May 2006 | Iyar-Sivan 5766 Temple Rodef Shalom Bulletin May Shabbatot & Other Services Temple Rodef Shalom and Rabbi Laszlo Berkowits invite you to attend an outstanding concert of Jewish music by world renowned cantor Emil Toth of Budapest, Hungary. Saturday, May 20, 8:00pm Shabbat Achare Mot – Kedoshim May 5 & 6 Leviticus 16:1 – 20:27 Friday, May 5 6:30 pm Bo’i Shabbat Service 8:15 pm Learners Shabbat Service Saturday, May 6 9:00 am Torah Study 9:00 am Tot Activity 10:30 am Shabbat Morning Service B’not Mitzvah of Yael Urbach & Thalia Aoki 5:00 pm Afternoon B'nai Mitzvah Service of Andy Gross & Elias Chajet Shabbat Emor – May 12 & 13 Leviticus 21:1 – 24:23 Participating with Cantor Toth will be Rabbi Laszlo Berkowits and our distinguished TRS Professional Quartet Accompanied by TRS Choir Director, Frank Conlon Don’t miss this once in a lifetime musically spiritual experience! Cantor Toth has performed in the major cities of Europe including London, Berlin, Helsinki, Stockholm and also in Jerusalem. Cantor Toth will also partici pate in the Erev Shabbat W orshi p Service With Rabbi Laszlo Berkowi ts May 19 at 8:15 pm The Clergy, Staff, & Board of Directors of Temple Rodef Shalom Invite you to celebrate with Rabbi Marcus Burstein and Mr. Eric Larson At their Auf Ruf When they will be called to the Bima for a special blessing Prior to their wedding Friday, May 26, 2006 at the 8:15 pm Erev Shabbat Service Friday, May 12 6:30 pm Teacher Recognition Shabbat Service 8:15 pm Israel Shabbat Service Saturday, May 13 9:00 am Torah Study 10:30 am Shabbat Morning Service B’nai Mitzvah of Ryan Swirsky & Daniel Heins Thursday, May 18 6:45 pm Service of Strength, Comfort & Healing Shabbat Bahar-Bechukotai – May 19 & 20 Leviticus 25:1 – 27:34 Friday, May 19 6:30 pm Erev Shabbat Service for Younger Families 8:15 pm Volunteer Shabbat Service; we also welcome Cantor Emil Toth Saturday, May 20 9:00 am Torah Study 9:00 am Tot Shabbat Service 10:30 am Shabbat Morning Service B’nai Mitzvah of Nina Zegler & Jake Saunders 10:30 am Parallel Shabbat Morning Minyan Shabbat Bemidbar – May 26 & 27 Numbers 1:1 – 4:20 Friday, May 26 6:30 pm Erev Shabbat Service for Older Families 8:15 pm Erev Shabbat, Koleinu sings Aufruf of Rabbi Marcus Burstein and Eric Larson Saturday, May 27 9:00 am Torah Study 10:30 am Shabbat Morning Service B’nai Mitzvah of Eric Villani & Theodore Aronson SERVICE SCHEDULE For descriptions, please view our Temple website at www.templerodefshalom.org FIRST SHABBAT OF THE MONTH • Friday 6:30 pm – Bo’i Shabbat • Friday 8:15 pm – Shabbat Evening Worship • Saturday 9:00 am – Tot Shabbat Activity • Saturday 10:30 am – Shabbat Morning Worship • Saturday 5:00 pm – Shabbat Afternoon Mincha Worship SECOND SHABBAT OF THE MONTH • Friday 6:30 pm – Younger Family Shabbat Worship (K-3) • Friday 8:15 pm – Shabbat Evening Worship • Saturday 10:30 am – Shabbat Morning Worship THIRD SHABBAT OF THE MONTH • Friday 6:30 pm – Early Erev Shabbat Service • Friday 8:15 pm – Shabbat Evening Worship • Saturday 9:00 am – Tot Shabbat Service • Saturday 10:30 am – Shabbat Morning Worship • Saturday 10:30 am – Parallel Shabbat Morning Minyan FOURTH SHABBAT OF THE MONTH • Friday 6:30 pm – Older Family Shabbat Worship (Grade 3- and up) • Friday 8:15 pm – Shabbat Evening Worship • Saturday 10:30am – Shabbat Morning Worship Our Onegs for early services will precede the service. There will be Israeli Dancing immediately following the young family and older family services. SUMMER SERVICE SCHEDULE BEGINS IN JUNE! Please join us on Friday, June 2 at 7:30pm for our Shavuot/Confirmation Service. This will be our only service for the evening. Please note the special time. Beginning June 9 through August 25, there will be one Erev Shabbat Service each Friday, beginning at 6:30 pm. A Wine and Cheese Welcome will be hosted by our Membership Committee on second Friday of each month beginning at 6:00pm during summer months. 2 For information on Summer Shabbat Dinners, please see future postings on our TRS Weekly E-letter. If you are not already subscribed to receive this weekly e-mail and would like to be included, please e-mail [email protected] and include your membership number in the body of the e-mail. Your membership number can be found on the back of your monthly bulletin, and on your quarterly statement. This important weekly e-mail will keep you up to date on weekly programs and services, messages from the clergy, program additions and changes, deadline reminders, membership mazel tovs and condolences and much more! Table of Contents 16 ARZA-Bridge to Israel 08 26 B’nai Mitzvah Calendar 18 Caring 03 Clergy 19 Donations 17 Library 05 Membership 13 Men’s Club 09 Outreach 06 Religious School 15 Scrapbook 12 Sisterhood 14 Social Action 10 TRSTY & Jr. TRSTY From the Clergy OPEN FORUM ON WORSHIP Reflecting on Worship Sunday, May 21 • 7:30 pm Dear Friends, Just after the High Holidays this past year we instituted a new worship schedule. The primary change was the option of two services each Friday night. It was our goal to offer more diverse worship as well as new times that might accommodate different schedules. This experiment in worship, which we created in response to the congregation’s feedback over the past few years, has gone well in many regards. We have learned more about what you are and are not looking for in your worship experience. We have seen which groups want to worship early and which prefer to come to Temple later. The past seven months have given us helpful information which we will use to plan for next year. However, before we do that, we want to hear more from you about your thoughts on our worship options. Please take advantage of this invitation to attend an open forum on worship on Sunday evening, May 21 at 7:30 pm. There we can discuss not only the times of worship, but also the style of our service and other questions you may have or issues you may want to raise. Please join me. Rabbi Amy Schwartzman There we can discuss not only the times of worship, but also the style of our service and other questions you may have or issues you may want to raise. Camp Rodef Shalom is seeking a Camp Art Counselor for Summer 2006. We are looking for an art counselor who will create art projects for the campers that include Judaic content. Hours are 8:30 am–4 pm Monday-Friday from Monday June 19–Friday August 4. Contact Camp Director Jay Rapoport at [email protected] or 703/532-2241 x251. A TRS Trip to Jewish Spain or hundreds of years Spain hosted wonderful and varied communities of Jews. The Jewish people enriched the country in many ways – philosophy, medicine, the arts, culturally, financially, and in other ways too. Our traditions and contributions left a powerful mark on the Spanish people. Unfortunately, our official presence in Spain came to an end with the expulsion of the Jews in 1492 under King Ferdinand and Queen Isabella. Yet our influence still survives–Spain is rich with many remnants of Jewish existence that have endured hundreds of years. More recently, smaller Jewish communities throughout the country continue to thrive. Many of you know that I studied in Madrid for part of my junior year of college in 1992 – the perfect year to be in Spain. That year Madrid was the Cultural Capital of Europe, Seville had the World’s Fair and the Olympic Games took place in Barcelona. The 500th anniversary of the expulsion of the Jews was commemorated by many events as well. One of my most special experiences was singing for the King and Queen of Spain as they attended services in Madrid’s synagogue – it was the first time that both reigning monarchs had ever been in a F synagogue. Throughout my six months in Spain I had the opportunity to travel to many places and in future trips to Spain I continued to learn about the country and the Jewish communities there. I would love to share my love and knowledge of Spain with you on a trip this December 2006. Although plans are not finalized, I would like to see if there is enough interest to lead a tour of Jewish Spain from December 21-January 1, 2007. Even though it may be too ambitious for 10 days my hope is that the trip will include visits to Madrid, Toledo, Seville, Cordoba, Granada, Barcelona and Girona. My guess is that it would cost $3000-3500 per person. Details are still being worked out. If you are interested in joining other members of our community to experience Jewish Spain, please be in touch with my assistant Stacy Twersky at: [email protected]. As we figure out more of the details we will be in touch with you. Gracias, Rabbi Marcus Burstein 3 The Clergy, Staff & Board of Directors of Temple Rodef Shalom invite you to a Service of Confirmation Friday, June 2 • 7:30 pm 6 Sivan 5766 Chloe Berk Joseph Huennekens Halle Ritter Julia Berkson Benjamin Jardot Benjamin Roberts Jacqueline Birnbaum Michael Kalish Effe Rosenzweig Jamie Breitner Katie Klein Emily Schwartz Michael Brill Ariel Lepon Alyssa Shames Jody Davis Drew Levin Stephen Silverstein Alana Dreiman Laura Miller Alexander Sirlin Samantha Duberstein David Milstein Natalie Stearman Evan Felser