SPBC Toastmasters, 649145 NEWSLETTER December 2014, Volume 5, Issue 2 A Message From Our President Dear SPBC Toastmasters and Friends, I can't believe that we are already at the half-year mark of this Toastmasters year and what an exciting six months it has been! As we plan to end the year at the distinguished mark, here are a few things to keep in mind. Editor Linda Kennedy 1. Continue to volunteer for speaking and leadership roles to complete those manuals and earn your awards. Bring your manuals and have your role and/or speech evaluated. Being able to look back on what you did well and where improvement is needed is a sure guarantee to your growth. [email protected] Assistant Editor Kimberly Matthews [email protected] ~~~~ President Linda Kennedy Vice President Education Alfreda Page-Garner Vice President Membership Antionette Irving Vice President Public Relations Charlene Heyward Treasurer Carolyse Andrews Secretary Vacant Sergeant-at-Arms Sam Earl 2. Bring a guest to the meeting. Inviting more than one person will more likely result in at least one person joining our club. We need just one more new member to earn a DCP point. 3. Become an officer. Being an officer helps to hone your leadership skills and gives you hands-on input in the direction of our club. As a club officer, you will help ensure that each club member feels his or her Toastmasters experience is worthwhile. 4. As an officer, attend the officers training provided by District 66. Training helps you better understand your role and provides you the tools to fulfill your responsibilities, all of which leads to a quality club experience and increased member retention. 5. Volunteer to chair or serve on a committee. In addition to fulfilling a leadership goal, chairing a committee allows you to organize an exciting event and lead a team towards a common goal. Speech contests, membership contests, open house events, celebration events, and special projects are great opportunities to chair a committee. None of these are a one-man show and you have the full support of your officers and members. (Continued on page 2) Inside this Edition President’s Message ................................................. 1 Trunk or Treat ............................................................ 2 Educational Awards.................................................. 3 Member Spotlight—Sam Earl ............................... 3 District 66 2015 Spring Conference .................. 5 Traveling Toastmaster ............................................ 7 District 66, Division B Cutting Out Filler Words ...................................................... 8 2015 Annual Christmas Party ......................................... 10 DCP Status ............................................................................... 11 Celebrations / Calendar ..................................................... 12 [email protected] myspbc.org Page 1 SPBC Toastmasters, Club # 649145 December 2014, Volume #5, Issue #2 Message From the President cont’d Trunk or Treat! The Trunk or Treat on October 31st was a great success for the church and a lot of fun for us. We sincerely appreciate that you were able to come out and support the church and SPBC Toastmasters. Uh oh – some hands were caught in the cookie jar . 6. Attend meetings. When a member is assigned a role and doesn't show up, it puts undue burden on the attending members. As Toastmasters, we learn to manage under various circumstances; however, by letting the Toastmaster know of your absence makes planning so much easier. At the district conference, keynote speaker Dana Lamon spoke about excellence and said to think of excellence as a process instead of a destination. A commitment to excel is a promise you make to yourself. Once you commit to excellence, you touch your soul and the soul of others, be it your fellow Toastmasters members, your colleagues or your family. Let SPBC toastmasters guide you along that path of excellence. Read on in the newsletter how SPBC toastmasters includes excellence in all we do. Happy New Year! Sincerely, Linda Kennedy, DTM President Happy 90th Birthday Toastmasters International! The first official Toastmasters meeting was held in October 1924 in Santa Ana, California. Why not celebrate the organization's milestone with a themed club meeting devoted to Toastmasters' history? Check out the 90th Anniversary webpage for fun resources to use throughout the anniversary year District 66, Division B [email protected] myspbc.org Page 2 SPBC Toastmasters, Club # 649145 AWARDS Member Awards Congratulations to Dot Ware for earning her Advanced Communicator Gold Award! ACG (Advanced Communicator Gold) Requirements After completing two Advanced Communications Manuals not used for any previous awards, you complete the following: 1) Mentor/coach a new member for their first 3 speeches. 