The Shul B”H weekly magazine Weekly Magazine Sponsored By Mr. & Mrs. Martin (OBM) and Ethel Sirotkin and Dr. & Mrs. Shmuel and Evelyn Katz Shabbos Parshas Lech Lecha Cheshvan 10 - 11 November 11 - 12 CANDLE LIGHTING: 5:15 PM SHABBOS ENDS: 6:08 PM Over Thirty Years of Serving the Communities of Bal Harbour, Bay Harbor Islands, Indian Creek and Surfside 9540 Collins Avenue, Surfside, Fl 33154 Tel: 305.868.1411 Fax: 305.861.2426 www.TheShul.org Email: [email protected] The Shul Weekly Magazine Everything you need for every day of the week Contents Weekly Message Thoughts on the Parsha from Rabbi Sholom D. Lipskar Celebrating Shabbos Schedules, classes, articles and more... Everything you need for an “Over the Top” Shabbos experience Community Happenings Sharing with your Shul Family A Time to Pray Check out all the davening schedules and locations throughout the week Inspiration, Insights & Ideas Bringing Torah lessons to LIFE Get The Picture The full scoop on all the great events around town Nachas At A Glance 3 4-5 6-7 8 9-14 15-22 In a woman’s world 23 French Connection 24 Issues of relevance to the Jewish woman Reflexions sur la Paracha Latin Link Reflexion Semanal The ABC’s of Aleph Serving Jews in institutional and limited environments. Networking Effective Advertising Numbers To Know Contacts at The Shul Daily Study A complete guide to all classes and courses offered at The Shul Get The Picture The full scoop on all the great events around town 25 26 27-28 29 30 31-32 Quotable Quote A person should have two pockets in his coat. One should contain the Talmudic saying, “A person is commanded to maintain: For my sake was the world created.” In the second pocket he should keep the verse, “I am but dust and ashes.” Chassidic master Rabbi Simchah Bunim of Peshischa Youth Programs & Mishmar for boys of all ages began this week with a record turn out of children attending each age group! Thoughts on the Parshah from Rabbi Sholom D. Lipskar Shabbos Lech Lecha Abraham, our first Father, engineered our genetic physiology to be able to receive the enormous gift of Mitzvahs that allows us to infuse and imbue ourselves and our children with G-dly life and spirit even when our minds have not yet reached that level. “ And Avraham was 99 years old when he removed the foreskin from his body” (circumcised himself). (Ch. 17 V24) When we do what is G-d’s will – we will eventually feel, understand and internalize it. “Since the Torah was given, the correct sequence of Man’s avoda is: First, removal of the orla “foreskin” (The layer of dullness, insensitivity of the body) then of the speech, then of the heart – deed, speech, then thought. Our Father Abraham, who lived prior to the giving of the Torah, however, first recognized his Creator – thought; then he disseminated G-dliness – speech; and finally circumcision – removal of the orla -deed. (Hayom Yom Cheshvan 7)” Have a good Shabbos and a great week. Rabbi Sholom D. Lipskar Go to Yourself Based on letters and talks of the Rebbe, Rabbi M. M. Schneerson “Go to yourself…to the land which I will show you.”—Genesis 12:1 “There, in the land, I will show you your essence.”—R’ Schneur Zalman of Liadi It is important to recognize the reverse order of behavior dictated by Torah to that dictated by general human conditions. For a person to commit to certain actions or deeds he/she first attempts to understand the concept with proper analysis, synthesis and rational deductive thinking. Once the concept is comprehended, one attempts to have complete clarity and structure which is verified by being able to verbalize, or articulate and publicly defend that position to others. Only then does one integrate that idea into his own behavior and practical action. The spiritual world of meditation and prayer has its borders: That which can be known will be known. That which is beyond knowing is permitted to whisper, softly. And the very core of your being remains beyond the border, aching to enter, yet unable to utter a word of its presence. This order of events is represented by Abraham who first researched and analyzed Monotheism from the age of 3 to 48 when he intellectually concluded that G-d exists and is the Creator, Owner and Conductor of the Universe and all that exists within it. Then he began to promulgate and proclaim that belief and its obvious beneficial consequences. Then at the age of 99 did he implement those conclusions in the vital act of circumcision – first thought, then speech then action. But when the soul descends into the world of action, then every rule can be broken, every boundary crossed. After Revelation, when the Jewish People became G-d’s Nation and were given a G-dly, Holy, Torah way of life, the order of living pattern was dramatically altered. First we have action as an 8 day old child is circumcised. Then speech is integrated as the child is taught Torah terms and concepts as soon as he/she is able to speak and only then is he exposed to intellectually compelling thought and ideas; action, speech and then thought. So G-d says to Abraham and to us, his children: Take your soul out into the world, take its very essence there. Find divine purpose in your work; discover G-d within the commonplace workings of this world. Though it seems more logical to pursue the first method of behavioral modification and training, the Torah gives us a radically different approach which is very successful. You will come to know which cannot be known; your eyes will see that which the soul could never lay bare —its very core of being. The Mitzvos which G-d formulated for us to fulfill have special powers that transcend ordinary methods of inculcation. Mitzvos by their Divine nature and supra-rational energy have the capacity to infuse the performer of the Mitzvah with an intrinsic force that not only influences but actually molds one’s speech and thought. This is why it is important to do the Mitzvah even before we fully comprehend it and why the Children of Israel prefaced “Naaseh” – we will do - to “Nishmah” – we will understand. In this world, the soul knows no borders.Do as Noah did, and build an ark. “An ark” in Hebrew is teivah—which means also “a word.” Your ark shall be the words of meditation and of prayer. Enter into your ark, and let the waters lift you up, rather than drown you with everything else. 3 Celebrating Shabbos with our Youth Everything you need for an “Over the Top” Shabbos experience Weekly Riddle Morah Malkie’s Tot Shabbat Elisheva Adouth's Aleph Wonder Girls Ages: 1 - 4 11:00 am - 12:00 pm Grades: 1 - 3 10:00 am - 12:00 pm Montessori classrooom 2 Classrooom 2 Questions: 1) Aside from this parsha, where else does Hashem command Avraham with the words Lech Lecha - "Go for yourself"? 2) Which body of water, found in Israel, is mentioned in this parsha? 3) Aside from Avraham and Sarah, who else in the book of Genesis is given a new name? (3 answers) Who else in the Torah is given a new name? Answers from last week: Tehila's Pre Tween Girls Basya's Tween Girls Grades: 4 - 5 Grades: 6 - 8 10:00 am - 12:00 pm 10:30 am - 12:00 pm 1)The six parshas named for a person: Noach, Chayei Sarah, Yisro, Korach, Balak, Pinchas. 