action Issue 43, Winter INSIDE COMING OUT - the secret dilemma OCD at Work Don’t let OCD steal your dreams - MEMBER’S STORY Plus regular features & listings Issue 43, Winter 1 Welcome Dear Friends, As you can see from the front of this newsletter, we have updated our logo. I hope that you like the new style, it’s fresh and modern but most important of all is the strapline, Issue WINTE43, R COVER STORY: cret dilemma p 6 coming out – the se This is meant for all of us. We need to take action to explain to people about OCD. We need to ensure that more teachers, school counsellors, GPs and others in the community all recognise the symptoms of OCD as soon as possible. We need to Act to make sure that primary care trusts have in place CBT treatment without long waiting lists. We need to Act to make sure that the public are aware of mental illness and we need to fight hard to remove the stigma. This year we launched our advocacy service in the north-west. I was delighted to attend the first training session put on by Jude in Manchester. We had a fantastic turnout from support groups gathering together from all over the country. It was a truly wonderful day and I was privileged to meet so many of the support group leaders and hear about the very important work that they are doing. There was a real sense of action on the day and I, along with many others, felt energised and empowered. We have also now launched OCD Week, the first of its kind in the country. OCD Week (6th – 13th February 2010) is not just about conferences and webinars, it is also about the Day of Action. We are already helping a 2 number of people put on their own awareness events in their community, lifting the veil of ignorance that surrounds OCD. We are doing all these things but we need your help. Why not join our growing list of awareness champions to spread the word about OCD? Why not get onto our new online forums and give support, encouragement and friendship to others or sign up to take part in OCD Week’s Day of Action? There are lots of ways that you can take action yourself and we are here to help you. Please visit our new website, www.ocdaction.org.uk or call the office for more information. So as I sign off this letter at the end of 2009, I want to say thanks to all of you who are part of OCD Action; our volunteers, support group leaders, our forum moderators and staff. I look forward to working with you all in the New Year and taking action to improve the lives of those affected by OCD. Wishing you all Happy Christmas and Season’s Greetings, Daniel Contents Welcome to the latest edition of “action”, our members newsletter. We received lots of positive feedback after our recent redesign and have responded to requests for more practical information and strong cover stories. As ever, if you have any comments or would like to submit any contributions, please contact the OCD Action office. OCD Action Suite 506 – 507 Davina House, 137-149 Goswell Road, London EC1V 7ET Tel 020 7253 5272 Email [email protected] Helpline 0845 390 6232 Welcome from the chair������������������������������������������������������������������������2 Coming Out - The Secret Dilemma���������������������������������������������������6 Director’s Report�������������������������������������������������������������������������������������9 OCD at Work������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������ 10 Members Story�������������������������������������������������������������������������������������� 16 Listings���������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������� 22 OCD Action’s vision is of a society where Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is better understood and diagnosed quickly, where appropriate treatment options are open and accessible, where support and information are readily available and where nobody feels ashamed to ask for help. Newsletter design: www.neographica-creative.com Issue 43, Winter 3 0 1 0 2 k e e OCD W informing engaging, events inspiring and Events OCD Week London Conference OCD Week 2010 is a week of engaging, informing and inspiring events to provide support and encouragement to everyone affected by OCD. This is the first ever OCD Week and marks the start of what we hope is a new era, one where OCD is better understood and diagnosed quickly, where appropriate treatment options are open and accessible, where support and information are readily available and where nobody feels ashamed to ask for help. Conference and Webinar presenters include n Paul Salkovskis n Simon Darnley n David Veale n Rob Willson n Satwant Singh n Katie d’Ath n Jude Wynne n Karina Lovell n Costas Papageorgiou and a host of inspirational speakers. 4 When:Saturday 6th February, 10.00 – 16.30 Where:New Academic Building (London School of Economics), Lincoln’s Inn Fields, WC2A 3LJ Nearest tube: Holborn (5 minutes walk) Temple (5 minutes), Charing Cross (15 minutes) Tickets:£20 / £15* A one day conference for people with OCD, their friends, families, and carers designed to give practical help and support on a range of issues common to all aspects of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. The day brings together inspirational speakers and some of the country’s leading experts on OCD. You can be sure to have your questions answered through a mixture of Q&A panels and focused workshops including sessions on making CBT work, understanding depression, knowing your rights, good support groups and family involvement in treatment. On arrival, you will be able to choose two workshops out of six. More information available at www.ocdweek.org or contact the OCD Action office on 020 7253 5272 www.ocdweek.org Online Webinars As with the London conference, this day brings together inspirational speakers and some of the country’s leading experts on OCD. You can be sure to have your questions answered through a mixture of Q&A panels and focused workshops including sessions on self help, knowing your rights, and understanding depression. On arrival, you will be able to choose two workshops out of six. More information available at www.ocdweek.org or contact the OCD Action office on 020 7253 5272 For more information and to book on-line When: Friday 12th February Where:Everywhere A ‘webinar’ is a web-based seminar that allows participants to interact with the speaker during the session, typing in questions and receiving answers in real time. All you need is a computer connected to the internet (broadband recommended). Webinars can be viewed using your internet browser (e.g. Internet Explorer, Firefox, Safari). Ticketholders will be contacted in advance of their chosen webinar with details of how to log on and take part. Each OCD Week webinar will be led by a leading mental health practitioner and will offer participants the opportunity to find out the latest in-depth research and information on a specific OCD topic. Places are limited, but please do not worry if you miss out; a recording of the session will be made available on the OCD Week website following the event. TOPIC Speaker When (February) Webinar 1 Reassurance Paul Salkovskis Tues 9, 6.15pm Webinar 2 Hoarding Satwant Singh Tues 9, 7.15pm Webinar 3 Health anxiety Rob Willson Wed 10, 6.15pm Webinar 4 Phobias Triumph Over Phobia Wed 10, 7.15pm Webinar 5 Habit disorders Simon Darnley Thur 11, 6.15pm Webinar 6 Panic Colin Hammond Thur 11, 7.15pm Webinar 7 BDD David Veale Fri 12, 6.15pm Webinar 8 Depression Depression Alliance Fri 12, 7.15pm CCBT 1 CBT on-line Nick Niziolomski Tues 9, 5pm CCBT 1 CBT on-line Nick Niziolomski Wed 10, 5pm CCBT 1 CBT on-line Nick Niziolomski Thur 11, 5pm CCBT 1 CBT on-line Nick Niziolomski Fri 12, 5pm OCD Week Manchester Conference When: S aturday 13th February, 10.00 – 16.30 Where: Manchester Conference Centre, Sackville Street, Manchester M1 3BB Nearest station: Manchester Piccadilly (5-10 minutes walk) Tickets:£20 / £15* National Day of Action When: Monday 8th – Friday 12th February Where:On a computer near you Tickets:Free but limited