Welcome to St Aidan’s House, Ampleforth College Welcome to St Aidan’s... Apple-tree planting as part of our day of service to mark St Benedict’s day 2015 It is with great pleasure that I welcome you as a new member of St Aidan’s House. I am delighted that you have chosen St Aidan’s to be your home for the duration of your time at Ampleforth. I hope that you will find that this is an environment where you can flourish and be your true and best self academically, spiritually, personally and physically. Every Aidan’s girl has her own strengths and weaknesses and has her own unique part to play in the life of the House. St Aidan’s is a community inspired by the words of St Benedict; a community where leadership is given more by example rather than words (Rule of St Benedict, 2.12); a community where equal respect and love is shown to everyone and the same discipline is applied to all (Rule of St Benedict, 2.22); a community where faults are corrected and love is safeguarded (Rule of St Benedict, Prologue: 47). In short St Aidan’s is a community where the strong have something to yearn for and the weak have nothing to run from (Rule of St Benedict, 64.19). Like any home or community there must be some basic rules and guidelines which help in the smooth running of the house for the benefit of all. These are set out in the remainder of this book, along with some background to St Aidan’s. If you have any queries or concerns, please do get in touch; my contact details are given at the back of this booklet. I hope you will be happy at Ampleforth and in St Aidan’s, and look forward to welcoming you in September. With prayers and best wishes, Madame Anne Le Gall Housemistress of St Aidan’s July 2015 You can follow St Aidan’s on https://www.facebook.com/staidans.ampleforth or on the Ampleforth App. Our Patron Saint - St Aidan (Died 651 AD) .........................................3 The Religious Life of the House ............................................................6 The history of St Aidan’s House ............................................................7 The House Team (including contact details) ........................................8 Our roles… ..........................................................................................10 Day Girls .............................................................................................11 The House ............................................................................................12 THE ST AIDAN’S DAILY ROUTINE… ..............................................14 Social time/telephones/money/visitors/conduct/visits .........................14 House Rules .........................................................................................16 Effort Grades .......................................................................................17 Matron Matters: ..................................................................................18 Essential Items for Ampleforth Girls: .................................................20 The beginning of the academic year ...................................................24 Appendix 1 - The college timetable ................................................................................................... 25 Appendix 2 - Important links for information; .................................................................................. 26 Appendix 3 - What to do if you are worried. ..................................................................................... 27 Appendix 4 - LEAVE OF ABSENCE FORM/18TH BIRTHDAY FORM .......................................................... 29 Appendix 5 - Our address is; ............................................................................................................ 31 Appendix 6 - Places to stay, places to eat; ....................................................................................... 31 Appendix 7 – Forward term dates..................................................................................................... 33 Page 2 of 36 Our Patron Saint - St Aidan (Died 651 AD) Christianity had first come to Britain during the time of the Roman Empire. With the decline of the empire and the subsequent invasions, Anglo-Saxon Britain had reverted to paganism. In Ireland and Scotland, however, Christianity survived and continued, although separated from the Church in mainland Europe. This isolation led to the Celtic church developing its own traditions, most notably in the calculation of the date of Easter. Almost nothing is known of Aidan’s early life save that he was Irish. He is believed to have been a monk who may have studied under Saint Senan on Scattery Island, County Clare in Ireland, but moved to St Columba’s monastery on the Scottish island of Iona in 630 AD. Edwin was king of Northumbria and had been converted to Christianity in 627 AD by a mission from Canterbury led by Bishop Paulinus. Edwin was killed in battle against invaders from Mercia in 632 AD and Northumbria returned to paganism. At this time, Edwin’s nephew, Oswald, was living in exile in the monastery on Iona. During his stay at the monastery, Oswald was converted and baptised. In 633 AD Oswald regained the kingdom of Northumbria and afterwards sent requests to Iona, rather than Canterbury, for missionaries to convert his people. The first monk sent to preach in Northumbria, a man named Corman, returned to Iona having had little or no success and complaining that the Northumbrian Saxons were “a savage and unteachable race.” At this Aidan is said to have commented, “Perhaps you were too harsh with them and they might have responded to a gentler approach.” Aidan duly found himself selected to lead a new mission! Madame Le Gall beside a statue of St Aidan at the ruined monastery on Lindisfarne Page 3 of 36 Oswald gave Aidan the island of Lindisfarne, sometimes called Holy Isle, on which he established a monastery. Lindisfarne was close to Oswald’s royal palace at Bamburgh. This made it more suitable for the evangelization of Oswald’s kingdom (Bernicia) in northern Northumbria, than York, farther to the south. Initially, Aidan confined his missionary work to Oswald’s kingdom, with Oswald himself often acting as Aidan’s interpreter. Later Aidan founded churches and monasteries, freeing slave boys and training them to serve in the Church. He encouraged the laity to follow monastic practices such as fasting and meditation on the Gospels and lived himself in poverty. With Oswald’s death in 642 AD, Aidan became friends with Oswin, the king of the southern Northumbrian kingdom of Deira. Some report that Aidan extended his mission even further afield — through the midlands and even as far as London. St Aidan’s soul is taken to heaven by angels. From Bede’s