2) Noah waits 40 days from seeing the tops of the mountains, to opening up the window to send out the raven (Genesis 8:6, with Rashi) 3) Baby Moshe is placed into a taiva by his mother to save him from being drowned in the Nile river by the Egyptians (Exodus 2:3). Classrooom 4 RIDDLE RULES Answers to the riddles can be given to Sholom Lobenstein any time over Shabbos. The first child to give a correct answer to each of the questions will win an INSTANT prize! Sholom's Junior Boys Grades: 1 - 4 10:00 am - 12:00 pm mishnayos Ba'al Peh Prizes kindly sponsored by the Goldczer Family in loving Memory of Aryeh Leib ben Zev Volf obm Mendy's Hebrew School Grades: 4th - 8th 10:00 am - 12:00 pm Classroom 1 Shaykee’s Davening With Dad Grades: 7th - 8th 10:30 am - 12:00 pm Montessori 3 Shmuely's Teen Boys Debbie’s Teen Girls Grades: 9th - 12th Grades: 9th - 12th 10:30 am - 12:00 pm 10:00 am - 12:00 pm Teen Girls Room Haime Library 4 Mishnayos Ba’al Peh After Mincha Montessori 3 GREAT PRIZES!!! Prizes kindly sponsored by the Goldczer family in loving memory of Aryeh Leib ben Zev Volf Obm Celebrating Shabbos Everything you need for an “Over the Top” Shabbos experience Kiddush This Week: Kiddush this week is co-sponsored by The Shul and Mr. Daniel Gielchinsky in honor of his birthday and the birthdays of his father Jacob and his son Eliezer. Shabbos Schedule Candle lighting Mincha / Kabbalas Shabbos Shabbos Day Hashkama Minyan Tanya / Hayom Yom Shacharis (Morning Services) Children’s Programs Upstairs Minyan 30 Minutes of Tanya: Classroom #1 With Mrs. Vivian Perez (for Women) Kiddush Daf Yomi Men’s Shiur Women's Shiur Shalosh Seudos for Boys Mincha Shabbos Ends / Ma’ariv & Havdalah Weekly Video of The Rebbe 5:15 p.m. 5:15 p.m. 7:15 a.m. 9:00 a.m. 9:00 a.m. 10:00 a.m. 10:30 a.m. +/- 12:00 p.m. After Davening 12:00 p.m. 4:15 p.m. 4:15 p.m. 4:15 p.m. 4:15 p.m. 5:00 p.m. 6:08 p.m. Sephardic Minyan Friday Evening Mincha / Kabbalat Shabbat 5:00 p.m. Shabbat Day Shacharit Mincha Shabbos Ends / Arvit & Havdalah 9:00 a.m. 5:00 p.m. 6:08 p.m. Shalosh Seudos This Week: Shalosh Seudos this week is sponosored by Mrs. Estela Berry in honor of the new president elected, Donald Trump, and his support of Israel. the caterer for this week’s kiddush and Shalosh seudos is Food Art kiddushim at The Shul Please help us to provide our weekly Shabbos Kiddush and Shalosh Seudos by becoming a sponsor. Or join the Kiddush Bank by becoming a Partner ($770 annually ) or Patron ($360 anually) The following dates are available for sponsorship: Kiddush November 19, 26 Shalosh Seudos November 19, 26 If you wish to become a sponsor, please speak with Stacy at 305-868-1411 ext 313 or email [email protected] Candle Lighting Mincha 5:12 p.m. 5:15 p.m. Eruv Information We would like to emphasize that every Erev Shabbos, individuals should call the Eruv Hotline to make sure that the Eruv is operational. The number to call is 305- 866-ERUV (3788). The Eruv message is recorded approximately two hours prior to candle lighting. Surfside: The Eruv in Surfside now includes the walking paths along the beach. Pushing strollers and carrying is permitted on the paths, but not beyond the path or onto the beach. Bal Harbour: The Eruv in Bal Harbour included the inner (western) walking path only. The pier at Haulover Cut is not included. To pay your annual dues visit: www.miamibeacheruv.com 5 Community Happenings Sharing with your Shul Family 11 Cheshvan 11 Cheshvan 11 Cheshvan 11 Cheshvan 11 Cheshvan 12 Cheshvan 12 Cheshvan 12 Cheshvan 12 Cheshvan 12 Cheshvan 13 Cheshvan 13 Cheshvan 13 Cheshvan 13 Cheshvan 14 Cheshvan 14 Cheshvan 14 Cheshvan 14 Cheshvan 14 Cheshvan 15 Cheshvan 15 Cheshvan 15 Cheshvan 16 Cheshvan 16 Cheshvan 16 Cheshvan 17 Cheshvan 17 Cheshvan 17 Cheshvan 11 Cheshvan 12 Cheshvan 12 Cheshvan 12 Cheshvan 12 Cheshvan 13 Cheshvan 14 Cheshvan 15 Cheshvan 15 Cheshvan 15 Cheshvan 16 Cheshvan 16 Cheshvan Birthdays Yahrtzeits Ms. Bonnie Drazen Ms. Dora Fialkoff Ms. Tiffany Khalily Mr. Gustavo Klimberg Mrs. Rochel Waldman Mr. Jonathan Izak Mrs. Janie. S Kupferman Ms. Jane Marcus Mrs. Renee Felice Moore Mr. Shneur Wolff Mr. Abraham Gilinski Mrs. Nava Izak Mr. James (J.J.) Katz Mr. Lawrence E. Sheftel Mrs. Joni Blachar Mr. Abraham Gewirtz Mr. Adam Weinberg Mrs. Miriam Weinschneider Mrs. Joy Ziefer Mrs. Carolyn Baumel Mr. Meir Falic Mrs. Esther Sitbon Ms. Ariana Garfunkel Mr. Claudio Stivelman Mrs. Judith Zisman Mrs. Liba Barouk Mr. Jesse Joseph Salver Ms. Janet Weingarten 11 Cheshvan 12 Cheshvan 12 Cheshvan 12 Cheshvan 12 Cheshvan 12 Cheshvan 13 Cheshvan 13 Cheshvan 13 Cheshvan 14 Cheshvan 14 Cheshvan 15 Cheshvan 15 Cheshvan 15 Cheshvan Kid’s Birthdays 16 Cheshvan Shay Gilinski Motki Edelkopf Chana Simcha Portnoy Emily Roller Shai Yosef Weinberg Joshua Schmutter Simcha Yisroel Gassner Naor Benamran Leah Reboh Eliya Wachtel Rivka Gelbhauer Sholom Dovber Knight 16 Cheshvan 16 Cheshvan 17 Cheshvan 17 Cheshvan Tzila bas Moshe obm Mother of Mrs. Aviva Greenberg Mazaltov bat Zohra obm Mother of Mr Isaie Bouhadana David obm Husband of Mrs. Phyllis Franklin Pinchas ben Sender obm Father of Mr. Moshe Shlomo Lerman Rachel obm Wife of Mr. Jose Morel Chaya Bahiya Zlata bas Shmuel obm Daughter of Mr Sam Saka Rachel bas Benyamin obm Mother of Mrs. Nily Falic Moshe Yehuda obm Father of Mr. Lawrence Jaffe Aron ben Shlomo Yaakov obm Father of Mr. Jeffrey Mandel Shloyme ben Yitzchak obm Father of Mrs. Fana Holtz Yisroel Yosef ben Dovid Hacohen obm Father of Mr. Andrew Roth Feiga bas Mordechai obm Mother of Ms. Marilyn Cohen Devora Sheva obm Mother of Mr. Morris Mendal Shmuel ben Felix obm Father of Dr. Janet Mitrani Kreindel bas Leib obm Mother of Mrs. Fanny Selesky Malka obm Mother of Ms. Esther Vlosky Harvey Weiner obm Son of Ms. Marlene Weiner-Brenner Meyer ben Shmuel obm Father of Mr. Alan Lipton Avraham Tzvi ben Falic obm Father of Mr. Eric P. Stein Refuah Shleimah If you have a health update on anyone listed please contact The Shul. We would like to keep the listing current and remove names of people who have recovered. MEN Sholom Meir ben Pearl Michael Joseph ben Natalie Lee Gabriel ben Esther Eber Avraham ben Fruma Esther Shmuel ben Sarah Perl Yosef ben Edwina Avrohom ben Feigel Mordechai David ben Esther Raizel Yedidya Chaim Raphael ben Elana Yehuda ben Chaya Sara Shimon Yitzchak ben Leah Rochel Roi ben Orly Chaim Tzvi Hirsch ben Guttel Anniversaries Mr. and Mrs. Ben and Marissa Jacobson Mr. & Mrs. Henry and Claudia Kardonski Mr. & Mrs. Sion and Tamy Tesone Rabbi & Mrs. Zalman and Chana Lipskar Mazal Tov Mazal Tov to Mr. & Mrs. Shaya and Tziporah Gheblikian on the birth of a granddaughter. May she be raised to Torah, Chupah and Ma'asim Tovim and may they have much nachas from her. 6 WOMEN Miriam bat Risha Raizel Dana Ella bas Devorah Hinde Chana bas Shoshana Shifra bas Chaya Ilana bas Shaina Rochel Chava bas Elka Menucha Chaya bas Rachel Fayge bas Chaya Miriam Leah bas Helen Community Happenings Sharing with your Shul Family Cheshvan Light & Power Thanks To Our Donors Light & Power and Wine for Kiddush & Havdalah for the month of Cheshvan is Kindly Sponsored by The Falic Family In Loving Memory Of Dov ben Chaim HaCohen Z’L Rachel bat Benyamin Z’L and Meir ben Benyamin Z’L “Those who establish Synagogues for prayer and those who come there to pray, those who provide lights for illumination, wine and grape juice for kiddush and havdalah, food for the wayfarers and charity for the needy, and all those who occupy themselves faithfully with communal affairs - may The Holy One, blessed be He, give them their reward, remove them from all sicknesses, heal their entire body, pardon all their sins, and send blessing and success to all their endeavors, together with all Israel their brethren; and let us say Amen.” Dear Friends and Family, As the shloshim of our Ima/Savta/Savta Rabah, Ilona Helena Rachel (Ilonka) Katz OBM approaches, we invite you to join us in learning mishnayot to elevate her neshama. We would like to complete Pirkei Avot in her memory, and hold a siyum on the day of her shloshim. We feel that this is an appropriate way to honor Savta's memory, because during her long life she imparted a tremendous amount of wisdom to us all. Whether you are able to learn some of the mishnayot or not, if you happen to be in Miami, you are cordially invited to join us for the siyum. The siyum will be held at The Shul, 9540 Collins Avenue, at 10 am on November 13th after morning prayers which begin at 9:00 am. Brunch will follow the siyum. We hope you can join us. With love, Shmuel, Evelyn, Nicole, Jordan, JJ, Chantal, Elizabeth, Charlotte, Julian and Lia Community Notice Board: If you have a new or slightly used Shaitel that you would like to donate to The Shul Sisterhood Please Contact Mrs. Devorah Failer 305.323.2410 7 We sincerely thank the following members and supporters of The Shul for donations received between 11/1/16 and 11/7/16 We apologize for any errors or omissions that we may have made. Ms. Suzanne Albergel-Nahon D.D.S. Ms. Ellen Kolman Estate of Ms. Dina Kuperman Mr. & Mrs. Jacques Afriat Mr. and Mrs. Habib Levy Mr. & Mrs. Chanoch Alperovitz Mr. & Mrs. Shmuel Levy Mr. & Mrs. Isaac Arber Mr. & Mrs. David Lichter Mr. & Mrs. Dan Arev Rabbi & Rebbetzin Australtex S.A. Sholom D. Lipskar Mr. & Mrs. Gideon Azari Mr. & Mrs. William Lustgarten Mr. & Mrs. Doron Barnes Mr. & Mrs. Harry Mamane Mr. & Mrs. Danny Barouk Mr. Isaac (Itzik) Mamane Ms. Hana Barouk Mr. & Mrs. Ronen Michael Mr. & Mrs. Michael Benlolo Mr. James M. Mitrani Beraja Investments, LTD Dr. & Dr. Raul Mitrani Mr. & Ms. Yonathan Berdugo Mr. & Mrs. Ralph Mizraji Dr. & Mrs. Ivan