April, May, June 2010 Volume 15 Issue 1 Editor: Oksana Bondarchuk Воїстину Воскрес! Let the heavens rejoice, let the earth be glad! For with the Might of His arm, The Lord has won victory over the prince of darkness. Christ is Risen! Нехай веселяться небесні, Нехай радуються земляни, Бо показав владу рукою Своєю Господь. Indeed He is Risen! Easter Message Every year, Lent provides us with an opportunity to spiritually share in Jesus‘ final journey. It helps us understand that Christ‘s sacrifice – his death and resurrection – is a reflection of our own travels through life. As we prepare to celebrate the Resurrection of Christ on Easter Sunday, let us all take time to consider that Christ‘s life and death hold many lessons for our own journey through life. Through his actions, we learn how to live graciously. Through his death, we learn there is everlasting life. Through his message to love each other, we learn we can make a difference in the lives of those we care about and those we care for. On behalf of the Sisters, the HFH Board of Directors and staff, I pray that Easter is a joyous time for you and your family. As you gather with your loved ones, please take a moment to reflect on what Easter means. Because Christ rose from the dead, he showed the world that he is the Saviour. His resurrection reveals that hope is eternal, that all of us can follow him by following his example. Христос Воскрес! Jean R. Piché, CEO Xpиcтoc Bockpec! Christ is Risen! The Death and Resurrection of Jesus Christ is a great sign of God‘s desire to restore all of humanity and all creation to our original blessing. In celebrating this Holy Season of Easter, let us rejoice in this great wonder and mystery of what God has done for us. As we hold close this great truth of a peaceful God who seeks only to embrace humanity by forgiving us and transforming us to be People of the Resurrection, may we be courageous enough to live in this freedom that God gifts each of us with. From all of the Sisters, we thank God for you and hold you in our prayers as you remain our extended family. We value your love and commitment to our Holy Family Home. We wish you much joy in your celebrations and great appetite to partake of all that is provided for us. Воїстину Воскрес! Indeed He is Risen Alleluia! Sisters Servants of Mary Immaculate ХРИСТОС ВОСКРЕС CHRIST IS RISEN ВОІСТИНО ВОСКРЕС INDEED HE IS RISEN This is the traditional greeting and reply spoken by Ukrainian Christians around the world during Easter. The celebration of Easter is welcomed with great enthusiasm not only for its‘ spiritual enlightenment but also for its‘ deep rooted cultural traditions. Since the introduction of Christianity to Ukraine by Prince Volodymyr in 988 AD, Ukrainian have become devout and faithful followers of our Lord Jesus Christ. This is why the church is at the core of the being one of the founding corner stones in the building of Ukrainian communities. The lively, beautiful and colourful traditions of Ukraine, whether religious or cultural have been passed down from generation to generation. Together, young and old are seen hand in hand, experiencing these joyous times, sharing the wonderous gifts that were once celebrated by their forefathers. One of these cherished gifts is the traditional Blessing of the Easter Basket. On the eve of Easter Sunday, baskets filled with brightly coloured Easter Eggs (Pysanky) and the traditional Easter Bread (Paska) along with other foods are brought into church for blessing by the priest. There is deep religious and cultural significance in the Blessing of the Easter Basket. When Ukrainian Christians from around the globe arrive home after attending the celebration for the Easter Liturgy, family and friends gather around the table with bowed heads in prayer to thank God for all of His Graces and praise the Lord in singing ―ХРИСТОС ВОСКРЕС CHRIST IS RISEN.‖ At this point in time there is a sense of brotherly unity among all Ukrainian Christians, even though they may be far apart, they are celebrating the Resurrection of Christ and dining on the prepared meal of blessed food in unity. To Serve is to Love Long-Term Service Honourees On Tuesday, May 18, 2010 at 6:30 p.m. in the Link Dining Room, Holy Family Home will be acknowledging the achievements of thirty two (32) employees for their long-term service and commitment to the mission of the Home. They will be individually honoured and recognized during the evening after which a reception will be held to celebrate the occasion with close friends and good food. We encourage family members of our honourees’ and co-workers to attend this event. 