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Escape The Friend Zone
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Table Of Contents
Part I:
You've Been "Friend-Zoned"............................................................................................10
Chapter 1
When He Says You're "Just Friends"............................................................................11
1. You're The One Who Makes It Hurt......................................................................12
2. It's Called A Crush Because It Hurts.....................................................................14
3. Kissing Your Friend Can Backfire........................................................................16
4. When Being "Friends" Means "With Benefits".....................................................19
Chapter 2:
Show Him What He's Missing.......................................................................................22
5. From Female Object To Unforgettable Woman....................................................22
6. Make Him Jealous Of How Much Fun You Have................................................24
7. Pour Some Sugar On Him— With Sweetness!.....................................................27
Chapter 3:
The "Unforgettable Woman" Way To Get His Attention..............................................30
8. Tip #1 - Become Desirable To Other Men............................................................30
9. Tip #2 - Tease Him By Describing Your Ideal Man.............................................33
10. Tip #3 - Tempt Him With A Little Playful Flirting.............................................35
11. Tip #4 - Be The Sassy, Independent Woman He's Dreamed Of.........................37
Chapter 4:
Are You Putting Yourself In The "Friend Zone?".........................................................40
12. Is Shyness Keeping You In Your Own Shell?.....................................................40
13. Could You Be Attracted To The Wrong Men?...................................................42
14. Wasting Too Much Time Wondering Can Hold You Back................................45
15. Being Too Desperate For Relationships Can Keep You Friend-Zoned..............47
Chapter 5:
Separating Fact From Fiction When You Fall In Love.................................................50
16. Don't Fill In The Holes With Your Imagination..................................................50
17. You're In A Mad Dash While He's In Hibernation Mode...................................53
18. Stop Fooling Yourself Or You'll Become A Fool...............................................55
Part II:
How To Be More Than Friends.........................................................................................58
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Chapter 6:
So He's Too Scared To Pull The Trigger.......................................................................59
19. You Don't See Eye To Eye When It Comes To Marriage...................................59
20. Recognizing When Playing House Is Playing With Your Head.........................62
21. He Makes Promises, Promises, But Never Delivers............................................64
Chapter 7:
When (Lack Of) Communication Keeps You In The Friend Zone...............................67
22. Failure In Defining "Relationship"......................................................................67
23. Why He Can't Say "I Love You".........................................................................69
24. Does He Say He Loves You But You're Not Convinced?...................................71
25. Beating The Dead Horse Of Relationships..........................................................73
Chapter 8:
How To Get A Date From An Online Crush.................................................................76
26. Don't Let Him Push Your Buttons With Sex.......................................................76
27. Flirt With Him On Social Media Sites................................................................79
28. Don't Be Afraid To Ask Him Out........................................................................81
Chapter 9:
Stop Walking On Eggshells And Be Yourself..............................................................84
29. You Shouldn't Have To Put On An Act To Be Noticed......................................84
30. Do This; Don't Do That; Hurry Up And Do Nothing!.........................................86
31. Fear Of "The Fade-Away" Can Make You Crazy...............................................89
Chapter 10:
Close The Gap Of Long Distance Relationships...........................................................92
32. Long Distance Relationships Aren't For The Faint-Hearted!..............................92
33. Eliminate The Obstacles Creating A Barrier To Love........................................95
34. How To Tell When The Distance Is Just An Excuse..........................................97
35. Is The Relationship Real Or A Cyber-Fantasy?..................................................99
36. Have A Deadline To Look Forward To.............................................................101
37. Problems That Can Break Up Long Distance Relationships.............................103
38. Knowing When To End Things Can Be A Bitter Pill To Swallow...................105
Part III:
Knowing When To Move On..........................................................................................108
Chapter 11:
Why You Just Can't Change Him!...............................................................................109
39. Men Aren't Made Of Clay, So Don't Mold Him................................................109
40. Don't Try To Convince A Man To Settle Down................................................111
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41. Your Expectations Could Be Your Worst Enemy.............................................113
Chapter 12:
What To Do With The Married Man...........................................................................116
42. The Problem With Dating A Married Man Is....................................................116
43. There's No "Re-Do" Button For Being On Hold...............................................118
44. You Risk Losing Your Self-Esteem As The "Other Woman"...........................120
45. Why Settle For Crumbs When You Can Get The Whole Loaf?.......................122
Chapter 13:
When Hot And Cold Signals Make You Sick.............................................................125
46. Why Hot And Cold Men Are So Confusing......................................................125
47. Don't Wait For A Passive Guy To Be More Loving.........................................127
48. Hoping He's "The One" By Being A Booty Call...............................................129
49. Hot And Cold Men Are Emotionally Draining.................................................131
Chapter 14:
He's Still Active On Dating Sites.................................................................................134
50. Don't Become Exclusive Until He Asks For It!.................................................134
51. When He Checks Out For Days, He's Still Looking.........................................136
52. Don't Let Facebook Stalking Ruin Your Dating Life........................................138
