceful environments in which to
pray and celebrate the liturgical events of the Parish of the Assumption. This
ministry has a need for a wide variety of talents, and we truly have something
for everyone, whether you are interested in taking on the responsibility of a
specific project or just willing to help when you’re able.
Respect Life
Paul McManus
[email protected]
The deepest element of God’s commandment to protect life is a requirement to show reverence and love for
every person and life of every person. Pope John Paul II
To respect life means to cherish and protect life, from the moment of
conception until it reaches its natural end.
The Respect Life Ministry promotes the sanctity of all human life by
providing education and information, prayer support, and community
outreach.
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Fundraisers
Irene Couture
749-1855
Turkey Dinners
Turkey dinners are held the second Saturday of September, October, November, January,
February, March, and April. These events are open to the public and are a wonderful
way to meet and socialize with fellow parishioners and community members.
Volunteers: Friday: prepare vegetables and carve turkeys. Saturday: prepare food,
serve food, host and bus tables, clean up. Home dessert bakers are also needed.
Yard Sale
This annual event is held on two consecutive Saturdays in June. We look forward to
receiving new and gently used items for this fundraiser.
Volunteers: Assist at donation drop off; store large items; sort and price items; work at
a designated sale area; box and deliver unsold items to charities; general clean up.
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Pastoral Care Ministries
Mercy Meals
Pam Heller
332-7209
For as Christ's sufferings overflow to us, so through Christ does our encouragement also overflow.
-2 Corinthians 1:5
Losing a loved one is a very traumatic experience. Gathering for a meal can help a decedent's
family through their time of grief. In conjunction with a funeral or memorial service held at the
Parish of the Assumption, at the request of the family, our Mercy Meal Ministry will help plan,
organize and host a reception for the family and friends who have gathered to remember and
celebrate the life of the deceased.
Often families do not have a place to gather that will accommodate the number of people who
might wish to show their loving support.
Volunteer: If you are interested in serving on the Mercy Meal Ministry, please contact us so that
we can assist you in becoming an active part of this corporal work of mercy.
Our Daily Bread Food Pantry
Sheila Cronin
[email protected]
742-4837
Our Daily Bread Food Pantry is serviced by a committed group of compassionate and selfsacrificing volunteers who provide the ministry sharing the love of God by feeding the hungry.
Open three days a week, and located at St. Joseph Church, volunteers provide for the
distribution of foods that are primarily the gift and donation of the members of the Parish of the
Assumption. Each month brown bag Sunday results in an overwhelming
contribution of food and basic life supplies that serve those who are for a
time having difficulty making ends meet. At Our Daily Bread Food
Pantry, we serve our brothers and sisters by not only filling their
stomachs but helping them survive.
Volunteer: Volunteers are always needed. Please contact the office so we can help connect you
with the volunteer staff and assist you in becoming a part of this powerful work of mercy.
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Homebound Ministry
Sandy Tobin
[email protected]
Facilities (Nursing Home and Assisted Living) Ministry
Louise LeCompte
[email protected]
Homebound Ministry and Facilities Ministry are the work of a committed group of Extraordinary Ministers who reach out to the sick, the hospitalized, and those confined to institutions
of health care.
On a weekly basis ministers bring Holy Communion to our homebound parishioners and to
senior residences in the parish, to include their private homes, assisted living facilities, or nursing
home facilities. We also have ministers who make regular visits to the local hospitals.
What does it mean to be an Extra-ordinary Minister to the Sick? Ministers are prepared to offer
a Communion service and to bring the Eucharist respectfully and compassionately for those they
visit. In doing so, they share with those who can no longer come to the table of our family in
faith, the Eucharist, bringing them comfort and strength during a time of illness. The people we
visit are grateful for not only our visit, but the opportunity to share in us and for the Lord. In this
ministry we receive far more than we give. Ministers are chosen for their integrity, their
empathy, their humility and their devotion to the Eucharist and our homebound.
Volunteer: We can always benefit from the blessing of others who wish to become trained as
Extra-ordinary Ministers to the Sick. If you would like to become involved please contact the
office so we can help you begin this powerful ministry.
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Dover Friendly Kitchen
Donna Coriaty
742-8559
[email protected]
The Dover Cooperative Ministries-Dover Friendly Kitchen is a community soup kitchen offering
