excited to share their discoveries with others. Finally, observation and reflection support teachers' understanding of their images of children. Children's actions and language enable them to describe what they observe. Teachers who think about children's intentionality and depth of understanding are likely to experience a thirst for further study of child development. The educators at Reggio Emilia have provoked teachers in the United States and elsewhere in the world to consider their cultural images of children–and thus their teaching practices. Teachers who are inspired by this approach eagerly seek ways to deepen their understanding of children as knowledgeable co-learners with their teachers. The ways teachers view children's potential and power strengthen their interaction with children, enable them to plan a more responsive curriculum, and design learning environments that encourage children to meaningfully explore themselves and the world around them. References Cadwell, L. (1997). Bringing Reggio Emilia home: An innovative approach to early childhood education. New York: Teachers College Press. Edwards, C., Gandini, L., & Forman, G. (1998). The hundred languages of children: The Reggio Emilia approach– advanced reflections. Greenwich, CT: Ablex. Forman, G. (1999). Instant video revisiting: The video camera as a tool of the mind for young children. Early Childhood Research and Practice, 1, (2). Retrieved from http;//ecrp.uiuc.edu/ vln2/forman.html Fu, V.R., Stremmel, A.J., & Hill, L.T. (2002). Teaching and learning: Collaborative exploration of the Reggio Emilia approach. Columbus, OH: Merrill Prentice-Hall. Gandini, L., & Edwards, P.C. (Eds.) (2001). Bambini: The Italian approach to infant/toddler care. New York: Teachers College Press. Gandini, L., & Goldhaber, J. (2001). Two reflections about documentation. In L. Gandini & C.P. Edwards (Eds.). Bambini: The Italian approach to infant/toddler care (pp. 124-145). New York: Teachers College Press. Hendrick, J. (1997). First steps toward teaching the Reggio way. Upper Saddle River, NJ: Prentice-Hall. Hughes, E. (2002, Spring). Planning meaningful curriculum from observation: A mini-story of children and teachers learning together. Childhood Education, 78(3): 134-139. Hughes, E. (2000). "If you have sun and you rain you get a rainbow:" Creating meaningful curriculum from young children's actions and words. Journal of Early Childhood Teacher Education, 20(2): 89-100. Lewis, M., & Brooks-Gunn, J. (1979). Social cognition and the acquisition of self. New York: Plenum. Malaguzzi, L. (1994). Your image of the child: Where teaching begins. Child Care Information Exchange, 96, 52-61. Rinaldi, C. (2001). Reggio Emilia: The image of the child and the child's environment as fundamental principle. In L. Gandini & C.P. Edwards (Eds.). Bambini: The Italian approach to infant/toddler care (pp. 49-54). New York: Teachers College Press. Thank You, Reviewers SECA expresses its appreciation to these people who reviewed the articles that appear in this issue: Denise Da Ros-Voseles Eleanor Duff Loraine Dunn E. Anne Eddowes Aaron Fink, M.D. Janet Foster Stephen Graves Peggy O. Jessee Susan Kontos Mary Langenbrunner Karen M. La Paro Joann Niffenegger Margaret Puckett Christine A. Readdick Dean Richey Jean Shaw Anne Stanberry How can families and teachers support children's healthy self-concepts? These concrete suggestions for families and educators are drawn from the best research and theory. Self-Esteem and Young Children: Guiding Principles Muriel Azria-Evans develops largely from an individual's social interactions and the relationships in which they are embedded (Hartup, 1989; Yabiku, Axinn, & Thornton, 1999). Parents, teachers, coaches, peers, grandparents, and siblings, to name a few, make up children's social environment. Children's opinions about their competence, control, and worth develop out of close involvement with these people (Hartup). Adults, including parents and teachWhat Is Self-Esteem? ers, relay information to children Precursors of Although self-esteem does not through words, facial expressions, and self-esteem begin emerge fully until middle childhood actions. Direct and indirect informain infancy. (Harter, 1998), precursors of selftion influences a child's evaluation of esteem begin in significant relationthe self. The self is an "abstraction ships that develop during infancy that an individual develops about the attributes, capaci(Bowlby, 1988). These relationships form children's internal working models or scripts, which will define ties, objects, and activities which [s]he possesses and purtheir expectations of self and others. Children's internal sues" (Coopersmith, 1967, p. 20). It has been well docrepresentations of self are gradually supported or reject- umented that even young children possess the ability to ed by the socializing environment (Bowlby). In other organize information relevant to themselves (Cooley, words, developmental changes in self-representation and 1909; Eder, 1990; Harter, 1998; Mead, 1934). Children's concepts of themselves, derived fundamentally eventual self-esteem occur in the context of the child's from interpersoncognitive construct and social environment (Harter). al relationships, Coopersmith (1967), a leader in the study of selfChildren's concepts of influence their esteem, defined self-esteem as the evaluation an individthemselves influence ual makes regarding him- or herself. "It indicates the future behavior. their future behavior. Self-esteem includes many aspects of self-evaluation that develop over time in the context of significant social relationships. The purpose of this article is to define self-esteem, show the relation between selfesteem and children's social environment, and offer practical suggestions to help foster the development of healthy self-esteem in young children. extent to which the individual believes himself to be capable, significant, successful, and worthy" (p. 5). Coopersmith observed that self-esteem evolves from three basic needs: 1) the need to belong, 2) the need to feel capable, and 3) the need to be worthwhile. Influence of caregiving styles One of the first