Proactive & Reactive Aggressors Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 1 Content Preface 1 4 Preface 2 5 Chapter 1: Project Introduction Chapter 2: Conceptual Framework I. II. III. IV. V. VI. VII. Chapter 3: Chapter 4: Assessment and Research Design I. II. III. IV. V. Characteristics of the Research Research Design Targets of the Research Research Procedure Assessment Tools VI. Research Results Proactive Aggressors I. II. III. IV. V. Chapter 5: Application of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Related Theories Preparation for the Treatment Group Contents of Proactive Aggressor Treatment Group Case Studies Effectiveness Reactive Aggressors I. II. III. IV. V. 2 The Previously Defined Concept of Bullying The Internationally Agreed Definition of Bullying and Aggression Types of Aggressors Types of Victims Forms of Aggressive Behavior Related Theories Counseling Strategies Application of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Related Theories Preparation for the Treatment Group Contents of Reactive Aggressor Treatment Group Case Studies Effectiveness Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 8 12 13 13 14 20 26 29 33 40 41 42 42 44 46 56 62 63 65 68 142 156 158 159 161 164 221 235 Content Chapter 6: Aggressive Victims I. II. III. IV. V. Chapter 7: Passive Victims I. II. III. IV. V. Chapter 8: Application of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Related Theories Preparation for the Treatment Group Contents of Passive Victim Treatment Group Case Studies Effectiveness Practical Tips I. II. III. IV. V. VI. VII. VIII. IX. Chapter 9: Application of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Related Theories Preparation for the Treatment Group Contents of Aggressive Victim Treatment Group Case Studies Effectiveness Formation of the Treatment Group Theoretical Application Workers’ Qualities Basic Skills in Leading the Group Counseling Techniques Cooperation among Workers Crisis Intervention Cooperation with School and Teachers Arrangement of the Venue DVD User Guide I. II. III. Part I: Handlings of Aggressors and Victims Part II: Responses in Different Scenarios Part III: Case Studies Chapter 10: Appendices I. II. III. Content of Appendices Quantitative Assessment Tools Qualitative Assessment Tools Chapter 11: References 148 149 151 154 224 236 238 239 240 243 298 309 310 311 313 313 314 314 315 315 316 317 318 319 330 340 342 343 344 351 382 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 3 Preface 1 Preface 1 In a highly modernize city like Hong Kong, younger generations have their focuses mainly on the latest fashion trends, pop songs, celebrities and hot topics on the internet. However, their communication skills and interpersonal relationships are getting poorer at the same time. Incidents about bullying in primary or secondary schools, both inside and outside the campus, are common and come in various forms. Although many articles in the educational field have discussed the problem of bullying in school, there is insufficient publication in providing practical solutions and preventive measures of bullying on campus. The Project CARE: Children and Adolescents at Risk Education Practical Manual, written by Dr. Annis Fung Lai-chu, is undoubtedly a useful tool and reference material for all the frontline educators, social workers, counselors and parents. I hereby strongly recommend this manual to everyone who would like to achieve campus harmony and bring smiles to the classroom. Dr. Alex Kwan Yui Huen Head & Professor, Department of Applied Social Studies City University of Hong Kong 4 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Preface 2 Preface 2 I still find it hard to believe that “Project Care”, which ran from September 2006 to August 2011, has finally come to an end. The project reflected the mission that God gave me. According to the Bible, “Not by might nor by power, but by my Spirit.” I don’t think I have any extraordinary talents or ability; however, it is through my humble self that God achieves his orders and events. Looking back to 10 years ago, it was quite difficult for me to follow a direction that I had never anticipated taking. I took a part-time doctoral degree at the University of Hong Kong, although I had no clues about my research field at that time – I just knew that God wished to give blessing to the needy through me. To my surprise, while praying, God talked to me personally, giving me several words: ‘Intervention for Aggression Children in Hong Kong’. I then phoned my supervising professor – Dr. Tsang Sandra K.M. (Head and Associate Professor at the Department of Social Work and Social Administration). When I informed her of this research field, she immediately asked how I had come across it. She was surprised that I had such a similar idea as hers. I then started to serve in an NGO and became involved in a range of systematic research. This not only helped the NGO to develop its professional counseling service, it was also beneficial to children with emotional difficulties and aggressive behavior. At the same time, it helped me to finish my Ph.D. thesis. It was exactly as the Bible states: “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose”. As a result, I finished my course and fulfilled all the requirements within a recordbreaking three and a half years. The City University of Hong Kong then employed me as an Assistant Professor. “For whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.” Another NGO immediately sought to collaborate with me. In 2005, we implemented services and conducted research on teenagers with aggressive behavior in four secondary schools, and the results were fascinating and encouraging. Thus, I drafted a detailed proposal to the Quality Education Fund so that more schools could participate, and more students received help and blessing. Project CARE: Children and Adolescents at Risk Education (C.A.R.E.) started in September 2006, with $1.4 million funded by the Quality Education Fund to provide an all-round service in ten secondary schools. Surprisingly, more than a hundred schools were interested in signing up, 10-times more than we could provide for. Once again I applied for the Quality Education Fund. This time the funding was doubled and we were able to extend the project for a further two years, until August 2008. “Unless the LORD builds the house, its builders labor in vain. Unless the LORD watches over the city, the watchmen stand guard in vain.” The Bible is telling the truth. In 2008, to mark the 10-year anniversary of the Quality Education Fund, the council selected 20 outstanding projects from over 7000, and mine was one of them. We were given a further $6 million in funding and our project was extended from secondary schools to primary schools. We were able to serve 10 secondary schools and primary schools each year. Time flies, and after five years, the project has served approximately 1300 students, 200 parents, and 500 teachers and social workers. As the project provided training to the whole school, around 40 thousand students and their families have benefitted overall. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 5 Preface 2 A brief summary of the results and contributions of the project are summarized below. (1) Re-define the traditional definition of bullying: advocating violence is not the same as bullying, which has a plan and a purpose. Those who bully others gain spiritual, material, and linguistic benefits via their aggressive behavior. (2) Classify the aggressors and the victims: there are proactive aggressors (the really bullies) and reactive aggressors (often misunderstood as the bully). We need to help victims using the correct approach – cognitive behavior therapy – to identify their irrational thinking, dispute it, and re-build their positive thinking. (3) Develop a scientific assessment tool so that we can recognize different types of aggressors and victims and improve social workers’ and teachers’ understanding. (4) Release the first worldwide cognitive behavior therapy 10-session treatment program using specific teaching materials developed for each type of aggressors and victims, complete with worksheets and DVD. The details are listed in Chapter 4-7. (5) Include real case studies of each of the four types of aggressors and victims. Instructions on how to use the teaching materials, and an interpretation of the contents of session 1-10, are described in Chapter 4-7. Social workers and related staff should find the materials easy to follow. (6) Create a peer-counseling program to help manage school violence. Train older students as “student ambassadors” to develop active and trustful relationships with younger students, establish a positive and healthy model for them, and ensure they have someone’s support and care. (7) To strengthen the application of this material for frontline workers, our project has conducted over 200 workshops and talks across Hong Kong. Thousands of teachers, social workers, parents, and the public have participated in these workshops. (8) To fulfill the needs of the students, the materials have been distributed to the participating schools, and the participants in the talks and workshops. (9) The project advocates harmony and care in the school culture and has organized press releases, public forums, Internet forums, and interschool drama competitions to promote these values. (10) This is a cross-boundary project involving sharing with, for instance, Macau, mainland China, Singapore, Japan, Spain, Poland, the United States, Uruguay, England, and Finland. The research findings have been published in international journals so that people in different locations can participate and follow the program. This shows that the project comprehensively covers different levels, systems, roles, and districts, and the effectiveness of the groups is demonstrated through quantitative and qualitative scientific research. The results are fascinating and encouraging and have been published in SSCI. This also demonstrates that the project has international acknowledgement and makes a worldwide contribution, all of which originated from Jesus Christ, without whose help I would not have gained such fruitful results. There has been much hardship over the past 10 years and my friends and co-workers have encouraged me not to work so hard and spare more time for myself. However, I am grateful that the past 10 years have been so rich and wonderful and that I was able to sacrifice my young and energetic years for God. 6 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Preface 2 Witnessing the students who participated in this project, it is as the Bible says: “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!” There is nothing compared to the cycle of life. Finally, I thank God for choosing me to taste the best and most amazing fruit in life. Starting with my resistance against taking the Ph.D. degree to accepting the order of God, the whole process has exceeded my expectations. According to the Bible: “No eye has seen, no ear has heard, no mind has conceived what God has prepared for those who love him.” I hope you are willing to contribute, and let God take charge and lead your life so that you may live more amazingly and fruitfully. Dr. FUNG, Lai Chu Annis Assistant Professor of the Department of Applied Social Studies, City University of Hong Kong Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 7 Chapter 1: Project Introduction Introduct 8 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 1 Project Introduction Chapter 1: Project Introduction Project CARE (Children and Adolescents at Risk in Education) has been operating for four years and is now its final year. The project aims to assess schoolchildren, teachers, and parents using an ecological model to identify potential high-risk aggressors and victims who are most in need of intervention. The intervention consists of a 10-session group-treatment model based on Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and is designed specifically for proactive and reactive aggressors, and aggressive and passive victims. A rigorous experimental design, consisting of pretest, posttest, and three-month, six-month, one-year, and two-year follow-up studies with a well-validated structure and scientific assessment are adopted. The students are randomly assigned to either the experimental or control group, and are repeatedly measured across multiple time-points. The data are collected from multiple sources, namely student self-report and parent and teacher ratings, using reliable scales and standardized structured interviews. Quantitative and qualitative assessment tools with high reliability and validity are adopted to evaluate the outcome effectiveness of each treatment group for specific subtypes of aggressors and victims of student aggression. As far as we are aware, this is the first scientific study to assess the treatment of both proactive and reactive aggressors and aggressive and passive victims using two-year longitudinal data. The data are collected from multiple sources, involving students, teachers, and parents, thus minimizing the problem of the biased assessment of aggressors based on a single perspective. The study adopts a mixed-methods approach, including both quantitative and qualitative data, using SPSS (Statistical Package for the Social Sciences) and Nvivo to provide rigorous data and content analyses. The evaluations of the outcome effectiveness of each group intervention are therefore comprehensive and convincing. Chapter Reviews Chapter 1 (Project Introduction) introduces the background toof Project CARE and the research and assessment methodology. Chapter 2 (Conceptual Framework) explains the fundamental concepts and theories that appear throughout this manual: the definitions of bullying, forms of aggressive behavior, subtypes of aggressors (reactive and proactive aggressors), subtypes of victims (aggressive and passive victims), the theoretical analyses, and the counseling strategies. Specifically, the family background and the cognitive, emotional, behavioral, and social characteristics of the four types of aggressors and victims are described. The negative effects of aggression and peer victimization are also discussed. In Chapter 3 (Assessment and Research Design), the research design and process are introduced, including the procedures for screening, pre-testing, and post-testing of students and their respective teachers and parents. The assessment tools employed in the questionnaires and qualitative interviews are described in detail. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 9 Chapter 1 Project Introduction Chapters 4 to 7 outline the treatment groups pertaining to the four types of aggressors and victims, thus providing a model for other social workers and counselors to replicate the interventions. These chapters describe the treatment plans and objectives, together with the application of CBT and related theories (such as the Social Information Processing Model, Social Learning Theory, and Attribution Theory) in the 10-session treatment group. The session plans include details of the activities in each group session, including the duration, materials needed, objectives and underlying principles, procedures, and in-session and homework assignments for participants. Advice for social workers/counselors, and case studies and case analyses from our social workers, are also provided. Chapter 8 (Practical Tips) discusses general counseling techniques, crisis intervention, and how to ensure cooperation among key social workers, co-social workers, serving schools, and teachers. Chapter 9 (DVD User Guide) introduces the two accompanying DVDs that present the various scenarios. Teachers, social workers/ counselors, and parents may watch these discs as supplements while reading the manual. Both the quantitative (questionnaires) and qualitative (interviews) scales can be found in Chapter 10 (Appendices). Finally, all references are listed in chapter 11 (References). 10 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 1 Project Introduction Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 11 Chapter 2: Conceptual Framework 12 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 2 Conceptual Framework Chapter 2: Conceptual Framework The definition of bullying adopted by our project is quite different from the definition previously suggested by local scholars, educators, and social workers. This manual will therefore begin by outlining the previous definition of the concept of bullying and aggression, followed by the latest, internationally agreed definition adopted by this project. This manual will also emphasize the characteristics of two types of aggressors and victims, their cognitive style, and the causes of aggressive behavior. I. The Previously Defined Concept of Bullying The conceptualizations of bullying suggested by various scholars, educators, and social workers in the past were oversimplified. Specifically, these conceptualizations defined all cases of school bullying based on just two roles: bullies and victims. This leads to the misconception that all people with aggressive behavior are bullies. It is important to recognize that some forms of aggressive behavior are a behavioral response that may be triggered by anxiety, anger, and impulsivity. This type of behavior is different from the repeated, intentional, and instrumental aggressive behavior that is real bullying. To avoid such confusion and to ensure more specific and effective treatment, we must first clarify the concept and definition of bullying and aggression. A review of previous research suggests that scholars share different views of bullying. These include imbalanced power between aggressors and victims (Craig & Pepler, 1997; Twemlow, Sacco, & Williams, 1996; Smokowski & Kopasz, 2005); aggression towards those who are weak (Glew, Rivara, & Feudtner, 2000; Pepler, Jiang, Craig, & Connolly, 2008; Smokowski & Kopasz, 2005; Vreeman & Carroll, 2007); and being unable to fight back (Besag, 1989; Olweus, 1991; Nansel, Overpeck, Pilla, Ruan, Simons-Morton, & Scheidt, 2001; Popoola, 2005; Vreeman & Carroll, 2007). Furthermore, various authors tends to agree that single or non-repetitive aggressive behavior is not bullying (Glew, Fan, Katon, Rivara & Kernic, 2005; Olweus, 1991; Randall, 1997), and only those who are repeatedly exposed over time to negative actions on the part of one or more aggressors are considered to be victims of bullying. II. The Internationally Agreed Definition of Bullying and Aggression Because the meaning of bullying and aggression are completely different (Glew, Fan, Katon, Rivara & Kernic, 2005; Olweus, 1991; Randall, 1997), they should not be considered the same thing. The author agrees with the idea that aggression is different from bullying. Recently, scholars tried to understand the definition of bullying and aggression. Crick & Dodge (1994, 1996) suggested the definition of proactive aggressor and reactive aggressor. This categorization is supported by several international and local research studies (Arsenio, Adams, & Gold, 2009; Hubbard, Smithmyer, Ramsden, Parker, Flanagan, Dearing, Relyea, & Simons, 2002; Fung, Raine, & Gao, 2009; Phillips & Lochman, 2003; Vitaro, Brendgen, & Tremblay, 2002). In addition, the results of the present project found that this categorization is not only suitable for children in Hong Kong but also in mainland China, Uruguay, and other Spanish countries. Research has also shown that proactive and reactive aggression among children in Uruguay and Spanish countries is higher than in Hong Kong and mainland China. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 13 Chapter 2 Conceptual Framework III. Types of Aggressors 1. Proactive Aggressors Characteristics Pure proactive aggressors are relatively rare; in fact they may be psychopaths, and as such are at risk of committing severe crimes (e.g., homicide, robbery, and delinquency) in future (Munoz, Frick, Kimonis,& Aucoin, 2008; Bas & Kabasakal, 2010). Proactive aggressors believe they gain benefits, such as power and control over others, from their aggressive behavior. Therefore, instrumental goals and motivations lie behind their aggression (Dodge, 1991). Proactive aggressors are calm and rational (Crick & Dodge, 1996; Roland & Idsoe, 2001) and are typical bullies. They have a strong desire to control others, are often egocentric and lack empathy for their victims (Wong & Lo, 2002; Olweus, 1978, 1994). Proactive aggressors are also linked with callous/unemotional traits, which in turn are associated with anti-social behavior, thus further implying psychopathy (Fite, Stoppelbein & Greening, 2009). Some studies indicate that proactive aggressors are more likely to engage in delinquent behavior. They will undermine school regulations and discipline, have poor conduct, and use their intelligence to engage in inappropriate behavior to obtain benefits (Crick & Dodge, 1996). They are also described as “intelligent” because they tend to have superior verbal abilities, leadership qualities, a sense of humor, and good communication skills, but are not associated with peer victimization and rejection (Arsenio, Adams & Gold, 2009; Poulin & Boivin, 2000a, 2000b). Furthermore, proactive aggressors are skillful at hiding their aggressive behavior. They will plan and select an appropriate time and venue to execute their aggressive behavior and act like different people when in front of authority figures and victims (McAdam & Schmidt, 2007). Blair (2004) believes proactive aggressive behavior is a result of a collapse in personal moral socialization. Other studies have also found that the instrumental aggression of proactive aggressors stems from disrupted core moral values. Although aggression helps them to acquire tangible rewards, they also obtain positive emotional outcomes from enacting aggression (Arsenio, Adams & Gold, 2009). Aversive conditioning and instrumental conditioning are the two processes that are important for moral socialization (Fowles & Kochanska, 2000). The amygdala is crucially implicated in these two conditioning processes (Davis, 2000; LeDoux, 1998). The literature has established that the construct of psychopathy is broadly related to proactive aggression (Cornell, Warren, Hawk, Stafford, Oram, & Pine, 1996) and psychopathy is caused by dysfunction of the amygdala (Blair, 2001; Patrick, 1994). Therefore, proactive aggressive behavior may also be closely related to amygdala dysfunction. 14 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 2 Conceptual Framework Basic Concept Bandura’s (1973) Social Learning Theory may be used as the basis for analyzing proactive aggressive behavior (please see “Related Theories” later in this chapter for details). The theory proposes that aggressive behavior is learned by imitating others (such as family members). The benefits that are gained from aggression provide an incentive for the aggressor to imitate and repeat such behavior (Bandura, 1973). Proactive aggressors are also found to be associated with disrupted Social Information Processing (SIP) (Crick & Dodge, 1996; Dodge & Coie, 1987) (please see “Related Theories” later in this chapter for details). The SIP model advocates that children’s reasoning about social events and the behavior of others is based on several important steps: encoding and interpreting the behavior, then generating, selecting, and enacting responses to the behavior. However, proactive aggressors show distorted social-cognitive reasoning when they try to generate and select appropriate responses to perceived social events. They tend to adopt instrumental aggression as a means to acquire rewards from others (Crick & Dodge, 1996; Arsenio, Adams & Gold, 2009). Family Background The family background of proactive aggressors is usually more complicated. Their parents also have a tendency toward aggression, and some of them are proactive aggressors themselves. They do not care properly for their children and may even reject them. The role of the father is weak, as he seldom plays a role in parenting. The mother often neglects to teach her children, adopts an indulgent approach (Curtuer-Smith, 2000), and spends very little time with them. Such parents are very tolerant of their children’s aggression, and even ‘normalize’ it (McNamara & McNamara, 1997), which encourages and fosters their children’s aggressive behavior. Xu, Farver, and Zhang (2009) found that indulgent parenting is associated only with proactive aggression. Over-protectiveness or indulgent parenting may reinforce children’s proactive aggression. Other studies have also found inconsistency between the parenting styles of a proactive aggressor’s father and mother (Carney & Merrell, 2001). The parents are emotionally unstable and often scold and beat their children when they become agitated. As a result, their children learn to react with violent behavior (Robert, 2000), which may then evolve into a means of obtaining benefits. The habit and belief of using violence and aggression to meet goals has been passed into the next generation. Our study found that in comparison with students from single-parent and nuclear families, students from stepfamilies score higher on the proactive aggression index. The same study revealed that stepmothers in remarried families have lower self-efficacy in relation to parental discipline than parents from other family structures. Most proactive aggressors experience low levels of discipline and monitoring at home (Poulin & Boivin, 2000). Discipline is an important aspect of parental monitoring (Dishion & McMahon, 1998). Therefore, if parents have low self-efficacy in disciplining their children, the children are more likely to exhibit proactive aggressive behavior. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 15 Chapter 2 Conceptual Framework Negative Effects A number of studies have found that proactive aggressors are linked with delinquent behavior and attention problems (Scarpa, Haden & Tanaka, 2010); a third of proactive aggressors have attention deficit disorder, 12.5% suffer from depression, and a further 12.5% have oppositional conduct disorder. Most proactive aggressors have personality defects (Kumpulainen, Rasanen, & Puura, 2001), which make them think that aggressive behavior is an appropriate way to handle interpersonal relationships (Andreou, 2001). Proactive aggressors are also more likely to be involved in drug abuse, which is more acute than in reactive aggressors, and reactive and passive victims (Kaltiala-Heino, Rimpela, & Rimpela, 2000). Adolescents who show aggressive behavior are more likely to commit a crime before the age of 30 (Roberts, 2000). Furthermore, a longitudinal study found that proactive aggressive adolescents are more likely to exhibit antisocial behavior and psychopathic features in adulthood, such as violence, interpersonal manipulation, callous affect, and risky and harmful use of alcohol. (Fite, Raine, Stouthamer-Loeber, Loeber & Pardini, 2009). In other words, proactive aggression that emerges during adolescence may have persistent negative effects on psychological and behavioral development. Furthermore, an earlier study (Cornell, Warren, Hawk, Stafford, Oram, & Pine, 1996) pointed out that proactive aggressors share some similarities with psychopaths, and psychopaths have a greater chance of committing murder compared with the “normal” population (Egger, 2002; Eronen, 1995; Firestone, Bradford, Greenberg, Larose, & Curry, 1998; Geberth, Vernon, & Turco, 1997; Gacono, Meloy, Sheppard, & Speth, 1995; Hickey, 1997; Kelleher & Kelleher, 1998; Schurman-Kauflin, 2000; Yarvis, 1995). Case Study Mike (a pseudonym) is a student who is repeating Form 1. His parents are separated and he lives with his father and his father’s girlfriend. He often threatens and even hits his weaker classmates at school. He likes to linger around the housing estates after school and often goes home late at night. In the therapy group meeting, Mike shared his experience of bullying. Once, he and his friends (around 10 people in total) met a boy he didn’t like at the basketball court. Mike invited the boy to play basketball. During the match, Mike intentionally kicked the boy’s leg very hard, leaving him in a lot of pain and feeling angry. He then gathered his friends around and threatened the boy, convincing him that accidents in a basketball match are normal. Mike shared that he became very excited and felt a sense of accomplishment when he saw how frightened the boy was. He believed that his behavior could cause someone he didn’t like to be afraid of him. From the case above, we see that Mike first assessed the surrounding environment, such as the number of people in his own gang and in the other party, and the venue of the incident (for example, it is common for people to collide on a basketball court, so when Mike attacked his victim, it would be easy to convince others that it was just a normal accident). He then objectively analyzed whether there was any advantage to be gained from attacking or bullying the victim and, after thinking rationally, selected his method of aggression. Mike also assessed the risk of his aggressive action, trying to create a plausible explanation so that he could defend himself if others found out. Finally, Mike determined the most effective means of aggression and exercised his ‘authority’ to convince the victim and his peers of his strength. From this incident, it is clear that Mike lacked empathy toward other people and showed little emotional response. Mike has a clear, keen mind and acts cautiously, hence it is difficult for him to be discovered and punished. He acts behind the scenes, coordinates organized groups, and plans and organizes the bullying to achieve authority. He is considered a typical proactive aggressor. 16 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 2 Conceptual Framework 2. Reactive Aggressors Characteristics When reactive aggressors receive and encode social information, they tend to pay selective attention to aggressive cues and ignore the context. They have a hostile attributional bias and often perceive their peers’ ambiguous behavior as aggressive and harmful to them (Pettit, Polaha, & Mize, 2001). Due to such cognitive distortions, reactive aggressors take more risks in their daily lives and tend to be out of control and disrupt their classes. Reactive aggressors usually lack confidence, are very sensitive to and suspicious of their surroundings, and lack social and problem-solving skills (Anderson, 1989, Mynard & Joseph, 1997). Reactive aggressors take part in other kinds of deviant behavior, such as smoking and drinking (Nansel et al., 2001). They have poor problem-solving skills and tend to attribute their problems to external factors without taking responsibility for the consequences (Andreou, 2001). Reactive aggressors’ social problem-solving skills are limited and they tend to use aggression as a mean to solve social conflicts because they regard aggression as the easiest way to act (Arsenio, Adams & Gold, 2009). Their academic achievements are lower than average, and they detest the restrictive and disciplinary environment of school (Nansel et al., 2001). They also tend to internalize problems(please see “Attribution Theory” later in this chapter for details); and reactive aggression is positively related to depression and suicidal behavior (Fite, Stoppelbein, & Greening, 2009). Most reactive aggressors suffer from Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD). Reactive aggressors have poor emotional regulation (Xu, & Zhang, 2007). In a meta-analytic study comparing reactive and proactive aggressors, reactive aggressors were found to have increased emotional dysregulation and ADHD symptoms, whereas proactive aggressors had no problems in this respect (Card & Little, 2006). Reactive aggressors often disturb and annoy their classmates during lessons (Carney & Merrell, 2001). Their peers are aware that they may become easily agitated and fly into a rage, which makes it difficult for reactive aggressors to establish relationships and friendships with others (Anderson & Bushman, 2001). Reactive aggressors have poor verbal abilities (Arsenio, Adams, & Gold, 2009), thus teachers often think they cause trouble for no reason because they seem to use violence with no plausible explanation. Consequently, they are often blamed and punished, making it even harder for them to gain trust and receive support from teachers. Nevertheless, unlike proactive aggressors, the moral reasoning of reactive aggressors does not differ from ordinary students (Arsenio, Adams, & Gold, 2009). Several research studies have indicated that reactive aggression is associated with activity in the orbital frontal cortex (Blair, 2004). Goyer, Andreason, Semple, Clayton, King, Compton-Toth, Schulz, and Cohen (1994) found that the cerebral blood flow (CBF) in the orbital frontal cortex of people with reactive aggressive behavior is lower than in non-aggressors. The orbital frontal cortex is responsible for determining the value of rewards. If a reward does not match the expectation, it will induce frustration. Reactive aggression is generally triggered by a setback or failure of expectations. According to Blair (2004), when there is an expectation setback, the orbital frontal cortex induces neural activity in the sub-cortical system, which controls reactive-aggressive behavior, and causes depression and frustration. In contrast, the orbital frontal cortex will suppress neural activity in the system if expectations are met. Another biological indicator of reactive aggression is the hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis (HPA- axis). The HPA-axis is responsible for neurophysiological reactions during stressful experiences. For example, it causes an increase in the heart rate, reduces digestive activity, transforms glucose into energy, and so on. Studies have found that an overactive HPA-axis response is linked to reactive aggression (Lopez-Duran, Olson, Hajal, Felt, & Vazquez, 2010). In other words, the basal and aroused neuropsychological response of reactive aggressors is higher than in normal people. They display strong and vigorous emotional reflexes during stressful events. For example, their face will turn red, they sweat more, their heart rate increases, and their hands tremble. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 17 Chapter 2 Conceptual Framework Basic Concept One of the earliest theories of reactive aggressive behavior was the Frustration-Aggression Hypothesis (Berkowitz, 1963; Dollard, Doob, Miller, Mowrer, & Sears, 1939), which simply states that when someone experiences failure or encounters something out of his/her expectations, it will provoke anger that will lead to further violent actions. Therefore, reactive aggressive behavior is driven by outraged emotion. Reactive aggressors respond to perceived events with cognitive distortion, which leads to an acute response (Pulkkinen, 1996; Salmivalli & Nieminen, 2002). Buss and Perry (1992) referred to reactive aggressors as ineffectual aggressors. They are easily affected by their own anger and anxiety when interacting with their peers, and often cause arguments with others. Reactive aggressive behavior can also be explained by the SIP model (please see “Related Theories” later in this chapter for details). In contrast to proactive aggressors, reactive aggressors usually have a hostile attributional bias according to the SIP Model. They also have attention problems, which lead them to attend selectively to information that seems hostile or threatening. The distorted encoding and interpreting processes lead to misinterpretation and hostile attributions toward neutral stimuli. Hence, they use aggression as a way of protecting themselves from perceived threats (Dodge & Crick, 1990; Arsenio, Adams, & Gold, 2009). Studies have shown that reactive aggression is positively related to impulsivity, whereas proactive aggression is negatively related (Morrow, Hubbard, McAuliffe, Rubin, & Dearing, 2006). Impulsivity is frequently reported to be a predictive trait for reactive aggressors (Dodge & Coie, 1987; Dodge & Crick, 1990; Raine et al., 2006). Family Background The parents of reactive aggressors tend to use harsh punishments and some may even use abusive disciplinary methods (Bowers, Smith, & Binney, 1994; Xu, Farver & Zhang, 2009). Children who have experienced physical or verbal abuse from a parent may be insecure and hypervigilant toward threatening social cues. In some cases, the parents employ extreme parenting styles, with one parent being completely non-interfering and the other extremely strict. Most reactive aggressors come from families in which they receive little love and are not properly taken care of, which makes them defensive and build barriers against the outside world and they gradually develop their hostile mode of thinking. This study found that students from single-parent and remarried families score higher on the reactive aggressive index than intact families. These children are more likely to receive physical punishment from their parents (Fagan, 2005; Smith & Thornberry, 1995), and often experience corporal punishment (Dodge et al., 1997). Therefore, reactive aggressive children are more likely to be found in single-parent and remarried families. Negative Effects Reactive aggressors often think they are not worthy – they have very low self-esteem and a poor self-image (O’Moore & Kirkham, 2001). Their interpersonal relations are poor due to their disrupted social information processing and inappropriate aggressive behavior (Seah & Ang, 2008). Studies show that the overall self-image of reactive aggressors is lower than that of proactive aggressors, and is the lowest among all the other nonaggressors (O’Moore & Kirkham, 2001). Twenty one and a half percent of reactive aggressors are diagnosed with oppositional conduct disorder, 17.7% with depression, and 17.7% with attention deficit disorder. The percentage of reactive aggressors with oppositional conduct disorder and depression is higher than that of proactive aggressors. When reactive aggressive adolescents enter adulthood, negative emotionality (i.e. anxiety) is more likely to appear. Furthermore, reactive aggressors are prone to using illegal drugs as adults (Fite, Raine, Stouthamer-Loeber, Loeber, & Pardini, 2009). 18 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 2 Conceptual Framework Case Study Duncan (a pseudonym) is an eight year-old boy who suffers from his father’s coercive parenting style. His father beats him up whenever he does not do well at work or loses money gambling. What worsens the situation is that Duncan also receives limited care from his mother. Duncan grew up with little sense of security, love, and family warmth. He lives under contradiction and fear, which makes him often defensive and on guard against the world. As a result, he has developed a hostile attributional bias toward the world around him. In the treatment group, Duncan revealed that he had once hurt himself by accident and had some scars on his arm. A few days after the accident, he saw some classmates chatting and laughing in a corner of the classroom. He believed they were talking about his scars and became agitated and angry. He went up to them and hit them without asking why they were laughing. Duncan also revealed that he had been told off and beaten several times at home without any reason, thus he had become sensitive, agitated, and hostile in response to his parents’ criticism. From what Duncan shared, it is clear that he has low confidence and low self-esteem, is sensitive and hostile towards his surroundings despite there being no real threat, and lacks social and problem-solving skills. Due to his past experience of being told off and beaten without any reason at home, he has developed a self-defensive response: to protect himself, he feels he has to verbally or physically attack others before they can do the same to him. Duncan’s case reveals the characteristics of a typical reactive aggressor. Conclusion When reactive aggressors encounter conflicts with their spouses during adulthood, it is more likely that they will react with violence. They also tend to use harsh discipline (such as corporal punishment) on their own children. As the problem of domestic violence has become more acute in recent years, it would help to provide more appropriate counseling strategies for those who use violence, if their aggressive behavior can be identified. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 19 Chapter 2 Conceptual Framework IV. Types of Victims 1. Aggressive Victims Characteristics Aggressive victims appear to have both high neuroticism and psychoticism, which are characteristics associated with victims and bullies, respectively (Mynard & Joseph, 1997). Researchers have compared the anxiety levels among bullies, victims, and bully-victims (aggressive victims). Some found that aggressive victims had the highest levels of anxiety (Duncan, 1999), whereas others found that they were more anxious than bullies but not as anxious as victims (Craig, 1998). Aggressive victims lack self-regulation (Schwartz, Proctor, & Chien, 2001) and are more easily provoked in comparison with proactive aggressors. If the situation continues to aggravate them, the cognitive structure of aggressive victims becomes distorted, resulting in bias and misinterpretation. Such victims may gradually become reactive aggressors. Aggressive victims tend to collect more offensive weapons or toys than passive victims, and also have more frequent quarrels and fights with others. Some of them instantly react with violence, so are often mistaken as aggressors and are punished. Although they are victims of bullying, they are less accepted by and receive less sympathy from their peers and teachers. They are the most unwelcomed and have the highest chance of being excluded from their peers among all four types of aggressors and victims (Schwartz, 2000). Aggressive victims often have very low self-esteem and believe themselves to be less attractive or important than others (O’Moore & Kirkham, 2001). They are often over-anxious and unhappy in comparison with others (O’Moore & Kirkham, 2001), and are more depressed and report more physical symptoms of anxiety (Swearer, Song, Cary, Eagle & Mickelson, 2001). They are also the most functionally disturbed compared with aggressors, passive victims, and uninvolved children (Schwartz, Proctor & Chien, 2001), are easily provoked (Haynie et al., 2001), and have lower school achievement (Wolke, Woods, Bloomfield, & Karstadt, 2000). Basic Concept Studies indicate that when a child has been attacked, there is an equal chance that they will become an aggressive victim or a passive victim (Perry, Kusel, & Perry, 1998). Brockenbrough, Cornell & Loper (2002) showed that about 30% of bullied junior high school students possess aggressive tendencies, use violence as revenge against bullying, and become aggressive victims. Because they are bullied or hurt by others, aggressive victims appear highly anxious and nervous, and often have thoughts of revenge (Olweus, 1995; Schwartz, Dodge, Pettit, & Bates, 1997). In Eslea’s (2004) study with a Chinese sample, aggressive victims were more likely to be left alone during playtimes and had fewer friends, particular in secondary rather than primary school. They also tend to make external attributions (i.e., blaming external factors such as teachers, victims, or even luck) rather than internal attributions (i.e. blaming internal factors – themselves), indicating that they are unable to accept their own responsibilities (Georgiou, & Stavrinides, 2008). 20 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 2 Conceptual Framework Family Background The parents of aggressive victims have a similar parenting style to those of reactive aggressors; the difference is that one parent may over-protect the child while the other adopts a non-interfering approach or is indifferent. The children of such parents fail to become independent and are unable to protect themselves from harm in a proper manner (Bowers, Smith, & Binney, 1994). The family patterns of aggressive victims are also found to be inconsistent in their discipline, show poor parental monitoring (Schwartz, Dodge, Pettite, & Bates, 1997), and adopt destructive problem-solving strategies (Stevens, De Bourdeaudhuji, & Van Oost, 2002). Studies indicate that the parents of aggressive girls only tend to give advice to their daughters the first time they seek help, but not subsequently, suggesting that their daughters often receive no help (Laura, Irma, Ritva-Liisa, & Liisa, 1998). The lack of response from their parents causes them to develop insecure attachment relationships. In this type of relationship, the parents’ attitude toward their children is often unpredictable and their advice is ambiguous. In the absence of appreciation and recognition from parents, these children lack self-confidence and are often suspicious of others. It is not easy for them to establish trusting relationships with others. Negative Effects Aggressive victims miss more school than their peers (Song, Swearer, Paulk, Eagle, & Cary, 2000), they are more vulnerable to long-term dysfunction than bullies and victims (Hilton, Anngela-Cole, & Wakita, 2010), and engage in high-risk-behavior such as smoking and drinking (NICHD, 2001). Aggressive victims lack confidence in their surroundings, others, and even themselves. They have a strong sense of unease, high levels of anxiety, and may also have psychosomatic symptoms. They may have eating disorders (Kaltiala-Heino et al., 2000) and are at risk of depression, anxiety, and other psychiatric disorders (Cary, Swearer, Song, Haye, & Sohn, 2001), delinquent behavior (Haynie et al., 2001), and even suicidal ideation (Klomek, Marrocco, Kleinman, Schonfeld, & Gould, 2007). A longitudinal study found that many aggressive victims suffer from psychological and psychiatric symptoms as adults (Kumpulainen & Rasanen, 2000). Case Study Kenneth (a pseudonym), a Form 1 student in a boys’ school, is short and skinny. His classmates are always laughing at him and calling him ‘doggie’ in front of the class. They slap him hard on his arms and head, and draw on his books for no reason. It is clear that Kenneth has always been physically and verbally bullied. When sharing his experience of being bullied, he became very angry and revealed his non-trusting attitude towards others. Once, when Kenneth told his teacher that he was being bullied in class, his teacher claimed not to have noticed it. Kenneth thought the teacher must have seen what happened because he sat at the front of the class, but the teacher chose to ignore his complaint. In the therapy group meeting, Kenneth thought that as long as there was a classmate making fun of him, the rest of his classmates would follow suit and look down on him. He stated that only those who were seriously ill could be trusted because they were unable to harm him. Kenneth revealed in a group meeting that he had once he convinced his friend to join him in beating up a classmate who had bullied them at school. He believed the only way to stop the classmate from bullying him was to beat him, even at the risk of getting a demerit. “The teacher took action only when I exaggerated the incident. It didn’t matter even if I got three demerits, as long as the classmate got at least one as well,” said Kenneth. However, Kenneth eventually gave up on his revenge when his friend was not brave enough to go along with him. This reflects Kenneth’s own lack of self-confidence. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 21 Chapter 2 Conceptual Framework Nevertheless, Kenneth considers conduct to be very important because good conduct reflects on his own character. He also considers integrity to be more important than academic performance. He does not want his poor conduct to have any negative effects on his future. Kenneth’s experience demonstrates his tendency to retaliate against people who bully him. He believes that only violence can solve his problems, but at the same time he worries about his lack of ability. Moreover, Kenneth also sees morality as very important. Thus, when he encounters a bullying situation, he often struggles between the ideological impulse to comply with moral principles, and taking revenge with violence. He is highly confused and conflicted. 2. Passive Victims Characteristics McNamara and McNamara (1997) point out that passive victims are usually short and slightly built. Their physical fitness and performance in sports is poor, so they are not strong enough to resist stronger aggressors (McNamara & McNamara, 1997). When they are attacked, they usually cry and withdraw from the crowd. Their academic performance in primary school is generally not too bad. However, by the time they are in high school they will skip class regularly and avoid going to school to avoid being persecuted by bullies, thus leading to poor academic performance (Olweus, 1993). The personality of passive victims is quiet, cautious, anxious, insecure, submissive, and highly sensitive (e.g. Olweus, 1993, Schwartz, Dodge, & Coie, 1993). They usually lack communication skills and have alienated interpersonal relationships (Glew, Rivara, & Feudtner, 2000). They talk very little and lack assertiveness (Schwartz et al., 1993). They usually hang around alone at school (Olweus, 1993), and their relationships with teachers and social workers are closer than with their peers. A study revealed that passive victims have fewer self-reported behavioural/emotional problems, higher self-reported self-control skills, and more teacher-rated positive behaviour than proactive and reactive aggressors (Ronen, Rahav, & Moldawsky, 2007). The findings we have discussed so far indicate that passive victims have poor relationships with their peers due to their poor interpersonal skills, but they have better relationships with their teachers because they behave positively (at least from their teachers’ perspective). However, the findings of different studies are not always consistent due to differences in their methodology. Most studies find that passive victims are anxious and sensitive (see the following section for more negative effects), whereas others claim that they have fewer emotional problems. Some gender differences have been found regarding passive victims. A study with students from 4th to 6th grade found that the prevalence of male passive victims increased with age but no such tendency was found for female passive victims (Hanish & Guerra, 2004). In grade 4, passive victims were significantly more likely to be girls, but they became increasingly less aggressive and less victimized than their male counterparts (Hanish & Guerra, 2004). The good news was that only 25% of passive victims in grade 4 remained passive victims in grade 6 (Hanish & Guerra, 2004), indicating that most of them were no longer victimized by their peers, at least not at a significant level. We speculate that this may be because they physically develop and/or learn more basic communication skills as they grow older. 