Two Sections – Section A Volume 153 Number 48 072000 April 6, 2007 ‘WillieBuild’ leaves lasting legacy BY DR. JOAN GRAY LABARR Editor I n March 2005, one year before cancer claimed his life at the age of 19, Willie Tichenor was determined to join his friends on a mission trip to Mexico. Willie had been battling a rare form of osteosarcoma (bone cancer) for two years. After his diagnosis in April 2003, Willie had surgery at M.D. Anderson Cancer Center in Houston, and endured numerous rounds of chemotherapy. After graduating from high school, Willie took off a year before enrolling in college. He was working at Highland Park UMC, Dallas, in youth ministry and as part of the Cornerstone contemporary worship team. With a resolve that family and friends knew well, Willie joined the team for the trip to Juarez, Mexico. As a veteran of numerous worktrips over the years, Willie knew that the going would be rough, but this trip was very, very important to him. Just how important is clear from an The Bishop entry in his personal journal: “This morning was beautiful. My group volunteered to cook breakfast, so we were up at 6:15. The tiny sliver of a crescent moon still hung in the air, backed by an orange and purple sunrise. I’m excited about the possibility of spiritual growth, and I’ve grown so much as a Christian and person recently.” When Willie died on March 15, 2006, he had touched countless lives. A memorial fund at Highland Park UMC grew as those who knew Willie and his loving family made contributions. For Willie’s parents, Mac and Lisa Tichenor, it was important that the memorial to their son continue the mission that he had loved so much. Thus was born a new Highland Park Carpenters for Christ mission, “WillieBuild,” that will fund multi-generational volunteer mission teams doing Habitat for Humanity projects. Fittingly, the first “WillieBuild” home will coincide with what would have been Willie’s 21st birthday on May 15. It will be the 50th Carpenters for Christ ‘I am a debtor’ BY ALFRED L. NORRIS Bishop, North Texas Area NTC Bishop Alfred L. Norris “…we give back by paying forward.” house. Dates for the 2007 “WillieBuild” Habitat project will be: May 12, 13 and 15; 17, 19 and 20; and 23 and 24. The dedication will be May 26th. Willie, who graduated from Highland Park High School in 2004, was known for his musical gifts, irrepressible spirit, dazzling smile, and increasingly for his great faith in God. The late Bishop Rhymes H. Moncure, Jr. developed a special connection with A sign superimposed on a photo from Willie Tichenor’s final mission trip to Willie, whom he Juarez, Mexico, promotes the first “WillieBuild” Habitat for Humanity project met for the first planned for May 2007. time at the 2005 Confirmation Celebration when Through the three years of college and come home. After Willie’s band, “CloverStreet,” Willie’s battle with cancer, the celebration, Bishop played. countless friends and acquainMoncure went to the Tichenor At the 2006 Confirmation tances of all ages showered home to visit with Willie. Six Celebration Bishop Moncure him and the family with months later, Bishop Moncure made a special point to rememexpressions of love and was diagnosed with brain ber Willie, who by that time concern. Willie’s mother kept cancer and died following was so ill he had to leave complications from surgery. See “WillieBuild”… on Page 4A We are in the process of observing Holy Week, with the crowning days being Palm Sunday, Maundy Thursday, Good Friday, and Easter Sunday. The week is perhaps the most solemn, passionfilled, and jubilant in the Christian year. When I reflect on the meaning and significance of Lent, Holy Week, and Easter, my mind and spirit take on an aura of debt satisfaction. Yes, the season is a reminder to the faithful that “Jesus paid it all,” but does that fact negate our collective and individual responsibility to give something in return? How do we repay our debts? Someone has said that we repay our debt to the past by being faithful to the present and future. In other words, we give back by paying forward. We can’t always repay our parents for the heritage we have received from them. We can, however, be faithful to our children. Sometimes that’s the only way to settle accounts. Two thousand years ago, our Savior and Lord paid our sin debt in full. And when I meditate on that full and complete offering of Himself, I can only exclaim: “Were the whole realm of nature mine, that were a present far too small; love so amazing, so divine, demands my soul, my life, my all!” Honduras mission trip …a personal perspective BY MARJI BISHIR VIM/Disaster Relief Coordinator “Tony baloney, big