places Day of Action is your chance to make as much noise as possible about OCD. If you have had enough of the veil of ignorance and prejudice that surrounds OCD, now is your chance to do something about it. n Question Time Senior representatives from the three main political parties are lined up to answer your questions – ask them about their plans to improve mental health services. n Campaign Use our resources to ask your local NHS organisation what they are doing about CBT waiting lists. n Add your event Join our team of awareness champions and run a local awareness event. We can help with resources, advice and local media coverage, as well as listing your event on the OCD Week calendar. Presented by Supported by visit www.ocdweek.org or call 020 7253 5272 Issue 43, Winter 5 The Secret Dilemma ‘Coming out’ about one’s OCD (e.g. to friends) can be a daunting prospect. George Hourmouzios explores how and why, aided by the insight of two OCD-ers. T elling people I had OCD was a big issue at first for me”, admits 26-year-old Jordan. At the age of 19, he sought professional help, which is something he would encourage all OCD-ers (people with OCD) to do. After all, finding effective treatment was the breakthrough for Jordan and has been / will be for millions of others. However, ‘coming out’ to friends and acquaintances (and in some cases, family) can be much less straightforward. “At first I said it was depression, then anxiety. And 6 if people used to ask me to expand on that, I’d say it was general and I couldn’t describe it”, says Jordan. Situations provoking this white lie included his declining invitations to nights out and opting out of university – both due to the restrictive and debilitating effects of his OCD. Jordan believes it isn’t always appropriate or helpful to tell anyone and everyone willy-nilly. “The first hesitation I have is whether it is relevant”, he explains. “I wonder what I would be trying to achieve by telling a given person. And telling them unprompted may put them in an unnecessarily awkward position. I guess it’s a bit like revealing you are gay. Unless there was a reason to tell someone, they would probably question the need or motive.” On this theme, an encounter with a diabetic friend resonated with Jordan. “I only found out he had diabetes after two years of knowing him. When I asked why he hadn’t told me before, he simply explained that he didn’t see the need to introduce himself with: ‘Hi, I’ve got diabetes’. His condition only came to light when I saw him injecting insulin. Therefore, I only tell people about my OCD if they notice something, e.g. my taking medication or seeing my psychiatrist. Only then would I explain it. So there are friends of mine who still don’t know I have OCD. On the other hand, my friends who were with me during my really bad times knew because they noticed my overt symptoms.” Fear of being misunderstood or judged is another major factor. Alan, a 55-year old American who has been battling OCD since early childhood, tailors what he reveals according to his estimation of the accuracy of each person’s understanding of OCD or their ability to grasp OCD concepts. “It would be easier to explain OCD if I was starting with a clean slate rather than having to first eradicate their preconceived notions about it. Most people equate the increasingly common colloquial use of the term ‘OCD’ with the genuine condition. For example, you will hear some people mistakenly say they have ‘a touch of OCD’ because they keep their room neat and tidy”, explains Alan. Another confusing colloquialism involves the word ‘obsessive’ He adds: “People equate it with desire, pleasure or reward etc. rather than the intrusive thoughts that plague someone who really does have OCD.” An example might be ‘I’m obsessed with George Clooney. He’s so good looking!’ A more serious concern can best be described using the OCD sub-types involving violent or sexual-related intrusive thoughts. The great irony about OCD-ers who experience these thoughts is that they are statistically among the least likely people in the world to carry out such sexual or violent acts. However, the dread that other people will fail to grasp this between closeness of friendship and ability to understand or empathise. “I deliberately haven’t disclosed to some friends, even close ones, that I was hospitalized at one point for my OCD.” On a brighter note, the determination of OCD Action and the rest of the OCD community to increase understanding and awareness is slowly paying off. “OCD may not have come as far as, say, depression in terms of public understanding and acceptance,” says Jordan, “but I think it is becoming better I think it is becoming better understood and I’m becoming less fearful of telling people. concept is an understandable concern for them. “Take for example an intrusive thought an OCD-er might have that they could harm or molest their child”, he suggests. “They experience this thought despite the fact that the very idea absolutely appals them. Yet their potential confidant(e) - i.e. the person they would consider “coming out” to - would probably assume these thoughts actually represented genuine (perhaps repressed) desires.” Jordan also warns against assuming a correlation understood and I’m becoming less fearful of telling people. Perhaps the positive feedback I’ve had when I have told people has also helped. It’s often less of an issue than one anticipates.” The thought of discussing their thoughts and compulsions provokes shame and embarrassment for many OCD-ers. But doing so – in appropriate circumstances can lead to immense relief. Achieving self-acceptance, including the realization that it is a lifetime condition (albeit one that can be managed very Issue 43, Winter 7 The Secret Dilemma effectively) that is nothing to be ashamed of, can facilitate the process of ‘coming out’. Alan is also glad to have told many of his friends. “Among those I’ve told that have been astute enough to have had at least an inkling of what OCD really was, many have appreciated how it has cleared up unanswered questions they had about me: notably, my difficulty in maintaining adequate employment and entering into relationships with women. They reveal that my lifestyle had previously been an enigma to them.” Importantly, this revelation has made the friendships easier from Alan’s point of view too. So, when would the reluctance to ‘come out’ be the strongest? Well, the workplace remains another kettle of fish, as far as Jordan is concerned. “In terms of anyone I’d never tell, prospective employers would definitely come under that category.” The unfortunate reality is that, even nearly a decade into the 21st century, anything that flags up ‘health issues’ can put one at a disadvantage, especially when one is competing against other applicants. He adds, “When it’s a case of a number of factors being weighed up by the employer, I think OCD is likely to pull you down. They will wonder who is likely to stay in the job and not have sick days. Similarly, universities are likely 8 Director’s Report Raising the profile of OCD I to wonder who is going to last the course. When I worked at the NHS, I didn’t let them know the full details. I know it’s meant to be covered under the Disability Discrimination Act (DDA) but I guess I thought it wasn’t their business. I felt the only thing that my managers needed to know was that I had anxiety issues: and luckily, they were very supportive of that. When I had days off, they never queried it. And when I’ve applied to other jobs and I’ve had occupational health screenings, I haven’t declared it.” * The burning question is how can the situation be improved? Over to Alan. “There is no significant political lobby or massive media coverage to raise awareness of OCD like there is for race, ethnicity, gender orientation, the environment or even other mental health conditions. * for more information about your rights at work see page 10 Because of the lack of awareness, many OCD-ers, as I