Sarah Moser Samuel Strongin Michael Fink Maggie Nice Charles Wexell Alex Geralnick Samantha Penenburgh Dana Whitman Mark Goldberg Daniel Pollack Margaret Winters David Gorsky Jennifer Polo-Sherk Rachel Wolman Bradley Himelfarb Alexander Ray Samantha Zito Scott Hoffman Cory Rich Parents, relatives and friends of each confirmand are encouraged to send Mazel Tov greetings in the form of Uniongram Certificates that are available from TRS Sisterhood. These certificates benefit the Women of Reform Judaism's YES Fund (Youth, Education and Special Projects) For further information, please contact Joan Neiman at 703/2412729 or [email protected] . Blood, the Gift of Life Give Blood Drive 4 On June 5th from 1:00 to 7:00 the TRS semi-annual blood drive will take place. As usual, it will be held in the Social Hall. Giving the gift of life is safe and simple. It takes only an hour of your time. As summer approaches, there is even more need to replenish our blood supply. The Temple has been a loyal friend in these drives and INOVA relies on us.Giving blood is healthy and it makes you feel good about yourself. Harriet Beckman 703/356-3586 [email protected] and Karen Hecker 703/7595618 [email protected] are the Sisterhood contacts for the Temple. We hope to hear from you. Volunteer Shabbat Friday, May 19 8:15 pm Join us for this special opportunity to recognize all wonderful of our volunteer activities and projects that our temple members have participated in over the past year. A flower will be added to our bema vase for each volunteer project that has been worked on over the past year. By the time we finish acknowledging projects, the vase will be overflowing with beautiful flowers and our bema will be filled with representatives of each project who will receive a blessing from our clergy. Please contact the chair of your committee to make sure your project is on our list to be honored. If a Temple volunteer project you were involved in was done independent of a TRS committee, please contact Anita Thornton, Program Director, at 703/532-2217 ext 301 or e-mail [email protected] to have your volunteer project added to the list. We will also be welcoming guest Cantor Emil Toth, to the bema on this evening. Cantor Toth will be presenting a concert on Saturday, May 20. Membership Membership Chairs: Tamar Abrams • 703/526-0090 • [email protected] Mike Rankin • 703/536-5698 • [email protected] TRS Renaissance – Upcoming Events Wine and Cheese Welcome May 12th • 7:45 PM Sunday, May 7, Jewish Film Festival held at the Cinema Arts Theatre. We will view the film,Ushpizin, following dinner at a local restaurant for Renaissance members. Sunday, May 21, all day trip to Jewish Brooklyn co-sponsored with JCCNV. Contact Carla Rosenfeld at [email protected] or call 703-323-0880X37. June 23, Round Robin Shabbat Dinner. Sunday, June 25, Renaissance Book Club. ur Wine and Cheese Welcome is held the second Shabbat of every month in the library from 7:45 P.M. to 8:10 P.M. Come schmooze with members, both new and those who have been around for a while. Go into services with the group at 8:15. It’s more fun than sitting alone. Please join us! O Chaverim- Single Parent Families Chaverim means friends! Please make new friends with our wonderful group! Come to our fun, meaningful events! For more information, please contact Laurie Solomon at 703/532-3847. Keshet-Keshet is Temple Rodef Shalom’s gay Ongoing Activities • Dining Out Together Renaissance provides social activities for TRS members and their spouses who are in their 50’s and 60’s. To learn more details about TRS Renaissance events, please check the Renaissance email letter. To add your name to the email list or to volunteer to help to coordinate an event, please contact Tibor or Barbara Schonfeld at [email protected] or call 703-242-7564. and lesbian affinity group. Please contact our new coordinator Bruce Laird E-mail [email protected] or 703/732-7376 for more information. Vatikim- (A social group for our senior members ages 70+) Stimulating activities including lunch gatherings, guest speakers, holiday meals, trips to the theatre and museums provide wonderful day time opportunities for our seniors. Transportation is provided for all of our Vatikim offsite events. “What a Difference Five Years Makes” Upcoming Congregational Survey Five years is not a very long time in the history of the Jews. But in the history of TRS a sea change has occurred in the last 5 years, including the renovation of, and addition to, our building. It was in June, 2000 that the Long Range Planning Committee surveyed the Congregation to determine how congregants felt about the Temple. We received a huge response -- 45% of the Congregation returned our survey, more than double the usual number of respondents to such surveys. And those survey results helped us formulate a Strategic Plan for TRS in 2002. Today it is hard to recall the old building. (Remember that one small staircase clogged with up and down traffic and the old social hall that did not encourage socializing?) So the Strategic Plan is due for an update. The Long Range Planning Committee is gathering information for the next strategic plan and has prepared a new survey for the Congregation. Five years has also made a world of difference in administering the survey. No need to find paper and pencil. We encourage you to take this survey on-line. This will streamline the data gathering and minimize the time to analyze the results. If you don’t have access to the Internet, or don’t want to take the survey on-line, please call TRS at 703-527-2217 or pick up a survey from the receptionist. To take the survey on-line, go to the TRS website at www.templerodefshalom.org (or access from the e-newsletter.) Click on the Survey link and take 15 minutes to help us assess where we are today so that we may build a better future for our congregation. Please note that each and every adult in your household is a member of the Congregation and we want to hear from all the adult members in your family, not just one. Any questions?: email [email protected]. We need your responses and look forward to hearing from you. Long Range Planning Committee Cory Amron, Chair 5 Religious School From the Educator t’s hard to believe that the end of our year is right around the corner. In just a few weeks, we will wrap up on of our most successful years of learning! It has been a fantastic year with lots of incredible programs and events that will be memorable for a long time… PACT days, class plays, new Hebrew words, holiday celebrations, the mock Wedding, T’filah each week for grades 3-5 with the Clergy, Grade 6 leading their own T’filah, Grades K-2 having T’filah once a month with Cantor Robbins, Music and Dance with our talented specialists Michael Smolen, Joe Cohen, Joanne Stefanick and Jody Wager…. The list could go on and on and I hope you will take a moment as a family to remember your own special favorites! Our teachers are the foundation of our wonderful program. Each week, they think and plan for the wonderful creativity that happens in our rooms. They truly care about their students and work hard for them each week to ensure the best of experiences. I know that you all join me in my gratitude to each of our staff who give tirelessly to our kids! I hope you will all join us at the Family Shabbat service on May 12 at 6:30 as we celebrate Teacher Recognition Shabbat. This is a chance to show our teachers just how much they mean to us! Our teachers receive much support from our Religious School office. Our Assistant Principals, Barbara Brot Bailey, Janis Wexler, and Judy Cincinnati are incredible at providing all that teachers need to make their classes successful. I am so appreciative of their dedication to the program and to the teachers and the students. Each week they carefully plan, accounting for every needed detail from space to supplies to background material to teacher guidance in planning. The multitasking accomplished by them is surpassed only perhaps by our Religious School secretary Jen Schall. Working with unprecedented efficiency, Jen manages our office and keeps us all looking great! It is her talent that gets all of the administrative work done and done well. Every bus, every flier, every mailing, every traffic reminder, every sign in sheet, all the Xeroxing , all the Tzedakah monies, all the everything!!!! We are all so thankful to have her as part of the team! I Congregational Meeting Tuesday, June 6 • 7:00 pm The Religious School doesn’t operate in a vacuum and we are pleased to celebrate our many partnerships: first, with Administrator Beth Silver, Program Director Anita Thornton and the entire “upstairs” support staff , Laura Jacobs, Robin Mathews, Barb Coleman, Simin Shahard, Anne Duncan, Danielle Parmenter, Stacey Twersky and Martha Hill. Secondly, with youth directors Michelle Sandler and Shelli Hutchinson and with Karen Simpson and the Nursery School staff. Oh what we all know about shared space! We are also thankful to Jose Morales and his staff for keeping the building running for all of our very busy days! Cheers