Community Insights on Domestic Violence among African Americans: Conversations About Domestic Violence And Other Issues Affecting Their Community Prepared by Linner Ward Griffin, MSW, Ed.D East Carolina University Melissa Chappell, MSW East Carolina University Oliver J. Williams, Ph.D. University of Minnesota Greenville, North Carolina, 2006 EAST CAROLINA UNIVERSITY & INSTITUTE ON DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN THE AFRICAN AMERICAN COMMUNITY Prepared by: Linner Ward Griffin East Carolina University & Oliver J. Williams, Ph.D. University of Minnesota 2005 A Pair of Purple Shoes —poignant reminder of a North Carolina domestic violence fatality. Acknowledgements T his report is sponsored by the Institute on Domestic Violence in the African American Community and is based on interviews conducted with representatives from the rural eastern North Carolina African American community in Greenville, North Carolina. Through focus group sessions, the perceptions of participants about violence and especially domestic violence were shared and explored. The Institute would like to thank the following Steering Committee members and to acknowledge their role in developing, guiding, and implementing the national community assessment idea: Linner Ward Griffin, Robert L. Hampton, Shelia Hankins, Esther J. Jenkins, Kelly Mitchell-Clark, William Oliver, Beth E. Ritchie, Joyce N. Thomas, Antonia A. Vann, and Oliver J. Williams, Executive Director. Additionally, the Institute would like to recognize members of the IDVAAC Steering Committee, who also served as focus group facilitators in Greenville. The Institute acknowledges the support of Lori Crowder, Mike Bobbitt and Gloria Tate from the Vera Institute of Justice and Mitchell Davis, Jr., IDVAAC consultant, for their help in staffing the focus groups. The Institute also gratefully acknowledges the input and guidance of members of the Greenville Planning Committee, which included Ms. Marche Clarke, former Executive Director of the NC Domestic Violence Coalition; retired Captain Janice Harris of the Greenville Police Department; Ms. Diana Lucas, Director of the Pitt County Family Violence Program; Dr. Mary Jackson, Professor and Interim Director of the School of Social Work at East Carolina University (ECU); Dr. Cynthia Johnson, Chair of the Department of Child Development and Family Relations at ECU; Dr. Shelia Bunch, Assistant Professor in the ECU School of Social Work; Ms. Renee L. Pearson, community representative; Mr. Barry Dixon, community representative; Mr. Victor Armstrong of the TEDI Bear Children’s Advocacy Center; Dr. Joyce G. Dickerson, domestic violence researcher; and Ms. Yolanda Davis of the Pitt County Department of Social Services. Appreciation also is extended to Dean Karla Hughes of the College of Human Ecology at East Carolina University for support of the focus groups and the Town Hall Meeting; to the ECU Provost and Division of Academic Affairs for travel reimbursement of various focus group participants; to Clayton Sessoms of the ECU Division of Continuing Studies for van transportation of Steering Committee members; and, to Tracy Blake, Supervisor of Advanced Digital Video Technology, and Thomas McQuaid, ECU School of Communication, for their assistance in videotaping the community Town Hall Meeting. The Institute also would like to extend recognition to Diana Lucas of the Pitt County Family Violence Program for coordinating the Purple Shoes Exhibit, and to Mayor Don Parrott and Councilwoman Mildred Council for proclaiming Pitt County Domestic Violence Awareness Day (Proclamation #166550). The Institute is sponsored by the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Administration for Children and Families, Office of Community Services. Points of view or opinions in this document are those of the community assessment responders and do not represent the official position or policies of East Carolina University or the US Department of Health and Human Services. This report was compiled by Dr. Linner W. Griffin, Interim Associate Vice Chancellor for Academic Programs at East Carolina University, with the aid of Melissa Chappell, graduate assistant. 2 Table of Contents Acknowledgements......................................................................................2 Executive Summary ......................................................................................4 Domestic Violence in North Carolina.....................................................6 The Community Assessment Project ......................................................7 Summary of Findings...................................................................................8 Introduction ..................................................................................................10 Community Assessment Methodology................................................11 Table 1: Assessment Group by Gender ........................................12 Table 2: Assessment Group by Length of Time in Eastern North Carolin .................................................12 Table 3: Assessment Group by Home Location.........................13 Table 4: Assessment Group by Age ...............................................13 Table 5: Assessment Group by Education ...................................13 Table 6: Assessment Group by Marital Status............................13 Community Assessment Discussions...................................................14 Across Group Findings - Types ...............................................................15 Across Group Findings – Causes ...........................................................16 Across Group Findings – Consequences.............................................17 Across Group Findings – Solutions.......................................................18 Greenville - Law Enforcement ................................................................20 Greenville - Faith Community.................................................................24 Greenville - Human Services...................................................................30 Greenville - GLBTQ .....................................................................................36 Greenville - Children and Youth ............................................................40 Greenville - Community Activists ..........................................................45 Conclusion and Recommendations .....................................................51 References ....................................................................................................54 Steering Committee...................................................................................55 Fact Sheet on Intimate Partner Violence in the African American Community.................................................................56 Fact Sheet References...............................................................................57 Eastern North Carolina Domestic Violence Resource List ...........58 3 Executive Summary I Oliver J. Williams,Ph.D. n an effort to increase understanding of the perceptions of African Americans toward domestic violence, the Institute on Domestic Violence in the African American Community (IDVAAC) established the Community Insights Project. The purpose of the IDVAAC Community Insights Project is to secure information from African Americans who maintain an insider-specific understanding of the causes and consequences of domestic violence and to identify what they consider to be useful solutions that may be effective in preventing domestic violence in African American communities across the United States. As such, the project seeks to inform a wider audience comprised of domestic violence service providers, criminal justice practitioners and public officials about the unique manifestation of domestic violence in the African American community. In 1998, IDVAAC initiated a national effort to learn more about community perspectives on domestic violence in the African American community. Since then, IDVAAC has convened discussion groups with community members in nine cities, including: San Francisco and Oakland, California; Seattle, Washington; Minneapolis, Minnesota; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania; Detroit, Michigan; Birmingham, Alabama; Memphis, Tennessee; and Greenville, North Carolina. The Community Insights Project has sought to enhance understanding of domestic violence in the African American community by gathering data on a range of issues, including: types of violence, causes of violence, and consequences of violence, as well as solutions and barriers to ending domestic violence in the African American community. This report focuses on the perceptions of community members and domestic violence stakeholders from eastern North Carolina, who assembled in Greenville, North Carolina. The evolving literature on domestic 4 violence among African Americans has identified several factors that distinguish the occurrence of domestic violence among African Americans from the occurrence of domestic violence among members of the majority population. The first of these factors is the observation that structural inequalities emanating from the adverse impacts of historical and contemporary patterns of racial discrimination have contributed to domestic violence in the African American community. More specifically, this exposure to racial oppression has served as a catalyst for conflict and violence within intimate relationships (BentGoodley, 1998; Hampton, 1982; Hampton, Oliver & Magarian, 2003). Second, a dominant theme in the literature on domestic violence among African Americans is the “double bind” that many African American women who are battered face. The “double bind” has been described as the “tendency of African American women to endure abuse, subordinate their concerns with safety, and make a conscious self sacrifice for what many of these women perceive as the greater good of the community to her own physical, psychological, and spiritual detriment” (Asbury, 1993). The existence of a community ethic that socializes African American women to internalize the view that to report an abusive man to the authorities is a form of community betrayal has functioned to prevent many African American women from proactively seeking help as a means of protecting their intimate partner from involvement in the criminal justice system, to avoid loss of income and/or as a means of avoiding social ostracism (Asbury, 1993; Bent-Goodley, 2001; Richie, 1996). Consequently, many battered black women and their children are at an increased risk for intimate partner violence and re-victimization when such women forego seeking help from law enforcement and domestic violence service providers. Third, the literature on domestic violence consistently reports that it is not uncommon for African Americans who experience abuse and seek assistance to experience racial discrimination. Discrimination toward African American victims of domestic violence has been identified throughout the domestic violence service delivery network and the criminal justice system. For example, there is evidence that reports that African Americans, both victims and batterers, are more likely to be arrested, prosecuted, and imprisoned due to domestic violence than other groups (Buzawa & Buzawa, 2003; Richie, 1996; Roberts, 1994). Furthermore, it has been reported that African American women experiencing domestic violence have been found to have their children removed from their custody, even when the household circumstances are similar to those of non-black women (Bent-Goodley, 2004). Indeed, inequitable treatment based on race remains a major reason why African American women may struggle with whether they should utilize formal systems that exist to address domestic violence. Fourth, African American researchers and practitioners have consistently called attention to the need for culturally competent services (Bent-Goodley, 2001; Gondolf & Williams, 2001; West, 1999; Williams, 1998). The lack of culturally competent services in shelters and nonresidential domestic violence programs has been identified as a major factor explaining why African American women who are battered are less likely to seek emergency shelter and/or services provided by domestic violence programs, even when they have experienced severe acts of intimate partner violence (Asbury, 1993; West, 1999). Research in this area has reported that it is not uncommon for workers in domestic violence programs and law enforcement to treat abuse less seriously and even withhold proactive intervention and services, as a result of acting on negative stereotypes of black women, including the belief that African American women, unlike white women, are better able to defend themselves (West, 1999). Regarding batterers intervention, there is an inadequacy of responses of the traditional domestic violence service delivery network to address domestic violence among African Americans. It has also been noted that most batterers programs do not make any significant effort to provide culturally relevant service delivery practices and outreach that would encourage greater participation among African American men who batter (Williams & Becker, 1994). Consequently, it is not surprising that African American men have lower completion and participation rates than other men due to the lack of culturally relevant services, despite the development of culturally competent curriculum designed to provide services to this population (Gondolf & Williams, 2001). 5 Domestic Violence in North Carolina D omestic violence is a social, legal, and public health issue that affects many North Carolinians regardless of age, ethnicity or social status. Adult victims and their children suffer untold emotional damage and physical harm, including death. State marriage license fees have provided support for domestic violence service provider programs in this state since 1991; and, currently all 100 of North Carolina’s counties are served by programs that provide emergency shelter, confidential hotline services, court advocacy, counseling and advocacy, and community education. Linner Ward Griffin, Ed.D North Carolina law enforcement data reveal that the number of deaths directly related to domestic violence has decreased over the last two years. 6 North Carolina law enforcement data reveal that the number of deaths directly related to domestic violence has decreased over the last two years. In 2002, 78 women died as a direct result of domestic violence; in 2003, the number of deaths totaled 72. Eighty-two persons succumbed to domestic violence homicides in 2004 and 65 North Carolinians were victims in 2005. According to the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI, 2004) Supplemental Homicide Report, the number of domestic homicides of women per million population in North Carolina in 2000 was 5.59. The distinction of exceeding the rate of 5.01 in domestic homicides of women was shared with 9 other states (Arkansas, Arizona, Delaware, Hawaii, Mississippi, Nevada, New Mexico, South Carolina, and Tennessee), most of which are located in the southern United States. This was a vast improvement over 1998 statistics, when North Carolina had a 7.29 domestic homicide rate and was one of 10 southern states that exceeded the 5.01 rate from a total of 16 nationally. The North Carolina Council for Women collects data from state domestic violence programs bi-annually. Statistical data reveal that 44,895 unduplicated domestic violence victims were served from July 1, 2002 through June 30, 2003, by state programs. Most of these primary victims were adults. Although domestic violence affects people of all ages and all races, there were some interesting racial characteristics of victims serviced by programs during that year, which are presented below: Year # Served Race Women/female Children Served 7/00-6//01 41,214 10,738 Black 39,075 7/01-6/02 47,983 12,374 Black 44,045 7/02-6/03 52,352 14,262 Black 45,843 The overwhelming majority of victims are female and between the ages of 18 and 44 years of age. Another alarming statistic reveals that pregnant women and new mothers are particularly vulnerable for physical abuse. Each year more than 3% of new mothers in North Carolina, or more than 3,000 women, are physically abused, mostly by their husbands or boyfriends, according to a University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill School of Public Health study (Martin, Mackie, Kupper, Moracco, & Buescher, 2001). Sexual abuse is a life altering experience for many women. The North Carolina Department of Health and Human Services reports that in North Carolina 1 in 5 women have been sexually assaulted at some point in their lives. According to the NC Council for Women (2002), over 10,000 North Carolinians were affected by sexual violence last year. North Carolina rape crisis centers reported that 70% of these victims knew their assailants. Only 46% of victims reported their case to North Carolina law enforcement in 2002. Rape, childhood sexual abuse, and domestic violence are among the most common causes of Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) in women. The chances that a woman will develop PTSD after being raped are between 50% and 95%. Sexual assault also is closely associated with depression and anxiety disorder in women. The Community Assessment Project T he Community Assessment Project seeks to provide a fuller picture of how African Americans perceive and experience domestic violence. The following six groups of participants were assembled to share their perspectives related to domestic violence in eastern North Carolina’s African American community: (1) Children and Youth workers, (2) members of the Faith community, (3) community activists, (4) the Human Services community, (5) representatives of the GLBTQ community, and (6) the Law Enforcement community. This report presents their perspectives, insights, and interwoven comments about domestic violence; but, this report does not speak for the entire community, as every individual’s experiences are different. Still, the report does provide critical insights from six groups of African Americans into the African American perception of domestic violence in rural eastern North Carolina*. For practitioners, this report supports the need for the following: (1) more self-help mechanisms and stronger community cohesion, (2) more culturally-based prevention and intervention services available to members sparsely populated, rural communities, (3) educational experiences about family violence for the very young and all developmental levels, (4) more faith-based programs to provide education and services, and (5) increased opportunities for interdisciplinary training in domestic violence. Policymakers will find that this report illuminates needs in the following five areas: (1) increased funding for domestic violence education and services, particularly that which can provide support for residents in isolated, rural communities; (2) more substance abuse and mental health preventive and treatment services; (3) policies that ensure funding actually serves the population it is intended to serve, i.e., Black communities; (4) policies which strengthen individual selfsufficiency through improved employment opportunities and equity in economic income and wealth; and (5) policies that reduce the cyclical and generational nature of domestic violence. Researchers will find this report useful in reinforcing the need for (1) additional research on culturally competent models of domestic violence prevention and best practice interventions that focuses on rural communities; (2) documentation of differential treatment of African Americans by law enforcement, the judicial system, and the child welfare system when domestic violence is involved; and (3) more research on the intersection of racism, contemporary oppression and discrimination, domestic violence, and substance abuse. As community citizens, this report emphasizes the need for each of us to be more informed and more aware of what is happening in our communities and homes and to find comprehensive, culturally sensitive solutions to create change. The participants have provided us with ideas and an inspiring message that we must strive to eradicate this black mark of domestic violence from our communities. 