IGNITE BRILLIANCE
in your Texting
THIS TOOL IS FOR PERSONAL
PRIVATE USE.
© Copyright 2016 by
AmyK International, Inc.
All rights reserved.
Women’s Version - Romance
This texting tool is designed to enhance your
PERSONAL, PRIVATE relationship.
AmyK Hutchens and AmyK International, Inc. are not
authorized to provide legal, accounting, family counseling or therapeutic professional advice. You fully
understand that this tool is used at your own risk.
If legal or therapeutic advice or other professional
assistance is required, the services of a competent
professional in these areas of expertise should be
sought.
AmyK Hutchens and AmyK International, Inc. do not
accept any responsibility for any liabilities resulting
from the actions or decisions of any parties involved.
Content in this document is suggestive and
provocative. You may blush.
If you read beyond this cover page, you do so of
your own accord and accept full responsibility for the
results of any actions you take with respect to this
material.
IGNITE BRILLIANCE in your conversation
THIS TOOL IS NOT FOR
PROFESSIONAL PURPOSES.
1
2061 San Elijo Avenue | Cardiff-by-the-Sea, California 92007 | [email protected] | www.amyk.com
IGNITE BRILLIANCE
in your Texting
Women’s Version - Romance
It’s no different when it comes
to texting.
Headed Home Sequence Starters
Spark appreciation, respect,
energy - and romance - into
your texts and reap the rewards
in your relationships.
You, texting your hubby or significant other, after
a long conference or days of meetings away:
True stories:
Woman texts her husband the
Headed Home sequence and
gets greeted at the airport with
champagne!
Man texts his wife the Biz Travel
memory sequence and his wife
texts him back a message that
he couldn’t repeat. Though he
did turn bright red and thanked
AmyK profusely.
Woman texts her husband the
Headed Home sequence and
discovers not only that he texts
(he’d never texted her before)
but that he even knows how to
use sweet emoticons!
Woman texts her boyfriend a
Biz-zy Day sequence filled with
suggestive fantasy... and her
fantasy turned into reality that
evening. ;-)
Hey. Grt conf. Super tired. Boarding in 5.
Remember to grab team drinks. I told Coach
you’d bring drinks tonite.
There’s nothing wrong with this text...well, if your marriage ended a decade ago and you no longer want
romance with your best friend.
BUT... if you are desiring to spark some sexual chemistry back into your relationship, you must write texts
infused with fun flirtatiousness.
The above text communicates only two things:
1. You’re tired - so he’s not gettin’ any when you get
home.
2. You don’t trust him to be accountable for drinks.
Not exactly a love connection.
But he won’t totally dismiss you. I mean, there was
a day... a long, long, long, long time ago, when you
made him feel like a total stud-muffin.
So he will respond with:
Him:
K
IGNITE BRILLIANCE in your conversation
Life happens one conversation
at a time.
2
2061 San Elijo Avenue | Cardiff-by-the-Sea, California 92007 | [email protected] | www.amyk.com
Hey. :-)
Can’t stop thinking about…
The above text starts a story...an intriguing one.
Your hubby is curious and will want to know exactly
what’s up.
Him:
What?
And it continues with...
Your arms around me. How good you’re going
to feel when I get home.
Depending on the current state of your relationship,
he might respond with:
Who is this?
Just teasing - I hope!
So keep it going... take it one step further:
Your arms around me. How good you’re going
to feel when I get home.
Tonight I’m going to…
Him:
Going to what?
IGNITE BRILLIANCE in your conversation
A more brilliant Headed Home sequence:
3
2061 San Elijo Avenue | Cardiff-by-the-Sea, California 92007 | [email protected] | www.amyk.com
Him:
Hurry home! Miss you
He’s too excited to even use punctuation. ;-)
And...more than likely, you’ll get an even better
response than the one above!
Elements of flirtation and curiosity, mixed with a
winky face, let him know that you are PLAYING. You
are injecting FUN into the banter which makes him
a lot more excited to banter back and to make you
happy when you get home.
Another spark for a Headed Home sequence:
Miss you. Dreamt of you last night... too hot to
share in a text, but you know what?
What?
I think we should turn my fantasy into reality
tomorrow night. xoxoxo Game?!
Game!!!!!
IGNITE BRILLIANCE in your conversation
Tonight I’m going to show you how sexy I
find you by… oh, we’re boarding. You’ll have
to find out when I get there. :-)
4
2061 San Elijo Avenue | Cardiff-by-the-Sea, California 92007 | [email protected] | www.amyk.com
You, texting your hubby or significant other, the first
night away on a trip:
You:
Forgot to tell you on my way out this morning
that I so appreciate all you do. You are an
amazing man, and I’m very lucky you chose me.
Him:
:-)
You know what I’m already wishing?