Life of St Cuthbert Aidan died on 31 August 651 AD at Bamburgh. His body was taken to Lindisfarne and buried in the cemetery. Sometime later, his bones were removed to the monastery church. Lindisfarne was sacked by the Vikings in 793 AD, after which Aidan’s reputation diminished somewhat. However, St Bede thought very highly of Aidan, perhaps more than of any other saint, and wrote of him: “He neither sought nor loved anything of this world, but delighted in distributing immediately to the poor whatever was given to him by kings or rich men of the world. He traversed both town and country on foot, never on horseback, unless compelled by some urgent necessity. Wherever on his way he saw any, either rich or poor, he invited them, if pagans, to embrace the mystery of the faith; or if they were believers, he sought to strengthen them in their faith and stir them up by words and actions to alms and good works.” [Taken from http://www.st-aidans-parish.org.uk/st_aidan.htm ] Page 4 of 36 Our House banner which hangs in our dining room in the refectories was designed and made by the girls during our House retreat in October 2012 using wool. The three scenes in the banner depict from left to right; 1 - St Aidan's prayers from his cell at nearby Lindisfarne Abbey, reverse the winds thus reversing the fires set at a besieged Bamburgh Castle by an attacking pagan army. The attackers saw this change in the wind and fires as a sign that Bamburgh was defended by a higher spiritual power and so abandoned their siege. 2 - St Aidan as Bishop of Northumbria. 3 - St Aidan establishing Lindisfarne Abbey on what is now known as Holy Island. Page 5 of 36 The Religious Life of the House Life in the House is underpinned by the Catholic and Benedictine ethos of the school, and serves to support the spiritual, moral and intellectual development of students as set out in the school’s mission statement. The Rule of St Benedict has provided the inspiration for many schools over the centuries and at Ampleforth we aim to share in that same tradition of, ‘establishing a school for the Lord’s Service’ (RSB Pro45) ‘Respecting other Christian traditions, and the consciences of all, we seek to live out our faith in our daily life together, in such a way as to promote the good of each individual and well being of our community as a whole: it is, we believe, the normal, daily rhythm of our life together in all its variety that provides the basis for personal growth and good behaviour.’ (taken from Promoting Good Behaviour – link in appendix 3). Since the Rule and the Gospel guide and inform life in the school, an acquaintance with these will in turn enhance life for those in the House. Of prime importance therefore are Morning and Evening Prayer, as well as regular Masses in the House, the annual retreats, opportunities for the Sacrament of Reconciliation together with other religious events. You will also have opportunities to help plan the liturgy for Masses and House Prayers and are also welcome to attend any of the monastic offices in the Monks’ Choir in the Abbey church. The Schola Mass at 8:30pm on Fridays or Compline at 8:15pm, Sundays to Thursdays, is particularly suitable. As a House we also support the school’s charity, FACE-FAW and students are invited to be involved in pastoral activities and retreats for students from other schools. On Sunday morning the house gathers at 9:30am for a brief check-in before all walking down to the Abbey Church for Mass at 10:00am. Please do invite your parents to come and sit with us at Mass if they are around. Sunday Lunch is taken together as a house and Sunday prep is from 5:00 until 7:00pm. Page 6 of 36 The history of St Aidan’s House St Aidan’s has perhaps the most varied history of all the Ampleforth houses. Founded as one of the four original houses in 1926, it was unique in that it remained in its original central school location until 2001 when it became Ampleforth’s first girls’ sixth form house. Finally in 2002 St Aidan’s moved out of the central school and into its modern home on Aumit Hill opposite the Infirmary. The girls of the house led the way in establishing co-education at Ampleforth and proved that girls could flourish at Ampleforth. Those early girls established many of the activities and traditions that girls still follow today. The final stage of the house’s development came in 2010 when the house was extended to provide accommodation for junior as well as sixth form girls. Previous Housemasters & Housemistresses: 1926 Fr Augustine Richardson 1928 Fr John Maddox 1938 Fr Terence Wright 1948 Fr Anthony Ainscough 1960 Fr Brendan Smith 1975 Fr Simon Trafford 1988 Fr Terence Richardson 1992 Fr Bernard Green 1996 Fr Cassian Dickie 1997 Fr Gabriel Everitt 1998 Mr Bill Lofthouse 2002 Miss Pam Dixon 2003 Miss Antonia Beary 2005 Mrs Brenda Abbott 2009 Dr Victoria Fogg 2012 Mrs Anne Le Gall Page 7 of 36 The House Team Madame Anne Le Gall (Housemistress) Anne has an MBA from ESC Le Havre- Business School and she has been a teacher for the last fifteen years, with work experience both in her homeland (France) and in her adopted home (North Yorkshire). She gained her PGCE in Modern Languages from the University of York in 1996 and is a CELTA qualified teacher. She was previously for a number of years Head of EAL, here at Ampleforth, where she now continues to teach French. She is married to John Devitt who is Head of Physics and a sixth form tutor in St Aidan's. Email: [email protected] Fr Chad (Chaplain) Fr Chad (himself a former Housemaster) is also Ampleforth College's Senior chaplain. He is available to the girls at all times and comes to the house regularly to give talks and to say weekly house Masses. He leads our annual House retreat. Email: [email protected] Mrs Jane Reynard (Matron) Jane is our Matron, and has worked in the College for many years in the Admissions department and latterly the Headmaster’s department. She is a mother of two teenage children, one of whom is at boarding school. She lives nearby with her family. Jane’s primary focus is on the well-being of the girls in the house and they all know that they can come to see her for anything from a medical appointment to much needed advice. Email: [email protected] Mr John Devitt (Tutor to Years 12 & 13) John has been Head of Physics at Ampleforth since 2008 and is also Joint Head of Science. He coaches rugby and runs many Physics lectures. Email: [email protected] Mr Richard Hudson (Tutor to Years 12 & 13) Richard is an old boy of Ampleforth, leaving in 1984. Having studied at Oxford, and practising as a barrister he lived for three years with a religious community. He has been teaching for twelve years, recently completing an MA in Catholic Education. As well as teaching CT he co-ordinates the