“and I real?” was like…is this Jimmy Fallon had one of the heroes of the European train episode on last night: It’s a great story, and there’s a lesson there for actors as well. Notice what Anthony Sadler says happens as he was waking up: his friends were ducking down and looking back, and then he says he looked back and saw the gunman coming in the cabin, “cocking an AK.” An AK-47 submachine gun, a Kalashnikov, that is. And his response, even though his friends were ducking and looking back: “And I was like…is this real? Is somebody playing a joke?” The whole thing seemed unreal. And this sense of unreality was potent enough that as he and his friends started to move down the aisle to tackle the gunman, he returned to the question, to settle it: “Both of them get up, and I just followed them, so I was like, Ok, I guess this is real.” Reversal is a fundamental element of drama. It’s what’s popularly known as “twists and turns” and it basically means something unexpected is happening. A drama in which everything that happens is expected is not much a drama. “Predictable” is not a word used to praise scripts. We expect a good drama to have some surprises. And that’s what reversals are. Something that happens that changes everything. Often, when actors are working on a scene, I see them face reversals, that is, unexpected radical developments in the situations of their characters, and take them into stride way too easily. I may see a moment of “reaction” and then it’s on to dealing with the new state of affairs. But that’s not actually the way we take in seismic changes in our reality, out here in the real world. There’s a reason that the first of Elizabeth Kuebler-Ross’s Five Stages of Grieving is Denial. The first thing we want to do when we are treated to a radical departure from what is expected is to pretend it’s not happening. “Is this real? Is somebody playing a joke?” “You gotta be shitting me!” But the the key to acting moments like this, though, is not mere “reactions of disbelief”, because reactions are not active. What is active is to seek confirmation. We can do it verbally, with utterances like those I just spelled out, or non-verbally, with our gaze, and, yes, with our faces. But these verbal and non-verbal expressions have to be directed at someone, they are a part of the effort to gain confirmation from the partner, they are active and dynamic, not static and merely expressive. When this step is skipped, it gives the lie to the whole situation, because if the change is too easily accepted, then we, the audience, know that it wasn’t much of a change, or that the actors were anticipating it, or that the actors had no real expectations about how the situation would play out in the first place. None of these scenarios are good for the telling of the story or for the experience of the audience. It’s often the case that people start to speak or otherwise take action before they have fully accepted the new state of affairs. Notice how in the above example, he says he started to follow his friends after they moved, then he decided that what was happening was real. Actors are often too ready to move past the phase of getting confirmation that the new state of affairs really is what has just been reported, and usually to their detriment. When confronting a reversal, see how long you can go after the reversal is announced and not accept, or not completely accept, its reality. That means, see how long the script will allow you to continue to seek confirmation of the new reality. The script may force your hand at some point, and it may not be possible to continue doubting the new state of affairs, but find that limit point. See how long you can maintain the effort to seek confirmation. This will make sure that you don’t move through it too quickly and thus deny the reality of the unreality. the secret of their success Japan has won three of the last five Little League World Series. What’s the secret of their success? The team practices eight to 10 hours every Saturday and Sunday. Each morning is devoted just to fielding practice. The kids field endless bunts, and turn one double play after another. Ten hours a day! “This is the Japanese way of doing sports, the same in karate as in baseball,” he told me. “It emphasizes what we call konjo, or grit and tenacity. Repetition is important. You’ve got to repeat movements until you master them.” He calls this yakyudo, the “way of baseball,” just as kendo is the “way of the sword,” or bushido, is the “way of the warrior.” They all focus on honing technique until it is flawless and instinctive. It’s this way that Omae believes led to the team’s victory two years ago. “We had no star players,” he says, “but our discipline and repetition of basic plays made our defense strong and helped us to finally win.” Longtime readers of this blog will find these sentiments very familiar. It’s at the heart of what Josh Waitzkin has to say in his book The Art of Learning, which I ask everyone who takes my class to read. Also Guitar Zero. And Malcolm Gladwell. Betty Davis says you have to love the sweat more than the lights. But as many times as I have remarked upon these things, they bear repeating. A prominent Hollywood acting teacher with a platform on a major industry website tells students NOT to