Berend Mr. & Mrs. Richard Moore Mr. Alexander Berkovitch Mr. Avraham Most Mr. & Mrs. Jose Biton Mr. & Mrs. Sanford Musikar Mr. & Mrs. Avi Bitton Mr. Mordechai Olesky Rabbi & Mrs. Menachem Brod Mr. & Mrs. Martin Packer Mr. & Mrs. Salomon Btesh Mr. Shlomo Peretz Rabbi & Mrs. Betzalel Camissar Mr. & Mrs. Michael Perez Mr. & Mrs. Santos Chocron Rabbi & Mrs. Moshiach Chudaitov Mr. & Dr. Hersh Yitzchok Reich Mr. & Mrs. Levi Yitzchok Ms. Marilyn Cohen Rosenblum Rabbi & Mrs. Uri Cohen Mr. & Mrs. Harold Rosenstein Mr. & Mrs. Robert Diener Mr. & Dr. Yehuda Sabach Ms. Nancy Eber Mr. Clement Salama Mr. & Mrs. Craig Edelstein Dr. & Mrs. Michael Salzhauer Mrs. Barbara E. Eisenbaum Mr. Charles Sayegh Mr. & Mrs. Aaron Elbogen Mr. & Mrs. David Schloss Falic Family Foundation Rabbi & Mrs. Moshe Schneider Mr. Isaac Farache Mr. & Mrs. David Schottenstein Mr. & Mrs. Anton Fischman Mr. Ezra Segal Sheero Mr. & Mrs. Stephen Fiske Mr. & Mrs. Ryan Shapiro Mr. & Mrs. Isaac Gilbert Franco Mrs. Ethel Meril Sirotkin Mr. & Mrs. Moises Gilinski Mr. & Mrs. Jaime Slomianski Mrs. Perla Gilinski Mr. & Mrs. Yossi Sokol Mr. & Ms. Saul Gilinski Mr. & Mrs. Ari Sragowicz Mr. & Mrs. Jeffrey Glick Mr. & Mrs. Daniel Sragowicz Mr. & Mrs. Dan Goldfarb Mr. Jan Stark Ms. Devorah Halberstam Mr. & Mrs. Eric P. Stein Mr. Durrel Handwerger Ms. Helayne Stern Gadish Ms. Lydia Hasson Street Holes, Inc. Mrs. Margareth Havasi Mr. & Mrs. Teddy Toledano Mr. & Mrs. Moishe Hersman Mr. & Mrs. Michael Vaturi Rabbi & Mrs. Meir Shlomo Herz Mr. & Mrs. Richard Waserstein Mr. Irving Hoine Mr. & Mrs. Victor Weingarten Mr. Meir Horowitz Mr. & Mrs. Paul Weintraub Mr. & Mrs. Marvin Jacob Mr. & Mrs. Robert Wexler Mr. & Mrs. Manuel Jaimovich Mr. Michael Wildes Mr. & Mrs. Paul Jaimovich Mr. & Mrs. Idel Woldenberg Ms. Shay Kardonski Mr. & Mrs. Jeffrey Wolf Mr. & Mrs. Kasil Karzhevsky Rabbi Aryeh Wuensch Mr. & Mrs. Jordan Kavana Mrs. Pnina Wuensch Ms. Nathalie Koffler A Time to Pray Davening schedules and locations throughout the week Daily Learning Schedule at The Shul 6:20 -6:50 am 7:45 am 8:45 am (approx) 10:15 - 11:00 am Derech Mitzvosecha Daf Yomi Halacha Maamorim Foundational Chassidic Discourse Sephardic Custom Maamor of the Rebbe Shacharis Minyanim (mon - Fri) Main Minyan 6:50 7:30 9:00 Sephardic Minyan 8:00 R’ Zalman Lipskar R’ Dov Schochet R’ Shimshon Tzubeli R’ Shea Rubinstein Sunday Shacharis Minyanim Main Minyan 8:00 am 9:00 am Sephardic Minyan 9:00 am Daily Chumash & Tanya after every Minyan mincha / Maariv Minyanim (mon - Thurs) Main Minyan 2:00 pm Early Mincha Sephardic Minyan 5:15 pm 10:00 pm 5:15 pm Following Sunday Mincha /Maariv Minyanim Main Minyan Late Maariv 5:15 pm 10:00 pm Evening Kolel Schedule - Monday and Thursday 8:45 -9:30 pm Mon & Thurs 8:45 - 10:00 pm Halachic Times Based on times for November 16 Alot Hashachar / Dawn Earliest Talit & Tefillin Netz Hachamah / Sunrise (Earliest Amidah) Latest Shema Zman Tfillah 5:24 am 5:56 am 6:40 am 9:20 am 10:15 am Evening Community Kolel Chavrusah To our beloved Soldiers in the Israeli Defense Forces, courageously protecting and defending Eretz Yisroel. We pray for you and all of the soldiers safety and well being daily. Dan Shlomo ben Eliyahu Benyamin Aharon Ben Jeniya Gila Rut Jonathan ben Aliza Sher Michael Shmuel ben Eliezer Eliyahu Amir Herzel ben Dvora Dorry Chatzot / Midday 12:05 pm Earliest Mincha 12:33 pm Plag HaMincha 4:26 pm Shekiah / Sunset 5:31 pm (preferable latest time for Mincha) Tzeit Hakochavim / Nightfall 5:56 pm (Earliest preferable Ma’ariv) Times taken from www.chabad.org Please note that during the week times may vary by a minute or two. If anyone would like to send us the name of a soldier in the IDF we would love to add them. 8 Inspiration, Insights & Ideas Bringing Torah lessons to LIFE! Hayom Yom In the winter of 1942, the sixth Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi Yosef Y. Schneersohn, of righteous memory, gave his son- in-law, the future Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson, of righteous memory, the task of compiling an anthology of Chasidic aphorisms and customs arranged according to the days of the year. The calendar was entitled Hayom Yom. In describing this work Rabbi Yosef Yitzchak wrote: …”A book that is small in format…but bursting with pearls and diamonds of choicest quality.” “A splendid palace of Chasidism.” True to these words, Hayom Yom has become a beloved classic work and a source of daily spiritual sustenance. Friday - Cheshvan 10 Wednesday - Cheshvan 15 The Alter Rebbe used to refer to Atzilut as "Above." They say that because of intense emotion, when writing the word he could get no further than "Atzi -." The soul above awaits the time it will be privileged to descend into a body. For the soul senses how much it can accomplish here below; it can attain the level of "delighting with G-d." So what is everyone waiting for? Shabbos - Cheshvan 11 The maamar Patach Eliyahu has glosses by my father that he began writing in the winter of 5652 (1891-2). Thursday - Cheshvan 16 Sunday - Cheshvan 12 One of the Alter Rebbe's early teachings, then called verter (lit. "words," short sayings): Sh'ma Yisrael - a Jew senses that Havayeh Elokeinu - our strength and life is beyond nature, and Havayeh Echad - Havayeh is One. Monday - Cheshvan 13 The Baal Shem Tov used to instruct his disciples in a regular Gemara study-session. His style of study was with great acuity and brilliance, and included a study of Rambam, Alfasi, Rosh and other commentaries of the Rishonim (early commentators) germane to the Gemara-text under examination. The Baal Shem Tov would translate the words (of the text) into Yiddish. When studying in Eirchin 15b the passage "The third tongue kills three persons," the Baal Shem Tov translated and explained: Lashon hara (the evil tongue; slander) kills all three, the inventor of the slander, the one who relates it and the listener. This is all in spiritual terms, which is more severe than physical murder. Tuesday - Cheshvan 14 "From G-d are man's steps established." Every one of Israel has a spiritual mission in life - which is to occupy himself with the work of construction, to make a "dwelling-place" for G-d. Every one, regardless of his station or location, must, through an exhaustive search, seek out a spiritual livelihood with all the intensity of his strength, just as he seeks a material livelihood. This is so because, (as the above verse concludes) "he desires His (G-d's) way." As it is written of Avraham: "For I know and love him because etc. and they will keep the way of Havayeh." There are two "ways": The way of nature and the way that transcends nature. G-d created the universe in such a way that, in man's eyes, it appears to follow a set pattern of nature; this is the "way" of Elokim. Torah and Mitzvot are the "way" of Havayeh, drawing that which transcends nature into nature. By virtue of this (conduct of Israel) G-d endows Israel from that which is beyond nature into the natural. 9 Thought is a garment and servant of the intellect and emotions. Even when it is not serving the intellect or emotions, it continues to function, thinking and meditating. However, this activity is then not only devoid of content, but also open to depravement... It is explained that alien or evil thoughts are caused by "emptiness of the head." For when the mind is occupied, the thought has something to serve, and there is no room for stupid and vain thoughts devoid of substance. Friday - Cheshvan 17 Time must be guarded. It is urgent to "accept the yoke of Torah." Every bit of time, every day that passes, is not just a day but a life's concern. Days go by; as the Talmud says (Yerushalmi Berachot 1:1), "A day enters and a day departs, a week enters etc.,... a month etc.,... a year etc.,..." My father quoted the Alter Rebbe: A summer day and a winter night are a year. Inspiration, Insights & Ideas Bringing Torah lessons to LIFE! PARSHA MESSAGES Spiritual Farmers Life is a daily battle for transcendence. On our own, we are a complex mixture of good and negative forces competing within us. Our choice and calling is to prune, to consistently cultivate the noble and pure dimensions in our psychological “garden,” to reign in the beast and reveal the Divine. Soul Pruning and Plowing By: Rabbi YY Jacobson The Pretzels A n old Jewish lady sold pretzels on a street corner for 25 cents each. Every day a young well-dressed