Friendship Holiday. Email: [email protected] Page 8 of 36 Mrs Helen Pepper (Assistant Housemistress and Tutor to Years 12 & 13) Helen who is St Aidan's Assistant Housemistress has taught Christian Theology at Ampleforth since 2010. She is also Assistant Head of Christian Theology. Helen coaches girls' football and athletics. Email: [email protected] Dr Lorna Kessell (Tutor to Year 9) Lorna has taught Physics at Ampleforth since 2010. She is also involved in the running of the Duke of Edinburgh awards. Email: [email protected] Mrs Emma Levahn (Tutor to Year 10) Emma is joining the College as the Head of Drama and Dance. Email: tbc Miss Anna Rosenberg (Tutor to Year 11) Anna has taught history here since September 2013. She also coaches netball and tennis. Email: [email protected] Mr Alasdair Thorpe Alasdair teaches Chemistry at Ampleforth and has been Head of Science for a number of years before becoming Director of Professional Development. Alasdair brings to the team his wide expertise of the world of education. Email: [email protected] Miss Elena Torres-Lleyda Elena is the Spanish Assistant and is helping out with some of the house duties. Email: [email protected] Page 9 of 36 Our roles… Madame Anne Le Gall, Housemistress As your Housemistress I take an interest in everything that you do at Ampleforth. I shall be involved in overseeing your academic studies, games choices and activities. I am always available for help and guidance. My house is located through the study and I encourage you to come and find me if there is anything that you need. Mrs Pepper, Assistant Housemistress Mrs Pepper assists me in the running of the house. One day a week Mrs Pepper will be on duty in the house for twenty four hours. In this time she will look after the running of the house and help you with all your needs. Mrs Pepper also lives permanently in the house and her flat is located next to the first year dorms. You can ask her to help you if you have any difficulties or just need another adult to talk to. The tutors are; Mr Devitt, Mr Hudson, Mrs Pepper (all 6th form), Miss Rosenberg (year 11), Mrs Levahn (year 10) and Dr Kessell (year 9). Each year group in the house has a tutor to oversee their academic progress. The M6th and U6th are divided into vertical tutor groups which means there are U6th and M6th girls together in each tutor group. Your tutor will meet with you once a week for tutorial and will be in the house one day per week supervising quiet time and prep. You can speak to your tutor and ask for help and guidance about your work or simply ask for help with your prep when they are on duty or at any time. Mrs Reynard, Matron Matron has an office on the ground floor and is on duty Monday to Friday. Mrs Reynard is universally referred to as “Matron” in the house and will help organise your laundry, help you keep your room tidy, look after you if you are unwell and offer support if you feel homesick. If you have any medication Matron will keep it for you and dispense it to you as needed. Medicines must not be kept in student rooms. Fr Chad, House Chaplain Fr Chad is also the main school chaplain and he is the former Housemaster of St Oswald’s. He comes to the House once a week to say Mass and to share evening prayers with us. Fr Chad is always available to speak to you and to offer advice and support. Fr Chad also oversees the confirmation process and leads our annual House retreat. Lulu and Alice, our School Monitors: Lucinda “Lulu” Welford-Carroll is Head of House and Alice McKeever is Deputy Head of House. These two Upper Sixth girls help in the running of the house and liaise a lot with the House staff. Both girls also have some whole school responsibilities outside of the house and form part of the school monitor team more commonly known as “Shaccies”. Both Lulu and Alice want you to have the best possible experience in St Aidan’s. You can talk to them if you have an issue that you think does not need the immediate help of the Housemistress or another adult. They will always listen and always show great kindness. Page 10 of 36 The other U6th girls form a house monitor team. They have leadership roles in the house built on service to you. The whole house is split into 10 teams with girls from each year group in each team. House teams take a week in turn to complete house duties and you can win points for your team by having a tidy room, getting a subject commendation etc. This year the house monitors and team leaders are: Games Monitor: Ines Unterberger, Catechist and Chapel-Monitor: Eve Langford (responsible for the preparation of Confirmandi), Eucharistic Ministers: Victoria Schutz and Gabriela PlazasLodares, Guardian Angel-Foreign students: Annabell Keppel, Guardian Angel-Academic matters and House Drama: Millie D’Oyly Inglis-Agar, Music monitor: Helen Shi, Windmill rep: Honor Ripley, Food and socials monitor: Heloise Pickering, House and Kitchen steward: Mary Plowden. All of the house monitors have been appointed to help you and to better assist the smooth running of our house. Day Girls Day girls have always played a huge part in the success of St Aidan’s and I hope that our new day girls will flourish in this same tradition. Day girls have shared rooms on the ground floor of the building with one room for juniors and another for seniors. These rooms have a desk and wardrobe for each girl and a shared bathroom. We have one boarding room that can be used by day girls when they wish to stay over and they are always very welcome to do so. Day girls are expected to be in the house for morning prayers and registration at 8.20 am but where this is not possible, they should check in with Madame Le Gall in her study at 8.30 at the latest. Lessons start at 8.40 so I will have left the house and be heading down to teach at 8.30; if you arrive after this time you will be recorded as late. Day girls are welcome to stay in the house until prayers at 9.30 pm or may go home once lessons have finished. There is a sheet in my study that I ask you to sign out on if I am unavailable to check you out for the night; this ensures that I know who is at home and who is still on campus. Day girls are full members of St Aidan’s and I encourage you all to take part in as many house events as possible to really get the most out of your Aidan’s experience. First year day girls are invited to board free of charge until the first Exeat (Friday September 25), to facilitate their full integration and bonding among the house. Page 11 of 36 The House Clothes and possessions The College will send you a separate clothes list. Please particularly note that school skirts must be ordered from the school shop when you complete your registration form which will be sent to you by the admissions department. Skirts can be delivered