interpersonal relationships to develop is between children and their parents. Baumrind (1971, 1989) has described two distinct dimensions of caregiving How Does Self-Esteem Develop? Muriel Azria-Evans, Ph.D., CFLE, is Assistant Professor, School of Family and Consumer Sciences, Child and Family Studies, University of Southern Mississippi, Hattiesburg. Self-esteem is a social construct (Cooley, 1909) that 20 Volume 32, Number 1 DIMENSIONS OF EARLY CHILDHOOD Winter 2004 Winter 2004 DIMENSIONS OF EARLY CHILDHOOD Volume 32, Number 1 21 (responsiveness and demandingness) that sustain various caregiving styles (authoritarian, permissive, and authoritative). Different caregiving styles are gauged by their degree of responsiveness and demandingness. Neglectful caregivers oftentimes have been ineffective in disciplining their children in the past, so they succumb to allowing their children to make their own decisions. They are considered to be low in responsiveness and • Responsiveness refers to the demandingness. They allow degree to which caregivers self-regulation of activities and are supportive, cued into avoid exercising control. children's developmental On the other hand, indulneeds, and available to meet gent caregivers, while warm and their needs. responsive, choose not to exer• Demandingness refers to the cise control because they extent to which caregivers believe that they do not have a have and state expectations right to control their child in for behavior, supervise and any way. These caregivers are monitor behavior, and are considered low in demandingwilling to confront a child. Although Baumrind's careness but high in responsiveness giving styles have been preand are generally nonpunitive, dominantly used to describe accepting, and affirmative. Nancy P. Alexander parents, they are also appropriBy their actions, neglectful Relationships characterized by authoritative guidance, ate in describing other significaregivers in particular, and cant adults who interact with mutual respect, and cooperation contribute to feelings of indulgent ones as well, are self-worth and healthy self-esteem. young children, including telling children that no one is teachers, child care providers, there for them, which may esteem). Children may fear that they coaches, and religious educators. make children feel discounted, will be abandoned if they make a Authoritarian caregivers demon- mistake, and conclude that rules are scared, and hurt. From these feelings strate high levels of demandingness more important than their needs. children may make one of two conand low levels of responsiveness Children who are exposed to pre- clusions about themselves: "I must (Baumrind, 1971, 1989). They gendominantly controlling adults take care of other people's feelings" erally use set standards of conduct to develop a sense of self that is indecior "Because no one cares about me, control and shape children's behav- sive and that needs or seeks control I will have to do everything on my ior. They value unquestioned obedi- from others (DeVries & Zan, 1994). own." These two perceptions reflect ence and often have unrealistic In contrast, many adults uncon- children's feelings of not belonging expectations. One side effect of an sciously choose to use a permissive and lack of worth, both of which are authoritarian caregiving style is the caregiving style in which children components of less-than-healthy underlying message being sent to are actually the powerful ones and self-esteem. Authoritative caregivers, on the the child. Messages such as "your the adults are powerless (Baumrind, needs are not important and there- 1971, 1989). Permissive caregivers other hand, demonstrate high levels fore ultimately you are not impor- fall in two categories, those who are of both demandingness and respontant" cause children to feel power- neglectful and those who are indul- siveness (Baumrind, 1971, 1989). They commonly encourage verbal less, angry, rejected, and inadequate. gent. Both of these caregiving styles These feelings may surface as grant freedom to children before give and take and use reason and children hear and come to believe they are capable of handling the reinforcement in shaping behavior. Authoritative caregivers generally that they are not important (i.e., responsibility. have appropriate expectations of lack of worth, a component of self- 22 Volume 32, Number 1 DIMENSIONS OF EARLY CHILDHOOD Winter 2004 dler saying, "I see me going way, way down there!" Placing the mirror above her head, a girl said, "I am here." Once again, a teacher's attention to a toddler's discovery helped maintain children's interest and excitement, and led to a sharing of ideas. In another situation, children held up mirrors and noticed reflected images of children who were standing behind them. "I can see Tracy. Tracy is over there!" one child shouted. Another child observed, "I can see outside." Both children saw reflections of children who were playing behind them. Pablo was sitting on the couch looking at his reflection in two mirrors. He had placed one in front of him and another on the floor behind him. He exclaimed, "I see me. All of me!" When Jennifer revisited photographs of these play experiences, she tried to better understand how children were learning about their bodies in space. Some questions she asked herself included: • What does children's language reveal about the concepts they are constructing? • How do interactions with mirrors promote further exploration? "Double, I see double!" Winter 2004 • What is the difference between seeing one's reflection in a mirror and watching a video recording of oneself? • What connections with prior experiences lead children forward? How do learning opportunities provide possibilities for understanding concepts in different ways? • How do teachers decide to respond? What informs their decisions? Think Deeply About the Documentation Jennifer studied her observations and documentation at several different points. • As she conducted observations, she thought about what she was viewing. • When she revisited her observations with other teachers, she had opportunities to interpret and reflect on the