did, only reveal a fraction (if any) of what is troubling them, for many years. Internalised guilt traps the rest in an impenetrable reserve.” It took Alan more than 30 years to even become aware that his intrusive thoughts and ritualistic behaviour belonged to the recognised condition of OCD. During those lost years, the dilemma of ‘coming out’ was not even a dot on the horizon. And although Alan’s case is an extreme example, we have a steep hill to climb to achieve the ultimate goal of removing the stigma surrounding OCD, when ‘coming out’ will be an irrelevant phrase. Until then, Alan neatly summaries his advice to all OCD-ers contemplating ‘coming out’. “Start with someone who you trust will understand.” n the last director’s report, I talked about how the focus for the year 2008-09 was all about making sure our services were of the highest quality and that the charity was on a secure footing with an agreed strategic plan. I also said how this year, 2009-10, the focus would be on spreading the word about OCD and what OCD Action can do to help. Well so far, we are on track. OCD WEEK As I am sure you know, we announced OCD Week at the end of October. This is a really ambitious project for us, putting on two major conferences, over 14 webinars, co-ordinating politicians and supporting Day of Action events. One of the reasons why we have chosen to run OCD Week is that it gives us a better platform to get “out and about” and spread the word to a wider audience. designed to attract more visitors and help them to not only access the information that they want but also to join in with the online-community to get support, understanding and friendship. Media work Since the last newsletter, we have also been able to increase the amount of media coverage concerning OCD. This has been largely due to members who have signed up to share their story with journalists and our team of outstanding media volunteers who have been working away to build contacts and persuade journalists that OCD is something they should be talking about. If you want to help with our media work please contact the OCD Action office. Our image Another change since the last newsletter has been our re-branding. We wanted to project a fresher image and above all, to get across our main message that “it’s time to act”. We are also now going through the process of re-designing and updating all our material from awareness posters to information packs. Thank you to all our volunteers who make all this possible website You may also have noticed that we have updated our website again. The “new new” website is Issue 43, Winter 9 OCD at Work Advocacy is about exploring options, securing your rights, providing representation and enabling people to take the opportunity to regain power and control over their lives. O n World Mental Health Day this year, Gordon Brown joined the ranks of those calling for an end to the stigma of mental ill health and urged a “change in attitudes and a fresh openness to recognise mental health issues across our society.” But for people who want to re-enter the world of work after months or years of unemployment, how quickly is that change going to come? Present government policy is to find ways to enable those with long or short term mental health problems to return to work and there are now a number of groups and individuals who can provide Advisor’ or ‘New Deal Job Broker’. Specialist mental health schemes also provide assistance and you can find out what exists in your area by asking your local CAB, or Social Services, or Community Mental Health Team. However, in spite of all the help on offer, many people contacting OCD Action are worried that they may be discriminated against if they declare their condition on any job application form. Below are some ideas and options for you to consider but this area of employment law is a specialism and is constantly developing so if you are having issues or dilemmas Many people are worried that they may be discriminated against if they declare their condition... support for you if you want either to return to work or perhaps start work for the first time. Your local job centre should have access to a ‘Disability Employment Advisor’. If they don’t, then ask to speak to a ‘Personal 10 about disclosing your OCD that aren’t answered by general guidance, then you should seek legal advice. You can access free legal advice from The Community Legal Service and also get advice from the Law Society. Guidance can also be obtained from organisations such as the Law Disability Service, the Equality and Human Rights Commission, ACAS and the TUC as well as such services as the Mind Legal Helpline. But it is always best to check whether the adviser handling your call is legally qualified, if it is more than just general background advice that you are seeking. A good place to start is with guidance issued by the Trade Union Congress (TUC) who represent millions of workers in this country. The TUC provides a number of information booklets both for employers and employees and in its booklet “Representing and supporting members with mental health problems at work” endorsed by the Equalities and Human Rights Commission, it states: “Many people with mental health problems will have conditions that fluctuate and it may be that they can go for long periods without having any particular difficulties. This means that many more people with mental health problems can obtain employment successfully, provided that employees are positive about developing an inclusive work culture that focuses on supportive solutions for individuals and improving the work environment for everyone.” If however you are considering working and you have OCD, then there are two pieces of legislation that you should be aware of and that could influence whether or not you disclose that you have OCD to your employer. The Disability Discrimination Act (DDA) 2005 The DDA says that Employers or Education providers are not allowed to discriminate against you because you are disabled. OCD is classed as a disability (at the point of diagnosis) under the Disability Discrimination Act 2005. TUC Guidance is as follows: “Disabled people are not under a legal obligation to disclose their disability or long term health condition, although if they chose not to do so, this may affect their ability to assert their legal rights under the Disability Discrimination Act (DDA) See paragraphs 7.27 and 7.28 of the Disability Rights Commission’s Statutory Code of Practice on Employment and Occupation available from the Equality and Human Rights Commission website Remember you can get help with advocacy issues by calling OCD Action on 0845 390 6232 www.equalityhumanrights.com. Decisions over disclosure are deeply personal, but unions should encourage members to disclose their mental health problem to the employer, as the onus is then on the employer to make reasonable adjustments” (Representing and supporting members with mental health problems at work- Guidance for Trade Union Representatives- TUC) What this means is: If your potential employer has made reasonable attempts to find out about your health condition and you have not disclosed it, you may not be Issue 43, Winter 11 OCD at Work able to make a claim for discrimination under the Disability Discrimination Act 2005 (DDA), as the employer can argue that they were not aware of your condition. If you do disclose any mental health conditions, you have the right for such information to be kept confidential. Any information disclosed is protected both by the DDA and the Data Protection Act 2003. You should be aware however, that the DDA currently covers organisations that employ 15 or more workers and some organisations such as the armed services, the Police and the Fire Service are exempt. Health and Safety at Work Act 1974 Depending on the type of job you apply for, you may also be asked to complete a medical questionnaire. This is to assess whether there is a medical reason why you cannot do the job. If your disability or health condition has an effect on your ability to do the role, then the employer must consider any adjustments that would reduce this. The Health and Safety at Work Act states that if your disability has implications for the health and safety of yourself or your colleagues, you must tell your employer. If your disability were to result in an accident at work and you had not told your employer about it, you could be held legally responsible. Remember, employers (in theory) cannot use any information to discriminate, only to anticipate any reasonable adjustments that may be needed. Lying on your application form could at worst put you in breach of the Safety at Work Act and at best put you at risk of dismissal at a later date as your employer could argue that you have provided false or inaccurate information to them (you may have had to sign a declaration on the end of your application to say that the information you have provided is accurate and true). Employers can’t use any information to discriminate, only to anticipate reasonable adjustments needed. 