directly to you or picked up at any John Lewis or Waitrose (in the UK). The skirts are also delivered internationally or alternatively, delivered directly to your daughter’s house. If you have any questions, the school shop will be happy to help. The links and reference numbers are; Black skirt ref: 53945203 Blue skirt ref: 53945303 http://www.johnlewis.com/john-lewis-girls'-school-pencil-skirt-blue/p187928#tabinfo-ratings http://www.johnlewis.com/john-lewis-girls'-pencil-school-skirt-black/p187927 If you wish to wear trousers these must be black and cut in a classic style. You are not permitted to wear skinny style trousers. Jeans of any description may not be worn during the school day. You may wear a white, pink or blue shirt. Only black, blue or grey sweaters may be worn for school and only black scarves/pashminas are part of the dress code. We do have a number of “colours” pashminas that can be awarded for scholars, sports players and for house awards which I do hope lots of you will achieve in due course. Most girls have pre-ordered their games kit but anything that you require can be ordered through Matron at the beginning of term. You need a dark suit for Mass. This needs to be a proper suit with a knee length skirt or classic cut trousers, trousers cut in a “skinny” style are not permitted. You wear your Mass suit every Sunday with a white shirt. If you do not conform to the school dress code, you will be provided with an adequate replacement suit provided by the house. Please attach your name to ALL of your clothes and bring extra name labels as well. A lot of the problems that we encounter with people losing their clothes could be solved if casual clothes as well as school uniform items were clearly labelled. The school laundry system is excellent. Laundry is placed in bins put out by Matron on Monday evening and it is returned on Wednesday. Please make sure that you have enough clothes to cover 9 to 10 days and have a spare towel. Sixth form girls may use the house laundry at appointed times but the laundry room must be kept neat and tidy at all times or the privilege will be withdrawn. You may bring inoffensive pictures, posters etc to put up in your room and I encourage you to do so as I want you to feel comfortable and at home in St Aidan’s. Please do note that pictures may be put on the boards, doors and shelves but not directly onto the walls as it destroys the paint work. Fabric wall hangings of any kind and fairy lights are not allowed. Any electrical appliances that you bring must be PAT tested by the school electricians. This is easily done once you arrive and put onto your school bill. Page 12 of 36 Rooms and storage First years (year 9) are in rooms of four, second years in double rooms. Please be mindful that there is limited space and do not bring too many decorative items for your room. Sixth form and year 11 girls have individual rooms but again, space in your room is limited and you should not bring excessive amounts of decoration, going out clothes or shoes; but do bring a pair of wellies and a good raincoat! We have a limited amount of luggage storage space in the house. Each girl should store no more than two substantial pieces of luggage in the house trunk room. At Easter, rooms have to be completely emptied as Easter retreat guests use the boarding accommodation in the holidays. Girls must be mindful of this as each can only store one trunk or suitcase in the trunk room in the holidays, all other things must be taken home. Please take this into account when you are packing! Page 13 of 36 THE ST AIDAN’S DAILY ROUTINE… Wake up for all = 7.20 Morning prayers and check in = 8.20 am in the house chapel (all girls to be dressed in school clothes except U6 girls who have a Quite period for P1) Lunch and check in; all girls must attend = 12.35 as a House Check in= 19.00 in the House-chapel Check in and evening prayers after prep= 21.00 in the house chapel PREP FOR ALL= 19.00 - 21.00 1st years and 2nd year newcomers will be working downstairs in their study rooms and their phones must be switched off. The Remove should be working in their bedrooms and must leave their phone outside their bedroom doors at the end of the 7pm check-in before starting prep. BEDTIME ROUTINE: 1st year 9.30 pm 2nd year 9.45 pm Remove a.k.a. year 11 10.00 pm 6th form 10.30 pm Social time/telephones/money/visitors/conduct/visits Social Time First and second years have lots of in-house social events for themselves and also to invite members of other houses to St Aidan’s. The school also puts on lots of social activities for you including discos, DVD nights, cinema trips, bowling, trips to theme parks and tag laser shooting. Sixth form girls have the option to visit “The Windmill”, the sixth form social centre, on Saturday and Sunday nights. The Windmill serves food, soft drinks, wine and beer purchased on your Windmill card. Only parents can top up these cards. Windmill is a fabulous facility and the management often put on theme nights such as UV clubbing nights and fancy dress evenings – please use Windmill responsibly and stick to the rules in order to preserve the privilege of membership. Page 14 of 36 Telephones You are welcome to bring your mobile telephone to school. Orange (now known as EE) phones tend to get the best signal but the O2 signal has also much improved. You must not use your phones in lessons or during prep time, if you do so your phone will be immediately confiscated. First and second year girls should not use their phones after their allotted bedtimes. Sixth form girls should not use their phones after 10.30pm. My term-time phone number is 01439 766746 My e-mail address is: [email protected] Matron’s term-time phone number is 01439 766491 and her e-mail is [email protected] There are two pay phones in the house and their numbers are: 01439 788854 and 01439 788914 Money Each girl pays £15.75 subs to the house each term; this amount is put on your school bill. This money is used to pay for birthday cakes, newspapers, DVDs, magazines, socials, Sky TV, etc. It is very difficult to legislate for the amount of money pupils should have at school. All legitimate school related expenses such as stationary, toiletries etc can be purchased at the school shop using a Housemistress chit and the amount is billed to the student’s end of term bill. Pocket money is usually desired for tuck. In my view, £1 per day is sufficient allowance for a first year. Pocket money should be given to me and I will bank it in the house safe. Girls can ask me for their pocket money at any time. This system minimises losses through theft or misplacement. I am able to advance girls money for things such as train fares and taxi journey for University interviews etc and these loans are recouped on