a supper meal on Tuesdays and Thursdays from 5-6 pm at St. Thomas’ Episcopal Church’s Ervin
Hall on Locust Street in Dover. The DFK relies on financial donations from individuals, faith
communities, and businesses for support.
The focus of the Dover Friendly Kitchen is not only serving a supper meal to those in need of
this service, but also offers hospitality. Meals are served in a dignified manner to seated guests.
The emphasis is on a community coming together to share a meal. All are welcome.
The Parish of the Assumption is blessed to have two teams serving at the DFK: one serves on the
4th Thursday of each month and the other on the 2nd Tuesday of every other month.
Prison Ministry
Edward Phelan
207-676-8557
[email protected]
The Strafford County Jail houses local, state, federal, immigration, and other inmates on hold
for anywhere from a matter of days to months or years. Pastoral Visitors go to the jail weekly
and visit inmates who are interested in attending a Catholic service. They are provided Mass
readings, homilies, and other items of interest; the volunteers answer questions and establish
relationships. In order to become a Pastoral Visitor, volunteers must have a spotless personal
record, which is checked through the state and federal system and cleared by the administration; must attend an orientation class; will be evaluated by the prison’s Spiritual Board; and
must be a Eucharistic Minister.
While the Prison Ministry is not for everyone, it is consistent with our Lord’s statement “When
did we see you ill or in prison and visit you?” (Matthew 26:39). Prison ministry reminds us of
the all-too-true statement “There but for the grace of God go I.”
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Kairos Prison Ministry
Tony Coriaty
742-8559
Sheila Cronin
742-4837 or 749-4423
Kairos Prison Ministry is an international, Christ-centered, ecumenical, lay-led organization.
Our mission is to bring Christ’s love and forgiveness to incarcerated individuals and their
families. W ell-organized trained men and women present an introductory weekend described
as a “short course in Christianity”. The teams, both clergy and laypersons, work with the
Chaplain who selects inmates to attend. A well-organized, on-going, follow-up program is the
heart of the ministry.
An additional program, Kairos Outside, is designed for women whose lives have been impacted
by incarceration. These women “do time” along with their incarcerated loved ones. The
weekend is presented at a retreat center by loving, Christian women.
This organization is a 501(c)3, non-profit, accepting donations and grants, and is presented to
inmates and family members at no charge.
Family Reception Center
at Strafford County Jail
Sr. Helene Higgins
332-7701
Donna Coriaty
742-8559
[email protected]
The Family Reception Center strives to provide a comfortable, trusting, and supportive
environment where inmates’ families and friends may come to receive validation, support, and
resources that may lessen the negative impact experienced through incarceration. The Center is
staffed solely by volunteers and supported through donations and grants including the Bishop’s
Charitable Assistance Fund. Volunteers will be trained and can set their own schedule.
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Organizations
Knights of Columbus
Andrew Fortin
[email protected]
Why join the Knights of Columbus?
If you’re interested in helping those in need, serving your parish, or growing in your faith, then the
Knights of Columbus is the organization for you. Becoming a Knight of Columbus can transform
your life. In addition, as a Knight, you gain exclusive access to our top-rated insurance program to
protect your family. These are just some of the reasons to become a Knight. We are a band of
brothers, a network of men in communities around the world dedicated to doing good in the
service of God and our neighbor.
Charity is the first principle of the Knights of Columbus. Knights are men who get things done. We
volunteer our time to serve our parishes and our communities. And by working together, we were
able to donate more than $1.4 billion and 664 million volunteer hours to worthy causes in the past
decade.
Unity and Fraternity are the second and third principles of the Knights of Columbus. The Knights
of Columbus was founded so that men could work together to serve their parishes and
communities, protect the well-being of their Catholic families, and support each other in faith and
in many other ways along life’s journey. The Knights of Columbus offers its members the
opportunity to grow in their faith through living the example of a charity that evangelizes and
personifies what it means to be a Catholic gentleman through the practice of good works.
What we provide: SERVICE
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Support the parish with its needs (Seacoast Lifeteen, St. Thomas Aquinas High School and St.
Mary Academy scholarships)
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Help meet the needs of those in the local community (Red Cross Blood Drives)
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Provide “Coats for Kids” and “Food for Families” (Our Daily Bread Food Pantry)