boy” Cherin muttered into my ear while climbing over my lap. Surely I heard incorrectly, I thought to myself. I repeated it back “Tony baloney big boy? Is that what you said, Cherin?” See ‘Honduras’ Page 8A Jim and Annabella, temporary residents at the House of Hope. 4 A NTCcircuit ‘WillieBuild’ leaves lasting legacy Continued from Page 1A Born in 1986 church,” his mother recalls. track of what she calls “an unbelievable outpouring of love to our family.” “I learned to accept what people offered – they brought their best to us,” she reflects. Willie enrolled as a freshman at the University of Texas in the fall of 2005. He was a creative student who was accepted into the Plan II honors program. After Willie’s death, the U.S. and Texas flags at the University of Texas were lowered to half-staff in his honor. Jeb Honeyman, a youth minister from Highland Park, spoke, followed by friends and classmates who remembered his courage, strength, and optimism despite debilitating illness. Willie was born in Harlingen, TX, on May 15, 1986, and named William Evans Tichenor. The Tichenors, including older brother, Taylor, moved to Dallas in 1988. The family joined Highland Park UMC and also became involved in the Wesley-Rankin Community Center and Nueva Esperanza Fellowship. Willie quickly adapted to Nueva Esperanza, which was located next door to WesleyRankin in West Dallas. His mother, Lisa, remembers how he went up to a little boy about his age and said, “You can’t catch me!” and promptly took off running. “From that point on, there was a group of kids gathered and ready to play when the boys arrived for Fittingly, the Habitat home that will be the first “WillieBuild” project is located just blocks from WesleyRankin. Children who are too young to work on the Habitat house will work at WesleyRankin, 3326 N. Winnetka, working on the youth center floor and helping refinish picnic tables outside the center. It is expected that this will be the first of many “WillieBuild” Habitat projects that, supported through the memorial fund and new donations, will continue blessing hardworking low income families with their own homes into the future. Those who wish to participate in “Willie Build” or to Habitat home New Igniting Ministry Easter TV ads A new television message entitled “Finding Yourself” recognizes that what people show on the outside is not always what is happening in our hearts. The commercial is the latest component of the UMC’s “Open hearts. Open minds. Open doors.” media campaign. ”Through this commercial, we are encouraging people to find themselves as they show others what’s really going on inside. In doing so, they can find a path to God within a loving community – the people of The United Methodist Church,” said the Rev. Larry Hollon, chief executive of United Methodist Communications (UM Comm). The commercial features various people exhibiting one face to the outside world, but wearing a screen that functions as a window to their hearts and shows what they are really feeling. The national ad campaign will run now through Easter on the following cable networks: BET, CNN, Animal Planet, CNBC, Hallmark, CNN Headline News, HGTV, MSNBC, Oxygen, SciFi, TBS, TVLand, USA, the Food Network, and the Weather Channel. The commercial will air 963 times at a cost of nearly $1.5 million and is expected to reach 55 million adults, 25-54 years of age. Designed to appeal to thoughtful, intentional spiritual “seekers” 25-54 years old, the advertising spot provides the basic theme, illustrated in various ways, for complementary advertising for radio, print, outdoor and other media. The commercial and all related collateral pieces are available free online at www.IgnitingMinistry.org. UM Comm offers $1 million in matching funds annually to local churches, districts and conferences to aid in community advertising efforts. The “Open hearts. Open minds. Open doors.” campaign, now in its seventh year, was designed to raise awareness of The United Methodist Church. Igniting Ministry Regional Training Rev. Perry Crenshaw, Warren UMC, Dallas, and a member of the NTC Igniting Ministry team, leads morning worship for the March 3 regional Igniting Ministry congregational training at Plymouth Park UMC, Irving. More than 100 persons participated in the congregational training, while 40 NTC Lay Speakers and others were trained to be Igniting Ministry trainers the day before. This means the NTC now has numerous capable leaders to send to local churches. For more information on the Igniting Ministry inviting and welcoming campaign, or to schedule a training session, contact the NTC Communications Office, 972-490-3438, 800-969-8201, or