the school bill. If loans exceed £25 I will contact parents or guardians to check that they are happy with the expense. Visits from Parents I am always delighted to see parents and give them an update on their daughter’s progress. As a general rule it is better not to have a parental visit on the first or second weekend of term as it hinders you spending time with your new friends and bonding could then become an issue. You may take other girls out with your parents if you would like to but I need to know by no later than the end of Wednesday each week if anyone is being taken out so that I can seek the necessary parental permissions. Expectation of conduct on and off the College campus Please bear in mind that when off campus, you are still a member of the Ampleforth community and the school code of conduct still applies and you should conduct yourself in such a manner as not to embarrass yourself, your family, St Aidan’s or the College. You are and will always be an ambassador of St Aidan’s and the College. Please see appendix 5 at the end of this booklet if organising an off-site do during term-time. Page 15 of 36 Visitors You may have visitors from other houses into St Aidan’s. If I am in the study your guest should introduce themselves and ask if they may come in. You should do exactly the same if you visit another house. Your visitor should then sign-in using the visitors’ book and sign out as they leave; this is a fire safety regulation. Male visitors are strictly restricted to the ground floor areas (common room and kitchen) and female guests may visit your room with permission. House Rules There are a number of jobs that need to be done and rules that need to be followed to ensure that we can all live together in harmony. Some of the jobs that need doing every day include ringing the wake-up bell, collecting the post, cleaning the kitchen, collecting newspapers, collecting laundry. Please do these things in good spirit as everything is intended to support you and help you get the very best out of the Ampleforth experience. There are rules that we need to follow to ensure the smooth running of the house and the school day: We have four check-ins a day: 8.20 am, lunch-time, 6.55pm and 9.00pm. They are all in the main common room or at lunchtime in the Refs, please do not be late. During prep stay at your work station and do not distract others. This is to help everyone to get their prep done on time and done well. Do not enter another girl’s room without her express permission. We must all respect each other’s boundaries and personal space. Page 16 of 36 Wear your uniform and games kit properly to show pride in yourself, your house and your school. If you are stuck, unhappy or confused do ask a member of the house staff for help – it is what we are here for and it is never a bother to support you. Effort Grades Each half term you will receive an effort grade for classroom and prep effort from each of your subject teachers. These grade ranges from 1 to 5, with 5 being the very best. If you achieve the following averages, you will receive a Headmaster’s commendation; Year 9 4.1 and above 10 4.2 11 4.2 M6 4.3 U6 4.4 If you receive an average of 3 or less, I and your tutor will take action to initiate improvement in your working habits. I have high expectations of Aidan’s girls and expect all to strive for Headmaster’s commendations. At the Housemistress’ discretion, Windmill and/or other social privileges may be withdrawn from any pupil with an unsatisfactory effort average. Page 17 of 36 Matron Matters: We do all we can to ensure the girls are happy and fulfilled. We endeavour to make St Aidan’s as much a home-from-home as is possible but inevitably there are differences due to the academic, cultural and sporting demands placed on the girls as well as the challenge of learning to live as part of the St Aidan’s community. I am here to help the girls with all manner of questions including what to do when they are feeling unwell, accompany them to medical and dental appointments, finding lost belongings and numerous other day to day matters. Some of the most frequently asked questions concern the following: Food We encourage all the girls to adopt good eating habits and to follow a balanced and healthy diet whilst from time to time allowing them a few well deserved treats. Breakfast, lunch and supper are eaten in the College Refectory where a wide choice of food is always available. In addition to this all the girls are permitted to use the main kitchen in St Aidan’s to make themselves drinks during the day and to have quick and easy snacks such as fruit, cereal and toast with jam or spreads at morning and afternoon break time. In the evenings from Monday to Friday and Sunday completion of prep is the priority and the kitchen is closed during prep time. A timetable setting out the times when the various year groups may prepare quick meals in the kitchen is displayed on the kitchen door. On Saturdays when all the girls have more free time they are allowed to prepare pasta dishes and other more time consuming gastronomic delights! All year groups have been allocated cupboards in the kitchen for storing all their food and for health and safety reasons the girls know that they are not permitted to keep food in their rooms other than a small amount of tuck which must be stored in a sealed box or tin. We would be very grateful if you could refrain from sending any food parcels through the post or allowing the girls to return with large amounts of food or sweets as this encourages the girls to snack on biscuits and treats of which we are unaware. Students at the College are not permitted to order food online for delivery to the boarding houses and we would be very grateful if you would refrain from placing any online orders on their behalf. However I am able to place an occasional online order for the girls for delivery to St Aidan’s on a Friday. The girls have been asked to check with their parents for permission to use this service as all food and drinks ordered on their behalf will be added to the end of term bill. If you would like to place a limit on the amount your daughter is permitted to spend in this way, e.g. a maximum weekly spend of £10.00, please would you email me as soon as possible to let me know. Nut Free Policy We have nut-allergy sufferers in St Aidan’s. For them even the slightest contact with nuts or nut products will cause a severe physical allergic reaction which can be life-threatening. For this reason and to ensure that we provide a safe living environment for these individuals all nuts or nut products are forbidden in St Aidan’s. Labelling Please label all belongings and personal items including all clothes, bedding, shoes, sports kit, pencil cases, computers, mobile