The Truth that Sets Us Free By K Karpen And Pilate answered Jesus and said, “What is truth?” Charlene and I were riding the #1 train back uptown when Charlene nudged me and pointed: “Look, that woman is carrying a bag of truth!” It turned out to be a book about acting. That’s a bit ironic, right? But it brought to mind Pilate’s apt question to Jesus, after Jesus says he has come to testify to the truth. Pilate asks: “What is truth?” The German theologian Dietrich Bonhoeffer asked himself that question in the context of the holocaust. When a soldier or Gestapo officer comes to you and asks you whether the next door neighbor is Jewish, to answer “yes” may be true factually, but ethically, it is a lie. In his great work, Ethics, begun in secret and left unfinished because of his execution at Flossenbürg concentration camp toward the end of World War II, Bonhoeffer tells the story of a young boy whose father is an alcoholic. In class, his teacher calls on him and says, ‘Your father is a drunk, right?’ What is the truth in that situation? Bonhoeffer tells us that the boy’s reply, ‘No, he’s not!’ is the more truthful response. Why? Because it captures the larger truth that the teacher had no business asking him that in class. The lie the boy speaks contains that truth. SP&SA Update The complicated question of truth comes up sometimes as I speak with seminarians about their prospects for ordination in the United Methodist Church. “How frank should I be about my life, my relationships, my sexual orientation?” But ‘what’s the truth?’ is a question that comes up for each of us, in one way or other, probably every day. “Do I need to give my [boss, boyfriend, partner] my real opinion of their [writing, haircut, clothes]? That’s perhaps a bit trivial, but you see the point. Bonhoeffer would say that the truth is not the truth apart from the relationship you have with the person you are speaking with. The truth is the truth within your relationship, within your community, and with reference to your relationship with God. The things you say can be loving or spiteful. But truth is only the truth if it’s spoken from a place of love. Bonhoeffer said it this way: “It is better for a truthful person to tell a lie than for a liar to tell the truth.” That’s because a liar uses truth to hurt people. A truthful person may lie out of love. Jesus said, “You will know the truth and the truth shall set you free.” As his follower, that is the truth I strive after. The truth that sets us free. The truth that labors in the service of love. Page 1 YOUNG ADULTS Brunch By Miriam Wood The Young Adults will be meeting for brunch on Sunday, February 2nd at 12:45 p.m. in the parlor. Food will be provided. Join us for food and a discussion led by Katy Hinson. Stay tuned for future events and contact Miriam Wood for information or to be added to the list. GREEN TEAM COMPOSTING IS COMING TO SPSA! The Green Team held its first meeting of 2014 on Wednesday, Jan. 15th. First on the agenda for the New Year is the NYC Department of Sanitation’s Organics Pilot program, which will divert food waste from the WSCAH pantry and SPSA kitchens to be composted. The program is slated to be up and running in March. Energy, volunteer and gardening projects are also in the works. Keep an eye on our Green Blog on the SPSA web site to stay in the loop, or contact Rosie at http:// www.stpaulandstandrew.org/socialaction/green-team/ to get involved. Next meeting: February 12! MISSION, CHURCH & SOCIETY: FOCUS ON OUR PRISON MINISTRY By June Quarfordt Greetings from MCS! We step into 2014 knowing that the new year brings new hope and many opportunities to serve. Be ALERT! Be LOOKING! For out there somewhere is the CALL to you! Join us on Feb. 16th after church in the chapel for a viewing of the film, "Redemption of the Prosecutor," a 22-minute documentary about prosecutor Preston Shipp, and the transformation he undergoes after he begins teaching in a Nashville prison. Hopefully, it will lead us as a congregation and as individuals into some form of action for Prison Ministry! Meanwhile, as a reminder, here is a list of some of the on-going needs/ opportunities for you to consider: WSCAH: The West Side Campaign Against Hunger is SO much more than a food pantry! Visit sometime. Contact K. WOMEN'S SHELTER: Be a part of giving and sharing a warm meal with some wonderful women who don't have a place to sleep, or spend the night with another volunteer. Contact Jim Melchiorre TUTORING: ONE HOUR each week