e-mail: [email protected]. A PRIL 6, 2007 | N ORTH T EXAS C ONFERENCE N EWS make a contribution may e-mail Lisa Tichenor at: LWTichenor@ compuserve.com. Additional information is available at the official WillieBuild website, www.WillieBuild. com and on the Highland Park UMC site, www.hpumcWillie Tichenor, center, hams it up with former cfc.org, or Highland Park UMC staff member Jeb contact Highland Honeyman. Park UMC Volunteer Coordinator Jane Parker at jhp01@ would follow his example. aol.com or 214-522-0204. “With all my strength, I will Supporting “Willie Build” is defend what’s right and what’s one way that those who knew real, so take me back to where and loved Willie Tichenor can I belong.” sustain his memory by serving When that Habitat house God in a manner that meant so goes up in May, the sounds of much to him. hammers and saws will echo As Willie has gone to rest in the sounds of a young man’s the arms of God, the lyrics to music and the hope and one of his CloverStreet songs promise of new life through linger in the air as an example God love. And that’s as right and inspiration for those who and real as you can get. NTC Lent/Easter support for local churches The NTC Igniting Ministry team has resourced local churches’ inviting and welcoming efforts during the 2007 Lent/Easter season by providing: • 39,000 complimentary oversize postcards • Dallas Observer and Dallas Quick newspaper ads targeting seekers • Website messages coordinating with the Observer and Quick ads • Wise County E-mail Blast with invitation to Easter services in all UMC congregations • Holy Week advertising on Dallas FM radio station WRR-101.1 • Igniting Ministry ads with NTC church Easter service times and phone contacts in suburban Star Newspapers. • Monetary support for multicongregation bilingual Easter Celebration at Spring Valley UMC, Dallas. The NTC Igniting Ministry Team also reminds congregations that trained Mystery Guests are available to help provide feedback on local church’s welcoming practices. For information or to schedule a Mystery Guest visit, please contact the NTC Communications Office, 972490-3438, 800-969-8201, or email: [email protected]. Sacred Music Celebration concert The DFW International Community Alliance will close its International DFW Month with a Global Sacred Music Celebration on Easter Sunday, April 8, at 4:00 p.m. at Unity Church of Dallas, 6525 Forest Lane in North Dallas. The Celebration is the concluding event of International DFW International Month 2007, one of 20 collaborative events organized by the DFW International Community Alliance. The month highlights global cultures through programs that celebrate the pioneer spirit of the New Americans who make up 40 percent of the DFW region’s residents. A dozen faiths and traditions will be represented in the twohour concert that affirms spiritual unity. Tickets for the Global Sacred Music Celebration are $5, and may be purchased at www.dfwinternational.org/ festival/sacred, and available at the door. Light refreshments will be served after the concert. Pastor’s effectiveness conference, First UMC, Arlington, May 1-3 North Texas Conference pastors are invited to be part of the May 1-3 Leadership Nexus Foundation Effectiveness Conference at First UMC, Arlington. The conference agenda includes issues that related to the South Central Jurisdiction including presentations from six successful pastors, plus workshops led by the presenters and others with special expertise. Workshops will cover subjects such as preaching, organization, spiritual life, evangelism, congregational care, contemporary worship, youth ministries, the Emerging Church movement, families, publicity and post-modernism. The keynote presenters are: Dr. Jim Moore, retired pastor from the Texas Conference who served St. Luke’s UMC, Houston, one of the denomination’s largest churches. Dr. Moore, who is also a popular author, now serves on the staff at Highland Park UMC, Dallas. Rev. Gail Ford Smith, former pastor of St. Peter’s UMC, Katy, now a district superintendent in the Houston South District. Dr. William Lawrence, Dean of Perkins School of Theology, SMU, Dallas, who also served as pastor of a large UM congregation in Washington D.C. Dr. Lawrence has written extensively, publishing five books on topics of effectiveness in the local church. Dr. Robert Pierson, president and founder of Leadership Nexus Foundation, is a former pastor of Christ UMC, Tulsa, and author of the book Needs Based Evangelism. Rev. Jim Dorff, Area Provost for the NTC, who has served several pastorates in the conference, including First UMC, McKinney. He was superintendent of the