12 From recent case law it seems much depends on the actual questions asked and how you answer them and because of this we would suggest an expert opinion of a lawyer who specialises in this area should be sought if you are having difficulties with your application. To disclose or not to disclose Having considered your options and looked at the pitfalls of disclosure or non disclosure and taken relevant advice, you may feel that there is no reason to disclose your condition as it is not relevant and will not interfere with your work. Perhaps you have concerns about being rejected by an employer or that assumptions will be made about your ability to do the job, or that you will not get promoted. Although negative attitudes certainly do exist, there is a strong argument for disclosing. Many employment agencies and advisors advise disclosure because it is a proactive, empowering approach that has you setting the agenda. It gives you the opportunity to present your disability confidently and positively. Remember there are many ways of disclosing. For example, you may want to put something about your mental health condition in a covering letter with your CV, which could help explain gaps in your education or employment record. You may feel more confident explaining your condition in person at your interview if you feel at ease. An employer can only ask questions about any reasonable adjustments that need to be made and are not entitled to quiz you about personal details and history. Remember to keep their focus on your ability rather than your disability. Some people feel that disclosing their disability early The Pros n It can be very stressful to be in a situation where you feel you have to hide an illness- this could make you feel worse. problems accessing your rights under the Act. n By disclosing, you give your employer the opportunity to help and support you. Problems at work can then be seen as a result of your illness rather than of poor performance. n If you choose to disclose, you are setting the agenda and are able to portray your OCD in the most positive way you can and counter any unproductive stereotypes that your employer could come across if he or she found out that you had the condition. n By disclosing, you have protection under the Disability Discrimination Act, if you have not disclosed you may have n Your employers may be happy to ‘up’ their intake of employees with disabilities- it looks good on their books! in the application process simply allows a recruiter to discriminate negatively that much sooner and that they won’t even be considered for the job. Others accept the message put out by a number of employers that disclosing early gets things out in the open, allows the employer to prepare for any special provisions required during the selection process, and even gives them an early opportunity to identify talent from an under-represented group in the workplace. Some employers are keen to employ disabled people. Look out for the ‘two ticks’ disability symbol on job advertisements - this means that an employer has made some commitment to employing disabled people. n You are likely to feel more empowered and confident if you are accepted into a job where you know that your employers are aware of your condition and are seeking to make adjustments to help you. n Your disability information is confidential – your rights are protected under the Data Protection Act 2003 and if you disclose, you can remind your employer of their obligation to keep this information confidential. Issue 43, Winter 13 OCD at Work The cons n Discrimination against people with any mental illness is still common even in enlightened companies. You may feel labelled by your disability n Your long term career goals may be affected, if your employers think you may become ill at some point. n You may not see your OCD as a disability even if the law does. n If you employer is not familiar with OCD, he/ she may be nervous of you and treat you differently. n Information may be shared inadvertently or otherwise with colleagues. (It is worth checking the privacy/ confidentiality policy of your intended employers). If information is spread about your condition without your consent your employers may be in breach of the Data Protection Act. Remember, non disclosure may affect your rights under the Disability Discrimination Act and lead to serious consequences under the Safety at Work Act 1974, if failure to disclose your disability has an impact on either your own health and safety or that of your colleagues At the root of much discrimination is miss-information. It could be argued that the better informed people are, the more likely they are to start understanding your condition and offer your support. However, as we know this is not always the case. If you do chose to disclose we will soon be able to provide you with a handout that you can give your employer explaining OCD and reminding them of their duties to you and your rights and responsibilities to them. We are also working on a pack for employers in order to combat misinformation in the workplace around OCD. In the meantime if you choose to disclose here are some tips you may want to consider. be Be clear and as confident as you can about explaining your condition 14 TIPS for Disclosure! n Be clear and as confident as you can be about explaining your condition- do it in layman’s terms and don’t blind them with science! n If it helps, take in preprepared statement or fact sheet about the condition (OCD Action can help here). n Try not to be emotive but factual. n Don’t go on at great length- just be precise n Make clear to your employer any adjustments that would have to be made and why; but emphasize the positive things you could bring to your job, your skills abilities and experiences. n Think about practice and transferable skills you have learnt as a consequence of managing your OCD and major on them. n Do not assume that your employer will have a negative attitude towards you because of your OCD – they may not. n Remember they should only ask you questions related to your OCD and how it will affect your work, field off other personal questions. n If you are unsure about what you need to disclose, you can speak to a careers advisor at your local job centre. Member’s Poem MARTIN One precious flower, tender and rare Had rooted alone in a meadow bare It screamed out please farmer take care as you toil I’m alone and I’m fragile, I need better soil My time has not come, my leaves are unfurled I have a great task to complete in this world. But the combine was heavy and hard to control The frail stem was cut as the blades took their toll. A conservationist passing by Saw the flower dying and wanted to cry He perceived its rare beauty and his loving hands With skill and devotion repaired its cut strands. He moved it on to a garden nearby It was placed in a vase where it could not die The flower thought I