to Chris Gardner for keeping our computers up and running. And, we are blessed to have Clergy who are not only supportive but participatory in so many of our events and programs. Rabbi Schwartzman, Cantor Shochet, Rabbi Burstein, Rabbi Berkowitz, Student Cantor Robbins and Rabbi Weiner (of PEP class fame!) are all important parts of our learning during the year. Thank you all! Last but certainly not least, we are grateful to you, the parents and families for giving us the opportunity and the honor to work with your kids and to help shape the future of Judaism. So many of you take active roles in the school from room parenting to seder volunteers to book fair and candy sorter. A special thank you and much gratitude goes to our Religious School committee ably chaired by Lee Berner and Ellice Halpern Barnes with help from Vice President in charge of Education, Hannah Moore. As one year closes, we are already preparing for next year which promises to be the best yet! Hold this year’s memories in your heart but get ready for what is yet to come! Kudos and thank you once again to everyone for a fantastic year! Yashar Koach! L’shalom, Dina Backer, RJE Principal MARK YOUR CALENDARS Tuesday, May 2 Friday, May 12 Weather permitting, we will meet in our beautiful garden--come meet and socialize with other congregants and have an input! Important Agenda Items: • FY 2007 Budget and new 5 year Financial Planning • New slate of officers • Religious School update Sunday, May 14 Tuesday, May 16, Wednesday, May 17 Sunday, May 21 • Youth Group update • Nursery School update Aliyah, Haskalah closing Night of classes: FAMILY NIGHT FOR ALL 6:30-8:15 Teacher Recognition Shabbat Younger Family Shabbat Worship 6:30 Faculty Shabbat Dinner (by reservation) 7:30pm Aliyah (grade 7) closing Jewish Studies Program 9:30-11:30 Closing days of Madregot Hebrew classes Closing day of Yisodot and Madregot Sunday Classes watch for information about an exciting day! LOOKING AHEAD Friday, June 2 6 Shavout and Confirmation 7:30pm Religious School RELIGIOUS SCHOOL OFFICE FAREWELLS This summer will mark a change in the Religious School office as we bid farewell to 2 very special people. After 16 years combined as a teacher and an administrator, Judy Cincinnati is leaving her position as Assistant Principal of Aliyah and Haskalah, and, after 3 years, Janis Wexler will be leaving her position as Assistant Principal of Madregot. We offer heart felt thanks to both of them for a tremendous job done well and we wish them both the best of luck as they move onto new endeavors! Mazel tov to Janis and fiancé, Matt Lehrer, who will be married in June! YISODOT & MADREGOT PRESENT: MAZEL TOV AND THANK YOU TO OUR OUTSTANDING RELIGIOUS SCHOOL FACULTY 2005-2006 Robyn Abzug Jennifer Berenholz Fred Blumenthal Suzi Burnside Maya Chertok Joe Cohen Jen Cowen Julie Featherman Lisa Fried Mackem Nurit Glaser Jessy Gross Carole Heller Shelli Hutchinson Adam Kwasman Michael Lindner Robin Madison Lisa Ortmayer Student Cantor Rebecca Robbins Nitsa Rosensweig Nancy Siegel Michael Smolen Joanne Stefanick Sarah Stone Dana Stroul Jesse Thornton Jody Wager Rebecca Weiner Judy Weiss Elliot Bell Krasner Katie Blalock Melissa Blye Rabbi M. Burstein Anna Aslin Cohen Babette Cohn Sylvia Csongos Judy Fine Amy Friedman Heather Glick Jordan Heiber Danielle Heyman-Feist Shaina Korman Houston Carly Lindauer Erica Lipper Karen Majercsek Josh Renne Elise Rubin Suzanne Sauders Rabbi Amy Schwartzman Cantor Michael Shochet Phyllis Smelkinson Rachael Smolen Laurie Steiger Brian Strongin Gay Sullivan, Jen Unger Nathan Weiner FAMILY FUN DAY Sunday, May 21 9:30-12 noon Come one come all! Attendance will be taken for K-6 students 9:30-10:40 am grade wide programming (coffee for parents!) 10:45 am closing program for parents and students followed by an Ice Cream social! (Parents are invited to join us for the closing ceremonies and are needed to be to be present for students in the ice cream social. ) MANY THANKS TO OUR CONFIRMATION AND POST CONFIRMATION CLASS ASSISTANTS Alexis Abbey Michael Abrahams* Jodi Abrams Emily Bass* Chloe Berk Jamie Breitner Michael Brill Erin Briskin* Jenny Chalmer* Daniel Cincinnati* Elise Cohen Leah Corr Jody Davis Alana Dreiman Jamie Facenda Dave Fink* Mike Fink Laura Fletcher* Larissa Flores* Liz Freeman Rachel Fried Jonathan Gayer Alex Geralnick Mark Goldberg David Gorsky Dana Greenlee Brad Himelfarb Scott Hoffman Joey Huennekens Rachel Jacobson Ben Jardot Matt Jones* Michael Kalish Jesse Katzman Sam Klausner Caroline Kleger Wendy Leitner* Ariel Lepon Joe Levy* Lori Marshall* Eli Mellen David Milstein Evan Monat-Edelstein Sarah Moser Sammy Penenburgh Adina Pollack Danny Pollack Jennifer Polo-Sherk Alex Ray Eric Reif* Cory Rich Jessie Richardson Halle Ritter Karina Rosenbaum Etay Rosenzweig Malka Roth Meredith Rubin Suzanne Schlossberg Emily Schwartz Alyssa Shames Stephen Silverstein Alex Sirlin Avra Stackpole* Natalie Stearman Sam Strongin Andrew Sullivan Charlie Wexell Dana Whitman Maggie Winters Rachel Wolman Samantha Zito * designates graduating seniors who have assisted in classrooms for 3 years 7 B’nai Mitzvah May 6 • Yael Urbach May 13 • Daniel Heins Yael is the daughter of Jeff Urbach and Janet Kahn. She is in the seventh grade at Mary Ellen Henderson Middle School. Yael likes taking part in school plays, The Science Fair and Math Olympiad. She plays soccer with the Rascals, enjoys the Girl Scouts and reading. Yael organized her scout troop to collect kid-friendly band-aids for INOVA Fairfax Hospital for Children. Yael wants a career in which she can apply her interest in science. Daniel is the son of Leslie and John Heins. He is an 8th grader at the Sidwell Friends School in Washington, D.C., where he competes on the math and tennis teams. Daniel loves music: he plays piano and sings in three school choruses. In his spare time he also enjoys reading Japanese manga, playing video games and doing a wide variety of crafts from knitting to origami. As part of his community service, Daniel organized a bake sale at his school to raise money for Cows for Kids, an organization that donates cows to poor nomadic families in Kenya. May 6 • Thalia Aoki Thalia is the daughter of Ann and Steven Aoki. She is in the seventh grade at Longfellow Middle School on the Yagottawanas team. She enjoys reading fantasy and historical fiction and recently started jazz dance. Thalia also loves history and science and plans to be an archeologist or a biologist. For her mitzvah project Thalia is collecting money to pay for bednets in malaria-stricken countries. May 6 • Andrew Gross Andy is the son of Gary and Beth Gross. He is in the seventh grade at Thoreau Middle School. Andy lists baseball under team sports; he also likes spending time with friends and family, listening to music and making people laugh! He tutored elementary school students and participated in TRS Mitzvah Day projects. Andy’s career aspirations at this time are to become a professional baseball player. May 6 • Elias Chajet Elias is the son of Henry and Nancy Chajet. He is a seventh grade student at Cooper Middle School. Elias enjoys playing drums and is in the Percussion Ensemble at school. He also plays tennis, racquetball and squash but his favorite sport is baseball. Elias likes snorkeling, scuba diving, fishing and snowboarding. He loves to go to the beach with his family, hang out with his neighborhood and temple friends and participate in Jr. TRSTY activities, including the Leadership Group. Elias worked with Noah’s Ark Foundation for the past several months, helping to find homes for abandoned dogs and cats. May 13 • Ryan Swirsky Ryan is the son of Keith and Marjorie Swirsky. He is a seventh grade student at Cooper Middle School. Ryan has a sister who is also a student at TRS. Ryan loves reading and reads an enormous amount of fiction. He enjoys playing games on the computer and playing with his pet guinea pigs. Ryan also likes playing tennis and basketball. Ryan combined his love of reading with his Mitzvah Project. Ryan organized collecting money so that he could buy new storybooks to give to sick children in area hospitals. He raised enough money so that each book could be given along with a stuffed animal. 