DUMFRIES UNITED METHODIST CHURCH Heather Bosley-Papp, Office Manager and Editor e Reverend Doug Geeting, Pastor January 2011 Just a Thought .... January has arrived once again. On average, it is the coldest month of the year in the Northern Hemisphere. There seems to be excitement for New Year’s Day, but enthusiasm quickly wanes as we enter the month and those cold winds blow. Christmas is over, although we celebrate Epiphany Sunday, with the arrival of the Wise Men, the miracle of the manifestation of God in our world. The following Sunday is Baptism of the Lord Sunday, in which we celebrate Jesus’ Baptism by John in the Jordan River. We will again have a Renewal of our Baptismal Vows that morning. But still, it’s after Christmas, after the music in the stores and on the radio has returned to regular programming, after the bills start to come in from Christmas. We are tempted to make one of those New Year resolutions, which may last a week or so. The decorations are packed away for another year. Our thoughts start to turn towards the coming spring. We don’t want to be blanketed with snow like we were last January. Apparently January is a cold, dark and boring time of year for us. We can look at January as the start of a great adventure. It’s the beginning of a new year, which brings new opportunities and challenges with it. Perhaps, it’s all a matter of the perspective we choose as we face each day. I wonder what the attitude was in the caravan that took the Magi to Bethlehem? I am sure that they traveled with expectancy and excitement. They were bold to ask Herod about the location of the child who was born king. They followed the star, followed their passion, followed something that compelled them forward. We have never been told the rest of the story. We know that several men arrived and brought gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh. They probably held the baby and felt the joy of holding a newborn infant. They were told in a dream to return by another way. And the story of the Wise Men comes to an end. What way did they go? What did they do? How were their lives changed or touched? Did they ever find out that the baby they sought was none other than God’s own Son, who would become the Savior of the world? When we encounter Jesus in our lives, how do we respond? Do we comprehend the depth of the love being poured out upon us? Do we cast all the cares aside and forget that it’s cold and wintery outside, and welcome God who comes to us in the simplicity and wonder of a defenseless infant? Do we realize that we simply need to say “yes” to this gift of God-with-us? When we do, our lives are changed; we find new directions, hope and forgiveness, peace and joy. May we embrace this overwhelming gift from God down deep within us, where heart and soul kiss. May we come to renew our vows to live faithfully as disciples of Jesus. May that spirit of love dwell within us so we, too, will want to share that good news and faith with others by inviting them to come in out of the cold of January to discover the warmth and love of Jesus. Thank you so very much for your many wonderful cards and remembrances of us this Christmas! Happy New Year! Blessings and love, Pastor Doug, January Reflections Isaiah 49:149:1-7 Listen to me, O coastlands, pay attention, you peoples from far away! The LORD called me before I was born, while I was in my mother’s womb he named me. He made my mouth like a sharp sword, in the shadow of his hand he hid me; he made me a polished arrow, in his quiver he hid me away. And he said to me, “You are my servant, Israel, in whom I will be glorified.” But I said, “I have labored in vain, I have spent my strength for nothing and vanity; yet surely my cause is with the LORD, and my reward with my God.” And now the LORD says, who formed me in the womb to be his servant, to bring bring Jacob back to him, and that Israel might be gathered to him, for I am honored in the sight of the LORD, and my God has become my strength— strength— he says, “It is too light a thing that you should be my servant to raise up the tribes of Jacob and to restore the survivors of Israel; I will give you as a light to the nations, that my salvation may reach to the end of the earth.” Thus says the LORD, the Redeemer of Israel and his Holy One, to one deeply despised, abhorred by the nations, the slave of rulers, “Kings shall see and stand up, princes, and they shall prostrate themselves, because of the LORD, who is faithful, the Holy One of Israel, who has chosen you.” This reading is considered to be a servant song, addressing the people of Israel, and includes all of us today. We hear of a powerful calling to mission and ministry. We