1974 – 35 Years Darlene Medwid – Nursing Nettie Villaverde – Nursing Maria Bernardo – Nursing Erlinda de Guzman – Nursing Teresita Aragon – Nursing Maria Germinario-Solic – Physio Rosalinda Resurreccion – Nursing 1979 – 30 Years Helen Korade—Nursing Hazel Obsniuk – Nursing Mario Tolentino – Nursing 1984 – 25 Years Darlene Stiller – Nursing Bozena Basarab – Adult Day Maria Kowch – Spiritual Care Jane Kaminski – Nursing 1989 – 20 Years Danny Canak – Nursing Linda Harding – Nursing Bernice Pokorny – Housekeeping Dawn Goring – NFS Sue Kopp - Nursing Barbara Karhut – Nursing Biba Bulka – Recreation 1994 – 15 Years Maria Zlotucha – Nursing Lucille Galicia – NFS Christin Harel – Nursing Karen Woloski – Nursing 1999 – 10 Years Helen Prokopec Joanne Neustaedter – Nursing Marites Andaya – Nursing Renata Kepka – Housekeeping Linda Kohut – Social Services Rosemary Wade – Nursing Dulce Santos – Social Services Del Gatherum – Business Office Lucy Czarnota – NFS A HEALTHY AND HAPPY YEAR TO ALL I have a little story to tell, I hope I can describe it well. Holy Family Home is the name I‘m sure you‘ve heard of the same. It‘s hard to know just where to start I‘m a resident of Sacred Heart. I have a room all my own More precious than I‘ve ever known. The girls that work here are so dear, All smiles as they go from there to here. The nurses work hard all day long Sometimes I‘ve heard them hum a song. Your meals are made, your laundry done, You have a bath by a courteous one. Cleanliness is important too, You‘ll see whenever you walk through. A park at the back that everyone sees With beautiful flowers and lovely trees. Friends and family call anytime of day Talking and laughing in every way. You enjoy the visit without any bother Come back anytime and laugh with other. A wonderful place for your loved one to stay Holy Family is the only way. Sincerely, Lulu Vrooman, 2A Thank You for your dedication, professional excellence and loving care you provide to the residents of Holy Family Home. To Serve is to Love March 2010 H A P P Y B I R T H D A Y STELLA SUCHYNSKY JEAN SURBY HENRY LOEWEN EVA ARTEMENKO CATHERINE TORBIAK RAISA MOHR ALICE INGLIS MARY KOWCUN MICHAEL PUCHIR JOSEPH AMBORSKY JOSEPH DLUGOSH NICHOLAS ZYLA POLLY OLESKI JERRY NOWOSTAWSKI ANNE KAPTIJ ROSE KOHUT EDNA MONIAS PETER SHUMILA April 2010 1 3 3 3 4 5 7 9 9 12 14 15 17 17 20 21 27 29 81 94 84 82 95 89 83 91 85 92 84 93 97 93 91 85 76 93 3/1/1929 3/3/1916 3/3/1926 3/3/1928 3/4/1915 3/5/1921 3/7/1927 3/9/1919 3/9/1925 3/12/1918 3/14/1926 3/15/1917 3/17/1913 3/17/1917 3/20/1919 3/21/1925 3/27/1934 3/29/1917 MARY PELESHOK MARIA BOROSIUK WANDA CZEZOWSKI GERALDINE PLISCHKE MADELINE HOWE NELLIE CHORNENKI CAROLE MARCINIW SERAFINA BARON STEFANIE RZESZUTEK FRANCES LILLIE MARTHA (PAT) LUCAS HARRY HAPIN VERA REZANSOFF ELIZABETH POPOVICH WILLIAM HOLOWIN REV. GREGORY OUCHARYK JUDITH PLEXIMAN (STACK) CLARA WEISS ELSIE WOYTKO ANNE COHEN JEAN LAGUNIAK KATARYNA WAPLAK OLGA ROMANCE 1 4 7 8 9 10 12 12 12 12 15 15 18 21 23 23 24 25 25 28 29 29 30 83 83 98 85 67 89 92 88 88 85 99 81 80 86 95 89 67 94 85 87 95 91 87 Бажаємо Вам Щастя, Здоровля та Божої Ласки На Многих, Многих Літ! To Serve is to Love 4/1/1919 4/4/1927 4/7/1912 4/8/1925 4/9/1943 4//10/1921 4/12/1918 4/12/1922 4/12/1922 4/12/1925 4/15/1911 4/15/1929 4/18/1930 4/21/1924 4/23/1915 4/23/1921 4/24/1943 4/25/1916 4/25/1925 4/28/1923 4/29/1915 4/29/1919 4/30/1923 May 2010 H A P P Y B I R T H D A Y HELEN PROST 1 MARGARET JUCE 1 PAULINE ZURBA 2 ALEXANDRA ZUB 2 ANNA SZAJKOWSKI 2 CECILE BOREAN 3 ELIZABETH KOTOWICH 4 ANNE PONGOSKI 10 OLLIE HAWRYLUK 10 MARY WOLOCHATIUK 11 VERA KOPYNSKY 11 MAGDA MARUSIC 12 MARY ANDRUSHKO 12 REV. VICTOR YAKOWCHUK 15 BLANCHE VINCETT 16 JOANNE REDMAN 17 MARIA KUKUSIK 19 HARRY PASTUCK 21 SOPHIA BOCHONKO 25 ROSALIA PELECH 26 June 2010 94 88 92 89 87 88 79 91 86 92 90 88 86 79 92 77 88 89 101 87 5/1/1916 5/1/1922 5/2/1918 5/2/1921 5/2/1923 5/3/1922 5/4/1931 5/10/1919 5/10/1942 5/11/1918 5/11/1920 5/12/1922 5/12/1924 5/15/1931 5/16/1918 5/17/1933 5/19/1922 5/21/1921 5/25/1909 5/26/`1923 KATHERINE PONA LILLIAN BUFFIE ANNA LESIUK HARRY SYDORENKO IRENE SALSKI BERTHA GOSSELIN MATTIE BARS OLGA PANCZUK PEARL NATYNA DOROTHY LEGIN FREDERICK KENNY GLEN WRIGHT OLGA POWELL EVELYN MYSHKOWSKY ZOFIA KIJANKO HELEN TRYHUK RICHARD JOHNSTON ANNA SAPACZ MARGARET TOAL JOHN HRYCIW KATHERINA SANECKI MARY KOWALYK MARY KUZENKO GUS SVORAD JOHN BOYCHUK LUCILLE HRABI DANIEL PASIECZKA STEPHANIE DEMKIEW MARY PYL ROMAN ROMANOVYCH To Serve is to Love 1 1 2 4 5 5 6 7 7 9 11 11 12 13 13 15 16 19 20 22 22 22 23 23 27 28 28 29 30 30 85 84 93 87 92 84 97 81 79 100 85 75 93 89 86 92 78 88 84 89 89 88 97 83 93 100 88 59 92 91 6/1/1925 6/1/1926 6/2/1917 6/4/1923 6/5/1918 6/5/1926 6/6/1913 6/7/1929 6/7/1931 6/9/1910 6/11/1925 6/11/1935 6/121917 6/13/1921 6/13/1924 6/15/1918 6/16/1932 6/19/1922 6/20/1926 6/22/1921 6/22/1921 6/22/1922 6/23/1913 6/23/1927 6/27/1917 6/28/1910 6/28/1922 6/29/1951 6/30/1918 6/30/1919 DECEASED RESIDENTS December, 2009 Stella Lemanski Helen Miclash John Morris Mary Dolchuk Harold Plischke GOD’S BILLBOARDS February, 2010 Elmer Wowryk Nellie Poluha Fred Babych Ann Kondracki 1. Let‘s Meet at My House Sunday Before the Game 2. C‘mon Over And Bring the Kids 3. What Part Of ―Thou Shalt Not…..‖ Didn‘t You Understand 4. We Need To Talk 5. Keep Using My Name in Vain & I‘ll Make Rush Hour Longer 6. Loved The Wedding. Invite Me To The Marriage 7. That ―Love Thy Neighbour‖ Thing? I Meant It 8. I Love You…I Love You…I Love You… 9. Will The Road You‘re On Get You To My Place? 10. Follow Me 11. Big Bang Theory, You‘ve Got To Be Kidding 12. My Way Is The Highway 13. Need Directions? 14. You Think It‘s Hot Here? 15. Tell The Kids I Love Them March, 2010 You Will Call Her Mom January, 2010 Myron Grabowecky Marie Procopchuk Effie Sokoliuk Ruth Pfeifer Rose Orloff Stella Paradowski Mary Cherewyk Josephine Leitch Olga Kepron Ludmila Onufrijchuk The Daffodil Campaign at Holy Family, in support of the Canadian Cancer Society was a success this year. There were 69 bouquet purchased. This was an increase from last year (52). Thank-you to all who purchased Daffodils. A special thank-you goes out to members of the Ladies Auxiliary who purchased 37 bouquets for the residents of HFH & to Irene Zapisocki who distributed them throughout the Home. Thank You! A baby asked God, ―They tell me you are sending me to earth tomorrow, but how am I going to live there being too small and helpless?