man would leave his office building at lunch time, and as he passed the pretzel stand, he would leave her a quarter, but he never took a pretzel. This went on for more than seven years. The two of them never spoke. One day, as the young man passed the old lady's stand and left his quarter as usual, the pretzel lady spoke to him. "Sir, I appreciate your business. You are a very good customer, but I have to tell you that the pretzel price has gone up to 35 cents." The Farmers The Midrash on this week's Torah portion Lech Lecha relates a fascinating episode: When Abraham traveled through various cities of Mesopotamia, he observed the people engaging in excessive eating, drinking and frivolousness. He said, "I do not want to have a part in this land." When Abraham arrived at the mountains surrounding the north of the Land of Israel he saw the inhabitants engaged in "pruning during the season of pruning" and "plowing during the season of plowing." Abraham declared, "I wish I could have a lot in this land." So G-d told Abraham: "To your offspring I will give this land." Upon reflecting on this Midrashic tale, four questions come to mind. First, what was it about the agricultural labor in the Land of Canaan that inspired Abraham to "fall in love" (so to speak) with the country? Second, the fact that G-d promises this land to Abraham for all of his children, as the eternal homeland for the Jewish nation indicates that the agricultural nature of the country's inhabitants somehow captured the legacy of Judaism. But what is the unique connection between Judaism and farming? Thou Shall Plow This work impressed Abraham deeply. But this was not all. He was even more moved by a philosophy and a lifestyle in which the season of "plowing" followed the season of "pruning." Third, why, given the multitude of labors associated with agronomy and farming, Abraham was impressed by the two particular labors of pruning and plowing. Finally, the order in the Midrash seems amiss. The work of plowing - cutting and turning up the soil in order to make it fertile for production - must precede the work of pruning, which consists of removing weeds and harmful vegetation from the midst of the beneficial produce and takes place only after the plowing season. Yet the Midrash tells us that Abraham observed first the season of pruning and only afterward the labor of plowing Thou Shall Prune The essence of the Jewish experience consists of two phases: pruning and plowing. Every human being is a garden, containing within his (or her) psyche both weeds and roses. Man is a duality of heavenly grandeur and earthly beastliness, a vision of G-d and a mountain of dust, a ray of infinity and pompous aridity. Each of us operates on two levels of consciousness: a self-centered consciousness that makes us prone to narcissistic and immoral behavior, and a transcendental, divine consciousness which is the source of our ethical and spiritual yearnings and convictions. Our mission in life consists of pruning, of removing the weeds from the roses. We must ensure that the mountain of dust does not eclipse the vision of G-d. Each day of our lives we are called upon to battle the forces of aridity and darkness in our psyche and to cultivate the plants of light and G-dliness within our heart. 10 Many of us have engaged at some point in our lives in a battle against the noxious and poisonous "plants" in our psyche. Many of us have fought battles for our souls, integrity and happiness. With sweat and toil we pruned the weeds and – at least to some extent -- our roses emerged. Yet at some stage during the struggle we put down the tools in order to relax. At some point in our growing up, most of us make peace with the status quo; we become complacent with our garden, satisfied with our moral and spiritual condition. Once in a while we may look in the mirror and know that we can do better, but we learn to survive and even be happy with our destination. Moral and spiritual complacency, though tempting and easy, is an invitation to the abyss because of two reasons. First, life is a cliff. If you are not ascending upward, you are falling downward. The forces of selfishness and darkness never leave you completely, and if you drop your guard, failing to fight them each and every day of your life, they may overtake you. What is more, truth is infinite. The moment we become spiritually fixed in a particular mode and smug with our condition, we have lost touch with truth and with G-d. A relationship with G-d must include a steady yearning; an ongoing search. What was wholesome yesterday is broken today. Abraham was transfixed by the vision of a human being who, following a successful season of pruning, returns to the plow to commence his spiritual process all over again, as though he never began. Inspiration, Insights & Ideas Bringing Torah lessons to LIFE! The True You By Lazer Gurkow C ountless hours and dollars are spent in therapy by people seeking themselves. I know someone who is a parent of three, a devoted husband, successful doctor, captain of his football team, coach of his son's little league team, friend to his social circle, and, if that is not enough, he is also a perpetual child in the eyes of his parents. His response to any given situation largely depends on its social context. The aggressive captain responds differently from the loving husband. His response as a parent is different from his response as a friend. The professional doctor is different from the perpetual child. He is often plagued by the question, who am I? What is my internal response to any given situation? We should all ask that question. Somewhere beneath the vestments I wear and the roles I play lurks the real me, what does he look like? Who is he? This is precisely what G-d told Abraham. "Go to yourself, from your country, your birthplace and your father's home, to the land that I will show you." First Abraham was instructed to leave his country. Our characters are shaped by the climate and atmosphere of the country we live in. Then he was told to leave his birthplace. Our characters are further conditioned by the habits, ideas and culture of our neighborhoods. Finally he was told to leave his parents' home. The third and most critical mold of our character is the values and ethics of our parents' home. The experiences of our youth and the principles on which we were raised are deeply imprinted in our psyche. They are the powerful forces that shape the person we are destined to become. Yet, G-d told Abraham, "Go to yourself," leave those influences behind and find yourself. Leave your country, leave your birthplace, leave your parents' home and find out who you are. Seeking Self Embarking on a hunt for selfhood sounds intriguing, but it is also misleading. We are not going to find ourselves by shedding the influences of our youth or the roles we play as adults. The real you is not divorced from the roles that you play. You are the parent and you are the child, you are the coach and you are the spouse. You are not operating out of someone else's mind when you step into those roles. The trick is to hold on to who we are even as we play our role so that our roles will reflect our personality, rather than define it. The same holds true for the influences of our youth. It is not wrong to be influenced by others, it is only wrong to allow such influences to define who we are. G-d did not tell Abraham to, "Go from your country," which would have meant, abandon the influences of your youth. G-d said, "Go to yourself from your country," which means find yourself within the person who was influenced by your country. Prevent your country's influence from defining you. Instead, define for yourself how to best use the habits and values you absorbed in your native country. Embracing Our Past Total abandon of our past is unrealistic. We cannot erase the experiences of our youth; they are the cast in which our characters are molded. We can no more run away from them than we can run from ourselves. We cannot change our past; we can either become prisoner to it or we can put it to use in the service of our true selves. For example, in our youth we may have been taught to be neat and clean up after ourselves, but an overzealous parent may have imparted this value a little too strongly and inadvertently created a compulsive neat freak. Such people, frustrated at