children's actions and to use these understandings to make betterinformed decisions about daily practices. • Finally, as time passed, Jennifer reflected on the meaning of her learning experiences and those of the children. Studying documentation gathered through observation enables teachers to better understand young children in many ways. First, teachers who follow children's actions better understand how their concepts develop. For example, as toddlers explored their sense of self, they used language to express their ideas about DIMENSIONS OF EARLY CHILDHOOD self-image, size, spatial relationships, reflections, and perspective. Second, tools such as camcorders help teachers and children focus their attention. Questions that arise during reflection include: How does focused attention on children motivate and extend a teacher's interest level, which, in turn, provokes further study about toddler learning? Why does revisiting experiences with toddlers maintain their interest? How does the thoughtful study of children's actions and words lead to connected experiences for children? The opportunity to think deeply about how to plan meaningful experiences is an outcome of reviewing documentation over time (Cadwell, 1997; Edwards, Gandini, & Forman, 1998; Fu, Stremmel, & Hill, 2002; Hendrick, 1997; Hughes, 2000, 2002). Toddlers AND teachers need time to explore and reflect on their actions. Jennifer discovered how essential it is to have time to sift through her work and organize her observations. She appreciated this cyclical nature of documentation as being an important step to her inquiry (Gandini & Goldhaber, 2001). Just as toddlers need time to explore and reflect on their actions, so do teachers. Third, teachers recognize how children create bonds with each other when they enjoy shared learning experiences. Toddlers in Jennifer's group continue to be presented with experiences that offer possibilities for inquiry. Natural interactions then occur as children explore their common interests. They are Volume 32, Number 1 19 Mercedes put her mirrors together just like the teacher and Jazdia did. boy touched the image of another child and then went over and touched the boy's face. Another child looked down at his image when he appeared on the television screen, and then walked behind the television to look for himself. The children's reactions to the video provide insights about how children explore their understanding of sense of self and the representation of self as an image. Observations like these can help teachers confirm that a toddler's "categorical" self emerges during Kerrie moves the mirror in close to her face. 18 Volume 32, Number 1 the second year (Lewis & BrooksGunn, 1979). These types of experiences may well support children's development of their self-concepts. Toddlers might well be exploring the question, "What is the meaning of this image, separate from myself?" Jennifer also questioned her understanding of the meaning of friendships for children at this age. She observed how, when interests were shared, children readily acknowledged the presence of other children. She revisited her understanding of parallel play and the socialization of toddlers. Clearly, shared interests were a powerful tool for bringing children together. Mirror, Mirror Jennifer decided to find ways extend the toddlers' exploration of their images. She was curious whether children would play with their images of each other and revisit them without a camcorder. How could the environment be modified to further children's play with images? The teachers in the classroom discussed how toddlers often carried their belongings around the room. They decided to make "traveling mirrors" from Mylar® that could be used by toddlers in multiple ways. Children were soon observed exploring the mirrors. Kerrie looked at herself, bringing the mirror in so close that it touched her face. Another child looked at the mirror, and then turned the mirror to show his reflection to another child. Jazdia's teacher put two mirrors together as though she were holding a book. Jazdia soon positioned two mirrors in the same way. Mercedes, who was watching Jazdia, put her mirrors together in the same way. The two toddlers examined their mirrors, looking back and forth. Later, Jazdia stood on top of two mirrors and exclaimed, "Double, I see double!" Jennifer asked her, "What's double?" Jadzia replied, "Right here!" pointing to the two mirrors stacked on top of each other. Jennifer responded, "Jennifer and Jennifer!" Jazdia then went for another child to show him that if two mirrors are stacked on each other, one sees "double." The children were also observed standing on the mirrors with one tod- A teacher holds up two mirrors like a book. Jazdia mirror the same way. DIMENSIONS OF EARLY CHILDHOOD positions her Winter 2004 children's behavior based on their development and are willing to enforce clearly established rules. Accordingly, they demonstrate through their actions that the welfare of children is important and that the adults in their world are able to be both warm and responsible. They give the implicit messages that children's needs are important, as are the needs of others. In response, children may feel safe, supported, but also frustrated, and resistant at times. Feelings of safety and support are a result of the warmth and respect elicited by the parent. Occasional feelings of frustration and resistance may also develop from having to follow certain rules and guidelines. These feelings result from the notion that while there are some rules they must follow, they are loved and supported in their efforts to follow certain reasonable expectations. Because these expectations are clearly stated and children with authoritative caregivers are supported, they generally feel capable in their efforts, which is an important component of healthy self-esteem. In the 30 years since Baumrind's (1971) formulation of these parenting styles, more attention has been given to the adaptive nature of parenting behavior. For instance, such adaptation takes place when parents residing in dangerous neighborhoods use very stringent child management techniques