7 Summary of Findings Findings from the community assessment sessions indicated the following: Rural settings, such as eastern North Carolina, provide a particularly difficult challenge for human service programs and for treatment services that address domestic violence issues. Small towns with small populations describe this rural region. The existing communities are not large enough to sustain many human service agencies. Domestic violence shelters and treatment facilities are sporadically situated across many miles and across several counties. One example mentioned was a single domestic violence program that serviced women and children in a four county geographic area. Having to drive more than an hour, and in some cases two hours to receive emergency and treatment services, was considered unacceptable. Lack of funding was cited as a major barrier to addressing domestic violence, particularly the lack of funding for treatment services and preventive services in rural eastern North Carolina communities. Respondents noted the limited resources available to address domestic violence and the dearth of programmatic services and organizations available in rural communities. Small populations and small tax bases were seen as contributors to the lack of funding resources. More funding can provide more services and programs that could be much more easily accessed by persons in danger. The lack of community cohesion among African Americans was traced to the beginning of desegregation. Violence is pervasive in all communities. In African American communities, families are firmly connected to many forms of violence –including domestic violence. Participants in eastern North Carolina area reported strong connections between domestic violence and other forms of violence, particularly community violence, sexual abuse, child abuse, health abuse, youth violence, and verbal abuse. Health abuse was defined as destructive practices that affect human health; examples of health abuse included medical neglect, abuse of drugs and alcohol, and unhealthy lifestyle practices. Respondents noted the connections between stressors inside and outside the home; they connected observed violence with acts of violence committed by perpetrators. Youth violence among African Americans reflects the desire for social and economic respect. Several focus groups discussed how violence specifically perpetrated by African American youth can be an extreme expression of rebellion against parental and community realities –both social and economic. Lack of job opportunities, lack of equal pay, and poor education all are consequences of institutionalized discrimination. Internalized oppression and feelings of powerlessness and hopelessness were described as primary causes and factors of domestic violence among young African Americans. Youth gang violence was described as increasing in rural eastern North Carolina as youth seek to secure the attention and respect they need to feel good about themselves from their peers. The lack of community cohesion among African Americans was traced to the beginning of desegregation. Desegregation was described as a prime cause of the breakup of the traditional black community and the breakdown of the family. Community redevelopment projects and racial integration of public schools were described as having a direct relationship with the loss of supportive community environments that historically monitored the behaviors of their own children and adults. 8 African Americans’ definitions of domestic violence can differ from what the majority community calls domestic violence and methods proposed to end the violence must also differ. Respondents repeatedly remarked that, “one size does not fit all”; African Americans must develop their own definitions of and responses to domestic violence and not depend upon the terms and solutions used by White America. Raising community awareness and breaking the “code of silence” are imperative if the community is to solve problems associated with domestic violence. The need to “galvanize and publicize” was identified as a priority if the black community is every to eradicate domestic violence as a social problem. We must increase public awareness initiatives and secure adequate counseling resources that can address problems of both victims and abusers in the African American community. Solutions to domestic violence among African Americans in eastern North Carolina must be comprehensive and culturally based. Participants thought that the community must resolve domestic violence issues with the proper support and attitudes. Because it has traditionally been the social and spiritual leader in rural communities, the church occupies a critical role in addressing domestic violence and the very direct symptoms of racism and other problems that permeate the community. A stronger role for church ministries was proposed as a solution to domestic violence in eastern North Carolina. Education for ministers about domestic violence was seen as an essential strategy for affecting changes in the behavior of both men and women in the African American community. 9 Respondents willingly shared personal information and professional insights... Introduction T his report summarizes comments and ideas about domestic violence from community members in eastern North Carolina.* While all contributors represented different professional backgrounds, strengths, and experiences, their message was essentially the same --that the African American community itself must end domestic violence because it is destroys black families, which are the core of black communities. Respondents willingly shared personal information and professional insights; they did so at great personal risk to themselves because of concern for their communities. They were open and engaged throughout each focus group and provided specific examples to support their statements and suggested remedies for domestic violence in our minority communities. Traditionally, research has provided some indicators or patterns about domestic violence, but most display methodological shortcomings which limit a clear picture of prevalence, completion rates, and program utilization in minority communities (BentGoodley, 2001, Hampton, 1991, West, 1998). Limited empirical information about African American perceptions of domestic violence make this report and the Community Assessments Project important because both provide a more comprehensive understanding of how African Americans view domestic violence and what solutions they identify as most responsive to the unique needs of diverse communities. Recognizing the complexity of the issue, this report links domestic violence with other social issues and rests its recommendations in the desires and understandings of a diverse group of thinkers in eastern North Carolina. This report can cite four emergent messages: (1) One cannot address domestic violence in the African American community unless the community is at the center of proposed solutions; (2) To address domestic violence in the rural south, one must also understand the history of contemporary racism and discrimination that have continued to affect African American relationships; (3) To address domestic violence, one must understand and address issues of racism, geographic isolation, poverty, substance abuse, mental health, unemployment, and other competing social issues; and (4) solutions must be culturally sensitive and, ideally, they will be implemented by skilled African American practitioners. ...they did so at great personal risk to themselves because of concern for their communities. 10 * Note: The eastern counties are considered the 40 counties comprising the Northeast Economic Development Region, North Carolina’s Eastern Region, and the Southeast Economic Development Region. They also conform generally to multi-county planning regions M (excluding Harnett) N, O, P, Q and R. Community Assessment Methodology E astern North Carolina was selected as the eighth of nine communities chosen for this project by the Steering Committee of the Institute on Domestic Violence in the African American Community (IDVAAC) for several reasons: its rural southern location, its southern heritage, and its unique population demographics. Eastern North Carolina is a prime example of the “New South”; it is an area that has attracted major industry and is experiencing rapid population growth in a few areas while also experiencing serious out-migration. The 40 counties that constitute eastern North Carolina presently have an estimated population of 2.36 million (NC QuickFacts, U.S. Bureau of the Census, 2005). The estimate compares with a population of 1.97 million in 1990 and 2.27 million persons in 2000. The region is growing at a 9.9% rate for this decade (2000-2009). Three of the eastern counties experienced negative population growth in 1990s while eight are now estimated to be losing population through a combination of natural decrease and/or out-migration. Most of the population growth is centered in five counties, Brunswick, Cumberland, Harnett, New Hanover and Pitt. Approximately half of the population growth in the region was accounted for by in- migration numbers, which have been especially notable among African Americans returning to their birth communities after years in the Northeast, Midwest, or other regions of the country (Reeves, 2005). The population of the eastern counties racially is 61.6% White and 30.2% Black (U.S. Census Bureau, 2001). Five counties in the east have majority Black populations and four others have over 40%. Several of these counties (Bertie, Edgecombe, Halifax and Northampton) are the same counties experiencing population decline and associated outmigration. The east and the state have nearly the same Hispanic composition (4%) but this segment has grown rapidly since the 1990s. The American Indian population is the most significant race in the remaining racial balance accounting for over 3 per cent with three counties having the largest concentrations. The housing picture of the forty eastern North Carolina counties reveals a 4.2% substandard rate (overcrowded/incomplete plumbing) for year-round, occupied housing units. Over 37,000 of the housing units fell into this category in 2000 while the state’s rate of substandard housing was determined to be 3.8% (NC State Data Center, 2005). Eastern North Carolina is a prime example of the “New South”; it is an area that has attracted major industry and is experiencing rapid population growth in a few areas while also experiencing serious out-migration. 11 Economically, the income and employment picture is sobering as the eastern counties’ Median Family Income average in 2000 was $38,723, over 16 percent below the state average of $46,335. Unemployment in the eastern counties averaged just below 6% in 2004, while the state level was 5.5 percent (NC Employment Security Commission, 2005). Still, the Census Bureau reports that in 1997, 10.8 percent of businesses in the region were minority owned. Most of the unemployment has been accounted for by manufacturing losses experienced in textile-related plants and some agricultural-related business categories in the past six years (Bureau of Economic Analysis, 2005). Forty-three African American men and women formed a pool of respondents who were nominated by the Eastern North Carolina Community Advisory Group. This group was formed to learn more about the minority community, organize logistical resources, and facilitate introductions in preparation for the community assessments process approximately nine months prior to IDVAAC’s arrival in Greenville, NC. The advisory group identified persons who were invited to participate in six domestic violence focus groups in the Greenville/Pitt County area. Six affinity groups to which they were invited included: (1) members of the Human Services Community, (2) the Faith Community, (3) the Law Enforcement Community, the (4) Children and Youth community, (5) GLBTQ (Gay, Lesbian, Bi-sexual and Transgender Community representatives, and (6) Community Advocates. Forty-three African Americans participated in the six focus groups mentioned above. A description of all participants in the four assessment groups is presented in the tables below. Table 1: Assessment Group by Gender (N=43) Assessment Group Human Services Faith Law Enforcement Children and Youth GLBTQ Community Activists Gender Females Males (n=30) 5 8 3 5 3 6 (n=13) 1 2 2 3 3 2 Table 2: Assessment Group by Length of Time in Eastern North Carolina (N=43) Years in Eastern North Carolina 0-10 yrs. 11-20 yrs. 21+ yrs. Assessment Group Human Services Faith Law Enforcement Children and Youth GLBTQ Community Activists 12 (n=3) 1 ---1 1 (n=9) -2 1 2 2 2 (n=31) 5 8 4 6 3 5 Table 3: Assessment Group by Home Location (N=43) Type of Location Assessment Group Human Services Faith Law Enforcement Children and Youth GLBTQ Community Activists Urban Greenville/Pitt County (n=14) 2 3 1 -4 4 Rural More Rural County (n=29) 4 7 4 8 2 4 Table 4: Assessment Group by Age (N=43) Age 30-39 yrs. 40-49 yrs. Assessment Group Human Services Faith Law Enforcement Children and Youth GLBTQ Community Activists (n=11) 1 -1 2 5 2 (n=15) 3 3 2 4 1 2 50-59 yrs. 60+ yrs (n=13) 1 4 2 2 -4 (n=4) 1 3 ----- Table 5: Assessment Group by Education (N=43) Level of Education High Sch.+ BA/BS MA/MS Ph.D./M.D. Assessment Group Human Services Faith Law Enforcement Children and Youth GLBTQ Community Activists (n=10) -3 1 2 2 2 (n=17) 4 2 2 3 2 4 (n=14) 2 3 2 3 2 2 (n=2) -2 ----- Table 6: Assessment Group by Marital Status (N=43) Marital Status Single Partnered Married Separated Divorced Assessment Group Human Services Faith Law Enforcement Children and Youth GLBTQ Community Activists (n=11) (n=3) (n=20) (n=1) (n=8) --4 -2 2 -6 1 1 --4 -1 4 -3 -1 4 2 ---1 1 3 -3 13 Community Assessment Discussions C ommunity assessment discussions were conducted in focus groups, which were the primary methodological tool used to obtain participants’ perceptions of domestic violence. The focus groups provided participants with a safe place to share their perspectives and with a competent facilitator skilled in the group process. The strength in using focus groups is that they systematically encourage each member to share information that builds the discussion; and, focus groups allow a diverse group of people to share their insight on an issue (Krueger, 1994). Each focus group session was audiotaped to ensure the accuracy of the information obtained and systematic data analysis. A member of the IDAAVC Steering Committee facilitated each focus group session, using the same semi-structured questionnaire to solicit comments and guide the discussion. Each focus group lasted from 1 1/2 to 2 hours in length. Based on the project’s objectives, the questionnaire included open-ended questions which examined (1) types of domestic violence, (2) relationship between domestic violence and other social issues, (3) causes of domestic violence, (4) factors contributing to domestic violence, (5) consequences of domestic violence, (6) solutions to addressing domestic violence, and (7) barriers to addressing domestic violence solutions. Data analysis of the focus group sessions involved several steps. First, the audiotapes were transcribed with transcriptions produced for each focus group. Second, the transcriptions were compared with the groups’ discussions, which had been captured on paper in the seven areas described above by scribes or group reporters. Third, an independent researcher analyzed the data. Fourth, themes were identified, coded, and plotted on a large flipchart. Fifth, once the themes were identified, they were collapsed into the six categories described above. Data were analyzed within each group and later, across each focus group. Sixth, reports were produced for each group, which were reviewed by each group’s facilitator and scribe. 14 Across Group Findings - Types G reenville area participants were able to name a wide variety of violent acts taking place within their community. They discussed their ideas, reporting observed trends in violence and giving their opinions of its priority as a community problem due to factors of both frequency and prevalence. One category set forth by respondents was that of family violence, including acts perpetrated against members in the home such as children or the elderly, violence between siblings and violence between partners or spouses. Several groups expressed concern about the growing number of reports received of children perpetrating acts of violence against their own parents. Another pressing issue for the many of the groups was the surge in gang violence in the Greenville, North Carolina area. Participants felt that gang violence was moving from the cities and trickling into the surrounding suburbs and rural areas. Group members decided that youth violence incorporated the idea of gang violence in certain instances, and that kids often repeat the violence they have witnessed previously in real life or seen in the media. Violence perpetrated against women, between or against acquaintances, and against animals were other forms mentioned by focus group members. In addition, community violence between races (white on black or black on white crime) was mentioned as an observed pattern of violence. Sexual, verbal, emotional and substance abuse-related violence were also reported. One group mentioned that health abuse was a problem, when elderly members of the home might be neglected and not provided with the proper care to meet their needs. Greenville respondents thought that violence was just as big an issue for the African American community as unemployment, poverty, and education. The Human Services group discussed another form of abuse: the kind that is inflicted through the legal system. Members cited police brutality as an issue, as well as the abuse of political power for ones own gain. Overall, every group saw the differing types of violence listed as being interrelated, and believed that violence was one of the most pressing concerns relevant to their community. They believed that acts of violent behavior take place often, can be underreported, and that several acts may go on in one particular household. Greenville respondents thought that violence was just as big an issue for the African American community as unemployment, poverty, and education. 