are known by the words we speak. Here the servant, Isaiah, speaks the word of God. For a time, the servant was hidden, much like a sword inside its sheath. It is with strong language about the power of God that the servant addresses the people. Yet, the servant is so very aware of the importance of his ministry, his mission that he feels like a failure for not living up to the expectations of God. However, what begins as a lament turns into praise and confidence. He sees his life totally under the rule and guidance of God. This is all Isaiah needs in order to have the assurance of success. There is a message for Isaiah to be a light to all nations, sharing God’s salvation to the ends of the earth, and sounding much like the covenant God made with Abraham. God is the Redeemer and Holy One. We find God’s holiness revealed negatively in judgment, but shown to us positively in redemption. This prophecy has been fulfilled in Jesus, the servant Messiah. And now we, too, are given a mission to reach out to the world. If we are known by our words, how are you known? Do your words honor God when we speak them? The servant has been in despair over what seems to be failure; however, he finds his ultimate reward in God. SO how do we measure success? When things are not going well, do we find strength and confidence in our relationship with God? Do we try to go it alone? We hear so much noise in the world, so many negative voices for a variety of reasons. When you look at your life, what are your feelings about your own worth? Are they tied to the ways the world measures success? What does it mean to be called by God? Are you aware that He calls you? What must we change to claim the call God places upon our lives? Saturday, January 1 Happy New Year!! Sunday, January 2 Kings Kids Choir, 9:15 am, Room 217 Chancel Choir, 10 am, Room 229 Youth Group, 3 pm, P. K.’s Office Monday, January 3 “Un-Trim” the Church, 9:30 am Bread & Fishes, 6 pm Karate, 6:30 pm, UR UMW Executive Board, 7 pm, MH Guitar Clinic, 7:30 pm, S Tuesday, January 4 CS Pack 1189, 7 pm, MH Wednesday, January 5 Prayer Warriors, 10 am, S Karate, 6:30 pm, UR DUMC Bells, 6:30 pm, Room 224 Choir, 7:00 pm, Room 229 Boy Scout Troop 74, 7 pm, MH Thursday, January 6 Praise Team Practice, 7 pm, S GS Troop 3381, 7 pm, UR Disciple Study, 7 pm, Room 221 This We Believe Study, 7 pm, Rm 216 Friday, January 7 Kids In Christ, 6:30 pm, MH Saturday, January 8 Love Threaders Quilters, 12 pm, UR Sunday, January 9 UMM Breakfast, 8:15 am - 12:30 pm Care and Share, 12 pm, MH Youth Group, 3 pm, P. K.’s Office Youth Praise, 5 pm, Room 229 Monday, January 10 Feed My Sheep, 5:30 pm Bread & Fishes, 6 pm Karate, 6:30 pm, UR Guitar Clinic, 7:30 pm, S Tuesday, January 11 CS Pack 1189, 7 pm, MH Peter Bible Study, 7 pm, Room 216 Wednesday, January 12 Prayer Warriors, 10 am, S Karate, 6:30 pm, UR Boy Scout Troop 74, 7 pm, MH DUMC Bells, 6:30 pm, Room 224 Choir, 7:00 pm, Room 229 KEY: S - Sanctuary Thursday, January 13 Praise Team Practice, 7 pm, S GS Troop 3381, 7 pm, UR Disciple Study, 7 pm, MH This We Believe Study, 7 pm, Rm 216 Friday, January 14 Book Club, 7 pm, MH Saturday, January 15 Trustees, 8:30 am, Room 221 Tuesday, January 25 CS Pack 1189, 7 pm, MH Peter Bible Study, 7 pm, Room 216 Wednesday, January 26 Prayer Warriors, 10 am, S Finance , 6:30 pm, Pastor’s Office Church Council, 7:30 pm, Room 221 Karate, 6:30 pm, UR Boy Scout Troop 74, 7 pm, MH NO Music Ministry Practices Sunday, January 16 Kings Kids Choir, 9:15 am, Room 217 Chancel Choir, 10 am, Room 229 Youth Group, 3 pm, P. K.’s Office Youth Praise, 5 pm, Room 229 Thursday, January 27 Staff Meeting, 11 am, Pastor’s Office Followed by Lunch Praise Team, 7 pm, S Disciple Study, 7 pm, MH Monday, January 17 This We Believe Study, 7 pm, Rm 216 Martin Luther King Day - Office Closed GS Troop 3381, 7 pm, UR Bread & Fishes, 6 pm Saturday, January 29 Karate, 6:30 pm, UR Girl Scouts, 12 pm, MH, K Guitar Clinic, 7 pm, S Sunday, January 30 UMW General Meeting, 7:15 pm, MH Kings Kids Choir, 9:15 am, Room 217 Tuesday, January 18 Chancel Choir, 10 am, Room 229 CS Pack 1189, 7 pm, MH Youth Group, 3 pm, P. K.’s Office Peter Bible Study, 7 pm, Room 216 Wednesday, January 19 Prayer Warriors, 10 am, S Karate, 6:30 pm, UR Boy Scout Troop 74, 7 pm, MH DUMC Bells, 6:30 pm, Room 224 Choir, 7:00 pm, Room 229 Thursday, January 20 Praise Team Practice, 7 pm, S GS Troop 3381, 7 pm, UR Disciple Study, 7 pm, Room 221 This We Believe Study, 7 pm, Rm 216 Saturday, January 22 Acolyte Training, 9:30 am, S Sunday, January 23 Kings Kids Choir, 9:15 am, Rm 217 Chancel Choir, 10 am, Room 229 Youth Group, 3 pm, P.K.’s Office Youth Praise, 5 pm, Room 229 Youth Praise, 5 pm, Room 229 