their inhibiting compulsion and convinced that their desire for neatness is not reflective of who they are, but of whom their parents wanted them to be, often work to uproot the inclination, but this strategy is neither successful nor wise. We cannot uproot a long ingrained inclination without uprooting a part of ourselves. A better strategy is to embrace the inclination toward being neat while working our way out of its inhibiting vise. This way we draft our past into the service of our true nature without become imprisoned by it. This is the meaning of the words "Go to yourself from your country, birthplace and parent's home." Don't throw away everything you learned in your parent's home and everything you picked up in your birthplace and country. On the contrary draft them into the service of helping you find your true voice. Salvage all the positive elements of your past even as you discard the negative ones. Point of Equilibrium In seeking our true selves we must always remember that G-d's purpose in creating us was so that we could serve Him. Thus, anything related to the service of G-d is reflective of our truest and deepest selves. This is why G-d told 11 Abraham to "[Go] to the land that I will show you. " The Holy Land is conducive to a holy lifestyle; to the study of G-d's Torah and the observance of His commandments. Adam was created in Israel because the essence of humanity is our ability to serve G-d. When we connect with G-d through His Torah and learn to serve Him through His commandments then we have found our true voice and give expression to our truest selves. "The land that I will show you," can be treated as, the land where I will show . . . you—I will show you who you really are. The part of our lives that is connected with G-d is who we really are; it is our point of origin and true self. Everything else flows from this seminal point. And Abram took Sarai his wife... and all the souls they had made in Charan (Gen. 12:5) As Rashi explains, this refers to the people whom Abraham and Sarah "brought under the wings of the Divine Presence. Abraham converted the men [to the belief in one G-d] and Sarah converted the women." Because this took place before the Torah was given at Sinai, the concept of conversion did not exist as it does today; according to Jewish law, Abraham and Sarah were considered "Children of Noah." Thus Rashi uses the unusual phrase "brought under the wings of the Divine Presence" to establish this fact before using the word "conversion" in a non-literal sense. (The Rebbe) Inspiration, Insights & Ideas Bringing Torah lessons to LIFE! Halacha of The Week By Rabbi Dov Schochet Treating Illness on Shabbat W hen Abraham is going down to Egypt, he tells Sarah, "When the Egyptians see your beauty and realize I am your husband they will kill me and let you live. Please say you are my sister". Regarding this the Midrash says, that from here we learn that we may slaughter an animal for an ill person on Shabbat. The sages explain this non sequitur as follows, what was Abraham's concern? If the Egyptians would want to kill him to abstain from adultery, they would surely be concerned about the more grievous sin of murder. But Abraham felt they would rather commit one terrible sin than a smaller one over and over. Similarly, when a person is ill on Shabbat and there are two options, not Kosher meat or Shechting an animal on Shabbat it is better to commit the graver sin of desecrating the Shabbat than eating the not kosher meat where every single bite is another sin. Dealing with an ill person is a complicated question when it comes to Shabbat, as there are many variables to factor. What is the extent of the illness? What kind of treatment is needed, does the treatment violate any Biblical or Rabbinic laws? Is the treatment being administered by a Jew, Gentile or by the patient themselves. When it comes to non life threatening illness, there are generally five categories. A minor discomfort; great pain; no major pain but actual illness; pain which wracks the entire body or causes the patient to be bedridden; an illness which threatens the viability or an organ. A person with minor discomfort is not allowed to do anything which is an obvious remedy to assuage the pain. This is even when the therapy involves no violation of Shabbat laws. The sages were concerned that if one were allowed to treat discomfort with therapy, they would also prepare potions which require crushing herbs, which is a Biblical violation. However, to take a food or liquid which is sometimes used for healthy people, even though the patient's intent is to treat the discomfort, is allowed. If the person has a minor illness, they can ask a gentile to do something which is Rabbinically prohibited. For asking a Gentile to do something on Shabbat itself is only a Rabbinic prohibition, asking him to do something which even for a Jew is a Rabbinic prohibition is twice removed from the original Biblical prohibition. Therefore, in a case of minor illness the sages permitted it. If the patient is in serious pain, even if not bedridden, then any thing which is a Shvus D'shvus (twice removed Rabbinic prohibition) is permitted. They can therefore ask a Jew to do anything Rabbinically prohibited in an unusual way, or ask a Gentile to even perform a labor which is Biblically forbidden as long as it's done in an unusual way. Any time the labor is done in an unusual way it downgrades its severity one degree. If the patient is bedridden or their entire body is in pain, they can have a Gentile perform anything needed for them on Shabbat, even if the activity is Biblically prohibited e.g. bake or cook. A Jew may also do whatever he needs even if it involves a Biblical prohibition as long as it is done in an unusual way. The patient themselves can also take any medications even though usually taking medication is forbidden on Shabbat. If there is a threat to a limb of the patient, but no life threatening element, all of the above is permitted. Also a Jew may do anything which is only Rabbinically forbidden, in order to save the limb, even without doing it in an unusual way. Any treatment which a person is taking while they are perfectly healthy, even if that food is usually used for ill people, is permitted. An example of this is drinking raw egg to sweeten one's voice which is permitted as long as the person is healthy. If a person is in a life threatening situation one is permitted and commanded to desecrate the Shabbat in order to save the person's life. The quicker one is, the more praiseworthy. Even when there is no definite threat, just a possible threat, it is a Mitzva to desecrate the Shabbat to care for the patient. The above are broad generalizations.It is important to know what is considered life threatening in the eyes of Halacha. It is also important to note that in certain cases one can take medicines even when there is no threat to life or debilitating illness. What is considered an unusual way to perform a forbidden act on Shabbat is also an issue which requires Halachic expertise. Just as Shabbat is a Mitzva in the Torah, so too is maintaining a healthy body, which leads to a healthy mind and soul, which in turn allow us to serve Hashem and fulfill our divine mandate in this world. Stories With Soul It Once Happened W hen the young chasid heard that the Baal Shem Tov (known as the Besht) was going to spend Shabbat in Posen, he was anxious to accompany him. Alexei, the driver readied the coach and they set out on the journey. The Baal Shem Tov never traveled in an ordinary manner. While the driver sat napping, the horses were given free rein and ran at enormous speed. When the horses finally stopped, the carriage was standing in a grassy wooded area. The Baal Shem Tov took a flask and sent Alexei out to fill it with water from a spring. He returned with the water and the Besht gave it to the chasid, cautioning him to make a blessing before drinking. As soon as the chasid grasped the flask, he felt an intense thirst and barely managed to recite the blessing. Afterward, the Besht and Alexei drank as well. Everyone got back into the carriage. Once more, Alexei fell into a deep sleep. The unreined horses continued at their unnatural speed, coursing through the countryside. "We are going so fast, but we don't seem to be reaching Posen," observed the chasid. But the Besht was