15 Across Group Findings – Causes A younger generation of parents raising their own children was seen as a risk factor for violent behavior. D iscussants named several probable causes of violence. One broad category described deficiencies within the community. A lack of knowledge as to the proper behavior within the family and the meaning of manhood was seen as one issue that causes abuse in the home. This lack of knowledge is then reinforced by a lack of education being passed down to future generations, thus contributing to an intergenerational cycle of violence where children emulate the behavior they have learned in the home. In addition, a lack of coping skills and a lack of awareness as to the alternatives to violent behavior mean that when stress or conflict builds in certain individuals, they manage by releasing the stress through physical aggression. The low self-esteem of perpetrators was another problem. Being the abuser gives some people a sense of power and control in a certain domain when they may be powerless in other areas of life. Finally, the inability to communicate and resolve conflicts in a healthy manner was discussed by the group as another deficit in communities that experience domestic violence. Parenting of children in today’s society was another causal factor explored by groups. A younger generation of parents raising their own children was seen as a risk factor for violent behavior. Respondents thought that essentially a generation of children was attempting to parent children, and the results were less discipline in the home, little knowledge being passed down through the generations, and a lack of supervision and mentoring occurring at home. The GLBTQ focus group had concerns specific to being in gay or lesbian relationships. They cited partner envy, the silence associated with having same-sex partners, and a lack of respect by the outside community. The control and power struggles that may occur within any relationship take on a unique form within this particular group, and they believed that as a GLBTQ community, they faced stressors that the rest of the population might not confront. The changing face of the community was a final factor that nearly all the groups discussed. Tracing a legacy of violence back to the days of slavery and oppression, some members cited the roots of historical violence, noting that the community today is a product of people who were owned by others. In addition, in recent years the breakdown of the neighborhood has occurred. Community members are less apt to look out for the concerns of their neighbors, and more likely to have a mentality that people should mind their own business. Neighborhoods are also lacking role models that provide guidance and inspiration to the younger generation, and kids are more likely to have a desire for instant gratification, a lack of foresight and are susceptible to involvement with drugs. 16 Across Group Findings – Consequences T he Greenville area groups discussed the destructive consequences of domestic violence in their community. The following areas of impact were mentioned: image, community development, the family, and the pervasive feelings of fear or frustration. Domestic violence has inflicted damage to the image of the African American race as a whole, as well as to the image of the African American man. Not only does violence perpetuate societal stereotypes, but it also influences self-perceptions and self-esteem, according to respondents. Group members explored the idea that men who enter the criminal justice system as a result of battering also suffer from the stigma associated with their race. The whole community suffers the effects of domestic violence, respondents believed, and development and betterment of the area cannot occur when violent acts are taking place among neighborhood inhabitants. The economy is influenced, as people do not want to enter an unsafe area, and thus businesses are either driven away from the area or are not interested in operating in such locations. One group cited damage to future citizens, that violence takes away lives and potentially productive and instrumental men and women. The Faith community believed that violence segregates people. They discussed this segregation in relation to black violence, media portrayal and racial competition. Other groups talked about fear separating people. The elderly population was noted as a people group that suffers from isolation and imprisonment within the home due to being afraid to venture out into their own neighborhood surroundings. A pervasive atmosphere of frustration was also named by some groups. Participants described a feeling of helplessness and despair where individuals cannot gain access to educational opportunities or employment and live in communities unable to attract businesses, neglected by the involvement of the government, and characterized by high rates of crime, teenage pregnancy, and school-age dropouts. The family unit is also a recipient of the consequences of domestic violence. Groups were concerned with the fact that many African American families are single parent homes due to domestic violence resulting in separation, divorce, or the incarceration or death of a parent. Violence in the home breaks down foundational relationships and causes physical and emotional distress. Children who act out the violence they see at home can suffer at school and in the community. Family violence has a ripple effect, influencing the spheres of each individual as well as spreading to future generations. Participants described a feeling of helplessness and despair where individuals cannot gain access to educational opportunities or employment 17 Across Group Findings – Solutions T he solutions that group members proposed to ending domestic violence in their community were numerous. Overall, increased opportunity and increased education were their main concerns. Opportunity in the form of more access to education and more employment available to lower-income individuals would be helpful. Education offered in the school system at an early age for conflict resolution and anger management was another strategy proposed. The faith community thought that education on domestic violence should be mandatory for those families who deal with abuse or violence. Education in the form of social outreach (ie, fatherhood or parenting programs) and community awareness campaigns for the general public were also mentioned. Faith-based interventions were suggested by a number of groups. The church was seen as a valuable resource that could be utilized, particularly for the African American community. Unity within the church and collaboration among different churches should be supported so that various programs can reach those in abusive relationships and not duplicate efforts or compete with each other. Ministers should be educated, participants believed, and then provide education to their respective congregations and supportive counseling to parishioners. Dialogue was seen as vital to progressing towards the end of domestic violence. More community forums, bringing together members from different sectors could lead to more collaboration between service providers, leaders, and community figures. Many groups believed that a current deficit of leadership was harmful to eradicating violence in the community, and they expressed a need for more strong leaders out of the African American community to step up and be prominent voices in the public arena. The Human Services focus group encouraged a holistic approach to treating the whole family in response to domestic violence crises. This group wanted to see each affected family member receiving counseling and education as to their experiences of violence, the associated feelings or trauma, and how to live a more healthy life. The Faith community was especially concerned with the hospital in the Greenville area offering a domestic violence program and providing information for those receiving medical services. They wanted a coordinated effort involving the chaplaincy, the hospital security, and the psychological staff that would address the domestic violence reports and cases that hospital staff encounter. 18 Across Group Findings – Barriers R espondents provided insightful commentary into the barriers their community faces as they seek to eliminate the problem of domestic violence. One comment made pertained to the idea that the lack of unity among the programs and services within the community was crippling. Participants expressed the idea that in order to make progress in ending such a large problem, they must stand together, without competition or territoriality and without intimidation. The negative attention and the stigma garnered by violence in the African American community was another hurdle that participants noted. In the GLBTQ, they experience the additional stigma that comes with their sexual orientation. GLBTQ respondents shared that when professionals interact with members of their community in response to reports of domestic violence, there is often confusion as to who the victim is. Sometimes, participants noticed, the officials responding exhibit homophobia, which can be frightening to members of the gay or lesbian community. As long as the issue of domestic violence remains a problem covered by silence, stigma, disorganization, and competition, there will be few strides made towards its eradication. The community lacks negotiators and mediators to help address hostility or friction between organizations, and to effectively interface with officials and common members of the neighborhood. A deficit of resources is another liability, with limited funds, few leaders who are equipped to educate and implement and organize, and a lack of accessible, publicized programs designed to meet the needs of victims and perpetrators of all walks of life. Finally, denial, silence, and shame were viewed as roadblocks to ending domestic violence. By remaining quiet, the cycle of violence is perpetuated and solutions are not sought to end the abuse. Shame can exist in any battering relationship, but was explicitly mentioned in gay or lesbian relationships, or in situations where males are being battered by their female partners. As long as the issue of domestic violence remains a problem covered by silence, stigma, disorganization, and competition, there will be few strides made towards its eradication. The Greenville area groups were emphatic in their belief that in order to solve this problem, the African American community must be consulted and mobilized, taking ownership of the domestic violence issue and working collaboratively to end it. The Greenville area groups were emphatic in their belief that in order to solve this problem, the African American community must be consulted and mobilized, taking ownership of the domestic violence issue and working collaboratively to end it. 19 Greenville - Law Enforcement V iolence that occurs within the home often leads to the involvement of individuals and families with the legal system. Those individuals who work in the criminal justice field are regularly called upon to address reported incidents of violence. Their professional experience provides them with important insight into the effect of violence on their particular community. The members of the Law Enforcement focus group were asked to explore the topic of violence in-depth and respond to questions related to the types of violent acts of which they are aware, their frequency and impact, the related consequences, and the potential solutions and the obstacles that stand in the way of change. The Greenville, North Carolina Law Enforcement focus group consisted of five respondents. Three women and two men participated in the discussion and they varied in age from thirty-three to fifty-four years old. These group members held the following occupations in the law enforcement arena: police division commander, safety director, magistrate, detective, and police officer. The Law Enforcement focus group compiled a comprehensive list of the different types of violence that they know exist within their community. Disputes between acquaintances were one form of violence commonly mentioned. The other broad category of violence that was described was family violence. This topic incorporated acts like domestic disputes between intimate partners or spouses, violent interactions between siblings, and instances of child abuse. Adultery-related violence was also mentioned as a type of violence occurring within the Greenville area. One subject that was discussed by the group was the alarming increase in the number of children who perpetrate violent acts against their parents. One participant described the increase in reported parent-child violence and the prevailing belief that, with time, it is a matter that can be eventually fixed in the home: I’m hearing a lot of calls with family disputes, mother and child, young children and parents. I think that the husband and wife teams that we used to be concerned about are still there, but I still think that there’s the mentality that we can handle it here in the home, or I can deal with it a little bit longer. I’ve talked to some people that have been involved in that situation year after year after year and I can say at least five for some and they continue to come when the situation is bad but return to that same environment. The members of this group believed that the different types of violence experienced by individuals within the Greenville African American community were highly interrelated. Drawing from their professional experience in the field from investigating reported abuse, participants have observed that it is common for several types of abuse to occur within the same household. “They go hand in hand,” one group member stated succinctly. When called to the scene of a home, investigators must be cognizant that they may find other forms of abuse, such as elder abuse, child abuse, and so forth. Participants also decided that the severity of the violent occurrences was an issue that had to be evaluated on a case by case basis. Not only did respondents view differing violent acts as interrelated, but they also associated violence with a number of other problems plaguing their community. Lack of economic opportunity, drug abuse, and the repercussions associated with involvement with the legal system topped the list of concerns related to violence. Several issues fell under the umbrella of child or family-related problems, such as: teenage dropouts, low expectations 20 for children, the breakdown of the family, lack of discipline in the home, and single parent homes. Finally, violence was tied to social problems like an overall lack of education in the community and taking pride in dysfunctional behavior within society. Things that were normal then and the things that you were supposed to do aren’t looked upon the same way, they’re not accepted today as how we should conduct ourselves. And it’s just like, almost like being in a flip of what the world should be. The things that are viewed as wrong and bad are not viewed that way in the black community. The lack of valuing education and planning within the family was also mentioned, with the failure of parents to pass on values, morals, and foresight to their children being of paramount importance. Before they even plan for the future and see the importance [of education], they’re falling through the cracks. The family value and the morals, and the structure of the family within a home. I see that as a big problem, especially when… the domestic problem between the adults filters over to the child and the child goes back like a circle, back to the parents with the violence. And a large lack of insight into the future as far as what it holds for the individuals, being children. The adults, they’re just consumed with what’s going on right there but what’s going on right there, the violence and things in the home, it just pushes the things that are gonna be important into the darkness. These deficiencies in parenting are part of an equation that produces children who are illequipped to make positive life choices and sound decisions for the future. One group member explained that the social issues of teenage parenting, single parent homes, high school dropout rate, and education level were all related. She noted that youth pregnancy was becoming an indicator of status among teens: See a lot of teenage mothers who are in school and pregnant are proud of that. …whether they are thirteen or fourteen year-olds, that is almost a status symbol here for some children. Not that, how am I going to take care of this child after it’s here, how am I going to take care of myself when I’m just a child myself, but it’s a big deal to be pregnant and that’s like a status symbol… The participants were able to list numerous causes of violence. The lack of opportunity, whether social or economic, was a major cause of violence that respondents felt led to a pervasive atmosphere of frustration within the community. Although eastern North Carolina has educational opportunities in a university setting, group members related that the academic benefits are not equally accessible to all residents. Lack of finances is a major inhibitor to the African American community. One participant elaborated on how the economic condition of this particular geographical region contributes to violence, through problems like: …lost jobs, the bleak look for economic development, and I would probably want to categorize that from an Afro-centric standpoint because there are people who have jobs and who are working but there’s a disproportionate number of African Americans who are out of work and their economic status is such that it could be the breeding cause for some of the things that we’re talking about. And I think that it’s not endemic to Greenville per se, but I think that the entire eastern seaboard of North Carolina, from the Virginia line to the South Carolina line… I think that the point here is that historically eastern North Carolina for African Americans has not been a bevy of economic production. 