Emotion Norms in Interpersonal Events Author(s): David R. Heise and Cassandra Calhan Source: Social Psychology Quarterly, Vol. 58, No. 4 (Dec., 1995), pp. 223-240 Published by: American Sociological Association Stable URL: http://www.jstor.org/stable/2787125 . Accessed: 07/08/2013 12:40 Your use of the JSTOR archive indicates your acceptance of the Terms & Conditions of Use, available at . http://www.jstor.org/page/info/about/policies/terms.jsp . JSTOR is a not-for-profit service that helps scholars, researchers, and students discover, use, and build upon a wide range of content in a trusted digital archive. We use information technology and tools to increase productivity and facilitate new forms of scholarship. For more information about JSTOR, please contact [email protected]. . American Sociological Association is collaborating with JSTOR to digitize, preserve and extend access to Social Psychology Quarterly. http://www.jstor.org This content downloaded from 129.79.13.20 on Wed, 7 Aug 2013 12:40:17 PM All use subject to JSTOR Terms and Conditions SocialPsychology Quarterly 1995,Vol. 58, No. 4, 223-240 EmotionNormsin InterpersonalEvents* DAVID R. HEISE CASSANDRA CALHAN IndianaUniversity A graphicallystructured adjectivechecklistwas used to assess prescriptive and reactive normsof emotionin 128 social events.Bothprescriptive and reactiveemotionnormsexist forall 128 events.Normscenteron a specificemotionin aboutone-third oftheevents,and on a generalaffective tone.Bothprescriptions otherwise and reactionsoccasionallycluster normsregardingthe expectedemotionfor an event.Prescriptive intoconflicting norms divergefromreactivenormsin almosthalfof theevents,thoughin onlya few eventsdo prescriptions requirethe oppositeof people's emotionalreactions.Feeling no emotion occursfairlyoftenfor medical occasionallyis the norm;prescribednonemotionality but not in relationships relationships, based on rationalobjectivity. of otherinstitutions Prescriptive normsare thesamefora womanand a man,exceptthata womanis expected toemotemoreintensely insomeinteractions. Reactivenormsvarybysex,however,inabout one-fifth of theevents.On thewhole,femalesare disposedto emotewithsomewhatmore thanmales. displeasure,arousal, and vulnerability Emotionsare supposedto fitthe circum- O'Brien 1993; Kemper 1993; Smith-Lovin stances.At a funeral,forexample,griefand 1994; Thoits1989). "The moststudiedtopic sorrow are warranted,and a norm of in the sociologyof emotionsis probablythe joylessnessapplies. Happinessis inappropri- effectof emotionnormsuponexperienceand ate; people regulatethemselvesso as to feel expression" (Gordon 1990:163). Almost sorrow,and theycensuredisplaysof happi- every line of inquiryfocuses on emotion ness by others. norms. The recognition thatthereare social norms One issue in the sociologyof emotionsis foremotionsdepartsfromtheearlyscientific how emotions,withtheirobviousphysiologiframingof affectivedisplaysas biological cal concomitants,can be so normative. phenomena(e.g., Darwin [1872] 1965). Kemper(1978) proposedthatemotionsare People do not emote simplybecause the not simply socially controlledbut also animalwithinrespondsinstinctively to certain socially engendered,and that emotionsfit predicaments. Rather,theyintelligently guide social circumstances so oftenbecausepartictheirfeelingsandtheirdisplaysofemotionsto ular social circumstances automatically profitwhatis expected.At a funeral,sorrowfor duce specificemotions.In thatsense, emohumanloss is invokedat graveside;yetjoy at tionsare social automatisms. Affect-control withthelivingmaybe theory renewing relationships (Heise 1979;MacKinnon1994; Smithreleased at the wake. Even deviancefrom Lovin 1990) offers a similar argument: emotion norms can serve as intelligent emotions emerge automaticallyfrom the rhetoric-forexample,a person'sirritabilitybehavioralconfirmation and disconfirmation at a funeralmay be a sign of ineffable of sociallydefinedsituations. resentment towardthedeceased. Interactionists focus on the paradox that Emotionnorms,theirculturalreproduc- emotionsare social automatismsemerging as meansto endsare fromparticular tion,andtheiradaptation circumstances and yetsomeprimaryconcernsof the sociologyof emo- timescan be deviant.A keyto understanding tions thathas emergedduringthe last two thisseemingcontradiction is thatinfluential decades (for summaries,see Heise and people can shape emotionnormsto reflect theirideology and to create resourcesfor * We are gratefulto participantsin the social personalgain. Then otherswith alternative psychologytraining seminar,Department of Sociology, social understandings may emotedifferently Indiana University,for their helpful criticismand thannormsrequire.Hochschild(1983) anasuggestions.This work was initiatedwhile the first in theairlineindustry and authorwas thedirector andthesecondauthora traineein lyzedsucha pattern theconceptof emotionallaborto the Affectand AffectMeasurement TrainingProgram, introduced PHS T32 MH15789. describehow flightattendants resolve dis223 This content downloaded from 129.79.13.20 on Wed, 7 Aug 2013 12:40:17 PM All use subject to JSTOR Terms and Conditions 224 SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGY QUARTERLY crepancies between their own emotional how an individual should feel in only setbyemploy- relativelyfew consequentialhappenings,or reactionsandtheprescriptions ers. Emotion work-generatingprescribed are people's feelingssociallycontrolled most emotionsthatoverrideautomaticreactions- of the time? Clear emotionnorms might has becomea key conceptforunderstandingregulatefeelingonlyin ritesof passage and how people respondin social arrangementsother situationsnoted for theiremotional with tone, leavinga vast arena for untrammeled emotionnormsconflict whereprescribed personalfeeling.On the otherhand, preemotionalreactions(Thoits1990). Thoits(1985) consideredthepsychological scribed emotion norms might accompany as a primary burdensof emotionreactionsthat violate nearlyeverysocial transaction norms.Recurrentdeviantfeel- meansforthesocial controlof minds. prescriptive ings require explanation,and individuals Second, are therereactivenormsof emonorms?Conceivconcoct unauthenticemotion tionas well as prescriptive resourcefully stratagems.Emotion ably,emotionalresponsesto social situations displaysas interaction on idiosyncratic normsprovideone basis for doing this, as mightdependso strongly self when someonedisplaysprescribedguiltfor processes (Denzin 1984) that there is no to whatpeoplenaturally feel behavioraldevianceto forestalllabelingor centraltendency (Heise 1989; Robinson,Smith- in social situations.On the otherhand, the punishment and view of emotions as social automatisms Lovin, and Tsoudis 1994; Smith-Lovin suggeststhata givenhappeningmightevoke Tsoudis 1993). certainfeelings largely uniformfeelingsfor most of the Emotionnormsconcentrate in particularsituations;consequentlysocial participants. ambiences. Third,what is the relationbetweenpretakeon characteristic happenings Collins (1991) linkedthisaspectof emotion scriptiveemotionnormsand emotionalreacof tions? People sometimesare disposed to normsto the garneringand distribution thannormsrequire;theresocial energies. Solidarityrituals produce emotedifferently moods thatpeople carryaway with them, foretheymustworktobringtheirfeelingsinto Thiscouldbe thecase mobilizingother social enterprisesby the linewithexpectations. of activatedstates.By thisprinci- if no reactivenormsexist,so thatveryfew diffusion ple, the normativeemotions at religious peoplehappento emoteas they"should."Or rituals can diffuse goodwill to promote it could be the case because reactivenorms fromtheprescripexistbutoftenaredifferent efforts. cooperative Virtuallyeveryessay on the sociologyof tivenorms.On theotherhand,it maybe that emotionnormsgenerallyare acemotionspresupposesthatthereare standard prescriptive reactivenorms,which bymatching ways of emoting in particularcircum- companied exceptinspestances-that normsexistto "specifythetype makeemotionworkunnecessary of emotion,the extentof emotion,and the cial circumstances. Fourth,are emotionaltemperaments in a and durationof