HOWTOTALK:TAXES Attheircore,whenwetalkabouttaxeswearetalkingaboutourgovernment–whatwewantittodo, whatit’sdoingwellornotwell,andhowmuchmoneyitneedstodowhatwewantittodo. Conversationsabouttaxesoftenbecomefightsaboutwhopaystaxesandhowmuchweeachpay.Asa result,theyrarelyhelpusseetaxesasanecessarypartofhowweachievesharedgoals.So,wecanhelp ourfriendsandneighborsseetaxesasmorethanadrainonourpocketbooks–they’rehowwepayfor thingsthatbuildahighqualityoflifeforeveryone. Hereare5recommendationsforconvertingpotentiallyheatedconversationsabouttaxesintoproductive ones. 1. Connecttaxestothecommongoodbyexplaininghowweallbenefit.Firstandforemost,wehave toconnecttaxestoourwidelysharedgoalsandvalues.Essentially,wehavetoconnectthemto thebigideas,likethrivingcommunities,qualityoflife,andcommunitywell-beingthattapintoa positivevisionforgovernmentandtaxes.Thesebigideashelppeoplewhofeeldisconnectedto seewhygovernmentandtaxesmattertothemandhelpstoexplainhowweallbenefitfrom payingtaxes,eventhoughwedon’tbenefitdirectlyfromeachandeveryserviceorprogram. Here’sanexampleofhowtoinsertabigidea: § “Wecan’tgetsomethingfornothing.Ifwewantacommunitywithagreatqualityoflife wehavetoinvestinthethingsthatmakesthatpossible–likeschoolsandparkspublic health–andtaxesmakethosethingspossible.” § “Thebuildingblocksofthrivingcommunitiesarepublicstructureslikegoodschools, firefighters,andparks.Ourtaxesmakethosethingsareality.” § “Ourstate’sprosperityrequiresastrongfoundation–goodschools,drivableroads,anda modernhealthcaresystem.Taxesarekeytokeepingourfoundationhealthy.” 2. Offerspecificexamplesofwhattaxesmakepossible:Makeitrealandtangible.Termslike “government,”“publicservices”and“publicsector”meansomethingtothoseofuswhothink aboutthistopicalotbutnotmuchtoeveryoneelse.Instead,wecanmentionthingsthat governmentdoes,ideallythingsthatarefamiliartomostpeople,likeroads,highways,schools, parks,SocialSecurity,healthinspectors,theminimumwage,NASA,etc.Hereareacoupleof examplesofhowtousespecificexamplestomakepeoplefeelpersonallyconnectedtothe outcomesofpayingtaxes. -1- www.indivisible.us “Inoticedthattherestaurantweusuallyeatathaditssafetyratingdowngraded.With whathappenedatChipotle,lastyearI’mgladourtaxesarepayingforpeopleand programsthataremakingourcommunityassafeaspossible.” § “IlovedreadingabouthowNASAisplanningournextmissiontoMars.It’sfuntoknow thatmytaxeshelpmemakethatpossible.” 3. Lengthenthetimehorizon.Conversationsabouttaxestendtostayinthemoment–thesalestax onmylatestreceipt,thewithholdingslineonmylastpaycheck,orhowmuchthegovernorsays ourstatecan“afford”tospendTHISyear.Buttaxesareasmuchaboutyesterdayandtomorrow astheyareabouttoday.Pastgenerationsinvestedinpublicstructuressuchasuniversities,roads, andsocialservicessowecouldhavebetterlivestoday.Wehavetoaskourselveswhatwemust dotobuildthebestpossiblefutureforthegenerationsafterours.Hereareexamplesforhowto connecttothefutureandthepastwhentalkingabouttaxes: § “Idon’tlikepayingtaxesanymorethanthenextperson,butit’samazinghowmuch betteroffwearetodaybecauseourparentsandgrandparentspaidtobuildourroads andthecommunitycollegesthattraintheworkersIhire.Iwanttodomypartforour kidsandgrandkids.” § “Thefutureofourcommunitydependsonbuildingandmaintainingstrongpublic structureslikeschools,roadsandcleanwater.Ourtaxesmakethosethingspossible.” 4. Givepeoplecivicagency.Peopletendtothinkaboutgovernmentasavendingmachine:theyput theirmoneyinandthey’llgetbackonlythoseservicesthattheybelievetheypersonallybenefit from.That’sjustnothowgovernmentworks.So,wehavetohelpourfriendsseetheirlargerrole inthepictureofgovernment,includingtaxes.Wecandothisbytalkingabouttaxesastheway wecometogethertoaccomplishbigthingsorthatthey’rehowwepayforthingsthatmakeour communitiesstrong.AndwecanremindpeopleHOWtoparticipateinthedebate–likeworking withanoutsidegroupthatalignswiththeirinterests,meetingwithpublicofficials,writingletters tothelocalpaper,speakingatanupcomingpublichearing,etc. § § § “IsawthattheMayor’sproposedbudgetfornextyeardoesn’tincludemorefundingfor roadrepairs.I’mplanningtogotothenextpublichearingandspeakoutbecauseIknow thatwecan’tgetsomethingfornothing.We’reallgoingtohavetopaymoretaxesto improveourroadsandthat’smoneyI’mwillingtospend.Youshouldcomewithme.” “Ourlegislatureisonceagainnotprioritizingeducationinthebudgetfornextyear.Most ofusarewillingtopaymoretaxesforeducationbutthey’renotlistening.SoIjustjoined CitizensforGoodSchoolsandI’mplanningtoattendtheirrallynextweek.” -2- www.indivisible.us 5. AwordonwhatNOTtosay.It’salwaysbettertofocusonwhattosayratherthanwhatnotto say,buttaxesisanespeciallychallengingtopic.Sometimes,ifwestartoutonthewrongfoot, triggeringanidea,itcanbehardtorecoverandhaveaproductiveconversation.Acoupletolook outforinparticularare: 1. Don’ttalkabouttaxesasa“burden”orsomethingfromwhichweneed“relief.”These areinherentlynegativeandtheycueupthedominantthinkingthattaxesarebad. Instead,talkabouttaxesas“loads”tobecarriedorshared;and 2. Don’tcallpeople“taxpayers”-itlimitstheconversationtoonlyonesideoftheledger (costs,notbenefits).Instead,talkaboutpeopleas“residents”or“citizens”or“member ofourcommunity”-ithighlightsthatweareallpeoplewhobothcontributetoand benefitfrompublicsystemsandstructures. Herearesomeexamplesofhowtostaypositivewhentalkingtaxes. § § “Ijustgotmypropertytaxbill.Didyou?Isawanarticleinthepaperaboutallthe propertytaxbreaksthebigboxstoreontheedgeoftowngets.That’snotright.Everyone needstocarrytheirshareofthetaxloadforpayingforschoolsandhealthclinicsandthe like.Havingstrongpublicstructuresinourcommunityhelpsbusinessestothriveasmuch astheyhelpresidents.” “Asamemberofthiscommunity,IfeelproudwhenIseemytaxesatwork,ensuringthat allresidents,includingmeandfamily,canbenefitfromgoodroads,schools,andpublic safety.There’salwaysroomforimprovementbutIcanseeourtaxdollarsatworkwhenI drivearoundourtown.” How to Talks are created by Elaine Mejia and Marcia Kinsey -3- www.indivisible.us
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