UMM Chili Cook-Off, 5 pm, MH Monday, January 31 Bread & Fishes, 6 pm Karate, 6:30 pm, UR Guitar Clinic, 7 pm, S Times and events listed in our monthly calendar are subject to change. Please remember the online calendar is also a useful resource: www.dumfriesumc.org Please read your weekly bullen announcements to keep abreast of changes. Monday, January 24 Feed My Sheep, 5:30 pm Bread & Fishes, 6 pm Choir to Sing, Rehearsal to Follow Karate, 6:30 pm, UR NO Guitar Clinic | K - Kitchen | MH - Markham Hall | UR - Upper Room Marisa Hess Jerrett Snyder Robert Collins Ollie Smith Catherine Winneberger Cecile Gray Andy Billman Danielle Fleming J D Ramey Sharon Dougherty Doug Hudgins Connie Keys Van Keys Jason Umberger Lynda Flatford James Lassister Nikki Tarry Evelyn Fleming Qua'Maine Lassister Howard Mahle Don Barron Travis Dodson Jeffrey Tidd Carolee Alachnowicz Michael Duffour-Donkor Mathew Johnson John Cocowitch Brady Fleming 2 2 4 4 5 6 8 8 9 10 10 13 13 14 15 16 16 17 17 19 20 20 21 23 29 29 30 30 January 15 Please note: all submissions for the February Happenings must be in the office No Later Than January 15th to ensure inclusion. The Next Selection The Reliable Wife By Robert Goolrick Friday, January 14th 7pm, MH Coming February 11th: Hotel on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet By Jamie Ford Thomas & Carolyn Rachele Chuck & Ginni Thomas Van & Connie Keys Kenny & Miriam Chorpenning 19 21 22 23 UMM Chili Cook Off Dust off those cook books and bring your best pot of chili to the 5th Annual UMM Chili Cook-Off! Sunday, January 30th, 5pm, Markham Hall. Look for a sign-up sheet in the Narthex. ‘Un-trim’ the Tree 2011 MAGNETIC CALENDARS New Year Sale Get Yours Today 2 for $5 Many hands make light work; please come and help. Monday, January 3, 9:30 am When you get to your wit’s end, you’ll find that God lives there. United Methodist Women’s General Meeting is January 17, 2011 Come for fellowship and fun in Markham Hall Monday night @ 7:15 Thank you for all you did in November and December with coats, hats and gloves; there will not be a mission collection for this month. United Methodist Day at VA General Assembly is February 3rd. Registration deadline is January 22nd. Things were a little slower in December for UMM. However, January 30 is the chili cook off. I, for one, am looking forward to that. This is a fun event and the costs are minimal for all involved. Last year we had 12 entries and over 50 people attended. This year promises to be just as much fun. Watch for flyers during the month of January. There will be a sign up sheet for those bringing in an entrée. December 14 was the UMM Christmas Party. To celebrate we went to the Old Country Buffet in Dale City on Prince William Blvd. There were 19 guys and their wives attending. The UMM breakfast continues to be popular. The menu continues to vary from time to time but that is a good thing. We have pancakes, French toast, a variety of meats, tater tots, grits, donuts, and coffee or tea. Where can you beat the price for an all you can eat breakfast for a donation to UMM ministries? Fred Grabner UMM President Fred Grabner Pres. UMM Acolyte Training Training for those children and youth who are interested in serving our church as acolytes will be held Saturday, January 22, 9:30-10:30 in the church sanctuary. The main requirement for serving as an acolyte is that the young person be mature enough to sit quietly and reverently throughout the service and that he/she be tall enough to light the candles on the altar table. The word “acolyte” is taken from an ancient Greek word that meant companion, attendant, or helper. It also means server and that is what our acolytes do: they serve our pastor and the church in worship. Both boys and girls serve as acolytes. Our acolytes are assigned to serve for a month at a time and they serve at the worship service (9:00 and/or 11:00) that their family attends. Those acolytes who are presently serving are welcome to attend training for a “refresher” course. For more information, please call the acolyte coordinator Nancy West at 703-221-1372. NURSERY NEWS Are you looking for a place to serve in our church? Does the sound of a giggling child make you smile? Is a rocking chair one of your favorite places? Do you have a heart for sharing Jesus with our youngest members? Yvonne Frye, after a number of years serving as our Nursery Worker, has decided that she would like an opportunity to be back in regular Worship and Sunday School. In light of Yvonne’s resignation, our Sunday morning nursery will now be staffed by volunteers. We will need to have 2 adults (men and women) for the 9 am, 10 am, and 11 am hours. If we can develop a group of 