‖ ―Your angel will be waiting for you and will take care of you.‖ The child further inquired, ―But tell me, here in heaven I don‘t have to do anything but sing and smile to be happy.‖ God said, ―Your angel will sing for you and will also smile to you. And you will feel your angel‘s love and be very happy.‖ Again the child asked, ―And how am I going to be able to understand when people talk to me if I don‘t know the language.‖ God said, ―Your angel will tell you the most beautiful and sweet words you will ever hear and with much patience and care, your angel will teach you how to speak.‖ ―And what am I going to do when I want to talk to you.‖ God said, ―Your angel will place your hands together and will teach you how to pray.‖ ―Who will protect me?‖ God said, ―Your angel will defend you even if it means risking its‘ life.‖ ―But I will always be sad because I will not see you anymore.‖ God said, ―Your angel will always talk to you about Me and will teach you the way to come back to Me, even though I will always be next to you.‖ At that moment there was much peace in Heaven, but voices from Earth could be heard and the child hurriedly asked, ―God, if I am to leave now, please tell me my angel‘s name.‖ ―You will call her ‗Mom‘.‖ Happy Mother’s Day! To Serve is to Love Quick Hands-On Stress Relief Got a minute? Get a massage – a self-massage, that is. These moves can help relieve tension around your head neck, shoulders and hands: The scalp soother. Place thumbs behind your ears and spread your fingers on top of your head. Move your scalp back and forth slightly by making circles with your fingertips for 15 – 20 seconds. The eye easer. Close your eyes and place your ring finger directly under your eyebrows, near the bridge of your nose. Slowly increase pressure for five seconds, then gently release. Repeat 2 – 3 times. The shoulder saver. Place your left hand on the right side of your neck by your shoulder. Press fingers firmly into the muscle while tucking your chin in toward your chest. Hold this position for 10 seconds, release, and then repeat on the left side. The palm pleaser. Lace your fingers together, leaving thumbs free. Slowly knead your left thumb into the palm of your right hand for 20 – 30 seconds. Then repeat on your left hand. New HFH Employees Dustin Caldwell - NFS Sr Tina Uhrich – Pastoral Care Elaine Boulette – NFS Zenon Kuzmeniuk – Maintenance Narinder Sidhu – LPN Jessica Akinola – RN Yolanda Supnet – RN Rachelle Larsen – Office Marzenna Lis – Hskg Sr Elvira Haidamacha – Pastoral Care Rhodora Jonzon – HCA Lidia Teferi – HCA Lyudmyla Pryyma – HCA Hanna Pavlyna – HCA Svetlana Beridze – HCA ASAP!! Halyna Chaplya – HCA Ever wonder about the abbreviation A.S.A.P.? Generally, we think Teodora Trifonova – HC of it in terms of even more hurry and stress in our lives. Maybe if we Iryna Knap – HCA think of this abbreviation in a different manner, we will begin to find Tiebe Kifle – HCA a new way to deal with those rough days along the way. Alyssa Sankar – HCA There's work to do, deadlines to meet; Rowena Antaran – HCA You've got no time to spare, Cristal Wy – HCA But as you hurry and scurryMary Louise Tolentino – HCA A.S.A.P. - ALWAYS SAY A PRAYER Mary Anne Berame – HCA Stephanie Pitt – HCA In the midst of family chaos, Sheila Garcia – HCA "Quality time " is rare. Florenda Bernardo – HCA Do your best; let God do the restCandice Smerchansky – HCA A.S.A.P. - ALWAYS SAY A PRAYER. Melanie Camia – HCA It may seem like your worries Amanda Leslie – NFS Are more than you can bear. Brittany Ferguson – NFS Slow down and take a breatherFarewell and Best Wishes to A.S.A.P. - ALWAYS SAY A PRAYER HFH Staff God knows how stressful life is; He wants to ease our cares, And He'll respond to all your needs A.S.A.P. - ALWAYS SAY A PRAYER. Ukrainian Park Children’s Camp, 2010 Theme: ‘Canadian and proud of it’ July 4 – 11, 2010 Grades 6 – 10 July 11 – 18, 2010 Kindergarten – Grade 6 (completed as of June 30, 2010 Application will be available in April at all parishes. Junior & Senior counselor resumes and parent volunteers are most welcome. For more information please call 669-3666 / 294-2276 To Serve is to Love Lydia Danilis – HCA Monika Klos – HCA Theresa LaJambe – HCA Kim Treller – LPN Valentina Mercado – HCA Evangeline Alcudia – HCA Tania Stow – RN New Admissions ВІТАЄМО December, 2009 Mary Heykin Raisa Mohr Helen Bilawchuk Kalyna Wynnytzka William Gusztak January, 2010 Natalia Kohuska Nicholas Zyla Myroslaw Kulczyckyj Rose Krovats Agnes McIvor John Boychuk Peter Rewniak Henry Loewen February, 2010 Walter Balagus Lucyna Helewski Nickolas Wishnowski Magdalena Kot March, 2010 Katherina Sanecki Mary Paley Frances Lillie Melva Moar History Mystery Have a history buff explain this----- if they can. Abraham Lincoln was elected to Congress in 1846. John F. Kennedy was elected to Congress in 1946. Abraham Lincoln was elected President in 1860. John F. Kennedy was elected President in 1960. Both were particularly concerned with civil rights. Both wives lost