phones, chargers, adapters, and hairdryers as it can be very difficult to reunite unnamed items with their owners. Toiletries I keep a stock of sanitary requisites, shampoo, toothbrushes, toothpaste, etc in case the girls run out and the cost of these items will also be added to the end of term bill. Page 18 of 36 Postage Often the girls will ask me to post letters and parcels and again the postage charges will appear on the bill. Laundry The girls’ laundry is collected once a week to be washed in the College Laundry and is usually returned the following day. Please bring a large laundry bag with you. A small, white, named net bag costing £4.56 will be given out at the beginning of term and is used for laundering underwear. A larger bag costing £5.40 is also given out for laundering socks and tights. Clean laundry will be sorted and placed on the laundry room shelves where each girl has a named place. Please ensure that all clothes and bedding are clearly labelled. Medicines It is Ampleforth College Policy that all medication brought in from home after a holiday period is handed in to Matron or the College Infirmary. This includes vitamins, homeopathic, herbal and complimentary remedies. All prescribed medication should be labelled with the student’s name and the prescribed instructions. A letter from the prescribing doctor is also required. Paracetamol, ibuprofen, cough medicine, strepsils and other homely remedies are all available from Matron and at the College Infirmary. There is no charge for these medications and the College would prefer that you do not give your child these medications to bring back to school. Aerosols Aerosols, including hairspray, are forbidden so please make sure your daughter has a roll-on deodorant. Posters & Room Decorations Please bring Blu Tack to hang up posters etc. as drawing pins and Sellotape must not be used. Fairy lights, candles, bunting, and aromatherapy products are not permitted. Electrical Items All electrical items including adapters and chargers brought to the house will be safety tested and the cost of this, based on the number of items tested, will be added to the end of term bill I hope that you will find the information listed above helpful but please do not hesitate to contact me if you need any further assistance. I am looking forward very much to seeing you all in September. Contact Jane Reynard (Mrs) Matron St Aidan’s House Ampleforth College York YO62 4EP Tel: 01439 766491 Email: [email protected] Page 19 of 36 Essential Items for Ampleforth Girls: School trousers in black/knee length school skirts (from school supplier) x up to 5 - check that the trousers you send are permissible – see note on ‘Items you should not bring’. Dark Mass Suit and white blouse – Pinstripe/black/charcoal (trousers or skirt – but a skirt looks very elegant) School jacket in approved colour - Black/navy jacket: must be classically tailored – no waist length or bolero jackets please) Pale plain blouse for school x 8 (pastel colours – pale pink, blue, yellow or white– a subtle stripe is acceptable) 4 long sleeved V Neck jumpers in any colour except red (Red is for school monitors only) Night attire sufficient for 9 days, dressing gown and slippers Underwear sufficient for 9 full days (laundry is collected once a week on a Monday and the clean washing arrives back on Tuesday. Please bring at least 9 days’ worth of underwear) this should include white or pale bras, black socks, knickers and black or flesh coloured tights for school wear 2 white vests – it is cold in North Yorkshire 2-3 pairs of plain black tracksuit bottoms (these are approved by the games department for training sessions) 2 pairs of black or navy lycra cycling shorts – to wear under games skirts 2 pairs of plain white sports socks for PE A plain black or blue swimming costume White Tennis skirt or scort (skirt with shorts sewn in) – delete as optional in the Summer Term One waterproof coat One black/charcoal winter coat – scarf, hat and gloves are also essential in the Autumn and Lent Terms Optional black scarf/pashmina – for black tie Monday Suggested clothing amounts for free time: Three warm jumpers or cardigans or sweatshirts Five t-shirt/blouse/long sleeved shirt tops 4 pairs of jeans or casual trousers/skirts One smart dress Page 20 of 36 Footwear: Two pairs of black school shoes – The girls will be doing a lot of walking between classes and in the rain shoes may need to be rested to dry out so it is advisable to have two pairs. Some styles of shoe are not suitable as they can damage the feet if worn for a prolonged length of time (e.g. Ballet pump) No canvass shoes are to be worn during lesson times as they look too casual. Please be aware that for DT and Science ballet style pumps cannot be worn as they do not safely cover the whole foot. Two supportive pairs of trainers – no flat ‘baseball’ type trainers for sports (though girls may wear them during free time); the students need to keep one pair of trainers for use on the indoor courts and one for outside sports. Walking shoes/pretty shoes/astro-turf boots and finally Wellies – the most essential of the essential items. Other Items: One named duvet & two duvet covers and optional pillow slips (we provide bottom sheets, a pillow and pillow slip but your young lady may prefer a matching pillow slip to go with her duvet) Wash kit and toiletries, 3 bath sheet towels, 4 hand towels Plastic cup for toothbrush/toothpaste Black, gold, silver or tortoiseshell hair clips and bands for school A small padlock with number code on (not a key) Large Laundry bag – please see Laundry above Umbrella A memory stick is a useful item to store prep on A hockey stick and hockey/ football boots, shin pads, tennis racket (If you do not have these items when you arrive they will be supplied by the games department and the cost added to the end of tern bill) A covered hot water bottle A desk lamp and alarm clock Shoe polish & brushes Stationary/pencil case/scientific calculator Laptops are useful for senior girls; follow the guidance in the Parent’s Handbook on specific software and wireless connection to the network. A fleecy blanket Page 21 of 36 A teddy bear or similar friend. Hopefully this item will not be essential but sometimes girls need a familiar face at the beginning of term. An English bi-lingual dictionary if English is not your first language. Page 22 of 36 Items you should not bring: School trousers in a denim material –students wearing black school trousers which resemble jeans, are hipster style, reveal flesh, are tight or held up by wide belts will be sent back to House to change into suits – please don’t let your daughter come to school with unsuitable school wear! Hundreds of ornamental knick knacks Cloth banners or scarves to put on the