THE USE OF WORDS AND PICTURES IN DIRECT WORK WITH CHILDREN Karin Heber and Clare Tarnawska WORDS AND PICTURES (TURNELL AND ESSEX 2006) Signs of Safety tool A way of informing children and young people about serious child protection concerns A way to involve them in the safety planning process Originally devised as a means to give children an explanation of their situation However, the technique can be used in a variety of ways – no right or wrong way THINGS TO CONSIDER BEFORE STARTING The purpose Who is the story aimed at? What is the plan? – long term or next step If it is a child protection concern Who is worried? What are they worried about? CLARE’S EXAMPLE OF WORK WITH A FAMILY AT THE END OF HER INVOLVEMENT E AND L’S STORY Mummy and Daddy met in Edinburgh, they got married and went to live in Yorkshire. E and then L were born and they were all very happy. Mummy and Daddy loved E and L very much PURPOSE To help the children understand how and why they came to be living with dad To help them make sense of their experiences To help them understand their place in their family To be clear about long term plans PROCESS First draft Shared with mum Changes made after meeting with mum Shared with dad Shared with the children along with mum Left with the children to add pictures We agreed on a description of mum’s illness and what to call it. Mummy has an illness called depression, which is an illness that you can’t see but makes her very sad and makes it really hard to do all the normal day to day things. We also agreed on a description for the overdose Sometimes Mummy felt so ill she took too much medicine and that made it hard for her to wake up. E and L found her asleep and couldn’t wake her and that was very scary Clare and Daddy decided it would be best if E and L stayed with Daddy and we stopped talking about them going back to live with Mummy. Grownups know that it is really important for children to be settled in one place and not keep moving home and school. E and L went to live with Daddy at Granny Apple and Pop’s house. ANOTHER EXAMPLE: WHY I LIVE WHERE I LIVE NOW! Severe and chronic neglect of 5 children which led to their accommodation with foster carers Parents struggled to accept that the children wouldn’t move back home again Parents gave mixed messages to children and therefore they weren’t sure what was going to happen PROCESS Draft Presented to parents who made some changes It was suggested that they would draw the pictures but they didn’t feel able to and wanted us to do it They were shown the pictures. They didn’t find all pictures that clear. We talked about how we could change them. Parents were content with the end result Presented to children SINCE THE CHILDREN WERE BORN MUM AND DAD STRUGGLED TO KEEP THE HOUSE CLEAN AND TIDY, TO HAVE ENOUGH FOOD IN THE HOUSE, TO PAY FOR GAS AND ELECTRICITY AND TO BUY CLOTHES FOR THE CHILDREN. THE CHILDREN WERE OFTEN HUNGRY, UNCLEAN AND WEARING CLOTHES THAT WERE TOO SMALL. THE CHILDREN HAD LOTS OF TOYS IN THE BEGINNING BUT THIS BECAME LESS AND LESS AS THEY GREW OLDER. THE CHILDREN WERE OFTEN TIRED BECAUSE THEY COULDN’T SLEEP WHEN MUM AND DAD WERE DRINKING ALCOHOL AND WOULD WAKE THEM IN THE NIGHT. SOMETIMES MUM AND DAD STAYED IN BED ALL DAY BECAUSE THEY WERE FEELING LOW AND NOT GOOD ABOUT THEMSELVES. SOCIAL WORK SUPPORTED MUM AND DAD TO MANAGE WITH THE HOUSE, BUDGET AND TO LOOK AFTER THE CHILDREN UNFORTUNATELY MUM AND DAD WERE NOT ABLE TO KEEP UP THEIR GOOD WORK BECAUSE EVERYTHING SEEMED TOO MUCH FOR THEM. ONE MONTH AFTER THEY HAD RETURNED HOME IT BECAME CLEAR THAT THE CHILDREN COULD NOT STAY WITH THEIR PARENTS ANY LONGER. ON THE 5TH JUNE 2013 THE CHILDREN MOVED TO DIFFERENT FOSTER CARERS. THE CHILDREN CONTINUE TO SEE MUM AND DAD REGULARLY AND ENJOY SPENDING THIS TIME TOGETHER. FOR A WHILE SOCIAL WORK WAS WITH THE CHILDREN AT CONTACT TO MAKE SURE ALL WENT WELL. THE CHILDREN WON’T RETURN HOME. THEY STAY WITH FOSTER CARERS BUT HAVE REGULAR TIME TOGETHER AT CONTACT WHICH THEY ALL ENJOY. DIFFERENT WAYS OF DOING IT WHEN MUM FEELS STRESSED SHE SOMETIMES GETS ANGRY AND SPEAKS A LOT WHILST BEING VERY CLOSE TO THE CHILDREN’S FACE. THEY DON’T LIKE THAT BECAUSE IT CAN BE A BIT SCARY. MUM TELLS THEM WHAT SHE WANTS THEM TO DO BUT BECAUSE SHE TALKS TOO MUCH THE CHILDREN DON’T UNDERSTAND WHAT IS WANTED OF THEM. THAT CAN BE VERY CONFUSING. ON THURSDAY THE CHILDREN WILL GO TO A CHILDREN’S HEARING. MUM AND KARIN WILL PICK THEM UP FROM SCHOOL. THE CHILDREN’S HEARING IS A MEETING WHERE PEOPLE DECIDE WHERE THE CHILDREN WILL LIVE WHETHER THAT IS WITH THEIR FOSTER CARER OR WHETHER THEY CAN MOVE BACK TO MUM. THERE WILL BE 3 PEOPLE SITTING BEHIND A DESK. THEY WILL ASK THE CHILDREN QUESTIONS. THE CHILDREN CAN TELL THEM HONESTLY HOW THEY FEEL AND WHAT THEY WANT. THERE IS NO RIGHT OR WRONG ANSWER AND NOBODY WILL BE ANGRY WITH THEM. AT THE END THEY WILL MAKE A DECISION WHETHER IT IS SAFE AND BEST FOR THE CHILDREN TO MOVE BACK HOME TO MUM OR WHETHER IT IS BETTER FOR THEM TO STAY WITH FOSTER CARERS. THE CHILDREN WILL HAVE TO PACK ALL THEIR CLOTHES AND BOOKS TO TAKE IT TO MUM’S. THEY WILL ALSO HAVE TO PACK ALL THEIR CARS, TRAINS, TEDDY BEARS, CASTLES, PENS, LEGO AND COMPUTER GAMES. THEY HAVE SO MANY TOYS BUT WE WILL MAKE SURE THAT ALL THEIR TOYS GET TO MUM’S HOUSE. AFTER 3 MORE SLEEPS THE CHILDREN WILL MOVE TO THEIR MUM AND WILL LIVE TOGETHER FROM THERE ON. KARIN, THEIR SOCIAL WORKER WILL KEEP ON SEEING THEM REGULARLY AND THEY CAN TELL HER EVERYTHING. BENEFITS Everyone knows the long-term plan Parents can be reminded of how we came to this plan Children can make sense of their experiences Using simple language Children can be helped to understand more complex things such as Hearings It’s visual The children can keep it and look at it again and again WHAT WE MIGHT HAVE DONE DIFFERENTLY Time restraints Involving all children Positive start and ending Details count! The End
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