can never go back to my roots But I may seed and at least I can throw out new shoots Those shoots will produce new flowers in the field And my purpose in life will then be revealed. It started to hope and grow stronger each day The petals were opening, the shoots on their way The head gardener said this flower is now strong The flower said no I’m not ready, you’re wrong But the gardener had other flowers seeking his care And vast heavy plant books needing space there. So the cut stem was put back in the bare soil again And watered by tap when it needed fresh rain The birds of the air and the trees of the field Encouraged the soil it’s nutrients to yield But shoots had not rooted it realised its doom It’s seeds were still green, it could not bloom. And a fountain of tears has now sprung from the ground To water flowers blooming on a great mound But the rarest of all will never again Sing with the birds and dance in the rain And will lessons be learned or will we just say Best practice was followed, now go away Joyce Salter Judy Wynne, Advocacy Manager Issue 43, Winter 15 Member’s Story Kaarina Elisabeth O CD is a burden. It stops you doing things you want and makes constant demands on your time to the detriment of all else. It’s a relentless bully that can make you give up your dreams. I want to encourage sufferers not to abandon their dreams, though, however bad it is. If you can’t get rid of your illness, find ways to live with it. You might not be able to do everything you want, but you can aim to do some things. It is in focusing on the things you enjoy rather than on the OCD, that you can start to get better. Dreams for me meant working in film and TV. I did this, first without and then with OCD. And I’m sure I wasn’t the only one. Up to one in 40 are affected by the disorder, meaning OCD sufferers are everywhere, hiding their condition from co-workers and employers. 16 I guess in retrospect, even before OCD, I was always overconscientious and prone to burn-out as I tried to carry out tasks perfectly. Once OCD arrived though, work became hard. Extreme perfectionism, endless deadlines and a fear of dirt and chemicals when your job involves getting your hands dirty is no mean feat. You have to constantly disregard the OCD voice to get the job done. That means feeling anxious, often for weeks after filming has finished. The first time I recall OCD appearing at work was filming Henry VIII’s flag-ship, the Mary Rose. To keep the boat moist, chemicals are pumped onto her. (OCD sufferers will be happy to learn a glass pane separates the public from the boat). Luckily I didn’t have to go behind the glass - but I was aware that both camera and tripod had. They were therefore contaminated objects, to be avoided – pretty hard when your job, as camera assistant, is to handle both. I had to console myself with thoughts of a post-work long shower, clothes-wash and lunch-break (if I got one) spent wiping said objects. Such events occur with amazing frequency in the world of programme-making. At Pinewood studios, one faces the dust and chemicals of the special effects department. Then there was the time we filmed at an old military base that had housed nuclear weapons. Needless to say just standing in the place was nauseating. What if a weapon had leaked? What if the place was radioactive? How could we know? Had they ever done checks? Thoughts of highly dangerous chemicals with a 1000-year shelf-life filled my mind. This wasn’t helped when I found myself in a small chamber with the words ‘decontamination’ etched on its walls. In such situations, there really is nothing one can do except grin and bear it. The problem starts once the shoot finishes, as the next few weeks are spent washing equipment and clothes, showering and washing clothes again. The easy option is to throw everything away, no matter the cost. That way you don’t contaminate the washing machine, or end up with piles of objects inside plastic bags, waiting to be cleaned. I didn’t throw everything away, but even after cleaning items, I stored them in individual plastic bags until a therapist visited and got me to remove them. Apart from chemicals found on location, another problem is chemicals used by the crew. For example, one effective way of eliminating squeaky wheels when using a camera on rails for moving shots, is to use talc. The first time I learned this, I had to make do with the local shop’s chemically perfumed variety. Quite horrifying. I rigorously brushed off all traces from the tracks after filming, not wanting to harm future crews with the chemicals. After that, I always ensured I carried the chemical-free variety. Chemicals aren’t the only hazard. Outdoor lighting, for instance, involves cables crossing dirty ground. That’s more or less tolerable – unless it happens to be a dogs’ messing area. Then you worry if you’ll get a chance to clean them before they’re moved. Filming with a contamination phobia is traumatising then. But if that wasn’t bad enough, I also, like many OCD sufferers, have an over-zealous conscience. This leads to over-the-top health and safety vigilance and perfectionism. Covering windows with black cloth to block thinking about it. Then there is worrying about breakages. I thought I cracked a window once while stapling. I didn’t have time to tell anyone and wasn’t sure it was me anyway. Even today I still feel anxious about that. Another problem is the what if’s? i.e worrying about things After cleaning items, I stored them in individual plastic bags... out daylight (so it looks like you’re filming at night) is tricky. Invariably it involves a staple gun. When it’s time to take the drapes down, people often yank them and leave the staples in – something abhorrent to my conscience. So I sneak off to remove them when I get a spare moment. Clearing up after a shoot is also problematic. There’s gaffer tap everywhere. I have to remove every last piece or else I feel bad. One time I left some wire and screws behind and almost travelled back to get them. It took months to stop that never happen. Cables need to be perfectly labeled and kept tidy at all times when cable bashing (holding cables so the camera person doesn’t trip over them as they move). If cables become messy or don’t appear fixed perfectly to the camera, I panic. The idea that things don’t have to always be perfect is difficult to handle. The what-ifs apply to production work too, where you have to organize a shoot (hotels, hiring local crews, transport, filming permissions etc…) What if the hired car isn’t big enough? What if Issue 43, Winter 17 Member’s Story the local crew are no good? What if permission is refused? Invariably the what-ifs never materialize and if they do, they’re mostly out of your control so not your fault. Try telling OCD that though… Through therapy I’m learning to realize this. Other people, I observe, are not so perfectionist. When things go wrong, they don’t blame themselves. They just get on with things. For several years I muddled along, alternating work periods with washing periods. I was extremely hard to remove. Only when undergoing therapy should one stop work. When I tried to work again, I found even part-time jobs exhausted me as I would come home and wash into the early hours. So I had to give up and go onto benefits. Fortunately my story doesn’t end there. I’m no defeatist (one positive aspect of my condition). Earlier this year I passed a journalism qualification that I undertook against advice. I missed or arrived absurdly late for When I tried to work again, I found part-time jobs exhausting always poor as a result, but I got by. The last couple of years have been difficult though. Stupidly, I stopped work for a month to wash my bedroom contents (such as furniture that had been in a storage unit where there had been a large floor stain. I was frightened it might be battery acid - my worst fear). Stopping work was a big mistake because focusing on work and ignoring the OCD voice stops it from getting worse. Conversely when