22 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 2 Conceptual Framework Basic Concept Passive victims have very poor coping skills, see their own existence as unimportant, often think that people bully them because they have no advantage or merit, and always blame themselves (Carney & Merell, 2001). They tend to feel inferior, unattractive, and lonely at school, crave approval, and interact with the bully ineffectively even when they have been humiliated (Hilton, Anngela-Cole & Wakita, 2010). They tend to take the blame for the unfortunate things that happen to them and internalize them as their own responsibility (internal attribution) (Boxer & Tisak, 2003) (please see “Related Theories” later in this chapter for details). They believe they are the cause of their own misfortune and do not have the ability to control situations, which contributes to their tendency to withdraw. Family Background In general, the parents of passive victims tend to over-protect or pamper their children (McNamara & McNamara, 1997). When they know their children are feeling anxious and insecure, such parents will shelter their children and prevent them from having to confront any difficulties or problems; they teach their children to shy away from difficulties and fail to teach them problem-solving and conflict-management skills (McNamara & McNamara, 1997). Such children, therefore, never learn from experience and never grow up. When they encounter conflicts or interpersonal relationship problems at school, they do not know how to behave other than to escape. This overprotective parenting style emerges particularly among male passive victims and interferes with the acquisition and development of problem-solving, negotiation, and conflict-resolution skills (Hilton, Anngela-Cole, & Wakita, 2010). Even when overprotected children do learn such skills, they are reluctant to apply them (Hoover et al., 2003) and are thus unable to separate from the parent (usually the mother) and have difficulties with autonomy and identity formation (Kameguchi & Murphy-Shigematsu, 2001). There are also gender differences in terms of children’s sensitivity to family background (Hilton, Anngela-Cole, & Wakita, 2010); in other words, boys and girls respond to and are affected by family characteristics in different ways. In western countries, female passive victims encounter considerable parental negativity and hostility and are given little autonomy (Rican, Klicperova, & Koucka, 1993), and have poor relationship with their mothers (Rigby, 1993). In contrast, male passive victims have an intensely close mother-son relationship (Ladd & Ladd, 1998; Olweus, 1980), but a poor father-son relationship (Rican et al., 1993; Olweus, 1980). Negative Effects Passive victims have been reported to suffer from persistent internalizing disorders, such as eating disorders (Bond, Carlin, Thomas, Rubin & Patton, 2001) and attention deficit disorder (Kumpulainen, Rasanen, & Puura, 2001). They have a constant fear of being bullied that prevents them from concentrating and they become absentminded. Psychosomatic symptoms, such as headaches and stomach aches, appear whenever they have to go to school. They cannot sleep at night (McNamara & McNamara, 1997) and even have suicidal thoughts (Olweus, 1993: Sugimori, 1998, Gumpel, 2008). In terms of the long-term effects, male passive victims find it hard to get along with females when they enter adulthood and often encounter obstacles in sexual relationships (Gilmartin, 1987). They are also at risk of mental health problems when they enter adulthood (Parker & Asher, 1987). When they become parents, they will over-protect their own children and repeat the vicious cycle so that their children will in turn become passive victims (McNamara & McNamara, 1997). Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 23 Chapter 2 Conceptual Framework Case Study Daniel (a pseudonym) is a silent, skinny boy who wears glasses. He is the only child from a middle class family. Daniel’s parents do not allow him to do household chores, as they worry that he will be too tired to attend school and complete class assignments. His mother even helps him to pack his school bag according to his class timetable. As a result, Daniel is very dependent on his parents. Daniel has regularly been bullied by a group of three classmates. They call him nicknames, tease him, grab his class assignments and glasses, and sometimes beat him up. He is so scared of them that he often skips classes and is afraid to attend school. During class, he is constantly anxious and sensitive to his surroundings, checking if his classmates are approaching even when the teacher is present. He once revealed that he was always the first to run out of the classroom at the beginning of recess and would hide himself in a corner so that his classmates could not find him and bully him. We could tell that Daniel had little sense of security and tended to withdraw from people and escape from problems in response to bullying. In the treatment group, Daniel revealed that he had been forced by a group of three classmates to talk with a female classmate after school one day. They grabbed his school bag and glasses and told him they would not give them back unless he talked with the girl and asked for her phone number. When the workers asked him why he did not report the event to a teacher, he said that they bullied him because he did not dare to talk to girls at school. We could see that Daniel believed that it was his own fault that he was bullied. In addition, we knew that Daniel was passive and lacked self-esteem and communication skills because he avoided talking with girls. Conclusion If adolescents experience being bullied without appropriate treatment, it may leave an indelible impression on their development. Passive victims may become Hikikomori/reclusive adolescents, and aggressive victims may even become aggressors themselves. 24 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 2 Conceptual Framework Types Cognitive Emotional Behavioral Social Proactive • Uses violence to show confidence and strength • Calm • Bullies those who are weak • Gangs up with peers Aggressor • Goal oriented, acts to attain personal benefits • Rational • Lacks empathy • Intentional • Confident • Overestimates his/her own ability • Forms gangs with other proactive aggressors • Good at arguing • Becomes the leader of gangs • Very impulsive • Impatient • Isolated and rejected • Hot-tempered • Overactive • Unable to control emotions • Obstinate • Unwelcomed by peers • Underestimates consequences Reactive Aggressor • Experiences cognitive distortion • Weak problem-solving skills • Sensitive to external stimulus, has poor concentration • Timid, lacks confidence • Aggressive tendencies • Poor social skills • Poor communication skills • Blames others easily • Low self-esteem Aggressive Victim • Cynical • Retaliatory • Treated unfairly by others • Negatively perceived by teachers Passive Victim • Has a negative, unfavorable view of the outside world • Negative and pessimistic • Obsessed by past experiences of being bullied • Experiences deep rage • Helplessness • Recalcitrant • Wants to fight back but worries about lack of ability • Anxious • Untrusting of others • Confused and contradictory • Experiences moral conflict • Panicky • Adopts drastic methods to protect him/ herself • Helpless • Passive • Upset • Hides him/herself • Miserable • Quiet • Depressed • Lacks motivation • Inferior • Blames others for not helping him/her • Not able to express his/her desires • Poor social and communication skills • Impulsive, will gang up with peers who have a common interest • Lack of trust in people • Avoids contact with others • Often alone • Unpleasant and unattractive appearance • Introvert and silent • Self-soothing as fail to protect oneself • Feels looked down on by others Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 25 Chapter 2 Conceptual Framework V. Forms of Aggressive Behavior Aggression can be classified into five categories, namely physical, verbal, and relational aggression (Beale, 2001; Hanish & Guerra, 2000; Pepler, Craig, Ziegler, & Charach, 1994; Popoola, 2005; Smokowski &Kopasz, 2005), sexual aggression (Krahe, 2001), and cyberbullying (Willard, 2006). 1. Physical Aggression Physical aggression includes punching, kicking, throwing objects, tearing and ripping clothes, and even attacking others and their possessions. This type of aggression usually elicits the most concern from teachers, parents, and the community. Physical aggression is predominantly used by males. 2. Verbal Aggression Verbal aggression includes using offensive language to hurt or humiliate others, or somebody they respect. Name-calling, making fun of others, and using abusive language or sarcasm to insult others are also forms of verbal aggression. Verbal aggression usually happens instantaneously, making it difficult to intervene and resolve the situation. However, the harm done to the victims is no less than that caused by physical aggression. Aggressors of this type may be male or female. 3. Relational Aggression Relational aggression focuses on social relationships by creating a network of negativity around particular victims on various occasions. Relational aggressors intend to harm their victims by spreading vicious rumors about them, isolating and boycotting them, excluding them from certain groups, and damaging other’s opinions of and relationships with them. This type of aggression is especially prevalent in females. 4. Sexual Aggression Sexual aggression includes a range of unwanted attention in the form of sexual harassment, obscene phone calls, and staring, which causes discomfort to the victims. More serious sexual aggression includes the use or threat of violence, or exploitation of the victim’s inability to resist sexual activities, such as petting, kissing, or even oral sex or sexual intercourse. 5. Cyberbullying Cyberbullying involves sending or posting harmful material or engaging in other forms of social aggression using the Internet or other digital technologies. 26 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 2 Conceptual Framework Cyberbullying can take different forms (Willard, 2006): i) Harassment Repeatedly sending nasty, mean, and insulting messages. ii) Denigration “Dissing” someone online. Sending or posting gossip or rumors about a person to damage his or her reputation or friendships. iii) Impersonation Pretending to be someone else and sending or posting material to get that person in trouble or danger, or to damage that person’s reputation or friendships. iv) Outing Sharing someone’s secrets or embarrassing information or images online. v) Trickery Talking someone into revealing secrets or embarrassing information, then sharing it online. vi) Exclusion Intentionally and cruelly excluding someone from an online group. In 2011, Project CARE administered a questionnaire on cyberbullying among 1,818 seventh to eleventh grade students (mean age: 13.13) across four high schools in Hong Kong. The results revealed that 32.1% (N=584) of the respondents have cyberbullied others in various ways (e.g., denigrating and excluding others). The results suggest that males are more likely to engage in cyberbullying behavior than females. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 27 Chapter 2 Conceptual Framework The causes of aggressive behavior vary. We can take the factors identified in Bronfenbrenner’s (1979) Ecological Approach to analyze the causes as follows. i) Individual: Physiological and psychological development, the relationship between personal experience and cognitive structure, social skills, and problem-solving skills. ii) Family: Parenting model, parent-child relationships, conflict management methods, family history of crime, domestic violence, neglect and abuse. iii) School: The school-based culture, reward and punishment system, regional sub-culture, the execution of school regulations, teacher-student relationships, the philosophy of the school and its implementation, discipline and counseling coordination, home-school cooperation, and the background and social status of other students. iv) Environment: Media exaggeration, gender roles, economic status, and community characteristics and development (Howard, Horne, & Jolliff, 2001; Pianta, 1999; Swearer & Doll, 2001). Rather than focusing exclusively on the children involved, researchers increasingly take family, peer, school, and community factors into account (Nickerson, Mele, & Princiotta, 2008). The role of parents has drawn particular attention, as parents are the primary agents of socialization for their children (Nickerson et al., 2008). The above factors are used as the key criteria in the selection and evaluation of group members. The questionnaire and interview questions are also designed to achieve an objective and accurate selection of interviewees, including students, parents, and teachers. According to research studies, individual and family factors have the most profound effects on the aggressive behavior of children and youths (Crockenberg & Langrock, 2001; Dodge, 2002; Patterson, DeBaryshe & Ramsey, 1989). Thus, we use individual and family factors as the basis for explaining the characteristics of aggressors and victims and investigate how bullying affects their development. We also include case studies, taken from our experiences of the past year, to analyze the characteristics of proactive aggressors and aggressive victims. 28 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 2 Conceptual Framework VI. Related Theories 1. Social Information Processing Model The Social Information Processing (SIP) model (Crick & Dodge, 1996; Dodge & Coie, 1987; Pettit, Polaha, & Mize, 2001; Arsenio, Adams, & Gold, 2009) provides an insightful explanation of the behavioral development of various types of aggressors and victims. The model suggests that people follow a five-step cognitive process when receiving messages and cues from the outside world and that appropriate action will be taken in return: i) Encoding of social cues (e.g., image, sound); ii) Interpretation of social cues; iii) Searching for a response; iv) Deciding on a response; and v) Behavioral enactment. 2. Social Learning Theory Social Learning theory, proposed by American psychologist Albert Bandura (1986, 1999), posits that people learn from one another via observation, imitation, and modeling. Behavior is formed through continuous reciprocal interactions between cognitive, behavioral, and environmental influences. For example, children learn social etiquette and rules by observing their parents and teachers. In addition to learning specific types of behavior, they absorb the underlying values and outlook on life that underpins their parents’ and teachers’ behavior, which represents the process of socialization. The following are the necessary conditions for effective modeling. i) Attention: the attraction to interesting and novel things. Various factors increase or decrease the amount of attention paid, including distinctiveness, affective level, prevalence, complexity, and the functional value of particular behavior. Personal characteristics, such as sensory capacity, arousal level, and perceptual set, also affect the level of attention. ii) Retention: remembering what you have paid attention to, which involves symbolic coding, mental images, symbolic rehearsal, and motor rehearsal. iii) Reproduction: the ability to reproduce the behavior includes physical capabilities and self-observation. iv) Motivation: there needs to be a reason to imitate, which may include incentives or imagined incentives, such as the benefits or penalties associated with the newly learned behavior. If the learned behavior brings positive feedback, it will encourage the formation of a new behavior. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 29 Chapter 2 Conceptual Framework 3. Attribution Theory Attribution Theory (Heider, 1958) explains how people interpret their own and others’ behavior. The theory states that an individual will attempt to interpret and determine the causes of an event, with questions such as “Why me?” or “Why is this happening?” Weiner (1995) categorized attribution into the following three categories. i) The source of attribution - Internal Locus of Control: the belief that things happen primarily because of one's own characteristics and behavior, therefore the individual is responsible for his/her own actions and the consequences of these actions. The factors influencing internal/dispositional explanations include personality traits, motives, and attitudes. - External Locus of Control: the belief that events are caused by external factors such as other people or environmental factors, therefore the individual is not responsible for his/her actions or the consequences of these actions. The factors influencing external/situational explanations include external pressures, social norms, peer pressure, environmental accidents, and random events. ii) Stability of attribution - Stable Cause: the cause of the event does not change over time. - Unstable Cause: the cause of event changes over time. iii) Controllability of attribution - Controllable by the person: the cause of the event is under the individual's control. - Uncontrollable by the person: the cause of an event is out of the individual's control. Researchers have found that children’s ability to develop attributional inferences emerges around the preschool stage, when they begin to perceive causality in other people’s behavior. Boxer and Tisak (2003) point out that aggressors and victims use both internal and external explanations for their behavior. As children grow up, their attributions tend to change from external to internal (Boxer & Tisak, 2003), but there is less research studying the attributional tendency of adolescents. This project utilizes attribution theory to analyze the behavioral responses of reactive aggressors, aggressive victims, and passive victims. 30 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 2 Conceptual Framework 4. Freud’s Concept of Anxiety (Much of the following regarding the id, ego, and superego comes from George & Christiani, 1990.) In Sigmund Freud’s topographical model of personality, the ego is the aspect of personality that deals with reality. At the same time, the ego has to cope with the conflicting demands of the id and the superego. The id seeks to fulfill all wants, needs, and impulses, while the superego tries to get the ego to act in an idealistic and moral manner. When the ego cannot deal with the demands of our desires, the constraints of reality, and our own moral standards, we feel anxious. According to Freud, anxiety is an unpleasant inner state that people seek to avoid; it acts as a signal to the ego that things are not right. According to the Freudian theory of anxiety, there are three main types of anxiety: neurotic anxiety, reality anxiety, and moral anxiety (Hall, 1955). People’s inner conflicts arise from these three types of anxiety (George & Cristiani, 1990; Hall, 1955): i) Neurotic anxiety results from fear that the id will become out of control and cause the individual to do something for which they will be punished. According to Freud’ s psychoanalytic theory of personality, the id is made up of unconscious psychic energy that works to satisfy basic urges, needs, and desires. The id operates on the pleasure principle, which demands immediate gratification of needs. ii) Reality anxiety is caused by real dangers in the external world. For example, a person might fear being bitten if they encounter a menacing dog. The most common way of reducing this type of anxiety is to avoid the threatening object. iii) Moral anxiety is fear of the conscience. In other words, people with strong superegos feel guilty when they do something that violates the moral code. 5. Cognitive Theory of Anxiety Beck (1985, 1999) pointed out that anxiety occurs when problems arise during information processing (cognitive level). Over-anxious individuals focus only on the exaggerated threat of an incident, and underestimate their own capacity for resilience. Aggressive victims are likely to be biased in the way they process and interpret information when they are on guard. They tend only to perceive threatening messages and ignore other information, which biases them toward incorrect conclusions. Humans’ innate reaction to the anxiety generated by such cognitive biases is the fight-or-flight response (Cannon, 1915). Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 31 Chapter 2 Conceptual Framework 6. Transformation of Types of Aggressors and Victims It should be reiterated here that reactive and proactive aggressors are only conceptual categories and are not mutually exclusive. In reality, they do not occur on their own nor represent extreme cases. Rather, in the research process, it is common to find the two types combining to make up a reactive-proactive aggressor. The various types of aggressors and victims have different experiences of bullying that may bring about changes in their thoughts, and these changes can lead to transformations that may turn a victim into an aggressor. i) Aggressive Victim Reactive Aggressor If aggressive victims continue to be bullied without receiving help or intervention from others, they will conclude that others have bad intentions, lose confidence and hope in others, and use more violence. Successful experiences of using violence help them to rationalize their aggressive behavior. Thereafter, they will use violence as the only way to protect themselves. ii) Reactive Aggressor Proactive Aggressor Some reactive aggressors will either become accomplices of proactive aggressors and obey their instructions, or become their victims. In the process, they may find that using intelligence is a better way to protect themselves compared with responding impulsively. Not only is there less chance of being punished, but they also appear more convincing to others, thus achieving their goal. In this way, they learn to gain benefits by using threats or violence, and so turn into proactive aggressors. 7. Conclusion Because aggressors and victims may change, teachers and social workers must pay close attention to them. If they can identify the type of aggressor or victim and take the right measures, appropriate intervention can be carried out, focusing on the irrational biases of aggressors and victims. Moreover, if the transformation of aggressors and victims can be halted, the school environment will become more peaceful and harmonious. Proactive Aggressor 32 Reactive Aggressor Aggressive Victim Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Passive Victim Chapter 2 Conceptual Framework VII. Counseling Strategies 1. Background A number of programs have been developed for the prevention of bullying in school, such as Peacebuilders, the Olweus Bully Prevention Program, PATHS (Providing Alternative Thinking Strategies), RCCP (Resolving Conflict Creativity Program), and Second STEP. (Newman-Carlson & Horne, 2004; Stevens, Bourdeaudhuij, & Oost, 2001). However, there have been no prior studies on interventions for the four subtypes of aggressors and victims specifically. Therefore, Project C.A.R.E. developed a 10-session Cognitive Behavioral Therapy counseling group intervention for specific subtypes of reactive aggressive (Fung, 2007; Fung, revised manuscript), proactive aggressive (Fung, 2008; Fung, Gerstein, Chan, & Hutchison, under review), passive victimized (Fung, 2007; Fung, under review-a), and aggressive victimized (Fung, 2008; Fung, under review-b) adolescents, with the aim to reduce their levels of aggression and victimization. The outcome effectiveness has been scientifically evaluated using quantitative and qualitative measures with different sources of data (student self-report, parent and teacher ratings) across multiple time-points in a 2-year longitudinal study. The encouraging results of the evidence-based evaluation were largely supported by a previous study. Glancy and Saini (2005) suggest that small-group therapy rather is more effective in reducing students’ aggressive behavior than individual counseling and family therapy. The small-group approach not only encourages participants to share their personal experiences, but also helps to generate sympathetic responses from other group members. More specifically, participants can learn from other group members’ experiences, absorb what is useful, and self-reflect to achieve personal growth. To prevent a labeling effect, our promotional materials in school emphasize leadership training and critical thinking. All group members are encouraged to participate in a positive manner in the activities. Prior to the commencement of the school term, teachers are required to attend workshops organized by the project team. All teachers are briefed on the project contents and implementation process to ensure they do not label participating students, and at the same time take the initiative to encourage students who join the project. All selected aggressors and victims are carefully assessed to ensure they meet the clinical criteria. Each group consists of nine members and is led by two social workers. 2. Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy Past research has found that using cognitive-behavioral therapy as the theoretical framework for the aggressor and victim group is far more effective than other types of therapy, such as psychodynamic theory, behaviorism, and cognitive theory (Kazdin, 1987, 1995; Lochman, 1990; Lochman & Wells, 1996; McMahon & Wells, 1989; SouthamGerow & Kendall, 2000). Moreover, the author has previously employed cognitive-behavioral therapy in designing the content of group therapy and found it to be very effective in reducing children’s aggressive behavior (Fung, 2006, 2008, 2009, 2010, 2011, revision, under review-b; Fung, Gerstein, Chan, & Hutchison, under review; Fung, Raine, & Gao, 2009; Fung & Tsang, 2006; Fung & Tsang, 2007; Fung & Wong, 2007; Fung, Wong & Chak, 2007; Fung, Wong, & Wong, 2004). For this reason, cognitive-behavioral therapy is used as the framework for the group therapy in this project. Different forms of cognitive therapy and cognitive-behavioral therapy have been developed since the 1960s, such as Aaron T. Beck’s (1976) Cognitive Therapy, Albert Ellis’s (1956) Rational-Emotive Behavior Therapy, and Donald Meichenbaum’s (1987) Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy. Based on the characteristics and past experiences of two types of aggressors and victims, this project applies a combination of cognitive-behavioral therapies in the counseling group. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 33 Chapter 2 Conceptual Framework 3. Albert Ellis’s Rational-Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) In ancient Greece, the Stoic philosopher Epictetus said that “People are not disturbed by things, but by the view they take of them.” It was not until the mid-twentieth century that western psychologists systematically transformed this philosophy into psychological therapy. Albert Ellis was one of the most influential founders of cognitivebehavioral therapy in the twentieth century (Ellis, 1962). Ellis (1956) believed that humans have the capability to think and to self-evaluate through reflection and selftalking. Hence, people who have rational beliefs live logical and happy lives. In contrast, people with irrational beliefs experience negative emotions and behavior. Researchers have utilized this concept in therapy programs for adolescent aggressive behavior (Guerra, Huesmann, Tolan, Van Acker, & Eron, 1995; Huesmann & Guerra, 1997; Lochman & Dodge, 1994; Quiggle, Garber, Panak, & Dodge, 1992; Rabiner, Lenhart, & Lochman, 1990). DiGiuseppe and Kelter (2006) reviewed outcome studies and articles related to the effectiveness of REBT and concluded that REBT is a well-suited treatment for aggressive children. Moreover, due to the psycho-educational nature of REBT, it is applicable in educational settings, and can also be applied to the family system of aggressive children, particularly parents. For these reasons, REBT is adopted as our major theoretical framework. Through the A-B-C model, we can understand the cognitive processes behind the aggressive behavior of students. Anticipated event Belief Consequence When an event (A) happens, the individual’s beliefs (B) about it will lead to different consequences (C), including behavioral responses and emotional responses (Ellis, 1977). When a student holds an irrational belief it will lead to negative consequences. The following are examples and explanations of various types of aggressors and victims’ irrational beliefs and their negative consequences: 34 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 2 Conceptual Framework Event (A): I was knocked down by a classmate during recess. Student with a rational belief: Belief (B): “He was just being careless.” Consequence (C): It’s not a big deal. Get up and return to the classroom as though nothing has happened. Proactive aggressor with an irrational belief: Belief (B): “I have to let others know that I’m not that weak and I have the power.” Consequence (C): Threaten the classmate and ask for compensation. Reactive aggressor with an irrational belief: Belief (B): “I was picked on and knocked down deliberately.” Consequence (C): Become angry, run after the classmate and punch him. Aggressive victim with an irrational belief: Belief (B): “Why pick on me and not other classmates? It’s his fault, and I have to retaliate and let him know that he is wrong.” Consequence (C): Stare at the classmate angrily, and curse him quietly. Passive victim with an irrational belief: Belief (B): “It was entirely my fault, I’m too stupid and too slow.” Consequence (C): Leave hastily for fear of being hit again. From the above examples, we can see that the individuals’ beliefs directly affect their emotional and behavioral consequences. Because aggressors and victims have cognitive distortions, their irrational beliefs cause deviant behavior and negative emotions. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 35 Chapter 2 Conceptual Framework Ellis (1977) discovered 12 types of irrational beliefs that cause deviations in people’s thinking, resulting in emotional distress and the emergence of negative behavior. The 12 irrational beliefs are introduced as follows, although interpretation of the irrational beliefs in counseling groups will vary in accordance with the characteristics of the two aggressors and victims. i) It is essential that people must be loved by significant others for almost everything they do. ii) Certain acts are awful or wicked, and people who perform such acts should be severely punished. iii) It is horrible when things are not the way we like them to be. iv) Human misery is invariably externally caused and is forced on us by outside people and events. v) If something is or may be dangerous or frightening it is natural to be terribly upset and endlessly obsess about it. vi) It is easier to avoid than to face life’s difficulties and self-responsibilities. vii) We need something fundamentally other or stronger or greater than ourselves on which to rely. viii) We should be thoroughly competent, intelligent, and successful in all possible respects. ix) Because something once strongly affected our life, it will affect it indefinitely. x) We must have certain and perfect control over things. xi) Human happiness can be achieved by inertia and inaction. xii) We have virtually no control over our emotions and we cannot help feeling disturbed about things. These irrational beliefs reflect individuals’ personal values and views on life. If people’s lives do not match what they believe (i.e. their beliefs are irrational), they will doubt their own self-worth, become emotionally distressed, and may do something to harm themselves or others. Workers will introduce the twelve irrational beliefs described by Ellis in the counseling groups. Group members gain a better understanding of the irrational beliefs underlying their behavior and emotional distress. 4. Beck’s Cognitive Therapy Beck’s (1995) Cognitive Therapy (CT) also provides a clear and specific theoretical framework to help workers assess group members’ core beliefs, intermediary schemas, and automatic thoughts. The following cognitive concept table provides an illustration using the example of a reactive aggressor. 36 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 2 Conceptual Framework Core Belief Helpless/ Disliked by others Intermediary Schemas Attitude: Incompetence is unacceptable Rule: I must not show my weakness Assumption: I am useless if I am bullied Automatic Thoughts I was being picked on and made fun of. Scenario Played volleyball with classmates during recess and was hit by the ball. Emotional Response Furious, angry. Behavioral Response Rush up to the classmate. Yell, hit him and throw the ball at him. The cognitive model explains the emotional and behavioral responses that arise from people’s automatic thoughts. Automatic thoughts are the product of the individual’s deep-rooted core belief and intermediary schemas. Automatic thoughts are more easily detected in comparison with the core belief and intermediary schemas. A person’s core belief can be divided into feeling “helpless” and “disliked by others”. These two core beliefs influence the intermediary schemas (including attitudes, rules, and assumptions). For example, the “Helpless” core belief produces the following intermediary schemas: attitude – incompetence is unacceptable; rule – I must not show my weakness; and assumption – I am bullied because I am useless. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 37 Chapter 2 Conceptual Framework In a cognitive process, the automatic thoughts that trigger cognitive distortions are shaped by core beliefs and intermediary schemas. The various cognitive distortions have been categorized into the following thinking errors (Beck, Rush, Shaw, & Emery, 1979; Beck, 1995, Burns, 1980). i) Overgeneralizing: Placing exaggerated importance on a single negative experience, to the point where you see it as a sign of a neverending pattern of negative events that you expect to face in the near future. ii) Magnifying the negatives and minimizing the positives: Exaggerating negative issues or events and downplaying your own, or other people’s, strengths and assets, or positive events and situations that you have experienced. iii) Black-and-white thinking: Seeing things in extreme terms. Situations or circumstances are interpreted as either good or bad, all or nothing, positive or negative. There is no middle/common ground, everything is seen as black or white. iv) Catastrophizing: Exaggerating the importance of things, especially negative situations. You make a big issue out of one negative experience and imagine terrible consequences. v) Mental Filtering: Picking out a single negative detail from an unpleasant experience, and then dwelling exclusively on this negative detail. That is, you ignore the bigger picture and ‘filter out’ any positive aspects of the event. vi) Personalization: Taking responsibility or inappropriately blaming yourself for the cause of a negative experience which often may be beyond your own control. vii) Labeling/Mislabeling: This thinking error involves an extreme form of overgeneralization. You tend to attach a negative label to yourself or others on the basis of one negative experience. 5. Disputing Irrational Beliefs Steps to help aggressors and victims dispute their irrational beliefs are as follows: i) Help group members to understand irrational beliefs through the use of case studies; ii) Probe members about the causes of irrational beliefs and the various effects they have on health, emotional, and social domains; iii) Challenge the deviant thoughts underlying irrational beliefs – the process consists of Detect, Discriminate, and Debate; iv) Broaden group members’ thinking and encourage them to develop rational beliefs; and v) Encourage group members to apply their new rational beliefs and positive behavior in daily life so that they experience different emotions and behavior. 38 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 2 Conceptual Framework The design of the treatment groups is based on cognitive-behavioral therapy. The details of the ten group sessions for the subtypes of aggressors and victims are listed in Chapter 4 (proactive aggressors), Chapter 5 (reactive aggressors), Chapter 6 (aggressive victims), and Chapter 7 (passive victims), with worksheets included. Each of the four chatpers begins with a specific theoretical analysis of the subtype of aggressor or victim, using the theories introduced earlier in this chapter. Each chapter also includes a real-life case study to illustrate the corresponding characteristics of the subtype of aggressor or victim. The progress of each group is presented in six phases to allow readers to gain a better understanding of the entire process. The behavioral and emotional changes in aggressors and victims at each stage are also illustrated through the case studies. Please see the table below for the related characters in each chapter. Characters in the Case Studies Type of treatment group Character Key Worker /Co-Worker Proactive Aggressor Wei Ms Chung/Ms Wu Reactive Aggressor Wai Ms Chung/Ms Wu Aggressive Victim Kin Ms Chan/Ms Wu Passive Victim Man Ms Chan/Ms Wu Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 39 Chapter 3: Assessment and Research Design De 40 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 3 Assessment and Research Design Chapter 3: Assessment and Research Design I. Characteristics of the Research The main characteristics of the research, based on objective and scientific planning and stringent research methods, are outlined below. 1. An Ecological Model Project Care adopted an experimental design within an ecological model. We invited students, parents, and teachers to participate in seminars, workshops, treatment groups, and professional consultation. 2. International Assessment Tools We referred to international and local articles and research studies to select highly valid and reliable assessment tools. The pretest-posttest design employed these high-standard international assessment tools to identify the four subtypes of aggressors and victims. 3. Objective Data The research analysis was not influenced by the researchers’ personal opinions and values but was based on objective data. The screening and assessment of students relied on both quantitative and qualitative research. Using SPSS (Statistical Package for the Social Sciences) to analyze the quantitative data, and content analysis for the qualitative data, facilitated the presentation of reliable and convincing research results from the project. 4. International Consultation The research was carried out under the consultation of Professor Adrian Raine from the University of Pennsylvania to ensure the project met international standards for evaluating the effectiveness of the project. From the design and implementation of the project to its evaluation, the project team members discussed the project with serving schoolteachers and reported regularly to the school on its progress. 5. Representative Results Representative research results must be generalizable – that is, they should be applicable to students in different schools. The 50 secondary schools (from the academic years 2006 to 2011) selected to participate in this project were situated across Hong Kong and across different school bandings, with similar male-to-female ratios, ages of school, students’ family backgrounds, and social status. The research results are robust and representative, with a sample size of around 26,000 (at the screening stage). Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 41 Chapter 3 Assessment and Research Design II. Research Design Using an experimental design, this study aimed to verify the effectiveness of therapeutic counseling groups (i.e., treatment groups) for the four subtypes of aggressors and victims, namely proactive aggressors and reactive aggressors, and aggressive victims and passive victims, by comparing the effects of the treatment groups and control groups. The treatment groups, based on cognitive-behavioral therapy, were specifically designed for the four types of aggressors and victims with different objectives. We aimed to reduce the bullying behavior of the proactive aggressors, enhance their empathy, and encourage them to utilize their talents in more appropriate and rightful ways to attain a sense of achievement and well-being. For reactive aggressors, the treatment group was designed to reduce their violent behavior and impulsivity, to learn to manage own emotions and express themselves better, to enhance communication skills and build up harmonious relationship with others. For aggressive victims, we aimed to help them understand their inner conflicts and not to struggle with the discrepancies between interpersonal relationships and self-value, and thus enhance their relationship with peers. For passive victims, we aimed to enhance their self-confidence, self-image, positive thinking, assertiveness, and interpersonal skills to increase their confidence in getting along with others. The control groups were designed to enhance general learning. The content was not aimed at reducing aggressive behavior, or improving self-expression or emotional control. The selected students were randomly assigned to either the treatment group or the control group. According to the ecological model, people’s cognition, behavior, and emotional development are affected by the surrounding environment, such as family, school, and society (Bronfenbrenner, 1979). The concept of triangulation was therefore used in this research – that is, the effect of the treatment groups on members was assessed through the parents, teachers, and members themselves, to maintain a multi-dimensional and accurate assessment of the effectiveness of the treatment group. This research adopted a mixed-mode research design, using both quantitative and qualitative research to assess the performance of members before and after the treatment group. The quantitative research was conducted through questionnaires that included scales for measuring the cognition, behavior, and emotions of the four subtypes of aggressors and victims. Pre-tests and post-tests were conducted to enable comparison of members’ performance before and after the group. Meanwhile, structured interviews were used for conducting qualitative research. This was a longitudinal study and members were followed up as long as two years after completing the treatment groups to identify the long-term effects of the treatment groups. III. Targets of the Research 1. Students The first part of the study utilized quantitative research. Through the self-expression questionnaire, suitable students were screened to identify different subtypes of aggressors and victims to participate in the treatment group. Participants were classified into four subtypes: reactive aggressors, proactive aggressors, aggressive victims, and passive victims. A further questionnaire was administered to obtain a full picture of their cognition, behavior, and emotions. 42 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 3 Assessment and Research Design The second part of the study utilized qualitative research. The subtypes of aggressors and victims were interviewed individually. Qualitative research allows us a better understanding of how students perceive and respond to the hypothetical scenarios and provides us with more complex information than can be gained from quantitative research (Strauss & Corbin, 1990). A narrative approach was used in the hypothetical scenarios so that participants could reflect their feelings and thoughts without being reminded of their personal painful experiences. As Connelly and Clandinin (1990) said, “Humans are storytelling organisms who, individually and socially, lead storied lives. The study of narrative, therefore, is the study of the ways humans experience the world” (p. 2). Research workers should focus not only on student’s narrative detail, but also on understanding how they reason and interpret outside events (Anderson, 1989; Osborne, 1990; Toolan, 1988). 2. Teachers Teachers play a key role in observing students’ behavior in school. A number of studies suggest that teachers classify students’ rebellious behavior into two common categories, reactive aggression and proactive aggression (Dodge & Coie, 1987). In the early stage of adolescence, proactive aggressors anticipate that violence will bring them power and benefits (Smithmyer, Hubbard, & Simons, 2000), so they tend to commit illegal behavior (Brendgen, Vitaro, Tremblay, & Lavoie, 2001; Vitaro, Gendreau, Tremblay, & Oligny, 1998). Reactive aggressors, meanwhile, have hostile attributional biases ( Hubbard, Dodge, Cillessen, Coie, & Schwartz, 2001) and deficits in solving interpersonal problems (Dodge, Lochman, Harnish, Bates, & Pettit, 1997). These disruptive forms of behavior are reflected in the violation of school rules in school or classrooms. Thus, teachers can provide important information to enable researchers to make objective assessments. Teachers’ assessment of students’ behavior was also carried out using quantitative and qualitative methods. Quantitative questionnaires included the “index of proactive and reactive aggression” and “behavior in class”. The interviews with teachers revealed students’ thoughts, emotions, and other behavior in class. Students’ experience of victimization and proactive and reactive aggression in school were also covered in the interview. 3. Parents Research studies have revealed that parents play an important role in the socialization of their children, and also affect their children’s emotional and psychological development (Denham, Zoller, & Couchoud, 1994; Dunn & Brown, 1994; Eisenberg, Fabes, & Murphy, 1996). Therefore, parents must be included as a source of assessment. Parents mainly provided us with information regarding their children’s emotions and behavior at home or outside the classroom. Additional demographic information was also collected. Only the parents of children selected through the screening process were asked to complete the questionnaires and individual interviews. Parents completed questionnaires to assess their children’s behavior and emotions, and the relationships and communication between children and parents. Parents were interviewed to understand their parenting style, family history, the student’s development, emotional and behavioral changes, etc. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 43 Chapter 3 Assessment and Research Design IV. Research Procedure Screening: Grade seven to grade nine students (Quantitative Research) Pre-tests: Selected students, corresponding teachers & parents (Quantitative and Qualitative Research) Treatment group & control group: Selected students Post-tests: Selected students, corresponding teachers & parents (Quantitative and Qualitative Research) Figure 1. Research Procedure 44 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 3 Assessment and Research Design 1. Screening The screening questionnaires were administered to all grade seven to grade nine students in fifty secondary schools who agreed to participate in this project during the academic years 2006 to 2011. The screening questionnaire consisted of various self-rating scales that aimed to assess the thoughts, behavior, and emotions of the students. Potential proactive aggressors, reactive aggressors, aggressive victims, and passive victims were then selected to attend the pretests. The screening process adopted the following criteria to classify the four subtypes of aggressors and victims. Subtypes of Aggressors and Victims The Reactive and Proactive Aggression Questionnaire (RPQ) Proactive Aggressors The students with the top-30 scores on the proactive aggression index+ Below the clinical score* Reactive Aggressors The students with the top-30 scores on the reactive aggression index+ Below the clinical score* Aggressive Victims The students with the top-30 scores on the reactive aggression index+ Equal to/higher than the clinical score* Below the mean score of total RPQ Equal to/higher than the clinical score*, and the students with the top30 scores on PVQ Passive Victims Peer Victimization Questionnaire (PVQ) + If students scored in the top 30 for both proactive and reactive aggression, they were classified according to whichever score was highest. * The clinical score for both females and males is 45. Following the screening, all selected students and their corresponding parents and teachers were invited to attend the pre-test. 2. Pre-tests To evaluate the effectiveness of the treatment group, we collected information about the targeted students immediately before (pre-test) and after (post-test) the treatment. Sixty students (two out of the four subtypes of aggressors and victims) were selected to attend the pre-tests in each academic year. Pre-test questionnaires and individual structured interviews were administered to the selected students and their corresponding parents and teachers. For each student, one of his/her parents, and his/her class teacher were invited to attend the pre-test to provide us with more comprehensive information about the targeted student. If both of the student’s parents insisted on attending the pre-test, they completed the questionnaire and interviews together. The class teacher was invited to attend the pre-test, as we believe they are the most familiar with students’ thoughts, behavior, and emotions. Some teachers had to complete several pre-tests if more than one student in his/ her class was selected to participate in a group. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 45 Chapter 3 Assessment and Research Design 3. Treatment Group and Control Group First, around 26,000 students from 50 secondary schools completed the self-report questionnaire and we then screened out 1,500 potential high-risk students to attend the individual structured interview of the assessment procedure. Finally, we targeted around 1,000 of the highest-risk students to be randomly assigned to the treatment or control groups. Both the treatment group and the control group consisted of ten sessions. Please refer to Chapters 4 to 7 for details of the treatment groups. The content of the control group was designed to enhance group members’ general learning and did not include any content related to aggression and victimization. 