to ensure their children's safety (Brody & Flor, 1998). Brody and Flor (1998) termed this type of parenting "no nonsense parenting." It is defined by high levels of parental control, greater than would be expected from authoritative parents, coupled with affection- Winter 2004 ate behaviors, more than would be expected from authoritarian parents. Accordingly, this type of parenting style falls between what Baumrind identified as authoritative and authoritarian. This form of parenting "communicates to the child that the parent is vigilant and concerned for the child's welfare" (Brody & Flor, p. 805), which should consequently nurture healthy self-esteem in childhood and beyond. Because self-esteem is a social construct, children's interpersonal interactions with others will influence their self-evaluation. Relationships characterized by authoritative guidance, mutual respect, and cooperation (Baumrind, 1989; DeVries & Zan, 1994), contribute to feelings of self-worth and healthy selfesteem (Buri, Louiselle, Misukanis, & Mueller, 1988). Various behaviors within the context of such relationships can strengthen children's acceptance of themselves and others, self-control of their behavior, sense of moral worth, and feelings of competence. Six specific suggestions for families and other caregivers to foster the positive development of children's self-esteem follow. Although some suggestions might appear natural and elementary, they are nonetheless fundamental to the development of young children's self-esteem. 1. Express genuine interest in children and engage in joint activities willingly. Children can sense when an adult is sincerely interested in their company or when they are spending time out of duty. Both verbal and nonverbal communication conveys messages to children as to whether or not adults are genuine in their DIMENSIONS OF EARLY CHILDHOOD interest in the children and their activities. "Both sociologists and psychologists have found parents' involvement with their children's schools to be important to youth achievement and psychosocial competence" (Brody, Flor, & Gibson, 1999, p. 1199). When adults are truly interested in shared activities, their efforts are most productive (DeVries & Zan, 1994) and they communicate that the child is worthy of their time. Feeling worthy is an important dimension of healthy self-esteem (Yabiku et al., 1999). Statements such as "The green you painted in your picture makes me feel like playing in the park" sends the message that the adult is sincerely interested in the child's actions. When an adult values a child's contributions, the child is likely to feel a sense of belongingness and, consequently, an increase in healthy self-esteem (Eaton, 1997). 2. Plan age-, skill-, and culturallyappropriate activities that encourage children to problem solve. Children benefit from participating in activities for which they can make real decisions and contributions. Because children can be very creative in designing solutions and solving problems, adults should make time to discuss solutions to concerns and problems with children (Nelsen, Erwin, & Duffy, 1998). When children take responsibility by making a contribution, such as helping a teacher or solving a class dilemma, healthy self-esteem is fostered. For instance, a broken water pipe at a laboratory school allowed children to problem solve by answering the question, "How can we wash our hands before Volume 32, Number 1 23 snack?" Their responses included: "We could take all our buckets and go next door to get water." "We could use wet wipes to clean our hands." "My mother buys water at the grocery store." By offering suggestions for solving the problem, children felt connected to each other and viewed themselves as hard workers. Such traits are enduring (Verschueren, Marcoen, & Buyck, 1998) and are internalized, thus promoting healthy self-esteem. Role-playing is also a great avenue to help children begin to learn problem-solving skills. Roleplaying enables them to practice behaviors–both appropriate and inappropriate–in a safe setting (Curry & Johnson, 1990). Boys and girls in dramatic play centers, for instance, can be firefighters, astronauts, nurses, babies, or farmers! They develop important problemsolving skills by sharing responsibilities, clarifying adult roles, and making group decisions. 3. Use active, reflective listening to acknowledge children's emotional needs. All feelings are legitimate (Gordon, 1970). Children communicate their feelings through words and actions. Active, reflective listening is based on the idea that when children communicate with adults they do so because they have a need. Active listeners are open and approachable. Steps in active listening include, but are not limited to: 1) playing the "guessing game" with preverbal infants and toddlers (i.e., stating feelings and behaviors that the child might be experiencing), 2) giving names to different feel- 24 Volume 32, Number 1 Subjects & Predicates Through role-playing, children develop important problem-solving skills as they share responsibilities, clarify adult roles, and make group decisions. ings (e.g., sadness vs. frustration vs. anger), and 3) reflecting children's feelings with statements such as "It sounds like . . ." or "I hear you saying . . ." (Gordon). Statements such as "I know you are angry right now. You wanted to play with the doll first. It's hard to wait but you will have a turn when April is finished" communicates trust and confidence in children that they can deal with their feelings. By accepting and respecting children's positive and negative feelings, adults let children know that love is not contingent on an arbitrary standard (e.g., when the child is being "a good girl", when they "do as they are told"). 