8-12 people for each hour, you would be called upon to serve every 4-6 weeks. Please consider staying an additional hour and providing nursery coverage. Once we get established we will look to add youth volunteers as well. We are in the process of writing guidelines for everyone to follow. Resources to use will be provided. Please sign-up at the Welcome Center. Mark Your Calendars August 8-12, 2011 PANDA PONDERINGS The New Year has arrived and plans for this years’ Vacation Bible School are underway; I can feel the excitement starting to build! You may be wondering if I have really lost it since it is only January, but bringing together PandaMania and not “panda”monium takes lots of prayer and planning. Please add VBS to you daily prayer list. Watch for PANDA Spottings – the panda will be of all shapes and sizes. Once you see one, complete a spotting card and place it in the envelope in the Sunday School Hallway (starting January 2nd). There will be a special treat for 3 randomly drawn winners each month. POC: Barbara Swingle PANDA TRIVA QUESTIONS What is the Chinese word for Panda? What does the Panda eat? Do pandas hibernate? How much do male bears weigh in the wild? Look for the answers in February’s Happenings! Love Threaders Quilting Group Don’t miss our January 8th meeting! Come join us for this month’s Love Threaders fellowship! We won’t meet again until next quarter so plan to join us this time. It may be chilly outside but the Upper Room will be filled with the warmth and light of Christ on Saturday, January 8th, from 12 - 3 pm. We will bring our own lunches, share a devotional, and make more prayer quilts. But this time we will also start our new project: knitting and crocheting caps for babies, children, and chemo patients. We will share patterns, needles, and yarn, and then finish our projects at home. We will donate the caps to local hospitals and shelters. We would love for you (and your children who are old enough to handle scissors and needles) to join us even if you have never quilted, crocheted or knitted before. Most of the quilting process involves pressing, cutting, layering, pinning, and tying the fabric (you can already do that), and we are eager to teach you and your children the sewing, knitting, and crochet skills. So plan to bring your own lunch and something to share such as a favorite devotional, Christian music, fabric or yarn. Yours in Christ, Nancy Hummer [email protected] There is always room for you! SUNDAY SCHOOL FOR ALL 10:10 - 10:50 am Come join us and Study Regularly If you would like to start a new class or have a topic that you would like to study please contact Barbara Swingle, 703-580-6408, or [email protected] Have you made any resolutions this year? Tom has challenged us each to draw nearer to God. Sunday School is a great way to draw near; bring your children and encourage our youth to attend. Set the example for others by being a faithful attendee in class. Set your priorities for the New Year. Will you: read the Bible daily, complete a Bible study, learn about Christian worship traditions, attend church and Sunday School weekly, complete a daily random act of kindness, the list can go on and on. You can take charge of what happens in this New Year! New Women’s Class Women of the Covenant: Spiritual Wisdom from Women of the Bible By: Kimberly Sowell, Edna Ellison God Himself made a covenant with His people, and throughout the ages He has remained perfectly faithful to His covenant promises. Just as the women of the Bible experienced His faithfulness, so can believers today. The matriarchs of the faith left a legacy of timeless truth for the women who would follow. God led such incredible women as Deborah, Rebekah, Miriam, and Hannah through life experiences that now offer great wisdom for the Christian life. Women of the Covenant explores the stories of eight women from Scripture. The authors also include contemporary faith stories from their experiences. These unique testimonies show meaningful application of the scriptural truth explored in each lesson. This eight-lesson study includes questions for individual preparation and group discussion. God's inspired Word includes stories of real people - with both failures and victories - that point to the redeeming work of God, experienced today through Jesus Christ. JANUARY BIBLE STUDIES Listening to God Through 1 & 2 Peter, Lectio Divina Bible Studies Thursdays, 7- 8:30pm beginning January 6, Room 216 Lectio Divina, Latin for divine reading, is the ancient Christian practice of communicating with God through the reading and study of Scripture. This Bible study builds on this practice, introducing modern readers of the Bible to the