feelingthatare appropriate 1994:118). Yet very stylesregulatedby the normsof emotion situation"(Smith-Lovin aspectsof cultures?We approachthisissue, raisedby littleis knownaboutthenormative emotions.Instead, empiricalwork in the Gordon(1990), in termsof gendercomparisociologyof emotionshas focusedlargelyon sons. Brodyand Hall reviewedtheliterature in emotionality and how a range of emotionalexperienceis on genderdifferences or on thevariety found shapedby social institutions of social conditionsthatengendera specific thatinthisculture, females arebothstereotyped emotion(e.g., Cancian and Gordon 1988; to be andin factaremoreintensely expressive Goffman1956; Hochschild1983; Scheffand of bothpositive and somenegative emotions. Retzinger1992; Scherer,Wallbott,and Sumfemaleshavebeenfound ... In somecontexts, merfield 1986; Simon,Eder,andEvans 1992; to be relatively weakerthanaremalesin both and recognizing expressing angerand other Steamsand Stearns1986). outer-directed emotions Males (e.g.,contempt). on emotion This studyfocusesspecifically toreport havealsobeenfound moreprideinthe severalissuesin norms.In hopesofclarifying self than do women,and fewerof the the sociology of emotions,we address a affects intropunitive (e.g., shame,embarrassnumberof questionsabout how emotional ment, guilt,andanxiety) (1993:452). statesare linkedwithsocial happenings. emotionnormsdefine Thustheresearchsuggeststhatthesexeshave First,do prescriptive This content downloaded from 129.79.13.20 on Wed, 7 Aug 2013 12:40:17 PM All use subject to JSTOR Terms and Conditions EMOTION NORMS 225 emotionculturesand different emo- correlateswith social awareness of that different tional temperaments. We will investigate expectationand withindividuals'tendencies and that whether prescriptive normsdivergeformales to regulatethemselvesaccordingly, andforfemales;iftheydo so, andiffemales' pluralityalso correlateswiththe likelihood and males' emotionalreactionsalign with that contraryemotions will be socially prescriptions, thenculturalnormscould be censured.We treatthemodalresponseto the regulating differentiation in femaleand male "How do you feel?" questionas a reactive On theotherhand,findingthat norm,inasmuchas a reactivenormintrinsiemotionality. in emotionalreactionshave callyis a statistical of convergent sex differences description littlerelationto prescriptions would imply responses.The assumption in thiscase is that thatdiffering arisefromgender emotions felt while imaginingan event temperaments withemotionsthatwouldbe experiitselfratherthanfromnorma- correlate differentiation tiveshaping. encedin thelivedevent.' Fifth,whatkindsof relationships The 128 happeningsthatwe studiedare require thatpeople shoulddisplayno emotionat all? stratified withindifferent social institutions This questionarisesfromtheprominence of (e.g., law, medicine,religion).Theyinvolve "affectiveneutrality" as a patternvariable a systematicrange of interactants-from distinguishing primaryfromsecondaryrela- good, powerful,and active people such as tionshipsin Parsonian sociology (Parsons physiciansto bad, weak, and inactivepeople 1951). Theoretically, people mightbe obli- suchas addicts.Behaviors,too,wereselected to represent gated to suppressemotionsin work and systematically actions supportive a neutral suchas helpingandcongratulating, professional encounters, presenting as well as demeanorand maintainingconditionsfor detrimental actions such as seducing and We assuredvariability enhanced rationality.On the other hand, insulting. of interactaHochschild's(1983) researchindicatesthat nts' identitiesand behaviorsby consulting workerscan be requiredto emoteas partof dictionarieswith quantifiedmeasures of theirjobs. Additionally, affect-control thathad been assembledorigitheory connotations about institutionalnally for researchin affectcontroltheory proposesthatinformation roles is borne in affect and that much (Heise 1979; Smith-Lovin and Heise 1988). via affective is generated institutional activity processes(Heise 1979). This pointimplies that diverse emotions will arise in both PROCEDURES and secondary primary relationships. Instrumentation We developed a recordinginstrument graphicallyconfiguredas a spiral to let We investigated prescriptive emotionnorms respondents selectfrom25 specificemotional how a participantstatessuch as by askingcollege students shame, anger,or depression shouldfeelin a particular event.Forexample, whileavoidingthetediumand frustrations of one itemin thequestionnaires was "A funeral using classic mood-adjectivecheck lists director shushesa woman.The womanshould (Zuckermanand Lubin 1965). The spiral feel. . . ." We investigated reactivenormsby configuration derivedfrom was researchon the same itemsin morepersonal, thestructure rephrasing ofemotions;we forgodiscussing moreimmediate terms-forexample,"Imag- thedetailshere. inea funeral director is shushing you.How do The instruction page fromthe studyof for emotionalreactionsis shownin youfeelat thatmoment?"Our instrument Figure1. The emotion recording allowedrespondents tochoose emotionalstates(24 quicklyfrom25 different 1 Our assessmentof prescriptive normsemploysthe emotionsplus "no emotion").These 25 oprespondentas an observerof others, whereas our aboutone-fourth tionsconstitute oftheEnglish assessmentof reactivenormselicits the respondent's emotionlexiconand are representative of the personal reactions.This recenteringof respondents' viewpointsin the two studies is appropriateto the rest. A modal responseto the "should feel" distinctionbetweenprescriptiveand reactivenorms. Hedonisticfactors,however,could be moreprominent emotionnorm when questiondefinesa prescriptive respondents are askedto give theirown reactions; in thisstudy.The assumption is thatplurality such factorsshould be kept in mind in comparing in specifyinghow a person should feel prescriptive withreactivenorms. Scope oftheStudy This content downloaded from 129.79.13.20 on Wed, 7 Aug 2013 12:40:17 PM All use subject to JSTOR Terms and Conditions SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGY QUARTERLY 226 INSTRUCTIONS situations. Circletheone You willchoose emotionsyouwouldfeelindifferent emotion.Thenchecka box emotionon thediagramthatis closesttotheappropriate theemotionwouldbe. Ifyouthink youwouldfeelno to indicatehowintenseyouthink and checkthe"Noemotion" box. Ifyoudo not thencirclenothing emotion, thesituation, thendrawan X overthediagram.Hereis an example. understand eatinga good meal. Youfinish Howdo youfeelat thatmoment? /@A / I I X~~~pru Nbte Low /dExtreme Average ~~intensityintensity intensity emotion I Anoyed,a one emotion, and ~~~~Circle lJ \ ~check \~~~<* i one Intensity box t j /;bf / n Annoyo~~d, bXtte ifyouremember howtheyare arrangedon thediagram. You can findemotionsquickly Top: pleasantfeelings unpleasantfeelings Bottom: Left: quietfeelings Right: arousedfeelings Inside: vulnerable feelings Outside: dominant feelings Questionnaire Page foran Emotion-Spiral Figure1. SampleInstruction This content downloaded from 129.79.13.20 on Wed, 7 Aug 2013 12:40:17 PM All use subject to JSTOR Terms and Conditions EMOTION NORMS 227 is theemotionspiral.The bottom events,we also systematically variedAlter's centerpiece graphicshowstheunderlying structure of the institutional affiliation by assigningan idendimensionrepresents tity associated with academic, business, spiral:the top-bottom Pleasure,withpleasantfeelingsat the top. justice, medicine,religion,laity,family,or relations. The left-right dimensionrepresents Arousal, intimacy We used an 8 x 8 Graeco-Latinsquareto withfeelingsof activationon theright.The ofbehaviordefined overlappingsectorsin the spiral represent construct stimuli:patterns Dominance,withimpotent, vulnerablefeel- rows, patternsof alter identitydefined were the diagonal ings on the inside. The check boxes in the columns,and institutions 64 centerof the spiral allow respondentsto factor.The Graeco-Latin squaregenerated or to select "no scenariosin which Ego was the object of recordemotionalintensity Alter's action. To illustrate,we needed to emotion"as an answer. Our questionnaires presenteddescriptions