unconcerned, and replied, "We will be in Posen, G-d willing, at the proper time." They traveled throughout the night at the same enormous speed. When they stopped in the morning the Baal Shem Tov prayed at great length. Then they resumed the trip. The hours passed in rapid travel, but the chasid, who had traveled to Posen many times before, saw no familiar sites. Nevertheless, he did not question the Besht further. Finally, the horses drew to a stop outside a 12 Inspiration, Insights & Ideas Bringing Torah lessons to LIFE! ruined shack and the Besht descended from the carriage. They entered the house and there on the floor lay a sick old man surrounded by his tattered, emaciated family. But when the old man saw the Besht, he rose to his feet and embraced him. The two spoke in hushed tones for some time. After the old man blessed the Baal Shem Tov they returned to the carriage and continued their journey. Shabbat was descending when at last they reached the city of Posen. They alighted from the carriage on the Street of Students, a place known for violent anti-Jewish riots. Sure enough, as soon as word had spread that Jews had arrived they were surrounded by a vicious mob. The Besht traversed the crowd, unafraid, with the frightened young man at his heels. They entered the house of a Jewish tailor, the only Jew tolerated by the locals because of his useful trade. The tailor greeted his guests joyfully, but with trepidation. "You have nothing to fear," the Besht assured him. Together with the assistant tailors, they formed a minyan, and began the afternoon service. But they were interrupted by the noise of a mob outside the door. The Besht opened the door and focused his blazing eyes on the hooligans. Terror-struck, they turned and fled. When the story of this astonishing rabbi reached the ears of a certain university professor, he burned with curiosity. What kind of man could this be? He made his way to the tailor's house to observe the holy Besht. The following day he returned and sat, eyes riveted on the majestic figure of the rabbi. He listened intently to the Torah which was taught, and didn't move until Shabbat was over. When they had eaten the Saturday night meal escorting Shabbat, the Besht instructed the driver to bring the carriage and they departed, travelling again at a fabulous speed. In no time they arrived back in Brod. The young man was completely baffled. He got up the nerve to question the Besht. "I can't understand the point of this journey. Please allow me to ask you three questions: First, why did we stop in the grassy area? Second, who was the sick old man we visited? And third, why did we spend Shabbat with the tailor in Posen?" The Besht replied: "I will answer two of your questions. The third you will decipher in due time. In the high grass there lay the bodies of two murdered Jews who had never received a proper burial. By reciting the blessings on the water, and praying the next morning we were able to elevate their souls. The sick old man was the greatest tzadik of our generation. He was destined to be Moshiach, but since our generation was not prepared for him, he was to pass away that very night. As for the reason for going to Posen, you will find out later." Many years passed and one Shabbat the chasid happened to be in Posen. He had occasion to visit the home of the rabbi and spent a wonderful Shabbat there, absorbing the erudite Torah commentary of his host. Suddenly the young man was struck by something his host had said. "I heard these very same words from the Baal Shem Tov in the house of a tailor right here in Posen!" My Encounter with The Rebbe My Encounter with the Rebbe records the oral histories of individuals who interacted with the Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem M. Schneerson of righteous memory, through first-person interviews. Beautiful on the Inside By Mrs. Susan Shuster "Are you the young man who accompanied the Besht?" asked the rabbi. "I am." "Don't you recognize me? I am the university professor who was present. The words of the Besht caused me to attach myself to Judaism." Now the chasid finally understood the purpose of the mysterious trip to Posen. Fear not Abram, for I am your shield (Gen. 15:1) Our forefather Abraham was the epitome of unlimited lovingkindness; in his eyes everyone was good and had merit. Unfortunately, however, looking at the world in such an undiscriminating fashion precludes the entire purpose of creation, i.e., the eradication and nullification of evil. For this reason G-d promised Abraham that He would put a "shield" on his lovingkindness, to make sure it would be applied with the proper discretion. (Torah Ohr) 13 I grew up in New York in a secular family, receiving almost no Jewish education. I became a nurse, married a doctor – a plastic surgeon like my father – and eventually moved to Hollywood, Florida, where we raised our family. Our involvement with Judaism started through my son, Kenny, who was befriended by Chabad chasidim while attending the local Hebrew Academy. They invited him to spend Shabbat at the Landow Yeshiva in Miami Beach, and he ended up enrolling there. Naturally, before we allowed him to do this, my husband and I went to check out the place and we got to know Rabbi Sholom Ber Lipskar, the Chabad emissary there, and the other Chabad emissaries there. They made a wonderful impression on us, and that’s how we were inspired to take our first steps toward Torah observance as a family. Shortly thereafter, we decided to travel to Crown Heights to meet the Rebbe. It was an amazing experience which I lack the words to describe. We felt we were in the presence of a very great, very holy man, who made us feel most welcome. I recall in that first audience telling the Rebbe that my husband and I were leading a very Inspiration, Insights & Ideas Bringing Torah lessons to LIFE! busy social life, yet that I felt empty inside. menorah each Chanukah. He looked at me and said, “But you are Jewish. You have your religion.” And I understood that I should become more involved in Judaism – that this is what was lacking in my life. I had not figured this out for myself until the Rebbe pointed it out to me. After a time, we had a minyan in our house with complete prayer services every Shabbat, which eventually led to my husband buying a house and having it converted into a synagogue. We ran this synagogue – which was called the Levi Yitzchak Synagogue – for about ten years, until the Rebbe gave us permission to turn this task over to someone else. As well, in that first audience, I asked the Rebbe’s advice concerning my children’s health. They had come down with colds while we were visiting in New York, and being a nurse I was able to detect symptoms which suggested that they had caught the croup. I said to the Rebbe, “I am worried that this is serious. Do you think I should take them to the hospital?” “No, you don’t have to,” he responded, “Just take them home and give them tea with sugar.” I was very relieved and very happy that I didn’t have to take them to the hospital. I started to give them tea with sugar, but my husband was not sure. So he took one of the boys to a local pediatrician to ask if antibiotics should be prescribed. But the pediatrician said, “No, just give him tea with honey.” And we were amazed that the Rebbe knew what to do just as well as the pediatrician. After that first meeting with the Rebbe, we returned time and again to see him, as we became more religiously involved. In a subsequent audience, the Rebbe said to me, “Your husband is a plastic surgeon; he makes people beautiful on the outside. It should be your mission to make people beautiful on the inside.” I took these words to heart and, from that point on, I began inviting people to our home for Shabbat meals in an effort to help them find spiritual meaning in their lives. I took great pains in preparing these meals and in making the table very beautiful, so that it reflected the inner beauty of Judaism. On another occasion, the Rebbe told us to put up a big Chanukah menorah in front of our house – he said, “Big enough to light up the whole street.” And he even arranged for a menorah to be there himself, so that when we returned to Florida from New York, it was already waiting for us outside. Ever since, it has been our custom to light this giant In the years that followed, when the Rebbe was no