4. Post-tests This was a longitudinal study with assessments at multiple time-points. Members of both the treatment groups and control groups completed a post-test questionnaire during the final session of the group. Individual structured interviews with group members were scheduled no later than one week after the final session of the group. Similarly, the same parents and class teachers who completed the pre-tests were scheduled to attend the post-test, consisting of an individual structured interview and parent-rating and teacher-rating questionnaire, no later than one week after the final session of the group. The group members, parents, and class teachers who completed the pre-tests were also invited to complete threemonth, one-year, and two-year post-test questionnaires, to follow-up on the group members after the groups ended. V. Assessment Tools 1. Quantitative Research and Questionnaires Quantitative Questionnaire Checklist: Proactive Aggressors Post-test/three-month/one-year/ two-year follow-up Screening Questionnaire Pre-test • Reactive and Proactive Aggression Questionnaire • Peer Victimization Questionnaire • Child Behavior Checklist – Youth Self-Report • Aggression Questionnaire • The Reactive and Proactive Aggression Questionnaire • Child Behavior Checklist – Youth Self-Report • Aggression Questionnaire Teachers • Child Behavior Checklist – Teacher Report Form • Reactive and Proactive Aggression Questionnaire – Teacher Rating Scale • Child Behavior Checklist – Teacher Report Form • Reactive and Proactive Aggression Questionnaire – Teacher Rating Scale Parents • Child Behavior Checklist – Parent Version • Reactive and Proactive Aggression Questionnaire – Parent Rating Scale • Child Disclosure • Child Behavior Checklist – Parent Version • Reactive and Proactive Aggression Questionnaire – Parent Rating Scale • Child Disclosure Students 46 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 3 Assessment and Research Design Quantitative Questionnaire Checklist: Reactive Aggressors Screening Questionnaire Post-test/three-month/oneyear/ two-year follow-up • Child Behavior Checklist – Youth Self-Report • Anger Self-Report • The Reactive and Proactive Aggression Questionnaire • Child Behavior Checklist – Youth Self-Report • Anger Self-Report Teachers • Child Behavior Checklist – Teacher Report Form • Reactive and Proactive Aggression Questionnaire – Teacher Rating Scale • Child Behavior Checklist – Teacher Report Form • Reactive and Proactive Aggression Questionnaire – Teacher Rating Scale Parents • Child Behavior Checklist – Parent Version • Reactive and Proactive Aggression Questionnaire – Parent Rating Scale • Child Behavior Checklist – Parent Version • Reactive and Proactive Aggression Questionnaire – Parent Rating Scale Students • Reactive and Proactive Aggression Questionnaire • Peer Victimization Questionnaire Pre-test Quantitative Questionnaire Checklist : Aggressive Victims Post-test/three-month/one-year/ two-year follow-up Screening Questionnaire Pre-tests • Reactive and Proactive Aggression Questionnaire • Peer Victimization Questionnaire • Child Behavior Checklist – Youth Self-Report • State-Trait Anger Expression Inventory • School Psychosocial Climate Scale • The Reactive and Proactive Aggression Questionnaire • Peer Victimization Questionnaire • Child Behavior Checklist – Youth Self-Report • State-Trait Anger Expression Inventory • School Psychosocial Climate Scale Teachers • Child Behavior Checklist – Teacher Report Form • Reactive and Proactive Aggression Questionnaire – Teacher Rating Scale • Peer Victimization Questionnaire • Child Behavior Checklist – Teacher Report Form • Reactive and Proactive Aggression Questionnaire – Teacher Rating Scale • Peer Victimization Questionnaire Parents • Child Behavior Checklist – Parent Version • Reactive and Proactive Aggression Questionnaire – Parent Rating Scale • Child Behavior Checklist – Parent Version • Reactive and Proactive Aggression Questionnaire – Parent Rating Scale Students Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 47 Chapter 3 Assessment and Research Design Quantitative Questionnaire Checklist: Passive Victims Post-test/ three-month/one-year/ two-year follow up Screening Questionnaire Pre-tests • Reactive and Proactive Aggression Questionnaire • Peer Victimization Questionnaire • Child Behavior Checklist – Youth Self-Report • The Reactive and Proactive Aggression Questionnaire • Peer Victimization Questionnaire • Child Behavior Checklist – Youth Self-Report Teachers • Child Behavior Checklist – Teacher Report Form • Peer Victimization Questionnaire • Child Behavior Checklist – Teacher Report Form • Peer Victimization Questionnaire Parents • Child Behavior Checklist – Parent Version • Child Behavior Checklist – Parent Version Students Students i) Child Behavior Checklist – Youth Self-Report (CBCL – YSR; Achenbach, 1991) (No appendix due to copyright) This checklist is widely used to assess eight types of internal and external behavior in young people. Students rate themselves on a three-point scale from zero (inaccurate) to two (very accurate). Item scores are summed to create a subscale score for each checklist. Among the eight subscales, Aggressive Behavior, Anxious/ Depressed, Attention Problem, and Delinquent Behavior are used to assess proactive aggressors, and Aggressive Behavior, Anxious/Depressed, and Attention Problem subscales are used to assess aggressive victims. The Aggressive Behavior subscale measures students’ aggressiveness, with higher scores indicating more severe aggressive behavior. The Anxious/Depressed subscale measures the level of anxiety and depression, with higher scores indicating higher levels of anxiety and depression. The Attention Problem subscale measures students’ level of concentration, with higher scores indicating greater difficulty in maintaining concentration. Finally, the Delinquent Behavior subscale measures the frequency of students’ delinquent behavior, with higher scores indicating higher frequency. Research by the Education Bureau has demonstrated the validity and reliability of this checklist. The checklist maintains structural validity with different groups (EMB, 2003) and related concurrent validity with the ECBI (Eyberg Child Behavior Inventory) and PSI (Parenting Stress Index – short form) for measuring the behavioral problems of students. The alpha (α) coefficients for the subscales in this research are 0.87 for Aggressive Behavior, 0.88 for Anxious/Depressed, 0.77 for Attention Problem and 0.74 for Delinquent Behavior. 48 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 3 Assessment and Research Design ii) Reactive and Proactive Aggression Questionnaire (RPQ; Raine, Dodge, Reynolds, 2006) (See Appendix 1) Loeber, Gatzke-Kopp, Lynam, & This questionnaire is used to measure students’ ‘Reactive Aggression’ and ‘Proactive Aggression’. The design of the items in this questionnaire makes reference to the teacher rating scales on reactive and proactive aggression (Brown, Atkins, Osborne, & Milnamow, 1996 Dodge & Coie, 1987) and the conceptual and theoretical literature (Barratt, 1991; Dodge & Coie, 1987; Meloy, 1988; Vitiello et al., 1990). Following the concept of reactive and proactive aggression, in addition to physical and verbal aggression, the questionnaire also includes items to measure aggression arising from motivation and the environment. Examples include, “had fights with others to show who was on top”, “yelled at others when they have annoyed you”. Students rate each item on a three-point scale from zero (never) to two (always). The total score represents the ‘Overall Aggression Index’. There are also two sub-scales: the Reactive Aggression Index and the Proactive Aggression Index. As this questionnaire was translated from English, the Chinese version was tested in Hong Kong in 2006 with 1430 Form 1 to Form 3 participants from four schools in different districts and of different bandings. The α coefficients obtained from this sample were 0.88 (Overall Aggression Index), 0.82 (Reactive Aggression Index), and 0.87 (Proactive Aggression Index). In this research, they are 0.82 (Reactive Aggression Index), 0.88 (Proactive Aggression Index), and 0.88 (Overall Aggression Index). iii) Aggression Questionnaire (Buss, & Perry, 1992) (No appendix due to copyright) This questionnaire measures different forms of aggression in students. It contains two subscales – Physical Aggression and Verbal Aggression. The design of the items makes reference to the Buss-Durkee Hostility Inventory, (Buss & Durkee, 1957) which was designed by Buss & Perry themselves. Students rate themselves according to each description on a five-point scale from one (very inappropriate) to five (very appropriate). The α coefficients obtained in this research are 0.78 (Physical Aggression) and 0.46 (Verbal Aggression). iv) Peer Victimization Questionnaire (PVQ; Lopez, 1997) (See Appendix 2) The ‘Peer Victimization Questionnaire’ is widely used to measure the form and severity of bullying of students. The questionnaire constitutes three subscales: Verbal Bullying, Physical Bullying, and Social Bullying. Students score the items according to how often they encounter each bullying incident, on a five-point scale from one (never) to five (always). The α coefficient obtained in this research is 0.94. v) State-Trait Anger Expression Inventory (STAXI; Spielberger, 1991) (No appendix due to copyright) The State-Trait Anger Expression Inventory is used to measure students’ experiences and expressions of anger. State-Anger and Trait-Anger measure the different dimensions of anger experience. State-Anger assesses the students’ level of anger at a particular time. Trait-Anger is further divided into two subscales – Anger Temperament and Anger Reaction. Anger Temperament measures the extent of students’ anger when they are not stimulated, and Anger Reaction assesses the extent of anger when they are stimulated. Because StateAnger is not particularly relevant to this research, only Trait-Anger is utilized in the pre-tests and post-tests of the aggressive victims. Students evaluate the frequency of each item on a four-point scale from one (almost never) to four (almost every day). Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 49 Chapter 3 Assessment and Research Design The STAXI contains three subscales to measure students’ expressions of anger, namely Anger-out, Anger-in, and Anger Control. Anger-out assesses the tendency of students to vent their anger on other people or nonliving things through aggression. Anger-in measures the frequency with which students suppress their anger, and Anger Control assesses the effort students make to control their anger. Students evaluate how often each item occurs to them on a four-point scale from one (almost never) to four (almost every day). The ‘Anger Expression’ index is then calculated by combining the three subscale scores, with higher scores indicating that students tend to deal with their anger by suppressing and/or venting. The formula for calculating the ‘Anger Expression Index’ is: Anger Expression = Anger-out + Anger-in - Anger Control + 16. The α coefficients obtained in this research are 0.77 (Trait-Anger), 0.71 (Anger Temperament), 0.66 (Anger Reaction), 0.71 (Anger-in), 0.63 (Anger-out) and 0.86 (Anger Control). vi) Anger Self-Report (ASR; Zelin, 1972) (See Appendix 3) This questionnaire was used to measure student’s awareness of their anger, their behavior and reaction towards anger, and their feelings of guilt about their responses. All these elements are related to aggression. vii) School Psychosocial Climate Scale (Gottfredson, 1984) (No appendix due to copyright) This scale assesses how students describe their school environments. Three modified student self-rating scales were used in this research, namely Safety, Fairness of Rules, and Clarity of Rules. Safety measures how safe students perceive their schools to be by evaluating how often each item occurs to them on a four-point scale from one (never) to four (always). Higher scores indicate that students feel less safe in school. Fairness of Rules assesses the school’s level of fairness, and Clarity of Rules measures the level of clarity of school rules. Students give a rating to each item on a five-point scale from one (very inappropriate) to five (very appropriate). Higher scores indicate that students feel the school is fair and they are clear about the school rules. The α coefficients obtained in this research are 0.83 (Safety), 0.83 (Fairness of Rules), and 0.47 (Clarity of Rules). Teachers i) Child Behavior Checklist – Teacher Report Form (CBCL – TRF; Achenbach, 1991) (No appendix due to copyright) This checklist is used to assess eight types of students’ internal and external behavior from the teachers’ perspectives. Four of the subscales were selected for use in this research: Aggressive Behavior, Anxious/ Depressed, Attention Problem, and Delinquent Behavior. Higher scores indicate a higher tendency in that particular area. Teachers rate the student’s behavior on a three-point scale from zero (inaccurate) to two (very accurate). The summed subscale scores for the four checklists represent students’ proactive aggression. Aggressive Behavior, Anxious/Depressed, and Attention Problem are used to assess whether the students are aggressive victims. The α coefficients obtained in this research are 0.97 (Aggressive Behavior), 0.92 (Anxious/ Depressed), 0.94 (Attention Problem) and 0.83 (Delinquent Behavior). 50 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 3 Assessment and Research Design ii) Reactive and Proactive Aggression Questionnaire – Teacher Rating Scale (RPQ; Raine et al., 2006) (See Appendix 4) The Reactive and Proactive Aggression Questionnaire – Teacher Rating Scale was derived from the same questionnaire as completed by students. The items correspond to those in the student questionnaire and are used to assess whether teachers perceive students as reactive or proactive aggressors. The scale is also useful in further understanding the proactive and reactive aggressiveness of students. Teachers score each item on a three-point scale from zero (never) to two (always). The α coefficients obtained in this research are 0.95 (Reactive Aggression Index), 0.91 (Proactive Aggression Index), and 0.96 (Overall Aggression Index). iii) Peer Victimization Questionnaire (PVQ; Lopez, 1997) (See Appendix 5) This questionnaire is a multi-dimensional behavioral evaluation. It includes 21 items to measure how frequently students are bullied physically (e.g., “broke or destroyed his/her things”), verbally (e.g., “said things to put him/ her down”), and by social isolation (e.g., “did not invite him/her to parties, dances, social events, etc”). Teachers rate each item on a five-point scale according to how frequently the events have occurred to the student in the past three months, from one (never) to five (always). The total score for the 21 items represents the ‘Overall Victimization Index’ of the student. The scores can also be used to calculate the rating of three different types of victimization: physical (six items), verbal (eight items), and social isolation (seven items). This was originally a self-report scale that was adapted for use with teachers for the purposes of this research. However, because the questionnaire only describes cases of bullying that occur on campus, this assessment can only be applied to campus bullying. The α coefficient obtained in this research is 0.94. Parents i) Child Behavior Checklist – Parent Version (CBCL – Parent Version; Achenbach, 1991) (No appendix due to copyright) This checklist is used to assess eight types of students’ internal and external behavior from the parents’ perspectives. Four of the subscales were selected for use in this research: Aggressive Behavior, Anxious/ Depressed, Attention Problem, and Delinquent Behavior. Higher scores on a particular subscale reflect a higher tendency in that particular area. Similar to the questionnaires for students and teachers, the four subscales were used to measure the proactive aggressiveness of students. Aggressive Behavior, Anxious/Depressed and Attention Problem assessed whether the students are aggressive victims. Parents provide a rating for their child’s behavior in relation to each item on a three-point scale from zero (inaccurate) to two (very accurate). The total scores obtained for the respective subscales constitute the students’ assessment in that area. The α coefficients obtained in this research are 0.92 (Aggressive Behavior), 0.91 (Anxious/Depressed), 0.86 (Attention Problem), and 0.75 (Delinquent Behavior). Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 51 Chapter 3 Assessment and Research Design ii) Reactive and Proactive Aggression Questionnaire – Parent Rating Scale (RPQ; Raine et al., 2006) (See Appendix 6) The Reactive and Proactive Aggression Questionnaire – Parent Rating Scale is derived from the same questionnaire as completed by students. The items correspond to those in the student questionnaire and are used to assess whether students belong to the reactive or proactive aggressors’ group, from the parents’ perspectives. It also helps in further understanding the proactive and reactive aggressiveness of students. Parents score each item on a three-point scale from zero (never) to two (always). The α coefficients obtained in this research are 0.86 (Reactive Aggression Index), 0.85 (Proactive Aggression Index), and 0.88 (Overall Aggression Index). iii) Child Disclosure (Stattin, & Kerr, 2000) (See Appendix 7) The Child Disclosure questionnaire assesses whether students willingly tell their parents about their actions. Although there are student and parent versions of this questionnaire, only the parent version was used in this research. The items in the questionnaire include, “needed to have your permission to stay out late on a weekday evening”, and “kept a lot of secrets from you about what he/she did during his/her free time”. Parents rate each item on a five-point scale from one (never) to five (always). Higher scores indicate that students are more willing to share their actions with their parents. The α coefficient obtained in this research is 0.83. 2. Qualitative Research and Questionnaires Qualitative Questionnaire Checklist: Proactive Aggressors: Pre-tests Students Proactive Aggressors – Student Qualitative Study Teachers Proactive Aggressors – Teacher Qualitative Study Parents Proactive Aggressors – Parent Qualitative Study Post-test Proactive Aggressors – Student Qualitative Study Qualitative Questionnaire Checklist: Reactive Aggressors: Pre-tests Post-test Students Anger Response Inventories Anger Response Inventories Teachers Reactive Aggressor – Teacher Qualitative Study Parents Reactive Aggressor – Parent Qualitative Study 52 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 3 Assessment and Research Design Qualitative Questionnaire Checklist: Aggressive Victims Pre-tests Students Aggressive Victims – Student Qualitative Study Teachers Aggressive Victims – Teacher Qualitative Study Parents Aggressive Victims – Parent Qualitative Study Post-test Aggressive Victims – Student Qualitative Study Qualitative Questionnaire Checklist: Passive Victims Pre-tests Students Passive Victims – Student Qualitative Study Teachers Passive Victims – Teacher Qualitative Study Parents Passive Victims – Parent Qualitative Study Post-test Passive Victims – Student Qualitative Study Qualitative Questionnaire Students i) Proactive Aggressors – Student Qualitative Study (See Appendix 8) The interviews asked students about their responses to five scenario questions designed by the project researchers. The five scenarios involved issues such as the distribution of benefits, temptations of benefits, bullying, and other problems or arguments encountered on campus. Students’ responses to the different scenarios, and the reasons behind them, allowed interviewers to identify the characteristics of proactive aggressors, such as self-centeredness, lack of empathy, use of aggression in problem solving, and rationalization of aggression. ii) Reactive Aggressors – Student Qualitative Study (See Appendix 9) This qualitative questionnaire was based on Tangney, Wagner, Marschall and Gramzow’s (1991) Anger Response Inventory (ARI). The questionnaire originally comprised 23 scenarios designed to reflect common situations that may induce anger in individuals. Students are asked to read and imagine themselves in each scenario, and then rate how they would be likely to react in that situation. The ARI measures a number of different responses to each scenario. First, students are asked to rate their anger arousal for that scenario. They are then asked to indicate their intentions and indicate their actual behavioral and cognitive responses. Intentions are assessed by asking students what they would feel like doing, while actual responses are assessed by asking what they would do in reality. Finally, the ARI also assesses the perceived long-term consequences for the self, the target, and their relationship. The ARI thus provides a comprehensive framework for assessing anger responses. Only two scenarios, one for female students and the other for male students, were modified (e.g., by changing “brother” to “classmate”) and used in our interviews. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 53 Chapter 3 Assessment and Research Design iii) Aggressive Victims – Student Qualitative Study (See Appendix 10) During the pre- and post-test structured interviews, students answered three scenario questions. The first scenario was obtained from the Home Interview with Child (Dodge, Bates, & Pettit, 1990), which was originally designed to measure students’ attributions and aggressive responses in hypothetical scenarios. It was modified in this research to create an appropriate assessment tool to understand aggressive victims. The second scenario was obtained from a study on children’s social information processing (Camodeca, Goossens, Schuengel, & Terwogt, 2003). The project researcher designed the third scenario in accordance with the characteristics of aggressive victims. The first and second scenarios depict neutral interpersonal relationship settings, whereas the third involves an incident of campus bullying. Students’ responses and the reasons behind them allowed interviewers to assess whether students were aggressive victims by identifying characteristics such as hostile attribution, angry responses, and rationalization of their own aggression when facing bullying. iv) Passive Victims – Student Qualitative Study (See Appendix 11) Students were asked to respond to four hypothetical scenarios derived from the Home Interview with Child (Dodge, Bates, & Pettit, 1990), which was originally designed to measure students’ attributions and aggressive responses in hypothetical scenarios. It was modified in this research to create an appropriate assessment tool to understand passive victims. Students’ responses and the reasons behind them allowed interviewers to assess whether students were passive victims by identifying characteristics such as internal attribution, social withdrawal, anxious responses, and self-blaming. Teachers i) Proactive Aggressors – Teacher Qualitative Study (See Appendix 12) In the interviews with the teachers of proactive aggressors, teachers first stated their own understanding of proactive aggression and described the state of campus bullying in their school. They then went into an in-depth discussion about the various conditions and characteristics of the group members. The topics for discussion included students’ school life (e.g., academic attainment, popularity), students’ behavior (e.g., whether they deliberately made things difficult for teachers, showed proactive aggressive behavior), their own approach to handling bullying incidents, students’ relationships with their parents (e.g., parenting models), and their expectations of the treatment group. ii) Reactive Aggressors – Teacher Qualitative Study (See Appendix 13) In the interviews with the teachers of reactive victims, each teacher stated their own understanding of reactive victims and described the state of campus bullying in their school before discussing the students’ condition. The topics for discussion included students’ school life (e.g., academic attainment, popularity), students’ behavior (e.g., reactive aggressive behavior), their own approach to handling bullying incidents, students’ relationships with their parents (e.g., parenting models), and their expectations of the treatment group. 54 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 3 Assessment and Research Design iii) Aggressive Victims –Teacher Qualitative Study (See Appendix 14) In the interviews with the teachers of aggressive victims, each teacher stated their own understanding of aggressive victims and described the state of campus bullying in their school before discussing the students’ condition. The topics for discussion included students’ school life (e.g., academic attainment, popularity), victimization (e.g., whether they were being bullied, and their response towards being bullied), their own approach to handling bullying incidents, students’ relationships with their parents (e.g,. parenting models), and their expectations of the treatment group. iv) Passive Victims –Teacher Qualitative Study (See Appendix 15) In the interviews with the teachers of passive victims, each teacher stated their own understanding of passive victims and described the state of campus bullying in their school before discussing the students’ condition. The topics for discussion included the students’ school life (e.g., academic attainment, popularity), victimization (e.g., whether they were being bullied, and their response towards being bullied), their own approach to handling bullying incidents, students’ relationships with their parents (e.g., parenting models), and their expectations of the treatment group. Parents Parents were interviewed to gain an understanding of their relationships with their children, the interactions among family members, parenting models, and so on, and thus explore how the family environment might affect children’s aggression or victimization. In addition, the parents’ own understanding of their children helped interviewers to understand students’ peer relationships and behavior in school. i) Proactive Aggressors – Parent Qualitative Study (See Appendix 16) The interviews with the parents of proactive aggressors included the following topics: background information (e.g., which family members the child lived with), the parent’s understanding of their child (e.g., whether they misbehaved at home to obtain benefits), the parental relationship (e.g., conflicts with the child), their parenting approach (e.g., the number of hours spent communicating with the child), and the child’s relationship with their siblings (e.g., whether they bullied their brothers and sisters). ii) Reactive Aggressors – Parent Qualitative Study (See Appendix 17) The interviews with the parents of reactive aggressors included the following topics: background information (e.g., which family members the child lived with), the parent’s understanding of their child (e.g., whether they lost their temper easily), the parental relationship (e.g., conflicts with the child), their parenting approach (e.g., the number of hours spent communicating with the child), and the child’s relationship with their siblings (e.g. whether they were aggressive towards their brothers and sisters). Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 55 Chapter 3 Assessment and Research Design iii) Aggressive Victims – Parent Qualitative Study (See Appendix 18) The interviews with the parents of aggressive victims included the following topics: background information (e.g., which family members the child lived with), the parent’s understanding of their child (e.g., whether they became angry easily), the parental relationship (e.g., conflicts with the child), their parenting approach (e.g., how they punished negative behavior), the child’s relationship with their siblings (e.g., whether they were aggressive towards their brothers and sisters), and school life (e.g., any conflicts with teachers). iv) Passive Victims – Parent Qualitative Study (See Appendix 19) The interviews with the parents of passive victims included the following topics: background information (e.g., which family members the child lived with), the parent’s understanding of their child (e.g. whether they frequently withdrew from other people), the parental relationship (e.g., how often they communicated with the child), the parenting approach (e.g., how they punished negative behavior), the child’s relationship with their siblings (e.g., whether their brothers and sisters were aggressive towards them), and school life (e.g. whether they were close to their teachers). VI. Research Results 1. Demographic results Table 1 presents the demographic information for the aggressors and victims. A total of 23,171 students from the 50 participating schools completed the screening questionnaires. Among them, 691 students were identified as proactive aggressors, 3,688 students as reactive aggressors, 810 students as aggressive victims, and 1,669 as passive victims. Table 1. Number of students classified as aggressors and victims Total number of participants Proactive Aggressor Reactive Aggressor Aggressive Victim Passive Victim Others 23,171 (100%) 691 (3.0%) 3,668 (15.8%) 810 (3.5%) 1,669 (7.2%) 16,333 (70.5%) 2. Quantitative Research Results Please refer to Tables 2, 3, 4, and 5 for the pre- and post-test quantitative results for the ‘Proactive Aggressors Group’, ‘Reactive Aggressors Group’, ‘Aggressive Victims Group’ and ‘Passive Victims Group’, respectively. To make the results simpler to follow, the results of the screening questionnaire are presented under ‘pre-tests’. 56 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 3 Assessment and Research Design 3. Proactive Aggressors Table 2. Proactive aggressors: Pre-test – post-test results for the student self-rating scales Pre-test – Post-test Valid Sample Size# Mean Difference+ t-value CBCL – Aggressive Behavior 61 5.51 4.68** CBCL– Attention Problem 61 2.21 3.93** CBCL–Delinquent Behavior 61 2.51 4.02** RPQ – Proactive Aggression 61 2.57 2.85** Aggression Questionnaire – Physical Aggression 61 3.39 3.87** Aggression Questionnaire – Verbal Aggression 61 1.05 2.05* # Valid sample size: The number of students who completed both pre- and post-tests. +A positive mean difference represents a decrease in the mean score at post-test and a negative difference represents an increase in the mean score at post-test. *p<0.05, **p<0.01 The results show various degrees of change in proactive aggressors’ self-reported behavior following the completion of the treatment groups. Compared with their behavior before the treatment, group members showed a significant decline in self-reported aggressive behavior (t(60) = 4.68, p< .01), attention problems (t(60) = 3.93, p< .01), delinquent behavior (t(60) = 4.02, p<.01), proactive aggression (t(60) = 2.85, p< .01), physical aggression (t(60) = 3.87, p< .01), and verbal aggression (t(60) = 2.05, p< .05). Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 57 Chapter 3 Assessment and Research Design Table 3. Reactive aggressors: Pre-test – post-test results for the student self-rating scales Pre-test – Post-test Valid Sample Size# Mean Difference+ t-value ASR - Condemnation of anger 43 1.72 6.38** CBCL - Aggressive behavior 47 4.83 10.52*** RPQ - Reactive aggression 41 2.65 26.67*** # Valid sample size: The number of students who completed both pre- and post-tests + A positive mean difference represents a decrease in the mean score at post-test and a negative difference represents an increase in the mean score at post-test. **p<0.01, ***p<0.001 The results reveal a significant change in reactive aggressors’ behavior following their participation in the treatment group. There was a significant decrease in the severity of aggressive behavior (t(46) = 10.52, p< .001) and reactive aggression (t(40)=26.67, p<.001). Specifically, the mean scores on the two indexes were 4.83 and 2.65 points lower on the post-test, respectively, than on the pre-test. There was also a decline in condemnation of anger (t(42) = 6.38, p<.01), which demonstrates the effectiveness of the treatment group for reactive aggressors. 58 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 3 Assessment and Research Design Table 4. Aggressive victims: Pre-test – post-test results for the student self-rating scales Pre-test – Post-test Valid Sample Size# Mean Difference+ t-value CBCL – Anxious/Depressed 67 2.51 3.29** RPQ – Reactive Aggression Index 66 1.95 3.65** PVQ - Peer Victimization Index 63 5.32 2.66** STAXI – Anger Reaction 66 6.17 3.00** STAXI – Anger-in 67 1.39 2.66** STAXI – Anger Control 66 -1.26 -2.00* School Psychosocial Climate Scale - Safety 66 2.39 3.89** # Valid sample size: The number of students who completed both pre- and post-tests. +A positive mean difference represents a decrease in the mean score at post-test and a negative difference represents an increase in the mean score at post-test. *p<0.05, **p<0.01 The treatment groups also had a significant effect on the aggressive victims. Compared with the pre-treatment self-report ratings, there was a considerable decline in group members’ anxiety (t(66) = 3.29, p<.01) and peer victimization (t(62) = 2.66, p<.01). The reactive aggression of the group members declined considerably (t(65) = 3.65, p<.01), which suggests that they were less prone to using aggression in response to bullying. Members’ anger reaction (t(65) = 3.00, p<.01) and anger-in indices (t(66) = 2.66, p<.01) were also significantly lower on the posttest, suggesting they were less angry in the face of criticism and provocation. The significant increase in their anger control index (t(65)= -2.00, p<.05) indicates that they tended to put more effort into controlling their own anger. Finally, there was a decline in depressed emotion caused by anger (t(66) = 3.29, p<.01) and their sense of safety towards their schools also increased (t(65) = 3.89, p<.01) by the end of the treatment. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 59 Chapter 3 Assessment and Research Design Table 5. Passive victims: Pre-test – post-test results for the student self-rating scales Pre-test – Post-test Valid Sample Size# Mean Difference+ t-value CBCL – Anxious/Depressed 69 4.09 22.33*** PVQ - Peer Victimization Index 68 7.28 110.82*** PVQ – Physical Bullying 71 1.30 53.95*** PVQ – Verbal Bullying 70 3.18 53.95*** PVQ - Social Bullying 71 3.18 111.30*** # Valid sample size: The number of students who completed both pre- and post-tests. +A positive mean difference represents a decrease in the mean score at post-test and a negative difference represents an increase in the mean score at post-test. ***p<0.001 The results in Table 5 suggest a clear change in passive victims following the treatment group. The peer victimization index decreased by 7.28 (t(67) = 110.82, p<.001). There was also a significant decrease in anxiety/ depression (t(68) = 22.33, p<.001), physical bullying (t(70) = 53.95, p<.001), verbal bullying (t(69) = 53.95, p<.001), and social bullying (t(70) = 111.30, p<.001). Hence, the results indicate that the treatment group was effective in helping passive victims. 4. Limitations 1. A number of students had withdrawn from school by the time of the three-month follow-up, thus the corresponding data could not be collected from these students. 2. Some teachers indicated in the post-test that they had been away from school for teacher training courses while the treatment groups were in progress. Therefore, they were unable to understand fully the group members’ behavioral and emotional changes, resulting in a loss of data. 3. It was very difficult to collect parent questionnaires and make appointments for parent interviews. Thus, the data from some parents could not be collected. 5. Conclusion The results clearly demonstrate the efficacy of the treatment groups for the four subtypes of aggressors and victims. The various students’ self-rating scales show reductions in aggressive behavior, anxiety, peer victimization, and so on. These findings confirm that the project can effectively improve the behavior and well-being of various types of aggressors and victims through cognitive-behavioral therapy. 60 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 61 Chapter 4 : Proactive Aggressors 62 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Chapter 4 : Treatment Group–Proactive Aggressors I. Application of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Related Theories 1. Social Information Processing Model (Please refer to Chapter 2) Proactive aggressors demonstrate cognitive distortions in relation to the last three steps of social information processing. These distortions comprise errors in interpretation and judgment. The third step involves evaluating the potential benefits of an action and calculating its cost effectiveness before making a final decision on the course of action. Proactive aggressors tend to focus excessively on personal gain, ignoring moral concerns, consequences, and the feelings of others. The fourth step involves decision-making based on previous successful experiences. Proactive aggressors are certain that aggressive behavior demonstrates their strength and builds their self-confidence. At the same time, they are convinced that aggressive behavior is an effective way to resolve interpersonal conflicts and the best possible means to achievingtheir goals and obtaining benefits. Hence, proactive aggressors tend to useaggressive behavior as a problem-solving strategy. 2. Social Learning Theory (Please refer to Chapter 2) Most scholars are guided mainly by social learning theory in understanding the behavior of proactive aggressors. Studies have shown that proactive aggressive behavior is a learned behavior and the role models of these aggressors also demonstrate aggressive behavior (Boxer & Tisak, 2003). Parents of proactive aggressors may be proactive aggressors themselves. Aggressive behavior is encouraged in the family as the means to resolving conflicts and achieving personal goals. Coercive parenting might also foster proactive aggression in children because they learn how to dominate others by aggression (Vitaro, Barker, Boivin, Brendgen & Tremblay, 2006). At a very young age, proactive aggressors learn from their parents and close relatives that aggressive behaviors such as threats or scams bring benefits. Most proactive aggressors are very smart. After several attempts and by observing others’ reactions, they master the strategies that are favorable to them, and at the same time, learn to guard against the possible adverse factors. Frequent benefits or exculpatory experiences will reinforce their belief that proactive aggressive behavior is the most effective meansof attaining personal goals. Social learning theory suggests that aggressive behavior is a learned behavior; thus it also suggests that it is possible to unlearn such behavior, relearn an alternative behavior and thoughts, and establish a whole new set of personal values. 3. Application of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (Please refer to Chapter 2 for cognitive behavioral therapy) Workers have integrated Beck’s Cognitive Therapy (CT)as wells as Ellis’ Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT)in treatment groups for proactive aggressors. Beck’s CT provides a clear and specific theoretical framework to help workers assess group members’ core beliefs, automatic thoughts, and social schemas. Therefore, workers can employ Beck’s CT in case assessment. Ellis’ REBTis based on a model that links the following:(A) activatingevent, (B) belief, and (C) consequence, i.e., behavioral and emotional responses, with (A) being filtered through (B), leading to (C). Beck specifically pointed out 12 basic irrational beliefs and their associated negative emotional reactions. Workers therefore employ Ellis’ ABC concept with rational emotive behavior therapy in treatment groups for its clear-cut explanations and approach to behavior modification. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 63 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Please refer to the table below for application of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) in designing a group treatment program. Session Application of CBT Program Objective 1 Establish a treatment relationship of mutual respect. Proactive aggressors have sharp and clear minds; they act cautiously and seldom reveal their beliefs to others. Thus, it is particularly important for workers to establish a relationship of mutual respect with individual group members. Mutual respect in the relationship can decrease members’ wariness of workers and increase their sense of belonging to the group. 2 Examine group members’ family of origin. According to Bandura’s social learning theory (1986, 1999), proactive aggressive behavior is learned by imitating and modeling others. Skinner (1953) believed that the benefit gained from aggressive behavior becomes the aggressors’ incentive to copy and repeat the behaviors. Therefore, exploring each group member’s family of origin can help workers understand the objectives and incentives behind the members’aggressive behaviors. Workers can thereby accurately and comprehensively assessgroup members. 3 Identify group members’ behavioral responses. Proactive aggressors think rationallyabout their aggressive behaviors. They carefully calculate the feasibility of such behaviors and the risks involved, and they consider the strategies needed to obtain the expected benefits (Crick & Dodge, 1994). The process of identifying the behaviors of group members (including the behavioral responses that have been considered and practiced and the effectiveness of the behaviors) helps workers comprehensively assess group members’ aggressive behaviors and the chain of beliefs supporting these behaviors. 4 Identify group members’ emotional responses. Proactive aggressors are callously unemotional. They lack empathy towards others; they focus only on the event and whether it will generate personal benefits. They seldom express their own feelings. Therefore workers must enrich group members’ understanding of emotion and help them identify their suppressed emotions. 5 Educate group members about the ABC Model of cognitive behavioral therapy. With the use of Ellis’s ABC concept, and through group discussion and role-playing, team members are able to project their own ideas so that workers can understand the precise irrational beliefsheld by proactive aggressors. Identify members’ irrational beliefs. 6 64 Create the kind of internal pressure that will motivate group members to make changes. Proactive aggressors tend to see the consequences of their aggressive behavior in a positive light (Poulin & Boivin, 2000) and will ignore the negative results. Through role playing, group members come to objectively understand the serious consequences of their behaviors. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors 7 Discriminate and debate group members’ irrational beliefs. Introduce fair, reasonable, and rightful conceptsthat will allow members to recognize the unreasonableness of their irrational beliefs. Common beliefs of proactive aggressors are expressed as follows: “It is horrible when things are not the way I like them to be”, “I should be thoroughly competent, intelligent, and successful in all possible respects”, and” I must have certain and perfect control over things”. Rectify group members’ irrational beliefs through the concepts introduced. 8 Formulate a new and ffective set of rational beliefs with a new set of feelings and behaviors. Construct a new and effective set of rational beliefs with a new set of feelings and behaviors through debate and practice. 9 Skill training: empathy training Proactive aggressors lack empathy towards victims or often misunderstand their victims. Real-life victims of bullying are invited to convey their feelings surrounding such incidents to impress group members with the consequences of aggressive behavior. 10 Termination and relapse prevention Review changes in the beliefs and behaviors of membersand offer praiseto consolidate the members’ success. II. Preparation for the Treatment Group Each member will undergoa pre-participation interview prior to joining the treatment group. Responses to the questionnaire used and to the interviewer will reflect the cognitive, behavioral, and emotional characteristics of themember. Therefore, workers are advised to review the members’ responses and interview participants carefully to gain insight into their characteristics and to provide targeted counseling accordingly. 1. Questionnaire Below is asample set of clinical scoresbased on a pre-treatment interview. Workers can analyze scoresin terms of cognitive, behavioral, and emotional components. We refer to the group member as “Wai”. Behavioral Component Score Aggression Proactive aggression Reactive aggression Delinquent behavior (total possible score: 38) (total possible score: 24) (total possible score: 22) (total possible score: 22) 23 18 3 15 Wai’s “aggressive behavior” index is23, which ishigher than the clinical index. The score for “proactive aggressive behavior” is18, and that 3 “reactive aggressive behavior” is 3, implying that Wai isa proactive aggressor. Proactive aggressors tend to show increased delinquent behavior in general, and Wai’s “delinquent behavior” index is 15 (clinical index formales is 8 and for females is 7), which is characteristic of proactive aggressors. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 65 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Cognitive and Emotional Component Imagination (total possible score: 35) Score 12 Empathic concern Perspective taking Personal distress (total possible (total possible (total possible score: 35) score: 35) score: 35) 10 13 17 Empathy (total possible score: 140) 52 Proactive aggressors are calm, rational, and lacking in empathy towards others. Wai’s “empathy index” is 52. In the cognitive aspect, the data indicate that Wai has difficulty “putting herself in others’ shoes” (her “perspective taking” scoreislow). In the emotional aspect, Wai’s “empathic concern” and “imagination” indices are also low, implying that it is rather difficult for her to identify with others and to demonstrate compassion and warmth towards others. Workers can first help Wai pay more attention to her own feelings and then, at a later stage, identify with others’ emotions and beliefs. 2. Interview Waiis asked about some possible scenarios at school, including violent or aggressive situations and some ambiguous bullying situations. Participantssuch as Wai are asked to view themselves as the main character and to imagine their behaviors and emotions in response to a particular situation: (I) The following is a violent or aggressive situation: If you see the following situation during recess… 1. 2. 66 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Workers ask participants to describe and explain what has happened in the above two pictures. Waibelieves the two students in the picture are fighting to seize power. They started with verbal insults, which were followed by physical attack. Because the person on the winning side would become a peer leader, he intentionally chose to provoke the other on the basketball court during recess so thatother students would witness the loser’s defeat. Wai’s description shows her strength in assessing and utilizing the surrounding environment to her benefit (for example,by choosing the time during which the most witnesses would be present), and her ability to use the power gained to make people afraid of her. However, Wai also thinks they were foolish to fight openly against each other, as they could easily be caught and punished by teachers. Instead, she claims that she would have snatched the student to the back alley, with the help of her friends, and beat him up there. She believes the back alley would be isolated and that she would not be caught so easily by teachers. We can see Wai has a sharp and clear mind. She would have acted cautiously and perceived herself to be much smarter than others. She would be able to escape from the teachers’ eyes and achieve the same result. (II) The following is a more obvious bullying situation: “There is a weird student, and no one in the class likes him. One day, you and a few other students lock him up inside the toilet cubicle and drench him with water.” When Wai was asked about her feelings regarding this hypothetical incident, she expressed a sense of triumph and a high opinion of herself. She believes the victim should not feel unhappy. After all, heis the target of pranks because of his own weird personality. She lacks any empathy towards him. Not only ford she not feel guilty, she cannot identify with his feelings. When she was further asked about how others comment on her behavior, she proclaimed thather friends admire her and thinks she is smart because they never get caught or punished for pulling pranks on others. She believes these friends are proud to be her friends, whereas others would be afraid of her and would not dare to mess with her. She likes and enjoys this image that others have of her. Wai’s feedback indicated that she likes to use aggressive behavior to demonstrate her power over others. When she learned that her aggressive behavior made others afraid of her and that they would dare not mess with her, she felt strongly that aggressive behavior was the best way to handle interpersonal relationships. 3. Conclusion Wai’s feedback during the interview reflected the characteristics of proactive aggressors. Such aggressors believe that aggressive behavior is the best way to demonstrate personal power and handle interpersonal relationships. Unlike reactive aggressors who go into a rage and attack others because they selectively receive related external aggressive cues, proactive aggressors use aggressive behavior purposely and with premeditation to gain benefits and power. Wai despises school rules and discipline, and she tends to undervalue the negative consequences of her behavior, all of which are characteristics of proactive aggressors. In addition, Wai does not have many emotional ups and downs; it is difficult for her to feel guilt, self-blame, and other negative emotions. It is even more difficult for her to put herself into others’ shoes, and share others’ feelings and beliefs. In Wai’s case, and in others’ cases, workers would design group activities, such as situational questions, in accordance with the characteristics and personal experiences that come to light in the interview. Thus, in-depth counseling treatment can be provided that istailored to the participant’s beliefs, behaviors, and emotions. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 67 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors III. Contents of Proactive Aggressor Treatment Group (A) Session: First Session Theme: New Beginning for Leadership – Mutual Understanding Aims: 1. To help group members understand the aims and content of the program and identify their own roles and goals within the group. 2. To build trust and a sense of security betweenthe worker and group members 3. To formulate a participation code. 4. To establish shared expectations. 5. To preliminarily understand and evaluate the campus life of group members. Activity Introduction to the Group Duration 10 minutes Objective To help members understand the aims and content of the group sessions and their own roles in the group so as to reduce their anxiety. Procedure 1. Worker introduces himself/herself. 2. Group members get to know each other. 3. Worker briefs members on the content and objectives of the first project–leadership training: • To understand oneself • To understand others • To know the mode of thinking • To broaden thinking techniques (multi-angle thinking) • To broaden members’ skills in getting along with others 4. Introduce the reward system: At each session, a rewardwill begiven to the participant showing the most outstanding involvement. 5. Consult members’ for their opinions and suggestions regarding the rewards. 6. Introduce the theme of the session: Understanding one another. Materials Rewards Activity “Tell Us about Your School” Duration 30 minutes Concept Because proactive aggressors lack emotion and empathy, they do not feel negative emotions over their bullying behavior; in fact, they even have positive emotions. Worker will use different emotion cards to stimulate members’ awareness of their emotions as well as other members’ negative emotions towards bullying (e.g. anxiety). This can shape members’ view towards bullying. 