createan eventin a businesssettingwitha of social eventsand asked how one of the good, potent,active(+ + +) actor(such as in each situationshouldor does "flight attendant")engaging in a good, interactants feel. An emotionspiral was includedwith potent,active (+ + +) behavior(such as com- "assists") towarda man. Thus one of our each stimulus,and fourstimulus-spiral binationsappeared on each page. On the scenariosis "A flightattendant assistsa man. average, respondentsin our studies took The manshouldfeel...." We usedthesame about 20 seconds to read each one-line design to generateanother64 scenariosin vignette,circle an appropriateemotional whichEgo actedon Alter.For example,we in whicha woman response, and check a level of emotion requireda lay relationship intensity. active(+ + +) engagesin a good,powerful, behavior(such as "rescuing")on a + + + objectperson(suchas "hero"), so one of our stimuliis "A woman rescues a hero. The Stimuli womanshouldfeel...." The 64 stimuliwith For the studyof prescriptive norms,each Ego as objectplusthe64 stimuliwithEgo as eventdescription presented Ego (namedas "a actorconstitute the basic 128 eventsstudied man" or "a woman")and Alter(namedby a in thisproject. social identity),with eitherEgo or Alter To examinegenderdifferences in prescripa social behavioron the other. tivenorms,we createdadditionalsetsof the performing The respondents were asked to specifythe same events with "man" and "woman" emotionthatEgo shouldfeel. fora grandtotalof 256 stimuli. interchanged, We generated stimuluseventsby systemat- These stimuliweredistributed equallyacross icallycombining Evaluation-Potency-Activity fourdifferent forms,such thatno identityfor behaviorand for behaviorcombinationappeared more than (EPA) configurations Alter identity.(Evaluation, Potency, and once in a form.Eventsin each formfeatured are universaldimensions of affective menand womenequally,and object-egosand Activity meaning; see Osgood, May, and Miron actor-egosequally. 1975). Dichotomizingeach EPA dimension The studyof reactivenormsused thesame as positive versus negative yields eight 128 events. In this case, however, the configurations(good-potent-active,good- respondent becameEgo in the stimulus.For potent-inactive, etc.) of behavioror identity, example,the stimulimentionedabove were and 64 behavior-identity EPA rephrasedas "Imaginea flightattendant combinations. is ofidentities andbehaviorsweredrawn assistingyou. How do you feel at that ratings froman availabledictionary (Heise andLewis moment?"and "Imagineyou're rescuinga 1988).2 To increase the diversityof our hero.How do youfeelat thatmoment?"(We used a slightlydifferent phrasingwithnine 2 instances of insinuated behaviors-for examWhenonlyone or twobehaviorsfittheEPA profile for a category,we used behaviorsthatcame close to ple, "You realize yourlandlordis evading fitting theprofile.For example,"idolize" was theonly you. How do you feel at thatmoment?") wordin theHeise andLewis (1988) dictionary thatfitthe Gendercomparisonis based on the respon- + + EPA profile(good, powerless,active)so we used "sweettalk"as a + - + behavioralthough itsEPA rating is .22, .13, .51 (or + + +). The demandsof our identities that turned out to be unfamiliar to some stratified eventsamplingsystemalso led us to use some respondents(see Table 1, note c). This content downloaded from 129.79.13.20 on Wed, 7 Aug 2013 12:40:17 PM All use subject to JSTOR Terms and Conditions 228 SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGY QUARTERLY I give thisa lot of efdents'sex. The 128 stimuliwere distributedgive thissome effort; " followingthe same fort.) intotwo questionnaires, The genderideologyresponseswerecoded study. as in theprescriptive-norm principles Respondentswere encouraged to skip 1 forthefirstoption(agreeor approve),2 for stimuli they did not understand.Events thethirdoption,and 3 forthesecondoption. involving"grind," "teetotaler,""quack," A component analysisshowedthatresponses "goody," "neurotic,"and "killjoy" were to the genderideologyitemswere unifactoskippedby unusualnumbersof respondents rial; we also found that the responses (thoughmorethan75 percentrespondedin correlatedwith religiouscommitment. We a singlescale bydoublingtherangeof every case). We included such offbeat formed charactersin stimuliin orderto presenta the ideology items, then adding religious in different social institu- commitment and the "money" item, and rangeof characters the "homes" and the "politics" tions and to sample diverse perspectives subtracting withinAmericanculture. Some rare but items. These scores, dichotomizedat the respondents withtraditional familiareventswere includedfor the same median,identify reason.For example,"A maniacworshipsa genderideology.Fortypercentof our "tradidoes not referto an everyday tional" respondentsaccepted one or more woman/man" of traditional genderideology,and occurrence,but such a phenomenonis a statements familiarpartof Americanculturebecause of 30 percentmore were unsureabout one or massivemediacoverage.Forexample,movie more of the positions.Thirtypercentwere by John "traditional" simplyby virtueof theirreligiactressJodieFosterwas worshipped via osity. W. HinckleyJr.,whosoughtherattention the attemptedassassination of President RonaldReaganin 1981. Data Collection The prescriptive-norm questionnaires were in threesociologyclasses at a distributed and One hundred university. elicitedtherespondent's largemidwestern The questionnaire personswereapproached,and 152 age, race,citizenship, fifty-four sex, sexualorientation, volunteered to fill out a questionnaire;149 and parentalincome.3 includedthreeitemsre- provideddata adequateforall phases of the The questionnaire foreach ideologies:"Womenshouldtake study,yieldingabout37 respondents latedtogender questheirhomesandleaverunning of the fourforms.The reactive-norm careofrunning thecountry up to men" (agree,disagree,not tionnaireswere distributedin two other ofa mar- sociologyclasses,and 132 ofthe133 students sure);"Do youapproveordisapprove riedwomanearningmoneyin businessor in- approachedagreedto fillin thequestionnaire; ifshehas a husbandcapableofsupport- usabledataforall analyseswereprovidedby dustry or about62 foreach of the don'tknow); 125 respondents, ingher?"(approve,disapprove, administrator for two forms.The questionnaire "Most men are bettersuitedemotionally the interpreted instruction sheet orally,and dismost women" than are (agree, politics thenspentabout 25 minutesof alsocollect- participants agree,notsure).Thequestionnaire thequestionnaires. commit- class timecompleting abouttherespondent's ed information menttobeing"healthconscious,""financially "family"law-abiding," "religious," practical," RESULTS FOR PRESCRIPTIVE NORMS minded,""educated,""normal,"and"loving, In thissectionwe reportresultsforstimuli used this caring."Questionson commitment an eventinvolvinga manor a that presented a to you is actingas frame:"How important person?