4. Give meaningful, appreciative feedback and use realistic words of encouragement to children. Verbal acknowledgement and the use of value-affirming support have been found to be related to healthy self-esteem (Kernis, Brown, & Brody, 2000). Feedback on how children DIMENSIONS OF EARLY CHILDHOOD have performed tasks is an important source of information about children's capabilities. A sense of mastery and competence is a significant component of healthy self-esteem. Not all feedback and/or praise are equal, however (Hitz & Driscoll, 1988). Effective feedback/encouragement, or what has been called "descriptive reinforcement" (Hitz & Driscoll), is more valuable than empty praise and flattery, which quickly becomes ineffective and superfluous. Empty praise and flattery actually may harm rather than support children by causing dependence, competition, and resentment (Hitz & Driscoll, 1988; Mangin, 1998). Descriptive responses, on the other hand, help children recognize their own accomplishments. They highlight the process instead of just the outcome (Curry & Johnson, 1990). Reinforcement is personalized when adults • use children's names, • choose a variety of encouraging words, and Winter 2004 One toddler developmental milestone is that they typically recognize themselves in pictures between the ages of 19 and 24 months, which is what Kerrie did. Forman (1999) points out that when young children view their own images, they use a third-person point of reference. Again, that is exactly what Kerrie did. Forman (1999) refers to the camcorder as a "tool of the mind" for teachers. By knowing how toddlers develop, and observing them in action, Jennifer and her staff can teach in a way that is responsive to children's interests and knowledge. Children's excitement as they saw their images on the camera screen led Jennifer to ask herself questions, such as "How do children come to understand the representation of self as an image?" After reflecting on the learning opportunities that the camera opened up for teachers, Jennifer decided to focus her future observations on toddlers' curiosity and their understanding of themselves, their image of self. Watching Children Watch Themselves The second time the camera was used, Jennifer wanted to observe children's interactions with it. What else would they say or do when they saw their images in the screen? Immediately she noted that children spent a lot of time intently watching themselves. Her interest in them had apparently heightened their interest in themselves! Jennifer saw that Danny tried to make sense of his image by touching his face as he watched the video screen. Danny commented, "I see Pablo." He moved the camera and said, "I see Kerrie." Turning to Jennifer, he asked, "Where is Danny?" Both teacher and children began to value the recognition that emerges from observation of the other. Malaguzzi (1994) speaks to the value of and need for adults and children to be observed and the resulting pleasure that results. He notes: When the child is observed, the child is happy–it's almost an honor that he is observed by an adult. On the other hand, a good teacher who knows how to observe feels good about himself because that person knows that he is able to take something from the situation, transform it, and understand it in a new way. (p. 55) By viewing toddlers as worthy of recognition, and as individuals who have interests, ideas, and theories, teachers enhance their own positive image of toddlers. As the children became more familiar with the camera, they engaged in shared experiences that "I see Pablo. I see Kerrie. Where is Danny?" Winter 2004 DIMENSIONS OF EARLY CHILDHOOD created a natural context for forming relationships with each other. Instead of a teacher directing the children to interact, the excitement of the experience encouraged children to get their peers involved on their own. Pablo entered camera range, moved in close to the screen, and then moved back. He repeated this action several times. As Pablo played with his changing image size, Mercedes came along and pointed to the screen, saying, "There's you and Pablo!" Children's actions and words can provoke questions for educators about children's understanding of themselves and others. Children spent a lot of time intently watching themselves. Everyone Watches the Tape Jennifer decided to play the videotape for the children and record their actions as they watched themselves. She wondered how the children would react to seeing themselves on the tape, and about how the children not shown would respond to the other children's images. Would the experience spread curiosity among more of children? To Jennifer's delight, the toddlers exhibited a variety of actions as they viewed the tape. Many stood up and touched the television screen when they saw themselves. Several called out their friends' names as they appeared on screen. One Volume 32, Number 1 17 How can teachers focus their observations to document, analyze, and enhance toddlers' actions? These glimpses into one classroom support the image of toddlers as competent, curious, and full of a sense of wonder! • offer a verbal description of what the children are doing to warrant effective praise (Thomas, 1991). Camera in Action! Seeing Toddlers in a Positive Light Eileen Hughes and Jennifer Lentz Early childhood educators at Italy's Reggio Emilia hold an image of children as individuals who are competent, capable, and rich with ideas. Rinaldi (2001) explains that adults construct their views of childhood from their society's social and cultural images. These theories about childhood then drive educational practices. One of the fundamental points of the Reggio philosophy is an image of the child who experiences the world, who feels a part of the world right from birth; a child who is full of curiosities, full of desire to live; a child who is full of desire and ability to communicate from the start of his or her life; a child who is fully able to create maps for his or her personal, social, cognitive, affective, and symbolic orientation. Because of all this, a young child reacts with a competent system of abilities, learning strategies, and ways of organizing relationships. (Rinaldi, 2001, p. 50) Teachers who view toddlers as individuals who are full of ideas and curious with questions and creativity will closely attend to children's words and actions. Their interactions with children closely reflect this image. Central to the daily work of Reggio Emilia teachers is the deep belief that teacher and children are coresearchers (Edwards, Gandini, & Forman, 1998). Every day, teachers use observation and documentation to help them identify children's interests, learning processes, ideas, theories, and questions. Reflection and analysis of these observations leads to a better understanding of children's development and learning. This cyclical process of observation, documentation, and reflection informs teachers' decision making about curriculum, environment, and interactions with young children. What can teachers in programs in the United States do to fine-tune their observational skills? This article looks at the experiences of a teacher seeking to better understand toddlers and their interactions in groups. 