Board Culture & Your Contribution
• partnering with the college
• becoming internally integrated
Your emotions
pride,
courage,
determination,
excitement,
kindness,
contentment,
gratitude,
duty,
‘righteous’ anger
‘restorative’ guilt
jealousy,
doubt,
envy,
embarrassment,
contempt,
anxiety,
resentment,
shame,
arrogance
humiliation
Fair to/value others
Fair to/value self
Fair to others
WE
ME
Fair to self
FAIRNESS
?
TOO SELFISH
?
TOO SOFT
SELF-HOOD
Fair to others
Fair to self
pride,
courage,
determination,
excitement,
‘righteous’ anger
Jealousy,
envy,
contempt
resentment,
arrogance,
kindness,
contentment,
gratitude,
duty,
‘restorative’ guilt
doubt,
embarrassment,
anxiety,
shame,
humiliation
Motives
Do own thing, at cost to others
( to have control/power)
Contribute to shared purpose and achievement
(to be valued)
Personal Best
(to enhance personal status/influence)
Put self down
(to seek reassurance)
SELF-HOOD
calm, open &
extravert
Personal Best
(to achieve
status)
pride,
courage,
determination,
excitement,
‘righteous’ anger
Contribute to
shared purpose
(to be valued) calm, open,
conscientious &
agreeable
kindness,
contentment,
gratitude,
duty,
‘restorative’ guilt
What about Personality?
jealousy,
envy,
contempt,
resentment,
arrogance,
closed,
unconscientious,
disagreeable
& Impulsive
Do own thing,
at cost to others
(to keep control)
doubt,
embarrassment,
anxiety,
shame,
humiliation
Put self down (to
seek reassurance)
closed,
introvert
& cautious
Attitude/
Identity
Superior
Gratitude
Inferior
Competitive
SELF-HOOD
calm, open &
extravert
Personal Best
(to achieve
status)
pride,
courage,
determination,
excitement,
‘righteous’ anger
Competitive
Superior
closed,
unconscientious,
disagreeable
jealousy,
envy,
contempt,
resentment,
arrogance
Do own thing,
at cost to others
(to keep control)
Contribute to
shared purpose
calm, open,
(to be valued)
conscientious &
agreeable
kindness,
contentment,
gratitude,
duty,
‘restorative’ guilt
Grateful
Inferior
doubt,
embarrassment,
anxiety,
shame,
humiliation
Put self down (to
seek reassurance)
closed,
introvert
SELF-HOOD
STANCES
PERFORMING
calm, open &
extravert
Personal Best
(to achieve
status)
pride,
courage,
determination,
excitement,
‘righteous’ anger
Competitive
Superior
closed,
unconscientious,
disagreeable
TAKING OVER
jealousy,
contempt,
resentment,
arrogance,
suspicion
Do own thing,
at cost to others
(to keep control)
Contribute to
TEAM PLAYING
shared purpose
calm, open,
(to be valued)
conscientious &
agreeable
kindness,
contentment,
gratitude,
duty,
‘restorative’ guilt
Grateful
Inferior
doubt,
embarrassment,
anxiety,
shame,
humiliation
Put self down (to
seek reassurance)
closed,
introvert
TAKING
THINGS
TO HEART
chuffed
kind
bossy
shaky
Interpersonal
Attitudes
Fair to others
Humble
Fair to self
Competitive
Grateful
Ingratiating
Cocky
Inferior
Superior
Resentful
Fearful
Spiteful
Emotions
Personality
The 4 elements
Of SELFHOOD
Emotions
Motives
Personality
Identity
Aspirations
Achievements
Emotions
Aspirations
Motives
Achievements
Attitudes?
Personality
Values?
Identity
When personality, motives, emotions
and identity all align with our aspirations,
our wellbeing flourishes.
Personality roots
To inspire is to partner people
in the discovery of their identities.
CHALLENGE
SUPPORT
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how others respond to
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Support
Challenge
Squeezing
Hugging
Bruising
Smothering
Support
Inspiring
Challenge
Hugging
Squeezing
Posing
Pleasing
Bruising
Smothering
Resenting
Humiliating
Fearing