2) Conduct one program from the Success/ Leadership Series, Success/ Communication Series, or present the Youth Leadership Program. Club Awards Congratulations! SBPC Toastmasters met the Half-by-Half Challenge by acquiring five points towards the Distinguished Club Program. Thank you, our members, for helping to make this happen. We still have another six months to complete the points for President’s Distinguished status. With your help, I have no doubt that we can make this happen. December 2014, Volume #5, Issue #2 Member Spotlight — Sam Earl Q: When and why did you join Toastmasters? I joined Toastmasters in June 2012 because I needed to improve my public speaking skills and I knew that Toastmasters would help me do that. Q: What do you do for a living? I work as a Claims Reviewer for BrownGreer PLC , a mass claims litigation law firm. At the moment I am evaluating claims for the BP Oil Spill Settlement. Q: How do you use communication skills in your daily life? On a daily basis I am asked to evaluate documentation submitted by claimants and explain why I believe the documents are or aren't sufficient to satisfy the requirements of the Settlement. Toastmasters has helped me to organize my thoughts quickly and develop well supported arguments for my positions. Q: What do you like best about our club? The first thing I noticed about our club was just how welcoming everyone was. Since then I have been impressed with how everyone continues to encourage each other and is interested in helping each member succeed. Q: What have you done in Toastmasters to gain leadership experience? I am currently Sergeant At Arms but believe that holding other positions within meetings, particularly Toastmaster, has helped me gain valuable leadership experience. Q: What surprised you the most about Toastmasters? Officer Training Club Officers—Mark your calendars! The 2015 Winter Leadership Institute will be held on February 7, 2015 for the second round of training. The locations are still being determined and the time is 8:30am1pm for both dates. Identify which date you will be attending, email your training date to your club president. I strongly encourage all seven officers to be trained. Training is vital to a successful club! District 66, Division B I was surprised at how many people join Toastmasters that are already very good speakers but continue to hone their communication skills during their time in Toastmasters. Q: What is the most important thing you would tell your friends and family about Toastmasters? I would tell them that everyone can benefit from Toastmasters. Even if you have many natural talents by participating in meetings, taking on leadership roles, and seeking out opportunities to speak you can improve your communication skills and become a better leader. [email protected] (Continued on page 4) myspbc.org Page 3 SPBC Toastmasters, Club # 649145 TIDBITS Word Of The Day ACRIMONIOUS / \ˌakrəˈmoneəs\ (adjective) 1: Bitter and sharp in language or tone; rancorous 2: angry and bitter Synonyms: bitter, angry, rancorous, caustic, acerbic, scathing, sarcastic, acid, harsh, sharp, cutting December 2014, Volume #5, Issue #2 Member Spotlight cont’d Q: How would you encourage new or potential Toastmasters members to get involved with SPBC Toastmasters? If you want to join an encouraging friendly environment with members who value your goals and will work with you to make sure you achieve them then you should join SPBC Toastmasters. Q: Where are you from and what’s interesting about it? “An acrimonious debate between the two candidates.” I am from Newport News, VA the home of Newport News Shipbuilding. Newport News Shipbuilding is the only shipyard which builds aircraft carriers for the U.S. Navy. Funny Moments Q: What was your fondest memory growing up? I always loved going camping at Sherando Lake with my grandparents. On those trips my Grandpa Sam and Grandma Joan taught me a lot about valuing nature and finding opportunities to spend time with the people you love away from TV and other modern distractions. Q: What’s important to you? It's very important that I give my daughter a strong foundation so that she will be a happy successful adult and be strong enough to determine for herself what it means to be "happy" and "successful". Q: What do you like? Quote Of The Day You were born to be significant. This life is your one opportunity to shape the world in which you live. The earlier you begin to live meaningfully, the greater the impact you make on your world. ~Dana LaMon District 66, Division B I really like that finding a solution to complicated problem and using that solution to help people. Recently at work I was able to find a workaround for a technical issue we were experiencing which has allowed hundreds of claims to be submitted that would have otherwise been delayed. Q: What do you dislike? I dislike how most political discourse today seems oriented toward making someone on the other side upset rather than even attempting to provide a well supported argument for a position in which you believe. There have always been personal and partisan attacks in our culture becomes more polarized it seems to be getting worse. [email protected] myspbc.org Page 4 SPBC Toastmasters, Club # 649145 District 66, Division B [email protected] December 2014, Volume #5, Issue #2 myspbc.org Page 5 SPBC Toastmasters, Club # 649145 December 2014, Volume #5, Issue #2 Championship Club Building Webinar Series District 66 is hosting 3 webinars on ‘Championship Club Building’ with guest