;-)
What?
That you had come with me. Such a shame to
waste this big, empty bed. xoxo
Another spark for a Just Left sequence:
Missing you already. If you were here, you know
what I’d be doing?
What?
or
Watching tv in your
flannels anyway?!
Crawling on top of you and reminding you of
what hotel rooms are really good for... ;-)
When are u coming
home???!!!!
*
* Note:
If text banter is now established,
your partner may start being silly,
irreverent or flirty back - go with
it! The responses here are typical
of new texting patterns.
If sexting is new and the romantic vibe is low, you might even
get a snarky response. Ignore it.
DO NOT RESPOND. Go forward
as if you received no response at
all - you are creating a new behavioral exchange.
IGNITE BRILLIANCE in your conversation
Just Left Sequence Starters
5
2061 San Elijo Avenue | Cardiff-by-the-Sea, California 92007 | [email protected] | www.amyk.com
I know, I know, you don’t really have time to be flirty during
the day, but that’s the POINT. You are a busy woman, and HE
IS STILL A PRIORITY. HE STILL RINGS YOUR CHIMES AND
YOU LIKE IT! And yes, you actually do have 3-5 minutes for
your best friend. And if you THINK you don’t... call me - I’ll
give you an earful about priorities! ;-)
You, texting your hubby or significant other, during a
typical business day:
You:
You need to please stop. :-)
Him:
Stop what?
Distracting me. ;-)
How?
or
Can I distract you tonight?
Another spark for a Biz-zy Day sequence:
So tell me... ;-)
What? :-)
Why I find you so irresistably wonderful and
sexy... xoxoxo
*
* Note:
Two can play this game. If you
start showing him that texts from
you are fun and flirty, he’ll get excited to play with you.
Just remember... it’s rare to receive a super long text unless he
feels the need to vent, explainsomething or has simply had too
much to drink! ;-)
Some men get graphic fast, or
will want you to get graphic. YOU
SET THE TONE. Only text what
you’re comfortable with texting.
IGNITE BRILLIANCE in your conversation
Biz-zy Day Sequence Starters
6
2061 San Elijo Avenue | Cardiff-by-the-Sea, California 92007 | [email protected] | www.amyk.com
It’s fun when we are unexpectedly surprised with a sweet,
sexy or loving text that appears on our phone...”just beause.”
It’s even better when we get rewarded for it!
You, texting your hubby or significant other, during a
typical business day...just because:
You did it again... ;-)
What?
or
Made me smile. :-)
:-)
I’m sorry. for whatever
Don’t be. I was referring to you making me smile. :-)
or
I’ll give you something to smile about tonight ;-)
Another spark for a Just Because sequence:
I can’t help but wonder... ;-)
* Pick any flirty game or response
that you feel comfortable with:
Twister
Simon says (only with your hubby’s name inserted for Simon)
Strip Poker
Truth or Dare
What?
if we might play a new game tonight... in bed...
xoxoxo
What kind of game?
Maybe instead of Simon says... we can play
Doug says.... xoxoxo
*
If you’re not comfortable with the
idea of a game your second text
could say instead:
If we were home... alone... in
bed... what you might do to me if
I asked you to seduce me.
IGNITE BRILLIANCE in your conversation
Just Because Sequence Starters
7
2061 San Elijo Avenue | Cardiff-by-the-Sea, California 92007 | [email protected] | www.amyk.com
YOU WILL BE AMAZED at how quickly he responds to your texts when they are sexy,
suggestive, and spark his imagination. And there is a reward for sexting! ;-)
TECHNICAL FOUL:
Always be flirty and dirty to the extent that you are comfortable. Text as suggestively
and as improperly as you want, and if you ever feel the need to reign it in, you can.
You’re in charge. If he texts something that makes you groan, and not in a good way,
put the brakes on it, shift the conversation, or be super direct: Not going to happen,
but nice try. ;-) ... I was thinking more along the lines of... or, you may need to be more
direct, such as: hmmm, my text was flirty and fun, but what you just wrote back is
scary. If he loves you and respects you (and I’m assuming he does) then he’ll text back
with a contrite and loving response. Remember, he wants to be rewarded too!
Life is full. Way too full, so take a few seconds to enjoy it, to remember that underneath
your business jacket is a sexy woman who has every right to be flirty and dirty in the
privacy of her most important relationship.
IGNITE BRILLIANCE in your conversation
Texting on occasion will be about the activities of daily living. That’s understandable
and necessary. HOWEVER... the majority of your texts to your husband or significant
other should be playful, appreciative, sexy, fun and flirtatious. He is your lover. He is
your best friend. He is a man!
8
2061 San Elijo Avenue | Cardiff-by-the-Sea, California 92007 | [email protected] | www.amyk.com