rehearse, and says their scene partners would rather be at the beach anyway. This is a remarkable double-whammy: a teacher telling students not to rehearse, and then scaring them with the prospect of social rejection at the hands of their partners. Actors are already up against it because the acting they consume lets them see the lights but not the sweat. The work is cast, costumed, coiffed, lit and edited for consumption for an entertainment-starved public. Aspiring actors don’t see the sacrifice that was required, the sweat that Bette Davis mentions, behind those lights. So telling actors not to bother with rehearsing and to worry about whether or not their partners would rather be at the beach is, as I have written previously, nothing short of criminal. There was a reason Uta Hagen her book Respect for Acting. Telling people not to rehearse is an act of gross disrespect for the craft. Taking class, working on scenes, bringing obsessiveness, grit and tenacity to the class work, embracing the breadth of challenges that acting involves, and the difficulty of those challenges, is what respect looks like. Take it from the Japanese little leaguers. STOP! in the name of doing it better Interesting piece on NPR this morning about a photographer who has photographed every New Hampshire primary since 1980. What caught my interest was this: Cole has a rule he follows when out on assignment: No matter how crowded the press gaggle gets, he never takes a picture while he’s touching another photographer. The point is to force himself to think of a different approach to each shot. Take, for instance, a campaign appearance by George H.W. Bush at Nashua Airport in 1988: All of the other photographers followed the then-vice president on board an airplane. Vice President George Bush waves from the cockpit of a World War II B-17 bomber at a quick campaign stop at Boire Field in Nashua, N.H. on Wednesday, July 15,1987. Jim Cole/AP “I stayed outside, and with all the luck in the world, Bush stuck his head out the pilot’s window and waved to everybody,” said Cole. (click here to view the picture) With this rule, which does not allow him to take a picture if he is touching another reporter, (in other words if he is stuck in a scrum of reporters all taking the same picture ) Cole is practicing what in the Alexander technique is called inhibition. While inhibition might not sound like a good thing, in the context of the Alexander technique, it is. In the Alexander technique, inhibition is the ability to suppress one’s habitual response to things in order to open up the possibility of a different kind of response. Since many of our physical habits are the results of trauma or other kinds of negative input, it’s important for actors to engage with their physical habits and develop new habits that maximize expressive capacity and presence. While the Alexander technique works with physical habits, in class at Andrew Wood, we work in part with mental habits, particularly the habits that we have involving how we understand and frame human motivation. Knee-jerk attempts at stating the motivations of characters often entail negative judgments and are focused on goals about the future (what we call plot objective), rather than on the present moment. At Andrew Wood, we learn to “inhibit” these initial ways of looking and thinking, and to find ways of understanding and framing what characters are after that are empathic and oriented towards the here and now of relationship rather than the future. Actors are forever enjoined to “be in the moment”, but aren’t asked to think about motivation in ways that promote this focus them on the here and now of interpersonal dynamics. It’s what makes this kind of difference. resting bitch face and the badge of appeasement Was reading this article on “Resting Bitch Face”, about the phenomenon where women whose faces seem to express hardness or harshness when the women in question are in fact merely pensive or spaced out. It’s an interesting phenomenon, and one I think I may suffer from, although it’s supposedly only a female phenomenon. I am often told that I look “serious”. I guess the point is that women are expected to appear friendly and reassuring, and when they don’t, well, they get accused of having Resting Bitch Face. I have some thoughts about Resting Bitch Face and acting, but they are still crystallizing, so I think I’ll hold off on going into them at the moment. But something else in the first article, above, caught my eye. It was part of a discussion of how women tend to smile more than men, that they are expected to smile, so they then get unfairly taken to task for RBF. : Nancy Henley, a cognitive psychologist, has theorized that women’s frequent smiling stems from their lower social status (she called the smile a “badge of appeasement”). Still others have pointed out that women are more likely to work in the service sector, where smiling is an asset. Now, this is a sociological observation about the place of women in society, and how smiling is a response to that. But here’s the thing: I see a lot of unhelpful smiling during scene work in class. Of course, people smile in real life, so there is no reason they shouldn’t in acting as well, but the problem arises when the smiling is part of the actor’s response to