presenter Lance Miller. All webinars are scheduled on Mondays from 8-9pm EST. Participants may register for the webinars from the links below. Questions may be directed to Area 43 Governor Naomi Lewis at [email protected] Monday April 6, 2015: How to Promote and Market a Club. Click here to register International Speech Contest We will hold our International Speech and Table Topics contests in the month of February. Remember that contests are an opportunity to challenge yourself, grow your skills and have fun. Be on the lookout for more information from our Vice President Education, Alfreda Page-Garner. Please be prepared to volunteer, participate and have fun! District 66, Division B [email protected] myspbc.org Page 6 SPBC Toastmasters, Club # 649145 December 2014, Volume #5, Issue #2 Traveling Toastmaster This is a program to encourage members to visit other clubs and participate in district events. This program runs from July 1, 2014 - April 30, 2015. Download Flyer Submit Visit How the program works When a member visits another club or Toastmasters event, they will receive points toward their contest total. To receive credit, a form needs to be submitted to the program coordinator, David Edmondson, Jr. Go to http:// eSurv.org?u=travelingtoastmasters2014 to submit your visit. Visiting Leng Kee Advanced Toastmasters Club Singapore Points will also be staggered based on what level the event is: Club Level: Earns 1 point Area Level: Earns 2 points Division Level: Earns 3 points District Level: Earns 4 points Events that Count Any visit to a meeting or special event at the club, area, division or district level earns points. This includes meetings, contests, open houses, and training. If you have a question about what might count, or questions in general, please contact David Edmondson Jr. by emailing [email protected]. Travel outside the District If you visit a club, or attend a speech contest in another district, then you would earn the amount of points based on what level it is, club, area, etc. plus you would earn a bonus point for being outside the district. (On the submission form, under additional comments, please list which district you were visiting.) Determining Winners There will be 4 awards. The individual with the most points will win the INDIVIDUAL prize. The club with the most points, adding points from all participating members will win the CLUB prize. The area with the most points adding its clubs will win the AREA prize. The division with the most points adding its area's totals will win the DIVISION prize. All prizes will be awarded at the District 66 Spring Conference in May 2014. Prizes Awarded The individual prize is a PAID registration for the Fall 2015 conference. The club prize is $50 gift certificate to the Toastmasters Website. The area prize is a trophy. The division prize is a plaque. Happy traveling! District 66, Division B [email protected] myspbc.org Page 7 SPBC Toastmasters, Club # 649145 December 2014, Volume #5, Issue #2 Cutting Out Filler Words In December 2008, Caroline Kennedy – daughter of the late United States President John F. Kennedy – gave an interview that helped decide the future of her U.S. Senate campaign. One of the frontrunners for the senate seat in New York, Kennedy had been criticized for avoiding media questions, so she finally sat down for a televised interview. The result was a disaster. Her performance was almost universally disparaged, in part because her speech was cluttered with filler words – “ums,” “ahs” and “you knows.” One listener counted 27 “ums” and 38 “you knows” in the space of five minutes. A few weeks after giving the interview, Kennedy ended her Senate campaign. The example shows how filler words can be more than dead space – they can be deadly. “Using excessive fillers is the most irritating speech habit,” Susan Ward, a speech specialist, told the Wall Street Journal when the newspaper wrote about Kennedy’s media debacle. “They distract your listener often to the point that he doesn’t hear anything you say. Your message is entirely lost.” Fortunately, filler words can be trimmed from speeches, as all Toastmasters know. Here is how you can learn to cut down on these verbal tics – so that you can open your mouth and not say “ah.” Building Confidence Most beginning speakers are afraid of pauses. They believe their audience will think they are inarticulate if they pause to think of what to say next, so they use filler words to avoid the silence. However, a pause is actually more impressive than a filler word. Listeners know that the speaker is thinking, trying to find the right word. They respect this. Sometimes a pause can actually improve a speech, as when an actor uses a dramatic pause to rivet the attention of his audience. A speaker shouldn’t be afraid to pause occasionally during a speech; it shows selfconfidence. Because speakers overuse filler words when they are nervous, it is important for a Toastmasters club to help speakers feel at ease. Clubs should immediately make it clear to new members that when they speak, no one will interfere. Bob Chikos of the Crystal Lakes Toastmasters in Crystal Lake, Illinois, finds knowing this is very helpful. “I remind