C-LEVEL PRESENCE Welcome Letter & Pre-work Dear Participant: It is our pleasure to welcome you to the upcoming C-Level Presence program. We want to let you know what to expect and how to prepare. The primary aim of the program is to help each of you in your own process of honing and developing personal presence, authority and confidence for: 1. Presenting ideas and information with power, and 2. Building customer and collegial relationships. Our objective is that you, by the end of the workshop and drawing on your own innate strengths, will be better positioned to command your customers’ and your colleagues’ trust by developing a compelling and authentic way of being with people. Lunches during the workshop are provided but are designated “working lunches” so please plan accordingly and keep your schedule free. Also, it is important to dress business casual, as part of the program includes exercises that require some physical exertion. So that you get the most impact from the program we would like you to complete the pre-work on the following pages. Thank you for your attention to these details and I hope you enjoy the program! Yours truly, Sean Kavanagh Ariel Group CEO 2 PRE-WORK 1. READING Please read the first chapter of our book, Leadership Presence, and the article, “The Four Truths of the Storyteller” by Peter Guber, attached to this document. 2. PRACTICE SITUATIONS Select one communication challenge (from the three shown below) on which you will receive coaching during the workshop. • Delivering a presentation: The first five minutes of a presentation which you are currently preparing or have recently delivered for a client or internal group. • Facilitating a discussion/meeting: A situation in which you as a leader hope to motivate or influence someone or a group of people. • Managing a one on one conversation: Choose a customer or internal relationship that is unresolved or challenging. 3. QUESTIONNAIRE Please answer the questions overleaf and bring your completed worksheets with you to the workshop. We will be exploring your answers during the program. 2 3 QUESTIONNAIRE PRESENCE AND COMMUNICATION SKILLS 1. What does the word presence mean to you? 2. Think of someone you know who has presence. What is it that they have or are doing that projects presence? 3. What about your presence is working for you as a leader? 4. What is your greatest challenge related to your presence? 5. What are your strengths and challenges in your presentations? (This includes: formal and informal presentations as well as large group, small group and one-on-one interactions.) 3 4 RELATIONSHIP BUILDING SKILLS 1. Think of a relationship with a client or colleague that is working well. What is working about that relationship? Why? 2. Think of a relationship with a client or colleague that is challenging. What is challenging? Why? 4 Chapter 1: Presence: What Actors Have That Leaders Need Presence: What Actors Have That Leaders Need All the world’s a stage, And all the men and women merely players. They have their exits and their entrances; And one man in his time plays many parts.... WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE, AS YOU LIKE IT Great actors have it. Great political leaders have it too, as do great business executives. Laurence Olivier. Meryl Streep. Marlon Brando. Katharine Hepburn. Martin Luther King, Jr. Eleanor Roosevelt. John F. Kennedy. Gandhi. Winston Churchill. Alfred P. Sloan. Oprah Winfrey. But it’s not limited to people in mighty positions. Your local pizza guy may have it. Your doctor may have it. Your daughter’s piano teacher may have it too. All these people-well known or not-are compelling individuals who attract your attention almost effortlessly. They have something, a magnetism that pulls others to them. When they enter the room, the energy level rises. You perk up, stop what you’re doing, and focus on them. You expect something interesting to happen. It’s as though a spotlight shines on them. What is it they have? They have presence. In the eyes of most people, it’s the ability to command the attention of others. Peter Brook, the eminent English stage director, expressed it this way: One actor can stand motionless on the stage and rivet our attention while another does not interest us at all. What’s the difference? What other words, besides presence, come to mind when you think of these people? Here are the words we hear most often when we ask that question in our workshops: Inspiring. Motivating. Commanding. Energized. Credible. Focused. Confident. Compelling. Kathy tells this story about working with an aspiring actor: In the mid-1980s I played Hypatia in a production of George Bernard Shaw’s Misalliance at the New Repertory Theatre. A young actor, playing a relatively minor role, had caught my attention in rehearsals but I was completely unprepared for what happened on opening night. Copyright © Belle Linda Halpern and Kathy Lubar, 2003, All rights reserved He stepped out on stage and simply seized the room. He was playing the part of the gunner who popped up out of a Turkish bath where he had been hiding. Without saying a word, he was absolutely hilarious. It felt like a full minute before he even opened his mouth and the audience was absolutely riveted by him and when he finally delivered his line there was another twenty-second round of laughter. I remember the director, Larry Lane, commenting, “This guy really has what it