the situation of acting a scene, rather than the character’s response to the evolving circumstances in the scene. Stanislavsky famously began with the insight that actors face self-consciousness: because of the awareness of being watched, scrutinized, judged and evaluated by an audience, they are inhibited, sometimes paralyzed, unable to enact what is asked of them. This situation is complicated by the fact that scripts call for actors to enter into fraught, charged, or awkward situations, and to make themselves vulnerable in those situations. So there is real danger in acting a scene. Often, what I observe is that actors who are uncomfortable with confrontation (and this is a lot of us, since acting comes at least in part from a desire to please, to entertain) will tend to pull their punches by smiling as they speak. If it happens once in a while, it is not a concern, but when it happens chronically, it is. This smiling is actually physical tension that hardens the face and drains it of responsiveness. Also, after an actor speaks, she needs to receive off of her partner: she needs to take in the partner’s response, both verbal and non-verbal, and she needs to be fully absorbed in that receiving. Every fiber of her being, every cell, very nerve, needs to be tuned into the partner. The held smile means that a part of the actor’s physiognomy is abstaining from that process of receiving, it is holding back. In the same way that the smile effectively undermines the process of sending, what we call “throwing the ball”, it also means that the actor is not fully entering into receiving either. In other words, it’s a problem. But the good news is, it’s usually an easy fix. Once the actor’s attention is drawn to it, he (and this is a problem for both sexes, RBF notwithstanding), can usually make the adjustment pretty easily, and the results can be rather dramatic. see what I mean? (eisenberg vs. segel) (This post continues my last one.) Quick: which of these two actors seems more alive to you in this moment? If you said Eisenberg, on the left, look again, and this time, pay attention to what is happening inside of you when you look. See what I mean? I am always astounded at the power of still photographs to reveal exactly how much an actor has going on. If you said Eisenberg initially, you may have been attracted to a certain alertness and sense of expectation in his face. And none of that is bad (as long as it isn’t preventing something from happening in a deeper place, which can sometimes be the case). But what makes an actor compelling, involving, gripping, what makes their performance sticky, so that it stays with you and you wake up the next morning and it’s still there, somehow inside you, is the still-waters-run -deep quality evident in Segel, on the right. My belief is that this has to do with mirror neurons: when we watch someone perform, our nervous system is replicating, for us, what they are experiencing, in our mirror system. That’s why the screen kiss is such a phenomenon, we all get to experience the thrill of the kiss, without any of the baggage or risk that may come with it. When an actor is viscerally activated, in his or her core (visceral means “pertaining to the gut, the belly”, believe it or not), and we watch him, we get viscerally activated as well, thanks to our mirror system. So we experience the actor in a deeper way, and he or show leaves a more lasting impression than otherwise. The miracle is how do we know this? We can’t see inside the actor’s gut. But I believe that we are exquisitely attuned, through evolution, to recognize this visceral activation, this vulnerability, perhaps because it signals that someone might be about to do something unexpected, something totally out-ofcharacter, perhaps something dangerous. How do we recognize it? Through careful attention to the face, the eyes, and to the voice, and how it is produced, and where in the body it comes from. It’s something we learn to do so well because we were so entirely dependent on our parents as small children, and pleasing them meant everything. So it’s something we do without even being aware, when we do it. Try it. The next time you consume some acting, whether on TV, at a movie, or even onstage, as you watch the acting, watch yourself, your core, that space behind your navel where you get butterflies in the stomach, and see which actors get in there, and which don’t. It will likely be an eye-opener. the truth is not what you think it is The word “truth” is something actors hear a lot about. Meisner’s famous formulation that acting is “living truthfully under imaginary circumstances” is invoked again and again, by me and many other acting teachers, whether they teach Meisner or not. Actors come to understand that truth is synonymous with good acting. But is that really saying anything? What is truth, anyway? I think a lot of people equate truth with believability. But this is begging the question. What makes an audience believe something? The answer that I think most people walk around with in their heads is that a performance has to have the appearance of real life. It has to look like real life. It has to be life-like. It has to be natural. It has to appear real. But let’s think about that for a minute. A few observations: I ran into some recent