8 May 20 • Nina Zegler Nina is the daughter of Ella Berkowitz and Thomas Zegler. She is in the 7th grade at Longfellow Middle School where she plays the clarinet in the Wind Ensemble Band. She has played soccer with McLean Youth Soccer since kindergarten and has also been on the McLean Marlins Swim Team since the summer of 1999. She swims in the winter for York Swim Club as well. She enjoys reading, down hill skiing, going on bike rides and shopping at the mall with her friends. She volunteered to babysit during the High Holy Days at the Temple. May 20 • Jake Saunders Jake is the son of David and Cindy Saunders. He is in the seventh grade at Cooper Middle School. Jake’s team sports include baseball, basketball and flag football. He is a volunteer for the Fairfax County Adapted Aquatics Program working with special needs children in the water. Jake spends his summers at Camp Nock-A-Mixon in Pennsylvania. May 27 • Eric Villani Eric Villani is the son of Gary and Phyllis Villani. He is a seventh grader at Lanier Middle School. Eric is an avid baseball fan and his favorite team is the Baltimore Orioles. He likes both playing and watching baseball, skiing, cycling and playing video games. He really enjoys hanging out with his friends and family. One of Eric’s goals is to attend a baseball game at all 30 major league stadiums with his family. For his Mitzvah project Eric helped plan a bicycling event to raise money for cancer survivors. May 20 • Theodore Aronson Teddy is the son of Jesse and Valerie Aronson and a student at Swanson Middle School where he plays percussion in the school and marching bands. Teddy has participated in various academic competitions. An active Boy Scout, Teddy eagerly looks for opportunities to help others: he worked on Scouting for Food and taught origami to developmentally disabled youth. His community service includes restoring nature trails at Long Branch Nature Center. Teddy enjoys computer games and web development. Above all, Teddy loves penguins! He is an avid collector of penguin paraphernalia and longs to visit Antarctica. Outreach Outreach Chair: Mindy Facenda 703/255-3941 [email protected] OPENING DOORS TO SHABBAT A LEARNER’S SERVICE Friday, May 5 • 8:15 pm The Learner’s Shabbat will help guide you through the Shabbat evening service. We especially invite those who are new to Judaism or less familiar with our service to join us. However the service is designed for all to attend. There is always something new to learn! Babysitting by reservation only. Please call Mindy Facenda by Wednesday, May 3rd. Thank You to Parallel Shabbat Morning Minyan Participants (September 2005 -March 2006) Jewish Traditions Helpline: A joint venture of the temple's Outreach Committee and Sisterhood, this is a very easy way to anwser your questions about Jewish traditions. When you have a question simply go to the temple's website, click on the Sisterhood site and then onto the Helpline. To give you an idea of how we might help you, here are some sample questions. The answers can be found on the Sisterhood page in this bulletin. 1. What do you take to a Shiva call? 2. Should young children be brought to pay a Shiva call? 3. Why is the mourning period called “Shiva”? Please extend a warm welcome to Stacy Twersky, our new Clergy Secretary. Stacy has taken over from Danielle Parmenter who is moving to Philadelphia with her husband to pursue her dream of going to rabbinical school. Stacy grew up in Philadelphia , but has been in Washington since she moved here to attend George Washington University. Since her graduation from GW, Stacy has worked at the Investor Responsibility Research Center , and the American Resort Development Association. Her duties include supporting Cantor Shochet, Rabbi Burstein, and Student Cantor Rebecca Robins, along with providing administrative support for our Bar and Bat Mitzvah program. An Arlington resident, Stacy has become a Temple member, and enjoys attending our different services and programs. Please be sure to introduce yourself and say hello when you see her. Leader: Ellen Blalock, Carol Cohen, Jonathan Kosarin, Devora Lynn, Mike Rankin, Rebecca Robins, Anita Thornton Torah Reader: Ellen Blalock, Carol Breitner, Danielle Heyman-Feist, Cyrelle Gerson, Stephen Gross, Catharina Jacknow, Cecilia Kalish, Jonathan Kosarin, Devorah Lynn, Muriel MacDonald, Danielle Parmenter, Claire Reiss, Effe Rosenzweig, Ronnie Schulman, Judy Sue, Richard Swerdlow, Chuck Thornton D’var Torah: Ellen Blalock, Jerry Greenwald, Stephen Gross, Julie Krachman, Mike Rankin, Michelle Sandler Ethical Portion: Jackie Birnbaum, Catharina Jacknow, Devora Lynn, Mike Rankin Yasher Koach!! 9 YOUTH PAGE jr. trsty Contact JR TRSTY Youth Director Michelle Sandler at 703/448-3532 or [email protected] with questions. Visit www.templerodefshalom.org to register for events or to download a calendar for the year. The year has ended for the 7th Graders but there are still activities for the 8th graders. 8th Graders, - see the TRSTY page if you’re interested in any of the following events: invited to run for TRSTY Board on May 7. Even if you don’t want to run, you’re invited to join ✔You’re ❑ us for the elections picnic! Plus, don’t miss the last 2 TRSTY events of the year – the BBQ on May 13 and Kings Dominion on ✔June ❑ 4! These are great end-of-the-year events so don’t miss the fun! TRSTY 56 Contact TRSTY 56 Advisor Shelli Hutchinson [email protected] at 703/862-7220 with any questions. KEEP POSTED FOR UPCOMING EV ENTS! LETT ME E BE E YOUR R VIRGINIA A CONNECTION! Nancy Kane, ABR, SRES Associate Broker Life Member, NVAR Top Producer Top 5% Sales Nationwide TRS Member 80 % of the success of your tour in Israel depends on the guide you choose. Direct: 703-966-3381 Toll Free: 877-689-0816 Email me: [email protected] See me: www.homesbynancykane.com Exceedingg Yourr Expectationss inn Reall Estatee Needs!! Freee Homee Warrantyy forr alll Transactions!! 10 We found a guide that moves the 80% to 100%! For information call Ernie Lederer 703.242.6536! TRSTY TRSTY is the Youth Group for Grades 9-12 . Contact Michelle Sandler with any questions at 703/448-3532 or [email protected]. Interested in running for TRSTY Board? Elections will be held Sunday, May 7 at our annual Elections & Inductions Picnic from 11:00 am – 12:30 pm. Anyone interested in running must read the TRSTY Constitution which is available at www.templerodefshalom.org/youth.htm. The constitution details the positions available and descriptions of what the position entails. It also outlines what needs to be done in order to run in the elections. Everyone is invited to the elections – even if you’re not running! RSVP to http://boardelections06.mollyguard.com. The Board Retreat will be on Saturday, May 20 – please plan to attend should you be elected to the Board. BBQ Blowout Saturday, May 13 6:30 – 10:00 pm Teen Shabbat is at Washington Hebrew this month! Don’t miss this teen led service on Friday, May 12. RSVP to Laura Miller at [email protected]. Mark your calendars now for the LAST Attention 11th & 12th graders! event of the year – Kings Dominion! Sunday, June 4 from 8 am – 6 pm Join us It's our annual BBQ! Like casual, hang-out events? This is the one for you! You will have lots of time to chill out with your friends - plus, meet new Look for a flyer with more friends! And, of course, there's always details soon or visit our website at Don’t miss the last Post Confirmation meeting of the year on Sunday, May 7 from 1:30 – 3:00 pm. We will be discussing a movie called “The Tribe”. RSVP to http://postconmay06.mollyguard.com. great food. RSVP to http://trstybbq06.mollyguard.com. www.templerodefshalom.org/trs_events.htm. 11 Sisterhood Sisterhood Co-Presidents: Joan Ossakow • [email protected] • 703/690-2789 Joan Neiman • [email protected] • 703/241-2729 Blood Drive: June 5 1:00-7:00 pm Sisterhood Presidents’ Corner Thanks to Judith Yavner who has, for some time, been planning monthly museum visits. This year, with her co-chair Susan Saffran, all of the major exhibits in the DC area have been visited by Sisterhood members. Flo Kittiver and Janine Bland worked on the beautiful Sisterhood Shabbat and we are grateful for their efforts in bringing us a speaker with first-hand experience of the loss many of our friends have suffered. Our friends at Touro Synagogue in New Orleans received 100 Seder plates and expressed their appreciation for a gift that enabled many to celebrate the holiday. Those who have worked with Sisterhood will be honored at the Donor Luncheon this month. Through the year more than one hundred women volunteer for Sisterhood activities. They work alone, in pairs and in groups. Whatever time you have to give, there is a place and a need for you. Please call. The next semi-annual blood drive at TRS will take place on June 5. Giving the gift of life is simple. Most healthy individuals can be blood donors. Please eat a meal and drink extra fluids within 6 hours before donating. You will feel good about yourself. Contact Harriet Beckman at 703/356-3586 or [email protected] or Karen Hecker at 703/759-5618 or [email protected] to volunteer to give blood. Regularly Scheduled Events: BOOK GROUP: May 19th at 10:00 am. The book is Night by Elie Weisel. The hostess will be Lisa Katzman, 13610 Bare Island B’Shalom, Joan Neiman and Joan Ossakow Drive, Chantilly, Virginia. Call Harriet Beckman at 703/356-3586 if you are interested in coming as we will carpool. Donor Luncheon: Wednesday, May 10 It’s not too late to RSVP! Please make your entrée selection and join us for a delightful luncheon at the very pretty Bistro 123 at Tysons Corner Center on Wednesday, May 10. We are pleased to have Vincent Lash, a certified jewelry appraiser and author share his stories about jewelry appraisal. Please contact Nancy Bleeker at 703/847-5735 or Marjorie George at 703/404-0136 if you have not received an invitation and would like to attend. Jewish Traditions Helpline: The Jewish Traditions Helpline is available to answer some of your questions. To ask a question, go to the Temple’s website; go to the Sisterhood link and from there to the helpline. Below are the answers to the three questions posed on the Outreach page: 1. Usually people bring food. If you know the family well, this is a good choice. If you don’t know the mourners well or if it is a kosher household you need to make sure the food is kosher. If that isn’t an option, a safe choice would be a fruit basket. Traditionally one brings sweet things to remember the sweet memories of the deceased. 