their children while living in the White House. Both Presidents were shot on a Friday. Both Presidents were shot in the head Lincoln 's secretary was named Kennedy. Kennedy's Secretary was named Lincoln . Both were assassinated by Southerners. Both were succeeded by Southerners named Johnson. Andrew Johnson, who succeeded Lincoln , was born in 1808. Lyndon Johnson, who succeeded Kennedy, was born in 1908. John Wilkes Booth, who assassinated Lincoln , was born in 1839. Lee Harvey Oswald, who assassinated Kennedy, was born in 1939. Both assassins were known by their three names. Both names are composed of fifteen letters. Lincoln was shot at the theater named 'Ford.' Kennedy was shot in a car called ' Lincoln ' made by 'Ford.' Lincoln was shot in a theater and his assassin ran and hid in a warehouse. Kennedy was shot from a warehouse and his assassin ran and hid in a theater. Booth and Oswald were assassinated before their trials. And... A week before Lincoln was shot, he was in Monroe , Maryland A week before Kennedy was shot, he was with Marilyn Monroe. ‘You Took My Place’ One day, a man went to visit a church. He arrived early, parked his car and got out. Another car pulled up near him and the driver told him, ―I always park there. You took my place.‖ The visitor went inside for Sunday School, found an empty seat and sat down. A young lady from the church approached him and stated, ―That‘s my seat! You took my place.‖ The visitor was somewhat distressed by this rude welcome, but said nothing. After Sunday school, the visitor went into the church sanctuary and sat down. Another member walked up to him and said, ―That‘s where I always sit. You took my place!‖ The visitor was even more troubled by this treatment, but still said nothing. Later, as the congregation was praying for Christ to dwell among them, the visitor stood, and his appearance began to change. Horrible scars became visible on his hands and on his sandaled feet. Someone from the congregation noticed him and called out, ―What happened to you?‖ The visitor replied, ―I took your place.‖ To Serve is to Love April 2010 CALENDAR of EVENTS Date Day Time 1 2 3 4 Thursday Friday Saturday Sunday 5 6 7 Monday Tuesday Wednesday 8 Thursday 9 10 12 Friday Saturday Monday 13 Tuesday 14 15 Wednesday Thursday 17 20 21 Saturday Tuesday Wednesday 22 24 26 Thursday Saturday Monday 27 28 Tuesday Wednesday 29 Thursday 2:00 p.m. 1:30 p.m. 1:30 p.m. EASTER 10:00 a.m. EASTER 6:00 p.m. 10:00 a.m. 6:00 p.m. 10:00 a.m. 1:30 p.m. 6:00 p.m. 1:45 p.m. 10:00 a.m. 1:30 p.m. 6:00 p.m. 10:00 a.m. 6:00 p.m. 10:15 a.m. 1:30 p.m. 6:00 p.m. 10:00 a.m. 6:00 p.m. 10:00 a.m. 6:00 p.m. 6:00 p.m. 1:30 p.m. 1:30 p.m. 6:00 p.m. 6:00 p.m. 10:00 a.m. 6:00 p.m. 11:00 a.m. 6:00 p.m. Location Event Chapel Stations of the Cross Chapel Veneration of the Holy Shroud Auditorium Blessing of the Easter Baskets SUNDAY - ВЕЛИКДЕНЬ Auditorium Resurrection Liturgy MONDAY Auditorium Family Night - Alison Hart Chapel Ukrainian Catholic Liturgy Pub Tea House Chapel Ukrainian Orthodox Liturgy Recreation Art Program Auditorium Sing Song Auditorium Concert - Ionka Recreation Bingo Auditorium Ukrainian Choir Recreation Nickel Bingo Chapel Polish Mass Auditorium Family Night - Sopilka & James Ladyka Chapel Ukrainian Catholic Liturgy Auditorium Large Bingo Auditorium Sing Song Recreation Bingo Auditorium Family Night – Andersons Chapel Ukrainian Catholic Liturgy Pub Tea House Auditorium Sing Song Auditorium Entertainment - Rainbow Makers Auditorium Ukrainian Choir Recreation Area Nickel Bingo Auditorium Family Night – Al Miller Chapel Ukrainian Catholic Liturgy Pub Tea House Chapel Roman Catholic Mass (English) Auditorium Sing Song EVERY SUNDAY LITURGY STARTS AT 10:00 A.M. IN THE AUDITORIUM PLEASE CHECK YOUR UNIT CALENDARS FOR DAILY PROGRAMS SPECIFIC TO YOUR WARD FORGIVE US One of the criminals hanging there abused him, ―Are you not the Christ?‖ he said. ―Save yourself and us as well.‖ But the other spoke up and rebuked him. ―Have you no fear of God at all? We got the same sentence as he did, but in our case we deserved it; we are paying for what we did. But this man has done nothing wrong. Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom.‖ ―Indeed, I promise you,‖ he replied, ―Today you will be with me in paradise.‖ Luke 23:39 To Serve is to Love May 2010 CALENDAR OF EVENTS Date Day 2 3 Sunday Monday 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 15 17 18 19 20 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 31 Time Location Event LADIES AUXILLARY 50TH ANNIVERSARY SPRING TEA 1:30 p.m. Auditorium Ukrainian Choir 6:00 p.m. Recreation Area Nickel Bingo Tuesday 6:00 p.m. Auditorium Family Night - Ron & The Boys Wednesday 10:00 a.m. Chapel Ukrainian Catholic Liturgy 6:00 p.m. Pub Tea House Thursday 10:00 a.m. Chapel Ukrainian Orthodox Liturgy 6:00 p.m. Auditorium Sing Song Friday 1:30 p.m. Auditorium Mothers Day Tea Saturday 10:00 a.m. Recreation Bingo Sunday MOTHER‘S DAY Monday 1:30 p.m. Auditorium Ukrainian Choir 6:00 p.m. Recreation Area Nickel Bingo Tuesday 10:00 a.m. Chapel Polish Mass 6:00 p.m. Auditorium Family Night - Edward Wednesday 10:00 a.m. Chapel Ukrainian Catholic Liturgy 6:00 p.m. Pub Tea House Saturday 10:00 a.m. Recreation Bingo Monday 1:30 p.m. Auditorium Ukrainian Choir 6:00 p.m. Recreation Area Nickel Bingo Tuesday 6:00 p.m. Auditorium Family Night - Greg & Luke Wednesday 10:00 a.m. Chapel Ukrainian Catholic Liturgy 6:00 p.m. Pub Tea House Thursday 1:30 p.m. Auditorium Large Bingo 6:00 p.m. Auditorium Sing Song Saturday 10:00 p.m. Recreation Bingo Sunday PENTECOST - ЗЕЛЕНІ СВЯТА VICTORIA DAY LONG WEEKEND Tuesday 6:00 p.m. Auditorium Family Night - Rainbow Makers Wednesday 10:05 a.m. Chapel Ukrainian Catholic Liturgy 6:00 p.m. Pub Tea House Thursday 10:00 a.m. Chapel English R.C. Mass 6:00 p.m. Auditorium Sing Song Friday 2:30 p.m. Recreation Resident Council Meeting Saturday 1:45 p.m. Auditorium Entertainment - Andersons Monday 1:30 p.m. Auditorium Ukrainian Choir 6:00 p.m. Recreation Area Nickel Bingo EVERY SUNDAY LITURGY STARTS AT 9:45 A.M. IN THE AUDITORIUM PLEASE CHECK YOUR UNIT CALENDARS FOR DAILY PROGRAMS SPECIFIC TO YOUR WARD From A Child’s Perspective 4 Years of Age - My Mommy can do anything! 8 Years of Age - My Mom knows a lot! A whole lot! 12 Year of Age - My Mother doesn‘t really know quite everything 14 Year of Age - Naturally, Mother doesn‘t know that , either 16 Years of Age - Mother? She‘s hopelessly, old-fashioned 18 Years of Age - That old woman! She‘s way out of date. 25 Years of Age - Well, she might know a thing or two 35 Years of Age - Before we decide, let‘s get Mom‘s opinion 45 Years of Age - Wonder what Mom would have thought about it? 65 Years of Age - Wish I could talk it over with Mom. To Serve is to Love Where’s The Logic? Common Stress Myths The word ‗stress‘ is heard everywhere these days, but how much do you really know about it? These are common misconceptions about stress. Myth: All stress is bad for you. Fact: a little stress can motivate you to perform. Low-level feelings of stress also show that you care about what you‘re doing. The key is to keep it in check so it doesn‘t affect your health. Myth: Stress is just a part of life – you can’t escape it. Fact: Managing your schedule, goals, priorities, expectations and attitude can all help you better cope with life‘s challenges so you don‘t feel as stressed. Myth: Everyone is stressed these days. Fact: Stress doesn‘t come from your environment, but rather from how you react to it. What makes one person feel stressed may not affect someone else at all. Stress is different for everyone. Myth: Minor symptoms have nothing to do with stress. Fact: Too much stress can cause some symptoms that may surprise you, including sleep problems, indigestion and heartburn, headaches and neck & shoulder pain. Take even small signs of discomfort as a signal from your body that you need to better manage your stress. 1. Why is the third hand on the watch called the second hand? 2. If a word is misspelled in the dictionary, how would we ever know? 3. If Webster wrote the first dictionary, where did he find the words? 4. Why do we say something is out of whack? What is a whack? 5. Why does ‗slow down‘ and ‗slow up‘ mean the same thing? 6. Why does ‗fat chance‘ and ‗slim chance‘ mean the same thing? 7. Why do ‗tug‘ boats push their barges? 8. Why do we sing ―Take me out to the ball game,‖ when we are already there? 9. Why are they called ‗stands‘ when they are made for sitting? 10. Why is it called ―after dark‖ when it really is ―after light?‖ 11. Doesn‘t ‗expecting the unexpected‘ make the unexpected expected? 12. Why are a ‗wise man‘ and a ‗wise guy‘ opposites? 13. Why do ‗overlook‘ and ‗oversee‘ mean opposite things? 14. Why is ‗phonics‘ not spelled the way it sounds? 15. If work is so terrific, why do they have to pay you to do it? 16. If all the world is a stage, where is the audience sitting? 17. If love is blind, why is lingerie so popular? 18. If you are cross-eyed and have dyslexia, can you read all right? 19. Why is a bra singular and panties plural? 20. Why do you press harder on the buttons of a remote control when you know the batteries are dead? 21. Why do we put suits in garment bags and garments in a suitcase? 22. Why is ‗abbreviated‘ such a long word? 23. Why do we wash bath towels? Aren‘t we clean when we use them? 24. Why doesn‘t glue stick to the inside of the bottle? 25. Why do they call it a TV set when you only have one? 5 ALLERGY FACTS 1. Sensitive to pollen? Wash your hair before bedtime. Reason: You‘ll remove any pollen and keep it from settling on pillows and bedding. Also, avoid irritants such as tobacco smoke, automobile exhaust, hair spray and perfume; wash you hands frequently; plan outdoor activities when pollen counts are low. 2. The best time to take an antihistamine, which helps block allergic reactions, is before symptoms start. Just remember: Some allergy medications can cause sleepiness. So never take one when safety requires you to be alert. Suggestions: Ask your health care provider about antihistamines that cause less drowsiness. 3. Dust mites love to nest in area rugs and make you sneeze and itch. If you’re allergic, Australian researchers offer a simple solution: Place area rugs outdoors in direct sunlight for a few hours until they become warm and dry. Result: Mites dry up and die. 4. Moving to another location is no guarantee of allergy relief. Why: People usually develop allergies to their new region‘s pollens and molds within a few years of moving. Plus: Most allergy-provoking grasses are widespread throughout the world. 