grads from the acting program at the Yale School of Drama not too long ago. I asked them about the curriculum there (it’s been a couple of decades since I walked the hallowed halls there). I was interested to learn that while they were introduced to a number of movement modalities during their time there, the only one that they were required to study for all three years while they were there was the Alexander technique. And what is the Alexander technique? Well, in a nutshell, it’s a practice of bringing an awareness of the design of the skeleton and muscles to everyday life, so that as we move through our days, we do so with less effort and greater ease than we would otherwise employ. Of course there is a lot more to it than that, but that’s my nutshell description. Anyway, Yale requires all actors to study three years of it, and that is the only movement form that actors are required to study for three years. Why? Because actors who make use of it are just better than they would be otherwise. Alexander work has a dramatic effect on a performer’s work. BUT, in real life, most people are going through their days without any awareness of the Alexander technique, so they are just using their habitual ways of moving, all of the ways of moving that the Alexander technique teaches them to leave behind. So how is this life-like? The Alexander technique helps actors to appear more “real”, more “natural”, more “life-like” than they otherwise would, anyone who has witnessed its effect on actors can attest to that. But yet people in real life have all of the constricting bad habits that the Alexander technique is meant to help people to overcome. Is a puzzlement, as the King of Siam would say. Perennially, in class, I see people in scenes shift their weight on to one leg or the other, so that their hip is “popped”, like a teen-ager. By asking them to shift their weight so that their weight is evenly distributed over their two feet, their performance immediately improves. I could talk about why this is ( the hip-popping is a stepping out of the physical attitude of engagement and confrontation, that is, of relationship, it’s a signal that says “I am not a threat” to their scene partner), but that’s not really material here. What is material is that standing with the weight evenly distributed invariably makes their work better. And yet, people in “real life” sometimes to pop their hip and shift their weight on to one foot. In fact, I just recently heard an Alexander teacher explain to people why that wasn’t a good thing to do. And she wouldn’t have had to explain it if people didn’t do it. So what gives? Standing “over the center” makes people more engaging to watch, as well as, somehow, more real to watch, and yet people in real life do stand with their weight not over their center, but rather shifted to one side. Another one: eye contact. Actors often want to disengage visually from their partners before they start to speak. Often, this is about trying to remember their line (the eye contact is distracting and makes it harder to concentrate on recalling the line), and then there is also the matter that if I am looking into someone else’s eyes, they are looking into mine, which is scary, because of that business about the eyes being the window of the soul, and all that. It’s intimate. So it’s less scary, in the moment when starting to speak, to express one’s self, to look away. Here’s the thing: when I stop said actors from doing this, when I ask them to always make eye contact with the partner before starting to speak, and then I insist on it, and stop them every time they don’t do what I’ve asked and call attention to that, until they make the shift into eye-contact-when starting-to-speak, their work gets much better! Again, I could get into the reasons for this (they are finding the impulse to speak in the partner by looking at them when starting to speak), but that’s not really the point. The point is that they get indisputably better, more engaging to watch and more authentic, when they submit to this discipline, and yet, and yet, people in real life look away when they start to speak. They do it often! So, again, what gives? In all three of these cases, a technical, physical adjustment was requested of actors, and the adjustment made them better, more engaging, more real. And yet, the habits they were letting go of were things that people do in real life! How can that be? In the history of people thinking about art, there was a dispute about whether art was like a mirror or a lamp. Prior to the late eighteenth century, art was (grossly speaking) understood to be a mirror: it showed you what life was like. It reflected the surfaces of life. It reproduced life. But in the era of Romanticism, this was broadly challenged: the Romantic ethos looked at art as more like a lamp, as something that was a source of illumination, something that allowed us to see something not normally visible, something beneath or behind the surfaces of life, something that the surfaces ordinarily conceal. The notion of truth that most people walk around with, I think, is based on the idea of “believability”. Believability asks: do I (in the audience) believe this? Does this look enough like life that I can suspend my disbelief? Has the actor successfully