longer granting private audiences, we would come to Crown Heights and stand in line when he was handing out dollars for charity in order to receive his blessings. We often brought him fruit baskets from Florida, from our own orchard, as it was my husband’s hobby to raise exotic fruits. And when we did that, the Rebbe always gave us an extra dollar, adding “This is for your Garden of Eden.” He also made it a point of inquiring as to the age of the trees since it is Jewish law not to partake of fruit from a tree less than three years old, and the Rebbe was very strict about that. He never accepted the fruit without asking about the age of the tree. On one occasion while I was standing in line to receive lekach (honey cake) during the high holidays, after I received my piece, he called me back and explained to me, “Earlier when your husband passed by, I asked him to grow a beard, I first want to make sure that it’s okay with you?” He wanted to be positive that this wouldn’t affect my relationship with my husband in a negative way. Can you imagine? He was so caring, so sensitive about everyone's feelings. In conclusion, I just want to say that whatever you might hear about the Rebbe can never fully describe him. It is just impossible to put into words who he was. He had uncommon insight into people; he understood where each person was coming from, what was bothering each one, what each needed to hear. It was a privilege and an honor to know him, and I am only sad that this generation has not had a chance to meet him and know him and appreciate him like we did. 14 Bobruisk Marks 75 Years Since Extermination of Jews T he Jewish community in Bobruisk, Belarus, commemorated 75 years since the extermination of Bobruisk ghetto during the Holocaust in three days of memorial events that concluded Sunday. About 14,000 Bobruisk Jews were killed during those horrific days of the war, erasing forever the lively Jewish flare of the city. Over 2,000 community members and guests participated in the memorial events, which included a ceremony at the Bobruisk ghetto memorial, several evening programs, special performances for the youth and a visit to the ‘Righteous of the world’ memorial in Kamenka. “It’s important to remember, to educate young generations about these tragic events, to connect them to the eldest members of our communities, who can still give eye-witness accounts. Never again – these are just words, unless we connect them to our senses,” said Rabbi Shaul Hababo, chief rabbi of Bobruisk. City and government officials also participated in memorial events, along with 9 ambassadors from European Union countries, Ukraine and Israel. The Bobruisk ceremony was one of many taking place in Jewish communities this year. Hundreds of communities throughout Ukraine, Russia, Belarus and Lithuania remember the victims of Nazi atrocities and commemorate 75 years since the tragedy of the Holocaust. From Babiy Yar and Mariupol in Ukraine, to Zmeyevka near Rostov, Russia and many smaller sites in-between, communities and their rabbis as well as city and government officials come together for memorial ceremonies, evenings of support and connection. “All nations grieve together with you and will always support you in your good deeds,” said head of Mariupol city administration in a memorial ceremony in that city yesterday. 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Broadview Drive Bay Harbor Islands Please call Mrs. Devorah Failer for an appointment: 305-866 1492 or 305-323-2410 8:30 - 10:00 pm Tuesday Please Note: Shabbos & Yom Tov visits must be Prepaid Prayer Class Rebbetzin Chani Lipskar 1111 Kane Concourse Suite 618 9:15 - 10:15 am Tanya Class In Spanish Mrs. Vivian Perez 198 Park Drive, Bal Harbour Village 2:00 - 2:30 pm Torah Portion In Spanish Mrs Vivian Perez 198 Park Drive, Bal Harbour Village 2:30 - 3:45 pm The Shul Sisterhood Who we are... The Shul Sisterhood organizes all of The Shul’s programming and classes geared toward women in the community. Our objective is to bring women of all ages and backgrounds together to learn, laugh, experience, and rejuvenate their mind, body and soul. Meet new friends, relax and get inspired! Wednesday Morning Torah Class Rebbetzin Chani Lipskar 10:00 - 11:00 am The weekly portion - Women’s Perspective Haime Library Tanya Class in English Mrs. Vivian Perez 198 Park Drive, Bal Harbour Village 1:00 - 3:00 pm If you would like to be a part of The Shul Sisterhood, please call 305. 868.1411 Women’s Calendar Of Events A great listing of the places you want to be and the things you want to do! 23 French Connection Reflexions sur la Paracha Le luxe Vivre avec la paracha Une valeur juive? Par Elisha Greenbaum et d’une détermination sans faille. Il était prêt à tourner le dos à toutes les opinions et à toutes les structures sociales. Il souffrit pour son D.ieu et sa foi et accepta une existence nomade vie au nom de sa nouvelle religion. Abraham était motivé par l’amour de la vérité, par une volonté ardente et par son aspiration à faire plaisir à son Créateur. On eut pu s’attendre que cet homme de vertu fût la dernière personne à réclamer la richesse et la gloire en récompense de ses efforts. R abbi Meir Shapiro, le « Rav de Lublin », fonda la célèbre académie talmudique « ’Hakhmei Lublin » dans les années 1920 dans le cadre de sa campagne pour élever l’image des étudiants de yéchiva. Fini le temps où les jeunes érudits devaient vivre dans la misère, dormir sur des bancs, porter des vêtements élimés et ne jamais savoir quand ils prendraient leur prochain repas. La Yéchiva de Lublin avait un dortoir, un cuisinier dévoué, des livres en suffisance et même l’eau courante dans les toilettes ! Les meilleurs étudiants de Pologne affluèrent vers la nouvelle yéchiva. La concurrence pour les places était si serrée qu’on dut instituer de strictes conditions d’entrée. Aux yeux du public, il devint rapidement admis qu’un garçon accepté à la Yéchiva de Lublin était par définition un génie en herbe, digne des plus grandes attentions et d’un respect considérable. Ceci effectua un changement dans l’attitude générale à l’égard de l’ensemble des étudiants de yéchiva et l’idéal d’une étude de la Torah à temps plein gagna en légitimité. Les vieilles attitudes ont la vie dure, et Rav Shapiro fut souvent en proie à des difficultés dans ses efforts pour collecter des fonds. L’un des défis qu’il eut à surmonter fut de justifier son écart apparent des enseignements des Sages. Le sixième chapitre des Maximes des Pères déclare en effet : « Telle est la voie de la Torah : mange du pain avec du sel, boit de l’eau, dort sur le sol, mène une existence de peine et dépense-toi dans la Torah. » Il semble que, pour réussir dans l’étude, il faille mener une existence ascétique et spartiate, pas une vie confortable. Vous méritez mieux Le Rav Shapiro a formulé un certain nombre de réponses à des accusations de cette nature. La plus célèbre est sans doute lorsqu’il affirma ironiquement qu’il s’agissait d’une mauvaise interprétation des paroles de Sages. L’enseignement cité ci-dessus n’est pas une injonction, mais une lamentation. Il ne doit pas être lu avec une vertueuse indignation, mais plutôt sur un ton de pitié douloureuse. N’est-il pas malheureux que ceux qui consacrent leur vie à l’étude de la parole de D.ieu n’en aient pas, jusqu’à ce jour, été justement rétribués ? De fait, la motivation d’A braham dans son service de D.ieu n’était pas la perspective d’être récompensé par la richesse. Son plaisir résidait dans le spirituel et, à ses yeux, la vérité et la justice étaient en soi une récompense. Cependant, si Abraham avait dû souffrir, si ses efforts n’avaient été payés que de pauvreté, comment cela auraitil été perçu par ceux qu’il essayait d’attirer ? Quand Abraham réclama des avantages matériels à D.ieu, il était seulement motivé par l’honneur de D.ieu. Quand D.ieu accorde à Ses fidèles la prospérité, Il rend l’ensemble du système plus attrayant, et justifie aux yeux de la communauté tous les efforts en Son nom. Ne t’inquiètes pas ... tu auras ta récompense Notre ancêtre Abraham fut le géniteur de notre foi et le moteur de la diffusion de la connaissance de D.ieu auprès des masses. Il est intéressant de noter que, dans le livre de la Genèse (15, 1), il est dit qu’après la victoire miraculeuse d’Abraham sur les quatre rois qui avaient pris son neveu Lot en captivité, D.ieu rassure