5. As many as 20% of Canadians believe they have a food allergy, but true food allergies are actually rare. What most people consider food allergies are usually signs of digestive problems, food poisoning or stress. To Serve is to Love PASKA 2 oz. yeast (2 packages of dry yeast) 1 tbsp. milk 1 tbsp. sugar 2-3 tbsp. water Dissolve the yeast in the above mixture; wait until it bubbles and then add 4 cups sifted flour 2 cups warm milk Mix all ingredients and wait until the dough rises. To the mix add: 8 cups flour 3 whole eggs 8 egg yolks 1/4 lb. (or 8 tbsp.) sugar 1/4 tsp. salt 1 vanilla sugar lemon rind of 1 lemon juice of 1 orange 1 jigger of rum or other spirits (brandy) 1/4 lb. melted butter Mix all the ingredients together. Add butter at the very end. Knead well for about 1/2 to 3/4 of an hour, until the dough is elastic. The dough will be very stiff. If it is too stiff, add 1/4 cup milk. Place the dough in a warm spot and let it rise until double in bulk. Simple Tips for Slimmer Waists When ready, fill greased and floured pans 1/2 or 1/3 full with dough. Place the pans in a warm spot and let the dough rise until it reaches the top of each pan. Brush the tops of the dough with an egg wash. Bake in a preheated oven at 400 for 10 minutes, and then at 325 for additional 45 minutes. When done, take the pans out of oven and wait until the pasky cool in the pans. Then, carefully take them out of the pans and place gently on a cloth-covered pillow. Allow to cool completely. Please note: ‘The following instructions should be taken with a grain of salt’ Incantations for a successful paska: Upon placing the paska into the oven say: "Holy paska, be as grand and beautiful as the sun, because we are baking you for the sun. Let all members of our family be healthy. Let our children grow up as quickly as you grow. "Come out as beautiful as you go in!" DO'S and DONT'S: When preparing paska dough and during the kneading, think only good thoughts, shoo away all evil ones. Don't let any of your neighbors or worse – strangers - come into the house when you are preparing the paska. They might put an evil eye on your paska and it will not rise as it should. Don't make any sudden noises while the paska is rising or while it is in the oven baking. Also, don't sit down while the paska is in the oven or it will become flat. If you carefully follow all of the above instructions, the paska will be light, airy and tasty. If not - the paska will come out hard and dense. Then the people will say: "Even thunder and lightning will not break this paska". Everyone knows that eating right and exercising are the keys to weight control. But here are some less obvious tips to make your efforts pay off fast. Eat breakfast. It‘s true – regular meals and occasional low-calorie snacks help prevent the ‗famine -then-feast‘ syndrome. Great start: Fill up first thing with energizing high-fiber cereal, whole grain bread and fruit. Post a list of small projects on the refrigerator. Then, whenever you‘re bored and tempted tackle an item from your list. Result: The distraction will to snack, help you ride out crave attacks. Serve yourself half the amount you usually eat if you tend to eat everything in front of you. Make less food look like more by using smaller plates. Keep burning fat and calories with regular aerobic exercise such as walking, biking, swimming or rowing. Advantages: Aerobics can raise you metabolism both during the workout and for hours afterward – the longer the session the better. Bite into a pickle or a lemon. Advantages: Neither has any calories to speak of, and the sour taste may curb your appetite. Don‘t have either? Try brushing your teeth. Take time to enjoy your food. It takes about 20 minutes for your brain to receive the signal that you‘re full. Slow your meal: Put your fork down between bites; chew slowly; and savour each flavour and texture. Did you know this about SUGAR. Brown sugar, white sugar – they‘re both sucrose. The difference: Brown sugar has a small amount of molasses added for colour and flavouring. But it has no nutritional advantages over its white counterpart. To Serve is to Love THE WAY YOU SAY IT Pay close Encourage. Ask an occasional The bottom line: question or recap what the attention to nonverbal messages, speaker has said to show that you both the ones that others send you and the ones you convey. understand. Focus. Make eye contact with the Studies show we retain 25 – 50 % speaker. Mentally repeat what of what we hear. That means in a they said if it helps you stay 10-minute conversation with a boss focused and minimize distractions. or co-worker, that person hears only Invite. Keep your body posture two to five minutes worth of what relaxed and open. Avoid crossing you have to say. your arms or legs, fidgeting, WORKPLACE frowning or slouching. C O M M U N I C A T I O N Defer. Listen without judgment. If HOTSPOTS you find yourself reacting There are certain area where emotionally, ask questions to communication is especially make sure you understood the sensitive and messages are easily message or take a break from the misunderstood or lost. conversation. Feedback UNDERSTAND NONVERBAL When commenting on another‘s COMMUNICATION performance, make your comments There are ways to communicate specific, positive and constructive. without even saying a word. Shy away from general criticism Visual: Body language, such and blame. as crossing your arms or drumming Requests your finger