takes to be a big success.” It turns out Larry was right. The actor’s name was Oliver Platt and he went on to make a name in films like Working Girl, Bulworth, and Indecent Proposal, as well as on television, including an Emmy-nominated role on The West Wing. Presence doesn’t have to be a billion-watt nuclear reactor. While some people, like Oliver Platt, can “fill” an entire room or auditorium, the presence of others may not be so large. But it’s no less genuine, for these people may be great conversationalists, or they may lead great meetings. Even some actors who have great presence in an intimate medium like movies or television don’t have that ability to fill an auditorium. And some great stage actors have trouble “pulling it back” for television or a movie. Still, whether their presence is large or more intimate, they have it, and when you look at them, it may be with a pang of envy. Does everyone want to be a billion-watt reactor? Most of us don’t seek to be center of attention all the time. But when we join a group or enter a room, we want our arrival acknowledged. When we speak, we want others to listen. When we offer an opinion, we want it treated with respect. We want to be taken seriously. We want our existence to have weight and substance for others. It’s the same thing, just not writ quite so large. We all want presence because no one wants to be ignored. What is presence? A moment ago we said most people think of presence as the ability to command the attention of others. But “commanding attention” is only one outcome of presence, not its essence or even its most valuable outcome. We prefer to think of presence in a different-and deeper-way. For us, presence is the ability to connect authentically with the thoughts and feelings of others. Most people think you are born with presence, or without it, or that circumstances lead you, if you’re lucky, to develop it at an early age. And if the right circumstances never quite align? Well, too bad. Fortunately, that’s not the case. Presence is the result of certain ongoing choices you make, actions you take or fail to take. In fact, presence is a set of skills, both internal and external, that virtually anyone can develop and improve. Copyright © Belle Linda Halpern and Kathy Lubar, 2003, All rights reserved However, when we say anyone can improve his or her presence, we don’t mean it’s an easy task. It requires you to give up habitual patterns of behavior that you maintain because they make you feel safe. Developing presence will require you to go places and do things that feel uncomfortable, at least initially. Given that hurdle, we’re absolutely convinced anyone can develop his or her presence. The premise of this book is that presence can be developed and you will be a more effective leader when you invest some time and energy toward that goal. Our purpose in writing it is to describe how anyone, including you, can increase your presence. We know people can develop presence because we have been helping leaders do it for over a decade. Thousands of managers and leaders have gone through our workshops, or worked with us in one-on-one coaching, and improved their ability to connect with others. More than just skin deep Let’s confront an assumption you may be making. This is not a book about simply making a better impression. It’s not the behavioral counterpart of Dress for Success. Presence includes these things, and anyone working to develop more presence will pay attention to them, because others pay attention to them, but true presence goes far beyond such superficialities. Just because you’ve won the lead in a play or a leadership title at work doesn’t mean you automatically hold any more sway over your audience or your people. It is your “performance,” in both the theatrical and the organizational sense, that will grant you the authority the title or role implies. The presence you bring to your role-how you show up, how you connect, how you speak, listen, act-every move you make on the corporate or real stage, combine to create the impact you have. Presence comes from within. It begins with an inner state, which leads to a series of external behaviors. Sure, you can put on the behaviors, but by themselves they’ll lack something essential. They’ll be hollow noise and nothing else. We’ve all heard politicians say, “I feel your pain,” when we know they’re simply saying what they think we want to hear. Compare that to Martin Luther King, Jr.’s “I have a dream” speech, which obviously sprang from his deeply held beliefs and motivated a generation to overturn four hundred years of assumptions and behaviors. Presence varies with each individual. In our workshops we never use a cookie-cutter approach; rather, we help each person discover his or her own unique presence in all its richness and variety. Learning from theater The second reason we know presence can be developed is that there exists a whole group of people who work diligently and successfully to develop it. That group of people is actors, and their success, even their livelihood, depends on presence. They must excite us when they step onstage, or they will fail. For the actor and performer, presence is not a happy accident of genetics or upbringing; it’s the result of training and practice. We will draw heavily on the acting profession for concrete principles, practices, and stories about the development of presence. Copyright © Belle