MODULE Communication LESSON The Wisest People Don’ tHa v eAl l t he Answers: Learn to Sa y , “ I Don’ t Know! ” Copyright © 2004, Marc McCulloch and Troy Behrens for ASCL Educational Services, Inc. Module: Communication Lesson: IDon’ tKnow! Table of Contents Overview ...............................................................................................................3 Teacher Preparation .............................................................................................5 Exercise 1: Pre-Quiz Directions & Answer Key .....................................................6 Ex er ci se1:“ IDon’ tKnow! ”Pr e-Quiz.....................................................................7 Exercise 2: Quote and Anecdote of the Day .........................................................8 Ex er ci se3:Vi deoVi gnet t e:“ TheWi sestPeopl eDon’ tHav eAl lt he Answer s:Lear nt oSay ,‘ IDon’ tKnow! ’” .............................................................10 Ex er ci se4:Admi tYouDon’ tHav eAl lt heAns wer s.............................................11 Exercise 5: Over-confidence Role-Play...............................................................14 Exercise 6: Credit Hogs.......................................................................................18 Exercise 7: Wrap-Up:“ TheWi s estPeopl eDon’ tHav eAl lt he Answer s:Lear nt oSay ,‘ IDon’ tKnow! ’” .............................................................23 Copyright © 2004, Marc McCulloch and Troy Behrens for ASCL Educational Services, Inc. Page 2 Module: Communication Lesson: IDon’ tKnow! Overview Purpose To teach students the importance of telling your employer the truth about your limitations and commitments in the workplace and learn to share credit with others when credit is due. National Career Development Standards Standard 1: Understanding the influence of a positive self-concept. Standard 2: Skills to interact positively with others. Standard 5: Understanding the need for positive attitudes toward work and learning. National Career Development Benchmarks Students will be able to. . . Benchmark 1.b: Demonstrate the ability to use peer feedback. Benchmark 2.c: Describe appropriate employer and employee interactions in various situations. Benchmark 2.d: Demonstrate how to express feelings, reactions, and ideas in an appropriate manner. Benchmark 5.e: Demonstrate positive work attitudes and behaviors. Think and Discuss 1. Why is it important to tell your employer, employee, or customer your limitations if you do not know something asked of you? 2. Why should you accept credit with humility rather than as a credit hog? Copyright © 2004, Marc McCulloch and Troy Behrens for ASCL Educational Services, Inc. Page 3 Lesson: IDon’ tKnow! Module: Communication SCANS Bl oom’ sTa x ono my Multiple Intelligences Fundamental Skills This lesson uses 8 of the 16 EFF Standards Basic Skills Thinking Skills Personal Qualities Workplace Competencies Resources Interpersonal Information Systems Technology Equipped for the Future (EFF) Standards Knowledge Comprehension Application Analysis Synthesis Evaluation Bodily/Kinesthetic Visual/Spatial Logical/Mathematical Verbal/Linguistic Musical/Rhythmical Naturalist Interpersonal Intrapersonal Resolve Conflict and Negotiate Observe Critically Listen Actively Solve Problems and Make Decisions Cooperate with Others Guide Others Take Responsibility for learning Reflect and Evaluate Copyright © 2004, Marc McCulloch and Troy Behrens for ASCL Educational Services, Inc. Page 4 Module: Communication Lesson: IDon’ tKnow! Teacher Preparation Class Materials Copy the following exercises for distribution to students: Exercise 1: “ IDon’ tKnow! ”Pr e-Quiz p. 7 Exercise 4: “ IDon’ tKnow! ”- The Play pp. 12-13 Exercise 5: Over-Confidence/Arrogance Scenarios 1 and 2 (five copies of each scenario) pp. 15-16 Exercise 6: Copies of the Credit-Hog Brain-Teaser Assignments for your role-play groups (only share the answer to the assignment with the WONDER KID) p. 21 Overhead templates for teacher use Exercise 1: “ IDon’ tKnow! ”Pr e-Quiz p. 7 Exercise 2: Quote and Anecdote of the Day p. 9 Exercise 4: “ IDon’ tKnow! ”- The Play