DallasDenton District before being appointed provost. Dr. David Mosser, pastor of First UMC, Arlington, who has written extensively for pastors. He has also one of the most informed persons in the country on literature written to help develop an effective church. Registration fee is $119 per person before Easter and $149 after Easter. There are discounts for two or more persons from the same church. A registration form is available on website www.ntcumc.org, or by contacting Leadership Nexus, 918-477-7579, e-mail: [email protected]. Labyrinth Theatre presents Manly Men The Labyrinth Theatre, Richardson, presents the comic story, “Manly Men: An Evening Chockful of Lies and Testosterone,” with Lee Irving, Marisa Diotalevi and Andy Mullins, April 26 to May 19. This is a story of a hapless fellow named Harold who is in search of a secret male-female relations; the one truth that will finally allow him to seek romantic fulfillment and he’ll listen to pretty much anyone with a theory. A special preview and relationship forum is scheduled April 20 at 7:00 p.m. The performances are scheduled Thursday through Saturday evenings at 7:30 p.m. and Saturday matinee at 3:00 p.m. Tickets are from $12 to $25 with discounts for students, seniors and groups. The Theatre is located at the Arapaho UMC, Richardson, and operates under a Small Professional Theatre Contract with Actors’ Equity Association. It is a professional, nonprofit theatre founded to promote philosophically ideological and theological thought and discussion. For tickets and more information, please call 972231-1012 or visit website: www.TheLabyrinthTheatre.org. First UMC, Kemp, gospel concert benefit, April 21 Southern Gospel Music Recording Artists The New Plainsmen Quartet has scheduled a benefit performance for First UMC, Kemp at the Kemp High School Cafetorium, April 21, at 7:00 p.m. according to Denise Spaniel. “We are updating our church buildings and we thought that a concert would be a great way to raise some of the money and it would also be a great evening of music for our community.” The New Plainsmen Quartet have performed throughout the US and has recorded five projects and several top 80 nationally charted songs. They have performed at The National Quartet Convention and appeared on television both in the U.S. and worldwide via satellite. Sharing the stage with the quartet will be the Kemp High School Choir and other special guests. Tickets are $10 in advance, $12 at the door, $8 for groups of 10 or more. Please call 903-340-5228. Website www.thenewplainsmen.com. NTCcircuit 5 A Claiborne to speak at University Park UMC Shane Claiborne, a prominent activist, grassroots Christian and the author of “The Irresistible Revolution: Living As An Ordinary Radical,” will speak at University Park UMC, Dallas, at 7:00 p.m. April 9. This is currently Claiborne’s only scheduled appearance in the Dallas area. Following Claiborne’s presentation, participants may meet and talk with him, as well as to register for several hands-on service opportunities. Claiborne is a founding partner of The Simple Way Community, a faith community in inner city Philadelphia that focuses on loving people the way Jesus loves. He is also a board member of the Christian Community Development Association, one of the largest national associations of faith-based organizations. A graduate of Eastern University, he attended at Princeton Seminary. He spent 10 weeks working alongside Mother Teresa in Calcutta, India, and a year serving at Willow Creek Community Church in suburban Chicago. While spending three weeks in Baghdad with the Claiborne Iraq Peace Team, a project of Voices in the Wilderness and Christian Peacemaker Teams, he witnessed the military bombardment of Iraq, took daily trips to sites where there had been bombings, visited hospitals and families, and attended worship services. As part of The Simple Way, Claiborne helped to birth and connect radical faith communities around the world, many of whom have become known as a “new monasticism,” which produced the book “Schools for Conversion.” These communities seek to follow Jesus, to rediscover the spirit of the early Church, and to incarnate the Kingdom of God – a way of life standing in stark contrast to the world of militarism and materialism. For more information, please contact University Park UMC, 469-916-9623 or e-mail [email protected]. Around the Conference NTC clergy and laity are invited to the annual “Minister-Laity Golf Tournament,” May 8 at Sugartree Golf Course, Dennis, on FM 1543 fifteen miles southwest of Weatherford. The fellowship event includes food and trophies. For more information, call Don