16 Volume 32, Number 1 Observe With a Focus Inspired by the Reggio Emilia approach, Jennifer, a toddler teacher, regularly observes and records children in her group with a digital camcorder. The camera has a view screen so she can see the children while she records what they're doing. Later, she transcribes their actions and words. She and other staff members use her documentation to thoughtfully plan children's learning experiences. Teachers who are beginning to observe children are often not sure what to look for. At first, Jennifer simply experimented with this more contemporary way of recording and analyzing. The focus of her observations evolved as she increasingly valued children's expressions and responses. A First Look...for Toddlers and Teachers When the camera was introduced, Jennifer's toddlers took an immediate interest in it, looking into the screen to view themselves. Kerrie, a 2-year-old, exclaimed, "There's Kerrie! There's Kerrie again," pointing Photographs courtesy of the author to the image of herself on "There's Kerrie! the screen. There's Kerrie again." Eileen Hughes, Ph.D., is Associate Professor in the Early Childhood Program, College of Education, University of Alaska Anchorage. Jennifer Lentz, B.A., is an Educational Consultant with Rural Cap Head Start, Anchorage, Alaska. DIMENSIONS OF EARLY CHILDHOOD Winter 2004 For example, when a child completes a puzzle, statements such as "I saw how you turned that puzzle piece to fit just so. You completed it!" are more effective than the overused "Good job." Feedback that is specific, genuine, and focused on what children are doing results in children's increased appreciation of their own behaviors and achievements (Hitz & Driscoll, 1988). When feedback is given is as important as how it is given. When feedback is given is as important as how it is given. Although self-esteem is influenced by other's evaluations, a healthy or authentic sense of self is a feeling that eventually develops within an individual. Consequently, when giving feedback, it is important that one does so judiciously. "Humans are by innate inclination active, curious, and desirous of challenges" (Deci & Ryan, 1992, p. 32). Consequently, feedback that is dispensed indiscriminately and without merit may hinder children's intrinsic motivation, creativity, and realistic sense of self-esteem (Deci & Ryan; Mangin, 1998). 5. Demonstrate respect for all children, family compositions, and cultures. Having authentic respect for all children, including children with differing abilities, and for children from various cultures and races (e.g., Morrison & Rodgers, 1996) sends the message that they are important. Winter 2004 Accepting and learning about children's similarities, as well as differences, goes far beyond one-time events and/or didactic lessons (Curry & Johnson, 1990). Modeling and encouraging respect for others will send a resounding message that although children and families may be diverse, they all have unique strengths to be appreciated. "Building a child's self-esteem in today's multicultural classroom must include a sensitivity to each student's linguistic heritage" (Silicone, 1995, p. 56). One way to demonstrate genuine interest in different cultures is to learn how to say key words in each language spoken by children and families in the group. Preparing a large banner to hang in front of the room with various words for welcome, for instance, will help establish an inviting classroom for older students and their families (Silicone). Because social interactions as well as academics may be challenging for children who are speakers of languages other than English or who have learning disabilities, it is important for teachers to support their academic and social competence (Convoy, Langenbrunner, & Burleson, 1996; Tamaren, 1992). Self-regulation and peer interactions influence and are influenced by selfesteem, so it is important to present opportunities for all children to master specific social skills. Creating an atmosphere of inclusion while recognizing individual differences is important in guiding the development of children's healthy self-esteem. For instance, when celebrating holidays such as Mother's Day, be sensitive to differences in family composition. Recognize and validate children who are mothered by adopted mothers, DIMENSIONS OF EARLY CHILDHOOD grandmothers, stepmothers, aunts, fathers, and uncles. Also, be wary of gender biases. It is important to be aware of the gender information children gather from the environment. Children's perceptions about themselves and their abilities is believed to be assimilated into their sense of self-esteem (Ochman, 1996). For example, always calling on males when physical help is needed sends indirect messages to females that they are not capable of completing the same task. While it is commonly expected that individuals working with children will be responsive to various cultures and religious groups, it is also important to remember that assumptions should not be made about a family's practices. "Within any cultural group–be it ethnic, racial, socioeconomic, or religious–individuals and families vary in their beliefs and adherence to the social conventions of their community" (Okagaki & Diamond, 2000, p. 78). Consequently, wise teachers initiate conversations with families to ascertain and understand different perspectives they may have on such areas as discipline and values. Family participation is also a great way to help children feel more comfortable with various cultures and traditions. Invite families to regularly visit the class and bring in items to touch that represent their music, customs, and celebrations. Frequent "tasting parties" are just one great way to share foods from around the world! 