(I'm notconcernedwiththis;I womanand asked how the man or woman shouldfeel. ofRespondents Measurements 3Our sampleconsistedmainlyof white(81 percent) orientation (99 U.S. citizens(97 percent)ofheterosexual percent). Parental income ranged from "less than $20,000" to "over $100,000," with 19 percentof the themediancategoryof $61,000 to reporting respondents of$41,000 $80,000and23 percentin themodalcategory to $60,000. Age rangedfrom18 to 45, witha medianof 20. Gender We conducteda multivariate analysisof variance for frequencyof use of all 24 ofsex andofthe emotionwords,as a function formthatthe respondentanquestionnaire This content downloaded from 129.79.13.20 on Wed, 7 Aug 2013 12:40:17 PM All use subject to JSTOR Terms and Conditions EMOTION NORMS 229 halvedour samplesize. swered.Respondents'sex had no significant tional" respondents effecton how often they used differentThus we ignored respondent'ssex and examined only whethermore traditional emotionwords. had distinctive The events were presentedtwice-once respondents emotionexpectawitha femaleas thefocalcharacter, andonce tionsformenas opposedto women,employwith a male-to male and femalerespon- inga 2 x 9 tableforeach event.We found13 we can examinewhether instancesof gender-emotion interaction dents.Consequently by of significance; males and femalesprescribedifferent emo- our firstcriterion fiveevents and also metoursecondcriterion. tionsforpeople in social situations Again,thenumbers resultscould be due to chance. whether emotionprescriptions dependon the of significant In addition,thedifferences thatarosehardly focalcharacter'ssex. For each event separately,we cross- conformedto stereotypesspecifyinghow menandwomenshouldemote.For tabulatedrespondent'sand focal character's traditional sex withcategoriesof emotionalresponse. example,in "A vigilantesentencesa man/ Tabulationsusingall 24 emotionoptionsplus woman,"a man'semotionwas expectedtobe "no emotion" were beyond our resources in theEmbarrassed sector;a woman's,in the because populatinga 2 x 2 x 25 table would Furioussector.Thus our resultsindicateno have requireda respondentsample much significant relationship betweenemotionprelarger than ours. Instead the tabulations scriptionsand the emotingcharacter'ssex, with more traditional employedthe eightsectorson the emotion even for respondents spiralplus "no emotion,"fora 2 x 2 x 9 table genderideology. We also constructed thatretainspartof thequalitativerichnessof quantitative measures the data. Even the 2 x 2 x 9 tables were of Pleasure, Dominance, and Arousal to underpopulated, however,so we exercised analyzegendervariationsacrossevents.The the followingcautions.We talliedstatistical Pleasurevariablewas + 1 foranyresponsein associ- theCalm,Pleased,orExcitedsectors,- 1 for significance onlywhentheprobability ated withthe likelihood-ratio chi-squareand any responsein the othersectors,and 0 for the probabilityassociated with Pearson's "no emotion"choices.The Dominancevarichi-squarewerebothless than.10 and when able rangedfrom1 fortheEmbarrassed sector the probability associatedwithone statistic through8 for the Furious sector; "no was less than.05. Instanceswereconsidered emotion"was coded as 4.5. The Arousal in detail only when both statisticswere variablewas + 1 forresponsesin theExcited, less than.04. associatedwithprobabilities Nervous,and Furious sectors, - 1 for the Data for10 eventsmetthefirstcriterion of Calm, and Unhappysectors,and 0 forother significance;five met the second criterion. sectorsand for"no emotion."We computed Thisoutcomewouldbe expectedbychanceif analysesof varianceforthesethreedependent thedatacontainedno significant interactions.variables, using the mean scores on 128 Thatis, in 128 analyseswe shouldexpectto eventsas observations, in a factorialdesign obtainfivesignificant tableswhenusingthe thatvariedas to whetherthe subsampleof .04 cutoff, and we shouldexpectbetweensix respondents forcomputingmeans was male and 13 tables to be significant at a level or female,whether thefocalcharacter in the between.05 and .10. Moreover,themedian eventwas male or female,and whetherthe over all tables is .44 (based on character probability was theactorortheobjectofaction. Pearson'schi-square);thisvalue is close to No sex factorwas significant in a maineffect the.50 thatwouldbe expectedif interactionsor an interaction. were absent in the tables. These analyses Finally,we coded each eventaccordingto indicatethat emotionprescriptions are not whether or notrespondents chosetheextrapuconditioned by thegenderof theobserveror nitiveemotionsin the Annoyedand Furious of thecharacter observed. sectors.Each eventwas codedfourtimes:for and the feminist Secularization movement femalerespondents assessinga woman'sfeelmay have eliminateddisparateemotionpre- ings,forfemalesassessinga man's feelings, formales and forfemalesamong formalerespondents scriptions assessinga woman'sfeelmanyeducatedpeople. Gendereffectsmight ings,andformalerespondents a man's assessing remain, however, among those who still feelings.If morethan33 percentof the reoftraditional maintain remnants genderideol- sponseswerein theAnnoyedor Furioussecogy. Analysesrestricted to the 73 "tradi- tors,we coded the case as characterized by This content downloaded from 129.79.13.20 on Wed, 7 Aug 2013 12:40:17 PM All use subject to JSTOR Terms and Conditions 230 SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGY QUARTERLY otherwise thecase wascoded whetherthe 24 emotiontermsplus the "no "male"emotions; Chi- emotion"categorywereequallylikelyto be as characterized by"non-male"emotions. of respondent's chosenas theway a womanor a manshould squareforthecross-tabulation sex by male emotionalre- feelforeach event.The nullhypothesis, sex by character's that Thenwe repeated each emotionwordwas chosenby about1/25 sponsewas notsignificant. thistimecodingcases in of therespondents, thewholeprocedure, is rejectedat thep ' .04 or notrespondents selected levelof significance foreveryone of the 128 termsof whether "female" emotionsmentionedexplicitlyby events(theprobabilities are less than.01 for shame all but two of the events). Thus pervasive BrodyandHall (1993): embarrassment, happiness,and prescriptive normsof emotionexist in the (ashamed),fear,nervousness, forthecross- sensethatpeopleagreeat above-chance Thechi-square sadness(unhappy). levels sex by character's about what emotions should be felt in of respondent's tabulation responsewas notsig- responseto anyevent. sex byfemaleemotional Highlightsof the data are summarized in nificant.Thus "male" emotionswere prescribedfora womanas oftenas fora man,and Table 1. The stimuluseventis displayedin fora man theleft-hand column;an ellipsisindicatesthat "female"emotionswereprescribed theeventappearedtwicein ourprescriptiveno less oftenthanfora women. We examinedwhether gendereffectsarose normquestionnaires, once with"woman" as and once with"man" as intheprescribed intensities ofemotionsrather thefocalcharacter, thaninthequalityoftheemotions(Brodyand thefocalcharacter. The middlecolumnof Table 1 showsthe Hall 1993). For each event, we crosssex prescriptive sex andcharacter's emotionnormfor each event. tabulated respondent's ("no emotion" The givenemotionis themodalresponseor withfourlevels of intensity qualityofemotion theresponsethatis mostcentralin a set of beingthelowest),ignoring fortheseanalyses.Applyingthesameproba- congruouschoices, as definedbelow. The as describedabove,we obtained numberin parentheses is themeanprescribed bilitycriteria the followingresults. Sixteen tables were intensityfor the emotionon an assumedData foreight intervalscale rangingfrom 1.0 for low bythefirstcriterion. significant to 3.0 forextremeintensity. by the second crite- intensity eventswere significant Bold highlighting of the modal emotion resultswas rion. The numberof significant chose beyondthatexpectedby chance, by either meansthata majorityof respondents emocriterion.This findingsuggeststhat some themodalcategory.These well-defined exist in the prescribed tionnormsforwhichmorethan50 percentof gender differences selectedthe same categoryapintensities of emotions.On the otherhand, respondents gender pearedfor19 events,or 15 percentof all the sucheffectsare farfromomnipresent; A focal intensities inprescribed ofemotiondid eventswe presentedto respondents. effects shouldfeel ashamedin 10 of these not arise for 87 percent of the events character considered.Examinationof the significant events,and five shouldproducepride. The analysissuggestedthat prominenceof thesetwo emotionssupports itemsin theintensity of shame versus withdisvaluedothersaresupposed Scheff's (1990) treatment encounters responseto to be more emotional for women. We prideas a criticalaxis in affective nervouscheckedthis possibilitywith a quantitative social situations.Embarrassment, analysisand foundthatin factbothmale and ness, annoyance,and happinessalso were modalforsomeevents. unusuallyhigh strongly femalerespondents prescribed The modalfrequency was morethantwice forfemalesinvolvedwith emotionalintensity the frequencyof any otherchoice for an disvaluedothers. additional30 events-thecases in whichthe emotionis displayedwithsingleunderlining. EmotionNorms Prescriptive Shame,pride,and annoyanceeach occurred to fivetimesin thisset; "no emotion"occurred Withevidencethatgenderis irrelevant qualitativechoices