Dendy, 214-957-0544, e-mail: [email protected]. Births Abigail Claire Wilks, daughter of Laurie and Rev. John Wilks, Sadler UMC, was born March 22, weighing 6 lbs. 7 oz and measuring 191/2 inches. *** Brody Thomas Wyman, son of Kristie and Tim Wyman, and grandson of Debbie and Rev. Joe Zinser, Chinn’s Chapel UMC, was born March 22, weighing 8 lbs. 9 oz and measuring 19 inches. *** Autumn Kendyll Micknal, daughter of Amanda and Dean Micknal, granddaughter of Mickey and Rev. Larry George, Dallas-Denton District, was born March 23, weighing 9 lbs 9 oz and measuring 221/2 inches. Positions available Custer Road UMC, Plano, is seeking a part-time director of elementary ministries, Persons interested may send resume to Debbie Pomponio, [email protected]. North Texas Conference United Methodist Reporter Joan Gray LaBarr editor Lee Zastovnik prod. assistant Becki Ozmun circulation SUBSCRIPTION FOR CONFERENCE EDITION $25 PER YEAR P.O. Box 516069 Dallas, Texas 75251 972-490-3438 • 800-969-8201 [email protected] NORTH TEXAS CONFERENCE NEWS | A PRIL 6, 2007 8 A NTCcircuit Honduras mission trip …a personal perspective Continued from Page 1A Cherin, age 5, giggled and flung herself on the cushions of the ancient orange couch, which sags so badly it could be a bean bag chair. Tony, age 3, runs in and leaps onto Cherin and they giggle and thrash around like two brown puppies. I’m caught in the middle and wonder if I will escape the melee unscathed. Tony and Cherin are both Moskito Indians, from a remote area of Honduras that’s inaccessible by roads. I’m here with a group of VIM short-term missioners from Christ UMC and First UMC of Plano. We’ve settled into the House of Hope, a permanent home for children in this area who are disabled or were victims of neglect or abuse. Our plan is to stay the week, helping where we can. VIM team The team consists of folks from age 13 to age 63, with a variety of skills. We feel fortunate that two Parkland nurses decided to join us, considering the number of kids needing help. In addition to the permanent residents, the House also takes in temporary referrals of infants from the local hospital. The week we are there, two sets of twins are staying there with their mothers, trying to regain their health. When they are sufficiently stable enough to journey back into the jungle, they will leave. “Sometimes they just disappear,” says Katrina Engle, the house manager and missionary. Our nurses had their hands full with the first set of twins, who were so tiny yet were actually six weeks old. “This is like the front line of nursing,” said Susan Norman, R.N. The other set of twins were just born and had spina bifida. They arrived mid-week. Each day begins at 5:30 a.m., or maybe earlier if you forgot your earplugs and aren’t used to roosters crowing periodically after 3:00 a.m. We get up and try to get the kids who are permanent residents ready for school, which is on the grounds. Unfortunately, it’s still dark outside and there is no electricity, which normally doesn’t come back on until around 10:00 a.m. or so. We stumbled around with our flashlights, but somehow the kids came out with their uniforms on and looked somewhat ready. Breakfast started with a gonging bell. Once the cooks had all the food ready, they put it into bowls or plates. The volunteers served all the meals to the children, as they sat at their long line of tables. We spilled less that way, I think. I did clean up the floor after a few meals and plenty of it still ended up there too. Cherin and Tony go to preschool in the town, Puerto Lempira, but most of the children go to the “big kid” school next door, which is an annex of the local government school, Chino Tatallón. While they are gone we try to get our tasks done, everything from sorting through the medicine closet to painting the new wardrobes about to go into each room. At the beginning of the week we were confused by all the kids left behind who weren’t in school. “Who are these kids?” we asked. Katrina reminded us of the large crowd who met us at the plane when we got off. “These kids were left here by their mothers, who got on your plane and took their siblings to have cleft palate surgery” she reminded us. Then it made sense. One of the children left behind was one-year-old Annabella, who had not yet been weaned. She cried night and day for the first 3 days, wanting her mother. By the end of the week she had recovered enough to laugh and play with the other kids a little. But mostly she just clung to her big brother, Jim, who was about nine. The happiest I saw Jim was one evening when his sister was asleep. We were decorating sugar cookies with icing and