21 According to respondents, other causes of violence included: (1) Drug use and drug trafficking: the ability to make money through the drug-related lifestyle can be more appealing than the other economic alternatives available to this particular population. In the past, older generations might have engaged in a similar type of illicit behavior (i.e., selling whiskey) for a short period of time to help family finances, with the goal of ending such behavior once family economics were more stable. Today, participants noted, participating in selling drugs is more of a lifestyle, with money earned going towards personal financial gain. (2) Desire for instant gratification: group members believed that this generation has been characterized by a desire for instant gratification, which in turn creates a mindset that seeks the fulfillment of present needs or wants above all and fails to consider the consequences of actions or plan for the future. (3) Societal expectations: one respondent explained that in the past the power of public opinion pushed people towards conformity but now the emphasis is on individuality, or non-conformity. Instead of societal pressure to follow the law and stay out of trouble, delinquent behavior has become more acceptable. In addition, the current definition of manhood (i.e., male authority in the family) factors into conflict management, the group believed. Couples can come to an impasse when the male feels entitled to something within the relationship and the woman feels equally entitled to say no. The situation can either be resolved through communication, or might escalate to violence. Participants also discussed the changing role of women in the workplace and the home, and how those changes have influenced family dynamics. In the African American community, many women are the head of their household and are used to making the decisions and wielding the power, which can cause friction when a male enters the picture. One respondent shared his view on the authority of African American males over their female counterparts: Black men have always had sort of a shaky kind of chauvinism or patriarchy cause black women have always worked, always contributed, and there is a trend of egalitarianism in black male/female relationships that goes way back to both people working together to try to have something. (4) A lack of education and a lack of knowledge of the alternatives to violence. One group member questioned, “Do we lack the ability to know how to do something other than argue and fight?” (5) A lack of African American leadership in the community 22 (6) A younger generation of parents and grandparents taking on responsibility: the age of parents today is decreasing, according to respondents. “Children are the parents of children… the age of parents of children is so close to the children’s age themselves that there’s not enough room for them to have that wisdom.” Not only has the parent population changed, but the norms instituted within the family have also undergone transformation. “Children being abusive towards their parents is acceptable,” one group member noted, whereas in the past more formal and respectful attitudes were expected. One participant described the generational changes this way: The older generation is dying out and being replaced with a younger generation of grandparents who used to be the stabilizing force in those areas. And I think the fact that we as a people, we’re losing our own traditions and level of respect because the people we always looked to keep us on point are no longer there. And they have been replaced. (7) Hopelessness: A lack of hope passed down from community leadership to parents and then to children was also listed as a cause of violence. Fear for the future implications of generational hopelessness and helplessness was communicated by one participant: There’s something else I’ve seen over the years that scares me to death… [when they] resort back to the days of yore when blacks had no control. And they carry that mentality through the generations. Instead of teaching the next generation that we can in fact do better if we have the ability and the will to do it. But there’s some people who have remained hung up on, we can’t because we’re black… there’s no point in even trying. Respondents viewed violence in the African American community as a destructive cycle that cripples potentially productive future citizens, breaks up the family, and slows the overall development and betterment of the community. [Violence is] …killing off what could be some good potential citizens with the violence that occurs… they can be innocent bystanders with a promising future and just because of the crimes that do occur, that could knock that potential individual out of a good future. Participants also believed that in addition to these consequences, violence creates a void in society: the lack of available potential mates for young African American women and a lack of role models for young children who are seeking adults to look up to and mentors to provide guidance. In order to solve the problem of violence within the African American community, group members saw opportunity as a major key to facilitate change, educationally and economically. Increased education on communication and anger management skills was described as one possible solution, and one member suggested offering more forums and opportunities for dialogue within the community in order to discuss the topics of race and violence. The presence of visible, strong leaders who are able to take a stand on issues, advocate, and be prominent figures within the community was another need mentioned within the group. Also unity, collaboration, and working together for change to promote the issue among a wider audience were listed. It’s gonna take leadership in the African American community… there’s not another Martin Luther King, it’s not Al Sharpton, it’s not anybody else, they’re not there, so we have to get over that and understand that there aren’t those people but collectively there are… different folks throughout the country who are working in satellite areas and that we as a black people need to come together to really sit down and deal with what’s going on with us so it’s not just an African American thing. There were several issues that the group recognized as obstacles in addressing violence in the African American community. Group members decided there needed to be more organizations and resources for victims of domestic violence, and that these programs and resources needed to be more accessible to the community. They cited the lack of opportunities for African Americans to seek help and to better their lives as another obstacle. Finally, they recognized that the opposing viewpoints of those who deny that violence is a problem within the community were another hurdle to surmount. 23 Greenville - Faith Community E astern North Carolina often has been called the “bible belt” by other parts of the state, by the southeastern region of the United States, and by the nation. Eastern North Carolina has an abundance of churches, which represent the major religions, protestant denominations, and sects and “starter churches” that populate the area east of Raleigh, the state’s capital. Pitt County, the community where this focus group was conducted, has a population of 134,936 persons; it also has 291 recognized houses of worship. There literally is a church on almost every corner. There are counties in the eastern part of this state, which are predominantly African American, and other counties where American Indians are the largest ethnic group. Eastern North Carolina is an area where religion and spirituality have been integral parts of African American culture. Many of the social movements of the midtwentieth century originated in North Carolina churches and were fostered by religious leaders and congregations, which sought change for all minority groups. Leaders such as Ben Chavis, Jesse Jackson, Sr., Kelly Alexander, and Henry Frye were congregational leaders who with their fellow parishioners led the way of change for African Americans. Religion and churches helped a people define themselves rather than education or occupation or other socioeconomic descriptors (Boyd-Franklin, 1989). In eastern North Carolina, the church is the first resource consulted for help with family problems (Ellison, 1993). That fact is the primary reason that the faith perspective is included in this discussion of domestic violence within the community setting. Ten persons (8 women and 2 men) comprised the Faith Community Group, which responded to the 9-question interview. The two males in the group were ministers from the Pitt County and Lenoir County areas; two other group participants described themselves as an associate minister/mental health professional and as a minister/social worker. Other respondents included domestic violence service providers (2), a retired teacher’s assistant, a homemaker and youth leader, a social worker, and a nurse. Pitt County, the community where this focus group was conducted, has a population of 134,936 persons; it also has 291 recognized houses of worship... 24 Respondents initially identified violent crime (i.e., assault on a female, assault on children, gang violence) as the primary type of violence that occurs in Pitt County and in eastern North Carolina. After some discussion, they added violence related to drugs, psychological intimidation, and violence that results from internalized racism. They proposed that the latter refers to “black on black” violence and to “black on white” or interracial violence. Sexual assaults, school (middle/high school/university) assaults, and physical domestic violence incidents were discussed by the respondents. Of particular interest were the actions taken by local hospital police to protect workers and other patients from all forms of violence. The group overwhelmingly agreed that violence against women has first place both in frequency and severity in eastern North Carolina. Gang violence and its rapid growth over the past decade was a concern of respondents. They cited organized gang activity in Greenville and Pitt County. This activity occurs in Asian gangs, Latino gangs, “Crips” and “Bloods”, all of which have been documented by sheriffs’ departments and police departments. Some gang members have been attacked while hospitalized, which has required increased hospital security. Women and gang membership were spoken of as particularly problematic --women often are gang raped or required to have sexual intercourse as part of initiation rituals. “Other women are expected to not only have sex, but also to fight with other women who are either in the gang or the mates of gang members.” Group respondents expressed concern about the ferocity that exists among male and female gang participants. There was brief discussion about similarities and differences between Latino and African American homes, specifically about the dominant roles of Latino men, the subordinate roles of wives or partners, and the roles of paramours who may or may not live with the Latino couples in their abusive homes. Violence between lovers and spouses in the homes serves to model behavior for children. At schools, these children become bullies or are again victimized. Whatever youngsters learn in their homes, “they take it to school.” One woman remarked, I work in a pediatric clinic, doing evaluations . . . We have young children who tell us things about themselves and their friends, and you know that they’ve been either sexually assaulted themselves or exposed in some way. … We had a 4-year old the other day and we were talking about what are the kinds of things that you do and he said, ‘Well you know, boys have to hump their girlfriends. Children witness the sexual assault and violence in a variety of locations–in their homes and neighborhoods. “Yes, there are sexual assaults and sexual activities now even in our high schools. Sometimes it’s called rape and sometimes it isn’t. But it really has to make you wonder about the safety of the high school environment.” One male discussant said that he did not think “sexual assault” when condoms are found. Instead, he offered, “that’s consensual sex. Because in a real assault on a woman, a man would not take the time to use a condom.” To use a condom would suggest that it was consensual. A woman protested, noting that she works with perpetrators who have offended more than once and they used a condom because they “don’t want to get caught.” ...There literally is a church on almost every corner. When asked the cause(s) of violence today, several probable causes were presented. These included: (1) The lack of discipline with today’s children. “We were disciplined by our parents, but, now the law says that we can’t be hit youngsters”; (2) Children are being left home by themselves –unsupervised-- while mothers go to work and fathers goes to work. Kids are left to take care of themselves and they do whatever they want to do, to have their way.” (3) “Too many times children are raised by only one parent, usually the mother.” (4) “They do things in secret, a lot of girls get pregnant and the mother doesn’t even know that they are pregnant cause they wear all these big clothes and, when they have the baby it’s like a surprise to everybody.” 25 When asked, how do you think violence compares in importance to other problems that are facing the African American community? One group member responded: I live in the northeastern part of North Carolina. I serve four counties, which are among the thirteen poorest counties in the state. In our area, there are no major industries; employment is farming. The lack of unemployment benefits, the amount of money that people make per capita is not enough to cover their needs. Then comes the ‘drinkin’’ and the drugs and frustrations, it all just fits together and it makes the environment ripe for domestic violence. There were differences of opinion about the role of drugs in violence. One participant linked drugs to social and political unrest (high unemployment and rioting), the economy and anti-poverty programs during the 1950s and 1960s, and to issues of social control most often identified with the public welfare system. Additionally, one participant remarked, In some cases individuals may use drugs as a crutch. But, there are individuals whose lives have been totally changed because of drugs and substance abuse, so they’re doing things that they would not ordinarily do. We have a methadone clinic within our agency so that those individuals who have been heroin abusers can come and receive methadone so they can actually go to work everyday. When asked again about the causes of violence, focus group participants cited ignorance, lack of strong family values, learned behavior, the media, and poor choice control. One female participant said, “Black people are dealing with the problems they always have –drugs, alcohol, promiscuity, television violence, there’s nothing new.” She spoke about the silence associated with violence and drugs, saying, “we don’t bring them out of the home; we hide them out of public site. We live a façade.” The group agreed that the problems continue because you cannot fix something that you don’t acknowledge. They spoke of some abusive homes to which the community seems to turn a “blind eye.” When asked again about the causes of violence, focus group participants cited ignorance, lack of strong family values, learned behavior, the media, and poor choice control. When asked the most important cause of violence, respondents mentioned drugs, unemployment or underemployment, education and “under-education,” and violence depicted in the media. Three persons expressed their frustration with television and radio media. They were concerned about the images of Black people –Black males in particular—depicted there. The group expressed some concerns again about unemployment and the loss of major companies (TRW, Proctor and Gamble, etc.) to Mexico. They saw the movement of these businesses as lost opportunities for improvement and progress. Learned helplessness or the lack of a work ethic for multiple generations was the topic of some discussion among participants. Discussants thought that money alone was not the answer to fix the problem of family violence; there is a need for some motivated education. I have people who are 23 years old and have six children already. Let’s pretend I am one of them. So, if I don’t know and I wasn’t taught, how can I pass correct information on to my children? Especially if I’m not the type of person to go out and ask somebody for help. … There are a lot of women who will not take the initiative to ask somebody for help. You can’t always blame the children cause you gotta see where they’re coming from. … 26 Take a family of five --three children, husband, wife. If the mother and father have never gone to college or never finished high school, unless they’ve been out in the world and have educated themselves on their own, they don’t know to tell their children about things important to them. Another respondent asked, When did this happen? I grew up in a home with a grandfather who had a sixth-grade education, who college-educated five children. And then turned around and started making sure that his grandchildren, of which I was one, was college-educated. Even though he dropped out of school to take care of his family when his father died, his whole goal was to insure that all his children were college educated. And he did that. They had a vision that they wanted something better. What happened between my grandfather’s generation and now that they don’t have that vision any longer? When queried about a link between how families pass on information and success to their children and if that can be linked somehow to the violence in the community, respondents talked about learned behavior and lifestyle. An example of condoning violence was given, a participant allowed a family victimized by the male partner to seek refuge in her home. “But you didn’t call it violence, you just said he’s cutting up again and they need a safe place. When you grow up and get educated, you realize it was family violence.” Respondents thought that violence segregated people within the African American community. This was a major concern as the group again discussed black violence, media portrayal and racial competition. They talked about the unique role of the church, given its history and social impact on the black community. Several women spoke of religious persons who were abusers of women and children. One spoke about “church officials who will get the pastor out of jail after he’s been picked up for assaulting his wife.” A male participant made two points: (1) church “members should not allow their pastors to do that [domestic violence]” and (2) church ministries should be integrated to include all of the problems that you know exist in your community. If they do not, then the minister is wrong, and the parishioners are wrong for allowing this to happen. “A minister is called by God and will be led by God and he will know what the real problems with violence are. He must spend time with each of the ministries and direct them in areas. What has happened is we are selecting the wrong ministers.” The general consensus was that the church needed to assist in more finding homes for families affected by violence. When asked if men and women are impacted differently as a result of violence, one respondent said, “I’ve heard from domestic violence programs that you’ll have judges who say there’s no such thing as domestic violence in this community. And so consequently he [the judge] will not hear any of the cases. So, there is no defense for women in that judicial system.” On other occasions, “perpetrators who come to court will bring their ministers with them. Male abusers forget all about Christianity and the Bible until they have to stand up there before the judge.” Other persons spoke about the political nature of the justice system, that it is often politically stacked against the female victim. One participant said, I have to commend our three district court judges and one chief district court judge who started our batterer’s task force. We now have a full-fledged batterer’s program. The three judges that I work within our area have a ‘no drop’ policy when it comes to crimes that were committed against females. They will not drop the charges. Abusers are going to go before the judge. He may dismiss it, but he’s not going to allow that victim to go to the prosecutor before that case starts and say, ‘We’ve made up and I’d like to have the charges dismissed.’ The judge is going to hear it out. In the state of North Carolina, Hertford, Bertie, and Northampton counties have the highest conviction rates for domestic violence in the state of North Carolina. The three counties are rural and very poor. The general consensus was that the church needed to assist in more finding homes for families affected by violence. 27 Another remarked, “In Bertie County, even one of the big judges beat his wife. And he had to go to jail. But they sent him out of Bertie County to serve his time. What I’m saying is that one of the same district judges you talked about, beat his wife. They have problems too or at least he sure did.” The group identified seven solutions that the eastern North Carolina community developed to combat domestic violence. They included: (1) A domestic violence program in the Pitt County hospital that involves the chaplaincy, the hospital police department, and the INSIGHT support program (psychologist, counselors, etc. who work with staff and link them with the police and educate them about how to go through the court system to get the kind of protection that they need.) Victims also get emotional help to build their self-esteem. (2) Mandatory education for families who have experienced violence. On other occasions, “perpetrators who come to court will bring their ministers with them. Male abusers forget all about Christianity and the Bible until they have to stand up there before the judge.” (3) Social outreach. “They have a very good fatherhood initiative for fathers or soon to be fathers. They accept young men who want to come in and be educated about certain aspects of dealing with violence and other things.” (4) Presentations to the general public and the faith-based community. “You have to keep reinforcing the message. Earlier is better. You cannot wait till children who are violent get to the middle school and try to change their behavior. We should start in Pre-K.” (5) Another solution is to educate the faith community, especially the leaders. “Education is important for pastors, who need to know how to help their congregations.” (6) Creation of a “safe” group, sponsored through mental health, which could be housed in a church was proposed. One participant noted that a women’s advocacy group in Durham was trying to locate a domestic violence support group in a church setting. (7) A nurse participant noted, “One of the things that we did at the hospital was to put brochures and information in the ladies rooms. Female victims can just pick up the information and put it in their pocketbooks and go on.” One participant, a member of the North Carolina Coalition Against Domestic Violence, asked, “How do you bring the faith community to the table about domestic violence issues? We have found getting them to the table to be extremely difficult.” This question segued smoothly into a discussion of barriers or obstacles to the faith community’s efforts in combating domestic violence. Nine obstacles were cited. 