reproduced the surfaces of life in such a way that I accept what she is doing? This is the actor as mirror: have I made my performance look enough like real life so that it is believed? But what the examples above suggest is that there is another criteria for truth, which we might call expressive power. An actor who can, while reproducing the surfaces of life, also reveal the depths, has this expressive power. All of the adjustments I talked about above make it more possible for us, as the audience, to experience what is happening in the core of the actor, in ways that we don’t really even realize as we watch (mirror neurons! ). We can see into the actor. So acting is not just reproducing the surfaces of life, but doing so while simultaneously letting us experience the depths. A friend of mine, a very good actor and a playwright as well, once said she thought that a good actor was someone who could make themselves transparent. I remember being surprised by this at the time, but now I know exactly what she means. Real people aren’t transparent in everyday life, in the way that a great actor is in enacting a life prepared by a writer. The actor is a lamp, not a mirror. He lets us see something ordinarily invisible. I think this helps us understand what Stanislavsky meant when he said that acting is “the life of the human soul receiving its birth through technique.” Most of us don’t walk around being aware of our own souls, or anyone else’s, all the time. That’s what art and spiritual practice help us to recall and reconnect with. What Stanislavsky was saying is that the actor is someone who, as she enacts a story, pulls back the curtain and gives us an experience of her soul. She shines a light. And that, my friends, is the honest truth. the trouble with “method” and emotional memory Most people, actors or not, I’d venture to guess, are familiar with the basic idea of emotional memory: an actor tries to relive an episode from his or her own life in order to conjure the emotional state called for in a scene or even a moment. It’s an idea that’s fairly simple to grasp, and seems intuitively appealing: why shouldn’t the actor be able to make use of her own experiences in realizing the emotional life of the role? And in fact it became the basis of the Method, as evangelized by Lee Strasberg. One reason, articulated by Stanislavsky and by Stella Adler and Sanford Meisner, is that the emotional memory takes the actor out of the present moment of the scene he is attempting to play. If he is focused on something that happened years ago, he is not relating to the actors he is in the scene with. Actors everywhere understand that it’s important to be in the moment, and so this explanation of why emotional memory is problematic carries some weight. I think there is another, very important reason that emotional memory is problematic. And that is its superficiality. Let me explain. We’ve all had the experience of having a fight with someone close to us. When we’re in the throes of the fight, we can feel righteous anger coursing through us: this person has failed us in some absolutely egregious way, and the anger we feel is vigorous, often overwhelming. Then, time passes. Some hours. A day. A few days. A week. A month. We begin to feel something else towards this person: a mixture of regret at having fought, sadness at feeling disconnected, and some measure of tenderness towards the person in question. Now, if that that moment, someone said to us, “Well, what about the anger? What happened to that?”, we would likely just shrug our shoulders and say “I was just mad. It passed.” And then if we’re asked, “So which is the truer, deeper reflection of how you really feel about this person, the anger or the emotions you’re feeling now?”, we would almost certainly say the feelings we are feeling now are truer and deeper. And I think we can recognize that the emotions we are feeling now, some distance from the fight, don’t just feel truer and deeper because we happen to be feeling them now: they are our deepest, truest feelings about the person in question. So what we can see here is that our emotional life has two layers, or it appears to at least: one, the in-the-moment, transient emotional states that arise and vanish in the roughand-tumble of a day in the life. And then the deeper layer, where we can sense the true significance that people have for us, their true importance for us as ongoing partners in the pursuit of connection and satisfaction. Emotional memory deals only with the surface emotional states: I’m mad, I’m joyful, I’m worried, I’m confused, etc. It doesn’t touch the deeper layer that is the source of feeling in the superficial layer. We get mad at someone BECAUSE they are someone we count on and have been supported by in the past, but in THIS moment he or she is failing to have our back or letting us down or betraying us, etc. The deeper layer is what is known by psychologists as attachment. We become attached to people as ongoing sources of good stuff in our lives. We can have a range of emotions about someone in any given encounter, but none of that changes deeper way in which we recognize them as important sources of value for us. The approach to acting that I teach attempts to bring the actor into connection with the deep attachment to