2. It depends on how young the child is and what the relationship is to the family in mourning. If you are related or close family friends, a young child could bring comfort. If the child is likely to be disruptive, then it is best not to bring him/her along. You could also call either the family or a person close to the family in advance of the visit. 3. It comes from the Hebrew “sheva” which means seven and is the week of mourning. 12 MUSEUM TRIP: : Friday May 12 No subway this time; we are going to the Woodlawn Plantation Historical Site which includes the Frank Lloyd Wright Pope-Leighy house. The address is 9000 Richmond Highway, Alexandria, Virginia. Car pools will originate from Julie Krachman’s house at 9:30 am. Please contact Judy Yavner at [email protected] or 703/527-0947 if you want to come or would like additional information. BRIDGE CLUB: May 24 Sisterhood Treasures Regular Hours: Tuesdays and Wednesdays 11:00 am until 12:30 pm and 5:30 pm until 7:30 pm. Sundays 8:30 am until 1:30 pm Appointments: Toni Sandler 703/734-9533, Susan Lerner 703/241-1055, Eleanor Linde 703/821-3767 Come to Treasures to choose a Confirmation gift. Men’s Club Men’s Club Chairs: Ric Cooper • [email protected] Al Krachman • [email protected] Purim Festival (well, next year) The Purim Carnival is YOUR event, a chance for YOU to have fun at the temple. Please let us know what we did well and what you would change. Now is the time to start planning for next year. Let’s start a planning committee now to make sure that next year is the best Purim Festival ever! (contact [email protected]). Hoop Dreams We were too late to organize a March Madness party (who knew GMU would go so far?), but we’re still eager to get the hoops going at TRS. How about a series of summer pickup games? Any leagues out there? E-mail [email protected] to schedule a game or find out more. Donations to Hillel We’re big fans of Hillel. We are privileged to have a direct connection to the GMU Hillel through Barbara Brot-Bailey and Scott Bailey (Director of GMU Hillel). Please join the Men’s Club in supporting the GMU Hillel by sending donations to support their activities. Donations to Darfur The ongoing tragedy in Darfur is a crime against humanity. Please join the Mens’ Club in supporting efforts to bring humanitarian aid to those in desperate need in Darfur. All of the “shekels for charity” from the Purim Festival will be donated to this effort. Planning meeting in early May The Mens’ Club would like to treat YOU to a nice dinner! We will hold a planning dinner in early May to discuss options and ideas for next year. Please e-mail [email protected] to get involved in YOUR Mens’ Club. RETIRED FROM GOVERNMENT AND LOOKING FOR SOMETHING COOL TO DO? PART-TIME or FULL-TIME and advisors We are a Federal business development agency for small innovative companies with neat ideas for technology products and services. We support US companies, and soon, Israeli companies. We need both hourly part-time and full-time consultants who are conversant in the mission and workings of at least one Federal Civilian or Defense agency and have a strong understanding of procurement policy. We're also developing an Advisory Board of government, industry, and legislative experts. Please contact Mike Fox, TRS member, for more information. All inquires are welcome. (703) 749-1290 or [email protected] SYNAPTIC SOURCE Connecting Small Business with Government 13 Social Action Shabbat n Social Action Shabbat April 28th, the Social Action Committee presented the Richard Sternberger Award to Joseph’s House, a hospice in Adams Morgan that serves the medical needs of both men and women in the last stages of terminal illnesses. This was a special presentation for many long-time members of the congregation who remember Henry Burrows, a talented baritone in our Professional Choir, who spent his last days at Joseph’s House. Joseph’s House was founded in 1990 as the AIDS epidemic spread into the poorest communities of the District. It provides a home and nursing services to care for and comfort the poorest, the sickest, and the most vulnerable individuals in our nation’s capital during the end stages of their illnesses. Although the primary mission of Joseph’s House is to those with AIDS, when space is available men and women with other terminal illnesses are also welcomed. While Joseph’s House provides a continuum of medical care and support to each resident as he or she progresses through the final stages of life, perhaps its most important function is to offer a caring human presence to men and women who would otherwise face a lonely and isolated death on the street. Those who know and love Rabbi Richard Sternberger and his commitment to social justice will agree that Joseph’s House is a worthy recipient of the award created in his honor. Congregants wishing to send a donation to this very worthy organization can mail it directly to Joseph’s House, 2482 Ontario Road, N.W., Washington, D.C. 20009. Social Action O Many people are involved in making the Food Caravan the success that it is. Volunteers include Temple members, teenagers, nursery school staff, kindergartners at the Religious School, and even nursery school children. Thank you to all of you and also to Panera's on Route 7 in Falls Church for their kind donations of bread and pastry. Summer will be upon us soon and that means volunteers take vacations, however the homeless still need to eat. If you can work for 1-2 hours once or twice during the summer to be a replacement in one of the Caravans, please contact Barbara Schonfeld at 703-242-7560 or [email protected]. Your Next Cup of Coffee Can Help to Alleviate Poverty – Buy Fair Trade Coffee! 14 Coffee is the second most valuable commodity in the world market after oil. The United States is the world’s largest consumer of coffee and Americans today drink one-fifth of the world’s beans. But few Americans realize that coffee farmers, who live largely in Latin America, Asia and Africa often toil in "sweatshops in the fields.” More than 25 million farmers and coffee workers in over 50 countries rely on coffee sales for their livelihood. In July of 2002, the Wall Street Journal reported that, “In lush coffee-growing regions from Central America to Africa, the collapse of world coffee prices is contributing to societal meltdowns affecting an estimated 125 million people, [resulting in] a combustible brew of unemployment, hunger and migration.” One response to the devastation caused by traditional coffee farming practices has been a growing demand for “Fair Trade” coffee made without exploitative labor. Fair Trade Coffee is a real solution for some of these farmers. Fair Trade certification ensures coffee farmers are paid a decent, living wage for their harvest; encourages democratically organized farming cooperatives; provides access to affordable credit, which helps farmers stay out of debt; and promotes sustainable practices, such as organic farming, which helps protect the environment. In the United States, TransFair USA is the certifying organization for Fair Trade products. In addition to directly improving the lives of coffee farmers and their families, Fair Trade coffee is often grown using more environmentally friendly methods than regular coffee. In an age of increasing economic disparity between rich and poor, both locally and globally, it is easy to feel powerless to make a difference. By choosing to spend a few cents more on Fair Trade certified coffee, we support a living wage for farmers, increased educational opportunities for rural children, and improved environmental standards. Fair Trade coffee, which can be caffeinated, de-caffeinated and flavored, is growing in popularity in the United States. FAIR TRADE MEANS: FAIR WAGES >Fair trade guarantees small farmers and artisans prices that exceed their production costs. This increased income allows them to feed their families, stay out of debt and keep their land. CHILDREN'S RIGHTS >Many children's rights are violated when families are forced to choose between sending a child to work or to school. Fair trade increases family income, helping families better afford education and health care for their children. WOMEN'S RIGHTS >Fair trade cooperatives must demonstrate that women have equal rights and responsibilities. They are required to document how many women are members of the cooperative, how many hold leadership roles, and how many own or co-own land. ENVIRONMENTAL RIGHTS >Fair trade promotes organic farming