pp.12-13 Key Words 1. Credit Hog 2. Quarter (3 months of a year = 1 quarter) 3. Arrogant 4. Over-Confident Copyright © 2004, Marc McCulloch and Troy Behrens for ASCL Educational Services, Inc. Page 5 Module: Communication Lesson: IDon’ tKnow! Exercise 1: Pre-Quiz Directions & Answer Key Teacher Directions This exercise should take only 5 minutes with some discussion after each question. A teacher copy is provided with the answers. Step 1: Have students take the 6-quest i on“ IDon’ tKnow! ”qui zt ocheckf or understanding. Step 2: Review the questions with students to correct misconceptions they may have regarding the importance of honesty in the workplace. Step 3: Transition to Exercise 2: Quote and Anecdote of the Day. Answer Key 1. False 2. C 3. A 4. E 5. True Copyright © 2004, Marc McCulloch and Troy Behrens for ASCL Educational Services, Inc. Page 6 Module: Communication Lesson: IDon’ tKnow! Exercise 1: “IDon’ tKnow! ”Pre-Quiz 1. The best employees have the answers for every problem they face. True False 2. Wheny out el ly ourbos s,“ Idon’ tknowt heanswer , ”i tmeans: a. b. c. d. e. You are an idiot You are inexperienced You are honest All of the above Only A and B 3. Whi choft hef ol l owi ngshoul dy ousayaf t ery out el ly ourboss,“ Idon’ tknowt he answer …. . ” ?(Circle all that apply) a. b. c. d. e. f. “ …buti fy ougi v emeaf ewhour s,Ic angett heanswerf ory ou. ” “ …I ’ m sor r y ,Ican’ tdoev er y t hi ngar oundher e. ” “ …whatdoy ouex pectf r om me? I ’ m newar oundher e. ” “ …. andIr eal l yf eelst upi dabouti t . ” All of the above Only A, B, and C 4. If you are confronted with a situation when you could potentially look stupid for not knowing something, you should NEVER: a. b. c. d. e. Pretend like you do know the answer Get defensive Feel stupid Cry All of the above 5. If you are someone who likes to hog all the credit and get all the attention, you wi l lmostl i kel yhav et r oubl et el l i ngy ourbosst haty oudon’ thav eas ol ut i ont oa problem. True False Copyright © 2004, Marc McCulloch and Troy Behrens for ASCL Educational Services, Inc. Page 7 Module: Communication Lesson: IDon’ tKnow! Exercise 2: Quote and Anecdote of the Day Teacher Directions You may want to write the quote on the board to focus student thought on t he“IDon’ tKnow”l esson.Di scusst hequest i onspr ovi dedbel ow wi t hyour students. This exercise should take 5 minutes. Step 1: Have a selected student read the quote aloud. Ask students the following question: What does Shakespeare mean by this quote as it relates to admitting that you do not have all the answers? Step 2: Have a selected student read aloud the anecdote from the career counselor. Ask students the following question: Why does the career couns el oradv i seust oj ustsay“ IDon’ tKnow”r at her than say responses that appear to be protecting our lack of knowledge? Step 3: Proceed to Exercise 3: Video Vignette: “ TheWi sestPeopl eDon’ tHav e Al lt heAnswer s:Lear nt oSay‘ IDon’ tKnow! ’” Copyright © 2004, Marc McCulloch and Troy Behrens for ASCL Educational Services, Inc. Page 8 Module: Communication Lesson: IDon’ tKnow! Quote 1 "The fool doth think he is wise, but the wise man knows himself to be a fool." - Shakespeare, As You Like It Anecdote 1 “ Justl i kemi l l i onsofot herst udent s,whenIs ai d,“ Idon’ tk now”in school, I was laughed at, teased, or given a bad grade from my teacher. As youngsters, we ar et r ai nedt oal way shav et her i ghtanswer .I fwedon’ thav et heanswer s,we think we are stupid. When we leave school and begin our work careers, we are still expected to have answers and knowledge. However, we are not expected to have information about all of the questions that come our way. In fact, nobody does. If someone acts like he/she does, then you will know that person is faking it. You will also notice that when you are working and you ask someone a question that he/she cannot answer, you might get some interesting responses. Some people might say: “ I nt er est i ngt hought . ” “ That ’ sagr eatquest i on. ” “ Inev ert houghtofi tt hatway . ” “ That ’ sauni quei ssue. ” “ Whatapr obl em! ” If you hear people use the responses abov e,y oucanbecer t ai nt