the partner. This attachment finds expression through need, or what we call underlying objective. The actor attempts to be in touch with the deep need for connection that is the basis of the attachment. Then, as the partner is encountered in the scene, and sh*t goes down in the crucible of encounter, a whole host of feelings can arise and transform from moment to moment in response to those developments, and they arise organically from the deep sense of connection we have in the relationships in our lives. With emotional memory, the actor has to come up with one memory for one section of the scene where jealousy is called for, and another where fear is called for, and another where arousal is called for, etc. This is an entirely inorganic process, where the actor is manipulating her own emotional state based on what she thinks the scene should look like, as considered from the perspective of the observer. It’s not a performance that arises organically from the give and take with the partner or from a connection to the essence of the relationship itself. Which brings us to a basic truth about drama: it’s about what happens between people, not about what happens inside the actor. Emotional memory focuses entirely on what happens inside the actor, and disregards relationship as an essential, defining component of drama. There may be specific kinds of challenges for which emotional memory is useful (“He enters, weeping.”), but as the basis of an actor’s process, it misses the mark. Entirely. the actor: child AND adult What draws many of us to acting is the “play-acting” aspect of it: we like to dress up and pretend to be other people, with other people who like to do that as well. There is something wonderfully child-like about all of this, and in fact, Earle Gister, one of my teachers at the Yale School of Drama, liked to quote Nietzsche: “Man’s maturity: to have regained the seriousness that he had as a child at play.” To be able to abandon ourselves to a world of the imagination, and allow our inner lives, our moments of triumph and exaltation, and our moments of devastating grief and loss, to be laid bare in the process. This process of fearlessly sharing ourselves with child-like abandon is what draws most of us to this prodigious pursuit. However, on the way to being able to do that is an enormous amount of hard work. The acting we consume on TV and in the movies has been air-brushed, so to speak, with musical underscoring, lighting, editing, and all manner of show biz magic. That’s not to say it isn’t good, but great care has been taken to make sure that it looks effortless. Acting isn’t effortless, though, most of the time, and learning to act is even less so. Learning to act necessarily means being brought face-to-face with your limitations, so you can begin to see the need to get beyond them, and to understand how what is being offered you in acting class helps you to get beyond them. In any endeavor, acting or otherwise, this process of being confronted with your current limitations is difficult but absolutely unavoidable. There is no growth without this, no matter how you slice it, no matter what technique you are doing. And not everyone wants to go through that process, frankly, or at least acting, they learn, is not the craft for which they wish to subject themselves to this process. The ability to face limitations, persevere, and ultimately move past them is an adult faculty. Children have to do some of it, as part of the process of growing up, but we tend to limit the amount of this that we ask children to subject themselves to, I suppose because growing up is hard enough, and because we worry that children don’t yet have the emotional resilience to handle this process. Facing limitations, failing, and getting up again and soldiering on: the ability to do this is something that we think of as a form of maturity. Whether this is in a martial art, or in learning a musical instrument, or a foreign language, or whatever: the tenacity and the ability to keep going in the face of failure is a hallmark of the grown-up. The real word is a tough place for anyone lacking some measure of this. And there are other ways in which acting, in spite of its child-like essence of make-believe, asks for adult characteristics. In a previous post, I wrote about how adults are more sensitive to context in the way they understand things than children are. This is very important for actors, as every scene is embedded in a larger narrative, the full script, that functions as a context. But beyond that, acting asks for the readiness to take on a complex task that requires an array of abilities. We must be able to read closely and carefully, from the character’s point of view. We must envision, with all of our senses, the people, places and things that make up the imaginary world of the role, and invest in that world, make that world of make-believe matter to us in the ways it needs to. We have to identify compelling goals to pursue as the character, that help us to become absorbed with our whole being, heart, mind, and body, with the scene at hand. We must identify the major milestones or shifts in the scene, and understand how we arrive at them and how we are changed by them. We must have the ability, as we develop a performance, to maintain