Life Is
a Gift
A BOOK FOR THANKFUL HEARTS
Paraclete Press
BRE WSTER, MASSACHUSET TS
2013 First printing
Life Is a Gift: A Book for Thankful Hearts
Copyright © 2013 by Paraclete Press
ISBN 978-1-61261-412-0
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Contents
Introduction
v
Thank You, God 1
Gratitude in the Bible 7
S o u r c e s f r o m A r o u n d t h e Wo r l d
Tell Someone that You Are
Grateful for Them
from The Bible
13
Praise for the Beauty All Around Us 15
Our National Thanksgiving
25
Thanksgiving Day Proclamation
29
Three Reflections on an Attitude of Sharing 35
An Old-fashioned Thanksgiving
47
Po e m s a n d P r a i s e
by Sarah Josepha Hale
by Abraham Lincoln
by Sister Bridget Haase
A Short Story
by Louisa May Alcott
Hymns and Spiritual Songs of Thanks
81
Closing Prayers
93
10 Blessings in My Life at This Moment
S p a c e t o R e c o r d Yo u r T h o u g h t s H e r e 97
Introduction
T
here is an old proverb from Eastern Europe that
says, “Who does not thank for little, will not
thank for much.”
In other words, the person who goes through life being
thankful for God’s gifts and blessings usually experiences
more of life’s goodness—and inhabits more of God’s
blessings.
With this book, we challenge you to live in a way that
blesses God from whom all good things come. If you will
do this, and become a person of gratitude, giving thanks for
all of the good things in your life—even those things that
are painful, or beyond understanding—you may expect to
see your life transformed before your eyes.
The Doxology
Praise God from whom all blessings flow,
Praise Him all creatures here below.
Praise Him above ye heavenly hosts,
Praise Father, Son, and Holy Ghost.
Amen.
Praise and faith strengthen and nourish one another.
That is why St. Paul says, “Do not worry about anything,
but in everything by prayer and supplication with
thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God”
(Philippians 4:6).
Gratitude binds our hearts to God and to each other,
destroying the walls that divide us. Gratitude is the key
that unlocks the inner treasury of grace.
Gratitude is an antidote to false pride, and the remedy
for fear. Gratitude opens the channels of fellowship and
charity, because it kills false competition and jealousy.
Showing gratitude to God by praising him actually opens
clogged channels, so that our souls can grow stronger in
the pure sunlight of God’s love and goodness.
It is a simple fact of life and faith. As you practice
gratitude, you will be flooded with more and more good
things. And you will become aware of the beauty and
goodness that were there in your life all along. Your eyes
will open to the world in a new way.
And you will become a blessing to those around you as
never before. As Robert Louis Stevenson said, “Every heart
that has beat strongly and cheerfully has left a hopeful
impulse behind it in the world, and bettered the tradition
of mankind.”
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A Prayer of Thanksgiving
(for any occasion)
For each new morning with its light,
For rest and shelter of the night,
For health and food,
For love and friends,
For everything Thy goodness sends.
— RALPH WALDO EMERSON
(1803–1882)
Thank you, God
( S o u r c e s f r o m A r o u n d t h e Wo r l d )
“In our daily lives we must see that it is not happiness that
makes us grateful, but gratefulness that makes us happy.”
—UNKNOWN
X
“Gratitude is happiness doubled by wonder.”
—G. K. CHESTERTON
X
“Who does not thank for little will not thank for much.”
—ESTONIAN PROVERB
X
“Find a way to be thankful for your troubles and they can
become your blessings.”
—UNKNOWN
X
“Gratitude involves a conscious choice. I can choose
to be grateful even when my emotions and feelings
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are still steeped in hurt and resentment. I can choose to be
grateful when I am criticized, even when my
heart still responds in bitterness.”
—HENRI J. M. NOUWEN
X
“Almost the soul’s whole work is to realize its unworthiness to
receive such great good and to occupy itself in thanksgiving.”
— S T. T E R E S A O F A V I L A
X
“The thankful heart sees the best part of every situation. It
sees problems and weaknesses as opportunities, struggles as
refining tools, and sinners as saints in progress.”
— F R A N C I S F R A N G I PA N E
X
“The most important prayer in the world is
just two words long: ‘Thank you.’”
—MEISTER ECKHART
4
“Be thankful for the least gift, so shalt thou be meant to
receive greater.”
—THOMAS A KEMPIS
X
“Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent
of all the others.”
—CICERO
X
“O Lord who lends me life, lend me a heart replete with
thankfulness.”
—WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE
X
“I thank God for my handicaps, for through them I have
found myself, my work, and my God.”
—HELEN KELLER
X
5
“Gratitude is our most direct line to God.”
— T E R R Y LY N N TAY LO R
X
“There are only two ways to live your life.
One is as though nothing is a miracle.
The other is as though everything is a miracle.”
—ALBERT EINSTEIN
6
Gratitude in the Bible
I…go around your altar, O Lord, singing aloud a song
of thanksgiving, and telling all your wondrous deeds.