time-honored tradition of "listening for God" through His Word incorporating silence, reading, meditation and prayer. This We Believe -The Core of Wesleyan Faith and Practice Tuesdays, 7 - 8:30 pm, starting January 11, Room 216 For John Wesley, the Bible is the joyfully consistent testimony of God’s never-ending grace and everseeking love. Likewise, studying the Bible is more than merely knowing what Scripture says; it is also about living every day as a child of God. Beginning with the Core Terms found in The Wesley Study Bible, Bishop Willimon systematically lays out key Wesleyan tenets of faith so that you will have a fresh way to hear God’s voice, share in God’s grace, and become more like Jesus Christ. Lenten Devotions This year we would like to provide each member of our church family with a Lenten devotional. This devotional will include the day’s scripture, a meditation and a prayer. Each days devotions will be written by members of our church and will follow the lectionary scripture references. If you would like to write a devotion please sign up NLT January 3. Assignments will be given by January 7 and completed devotions returned NLT January 24. If you have questions please see Mike Gentile or Tom Swingle. Happy New Year! I hope you all enjoyed a great end to 2010 and are looking forward to a fantastic 2011. One of the great things about the New Year is that it reminds us that we have the chance to begin again, to correct old mistakes, and to get our lives back on track. So, how are your resolutions going? Did you make any? How many have you already broken? How many are the same ones you made – and broke - last year? I admit that I stopped making New Years resolutions several years ago. It seemed that within a few weeks or a month, I had broken most of them and within two months, I had forgotten what they were. I think that we don’t give up on our resolutions as quickly as we forget why we made them. More than that, I think that sometimes we don’t understand why we want to change or even if we’re changing at all. Results may not come fast enough. We commit to eating better, or exercising, or losing weight so we will feel better, or look better, or live longer, but when we don’t see any visible improvement in a few weeks, we wonder why we need to discipline ourselves. Then when we miss a day or two of exercise, or go off our diet and don’t feel any worse, we begin to question the whole point. Maybe we become victims of our own success. We commit to a goal, say losing 20 pounds and we remain committed to that goal until we meet it. Then we go back to our old way of living (I know about this one, Barbara can tell you I’ve lost hundreds of pounds, 20 pounds at a time, but still I weigh the same or more than I did last year). Or maybe we just become overwhelmed with the requirements we place on ourselves. We commit to reading each night or morning, but our personal and family schedules don’t work out and we are just plain too tired to continue. These things happen when we do things for, and of, ourselves. John Wesley, in his sermon, “The More Excellent Way”, gives a different perspective. He talks about every day things of life, how much we sleep, what we eat, our work, how to pray, how to use our free time, and how to use our money. He says that for most Christians there is nothing wrong with what they are doing, but there is a “More Excellent Way”. Do everything to the glory of God with a goal of drawing nearer to God. Get enough sleep to refresh yourself, but don’t lie about, and use the time you gain as a result productively. Eat enough to give you energy for the day, and remember to thank God for your food. Remember who your true boss is and make your work a work of praise. When you pray, really talk to God. Praise Him, cry out to Him, Tell Him the desires of your heart, and then agree to do His will. Think about whether your pastimes draw you nearer or move you further from God. And remember God is the source all you have and use your resources to help His kingdom grow. WOW! That provides a new perspective on resolutions! I should eat and exercise and rest because I want to be healthy and able to do God’s work. I should read and pray, and order my day to better understand God’s Word and know the will of God in my life. I should evaluate everything I do to see whether it moves me closer to or further from God. These things will still be hard to do, but if I do them to the glory of God, He will be faithful and give me the strength and perseverance I need. So this year, I am making one resolution, to draw closer to God. I will look at everything I do to see if it helps me to keep that resolution. And I know that because