sprinkles. I was sure he had never seen anything like it before. Another child who stayed all day was Jose, a deaf boy who was fourteen years old. I’d known about Jose in advance, and I brought him something special. Cristi Forman, a speech pathologist and member of Christ UMC, Plano, volunteered her time to make Jose a special “communications board”. She was so excited to find a way to use her skills in mission. “This is why I became a speech pathologist,” she told me. With the board Cristi made for Jose, he will be able to communicate with others around him that don’t know sign language. Katrina and I worked to teach Jose how to use this new tool. VIM Honduras Mission team, from left front; Deanna Patterson, Rebecca McKenzie, Jacque Roberson, Anna England, Rev. Holly Bandel, and Margie White. Middle row; Nancye Ashley, Susan Norman, Dan Smith, Phil Bandel, Marji Bishir, and Cole Patterson. Back row; Patrick Thompson, Jack Bishir. A PRIL 6, 2007 | N ORTH T EXAS C ONFERENCE N EWS As a task, we had the choice of assisting in Dr. Tom Bryan’s dental clinic, which he opened up for three days. Tom is a dentist from Allen and is the one who first began coming to this place. He helped to found the House of Hope, which is now an NGO A mother and her twins who were staying at (non-governthe House of Hope to regain their health. mental organizawith U.S. missionaries, gives tion). I worked with Tom as you a new insight into the the “instrument sterilizer” for a incredible sacrifices they make full day. I tried not to look too each and every day. We saw closely while they did lots of Katrina’s frustrations and extractions and a few fillings. I listened to her stories about the also told Tom that after this I difficulties she faced. They expect all my dental appointrecently lost a full-time volunments to last only 15 minutes, teer who had lived there for even if they were doing a two years. Ryan Miller was a filling. This was the “speedy” young man from First UMC, version of dentistry. Lucas, who had helped run the Going anywhere in Puerto House of Hope. Another Lempira means hopping into Individual Volunteer is needed the back of a pickup truck and to fill Ryan’s shoes. standing there holding onto In recent years, short-term some metal bars. It’s kind of mission teams have received fun, especially when you hit some criticism, especially when the deepest ruts in the red dirt the teams have little to no road. Only those of us willing contact with the local commuto verbally admit they were nity. Often teams of this type “old and fat” got to sit in the return with little to no lasting front of the pickup. benefits. Fortunately, the teams School supplies going to the House of Hope can One Sunday after church say they all had meaningful we went to Miss Pat’s house, contacts with the community where Tom’s dental clinic is and the residents at the House, located, along with an old because we slept and ate and trailer used for storage. That did everything together. day a load of school supplies Lasting relationship was being passed out to My hope is that each of us whomever showed up. The who went on the trip will form crowd was excited but polite a lasting giving relationship and waited their turn. The with the organization, as a supplies came from the Allen result of what we learned and ISD, which donated all the experienced. We didn’t walk leftover supplies at the end of away from this trip believing the 2005-2006 school year. As that Hondurans were happy they walked away, the kids despite their poverty. We saw were all showing each other the reality of Honduran life – what they had received. It was both its joys and pains. just like kids back home. Since the House of Hope is One afternoon we all went a United Methodist VIM to a nearby creek and went project, I’d like to encourage swimming. Katrina took the any church seeking a way to quiet time to write letters to her expand into international missionary sponsors back missions to consider this home. Kids still have fun project. Not only can you swimming in a creek, no support each of these children matter where you are. to give them a better life, you During the week, I had can go see for yourself the several conversations around difference that you are making. the topic “Could you live For more information about here?” I knew my answer House of Hope, please contact would be no. Others felt they Katrina Engle, 501-433-6259, could and even felt compelled [email protected], or to find a way to return, in Tom Brian, 972-727-5436, order to help even more. A trip [email protected]. like this, working side-by-side
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