PSALM 26:7
You have turned my mourning into dancing;
you have taken off my sackcloth
and clothed me with joy,
so that my soul may praise you and not be silent.
O Lord my God, I will give thanks to you forever.
PSALM 30:11–12
O give thanks to the Lord, for he is good;
for his steadfast love endures forever.
PSALM 107:1
Give thanks in all circumstances;
for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.
1 THESSALONIANS 5:18
9
May he grant you your heart’s desire,
and fulfill all your plans.
PSALM 20:4
I will give thanks to the Lord with my whole heart;
I will tell of all your wonderful deeds.
PSALM 9:1
Enter his gates with thanksgiving,
and his courts with praise.
Give thanks to him, bless his name.
PSALM 100:4
You are my God, and I will give thanks to you;
you are my God, I will extol you.
PSALM 118:28
Sing to the Lord with thanksgiving;
make melody to our God on the lyre.
PSALM 147:7
10
Praise the Lord!
O give thanks to the Lord, for he is good;
for his steadfast love endures forever.
PSALM 106:1
Sing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs among
yourselves, singing and making melody to the Lord in
your hearts, giving thanks to God the Father at all times
and for everything in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.
EPHESIANS 5:19–21
Do not worry about anything,
but in everything by prayer and supplication
with thanksgiving
let your requests be made known to God.
PHILIPPIANS 4:6
And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God
the Father through him.
COLOSSIANS 3:17
11
Tell Someone That You
Are Grateful for Them
(from the Bible)
Dear Mom, Dad, Friend, Spouse, Child, Grandchild…
I want you to know…
I give thanks to my God always for you because of the
grace of God that has been given you in Christ Jesus.
(1 CORINTHIANS 1:4)
We always give thanks to God for all of you and mention
you in our prayers, constantly.
(1 THESSALONIANS 1:2)
Praise for the Beauty
All Around Us
Po e m s a n d P r a i s e
Sonnet 73
WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE
That time of year thou mayst in me behold
When yellow leaves, or none, or few, do hang
Upon those boughs which shake against the cold,
Bare ruined choirs, where late the sweet birds sang.
In me thou see’st the twilight of such day
As after sunset fadeth in the west;
Which by and by black night doth take away,
Death’s second self, that seals up all in rest.
In me thou see’st the glowing of such fire,
That on the ashes of his youth doth lie,
As the deathbed whereon it must expire,
Consumed with that which it was nourished by.
This thou perceiv’st, which makes thy love more strong,
To love that well which thou must leave ere long.
(1609)
To Autumn
WILLIAM BLAKE
O Autumn, laden with fruit, and stain’d
With the blood of the grape, pass not, but sit
Beneath my shady roof; there thou may ’st rest,
And tune thy jolly voice to my fresh pipe,
And all the daughters of the year shall dance!
Sing now the lusty song of fruits and flowers.
“The narrow bud opens her beauties to
The sun, and love runs in her thrilling veins;
Blossoms hang round the brows of Morning, and
Flourish down the bright cheek of modest Eve,
Till clust’ring Summer breaks forth into singing,
And feather’d clouds strew flowers round her head.
“The spirits of the air live in the smells
Of fruit; and Joy, with pinions light, roves round
The gardens, or sits singing in the trees.”
Thus sang the jolly Autumn as he sat,
Then rose, girded himself, and o’er the bleak
Hills fled from our sight; but left his golden load.
(1783)
18
Autumn Fires
ROBERT LOUIS STEVENSON
In the other gardens
And all up the vale,
From the autumn bonfires
See the smoke trail!
Pleasant summer over
And all the summer flowers,
The red fire blazes,
The gray smoke towers.
Sing a song of seasons!
Something bright in all!
Flowers in the summer,
Fires in the fall!
(1913)
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Autumn in the Garden
HENRY VAN DYKE
When the frosty kiss of Autumn in the dark
Makes its mark
On the flowers, and the misty morning grieves
Over fallen leaves;
Then my olden garden, where the golden soil
Through the toil
Of a hundred years is mellow, rich, and deep,
Whispers in its sleep.
’Mid the crumpled beds of marigold and phlox,
Where the box
Borders with its glossy green the ancient walks,
There’s a voice that talks
Of the human hopes that bloomed and withered here
Year by year,—
Dreams of joy, that brightened all the labouring hours,
Fading as the flowers.
Yet the whispered story does not deepen grief;
But relief
For the loneliness of sorrow seems to flow
From the Long-Ago,
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When I think of other lives that learned, like mine,
To resign,
And remember that the sadness of the fall
Comes alike to all.
What regrets, what longings for the lost were theirs!
And what prayers
For the silent strength that nerves us to endure
Things we cannot cure!
Pacing up and down the garden where they paced,
I have traced
All their well-worn paths of patience, till I find
Comfort in my mind.
Faint and far away their ancient griefs appear:
Yet how near
Is the tender voice, the careworn, kindly face,
Of the human race!
Let us walk together in the garden, dearest heart,
Not apart!
They who know the sorrows other lives have known
Never walk alone.
(1903)
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