68 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Objective For workerto learn more about members’ school life and their emotions when bullying or behaving aggressively. Procedure 1. Distribute a pack of emotion cards (8 different colors) to group members (Group Material 1.1) 2. Worker picks a topic: showing group members one topic card (Group Material 1.2) at a time • The topic cards contain pictures related to school life, i.e., place where bullying happens or the people involved 3.Group members show emotioncards: Show an emotioncard representing their emotions thatthe topic triggers them, and then share corresponding experiences of their school life with the others. • Worker can change the order of the activity to make it suitable. For example, worker can select an emotion card first, then have group members share their corresponding experiences at school Materials Emotion cards (Group Material 1.1), “Tell us about your school”topic cards(Group Material 1.2) Activity “My Expectations of the Group” Duration 35 minutes Objectives 1. To have group membersexpress their personal expectations to build up common goals and rules within the group. 2. To formulate rules by group consensus so that group activities will go smoothly. Procedure 1. Distribute human-shaped worksheet (Class Assignment), then have participants draw a face and characteristics that represent themselves within the human-shaped outline and write down the expectations they have of themselves. Outside the human-shaped outline, have participants write down their expectations of the group and others. 2. Discusshow the group can achieve these expectations and follow the rulesof participation. 3. Workerpresents words describingvarious emotionsto encourage members to discuss what kinds of behaviors within the group will cause these emotions.This can help members follow the rulesthey have formulated. 4. With the consensus of all group members, conclusions, expectations, and regulations will be written down on a large piece of paper. This will encourage members to obey the rules so as to achieve their personal goals. Basic regulations should include: • Respect yourself and others • Do not hurt yourself or others • Participate actively in group activities • Express your opinions Materials Human-shaped worksheet (Class Assignment 1), Colored pens and large-size drawing paper Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 69 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Activity Conclusion and Explanation of Homework “My Blog” Duration 15 minutes Concept According to Bandura’s social learning theory (1986, 1999), proactive aggression derives from imitating others’ behavior. The benefit gained from aggression is the incentive for the aggressor to repeat such behaviors. Through the assignment, group members’ aggressive role models and the benefits they want to obtain can be clarified. This in turn will help worker evaluate the cause of group members’ aggressive behaviors. The topics can be related to daily life to reduce members’ wariness. Objectives 1. To conclude the session. 2. To strengthen worker’s knowledge of the group members. 3. To strengthen members’ sense of belonging to the group. 4. To cultivate participants’ habit of finishing their homework. Procedure 1. Summarize group members’involvement and compliment them for their positive participation in the session 2. Introduce the homework “My Blog” 3. Remind group members that they will givena small reward after finishing the homework; thiswill increase their motivation to do the homework. 4. Present the “most outstanding performance” award to the participant who actively participated and was most involved in the group activities. Materials “My Blog” (Homework Assignment) and rewards Remarks 1. When introducing the concept of leadership training, individual members may think that they are already a “leader” and that it is not necessary for them to join the group. Therefore, worker needs to emphasize that each group memberhas the potential to become a leader in new areas. This will help each memberfeel respected and help bring out the theme of the session. 2. At the beginning, the worker will use tangible items as rewardsfor participants. Before the mindset of the group members changes, material rewards can increase their interest in participating in the group activities. However, the worker needs to evaluate the effectiveness of the material rewards. If group members are cooperative and stay actively involved in the group, these rewards can be reduced. 3. Worker should pay attention to and appreciate group members’ positive performances. This will help members remain involved in the group. Worker can also change the format to add variation into the activities so that group members can be involved in more activities. 4. At the beginning of the session, to avoid members’ temptation to use aggressive behavior to possess the material rewards, body contact and competitive activities should be minimized or even eliminated. 70 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Name:____________________ First Session Group Material 1.1: Emotion Cards Hateful Idle Speechless Scared Hatef ul Agitated Agitated Touched Angry Happy Shy Irritable Bored AgitatedWorried Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Annoyed Pleased 71 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors First Session Group Material 1.2: Name:____________________ “Tell us about your school – Topic cards” 72 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors First Session Class Assignment: Name:____________________ “Human-shaped Worksheet” Inside the human-shaped outline, please draw a face and characteristics that represent you, and write down your own expectations. Outside the human-shaped outline, please write down your expectations of the group and others. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 73 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors First Session Homework Assignment: Name:____________________ My Blog latest Blog Date Rule: Selected participant should write responses in his or her own blog. Photo 1. Who do you look up to? 2. If you could go back to a certain time, when would that be? Your Name ____________________ 3. Write down your most unforgettable experience. Nickname _____________________ Birthday_______________________ Hobby ________________________ Wed Thur i. ii. Month Mon Tue 4. If God gaveyou three wishes, what would you want? Fri Sat Sun iii. 5. If this were the last day of your life, what would you do? 6. Name one of your habits. Month Mon Tue Wed Thur 7. Where is your favorite place? Fri Sat Sun 8. Who do you want to be with at the last moment in your life? Feedback (1) HAHA! You are selected; please reply as soon as possible! Thx ^0^ 74 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors (B) Session: Second Session Theme: Desired Benefits Aims: Incorporate the third step of SIPtheory: response search 1. To strengthen group members’ understanding of each other 2. To discover group members’ aim behind their behaviors 3. To discover the means used by group members to achieve their goals 4. To evaluate the means used by group members to achieve their goals 5. To help group members reflect on the consequences of their negative behaviors 6. To enhance group members’ self-awareness Activity Homework Sharing–“My Blog” Duration 15 minutes Objectives 1. To strengthen connections and understanding among group members. 2. To developa group atmosphere. 3. To cultivate a positive sharing atmosphere. Procedure 1.Group members’ homework sharing • Share relaxing conversational topics (idols, hobbies, etc.) • Then share hobbies and interests. • Sharing points: Three of your most desired“benefits”. 2. Workercompliments and presents rewards to members who have finished their homework and shared it with the group. 3. Introduce the theme of the session: “Desired benefits”. Materials Rewards and back-up homework Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 75 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Activity Sharing on TV drama–“Men Don’t Cry”*+ Duration 20 minutes Concept According to the second and fourth steps of theSIP Theory by Crick & Dodge (1994), people interpret information on the basis oftheir past experience. After understanding the information, they will search for and choose a corresponding reaction. Proactive aggressors focus on benefitsthat are similar to those embraced by the cunning protagonistin the drama. In discussing the scenes of the drama, group members will project their views about “benefits”. Objectives To let group members know that “benefits” are modifiable. For example, apart from the obvious benefits, relationships with family and friends can become important to the cunning protagonist. This can broaden group members’ views on “benefits”. Procedure 1. Playthe TV drama “Men Don’t Cry” (bullying scenes). 2. Group members discuss the scenes from”Men Don’t Cry”: • What kind of “benefit” was sought? • Ways to gain the “benefit” • Who goes along with the cunning protagonistin seeking the“benefit”? 3. When a group membercomes up withone “benefit”, worker will place a sticker on him/her. The member who receives the most stickers will receive a reward. 4. The time course ofthe cunning protagonist-Group members will discuss the 12-13-year-old cunning protagonist: • Expected “benefit” • Ways to obtain “benefit” • Where to obtain “benefit” 5. The time course of the cunning protagonist–group members discuss the 6-7-year-old cunning protagonist: • Expected the “benefit” • Ways to obtainthe “benefit” • Where to obtain the “benefit” Materials Relevant video parts of “Men Don’t Cry”, laptop, stickers, and small rewards Activity “My Story” Duration 35 minutes Concept According to Bandura’s Social Learning Theory (1986, 1999), proactive aggression derives from imitating others’ behaviors. Skinner (1953) thought that the “benefit” gained from aggression causesthe aggressor to repeat such behaviors. Therefore, understanding group members’ sources of learning can help worker know why the members engage in aggressive behaviors, their objectives, and the secondary reinforcers, and help them accurately and thoroughly assess group members. 76 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Objectives 1. To help group members understand their expected “benefits” and ways they obtain them. 2. To help group members, through group discussion, understand that “benefit” is not only about one’s own interest and is not gained exclusively by aggressive behavior. Procedure 1. Group members choose three “benefits” and write them on a label. They then rank these “benefits” by order of importance and stick them on the Benefit Index (Class Assignment 1). 2. Worker divides the members into groups according the similarity of their “benefits”. Key group discussion points: • When did you recognize these “benefits”? • Do the “benefits” change as you are growing up? • Where do you obtain your “benefit”? • Who would go along with you to get the “benefit”? • How do you get the “benefit”? (Any changes from the past to the present?) • Why do you think the “items”you chose are “benefits”? • Acknowledge participants’ sharing. Materials Benefit Index (Class Assignment), labels, and stickers Activity “The Ending of‘Men Don’t Cry’”**+ Duration 10 minutes Concept Proactive aggressors ignore severe consequences brought on by their aggressive behaviors (Poulin & Boivin, 2000). Through the negative consequences and laterrejectionsuffered by the character in the scene,group memberscan reflect upon and understand the consequences of their behaviors. Objectives 1. To helpgroup members reflect on the negative consequences of their bullying behaviors. 2. To help members realize what other things, apart from the perceived “benefits,” make people feel happy and satisfied. Procedure 1. Playthe ending of “Men Don’t Cry” and discussthe ending with group members. 2. Time course of the cunning protagonist– group members discuss the 60-year-old cunning protagonist: Whathas become of him in terms of: • Family • Daily life • Friends • Feelings • Health 3. Worker leads group members to discuss what they can obtain in life that will provide a stronger sense of achievement than that provided by the “benefits” mentioned earlier. Materials Relevant video partsof “Men Don’t Cry”, laptops Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 77 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Activity Conclusion and Explanationof Homework*– “What Did I Do? Duration 15 minutes Objectives 1. To conclude the session. 2. To cultivate group members’ habit of finishing their homework. Procedure 1. Conclude the session, and compliment those who have participated actively and positively. 2. Explain the homework “What did I do?” Objectives: • To evaluate group members’ expected “benefits” and ways to obtain them. • To foster a positive experience for participants and let them enjoy the satisfaction. • To help group membersreflect on the fact that positive behaviors bring satisfaction, apart from the “benefits” gained by aggressive behavior. 3. Remind members of the possibility of receiving a small reward–to motivate them to finish the homework. 4. Present “outstanding performance award” at the end of the session tothe participant who showed the most progress. Materials “What did I do?” (Homework Assignment), rewards +“Men Don’t Cry” is a Hong Kong TV drama about the life of a cunning protagonist. It can be replaced by different similar dramas in other countries or regions. *“Men Don’t Cry” Episode 3, 10/10/2007, TVB program **“Men Don’t Cry” Episode 4, 11/10/2007, TVB program Remarks 1. Worker can choose other episodes as long as the character has the characteristics of a proactive aggressor and plans to use aggression/bullying behaviors to obtain “benefits”. 2. For accurate assessment of the group members, worker should distinguish the goal behind theirbehaviors and the secondary reinforcer(s) that encourage them to continue the aggression. 3. Use the diagram and scaling question format to help group members visualize their thoughts and show them the differences between their choices. 78 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Name:____________________ Second Session Class Assignment: “Benefit” Index Below is an example of the Benefit Index. Worker needs a large piece of drawing paper, white labels, and star stickers to prepare for the demonstration. E.g. Chris Name: Money ☆☆☆☆☆ “Benefit”1 Ability ☆☆☆☆ “Benefit”2 ☆☆☆ “Benefit”3 Wisdom Name: Name: “Benefit”1 “Benefit”1 “Benefit”2 “Benefit”2 “Benefit”3 “Benefit”3 Name: Name: “Benefit”1 “Benefit”1 “Benefit”2 “Benefit”2 “Benefit”3 “Benefit”3 Name: Name: “Benefit”1 “Benefit”1 “Benefit”2 “Benefit”2 “Benefit”3 “Benefit”3 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 79 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Second Session Homework Assignment: Name:____________________ 「What did I do?」 Answer the following questions in any way you choose: 1. Last week, I (describe your behavior),so Icould get(what “benefit”?). It is because; therefore I feel happy! 2. Last week,I noticed that I (describe anotherbehavior) ; it too can make me feel satisfied! 3. Last week, I (describe your behavior) I seldom do it, but this also gives me a sense of satisfaction! 80 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors (C) Session: Third Session Theme: My Action Aims: 1. To incorporate the fourthstep of SIPtheory: Response evaluation (or decision) 2. To understand the means used by group members to reach their goals and effectiveness. Activity Homework Sharing – “What Did I Do?” Duration 15 minutes Objectives To help group members understand that positive behaviors can bring a sense of satisfaction. Procedure 1. Group memberssharewhat makesthem feel satisfied. 2. Workerpraisesgroup members who engaged in positive behaviors and presents them with rewards. 3. Worker givesrewards to group members who finished their homework. Materials Rewards and back-up homework Activity “Method: Scissors-Paper-Stone” Duration 10 minutes Objectives 1. Tocreate a good atmosphere and start members thinking (warm-up exercise). 2. To emphasize that reaching a goal is not just one action but a series of actions, and help them identify the “process”, in preparation for the next activity. Procedure 1. Choose a topic (e.g., fruit names). Have group members clap their hands threetimes, and have the first member say the name of a fruit on the third beat. Have the next memberrepeat the procedure without repeating the same name, and so on.Those who repeat a fruit name orcannot add a fruit name are asked to share things they like and choose another topic. 2. At the beginning, choose a simple topic. 3. Topic focus: talk about themethods (means) members use to obtain a “benefit”; worker can choose emotions mentioned in the group members’ homework. • Money • Fun • Strength 4. When a group member talks about his/her means, the worker writes it on the whiteboard. Then each group member selects from the list the means he/she uses most to achieve his/ her goals. 5. Introduce the theme of the session: My Way. Materials Whiteboard, pen, drawing paper Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 81 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Activity “What I Want… Duration 25 minutes Concept Proactive aggressors will think about different aggressive behaviors, calculate the risks sensibly, and then calmly consider which way to achieve their aims (Crick & Dodge, 1994). Objectives For group membersto share their methods with others so that their own thoughts are reflected and the worker is helped to understand members’ methods more accurately. Procedure 1. Worker attaches a sheet of paper on the back of each group member. On the paper, the most important “benefit” mentioned in last session is already written. Thus, each group member has a different “benefit” written on his/her back. 2. Activity briefing: group members do not know which “benefit” is written on their backs. They ask each otherabout ways to obtain the “benefit”, but they cannot use words that describe a “benefit” and cannot repeat anyanswer already given. Group members guess the “benefit” on their backs according to others’ answers. 3. Each group memberisgiven a worksheet “Method Sharing” (Class Assignment 1.1) and invites other group members to write down their means of getting“benefits”on the back of the worksheet alongside their names. 4. Any group member who collects seven methods and names will receive a reward. 5. Background music is used to start and stop the activity. Group members will leave their seats to begin the activity when the music starts and stop the activity once the music stops. 6. After collecting seven methods, each group member can complete the “benefit” sheet that was attached on their back. 7. Members reveal the answers. 8. If any group member cannot figure out their “benefit” on the basis of others’ answers, he/she can fill in their own method to get the “benefit” in the last column of the sheet. Materials Adhesive tape, “Method Sharing” worksheet (Class Assignment 1.1), lively music Activity “Method Evaluation” Duration 25 minutes Concept Proactive aggressors think about different means (aggressive behaviors) and calculate the risks involved in obtaining the desired “benefit”. Through the worksheet, the methods considered by the group members can be assessed as well as the effectiveness of the method used and other methods. Therefore, group members’ aggression and their consideration in carrying out different actions can be thoroughly assessed. Objectives To help group members assess the effectiveness of their methods for obtaining a “benefit” and to raise their awareness of other appropriate methods 82 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Procedure 1. Each group member is given three sheets of white paper. Of the seven methods provided by other group members, each member chooses one of the best and writes it on a white label. Then he/shesticksthe label on the Method Evaluation worksheet (Class Assignment 1.2). 2. Degree of effectiveness of “Method Evaluation”. Group members place labels of different colors as an index: red labels if theyhave thought about the method (the greater the frequency of thinking about the method, the more the red labels,); green labels if they have used this method (the greater the frequency of using the method, the more green labels); star labels for the effectiveness of the method. 3. After completing the worksheet, group members will share the most effective method marked on the table. If the method has been provided by other group members, worker will say their names and give them rewards. Sharing key points: • The most effective method • The most common method • If the most common method cannot be used, what is the second choice? Materials Method Evaluation table (Class Assignment 1.2), white labels, red labels, green labels, star labels, pen Activity Conclusion and Class Assignment Debriefing – “My Logbook” Duration 15 minutes Objectives 1. To conclude the session. 2. To cultivate group members’ habit of finishing their homework. Procedure 1. Conclude by acknowledging group members’ participation and compliment those who participated actively and positively. 2. Homework debriefing “My Logbook”. Objective: To evaluate under what circumstances the emotions listed in the homework will be aroused (especially in proactive aggressors). 3. Remind group members that they will receive a reward after finishing the homework. 4. Present“most outstanding performance” awardsto those who were most involved in the session. Materials “My Logbook” (Homework Assignment) and rewards Remarks Worker can make greater use of the “Method Evaluation” worksheet. For example, group members may have thought of some “risky” methods for achieving their goals, methods that they believe are effective but that they have never used in real life. This means that group members will consider other factors as well, factors that can be possible reinforcers to encourage them to engage in positive behaviors. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 83 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Name:____________________ Third Session Class Assignment 1.1: Method Sharing Methods (methods used to obtain “benefit”) Told by (Groupmate’s name) 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 Self 8 The “benefit” written on the paper that is stuck on my back is:_____ 84 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Name:____________________ Third Session Class Assignment 1.2: Method Evaluation Below is an example of method evaluation. When preparing the table, workers should use a large piece of drawing paper, white labels and star stickers. E.g.: Chris: Money Index forhow much you’vethought aboutthis idea Index for how much you’ve used this method 1. Do not return the borrowed money ●●●● (red) ○○○○ (green) ☆☆☆☆☆ 2. Deceive your classmates ●●●● ○○○○ ☆☆☆☆ 3. Go to work ●● Index for effective-ness of the method ☆ Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 85 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Third Session Homework Assignment: Name:____________________ “My Logbook” What happened to make you feel… (last week) Loneliness Satisfaction Frustration Relaxation Fear Security Remorse (Please circle the deepest emotions you felt during the past week.) 86 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors (D) Session: Fourth Session Topic: My Emotions and Events Aims: 1. To evaluate the possible emotions suppressed by group members 2. To studythedifferent emotions experienced by individual group members under different circumstances 3. To bring out the main theme: Different emotions may be triggered by the same incident because individuals have their own points of view. Activity Assignment Sharing – “Talent Show” Duration 45 minutes Concept Because proactive aggressors are unemotional and lack empathy, they focus on the incident and the benefit and do not know how to express their feelings. By sharing their feelings in response to different incidents, group members will be stimulated to understand their own emotions. Objectives 1. To enhance group members’ understanding of their own emotions. 2. To help group members understand that different incidents will trigger different emotions because individuals have different thoughts. Procedure 1. Each group memberwill select a frequently experience demotion and then act it out. 2. Lots are drawn (lots 1-8) to determine the performance order. The most outstanding performance will be rewarded to encourage group members’ involvement. 3. When each group member is performing, worker will writedown theeventportrayed on a large piece of drawing paper. 4. After each performance, other group members will rate the performance according to whether the performercould clearly and vividly portray the incidentand his/her feelings. Worker will record the members’ scores. 5. Group members imagine what emotion they would experience if they encountered the same incident and then write it down on an emotion card (Group Material 1.1) 6. Group members share their emotions and views regardingthe incident. 7. The performer disclosesthe incident and emotions he/she was trying to portray. Debriefing: During any incident, different people will have different emotions because they have different points of view. Materials Numbered cards for drawing lots, large sheets of drawing paper, emotion cards (Group Material 1.1), back-up assignment Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 87 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Activity “Repressed Emotion” Duration 20 minutes Objectives To helpgroup members think, discover and feel their repressed emotions, and to encourage understanding of their own emotions Procedure 1. Divide the members into groups (fourmembersper group) 2. Each group member talks about the feeling that is “hard” to allowin daily life and the reason for that. 3. Let other group members share their past experiences, and let group members feel the emotions of the person involved andencouragethem to allow their “hard” feelings to appear. 4. If a group member cannot think of an incident, the other group members can share incidents related to emotion, and then ask the group member if the “hard” feeling will be triggered when he/she encounters a similar situation. 5. If group members claim to know or experience the “hard” feelings that other members share, they can share their experience as well. Materials Pens, largesheet of drawing paper Activity “Uncovered Feelings” Duration 10 minutes Concept Because proactive aggressors are unemotional, they may suppress their emotions. The use ofaffective imagery can help group members explore themselves in relation to past experiences and thus increase their self-understanding. Objectives To use guided affective imagery (GAI; Leuner, 1969) to help group members explore their suppressed emotions. Procedure 1. Each group member moves his/her chair to a place where no other group memberis present and sits down comfortably. 2. Group members are informed that the light will be switched off and are asked to listen to the worker carefully. 3. If group members cannot concentrate, ask them to sit down quietly to avoid disturbing others. 4. Worker switches off the light and starts the music. 5. Start GAI (refer to the content of guided affective imagery – Group Material1.2) 6. Worker compliments group members for their participation. Materials 88 GAI content (Group Material1.2) and soft music Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Activity Conclusion and Homework Debriefing – “Reflection on My Thoughts” Duration 15 minutes Objectives 1. To provide post-session debriefing. 2. To cultivate group members’ habit of finishing homework. Procedure 1. Appreciate group members’ participation and complement those who have exhibited positive involvement and prosocial behavior. 2. Homework debriefing “Reflection on My Thoughts” Objectives: To preview the ABC concept To consolidate the session content: Understanding one’s emotions 3. Remind group members that they will receive a reward after finishing the homework. 4. Present“outstanding performance awards” to those who were most involved in the session. Materials “Reflection on My Thoughts” (Homework Assignment), rewards Remarks 1. This session is a preview for the next session about the ABC concept. The workershould pay attention to their use of words in the events and emotions. Standardized words can help group members understand the ABC concept. 2. The workercan integrate group members’ suppressed emotions into the GAI during the second activity, which willhelp build closer relationshipswith group members. 3. Group members need to concentrate on the GAI activity. If some group members cannot concentrate, another worker can help them and avoid affecting others. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 89 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Name:____________________ Fourth Session Group Material 1.1: Emotion Cards Frustration Relaxation Fear Security Remorse Loneliness Satisfaction 90 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Fourth Session Group Material 1.2: Name:____________________ Guided Affective Imagery “Overthe next 2 to 3 minutes, I hope everyone can close their eyes and listen to me. Now please close your eyes. If you can concentrate, please listen carefully and try your best to imagine and pay attention to the images that appear in your mind. If you cannot concentrate, please sit down quietly and relax. Please do notmake any sounds or chat with others.” (After everyone quiets down, start the music) “In today’s activities, we heard about many emotions, such as satisfaction, relaxation, etc. We find some of the emotions hard to experience. Even when we heard about others’ feelings, we were unable to experience one or more of the same feelings. So what kind of emotion is hard for you to experience? Have you thought of why it is hard for you to experiencethat emotion? (Wait for a while and let the participants think back their suppressed emotions.) “When you think back to your childhood, did that emotion arise in you? What happened at that time? If some images appear in your mind, pay attention to them. What did you do at that time?” (Wait for a while, and let participants think back to the past.) “Now allow yourself to feel that emotion. Can you feel it, and what is that emotion?” (Wait for a while.) “When did you find it hard to feel that emotion? Where did the emotion go? Do you want it to ariseagain? When it arises, what will you feel now? In fact, the emotion never disappears; it is always present.” (Wait for a while.) “In the future, you will understand more about your emotions and yourselves. Everyone did a great job today. Thisis the first step toward understanding your emotions and yourselves. Everyone please open your eyes and return to the group.” Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 91 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Fourth Session Homework Assignment: Name:____________________ “Reflection on My Thoughts” One Success What happened? 92 One Failure What happened? My thoughts? My thoughts? My feeling My feeling Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors (E) Session: Fifth Session Theme: Understanding the ABC concept and My “Belief” Aims:1.To helpgroup members understand the ABC concept (A=Activating Event, B=Belief and C=Consequence),and the relationship among the three parts. 2.To evaluate group members’ irrational thoughts. Activity “Understand Our Emotion through Balloon Play” – Warm-up Activity Duration 10 minutes Objectives 1. Tocreate a goodatmosphere and highlight the theme–the ABC concept 2. To create an experience that will allowgroup members to observe the difference between other group members’ emotional responses and their own 3. To help group members understand the ABC concept Procedure 1. One co-worker blows upaballoon to arouse group members’ interest 2. Worker explains that he/she will stick pieces of adhesive tape on the blown-up balloon and invite each group member to tear off one piece. Worker pays attention to members’ emotional responses during the activity. 3. When a group member tears off a piece oftape, worker asks other group members to observe his/her own emotion and behavior carefully (behavioral response) 4. Invite group members to share their observation and their thoughts at the time 5. Debriefing • Discuss the emotion that arose when tearing off the tape and the reason for it • Discussthe behavior when tearing off the tape and the reason for it • Clarify that different emotions and behaviors are caused by different beliefs • Bring out the theme of the session – the ABC concept Materials Balloons, adhesive tape Activity “Introducing the ABC Concept” Duration 15 minutes Concept Ellis (1962) thought that “Irrational Beliefs (IBs)” will incur negative behaviors and emotions. Becauseproactive aggressors focus on the events and benefits, they seldom think about the thoughts that affect their behaviors; therefore, learning about their concepts will help them understand their own beliefs. Objectives To help group members understand the ABC concept and the relationship among the three parts Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 93 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Procedure 1.Group members will use the ABC concept chart (Group Material 1.1) for an introduction to the ABC concept and the relationship among the three parts 2. Use the foursuitsfound in a deck of cards to help group members understand the ABC concept and the relationship among the three parts: the spade represents belief, which is the most important part in the ABC concept; the heart represents emotional response; the club represents behavioral response; and the diamond represents the least import factor–event. This will help group members understand that behavioral responses and emotional responses are affected by thoughts, and thoughts are of utmost importance. 3. Using the homework example, let group members distinguish the difference betweenevent, thoughts, and behavioral response. Materials ABC concept Chart (Group Material 1.1), back-up homework Activity “Scenario – If I Were Tom, I Would…” Duration 35 minutes Concept After group members have learned the ABC concept, different situations can be used to let group members see that when the same event happens to different people, they will have different thoughts and respond with different behaviors and emotions. Objectives 1. To strengthen group members’ understanding of theABC concept 2. To evaluate group members’ irrational beliefs 3. To helpgroup members understand their thoughts Procedure 1. Two workers will role-play an event (A) (Class Assignment 1.1), then provoke membersto think: “If you were the main characterTom, how would you respond?” 2. Workers distribute class assignment worksheets and ask the group members to fill in their behavioral and emotional responses; workers divide members into groups that share the same behavioral responses (example, put the group members who report aggressive behavior in the same group). Then in group discussion, each member shares his/her views about the behavior. Have members write down their views on a piece of paper. 3. Each group will act out their behavioral responses; other groups will observe and guess and write what behavioral responses the members are acting out. 4. Reveal the answers that are written down. Mark the members’ correct answers. Group members share their thoughts behind their behaviors. 5. Two workers will role-play another event (A)(Class Assignment 1.2), then provoke group members to think: “If you were the main character Tom, what would you feel?” 6. This time workers will divide group members into groups with the same emotional responses, then repeat steps 2-4. Debriefing: the same incident happening to different people will result in different behavioral and emotional responses because people have different thoughts Materials 94 Scenarios 1,2 (Class Assignments 1.1-1.2), paper and colored pens Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Activity Conclusion and Homework Assignment Debriefing – “Application of the ABC Concept” Duration 15 minutes Concept By summarizing group members’ objectives (benefit), behavior, emotions, needs, etc., discovered in the three previous sessions; workers can verify each participant’s irrational belief Objectives 1. To conclude the session 2. To cultivate group members’ habit of finishing homework Procedure 1. Summarize eachgroup member’s involvement, and compliment those who have participated positively. 2. Distribute “IrrationalBelief” labels (Group Material 1.2) and homework sheets Introduce thoughts: according to workers’ evaluation of group members’ irrational beliefs, stick group members’ irrational belief labels onto the homework sheet “(B)♠belief*”.Workershope that the group memberswill use this opportunity to better understand themselves. From among the thought labels, group memberschoosetwo others that they feel describe themselves and stick the labels onto the homework sheet “(B)♠belief” Homework debriefing:“Application of the ABC Concept” Remind participants that after they finish their homework, they will receive a reward. Present the “most outstanding performance”to the group member who has the most thorough understanding of the ABC concept. Materials “Application of the ABC Concept” (Homework Assignment), “Irrational Belief” labels (Group Material 1.2),rewards Remarks 1. The pace should be light from one activity to the next. The different activities in this session, such as the warmup exercise, homework sharing and role-playing, are different formats that are used tostimulate group members to learn. If the pace is too slow, the whole process may become boring, and group memberswill loseinterest in the learning experience. 2. Workers can use daily examples that are close to the group members’ experiences so that group members can easily grasp the ideas and become more interested in understanding the ABC concept. 3. Workers must have full grasp of the ABC concept. When group members share their experience, they may mix up events, thoughts and behavior. Therefore, workers should distinguish the three; Later on, the groups will resolve their irrational beliefs. Hence, group members must grasp the concept so that they can resolve their irrational beliefs effectively. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 95 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Name:____________________ Fifth Session Group Material 1.1: ABC concept 96 ◆ ♠ Event Belief ♣ ♥ Behavioral Response Feeling Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Fifth Session Group Material 1.2: Name:____________________ Irrational Beliefs Labels 1. I must be loved by significant others for almost everything I do. 2. Certain acts are awful or wicked, and people who perform such acts should be severely punished. 3. It is horrible when things are not the wayI like them to be. 4. Human misery is invariably caused by externalforces, such as outside people and events, that act upon us. 5. When something is or may be dangerous or fearsome, we should be terribly upset and obsess endlessly over it. 6. It is easier to avoid rather than face life’s difficulties and our own responsibilities. 7. We absolutely need something stronger or greater than ourselves on which to rely. 8. We should be thoroughly competent, intelligent, and successful in all possible respects. 9. Because something once strongly affected our life, it will continue indefinitely to affect it. 10. We must have certain and perfect control over things. 11. Human happiness can be achieved by inertia and inaction. 12. We have virtually no control over our emotions, and we cannot help feeling disturbed about things. Ellis, A. (1977) Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 97 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Fifth Session Class Assignment 1.1: Name:____________________ Scenario 1 (A)◆Activating Event Tom's best friend hates his classmatePeter. One day, Tom and a group of his friends come across Peter. Tom will… (B)♠Belief (C) ♣ Behavioral Response 98 (C)♥Feeling Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Fifth Session Class Assignment 1.2: Name:____________________ Scenario 2 (A)◆Activating Event Tom goes to the kiosk during recess. However, when he arrives at the kiosk, he finds that he doesn’t have any money. At that time, he sees his classmate buying food. The recesswill soon be over. Tom will… (B)♠Belief (C) ♣ Behavioral Response (C)♥Feeling Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 99 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Fifth Session Homework Assignment: Name:____________________ Application of the ABC Concept When having a conflict with your classmate, what would you feel and how would you behave? Whatwill beyour goal(s)? Please write them down in the boxes below and circle the most suitable belief. ♦ Activating Event (B)♠belief (B)♠belief (B)♠belief (C)♣Behavioral response (C)♣Behavioral response (C)♣Behavioral response (C)♥Emotional response (C)♥Emotional response (C)♥Emotional response My goal My goal My goal 100 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors (F) Session: Sixth Session Theme: Severity Aims: 1. To create internal pressureso thatgroup memberswill feel the urge to change and then make changes. 2. To helpgroup members reflect on the consequences of their behaviors and broaden their concept of positive consequences. 3. To expandgroup members’ angle onevaluation. Activity Homework Sharing – “Severity Index” Duration 20 minutes Concept Proactive aggressors tend to overvalue the consequences of their behavior (Poulin & Boivin, 2000) and ignore the negative effects. Group members’ descriptions of their behavioral responses (homework) can be used to help them reflect upon the negative consequences of their behaviors. As the list of negative consequences grows, there will be a snowball effect, attacking the group members’ overblown valuation of the consequences. Objectives To helpgroup members reflect on the negative consequences of their behaviors and broaden their concept of a positive outcome. Procedure Homework Sharing: 1. Group members take turns sharing the ABCs from their homework assignment. 2. Workers inquire about the severity of consequences of their behavioral responses,with 5 points representing the most severe. 3. Group membersare asked to list (verbally) as many different consequences as possible within 30 seconds.The consequences they list must increase in severity (second consequence must be more severe than first consequence, and so on). Any member who succeeds in doing this will receive a “Big Blunder” label for every (10 maximum) appropriate answer. If a group member cannot get all 10 labels within the time limit, other group members will have 20 seconds to list further consequences in order of severity. The person who answers correctly will receive the remaining labels. 4. Other worker will writedown the group members’ answers on the “Severity Index” (Group Material 1.1) 5. Repeat steps 1-3 until all the group members finish sharing Debriefing: Everyone holds different views aboutthe seriousness of consequences and may not think about the severity of the consequences before he/sheacts. Workers can let participants know that for the same event, there can be different behavioral responses that lead to different consequences. Materials Stopwatch, Severity Index (Group Material 1.1) Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 101 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Activity Viewing “The Road Back–Overact”*+ Duration 30 minutes Objectives To help group members understand, through real case sharing, that “just making fun” can have severe negative consequences. Procedure 1. Video introduction: Video will show real life cases that will allow group membersto notice the behaviorsof the main characterand the consequences. 2. Video broadcast 3. Key discussion points: • Group members share the most unforgettable scene • Discuss the severity indexof the main character • If the main character understood the negative consequences, wouldit affect his/her behavior? Debriefing: The main character may not have considered the severe consequences brought about by his/ her behavior; workers hope that this discussion will help group members reflect on the negative consequences brought about by their behavior. Materials “The Road Back–Overact”, laptops *‘The Road Back–Overact’ episode #10, RTHK Activity Role-Play Court Scenario Duration 35 minutes Concept Proactive aggressors tend to focus on the benefit duringany event. They will evaluate the consequences positively and ignore others’ feelings. By playing the roles of different characters in bullying incidents, members will come to understand the seriousness of the consequences, and their thoughts about aggression/bullying behavior will be enriched. Objectives 1. To help group members widen their views about aggression/bullying behavior by acting out various roles and evaluating the consequences from different viewpoints. 2. Tohelpgroup members understand the seriousness of real-life consequences. Procedure 1. Activity briefing: the activity will mimic a court hearing. Each group member will play different roles in the hearing and will need to express his/her opinion according to his/her role. After the activity, workers will remind members that the goal of the role-playing was to speak with respect to the role not the role-player’s own stance. There will be an “for the “best impersonator”(decided bygroup vote) and the“most rational impersonator” (decided by workers) to encourage group members to get involved in their roles. 2. Distribute related information**so that group members will understand the case; after group members understand the case content, workers will assign roles and distribute related materials (Group Materials 1.2, 1.3) 3. Rearrange the chairs to mimic a courtroom and to enhance the atmosphere, to facilitate involvement of thegroup members. 4. Group members will draw lotsfor their turn to speak. If a speaker wants to know someone else’s view, he/she can appoint the next speaker or draw lot to decide. 102 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Procedure 5. When any group member puts forth an irrational belief, group members can use other roles (except those of criminals and gangs members) to refute the belief. 6. Set a time limit.When time is up, ask group members to discard their roles and go back to their original seats to act as jury. 7. Workers replay the video. When workers feel thatthe members understand the event from different angles, the group members will be asked to judge whether the character in the case is guilty and to explain the reason behind their judgment. 8. In conclusion,workers will talk about the verdict and related punishments for similar cases, allowing group members to understand that real-life consequences can be very severe. Materials “The Roles’ characteristics” (Group Materials 1.2) and “The Roles” (Group Materials 1.3) Activity Debriefing and Homework Explanation – “Jane’s New Page” Duration 15 minutes Objectives 1. To provide post-session debriefing 2. To cultivate group members’ habit of finishing homework Procedure 1. Summarize group members’ performance and compliment those who participated actively and positively. 2. Explain homework“Jane’s New Page” Objective: To let group members view an incident through different perspectives. This is the first step toward change. 3. Remind group members that they can get a reward after finishing the homework. 4. Selectwinners of the“best performance award” and “most rational impersonator” award, and present the awards. Materials “Jane’s New Page” (Homework Assignment), rewards +“The Road Back” series was produced jointly by Hong KongCorrectionalServices and Radio Television Hong Kong, aimed at enhancing understanding ofimprisoned and rehabilitated offendersto generate society’s acceptance and support. This presentation can be replaced by different but similar dramas in other countries or regions. *“The Road Back–Overact” 10th Episode, RTHK **Due to copyright restrictions, thecase content cannot be published. Remarks for Workers 1. After viewing the episodes, group members will be interested in knowing more about the incidents. Workers should guide them to focus on the theme of the activity: severe consequences of their behaviors. 2. Because proactive aggressors tend to overvalue the “benefits” and ignore the negative outcomes of bullying events, workers can use real-life cases such as those reported in newspapers to help group members understand the seriousness the consequences. 3. Workers need to consider the roles of group members carefully. Choose roles for them that will be natural; that is, allow them to dramatizetheir own characteristics. For example, if a memberhas shown leadership skills in the group, let this member play judge, with the goal of enhancing his/her ability to evaluate the incident, or any incident, from a legal angle. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 103 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Sixth Session Group Material 1.1: Name:____________________ Severity Index Below is an example of the “Severity Index”.When preparing the table, workers need to use a largepiece of paper and different stickers. E.g.: Negative Consequences Chris Behavioral Response: 1.Scolding by teachers 6. Arouse a group of classmates to intimidate the classmate that I don’t like 2.Receiving ademerit 8. 3.Retaliation 7. 9. 10. 4.See parents 5. Mom would feel sad =2+5+(remedial answer) = Total score =2 =5 104 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Name:____________________ Sixth Session Group Material 1.2: Roles and Their Characteristic Behaviors Criminal Victim Defends his/her own behaviors Complains about being bullied Accomplice Judge Defends his/her own behaviors Gives criminals their deserved punishment Police Friend Lists objective evidence to prove that the Cares about the consequences and their criminal’s behavior is irrational and illegal. friend’s future Angel Family member Feels that he/she must help Feels that he/she understands the incident Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 105 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Name:____________________ Sixth Session Group Material 1.3: Roles in a Court 106 Criminal Accomplice Family Judge Police Friend Angel Victim Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Sixth Session Homework Assignment: Name:____________________ 「Jane’s New Page」 Case: (Due to copyright restriction, the newspaper content cannot be published) I hope everyone will offer some advice to Jane, to let Jane view the incident from other angles and avoid making the same mistake again. If I wasa police officer, I wouldsay to Jane... __________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________ If I was a judge, I would say to Jane… ______________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________ If I was an angel, I will would to Jane… __________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________ Thank you for all of your advice.Janecan view things fromother angles and can “turnover a new leaf” in her life. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 107 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors (G) Session: Seventh Session Theme: “The Fair, Reasonable, and Rightful Concept – Multi-Angle Thinking” Aims: 1. To learn fair, reasonable and rightful thinking methods. 2. To increase the possibility of group members’ changing their irrational beliefs. Activity Assignment Sharing – “The Fair, Reasonable, and Rightful Concept” Duration 20 minutes Concept Proactive aggressors ignore the negative consequences of their aggression and they lack empathy. Theyfocus too much on their own self-interest. Hence, to target proactive aggressors’ thinking and to strengthen the possibility of building rational thoughts, the group can use “Fair” to represent empathy, “Reasonable” to represent normal social ethic, and “Rightful” to represent consequences. Objectives To instruct group members in the “fair”, “reasonable” and “rightful”model. Procedure Homework Sharing: 1. Group members share opinions ofJane from different angles. 2. Workers write down the key points according to the “fair”, “reasonable”, and “rightful” model of behavior. 3. Summarize group members’ opinions and teach “fair”, “reasonable” and “rightful”(Group Material 1.1) • Angel represents “Fair”, which means thoughts and behaviors must show concernfor their ownand others’ feelings. • Police represents “Reasonable”, which means thoughts and behaviors must have objective proof and be accepted by the general public. • Judge represents “Rightful”, which means thoughts and behaviors must comply with rules take consequences into account. Materials 108 Back-up homework, “Reasonable, Fair, and Rightful” Cards (Group Material 1.1) Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Activity “Analyze and Practice Reasonable Belief” Duration 20 minutes Concept Because group members have their own sets of thoughts and seldom think from different angles, we should refute their irrational beliefs and let them practice rational thinking. Objectives 1. To refute irrational beliefs. 2. To practice rational thinking. Procedure 1. Play the video. In the video, a group of students surrounds and provokes a classmate that they hate. 2. Divide members into two groups: use the “fair”, “reasonable” and “rightful” model. 3. Distribute “The Rules of Rational Thinking” (Group Material 1.2) to reinforce group members’ understanding of rational thinking. 4. Facilitate group discussions, have members write down the discussion points on the record form(Group Material 1.3), then report results of the discussion to the worker. Worker can give points according to the quality and quantity of the discussion points (e.g., bonus point for pointing out irrational belief). Materials Videos, Rules of Rational Thinking (Group Material1.2), record form (Group Material1.3) Activity “Rational Thinking Debate” Duration 35 minutes Concept Through debate, group members can use rational thinking to refute others’irrational beliefs and behaviors.Becausegroup members have their own sets of thoughts, the format of the activity is to judge others and to refute irrational beliefs and behaviors. Objectives To learn to use rational thinking to refute irrational beliefs and behaviors 1. Workerintroducesthe debate. 2. Worker role-plays the debate topics: Event–School doesn’t allow students to bring mobile phones to school. During lunch break, Tomsees Petersneak into a corner of a corridor to use a mobile phone to contact his friends. Then Tom and his friends approach Peter and grab his mobile phone, and with other classmates they toss themobile phone around. Peter doesn’t make a sound because he is afraid that his phone will get damaged. Tom reads Peter’s text messages out loud and laughs with the other classmates. While the phone is being tossed, it is suddenly dropped on the floor and damaged. Peter cries out loudly. Tomasks theothers,“Anyone seethis?” The others reply“No.”Tomsaysto Peter, “You know that the school doesn’t allow students to carrymobile phones.” Then they leave Tom and his damaged phone. 3. Worker raises the debate question: In this incident, is Tom’s way rational? Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 109 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Procedure 4. Divide members into two groups of four members each: an “irrational” group (aim is to verify that Tom’s behavior is irrational), anda “rational” group (aim is to support Tomand verify that Tom’s behavior is rational) 5. The four members represent fair, reasonable, rightful, and leader. The leader needs to lead the group to refute the discussion points. 6. Members separate into theirtwo groups and sit down. 7. Procedure: • Introduce the procedure, group division, goals, and roles • Use 1minute for job division and 5minutes to prepare the debate points(Group Material 1.3) • Toss a coin to decide the order of speaking • First stage: each group speaksfor 1minute.Members speak in the following order:fair, reasonable, and rightful. • Each group has 3 minutes to discuss and refute theother’s points. • Second stage: use 5 minutes for free debate, one side ask questions, and the other side responds to the questions. 8. When the groups debate, worker needs to listen and mentally organize the related irrational beliefs and behaviors. From the conversation, group members pick out the debatable points and discuss them. To conclude,summarize and reframe to allow group members to discuss the irrational points. 9. After heated discussion, each group member will know thedifferent opinions and be able to integrate them. Have them share their own opinions and discuss whether Tom’s behavior matches rational thinking. 10. Invite group members to vote for the member they believe deserves the“most rational thinking” award. Materials 110 Record Form for Group Debate (Group Material 1.3) Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Activity Debriefing and Homework Explanation – “Irrational vs. Rational Ways” Duration 15 minutes Objectives 1. To conclude the content of the session 2. To cultivate group members’ habit of finishing homework Procedure 1. Appreciate group members’ prosocial and considerate involvement, and compliment those who contributed positively. 2. Explain homework “Irrational vs. Rational Ways”. • According to the worker’s assessment of the group members, in the first part of the homework “(B) Thoughts” paste members’ irrational beliefs (Group Material 1.2 from Session 5). Objectives: • To helpgroup members think back to one irrational behavior and the irrational belief giving rise to it. • To practice behaviors, thereby creating new expectations and helping group members experience positive behaviors, discarding their irrational beliefs. • Point out that the homework is very challenging; special rewards will be given to those who finish. (This is for motivation.) • To vote forwho in the groups should receive the ‘best performer” and “most rational thinking” awards. Materials “Irrational vs. Rational” (Homework Assignment), rewards Remarks 1. Worker makes use of the roles of judge, police and angels to connect to the rational angles so that members can understand easily. 2. Last session will focus the consequences brought by negative behavior; this session will review the A-B-C concept to let group members understand irrational behavior and its effect. 3. Worker can choose videos about school bullying to stimulate group members to practice rational thinking mode. 4. When helping the group members design the behavior training, the following factors should be taken into account: • For group members, behavior training should be reachable, comprehensive and not complicated; otherwise group members would give up easily. • Behavior trainingis designed on the basis of behavioral response or rational thoughts. For training that is based on behavioral response, group members can try to exercise positive, prosocial, and empathic behaviors. For example, this week, group members could try to pay attention to classmates/friends’ merits and compliment their friends for these merits. For training based on rational thoughts (e.g., “I can love myself, express my opinions, and choose the life I like.”), this week, group members couldtry to find time to do things that they like to do. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 111 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Seventh Session Group Material 1.1: Name:____________________ “Reasonable, Fair, and Rightful Cards” Rightful: Thoughts and behavior should comply with rules and take the consequences into account.Rightful:Thoughts and behavior should comply with rules and take the consequences into account. Reasonable: Thoughts and behavior should be supported by objective evidence and accepted by society. Fair: Thoughts and behavior should take other people into consideration, including those who love us and those we love. 112 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Seventh Session Group Material 1.2: Name:____________________ Rules of Rational Thinking Rightful: Thoughts and behavior shouldcomply with rules and take the consequences into account. (What are the negative effects?/How bad are they?) 1. On yourself (body/future/life) 2. On your family (living situation/habit/communication) 3. At school (classmates’ learning/teaching/public infrastructure) 4. On the victim (mental health) Reasonable: Thoughts and behavior should be supported by objective evidenceand accepted by society. 1. What is the rationale to support your decision to choose this thought/behavior? 2. What objective evidence makes you think that the rationale behind your choice is correct? 3. What objective evidence do you have to prove that the thought/behavior is correct? Fair: Thoughts and behavior should take other people into consideration, including those who love us and those we love. 1. How do you feel? 2. How do others feel? (Others are the people who are important to us: family, good friends, teachers who love us.) 3. What’s the difference between how you feel and how others feel? How do you feel about the difference? Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 113 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Seventh Session Group Material 1.3: Name:____________________ “Record Form for Group Debate” Reasonable Fair Righteous 114 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors “Record Form for Group Debate” Unreasonable Unfair Unrighteous Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 115 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Name:____________________ Seventh Session Homework Assignment: “Irrational vs. Rational” First Part: Based on the influence of irrational thoughts, please circle abehavior that you engaged in? Then think back to the event and your purpose. ◆Event ♣Response: Behavior Beating/Murder/Cheating/Isolating yourself/Making fun of another/Talking behind someone’s back/ Teaming up against another person. ♠Belief Purpose: Second Part: This week, please practice a new rational behavior to achieve your ideal goals. Here are the steps: Rational Behavior Purpose Achieve New Thought 116 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors (H) Session: Eighth Session Theme: The fair, reasonable, and rightful concept – Multi-angle thinking Aims: 1. Refute irrational beliefs 2. Apply rational thinking mode 3. Construct rational thoughts and behavior Activity “Homework Sharing” (Homework – Second Part) Duration 15 minutes Concept Ellis and Bernard(2006) pointed out that, to increase their motivation to change and to understand their own problems,young people in therapy must learn to understand their irrational beliefs, negative behavior, and emotional responses, and then analyze old thinking and apply new thinking. Objectives To appreciategroup members’ cooperative and prosocial behaviors and positive experiences so that they will come to understand that positive experience arises from a change in belief. Procedure 1. Group members share the behavior they practiced. 2. Worker can lead group members to discuss the concept of behavior practice and how to use rational thinking mode. Sharing points: • How to use rational thinking mode • The difference between new and old behaviors and new and old emotions in responseto the same event. • The difference between new thinking and old thinking. Materials Back-up homework, special rewards Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 117 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Activity Discussion on Irrational Beliefs (Assignment – Part I) Duration 15 minutes Concept Rational thinking mode can be used during confrontation between group members to help members refute irrational beliefs(Beck,1995). In the sixth and seventh sessions, group members will come to understand the negative consequences of their behaviors and the effects onpeople who are important to them. Hence they can refute group members’ irrational beliefs and behavior directly. Objectives 1. To help members refute other members’ irrational thoughts and learnan appropriate confrontation style. 2. To apply rational thinking mode and build up rational thoughts and positive behaviors. Procedure 1. Worker explains the activity: worker will randomly choose a group members’ homework by drawing lots. (In reality, however, the worker will deliberately choose the most irrational belief). The homework will be used to launch a discussion over the underlying irrational thought. 2. Separate members into two groups, a “rational group” and an “irrational group”one on either side of the room. 3. Have the groups gather on separate sides of the room and sit down. 4. The two groups will discuss on the underlying irrational thought of the chosen homework according to the concept of fair, reasonable, and rightful; worker writes down scores on a summerizing table (Group Material 1.1). 5. Group members try to refute opponents’ points. 6. When group members are debating, workers need to listen for irrational beliefs and behaviors, guide the group members’ conversation, and extract some debatable points. Then conclude by summarizing and reframing to have group members discuss irrational points. 7. Identify irrational points in the discussion and paste them on the record form. Materials 118 Summarizing table (Group Material 1.1), adhesive tape Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Activity Developing Fair, Reasonable, and Rightful Behavior Duration 15 minutes Concept Thinking about a new behavior is easier than formulating a new thought, so start from this step to helpmembers think about a new behavior and then anew rational belief. Objectives To formulate a rational belief aimed atfair, reasonable, and rightful behavior. Procedure 1. Write down a rational behavior on adhesive tape according to an event group members’ described,and paste it on the record form(Group Material 1.1) 2. Group members describe the new rational thoughts underlying the rational behavior. 3. Workerwrites down the new thoughts on the record form. 4. Worker distributes homework andwrites down examples of fair, reasonable, and rightfulthoughts and behaviors. He says to the members, “If the rational behaviors are suitable for you, you can take away the adhesive tape and paste it on the homework “Behavior Response” page. Materials Summarizing Table (Group Material 1.1), adhesive tape, colored pens, and homework (second page). Activity Sharing and Encouragement Regarding the Fair, Reasonable, and Rightful Concept Duration 15 minutes Concept Group members cannotapply new thoughts and behaviors easily; they need group members’ encouragement and assurance to strengthen and support their changes. Objectives To provide group members the support they need to apply new rational thoughts and behaviors. Procedure 1. Worker divides members into groups; members with the same irrational thoughts are grouped together. 2. Each group membershares rational thoughts, and the other group members evaluate whether the thoughtsare indeedrational. 3. After a group member shares, the other members will write down encouraging words and paste them intothe homework book and encourage the sharing member to apply new thoughts. 4. Workers distribute supporting cards (Group Material 1.2) Materials Adhesive tape, colored pens, “supporting cards” (Group Material 1.2) Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 119 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Activity Debriefing and Homework Explanation – Developing Fair, Reasonable, and Rightful Behavior Duration 15 minutes Objectives 1. To provide post-session debriefing. 2. To cultivate group members’ habit of finishing homework. Procedure 1. Express appreciation forgroup members’ participation, and compliment members who participated actively and positively. 2. Homework explanation “Designing fair, reasonable and rightful behavior.” Worker will fill out the first page for each member according to his/her assessment of thegroup member. Objective: To reinforce, by contrasting new and old thoughts, behaviors, and consequences, group members’ motivation to apply new thoughts and behaviors. 3. Point out that the homework is very challenging and that after finishing the homework members will be rewarded. 4. Have members vote on who should receive the “Most Rational Member” Award Materials “Developing fair, reasonable, and rightful behavior” (Homework Assignment), rewards Remarks 1. Inrefutingthe groups’ irrational beliefs, the members may feel their own thoughts being confronted or challenged; their resulting behavior may seem unnatural and self-protective. Hence, when worker refutes the beliefs, he/she should not disclose the individual group members’ name. This will increase the sense of security and help group members accept changes totheir old thoughts. 2. Worker should pay attention to the group atmosphere and care about group members’ progress and emotional changes; that is, worker needs to assess the effect that refuting members’ irrational beliefs is having on individual members. 3. When members are not divided evenly between the two groups, worker should rearrange the groups so that members will feel supported and not overreact when their beliefs are being refuted. For example, cluster members together who share the emotional belief that is being refuted. 4. Group membersmay think of new behaviors, but this doesnot mean that their thoughts have changed, and they may use different aggressive behaviors to achieve their goals. Hence, worker needs to pay extra attention to whether group members’ thoughts have changed. 120 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Name:____________________ Eighth Session Group Material 1.1: Summarizing Table The “Summarizing Table” should look as follows: Aim (Tips) (B) Old Beliefs ♠ (C) Bingo=Response♣ Rational Belief Severity Index (A) Event ◆ (B) New Beliefs ♠ (C) Behavioral Response♣ Rational Belief Cool Index Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 121 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Name:____________________ Eighth Session Group Material 1.2: Supporting Card Workers will completea supporting card for each group member that reflects the individual character of the member. Example: I noticed that the group most appreciates your … I noticed changes in your beliefs and behaviors … I noticed that you worry about … I encourage you with the following words: Your most irrational beliefs and behaviors seemed to be … 122 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Eighth Session Homework Assignment: Before filling the second homework page, look at your own irrational beliefs and behaviors. Now you have new beliefs, and you hope to apply reasonable, logical, and right thoughts and become a leader in new ways. Aim (Tips) (B) Old Beliefs ♠ (C)Bingo=Behavioral Response ♣ Rational Beliefs Beat / Scare / Cheat / Surround / Isolate yourself / Pick on another / Severity Index Talk behind another’s back / Glare at others Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 123 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Fair, Reasonable and Rightful Behavior Record Form Please record anevent or behavior for whichyou have applied rational thoughts and/or behavior. (A) ◆Event (A) ◆Event (A) ◆Event (C)♣Behavioral response (C)♣Behavioral response (C)♣Behavioral response (C) ♥My feeling (C) ♥My feeling (C) ♥My feeling Other’s feeling Other’s feeling Other’s feeling My purpose My purpose My purpose (B) ♠New thought 124 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors (I) Session: Ninth Session Theme: Empathy Training Aims: 1. To learn to understand the other person’s feeling. 2. To increase pro-social behavior. Activity Homework Sharing – “Understanding Rational Beliefs” Duration 15 minutes Objectives 1. To consolidate group members’ rational thoughts. 2. To strengthen the positive effect of rational thoughts. Procedure 1. Group members sharetheir recorded events Sharing points: • Different consequences brought about by rational thoughts • Positive experience brought about by rational thoughts 2. Distribute “Rational Belief Card” (Group Material 1.1); members can select thoughts suitable to themselves from among the 12 rational thoughts. 3. Worker complimentsgroup members for their performance, and encourages them to continue their rational thinking. Materials Back-up homework, “Rational BeliefCard” (Group Material 1.1) Activity “Knowing Emotion” – Warm-up Exercise Duration 10 minutes Concept Proactive aggressors lack feeling. Group members’ emotional responses can be stimulated through observation of others’ facial expressions and emotions. Objectives 1. To create a good atmosphere and bring the group into the theme. 2. To stimulate group members’ emotional responses. Procedure 1. Group members will each draw a card numbered between 1 and 8. 2. Each member will thendraw an emotion card. Each member will role-play the emotion named on their card. 3. The other group members will match the played-out emotion to the group member’s number and circle it on the answer sheet(Group Material 1.2). 4. The group member who guesses correctly most often (according to the answers from the answer sheet) will be given a reward. Materials Emotion cards, number cards, answer sheet (Group Material 1.2) Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 125 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Activity “If I Were the Victim…” Duration 35 minutes Concept Proactive aggressors lack empathy and they misunderstanding their victims feelings. By being exposed to real cases, victims can express their feelings regarding school bullying, and this will shed light on group members’ wrong views towards the victims. Objectives 1. To practice the thoughts of others and to understand their feelings. 2. To develop a deep understanding of the victims’ feelings. Procedure 1. Group will watch the related video*+. 2. Worker will divide members into two groups. Ask members who have been victims of bullying to share the feelings and thoughts they experienced. 3. After discussion, members will use worksheet (Class Assignment 1.1) to record victims’ feelings, then report to others what they have written. The member with the most points will win. 4. Broadcast a real-life victim’s confession*. 5. Let group members’ review their own answers. 6. According to the previous group division, if group members represent important persons in the aggressor’s life (such as parents), ask what feelings and thoughts they would have. 7. After group discussion, members will use the class assignment worksheet to jot down the feelings and thoughts and report them to the others. The member with the most points will win. 8. Play the video of people who are important to the aggressors, and talk about their feelings. Debriefing: When the main character knows others’ (victims or important persons) feelings and thoughts, what is the effect on his/her behavior? Materials Related video: “If I were the victim…”, worksheet (Class Assignment 1.1) Activity “Incident Recall” Duration 15 minutes Concept If group members can be led to think back topast events and to try to understand the events from a different angle, their behavior will change accordingly. Objectives To help group members understand victims’ feelings and change their thoughts regarding bullying behavior. Procedure 1. Worker will use imaging technique (Leuner, 1969) to help group members feel involved in the event and think back to how it was for the persons they bullied. Group members should write down the situation, their feelings, and the effects (Group Material 1.4). 2. Have the members read what has been written on the worksheet (anonymously). Materials 126 “Content of Guided Imagery” (Group Material 1.3), “One event” worksheet (Group Material 1.4), soft music Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Activity Debriefing and Homework Explanation – “Empathy Training” Duration 15 minutes Objectives 1. To provide post-session debriefing. 2. To cultivate group members’ habit of finishing homework. Procedure 1. Conclude by complimenting members for positive performances. 2. Explanation of homework “Empathy Training” Aim: • To help group members focus not only on their self-interest but also on others’ feelings. • To change old, aggressive behaviors. 3. Remind group members that they will receive a reward if they finish their homework. Materials “Empathy Training” (Homework Assignment), rewards *Monday Report “School Bullying”, 22March 2004, TVB +“Monday Report” is a Hong Kong news series with different topics produced by Television Broadcasts Limited (TVB) Remarks 1. When choosing a related video, worker can select a video that portrays an issue that group members will easily identify with, such as triads or aggressive behavior. 2. If worker discovers group members still have irrational beliefs, the worker should continue to refute the beliefs. 3. If might be hard for group members to express their emotions, not only because they have the characteristics of proactive aggressors but also because they (might) lack the proper words to express their emotions; hence,worker should guide them patiently to express their emotions and teach them suitable words. This can be done any time. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 127 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Ninth Session Group Material 1.1: Name:____________________ Rational Belief Cards 1. I can love myself, I canexpress my love, and I can live the way I want to live. 2. Everyone make mistakes. I can accept my mistakes, correct my mistakes, and stop myself from making the same mistakes again. 3. When things are not as I want, I can work hard to change them. If I cannot change them, I will accept the reality. 4. I can control and change my thoughts, behaviors, and feelings! 5. Situations that make me uneasyare unavoidable and are not a big deal. I can handle them! 6. Avoiding a problem will only bring more trouble. We can only live happily if we face challenges and solveproblems. 7.I can handle things independently, but I will ask for help if necessary. 8. We should do our best and accept our own weaknesses and mistakes, enjoy the process, and not mind whether we win or lose. 9. I can learn from past experience. The past will not necessarily determine my future.10. Thingschange, and life is full of possibilities. I cannot control everything, but I can enjoy the process. 10. Thingschange,and life is full of possibilities.I cannot control everything, but I can enjoy the process. 11. Being involved in the process makes me feel satisfied. 12.When I change myexpectation, I can handle the emotions troubling me. 128 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Name:____________________ Ninth Session Group Material 1.2: Emotion Cards Worried Ashamed Afraid Sad Desperate Remorseful Helpless Disappointed Number Cards 1 5 2 6 3 7 4 8 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 129 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Answer Sheet Worried 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Worried 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Afraid 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Afraid 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Desperate 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Desperate 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Helpless 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Helpless 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Remorseful 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Remorseful 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Disappointed 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Disappointed 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Ashamed 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Ashamed 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Sad 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Sad 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Worried 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Worried 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Afraid 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Afraid 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Desperate 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Desperate 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Helpless 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Helpless 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Remorseful 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Remorseful 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Disappointed 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Disappointed 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Ashamed 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Ashamed 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Sad 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Sad 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Worried 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Worried 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Afraid 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Afraid 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Desperate 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Desperate 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Helpless 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Helpless 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Remorseful 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Remorseful 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Disappointed 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Disappointed 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Ashamed 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Ashamed 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Sad 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Sad 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Worried 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Worried 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Afraid 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Afraid 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Desperate 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Desperate 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Helpless 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Helpless 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Remorseful 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Remorseful 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Disappointed 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Disappointed 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Ashamed 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Ashamed 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Sad 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Sad 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 130 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Ninth Session Group Material 1.3: Name:____________________ Contents of Guided Imagery “During the next 2 to 3 minutes, I hope everyone can close your eyes and listen to me. Now please close your eyes. If you can concentrate, please listen carefully and try your best to imagine and pay attention to the images that appear in your mind. If you can’t concentrate, please sit down quietly and relax. Please don’t make any sounds or chat with others.” (After everyone quiets down, start playing music.) “Now you have a relaxed time in which to recall a very impressive fragment of an event. The event would be one during which you bullied others or took advantage of others. Does any fragment of the event appear in your mind now? If yes, please concentrate and visualize what was happening at the moment? What were you doing at that moment? (Wait for a while.) “Now, we will concentrate on the “other person”. What was his/her facial expression? (Wait for a while.) “Did he/she say anything?” “What was his/her response? What was his/her feeling?” “Now you have a piece of paper in your hand. Use this piece of paper to jot down the particular event and the effect it had on him/her and his/her feelings. You can jot down the things that are in your mind.” “Imagine ‘today’s you’, seeing yourself at that moment, seeing him/her at the moment, and knowing the effect on him/her and his/her feelings.” “Would you have anything to tell him/her? Although that particular event took place in the past, you can take this opportunity today to tell him/her something that you want to say, if there is anything, you can tell him/her in your heart, and you can write it down on the piece of paper.” “It is difficult to put yourself in another’ shoes. It requires you to be very attentive and focused. For those who are not able to do this right now, please remain silent so that other members, and you too,will have the chance to concentrate, to experience this particular growth.” “Alright, now, slowly come back from the past and the event to today and to the group.” Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 131 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Ninth Session Group Material 1.4: Name:____________________ One Event One bullying event: Victim’s feeling: Sadness/Worry/Fear/Pain/Helplessness/Lost/Afraid/Feeling Poor/Alone Effecton the victim: Knowingthe victim’s feeling, you would say to him/her: 132 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Name:____________________ Ninth Session Class Assignment 1.1: If I were the victim… If I were the victim in the event, what would I think? What I would feel? Belief Feeling Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 133 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors If I were a person who cares about the aggressor (e.g.,parent), what would I think? How would I feel? People who care about the aggressor 134 Belief Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Feeling Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Name:____________________ Ninth Session Homework Assignment: Empathy Training Choose two people you have encountered, observe them this week, and record their feelings. Person you care about A classmates who is often bullied by others ___________________ _____________________________ Date Feeling Feeling When you notice their feelings, is there a difference in how you get along with them? What is the difference? Person you care about : A classmate who is often bullied by others : Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 135 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors (J) Session: Tenth Session Theme: Leadership Graduate Session Aims: 1. To prevent group members’ relapsing into old irrational beliefs. 2. To strengthen group members’ knowledge and use of rational thoughts and empathy. 3. To consolidate successful experiences, to strengthen members’ confidence that they can keep on changing Activity Homework Sharing – “Empathy Training” Duration 15 minutes Objectives To strengthen group members’ use of “empathy” Procedure 1. Group members share their homework. Key sharing points: • Understanding victim’s feelings and the impact of their own behavior • The positive influence of “empathy” Materials Back-up homework, rewards Activity “Gang Leader vs. New Leader” Duration 20 minutes Concept Group members think that even if they can change their thoughts and behavior, the external environment cannot be changed. This lowers their confidence. By listening to a positive role model, and through their own experience, members can remain motivatedto change. Objectives 1. To strengthen group members’ knowledge and use of rational thoughts. 2. To strengthen their confidence that they can change. Procedure 1. Play the related video* • In the video, one student bullies others; after changing his thoughts, he becomes the leader of the class. 2. Group members discuss the change in the main character. Worker writes down related points on the “Change Into a New Leader” (Group Material 1.1) worksheet. 3. Worker assures group members’ of their ability and his/her belief that they can become a new leader. Materials 136 “Change Into a New Leader” (Group Material 1.1) Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Activity “Preventing Relapse Card” Duration 20 minutes Concept Group members can be prevented from relapsing into irrational beliefs or aggressive behavior if they are reminded of their prior situation and are encouraged to continue moving forward. Objectives 1. To helpgroup members understand how to deal with relapse. 2. To strengthen group members’ rational thinking rules Procedure 1. Worker distributes reminder cards (Group Material 1.2) 2. Explain that thereminder card is for reminding and reviewing the rational rules, and for choosing positive behavior, considering negative consequences, and becoming a rational leader. Materials Preventing Relapse Card (Group Material 1.2) Activity “Turning over a New Leaf” Duration 20 minutes Objectives 1. To help group members reflect on their own development, i.e., of their positive thoughts and changes in their behavior. 2. To helpgroup members develop hope for their future. Procedure 1. Worker distributes human-shaped worksheet; group members write down their improvements over the past two months, and their future expectations and aims. 2. Group members share one by one. Key sharing points: • How I have changed since the first session • Points worth appreciating and improving Materials Human-shaped worksheet (refer to First Session) Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 137 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Activity Debriefing and Praise Duration 20 minutes Objectives 1. To provide post-participation debriefing. 2. To strengthen group members’ sense of achievement. Procedure 1. Summarize the group experience and the things learned in the ten sessions; review the contents together. 2. Distribute the leadership certificate (Group Material 1.3), compliment group members for their participation, and encourage them to carry on. Materials Leadership Certificate (Group Material 1.3), rewards *“Monday Report–School Bullying”, 22March 2004, TVB +“Monday Report” is a Hong Kong news series that features different topics and is produced by Television Broadcasts Limited (TVB). Remarks Because this is the last session, worker needs to emphasize the abilities of a reasonable new leader. If a member chooses to be a “gang leader”, he/she will bear responsibility for serious consequences, which would make the people they love sad. 138 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Name:____________________ Tenth Session Group Material 1.1: The “Change Into a New Leader”worksheet should look as follows: Severity Index Irrational Belief Gang Leader Old Feeling Irrational Belief New Leader Old Behavior New Behavior New Feeling Rating Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 139 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Name:____________________ Tenth Session Group Material 1.2: “Preventing Relapse Card” 1. I can love myself, express my love, and livethe way I want to live. Name:_______________________ 2. Everyone makes mistakes. I can accept my mistakes, correct my mistakes, and stop myselffrom making the same mistakes again. 3. When things are not as I want, I can work hard to change them. If I cannot change them, I will accept the reality. 4. I can control and change my thoughts, behaviors, and feelings! 5. Situations that make me uneasy are unavoidable and are not a big deal. I can handle it! Using multi-angle thinking pattern to solve problem 6. Avoiding a problem will only bring more trouble. We Can only live happily if we face challenges and solve problems. 7. I can handle things independently, but I will ask for help if necessary. Appreciating oneself, enjoying the process 8. We shoulddo our best and accept our own weaknesses and mistakes,enjoy the process, and not mind whether we win or lose. 9. I can learn from past experience. The past will not necessarily determine my future. 10. Things change and life is full of possibilities, I cannot control everything, but I can enjoy the process. Putting oneself in others’ shoes more often 11. Being involved in the process makes me feel satisfied. 12. When I change my expectation, I can handle the emotions troubling me. Old Thoughts New Thoughts Old Behavior Beating/ Intimidating/ Cheating/ Isolating/Blackmailing/ Glaring New Behavior fair, reasonable, rightful Being fair: Behavior will not make the people you love have negative feelings Being reasonable: Reason/proof to support your behavior that is accepted by society Being rightful:Behavior has positiveconsequence/effect fair, reasonable, rightful 140 Severity Index Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Rating Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Tenth Session Group Material 1.3: Name:____________________ Leadership Certificate Leader:_____________ 1. Enjoyssharing 2. Respects others 3. Takes homework assignments seriously 4. Is willing to change 5. Applies reasonable beliefs 6. Practicesreasonable behavior 7. Considers others’ situations (Note: each item is rated on a scale of 1 to 5 stars) Comments: Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 141 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors IV. Case Studies In this session, some of the above-mentioned activities were selected and described in detail with concrete real examples, provided with group process, case description and worker’s analysis in every activity. For better understanding, the treatment group sessions will be grouped into the first meeting plus four stages: initial stage, early mid-stage, late mid-stage, and late stage. 1. First Meeting of the Treatment Group The following is a brief summary of the first session of the treatment group. Group members’ participation in various activities reflects the cognitive, behavioral, and emotional characteristics of proactive aggressors. Workers are therefore able to respond appropriately after a clear understanding of these characteristics. First Session: “Tell Us about Your School” Group process and the case description “Tell us about your school” was the first formal interactive program between workers and group members. Proactive aggressors have the abilityto assess the environment and situation before deciding on a behavior. Therefore, proactive aggressors chose to observe the behavior of workers and other group members. They did not take the initiative to express their views and feelings. After warm-up, some members became more willing to share about life at school. Group members shared their delinquent behaviors, such as smoking and fighting,when they viewed associated school pictures(for example, the picture of the school’s public toilet). Theyoften expressed positive emotions, such as “excited” and “happy” at mention of these incidents. They emphasized that they always manage to escape from teachers’ eyes wherever they engage in delinquent behavior. They even take the chance to tease teachers in front of their peers, positively reinforcing their delinquent behaviors. Wai rarely mentioned her school life during the sessions. When other group members disclosed their delinquent behaviors, Wai would exclaim, “I am a good student and will not get into a fight at school! Ha ha! You really are bad students!” But from time to time, Wai would expose her knowledge of the underworld and drugs to her groupmates during the sessions. Wai maintained a calm facial expression and repeatedly showedthe “relaxed” and “bored” mood cards to demonstrate her emotionsin relation to various incidents. Workers’ analysis Workers used Ellis’ ABC concept to pry into Wai’s mind. (A) Anticipated event: Worker presentspictures. 142 (B) Belief: I am not just anybody;I have strength. (C) Behavioral response / Consequence: Wai reveals her knowledge ofgangsters and drugs. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors “I am not just anybody; I have the strength” is a typical cognitive belief of proactive aggressors. Group members believed they could showcase their strength, gain status, and achieve success by challenging authority through delinquent behavior. Workers noticed that group members appeared to evaluatethe consequences positively and often ignore the negative effect of their behavior. From Wai’s interaction with workers and group members, we could see that Wai acted differently around different people to achieve her personal goal. On one hand, Waiwould show her knowledge of the underworld and drugs to obtain power and status within the group. On the other hand, she was cautious in front of the workers and proclaimed “I’m a good student”. Workers used the ABC conceptto understand the beliefs behind Wai’s exploratory behavior. (C) Behavioral Response (B) Belief (A) Incident Worker presenting pictures Worker is trying to tempt me and is not trustworthy. I’m not stupid either, I need to protect myself. I must not tell the truth.. “I’m a good student” (exploratory behavior) (C) Emotional Response Skepticism The objective of the first group session was to establish a trusting and respectful relationship between workers and group members. (B1) Belief (C1) Behavioral Response Worker is not trustworthy Act cautiously (B2) Belief (C2) Behavioral Response The worker is trustworthy Express oneself freely Workerswere able to use empathytogether with a sincere attitude to encourage acceptance, respect, and understanding within the group. For example, workers showed empathy towards members’ in their reluctance to reveal themselves during the first session. A trusting and respectful relationship established between members and workers seemed to reduce members’wariness of workers and group members, enhance members’ sense of belonging, and increase their willingness to reveal themselves in front of the group. Workers were able examine the bond between members and themselves at the end of the first session. Workers chose to follow up with individual group member before the start of next session. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 143 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors First Session: “Group Expectation” Group Activities: Session 1 (Please refer to the DVD, Part III, Proactive aggressors – 1. First meeting of the treatment group) Group process and case description In discussing their expectations, members expressed a desire to receive material rewards such as new video games, online gamepoint cards, free food and beverages, and even money. Workers made it clear to members that only small items, such as souvenirs and candies, etc., but not money or video games, would be given out as rewards. Workers discussed appropriate expectations of the group with members and summarized the group’s common goals and code of participation. Group members were encouraged to adhere to the code of participation so as to achieve personal expectations. In addition, it seemed that team members might take advantage of each other or act aggressively during group activities. Wai noticed that one of the male members expressed his desire to have beautiful female members in the group. She therefore took the opportunity to attack this male member with help from another female group member. Workers’ analysis Unlike reactive aggressors (reactive aggressors strive to achieve relational goals and they hope to improve their interpersonal relationships through participation in the treatment group), proactive aggressors value personal benefits and pursue instrumental goals. Knowing these cognitive characteristics of proactive aggressors, workers were able to use material incentives to encourage members’ participation at the beginning of program and before members changed their beliefs. Workers should assess the effectiveness of material incentives from time to time. If group members are already very cooperative and actively involved in group activities, workers can reduce the tangible incentives accordingly. Moreover, workers should observe and praise members’ positive performance immediately to encourage their participation in the group. Other options such as increasing the diversity of activities also fostered participation of group members. Proactive aggressors have a strong need to control others. Wai requested complimentary food and beverages from workers, and threatened not to participate in the activities otherwise. Moreover, Wai and another female member joined together to attack a male member. All of these behaviors reflected Wai’s attempt to challenge workers and other team members in order to assume a dominant position within the group. In the face of the aggressive behaviors of proactive aggressors, workers not only had to deal with the behaviors, they also needed to pay special attention and assessthe motives behind them. IN this case, workers should react appropriately in accord with group expectations and the code of participation. Workers must respect members and earn their respect from the very first session. For example, workers knew Wai would use aggressive behavior to gain control within the group. Therefore, in response to members’ aggressive behavior, workers should show respect tothem by “praising” them as young and beautiful. On the other hand, workers should explain that they are well aware of members’ intentions to use aggressive behavior to gain control over others, and emphasize that aggressive behavior is not acceptable in the group. Furthermore, workers should establish authority within the group and point out that the group is not necessarily controlled by members but rather by workers. Therefore, in discussing thegroup objectives and code of participation, workers must respond appropriately to members’ expectations, thus establishing mutual respect within the group. 