which is better for the environment and encourages chemicalfree farming, composting, crop rotation and other beneficial practices. Nearly 85 percent of Fair Trade Coffee sold in the U.S. is certified organic. ADVOCACY Consumer advocacy is slowly making an impact. On October 4, 2000, Starbucks -the world’s largest specialty coffee chain – introduced whole bean Fair Trade certified coffee at over 2,300 stores, bringing the number of Fair Trade outlets to more than 10,000 nationwide. Fair Trade activists are now urging Starbucks to not merely stock fairly traded coffees but to actually promote them. In August 2001, the Seattle Coffee Co. joined the Fair Trade movement, agreeing to sell Certified Organic and Fair Trade Certified coffee in about 1,400 Safeway stores throughout the United States. In November 2004, Starbucks agreed to ensure that coffee sold in its stores comes from environmentally friendly farms paying workers a fair wage. By 2007, Starbucks expects that 60 percent of its coffee will come from farmers following strict rules on everything from reforestation to pesticides to labor practices and will work with Oxfam to make this happen. To locate a store near you that sells Fair Trade Coffee go to: http://www.transfairusa.org/ do/whereToBuy These national brands also sell Fair Trade Coffee: • Green Mountain Coffee (all) • Newman's Own Organics Fair Trade Coffee • Starbucks (only their Fair Trade Blend) • Dunkin' Donuts (their new line of espresso drinks are made exclusively with Fair Trade Coffee) Scrapbook TRS members and clergy welcomed Ambassador Petr Kolar, of the Czech Republic as our guest speaker on the bema on April 23. He was accompanied by his wife, as well as several associates from the Embassy. Author Aviva Kempner was present at the screening and discussion of her film Partisins of Vilna. Following the program, members of TRS Renaissance hosted a dinner in her honor. Rabbi Henry Weiner(left) with Temple member Gabor Katona, following the Rabbi's workshop on Prayer Without Words Over 150 of our TRS members came out for Family Game Night and Ice Cream Social in April! A great time was had by all! A Sisterhood Shabbat Dinner was held prior to the Sisterhood Shabbat Service on April 21. Janine Bland made the blessing over the Challah. We welcomed over 150 of our most recently joined members at an April 2 dinner Putting up the exhibit "Disappeared Neighbors" was a group effort! Members of the Disappeared Neighbors Exhibit Committee pose following the April 23 Panel Discussion: l to r: Geri Maskell, Henry Hahn, Eva Kuzelova (Docent from Czech Republic), Katja Gibson, Terri Rea and Anita Thornton, Program Director 15 ARZA-Bridge to Israel ARZA Co-Chairs: Russ Bikoff • 703/790-0671 • [email protected] Norma S. Tucker • 301/897-5124 • [email protected] MAY 12, 8:15 pm SERVICE -ISRAEL SHABBAT SPECIAL ONEG SHABBAT - CELEBRATION OF YOM HA’ATZMAUT, ISRAEL INDEPENDENCE Our guest speaker for this 2006 Israel Shabbat is Abraham (Avi) Sagi-Schwartz, professor of psychology and social work at the University of Haifa in Israel. He is presently a Senior Fellow, Jennings Randolph Fellowship Program at the prestigious United States Institute for Peace (USIP) here in Washington. In this position he serves as a resource on topics and issues of the Middle East, Human Development Across Cultures, Child Development Under Social Adversities, and Civil Society. The subject of Dr. SagiSchwartz’s remarks will be “The Life of Children in Israeli Society Today: Between Myth and Reality.” Join us for this special Shabbat Service to be followed by a festive Israeli Oneg Shabbat to celebrate Yom Ha’atzmaut with music by Hook, Line and Simcha, special Israeli foods, and Israeli dancing. ELECTION RESULTS, World Zionist Organization (WZO) Thank you to all TRS members who participated in the 2006 United States (US) elections to the 35th WZO Congress--the Congress of the Jewish People. Over 85,000 valid voters registered and 88.27% of those voters cast their ballot. ARZA received the highest number of delegates from the US. Here are the results of the US Zionist elections: Slate Delegates ARZA 55 Baltimore Zionist District 1 Dor Zion 2 Green Zionist Alliance 2 Hatikva 5 Herut, NA 2 Jewish Reconstructionist Federation 2 Likud 3 Mercaz USA 32 Religious Zionist Slate 35 Russian American Jews for Israel 1 Zionist Organization of America 5 Total 145 For more information about the 2006 elections, the slates, previous elections, and the upcoming Congress: http://congressofthejewishpeople.com 16 RIDE4REFORM 3RD ANNUAL BIKE RIDE IN ISRAEL ARZA-Bridge to Israel Committee supported Guy Immerman in his ride ACROSS Israel for Reform Judaism March 26-30. The purpose of Riding4Reform is to raise funds to promote Progressive Jewish communities in Israel. This includes a wide range of community programs run by the different institutions, congregations and departments of the Israel Movement for Progressive Judaism. The following examples show the diversity of the programs: • 45 kindergarten classes around Israel provide a unique egalitarian Jewish experience for 1,250 young Israelis. • The new Mechina program in Jaffa offers a year of study, work and community service for high-school graduates before they join the Israel army • Hundreds of new immigrants attend Jewish study programs in Russian, Spanish, English and Hebrew. • The School Involvement Program trains teachers from secular public schools around the country to teach Jewish studies in a meaningful and pluralistic way. Guy was born and raised at Kibbutz Yahel, the first Reform kibutz in Israel. He believes “that the youth have the power to make a difference.” WHERE ARZA MEMBERSHIP DUES GO 18% Israel Reform Movement Projects $5 to Israel Religious Action Center (IRAC) $2 supports Israel Programming within congregations Balance supports ARZA’s mission in the United States and within the international Jewish community. Library REFERENCE • Ethelyn Simon, Irene Resnikoff and Linda Motzkin. The First Hebrew Primer: The Adult Beginner’s Path To Biblical Hebrew. 3rd. ed. Library Use Only, shelved on book cart to left of desk as you enter RELIGIOUS • Marc Zvi Brettler. How To Read the Bible…understanding the Hebrew Bible within the cultural context that produced it…“accessible…shrewd interpretation” • Elliot N. Dorff. The Way Into Tikkun Olam (Repairing the World)…a comprehensive introduction • Neil Gillman. Traces of God: Seeing God in Torah, History and Everyday Life…Winner of the Jewish Book Award…a thoughtful, spiritual guide • James Kugel. On Being a Jew…“A compelling introduction to being a religious Jew”-Moment…Includes a thoughtful dialogue chapter on “Marrying a Protestant” CONVERSION • Michael A. Meyer. Response To Modernity: a History of the Reform Movement…one copy in regular shelving, one on Conversion Shelf…recommended by Rabbi Amy Schwartzman HOLOCAUST • Samuel Moyn. A Holocaust Controversy: the Treblinka Affair In Postwar France. …the story of the 1943 revolt at Treblinka involving controversy, scandal and polemics HISTORY • Jane S. Gerber. The Jews of Spain: a History of the Sephardic Experience • Andrea Greenbaum, ed. Jews of South Florida.…an unusual mix of Jews…Atlantic seaboard retirees… Spanish speaking….the largest community of Holocaust survivors…Jews from Arab nations, the Soviet Union and Israel…covers the end of the 19th century to the beginning of the 21st • Susan Neiman. Slow Fire: Jewish Notes From Berlin…“a book about the way Germans confront their past and the Nazis” • Robert B. Goldmann. Wayward Threads….A refugee story…from Germany to a career in the U.S. with the Voice of America, a brush with McCarthyism and later experiences with Germany • Herman J. Obermayer. Soldiering For Freedom: a GI’s Account of World War II…written by TRS member…a commentary on the support side of World War II, patrolling a pipeline in France…See also: bound reviews and commentary FICTION • Andrew Meisels. Son of a Star…the story of Simon Bar Kochba’s rebellion against Rome in A.D. 132 JUVENILE • Lawrence Kushner and Gary Schmidt. In God’s Hands….a fine new interpretation of a traditional folktale YOUNG ADULT • Sondra Henry & Emily Taitz. Written Out of History: Our Jewish Foremothers….good for a school report on interesting, forgotten women • Esther Nisenthal Krinitz and Bernice Steinhardt. Memories of Survival…a moving, unforgettable book…the story of living through the Holocaust in Poland told through hand-stitched embroidery panels DVDS AND VIDEOS • Our movie maven Laura Jacobs, has taken another trip to eBay! We will be showcasing her choices on the New Book truck as fast as I can catalog them. Here are a few from the first shipment: VID “ Ben-Hur” with Charlton Heston…a search for revenge, a violent sea battle and THE famous chariot race VID “ Come Blow Your Horn”…a Neil Simon comedy with Frank Sinatra and Molly Picon DVD replacement of “ Exodus” with Paul Newman and Eva Marie Saint DVD “Paper Clips”…a Tennessee middle school paper clip project turns into a Holocaust memorial…award winning documentary…we also have the book DVD “When Harry Met Sally”…an adult, romantic comedy starring Billy Crystal and Meg Ryan I am generally in the library Monday, Wednesday and Thursday mornings but can be reached at x402, at home at 202-363-6172 or at e-mail: [email protected]. Martha Hill, Library ARCHIVES—HERITAGE MOMENT 1964 Our congegation took part in a joint service of Reform congregations to hear the president of the Central Conference of American Rabbis speak on the "plight of Soviet Jewry and the challange to American Jewry." Religious freedom had been taken away, they were discriminated against in their professional life and rights to emigrate were denied. 