of emotions,we pooled six times.Addingtheseeventsto theprevious and 19, we find49 events-38 percentof the data frommale and femalerespondents normof for male and femalecharactersin orderto total-involving a modalprescriptive tabulatethe numberof timeseach specific emotion. Emotionchoices were congruousfor anemotionwas selectedfor each of the 128 to test other 63 events (the cases in which the events.Thenwe computedchi-squares This content downloaded from 129.79.13.20 on Wed, 7 Aug 2013 12:40:17 PM All use subject to JSTOR Terms and Conditions EMOTION NORMS 231 Table 1. Normative Emotions in 128 Events and Mean Intensity(1.0-3.0) of the Emotions Event (. . . = woman/man) An auditorjests a ... . A bailsmanexploitsa ... . A bellhopdisrespects a ... . A bigamistencouragesa ... . A bisexualmale embracesa ... A boarderasks a ... . . aboutsomething. A bouncerevictsa ... . A bratimploresa ... Reactive:b You feel ... Prescriptive:' Woman/man shouldfeel . . . . forsomething. A chaperonobservesa ... . annoyed(1.9), at ease (1.8) annoyed(2.0) furious(2.7) furious(2.7) annoyed(1.8) F: annoyed(1.9). M: disgusted(2.5) annoyed(2.2) annoyed(1.8) nervous(2.10, at ease (1.9) F: nervous(2.1) at ease (2.2). M: nervous(3.0) no emotion no emotion embarrassed (2.5) embarrassed (2.6) annoyed(2.1) annoyed(2.3) nervous(1.6) F: nervous(1.4). M: nervous(2.0) A churchdeaconstudiesa . . . . nervous(1.9) nervous(2.0) A . . .'s classmatenudgesher/him. no emotion F: annoyed(1.7). M: annoyed(2.2) calm (1.9) nervous(2.3) A clownhypnotizes a. . . no emotion A coronerdistresses a.. . . depressed(2.2) flustered (1.9) A criticridiculesa . . . . embarrassed (2.4) F: embarrassed (2.6). M: annoyed(2.0). A desperadoidealizesa . . . . The devilinspiresa . . . . proud(1.9) no emotion ashamed(2.4) F: scared(2.9). M: nervous(2.3) A disciplinarian doubtsa. . . . annoyed(2.0) furious(2.4) A dropoutmanipulates a .. . . embarrassed (1.9) annoyed(2.1) A . . .'s employer distrusts her/him.C ashamed(1.8) F: ashamed(2.3). M: bitter(2.5) An evangelistcondemnsa. . . . ashamed(2.4) F: annoyed(2.0). M: annoyed(2.5) A fileclerkenviesa . proud(1.9) proud(2.0) pleased(1.9) contented (1.6) . . . A flightattendant assistsa . . . . A . . .'s friendforgets her/him. annoyed(2.2) depressed(2.8) A funeraldirector shushesa . . . . embarrassed(2.3) embarrassed(2.5) A gamblersweettalksa . annoyed(2.4) annoyed(2.1) . . . A girlrebelsagainsta. . . . annoyed(2.0) F: mad (2.0). M: unhappy(2.3), mad (2.0) A . . .'s grandchild followsher/him. proud (2.5) proud(2.7) A handicapped personhelpsa. . . . pleased(2.3) embarrassed(1.8), happy(2.0) A has-beencongratulates a. . . . proud(2.0) proud(2.2) A housekeeper blackmailsa . . . . furious(2.7) furious(2.8) A hypochondriac deludesa. . . . annoyed(2.1) annoyed(1.9) annoyed(2.3) An imbeciletapsa. . . . annoyed(1.7) An intern observesa . . . . nervous(1.7), at ease (2.2) nervous(1.9) A janitorfinesa . embarrassed (1.8) mad (2.2) . . . A . . .'s landlordevadeshim. annoyed(2.1) F furious(2.8). M: bitter(2.7) A lawyertrustsa . pleased(2.1) pleased(2.3) . . . A libraryassistantneglectsa . . . . annoyed(2. 1) annoyed(2.2) A lonermissesa . . . . depressed(1.8), pleased (1 8) contented (1.8) A maniacworshipsa . . . . A neurotic admonishes a. . . .c scared(2.5) F: scared (2.6). M: nervous(2.1) annoyed(1.6) annoyed(2.0) nervous(2.2) A nightwatchman questionsa . . . . nervous(2.0) A noviceidolizesa. . . . proud (2.2) proud (2.4) A . . .'s parentdenouncesher/him. ashamed(2.6) ashamed(2.7) A phonyrespectsa. . . . A physicianlooksat a . A pickpocketfollowsa . . . . . no emotion F: annoyed(1.6), proud(1.5). M- no emotion. nervous(1.8), at ease (1.8) F: nervous(2.0). M. nervous(2.2). nervous(2.5) nervous(2.7) A proctorinspectsa. . . . A prudebeseechesa. . . .for something. nervous(2.0) nervous(2.2) annoyed(2.0) annoyed(2.2) A puritanadmonishesa . . . . annoyed(1.7) annoyed(2.1) (continued) This content downloaded from 129.79.13.20 on Wed, 7 Aug 2013 12:40:17 PM All use subject to JSTOR Terms and Conditions SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGY QUARTERLY 232 Table 1. (continued) (. .. :b Reactive Prescriptive:' Event You feel ... Woman/man should feel . . . = woman/man) A pusheraddressesa ... nervous(2.1) . F: nervous(2.8). M: annoyed(2.2) pleased(2.0) (1.8) contented proud (2.1) proud (2.5) A . . .'s siblinggovernsher/him annoyed(1.9) mad (2.3) A sinner taunts a ... annoyed (1.8) annoyed (1.6) A spinster laughsat a . . . . (1.8) embarrassed (2.3) embarrassed A . . .'s spouseogles her/him. excited(2.7), furious(2.6) a ... A receptionist accommodates A scholar consults a ... . . . A stenographer a.. . . misunderstands annoyed(1.6) F: excited(2.7). M: excited(1.5), contented (2.0), mad (3.0). (2.8) F: annoyed(1.8). M: impatient A . . .'s stepfather quizzes her/him. annoyed(2.1) annoyed(2.5) A stuffed to a . . . . shirtexplainssomething annoyed(1.9) (2.2) impatient A subordinate debates with a . annoyed(1.7), calm (2.0) excited(2.2) annoyed(2.1) nervous (1.8) no emotion A teetotalerwatches a . . . . . . .c A tightwad agrees with a . . . . A vagrantidolizesa. . . . A vigilante sentences a . no emotion no emotion proud(1.8) proud(2.0) furious (2.7) scared (2.6) A . . . temptsan addict. ashamed (2.7) ashamed(2.4) . . . A . . . dressesan alcoholic. proud(2.1), ashamed(2.0) F annoyed(2.1). M annoyed. A . . . pampersher/his apprentice. pleased(1.9) pleased(1.6) A . . . consolesa beggar. pleased(2.2) unhappy(1.8) A .. . cuddlesher/his blind-date. happy(2.2) (2.4) excited(2.7), contented A . . . suspectsa bookkeeper. annoyed(2.2) nervous(2.2) A . . . outwitsa bookworm. proud(2.2) proud(2.6) A . . . compliments her/his boss. contented (2.0) pleased(2 0) A . . . parodiesa chaperon. ashamed(1.8) no emotion her/her A . . . intimidates child. ashamed (2.5) ashamed(2.7) A . . . shunsa coroner. ashamed(2.0) no emotion a co-worker. A . . . comforts proud(2.1) calm (2.2) A . . . convictsa crook. proud(2.5) proud(2.5) A . . . underestimates a cutthroat. scared(2.4) nervous(2.1) A . . . insultsa dimwit. ashamed (2.3) ashamed(1.7) A . . . praysforan evildoer. ashamed(2.6), proud(2.3) ashamed(2 8), at ease (2 0) A . . . silencesan expert. proud(2.5) F: embarrassed (2 0). M proud(2.3) A . . . avoidsa fanatic. nervous(2.1), contented (1.4) annoyed(2.2) A . . . desertsher/his firstborn. ashamed (2.8) ashamed (2.8) proud(2.2) A . . . reveresa genius. pleased(1.6) A . . . fleesa gold-digger. pleased(1.9) no emotion A. . . joshes a goody.c happy(1.7), ashamed(1.8) F: no emotion.M: happy(2 0) A .. . hushesher/his grandparent. ashamed(2.1) ashamed(2.2) A . . . pestersa grind.c ashamed(2. 1) no emotion A . . . rescuesa hero. proud (2.6) proud(2.8) A . . . imitatesa hippie. embarrassed(1.8), happy(1.6) happy(1.8) A . . . servesa houseguest. at ease (1.5) nervous(1.7), happy(1.7) A . . . singsto an infant.c happy (2.3) happy(2.6) A . . . seducesan innocent. ashamed (2.7) nervous(2.3) A . . . discouragesan invalid. ashamed (2.5) ashamed(2.0) A . . . apologizesto a judge. ashamed(2. 