wall (this is a fire hazard). Posters with inappropriate language or lewd images on. Kettles (there is a house kitchen where girls can always get boiling water) /mini fridges Decorative strings of lighting – they are a fire hazard. Decorative pillows – girls are allowed to bring orthopaedic pillows if they need them but extra, arty pillows only attract dust. Tuck which requires refrigeration. No dairy/meat/ salad/fruit etc. is allowed in the rooms. Chewing gum. Page 23 of 36 The beginning of the academic year You will be warmly greeted when you arrive at the house by my husband Mr Devitt and I as well as Mrs Pepper, Matron, Fr Chad, the house tutors and the Head and Deputy Head of House – a real welcoming committee! You will be shown to your room and have the opportunity to have tea and cake and a look round the house. After a brief introduction from me, your parents will say goodbye and go to the Abbey church to listen to an address by Mr Lambon, the Headmaster. Your parents will not return to the house but go directly home after this. For this reason it is important that you say goodbye properly to your parents when they leave St Aidan’s – be kind to them as this part of the day is usually much harder for parents than it is for the girls! You will be really busy for the rest of the day – there are tours of the house, tours of the school, an address by your head of year and EAL testing if required! After supper the whole house will come together to meet each other properly and have some fun! You will be able to unpack and settle before bed time. We begin the second day with a different induction morning for each year group, followed by an afternoon tutorial with your tutor. In the evening there will be Music interviews and Computer system login sessions. During the day tutors will give you your timetable and allay any worries that you may have. On the third day we follow the academic timetable as normal. As each day passes we hope that things will start to feel more normal and you can relax into the routines and start to enjoy yourself. Please always remember that the gift of an Ampleforth education is a wonderful one so make the very most of it. Work hard in your lessons, participate on the games field, join as many clubs and activities as you are able to and take the time to take strength and hope from the faith that underpins everything that we do. We hope that you will be a happy and proud member of St Aidan’s. Come to us as many times as you need for help, guidance or encouragement: we are here to help. Please do not hesitate to contact us by e-mail, phone or letter if you have any worries or questions before the start of term. We look forward to welcoming you to St Aidan’s house very soon. Page 24 of 36 Appendix 1 - The college timetable We have a two week timetable, weeks A & B: Page 25 of 36 Appendix 2 - Important links for information; New starters information: (including dress-code, etc): http://www.college.ampleforth.org.uk/admissions/information-for-parents-and-new-entrants The College website: http://www.college.ampleforth.org.uk/ Parent Portal, where you can monitor your daughter’s progress online: https://parents.ampleforth.org.uk/api/login/ Our Promoting Good Behaviour handbook: http://www.college.ampleforth.org.uk/resource.aspx?id=1672&officeint=on The Ampleforth College campus map: http://www.college.ampleforth.org.uk/resource.aspx?id=1679&officeint=on Page 26 of 36 Appendix 3 - What to do if you are worried. At Ampleforth College there are many people to whom you can turn to if you need help. From amongst the staff you can turn to your Housemistress, Assistant Housemistress, Chaplain, Tutor or anyone else on the staff. From the student body, you can speak to one of the monitors. There are other adults you can talk to outside of your House or even outside of school and their numbers are listed below. Your privacy will always be respected and the level of confidentiality available explained. All of these people have had training from the College in appropriate ways to help students with difficulties. If a problem is particularly serious it may be suggested that you should contact one of the Child Protection Officers, Mr Smerdon or Mrs Anglim. If your problem is very serious they will need to pass the issue on but will not do that without discussing it with you first. Child Protection Officers; Miss Rowe [email protected] 01439 766880 and Mr Smerdon [email protected] 01439 766895 Assistant Child Protection Officer Mrs Anglim [email protected] 01439 766414 Senior Chaplain Fr Chad [email protected] 01439 766428 Fr Cyprian (Monk and Priest) Mr Allisstone (School Counsellor) Lead Nurse (Miss Camden-Smith) 01439 766844 01439 766806 or [email protected] 01439 766760 or [email protected] 01439 770620 Mrs Jan Titchmarsh (Independent Listener) Mrs Jan Mangles (Independent Listener) 01439 770760 Other useful numbers: North Yorkshire Social Care Department Childline Children’s Rights Director NSPCC Samaritans Drink Line Frank – National Drugs Helpline NHS Smoking Helpline Page 27 of 36 0845 872 374/01609 536993 0800 1111 0800 528 0731 0808 800 5000 08457 909090 0800 9178282 0800 776600 0800 1690169 Eating Disorders Victim Supportline Smoking Quitline Page 28 of 36 01458 448600 0845 3030900 0800 002200 Appendix 4 - LEAVE OF ABSENCE FORM/18TH BIRTHDAY FORM (Amend as appropriate) Time of Outing: Sat Supper / Sat Overnight / Sun Lunch/ Other. (Please circle all appropriate times) Please list the name of student guests (Up to 10 including your own Child) for whom you are taking responsibility: 1. Own child 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. Contact telephone number: Depart time: Signature of parent Date Signature of Hsms Date Return time: ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------To be retained by parent Conditions of leave Please remember that if you are signing this form you are responsible for the supervision, safety and well being of the students in your care Permission is normally given for students to go out after games commitments and activities on Saturday Cars: students must be allocated their own seat in a car and must wear a seatbelt when travelling No member of the school may be driven by another member of the school or by a person under the age of 25 (unless a brother or sister of the intending passenger and then only with parent’s permission). Parents take responsibility for the supervision of any members of the school invited out Parents may not take more than ten student guests. More special rules on 18 th birthday parties can be found in the Parents Handbook Parents are asked to ensure the good behaviour of all student guests Page 29 of 36 Students should not be left alone in a public house and there should be close supervision