of God’s love when I fail, I won’t have to wait until next year to start again. Tom Swingle The Christian Life Of Prayer “The natural person does not accept the things of the Spirit of God for they are folly to him, and he is not able to understand them because they are spiritually discerned. The spiritual person judges all things, but is he to be judged by no one. For who has understood the mind of the Lord so as to instruct him? But we have the mind of Christ.” ~ 1Corinthians 2:14-16 Delivered Out Of Darkness What it really boils down to is that people who have not received God’s justifying grace through the indwelling Holy Spirit have no meaningful means for discerning wisdom, other than their natural senses through the filter of their human understanding. They are limited by their senses and are unable to grasp or even be grasped by the mind and heart of Christ. It’s about what influences our passions and desires. It’s about what we embrace and how we comprehend truth and consequently in what manner we respond to that truth. It’s about matters that can only be discovered, when the revelation is revealed to a regenerated heart. This isn’t about a diminished ability, for everything God has intended for good has been given to each and every person, by Grace, for their own recreation. But our animal senses, absent the power to activate God’s graces by the means of our regeneration through the Holy Spirit, will surely pervert God’s truth. A perfect example of this would be the principles involved in the crucifixion of our Lord Jesus. All the players were there, the politicians, the great religious thinkers of the times, and the crowd of majority thought. And yet, this cross-section of human wisdom was blind to the reality and significance of the Christ who prayed for their lack of wisdom. They could not know the truth for their hearts and minds were governed by their carnal instincts and concerns. Their eyes had not seen, their ears could not hear and their hearts would not receive the love that God had prepared for them since the founding of the world. The good news is that there are these things that God has prepared for those who love him. And these things are illuminated through the light of the gospel which gives life and abolishes death through the Spirit of Christ Jesus. The great truths of the gospel are unreachable without God’s inspiration because no human mind can receive it absent the council of the Holy Spirit who was sent at the behest of the Son of God. These truths do not need to be garnished by any human skill or eloquence for the Spirit of God teaches and gives all who receive Him the words of wisdom and the discernment needed in order to judge righteousness. Why is this important, why should we the children of God concern ourselves with this dynamic? The simple answer is that the causes of divisions are born out of hearts that are devoid of God’s Spirit. The light shines into the darkness and the darkness cannot comprehend it but in fact the darkness will choose to focus instead upon the shadows created by the light. But those who have received the baptism of the Holy Spirit have been transformed into the kingdom of God’s beloved Son and delivered out of that darkness and into the very mind of Christ Jesus. By: Michael Gentile, Prayer Coordinator A New Melody By Howard Thurman The old song of my spirit has wearied itself out. It has long ago been learned by heart so that now it repeats itself over and over, bringing no added joy to my days or lift to my spirit. It is a good song, measured to a rhythm to which I am bound by ties of habit and timidity of mind. The words belong to old experiences which once sprang fresh as water from a mountain crevice fed by melting snows. But my life has passed beyond to other levels where the old song is meaningless. I demand of the old song that it meet the need of present urgencies. Also, I know that the work of the old song, perfect in its place, is not for the new demand! I will sing a new song. As difficult as it is, I must learn the new song that is capable of meeting the new need. I must fashion new words born of all the new growth of my life, my mind and my spirit. I must prepare for new melodies that have never been mine before, that all that is within me may lift my voice unto God. How I love the old familiarity of the wearied melody - how I shrink from the harsh discords of the new untried harmonies. Teach me, my Father, that I might learn with the abandonment and enthusiasm of Jesus, the fresh new accent, the untried melody, to meet the need of the untried morrow. Thus, I may rejoice with each new day and delight my spirit in each fresh unfolding. I will sing, this