can bring such a good feeling as you help a child with homework. Commit yourself to one child or be a substitute. Wednesdays, 6-7 p.m. Contact Charlene Floyd. GEMS COOKING: Every first Tuesday gather in the Social Hall and help prepare home cooked meals. Contact Jo Tiedeman . CROP WALK 2014, MAY 4th. Walk to raise funds for worldwide and local hunger needs. Join the team led by Siobhan Sargent Get CONNECTED to groups we support: Habitat for Humanity (habitat.org); Bread for the World (bread.org); Interfaith Assembly on Homelessness and Housing (iahh.org) and MIND (mind.org) TRUSTEES SAY ¡HOLA! TO OUR NEW SPACE USER By Linda Barrington A beautiful Board Room and bouncing children! Starting in February, our already lively building will be injected with the joy and energy of a day care project when we are joined by HOLA: the House of Language Acquisition. HOLA is completing renovations in the Board Room and 1st floor restroom. The new wooden floor they’ve installed is beautiful and practical, and something our own Children’s Education program has been asking for. HOLA will have exclusive use of the Board Room from 7 a.m. – 6 p.m., Monday through Friday, with the room still available for our use evenings, weekends and late summer, when HOLA is on break. HOLA describes its mission as providing “every child a quality, cohesive and Spanish immersed learning experience from age two to five years” and its vision as creating “an environment where speaking multiple languages is encouraged at all levels of education.” You can find out more about HOLA at www.holanyc.org Page 2 CELEBRATE SPRING AT THE WOMEN’S RETREAT! Our annual Women's Retreat will be held at The Grail, the weekend of March 21st. This beautiful, Victorian-era estate resting on 45 acres is the perfect place for the women of this church to get away and claim some R&R! It's a joyous time and whether it's your fifth or your first time retreating, it's truly a blessing to be around all these wonderful women. Cost is $150 per person for the entire weekend, including meals. (Scholarships available.) There are only 23 spots, so sign up today! Contact Siobhan o RSVP SP&SA Update UNITED METHODIST WOMEN: FOCUS ON HUMAN TRAFFICKING By Christie House United Methodist Women will not have a regular unit meeting in February because Feb. 16 is United Methodist Women’s Sunday at St Paul and St Andrew. This year, in thinking about our support for GEMS, the unit decided to look into the national and international issues of human trafficking. Nationally, United Methodist Women are seeking to make a statement on Super Bowl Sunday about intercepting traffickers. Our SPSA unit will join in that effort by sending a photo of support, added to many others from units around the country, as a message that many people in this country are aware and watchful. A representative of United Methodist Women’s national In March, our regular unit network on Human Trafficking, “Freeze! United Methodist Women intercept Human Trafficking” meeting will be March 9, Rachel Bachenberg, will travel from Missouri to share a when Rosângela Oliveira will lead the World Day of message with us as our preacher that Sunday. We hope Prayer program, Streams in the Desert, written by to discover that we are not alone in our concern for women in Egypt. In addition, watch for the World Day those who have been trafficked, and that many other of Prayer vespers service during Lent when United organizations are gathering to intercept and put an end Methodist Women will guide the church through the to trafficking, a form of slavery. World Day of Prayer worship service. SPIRITUAL CORNER: The Bleak Midwinter By Barbara Wheeler-Bride The hymn goes like this: In the bleak midwinter, frosty wind made moan, earth stood hard as iron, water like a stone; snow had fallen, snow on snow, snow on snow, in the bleak midwinter, long ago. Depending on when you read this, there are about six more weeks of winter. (On the calendar anyway.) Help your neighbors. Whether it is a hot cup of coffee for a coworker or a sandwich for a homeless person or an extra gift to your favorite charity -- people need your help this season. Connect with others. We might be spending a lot of time inside trying to keep warm this winter. Chances are a lot of our friends and family are, too. Pick up the phone for a long overdue call or FaceTime chat. If you’d like to contribute to the Spiritual Corner econtact Barbara Wheeler-Bride Winter is a time of hibernation for some, a time of