1971 Protests were staged by our members every day at noon opposite the Soviet Embassy. Brief religious services were held. A series of rallies were held during the next years. 1972 Demonstrations were held at Lafayette Park. Soviet policy was denounced and President Nixon petitioned to intercede. The congregation "adopted" Jewish prisoners of conscience in Russia. 1976 TRS once again "adopted" a prisoner of conscience. A chair was 'reserved' for the prisoner and was kept on the bema. Letters of support, petitions and protests to American and Russian authorities were maintained through the Social Action Committee. Finally, many prisoners of conscience were freed. 1977 Restriction on emigration gradually eased. change, well into the 80's. Soviet policy began to 1981 A Soviet Jewish couple renewed their vows at TRS. 1985 Rodef Shalom raised funds to assist Ethiopian Jews 1986 Our congregation sponsored vigils at the Soviet Embassy once again on behalf of Jews wanting to emigrate. A sign was displayed in front of the temple-----"Freedom for Soviet Jews." Our temple , along with the Falls Church Presbyterian Church, supported a third prisoner of conscience. 2005 The Darfur region of the Sudan----Once again , Rodef Shalom is speaking out against genocide and ethnic cleansing. A banner has been displayed at the temple.making people aware of the crisis in Darfur. 2006 The banner now says ' a call to your conscience '--Save Darfur.com Compiled by Marge Kestenbaum member of Archives Committee 17 Caring Committee Caring Committee Chair: Lisa Kaplan Gordon • 703/241-7807 • [email protected] View the latest Caring Committee information on our Temple Website, www.templerodefshalom.org. S ince Jews are commanded to perform g’milut chasadim — deeds of loving kindness — every Temple member automatically is a member of the Caring Committee which helps members deal with the difficult transitions and crises that life presents. Caring Committee services are described below. If you want to volunteer — and we hope all Temple members will participate — call the subcommittee coordinator. If you know of someone in need — and we all need help from time to time — call the contact number. The Temple must assign some services; others can be arranged through the coordinator. Bereavement It’s hard to know what to do when someone dies. Our Bereavement Committee helps Temple members sort through the process of burying a family member by providing funeral and cemetery resources and support. If you need bereavement support, call Anne Duncan, clergy secretary: 703/532-2217. If you want to be a bereavement volunteer, call coordinator Stu Weiss: 703/522-2524, or e-mail [email protected]. Visiting the Sick (Bikkur Cholim) TRS Shalom Baby TRS Shalom Baby provides support for Temple members celebrating the arrival of a new baby. At this joyous, but sometimes stressful time, volunteers lend a hand. They offer experience, a set of arms to hold the baby while Mom takes a shower, meal assistance, referrals for other Jewish resources and an introduction to the many family services and programs that TRS offers. If you’ve recently had a baby or would like to volunteer, call coordinator Nancy Chajet: 703/761-1234, or e-mail [email protected]. Support for Widows and Widowers — Next Step Next Step supports Temple members who have recently lost a spouse by providing resources and a group that can help a widow or widower work through their grief and move on. If you need support, call coordinator Debbie Massey: 703/264-0297, or e-mail [email protected]. Breast Cancer Network The network provides support and resources for breast cancer patients and survivors. We meet monthly for a casual dinner and conversation. If you need support, please call Anita Thornton, Program Director: 703/532-2217 ext. 301 or e-mail [email protected]. Torah commands us to visit the sick. When a Temple member returns from the hospital, it is our tradition to pay a visit, deliver a challah and determine if other help is needed. If you have returned from the hospital, call Anne Duncan, clergy secretary: 703/532-2217. If you want to volunteer to pay a visit, call coordinator Michael Raizen: 703/841-5421, or e-mail [email protected]. Meals When a Temple member faces a crisis, cooking is often the last thing on their mind. The Meals Committee helps by cooking and delivering meals as often and for as long as needed. If you need a meal, call Anne Duncan, clergy secretary: 703/532-2217. If you want to volunteer to cook a meal, call coordinator Ronnie O’Connor: 703/642-0289, or e-mail [email protected]. JSSA IS HERE TO HELP Thanks to the continuing partnership between Temple Rodef Shalom and the Jewish Social Service Agency (JSSA), we have available to us a licensed professional counselor. The counselor is available as a consultant and can provide support and referrals to congregants in need as a result of emotional, social, or physical challenges. Fees for the inital service through TRS are covered by TRS. JSSA supports individuals, couples, and families through mental health counseling, services for children and adolescents, older adult services, career programs and adoption assistance. Please contact Larry Uman, LCSW at can be found at 703/204-9100 X15. 18 For over 16 years, Catering by Windows has been providing exceptional full-service catering, party planning and event management services. Pairing renown culinary expertise with professional, experienced service, Catering by Windows can make your next celebration a spectacular simcha! Kosher and Kosher-style available. Bar/Bat Mitzvahs Weddings Social Entertaining Holiday Celebrations 703-519-3500 • www.catering.com Ask for Andrew Gerstel 1125 North Royal Street, Alexandria, VA 22314 Donations TRS GENERAL FUND Associate Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund • A friend at Temple Micah in honor of the bar mitzvah of Ethan Gaba • Alma Rosenbaum in loving memory of Leo Rosenbaum • Richard & Valli Swerdlow in loving memory of Sylvia Swerdlow • Elaine Zuppe in loving memory of my mother, Minnie Steinberg • Joanne & Tom Stefanick in memory of Gunther Erlebacher • Janet & Russ Roseman in honor of the life and work of Dick Friedman in our Temple community • Beth Silver & Adam Gruen in memory of Leonard Suslowitz, brother of Bob Suslowitz • Lore Seligson in memory of Kurt Seligson • Cheryl, Steve, Evan & Lindsay Sloane in memory of Dick Friedman • Wendy & Herb Bloom in honor of the engagement of Rabbi Burstein & Eric Larson • Sylvia Datner in memory of my mother, Vera Edelman • Rhoda & Dan Gaba in honor of Ethan Gaba’s bar mitzvah • Mark & Kim Savit in loving memory of Mark’s father, Carl Savit • Jacqui & Mike Falkenheim in appreciation of the beautiful naming ceremony for our daughters CLERGY FUNDS Senior Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund • Ken, Julie & Jon Ende and Laura Sheppeard in loving memory of Ken’s parents, Asher & Jeanne Ende • Bill & Cherie Artz in appreciation for the moving Shiva service for Bill’s father, Milton Artz • Grazia Sher in memory of my mother, Amelia Riva • Marilyn Renfield in loving memory of my mother, Irene Lewis • Howard Weiss in honor of Mattie Shepard’s bat mitzvah • The Kintisch family in appreciation of the beautiful service for Mae Kintisch • Sandra Berger in loving memory of my mother, Bertha Miller, and father, Ben Miller • Bob & Iris Shamaskin with best wishes for a return to good health for Anne Mazor Cohen • Jeff Holden in memory of my mother, Shirley Holden • Jules Cohen in loving memory of my father, Harry Cohen • The Green-Zevin family in appreciation of Rabbi Schwartzman’s warm & thoughtful support before and during Jeremy’s bar mitzvah • Rhoda & Dan Gaba in honor of Ethan Gaba’s bar mitzvah • Jules Cohen in memory of my sister, Gladys Shulman • Isidore Greenberg in memory of my mother, Esther Greenberg Cantor’s Discretionary Fund • Bill & Cherie Artz in appreciation for the moving Shiva service for Bill’s father, Milton Artz • Jason & Carin Lomax • Jason Hutchinson in appreciation for helping me on my journey • Rhoda & Dan Gaba in honor of Ethan Gaba’s bar mitzvah • Barbara & Tibor Schonfeld in honor of our granddaughter, Alexis Gina Agin EDUCATION FUNDS Religious School Fund • Susan & Robert Hale in memory of Dick Friedman • Michelle & Rob Cohen in loving memory of Michelle’s father, Sumner Weisberg • Jen & Kayleigh Schall in honor of the bar mitzvah of Eric Backer, son of Dina & Stuart Backer Adult Education