1. Territoriality surrounding domestic violence. 2. Program staffs and church personnel do not want to get involved in family issues. 3. Lack of ownership or leadership in the area of domestic violence. 4. The need for Fatherhood programs to evolve to keep the attention of abusers and potential perpetrators. 5. Participation in a Batterer’s Intervention Program should be legally required of all perpetrators. Churches could be very influential with this because pastors counsel the individual partners, but pastor should not try to counsel the couple together. 28 6. One person questioned how to get people to work with groups. The response was, “there are lots of free speakers and trainers around the state of North Carolina who will come for free of charge and talk to you about violence. ... It may be a good way to start support groups or open discussions --just like some churches have auxiliary meetings during the weeknights. Why not have somebody from a domestic violence program come and just talk to ministries or the congregation about the dynamics of domestic violence?” 7. Concern about the secrecy of domestic violence becoming part of a woman’s taboo was raised. “And when do we remove that veil from her? We need to stop having her own more of the problem than is hers?” 8. Lack of male attendance and involvement in church activities was questioned. “We are women that are in the church and are saved and our spouses are not. The Bible says ‘unequally yoked’ and that’s what’s going on.” 9. Women who abuse men was seen as an aberration, but still a domestic violence problem. “Yes, sometimes men are victims of domestic violence. We…need to acknowledge that. We [have] a growing number of single fathers within the faith community separated from females who probably grew up in abusive environments themselves and were abusive either to their children and sometimes even attacked their husbands... It’s a lot lower frequency… I saw a statistic that said about four percent of all domestic violence cases are men being battered.” “Shame goes with that. If you are a young lady or a young man in a home and you see mom attacking dad, what does that do to your image of manhood?” The Faith Community focus group generated a call to “galvanize and publicize” resources to get the word out about domestic violence. Take key personnel in churches (e.g., pastors, lay leaders, ministry group leaders) to lunch, invite them to special meetings, help people to assume responsibility for eliminating the secrecy surrounding family violence, and begin to work toward solutions were essential steps. Members also spoke of more opportunities for focus groups—such as this one—to galvanize support and generate possible solutions. 29 Greenville - Human Services T here has been some recognizable movement toward eliminating the different forms of family violence since the 1950s. In the 1950s, there was focused emphasis in the area of child abuse. Ending spouse abuse and partner abuse were the goals of the 1970s. “Curb the violence” efforts characterized the 1980s as society sought to prevent elder abuse, which was expanded in the 1990s to persons of different sexual orientations. Ending the violence has been the goal of social institutions, humanitarian organizations, human service programs, academicians, and community leaders. Additionally, communities have significantly increased the network of human services that work to eradicate domestic violence. In the 1950s, there was focused emphasis in the area of child abuse. 30 A number of the community responses noted above fall within the category of human service initiatives. The community assessment described in this report is one of the first efforts to explore the extent of and meaning of violence among eastern North Carolina’s African American human service providers. Five women and one man comprised the human service group who were interviewed for this report. Their professional affiliations were diverse; participants included the director of a regional domestic violence office, a social worker/ manager of a local community shelter, an administrator with the NC Council for Women, a DSS social worker, a social worker/clinical analyst with the hospital emergency department, and a women’s service center counselor. Group members identified ten different types of violence as common in eastern North Carolina. These twelve types included physical abuse, which included physical assault of humans and other animals, sexual abuse/date rape, gang (especially youth) violence, verbal (emotional/mental) abuse, and media violence. They discussed abuse over the lifespan, identifying child abuse, spouse or partner abuse and elder abuse. Respondents talked at great length about health abuse, which they defined as destructive practices that affect human health; examples of health abuse included medical neglect, abuse of drugs and alcohol, and unhealthy lifestyle practices. There was much discussion about major crimes committed in the counties east of Interstate-95, a highway commonly referred to as the drug corridor, and police brutality. Power or political abuse by politicians also was a topic of heated conversation, with references made to recent arrests and misuse of campaign funds charges against some North Carolina state and national politicians. It was the consensus of the group that community violence or violence against one another, whether black-on-black or black-on-white or white-on-black, is a very serious problem in eastern North Carolina communities. When asked about the relationship between these many different kinds of violence, respondents stated that they are interrelated. They talked about multiple underlying triggers of violence and abuse, which included family problems, drugs, alcohol, and unemployment. One respondent noted, “Violence is right up there with unemployment, poverty, and education. Drugs are in there too; drug trafficking is a dominant means of income. We can’t fix one problem without looking at the others. They are all related; they cannot be separated.” One female talked about learned behavior, when a child who has witnessed violence in the home is the class bully or may be abusive to animals. They continued this discussion and included youngsters in LDH (behaviorally challenged classes), which they described as filled mostly with black youngsters who cannot control their behavior. Participants saw violence in the community as affecting the entire community in a very negative way; they noted it is increasing and becoming more severe. “Thug mentality” is a phrase that they used to describe black male youth who exert negative peer pressure and threaten both the young and old. If not curtailed, they think this negative violence and attitude will cause the disintegration of African American families and the larger minority community. The human service providers talked at length about the culture of rural communities, where abuse and discipline can be seen as synonymous acts, where music, television, and video games entertain the young and hook them on the violence so prevalent in the words and actions of the “stars.” If it is popular in a song or movie or game, many youngsters think it is appropriate behavior and seek to copy it. This is especially true for rural youth who may be starved to know and do what the “metropolitan” kids say and do. Many talked about the “Janet Jackson wardrobe malfunction” and “all of the clamor it caused.” When asked about the causes of violence in the African American community, respondents named five causes, which were, (1) Lack of knowledge. A person can only be taught up to the level of the person’s understanding who is teaching you. … That’s the way I was brought up in my home, that men are supposed to hit their wives and things like that, then I can only teach that behavior to my children, and so on and so on and then you get into the generational curses, and generational cycles of violence. (2) Lack of education and the inability to break the vicious cycle of violence, (3) Lack of good coping skills, which are exacerbated by the economy, unemployment, lack of education, disintegration of the family. (4) Hopelessness and despair which are magnified within the family environment, and (5) Provoking behavior, when you push somebody to the limit, as institutionalized racism does to minorities. Black women are not faced with it as much, but black men seem to take it more internally. And of course they cannot lash out, or they feel they cannot lash out at the person who is exhibiting this racism, whether it be their boss or another man at a grocery store or wherever they may be in their day-to-day activities. On the job they take it. But, they come home and take it out violently on the people to whom they should come to for solace. One participant coined the phrase, “Hurting people hurt each other” to describe the tendency of people to express their frustrations by hurting the people closest to them. When asked about the causes of domestic violence in the black community, respondents cited: (1) Insecurity that can be traced back to racism. “It is the lack of security or lack of stability in one’s day to day activities, in his/her job, and being very insecure in the sense that, you know, how/where/when am I going to be compared to my white counterpart, or my Asian counterpart for that matter.” Ending spouse abuse and partner abuse were the goals of the 1970s. (2) Stress associated with efforts to survive economically in an unfriendly and unforgiving environment. 31 (3) Lack of communication between spouses and between all members of the family unit. “A lot of times I find that, we’re talking but we’re not really saying a lot. … We’re talking but we need to learn how to effectively communicate, which is … a discussion within which one can agree or disagree on something.” (4) Ineffective coping skills. “Violent people cope, but in inappropriate ways.” (5) Lack of self-esteem on both the victim and the abuser’s part, and (6) Violence is learned behavior –from parent to child, from the community, from the media, from any source that produces desired results and can be emulated. Group participants moved easily into a discussion of the daily doses of explicit sex and violence provided through television soap operas. The sexual violence often is presented in very subtle ways and is so tightly interwoven into the story lines that negative experiences are glamorized. Several participants suggested the same phenomenon happens multiple times a day on radio music stations by rap artists through their CDs. The group spent a considerable amount of time talking about “family time,” necessary time that adults must spend with children –listening and monitoring and molding their behavior. One respondent said, Growing up, it used to be that parents spent quality time with their children instead of … just buying them a lot of things. Now children are focusing more on other things instead of time with the family. …They have other influences growing up that we didn’t have --drugs and things like that. Even though my Mom and Dad both worked, we knew we had certain things to do. But today our children have a whole lot. It’s a different world in middle school than when we went to junior high. Parents have to spend quality time with our children not just trying buy their affection. Another respondent noted, Social efforts were expanded in the 1990s to persons of different sexual orientations. One of the other problems I see is that the age of the parent is so close to the age of the child that the developmental issues that you think happen with a maturing individual haven’t happened. … Look at a fourteen year-old who had a baby and the child is in middle school. The parent is now twenty-four; twenty-nine is the prime age when most young adults are beginning to have fun, find their careers, know who they are, have good self-images. But, momma’s partying because she never had the chance to grow up, to hit the developmental milestones or benchmarks. … She says, yes, I had the child, but he’s there and I’m over here. And the only time you can get them together is if the child is getting expelled from school or is in court getting ready to go to prison. Another common scenario was discussed by the group, one which has a grandparent struggling to raise a child. As long as they provide shelter and food and clothing, they don’t see any visible signs of something going awry. A lot of times a grandparent may feel that everything is all right until they get that bad report from school. … We’ve got twenty-eight year-old grandparents. … Yes, there are some parents and grandparents who may themselves be very young ‘children.’ They may never have learned how to spend time with family. Participants were asked about possible differences in the causes of domestic violence in other regions and in the rural east. They responded that, “Violence is violence no matter where it is.” They did note differences saying that in this rural area, there is (1) almost no public transportation other than taxis and (2) a lack of human service resources or other resources to get children involved and steer them in different directions. 32 In an urban area you may have boys club, girls club and five million other things available to help plug kids into options. We may have one boys’ club in a one hundred square mile area, if we have that. It is made worse by the problem of transportation ‘cause they can’t get to the one boys club -because there’s no mass transportation in rural areas. … There’s not as many services. Oftentimes if you call a shelter they may not have space for you. And there is only one shelter in the community and it serves all the surrounding communities. It’s an impossible situation. Respondents all thought that violence has a strong negative impact on the community when asked, how does domestic violence affect this community? They mentioned that violence destroys family units, which are already in trouble. They talked about financial repercussions for men [with families], who are in jail. “It’s taking away from the family income --they’ve gotta pay attorneys, fines, and all the other costs of court actions.” One respondent returned the conversation to the young, “The kids often end up exhibiting negative behavior in the schools and being placed in alternative schools or in educable or other labeled and labeled classes where most of the students are black.” Purple and black shoes symbolize the number of domestic violence deaths in North Carolina in 2004. A female respondent asked that the group think about how the increased number of black males in prison denies the “family unit.” The “family unit” gets to be viewed only at visitations to the regional facility to see daddy or momma and that’s a very different image from the traditional black family of twenty-five, thirty years ago. Imprisonment of black people was viewed from another perspective by one participant, who said, By warehousing our black men, we have provided jobs for another class of people, another class of employment. And it’s a booming business. … We now have another prison going on line, a medium-security prison in Greene County. That will bring jobs to the area, but it will have a very negative impact for black men and for black women who will not have those jobs. They will be the prisoners who are overseen by those in the new jobs. Another participant said, “I’ve worked with several men who have tried to change their lives, to flee violent situations. But because they have a past reputation, if they were charged with assault or domestic violence ten years ago, the police can arrest them again because they have a history of past of domestic violence. So it can have a long-term effect; it can prevent them from getting good jobs, which also keeps their families in that poverty cycle.” The increased number of females imprisoned for assaults and murders were concerns of the participants. “…Years ago, you just never heard of a woman killing her husband or anything like that. It was very rare, but no longer.” The group digressed briefly to discuss an incident of female violence –“she glued him.” When asked what “she glued him” meant, they responded, Lorena Bobbit --she used a knife, sometimes women use glue. We had an incident of that about fifteen years ago in Kinston. I remember it was quite something for this area. … And she glued him down with Superglue. … The man died. Amazing. It was a violent retaliation for a lifetime of domestic violence. She had been the victim, so she glued him. Just like Bobbit, same kind of thing. We had an incident of that about fifteen years ago in Kinston. I remember it was quite something for this area. … And she glued him down with Superglue. .