you stop work and focus all your time on OCD, the OCD takes over. Small habits become large, firmly entrenched, and most classes, and burned out through perfectionism, but I passed. I even did work experience at a national paper, though perfectionism stopped me meeting deadlines and left me burned out after the two week placement was up. So I aim to do freelance work. I wish one-to-one support and advice were available to people with OCD on benefits to move back into work, but unfortunately the system is inflexible. I have found that neither the Government nor mental health services provide the necessary tailor-made employment support, So I volunteer at a mental health charity’s press office and a production company specializing in mental health. I arrive late and often get waylaid by OCD, but it’s a step. Time-table therapy helps. That means creating a schedule for each day the night before, and planning long-term goals too. It aims to set time limits to activities, so I don’t spend weeks on them. It also aims to minimize time spent washing by limiting OCD to specific times. It by no means works perfectly, but it helps me manage OCD better. One long-term goal was to make a short film in Egypt. I only got as far as putting the goal in my diary and didn’t manage to do the necessary planning, but I decided to fly out there with someone and do it anyway. As I write this, I have just returned. There were many obstacles – such as filming too much footage (everything had to be perfect), and returning to locations several times as I kept feeling I’d missed something. It wasn’t perfect - but the thing is I did it. And that feels amazing. It’s a big step forward. So my message is to start saying yes to life and no to OCD. You only live once. Don’t let OCD steal all your dreams. And as you say yes to life, you will find that, by focusing on other things beside your illness, things will start to get better. From the For those of you who have not yet discovered it, OCD Action has been running a blog since February. T he OCD Action “Living with OCD” is continuing to prove popular, over the last few months we have introduced two new bloggers ready to share their day to day lives with OCD. The blog is available on our new website, BLOG 2 – (you’d have thought a stand up comedian would think up a catchier blog title) Seven years ago when I was suffering heavily from OCD even a short trip away would be fraught with trauma for me. Here is a short list of some events which made holidays stressful during my life as an OCD sufferer; 1) A big argument with my parents who tried to take a straw off of me which I needed to tap as part of an OCD ritual. 2) Spending an eternity tapping objects in hotel rooms on the last day which I knew I could not return to in order to complete my rituals. 3) Having to return to the top of water slides in order to tap a certain segment of the slide correctly 4) Obsessive thoughts all my waking day and in my dreams, ten times stronger than when I was at home Seven days ago I went on a trip to the Edinburgh fringe festival for 3 nights to do some stand up and to take in the shows with two friends, Pete (also a comic) and Chris (a blues musician). Here is a short list of the things which made this trip stressful; 1) We couldn’t find the campsite 2) The clutch in the car we drove up in made a screeching noise every time it was in use, (two days after we made it back home the clutch gave up the ghost) 3) Pete went missing for over an hour at one point and he still won’t tell us where he was. 4) Freezing cold nights www.ocdaction.org.uk. If you think that you’d like to be our next guest blogger then, please contact the OCD Action office. 5) Getting lost, all day, every day. On top of this I had to stand up and amuse six different audiences over 3 days having had little to no sleep. But despite all the apparent stresses of the trip I had more fun thanI’ve ever had. If you don’t believe me just ask any of my friends who I’ve been boring with Edinburgh anecdotes since. A big part of the reason I’m still involved with OCD awareness is that I want to show people how much I enjoy my life having overcome OCD and that all the fighting and all the struggle to do this was worth it. I appreciate evenings now. Evenings were stressful, that was when my OCD was at its worst. If I was the slightest bit tired, it was harder to keep the obsessive thoughts out. But now I love evenings. At the Edinburgh fringe they have a midnight show at the caves. It’s literally in a cave and starts at midnight, running on till about 3am. We went to this event two nights running. Comedy is a lot better when you know that everyone sensible is in bed. Reginald D. Hunter headlined the second night and I laughed uncontrollably. And it felt like I’d earned it. In beating OCD I had reclaimed the evening in my life. When my OCD was at its worst I would never have been able to relax at that show. This year’s Edinburgh award went to the comic poet Tim Key, but my award goes to ‘The Evening’, my new, favourite part of the day. Joe Wells 18 Issue 43, Winter 19 Book Review Volunteering Rising to the Surface by Helen Poskitt T he main character in Helen Poskitt’s “Rising to the Surface” is Undine, a sufferer of OCD. This fictional novel is a good read for anyone who wants to experience OCD in an honest “day to day” manner. As the reader lives Undine’s life they come into contact with her friends, boyfriends and therapist and learn how she manages these relationships alongside her OCD. They are told about her family and her background by way of explanation for how she got to where she is. Within Undine’s story she is writing her own novels. There are two stories. The first based on her own life. At least we are led to believe this by the interjected comments from her therapist. The second is a fictional romance and adds some light relief to the main book. The two stories are very different almost black and white in contrast, real life and wishful thinking. It’s difficult at times to make out the real stories and the stories within, especially as some characters overlap. Finally the reader is treated to extracts from Undine’s diaries. By sharing her past with us we gain insight into the complicated relationship she has with her family and in particular her step mother, offering by some way an 20 explanation/reason for her OCD. Subtlety is fundamental. The references from her diary are left to the reader to evaluate and draw their own conclusions. The OCD traits, talked of throughout, are discreet. Once in a while it dawns on us why something has occurred and an OCD reader achieves some familiarity. Anyone else might miss the central theme completely but where references to the OCD family are subtle they are more obviously stated, text book style, by the therapist. It’s not until quite a way in that the reader gets some definition into the meaning of OCD when her friend, by chance, reads about OCD and identifies Undine in what she is reading. There are times, certainly at the start, where we feel there is a dumping of a thousand thoughts on a page. It’s like a torrent of feelings from a mind that is hurting through sheer weight. It is something, in hindsight, that any OCD sufferer would identify with. But as Undine empowers herself and understands her OCD we recognise the first steps towards freedom. The purpose of a book about OCD for any sufferer would be to recognise themselves, to relate to it in terms of thinking OCD Action relies on the dedication of volunteers to make sure that we are there to help people in need and that our message can get out. “that’s me”, “I do that” making them feel like they’re not alone. “Rising to the Surface” cunningly achieves this, albeit subtly, and therefore, being so far from a text book, the story is also enjoyable! The romance story Undine is writing comes to the customary happy ending any Jill Cooper fan would expect. In parallel to this her life is looking up with the conclusion of her own happy ending