144 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors 2. Initial Stage of Group Treatment During the initial stage of group treatment, workers explored group members’ childhood experiences through various activities in order to understand the formation of proactive aggressors’ social cognition. Through members’ cognitive, behavioral, and emotional responses, coupled with the use of Beck’s CT concept, workers were able to assess members’ core beliefs. Second Session: “My Story” Group process and case description Members chose money, intelligence, power, health, and/or friends as “benefits/freebees”. Based on members’ particular choices,workers divided them into groups for discussion. Wai chose money, intelligence, and health. For her, intelligence is the most important benefit, followed by money, then health.When workers asked her for the reasons, she stated, “Intelligence can bring wealth, friends, power, and status. You can enjoy all of the above if you have good health. Intelligence can help me avoid punishment even if I break the law; therefore, intelligence is the most important ‘benefit/freebee’ among all.” Workers then asked Wai when she first realized intelligence was the most important benefit. Wai recalled, “I thought intelligence was important even when I was small. My kindergarten class was boring so I decided to ditch school. But I was stupid then, I chose to wander around the school neighborhood. I was easily discovered by my teachers and was punished. My mother spanked me when I returned home and said I was stupid. She said I should never have admitted truancy; I could have pretended to be scared and told the teachers that I wanted to go home instead. In that way, I could have escaped the punishment. I have smartened up since then”. Other members were willing to share their experiences after they heard Wai’s childhood experience. Workers’ analysis i) Moral Development Theory According to Kohlberg’s (1981) theory of moral development, workers found that Wai’s moral development remained in the “preconventional morality” phase. People who remain in this phase of moral development focus on their own personal interest and do their utmost to avoid punishment. They also judge their behavior by the result achieved. Wai focused only on her own personal benefit. She would use her intelligence to achieve personal gain and escape from punishment. Wai had gradually become a proactive aggressor. ii) Social Learning Theory Proactive aggressive behavior is a learned behavior. Role models of proactive aggressors (such as their parents) also tend toward aggression. Their families encourage them to use aggressive behavior to resolve conflicts and for personal gain (Boxer &Tisak, 2003; Vitaro, Barker, Boivin, Brendgen, & Tremblay, 2006). Workers usedthe ABC concept to understand Wai’s past experience and the beliefs behind her proactive aggressive behavior. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 145 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors (C) Behavioral Response (A) Anticipated event (B) Belief Punished by school and mother for her truancy I’ll get punished if I am stupid. I have smarten up to avoid punishment. Honesty is a foolish behavior. Learned to disguise guilt, avoid responsibilities. (C) Emotional Response Chose not to feel. There was not enough information for workers to assess whether Wai’s mother was a proactive aggressor and whether she was Wai’s aggressive role model. However, for certain, Wai’s mother ignored the seriousness of her daughter’s delinquent behavior (truancy). She also taught Wai to use her “intelligence” to escape punishment; otherwise, Wai would be considered stupid. Wai learned proactive aggression through the social learning process. She mastered strategies that were favorable to her and, at the same time, guarded against any possible adverse effects. Fourth Session: Assignment Sharing - “Talent Show” Group Activities: Session 4 (Please refer to the DVD, Part III, Proactive aggressors – 2. Initial stage of the treatment group, and 3. Explanation by Dr. Annis Fung.) Group process and case description Workers charted members feelings in relation toeach incident and assessed their behaviors accordingly: Member:Incident Wai On Ying Hung Yee Chun Wai: More than 10 people surrounded me after I kicked someone in a ball game. Relaxed Lonely Guilty Frustrated Frightened Frustrated On: Went home alone after detention. Relaxed Lonely Lonely Rage Lonely Frustrated Chun: Hit teammate’s head with a soccer ball. Relaxed Guilty Guilty Satisfied Satisfied Satisfied Ying: Pulled prank on a teacher Relaxed Secure Satisfied Satisfied Satisfied Satisfied Hung: School life Relaxed Secure Relaxed Lonely Secure Satisfied Yee: Talked to friends after school. Relaxed Relaxed Relaxed Satisfied Secure Satisfied 146 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Wai presented the same emotion in relation to different incidents. Members’ incidents did not seem to affect her emotionally, therefore she chose “relaxed” as her emotion throughout the group activity. But at the end of the group activity, Wai became noticeably agitated. She was dissatisfied with the behavior and explanations of Ms. Wu, the worker. Wai felt that Ms. Wu did not express genuine emotions during the activity, but rather made up nonsense instead. At the beginning, Ms. Wu proclaimed that she felt “guilty” over her performance at work. Wai questioned Ms. Wu’s explanation because she believed that being dissatisfied with work performance would only bring frustration. Thus, she immediately opposed Ms. Wu’s guilt feeling. Ms. Wu understood that Wai was genuinely expressing her feeling and opinion and was not purposely challenging the workers. Therefore, Ms. Wu reconsidered the incident and the emotion she felt in response to it. Ms. Wu explained the reason that she felt guilt was that she worried whether she would have a positive influence on the group. Wai was restored to calm after hearing Ms. Wu’s explanation. During the remainder of the session, members were much more enthusiastic than before. Workers’ analysis Proactive aggressors are emotionally cold and callously unemotional. They lack empathy towards others. Without personal experiences of negative emotion, it is very difficult for them to express their core beliefs. Workers had observed Wai’s emotion from the beginning of Session 1 through half of Session 4 and found that she rarely had mood swings and seldom used emotion-related words. But when Ms. Wu sincerely addressed her emotion, Wai was no longer in different as before. Such change helped workers assess Wai’s irrational beliefs and, at the same time, helped Wai get in touch with her true feelings. According to the experiences described by Wai in Session 2, workers assumed Wai held a core belief of “I am not worthy”. Wai responded withrage when she thought Ms. Wu did not respect her. Workers continued to assess Wai, and tried to confirm her underlying core belief “I am not worthy”. Wai cognitively believed that a person would not be respected and recognized by others if he/she were unwise and performed poorly.Wai cognitively believed a person’s “value” is purely reflected by the result of the person’s performance. Thus, when the worker referred to her own guilt feeling towards her job performance, Wai subjectively felt that frustration was the “appropriate” emotional response, and therefore she assumed that the worker was not genuineand she lost respect for her. Wai projected her core belief in her response towards the worker. The worker then gave a sincere explanation of her situation and clarified the reason behind her guilt feeling towards her job performance. Moreover, workers restored Wai’s respect for the group members and refuted Wai’s thought of “not being respected by others”. Wai was restored to calm thereafter. In addition, workers cared and valued each member as individuals, positively tearing down the self-centered and benefit-oriented characteristics of proactive aggressors. Workers’ sincerity touched Wai. After this session, Wai established good relationship with workers and was willing to express her feelings within the group. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 147 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors 3. Early Mid-Stage of Group Treatment This section briefly describes detection of members’ irrational beliefs during the early mid-stage of treatment. Workers used various activities to have members learn the ABC conceptand to encourage members to use the concept to identify the irrational beliefs behind their behaviors and emotions. Activities were also used to help members understand the negative effect of these irrational beliefs. Workers used mainly Ellis’s 12 irrational beliefs to illustrate the ABC concept, whereas Beck’s cognitive concept was applied to assessment of cases. Fifth Session: “Scenario – If I were Chris, I would…” Group process and case description Proactive aggressors are smart. It’s fairly easy for them to grasp and understand the ABC concept. Workers used scenarios not only to teach members the ABC concept, but also to assess members’ irrational beliefs. Workers grouped members together with similar behavioral and emotional responses to allow them to express themselves freely and thus foster discussion among group members. Wai was asked to put herself in the following scenario: “Ming wanted to get some snacks at the truck shop just before the end of the recess. He found himself without money when he got there. He saw a classmate who had just bought the snacks that he wanted. The recess was almost over. Ming would…” Wai expressed that if she were Chris“I would first find out who that person is. If he/she has no one backing him/her, I would act accordingly.” Workers asked Wai to clarify what she meant by ‘act accordingly’. She said,“I would ask the person politely if he/she recognizes me? I believe he/she would give me the snacks voluntarily if he/she knows me. If his/her answer is negative, he/she will be miserable! I will “season” his/her snacks so that he/she will know who I am in the future. Ha ha!” Workers realized that Wai’s response to the anticipated event (A) ‘Refused by others to share snacks” could help workers and Wai understand the irrational belief behind her proactive aggressive behavior. Therefore workers used this as a new event to ask Wai about her beliefs behind the emotional response. How Wai thought and felt during the incident is illustrated as follows: (C) Behavioral Response (A) Anticipated event Refused by other to share snacks. (B) Belief I am not respected. Ruin the other’s food so he/ she cannot enjoy it either. (C) Emotional Response Rage 148 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Workers’ analysis Workers must have a clear understanding of the ABC concept, because members could easily mix up the event, beliefs, and responses. Workers should help members to distinguish the differences between them. The objectives of the group activities were to have members to debate their irrational beliefs. Therefore, members must have a strong understanding of the concept in order to achieve the objective. Experiencing negative emotions (such as rage, frustration) provides a good opportunity to help member identify their own beliefs. Wai felt angry because she thought others did not respect her. A situational question,What does not being respected by others mean?, was posed by workers to help members identify their own beliefs. Wai believed only an unworthy person would be ignored and disrespected. Workers empathized, “A person would feel constantfear if he/she possessed such a belief. He/she could not make a mistake at any time without thinking others considered him/her stupid and worthless; thus, he/she dare not make a mistake.” Wai nodded her head to show agreement. In comparison to feeling relaxed at the beginning of the session, Wai was definitely dispirited after the workers’ comment. From Wai’s reaction, workers believed she agreed with workers assessment of her belief. Wai realized in the group sharing session that she had been,through her aggressive behavior, forcing others to admire her. She felt valued when otheradmired her. Thus, in choosing from among Ellis’s (1977) 12 irrational beliefs in another activity, she selected “It is horrible when things are not the way I like them to be”, “We should be thoroughly competent, intelligent, and successful in all possible respects”, and “We must have certain and perfect control over things”. Wai’s choices reflected that she valued “competency” highly. She believed an incompetent person to be stupid and unableto complete any task effectively, nor be respected by others. Such a person would be considered worthless without others’ recognition and respect. Beck’s (1995) cognitive concept tables provide a clear and specific theoretical framework to assist workers in assessing members’ core beliefs, intermediary schemas, and automatic thoughts. According to the data collected from the initial stage of the group treatment, workers were able to use cognitive concepts tables to assess Wai’s core beliefs and intermediary schemas: Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 149 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Name: Wai Age: 2 to14 years Background: Wai is smart, familiar with underworld, drugs; a peer leader. Related Childhood Information Mother normalized Wai’s delinquent behavior. Moral development remained in the preconventional morality phase. Her mother believed only the stupid would suffer a negative outcome after wrong doing. Core Belief I am unworthy Hypothetical Situation/Belief/Rules “I am incompetent if others do not admire me”. “It is horrible when things are not the way I like them to be”. “We should be thoroughly competent, intelligent, and successful in all possible respects”. “We must have certain and perfect control over things”. Compensation Strategies Seize opportunities or create your own opportunities to outshine others. Situation 1 Situation 2 Situation 3 In the hallway, Ming (Ah wei) and a friend bumped into a classmate who the friend hates. Ah wei was refused by another student (student would not share snack). In the washroom, met a classmate who she hates (Ah wei’s own experience). Automatic Thoughts Automatic Thoughts Opportunities come;I will put myself forward. Meaning behind Automatic Thoughts I am unworthy. Refusalis the same as no respect Meaning behind Automatic Thoughts Automatic Thoughts I’ll make that classmate disappear to show my power over others Meaning behind Automatic Thoughts I am unworthy I am unworthy. Emotional Response Uneasy Emotional Response Emotional Response Uneasy, feeling inferior Rage Behavioral Response - Forcefully bumped into theclassmate - Glared atthe classmate with a look of disdain - Made fun of the classmate Behavioral Response Behavioral Response - Ruined other’s food so he/she could not enjoy it either -Ganged up with friend to threaten the classmate - Extorted money from the classmate Cognitive concept chart – Wai (Beck, 1995) 150 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Group Activities: Session 6 (Please refer to the DVD, Part III, Proactive aggressors – 4. Early mid-stage of the treatment group, and 7. Explanation by Dr. Annis Fung) Sixth Session: Viewing the program ‘The Road Back - Overact’* *‘The Road Back–Overact’ episode #10, RTHK Group process and case description Most of the members concentrated on watching the video. Members questioned the severe consequences of the protagonist’s behavior. Workers assured members thatthe story accurately reflected a realsituation and that they hoped to provide an objective view to facilitate group discussion. Workers and members discussed some of the intriguing segments of the video. It was easy for members to comprehend the negative consequences of aggressive and bullying behaviors, such asloss of freedom and friends, etc. Moreover, activities conducted in the initial stage of the group treatment focused on stimulating members’ emotion. Therefore, members were able to understand and were willing to express their feelings upon arrival at the mid-stage of treatment. For example, Wai remarked that to her the most profound element of the video was the parents’ concern, disappointment, and sadness over the protagonist. At the end of the group sharing session, members were able to apply the ABC concept to the protagonist with help from workers. In the process, members were able to accurately analyze the anticipated event (A), belief (B), behavior (C), and emotion (C). Members were asked to reflect on the belief (B) behind the bullying behavior. Wai believed that the protagonist bullied others simply because he/she wanted to prove his/her competency. Wai was aware that she and the protagonist shared a similar belief: that they felt worthy and valued when others admired them. We could see that Wai had started to apply the ABC concept to identify her own belief. Workers’ analysis Proactive aggressors tend to evaluatethe consequences of their behavior positively. Workers hoped to use a real life story to influence members cognitively and have them understand the consequences of bullying in an objective manner. The objective reality was that aggressive behaviors brought negative consequences. Workers used objective reality – one must bear legal responsibilities when one has committed a crime–to create internal pressure and to the members’ sense of urgency toward changing their beliefs and behaviors. Although the video provided objective evidence for members to understand the consequences of bullying, members were somewhat dissociated from the situation because it was someone else’s incident. As the group advanced through stages of development into maturity, workers switched the approach from “dissociated” to “personalized” in the middle stage of treatment. This meant that the activities would be used simply to facilitate discussion, and that the focus would be placed on the process of self-exploration and self-understanding. Hence, workers made use of members’ projection onto the protagonist and helped members understand their own beliefs and motivation behind their bullying behavior–which was to prove their competence and worthiness. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 151 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors At the same time, the worker managed to help Wai identify her parents’ feeling as matching that of the parents in the video and help herrealize what these feelings would have meant to her. It became important for Wai to know her parents would be heartbroken over her bullying behavior, and thus she felt the urgency to change her view of bullying. Workers believed that her parents’ point of view and feelings would be the positive reinforcement Wai needed to reduce her bullying behavior. 4. Mid-Late Stage of Group Treatment This session briefly describes the mid-late stage of the group treatment. Members would have detected their irrational beliefs and felt the urge to change in the early mid-stage of treatment. Therefore, in the mid-late stage of treatment, workers focus on helping members to discriminate and debate these irrational beliefs. Workers use the fair, reasonable, and rightful concept to allow members to discriminate and debate these irrational beliefs. It is necessary to couple debate with behavioral exercises in order to construct new rational beliefs and emotional and behavioral responses. Seventh Session: Assignment Sharing – “The Fair, Reasonable, and Rightful Concept” Group process and case description Jane was the leader of a clique, and she led the clique to bully, threaten, and blackmail another person. This was a real-life bullying case. She had to bear the legal consequences of criminal charges in facing imprisonment. Through role-playing in the last session, members (roles include Jane’s parents, victims, judge, etc.) were able to altertheir views and feelings towards bullying. Worker conceptualized members’ argument into a fair, reasonable, and rightful concept. In the aspect of “fair”, members believed “Jane” felt guilty towards her baby (Janelearned of her pregnancy during the trial). Because of her, the innocent child would not enjoy a normal childhood but would have to stay with the mother in jail. In the aspect of “rightful”, big sister going to prison was definitely a negative consequence of the incident. Members had begun to realize the negative consequences of aggressive behavior. However, it was much more difficult for members to comprehend the “reasonable” aspect. Workers’ analysis Proactive aggressors tend to ignore the negative consequences of aggressive behaviors, they lack of empathy towards others, and they focus on “benefits”. Therefore, workers used “fair” (empathy), “reasonable” (social ethics, beliefs with objective evidence), “rightful” (consequences), as three starting points to target irrational beliefs underlying proactive aggressive behavior. Workers used the three symbols, namely the angel, police, and judge, coupled with the concept of rational thoughts to expand members’ cognitive potential. We noted members’ emotional and cognitive changes through their point of view. In the initial stage, members did not want to get in touch with their feelings. They did not express guilt or uneasiness. In the mid-stage, members began to see things from others’ perspectives and were able to empathize with others. The cognitive change in their beliefs allowed members to acknowledge that the consequences of their bullying behavior would in fact negatively affect themselves and those they care about. These changes helped membersdebate their irrational beliefs. Members shared similar “reasonable” beliefs with Jane. Members might have held these beliefs since they were young. They subjectively thought these beliefs were “reasonable”. So it was difficult for them to interpret “unreasonable”. 152 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Eighth Session: “Discussion on Irrational Beliefs” (Assignment - Part I) Group Activities: Session 8 (Please refer to the DVD, Part III, Proactive aggressors – 5. Mid-late stage of the treatment group, and 7. Explanation by Dr. Annis Fung) Group process and case description Workers noticed Wai was a bit hesitant. She struggled between “irrational” and “rational” groups at the beginning of the session when she was asked to join a group. Finally, workers assigned her to the rational group. The group came into maturity in the late mid-stage. Under an environment of mutual respect, members were able to confront others’ irrational beliefs directly. Wai and her group considered their behaviors to be fair, as these behaviors would not be discovered nor bring about negative consequences. They believed it was reasonable for them to act aggressivelyif they were notliked by others. In terms of rightfulness, they thought their friends would question their competence if they did not use aggressive behavior. Hence, they considered their aggressive behaviors to be fair, reasonable and rightful. The irrational group gave examplesof “famous” students at school to illustrate the reality of bearingthe negative consequences (legal consequences) of their delinquent behaviors. The legal consequences illustrate the nonrightful aspect of aggressive behavior. Furthermore, members refuted the argument put forward by Wai’s group on the reasonable aspect (valuing the feeling of someone you care about). They remarked that aggressors’ family members would feel sad and disappointed over theaggressors’ behaviors. Workers wished to further strengthen the perspective on fairness, so they introduced intervention activities to enhance the positive influence of families members. Workers’ analysis Workers noticed that Wai ‘s irrational beliefs had started to waver. Workers finally assigned Wai to the rational group in the hope that she could establish rational belief through confrontation with members (having her irrational belief refuted directly by members). In reality, the process of debate is not something that can be successful in a few words. During the group session and from time to time, workers noticed that Wai cared very much about her mother’s feeling. In the process of debate, workers hoped Wai would face the rage, disappointment, and worry of the people she cares about, then change her behavior and irrational beliefs, starting from the aspect of fairness. Workers then used the real-life examples, such as the protagonist from “The Road Back”, Jane, and someone members knew to illustrate the aspect of “rightfulness” to help members construct a reasonable and objective judgment. Members subjectively deemed their beliefs as“reasonable”. In situations like this, workers, through discussion,were able tohelp members recall how these “reasonable” beliefs were formed so that members would understand that the “reasonable” beliefs that they always held developed simply out of their childhood experiences, out of family influence, or by cross referencing between friends. Workers were able to broaden members’ perspectives and helpthem to see “reasonable” from another point of view, such as fairness, justice, or with objective evidence. In the process, workers were able to coach members to reflect on their own exceptional experiences, such as placing others’ feelings and interests above their own. Recalling these exceptional experiences encouraged members to see “reasonable” from a whole new perspective. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 153 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Wai’s new belief–“I can prove my competence through positive behavior”–is rational. It is rational because Wai came to believe that she posseses other abilities besides bullying. She would be able to demonstrate her worthiness in a positive manner and prove her own value publicly. Her new belief would not bring about negative consequences, and it took into consideration the feelings of the people she cares about. Thus, Wai started to embrace rational beliefs of her own. During behavioral training, workers encouraged Wai to apply her abilities in a positive and proper manner.During the past week, Wai was actively involved in a class activity. Wai’s ability was confirmed by teachers and classmates with the compliments she received for organizing class activities. This success reinforced her rational belief. Wai now believes she does not need classmates to admire her to prove her value. She can apply her abilities in a positive way to be convinced of her own value and be appreciated by others. 5. Late Stage of Group Treatment This session will describe the late stage of the group treatment. Members successfully debatedtheir irrational beliefs during the mid-stage. In this later stage, members will use behavioral training to strengthen their rational beliefs. Ninth Session: “Incident Recall” Group Activities: Session 9 (Please refer to the DVD, Part III, Proactive aggressors – 6. Late stage of the treatment group, and 7. Explanation by Dr. Annis Fung) Group process and case description Workers Applied the GAI technique to have members focuson a past bullying incident and have them identify themselves as the victim. Workers encouraged members to review the entire incident as it developed in order for them to form a new perspective on bullying. Wai shared a bullying incident of hers. On one occasion, she deliberately hung around a park next to her school, thenshe ambushed and threatened a classmate she hated. She managed to re-live the incident through application of GAI. In the process, she saw the victim scream, continue apologizing, and begher stop. Furthermore, for the first time, Wai began to identify the victim’s feelings of fear, and helplessness during the incident.In the process, members realized they never had put themselves in the victims’ shoes, that they had harmed the victims, and that theyhad impacted victims’ lives negatively. Workers’ analysis Proactive aggressors lack empathy towards victims, or they misunderstand their victims. From real-life events and memories of their bullying behavior, proactive aggressors were able to comprehend their victims’ feelings and the negative effects they had on these victims. Such practice could correct members’ perception of their victims and help members reconstruct their feelings of empathy. 154 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors After the debate on irrational beliefs and after practicein enhancing emotional responses, Wai’s and members’ emotional responses were noticeably enhanced. Workers encouraged Wai to share her changes with members; at the same time Wai would serve as a good role model for the group. Members’ behavioral and emotional responses changed from those of the past because of the changes in their irrational beliefs. Empathy is an appropriate behavior modification practice for proactive aggressors. Behavior modification is a method of behavior substitution by using a new, functional behavioral pattern to substitute for the dysfunctional behavioral pattern. The proactive aggressive behaviors of members in the past were considered dysfunctional behaviors. Empathy training allowed members to understand their emotions. Through activities, members were able to further identify the victims’ emotions and the effectsthe bullying had on them. By the end, members felt empathy for their victims and thereby would change their aggressive behaviors. Tenth Session: “Turn Over a New Leaf” Group process and case description In the last session of the group treatment, workers once again distributed a human-shaped worksheet. Workers asked members to write down the differences that members saw in themselves between the present and 3 months earlier. Wai wrote the following: Personal improvement and things learned • To think fairly, reasonably, and rightfully • To empathize with others, and to takethe consequences into account • To have high expectations and goals • Not to bully others • Not to violate rules • Do my best to make my mother happy, such as study harder Workers’ analysis Workers emphasized members’ ability to become fair, reasonable, and rightful leaders before the end of the group treatment. We could seethat Wai fully understood the concept of rational belief, especially the aspects of fairness and rightfulness from her self-evaluation (on the worksheet) derived. These positive changes effectively reduced her proactive aggressive behavior. Self–evaluation helped members consolidate their successful experiences and strengthen their confidence toward maintaining changes. In addition, the encouragement between workers and members fostered new behaviors. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 155 Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors V. Effectiveness The table below shows results data collected from proactive aggressor treatment groups in Hong Kong secondary schools. Proactive aggressor treatment groups: Results of student self-reports(Pre-test–Post-test) Pre-test – Post-test Valid sample size# Mean difference+ t-value Aggressive behavior 30 3.47 2.87* Delinquent behavior 30 2.70 4.20** Proactive aggressive behavior 29 3.24 3.20* Reactive aggressive behavior 29 2.35 2.48* # Valid sample size: the number of students who completed both pre- and post-tests +A positive value of mean difference represents a decrease of mean score while a negative one represents an increase of mean score *p<0.05**p<0.01 Aggressive behavior, delinquent behavior, proactive aggressive behavior, and reactive aggressive behavior of these group members were all significantly reduced after the completion of the group treatment. The data indicate that behavior of proactive aggressors improved significantlyin all aspect of behavioral performance after completion of treatment. The group treatment proved to be effective in helping proactive aggressors. 156 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 4 Treatment Group - Proactive Aggressors Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 157 Chapter 5: Reactive Aggressors 158 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Chapter 5: Treatment Group – Reactive Aggressors I. Application of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Related Theories 1. Social Information Processing Model (Please refer to Chapter 2) In the first step of the Social Information Processing (SIP) model, reactive aggressors tend to receive aggressive external cues selectively (e.g., saw classmate whispering, then laughing), and ignore their wider surroundings. In the second step of the process, reactive aggressors often judge others’ motives in relation to their previous experiences of bullying or teasing (e.g., Suspected fallen photo). Therefore, they perceive the scene with cognitive and irrational distortions, which result in hostile attributional biases. Reactive aggressors often perceive threats from the outside; they interpret their peers’ neutral behavior (for example, an unintentional put-down by others will be interpreted as a deliberate act against them) as hostile and aggressive behavior, which will cause them harm. 2. Attribution Theory Reactive aggressors often attribute their difficulties and problems to external factors; they choose to remain aloof, and are unwilling to take responsibilities or bear the consequences of their actions (Andreou, 2001). Their social skills are generally poor (Anderson, 1989; Mynard, & Joseph, 1997). Therefore, they tend to respond to social conflicts with violent or aggressive behavior to protect themselves, or retaliate against their peers. As reactive aggressors’ processing of social information is cognitively distorted, they can become suddenly out of control, disturb the order of the class, and be excluded by peers. Reactive aggressors also possess hostile attribution tendencies. They have a cognitively distorted view of situations, and subjectively believe that the situations they face are threatening to them, or that things will not occur as expected, which can trigger angry emotions and violence (Pulkkinen, 1996; Salmivalli & Nieminen, 2002). Therefore, they will readily interpret others’ behavior as hostile and aggressive when encountering social problems. Even if others’ actions are not harmful, they will retaliate physically and emotionally to protect themselves. 3. Application of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (Please refer to Chapter 2 for cognitive behavioral therapy) Workers have integrated both Beck’s Cognitive Therapy (CT) and Ellis’s Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) into the treatment of reactive aggressors. Ellis’s A-B-C concept and irrational beliefs are specific and clear, and workers can utilize this concept to help members understand that their behavior and perceptions are influenced by their beliefs. In addition, cognitive distortions are often seen in reactive aggressors’ automatic thoughts. Beck classified cognitive distortions into the thinking errors listed below. Hence, in addition to using Beck’s CT in case assessment, workers will also introduce thinking errors to members to help them identify the distortions in their beliefs. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 159 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Outline of the CBT-based Treatment Group for Reactive Aggressors: Session Application of CBT Program objectives 1 Establish trust and rapport. Reactive aggressors are very sensitive to their surroundings, always suspicious, lacking in self-confidence, and with low self-esteem. It is therefore crucial to establish a relationship with reactive aggressors to help them feel secure in the group, reduce their vigilance toward workers and members, and increase their sense of belonging to the group. 2 Identify members’ automatic thoughts and emotional and behavioral responses. Reactive aggressors have a tendency toward hostile attributional biases. They easily become angry, anxious, and uncomfortable around their peers and often argue with others. Being understanding and responsive can help members to make accurate and comprehensive assessments about their irrational beliefs. Educate members about Ellis’s A-B-C concept. Use common and neutral campus situations to facilitate discussion. Allow members to understand that different people will react differently to similar events because they hold different beliefs, thus the outcomes may be quite different. Detect members’ irrational beliefs. Use interpersonal conflict scenarios that are often encountered by reactive aggressors to detect their irrational beliefs. Identify members’ irrational beliefs. Cognitive distortions often appear in the automatic thoughts of reactive aggressors. These mind traps will bring out their negative behavior and emotions. The treatment group aims to help members acknowledge these mind traps, and thus understand their irrational beliefs. 3 4 5 6-7 Debate members’ irrational beliefs Because reactive aggressors have rigid beliefs, they think directly and seldom see things from other perspectives. Therefore, encouraging members to use a multi-angled analysis approach can help them to debate their irrational beliefs, and understand that different people have different beliefs and opinions. Only a variety of opinions from different people can open their minds and lead them to speculate about different possibilities, therefore members are encouraged to consider and take others’ beliefs into account, and to help them establish their own rational beliefs in the subsequent activities. 8 Formulate a new and effective rational belief with a new set of emotional and behavioral responses Members will learn to vent emotion, strengthen their ability to see things from different perspectives, open their minds, and speculate about different possibilities through debate, to help them establish rational beliefs and emotional and behavioral responses. 160 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors 9 10 Behavioral assignment: Social skills and assertiveness training. Reactive aggressors can easily get into interpersonal miscommunication difficulties because of their lack of appropriate social skills. They feel misunderstood and alienated. Because they are unable to relate to others, more social problems will occur, and it becomes a vicious circle. Through the “I-Message” behavior training, members are encouraged to express their personal feelings and expectations, to reduce miscommunication and conflicts with others. Termination and relapse prevention. Review the group’s progress and praise members on the changes they have made, to consolidate their successful experiences. II. Preparation for the Treatment Group Each group member will attend a pre-group interview prior to attending the treatment group. Questionnaire data and interviews can reveal the cognitive, behavioral, and emotional characteristics of group members. Therefore, workers are advised to analyze the questionnaire and the content of the pre-group interviews carefully to gain insight into group members’ characteristics, and to provide targeted counseling accordingly. 1. Questionnaire The clinical scores below are from Wai’s pre-group interview. Workers can analyze the scores from cognitive, behavioral, and emotional aspects. Behavioral Aspect: Rating Scale Aggressive Behavior (Total score: 38) Proactive Aggression (Total score: 24) Reactive Aggression (Total score: 22) Delinquent Behavior (Total score: 22) Score 36 4 18 10 Wai scored 36 on the “aggressive behavior” index, which is very close to the maximum and suggests that he frequently uses aggressive behavior. Wai scored 4 for “proactive aggressive behavior” and 18 for “reactive aggressive behavior”, implying that he was a reactive aggressor. Although delinquent behavior is also seen in reactive aggressors, it is much less severe in comparison with proactive aggressors. Wai’s “delinquent behavior” index was 10. Although this is higher than the clinical indicator/index (male: 8 points, female: 7 points), the score is not particularly high in comparison with proactive aggressors. Based on the data above, Wai would be classified as a reactive aggressor. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 161 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Emotional Aspect: Rating Scale Anger Response (Total: 16) Anger Personality (Total: 16) Anger Trait (Total: 40) Anger Internalized (Total: 32) Anger Externalized (Total: 32) Anger Control (Total: 32) Anger Expressed (Total: 48) Score 16 14 38 11 27 12 47 According to the data, Wai had very strong personality and trait anger (his scores on both indexes were virtually at ceiling), reflecting that he was prone to anger. When he felt angry, he was rarely able to suppress his emotions (anger internalized:11 points), and tended to express himself through aggressive behavior (anger externalized: 27 points) and venting his emotions (anger expressed: 47 points). He was also weak in controlling his anger (anger control score = 12, where higher scores indicate better control). 2. Interviews with Students Wai was asked about some possible campus situations in the interview, including a violent or aggressive situation, and a neutral situation. Students were required to put themselves in the protagonist’s shoes, and to imagine their behavior and emotions in the situation. Workers were able to learn more about the student’s cognitive distortions through the interview. The Following is a Violent or Aggressive Situation. 1. 2. Workers asked students to describe and explain what happened in the above two pictures. Wai quickly put himself into the context and imagined he was one of the students in the picture. He said the fight started when he was playing basketball with his peers during recess and was knocked down by one of them. He demanded an apology but was denied. Not only had the student refused to apologize to him, he even pushed him. Wai shouted out in rage, rushed toward the student and punched him. Wai’s response reflects his fixed mindset and his belief that others intentionally provoke and attack him. Unlike proactive aggressors, who use aggressive behavior to gain personal benefits or power, he fought back simply because he was extremely angry and had lost control. Workers then asked Wai if he was ever afraid of being punished for fighting. He replied that teachers would not listen to his explanation anyway, and he was so accustomed to being punished at school that he did not mind being given another punishment. Wai’s comment reflects his belief that teachers are unreliable and untrustworthy. Hence, he believed he had to resort to his own methods of solving problems. However, this only aggravates a vicious circle. 162 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors The Following Describes a Neutral Situation. “A group of students was gathered together looking at and discussing photos of their recent trip. They were whispering and laughing, which caught Man’s attention. The students quietened down when they heard the endof-recess bell ringing. Man suddenly became furious and walked toward the group of students. He yelled at them, attacked them, and ordered them to hand over the photos of him falling down.” Workers asked Wai about the photos the students were looking at. Wai believed they were looking at photos of a man falling down. When asked to explain Man’s reaction, Wai remarked that Man had become a laughing stock and his reaction was to stop others from teasing him. Wai believed there was nothing wrong with Man’s reaction because he was only using his own method to solve the problem. From the beginning, Wai interpreted the nonaggressive and neutral situation as an aversive situation with malicious teasing and aggressive behavior. Wai’s reaction shows that he had serious cognitive distortions, and he tended to selectively perceive offensive clues. When he heard other students whispering and laughing, he would interpret this neutral situation as aggressive behavior. Furthermore, Wai shared the characteristics of reactive aggressors, who often rationalize aggressive behavior and believe aggression is the only way to solve problems. Later on, workers asked Wai how he would feel and react if he were Man. Wai remarked that he would be inflamed with anger and would not hesitate to snatch the camera from the students. Thus, Wai would distort the situation, become very angry, and respond with impulsive aggressive behavior. 3. Conclusion As a reactive aggressor, Wai had a serious hostile attributional bias; he interpreted a neutral context as an aggressive situation in which others deliberately attacked him, or intentionally embarrassed him. He often thinks others are hostile toward him, thus he responds with anger and aggressive behavior. However, as reactive aggressors have characteristic cognitive distortions, workers should first identify which step of their SIP has gone wrong, then help them to open their minds and speculate about different possibilities; for instance, by helping them to see that the situation was just an accident and not intentional, thereby reducing their anger. Workers could design group activities based on situations that reflect the characteristics and personal experiences mentioned in Wai’s interview. Such activities can help to develop more in-depth counseling and would be more agreeable to Wai’s beliefs, behavior, and emotions. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 163 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors III. Content of the Reactive Aggressor Group (A) Session: First Session Theme: A new beginning for leadership. Aim: 1. Building up trust and a sense of security between workers and group members. 2. Developing codes of practice and regulations together. 3. Sharing expectations about joining the group. 4. Letting participants understand the objectives and contents of these activities, and their roles and goals Activity Self-introduction Duration 10 minutes Objectives 1. Ice-breaking activities to enhance the group atmosphere. 2. Getting to know each of the group members. Procedure Members introduce their names and use a gesture to present themselves, then other members repeat the gesture and name before passing on to the next one. Activity Number Calling Duration 15 minutes Objectives Concept Procedure 1. To help members get to know one another and build up a relationship. 2. To cultivate the habit of sharing among members. The number-calling game is another warm-up activity to enhance members’ level of participation. It helps to enhance members’ concentration in the group because they need to carefully listen to avoid losing the game. 1. Each member says a sequential number out loud. It can start with any member of the group and there is no limitation on who goes next. 2. When the activity starts, each member needs to say a number out loud and cannot repeat a number. The game is lost when two members say the same number at once, or whoever is the last one to say a number. 3. When someone loses the game, the activity starts again and the particular member is asked to share something about himself/herself (e.g. a hobby, food they like). When the member finishes sharing, workers lead the other members in applauding him. 164 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Activity Introduction to the Group Duration 10 minutes Objective To facilitate understanding of the content, objectives, and roles of the group. 1. Introduction to group content and objectives: Because this activity uses leadership training for promotion, the objective is for members to learn some new techniques • Understand thinking patterns • Understand their own way of thinking Procedure • Thinking techniques (multi-angled thinking pattern) • Control their emotions • Learn appropriate social skills 2. Introduction to roles: The members will act as leaders to apply the multi-angled thinking pattern techniques in school and influence others. Activity My Expectations of the Group Duration 30minutes Objective To share members’ personal expectations of the treatment group. Procedure Each member is given a “My Expectations” worksheet. 1. Participants are asked to draw their face and special features, and write down their personal expectations of the treatment group. 2. Take a photo of each member using a Polaroid camera and attach them to the worksheets. 3. When the worksheets are complete, the workers lead the sharing, with a focus on: • Members’ personality traits; • Members’ expectations and the reasons behind them; and • The factors necessary to achieve these expectations. 1. Colored pens Materials 2. Human-Shaped Worksheet (Class Assignment) 3. Glue stick 4. Polaroid camera and instant film Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 165 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Activity Codes of Practice Duration 10minutes Objective To set out regulations to ensure the smooth running of the group. 1. Following up on the previous activity, workers will guide members in setting out a code of practice to “assist one another in achieving their expectations.” Once agreed by all members, workers can write down these regulations, which should include the appropriate behavior and attitudes for the group, on a large piece of paper. 2. Upon completion and by consensus of the group, members are asked to sign and abide by the following basic codes of practice : Procedure • Not to hurt oneself or others; • Respect oneself and others; • Give positive feedback; • Participate actively in group activities; and • Appreciate and praise other members. Materials 1. Large pieces of paper 2. Colored pens Activity Debriefing and Handing out the Homework: “My Personal Blog” Duration 15 minutes Objectives 1. To debrief on the content of the group. 2. To reinforce members’ sense of belonging to the group. 3. To cultivate members’ habit of completing assignments. 4. To enhance members’ knowledge about each other. Procedure 1. Debrief on workers’ observations of each member’s performance and show appreciation of their positive performance. 2. Explain the “My Personal Blog” assignment. 3. Remind members that they will receive a small reward after finishing their assignment to enhance their motivation. Materials 166 “My Personal Blog” worksheet (Homework Assignment) Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Remarks 1. All of the participants are reactive aggressors. They are likely to hold hostile attributions toward neutral events and their impulsivity can easily lead them into conflicts with other members. Therefore, workers should divide their tasks and cooperate closely to handle conflicts and make plans for dealing with risky situations before starting the group. 2. Because conflicts can happen easily, it is better to avoid physical contact and competitive activities in the early stage of the group. 3. Because members have not yet developed group coherence, they may not wish to become involved in the activity. If members refuse to participate, workers need to encourage them to join in and allow space for them to observe, but it should not obstruct the group process. Individual follow-up may be necessary to understand a particular member’s situation. 4. Workers should give more compliments to members who show positive behavior. For example, when they are polite and help others, encourage others, are willing to share their feelings and experiences, handle conflicts calmly, and so on. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 167 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors First Session Class Assignment: Name:____________________ Human-shaped Worksheet If you were this picture, what would he/she be? Please draw yourself and your special characteristics on the picture and write down your expectations of the group. 168 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors First Session Homework Assignment: Name:____________________ My Personal Blog My name is ____________________________ My nickname is _________________________ My favorite hobby/hobbies is/are__________________________________________ My favorite food is ______________________________________________ My personality is ______________________________________________ Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 169 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors (B) Session: Second Session Theme: Exploration of the five senses Aim: 1. To enhance trust and relationships among group members. 