1) ashamed(2.7) A . . . sitsnextto a killjoy.c nervous(2.4) annoyed(2.4) A . . . submitsto her/his lover. happy(2 4) excited(2 9) This content downloaded from 129.79.13.20 on Wed, 7 Aug 2013 12:40:17 PM All use subject to JSTOR Terms and Conditions (continued) EMOTION NORMS 233 Table 1. (continued) Event (. Reactive:b Prescriptive:' = woman/man) .. Woman/man should feel . . . You feel ... A . . . corrupts a minister. ashamed (2.6) A . . . abandonsa mourner. ashamed (2.4) ashamed(2.3) A . .. lies to a nursemaid. ashamed (2.1) ashamed(1.9) A . .. ignoresan old fogy. ashamed(1.6) ashamed(1.8) A . . . grievesforan orphan. depressed(2.4) unhappy(2.5) A. . . chatters to a palmreader. A . . . reassuresa patient. F: ashamed (2.6). M: ashamed(2.7) nervous(1.8), at ease (1.4) nervous(1.8) pleased(2.1) calm (2.0) A . .. swindlesa pawnbroker. ashamed(2.1) nervous(2.2) A . . . nuzzlesa porno-star. excited(2.5) F: nervous(2.6). M: excited(2.8). A. her/his . flatters professor. pleased (1.9), ashamed(1.6) pleased (1.9), nervous(1.9) A . . . rehabilitates a psychopath. proud (2.4) proud(2.7) A . . . cautionsa pupil. contented (1.9), annoyed(1.6) calm (1.6) A . . . deridesa quack.c proud(2.3), ashamed(2.0) no emotion A . . . bawlsouta registered nurse. ashamed(2.1) furious(2.8) A . . . contemplates a rival. nervous(2.0) nervous(2.1) A . . . challengesa rookiecop. excited(2.0) nervous(2.0) A. . . saves a runaway. proud (2.6) proud(2.5) A . . . monitors a servant. at ease (1.9) no emotion A . . . calmsa shrew. calm (1.6) calm (1.5), impatient (1.8) A . . . poisonsa spy. ashamed(2.4) F: nervous(2.6). M: nervous(2.8), proud(2.3), joyless(2.0). A . . . appealsto a statetrooper. nervous(2.0) nervous(2.4) A . . . hecklesa streetmusician. ashamed(2.3) ashamed(2.0) A . . . begs a supervisor forsomething embarrassed (2.0) embarrassed (2.0) A . . . studiesa surgeon no emotion excited(2.3) A . . . nagsher/his tenant. annoyed(2.0) impatient (1.8) A . . . enragesa thug. scared(2,5) scared(2.5) A . . . defendsa tramp. proud(2.0) proud(1.8), ashamed(1.8) A unhappy(2.0) F: unhappy(1.9) M- unhappy(1.7). . . . flunksa truant. A . . . judgesa virgin ashamed (2.2) no emotion A proud(2.2) F no emotion.M- no emotion. proud(2.3) nervous(2.0) . . humblesa warden. A . . . convertsa witch. Notes: Bold = majoritynorm; underline = modal norm; plain text = diffusenorm; italics = conflictingnorms. F, M precede female and male modes where distributionsdifferby sex. a Ns: 88 females, 61 males. b Ns: 81 females, 44 males. c Missing data for 15-23 percentof the subjects due to typographicalerrorson a prescription-norm formin the case of "sings to an infant"and "employer distrusts." The otheritems presumablywere skipped because some subjects did not know the meanings of constituentwords. emotionis listed with no underlining).In and Furious sectors.)Adding the cases of thesecases, secondary modes-emotionsthat congruousexpectationsto the modal cases, werechosenat leasthalfas oftenas themodal we find 112 events-88 percent of the choice-were in the same sector as the total-in whichan emotionnormprescribed primary mode,or else all modeswerein a set at least a diffuseaffective tone.None of the of sectorswithone sectoradjacentto therest. modalnormsinvolvedlow arousal,butseven (We treated"no emotion"as occupyingthe middle of the affectivespace and thereby of thediffusenormscenteredon emotionsin adjacentto all sectors;theEmbarrassed sector theCalm or Unhappysectors. Competing and incompatible emotion as verticallyadjacentto the Unhappy,Annorms arose in 16 events (12%). Some noyed,and Furioussectors;and theNervous sectoras vertically adjacentto theAnnoyed examples show that these involve major This content downloaded from 129.79.13.20 on Wed, 7 Aug 2013 12:40:17 PM All use subject to JSTOR Terms and Conditions 234 SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGY QUARTERLY "How do you variationsboth in hedonic tone and in eventand askedtherespondent feelat thatmoment?" activation: shouldfeel a subordinate A persondebating an Gender dressing A person calm,orexcited; annoyed, Someshouldfeelproudorashamed; alcoholic effectforsex was produced feelnervous A significant should bya physician oneobserved by a multivariate analysis of variancefor oratease. frequency of use of the24 emotionwords,as The promptelicitingprescriptionswas "The woman/manshould feel . . .," and the a functionof sex and of the questionnaire It formthatthe respondentanswered.Across word "should" containssome ambiguity. considwas supposed to be read in the sense of the 64 eventsthateach respondent females ered, more often said they would feel been read as "ought,"but also could have "embarrassed," "scared," or "ashamed," "would." Thus some of the incompatible normsmay contrastwhat some respondents whilemalesmoreoftensaid theywouldfeel thought people oughtto feelwithwhatother "calm," "happy,"or "joyless." For each event,we cross-tabulated responpeopleprobablydo feel. thought respondents dent's with the sex eight sectors on the impliesthatone amonga This interpretation emotion "no A spiral plus emotion." lenient to a normswill correspond set of conflicting criterion of statistical was significance fulreactivenorm.This is not always the case, of thelikelihoodhowever (as one can see in Table 1 by filledwhentheprobability of Pearthesecondcolumnwiththethird; ratiochi-squareand the probability comparing than were both less and son's chi-square .10, thethirdcolumnshowsreactivenorms).Thus it is likelythatsome cases of incompatible when the probabilityassociated with one in prescriptions. statisticwas less than.05. A morestringent real conflicts normsidentify to be associrequiredbothstatistics To summarize,we founda centralten- criterion ated with less than .04. probabilities formostofthe dencyinemotionprescriptions difference for81 events that we considered,but conflicting We foundno significant the data 24 of for events percent events, but normsappearedwithsomeevents.Prescribed (19%) met the first criterion of significance, included circumstances emotionsin various emotions,states and datafor13 events(10%) metthesecond. bothpleasantand unpleasant are aboutdoublewhatmight andemotionsof The percentages ofarousalandof nonarousal, be expected by chance, an indicationthat as well as emotionsof domivulnerability differby sex for some emotional reactions nance. events. Table 2 shows eventsin whichsex affective "No emotion"was theprescribed meet the differences criterionof stringent statein six cases, 5 percentof thetotal.Yet significance. to we absorbed"no emotion"as adjacent in otheremotionalstateswhendefiningdiffuse The firstthreeevents Table 2 suggest that females more than males are disposedto norms,so the prevalenceof "no emotion" when a trusted otherrejects or rage significant choices is somewhathiddenin Table 1. In mode,or them.The same patternemergesin "parent fact,"no emotion"was theprimary is not thoughthesex difference was chosen as least half as oftenas the denouncing," the of females significant. Similarly, majority mode in 18 percentof the events. primnary These "no-emotionevents" are affectivelyrespondedin theFurioussectorto a "housethoughin thiscase the neutralas comparedwithotherevents,in part keeperblackmailing," did so as well. of males majority because some respondentsprescribedno The five events in Table 2 can be next affective stateand emotionas theappropriate the in social viewed as implicating respondent of the in partbecause the rest respondents In of another or of self. these ruination cases, tendedto prescribelow emotionalintensity. more than females are males to likely report The numberof "no-emotion"choicescorrein the A emotions Embarrassed sector. similar lates with the average intensityfor other patternfor "humblinga warden" also is choices, r= - .63. significant by our less stringent significance criterion. RESULTS FOR REACTIVE NORMS The eventsin Table 2 involving"critic," This sectionreportsresultsforstimulithat "bellhop,"and "bisexualmale" suggestthat in an malesmorethanfemalesmaybe disposedto involvedtherespondent hypothetically This content downloaded from 129.79.13.20 on Wed, 7 Aug 2013 12:40:17 PM All use subject to JSTOR Terms and Conditions EMOTION NORMS 235 in EmotionalReactions Sex Differences Table 2. EventswithSignificant SectorsSelectedMoreOftenby Event Females Males Your employer distrusts you. Furious. .. Annoyed. . .; Nervous... Your landlordis evadingyou. Furious. . .; Nervous... Unhappy... A girlis rebellingagainstyou. Furious. . ; Annoyed. . . Unhappy. . .; Embarrassesed . . .; Calm ... You're corrupting a minister. .. . Embarrassed Unhappy. . .; No emotion You're silencingan expert. . . .; Nervous. . .; No emotion Embarrassed Pleased . You're poisoninga spy. Embarrassed ... Pleased . . .; Calm ... Furious. . . .; Excited... The devilis inspiring you. Embarrassed ... A criticis ridiculing you. .. . Embarrassed A bellhopdisrespects you. No emotion;Nervous. .. Furious. . .; Annoyed. . ; Unhappy. .. A bisexualmale embracesyou. Calm . . . Furious. . . Nervous... Annoyed. . .; Unhappy. .. Your spouseis oglingyou. Excited. . .; Annoyed. . . Nervous. . .; Calm . . . You're nuzzlinga porno-star. Annoyed. . .; Nervous. . . Excited. . . A phonyrespectsyou. Pleased . . . No emotion