53. Signs He's Not Serious And It's Time To Move On..........................................140
Chapter 15:
Is He On The Prowl For A Rebound Girl?..................................................................143
54. He Can't Be There Cause He Was Never Available..........................................143
55. A Guy Who Talks About His Ex Is Bad News.................................................145
56. He Backs Off When You Refuse Sex................................................................146
57. If He's "Not Ready," He's Not Ready For YOU!...............................................148
Part IV:
Avoiding Future Friend Zones.........................................................................................150
Chapter 16:
Signs You're Headed For Trouble With A Man..........................................................151
58. He's More Into Your Appearance Than Your Mind..........................................151
59. Your Conversations Are Mostly X-Rated.........................................................153
60. Being Too Sexual Can Keep You From Connecting.........................................154
61. Don't Turn To Men For Validation....................................................................156
62. You're Attracted To Men Outside Of Your League..........................................158
Chapter 17:
When Conversations Turn To Sex Too Soon..............................................................161
63. You Know His "Size" Before His Sign.............................................................161
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64. Why He Won't Get To Know You Better Later................................................163
65. If It Gets Too Hot, Cool Him Down Before It Blows!......................................165
Chapter 18:
Are You Working On Finding Your "Happy Place?".................................................167
66. Following Your Passions Will Make Him Passionate About You!..................167
67. Miss Independent Is Also Miss Attractive.........................................................169
68. Be Spontaneous And Just Have Fun..................................................................171
Chapter 19:
Stop Letting "Mr. Wrong" Take Up Your Time..........................................................173
69. Wishing Upon A Star For Him To Change.......................................................173
70. If Only He Would... LEAVE!............................................................................175
71. When Mars And Venus Collide All The Time..................................................176
72. You Second-Guess Yourself Constantly...........................................................178
73. Love Is Not Enough Without Compatibility.....................................................180
74. You Can't Love Enough For Both Of You........................................................182
Chapter 20:
When You're Fabulous, He'll Want More Than Friendship........................................185
75. Watch What Happens To Him When You Blossom.........................................185
76. Be Helpful To Others And You Reward Yourself............................................187
77. Go Out And Knock Their Socks Off!................................................................189
A Final Word From The Author......................................................................................191
Bonus Report #1 Get In Touch With Your Inner Goddess.............................................193
Bonus Report #2 Seduce Him In Three Steps.................................................................205
Bonus Report #3 How To Find Your Happy Place.........................................................216
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Part I:
You've Been "Friend-Zoned"
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Chapter 1:
When He Says You're "Just Friends"
You're out enjoying the company of a guy you've known for some
time and the night was magical. He knew what drink to order you because
you've shared many of your intimate details with him. You can't wait until
he leans in for a good night kiss because your heart is already racing—
regardless of the soothing effect of your cocktail.
Then you're finally there in front of your door about to say your "good
byes" for the night. Your palms break out in a sweat as you wonder if he'll
be a good kisser. But before your lips lock and you're swept away in the
moment, his lips move to what seems to be the words, "I'm glad you're my
friend. Good night."
You watch him turn around and head back to his car, waving once
more to show his adieus for the date. You blink and pretend to be
unaffected, but inside your heart just sank to the bottom of your feet.
You've been "friend-zoned."
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1. You're The One Who Makes It Hurt
"It wouldn't be called a crush if it didn't hurt." — Unknown
What is the friend zone? It's that sad, lonely space where your love is
kept in solitary confinement. Why does it suck so much? Because you want
to be loved in return. Is that too much to ask for? Well, for the most part, it's
out of your hands.
How does one end up in the "friend zone?" It can happen for any
number of reasons, but mainly it's by default when you aren't viewed as a
compatible match. No matter what leads to this cold, empty space, the end
result almost always turns to heartache in unrequited love.
The hardest and most bitter pill to swallow in this situation is the
reality that you care about this person and enjoy their company, yet always
kept at arm's length— with no positive outlook for more closeness.
Honestly, though, the pain lies in your own perception. The guy might
be genuinely kind and have a heart of gold. He just isn't interested in
pursuing a relationship. The pain involved is from a crushed set of
expectations that didn't materialize.
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How Did YOU Get There?
Comedian Chris Rock used this topic as material for his act. For men,
according to Rock, a woman in his friend zone is there by default— he just
hasn't made contact with her erogenous zone for one reason or other. He
pokes fun at the idea that women put men in the friend zone for their own
emergency purposes, as in, if they ever change their mind and need a man,
"break glass in case of emergency."
So how did you end up in the neutral territory of sexual or relational
closeness? Was it something you said? Is the guy you like a clone of Brad
Pitt and you are nothing like Angelina Jolie? Are you chasing after the type
of guy whose heart is locked away in a vault one hundred feet underground?
We're going to spend a little time examining how you got in the friend
zone, how to deal with it, what you can do to get out or move on when all
hope is lost.
You're going to find out what you can do to avoid getting placed in
lover's no-man's-land, or if there's any way to do so. And I'll clarify what
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you can look for to see if there's any hope for more or if you should stick a
fork in it; he's done.
~
Summary – Secret #1:
Being "friend-zoned" only hurts because of how you perceive the situation.