… The man died. 33 The consensus was that consequences differ when the group was asked if consequences differ for African American men and for women who commit violence. Examples presented were: (1) the responses of sheriffs’ departments to domestic violence. The law officers “always arrest the man” even though the female may be at fault. “They’re supposed to take both, but I’ve seen situations first-hand where they had to literally drag her off of him and they still arrested him and took him away. There is a difference because of social and political stereotypes.” (2) Racial profiling. The impact of it has drastically increased in eastern North Carolina. (3) African Americans are less likely to have adequate representation in all aspects of the criminal justice system -- representation by black lawyers, black people on juries, or by the number of African American judges, and By warehousing our black men, we have provided jobs for another class of people, another class of employment. And it’s a booming business. (4) A difference was proposed when situations pitted African American men versus white men. “… It depends on who the victim is. In black on black crime the legal system never really comes into play. But, if the victim is a white person there is more of a chance the black person will be incarcerated and convicted. …It is not necessarily gender-based consequences, there are racial differences in general.” Members of the group identified a number of solutions to domestic violence in eastern North Carolina: • Restraining orders are considered to be generally ineffective. They spoke about many women who had secured restraining orders and were killed by their partners. • More successful solutions are needed that utilize a holistic approach to working with families embroiled in domestic violence. The holistic model provides education about assistance that is available through the mental health community that the entire family needs, not just the perpetrator. …And long term, not just whatever’s court mandated for the abusers. We have abuser treatment programs set up across the state now for fiftytwo weeks. He will stay on task, for many reasons or go back to jail. • There are programs that offer treatment for the whole family in three phases, (1) individual counseling for the perpetrator and for the victim, (2) couple counseling, and (3) total family counseling. The victim may have to realize that the solution may not be to keep the family together. Sometimes it’s not realistic.” • Empowerment. Women, or the lower-income members of the family, need to be able to take care of the family and to sustain themselves without the husband or the mate • Empowerment also is needed to give middle-income individuals a voice. Because of pride, status, and the ability not to care for self, the middle-income group may be locked in denial about domestic violence. This was seen as especially important for partners of policemen, firemen, lawyers, physicians, judges, etc. 34 • Domestic violence education must be made available in the school systems because our teachers may be able to get through to children when parents cannot. Programs are needed in our schools to examine domestic violence (beginning in kindergarten), dating violence (beginning in elementary school), self-esteem (beginning in kindergarten), and to offer more training classes for teachers so that they can recognize cultural differences surrounding domestic violence. • Community awareness campaigns to “make people aware that they do have options.” • Religion is an important solution available in the Black community, it is important to educate ministers about domestic violence and to discourage them from “encouraging women to be submissive to men” and “sending wives back into abusive situations because the bible says the man is the head of the family.” When asked about obstacles to solving problems of domestic violence in their community, eastern North Carolina human service participants unanimously agreed that the church is a primary obstacle. Other obstacles cited were a need for more battered women’s shelters and more counseling programs for abusers, more funding for social programs, research about both victims and perpetrators, and job-training opportunities for economically distressed areas. Group members also noted that rural eastern North Carolina has a few sparsely placed services for both victims and abusers. These services take the form of treatment facilities that stress holistic care, housing, and specialized services through the public hospital. They thought community resources have different levels of effectiveness, but that ultimately the responsibility for ending domestic violence in the black community must rest with the community itself. There will never be enough public or non-state funding, so communities have to rely on other initiatives, i.e., churches, Boys and Girls Clubs, and opportunities such as this one to come together to discuss violence and methods to resolve it. Oftentimes if you call a shelter they may not have space for you. And there is only one shelter in the community and it serves all the surrounding communities. It’s an impossible situation. 35 Greenville - GLBTQ D omestic violence is a serious social problem in North Carolina, a state which most recently passed revisions to its Domestic Violence statutes in 2003. While the revised legislation provides additional protection to a majority of the state’s residents involved in various forms of domestic disputes, one group, those who experience domestic violence from same sex partners, continues to be marginalized. To learn more about the thoughts and unique circumstances of same sex partners in rural eastern North Carolina, six members of the gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgendered (GLBTQ) community gathered to provide information about the experiences of those in same sex relationships. Three males and three females comprised the GLBTQ focus group, who were interviewed for this report. The female participants identified their professionals as social worker (2) and an office manager; the male participants were employed as a case manager, a clinical lab scientist, and a computer programmer. Focus group members identified police brutality, physical abuse (hitting, slapping, pushing), mental abuse (fear), and verbal abuse (threats) as the most prevalent forms of violence found within their community. They discussed verbal threats as common communication in black families and expressed their embarrassment when such threats are recounted in mixed racial groups. The group also identified destruction of property (cutting clothing, damaging vehicles, etc.), stalking, substance abuse, and media violence as common in the region. The consensus of participants was that victims only talk of their abuse after the relationships end and that denial of abuse in relationships makes it difficult for the GLBTQ community to address violence and victimization. When asked about the relationship between the identified types of violence, respondents said they saw the kinds as “piggybacking” off of each other, as “interrelated,” and as often dependent on the socioeconomic class and educational levels of both the victims and abusers. They quickly noted that they recognized violence as occurring across all socioeconomic levels, but thought it occurred most frequently among children from “lower economic groups.” “I wonder if the perpetrator initially feels bad about it, but when they do it so much, when it becomes second nature, do they feel guilty anymore?” 36 When asked about causes of violence, participants talked about intergenerational exposure to violence and learned behaviors, the collective experience of slavery, and the biblical implications of “spare the rod and spoil the child.” Respondents spoke of “parents wanting to control our children in public” and concern about “what might happen to them in the system” if they did not provide strong discipline and control. “If I don’t beat you, the police is going to be beating you later,” was stated by one participant. There was discussion of control and its purpose in same sex relationships. Respondents saw control as used by a “dominant or stronger partner,” of “having the final say in the relationship,” of male (aggressor) and female (non-aggressor). They want to be able to look and identify with their eyes who looks more masculine or feminine. …Roles are very important in the black community. …Straight folks are trying to figure gay and lesbian roles out. … I know of a situation where in a butchfem relationship, the fem woman was beating up the butch person. The fem was the abusive person. Participants talked about how mental illness can exacerbate an already “explosive relationship.” They rejected the notion that rigid roles supported same sex violence and suggested that rigidity was more characteristic of heterosexual society. They repeatedly talked about the silence associated with same sex relationships in eastern North Carolina. One participant mentioned insecurity as a strong cause of domestic violence in gay and lesbian relationships; he clarified the idea by suggesting a causal relationship between insecurity and perceived infidelity by one’s partner. “… Sometimes rigid roles lead to violence but sometimes lack of clarity about roles leads to insecurity that leads to violence.” Respondents agreed there were particular “stressors related to being in the gay lifestyle” and that “gay marriage would not necessarily decrease the rate of violence.” Another respondent spoke about a lack of respect among heterosexuals for same sex relationships, noting, “I don’t know about with men but I think a lot of times straight people don’t respect lesbian relationships. They just assume it’s two women or something, … they wouldn’t flirt with someone’s husband but they don’t have a problem flirting with your woman.” Another concern discussed by the group was social, career related, and financial “partner envy” and the conscious or unconscious competition sometimes associated with it. They talked about partner envy among interracial partners and thought the envy or jealousy or “interracial resentment” would be strongest for the African American person. However, they also agreed, “If the African American was making more, … because that’s not the norm, then that might cause some resentment from the Caucasian person.” Some discussion ensued about the perceived hypersexuality of black women and men causing a Caucasian partner to exert more social control, which could cause domestic violence in interracial relationships. When asked how domestic violence in the gay community compared with other problems facing African Americans, one participant thought, Black people don’t really acknowledge domestic violence as being a holistic problem, as much as an individual problem. They say, it’s their problem over on that street. I think a large percentage of African Americans don’t see it as a large problem. Another participant noted, “… I remember seeing an interview with Mary J. Blige and she said she didn’t know a woman in a relationship who wasn’t being abused. A third respondent said the domestic violence is “very prominent but not important. It is prominent but it’s ignored.” She continued, “I think you have a lot of generational domestic violence victims and perpetrators within family systems. I think you have both perpetrators and victims within one family system --so it just kind of evens out and negates each other.” Another woman spoke about the nature of black same sex violence, saying, “They may be getting abused badly so the response is just to do something back. They’re trying to slash their man or whatever but it doesn’t really solve anything because the same cycle just keeps happening.” Respondents purported that the nature of “the violence is different. …Somebody might beat you down in our community, but in the white community they have other ways to do it (beat you down) that are vicious, more subtle -- maybe you’ll lose your job or something like that.” “So many people are just used to violence, they don’t see it as something wrong.” The community’s perception of the enormity of domestic violence was reflected in another exchange. I don’t know that we do a good job as a community of identifying our problems and, and dealing with them. Even in the media and rap, we’re talking about violence amongst ourselves, it’s a lot of black on black crimes. … I don’t see that we’re doing a whole bunch to try and resolve those issues. Going back to the idea of slavery, you have to endure to get through it. Sometimes we don’t really acknowledge our problems. I don’t know a big problem that we’re as a community fighting against right now. … It would be too overwhelming if we started dealing with all the 37 problems, the health concerns, violence, teenage pregnancy, black on black crime. We ignore a lot thinking one day it’s going to get better or the Lord’s going to see us through. … It’s that religious thing again. That somehow it’s just going to be okay. Especially in the Southern areas, there’s a strong religious belief that if you just keep praying everything’s going to be okay. You got slapped but just stay and hold on. The introduction of religion prompted a discussion of what the group termed the “big sin category,” which they described as “huge.” They talked about an alternate lifestyle as “the worst thing you could do.” I have never gone to a service where they really get on the gambler. The whole sermon, but I have gone to church and the whole sermon is, these gay people they’re trying to get all sorts of rights and I’m so tired of them trying to legalize this sin … Respondents thought that GLBT communities might be ahead of heterosexual in dealing with HIV and other health issues. They thought of themselves as having more “educational awareness.” Others said that many African Americans in their community dismissed health issues and different forms of violence “as a white concern saying, we don’t deal with that.” Clarification suggested that African American people in eastern North Carolina categorize black gays and lesbians as something “white.” Another person thought whites were more accepting of gay people than black parents are. Still others thought black straight people accept white gay people easier than they accept black gay people. …It’s cause there’s lower expectations or less care and concern about blacks from blacks. Especially in the Southern areas, there’s a strong religious belief that if you just keep praying everything’s going to be okay. 38 When asked about the consequences or effects of violence and abuse on the African American community and on black gay and lesbian people in particular, respondents acknowledged that all pay a heavy price. Specific consequences included low self-esteem for victims and fear for bystanders who see violent incidents. Examples of fear included one respondent who recalled being at the club and seeing somebody slap another person because they gave too much tip money; another person mentioned a fear of escalating violence, asking, “is a gun going to come out next?” One respondent spoke of fear as she recounted having observed “a fight and one lady sprayed another one with pepper spray but it got all of us. We were all choking with burning eyes. It was very uncomfortable.” Other consequences cited were feeling traumatized, feeling helpless, and causing some to re-examine their relationships. When asked about consequences that differ based on gender, the group spoke of female victims feeling especially betrayed by their female partners, feeling “a lack of trust about relationships in general,” victims observing the abusing partner’s struggle with the violent behaviors and then feeling badly about their actions, and anger toward the perpetrator. One male person asked, “I wonder if the perpetrator initially feels bad about it, but when they do it so much, when it becomes second nature, do they feel guilty anymore?” The group then discussed their feelings about victims who stay in abusive relationships and concluded it is frustrating and time-consuming for a community and the individuals in it to constantly deal with relationship violence when it doesn’t stop and when victims threaten, but take no action. The consensus was that police involvement was more of a weapon in the heterosexual community and less in the gay and lesbian community because of fear of being “outted,” of having your business in the street. Several talked about having police watch a violent altercation between same sex partners and “take no action until afterwards, they just figured they could go and sort of beat up on the perpetrator for awhile without filing a report. …I think a lot of times you don’t know if you can trust the police because they might be adding to the violence.” Most agreed that there isn’t much reliance on the criminal justice solution in black GLBT communities. Clarification revealed that blacks, neither heterosexuals nor GLBT persons, do not trust the criminal justice system; but, black gays and lesbians trust it less. All respondents agreed that there should be consequences of violent behavior and that for many the ultimate fear is that the victimized partner will leave the relationship. Particular problems were identified for victims and children who try to leave a violent situation and have nowhere to go. Members noted problems associated with homelessness and talked about the stresses of giving up a certain lifestyle (money, nice home, nice vehicles, security, not having to work, status). When asked about violence leading to other social problems, one respondent spoke about violent substance abuses having children in the child welfare system. Participants did not think that substance abuse caused domestic violence, but did see a correlation between the two phenomena. They identified several potential solutions to partner on partner violence, which included (1) increased media awareness (magazines, billboards, radio), (2) a description/definition of what is violent behavior, (3) options for getting out of a violent situation or of stopping it, (4) getting people to think that violence is a problem. “So many people are just used to violence, they don’t see it as something wrong.” (5) substance abuse counseling and family therapy and couples therapy, (6) more education about domestic violence for the heterosexual community, (7) members of the GLBT community must become more comfortable confronting both victims and perpetrators, and (8) more involvement by the faith community because African Americans “really look to the faith community for direction about what’s right and wrong.” One respondent noted that the church is “quicker to help a family who just lost their home to fire than they are to help a woman who’s being abused.” When asked about barriers to implementing solutions to domestic violence in the GLBT community, a participant noted, “One of the barriers to getting help is that people who are outside our communities can’t distinguish who’s the victim, who’s the perpetrator, or don’t want to take the time to understand, or whatever’s going on.” Instead, one person thought, “They equate it as, y’all are just having a catfight, or something not to be taken seriously.” A second barrier is the need to minimize homophobia so heterosexuals could begin to look at the sanction of same sex relationships. Other obstacles to solutions were (1) lack of resources (needed services in close proximity, funding), (2) lack of back up by members of the GLBT community –some of whom may see abuse as an indication of love, (3) negative attitudes of persons in helping professions (police, hospitals, etc.), (4) no consequences or accountability, (5) lack of clarity about what abuse really is and how it differs from love and protection, (6) lack of leadership, (7) lack of protection under the law, and (8) deathly silence on the part of victims and community. The session concluded with a discussion of community services and transitional housing programs available to the GLBT community, or more correctly the lack of such resources. While Raleigh has a lesbian health resource center, it is 1.5-3.0 hours from most communities in eastern North Carolina. And even Raleigh has no such services/programming for gay men. The general consensus was that rural communities, such as Greenville or Belhaven or Ahoskie or Plymouth, are especially isolated areas for the African American GLBT community. Participants thought that a meeting place for members of the community was essential; this center would have space for educational groups, support groups, crisis information, and refuge for persons in abusive same sex relationships. Participants recognized the dearth of providers and provider agencies available to the straight community in rural eastern North Carolina; this lack of available services was seen as one reason the informal networks that support individuals in the gay and lesbian community survive. The physical isolation, coupled with the lack of government and private program funding, suggest the need for continued reliance on the informal networks. The physical isolation, coupled with the lack of government and private program funding, suggest the need for continued reliance on the informal networks. 