hatt heydon’ t knowt heanswerandt heydon’ twanty out ok nowt heydon’ tk now!Thepoi nti s, manypeopl ewi l lav oi dsay i ng,“ Idon’ tknow. ”Makesur ey ouar enotoneof those people. You will learn more and gain more respect from others when you use those three little words instead of pretending otherwise.” - Career Counselor Copyright © 2004, Marc McCulloch and Troy Behrens for ASCL Educational Services, Inc. Page 9 Module: Communication Lesson: IDon’ tKnow! Exercise 3: Video Vignette: “TheWi sestPeopl eDon’ tHave Al lt heAnswer s:Lear nt oSay,‘ IDon’ tKnow! ’” Teacher Directions Pl ayt hevi deot i t l ed“ TheWi sestPeopl eDon’ tHaveAl lt heAnswer s:Lear n t oSay,‘ IDon’ tKnow! ’” Di scussi onshoul df ol l ow af t ert hevi deovi gnet t e. This exercise should take 5 minutes to discuss. Step 1: Review the video vignette before introducing the video to your class. Step 2: Show the video and discuss with your class the message provided in the video. Step 3: Transition to Exercise 4: “ Admi tYouDon’ tHav eAl lt heAns wer s. ” Copyright © 2004, Marc McCulloch and Troy Behrens for ASCL Educational Services, Inc. Page 10 Module: Communication Lesson: IDon’ tKnow! Exer ci se4:Admi tYouDon’ tHaveAl lt heAnswer s Teacher Directions Please review this exercise before introducing the topic to your class. This exercise should take 15 minutes to complete. Note: In school, the measure of success is to have all the correct answers. Ev er y onet r i est oget100% cor r ectonev er yex am i nor dert oear nan“ A+” .On the job,i tdoesn’ twor kt hi sway .Ther ei ssi mpl yt oomuchi nf or mat i ont ol ear n and comprehend; there is no way one single person can, or is expected to know it all. Individuals who pretend to have all the answers are usually the first ones to have trouble fitting in. One good rule of thumb is to have the mind-set that everyone in the company knows more than you do about the job, the company, the industry, etc. And in 99% of the cases, if you are a new employee, this is true. Your attitude should be one of a person who is learning and asking quest i onsand,abov eal l ,bei ngcomf or t abl ewi t hadmi t t i ngt haty oudon’ thav eal l t heanswer s.NEVERBEAFRAI DTO SAY,“ IDON’ TKNOW! ”Ast i megoesby , y ouwi l lf i ti nmor ebyr espect i ngot her s’k nowl edgebas ewhi l ebuilding your own. Step 1: Select 4 volunteers. One will play the role of the boss. 3 others will play the roles of entry-level minions. Step 2: Readf r om scr i ptt i t l ed“ IDon’ tKnow. ” Step 3: Process the play by using the following guided questions: What does the class suppose was discussed between the boss and Jones in that impromptu meeting? What could Jones have done in order to avoid the unpleasantness about to befall him/her? Step 4: Transition to Exercise 5: “ Ov er -confidence Role-Pl ay . ” Copyright © 2004, Marc McCulloch and Troy Behrens for ASCL Educational Services, Inc. Page 11 Module: Communication Lesson: IDon’ tKnow! “IDon’ tKnow! ”- The Play Boss: “ Jones ,geti nmyof f i c enow.Iwantt ot al kt oy ou! ” Jones: “ Whati si t ?” Boss: “ Whi chr egi onoft hecount r yhadt hehi ghestsal esl astquar t er ?” Jones: (After thinking to him/herself for a minute:) “ I twast heNor t heast Region; t heyhadabouta37% i ncr easef r om l asty ear ’ st hi r dquar t er . ” Boss: “ Wow,Idi dn’ tr eal i z ei twast hathi gh.Theydi dqui t eat ur nar ound. ” Jones: “ Ohy eah,37% i st r emendous!I fonl yourot herr egi onsc oul ddot hat wel l . ” Boss: “ Gr eat ,t hat ’ sal lIneeded.Goodwor k. ” Jones: “ Thanks,Boss ! ” (Jonesget supandl eavest heboss’ sof f i ce.Af ewsec ondsl at erSmi t hi scal l ed in to see the boss.) Boss: “ Smi t h,geti nher e. ” Smith: “ What ’ sup?” Boss: “ Howdi dt heWest er nr egi ondoons al est hi squar t er ?” Smith: “ Idon’ tknowex act l y .Isawt henumber satagl ance,butIwi l lcheckand getbackt oy oui naf ewmi nut es.I st hatokay ?” Boss: “ Sur e. ” (Ten minutes pass. Smith returns to see his/her boss.) Copyright © 2004, Marc McCulloch and Troy Behrens for ASCL Educational Services, Inc. Page 12 Module: Communication Lesson: IDon’ tKnow! Smith: “ Ok,her ei st hepr i nt outonthe Western region. It says there was a sl i ghti ncr easeov erl as ty ear ’ snumber s.Theyonl yi ncr eased1. 