and final answer to her OCD. This book is like a “romcom” as romance develops, complications with friends and living arrangements that affect all twenty something’s evolve, and a last minute hitch before the boy and girl finally live happily ever after. There’s even a hinted-at mystery that never gets told. If there is one criticism with this book, we would hope the reader does not deduce that finding love is the answer to overcoming OCD. By Louise OCD & Me, Ben Gander. Apologies for not including a review in this issue of “action”, this is due to lack of space. We will put our review in the next issues so in the meantime you can have more time to read this excellent account of living with OCD, available from Amazon.com. Most of our volunteering opportunities are open to people throughout the country. All we ask for is your commitment, enthusiasm and expertise and in return we will give you the training, materials and support that you may need. We are now recruiting for new volunteers to help with – Media Sharing your personal story to help inspire others. By working with the national and local media, you can help OCD Action reach hundreds of thousands of people. Fundraising Do you have any great fundraising ideas? OCD Action can work with you to help raise much needed income whether it is sitting in a bath of baked beans or running the marathon. Awareness Champions Can you help us to get our materials out there into hospitals, GP surgeries, schools; anywhere they may be needed? Trustees An opportunity to play a fundamental part in shaping the future of OCD Action. Trustees are ultimately responsible for OCD Action and shape the charity’s strategy. We are especially looking for people with a legal or accounting background. If you are interested in any of the above and would like to find out more please contact Joel Rose, OCD Action’s Director. Issue 43, Winter 21 Listings Where Eastern England Support Group Updates Cambridge Every other Monday, 17.30 - 19.30, (please call for exact dates) Cam-Mind, Barrere House, 100 Chesterton Road, Cambridge, CB4 1ER Ali 01223 311 320 [email protected] OCD Support Group Harpenden The second Sunday of each month 15.00 -17.00 The Harpenden House Hotel, 18 Southdown Road, Harpenden, AL5 1PE Paul 01582 763 58 [email protected] Richard 01582 726 993 r.alexander707@btinternet. com OCD Support Group Ipswich Every Thursday, 14.00 - 16.00 The Friends Society of Quakers 39 Fonnereau Road, Ipswich, IP1 3JH Paul Maguire 01473 212 536 07922 973 916 OCD Support Group Kent - Rainham OCD Group 19.15 - 21.00 (3rd Wednesday of the month) St. Margaret’s Millennium Centre, Gate Keeper Chase, Rainham, ME8 9BH Lea 01634 374 038 [email protected] OCD Support Group Milton Keynes Fourth Monday of month 19.00 21.00 except Bank Holidays. City Counselling Centre 320 Saxon Gate West Central Milton Keynes Behind Christ the Cornerstone Church MK9 2ES Jane 01908 607 667 OCD Support Group Merchants Place, Church Street, Cromer, NR27 9GW Keira 01263 517 104 OCD Support Group Time WHERE Contact group Type Every Thursday 19.00-20.30 The Parlour, Hinde Street Methodist Church, 19 Thayer Street, London W1U 2QH Gary Love 07803 721 598 [email protected] 12 Step Programme Obsessive Compulsive Anonymous group Fortnightly on alternate Thursdays from 18.30 for a 19.00 prompt start, finishing at 21.30 The Poetry Place, 22 Betterton Street, London, WC2H 9BX (upstairs room called the Poetry Studio - use door to left of cafe) Stephen 07976 726 803 OCD Support Group Central London - Hoarding Support GroupEastham Last Wednesday of the month, 18.0020.00 Graham Practice, Wordsworth HC 19, Wordsworth Ave, London, E12 6SU Satwant Singh hoarding.satwant@gmail. com Hoarding Support Group Central London - Lesbian and Gay OCD Group Second Thursday of the month 19.00 - 20.00 In the Marylebone area Jordan 07969 526 404 [email protected] Lesbian and Gay support Group Norfolk Cromer Every two weeks, on a Thursday, 18.30 - 10.30pm. Edgware Second Tuesday of every month 19.30 - 21.00 Biru Unit, Edgware Community Hospital, Burnt Oak, Broadway, Edgware, Middlesex, HA8 OAD Suzanne and Judy Call OCD Action or email [email protected] Support group for people with OCD Norfolk Downham Market 18.00 - 20.00 every 2nd and 4th Weds of the month. Dan 07913 654 533 [email protected] OCD Support Group Hillingdon 1 First Thursday of every month 19.30 -21.30 The Pembroke Community Mental Health Resource Centre, 90 Pembroke Road, Ruislip Manor, Middlesex HA4 8NQ Beryl 01895 444 804 (between 10.00-19.00 only please) 07913 464 706 (24 hour answerphone) [email protected] OCD Support group Norfolk Heacham 18.00 - 20.00 every Second and fourth Tues of the month Chris 07708 956 725 [email protected] OCD Support Group Norfolk King's Lynn Last Friday of every month 14.00 - 16.00 The Pembroke Community Mental Health Resource Centre 90 Pembroke Road, Ruislip Manor Middlesex HA4 8NQ Beryl 01895 444 804 (between 10.00-19.00 only please) 07913 464 706 (24 hour answerphone) [email protected] OCD Support group for carers Chris 07708 956 725 [email protected] OCD Support Group Hillingdon 2 18.00 - 20.00 every first and third Weds of the month Norwich Group 1 Central Norwich Geraldine Scott 01603 619 246 evenings CBT focussed OCD Support Group Ilford (Group 1) Monday 18.30-20.45, Tuesday 18.30-20.45 Redbridge Resource Centre, 497/499, Ley Street, Ilford Essex, IG2 7QX Regina Byrne 020 8262 8891 www.anxietycare.org.uk OCD Support Group Every Tues evening with the exception of the first Tuesday in the month 19.15 19.30pm until 21.00 Norwich Group 2 Central Norwich Geraldine Scott 01603 619246 evenings OCD Support Group Ilford (Group 2) 14.00 - 16.00 1st Floor, Urswick Medical Centre, Regina Byrne 020 8262 Urswick Road, Dagenham, 8891 (Mon-Fri 10.00 - 15.00) RM9 6EA www.anxietycare.org.uk OCD Recovery Support Group The first Tuesday of the month. 07.15-07.30pm until 9.00pm Southend-on-Sea Second Thursday of month, 10.30 - 12.30 14 Avenue Terrace, Southend-on-Sea, Essex, SS0 7PL Jackie St John at Trust Links Breakthrough 01702 346 001 Jim Grigg 07876 353 547 [email protected] [email protected] OCD Carer's Support Group, but people with OCD welcome Stevenage Fortnightly Thursday 13.30 - 15.00. Fortnightly Weds 19.00 - 20.30 Stevenage Wellbeing Centre, 13 Town Square, Stevenage, Herts., SG1 1BP. Jenny Robinson 07769 639 186 [email protected]. OCD Carers’ group LONDON Central London Central London Southgate First Sunday of every month 19.00-21.00 The Priory Hospital, The Bourne, Southgate, London, N14 6RA Alison 020 8958 5332 [email protected] OCD Support Group Southgate - BDD Group Third Sunday of every month 16.00 -18.00 The Priory Hospital, The Bourne, Southgate, London, N14 6RA Martin Anson (Clinical Psychologist) 020 7848 0387 (If there is a voicemail, please leave a message) [email protected] BDD Support group 22 Information correct at time of printing, please visit the OCD Action website for up-dated details Issue 43, Winter 23 Listings South East England South West England Basingstoke Monthly on the 2nd Wed of the month, 18.30 to 19.30 The Ark Conference Centre Ltd, Binwoodie Drive, Basingstoke, Hampshire, RG24 9NN Charlotte Underwood 07861 378 883 lottieunder [email protected] OCD Support Group Bournemouth (Winton) First Tuesday of every month 19.00-21.00 Winton Resource Centre, 528 Wimborne Road, Winton, Bournemouth, Dorset, BH9 2EX OCD Support group Brighton First Wednesday of every month 18.30 - 20.15 9 Buckingham Road, Brighton, BN1 3RJ Linda 01403 713 123 lin.thornton@btopenworld. com OCD Support Group Eric Chalmers 01202 496 267 07837179 760 e.chalmers@ dorset-cc.gov.uk Bristol The meetings are held on first Sat each month 13.00 - 14.30 Umbrella Centre, St Peter's Place, Canterbury, Kent CT1 2DB Lea and Eileen 01227 767 660 [email protected] OCD Support Group Meeting Rooms, Limbs and Things, Sussex Street, St Philips, Bristol, BS2 0RA Sharon Davies 07729 848 675 [email protected] OCD Support group Canterbury Saturdays, starting 6 week courses. Please contact