outdoor sport for others. No matter where you find yourself on the spectrum of bleak or not-so-bleak midwinter, here are a few tips for making a spiritual connection with the season: Look for the beauty in winter’s nature. Glistening ice and pure white (for a little while) snow are only here for a short time. Observe and remember that they are part of God’s creation. And colorful winter birds -- cardinals are my favorite -- flit about the bare branches. Don’t miss them! SP&SA Update Page 3 very, very grassroots. It was about as grassroots as you can get. But you know, I CONTEXT FOR OUR WORK think the transformative power of love, and Each week a team from SPSA brings homewhat I wanted to create when I started cooked meals for 30 young women to GEMS (Girls GEMS was part of the Empowerment & Mentoring Services). What is things that I got from the GEMS? Founder Rachel Lloyd recently talked church in Germany: love, about its work at Trinity Church on Wall Street, support, a community. following a webcast featuring the experimental Some of the things that I opera “Angel’s Bone,” which deals with human didn’t get was a total lack of trafficking. SPSA’s Jim Melchiorre, who produced judgment. The church isn’t the webcast, shares these excerpts from Rachel always great at that. An Lloyd’s comments. (Next cooking date: Feb 4) understanding of trauma, what trauma does to you, I The Genesis of GEMS didn’t have anybody to help me process that. And an I grew up in a challenging environment. understanding of the systemic issues that And that’s true for the overwhelming allow commercial sexual exploitation to majority of both children take place. So in creating GEMS, I wanted and adults who end up in to kind of bring the things that I did get and the sex industry. Sexual many of the things that I didn’t, together. abuse is really, really And we’ve done that. We just celebrated common, family our 15-year anniversary a couple of months dysfunction is really ago. We’re the largest service provider to common, alcoholism and young people in the commercial sex substance abuse in the industry in the country. We have created a home you grew up in is very, very strong tight community, which is really common. And so you kind of learn to take care of the people ultimately transformative. around you, and maybe not learn to take Why Trafficking Has Grown care of yourself. I’m originally from I think it’s because who is overwhelmingly England, and I’d gone to Germany in search of a better life, and at that point, met impacted by the commercial sex industry. Marginalized young people, low-income a guy who I felt was my boyfriend who kids of color, homeless kids or LGBT kids: ultimately became my pimp, and was a kids who don’t rate very high on anybody’s very violent, sociopathic individual. I priority list. If we saw trafficking ended up finding a church in Germany, which was actually an American church on happening to middle class white girls, quite frankly, in the Midwest, at the rates that we a military base. And that’s where I had do, for young people who are growing up epiphany and a relationship with God. in poverty and young people who are When I came to the States a few years growing up in the child welfare system, we later, originally as a missionary working would have seen a very different political with adult women coming out of the sex industry, I went to Riker’s Island and up to and practical and emotional response to this. The commercial sex industry doesn’t Hunt’s Point and met adult women, and overwhelmingly, really young girls. And I make its money off the backs of, quite was 22 when I came to the States to do this frankly, white, college-educated women work. And I was meeting 15, 16, 12-year- who write a blog after a year about their olds, 11-year-olds in an adult prison. There experiences in the sex industry. It makes its money off of children in Calcutta and were absolutely no services. This is like ’97. This is pre- any trafficking language or women in the Ukraine, right? It’s making its money off the most vulnerable, most any concept that women and girls who were in the sex industry deserved any type disenfranchised. So I think it’s about making sure that we recognize that all of help. And because of my own individuals have human rights and have the experiences and because I saw so many right to dignity and services and support linkages, I wanted to start my own program. And I didn’t know enough to be and do have a hope and a future. I think