the shape of that performance, so that important parts of it don’t disappear from one rehearsal to the next (a mentor of mine in graduate school, who had won awards directing Off-Broadway, said that it was ten years out of graduate school before she felt she was working with actors with whom she didn’t have to live in terror of what was going to deteriorate in any given performance. Ten years! Out of graduate school!) There is a breadth and complexity to what I have described above that requires maturity to undertake and sustain. This is not child’s play, any more than playing a Mozart Concerto is, or playing a tournament tennis game. It’s these “adult” aspects of acting that surprise many beginning students of the craft. Again, after all, on TV they make it look so easy. So we need both: we need never to lose our child-like ability to abandon ourselves to the present moment of make-believe, and we also need the very “adult” ability to craft our work. Both are indispensable. “Plans are worthless but planning is indispensable.” – Dwight D. Eisenhower “The readiness is all.” – Hamlet do you really want to know? I write often on my blog about how getting better as an actor is generally not a matter of tips and tricks, but rather a matter of learning a craft, something that takes time, persistence, dedication, and patience. However, here is a simple thing that can make a difference: whenever you have a line in a scene that is phrased as a question, in other words, a sentence that ends in a question mark, TREAT IT AS A REAL QUESTION! All the time, I see actors treat lines written as questions as merely rhetorical questions. This is almost never a good idea. Why not? Because a rhetorical question is by definition, a question that is not intended to elicit an answer. And why is that a problem? Because the poser of a rhetorical question is assuming that she knows how the person on the receiving end of the question will answer. And why is that a problem? Because it’s making a decision about the UNIMPORTANCE of input from the partner at some point in the scene. And that is never a good thing to do. Usually, when actors unconsciously decide to make a question rhetorical, it’s so that they can get on to the next line without having to do anything like look for an answer from the other person, that is, to receive off of them, as we say in my classes. But that receiving is what exactly has to be happening at each moment. “Treat it as a real question. Wait for an answer.” is a simple directive that often achieves powerful results very quickly. Just treating a line written as a question as a real question is already a good thing to do, but a further next step is to ask yourself: if this question that my lines include is in fact a real question, how might that prompt me to reconsider how I have understood the scene? This can be a powerful nutcracker for getting at what is really going on in the scene. Usually the choice to make a question rhetorical gives aid and comfort to some (unhelpful) assumptions an actor has made about the scene. The question of how the scene would be viewed differently if what were taken to be rhetorical questions were actually treated as real questions has revolutionary potential in the mind of the actor, but she has to be open to seeing things differently. I can hear you thinking: can you give me an example? Consider this speech of Stanley’s from Streetcar: “When we first met, me and you, you thought I was common. How right you was, baby. I was common as dirt. You showed me the snapshot of the place with the columns. I pulled you down off them columns and how you loved it, having them colored lights going! And wasn’t we happy together, wasn’t it all okay till she showed here?” The speech ends with a question: “wasn’t it all okay till she showed here?” Now do the thought experiment. How would you speak the above paraphrase as a rhetorical question, which is the way we are all likely to be tempted to say it? In other words, if you know that it was all ok until Blanch showed up? Now — what would it be like to really ask that question as a real question, to which the answer was important? Do you see how it changes the scene? Do you? By speaking the speech as a real question, Stella’s answer — to the all-important question of whether the relationship was sound or not — matters. Which is a much more high-stakes, much “hotter” way of treating that moment then treating her answer as a foregone conclusion. That would make the speech veer perilously close to being a lecture, something that has no place in a scene like this. PS While in real life people do ask rhetorical questions, it’s better to err on the side of caution as an actor and assume a question is a real one, and then let a director tell you otherwise if she wants the line delivered as a rhetorical question. We as actors are tempted to treat questions as rhetorical, and not for good reasons, so the best rule of thumb is to always treat questions as real rather than rhetorical. contested space, or, getting out of your head (and into the room) Drama is about what happens between people (not about what happens inside them). Actors are made to worry a lot about being “in their heads”. However, anyone who has worked closely with actors for any length of time, and has some