全國高職學生 103 年度專題暨創意製作競賽 報告書封面 群別:外語群 參賽作品名稱:Oedipus Complex 關 鍵 詞:Oedipus Complex、 Oedipus Abstract With generations changing fast, many adults teach their children in a wrong way, such as over spoiled or over indulged. Gradually, children have the habit to rely on their parents and they will think everything can be resolved if mom is here and they can’t be responsible for anything. It’s the reason why there are more and more “ma ma boys”. Many mothers are proud of themselves because their sons love to be with them, but they ignore that this makes their sons suffer from Oedipus Complex. Oedipus Complex or Electra Complex is just a growing-up experience that everyone has, and most people can pass this stage smoothly. However, we must not ignore it; otherwise, it will become a serious problem. Can you imagine there is something between Sphinx and King Oedipus? Could you believe Sphinx is also associated with Oedipus Complex? Let’s dig it out! Keywords: Oedipus、Oedipus Complex i Table of Contents Abstract---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------i Table of Contents ------------------------------------------------------------------------ ---ii I. Introduction--------------------------------------------------------------------------------1 I.1. The Motivation of the Study --------------------------------------------------------------1 I.2. The Purpose of the Study -----------------------------------------------------------1 II. Methods-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------1 III. Findings & Discussion --------------------------------------------------------- -----------1 III.1. Definition of Oedipus Complex-------------------------------------------------------1 III.2. Story of Oedipus Complex-------------------------------------------------------------2 III.3. Causes of Oedipus Complex-----------------------------------------------------------3 III.4. Impact of Oedipus Complex-----------------------------------------------------------3 III.5. Resolution of Oedipus Complex-----------------------------------------------------4 III.6. Case of Oedipus Complex-------------------------------------------------------------4 III.6.1 The Social Case of Oedipus Complex-----------------------------------------4 III.6.2.Related Books of Oedipus Complex-------------------------------------------5 III.6.3.Related Movies of Oedipus Complex------------------------------------------5 III.7. Which Horoscope Is Easy to Suffer from Oedipus Complex---------------------6 IV. Conclusion--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------7 References--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------8 ii I. Introduction I.1. The Motivation of the Study Ancient Greece is one of people's civilization birthplaces. This time, we want to find out the story of a famous ancient Greek king, Oedipus. We heard of him in our English course and we really wanted to know more about his story. To comprehend the story, we wrote this paper. Hope you will enjoy it. I.2. The Purpose of the Study (1)What is the Oedipus Complex? (2)Why do they love their own mother? (3)When can the Oedipus Complex happen? (4) What can we do when it happens or how to avoid it? The reason we research is we want to find out the answers to these questions. II. Methods For this research, we tried a lot of ways to complete, such as looking up something in reference, newspapers and magazines, and we also surfed the Internet. Not only some famous websites but some blogs we browsed so that we can get more information. To present the most perfect paper, we spent our break time and holidays discussing. I hope you will enjoy the report. III. Findings/ Discussions III.1. Definition of Oedipus Complex <Loving mama> is also known as the Oedipus Complex. In the psychoanalysis theory, the impulsive force is the most original and natural part of desire. Briefly speaking, the Oedipus Complex is a kind of psychological tendency of men. No matter how old they are, they always follow and love their mothers. It is called Oedipus Complex, which is to be an emotional burden called “mama boy.” 1 III.2. Story of Oedipus Complex Oedipus was a tragic figure in Greek mythology. He was the son of king Laius and Queen Jocasta. When Oedipus was born, his father wished to get a prophecy, which said that the prince would grow up safely, but he would murder the king and marry his mother. Because King Laius was so angry, he left Oedipus on a mountain and let him die there. Before long, the baby was found by a shepherd and raised by King Polybus and Queen Merope in the city of Corinth. Oedipus didn’t know that Polybus and Merope weren’t his real parents. However, someone told him the truth, so Oedipus went to ask the god. Unfortunately, the god didn’t tell him who his father and mother were, but God said he would kill his father and marry his mother. To find out the riddle, Oedipus left Corinth. On the way to a country nearby, he met an old man in a chariot. They disputed who should get out of the way; accidentally, Oedipus killed the old man. However he didn’t know that the old man was his father. He continued going to Thebes. When he arrived, he met a monster named Sphinx. This monster enjoyed testing people who wanted to go across the road. If they couldn’t answer the question, he would eat him or her, so all people were afraid of Sphinx. Sphinx also asked Oedipus a riddle. The riddle was “What walks on four legs in the morning, two legs in the afternoon and three legs in the evening?” Oedipus replied “human”, and this was correct answer. Everyone thought of Oedipus as a hero. Oedipus not only defeated the monster but won the throne, so he married the dead king’s widow, his mother, Jocasta. 