Fund • Louis & Toby Freeman with many thanks for the wonderful cultural and educational programs Library Fund • Henry & Harriet Epstein in memory of Mae Kintisch • Janice & Lester Mehlman in memory of our dear friend, Mae Kintisch • Pearl Rapoport Shuman with get well wishes for Marilyn Brand • Deana Shulman in memory of Leonard Suslowitz, brother of Bob Suslowitz • Wendy Fox in memory of Richard Friedman • Jane L. Winer in loving memory of my mother, Elizabeth J. Winer, and my father, Harold Winer TIKKUN OLAM FUNDS Caring Committee • Trudy & Ed Lefrak and family in appreciation for the many kindnesses shown to us during this difficult time Temple Tzedakah Fund • Stephen & Sandra Bogorad in memory of Melvin Bogorad • Donna Schwartz & Gregg Maisel in honor of the 50th wedding anniversary of Phyllis & Milton Meisner • Geri Maskell in loving memory of my mother, Nora K. Hoober • Lucy Bernstein Radcliffe in loving memory of my brother, Arnold Ira Bernstein, a casualty of World War II Social Action Fund • Clarine & Sid Schmukler in memory of Mae Kintisch • Jan & Soop Saferstein in loving memory of Don Saferstein, Soop’s brother 19 Donations Passover for New Orleans Families BUILDING AND GROUNDS FUNDS • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Jacknow Meditation and Tribute Garden Lynn & Robert Fletcher Flo & Alan Frey Wendy Fox Mark & Patricia Roth Susan & Richard Gorsky Marion Jacknow Louis Olom Ellen & Allen Rosenblum Barbara Sarshik & Andy Pike Laurie Rowe Ellen & David Sher Beth Silver & Adam Gruen Michael & Rachael Smolen Linda Hoffman & Marc Cohen Marilyn Renfield & Marc Rosenblum Zeev & Nitsa Rosenzweig Ohel Ya’acov Fund • Michael & Mary Canes in memory of Herman Canes • Burton & Elaine Litman in loving memory of Bertha Litman • Laszlo Berkowits ARZA Ride4Reform • Anne & Alan Gorenstein • Jules Cohen • Anonymous TRS Fund for the Community • Ilene & John Pachter in memory of Richard Friedman • Shelley & Andy Prince in memory of Dick Friedman and Leonard Suslowitz, brother of Bob Suslowitz • Ruth & Izzy Zeitz in loving memory of our mothers, Anna Zietz and Lillian Eisenberg, and with wishes for a speedy recovery to Ruth and her niece, Amy Morris • Ellen & Dan Blalock in memory of TRS past president, N. Richard Friedman • Gayle & Jonathan Kosarin in honor of Rabbi Marcus Burstein and Eric Larson • Geri Maskell in loving memory of my aunt, Rose K. Williams PROGRAMMING AND CULTURAL FUNDS Music and Volunteer Choir Fund • Victor & Miriam (Louick) De La Cruz and family in honor of the 40th wedding anniversary of our parents, Sidney & Bettye Anna Louick RITUAL AND WORSHIP FUNDS Prayer Book Fund • Sue & Carl Kalish in memory of William Ross, brother of Phil Ross • Carl & Sue Kalish in memory of Dick Friedman 20 • Bea Finkel in loving memory of my father, Ben Finkel • Debbie Massey in memory of Richard Friedman, husband of Joan & father of Andrew • Jonathan & Gayle Kosarin in memory of Dick Friedman • Michael & Denise Shochet in memory of Susan Sirlin’s grandfather, Joseph Moretti Artz/Fish Fund • Alan & Jane Kent • Bill & Cherie Artz in loving memory of Bill’s father, Milton Artz, and Cherie’s brother, Rabbi Judah L. Fish • Debbie Massey in memory of Milton Artz, father of Bill Artz • Catherine Benigno in memory of Milton Artz, father of Bill Artz • Sheryl & Arthur Silverman in memory of Milton Artz, father of Bill Artz Judy Seiff Special Projects Fund • Stanley Wilson in memory of Rose Gleicher Appelbaum ENDOWMENT FUNDS TRS Endowment General Fund • Margery & Gerson Sher in fond memory of Dick Friedman • Leon & Marysue Wechsler in memory of Marysue’s mother, Leah Jaffe • Ronald & Nancy Bleeker in memory of Dick Friedman • Jean Wise in loving memory of my parents, Dezo & Hedy Levendula • Sheryl Silverman in memory of Dick Friedman Jennifer Blalock Memorial Fund • Gail Dezube in honor of Dottie Bennett’s “Guardian of the Bridge” from her friends in the TRS Breast Cancer Support Group • Ellen, Katie & Dan Blalock in loving memory of James Schwab and Max Monarch NEW MEMBERS • Craig & Katya Bennett—703/442-0222 1239 Pine Hill Road McLean, VA 22101 Samuel Bennett 7/16/1997 Tatiana Bennett 11/16/1998 • Bonnie & Howard Horowitz—703/716-7337 2690 Mattox Creek Drive Oakton, VA 22124 Julia Horowitz 3/1/1994 Jeffrey Horowitz 1/22/1996 Nina Horowitz 11/16/2001 New Members • S. Lillian & Eugene Kremer—703/243-6520 3800 Fairfax Drive, #310 Arlington, VA 22203 • Steven & Elisa Pilloff—703/207-9444 8152 Streamside Court Vienna, VA 22182 Max Pilloff 1/04/2001 Alex Pilloff 1/04/2001 • Therese & Donald Rea—703/237-7683 118 Gresham Place Falls Church, VA 22046 • Bruce Snyder—703/237-7549 1001 N. Harrison Street Arlington, VA 22205 The Jewish Federation of Greater Washington Sure footed For young families here, in Israel, and worldwide … Federation coordinates and supports hundreds of education, camping, and parenting programs that help parents raise their children with pride and confidence. It’s just part of what we do for each other. Want to help? Need help? Call 888-881-3636 shalomdc.org/help MAZEL TOV TO • Carin, Jason & Justin Lomax on the birth of Bennett Owen. Bennett is also the grandson of Temple members Elaine & David Lomax and Marla & Mel Wolf • Sally Margolis on the marriage of her daughter, Pam to Seth Haber • Bonnie Breslar on the birth of her granddaughter, Jaffe Wynne Smith, daughter of Zoe & Zerik Smith • John & Roberta Birken on the engagement of their daughter, Diane, to Mark Strasser • Andy Pike, a law professor at American University’s Washington College of Law, has been named by American University as the university’s outstanding teacher of the 2005-2006 academic year. CONDOLENCES TO • Sandra Berger on the death of her father, Ben Miller • Jo-Anne Goldman on the death of her grandmother, Lilian Goldman • Virgil Frizzell on the death of his father, Virgil A. Frizzell • Phil Ross on the death of his brother, William Mark Ross • Denise Dreiman on the death of her father, Leonard Carmel • Jack Maskell on the death of his father, Seymour (Sonny) Maskell 21 TEMPLE RODEF SHALOM NURSERY SCHOOL invites you to the S A T U R D A Y , M A Y 13, 2006 7:30 – 11:00 P . M . to benefit the KAREN SIMPSON TEACHER EDUCATION ENDOWMENT Try your luck at a gaming table, Take a chance with our jackpot raffle, Bid on fabulous auction items, Thank Karen for her years of commitment to our children. $60 PER PERSON INCLUDES LITE FARE, DRINKS AND CASINO MONEY Cocktail attire TEMPLE RODEF SHALOM 2100 Westmoreland Street, Falls Church, Virginia Name __________________________________ Phone _____________ E-mail ___________________ _____ Number attending at $60 per person $ _______ I would like to make an additional contribution $ _______ I would like to be a Bellagio Ball Sponsor (sponsorship opportunities are listed online) $ _______ I cannot attend but would love to make a contribution to the Endowment $ ________ TOTAL $ ________ Please RSVP by visiting our website, www.bellagioball.mollyguard.com, and using a credit card to register/make contributions. Or, please detach and return with a check payable to Temple Rodef Shalom. 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Schwartzman Michael A. Shochet Marcus L. Burstein, D. Min Laszlo Berkowits Rebecca Robins OFFICERS President Vice President Vice President Vice President Vice President Treasurer Assistant Treasurer Financial Secretary Recording Secretary Corresponding Secretary Volunteer Shabbat Friday, May 19 8:15 pm Join us for this special opportunity to recognize all of our Robin Strongin Marc Cohen David Lawrence Joan Levin Hannah Moore Marla Schnall David Fish Elliot Gruber Ronnie Schulman Beth Stroul wonderful volunteer activities and projects that our temple members have participated in over the past year. A flower will be added to our bema vase for each volunteer project that has been worked on over the past year. By the time we finish acknowledging projects, the vase will be overflowing with beautiful flowers, and our bema will be filled with representatives of each project, who will receive a blessing from our clergy. Please contact the chair of your committee to make sure TRUSTEES your project is on our list to be honored. If a temple volunteer Marshall Berman, Jerry Greenwald, Susan Simon project you were involved in was done independent of a TRS STAFF committee, please contact Anita Thornton, Program Director, Administrator, Beth Silver — 703/532-2217 ext. 300 Program Director, Anita Thornton — 703/532-2217 ext. 301 Religious School Principal, Dina Backer, RJE — 703/532-2207 Nursery School Principal, Karen Simpson — 703/532-2227 Camp Director, Jay Rapoport — 703/532-2241 ext. 251 Youth Group Director, Michelle Sandler — 703/532-2217 at 703/532-2217 ext 301 or e-mail athornton@templerodef- Temple Office 703/532-2217 www.TempleRodefShalom.org Email: [email protected] shalom.org to have your volunteer project added to the list. We will also be welcoming guest Cantor, Emil Toth to the bema on this evening. Cantor Toth will be presenting a concert on Saturday, May 20. 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