Abraham en lui disant qu’Il tiendra Sa promesse de récompenser ses efforts : Ne crains pas, Abram ; Je suis ton bouclier ; ta récompense est extrêmement grande. Abraham était un homme d’un grand courage 24 Classes Thursdays at 12.00 in the Haime Library Classes alternate between the following teachers: Dr. Hanna Barouk Rabbi Amar Rabbi Frankforter Rabbi Gansburg FOR WOMEN ONLY Latin Link Reflexion Semanal Circuncisión Ritual – Brit Mila Parasha de la Semana Por Levi Y Heber Visión General del Brit Mila Las costumbres y leyes correspondientes a la circuncisión derivan de la Biblia, el Talmud y la tradición judía, las que han sido transmitidas meticulosamente de generación en generación. Un Mohel Calificado La persona que lleva a cabo el Brit es llamada "Mohel". Es un maestro cirujano con experiencia especial en el ritual judío de la circuncisión. Para estar calificado como Mohel debe ser temeroso de Di-s, un judío observante de la Torá, y conocedor de la gran cantidad de leyes judías y médicas correspondientes al Brit Milá. El Primer Mandamiento de Di-s a Abraham La circuncisión es el primer mandamiento dado por Di-s a Abraham, el primer judío, y es una parte central del judaísmo. Abraham, el padre del pueblo judío, durante muchos años sirvió a Di-s rectamente. Sin embargo fue sólo después que se circuncidara por orden de Di-s a los noventa y nueve años, que pudo llegar al máximo nivel de perfección bíblica de "y serás perfecto" (Génesis 17:1). Di-s deseó que ese último "toque final" y perfección de nuestro cuerpo fuera un acto humano distintivo. Esto nos enseña que la perfección espiritual puede y debe lograrse por el esfuerzo humano. En la Torá Está escrito en la Torá: "Este es Mi mandamiento que observarás entre Mi y tú y tus hijos después de ti, de circuncidar a todos los varones. Circuncidarás la carne de tu prepucio, y será una señal del pacto entre Yo y tú" (Ibíd. 17:10-11). Este es el único mandamiento de la Torá llamado "la señal del pacto" entre Di-s y el pueblo judío. En efecto, la Torá menciona la palabra "Brit" (en hebreo pacto) 13 veces en conexión con la circuncisión, y es por eso que la palabra "Brit" se ha convertido en sinónimo de circuncisión. Nuestros Sabios dicen que es considerado el más grande de todos los mandamientos. El pacto entre Di-s y el pueblo judío es tan profundo y significativo que la circuncisión es practicada lo más temprano posible en la vida de una persona. La Torá nos dice que es en el octavo día después del nacimiento. Trascendiendo el Intelecto A medida que los niños maduran y se desarrollan son entrenados para observar todas las mitzvot, cada una de acuerdo a su nivel, especialmente una vez que llegan a la edad en que pueden cumplirlas por ellos mismos y apreciar su peores persecuciones, los judíos han cuidado la mitzvá de Brit Milá con increíble devoción, auto sacrificio y alegría. Nuestros Sabios también dijeron: "Cada mandamiento que los judíos han aceptado sobre ellos con alegría, como la circuncisión, perdura". importancia. Sin embargo con la circuncisión, no esperamos a que el niño se desarrolle lo suficiente para comprender su significado. Esto es debido a que el vínculo y pacto entre el judío y Di-s trasciende el intelecto y es tan vital que no es demorado. Al tener el Brit llevado a cabo por un Mohel calificado uno puede estar seguro que todo el procedimiento es aceptable para los niveles bíblicos y halájicos (legislación judía), y llevado a cabo de acuerdo a la forma médica más competente. Otra distinción es que otros mandamientos son cumplidos en conjunción, pero en forma externa, con el cuerpo. Los tefilín (filacterias) por ejemplo, son usados en el brazo y en la cabeza; se da caridad con la mano. La circuncisión es única porque es cumplida con el cuerpo mismo, dejando la marca del pacto eterno con Di-s sobre éste toda la vida. Se debe tener en cuenta que al hacer circuncidar al bebé por un cirujano pediátrico en un hospital no cumple los requerimientos bíblicos del ritual judío de la circuncisión. La obligación de ser circuncidado ritualmente aun queda. En adición, muchos médicos utilizan diversos métodos y procedimientos tales como la abrazadera Gamko, que provoca dolor innecesario al niño, y está prohibido de acuerdo a la ley judía. Una vez que el niño es circuncidado, su alma Divina comienza a entrar a su cuerpo en un proceso que es completado en el Bar Mitzvá a los trece años. La Obligación Clases y Eventos La primera obligación para la circuncisión de un niño judío cae sobre el padre. En el caso de que el padre no esté presente o no puede organizar la circuncisión, la obligación cae sobre la comunidad judía, y esencialmente cada judío, hacer los arreglos para su circuncisión. Una vez que el niño llega al Bar Mitzvá, está personalmente obligado de ver que está circuncidado. Porcion Semenal Rabbi Shea Rubinstein Lunes 8:45 pm - 9:45 pm Orden de rezos diarios y su significado mistico Los Sabios del Talmud enseñan que "cada mandamiento de la Torá por el cual el pueblo judío debe sacrificar su vida, especialmente bajo la amenaza de muerte durante períodos de persecución gubernamental, incluyendo la circuncisión, es preservado por ellos". En verdad, a lo largo de las generaciones, aun durante las Kolel Espanol Rabbi Shlomi Halsband Miercoles 8:30 - 10:00 pm Domingo 8:30 - 10:00 pm 25 (Para Mujeras) Sra. Vivian Perez Martes 1:45 pm - 3:00 pm 198 Park Dr. Bal Harbour Por favor llamar al 305.213.3202 para confirmar Sra. 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Limited time. 28 Numbers to know Contacts at The Shul 305.868.1411 Shul Gaboim Mr. Andrew Roth Mr. David Portnoy Rabbi Henry Eichler Mr. Ettai Einhorn Mr. David Ben-Arie Mr. Seth Salver Rabbi Associate Rabbi Rabbi’s Executive Assistant Rebbetzin JLAC / Adult Ed/ Singles CYS College / Kolel Accounting Controller Office Manager Events / Office Assistant Youth Director / Dinner Youth Director Operations / Maintenance Reception / Accounts Payable Mikvah Pre-School Sephardic Minyan Hebrew School / Editor Hashkama Minyan Mashgiach Board of Trustees Ambassador Isaac Gilinski - Chairman Abel Holtz Simon Falic Mike Izak Sidney Feltenstein Alberto Kamhazi Matias Garfunkel Shmuel Katz M.D. Jaime Gilinski Rabbi Sholom D. Lipskar Max Gilinski Lazer Milstein Saul Gilinski Michael Perez Sam Greenberg Claudio Stivelman Morris Tabacinic Rabbi Sholom Lipskar Rabbi Zalman Lipskar Ms. Lydia Hasson Rebbetzin Chani Lipskar Rabbi Shea Rubinstein Rabbi Dov Schochet Mrs. Geri Kelly Mrs. Janice Barney Ms. Stacy Waxman Mrs. Milena Liascovitz Mrs Devorah Leah Andrusier Rabbi Shaykee Farkash Mr. Shlomi Katan Mrs. Mindy Natoli Mrs. Devorah Failer Chana Chazan Shimshon Tzubeli Mrs. Aurit Katan Mr. Lazer Milstein Mr. Mordechai Olesky Ext 315 Ext 345 Ext 311 305.992.8363 Ext 342 305.790.8294 Ext 341 Ext 318 Ext 313 Ext 328 Ext 329 Ext 329 Ext 319 Ext 0 305.323.2410 Ext 325 305.865.4205 786.382.9006 305.349.3040 786.262.9115 Foundation Trustees Albert Pollans - President Jaime Gilinski David Lichter Rabbi Sholom D. Lipskar Monroe Milstein - Treasurer Board of Directors Rabbi Sholom D. Lipskar Mitch Feldman – President Rebbetzin Chani Lipskar Eric Stein – Vice President Lazer Milstein Joel Baum CPA – Treasurer Rabbi Zalman Lipskar – Secretary Orit Osman Brian Roller Devorah Leah Andrusier Yaacov Saidof Eli Dominitz David Schottenstein Maurice Egozi Daniel Shapiro Henry Eichler Daniel Sragowicz Daniel Gielchinsky Cynthia Stein Jacob Givner Michael Tabacinic Nicole Katz Kavana Jose Yankelevitch Gregory Levine Executive Committee Mitchell Feldman - Chair Bruce Gelb Janice Barney Daniel Gielchinsky Joel Baum CPA Evelyn Katz Max Benoliel Rabbi Sholom Dovber Lipskar Dovid Duchman Rabbi Zalman Lipskar Steven M. Dunn Ryan Shapiro Maurice Egozi Marc Sheridan Velvel Freedman Eric P. 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Broadview Drive Bay Harbor Islands Senior Torah Academy ETH-101 Pirkei Avos Tanya Class in Spanish (Women) PHL-120 Rebbetzin Chani Lipskar 8:30 - 10:00 pm T u e s Torah Portion Class in Spanish (Women) TXT-110 Morning Torah Class (Women) - Weekly Parsha TXT-110 W In Depth Tanya Class ( Men & Women) PHL-320 PHL-501 e Tanya Class in English d Rabbi Dov Schochet Mrs. Vivian Perez, 198 Park Drive, Bal Harbour Village Mrs. Vivian Perez 198 Park Drive, Bal Harbour Village Rebbetzin Chani Lipskar Rabbi Sholom D. 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