Ways to Welcome Ashley Wright
Ashley is a happy ten-year-old girl with the brightest
smile. She is not shy, and loves to meet people.
Her mum and dad, Laura and Peter, and twin sister
Amanda are determined that Ashley’s disability doesn’t
get in the way of her living life to the full. It has not yet
been determined what Ashley’s disability is, but she has
already developed far beyond expectations.
Ashley’s physical development has been slow, but she continues to
improve and surprise everyone. She uses a leg brace to walk. Her left
arm and leg work best for her, as a stroke has affected her body’s right
side. Ashley has trouble with coordination. Ashley still has seizures,
though these are very small, and mostly not noticeable to others.
Ashley speaks a few words, and also uses some sign language, or will
take you to whatever it is that she needs. She understands what others
say to her, and is quite determined to communicate. Ashley does not
read.
Ashley may test her buddy at first, to see what she can get away with.
Buddies – be gentle, and firm! Make sure you have with you Ashley’s
Buddy Bag of special items from home.
If Ashley needs help to go to the toilet, please call her mum or Dad.
Laura and Peter’s goals for Ashley at our church are that she finds
acceptance and friendship; that she understands as much about God
as she is capable; and that she attends a church where she is not the
only child with a disability. They also hope their other daughter
Amanda will be able to enjoy time with other children and families, and
not be required to provide care for Ashley while in the program.
In addition to these goals, we hope that Ashley and her family will be
welcomed into our church family; that she will have a buddy to
accompany her and help her participate on Sunday mornings;
opportunities to make friends; and that her parents will confidently be
able to attend church together, knowing Ashley is well cared for.
Luke14 Tools for Inclusion Workshops, CBM Australia, 2012