day, a new song unto Thee, O God. In Our Worship O God of the music in our lives, We sing your praises And of your glory. Thank you For the music in life. For the words and notes, For the melodies and harmonies Which move us. We pray, that with your leading, We will bring glory to you And inspire those who hear us, As we share in the service of worship. Thank you for this wonderful gift. We realize There is more to the music and harmony of life Than there is in a particular anthem, hymn, response, or organ fugue. Help us to see the greater vision And be of service to those around us. At times we are tempted to hear only our own parts, And ignore the rest. Help us hear the whole piece With vibrato and power. Be with us as we celebrate your Word And the wonders you perform. Uplift us as we join our voices together. Help us find our strength in you. Quiet our hearts and minds That we may hear your voice And know your love and mercy. Inspire us, That we may make a joyful noise And sing to the Lord a new-made song, Because our lives have been touched by you. For the sake of Christ, we pray. Amen! Pastor Doug Unchurched Harry and Mary: What Makes Them Tick? Worship services at Willow Creek Community Church, located in a northwest Chicago suburb, attract 15,000 people each week. In his book, Lee Strobel describes the kind of young adult Willow Creek leaders think about when planning their worship, preaching, and programs. Leaders of every congregation can benefit from Strobel’s description of “Unchurched Harry and Mary.” 1. 2. 3. 4. The have rejected church, but they have not necessarily rejected God. They are morally adrift, but they secretly want an anchor. They resist rules but respond to reasons. The have legitimate questions about spiritual matters, but they do not expect answers from Christians. 5. They do not ask, “Is Christianity true?” as often at they ask, “Does Christianity work?” 6. They do not want beliefs and values; they want to experience them. 7. They do not want to be somebody’s project, but they would like to be somebody’s friend. 8. The distrust authority, but they are receptive to authentic biblical leadership. 9. They are no longer loyal to denominations, but they are attracted to places that meet their needs. 10. They are not joiners, but they are hungry to connect with a cause. 11. Even if they are not spiritually sensitive, they want their children to get quality moral training. 12. They take pride in their tolerance of different faiths, but they think Christians are narrowminded. 13. They may try church if a friend invites them, but they often respond negatively to that church’s worship experience. 14. When they attend church, they value anonymity. 15. In worship services, they look for quality, creativity and something from the heart. 16. They look for something in the worship service to which they can relate, and the best possibilities are music, humor and drama. 17. The expect sermons that deal with ‘the why’ as much as ‘the what’. 18. They expect sermons that speak their language and are not holier-than-thou. Do you know anyone that fits this description? The experts tell us these unchurched folks are the ones we need to reach out to in love. What modifications do you think Dumfries UMC should make to bring the unchurched into our fellowship? 17th Century Nun’s Prayer Lord, Thou knowest better than I know myself, that I am growing older and will someday be old. Keep me from the fatal habit of thinking I must say something on every subject and on every occasion. Release me from craving to straighten out everybody’s affairs. Make me thoughtful but not moody; helpful but not bossy. With my vast store of wisdom, it seems a pity not to use it all, but Thou knowest Lord that I want a few friends at the end. Keep my mind free from the recital of endless details; give me wings to get to the point. Seal my lips on my aches and pains. They are increasing, and love of rehearsing them is becoming sweeter as the years go by. I dare not ask for grace enough to enjoy the tales of others’ pains, but help me to endure them with patience. I dare not ask for improved memory, but for a growing humility and a lessing cocksureness when my memory seems to clash with the memories of others. Teach me the glorious lesson that occasionally I may be mistaken. Keep me reasonably sweet; I do not want to be a Saint – some of them are so hard to live with – but a sour old person is one of the crowning works of the devil. Give me the ability to see good things in unexpected places, and talents in unexpected people. And, give me, O Lord, the grace to tell them so. AMEN Do you have the heart of a servant? Are you feeling called to reach