6. Teach social skills that foster healthy self-esteem. It is likely that children's social skills and consequent ability to make friends reflects their selfVolume 32, Number 1 25 esteem, and that friendships are a means to strengthen and refine one's own self-perception (Curry & Johnson, 1990). Correspondingly, lack of social skills is often associated with low acceptance in a peer group (e.g., Renshaw & Asher, 1982), which is itself associated with low self-esteem. Fortunately, social skill training has been successful with children exhibiting difficulties interacting with peers (e.g., Factor & Schilmoeller, 1983; Gottman, Gonso, & Schuler, 1976; Zanolli, Paden, & Cox, 1997). Teaching children real skills–how to take turns, how to ask for something, how to enter a group, how to share, and how to respond to someone's anger (Convoy et al., 1996; Greenberg, 1991; Katz & McClellan, 1997)–can help them more effectively engage in interpersonal interactions with peers. There are specific steps to making friends, so it is important for adults to identify children who have difficulty in particular areas. Where does their need for improvement lie? • Do they have faulty interpretations of others' behaviors and/or intent? Rejected and neglected children often have distorted interpretations of others' intentions (Feldman & Dodge, 1987). Caregivers can creatively offer opportunities for children to work on their social skills without singling them out. Organize cooperative activities instead of win-lose games, especially with young children who are often "me firsters and poor losers" (Rimm, 1997, p. 41). Similarly, adults who assess the age, skill, and cultural appropriateness of each social situation can coordinate the setting and activities accordingly. Preschool teachers, for instance, expect a level of egocentrism (Piaget, 1970) that makes taking turns and sharing difficult. Expecting a young child to share his favorite teddy bear with others is inappropriate. Instead, start with objects and toys that are not as personal to introduce the concept of sharing and taking turns. Adults are responsible for assisting children to engage in positive Actively engage children in positive social interactions. social interactions. For instance, when children exclude others, adults must help neglected or rejected children find a way to reenter the group and improve peer relations (DeVries & Zan, 1994). Adults must actively engage children in behaviors that will result in positive social interactions, and thus support their development of positive self-esteem. • • • Self-esteem is socially constructed, so there are numerous opportunities to foster healthy self-esteem in young children. The strategies proposed here target the core components of self-esteem—feelings of belongingness, worth, and competence. Activities that focus on problem solving develop young children's sense of mastery, while expressing genuine interest and actively listening to children relay the message that they are worthy of attention. Respecting the heterogeneity of the children illustrates that each child plays a significant role and belongs in the group. Lastly, all of these strategies fall under the umbrella of an authoritative and cooperative relationship that sets the stage for fostering overall healthy self-esteem. • Is it that they always try to change the rules of the game when they enter a group? Rejected children often have difficulty staying "on task" and may not be adaptable to new situations or new groups of children (Coie, Dodge, & Kupersmidt, 1990) • Is it that they are unable to share or take turns? Preschoolers are just beginning to learn to negotiate and compromise, so sharing and taking turns are an ongoing Nancy P. Alexander challenge in the developChildren's social skills and consequent ability to make friends ment of their social skills reflects their self-esteem. Friendships are a means to strengthen (Nelsen et al., 1998). and refine one's self-perception. 26 Volume 32, Number 1 DIMENSIONS OF EARLY CHILDHOOD References Baumrind, D. (1971). Current patterns of parental authority. Developmental Psychology Monographs 4 (1, Pt. 2), 1103. Baumrind, D. (1989). Rearing competent children. In W. Damon (Ed.), Child develop- Winter 2004 in development and learning. Dimensions of Early Childhood, 28(4), 25-30. Edwards, C., Gandini, L., & Forman, G.E. (Eds.). (1998). The hundred languages of children: The Reggio Emilia Approach–Advanced reflections (2nd ed.). Greenwich, CT: Ablex. Katz, L.G., & Chard, S.C. (1991). Engaging children's minds: The project approach. Stamford, CT: Ablex. Moran, M.J., & Jarvis, J. (2001). Helping young children develop higher-order thinking. Young Children, 56(5):31-35. 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SECA & Heifer International Children Are Changing the World A Community Service Project of the Southern Early Childhood Association SECA and Heifer International The Southern Early Childhood Association and Heifer International have joined together to sponsor a project to meet the goals of enriching and supporting the global family. What Are We Asking You to Do? SECA and Heifer International are offering you several different ways to participate: ➀ Raise money to purchase a chick, a cow, or a goat (or other animal) and donate those funds to Heifer International. ➁ Incorporate information and materials from Heifer International into your curriculum to educate your children about the global family. Heifer International does not require that you do a fundraising project in order for you to receive their materials. ➂ Use the SECA materials developed for prekindergarten children to supplement your classroom activities. “Join the Global Family” is a resource guide for teachers about animals and how they support families in different countries. We’d suggest that you do all three! The curriculum materials provided by