understanding of what good acting is, knows that actors themselves aren’t very good judges, most of the time, of whether or not they are in their heads. That’s why the “outside eye”, whether it’s a director, a teacher, a coach, or a friend with a discerning eye, is so crucial for the actor’s work. One thing actors can do to increase the odds of not being in their head is to have a *vision* for how the character wants the scene to unfold. A vision is something like an objective, only a having a vision means that the actor can actually picture what it would look like to get their objective. What would have to happen, in real time, for the objective to be met. What would be said, what would be done. And the what would be done part *includes* what would happen *spatially*: does it mean someone would give ground? vacate the space entirely? offer a chair? get down on bended knee before you? what would the accomplishing of said objective look like in the space in real time? Knowing what that would look like, *having* said vision is one thing. It’s equally important that you *play to win*, which means actively wishing for that vision to become a reality, and then engaging with the scene partner(s) to make it so, in a take-no-prisoners kind of way. In other words, like you mean it. Another important piece of this is what Uta Hagen calls *destination*. What she is talking about with destination is the way that certain movements become *necessary*: for me to get what I want, it becomes *necessary* that I go sit next to you on the couch. For me to get what I want, it becomes *necessary* that I go and look at the bookshelf, so as not to appear too needy, or too confrontational. Destination means the way in which physical positions in a space seem to call out to us, to demand that we move to occupy them. But it’s also true that physical positions *outside* of a space can demand movement as well: as it becomes clear that you are not going to join me on my mission, I may start to feel a tremendous urge to go to my friend’s place across town, who may be a more persuadable candidate. The first step of which is making my way out of your apartment and out onto the street, where I can get an uber. So if the scene is in your apartment, then the door to your apartment starts to *call to me*, it beckons, it extends a kind of tractor beam that pulls me toward it. This tractor beam may switch on, even at a low intensity, long before the point in the scene when I actually go through the door. At the first flicker of a suggestion of a hint that you might not be the one who is going to join in my crusade, I may start to feel that tractor beam, but at a very low intensity. Still, that keeps the door to the apartment within my “circle of concentration”, as Stanislavsky called it, within the contours of my awareness. Then, as more signals emerge, as it starts to seem less and less likely that you are going to become Robin to my Batman, that destination of the door “heats up”, the tractor beam becomes stronger, and harder to resist. It’s only at the moment when you break out into a rousing a capella rendition of “It Ain’t Me, Babe”, that I surrender to the tractor beam and walk out the door– (and this is important:) on my way (hopefully!) to something better. So here’s the thing: if you have a vision, and/or a destination is exerting its power over you, and therefore that destination is on your mind. then you are *not in your head.* You are *in the space*. Your awareness is on the space and what should happen in it, or is partly involved with something outside the space whose siren’s song is calling you to it. But you are not thinking about what you look like, what emotion you should have, how you should say a line in order to have said emotion, etc. You are not *managing your selfpresentation*, which is what being in your head really means. You are engaged, mentally and physically, with the other actors and with the space around you. And that physical engagement is important: to use Uta Hagen’s word, that physical engagement results in the *animation* of the actor’s body. The body becomes oriented and engaged with the circumstances and the unfolding scene, rather than being stiff or fidgety. The actor becomes a *contender* within the space of the scene. And that is always something to behold. Actors perennially want getting out of their heads to be something that *just happens* if they *focus* and are determined and want it badly enough. That’s not what it is, and that’s a good thing, although it may take a while to get that. In the end, it’s much better that you can identify things to focus on and then focus on them and have *that* be the way you get out of your head, rather than having it be a matter of just wanting it really badly and being determined and focusing. Because everyone else out there wants it really badly, and plenty of them have determination, and more than a few can focus on something. But they don’t all have real techniques that can help them get the job done. And that means that if you do what it takes to get those techniques, which is, admittedly, hard work, but nonetheless, if you do what it takes to get those techniques, you *can* distinguish yourself. And that’s a very good thing indeed.
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