for more infornation Guildford- 12 Step Programme Every Monday 20.00 - 21.00 Guildford Methodist Church, Side Entrance, Wharf Road, Off Woodbridge Road, GU1 4RP Rob 07968 196 377 [email protected] Sally 07790 397510 12 Step OCD Support group Bristol - 12 Step Programme Every Tuesday, 19.30 for 20.00 The Community Centre, Oaktree Court, The Ridge, Shirehampton, Bristol BS11 0BN Paul 07903 129 753 12 Step OCD Support group Plymouth Kent - Dartford, Gravesham and Swanley - BDD Group Every other Thursday, 12.00 noon - 13.30 MIND, The Almshouses, 18 West Hill, Dartford, Kent, DA1 2EP Sue 0132 229 1380 [email protected] BDD Support group Every other Wednesday, 19.0021.00. Please phone to check times Mind Oasis, 8 Woodside, Greenbank, Plymouth, PL4 8QE Joe Higman 01752 254 004 [email protected] OCD Support Group Kent - Dartford, Gravesham and Swanley - OCD Group Contact for timings MIND, The Almshouses, 18 West Hill, Dartford, Kent, DA1 2EP Sue 0132 229 1380 [email protected] OCD Support Group WimbourneObsessions Together Third Wednesday of every month 19.00 - 21.00 Jessop House, Mill Lane, Wimborne, Dorset, BH21 1HG Eric Chalmers 01202 496 267 07837179 760 e.chalmers@ dorset-cc.gov.uk Obsessions Together OCD Supportgroup Kent-Maidstone Third Thursday of every month 11.00 - 12.30 Maidstone Mind, The Bridges, 23 College Road, Maidstone, Kent, ME15 6YH Merryl and Sally (Maidstone Mind) 01622 692 383 Andrew Hider andrewhider@blueyonder. co.uk OCD Support Group Stephen, Richard or David 07976726803 ox.ocd.support@hotmail. com OCD Support Group Oxford North West England Once a month, usually on the first Monday of month, arrive from 18.30 for a 19.00 start, finishing at 21.30 Michael Young Building, RESTORE, Manzil Way (off Cowley Road), Oxford, OX4 1YH Once a month, usually on the first Sat of month 11.00 - 13.00 Cosham Community Centre, Wootton Street, Cosham, Portsmouth, PO6 3AP Stephen 07976 726 803 OCD Support Group Reading Every other Monday at 20.00 Trinity Church, Chalfont Close, Earley, Reading, RG6 5HZ Melanie Moore 01189 481 139 melanie_j_ [email protected] OCD Support Group South Hampshire (Eastleigh) Once a month, usually on the first or second Sat of the month 14.15 - 16.45 The Cranbury Centre, Cranbury Road, Eastleigh, SO50 5HT Stephen 07976 726 803 OCD Support Group Surbiton First and third Thursdays of every month 20.00-23.00 The South Place Resource Centre, South Place (off Ewell Road) Surbiton, Surrey, KT5 8RX Les (Please leave enquiries between 16.00 - 18.00 Mon-Fri only. Calls returned as soon as possible. Unable to return calls to mobiles. Group enquiries only. Please attend group evening for specific personal information regarding OCD). 020 8390 2648 [email protected] OCD Support Group Portsmouth 24 Information correct at time of printing, please visit the OCD Action website for up-dated details Alkrington, Manchester Monthly on Mondays 14.00 - 16.00 The Old Boar’s Head, 111 Long Street, Middleton, Manchester, M24 3UE Bernie 01616 436 729 Lindsey 07738 225 320 [email protected] OCD Support group Bolton Every other Monday 19.30-21.00 MHIST, 30 Chorley, New Road, Bolton, BL1 4AP Sandra Clarkson 01204 527 200 (MHIST) [email protected] OCD Support group Greater Manchester Every other Wednesday 14.30 - 16.30 Rock Street Day Centre, Rock Street, Oldham, OL8 4BD Mohammed Islam 01617 708 500 OCD Support group Macclesfield, Cheshire Last Tuesday of every month, 18.00-21.00pm Wykeham Chase, Off Bransdale Way, Macclesfield 07876 297 857 [email protected] OCD Support group Merseyside, Southport The first Tuesday of the month 18.00 -19.00 Christ Church, Lord Street, Southport, Merseyside, PR8 1AA Call OCD Action on 0845 390 6232 OCD Support group Merseyside, Wirral Second Friday of every month 20.00 Contact Group Organisers for Details Duncan 0151 632 2017 [email protected] Colin 0151 228 6455 [email protected] OCD Support group Runcorn Please phone contact for details as group not running at the moment Hugh 01514 230 363 OCD Support group Warrington First Tuesday of every month 10.00 12.00 (noon) Allen Street Day Centre, 44 Allen Street, Warrington, WA2 7JB Molly McKay 01925 652 204 07734 039 456 OCD Support group Tom Carpenter Centre, Carliol Square, Newcastle on Tyne, NE1 6UF Jean 01914 778 310 gatesheadocdgroup@ yahoo.co.uk OCD Support group North Eastern England Tyne and Wear/ Northumberland Every Monday, 18.00 – 17.00 except bank holidays Issue 43, Winter 25 Listings Yorkshire and Humberside Bradford First Wednesday of month 17.30 - 19.30 Bradford MIND, Ground Floor, Trade Force Building, Cornwall Place, Bradford, West Yorkshire, BD8 7JT Donna 07711955322 [email protected] OCD Support group Halifax First Tuesday of every month 18.30 - 20.30 Northbridge Leisure Centre, Halifax, HX3 6TE Louisa 07761 384 414 OCD Support group Sheffield Monthly on a Monday at 19.00. The group meets every 4 to 5 weeks. Knowle House, 4 Norfolk Park Road, Sheffield, S2 3QE Jonathan Clitheroe 01142 796 777 [email protected] OCD Support group York First Monday of every month 19.30 - 21.30 9 Castlegate York, YO1 9RN Brian or Dan at York Mind 01904 647 349 or 01904 647 014 OCD Support group The first Tuesday of the month from 19.00 to 21.00 Northampton and District MIND, Anchor House, 6-7 Regents Square, Northampton, NN1 2NQ Julia 07743 149 337 [email protected] OCD Support group Third Saturday of each month 14.30 - 16.30 Carr's Lane Church Centre, Carr's Lane, Birmingham, B4 7SX John Hinckes, Chairman WMOCD 07977 591 081 johnhinckes@blueyonder. co.uk OCD Support group East Midlands Northants West Midlands Birmingham, West Midlands Scotland and Wales Cardiff First Tuesday of every month 18.00 - 19.30 Contact group for details Ian Hughes 02920 335 555 Ian.Hughes@ CardiffandVale.wales. nhs.uk OCD Support group Edinburgh Third Wednesday of every month, 18.30 - 20.30 Health in Mind, 40 Shandwick Place, Edinburgh, Lothian, EH2 4RT 0131 225 8508 contactus@health-in-mind. org.uk OCD Support group Glasgow First Wednesday of every month 18.30-19.30 Charlie Reid Centre, Elmbank Street, Glasgow, G2 4PB 01410 5690 5852 OCD Support group North Wales, Deeside Every second and fourth Wednesday Aston House, Deeside, Community Hospital, Plough Lane, Deeside, CH5 1XS Keir Harding 01244 834 921 OCD Support group St. George’s Parish Church High St. Belfast (beside the ‘Inn Shops’ and the ‘Albert Clock’) Christina McManus 07789 104 668 07522 545 258 ocd.therapy.belfast@ googlemail.com Northern Ireland Belfast Fourth Tuesday of every month, 19.30 - 21.30 pm OCD Support group Fundraising Challenges for 2010 a great e b n a c Actionre plenty of D OC r a fo e eventr work. There g en a l l t s few u a u o j r o re f g a chm a y here Enterin ise ohne a t 2010, r u o o t y g a u w thro events UK running Events Nottingham 26K March 2010 Brighton Marathon April 2010 London Marathon April 2010 Bupa Great North (10K) May 2010 Trecking Events Peru April 2010 China May 2010 Iceland August 2010 Sahara Autumn 2010 Cycling Events London – Paris April 2010 Paris – Geneve June 2010 Vietnam October 2010 UK based Events Skydive Throughout 2010 Parachute Jump Throughout 2010 Log onto www.ocdaction.org.uk for more details 26 Information correct at time of printing, please visit the OCD Action website for up-dated details Issue 43, Winter 27 COMING SOON Food For Thoughts Delia Smith, Ainsley Harriot, Gino D’Acampo, and James Martin all want to help you host a special evening of fun, friends and great food. Food for Thoughts is a simple way to raise funds. We are looking for volunteers to host a dinner party, invite some friends, have a great time and ask guest to make a contribution towards our work. To help make sure your evening is a great success, we will even send you a party pack with game ideas, a quiz competition and of course some great recipes courtesy of our celebrity chefs. Interested.... Please contact the OCD Action office to register for your party pack. Pack will be available from January 2010 28
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