Support programs that benefit people with intellectual disabilities (NH Special Olympics and
the Dover Seals)
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Aid victims of natural disasters and other catastrophic events, local and worldwide

Donate wheelchairs to people without mobility at home and abroad
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Save lives through initiatives such as the “Ultrasound Program” (Options for Women)
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And much, much more…
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American Heritage Girls - Troop 222
“I promise to love God, cherish my family, honor my country, and serve in my community.”
Molly Wade
[email protected]
American Heritage Girls is a Christ-centered non-profit character development program that
offers a wholesome program for girls ages 5-18. AHG was founded with a love of God, a love
of families, and the love of children. The program focuses girls on six main elements: Life Skill
Enhancement (through multi-level badge program), Girl Leadership (opportunities at all levels
of programming), Developing Teamwork and Building Confidence (through varied outdoor
experiences), Character Development (through community service and citizenship programs),
Social Development (through organized special events), and Spiritual Development (through
religious awards program).
Boy Scouts of America
Cub Scouts Pack 168
(ages 6-10 years)
Contact Name:
Phone #
E-mail address:
Dates of Meetings:
Time of Meetings:
Location of Meetings:
Ken Ford
603-498-1321
[email protected]
Monday Evenings
6 pm
St. Mary Academy
Boy Scout Troop 168
(ages 11-17)
Contact Name:
Phone #
E-mail address:
Dates of Meetings:
Time of Meetings:
Location of Meetings:
Doug Dawley
603-742-2394
[email protected]
Tuesday Evenings
6:00 pm – 7:30 pm
St. Mary’s Hall
This program for boys helps young men to stay physically and spiritually fit and develop selfconfidence, ethics, leadership skills, and citizenship skills. This is accomplished through a wide
range of outdoor and indoor activities, service projects, and a close connection to our Parish.
The troop is “boy-led” with the support of a large group of caring, trained adults. All boys are
welcome - no special skills, experiences, or equipment are required!
All direct-contact adult leaders should be patient, caring, and enjoy working with boys.
Required training for adults is available through BSA, and leaders in contact with children must
complete Youth Protection Training (BSA) and Protecting God’s Children (Diocese).
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Parish Councils
Parish Pastoral Council
Denise Speechley, Chair
[email protected]
Purpose: To assist the pastor in his leadership role of planning, organizing, initiating, promoting,
coordinating, and reviewing the evangelization, worship, religious education/formation, and
service activities within the parish.
Objectives:
 To assess adequately the needs of the whole parish and its members, and to develop and
implement a pastoral plan which will promote the common good of the parish.
 To foster unity and a sense of community in the parish and to coordinate all parish activities
in a manner that will best serve the interests of the parish.
 To promote programs and activities in the parish as recommended by the Parish Pastoral
Council, the Bishop, or diocesan offices.
Parish Finance Council
Joseph Covert
[email protected]
The Parish Finance Council is an advisory body, required by Canon law, which provides input and
advice to the pastor on major financial transactions such as larger purchases and the sale of
church property.
The Finance Council assists in the preparation of the annual budget, assists in monitoring
financial reports and the annual budget, assists the pastor in assuring the financial statements are
presented to the parish community, assists in the implementation of acceptable internal control
practices (including reviewing and implementing diocesan policies), and assists the pastor in
evaluating the impact on parish finances and administration of leasing parish properties to an
outside organization.
The Finance Council meets at least four times a year to review and analyze the financial activities
of the parish, monitor compliance with the annual parish budget, review quarterly financial
reports, and review the financial impact of the mission and ministry of the parish as established
by the pastor.
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Cemeteries
Under the auspices of the Diocese of Manchester, the Parish of the Assumption maintains
two Catholic cemeteries: St. Mary Cemetery on Dover Point Road in southern Dover and
St. Charles Cemetery on Rt. 108 in northern Dover. A third cemetery, Old St. Mary
Cemetery in southern Dover, is maintained by the parish but can no longer accept burials.
Catholics, Christians, and non-Catholic spouses and family members of Catholics may be
buried in these cemeteries.
Interment rights may be purchased at the parish office. Each full-size burial grave can
accommodate one casket and one cremains urn or two cremains urns. One full-size burial
grave can accommodate a flat marker; two graves are required for an upright marker. The
cemeteries also have designated cremains spaces, with each grave holding up to two urns;
and, again, two graves are required for an upright marker.
Burials are carried out throughout the year, with the exception of certain holidays. Burial
costs vary depending upon the season and day of the week.
Only cut flowers in appropriate vessels are permitted in the cemeteries. Regular lawn
maintenance requires that there be no planting of flowers or shrubs or placement of any
items other than cut flowers at gravesites. However, Memorial Day floral arrangements or
decorations (such as flags) may be placed at the base of monuments seven days before the
federal holiday and removed by June 10.
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How to Financially Support Your Parish
Funds supported by our parishioners and benefactors:
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Offertory collections maintain the running of the parish and the completion of our mission to
evangelize.
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Bishop’s Annual Appeal supports our communal missionary efforts as a diocese.

Building and Repairs maintains the upkeep and renovations of our parish buildings and
equipment.
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Fuel collections help defray the cost of heating and air conditioning.
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Mass intentions
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Sanctuary Lamps and votive candles
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Brick walkway at St. Joseph Church
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Wills and bequests - Please use the following terminology for naming the parish in your will
or trust: “I give, devise, and bequeath (amount, article, stock, etc.) to Peter A. Libasci, as Bishop
of the Diocese of Manchester, and his successors in office, a Corporate Sole, for the use of the
Parish of the Assumption, Dover, New Hampshire.”
How you can give:

Bank bill pay - The same way you pay your personal bills on line, you can arrange for your bank
to make an automatic payment to the parish on a pre-arranged schedule. Using this method, your
donations are made on a regular basis and the parish receives the full amount donated.

Personal checks are credited to each parishioner’s donor record.
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Cash can be credited to a parishioner’s donor record if it is placed in an envelope (any envelope
will suffice) with the donor’s name. Envelopes are provided in the entry of the church.
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Weekly envelopes - are mailed to parishioners every other month at a cost to the parish. The
envelopes of ‘snow birds’ who have not provided their winter addresses or parishioners who have
moved without providing a forwarding address are returned to the parish with an additional
postage charge. If you receive envelopes but do not use them, please advise the parish office so
they may be cancelled at a cost savings to the parish.
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Online Giving - Flexible weekly, monthly, quarterly, annual, or one-time options directly from
checking or savings. You control your account and can update information anytime, anywhere.
Sign up at www.assumptiondovernh.org, click on the Online Giving link and Create New Account. A
portion of every donation is retained by the company providing the service.
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St. Mary Church
St. Joseph Church
Chapel of the Nativity