myself that I have the floor and that nobody is going to interrupt me,” he says. “I also tell myself that it’s okay to be silent. When I’m collecting my thoughts, I believe I appear more cerebral and deep in thought if I remain silent for a second or two. And I tell myself that what seems like a long pause to me is probably a short pause to those in the audience.” Brittany Hoff Gill of the Eagle Toastmasters in Eagle, Idaho, believes the way a speaker views the situation also affects the “ah” quotient. “Filler words generally come in when you don’t view the presentation as a conversation,” she says. “This makes you nervous and tense, and then you have a tendency to use filler words.” Another key to building confidence is being prepared. If you know your topic thoroughly and have rehearsed your speech until it is second nature, delivery in front of an audience will go more smoothly. This certainly proved true for Nadia Moffett, a member of Express Yourself Toastmasters in Tobaccoville, North Carolina. “I was one of those speakers who used an array of filler words,” she says. “I eventually realized that, for me, filler words were simply a byproduct of not being fully prepared or of not being confident in my credibility or the delivery of my topic. This would make me distracted and uneasy, and the filler words would take on a life of their own.” To cut out filler words, it also helps if you believe in the importance of what you are saying. Just listen to someone being interviewed on TV or radio. Often they give a poor performance on questions they care little about, casting about for something to say and using lots of filler words. Then they get a question on a topic they are passionate (Continued on page 9) District 66, Division B [email protected] myspbc.org Page 8 SPBC Toastmasters, Club # 649145 December 2014, Volume #5, Issue #2 Cutting Out Filler Words cont’d. about – what a difference in the way they talk! Suddenly the filler words are gone and instead they offer an animated, forceful response, coming from the heart as well as the mind. Practice Makes Perfect Many times at business meetings or public forums, unexpected questions will come up that weren’t anticipated or prepared for in advance. This is when filler words are particularly prone to crop up. Table Topics are great training for these types of situations. You learn the skill of thinking on your feet, gathering facts from the corners of your mind and putting them together coherently. Just like learning a new sport, it takes practice to become adept at impromptu speaking. When Nadia Moffett became aware of her filler-word problem, she took action. “I asked my Toastmasters club to be tough on me,” she recalls. “I said, ‘Always call on me for Table Topics and always give me feedback.’” It worked. You can also do drills at home for extra practice on impromptu speaking. Ward recommends playing the “Tell-Me Game.” A week in advance, make a list of 20 topics for impromptu speeches and seal them in an envelope so you can’t look at them again. At the appointed time give the list to a partner, who will read topics and count the filler words during your responses. Start with two-minute responses and increase the times until you can deliver a five-minute impromptu speech with nary an “um” or “ah.” UM The Wizard of Ahs You cannot correct a problem unless you know you have one. Filler words are insidious because they are invisible to the speaker, but not to the listener. To help members become aware of this verbal clutter, Toastmasters clubs designate an Ah-Counter, who tracks filler words used by all speakers during a meeting and then discloses the results at the end. “This is really important for a new member,” says Eric Jahn of The Talk of Lincolnshire club in Lincolnshire, Illinois. “They are often not aware that they are using filler words in their vocabulary, since nobody ever counted them.” Speech evaluators may also comment on overuse of filler words, but all critiques should be presented in a constructive, non-threatening manner – a “building up,” not “tearing down,” process. When it comes to the Ah-Counter’s role, different clubs have different styles. The London Athenian Speakers in London, England, doesn’t have the Ah-Counter announce how many times each speaker used filler words. “We have found that a more positive approach is for mentors to discuss any filler words, ums and ahs with the speaker after the meeting,” says member Jessica Bass. Other clubs not only report the filler-word infractions, but go a step beyond and fine their members a nickel or a dime per word, depositing the proceeds into a piggy bank for the coffee fund. To avoid bankrupting a member, an upper limit is placed on the total penalty for the session – say, fifty cents. The guilty party may exonerate himself: Each time he uses the Word of the Day, he is forgiven one filler word. Does “Ah” Ring a Bell? In addition to the Ah-Counter’s report at the end of the meeting, many clubs give their members instant feedback. Some have the Ah-Counter ring a bell when he hears a filler word. In other clubs, the Ah-Counter drops a nail into a bucket when he hears a “clinker.” Some groups encourage listeners