Working with the 6C’s in the Family Element
Date: ____________________
How much time will be committed to developing my chosen elements of this aspect? (Is this shortterm, long-term, or lifetime process?)
When will I begin this process?
The 6C’s: Relationship Aspect of the Self /Family Element: What is my Vision for myself within
my Family Element? What are my beliefs about what Family means or should be?
Clarity: Are my beliefs regarding Family clear? (Spending some time getting clearer about your
vision, belief s concerning Family will be helpful in getting clarity about your expectations for what you
believe your family ‘should’ do and ‘be’ for you. It is also important to get clear about how your calling
and life purpose manifests in regards to your relationship with Family in order to shift beliefs and
behavior patterns sabotage your efforts to move forward in your life.)
1. What is my Belief about this element?
2. What is Desire for this element?
3. How does my Life Calling/Purpose relate to this element?
Creativity: What do I need to do to manifest and grow my vision and purpose for my relationship with
Family? Where might I be able to do things differently to make necessary changes in myself and to
have a good chance to get different results?
1. What is/are my Goals?
2. What are the Behaviors I must use to achieve these Goals and manifest my Life
Calling/Purpose for this Element?
Commitment: Given my vision, what do I need to totally commit to in order to manifest my vision and
purpose in my Family Element?
1. What is my Vision for how my life will be when I have developed this element?
2. What is it I must Commit to if I am to achieve my Goals?
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Constancy : How consistent does my commitment need to be to manifest my vision and purpose for
this Element: weekly, daily, moment to moment? Constancy is about consciousness and present
moment awareness.
1. What Consistency and Frequency of Practice is needed to support the success of my
commitment?
Community: Is this just up to me, or do need the cooperation and assistance of others to manifest
my Vision?
1. Is community required to support my success?
2. Is success gained through my giving of support to others, or getting support from others, or
both?
Compassion: : Some goals and visions are challenging and require us to hold either compassion
for ourselves or for others. In the case of Family, what role does compassion play? Do I need to
allow for a certain amount of imperfection in my family of origin and my nuclear family as well as in
my relationship with my family? ( If you struggle with having compassion for yourself in your
relationship with your family or certain family members, a practice of Daily Review for a period of
time can help you see where you may be sabotaging your efforts.)
1. In working with this element, what is the Compassion I must express for Self/Others?
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personal use of participants enrolled in the Circle of Self™ Program. No part of this chart may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any
means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, or any information storage and retrieval system, without permission in writing
from Carolyn Faivre. “Circle of Self” is a trademark of Carolyn Faivre and may only be used with permission.
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