5% t hi squar t er . ” Boss: “ That ’ snotv er yi mpr essi v e.Acc or di ngt oJones,t heNor t heastbl ewt he West out of the water with a 37% increase over last year. ” Smith: “ Wow,Idi dn’ tr eal i z ei twast hathi gh.Ther es toft hecount r ysaw significant decreases in sales. I thought for sure that the 1.5% the West had was enough to get them the quarterly award of recognition. But it looks like the Northeast wont heawar dt hi st i me. ” Boss: “ Lookst hatway .I ’ l lgi v et heNor t heastr egi on’ ssal esdi r ect oracal lnow andc ongr at ul at eherper sonal l y . ” (Smith gets up and leaves. Boss is on the phone with the Northeast sales director.) Boss: “ Sal l y ,congr at sona job well-done. You have made me very proud becausei ns pi t eofourcompany ’ snat i onwi depat het i cs al esr et ur ns,y ourr egi on has risen above the weak economy. I can remember when you first started with this company only four years ago. You had so much promise and now it has come to fruition. In a time when our other sales directors are having such a difficult time keeping the company afloat, your region is setting a positive example for those discouraged souls. It will be a true honor to present you with the Quarterly Regional Sales Award at our national directors meeting in San Francisco next week. It will be an especially proud moment for me because I was the person who interviewed and hired you four years ago when you were only a sales associate. To think; you turned around an entire region by 37%! Thati sas t oundi ng! ” Sally: “ I ’ m get t i ngal lt hi sr ecogni t i onbecaus eourr egi oni sdown 37%? I t houghty ouwoul dbecal l i ngt of i r eme. ” Boss: “ Whatar et al k i ngabout ?” Sally: “ The Northeast region is 37% below l asty ear ’ snumber s.Di dy ou act ual l yt hi nkwemadeposi t i v egai nst hi squar t er ?” Boss: “ I ’ l lhav et oc al ly ouback. ” (Boss hangs up.) Boss: “ Jones ! Get in here! Iwantt ot al kt oy ou! ” THE END Copyright © 2004, Marc McCulloch and Troy Behrens for ASCL Educational Services, Inc. Page 13 Module: Communication Lesson: IDon’ tKnow! Exercise 5: Over-confidence Role-Play Teacher Directions Please review the material before introducing the topic to the class. This exercise should take 15 minutes to complete. Not e:Par tofl ear ni nghow t oadmi twhenyoudon’ thaveal lt heanswer si s to keep your ego in check. Folks with huge and delicate egos are usually t hef ol kswhohavet r oubl esayi ng,“Idon’ tknow”f r om t i met ot i me. Learning what it means to be over-confident or“ar r ogant ”i scr i t i calt oyour success. Step 1: Read the following scenarios to the class and then choose volunteers to demonstrate them for the class. Explain how others actually perceive and label someone as arrogant or over-confident. Step 2: Discuss each of the following scenarios and use the questions after each scenario as guiding questions. Ask students to think of recent examples of how they might have acted over-confident or arrogant. Note: The moral of this exercise is that we have to be aware of our behavior and the behavior of others. It is imperative that we are not arrogant nor over-confident in front of others. In addition, we should be mindful of those individuals who continuously act arrogant and over-confident. Rarely will you see these individuals succeed; the majority of the time, they end up creating more problems than they provide solutions. Step 3: Transition to Exercise 6: “ Cr edi tHogs. ” Copyright © 2004, Marc McCulloch and Troy Behrens for ASCL Educational Services, Inc. Page 14 Module: Communication Lesson: IDon’ tKnow! Over-Confidence/Arrogance Scenario 1: (3 volunteers) Employee #1: “ Whatar ewegoi ngt odowi t ht hi spr oj ect ?I t ’ sduei naf ew hours, andwedon’ teven have a starting point yet!” Employee #2: “ Iwi s ht heboss would have explained this to us a little more cl ear l y . ” Employee #3: “ Wel l ,oneofusshoul dgoandaskhi m whatt odo. ” Employee #1: “ Noway !Youdoi t !I ’ m notgoi ngt ol ookst upi d! ” Employee #3: “ Yout woar ebabi es .Don’ twor r yaboutat hi ng.We’ l lbe f i ne…l et ’ sgett owor k. ” Guiding Questions and Discussion: Is this an example of over-confidence or arrogance? Who was acting arrogant or over-confident in this role-play? Howcoul dt hi sper son’ sov er -confidence get the group in trouble? Whatcoul dt hegr oupdot odef l at et he“ wr ong”per son’ sbehav i or ? Did anyone in the group do or say the right thing at any point in the roleplay? Can the students relate to this sort of behavior in themselves or others? Ask someone to describe a similar situation that might have happened to him/her. How does it make them feel when someone is acting over-confident or is arrogant? Copyright © 2004, Marc McCulloch and Troy Behrens for ASCL Educational Services, Inc. Page 15 Module: Communication Lesson: IDon’ tKnow! Over-Confidence/Arrogance Scenario 2: (4 volunteers) Employee #1: “ OK,s oi fwet hi nkaboutourt ar getaudi enc ef ort hi smar keting plan, we will realize that they are primarily college students ages 19-24. ” Employee #2: "Right, that means we have to have a marketing plan that will be colorful, full of energy, andex ci t i ng.Notf ul loff act sort ex t . ” Employee #3: “ Iagr ee.Do either of you know how to put such a plan t oget her ?” Employee #2: “ Ihav en’ tdoneany t hi ngl i ket hi sbef or e,butwecanaskar ound andf i nds omeonet ohel pus. ” Employee #1: “ It hi nkIr ememberhear i ngSal l yment i onshewor kedona project like this l asty ear .Let ’ sseei fshewi l lgi v eussomeadv i ce. ” Employee #3: “ Goodi dea.Icangi v eherac al li fi t ’ sokaywi t ht her estofy ou. ” (Employee #4 barges into the meeting.) Employee #4: “ Heyguy s,whatar ey oudoi ng?” Employee #2: “ Wor ki ngonthe college student marketing plan. We are kind of st uck,butwedeci dedt ot al kt oSal l yaboutaf ewi t ems.Wet hi nks hecanhel p. ” Employee #4: “ Badi dea.WhatdoesSal l yknow? I ’ v ebeendoi ngt hi sst uf ff or ten years. You guys are in luck, I happent ohav eaf ewhour sopen.I ’ l lhang ar oundandt eac hy ouat hi ngort woaboutmar ket i ng!Ri ngt hebel l ,school ’ si n sessi on! ” Employee #1: “ Act ual l y ,we…. . ” Employee #4: “ Okay ,t hef i r stt hi ngy ouneedt odoi s…. . ” Copyright © 2004, Marc McCulloch and Troy Behrens for ASCL Educational Services, Inc. Page 16 Module: Communication Lesson: IDon’ tKnow! Guiding Questions and Discussion: Is this an example of over-confidence or arrogance? Who was acting arrogant or over-confident in this role-play? Howcoul dt hi sper son’ sov er -confidence get the group into trouble? Whatcoul dt hegr oupdot odef l at et he“ wr ong”per son’ sbehav i or ? Did anyone in the group do or say the right thing at any point in the roleplay? Can the students relate to this sort of behavior in themselves or others? Ask someone to describe a similar situation that might have happened to him/her. How does it make them feel when someone is acting over-confident or is arrogant? Copyright © 2004, Marc McCulloch and Troy Behrens for ASCL Educational Services, Inc. Page 17 Module: Communication Lesson: IDon’ tKnow! Exercise 6: Credit Hogs Teacher Directions Please review the information before introducing the topic to your class. This exercise should take 15 minutes to complete. Note: The Teacher should bring a bag of candy to class for the reward or “ payment ”f oraj obwel l -done for the workers. Bring enough candy for the entire class. Quite often, when someone has difficulty with admitting he/she does not have an answer to a problem, he or she is hungry for credit. Credit for a job well-done, admi r at i onf r om cowor ker s,pr ai sef r om asuper vi sor …t hesear eal lf uel st hat feed the fire of the CREDIT HOGS. This exercise will demonstrate how wanting to hog all the credit can get a person into trouble. Teacher Review of Exercise: Before the exercise begins (best if done before class), identify one student who will be the CREDIT HOG and another who will be the WONDER KID. Do this discreetly so the rest of the class does not know he/she has been chosen. Do this with one student at a time so they think that t heyar et heonl y“ pr opact or s. ”I ti sver yi mpor t antt hatt heCREDI THOG and t heWONDERKI Ddonotk nowt heyar eeac h“ pr opact or s. ”Tel lt heCREDI T HOG that his/her job will be to act like he/she