on the table. When delegating work or asking for Tactile: Shaking hands, a pat help, be clear about what you need on the back, hugging. and ask in a respectful manner. Facial expression: Frowning, Check in frequently to make sure the assignment is understood. smiling, raising your eyebrows. Time: Arriving late for an Meetings appointment, leaving a meeting A productive meeting has an early, keeping a customer or co- agenda, the right group of people, a goal or purpose, a time limit, worker waiting. Physical space: Standing too ground rules and action items. close, backing up, turning your Preparing for a meeting ahead of time, informing all participants of back. Vocal: Clearing your throat, goals and expectations, and having sighing, changing the tone of your someone facilitate the meeting can increase effectiveness. voice. Nonverbal cues can make E-Mail LISTEN ACTIVELY communication come across Before you hit ‗send,‘ True listening involves differently than intended. Those check that you have a descriptive your mind much more than it does your ears. The key is to cues can contradict what you say or subject line, the right recipients in add emphasis to it. They can send the ‗to‘ field and a clear message. listen actively. Here‘s how: Acknowledge. Nod your head or home the meaning of your spoken Avoid humor, potentially offensive say something that confirms you‘re message, or they can convey comments, lengthy explanations or something more powerful than questions, and emotional or private engaged in what‘s being said. subjects. words. Sharp communication skills can help you in almost every area of your work. Here‘s how to communicate more effectively. 6 WAYS TO SHAPE YOUR MESSAGE 1. TREAT others with respect. Be persuasive, but keep an open mind. Remember, it‘s the differences between people – cultures, talents, personalities, strengths – that make a creative workplace. 2. LISTEN carefully. You may miss important details or seem distracted if you‘re thinking about what you‘ll say next. 3. THINK before you speak. Words said in haste or anger are often those you wish you could take back. Take a deep breath before you speak your mind. If you doubt whether what you are about to say is appropriate, it probably isn‘t. 4. CLARIFY. You communicate to persuade, explain, inform, solve a problem or gain information. Choose your words carefully. 5. BE POSITIVE. Complaining and criticizing hurt the morale of those around you. Seek to solve problems, rather than just pointing them out. Give twice as much praise as criticism. 6. MAKE your point. Don‘t bury your message with unnecessary words. Explain yourself, then let people ask questions for more information. To Serve is to Love cont‘d The Way You Say It WHEN THE COMMUNICATING GETS TOUGH Conflicts arise in every workplace. If you‘re dreading a difficult conversation, use this checklist to help the talk run more smoothly. What is the purpose of the conversation? Is it to solve a problem, come to an agreement or clear the air. What is the worst that could happen? Someone could get angry or walk away. How am I feeling? Recognize your own issues; realize that it may not be the other person‘s intention to make you feel that way. How is my attitude? Enter the conversation with a negative outlook and things may go badly – be optimistic. What is the other person’s side? Enter the conversation resolved to listen. Can we work together? Think of the other person as a partner rather than an adversary. Answering the questions above can take the sting out of a conflict. You ma y n o t alw a ys agr ee, b u t conversations may become more productive and less heated. What’s Your Style? Aggressive. This person thinks they are always right, is a poor listener, tries to bring others around to their point of view, interrupts, gets angry or impatient and speaks quickly and loudly. This person often drives ideas, is decisive and is a high achiever. Is this you? Remember the active listening skills in this brochure, & be aware that you may come across as intimidating, Make understanding your communications objective. Expressive. An expressive person gets excited or emotional while speaking and is very persuasive. This person tends to act on intuition and feelings and doesn‘t listen well to explanations or facts. Is this you? Realize that while ‗gut instincts‘ are valuable, not everyone will share your excitement. Back up what you say & remain professional. Passive. This person focuses on relationships & agreement. They may seek agreement or try to make all parties happy and often prefers to let others take centre stage and make decisions. Is this you? Know that agreement isn‘t always possible, and if you‘re always giving in you‘ll ultimately end up resentful. Learn to speak up for yourself. How To Stay Young 1. Throw out nonessential numbers. This includes age, weight & height. Let the doctors worry about them, that‘s what we pay them for. 2. Keep only cheerful friends. The grouches pull you down. 3. Keep learning. Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, whatever may interest you. ―An idle mind is the devil‘s workshop.‘ And the devil‘s name is Alzheimer. 4. Enjoy the simple things. 4. Laugh often, long & loud. Laugh till you gasp for breath. 