it’s being able to get educated about this scared of starting a non-profit. And so issue as much as possible. those first couple of years was really just girls kind of coming and staying on my What Can the Church/I Do? couch and wearing my clothes and never I think there’s a lot of excitement right bringing my clothes back. I mean, it’s still now about the issue, which is great, but I a little bit like that sometimes, but it was COOKING FOR GEMS: THE Page 4 think people need to be really thoughtful about the ways that they approach it. And then I think it’s about figuring out how can you even begin to intervene at an earlier point? We have lots of people coming to us saying I really want to volunteer and rescue girls off the streets at GEMS. We don’t really rescue. We empower. We may have to rescue in the moment, but that’s not really the work, rescue isn’t a long-term plan for anybody’s life. And we encourage people to go volunteer at Big Brothers/Big Sisters. If you’re a mentor in a child’s life for the next five years, the likelihood that that girl ever walks through the doors of GEMS just decreased really dramatically. What Happens at GEMS We have a model called Victim to Survivor, Survivor to Leader. And leader doesn’t necessarily mean being a leader in the anti-trafficking movement. It’s leadership in your own life. Leadership in your family, leadership in your community, leadership however that looks to you. We have a youth leadership program, where girls learn about all the systemic issues, they learn about global issues, they learn about sexism and racism and misogyny. And then they learn public speaking and community organizing. I think that one of the most critical parts of the empowerment piece, is understanding, this is a global industry, it’s a billion-dollar industry. The other people are vulnerable for the same reasons I was vulnerable. There are these big systemic issues, right? It begins to take that feeling off of I’m a bad girl, I was a dirty girl, I did something wrong, to oh, this is like an actual system. We have an educational initiative program that focuses on getting girls back into school, whether it’s high school, GED, and the further education. Most of us grew up in homes where no one went to college. And so breaking those cycles to make sure that people can have economic selfsufficiency is critical. Last semester, we had 28 girls in college, which was freaking awesome. Excerpts courtesy of Trinity Wall Street. Watch the entire panel discussion at: http://www.trinitywallstreet.org/file/ angels-bone-talkback SP&SA Update TUTORING at SPSA Let It Go! By Iris Mondragon Do you know who Elsa, Anna, Olaf, Kristof, and Prince Hans are? They are characters from the new movie “Frozen”. This movie was made by Disney Pictures. Arendelle, she uses her power and freezes the whole town of Arendelle. Then she leaves and goes to the mountains and creates her own ice castle. Anna meets Prince Hans and falls in love with him, but she knows she has to go search for her sister and break the spell on Arendelle. On the search she meets Kristof and his pet reindeer, and then they meet a talking snowman named Olaf. You will have to go see Frozen to find out if the spell is broken and Arendelle is saved. The lesson I learned from the movie was to NEVER give up. I also really liked the songs from My tutor, Lisa took me and the movie, my favorite song was my brother to the movies to “Let it Go” sung by Demi see Frozen. The movie is about Lovato. You can see it at http:// two princesses from Arendelle www.youtube.com/watch?v=kHuenamed Elsa and Anna who HaXXzg are sisters. The two sisters get Iris, grade 6, Dual Language Middle School separated because Elsa, the big sister has a dangerous power. So Elsa locks herself away and ignores her little Homework Help happens every Wednesday, 6-7. sister Anna. The sisters were alone because their parents Come help! died in an accident. It only takes an hour or so a week. Contact On the day that Elsa was to become the Queen of Charlene Floyd for more info. FINANCE UPDATE: In the Black! Good news: We paid all our 2013 bills by year-end, including our apportionments. Thank you for your faithfulness! For 2014, so far we have received 90 pledges for nearly $300,000, so we’re getting close to our budget for pledges, which is $320,000. It’s not too late to pledge if you can, which will help us in our planning. Also this spring, we will move forward with our capital campaign to restore the front