39 Greenville - Children and Youth D omestic violence is an issue that affects the family. Those workers who have the job of caring for, educating or aiding children are often confronted with the effects of domestic violence. Their expertise and unique point of view can provide additional insight into the impact of domestic violence on the community as a whole, the responses provided by their own agencies and their beliefs as to the major obstacles surrounding breaking the cycle of domestic violence for the good of future generations. Seven participants comprised the Children and Youth focus group in Greenville, North Carolina. Three males and four females responded to interview questions regarding domestic violence and its impact on the African American community. Their ages ranged from thirty-three to fiftythree, and their professions or experience included roles such as substance abuse program director, social worker, victim advocate, youth leader, and non-profit executive director. When asked what types of violence they associate with the African American community, participants in the Greenville area Children and Youth focus group were able to compile a comprehensive list. Violent behavior among youth was a key category of violence that was discussed. Participants thought youth violence was manifested in ways such as: neighborhood rivalry or gang violence, gun violence, school bullying, and dating violence. Gang violence was viewed as a new and harmful form of violent behavior “starting to float into our communities” and making its presence felt in eastern North Carolina. In addition, respondents noted that instances of homicide, abuse inflicted upon an intimate partner, and violence within rural areas were forms of violent behavior occurring in their community. Members of this group believed instances of violence to be frequent, taking place daily and even hourly. They gave mixed responses when asked about the priority that should be assigned to the problem of violence within the African American community. Some participants thought that it should be ranked high on the list of pressing concerns because of its frequency and the fact that it may be even more prevalent than it appears on the surface. I would say it’s a very high priority because it’s hidden and never talked about. You’d be surprised the number of acts of violence that’s happening in our homes, our neighbors’ homes, but you would never know. Because Mom won’t tell, the kids won’t tell, but Daddy comes out looking like he’s the pillar of the community. But it’s happening in their homes. Those who believed violence to be of high priority viewed the issue as a root cause of other problems affecting community members. Those group members with dissenting opinions ranked violence less high because they saw violence as a consequence of other social problems. Issues such as selfesteem, substance abuse, parenting skills, and pre-existing social inequality were named as topics by these respondents that should be addressed first. 40 With substance abuse and the poverty issues… I think that if we deal with those issues at a young age, parenting skills for younger mothers and fathers, those things that lead to violence, those things that lead to individuals going out to sell drugs because of the fact that they don’t have money or they want that authority. And I think if we deal with those issues, even though the violence is there, but looking in the future, being proactive, if we deal with those issues I think that the violence will decrease… Multiple causes of domestic violence were cited by group participants. (1) Power and control: the abuser perpetrates violence in order to meet his or her need for power or control. And because [the abuser’s] self-esteem is low, it becomes important, even though it’s not a conscious kind of importance, that everyone around him feels a little bit lower. (2) Drug abuse or drug trafficking: when there is not enough money to go around, drug trafficking becomes an attractive way to make money. Group members were concerned with the violence that results from drug deals gone bad, as well as violence that stems from use or abuse of substances. (3) Racism: this is an issue that causes frustration among the stigmatized group. Racism, sexism, and other forms of oppression were viewed as “setting up a cycle” where poverty, violence, and other social ills are incorporated. (4) Poverty: lack of financial resources can keep women in dangerous situations or keep families from being able to move from violent neighborhoods. (5) Perpetuation of violence in the media (6) Kids being written off in schools …this year we celebrate the fiftieth anniversary of Brown versus the Board of Education. And whether or not that was truly in our best interest, it’s debatable. But the reason I’m saying schools is because now we have our children who are attending schools and are being taught, and in some terms controlled by people unlike them… who don’t really care what is happening to them and if a child is having some problems, it’s real easy to say, well they need to go here because they’re unteachable. The definition of family and community has changed… the support systems that perhaps existed at one time that don’t exist anymore because people have migrated, you know, we don’t know our neighbors anymore (7) The lack of certain resources or community commodities was seen as an originating factor for domestic violence. The community was seen as suffering from deficits in the following areas: • Education: the lack of fatherhood programs and pregnancy prevention education was mentioned by the group. • Church influence and involvement: participants felt that the African American community has gotten away from its foundation of church teaching and involvement and the teaching of the Bible. • Availability and support of father figures: 41 I truly believe, especially in the African American community if you look in the prisons and you get the statistics, there’s so many African Americans in there and the rate is so high of those that did not have fathers, which came from fatherless homes. And I don’t think that’s just coincidence. - Community support systems: the changing community has developed different societal norms and the support that used to exist has disappeared. The definition of family and community has changed… the support systems that perhaps existed at one time that don’t exist anymore because people have migrated, you know, we don’t know our neighbors anymore… and the societal expectations are broader and more diverse which offers a lot more options as it relates to choices that people can make which has not strengthened the community necessarily as much as it has weakened some of the systems. - Individual self-respect: the group tied this to low self-esteem in women, causing them to make poor relationship choices and potentially stay in destructive or harmful relationships. …we don’t have the role models that we need to model and mentor. We have them, but we don’t have enough. The consequences discussed by the Children and Youth focus group were varied. High rates of crime, pregnancy, and school-age dropouts were mentioned as concrete and measurable results of domestic violence. The problem of crime in certain areas or neighborhoods was seen as not only dangerous to inhabitants but could also lead to a lack of governmental involvement in neighborhoods and an inability to attract businesses to the area. Stereotypes were also listed as a consequence of domestic violence in the African American community. Stereotypical beliefs could be spread among those outside the community, as well as among community members themselves. One group member elaborated that domestic violence could fuel and perpetuate a helpless mentality within the community. Tension between races, emotional illnesses, and the lack of role models were other consequences of concern that group members noted. …we don’t have the role models that we need to model and mentor. We have them, but we don’t have enough. And a lot of times we don’t have enough of that because people don’t want to go back, because they’re not sure of how to deal with the issues that crime causes, and also it reduces the number of available people that are like people that have a vested interest in the community and the youth and the maintenance of good emotional and mental health. They also believed that the elderly population was one group that especially suffered in the face of violence in the community, as they were prone to become prisoners in their homes due to fear of what might happen to them upon venturing into the neighborhood. There are different consequences for men and women regarding domestic violence involvement, according to the Children and Youth respondents. Some group members thought men could recover more easily than their female counterparts and were capable of still remaining important within community. Men bounce back. He can still be looked up to as being an outstanding person in the community. Even though I committed a violent act against a female. And she is going to go down. It’s going to look like… she caused it to happen. 42 Others thought that it was harder for men to recover once exposed as abusers. They also believed that males suffered upon entrance into the criminal justice system as a result of pre-existing stigmas. I think that the men definitely have the worst consequences when you look at it from [the criminal justice aspect] because of the fact that they already have that stigma on them when they come into the court system so they’re already, the judge is usually just going on past history and experiences so that person’s more apt to be put into prison or to continue that cycle of being put in prison whereas a female would have better opportunities as far as being able to go on probation and enter some other programs. The loss of the male within the home was seen as having a huge impact on the entire household. Respondents thought that women were prone to be targets for blame, more likely to receive assistance, help or resources, and suffered a greater loss financially. Participants thought women had to deal more with indoctrination from the past that might cause them to stay or make them feel that they should keep the family together at all costs. Males and females, according to the group, lose credibility upon the disclosure of a domestic violence problem, and both parties could potentially gain a criminal record. The first solution proposed by the group was the involvement of the entire community, specifically, more involvement on the part of the church and the school system. Having all stakeholders working together was seen as a vital component in reducing or eliminating the problem of domestic violence. Economic improvement, the eradication of racism and sexism, and changes in state and federal laws were other solutions deemed necessary by respondents. One noteworthy proposal was that more influence on the part of African Americans should be exerted, whether through organizations led by African Americans, or through more political involvement on the part of all members of the race. I think we need more African American businesses and our own organizations. Because I think when white people get the funding, and their responsibility is to meet our needs, those needs go unmet sometimes. Mediation, conflict resolution, asset-building in the community, more male involvement, and more investment back into community from those who leave and have success were also seen as vital components of the response to domestic violence. One group member commented on the difficulty in getting successful community members to come back: You look at the community, and you look at, in a lot of situations, the ones that make it out of those situations, the situations were so bad that they don’t want to go back. We are the experts as to what is best for our people. For our community. We are the experts, and if you want to know what we need, come to us. The group then proceeded to discuss the ways in which their own organizations had attempted to respond to domestic violence within their community. Education for youth and families was one area of focus, consisting of how to create and maintain healthy relationships and skills in mediation and confrontation. Programs that were structured and where rules and consequences were enforced were seen as helpful in motivating both youths and adults to comply behaviorally. Alternative schools were one response that was seen as being potentially positive and negative. The negative aspect was that problem children are separated from the rest of the student body, though the fact that they are still able to get education was seen as a plus. A male fatherhood group, a voluntary family support service, and prevention programs were other responses named by group participants. 43 There were several obstacles named by the Children and Youth group. A lack of unity among community entities was one problem, and the lack of negotiators and mediators was closely related to this issue. Additionally, competition and intimidation between organizations was named as problematic in the effort to eliminate violence. …there’s so much competition amongst the church and I see that as an obstacle because, you know, the competition focuses on the kids that come to my church. Not the churches getting together and, let’s see all of these kids and what kind of program we can do to start mentoring, pool our resources and mentor kids from all over the county. Not just those that come from this area. The resultant negative attention garnered by domestic violence was another obstacle in its eradication. Denial by community members or officials, the lack of money and resources, and the lack of properly educated and equipped leaders were also noted by participants. Among community members, the idea sometimes exists that if the problem is not in the individuals own ‘backyard,’ he or she does not have to deal with it, according to one respondent. Another participant described self-hatred and internalized oppression as the major obstacle to overcome in the search for a solution to address domestic violence in the community. Overall, participants agreed that to find effective solutions they must be consulted to provide the knowledge and in-depth information necessary for change. We are the experts as to what is best for our people. For our community. We are the experts, and if you want to know what we need, come to us. 44 Greenville - Community Activists C ommunity Activists play an important role in the Greenville, North Carolina area. They are those individuals who take part in advocacy, are involved and invested in local programs, and have dealt with community members and local leaders alike. This range of experience gives them a wealth of knowledge and a familiarity in the arena of domestic violence within their community. Their perspectives equip them to participate in the dialogue surrounding the causes, consequences and other variables involved in the issue of domestic violence and to lend their own ideas and opinions to shaping the group discussion. Eight members took part in the Community Activist focus group. Six women and two men composed the group and their ages ranged from thirty-five to fifty-nine. Their particular areas of expertise and professional roles include: workforce development, board member, safe house coordinator, corrections professional, family resource coordinator, and organizer. The Community Activist focus group participants were first asked to name different types of violence in the African American community. Group members were able to easily describe several different types of which they were aware. Some of the types of violence that composed their list were: (1) violence against women, (2) the dangerous and violent activities associated with gang factions, (3) drug and/or alcohol-related violence, (4) violence perpetrated by youth and among youth and (5) violence perpetrated between members of different races. The issue of youth violence was a topic of particular interest to this focus group. One participant stated that from her experience in the field, performance of an act of violence had become almost the equivalent of a rite of passage for the young black male population. Youth violence was inseparably linked to peer pressure and, respondents believed, was a means by which children have come to gain acceptance. Another respondent talked about the perpetuation of violence amongst children as a form of self-fulfilling prophecy: …I see our children following a cycle that’s been created over the generations and continuing to keep the violence prevalent and watching outsiders let it occur because it’s almost something that the Afro-American population just should do. Gang violence was seen as a new and troubling phenomenon taking place within the Greenville community. It was described as a “very prevalent” problem and a topic that has been affecting the growth of North Carolina communities as well as one that has been influencing the conversations taking place between the local leadership figures in different cities. . “Now we live in neighborhoods where we mind our own business… we’ve got to start minding other people’s business.” Drug and alcohol-related violence in the African American community was also mentioned. One person with experience working in the domestic violence shelter noted that the women and children who come in due to drug or alcohol-related violence seem to be trapped in a cycle. This respondent stated, “They’re coming in, they’ll go back… [Drug use] has grown. It has gotten deeper and bad.” 45 Members also described as problematic the ongoing cycle of family violence where children are victims of violence or witness it in the home and go on to eventually perpetuate the same type of situation in their own homes, thus affecting generations to come. One participant expressed that the issue of domestic violence was a “huge question” that she always associates with her past history. She related her personal experience in the following way: I suffered child abuse under my father, my father battered my mother. And it was part of a generational sweep, if you will, because I saw my uncles batter my aunts and they battered their children, you know, so it was just, it was part of the family. And as a child, I couldn’t understand why we can’t just teach peace in our homes. So you know, having experienced this in my own family, it’s multi-generational, it’s just so deeply ingrained into our families. Group members were asked to prioritize the problem of violence in their community and discuss its relationship to other social problems. Violence within the African American community is “where everything begins,” according to group respondents. Other problems included: (1) The prevalence of joblessness in the community. “When a person, male, cannot find himself a job… it makes him feel less than a man.” (2) A lack of education, which is a problem that often leads to unemployment. (3) The loss of identity for the African American male, the overall devaluation of African American lives, and an undercurrent of anger in the community. I think years of little boys trying to move from being little boys into young males, they’re dealing with all kinds of impulses and anger and trying to just become the men who they’re supposed to be. I don’t think that society is trying to help them. So I think that all of this anger, putting our men down, is perpetuated by the school and the communities they live in… (4) The workings of the judicial system: Our judicial system is a problem. Because it already says to them, we’re going to get you. And so, the African American man feels as though he’s a target, a sitting target. And he’s explosive, and he’s ready to retaliate. These three issues were all inseparably linked to violence in the African American community in the group discussion. In order to accomplish any sort of progress whatsoever in eradicating these problems, participants felt, violence must be addressed first. 