2 Oedipus and Jocasta had two sons and two daughters after they got married. Suddenly, their country had a big disaster—plague. So Oedipus asked someone to go to temple to get an oracle and then he could deal with the adversity. The god said that there was a promiscuous man in the country who killed his father and married his mother. If they could find out and punish him, the disaster would be all right. After Oedipus found out the truth, he couldn’t accept the fact that the murderer was himself. Blinding himself, Oedipus left Thebes. When Jocasta knew that she had married her son, she killed herself. III.3. Causes of Oedipus Complex The reason of the Oedipus Complex is that mothers usually spend more time with their sons than fathers, and it is more likely that the child will develop closer relationship with the mother. They will probably fight against their fathers because they envy their fathers, who can be much closer to their mothers. Interestingly, among all of the cases with the Oedipus Complex, the mothers are beautiful and sexy enough to attract them. They peek their mother taking a bath on purpose or take a bath together since they are little boys. Besides, they maybe sleep together all the time. These factors will make them fall in love with and depend on each other. III.4. Impact of Oedipus Complex Males with Oedipus Complex often tend to have an unhappy relationship with their wives. Once they hear their wives talking something bad about their mothers, they would get into an unbearable mood, though, sometimes, they even feel guilty. As a result, these people often argue with their wives; therefore, the gap between the couple will become bigger and bigger and finally get into a situation out of control. What's worse, the males are afraid of showing their opinions; they dare not to overcome any difficulties by themselves. These men are afraid of losing their mother's love, so they test their mother's feelings all the time. Because they are extremely close to their mothers, their ways of thinking and behaviors tend to be like females When they get into the society, they can't get along well with other people under 3 this action mode. If no one orders them to do something, they cannot take an action. They don't have egos so their spirits get weak easily. These people are used to waiting for other people’s help rather than helping others. III.5. Resolution of Oedipus Complex Oedipus Complex, which is a process in which sons grow up and are independent from mothers, and this condition leads to an abnormal and attached relationship. Because sons depend overly on mothers, this causes the situation that boys can’t turn into mature men smoothly. If sufferers want to resolve the Oedipus Complex, and let themselves get rid of unhealthy attachment, they have to do following steps. First, mothers and sons have to admit that they have abnormal and close relationship, and face the truth honestly. Second, sons should get rid of relying overly on mothers, learning how to make decisions by themselves, and take care of themselves. Mothers should stop improper and excess supplies, not focus on children all day long, and learn to believe that children can solve problems and setbacks in the life by themselves. Third, they should try to let fathers be fathers, and make fathers be responsible for the burden that they should be sons’ sex role model. If it is a single parent family, we can help children to look for a male role worth follwing; for example, Nelson Polihlahla Mandela, Martin Luther King, Abraham Lincoin, and Wright brothers. Or we can seek a male role worthy of imitating; for example, a clergyman, a missionary, and a teacher. Let these roles lead children to learn how to be an independent man, and find the responsibility of his age. If the Oedipus Complex of a sufferer is serious, he should seek professional counseling psychologists for help, because counseling can help sufferers to find the solving key to the Oedipus Complex, remove the part of attached relationship which is serious and unhealth, and continue to rebuild their life. III.6. Cases of Oedipus Complex III.6.1 The Real Cases of Oedipus Complex (1) An unidentified doctor slept with his wife and his mother together. A doctor told his wife that he had slept with his mother until he was nineteen years old. However, the doctor’s mother had kept sleeping with him after he had got married. What’s more, she had slept between her son and her son’s wife every night. 