is the reason all of the work was completed in the group. The CREDIT HOG will be very loud and very opinionated about the great job he/she did while the group was working on the problems. Tell the WONDER KID that his/her job is to have the solutions to the problems the entire time the group is working on the problems. At the last minute, he/she will single-handedly solve the problems and keep the credit for him/herself. The teacher will provide the answers to the WONDER KID. When the WONDER KID speaks during the exercise discussions, he/she is to act in an arrogant, betterthan-thou manner. For the CREDIT HOG, the solutions to the problems are irrelevant, the point is that the group will NEVER be able to solve all of the problems in the short time you give them (except for the WONDER KID), but the CREDIT HOG is going to act like he/she knows how to do the job. The CREDIT HOG is going to fake having the answers and the CREDIT HOG is going to be over-confident and arrogant—leaving the rest of the group quiet and uninformed. However, during the group problem-solving exercise, while the teacher has left the room, the Copyright © 2004, Marc McCulloch and Troy Behrens for ASCL Educational Services, Inc. Page 18 Module: Communication Lesson: IDon’ tKnow! credit hog is to remain relatively quiet and does not contribute to the solution of the problems. Select 6 volunteers. (One will be the secret CREDIT HOG; one will be the secret WONDER KID; and four other students.) Step 1: Ask the 6 volunteers to sit in chairs or on the floor in a circle. The rest of the class can watch from the perimeter. Step 2: Tell the group that you are going to give them some problems to solve. You are the owner of a small company and they are your employees. Tell them that once you leave the room, it is up to them to get the job done. When you return, you will be asking for information that pertains to the job. The reward for a job well-done will be candy from your bag of goodies. Step 3: Give the team their assignment (see the three “ br ai n-t eas er ” assignments below; write them on the board or copy and handout the assignments to the six students). They are to solve the three problems for you. Step 4: Tell the team that they have 2 minutes to solve the problems. Leave the room and return in exactly 2 minutes. Remember, the CREDIT HOG does not have to participate. He/she can sit there quietly in order to hide his/her cover. Same with the WONDER KID. Step 5: Enter the room and ask the group how the project went. This is the prompt for the CREDIT HOG to take over. He/she is supposed to be bragging about how he/she has led the group, how he/she thinks that these problems could have been solved easily, but they needed more time, etc. He can discredit t her estoft hegr oupasanex cuseast owhyt hepr obl emswer en’ ts ol v edon time. He/she should say that the rest of the group kept complaining about how hard the problems were andhowt heydi dn’ tk nowt heanswer s.( Thi sout bur st should be a surprise to the WONDER KID because this was his/her time to shine and astonish the class with his/her expert knowledge). Step 6: After letting the CREDIT HOG ramble on for a short time, interrupt and tell the group that you still expect to have some answers. Step 7: This is the prompt for the WONDER KID to jump up to the board and magically solve the problems that the teacher has supplied before-hand. Step 8: Ask the students in the team (the non-CREDIT HOG and non-WONDER KID students) if the allegations are true. Did they not provide any knowledge to the group? Ask them if it is true that the CREDIT HOG was the group leader. Copyright © 2004, Marc McCulloch and Troy Behrens for ASCL Educational Services, Inc. Page 19 Module: Communication Lesson: IDon’ tKnow! Ask them who really solved the problems and how they did it. This should be the prompt for the WONDER KID to act arrogant and brag about how smart he/she is. Step 9: Let the 4 non-prop actors defend their situation. See if they take a strong stance, if they name call or accuse or blame the WONDER KID or CREDIT HOG for wrongdoing. While they defend themselves, give the WONDER KID candy for his/her contributions. Give