to tap their glasses with silverware at the sound of an ah. Brittany Hoff Gill says when she was a member of the Chehalis-Centralia club in Centralia, Washington, several years ago, the club had a novel approach to the problem. “Our grammarians were hilarious,” she recalls. “Whenever someone messed up on (Continued on page 10) District 66, Division B [email protected] myspbc.org Page 9 SPBC Toastmasters, Club # 649145 Annual Christmas Party December 2014, Volume #5, Issue #2 Cutting Out Filler Words cont’d. a filler word during a speech they would hold up the ‘Jaw of Teeth,’ one of those gag props that you can make chatter on a table by pushing a lever. The whole club would laugh.” Reminders such as these should be used with care, since some speakers feel uncomfortable with them. Rattled, they use more filler words, causing more bell ringing and glass tapping, causing still more filler words. Different speakers have different personalities, and a club needs to be aware of this and tailor the reminders to the speaker. “I think instant reminders can be a good idea, but only in an advanced club,” says Nga Nguyen, DTM, of the Harris SpeakEZ club in Melbourne, Florida. “My club has lots of new members and I think this practice would cause them to shy away.” Melanie Ghazarian, DTM, a member of several clubs, including the Conejo Valley Toastmasters in Thousand Oaks, California, believes that modern technology supplies the most helpful reminder for a member seeking to cut the ahs. “One of my clubs video-records the speeches and gives the speakers a copy,” she says. “This is the best feedback for a speaker – to see yourself in action.” A Success Story As the 2009 winner of the Mrs. New Jersey beauty pageant, Ceylone Boothe-Grooms attends many charity functions, often hosting such programs herself. A member of the AT&T club in Middletown, New Jersey, she once co-hosted a cotillion for inner-city girls in Plainfield, New Jersey, an event attended by 300 guests, including local dignitaries and media figures. Just before the event was scheduled to start, Boothe-Grooms learned that the program’s script had not arrived. She would have to ad-lib everything – introductions and interviews – for the better part of two hours! After the initial shock faded, she felt her confidence returning. “I thought to myself, ‘Well, now my Toastmasters training will come in handy,’” Boothe-Grooms recalls. “And it did. I had maybe five ‘ums’ in two hours. No one in the audience noticed anything was wrong.” About the author William H. Stevenson, III, is a freelance writer in Huntsville, Alabama. He was formerly a member of three Toastmasters clubs in the Huntsville area. Contact him at [email protected]. District 66, Division B [email protected] myspbc.org Page 10 SPBC Toastmasters, Club # 649145 December 2014, Volume #5, Issue #2 SPBC—Distinguished Club Status The purpose of a Toastmasters club is to provide an environment in which members learn communication and leadership skills. The Distinguished Club Program and Club Success Plan helps clubs promote quality, ensure productive meetings, provide structure and guidance and increase the enthusiasm of the club. Every year, high-performing clubs are recognized, and may proudly display a Distinguished, Select Distinguished or President’s Distinguished ribbon on their club banner. President's Distinguished Club - the highest level of recognition available. Thanks to you, our members, SPBC Toastmasters met the membership prerequisite and achieved at least nine of the 10 goals—10 years in a row! 2004-2005 2009-2010 2005-2006 2010-2011 2006-2007 2011-2012 2007-2008 2012-2013 2008-2009 2013-2014 2013-2014 District 66, Division B [email protected] myspbc.org Page 11 SPBC Toastmasters, Club # 649145 Celebrations Birthdays January Pia Guerin Kimberly Matthews February Paula Adams Dot Ware March Paula Freeman Linda Kennedy December 2014, Volume #5, Issue #2 Put It In The Calendar Upcoming Events for SPBC Toastmasters Toastmasters Anniversaries February Paula Freeman —2011 Happy New Year —January 1, 2015 Officers Training II —February 7, 2015 SPBC Contests —February 25, 2015 Open House —March 11, 2015 Area 23 Contests —March TBD, 2015 Division B Contest —April 18, 2015 Fast Track —March 11, 2015 District 66 Conference —May 8-9, 2015 Annual Year End Cookout —June 24, 2015 Resources SPBC Toastmasters http://spbctoastmasters.toastmastersclubs.org/ https://www.facebook.com/groups/64259806813/ Contribute The essence of a club newsletter should basically consist of contributions from its members. Your ideas, comments, stories (personal or otherwise) are welcome. Additionally, if you are interested in helping out with editing and/or the publication of the newsletter or if you have a contribution (addition) to the newsletter, send an email to Linda Kennedy ( [email protected]) or Kimberly Matthews ([email protected]) District 66 http://district66.org http://www.facebook.com/pages/District-66Toastmasters/102193149929043 Toastmasters International http://www.toastmasters.org Saint Paul’s Baptist Church www,myspbc.org District 66, Division B [email protected] myspbc.org Page 12
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