46 Four causes of domestic violence in the African American community were noted in the Community Activist group: (1) Unmet needs: the first cause that group members talked about was that certain individuals act out because of unmet needs due to deficiencies within the family, such as an absent father or mother figure. One participant noted, “…the reality is we’re craving for what we did not get in the family.” (2) Legacy of violence: the history of violence through slavery and oppression for African Americans was viewed as a contributing factor to violence. “We have to really go deep into ourselves with this historical violence that was lodged on us. We are a product of people who were owned by other people.” (3) Helplessness: a third cause of violence was described as a quality of learned helplessness permeating the African American race. One respondent stated this concern by saying: As a community of African Americans, we’ve looked to other folks to cure our ills… I’m sick of us thinking that people that don’t look like us can fix us. We’ve been who we are all of these years, the answers are with us. (4) Concept of manhood: the group noted that many black males are being raised by women, and struggle to define manhood. As adults, men may believe that being a man means being tough and not expressing weakness: Afro-American men view manhood as being tough because this is… a shield that they have had to develop in order to exist and so they take that toughness into the home with them. And not knowing that the greatest men are those that can cry and are sweet and gentle, they feel that they have to be tough and hitting on the kids and hitting on the woman helps them identify with being a man. The consequences of domestic violence that were of concern for this particular group of respondents centered around the damage that has been inflicted upon the image of the African American race as a whole and in particular, the destruction of the African American man. Not only were these image-related concerns damaging to the way society views the African American race, but respondents thought this issue was also damaging to the self-perceptions and self-esteem of this particular population. What people see and hear about themselves from society influences what they believe about themselves. 47 In addition, the economic consequences of domestic violence were also mentioned. The breakdown of the family often leaves members with little to no resources, and they are left having to rely on assistance. …the first thing I noticed when I started working in domestic violence is when the woman comes to the shelter, she is indigent. She has no means of support whatsoever. She’s on zero. So then, the next step is that you start accessing the system. You have to go to DSS, you have to get on food stamps, you have to get Medicaid, you’ve got to then find a way to help her become self-sufficient. Group participants believed that consequences of involvement with domestic violence were different according to gender, in that men could also be affected as victims of battering in the home, and that they may actually suffer more than their female counterparts upon disclosure. Members also discussed the reasons behind why battering of males by females occurs. One reason was previous exposure to violence and the determination to not be vulnerable: And not knowing that the greatest men are those that can cry and are sweet and gentle, they feel that they have to be tough and hitting on the kids and hitting on the woman helps them identify with being a man. 48 What I’ve witnessed is that the women that batter that I’ve talked to say that they saw their mother get battered and they will never batter, they will fight before they allow somebody to fight them. So if there’s an argument or something gets heated, instead of it just being a heated argument, they lash out in retaliation first to let you know, I’m drawing that line here and you’re not gonna hit me and let me show you why. A number of solutions to domestic violence were suggested in the discussion that took place in the Community Activist group. The three main categories of responses to violence were education, involvement, and exposure. Education in the form of life skills training, and education geared specifically towards children and women were seen as necessary solutions. This type of preventive response, participants felt, might stem the tide of violence in the community. One woman shared her approach to educating her son in the home: …I have learned that you have to give [your children] the reality that, and the perception that there’s a different type of reality than what they see in the streets. And then they can sort of interface with others and decide how to act out… and what controls to put on themselves. Overall, participants shared that in their own lives, they desired for their children to take their cues from home instead of from what they see on the streets or in the media. Greater involvement of both individuals and local organizations was another solution. Individuals could be utilized as role models within the community and have an impact on the lives of youth who need mentors and direction. One participant acknowledged that African American men in particular should step up in leadership roles. Neighborhoods are no longer what they used to be, and one member of the group expressed the opinion that people in the community should be more involved in each others lives. “Now we live in neighborhoods where we mind our own business… we’ve got to start minding other people’s business.” Respondents noted that churches could get involved by addressing the issue through education, advocating and helping within their communities. Overall, religious organizations could be helpful by acknowledging and addressing that violence is a real problem that affects everyone, regardless of age, sex, or socioeconomic status. In order to address violence, one participant noted that the problem must be exposed and its taboo must be removed: There’s also still the sector of our African American community that thinks that right now other issues may be more important. For instance, if you talk about black-onblack crime, you could probably fill this room. But if you talk about domestic violence, people don’t seem to just jump in like they do about other things, so I think… we’ve got to bring the issue of domestic violence back to people’s attention because… it exists in all sectors of society. You know, from the educated to the undereducated families, and you know, when somebody’s getting beat, that’s usually the family secret. And we’ve got to help it not be the family secret so that healing can take place. And the only way to help healing to take place is to kind of get those taboo labels off of it. Participants in the group mentioned several programs in which they were personally involved or of which they were aware. Among the responses and programs currently existing within the community were a fatherhood initiative, the Open Arms Ministry, and a family violence center. A program for ex-offenders who are re-entering society (The Going Home Initiative or Project Re-entry) is a national effort that addresses issues like substance abuse, housing, and transportation needs. In addition, programs such as Today’s Teen Women, the sisterhood agenda, and the Titus 2 program are trainings specifically geared for females. The training, Silent Cry from the Pews: Domestic Violence and the Faith Community, was another currently existing solution that the community was utilizing to address the issue of domestic violence. Programs such as Today’s Teen Women, the sisterhood agenda, and the Titus 2 program are trainings specifically geared for females. 49 When asked to pinpoint obstacles to eliminating the problem of domestic violence in their community, respondents cited the inability of family members to effectively and honestly communicate, particularly about their needs or expectations within a relationship. They also explored the idea that the atmosphere of the community had changed over time. With the occurrences of violence within the community has come the invasion of feelings of fear and isolation. …especially being here in North Carolina, some of the rural communities, some of the families, you can be in the middle of a field really, you know, and this horror could be going on and no one can hear you. No one can see you. In addition, feelings of shame for those who experience or are affected by violence are also crippling to the well-being of individuals, families, and the community as a whole. Shame prevents those involved from recognizing the problem, seeking help and resources, and changing the situation. Additionally, according to respondents, the inability to improve ones situation economically and the lack of access to helpful resources are other obstacles to addressing and eliminating domestic violence within the African American community. 50 Conclusion and Recommendations R ural communities are a vital part of the landscape that is the United States of America; and, rural southern communities encapsulate much that is special to the nation’s social and economic history. This report is unique among research because it points to the need to find creative, culturally sensitive responses to domestic violence in the African American community of rural eastern North Carolina. The report presents the ideas of respondents selected from the African American community in 40 rural counties and analyzes their perceptions about the types, causes, solutions, and barriers to violence and domestic violence. Their voices are reflected in this community assessment project report. The report examines those policy issues that can make a difference in the lives of children and families and communities that are struggling to deal with domestic violence. Respondents in this eastern North Carolina assessment strongly asserted that domestic violence requires a multi-pronged approach, one that is particularly sensitive to issues of racism and silence. These rural participants spoke of individual responses to violence that ranged from revenge (“She glued him”) to quiet resolve (“Hurting people hurt each other”). Domestic violence requires that we address and respond to the complex and compound issues, particularly substance abuse, mental illness, economic inequity, unemployment, and racism that surround it. In rural communities it is imperative that the multiplicity of intervention points, i.e., individual, couple, family, group, community, and societal intervention be acknowledged to ensure a sustained change effort. A sustained effort is essential if the community is to develop and maintain policies that create opportunities for economic prosperity, while also protecting groups, and establishing safety nets to eradicate domestic violence in the African American community. Social context is all-important when making strides to resolve any issue. Many African Americans do not concur with the majority race’s definition of domestic violence; they feel that their circumstances place them outside the parameters of the definition and, consequently, make the available interventions irrelevant to them. That violence is a natural occurrence spurred by pressures of helplessness and social and economic oppression was discussed and debated by focus groups in this experience. Many respondents validated this concern. The task then becomes finding ways to define domestic violence that reflect the values and messages of this minority community. Such is critical if we are to fully addressing the issue. Relevant definitions are essential. Definitions set parameters for legal and non-legal situations by creating perceptions as to what is and is not domestic violence, while also establishing an agenda for change. What was agreed upon in the eastern North Carolina focus groups was that by helping black communities define this issue for themselves, policies and treatment can be developed that more accurately reflect the needs of African Americans. Especially being here in North Carolina, some of the rural communities, some of the families, you can be in the middle of a field really, you know, and this horror could be going on and no one can hear you. No one can see you. Service providers and policymakers often underestimate issues of racism, and contemporary discrimination, concerns raised again and again in the focus groups. A history of racism and social deprivation have left irreparable scars on black people, who present as marginalized and demoralized when faced with the need to on community responses to violence. Having to negotiate living in a discriminatory and often hostile society creates feelings of powerlessness and internalized oppression that greatly impact relationships in homes and communities. It is not known just how much issues of racism and contemporary discrimination affect African American relationships. More research is necessary before targeted interventions can be developed to address these broader issues. But, the task of collecting more data must be undertaken because without formally addressing these issues, service providers and policymakers cannot truly eradicate domestic violence in the African American community. 51 The historical context was repeated time and again in this report as a component that must be understood if one plans to change the tide of violence in rural North Carolina African American homes. The suggestion that history impacts intimate relationships was mentioned frequently; but, there is little research that has been conducted to illuminate the ways in which history impacts African American intimate relationships. Research is needed to explore the intricate relationship between history, historical African American responses, and current trends of domestic violence in the African American community. As participants discussed, the historical context is interwoven throughout these relationships, and thus, indicates the need for greater study. We’ve got to bring the issue of domestic violence back to people’s attention because… it exists in all sectors of society. 52 Some eastern North Carolina counties have African American majorities in population. These county areas frequently are marked by high levels of poverty and high out migration of educated, young blacks. Those who remain may have entrenched loyalties to family and friends. They often enable perpetrators of domestic violence by rationalizing their behavior and by regularly providing shelter to endangered family members instead of encouraging shelter services, treatment, and/or legal action by the victim. One reason for this behavior can be attributed to the large physical distances between treatment facilities and shelters. Another reason may be the dire social and economic circumstances of an impoverished population. The differential treatment experienced by African American men and some African American women that was mentioned in other communities also was noted by respondents in eastern North Carolina. Child welfare programs, law enforcement, and the judicial system in particular, were seen as particularly differential to women. Reference was made to the large number of Black men and the increasing number of Black women in prisons as a cause of single parent families. In addition to tracking this inequity, protocols need to be established that protect African Americans from the question of abusive use of power. Efforts must be made to rebuild positive relationships within the African American community, to develop the supportive networks that teach and mentor young men and women. Many African American women do not report violence because they do not want police or a child welfare worker to remove their partner and primary support person or their children. The woman may also choose not to call law enforcement into a violent situation because of fear of police brutality or dual arrests. Consequently, in addition to addressing the systemic inequities that exist, there also must be a clear effort to strengthen the relationships and trust inside and outside communities of color through leadership changes, imposed accountability, and the generation of sustained efforts of quality, concerned, and consistent services in African American communities. The limited services available for domestic violence prevention and intervention were discussed across each of the groups. Ideally, treatment services should be community developed and community based; they should be geographically rooted in the community. Services should be provided by community members or those with a history of working in the community. This established relationship is important if helping communities are to feel that the providers have integrity and a history of being responsive and caring. Such ideas are necessary if the services are to be trusted and utilized. This is an issue of particular concern in rural communities. Services simply are not available. Most treatment facilities and shelters are strategically placed in urban and suburban locations, but there is no urban population center in eastern North Carolina. In the forty county eastern North Carolina region, treatment facilities were described as sparse. Some services were as far as 3 or 4 counties away or as far as 100 miles from a site of violence. There is an obvious need for funding for community-based organizations in rural communities if geographic realities are to be addressed. Culturally sensitive organizations that have a successful history with the community should be given opportunities to receive funding while developing their infrastructure. Such actions will nurture the minority organizations by providing funding opportunities in place of funding more established organizations that are not necessarily sensitive to the community’s needs. Ensuring that all services are of the highest quality and culturally competent is critical to the success of this endeavor. Culturally competent intervention methods are needed across all levels of intervention: individual, couple, family, group, community, and societal. In addition to providing such interventions, they should be documented to provide greater confidence in results and to offer opportunities for replication in other comparable places. (Bent-Goodley & Williams, 2004, p. 41) It is imperative that funding opportunities be linked to culturally competent service provision; programs not able to demonstrate cultural competence should not receive public funding to support their ventures in minority communities. 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Battered women are at greater risk for attempting suicide6 particularly if they were physically abused as a child, for being 7 depressed and to suffer from Post 8 Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). RISK FACTORS DYNAMICS OF ABUSE The poorer African American women are and less educated the more severe the abuse they suffer Women do better in abusive relationships when they have the support of friends and family. Battered black women who reported that they could rely on others for emotional and practical support were less 9 likely to be re-abused, showed less 10 psychological distress, and were less likely 6 to attempt suicide. Alcohol problems (drinking, binge drinking, dependency) are more frequently related to intimate partner violence for African Americans than for whites or 5 Hispanics. Among African American women killed by their partner, the lethal violence was more likely to occur if there had been incidents in which the partner had used or threatened to use a weapon on her and/or the partner has tried to choke or strangle 4 her. Among African American women killed by their partner, almost half were killed while in the process of leaving the relationship, highlighting the need to take 4 extra precautions at this time. Among African American women who killed their partner, almost 80% had a 4 history of abuse. 56 As with other women, domestic violence is more likely to end in the serious injury or death of black women when there is a history of her partner having used or threatened to use a gun or knife or the 4 partner has tried to choke or strangle her. TEEN DATING VIOLENCE Black youth are over represented as victims and perpetrators of teen dating 11 violence. 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