dominanceemotionswhen threatened by a object of the hypothetical action. No sex socially distantcharacter."Evangelistcon- factorwas significant in a maineffector an demning"showsthepattern andis significant interaction.However, we also averaged criterion."Vigilante respondents'Pleasure,Arousal, and Domiby our less stringent sentencing"also shows the pattern,though nance over the 64 events to which they the sex difference is not significant. On the responded,and thenconductedan analysisof other hand, the sexes do not differin varianceof individualswithrespondents' sex dominanceemotionsfor "bailsmanexploit- and questionnaireformas factors.In this ing," "bouncerevicting,"and "disciplinarian case, respondent'ssex significantly infludoubting."Moreover,femalesshow signifi- enced Pleasure, Arousal, and Dominance. cantlymoredominanceemotionsfor "spin- Overall,femalesemotedmorenegatively than sterlaughingat," by ourlessercriterion. males, with more arousal, and with more The items"spouseogling"and "nuzzlinga vulnerability. The differencebetween the porno-star" suggestthatmales' and females' resultsof these two analyses implies that emotional reactions are differentiated in differences in emotional responsebetweenthe sexualevents.Sexual matters, however,also sexes are smallerthanvariationsin emotion areintimated in eventsinvolving"bigamist," inducedby different events,but thatthese "blind-date,""innocent,""lover," "prude," differences betweenthe sexes are an impor"puritan,""virgin," and "chaperon," but tantcomponentof individualdifferences in onlythe last revealsgenderdifferences that emotionality. are significant by ourless stringent criterion. We foundno evidencethatmalesare more Lackinga generalization, we simplynotethat disposed to "outer-directed" emotions of manymaleswereflabbergasted at thethought angerand contempt.For males and females of beingogled (aboutone-third of themales separately, we dichotomized eventsintothose skippedthe item), and manyfemaleswere for which the modal responsewas in the of nuzzlinga porno Annoyedor Furioussectorversuselsewhere, disgustedby thethought star. and thencross-tabulated thisdichotomy with We quantifiedPleasure, Arousal, and sex and with whetherthe respondentwas Dominanceas describedin the sectionon actoror objectin thehypothetical events.No prescriptive normsand conductedan analysis significant interaction appearedin thetable. of varianceof the mean scores for all 128 The intensity ofemotionalreactions didnot events, in a factorialdesign that varied differby sex. For each event, we crosswhetherthe subsampleof respondentsfor tabulatedrespondent'ssex with our four computingmeans was male or female,and levels of intensity, ignoringqualityof emowhethertherespondent was the actoror the tion.A sex difference was significant in eight This content downloaded from 129.79.13.20 on Wed, 7 Aug 2013 12:40:17 PM All use subject to JSTOR Terms and Conditions SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGY QUARTERLY 236 tables by our lenientcriterionand in five tables by our stringentcriterion.These resultsare no more numbersof significant thanwouldbe expectedby chance.We also over the64 events computedmean intensity andthenconducted to a respondent, presented an analysisof varianceof individuals,with formas respondent'ssex and questionnaire sex was notrelated factors.The respondent's to the average intensityof significantly emotionalresponses. emotionalreactionoccurredwith19 percent oftheevents.Sex differences wereimplicated in two-thirds of theconflicting norms;eight events(6%) involveddifferences in emotional reactionthatwere not associatedwith sex differences. Respondentsconvergedon a responseof "no emotion"for12 events,or 9 percentof thetotal. DISCUSSION Our student-based questionnaire studywas an economicalformof researchsuitedto the natureof this work. Studiesof Combiningfemalewithmale respondents, exploratory we tabulatedthe numberof times each diversepopulations, however,based on both specificemotionwas selectedforeach of the questionnairesand systematicobservations 128 eventsand computedchi-squaresto test willbe neededto deepenthestudyofemotion whetherthe 24 emotiontermsplus the "no norms. Some studies should explore the emotion"categorywereequallylikelyto be consequences of presentingevents with populachosenas a wayoffeelingin each event.The knownrelevanceto the respondent thateach emotionstatewas tion,and of describingthe eventsin greater nullhypothesis, was detail than we did so as to narrowthe chosenby about1/25of therespondents, The invocationof prescriprejectedat thep ' .04 level of significance interpretations. foreveryone of the 128 events(actuallythe tions and emotional reactions should be wordingof questionis less than.01 foreveryevent). examinedwithdifferent probability Thus reactivenormsof emotiondo exist. naireprompts(e.g., usingoughtratherthan OtheremoRespondents'emotionalreactionsconverged should to evoke prescriptions). instruments also should be at above-chancelevels,despitesome signifi- tion-recording employed-such as the Affect Grid of differences. cantfemale-male ofthedataon reactivenormsare Russell,Weiss,andMendelsohn(1989) or,in Highlights studies,theFacial ActionCodsummarizedin the right-handcolumn of observational Table 1. Majoritynorms, modal norms, ingsystemof Ekmanand Friesen(1978). Respondentsin bothof our studieschose diffusenorms, and conflictingnorms are definedin the same manneras prescriptivediverseemotionsin responseto manystimuli. for coefficients italics,and We computedco-occurrence norms,and theuse of underline, boldfaceare thesame as definedpreviously. theemotionchoicesacrossall stimuli,applied multidimensional scaling,and esIn addition, the norm for each sex is nonmetric presentedseparatelywhereverfemales' and sentiallyreproducedtheemotioncircumplex differ (Fisheret al. 1985; MacKinnonand Keating males' distributions significantly. In 11 events,a majorityof respondents 1989; Morganand Heise 1988; Russell1980; convergedon a singleoption.In another29, 1983) in each study.This outcomemightbe was used to was morethantwicethe expectedbecausethecircumplex themodalfrequency ourdatacollectioninstrument, butthe frequencyof any otherchoice. These un- format demonstrated thatalterequivocal reactivenorms occurredfor 31 analysesnonetheless percentof all events.In another56 events, native choices of emotionconnotesimilar in our studiesas in modesand secondarymodeswerecongruous Pleasureand Activation, in affective tone. Addingtheseto themodal others(Russell1989). The varietyof emotion norms,we find 75 percentof the events specificationsspreading from the modal Gordon's (1990:164) producingemotionreactionswithat least a categorycorroborated diffuselydefinedaffectivetone. Moreover, observation:"Emotion norms prescribea the normsfor both sexes were identicalin range of permissiblefeeling,not a precise eightof the 24 eventsinvolvingsignificant point." so a The scaling analyses showed that the gender differencesin distributions, depictedin Figure 1 sharedreactionnormactuallyoccurredfor81 measuringinstrument normsof can be improvedin futurestudies. The percentof all events.Conflicting ReactiveEmotionNorms This content downloaded from 129.79.13.20 on Wed, 7 Aug 2013 12:40:17 PM All use subject to JSTOR Terms and Conditions EMOTION NORMS 237 emotion "scared" actually belongs in the the eventsthe reactivenormis the same as Nervoussectorbecause"scared"is employed one of the options in a prescriptive-norm congruouslywith "nervous." ("Scared" conflict;thuspeople's reactionsagree with could replace "impatient,"whichwas used what some people thinkis appropriate.In in the prescrip- another12 percent,one of several modal infrequently by respondents tive norms study and which was used reactionsagreeswitha prescriptive norm.On with"annoyed"in thereactive theotherhand,in 45 percentof theeventswe congruously normsstudy."Crushed"wouldbe an appro- finda discrepancy betweenemotionprescripfor"scared"in theEmbar- tionsand emotionalreactions. priatereplacement rassedsector.) These resultscan be viewed fromtwo thatthereis muchto learnfrom perspectives.First,people do not need to Granting