2. To let members observe which of their senses is stronger. 3. To let members notice which senses they use to receive clues from their surroundings. Activity Homework Sharing: “My Personal Blog” Duration 15 minutes Objectives 1. To enhance trust and connection among members. 2. To cultivate a positive sharing atmosphere. 1. Members share their assignments. Sharing points: • The same interests and hobby Procedure • The same personalities • Examples that describe their personality in daily life 2. Workers need to compliment members who are willing to share and finish their assignments, and give out prizes for encouragement. Materials 1. Backup assignment (if members are unable to hand in their assignment, they can complete it immediately). 2. Small rewards. Activity Five Senses Test Duration 10 minutes for each test Objective Testing which sense is the strongest among members. Concept Each person receives outside information that helps them to encode social cues through the five senses (sight, hearing, taste, smell, and touch). Everyone has different sensitivity in their five senses, so different people interpret this information differently. Because reactive aggressors usually have hostile attributions and biases in interpreting information, and often ignore the outside environment when judging others’ intentions, they selectively interpret social cues and tend to rely on some senses, especially vision, more than others. They will make judgments and respond based only on what they see. Therefore, in this session we try to understand and access how they use their five senses and help them to receive information comprehensively using their sight, hearing, smell, taste, and touch. This can reduce conflict due to biases in interpreting information. 1. Individual testing. Procedure 2. Each member has an answer sheet and marks their own answers to the questions. 3. Explain the function and effects of our five senses in receiving information. 170 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Visual Test 1. Workers present pictures, some parts of which are enlarged, and ask members to guess what it is and write down their answers. 2. Workers can also print words to describe colors such as red, orange, yellow, but using a different color to print the words. For example, the word “yellow” printed in red, “purple” printed in orange, and so on. We can test members’ color sensitivity by asking them to name the color not the word. Materials • Five-senses answer sheet • Pictures for visual test • Worksheet with color words Smell Test 1. Workers puts things with different smells on a testing paper and ask members to identify what they are within a limited time (e.g., mosquito repellent, soya sauce, perfume). 2. Members write down their guesses on the answer sheet. Materials • Five-senses answer sheet • Paper for writing down answers Hearing Test 1. Workers play five different sounds from different objects (e.g., stirring, flushing, door closing),and ask members to guess what the sound is and write down their answer. 2. Workers can clap their hands in different positions behind members (above, below, right, left, and middle) and ask them to guess the correct position and record the number of correct answers. Materials • Five-senses answer sheet • Recorders Touch Test 1. Workers put objects with different textures into a bag. Members put their hand into the bag and guess what the object is and write down their answers (e.g., rubber, fruit, gloves, coins, etc.). Materials • Five-senses answer sheet • Different objects • Bags Taste Test 1. Workers prepare five soft drinks with similar color and flavor and members try to identify the different flavors with one taste of each drink. 2. Workers change the position of the drinks and members try again to identify the drinks using taste and write down their answers. Materials • Five-senses answer sheet (Class Assignment 1.1) • Five similar flavored soft drinks • Paper cups Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 171 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Result of FiveSenses Test 1. Check the answers and calculate scores. 2. Members share how they use their five senses in daily life. 3. Focus of the commentary: • To emphasize the relationship between the five senses and members’ daily lives. • To explain the effect of the five senses on receiving and interpreting outside information. • To develop an awareness that people have different sensitivity to the five senses and interpret information differently. Activity Debriefing and Handing out Homework: “Five-Senses Record” Duration 15 minutes Objectives 1. To debrief the group content. 2. To motivate members to finish their assignment. Procedure 1. Workers praise each members’ performance. 2. Explain the content of the home assignment: “Five Senses Record”, the objective of which is to enhance members’ awareness of the five senses in receiving information. 3. Remind members that they will receive a small reward if they finish their assignment. Materials “Five-senses record” worksheet (Class Assignment 1.2) Remarks 1. There may be competition among members in the five-senses tests, so workers should emphasize that the testing is about individual characteristics and there is no need to compare results. 2. Workers can assess the strength of members’ five senses through their daily use of words. For example, if members often say “I saw”, it means that their visual sense is stronger, or “I heard” means their hearing sense is stronger; “I thought or I felt” means their touch sense is stronger. 3. Workers can emphasize that each person has different strengths among their five senses, therefore as a leader they should use different senses to receive outside information comprehensively. 172 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Second Session Class Assignment 1.1: Name:____________________ Five-Senses Answer Sheet Please fill in your answers in the appropriate spaces below. 1. Visual Sense: What can you see? 1. _____________________________ 2. _____________________________ 3. _____________________________ 4. _____________________________ 5. _____________________________ 2. Smell Sense: What can you smell? 1. _____________________________ 2. _____________________________ 3. _____________________________ 4. _____________________________ 5. _____________________________ 3. Hearing Sense: What can you hear? 1. _____________________________ 2. _____________________________ 3. _____________________________ 4. _____________________________ 5. _____________________________ 4. Touch Sense: What object can you feel? 1. _____________________________ 2. _____________________________ 3. _____________________________ 4. _____________________________ 5. _____________________________ 5. Taste Sense: What flavor can you taste? 1. _____________________________ 2. _____________________________ 3. _____________________________ 4. _____________________________ 5. _____________________________ Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 173 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Second Session Class Assignment 1.2: Name:____________________ Five-senses Record Name:_______________________________ Please record one event you came across this week: In this event, I Felt Smelled Saw Heard 174 Tasted Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors (C) Session: Third Session Theme: Understand the ABC concept Aims: 1. To enhance members’ attention to their five senses. 2. To explain the ABC concept and the relationship between Activating Event (A), Belief (B), and Consequence (C). 3. To assess members’ irrational beliefs and attributions Activity Homework Sharing – “Five-Senses Record” Duration 15 minutes Objective To enhance members’ attention to the effect of the five senses on them. Procedure 1. Members share their assignments. Sharing points: • The recorded event. • What senses they used and how the senses affect the reception of social cues. • If they used other senses, would they view things differently? • Encourage members to use different senses to understand an event. 2. Give praise and rewards to members who finish their assignment and volunteer to share. Materials 1. Back-up homework (if members are unable to hand in their assignment, they can complete it immediately) 2. Small rewards Activity Exploring Situational Cues Duration 30 minutes Objectives 1. Brief introduction to personal beliefs. 2. Assessing members’ irrational beliefs. Concept After assessing members’ patterns of receiving information, workers can help them to change their routine responses and beliefs. Workers can also discuss some neutral situations in school, and assess members’ patterns of irrational beliefs and hostile attributions. They will be followed up later on in the group. Procedure 1. Workers will describe a neutral situation in school, such as “The teacher asks you to find her after school” or “A classmate calls your full name in the classroom”. Members are then divided into two groups to discuss the question: If the event happened to you, what would you think? 2. Workers can encourage members to use their five senses to find out more information and social cues. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 175 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Procedure 3. Members need to write down their thoughts on a large sheet of paper within ten minutes. They get one point if they can provide a reason for their thoughts. 4. Workers can assess whether there are any biases and hostile attributions in members’ thoughts. 5. The two groups then report the results of their discussion, and workers calculate the scores for each group and distribute rewards accordingly. Material 1. Large sheets of drawing paper 2. Colored pens 3. Rewards Activity Understanding the ABC Concept Duration 30 minutes Objective Enhance members’ understanding of the ABC concept Concept From the last activity, members will understand that different people can have different views of the same event, which may result indifferent consequences. We introduce the ABC concept to explain the relationship between belief and behavior, and help members to eliminate their past reactive behavior pattern. Procedure 1. Workers can use the last activity as an example to explain the ABC concept. Teaching points: • The ABC concept and its interactive relationship (give out ABC concept cards). • In an event (A), each person has their own beliefs (B), and different beliefs will lead to different consequences(C). • Members need to be aware of whether or not their beliefs are rational; having rational beliefs is the quality of a leader. 2. Workers can also encourage members to use examples from daily life to help them understand that the concept is closely related to them and to consolidate their understanding. Materials 1. ABC concept cards (Group Material) 2. “My Daily ABC” worksheet (Class Assignment) 176 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Activity Debriefing and Giving out the Homework: “The ABC of Events” Duration 15 minutes Objective To debrief the group content. Procedure 1. Appreciate members’ performance. 2. Explain the homework assignment “The ABC of Events”, the objective of which is to increase understanding of the concept of ABC and apply it to daily life. 3. Remind members to finish their assignments and that they will be given a small reward to motivate them. Materials “The ABC of Events” homework (Homework Assignment) Remarks 1. While participating in the activity of exploring situational cues in school situations, members are asked to write down their answers; however, some of them will relate to the process of, feelings about, or consequences of the event. For example, in response to “The teacher asks you to find her”, they may write “troublesome”, “disgusting”, or “hit her”, etc. However, “troublesome” and “disgusting” are feelings and “hit her” is a behavioral consequence. Correct answers may be something along the lines of “The teacher doesn’t want him to play football after school”, or “Something bad must have happened”. Workers need to encourage members to distinguish between events, thoughts, feelings, and consequences. 2. This is the first activity requiring group members’ interaction and cooperation, thus workers need to be aware of their participation and avoid certain members dominating or withdrawing from the group. Workers can show appreciation to members who are cooperative and show pro-social behavior, to enhance the coherence of the group and encourage appropriate interpersonal skills. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 177 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Third Session Group Material: Name:____________________ ABC Concept Card A (Activating Event) B (Beliefs) C (Consequences) I am the last one to receive the test paper She wants to embarrass me Angry, conflict with teacher 178 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Name:____________________ Third Session Class Assignment: My Daily ABC A (Activating Event) B (Beliefs) C (Consequences) My friend doesn’t answer my call. He/She is angry at me. Angry, get into an argument. My friend doesn’t answer my call. He/She may be busy. I will call later. My friend doesn’t answer my call. He/She doesn’t hear the call. Doesn’t matter. I will call later. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 179 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Third Session Homework Assignment: Name:____________________ The ABC of Events Record a negative event that happened this week. What happened? (Your A) _________________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________________ Your thoughts: (Your B) _________________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________________ Consequences, Your C (Please circle/write it down) Emotion: 1. Sad 2. Worried 3. Disgusted 4. Frightened 5. Angry 6. Regretful 7. Embarrassed 8. Disappointed 9. Troubled 10. Unknown Others: _______________________________________________________ Behavioral Consequences: 1. Nothing happened 2. Argument 3. Apology 4. Glowered at him/her 5. Ignored it 6. Teacher interfered 7. Hit him/her 8. Sought help 9. Scolded him/her Others: _______________________________________________________ 180 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors (D) Session: Fourth Session Theme: Irrational beliefs (Part 1) Aims: 1. To enhance members’ knowledge of the ABC concept. 2. To learn about thinking traps (irrational beliefs). 3. To enhance members’ awareness of irrational beliefs. Activity Homework Sharing: “The ABC of Events” Duration 5 minutes Objective Assess members’ understanding of the ABC concept. Procedure 1. Workers can use the home assignment as an example to help members understand the ABC concept clearly. 2. Sharing points: • How to record events encountered this week using the ABC concept; • Discuss the relationship between beliefs and consequences. 3. Workers give compliments and rewards to members who finish their assignment and participate in the sharing. Materials 1. Back-up assignment (if members are unable to hand in their assignment, they can complete it immediately). 2. Small rewards. Activity Watching a Video of Zidane – Reactive Emotional Response* Duration 15 minutes Objective 1. Enhance members’ understanding of the ABC concept. 2. Introduce irrational beliefs. Concept Once members have some understanding of the ABC concept, we can relate it to some examples of aggressive behavior. Using a video about an agitated emotional response, members can see that irrational beliefs can cause irreversible consequences. Procedure 1. Workers show a video about reactive agitated emotion. 2. Members are divided into two groups and are given “The ABC of the protagonist” worksheet. They can write down their analysis of the events in the video using the ABC concept. 3. The groups will then begin sharing. Sharing points: • In the video, what does Zidane believe? • Imagining you were Zidane, what did you see, hear, or feel to make you hold this belief? • What were the consequences for Zidane and what was his response? Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 181 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Procedure 4. Workers conclude by describing Zidane’s possible irrational beliefs and the consequences of sending him off from the game, and introduce the eight irrational beliefs. Materials Related video The ABC of the Protagonist (Class Assignment) *This video is about a famous football star, ZinedineZidane, acting out his emotion by head-butting another football player during the 2006 World Cup. Activity Learning about Irrational Beliefs(1) Duration 15 minutes Objective To understand the first four irrational beliefs. Concept According to CBT, each person has their own thinking ability. People assess the situation that they are facing through thinking and self-talking to become a rational and happy person. In contrast, if they have irrational beliefs, they will have negative thoughts and behavior. Therefore, the group uses psychological education to let members know what kinds of irrational beliefs they have and learn to amend them. Procedure 1. Workers will distribute “Know more about irrational beliefs (1)” to members. 2. Introduce three common cases of irrational beliefs as examples. • Magnifying the negatives and minimizing the positives: Exaggerating negatives, and downplaying your own, or other people’s strengths and assets, or a positive event or situation that you have experienced. • Black-and-white thinking: Seeing things in black and white (in extreme terms). That is, situations or circumstances are interpreted as being good or bad, all or nothing, positive or negative. There is no middle/common ground • Catastrophizing: Exaggerating the importance of things, especially negative situations. You make a big issue out of one negative experience 3. Workers ask members if they can recall holding any of the above irrational beliefs and give some real life examples. Materials Irrational beliefs cards (Group Material) Activity Discovering Thinking Traps: Video-sharing of “Love test” (please refer to the DVD, Part II, Scenario 13: “Love test”) Duration 30 minutes Objective To learn more about irrational beliefs. Concept After teaching some of the concepts relating to irrational beliefs, we discuss and apply them to some example school situations. Members reflect on themselves and others to see if they have irrational beliefs that affect their judgment and behavior. 182 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors 1. Workers show the “Love test” video and start a discussion. 2. Members are divided into two groups to write down the possible thoughts of the character in the video. 3. Members discuss whether the characters have irrational beliefs. Procedure 4. Finally, workers show different endings for members to discuss. Discussion points: • How to distinguish if thoughts are rational. • How individual beliefs lead to different consequences/responses. • Do members have other beliefs and ways of handling things? 1. “Love test” video Materials 2. Laptop 3. Projector 4. Projector Screen Activity Debriefing and Handing out the Homework: “Irrational Beliefs Observation Cards” Duration 15 minutes Objectives 1. Debrief the group content. 2. Develop the habit of finishing assignments. Procedure 1. Debrief on members’ performance, and praise their positive behavior and manner. 2. Explain the assignment: “Irrational beliefs observation chart”, the objective of which is to reinforce members’ attention to people who have irrational beliefs and responses. 3. Remind members to finish their assignments and that they may receive a small reward. Materials “Irrational beliefs observation card” worksheet. (Homework Assignment) Remarks 1. Workers should let members understand that everyone can have irrational beliefs, and that we need to recognize them to become rational leaders. 2. When sharing “ABC Events”, workers need to pay attention in case members confuse feelings, responses, and thoughts. If members say “I am angry and want to hit him”, workers can ask them “What did he/she do to make you hate him/her? What makes you feel so angry?”. Questions such as these help members to express their beliefs clearly. 3. When introducing irrational beliefs, if members want to share their own experiences, workers can use them for immediate discussion and prompt others to share similar irrational beliefs or different irrational beliefs. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 183 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Fourth Session Class Assignment: Name:____________________ The ABC of the Protagonist Situation: ___________________ Please record what happened in the video. You can see You can hear You can smell You can feel You can taste If you were the character in the video, what would you feel? Character’s instant response 184 Idea 1 Idea 2 Other response 1 Other response 2 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Fourth Session Group Material: Name:____________________ Know More About Irrational Beliefs(1) 1. Magnifying the negatives and minimizing the positives Exaggerating negatives, and downplaying your own, or other people’s strengths and assets, or a positive (sometimes negative) event or situation that you have experienced. Example: (a) the homework is very difficult so I cannot do it (magnifying the negatives), (b) not everywhere is dangerous at night (minimizing the negative). 2. Black-and-white thinking Seeing things in black and white (in extreme terms). That is, situations or circumstances are interpreted as being good or bad, all or nothing, positive or negative. There is no middle/common ground. Example: my mother doesn’t believe me so she calls to check on me. 3. Catastrophizing Exaggerating the importance of things, especially negative situations. You make a big issue out of one negative experience. Example: I am born to be disliked by others. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 185 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Fourth Session Homework Assignment: Name:____________________ “Irrational Beliefs Observation Card” Worksheet Please record an event that has happened to your friends/family, and try to analyze whether there are any irrational beliefs in their thoughts and responses. A. Event B. Belief Please circle possible irrational beliefs: 1. Magnifying the negatives and minimizing the positives 2. Black-and-white thinking 3. Catastrophizing C. Result/Response 186 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors (E) Session: Fifth Session Theme: Irrational Beliefs (2) Aims: 1. To deepen members’ understanding of irrational beliefs. 2. To reinforce members’ attention to their irrational beliefs. Activity Homework Sharing: “Irrational Beliefs Observation Cards” Duration 15 minutes Objectives To reinforce members’ knowledge about irrational beliefs Procedure 1. Members’ sharing. Sharing points: • Examples of other people’s irrational beliefs observed during the past week. • Other members can suggest how to change the negative consequences of their irrational beliefs. 2. Workers praise and give rewards to members who finish their assignment and are willing to share. Materials 1. Back-up assignment (if members are unable to hand in their assignment, they can complete it immediately) 2. Small rewards Activity Know More about Irrational Beliefs (2) Duration 15 minutes Objectives 1. Deepen members’ understanding of the first four irrational beliefs. 2. Introduce the other four irrational beliefs. Procedure 1. Workers will distribute “Know more about irrational beliefs(2)” and use some examples for explanation. • Overgeneralizing: judging an event based on only one small part of the event. • Mental Filter: Picking out a single negative detail from an unpleasant experience you may have had, and then dwelling exclusively on this negative detail. That is, you ignore the bigger picture and ‘filter out’ any positive aspects of the event. • Personalization: Taking responsibility or inappropriately blaming yourself for the cause of a negative experience which often may be beyond your own control.. • Labeling/ Mislabeling: This thinking error involves an extreme form of overgeneralization. You tend to attach a negative label to yourself or others on the basis of one negative experience. 2. Workers can ask members if they have any irrational beliefs, and to share their daily examples of irrational beliefs. Materials “Know more about irrational beliefs(2)” (Group Material) Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 187 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Activity Discovering Thinking Traps: Video Sharing of “Someone grabbed my potato chips” (Please refer to the DVD, Part II, Scenario 8: “Someone grabbed my potato chips”) Duration 15 minutes Objectives Let members learn more about irrational beliefs and enhance their ability to identify them. Concept Members have already learned about the eight irrational beliefs in the above sessions. We discuss bullying in school and interpersonal conflicts to encourage members to reflect on how they get along with their classmates. We ask if similar incidents have happened to them that have made them angry and affected their judgment and normal socialization. Procedure 1. Workers show the video “ Someone grabbed my potato chips”. 2. After the video, members are given a piece of paper to write down their instant thoughts about similar events that have happened. 3. Sharing what they have written. Sharing points: • Similar and different beliefs among members, and what causes the differences. • Help members to distinguish the irrational beliefs in the discussion. • How irrational beliefs affect personal responses and consequences. Materials 1. Video: “ Someone grabbed my potato chips” 2. A4 paper 3. Laptop Activity “My Irrational Beliefs – Example from Campus Life” Duration 30 minutes Objectives To reinforce members’ awareness of their irrational beliefs in daily life. Concept After learning about the seven irrational beliefs, members can apply the theory to daily life and reinforce their motivation to change. Procedure 1. Workers can invite members to share their experience and discuss any irrational beliefs. If members are more passive, workers can offer examples for discussion. • Seeing classmates talking in secret after you enter the classroom. • During recess, a classmate slaps you on your back. • The teacher asks you to find her after school. • Your mother refuses to let you have a BBQ with your classmates. Sharing points: • Different members have different thoughts and feelings about the same situation. • How irrational beliefs affect our responses. 188 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Activity Debriefing and Distribution of Homework: “My Irrational Beliefs Observation Chart” Duration 15 minutes Objectives 1. To debrief the group content. 2. To cultivate members’ habit of finishing their assignments. Procedure 1. Workers praise members’ performance. 2. Explaining homework: “My irrational beliefs observation chart”. Objective: To encourage members to pay more attention to the events during which their irrational beliefs arise, and their thoughts and responses to these particular events. 3. To remind members to finish their assignments and provide rewards for motivation. Materials “My irrational beliefs observation chart” worksheet (Homework Assignment) Remarks 1. Workers can offer their own views when members share their irrational beliefs, so that members can see that different people have different views of the same event. 2. If workers notice that members have irrational beliefs, they can use it for sharing with the group, with the member’s permission. 3. Workers should notice whether members still confuse responses, feelings, and thoughts. For example, they may think that adding “want” before an action will become a thought. If a member says “I want to scold him”, workers can ask “Why do you want to scold him?”, so that we can hear their instant thoughts. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 189 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Fifth Session Group Material: Name:____________________ Know More About Irrational Beliefs(2) 4. Overgeneralizing Placing a lot of importance on one single negative experience, to the point where you see one negative experience as being a sign for a never-ending pattern of negative events that you forecast (expect) to face in the near future. Example: People who smoke and have tattoos must be gangsters. 5. Mental Filter Picking out a single negative detail from an unpleasant experience you may have had, and then dwelling exclusively on this negative detail. That is, you ignore the bigger picture and ‘filter out’ any positive aspects of the event. Example: I must be lazy so the teacher wants to give me extra tutorial classes after school. 6. Personalization Taking responsibility or inappropriately blaming yourself for the cause of a negative experience which often may be beyond your own control. Example: It’s my fault. If I knew how to resolve things, they wouldn’t fight with each other. 7. Labeling/ Mislabeling This thinking error involves an extreme form of overgeneralization. You tend to attach a negative label to yourself or others on the basis of one negative experience. Example: If I am a girl, my sense of direction must be very bad. If you ask me for directions, I won’t know. 190 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Fifth Session Homework Assignment: Name:____________________ My Irrational Beliefs Observation Chart Please record an event that happened to your friends/family, and try to analyze whether there are any irrational beliefs in their thoughts and responses. A. Event B. Belief Please circle possible irrational beliefs 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. Magnifying the negatives and minimizing the positives Black-and-white thinking Catastrophizing Overgeneralizing Mental Filter Personalization Labeling/ Mislabeling C. Result/Response Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 191 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors (F) Session: Sixth Session Theme: Understanding irrational beliefs – Thinking from different angles Aims: 1. To motivate members to change their irrational beliefs. 2. To learn to think from multiple angles to discover more positive possibilities. Activity Homework Sharing – “My Irrational Beliefs Observation Chart” Duration 15 minutes Objectives 1. To assess individual irrational beliefs. 2. To motivate members to change their irrational beliefs. Procedure 1. Members share their assignments one by one. Sharing points: • Personal experiences of irrational beliefs. • Effect of irrational beliefs on themselves and others. 2. Workers compliment and praise members who finish their assignments and are willing to share. Materials 1. Back-up assignment (if members are unable to hand in their assignment, they can complete it immediately) 2. Small rewards Activity Illusion Pictures Duration 15 minutes Objectives To help members develop their ability to think from multiple perspectives. Concept Because reactive aggressors think in a single direction, the aim of the group is to broaden their thinking patterns. Therefore, this activity will help them to understand that different people have different points of view of a visual illusion. Procedure 1. Workers show the visual illusion pictures to the group. 2. Divide the members into two groups. Each group will then say what they see in the pictures and from what angle or how they see the picture. 3. Perceiving more than one angle scores extra marks. Explanation: • People’s judgments can be affected by appearance. • How personal experience affects our viewpoint. • Different perceptions will have a different focus. • The benefits of thinking from multiple angles. Materials 192 Illusion pictures Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Activity Thinking from Multiple Angles Duration 20 minutes Objectives 1. To change irrational beliefs. 2. To learn to think from different angles and be open to more possibilities. Concept Each individual has automatic thinking patterns and tends to ignore other angles, so this activity can help members to refute irrational beliefs and see things from different perspectives. Members can also understand that different people have different views and workers can encourage them to consider and think of others’ thoughts that will help them to construct rational beliefs in future sessions. Procedure 1. Workers will show the video “Distributing report card” (please refer to the DVD, Part II, Scenario 10: “Distributing report card”). 2. Members are divided into two groups and given 10 minutes to discuss the following two questions: • In the video, what are the character’s thoughts? Does he have any irrational beliefs? • If you were his friend, how could you help him to change his thoughts? 3. After the discussion, each group reports the results and workers can introduce techniques for refuting irrational beliefs. Finally, workers can show appreciation to members who discussed the issue seriously. Materials 1. Group discussion worksheet (Group Material 1.1) 2. Video: “Distributing report card” 3. Laptop and projector Activity Five Methods of Self-Questioning (Part I) Duration 30 minutes Objectives To teach members the five methods of self-questioning to identify more possibilities. Concept 1. Although members may know about irrational beliefs, they may not be able to identify them, so the group needs to be introduced to “Five Methods of Self-Questioning” to reinforce their ability to identify irrational beliefs. These are the five self-questioning sentences: • Is there any other possibility? • If other people encountered the same incident, what would they think? • Is there any evidence to prove your thought is right or wrong? • What’s the worst thing that might happen? • If I continue to hold this thought, what are the benefits and drawbacks? 2. Using the self-questioning technique, members can develop new thinking patterns so that they can refute their irrational beliefs. Because members need more time to learn and use the technique, we divide the five questions between this session and the next session. This session will focus on the first two. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 193 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Procedure 1. Workers explain that people who have irrational beliefs tend to have extreme thoughts and are unable to see other possibilities. 2. Workers teach members to use the self-questioning method to refute irrational beliefs. 3. The first two questions are explained to elicit other possibilities. • Are there any other possible explanations? • If others encountered the same incident, what would they think? 4. Workers will list some common irrational beliefs among students and then use the fivequestion technique to help members identify alternative possibilities and ideas. 5. Members can try to list their own irrational beliefs (referring to their homework from the fifth session), and use the five-question technique to work out different possibilities and ideas. Explanation: • For the same incident, is there more than one thought? • Will different beliefs bring different results? Materials Tips card for the self-questioning method. (Grroup Material 1.2) Activity Debriefing and Distribution of the Homework:“Thinking from Multiple Angles” Duration 10 minutes Objectives 1. Debrief on the group content. 2. Cultivate members’ habit of finishing their assignments. Procedure 1. Workers appreciate members’ performance. 2. Explain homework:“Thinking from multiple angles”. 3. Objective: Strengthen members’ ability to use the self-questioning technique to solve problems and develop their thinking ability. 4. Remind members that they will receive a reward if they finish the assignment on time. Materials “Thinking from Multiple Angles” worksheet (Homework Assignment) Remarks 1. As the purpose of this session is to encourage members to think in more depth about the same incident, workers can use it again in the discussion of the third and fourth part to ask more about their views of the incident. 2. Workers can analyze and discuss members’ experiences to develop a sense of security and a good atmosphere for sharing. 194 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Sixth Session Group Material 1.1: Name:____________________ Group Discussion Worksheet Please pay attention to the short video, and then discuss with others and answer the following questions. Situation: ________________________ What happened? (Sight, sound, smell, touch, flavor.) If you were the character, what would be your instant response? Are there any other possible beliefs? Belief 1 Belief 2 Belief 3 Emotion and Response Result 1 Result 2 Result 3 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 195 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Sixth Session Group Material 1.2: Name:____________________ Tips Card for Self-Questioning Method 1. Is there any other possibility? 2. If other people encountered the same incident, how would they think? 3. Is there any evidence to prove whether your thought is right or wrong? 4. What’s the worst that can happen? 5. If I continue to hold this thought, what are the benefits and drawbacks? 196 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Name:____________________ Sixth Session Homework Assignment: Thinking from Multiple Angles Please record an event that happened this week and try to apply the self-questioning technique to think of other possibilities. Event: Instant thought: Self-questioning method: possible questions 1. Is there any other possibility? 2. If other people encountered the same incident, how would they think? Other thought 1: Other thought 2: Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 197 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors (G) Session: Seventh Session Theme: Disputing Irrational Beliefs– Self-questioning technique Aims: 1. To dispute members’ irrational beliefs. 2. To learn self-questioning techniques to encourage rational thinking. Activity Revision of Homework and Explanation of “Thinking from Multiple Angles” Duration 30 minutes Objectives To strengthen the relationship between new beliefs and consequences. Procedure Members share their recorded events one by one and say how they used the technique to think from multiple angles and identify possible problems. Explanation: • How to use the self-questioning technique to reveal potential problems. • How to generate new ideas when applying the technique. • What’s the difference between the new and the old idea? • What is difficult about forming new ideas? Materials 1. Back-up assignment (if members are unable to hand in their assignment, they can complete it immediately) 2. Small rewards Activity Five Methods of Self-Questioning (Part II) Duration 45 minutes Objectives 1. To teach members to refute their irrational beliefs and learn to interrogate themselves. 2. To learn to think from multiple angles. Concept Refer to Five Methods of Self-Questioning (Part I) Procedure 1. Apart from explaining how to apply “finding problems”, explain that there are three other questions that can be used. 2. Revise the “finding out problems” technique and teach members the other self-questions to refute irrational beliefs. 3. “Five self-questions”: • Is there any other possibility? • If other people encountered the same incident, what would they think? • Is there any evidence to prove whether your thought is right or wrong? • What’s the worst that can happen? • If I continue to hold this thought, what are the benefits and drawbacks? 198 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Procedure 4. Members take turns to list some examples of irrational beliefs in daily life. 5. Other members use the five-question technique to prompt the member to refute their irrational beliefs and identify alternative possibilities. 6. During the discussion, workers can use questions to teach members rational beliefs and build up a rational thinking system. Explanation: • Through these questions, what changes are there in members’ thoughts? • What positive emotions and behavior bring about a change in beliefs? Materials Tips Card on the self-questioning method Activity Debriefing and Explanation of the Homework: “Transformation and Broadening of Thought” Duration 15 minutes Objectives To strengthen members’ positive behavior. Procedure 1. Workers debrief on the content of the session. 2. Praise members’ good performance and encourage them to show appreciation to others. 3. Explain homework assignment: “Transformation and broadening of thought”. Objectives To strengthen members’ ability to use the self-questioning technique to identify more positive possibilities, predict different thoughts, and bring about different consequences. Materials 1. Small rewards 2. “Transformation and broadening of thought” worksheet (Homework Assignment) Remarks 1. During the self-questioning activity, members may feel uncomfortable and defensive when their beliefs are challenged. Before proceeding to self-questioning and interrogating, workers need to explain the objectives and expectations of the self-questioning activity (to become a rational leader). Workers should also pay attention to members’ preparation and emotional responses. 2. Workers need to have a certain level of knowledge of the members and observe their progress and emotional changes. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 199 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Seventh Session Homework Assignment: Name:____________________ Transformation and Broadening of Thought Please record an irrational event that has happened to you and try to identify alternative ideas and possibilities(3) and write down different thoughts and their consequences. Event (A): Instant thought (B): Instant thought (C): Five self-questions: - -Is there any other possibility? - -If other people encountered the same incident, how would they think? - -Is there any evidence to prove whether your thought is right or wrong? - -What’s the worst that could happen? - -If I continue to hold this thought, what are the benefits and drawbacks? 200 Rational Belief 1 (B): New Result 1 (C): New Result 1 (C): New Result 2(C): Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors (H) Session: Eighth Session Theme: To learn more about emotions and emotional management Aims: 1. To learn how to express emotions. 2. To learn how to control emotions. Activity Homework Revision and Explanation:“Transformation and Broadening of Thought” Duration 15 minutes Objectives 1. To promote a positive atmosphere for sharing. 2. To strengthen multi-angled thinking and its relationship with different results. Procedure 1. Members take turns to share their recorded events. 2. Members share their application of the self-questioning technique and the three possibilities and thoughts. 3. Sharing different thoughts will lead to different consequences. Explanation: • How multi-angled thinking leads to different consequences. • Difficulties in forming other possibilities and thoughts. • Of the three results, which one makes you feel most comfortable and rational? Materials 1. Back-up assignment (if members are unable to hand in their assignment, they can complete it immediately) 2. Small rewards Activity Sharing Emotion Duration 20 minutes Objectives 1. To share a difficult emotional experience. 2. To reflect on whether there are any irrational beliefs behind members’ agitated emotions. Concept The cognitive distortions and biases of reactive aggressors lead to negative emotions and behavior. Encouraging members to understand the relationship between cognition, emotion, and reaction in CBT, and how their personal beliefs affect their emotion and negative behavior. Procedure 1. Sit in a circle. 2. Randomly distribute four emotional characteristics cards to members. 3. Members choose a card and give it to their neighbor in a clockwise direction to collect the same four emotional characteristics cards. 4. When members have collected the same four cards, they should touch their nose. 5. When other members see someone touch their nose, they should do the same at once. The last one needs to share an experience relating to their emotional characteristics card. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 201 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Procedure 6. Workers record the event and help members to finish the assignments. Explanation: • Sharing a negative emotional event. • Helping members to reflect on their agitated emotions through other members ’ feedback. • During the event, did members hold any irrational beliefs? • After the event, how did they calm their emotions? Materials Emotional characteristics cards (Group Material) Activity STOP the Agitated Emotion Duration 30 minutes Objectives 1. To learn to reduce violent emotions. 2. To strengthen members’ ability to handle violent emotions. Concept Because reactive aggressors have negative emotions and behavior, it is very important to learn emotional management. This can be achieved through group discussion and roleplay that allows members to find effective ways of controlling their emotions and internal resources. When they feel angry, they will be able to calm themselves down and think. Procedure 1. Members write down their methods for relieving anger, such as drinking water, hitting a pillow, singing, etc. 2. Role-play an angry situation (an example may be taken from the last activity) and use one of the methods to respond to it. 3. After the exercise, discuss the feasibility and effectiveness of these methods. Explanation: • Application and experience of using members’ methods to relieve emotions. • Are their methods effective or not? • Workers can summarize the methods and comment on them. If members have had successful experiences in dealing with angry emotions, they can share them with others. Materials 1. Colored paper 2. Pen 3. Rewards 202 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Activity Angry Emotions Record Duration 20 minutes Objectives To learn how to express their emotions. Concept Using a written record to strengthen members’ internal resources from the last activity and the most effective methods for controlling emotions. Procedure 1. Each member writes down something that makes them angry and scores each event from 1-10 (10: very angry; 1: a little angry) 2. Use the methods described in the last activity to choose the most effective method for handling each event. 3. After choosing a method, try to use it at home and record which method is most suitable for controlling emotions. Materials Angry Emotion Record List (Class Assignment) Activity Debriefing and Distribution of Home Assignment: “Trial of Effective Response” Duration 5 minutes Objectives To strengthen members’ positive behavior. Procedure 1. Workers’ debrief on the content of the session. 2. Compliment members’ good performance. 3. Explain homework–“Trial of Effective Response” – the objective of which is to record an event that triggers members’ negative emotions and to use methods that can relieve anger. Materials 1. Small rewards. 2. “Trial of Effective Response” worksheet. (Homework Assignment) Remarks 1. Some members may not know how to express and understand their emotions, not only because they are unused to expressing emotions, but also because they may lack the words to express them. Therefore, workers need to be patient, help them to express themselves, and teach them more emotional words. 2. To encourage members to become more involved in the practice activity, we can use real-life cases. Workers need to be careful in case they provoke members’ emotions and handle their emotional responses carefully. 3. Workers should guide members to think of other methods of relieving their violent emotions. They can motivate members by giving them rewards and encouraging them to choose a suitable method for themselves. 4. Some members may lack the skills to handle their emotions and may not be able to think of a suitable method. Workers can offer hints and common solutions to guide them. If members suggest negative methods, such as hitting others or breaking things, workers need to guide them towards other methods so that they will not hurt themselves or others, do not break the law, etc. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 203 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Name:____________________ Eighth Session Class Assignment: Angry Emotions Record Please write down something that makes you feel angry and give it a mark from 1-10 (10: very angry; 1: a little angry). Things that make you angry Marks(1-10) Ways of reducing the angry emotion 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 204 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Name:____________________ Eighth Session Group Materials: Emotional Characteristic Cards Talking loudly Talking loudly Talking loudly Talking loudly Swearing Swearing Swearing Swearing Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 205 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Open eyes widely Open eyes widely Open eyes widely Open eyes widely Breathe rapidly Breathe rapidly Breathe rapidly Breathe rapidly Attack others Attack others Attack others Attack others 206 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Heart beating rapidly Heart beating rapidly Heart beating rapidly Heart beating rapidly Clenching fists Clenching fists Clenching fists Clenching fists Throwing things Throwing things Throwing things Throwing things Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 207 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Eighth Session Homework Assignment: Name:____________________ Trial of Effective Responses Please record an event that triggers your negative emotions and the method you choose to handle the situation. A. The event B. What degree of angry/negative emotion did the event cause? (1: a little angry; 10: very angry) Not angry at all very angry 0 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 C. How did you handle the situation? D. How effective was the method in dealing with your emotions? (1-10) Not effective very effective 0 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 208 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors (I) Session: Ninth Session Theme: Positive self-expression – “I-messages” Aims: 1. To learn and strengthen methods to handle angry emotions. 2. To learn and improve social skills. 3. To use “I-Messages” to improve the ability to express feelings and expectations. Activity Homework Revision and Explanation: “Trial of Effective Responses” Duration 15 minutes Objectives 1. To strengthen the positive sharing atmosphere in the group. 2. To evaluate the use of methods for controlling angry emotions. Concept Using a written record to strengthen members’ internal resources from the last activity and the most effective methods for controlling emotions. Procedure Members share the events they have recorded in their “Angry Emotions” worksheet. Focus of explanation: • Sharing the methods that members have used to control their angry emotions in the past week. • Members can focus on sharing the process, difficulties, and effect of using the methods. Materials 1. Back-up assignment (if members are unable to hand in their assignment, they can complete it immediately) 2. Small rewards Activity Social Skills for Leaders Role-play Duration 30 minutes Objectives 1. To learn and improve individual social skills. 