steps, replace the sidewalks and tree pits, and repair some roof damage. Please help! CAMPUS MINISTRY: GATHER WITH US Hello and Happy New Year to everyone! As we enter 2014 and the spring semester of school, the Columbia University Methodist Campus Ministry is very excited to get started again with The Gathering, a great time of discussion and fellowship. We continue to ask for your prayers and support as we look to move forward with our vision to grow our ministry. Feel free to join us on Monday nights from 8:30-9:30 p.m. in Earl Hall on Columbia’s campus. Anyone who would like to volunteer to help out with our ministry or attend is welcome to contact Joshua Jo Goodson-Tiedeman Dinners for Eight Are back! Saturday March 8 & Friday March 14. If you are interested in hosting a dinner or attending contact Jim Melchiorre ▲ SP&SA Update Page 5 YOUTH: HEADED TO CAMBODIA Siobhan Sargent Youth Schedule and Events The biggest thing on the Youth agenda for February is the Youth Ambassador Trip to Cambodia. I feel very privileged to accompany 19 youth from all over our New York Annual Conference to Cambodia, and I’m especially excited that AJ and Annah are a part of that group. It’s sure to be a transformative experience and I can’t wait to tell you all about it when we get back! Sundays, Feb 2nd and 9th: Confirmation Class 9:15 am Youth Group OWL- High School Youth Friday, Feb 7th: Theater Night Saturday, Feb 8th: Work Day NO YOUTH GROUP: Feb 16th & 23rd (Youth Ambassador Trip to Cambodia) We ask for your continued prayers as we head to this developing country, that our time there will be one of safety and health so that we can embrace the love of God that is sure to abound. Looking ahead, we have Lent, Easter and, of course, the Youth Talent Show, on Saturday, May 17th. It’s a ways away but it’s a wonderful and beautiful event to add to your new 2014 calendars! WE DID: MARRIAGE EQUALITY holidays. Together they began to coordinate the ushers, By K Karpen showing up early each Sunday to make sure When our son Harry was ready to be the sanctuary was fit baptized, it was not difficult for Charlene for worship. and me to decide who his godparents They loved their should be. newfound identity as Ron and Jim had only recently joined the United Methodist, and a church. Ron grew up Disciples of Christ; church family that embraced all of who Jim, Catholic. But neither had had they are. Ron once asked me whether all anything to do with religion for a long Methodist churches were like St. Paul and time. Their coming to St. Paul & St. St. Andrew. Andrew was the result of a New Year’s Ten years ago I asked them if they would resolution. Or maybe a bet. I’m not sure. ever want to get married. It seemed like When Harry was born, Ron and Jim took such a rhetorical question at the time. to him instantly. Not that either liked But times change. babies. Or kids. But they liked Two years ago marriage equality became Harry. And Harry liked them. More the law of the land in New York importantly, in these times of uncertain State. The once-unimaginable quickly relationships, they were one of the most became routine. Ron and Jim thought stable couples we could think of. They had already been together for more than a about it, and they considered just going down to City Hall and taking their decade, and were clearly devoted to each vows. But by then they had been together other and committed to a spiritual life for twenty-five years. Twenty-five together. years! So why not wait a bit longer and do Ron and Jim took to the church right away as well. They served on committees, it the way they wanted it. And the way they wanted it was this: surrounded by showed up at potlucks and events, their friends and church family in the pledged, prayed and praised God. Ron sanctuary they had lovingly cared for. was chosen as a mentor by the youth of And the way they wanted it was the way the church. Jim took on the daunting task they got it. A sanctuary full of hundreds of dressing up our huge sanctuary for God Smiled Page 6 Upcoming Dates Lock-in March 15-16th Talent Show May 17th Youth Sunday June 8th of people that love them. Family members who came from Texas and Oklahoma, their states of origin. Excited coworkers eager to witness the moment. Church youth who had grown up and graduated returned for the great event. Members of the United Methodist Women pitched in with young adults, youth and other church members to prepare a heck of a party. One of the youth designed a terrific marzipan