out to others? Would you like to show love and compassion to those around you? Then the Care and Share Committee is for you!! We would like for you to join us! There is a position for EVERYONE - from short visits, a quick phone call, or simply dropping a note in the mail. Please join us at our next meeting for a no obligation, risk free trial! The purpose of the Care and Share Committee is to reach out to those who are not able to attend services, may be hospitalized, or away at college. There are many ways you can serve on the committee!! ~ Making phone calls ~ Visiting ~ Sending Cards ~ Helping around the house (yard work, etc) ~ and ???? Please contact me for more information! Jennifer Marth, 703-897-8014, [email protected] Check us out on Facebook! www.facebook.com/careandshareatDUMC To Care & Share For You Do you know someone who is unable to get out and about and would benefit from a visit from the Care & Share Committee? Maybe even just have them added to the ‘Card Ministry’ and sweets notes will be sent to them periodically. Just fill out the form and leave it in my mailbox and we’ll do the rest! Jennifer Marth [email protected] Please check below: ◊ Home Visits ◊ Cards Only ◊ I Would like to join Committee Their Name: _______________________________________________________________________ Their Address: _____________________________________________________________________ Their Phone #: _____________________________________________________________________ Your Name: _______________________________________________________________________ Your Phone #: _____________________________________________________________________ Your Email: ________________________________________________________________________ Share His Incredible News Everywhere! Woodbridge/ Dumfries Store 16714 Jefferson Davis Highway (US1) Dumfries, VA 22026 (703) 221-0609 Store Manager: Frances Halpern Your Ad. 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January Youth Events Sunday, 2 Youth Group, 3 - 5 pm Sunday, 9 Youth Group, 3 - 5 pm Sunday, 16 Youth Group, 3 - 5 pm How To Contact Pastor Kwon: Pastor Kwon has church office hours on Thursdays from 9 am until Noon. You can call the office, 703-221-2880, and Heather will put you through to him. Or, you can email him: [email protected] to arrange an appointment. Sunday, 23 Youth Group, 3 - 5 pm Sunday, 30 Youth Group, 3 - 5 pm All youth 6th-12th Grades Welcome!! Youth Group meets upstairs in Pastor Kwon’s office All families with children or grandchildren Kindergarten - 5th grade (younger and older siblings always welcomed) are welcome to join us. If you have questions call or e-mail – Barbara Swingle: 703-580-6408 - [email protected] January 7, 2011 6:30-8:00 pm New Beginnings We will have a building challenge – kids vs. adults. Reach out to our shut-ins and make plans for our hosting the Feed My Sheep Dinner on January 10, 5:30 pm Soup and Sandwich for Dinner February 4, 2011 6:30-8:00 pm It’s All About Love Valentines will be the order of the day. We will have a heart shaped theme pot-luck dinner. 4 March 2011 6:30-8:00 Getting Ready for Lent We will learn about Lenten traditions and have a Mardi Gras Dinner. Watch for more details. 2011 Church Meetings Church Council Fourth Wednesday, 7:30 PM Except November - 30th Finance Fourth Wednesday, 6 or 6:30 pm (watch bulletin for time) Except November - 30th 3rd Trustees Saturday of each month at 8:30 AM Book Club 2nd Friday of each month at 7:30 PM Youth Group Sundays, 3:00 PM until 5:00 PM Kid in Christ 1st Friday, 6:30 - 8:00 PM Praise Band Practice Thursdays at 7:00 PM Chancel Choir Sundays at 10:00 AM & Wednesdays (except 4th) 7:00 PM 4th Mondays at 7:00 PM Bread and Fishes, with the Clothes Closet Mondays from 6:00 PM until 7:00 PM Bread and Fishes Worship Service Mondays 6:30 PM until 7:00 PM Care and Share Committee Second Sunday at 12:00 PM Feed My Sheep 2nd and 4th Mondays at 5:30 PM Dumfries United Methodist Church 3890 Cameron Street Dumfries, VA 22026 Sunday Worship Services 8:15 am - Communion Service 9:00 am - Praise & Worship Service 10:10 am - Sunday School For All 11:00 am - Traditional Worship Service Church Phone Number: 703-221-2880 Fax Number: 703-221-4605 E-mail address: [email protected] Website address: www.dumfriesumc.org Office hours: Monday - Thursday, 8:00 am - 3:30 pm Who We Are Resident Bishop: Bishop Charlene Kammerer District Superintendent: Reverend Ken Jackson Pastor: Reverend Doug Geeting Director of Youth and Young Adults: Reverend Hyeok Won Kwon Traditional Music Director: Betty Wade Praise & Worship Music Director: Tom Geenty Office Manager: Heather Bosley-Papp
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