DangerousPersonalitiesWordChecklist Copyright©2016JoeNavarro The Narcissist Abusive, aggressive, amoral, arrogant, beguiling, bully, calculating, callous, charismatic, chameleon, cheat, cold, conman, conniving, contemptuous, controlling, cruel, cunning, deceitful, deceptive, dehumanizing, deplorable, dishonest, disingenuous, egocentric, exploitative, grandiosity, guiltless, hostile, inconsiderate, indifferent, insensitive, insincere, intimidating, irksome, irresponsible, irritable, irritating, liar, Machiavellian, manipulative, mean, noxious, parasitic, sarcastic, self-centered, shallow, slimy, smooth, superficial, temperamental, toxic, tyrant, unscrupulous, unsympathetic, vile, vindictive. The Emotionally Unstable Bewildering, bitter, chaotic, clingy, cold, confusing, conniving, crazy, creepy, cruel, cunning, dangerous, deceptive, delusional, demanding, demeaning, desperate, destructive, diva, draining, dramatic, dysfunctional, emotional, envious, erratic, exasperating, explosive, flirt, frightening, frustrating, hysterical, imbalanced, impossible, impulsive, inappropriate, instability, irrational, irritating, irresponsible, liar, mean, mercurial, moody, nasty, perplexing, problematic, psycho, rage, resentful, scary, schemer, seething, seesaw, stalker, suffocating, tantrums, tempestuous, tense, tiresome, tormentor, tornado, tumultuous, unforgiving, unhappy, unhinged, unpredictable, unreasonable, unreliable, unstable, vengeful, vindictive, violent, volatile, wicked. The Paranoid Personality Adversarial, alarmist, aloof, angry, apprehensive, biased, calculating, cantankerous, cautious, combative, complainer, contemptuous, contentious, contrarian, controlling, crackpot, crazy, critical, difficult, distrustful, draining, eccentric, envious, evasive, extremist, fanatic, flake, guarded, gullible, hardheaded, hater, high-strung, hypersensitive, incredulous, irrational, irritating, jealous, know-it-all, litigious, loner, mean, menacing, mistrustful, narrow-minded, nasty, neurotic, nuts, odd, obsessive, opinionated, overcritical, perplexing, persecuted, pessimistic, prejudiced, prickly, provocative, quarrelsome, questioning, recluse, rigid, selfimportant, stubborn, suspicious, tense, unforgiving, unromantic, zealot. The Predator Abusive, aggressive, aimless, amoral, antisocial, arrogant, bad, bad-boy, belligerent, bully, calculating, callous, charismatic, charming, cheat, cheater, clever, cold, cold-blooded, con, con-artists, conman, conniving, contemptuous, controlling, corrupt, creep, creepy, criminal, crude, cruel, cunning, dangerous, deceitful, deceptive, degenerate, delinquent, demeaning, depraved, destructive, discomforting, dishonest, disingenuous, evil, exploitive, fraud, guiltless, immoral, imposter, impulsive, inconsiderate, incorrigible, indecent, indifferent, insensitive, intimidating, irresponsible, leech, liar, manipulative, mean, parasite, possessive, risk-taker, sadistic, self-centered, selfish, shallow, sleazy, swindler, temperamental, thug, toxic, twisted, undependable, unfeeling, uncaring, violent. ____________________________________________________ Ten or more descriptors in any one area please consult: Dangerous Personalities (Rodale-2014) by Joe Navarro www.jnforensics.com www.jnforensics.com Dangerous Personalities: How To Identify Them We focus on these because they are the most likely to victimize you: physically, mentally, emotionally, or financially Joe Navarro, M.A. www.jnforensics.com @navarrotells Copyright © 2016 Joe Navarro Copyright (c) 2016 Joe Navarro 1 www.jnforensics.com FOUR DANGEROUS PERSONALITIES Grandiose/Egotistical The Narcissist • • • • • • • • • The Narcissist • The Emotionally Unstable • The Paranoid • The Predator / Parasite Emotionally Unstable (1) • • • • • • • • • Emotionally erratic • Either idealizes or hates Seeks to be center of attention • • Fears being marginalized Problems relating with others • Many relationships • Cries to manipulate Relationships like rollercoaster • Turns on the disloyal • Sometimes is reckless & impulsive Grievances & Slights collected Sex, alcohol, or drugs are issues Verbally abusive Insensitive to emotions of others Reactions are not predictable Over-sexualizes self Over values self Grandiosity Feels superior Little regard for others Haughty Arrogant Self as special Lacks empathy • • • • • • • • Aloof Devalues others Unique views Concerned with looks Image important Loves adoration Opinionated Friendships based on need Emotionally Unstable (2) • Dresses provocatively • Pushes boundaries • Acts coquettish at work, with clients • Says things that are inappropriate • History of lawsuits • Truth is plastic – lies to get by • Perceptions one sided • Very shallow or stubborn • Overly concerned with perceptions • Lashes out at others with frequency • Doesn’t just get angry – employs rage • Highly theatrical at times • May use illnesses to garner attention • Perceived as trouble maker Copyright © 2016 Joe Navarro www.jnforensics.com Emotionally Unstable (3) • • • • • • Argues aggressively – ad hominem Can’t seem to relax – short fuse Doesn’t take criticism well Likes to demonize others Invariably creates negative feelings in others Like a tornado or whirlwind • Emotionally explosive • Unreliable Suspicious Untrusting The Paranoid Personality • • • • • • • • • Suspicious of everyone Insults easily Questions intentions Reluctant to confide Sees evil in others Argumentative “Trouble maker” Very demanding Few or no friends • • • • • • • • • Others are opportunists Bears grudges Spreads false rumors Very opinionated Wound collector Never forgives Irritates others Rigid thinker -zealot His way only Copyright © 2016 Joe Navarro www.jnforensics.com Copyright (c) 2016 Joe Navarro 2 www.jnforensics.com Predator / Parasite The Anti Social • • • • • • • • Violates rules & norms Laws are flexible Concern with self only Takes shortcuts – illegal Has no remorse Thinks of no one else Hurts others Indifferent • • • • • • • • Lies frequently Risk taker Conceals other life No conscience Criminal past Insincere Seeks adventure Highly promiscuous What We Can Do • Know what to look for • Get help – professional help • Set boundaries and limits • Communicate with your allies • Document your experience What We Can Do (2) What We Can Do (3) • Don’t ignore or dismiss behaviors • ___________________________________ • Don’t ignore how they make you feel • __________________________________ • Distance yourself if necessary • __________________________________ • Utilize available resources • __________________________________ • __________________________________ “You have no social obligation to be victimized – ever!” Are you being victimized physically, mentally, emotionally, or financially? Joe Navarro, M.A. www.jnforensics.com @navarrotells Copyright © 2016 Copyright (c) 2016 Joe Navarro 3
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