6. Tears will happen. Endure, grieve and move on. The only person who is with us our entire life, is ourselves. Be ALIVE while you are alive. Analytical. An analyzer likes to have facts and data. This person asks questions and gets distracted if a conversation is too emotional or abstract. They are results orientated. Is this you? Realize that more than facts go into decision-making and communicating. Take people‘s feelings and nonverbal cues into account & be an empathetic listener. Assertive. Confident, yet able to take others‘ viewpoints into account, this person is able to negotiate, compromise and consider alternatives. They get messages across clearly and listen well. I s t h i s y o u ? Congratulations! You’ve mastered the art of effective communication. However, whatever your communication style, there’s always room for improvement. Knowing how you come across to others is the first step t o w a r d b e t t e r communication. 7. Surround yourself with what you love, whether it‘s family, pets, keepsakes, music, plants, hobbies, whatever. Your home is your refuge. 8. Cherish your health. If it is good, preserve it. If it is unstable, improve it. If it is beyond improvement, get help. 9. Don‘t take guilt trips. Take a trip to the mall, or to a foreign country but NOT to where guilt is. 10. Tell the people you love, that you love them, at every opportunity. AND ALWAYS REMEMBER Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away. To Serve is to Love VOLUNTEER APPRECIATION WEEK APRIL 18 - 24, 2010 Sister Servants of Mary Immaculate Staff and Residents of Holy Family Home Wish to Extend a BIG To all of our dedicated VOLUNTEERS ALWAYS CARING, ALWAYS SHARING Holy Family Home is truly grateful for the many hands and hearts that make our volunteer program successful. On behalf of the Sisters Servants of Mary Immaculate and Holy Family Home, we thank all our volunteers for your dedication and hard work. Each of you are models of unconditional kindness, compassion and love. A single person can make a difference in the lives of others. To Serve is to Love PEER COACHING AT HOLY FAMILY Are you experiencing conflict at work? Do these two pictures depict how you sometimes feel in work situations? Did you know that conflict is a natural and normal outcome of work relationships? How you handle the situation can resolve the conflict effectively. Effective conflict management skills will help you to resolve conflicts more effectively at home, at work and in your community! Need help in making that first step/approach? A Peer Coach is trained to help you plan your approach and get your message across in ways that promote effective resolution to deal with issues and create better work relationships. A Peer Coach is: a staff member at “your site” a voluntary resource trained to provide support, guidance and encouragement to help you manage and resolve conflict. Peer Coaches: Meet one on one with you to help you deal with conflicts. Do not meet with two parties in conflict at the same time. Help you speak more effectively for yourself. They DO NOT speak for you about the conflict. Confidentiality: All conversations with the Peer Coach are kept in the strictest of confidence. Peer Coaches must meet and abide by PHIA Guidelines. No information including conversations will be shared with Management or Unions. Information from your interaction with a Peer Coach will be not shared with any third party except when required by law or unless serious concerns exist that absent disclosure, harm to self or others may occur. For more information on this resource contact one of the Peer Coaches listed below. Lisa Crozier - HCA Days Bonnie Anderson - NSF Nestor Mateo - Evening HCA Michelle McCann - Laundry Cindy Hayman - Recreation/ADP To To Serve Serve is is to to Love Love HOLY FAMILY HOME LADIES’ AUXILIARY NEWS.... This year marks the 50th ANNIVERSARY of the formation of the Ladies‘ Auxiliary at Holy Family Home! In 1960, a handful of women enthusiastically gathered together with a vision of organizing a Ladies‘ Auxiliary. In the coming year we will be featuring articles in this newsletter pertaining to this special event. Our first article will highlight the Presidents who have led the Auxiliary during this half century. Ladies‘ Auxiliary Presidents 1960-present † † † † † † † † † Pat Smerchanski Teresa Kasian Mary Gay Kay Ketchen Minnie Dubesky Olga Kepron Olga Lewicki Alice Anthony Pauline Mirus Kay Carruthers Jean Michalishyn Stephanie Cicierski Rose Marie Bergese Ollie Hawryluk Pauline Dyrkacz Pauline Litynski Joanne Huzel Rose Brocki Irene Zapisocki Mary Bodykevich Anna-Marie Konopelny Leanne Peleck Doreen Baddon Karen Riesterer Diane Snidal Irene Zapisocki Patricia Loustel 1960-62 1962-64 1964-66 1966-68 1968-70 1970-72 1972-74 1974-76 1976-78 1978-79 1979-81 1981-83 1983-85 1985-87 1987-89 1989-91 1991-93 1993-95 1995-97 1997-98 1998-00 2000-02 2002-04 2004-06 2006-08 2008-09 present († denotes deceased) Please join the Ladies Auxiliary in celebrating their 50th anniversary by supporting their events throughout 2010. To Serve is to Love HOLY FAMILY HOME LADIES’ AUXILIARY NEWS.... Ladies’ Auxiliary th 50 Anniversary Tea Sunday May 2nd, 2010 1:30 – 4:00 PM 165 Aberdeen Avenue East Winnipeg, Manitoba OFFICIATING AT THE OPENING Sister Theresa Slota Provincial Superior Sisters Servants of Mary Immaculate HOME BAKING * HANDICRAFTS To Serve is to Love * RAFFLE
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