Heifer International are wonderful, full-color curriculum materials and they’re FREE to your program. You don’t have to do a major fund-raising project. A contribution of $20 to Heifer International will buy a flock of 10 to 50 chicks! For a small contribution, you can make a big difference to a family in the world. To order Heifer International Resources: We’d like to share your Heifer Project with the members of SECA. We’ll publish articles in both Dimensions and the SECA Reporter during the next year about projects that you’ve completed as part of this community service initiative. To submit an article, please consider the following guidelines: ➀ The article should be 1000 words or less and include information about the type of project, number of children participating, and the major activities in the project. ➁ We encourage the submission of photos. Photos should follow SECA photo guidelines and photo releases are required. You can access a copy of our photo guidelines at www.southernearlychildhood.org. (Click on the Dimensions button.) ➂ Articles and photos can be transmitted electronically to [email protected] or by mail to: Southern Early Childhood Association PO Box 55930 Little Rock, AR 72215-5930 To order SECA Resources: Call (800) 422-0474 and tell the staff which materials you would like to receive. Specify either the Read to Feed kit or the Animal Crackers/Fill the Ark materials. Winter 2004 Tell Us About Your Heifer Project Call (800) 305-7322 and ask for the Join the Global Family packet. DIMENSIONS OF EARLY CHILDHOOD Volume 32, Number 1 15 The paper doll project offered many opportunities for socialization that led to improved communication skills, too. As children worked on their dolls, they were engaged in constructive conversations of how they might use the dolls. They used their paper dolls in creative ways. Small groups of children invented scenes with the paper dolls as the actors. Using paper dolls facilitated the imagination of young children to set up pretend scenarios and gave them the opportunity for more advanced stages of play. The paper dolls were simple homemade props that set the stage for the children to plan their own roles. As groups of children worked on their dolls, conversations about the names they had given their dolls arose. Social play enables children to function at a higher level. Several children wanted to use their paper dolls in a puppet show with a stage and props. Children made clothes that resembled traditional clothing in Hawaii. They cut slits into the bottom of triangular skirts to replicate grass skirts. They pretended they were landing on the island and the paper dolls were dancing and meeting the new people. Symbolic thinking and the cognitive skills that children use in imaginative play such as this are necessary for continued development (Bodrova, Leong, Hensen, & Henninger, 2000). Social play enables children to function at a higher level than their independent level of performance. The paper doll project also enabled children to expand on their 14 Volume 32, Number 1 knowledge about occupations. When the teacher talked about people such as firefighters, nurses, doctors, and construction workers, corresponding materials were provided for children to make appropriate uniforms for the dolls. When the children were making firefighter uniforms, many interesting and informational conversations arose. Elena said that firefirefighters squirt water from a hose. Dustin said that they put water on the fires and 911 is for a fire engine. Caroline chimed in with additional information that firefighters cool down hot things and that they wear hats, boots, jackets, and pants. Tommy went on to talk about fire drills. Encouraging children to revisit their drawings and creations is extraordinarily valuable in promoting their learning (Edwards, Gandini, & Forman, 1998). When children revisit, they are more likely to develop mental functions associated with higher-order thinking skills (Moran & Jarvis, 2001). Children at the Nursery School revisited their work and they often revised something on their paper dolls. Sometimes they added fingernails to hands or a bracelet to an arm. Some children made changes to their original dolls, while others would make a new cutout form that included more detail. These types of behaviors occurred because children had the opportunity to use their creations in various ways. Families were enthused about the project, which encouraged the children's further involvement. The dolls and dollhouses also were displayed to families and friends during an open house at the Nursery School. Children were excited as they showed their parents their DIMENSIONS OF EARLY CHILDHOOD accomplishments. It was evident that the process was important, and that the products were something they were very proud of because they could use them in their play. Children took good care of their paper dolls. It is easy to recognize the values of such a project by noting the children's increased competency with scissors and recording incidents of their more advanced social play. Children's overall accomplishments went far beyond these observed milestones. They made something that they could continue to use. Their dolls were not hung on the wall or placed in a closet for later admiration. The paper dolls were revisited again and again throughout the semester in various play opportunities. They took good care of their paper dolls and respected their materials. The goal to involve children in making a simple old-fashioned toy that could be used in play, and that in turn would be taken care of, was certainly accomplished. And that was just the beginning of the benefits of this contemporary twist on a traditional toy. References Berk, L.E., & Winsler, A. (1995). Scaffolding children's learning: Vygotsky and early childhood education. Washington, DC: National Association for the Education of Young Children. Bodrova, E., & Leong, D.J. (1996). Tools of the mind: The Vygotskian approach to early childhood education. Englewood Cliffs, NJ: Prentice-Hall. Bodega, E., Leong, D.J., Hensen, R., & Henninger, M. (2000). 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