4 Psychiatrist said this man had a severe Oedipus Complex. (2) A man has admired his mother for many years. A 26-year-old man accidentally saw his mother bathing when he was a college student. After that, he still peeked his mother bathe. What’s worse, he secretly took off his mother’s clothes and watched her breast while she was sleeping. Thus, he was remedied by psychiatrist. (3) Chiang Kai-shek had suffered from Oedipus Complex: Chiang Kai-shek, a Chinese famous political figure, who had admired his mother, too. When he was a child, he loved to play with her mother all day long, and slept with his mother at night, which was mentioned in his diary. Chiang Kai-shek had hated his father; he even had had the idea to marry his mother. When his mother died, he also didn’t want to let his parents be buried together. III.6.2.Related Books of Oedipus Complex 《Slaap!》 A story was about a long-term insomnia woman and a man with Oedipus Complex. Both of them had heavy stress but they could comfort each other. Although they were unable to resolve any problems, they still gave warmth and company to each other. III.6.3.Related Movies of Oedipus Complex (1) 《The Cement Garden》 The leading man, Jack, killed his father and took his mother’s love away. After his mother died, Jack transported his love to his sister… (2) 《Hallam Foe》 The seventeen-year-old boy, Hallam Foe, was a weird teenager who admired his mother very much. After he left his mother, going to another town, he met a woman who looked like his mother. Then they started a series of stories… 5 III.7.Which Horoscope Is Easy to Suffer from Oedipus Complex Some men will become "mama boys" because of personality or family. Even though they have girlfriends, they still abide by their mother's determinations. According to news report, the top five horoscopes of men who are addict to their mom are as below: Top One: Cancer Classic saying: No one could reach my mother's merits! Cancer boys love family, especially their moms. To them, "mother" is a sign of their family, and it also stands for soft, close and everything they can be satisfied with. Top Two: Virgo Classic saying: What you did is just like my mom! The boys of Virgo have really valued their family since they are kids, and they seriously follow the family rules. Most people are raised by moms. Whatever mothers do and say, it would have impact on Virgo boys deeply. Generally speaking, Virgo boys respect their moms as a model. As a result, they will choose the girl who is similar to their moms to be their girlfriends. Top Three: Scorpio Classic saying: How about my mom? Scorpio boys show their love in different ways. Outwardly, they look like "don't love their moms”, even be cool or rude and they try their best to show how much they hate when they live with their moms. Actually, Scorpio boys are little enjoying this situation. When they fight against moms, their unconsciousness enjoy the feeling that moms are focusing on them. In other words, Scorpio boys may have been bad boys since they are kids and they bother their moms intentionally to make sure moms do care about them. 6 Top Four: Leo Classic saying: If mom were here... Most Leo boys are naughty. They look fresh and bright. In fact, they are in mess. Without their mother's care, they could even mistake hair gel and pomade. No matter how annoying mother's advice is, Leo boys regard it as sweet gifts. Top Five: Pisces Classic saying: Let's visit my mother this weekend! Pisces boys always show a soft attitude. It’s easy to make people think that "this guy must suffer from Oedipus Complex." Pisces boys are so sensitive that they are hurt and impacted by outside easily. To them, home is the best refuge and mother is the person who is ready for forgiving everything and showing leniency and understanding. IV. Conclusion We often hope that we can have a sweet family: parents love us; obliging daughter and sensible son. As long as we have family who support us, when we meet a big difficulty, we all can overcome it safely. But we can’t spoil our children overly, because it may cause a regret forever. Therefore, we should train our children to be independent at the appropriate age, or they will depend on parents. If boys can’t grow up normally and become independent, they will indulge in incest and not find their true love. We can understand more clearly what the Oedipus Complex is by collecting data from books and internet. Oedipus Complex is not a fatal disease, but a psychological imbalance. In this open society, we shouldn’t reject or despise the patients who suffer from Oedipus Complex. But, maybe the society should teach parents how to treat their sons normally and rightly. Children are not parents’ possession. Parents have their own lives, and children have their own lives, too. So, parents have to learn to let their children fly by themselves. What parents should do is wait here! 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