at all times School rules about alcohol and tobacco should be observed. (A limited amount of alcohol is only permissible for students in the Sixth Form over the age of 16 years with a meal.) Parents are asked to return students to their relevant boarding houses in good time, making contact with their Housemaster/Housemistress Students should be returned to houses no later than 10.00 pm On the occasion of an 18th Birthday: An 18th birthday is a significant event, and parents often want, in their generosity, to enable their son or daughter to celebrate with their friends from the School. The Headmaster welcomes convivial occasions of this kind, and the guidelines that follow are intended to help parents ensure that all goes well. Communication with the Housemaster or Housemistress is essential, at least one week before the proposed date, time and place of the event. It is recommended that contact is made before venues are confirmed. Parties should normally be arranged for a Saturday evening or Sunday lunchtime. On Saturday evenings all boarders must return to their Houses by 11pm. A full guest list, including day boys/girls, must be given to the Housemaster or Housemistress at least one week before the party, but it must be emphasised that every student must seek permission from their own Housemaster or Housemistress. The Housemaster/Housemistress will contact parents to confirm arrangements and permissions. To ensure good supervision, no more than ten guests from the School should be invited. (This figure assumes the presence of both parents). We do not allow joint 18th parties. All should be dressed tidily. It is advised that a private room be hired for the occasion. No member of the School should visit the public bar. The party should include a full, formal meal for all guests. Spirits are not to be consumed by any member of the School. No more than 2-3 units of alcohol should be drunk by any member of the party during the evening, regardless of age. It is the responsibility of the parents to make sure that the boarders are transported to and from the party and returned directly to their Houses. The must not walk back to School e.g. from Ampleforth village. No member of the School may be a passenger in a car driven by another member of the school or by any other person under the age of 25 (unless a brother or sister of the intending passenger and then only with the parent’s permission). Any illness or disciplinary problems should be reported to the appropriate Housemaster or Housemistress by parents immediately on return. Invitations to 18th should be restricted to members of the Sixth Form. Any friends or younger siblings who are under 16 and who may be invited out at the same time must not consume any alcohol and must be returned to their Houses by 10.00pm. Page 30 of 36 Appendix 5 - Our address is; St Aidan’s House, Ampleforth College, Aumit Lane, Ampleforth, York. YO62 4EP Madame Le Gall’s phone number is 01439 766746 Appendix 6 - Places to stay, places to eat; (Including postcodes for your SAT NAVs)…this list is included for information only and are not to be taken as recommendations – information correct at time of handbook compilation. You might like to try: http://www.tripadvisor.co.uk/Restaurants-g635918-Helmsley_North_Yorkshire_England.html Hotels: The Pheasant Hotel Harome, North Yorkshire. YO62 5JG Phone 01439 771 241 Feversham Arms Hotel 1-8, High St, Helmsley, York, North Yorkshire YO62 5AG Phone 01439 770 766 The Feathers Hotel 5-6, Market Place, Helmsley, North Yorkshire YO62 5BH Phone 01439 770 275 The Star Inn High St, Harome, York, North Yorkshire YO62 5JE Phone 01439 770 397 The Fairfax Arms, Main Street, Gilling East, York, YO62 4JH Phone 01439 788 212 Bed and Breakfasts: Bramble Cottage B&B, Back Lane, Harome, North Yorkshire. YO62 5JA Phone 01439 771 158 Croft House B&B, High Street, Harome, North Yorkshire. YO62 5JE Phone 01439 770 808 Stilworth House, 1, Church St, Helmsley, York, North Yorkshire YO62 5AD Phone 01439 771 072 Page 31 of 36 Betty Leckenby - Argyle House, Ashdale Rd, Helmsley, York, North Yorkshire YO62 5DD Phone 01439 770 590 The Carlton Lodge, 53, Bondgate, Helmsley, York, North Yorkshire YO62 5EY Phone 01439 770 557 Plumpton Court, High St, Nawton, York, North Yorkshire YO62 7TT Phone 01439 771 223 Places for to dine out nearby: The White Swan – Ampleforth YO62 4DA 01439 788 239 The White Horse – Ampleforth YO62 4DX 01439 788 378 Beadlam Grange Farmshop and Café – nr Helmsley YO62 7TD 01439 772 392 The Black Swan – Oldstead village (between Thirsk & Ampleforth) YO61 4BL 01347 868 387 The Feversham Arms Hotel – Helmsley YO62 5AG 01439 770 766 Gepetto’s Italian Restaurant – Helmsley YO62 5BG 01439 770 479 The Pheasant Hotel – Harome ~ 2 miles from Helmsley YO62 5JG 01439 771 241 The Star Inn – Harome ~ 2 miles from Helmsley YO62 5JE 01439 770 397 The Helmsley Spice – Helmsley YO62 5BG 01439 771 777 or 770 131 The Desai Spice club – Nawton village ~ 2 miles from Helmsley YO62 7SU 01439 772 400 The Hare Inn, Scawton near Helmsley, YO7 2HG 01845 597 769 The Durham Ox, Crayke village (between A’forth & York), YO61 4TE 01347 821 506 Page 32 of 36 Appendix 7 – Forward term dates Autumn Term 2015 Monday 7 September 2015 Students Return Tuesday 8 September 2015 Teaching begins – Day students return Friday 25 September 2015 Students Depart – Exeat weekend Monday 28 September 2015 Students Return Tuesday 29 September 2015 Teaching begins – Day students return Thursday 22 October 2015 Students Depart – Half-term Monday 2 November 2015 Students Return Tuesday 3 November 2015 Teaching begins – Day students return Friday 20 November 2015 Students Depart – Exeat weekend Monday 23 November 2015 Students Return Tuesday 24 November 2015 Teaching begins – Day students return Thursday 17 December 2015 Students Depart – End of Term Lent Term 2016 Thursday 7 January 2016 Students Return Friday 8 January 2016 Teaching begins – Day students return Friday 12 February 2016 Students Depart – Half-term Monday 22 February 2016 Students Return Tuesday 23 February 2016 Teaching begins – Day students return Friday 18 March 2016 Students Depart – End of Term Page 33 of 36 Summer Term 2016 Tuesday 12 April 2016 Students Return Wednesday 13 April 2016 Teaching begins – Day students return Saturday 28 May 2016 Exhibition Sunday 29 May 2016 Students Depart – Half-term Sunday 5 June 2016 Students Return Monday 6 June 2016 Teaching begins – Day students return Saturday 2 July 2016 Students Depart – Summer holidays Future term dates and a detailed calendar can be found at; http://www.college.ampleforth.org.uk/theschool/term-dates Page 34 of 36 Page 35 of 36 A 1st year social Page 36 of 36 The Upper Sixth before their Leaver’s Ball
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