the CREDIT HOG candy for his/her contributions. This should make the other team members a little hotter. Tell them to save their candy, not to eat it just yet. Step 10: Stop the role-play! Tell the entire class that the WONDER KID and CREDIT HOG are actors intended to prove a point. Explain how they were given directions before class to interfere with the group process. Step 11: Process and Discuss. Have a serious discussion about how the 4 nonprop actors felt. How did they feel when the CREDIT HOG took over? How did they feel when the WONDER KID came from out of nowhere and solved the problems without sharing with the rest of the group? How did they feel when they were not able to contribute to the answers yet others were claiming all the credit? Ask the same questions of the rest of the class. What did they observe? What could the non-prop actors have done to better position themselves in the group and especially with the boss? Now take the candy away from the CREDIT HOG and WONDER KID. Tell them that the behavior they displayed might get rewarded in the short term, but ALWAYS gets discovered later. Pass out candy to the entire class!! Moral of this exercise: Never be a CREDIT HOG nor a WONDER KID. Step 12: Transition to Exercise 7: Wrap-Up:“ TheWi s estPeopl eDon’ tHav eal l t heAnswer s:Lear nt oSay ,‘ IDon’ tKnow! ’” Copyright © 2004, Marc McCulloch and Troy Behrens for ASCL Educational Services, Inc. Page 20 Lesson: IDon’ tKnow! Module: Communication Brain-Teaser Assignment No. 1 CONNECT ALL 9 DOTS WITH FOUR STRAIGHT LINES WITHOUT LIFTING THE CHALK OFF THE BOARD (or pen off the paper). * * * * * * * * * Brain-Teaser Assignment No. 2 Make the Roman Numeral below (a 9) into a 6. IX Brain-Teaser Assignment No. 3 Prove that 6+5 = NINE Copyright © 2004, Marc McCulloch and Troy Behrens for ASCL Educational Services, Inc. Page 21 Lesson: IDon’ tKnow! Module: Communication Assignment No. 1 Answer for WONDER KID CONNECT ALL 9 DOTS WITH FOUR STRAIGHT LINES WITHOUT LIFTING THE CHALK OR PEN OFF THE BOARD. * * * * * * * * * The red line is the first line, green is the second, blue is the third and pink is the forth. The key to the puzzle ise x t e n d i n gt h el i n e sp a s t t h e“ b o x e sb o r d e r s . ” Assignment No. 2 Answer for WONDER KID Make the Roman Numeral below (a 9) into a 6. IX Al ly ouneedt odoher ei saddan“ S”i nf r ontoft heRomanNumer al “ I X”andy ou wi l lhav e“ SI X” ! ! SIX Assignment #3 Answer for WONDER KID Prove that 6+5= Nine We all know that6a n d5e qu a l11.Bu ti fy oubr e a kdownt hewor d“ NI NE”i n t o individual lines, you will see that it is made up of 11 lines: There you have it, 6+5= NINE Copyright © 2004, Marc McCulloch and Troy Behrens for ASCL Educational Services, Inc. Page 22 Module: Communication Lesson: IDon’ tKnow! Exercise 7: Wrap-Up:“TheWi sestPeopl eDon’ tHaveAl l t heAnswer s:Lear nt oSay,‘ IDon’ tKnow! ’” Teacher Directions This exercise should take 5 minutes. Step 1: Have students answer and journal their responses to the following questions: 1. Why is it important to tell your employer, employee, or customer your limitations if you do not know something asked of you? 2. Why should you accept credit with humility rather than as a credit hog? Final Thoughts Be honest with yourself and others if you are asked to do something that you do not have the capability of doing. When we are honest with others aboutourcapabi l i t i eswi t hst at ement ssuchas,“Idonotknow t heanswer , butIcangetyout heansweri n2hour s, ”t hemessagei soneofhonest y, but you also have indicated that you are willing to learn from your limitations. Employers, peers, and customers appreciate this attribute in a person. All of us at one time or another will receive inaccurate information from others because they want to look like they know something when they r eal l ydon’ t .I tcanbeannoyi ng,i nef f i ci ent ,cost l y,andsomet i mes dangerous when people do this. Please avoid the credit hog trap at all cost andsay“Idon’ tknow”whenyour eal l ydon’ tknow. Copyright © 2004, Marc McCulloch and Troy Behrens for ASCL Educational Services, Inc. Page 23
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