2. To learn how to express themselves when being refused. Concept Because members easily get into conflicts with others and lack social skills, apart from changing members’ irrational beliefs, group members also need to improve their social skills. Through role-play and modeling situations, members can learn and apply appropriate social skills. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 209 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Procedure 1. Workers set up the social practice situation. 2. Members and workers role-play the situations and observe whether members: • Greet others (e.g. say “good morning”); • Look at people in a friendly way; • Keep an appropriate distance; • Speak gently and at a suitable pace; • Talk using suitable words; and • Remain calm and polite when provoked by others. Sharing points: • What sort of tone, manner, words, pace, and distance do you expect others to use when they communicate with you? • Describe your daily communication with classmates. • How can you ensure people understand you better? • When getting along with people, do you often forget some basic social requirements and expectations? Why do you forget these and do you hold any irrational beliefs? Materials Social skills practice card. (Group Material 1.1) Activity “I-Message” Duration 30 minutes Objectives 1. To understand the function and importance of the “I-Message”. 2. To learn the basic rules and skills of the “I-Message”. 3. To strengthen the control of emotions and practice using the “I-Message”. Concept Reactive aggressors are prone to be misunderstood by others because they lack appropriate social skills. In difficult social situations they are likely to encounter problems. Therefore, learning to use the “I-Message” teaches members how to express their emotions and expectations positively and reduce misunderstanding and conflicts that occur in communication. Procedure 1. Workers explain the definition and structure of an “I-Message”. 2. Use different situations to explain how to respond with an “I-Message”. 3. Divide members into two groups and ask them to use the “I-Message” to express the following situations: • After school, some classmates call out your nickname loudly. • During recess, two classmates are looking at you with a smile and talking quietly. 4. Workers play the role of provoking members and encouraging them to use “I-Messages” to express themselves. If members can use the “I-Message” correctly, they will receive a small reward. 210 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Procedure 5. If members find it difficult to express themselves positively and instead show negative emotions, workers should offer them the hint cards for relieving emotions to help them calm down and try again. 6. After the activity, workers can offer comments and suggestions to members on their use of the “I-Message”, and encourage them to express themselves positively. Explanation focus: • Praise members’ attempts to apply “I-Messages”. • Share the difficulty of applying “I-Messages” and discuss how it feels to use them. Materials 1. “I-Message” hint card (Group Material 1.2) 2. Rewards 3. Hint cards for relieving emotions (Group Material 1.3) Activity Debriefing and Distribution of the Homework: “Learning and Applying ‘I-Messages’” Duration 15 minutes Objectives 1. Give credit for members’ performance. 2. Explain the content of the assignment. Concept Using a written record to strengthen members’ internal resources from the last activity and the most effective methods for controlling emotions. Procedure 1. Debrief on the technique and function of the “I-Message”. 2. Compliment members on their performance. 3. Explain the homework assignment “Learning and Applying ‘I-Messages’”. Expected goal: Members should record when they successfully use an “I-Message”. Materials 1. “Learning and Applying ‘I-Messages’” worksheet (Homework Assignment) 2. Small rewards Remarks 1. During the session, when members are asked to share their assignment, they may not be able to report any successful experiences of controlling and handling emotions. This may not be because nothing has made them angry, but because they do not fully understand the methods for handling emotions. Workers should accept this, discuss the difficulties, and encourage members to try again. 2. In the “Social Skills for Leaders” activity, social skills such as using eye contact, keeping distance, and using appropriate language and manner have been taught. Hence, workers should pay attention to whether members are able to use these skills and encourage them to try. 3. In the “I-Message” role-play, when members are provoked by the situation, they may have a negative emotional response and so may not apply the “I-Message” fully. Workers need to use the “Hint Card for Relieving Emotions” to encourage members to control and calm their emotions. Workers can then discuss why they are finding it difficult to use the “I-Message” and encourage them to try again. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 211 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Ninth Session Group Materials 1.1: Name:____________________ Social Skills Practice Card Members can role-play the following situations to practice their social skills. 1. Classmates refuse to hand in an assignment for you. 2. A classmate hits you accidentally. 3. You ask to join a group to play a ball game. 4. You ask your friend to buy something for you. 5. You ask a classmate how to do some homework. 6. You invite some friends to have lunch. 212 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Name:____________________ Ninth Session Group Material 1.2: “I-Message” Hints Card Steps 1. Use “I” at the start of a sentence. 2. Express your feelings and emotions. 3. Express your expectations about an event. 4. No need to blame others. I feel…(feeling/emotion) I think…(individual expectation) Examples 1. I feel unhappy. I want others to respect me. 2. I am angry. I want to wash my face. 3. It feels so unfair. I want the matter to be handledfairly. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 213 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Name:____________________ Ninth Session Group Material 1.3: Hint Cards for Relieving Emotions Workers should cut the following table into pieces to make hint cards. During the “I-Message” role-play activity, members may become angry when provoked. If they display negative or angry emotions, workers can give them one of the following cards (e.g. “drink some water” or “breathe deeply”) to calm their emotions or distract their attention. Drink some water Shout loudly out of the window Breathe deeply Talk to friends Go sightseeing Leave the situation Do some exercises Close your eyes ** Prepare some blank cards for members’ own suggestions during the 8th session 214 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Ninth Session Homework Assignment: Name:____________________ Learning and Applying “I-Messages” Learning and Applying “I-Messages” A. The event: B. In the event, how did you use an “I-Message” to express your emotions and expectations? C. What was the result and how did you feel after using the “I-Message”? D. What difficulty did you have when using the “I-Message”? Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 215 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors (J) Session: Tenth Session Theme: Leadership Graduate Session Aims: 1. To prevent the recurrence of irrational beliefs in the future. 2. To strengthen members’ ability to use “I-Messages”. 3. To improve and develop individuals’ potential and talents. 4. To strengthen members’ confidence to change and maintain changes. Activity Revision and Explanation of the Homework: “Learning and Applying ‘I-Messages’” Duration 15 minutes Objectives To strengthen members’ application of “I-Messages”. Procedure 1. Members take turns to share their assignments. Sharing points: • Use of “I-Messages” in the past week. • Difficulty in using “I-Messages”. • Through discussion, find effective ways to use “I-Messages”. 2. Give compliments and rewards to members who finish their assignment and are willing to share. Materials 1. Back-up assignment (if members are unable to hand in their assignment, they can complete it immediately) 2. Small rewards Activity Preventing Relapse Duration 15 minutes Objectives 1. To teach members how to prevent relapse. 2. To strengthen members’ ability to use “I-Messages”. Concept To prevent members relapsing into irrational beliefs and negative emotions, in the last session workers will fill in a reminder containing members’ irrational beliefs, how to use the self-questioning method, methods of emotional control, and how to use “I-Messages”, to prevent members from making mistakes and to provide encouragement. Procedure 1. Workers distribute the “preventing relapse” cards (Group Material 1.1) to individual members. 2. The cards are used to remind members how to deal with interpersonal conflicts and their emotions. The group training should have helped members to extend their thinking time to avoid irrational beliefs so that they may become rational leaders. 3. Workers and members can practice using “I-Messages” and strengthen their ability to express themselves positively. Materials 216 Preventing Relapse Cards (Group Material 1.1) Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Activity “Turning over a New Leaf” Duration 15 minutes Objectives 1. To let members identify their expectations. 2. To review their positive changes. Procedure 1. Workers distribute human-shaped worksheets for members to plan their expectations and targets for the future. 2. Members take turns to share. Sharing and discussion points: • Which methods can help members to achieve their expectations and targets? • Compare the worksheets from the 1st and the 10th sessions. What are the differences? What are the positive changes? • In these ten sessions, what have you learnt to appreciate about yourself and what do you think has improved? Materials Human-shaped worksheet (refer to the content of 1st session) Activity Group Sharing and Appreciation Duration 15 minutes Objectives Through group appreciation and feedback, acknowledge members’ successful experiences and increase their confidence to maintain change. Concept 1. Workers will have prepared eight rewards numbered from 1 to 8. 2. Members refer to the sharing paper (see group materials) and take turns to share according to the question numbers. 3. After sharing, members applaud the sharer and the sharer is given the reward with the number corresponding to the question he/she shared. Materials 1. Rewards (such as stationary) 2. Sharing worksheet (Group Material 1.2) Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 217 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Activity Debriefing and Award Certificate Duration 30 minutes Objectives 1. To debrief on the group content. 2. To strengthen members’ sense of achievement. Procedure 1. Workers debrief on the experiences and topics that have been taught over the ten sessions. Workers may use a question and answer format for revision. 2. Workers guide members to acknowledge and appreciate the achievements of other members. 3. Workers present an individual achievement certificate to each group member. • Workers will have prepared a description of each member ’ s achievements and appreciation and encouragement for each member. • A piece of paper with a sentence of appreciation will be attached to the achievement certificate. • Each member may use another sheet of paper to write down their own merits or achievements or those of others and attach them to their achievement certificate. Materials 1. Certificates 2. Description of each member’s achievements Remarks 1. As this is the last activity, workers need to emphasize that if members find they have irrational beliefs again, they have the ability to deal with them. Members are given the “preventing relapse” cards to remind them of how to use the self-questioning technique when irrational beliefs appear, and how to calm themselves down and actively deal with interpersonal arguments and conflicts when they become angry. 2. At the end of the session, workers should lead members to reflect on what they have learnt and areas that they have most appreciated. They should particularly encourage members to show appreciation for one another, to help them build good relationships with others, and end the session in a harmonious atmosphere. 218 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Tenth Session Group Material 1.1: Sharing Worksheet Members take a piece of sharing paper and start sharing according to the number on the paper. Members are given a reward as encouragement after their turn at sharing. 1. Who is the member that you most appreciate, and what do you appreciate in him/her? 2. Share an unforgettable moment in the group. 3. What did you get from the group? 4. Share your feelingsabout the group and explain why you have these feelings. 5. Share an unforgettable group experience. 6. What have you improved when compared to the first session? 7. Which activities or sessions did you enjoy most in the group? Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 219 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Tenth Session Group Material 1.2: Preventing Relapse Card Workers can fill in the irrational beliefs for each member according to their sharing and homework. The cards remind members how to use the self-questioning method to find out if they hold rational beliefs, ways to handle anger, and the use of “I-Messages”. ________’s leadership reminder 1. What is the evidence? My irrational beliefs is: Magnifying the negatives and minimizing the positives ( ) Black-and-white thinking ( ) 2. What other possibilities are there? Catastrophizing ( ) Overgeneralizing ( ) Mental Filter ( ) Personalization ( ) Labeling/ Mislabeling ( ) 3. The worst thing that could happen is: My way to control emotion: 4. What will others will think about this? “I-Message”: 5. What are the advantages and disadvantages for me? 220 I think… I want… I feel… I expect… Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors IV. Case Studies In this section, a selection of the above-mentioned activities are described in detail using real-life examples, together with the group process, a case description, and the worker’s analysis of each activity. For better understanding, the sessions are grouped into four stages: first meeting, initial stage, early-midstage, late-midstage, and late stage. 1. First Meeting of the Treatment Group The following is a brief summary of the first session of the treatment group. Reactive aggressors are prone to becoming suddenly agitated and furious; they may lose control and think ill of others without provocation. Workers need to understand the cognitive, emotional, and behavioral characteristics of reactive aggressors before finalising the treatment group agreement with them. First Session: “My Expectations” Group process and case description Each member drew a self-portrait on a piece of paper, and shared their expectations of the treatment group. Members’ expectations included “Learn to control my emotions”, “Meet new friends”, “Rewards”, and “Have fun”. Workers’ analysis Reactive aggressors are different from proactive aggressors. Proactive aggressors focus on benefits and only expect to receive material rewards. However, reactive aggressors want to learn to control their emotions and meet new friends, which is reflected in the way the reactive aggressors in this group valued the pursuit of relational goals. Because reactive aggressors can become suddenly agitated and angry, they tend to lose control and think badly of others even without provocation, so they are not welcomed by peers. “Control my emotions” and “meet new friends” were the expectations of two members of the treatment group, and this reflected their wish to improve their interpersonal relationships. At the same time, these expectations became the driving force behind their participation in the group. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 221 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors First Session: “Codes of Practice” Group Activities: Session 1 (Please refer to the DVD, Part III, Reactive aggressors – 1: First meeting of the treatment group.) Group process and case description Wai heard someone laughing while he was sharing his expectations for the group. He looked to his left and saw another member, Lap, laughing with the student sat next to him. Workers noticed Wai reacting angrily, as he slapped the table and was about to punch Lap. Ms. Wu, another worker in the group, saw it happening and stopped Wai immediately, although Wai did not calm down immediately and continued to stare at Lap. Workers’ analysis According to the SIP model(Crick & Dodge, 1996; Dodge & Coie, 1987; Pettit, Polaha, & Mize, 2001), reactive aggressors often have problems processing the first and second steps of social information. Wai’s behavioral and emotional responses accurately reflect the theory. Reactive aggressors tend to receive selective aggressive external cues in the first step of SIP. Wai selectively heard Lap’s laughter, but was not aware that Lap was discussing the human-shaped worksheet with another student. In the second step of SIP, reactive aggressors understand and interpret social cues in relation to their previous experiences of bullying or teasing. They misinterpret and distort the situation, and then produce hostile attributions, which led Wai to believe that Lap was intentionally laughing at him. Without a thorough understanding of the social cues, and his subsequent hostile attribution, Wai responded with rage and resorted to aggressive behavior to solve his problem. In a treatment group for reactive aggressors, workers should pay more attention to members’ fluctuating behavior and emotions. Reactive aggressors may suddenly use aggressive behavior without provocation, therefore workers must be ready to intervene before violent emotional outbursts and aggressive behavior occur, to prevent damaging the relationship or affecting the mutual trust among members. Hence, it is crucial to emphasize in the group agreement that any form of aggressive behavior will not be allowed in the treatment group. 2. Initial Stage of the Treatment Group In the initial stage, workers utilize various activities to assess members’ core beliefs. Workers first broaden members’ understanding of the event, so that members are able to receive all external cues. Workers then use Beck’s cognitive theory to explore the core beliefs and intermediary schemas that produce members’ angry emotions and aggressive behavior. 222 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Second Session: “Five Senses Test” Group process and case description Members were very enthusiastic at the beginning. After hearing the first clue (noisy screaming), Wai’s group decided that the answer was a fighting scene, and the noise was from the bystanders. The second clue was a somatosensory clue (a soft drink bottle). The answer from Wai’s group remained the same and they believed that the protagonist was using the bottle as a weapon in the fight. After the third and fourth clues (olfactory: a bag of potato chips; gustatory: potato chips), Wai’s group began to waver, as a fighting scene would not include potato chips. Wai’s group re-organized the four clues and changed their answer to a party scene. When the visual clue (a basketball game) was shown, one member immediately responded by saying “The protagonist was playing basketball”. Wai suggested that they should review all the clues carefully as he believed the protagonist would not be eating potato chips and drinking soft drinks if he was playing basketball. They then decided that the protagonist and friends were watching a basketball game. Wai shared their key to success after the activity. He said “Not having all the information about an event often results in misunderstanding. We relied on sound and touch initially and thought it was a fighting scene”. Workers then invited members to share similar experiences they had had in the past, and Wai made a confession, “One time, the student sat behind me tapped my shoulder. I was really angry because I thought he had hit me deliberately, so I punched him back. But the truth was, he saw my stationery fell on the floor and was reminding me to pick it up. Since then, the student has been scared of me and refuses to be friends with me”. Workers’ analysis From the above example we can see that Wai was a typical reactive aggressor. He ignored his surroundings, emphasized only a certain part of the sensory system when receiving cues, and selectively perceived aggressive external cues. Wai misinterpreted being tapped on the shoulder and this led to his aggressive response. Workers suggested that Wai should apply the “five senses test” in his daily life. Wai remarked that if he had been able to use the test, he would not have relied on touch to determine the student’s motive. He would have first turned around and paid attention to the environment and the expression of the student. If he could not make a judgment, he would have asked the student to clarify the reason for tapping him on the shoulder. Workers asked other members to put themselves in Wai’s situation, and shared the consequences of Wai’s new approach. Members commented that Wai’s new approach would bring many benefits, it would not damage peer relationships and Wai would not be punished. Workers hoped the positive feedback from members would encourage Wai and other members to apply the positive experiences gained in the group in their daily lives. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 223 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Third Session: “Exploring Situational Cues” Group Activities: Session 3 (Please refer to the DVD, Part III, Reactive aggressors – 2: Initial stage of the treatment group, and 3: Explanation by Dr. Annis Fung. ) Group process and case description In this activity, members were required to list their thoughts; however, workers found that most of the members could not clearly distinguish between thoughts and behavioral responses. Group activities (such as situational questions) helped members to identify their own thoughts, behavior, and emotions. Workers should not just focus on leading group activities; more importantly, workers should seize the opportunity to assess members’ subconscious thoughts. Based on the scenario and flow of the discussion, workers should try to assess members’ irrational beliefs and hostile attributions from their behavioral and emotional responses. All of these can be followed up on in later sessions. “Teacher asks me to see him after school” was a scenario that members had often experienced and that made them angry, resentful, frustrated, and worried. Wai said that he had been very angry when this happened to him, and he had ignored the teacher’s request and immediately left school. Wai believed he was picked on by the teacher and that was the reason behind his detention. Other members worried that he was given detention because of his poor academic performance. Anger is an important emotional characteristic of reactive aggressors. It is easy for them to express their core beliefs when they experience negative emotions. Because reactive aggressors lack communication skills, workers can help members to express the beliefs underlying their angry emotions through the use of animal pictures. Wai remarked that he would throw himself recklessly at his opponent and attack him like a lion. He recalled one of his experiences in which a sixth-form student once called him “first-form kid”. He threw himself at the sixth-form student and, like the lion in the picture, he attacked the student until the student fell down. Workers’ analysis Workers were able to assess the beliefs underlying Wai’s aggressive behavior and angry emotions. Furthermore, workers believed that Wai himself could identify his beliefs through this experience. Therefore, workers continued to explore this experience with Wai, using Beck’s cognitive concept chart to assess his core beliefs and intermediary schemas. 224 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Name: Wai Age: Repeat Form 1, 14 years old Case Background: Impulsive, has short temper, poor academic achievement Related Childhood Information Wai was once bullied in kindergarten. He was frightened and helpless. Wai’s younger brother, who was two years younger than him, protected him and beat off the bully. Hence Wai thought he was incompetent Core Belief I am incompetent Hypothetical Situation/Belief/Rules “I am incompetent and am a loser if I cannot protect myself.” “Everyone has to be competent, otherwise they will be despised by others and areworthless.” Compensation Strategies Act preemptively to protect oneself Situation 1 Situation 2 Situation 3 Wai overheard someone calling “first-form kid” from behind Wai was punished for disrupting theclass Wai had a dispute with a group member. When a worker was dealing with him outside the classroom, another worker opened the door to offer assistance Automatic Thoughts 1. He was laughing at me 2. He despised me Meaning behind Automatic Thoughts I was incompetent Automatic Thoughts 1. Teachers directed against me 2. Teachers must have thought I was the most vulnerable person in class Meaning behind Automatic Thoughts I was incompetent Emotional Response Anger, unease Behavioral Response Turned around immediately and attacked the student standing behind him Automatic Thoughts The member wanted to see me making a fool of myself Meaning behind Automatic Thoughts I was incompetent Emotional Response Emotional Response Anger Anger Behavioral Response Insulted the teacher Behavioral Response Rushed into the classroom to attack the fellow member Wai’s Cognitive Concept Chart (Beck, 1995) Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 225 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Because Wai selectively perceived the aggressive external cues and ignored his wider surroundings, he could not fully understand the event. Furthermore, Wai reacted with anger and aggression because he believed others were laughing at him. It was obvious that Wai had cognitive distortions in his automatic thoughts as he inferred others’ motives with only partial knowledge of the event. Workers continued to explore the experiences that had influenced Wai’s intermediary schemas and core beliefs. They found that he strongly believed that if he failed to protect himself, he would be considered a useless failure. Wai’s selective perception of aggressive external cues, coupled with the above beliefs, induced cognitive distortions in his automatic thoughts. Wai mentioned in the individual follow-up session that he had been bullied in kindergarten. He was frightened and helpless. Wai’s younger brother, who was two years younger than him, protected him and fought off the bully. Wai felt that he was not only unable to protect himself, he even needed his younger brother to protect him. He therefore thought that he was incompetent. With an understanding of his childhood experiences, workers were more certain that Wai’s core belief was helplessness. Although workers need to assess each member of the treatment group in detail, they should not neglect the other group members while carrying out the assessment. For example, Ms. Chung (a key worker) was giving Wai an indepth assessment while most of the members were actively involved in the group activities. Two members who seldom participated in the group came to blows and started hitting each other. Because reactive aggressors are impulsive and short-tempered, Ms. Wu (a co-worker) had to intervene before the situation intensified. The two members were able to maintain a civilized relationship and returned their attention to the group activities. 3. The Early-MidStage of the Treatment Group This section briefly describes the situation of the treatment group during its early–midstage. The automatic thoughts of reactive aggressors are characterized by cognitive distortions. Workers help members to discriminate the errors in their automatic thoughts using the concept of the eight thinking errors, followed by the self-questioning method to debate their irrational beliefs. Fifth Session: “My Irrational Beliefs – Example from Campus Life” Group process and case description Reactive aggressors have cognitive distortions in their automatic thoughts. Beck classified them into the types of errors outlined below. Workers assessed members’ thinking errors and cognitive level at the initial stage of the treatment group and simplified them into the following three types of thinking errors: i) Black-and-white thinking: Seeing things in black and white (in extreme terms). That is, situations or circumstances are interpreted as being good or bad, all or nothing, positive or negative. There is no middle/common ground. 226 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors ii) Magnifying the negatives and minimizing the positives: Exaggerating negatives, and downplaying your own, or other people’s strengths and assets, or a positive event or situation that you have experienced iii) Overgeneralizing: Placing a lot of importance on one single negative experience, to the point where you see one negative experience as being a sign for a never-ending pattern of negative events that you forecast (expect) to face in the near future. The three thinking errors were referred to as “thinking traps” in the treatment group to enable members to easily understand and apply them in their daily lives. When anger arose, members could use this concept to make themselves aware of the “thinking traps” in their thoughts andto remind themselves of other possible interpretations of the event. Workers gave examples (not members’ own experiences) to stimulate group discussion. Members would then begin to discuss their own irrational beliefs and thinking errors. Members recalled Wai’s automatic thoughts from the activity in Session 3 – “He was laughing at me, he must despise me,” when Wai overheard someone calling “first-form kid” – as an example of a “thinking trap”. A detailed explanation is given in the table below. Belief: ”He was laughing at me, he must despise me” “Thinking traps” (thinking errors) Black-and-white thinking Example: He was laughing at me, he must despise me. Magnifying the negatives and minimizing the positives Magnifying Example: He was laughing, he must hold me in contempt. Minimizing - Rational understanding/thoughts • It was a joke. Maybe he wanted to be friends with me. He did not despise me. • Even if he was laughing at me, it didn’t mean he despised me. Never overreact or take it personal. It was only a joke. • Do not underestimate yourself. Others laughed at you because they did not know you. Most importantly, you should not underestimate yourself. Example: I was incompetent at handling the derision. Overgeneralizing He laughed at me, everyone laughs at me. • Others might not have been laughing at you, but at something else. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 227 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Workers’ analysis Workers used examples to initiate and stimulate group discussion, then evaluated members’ knowledge of the three thinking errors through the perspectives they presented. Workers continued to assess the development of the group. If the group advances through the stages of development into maturity, members should be able to confront their own or other members’ beliefs directly, in order to identify their thinking errors. Workers observed that in the initial stage, members were able to safely share some of the unpleasant incidents that had occurred on campus. Some members even shared information about their family lives, and relationships with their parents. This reflected the mutual trusting relationships among members. It is helpful for workers to warm up the group using indirect examples to initiate discussion, and allow members to proceed to the second phase of confrontation. During the process, workers noticed that the arguments put forward by members not only achieved the effect of confrontation, they also facilitated mutual encouragement among members. This phenomenon was extremely beneficial to reactive aggressors, and also for the development of the group. Members were hostile toward each other at the beginning of the treatment group, which is a typical characteristic of reactive aggressors. Mutual encouragement can influence members’ belief that “others are hostile to me”, and can create a positive experience that helps them to develop trusting and supportive relationships with their peers. Sixth Session: “Five Methods of Self-Questioning (Part I)” Group Activities: Session 6 (Please refer to the DVD, Part III, Reactive aggressors – 4: Early mid-stage of the treatment group, and 7: Explanation by Dr. Annis Fung.) Group process and case description Workers invited members to share a conflict experience they had encountered with their peers. Members were encouraged to use the rhetorical questions in the “Five Methods of Self-questioning” to identify other possible interpretations of the event. Wai shared a conflict experience of his. One of his peers, who he disliked, once hit him with a ball on a basketball court. He rushed towards him, hit him, and spat on him. Workers asked members to enumerate all the possible explanations for Wai being hit by a ball on the basketball court. Wai rejected all the possibilities proposed by members during the discussion, believing there was no other explanation other than that he was being picked on by the student, who had thrown the ball at him deliberately. During the debate, workers asked Wai to invite members to role-play the event and reconstruct the scene. The roles included the suspected attacker, Wai’s basketball teammates, other students, and the spectators on the basketball court. Workers asked the members involved in the reconstruction to describe what they saw. The suspected attacker remarked that he saw a crowd of people standing between Wai and himself and it was difficult for him to throw the ball at Wai. The members who played the students and spectators speculated that the basketball was out of bounds and was picked up by the suspected attacker, who might only have intended to return the ball to Wai’s teammates. 228 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Workers once again asked Wai if there were other possible interpretations of the event. Wai refuted this immediately and said that someone had deliberately thrown the basketball at him. It hit him hard and hurt him, so he would not believe it was possible that the ball was just being returned to his teammates. Workers asked the members who played the roles of Wai’s teammates how they would have responded if the ball was passed to them in this way. They said they would dodge the ball to avoid it hitting them. Workers then asked Wai what he was doing at the time. Wai said that he was talking with some other students and had his back to his teammates. Therefore, he suspected that his classmate attacked him intentionally. Workers prompted Wai to consider other possible interpretations of the event through role-play and discussion. When Wai tried to see things from others’ perspectives, he began to realize that he had neglected other factors and the surroundings of the event before he came to the conclusion that he had been deliberately targeted. Workers’ analysis It was not difficult for members to learn the “Five Methods of Self-questioning” on a cognitive level. For members to gain a better understanding of the importance of the method, workers invited them to share a peer conflict experience of their own, and through role-play, the use of rhetorical questions, and reconstruction of an event, members were able to establish a new set of thinking models and mechanisms. Through role-play, members could employ the “Five Methods of Self-questioning” to debate their irrational beliefs and open Wai’s mind to consider different possibilities. We could see the “overgeneralizing” distortion in Wai’s automatic thought, “others deliberately harm me”. He drew conclusions about others’ motives based on only a proportion of the event. Reconstruction of the event helped Wai to expand his awareness to his other senses, which enabled him to understand the surroundings thoroughly. Through confrontation and feedback from other members, Wai was able to understand the event from others’ perspectives, and speculate about other possibilities. He could therefore recognize the cognitive distortions in his thinking. 4. The Mid-Late Stage of the Treatment Group This session briefly describes the mid-latestage of the treatment group. In the previous stage, members learned to detect, discriminate, and debate their irrational beliefs. Through the process of debate and behavioral assignments, members were able to strengthen their ability to analyze events from different perspectives, and to construct new rational beliefs. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 229 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Seventh Session: “Five Methods of Self-Questioning (Part II)” Group Activities: Session 7 (Please refer to the DVD, Part III, Reactive aggressors – 5: M id-late stage of the treatment group, and 7: Explanation by Dr. Annis Fung. ) Group process and case description After the debate, members discussed and helped one another to construct new reasonable, fair, and rightful beliefs. The workers helped Wai to form new beliefs through the positive emotional and behavioral responses (consequences) that followed the particular beliefs. Changes in Wai’s beliefs: 230 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Initially, Wai was quite certain that the suspected attacker deliberately aimed the ball at him to hurt him. However, once he had speculated about other possibilities, his behavioral and emotional responses changed accordingly. Wai said that he would be less angry if he could believe in more positive possibilities. In future, he would also take the initiative and ask others to clarify the matter instead of attacking them. Workers then guided Wai to express the reasonable and fair belief in his newly formed behavior and emotion. Wai now believed “I have the ability to speculate on other possibilities and circumstances”. He trusted he could now calm himself and refrain from attacking others and being punished. Workers’ analysis During the debate, Wai was able to discriminate the unreasonable thoughts (cognitive distortions) underlying his irrational belief. In the late mid-stage of the treatment group, workers helped members to construct new, reasonable and fair beliefs. Ellis and Bernard (2006) pointed out that workers must help members to understand their irrational beliefs and the negative behavioral and emotional responses during the counseling process. Through comparison of these beliefs, members are able to recognize their own problems and their motivation for change is enhanced as a result. In the group, workers used the “pie” technique to vividly illustrate the differences in these beliefs, thereby helping members to understand the deviation in their beliefs (Beck, 2003) and realize that reasonable beliefs would bring positive results and therefore strengthen members’ reasonable beliefs. The workers assessed Wai in the initial stage of the treatment group and confirmed that he held the core belief that he was “helpless” and intermediary schemas of “I am incompetent and am a loser if I cannot protect myself”. As the treatment group progressed, Wai broadened his awareness of his senses and no longer relied on a single sense (vision) to understand and selectively receive aggressive cues. Such changes greatly enhanced his ability to comprehend events and also reduced his hostility toward others. Moreover, by the mid-stage of the treatment group, Wai was equipped with knowledge about thinking errors that helped him to realize his anger came from his irrational beliefs, rather than objective reality. With support from workers and other members, Wai realized he had the ability to deal with the problem using other, more effective ways than aggressive behavior. For example, he would ask others to clarify matters when dealing with peer conflict, which in turn increased his sense of selfefficacy. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 231 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Seventh Session: Conclusion and Explanation of Homework Assignment - “Transformation and Broadening of Thought” Group process and case description Workers emphasized that the homework assignment in this section was very challenging and different from previous assignments. The aim of the assignment was to encourage members to implement new, reasonable beliefs. Therefore, a special reward was given upon completion of the assignment to foster members’ motivation to practice new beliefs. Members constructed new beliefs in this session. Wai developed the belief that “I have the ability to speculate on other possibilities and circumstances”. The workers first helped Wai to recall past campus conflicts that he had often encountered. Wai indicated that he would become furious and get into fights with whoever bumped into him during recess. The workers helped Wai to reflect on his new belief, and he commented that he was now calmer than before. Before acting, he would pause to observe the surroundings, and then consider the intentions of others. Workers helped members to rehearse possible scenarios when they were ready for their behavioral assignment. Workers encouraged Wai to implement the new belief during the following week and to evaluate the positive consequences. Workers’ analysis Behavioral training is designed to target behavioral responses or rational beliefs. Those such as Wai, who make positive progress, can be encouraged to implement new beliefs and new behavior directly. For members making slower progress, workers implemented behavioral training; for example, when they encountered conflicts, members were urged to calm themselves first, then use their five sensory systems to understand the event, and solve the problem using the concept of fair and reasonable thoughts. Finally, it is important to review and appreciate what they have done well during the process. Upon completion of the behavioral training, members were asked to write down how they managed their emotions and used the five sensory systems to understand the situation at the time. Members learned to appreciate themselves and reflected on their new beliefs through the positive experience of the behavioral training. When designing the behavioral training for members, workers should bear in mind that the training should be achievable, specific, and not over-complicated, otherwise members may easily give up. 5. Late Stage of the Treatment Group This section describes the late stage of the treatment group. In the previous stage, members successfully debated their irrational beliefs. In the later stage, members underwent behavioral training; they learned to express their emotions, strengthen their multi-angled thinking approach, and initiate alternative interpretations to construct new, rational beliefs. 232 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Eighth Session: “STOP the Agitated Emotion” Group process and case description The workers asked members to recall successful experiences of managing their emotions and write them down on a piece of paper. Members found it difficult at first because they could not recall any successful experiences. However, the workers affirmed members’ previous efforts and encouraged those with successful experiences to share their stories first. The workers encouraged Wai to share his experience. He said: “I was knocked down on the floor by a student, and was being stared at by a lot of other students. I was very angry. I picked up a nearby chair and went to throw it at the student. Just as I lifted the chair, I thought of the consequences, so I put it down and went to the washroom.” Workers once again affirmed Wai’s effort and bravery in sharing his experience. Workers helped Wai to summarize the three effective methods he had mentioned: predict negative consequences, leave the scene, and wash your face. Other members then took turns to share their experiences and gave one another advice. For instance, one member chose to “hit the wall” to help control his emotions, but others pointed out that this had the drawback of harming himself and damaging public property. Some members could see that it had the advantage of causing no harm to others. Later on, members encouraged the member to “punch a pillow” instead, which would vent emotion without hurting anyone, including himself. Workers’ analysis Negative emotions and extreme behavior are characteristics often exhibited by reactive aggressors, thus emotional management is extremely important. When members thought they could not manage their emotions, workers encouraged them to concentrate and recall their past experiences. It is also important for workers to affirm members’ efforts in trying. Apart from sharing their own experiences, members can also learn from the feedback and successful experiences of others. All of these can help members to identify the most effective method for controlling their own emotions and exploring their internal resources, thereby increasing the efficacy of group members. Should members encounter situations that make them angry in the future, they will know how to control themselves, and find space to think of ways to solve the problem. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 233 Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors Tenth Session: Revision and Explanation of Homework Assignment – Learning and Applying “I-Messages” Group Activities: Session 10 (Please refer to the DVD, Part III, Reactive aggressors – 6: Late stage of the treatment group, and 7: Explanation by Dr. Annis Fung.) Group process and case description In Session 9, members learned the basic principles and skills of using “I-Messages” and applied them in their daily lives in the following week. Wai was very successful in applying “I-Messages” and controlling his emotions. He shared he experience with other members. Wai was knocked down by a classmate in the school playground last week. He applied the “Predict Negative Consequences” approach that he had learned in the group. He predicted that he would be “punished” if he retaliated aggressively. Therefore, he managed to control his emotions. When he calmed down and found space to process his thoughts objectively, he realized the classmate was playing a game and had knocked Wai down only because he was anxious to save the ball. Other members praised Wai’s effort and success. Moreover, when Wai accidentally bumped into other students, he again successfully used an “I-Message” to make a sincere apology and to clarify that the accident was not intentional. Workers should also discuss members’ less successful experiences and examine the difficulties members experience in applying the “I-Message”. Workers should acknowledge what members did right, clarify what they did wrong, and allow them to practice again in the group. Workers’ analysis Because reactive aggressors lack appropriate social skills, they are easily misunderstood and alienated by others. They often find themselves trapped in a vicious cycle of social problems. Through learning to use the “I-Message”, members learned to express their emotions and expectations positively and thus reduced misunderstandings and conflicts with others. The successful experiences of members were shared in the group to encourage less motivated members. Wai indicated that his new belief kept him calm and he no longer felt others were hostile towards him. He was able to maintain good relationships with his peers and his conduct was much improved. These positive responses encouraged and sustained Wai’s new belief. Moreover, Wai successfully applied the effective behavior he had learned; he actively expressed personal emotions and expectations. Wai was able to replace his dysfunctional behavior with functional behavior. The workers found that reactive aggressors have difficulties in expressing their feelings, and often ignored their own speech tone and attitude. As a result, reactive aggressors are only able to indicate their expectations by using “I-Messages”. It is therefore helpful to encourage members who encounter difficulties to reconstruct the scene. At the same time, workers should pay attention to members’ attitudes and the content of what they are saying, and ensure other members feedback on the success and failure of the process. 234 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation Chapter 5 Treatment Group - Reactive Aggressors V. Effectiveness The table below shows the results of the study collected from reactive aggressor treatment groups held between 2008 and 2009 among Hong Kong secondary schools. Reactive aggressors treatment group: Result of student self-report (pre-test – post-test) Pre-test – Post-test Valid sample size# Mean difference+ t-value Aggressive behavior 45 4.22 4.79** Attentional problems 45 2.33 3.74** Delinquent behavior 45 3.07 5.63** Proactive aggressive behavior 45 2.67 3.28** Reactive aggressive behavior 45 4.31 5.92** Control of anger 45 1.53 2.19* # Valid sample size: the number of students who completed both pre- and post-tests + A positive value of mean difference represents a decrease of mean score while a negative one represents an increase of mean score *p<0.05 **p<0.01 The treatment group for reactive aggressors had significant effects. Aggressive behavior, attentional problems, delinquent behavior, proactive aggressive behavior, and reactive aggressive behavior were all significantly reduced in these group members after completing the treatment groups. Members’ ability to control their anger was also improved. The results demonstrate that the treatment groups were effective in helping reactive aggressors. Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation 235 Project Director : Annis Lai-chu Fung, Ph.D. Assistant Professor, Department of Applied Social Studies, College of Liberal Arts and Social Sciences, City University of Hong Kong Consultant : Prof. Adrian Raine Richard Perry University Professor, Department of Criminology and Psychiatry, University of Pennsylvania Clinical Supervisors : Ho Wai Ling, Lydia Lui Wai Ling, Winnie Members : Tsui Wing Ki (Executive Officer), Lee Wing Hang (Clerical Assistant), Lam Yin Hung (Senior Research Assistant), Fan Sai Man (Research Assistant), Leung Yik Kiu (Research Assistant), Chuah Zhi Xue (Research Assistant), Lo Kin Fai (Social Worker), Tsang Shuk Yi (Social Worker), Lai Kwun Lun (Social Worker), Choi Kong (Social Worker), Chan Man Kuen (Counselor) Organization : City University of Hong Kong Printed In : September 2011 Funded By : Quality Education Fund ISBN : 978-988-17052-6-6 236 Project C.A.R.E - Children and Adolescents at Risk Educcation
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