You might have been too far ahead in a relationship and your expectations
didn't work out as you planned. Time to see what's going on here.
~
2. It's Called A Crush Because It Hurts
"Okay so there's this guy that I've liked for a long time. He's seven
years older than me, but he's just so nice. He's not perfect (he's short, but
he's smart, funny and is, well, just hot and just a really nice guy). He plays
guitar, sings and is interested in law. He plays sports, including soccer and
basketball (even though he's short). Anyways, he's my perfect man. I like
him; I love him. I'm scared to tell him how I feel. I have a crush on him. If I
like him so much, why am I afraid to tell him?" — anonymous poster under
a forum thread titled, "Why do crushes hurt so bad?"
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It's the fear of rejection, mostly, that causes people to keep their
feelings bottled up rather than expose some amorous thoughts. You can
sense this poster's anxious confusion about why she can't tell her beloved
how she feels. And if you've ever had feelings of love, you've probably been
in her shoes at some point in your life.
Then there's the reality of taking a chance and blurting things out only
to end up with a verbal equivalent to being friend zoned. Ouch. You think
you'll get steps ahead in a relationship with someone you care about and end
up on the floor feeling like you were sucker punched.
Keep Your Emotions Under Control (And Wraps)
If you're secretly crushing on a guy and aren't sure about how he feels
in return, you might want to bite your tongue and take the Fifth. Telling a
man you like him only to be rejected into the friend zone can feel like your
heart is being crushed, so be careful who you share your most private
thoughts with.
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Do your best to keep your emotions under control— especially if
you're already picking up on the uncomfortable "arm's distance of a friend"
vibe from the guy you like.
Before real love can develop and grow, you have to get past
"limerence," or the infatuation stage of a relationship. No matter whether
what you have is love, or only longing, the crushing feeling of rejection is
just as real if the object of your desire won't return your affection.
~
Summary – Secret #2:
The crushing sensation of being rejected by someone you care about is why
a crush hurts. Before real love it's just infatuation, so keep your emotions in
check.
~
3. Kissing Your Friend Can Backfire
Has this ever happened to you? You join your coworkers for drinks
after work and start getting chummy with one of the guys in the office. The
rest of your crew says their goodbyes, one after the other and then you're left
in the company of you and a guy co-worker, for a "party of two."
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Your alcohol has gotten to your head on an empty stomach, so you
decide to order some food. Everything starts to flow as you and your office
mate are enjoying the evening while getting to know each other more
intimately.
The chemistry is so great, at the opportune moment, your lips lock and
everything starts to go in fast forward (along with the room spinning). You
wake up the next morning to the stark realization that your co-worker is
laying in bed next to you— yes, you did the unthinkable.
You offer him some coffee and say your quick good-byes before he
heads off to his daily routine. But the next time you see him at work, his
gaze brushes over you and he avoids any "awkward" moment of closeness.
You realize you're back in the "friend zone" and there wasn't anything more
than a night of passion between you.
Don't Think Too Much Into It
Hey, it could be worse: You could have lost your job for bending
company rules! The worst fate you face is the embarrassment of showing up
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to work and seeing someone in a different light while they still see you as a
friend.
The same holds true for any guy friend that you might have gotten
intimate with at a moment in time, only to discover it was purely physical,
not emotional. The only thing that hurts is if you think too much into it and
start imagining that you're now "boyfriend/girlfriend."
If this happens to you, let go of any expectations or worries and let it
roll over. Things have a way of smoothing out back to normal if you're easygoing enough to play along.
Your guy friend may eventually change his mind on what could be
between you, but that moment of passion won't make or break any
relationship.
~
Summary – Secret #3:
Friends sometimes get together in the heat of the moment, but there's no
need to get ahead of yourself by assuming you're now a couple. It takes
more than a night of passion to establish a relationship. You'll only get hurt
if you expect more than what it really is: a one-time deal with a friend.
~
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4. When Being "Friends" Means "With Benefits"
One of the worst experiences a woman can have is being part of a
"friends with benefits" arrangement when she thinks she's in a relationship.
It's pretty common for women to mistake having a sexual relationship with a
man as a way of getting close. This isn't always the case, though, since men
can be sexually active with a woman while keeping his emotions shut off.
Do you suspect a guy you're seeing is just using you for physical
needs? Here are a few tips to figure out where you really stand with him:
 Does he seem too busy most of the time?
 Do you only seem to get together for sex, but miss the whole dating
aspect of a relationship?
 Does he avoid family functions, introducing you to his friends or
family?
 Does he seem vague when you try to make plans for the future, short
or long term?
If these sound familiar, it could be a case of unknown friends with
benefits. A real relationship requires emotional investment from both
sides and that includes connection with family, friends and future plans.
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The Problem With This Arrangement
If you're only looking for a sexual partner, then this will work for as
long as the two of you want to continue seeing each other for physical
needs. But if you're hoping to make a deeper connection and be in a
REAL relationship, this has to end.
Being stuck in the friend-zone with someone you care
about, is torture. There are only two ways out: away
from him completely; or straight towards his heart. This
eBook will guide you to the happiness you long for when
he finally sees you for who you really are.
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