cake topper that looked just like the two of them. Toward the end of the ceremony, it occurred to me that I had never been so powerfully aware of the Spirit of God moving in a place. It was truly awesome; there are not words to describe what God was up to in that moment. When I spoke the words, “Now, by the power vested in me by the awesome State of New York…” the room erupted in shouts and applause. No one heard another word. But I said it anyway: “I hereby pronounce you married! What God hath joined together, let no one put asunder.” I smiled. And God smiled, too. SP&SA Update February 2014 Sunday Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday 2 COMMUNION 9:15 Confirmation Class 9:30 Children’s Ed Comm 11 Worship K preaching 12:45 Young Adult Brunch 1 Youth Group 3 4 5 6 7 8 11 Staff 5 GEMS Cooking 6:30 Pilates 7:15 Trustees 7:30 Knitting 11 GEMS delivery 6 Tutoring 7 11 GEMS delivery 1 Work Day ! 9 10 11 2:00 Staff 4:00 Space Users 6:30 Pilates 7:30 Knitting 12 11 GEMS delivery 6 Tutoring 7:15 Green Team 7:15 Methodist Spirit study 19 9:15 Confirmation Class 10 Choir 11 Worship Siobhan preaching 1 Youth Group 8:30 Gathering 8:30 Gathering 7:15 Methodist Spirit study 16 17 18 10 Choir 11 Worship UMW Sunday 1 Prison Documentary No Youth Group Presidents Day 6:30 Pilates 7:00 Trustees 7:30 Knitting 23 24 25 26 8:30 Gathering 6:30 Finance 6:30 Pilates 7:30 Knitting 11 GEMS delivery 10 Choir 11 Worship K preaching No Youth Group Youth Theater Night 13 14 15 11 GEMS delivery 20 21 22 11 GEMS delivery 11 GEMS delivery No Tutoring 27 6 Tutoring 7:15 Church Council (and Charge Conference) 28 March 1 11 GEMS delivery Shelter: Sundays, Wednesdays and Thursdays at 7:00; AA Tuesdays and Thursdays at 7:00; Food Pantry, Monday 8:00 to 6:30, Wednesday to Friday 8:00 to 3:00. GEMS UPDATE LET’S KEEP COOKING! Each month we provide meals for GEMS— Girls Educational & Mentoring Services— which helps girls and young women get out of the commercial sex business. When we gather in the Social Hall on Tuesday February 4 from 5-9 pm we’re cooking 4 weeks of food, with your help. Info: Jo Goodson. The Methodist Spirit: January 29, February 5 & 12. Join us for a three week study of the tradition of the Methodist movement, led by K Karpen and Siobhan Sargent. Explore with us how the inclusive vision of John Wesley can be interpreted for our day and time. Wednesday, January 29, February 5 & 12, 7:15 pm. We’ll focus on these important areas: The Methodist Spirit: January 29, February 5 & 12 January 29—Methodism and Women Homework Help Tutoring Wednesdays, 6-7pm Can you give an hour to help a student? Contact Charlene FELLOWSHIP Shrove Tuesday Pancake Supper! Join us at the parsonage 3/04 for yummy pancakes before the start of Lent March 4, 6 pm Lent is Coming! Lent is Coming! We are hoping to find some more contributors to our Lenten Devotional! Please contact Siobhan right away to find out how to submit a reflection or poem. Ash Wednesday: March 5, 7:30 pm SP&SA Update Wesley’s controversial policy of including women as preachers, class leaders and evangelists was tamped down in the 1800s, and ordination for women came in fits and starts. Methodist women were never good at staying in their place, though… February 5—Methodism and Race Wesley found slavery appalling, and incomprehensible to his conviction that all of humanity is equally created in the image of God. The First Rules (1743) prohibited engaging in slavery in any way. This prohibition carried over to the American colonies, but gradually became relaxed as racism & economics took control. How is the church of Wesley called to deal with race today? February 12—Methodism and Economic Justice Was Wesley an early socialist or an early capitalist? Well, he was a follower of Jesus, who came to bring ‘good news to the poor.’ Sometimes that meant bad news to the people in power. Page 7 Doing Church in the Wesleyan Tradition February 5 & 12 (See page 7) The Methodist Spirit 263 West 86th Street New York, NY 10024 (212) 362-3179 www.stpaulandstandrew.org United Methodist The Church of St. Paul & St. Andrew Time of Trial: On Monday, March 10 and Tuesday, March 11, the Rev. Dr. Tom Ogletree, United Methodist pastor and former dean of Yale Divinity School will face church trial for violating the disciplinary prohibition of same-gender weddings. Come support Tom! Trial will be held at First UMC, Stamford, CT Contact Charlotte Patton Page 8 SP&SA Update
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