infor- workto bringtheiremotionsintoline with subsequent studies,we now summarize in everysocial situation;somemationgainedfromthisone. expectations timestheyare disposedto feelwhattheyare supposedto feel. Thus theneed foremotion TheExistenceofEmotionNorms workis bounded. Second,people sometimes have emotional Prescriptive emotionnormsexistforall of the social events we sampled. The norms reactionsthatmustbe maskedand overidden emotionnorms. on a specificemotion in deferenceto prescriptive focus formulaically arisein a varietyof social the time and on diffuse Such predicaments about one-third of so demandsforemotionworkgo conflict situations, affective statesotherwise.Normative ratherthan normlessnesscharacterizesthe far beyond the commercializedemotional relativelyfew events showing a lack of labor that has been the focus of research centraltendencyin emotion expectations. literature. Because our sampleof eventssystematically Many of the discrepanciesbetweenpreandreactionsthatappearin Table 1 variedkindsof interactants, kindsof interper- scriptions thatemotionwork sonalbehaviors,and institutional affiliations,arenotlarge,an indication we concludethatemotionality is normativelyoften is not arduous. Consider a person regulatedin virtuallyall social encounters assistedby a flightattendant.The reactive normin thiscase is to feelcontented, butthe withinAmericanmiddle-class culture. Reactiveemotionnormsalso existforall of prescribednorm is to feel pleased. The the social events we sampled. That is, passengerwould like to sighand settleback respondents'emotionsconvergedon modal in her seat witha faintsmile,but she feels alertlywitha responsesas therespondents imaginedthem- obligatedto face theattendant selves in particularencounters.Even when broadsmileor a grinand somesparklein her the responsesdid not convergeon a single eyes-a little extra activation until the moveson. emotionalstate,theyconcentrated on several attendant Six eventsin oursampleinvolvediscrepandifferent modes ratherthan being random. fromone pole of Consequentlywe conclude that particular cies thatrequirewrenching social circumstances tendto producespecific an emotionalstateto another.Four of these emotions,as postulated by social automatism involvetakingan attitudeof dominanceor theorieswithinthesociologyof emotions.4 submissionwhen one feels the opposite ("dropout manipulates," "evangelist condemns,""vigilantesentences,"and "bawling Prescriptive-Reactive Discrepancies out a registerednurse"). "Consoling a Prescriptive emotionnormsand reactive beggar" in the presence of an observer emotionnormsare identicalin 38 percentof requiresforgoingempathicunhappinessin theeventsin Table 1. In another5 percentof orderto seempleasedwithone's opportunity to be magnanimous. "Servinga houseguest" 4 A reviewerraisedthe possibility thatnormsmight requirespeoplewho are disposedto nervoushave emergedbecause respondents triedto be helpful. ness in such a situationto suppresstheir The clarityof the normativestructures in bothstudies feelingsin orderto give the impression of suggeststhateven if respondents weremakingan effort beingatease. The lowproportion ofsituations to giveanswersa sociologistwouldwant,theymusthave been relyingon normativeinformation when they requiringstrenuousemotionwork suggests are organized generally guessed the "right" answers. Thus the conclusion thatsocial definitions remains:ubiquitousemotionnormsexist. so as to precludesuch work. Demands for This content downloaded from 129.79.13.20 on Wed, 7 Aug 2013 12:40:17 PM All use subject to JSTOR Terms and Conditions 238 SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGY QUARTERLY strenuous emotionworkarise,however;they may arise morefrequently thanis suggested by our study,because we sampledeventsto represent a broadrangeof thingsthatcould occurratherthanto reflectthefrequencies of everyday happenings. The sex differences in emotionalreactions could be due to femaleand male differences in emotionality, conceivablywitha chromosomal basis. Yet if one assumesthatemotionalreactionsemergewhileone participates in social events, as proposed by social automatismtheoriesof emotion (Kemper 1978; Smith-Lovin1990), then the differGenderDifferences ences in emotionalreactionswouldoriginate Prescribed emotionswerenota function of in the differencesbetween females' and whether thefocalcharacter was a womanor a males' social structuralpositions within man, or whetherrespondents were male or events, or in differencesin socialization female. Our respondents-bothmale and backgrounds thatlead to different interpretafemale-prescribedstereotypically "female" tionsof events.We offeredseveralconjecemotionsfor a man just as oftenas for a turesaboutthekindsof eventsthatgenerate woman,and theyprescribedstereotypicallysex differences: 1) femalesmorethanmales "male" emotionsfora womanjustas oftenas are disposedto rage when a significant or fora man.We obtainedthesameresultswhen trustedotherrejectsthem;2) in ruination of we selectedthe mosttraditional respondents selfor of other,femalesmorethanmalesare and analyzedonly theirdata. Because the prone to intropunitive emotions;3) males in thisstudy,mostlyage 20 or more than females may be disposed to respondents more, are representative of people who dominanceemotionswhen threatened by a promulgate normsin our society,theresults sociallydistantother. verylikelydescribetheprescriptive normsof Ourrespondents expectedmoreintensity of emotionthatregulatethefeelingsof Ameri- emotionfromfemales,especiallyin interaccan middle-class youngadults. tionwithdisvaluedothers,butthatprescripThus we foundno evidencethatemotion tiondid not correspond to reactions.On the culturesseparatemen'sand women'squalita- average,femalesand males recordingtheir tivefeelingsbyprescribing different emotions ownfeelingsdidnotdiffer in intensity. Brody for the sexes. In fact, prescriptive norms and Hall (1993:449) reportedthat "the inhibitgender differencesin emotionsby finding of generally greateraffectintensity in callingforthesamefeelingsfrombothsexes. femalesis well established,"but our results A different storyabout genderdeveloped suggestthatfuturestudiesshoulddistinguish fromthe analyses of emotionalreactions, carefullybetween expectationsand actual wheresignificant sex differences occurredfor experience. 19 percentof the events in our sample. Females more than males describedtheir PrescribedEmotionalNeutrality feelingsin termsof thestereotypically female emotions, "embarrassed," "scared," or If secondarysocial relationships are more "ashamed,"and femalesemotedoverallwith affectively neutralthanprimary relationships, somewhatmore displeasure,arousal, and thenprescriptions to feel no emotionshould vulnerability.This finding accords with be concentrated in academic,business,jusBrodyand Hall's (1993) generalization that tice, and medicalrelationships, whileoccurfemalesare moreinclinedtowardintropuni-ring rarelyin familyor intimacyrelationtive affects.Males more often said they ships.(Religiousandlaityrelationships might would feel "calm," "happy,"or "joyless." be eitherprimary or secondary,so we make The relativepositivityof the male prefer- no prediction in thesecases.) We estimated a ences perhapsreflectsthe Brody and Hall log-linearmodelforeach typeof relationship thatmalesshowmorepridein to see whether generalization itinvolvedan unusualnumber theself.Contrary to Brodyand Hall's report, of eventswithno-emotion prescriptions. however,males were not moredisposedto The number ofno-emotion normswas what male "outer-directed" emo- mightbe expectedfor academic, business, stereotypically tions of anger and contempt.Indeed, we family,intimacy, and laityevents,in viewof foundsituations inwhichfemalesexperienced the numberof eventsinvolvingeach such thesedominanceemotionsmorestrongly than relationship and the totalnumberof events males. withno-emotion norms.Unusuallyfew no- This content downloaded from 129.79.13.20 on Wed, 7 Aug 2013 12:40:17 PM All use subject to JSTOR Terms and Conditions EMOTION NORMS 239 emotionnormsoccurredfor events in the Clark,Candace. 1990. 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