Linda Halpern and Kathy Lubar, 2003, All rights reserved At this point you may be thinking what can “serious” business leaders or teachers or politicians or government managers hope to learn from actors? Sure, they can learn how to speak better, to project their voices, to stand up straight. But actors play for a living. They pretend to be other people. What could they know about the “real” world that a lawyer or a Fortune 500 CEO doesn’t? Think about the last time you were really moved by an actor in a live theatrical performance, a movie, or even a television program. We mean really moved to feel something deeply, to understand something more completely, to think about something from a new perspective or even, perhaps, to change your mind about something. Now think about the last time you were truly moved in the same way by a presentation made by a leader in your organization. We’re not saying moved to tears but moved to understand a different point of view, be excited about a new possibility, or be motivated to adapt and grow with changing times. Of course the goal of the actor or the leader in these instances is the same-to connect with you in some fundamental way. Unfortunately most people will say that this experience is much more rare at the office than it is at the movies. Which is exactly our point. The skills that actors use to move, convince, inspire, or entertain have direct and powerful applications in the worlds of business, politics, education, and organizations in general. They are not only useful for leadership, they are essential. Great leaders, like great actors, must be confident, energetic, empathetic, inspirational, credible, and authentic. That leaders and actors share some skills and characteristics should come as no surprise. Actors and leaders face a common challenge. They must form connections, communicate effectively, and work with others as a team. They must be prepared to play different roles, as the situation requires. They must be prepared to influence and move people every day. Just for the record, though, we need to say the analogy isn’t perfect. If you list the qualities and skills needed by great leaders, there would be many items on the list that actors don’t need, such as the ability to create a great vision of the future, skill in negotiating, the ability to plan and coordinate, and the courage to make decisions that will change peoples’ lives. All we’re saying is that leaders can learn many things from actors. We’re certainly not suggesting that leaders be actors. Authenticity When people hear us define presence as connecting authentically with others, they say something like: “I can understand how leaders might learn some things from actors. But how can we learn to be more authentic from people who lie professionally? After all, isn’t that what acting is really about at the end of the day? An actor steps onto a painted set and pretends to be someone else by performing rehearsed actions and reciting words written by others. What could possibly be more inauthentic?” Copyright © Belle Linda Halpern and Kathy Lubar, 2003, All rights reserved There are two answers to that question. Just as actors play a variety of roles, we all play roles, as people and as leaders. How many roles do you play each day of your life? Manager, parent, spouse, engineer (or some other profession), Scout leader, churchgoer, citizen. Do you behave differently in each role? Are you therefore faking it? No, beneath all those roles is the same person: you. The same can be said of actors. That leads us to the second answer, which has to do with how actors do what they do. A century ago, it was typical for actors to demonstrate emotion through exaggerated, stylized sets of gestures, vocal intonations, and facial expressions. Look at some early silent movies, and note the back of the wrist held to the forehead to indicate distress, or the furrowed brow and clenched fists to portray anger. Then a pioneering Russian teacher of acting, Konstantin Stanislavsky, taught that a more accurate and engaging approach would be for actors onstage to actually experience the emotions they were portraying. Thus, to portray a character’s anger, for example, an actor should find real anger within himself and express that in his performance. In short, he claimed that the emotion needed to be authentic. Actors worry about the authenticity, the “truth,” of a portrayal almost more than anything else. F. Murray Abraham, a well-known stage actor, acting teacher, and winner of an Oscar for his portrayal of Salieri in Amadeus, speaks of the actor’s search for truth: What you have to do is find the truth, because that’s the essential element that is the middle of all art. It’s the middle of acting, whether it’s for the camera or on the stage... It’s the center of our lives... Once you capture the truth in your own terms, nothing can happen that will bother you. It’s a paradox of the theater that, in order to pretend, the actor must be real. That need requires the actor to delve inside himself, because the only way an emotion can be authentic is if it comes from within the actor. Actors, consequently, are probably more aware of authenticity than anyone else, because they’ve studied it, and themselves, so carefully. Over the course of this book, we’ll examine how actors approach this demanding part of their craft and what leaders can learn from them. It’s a crucial part of presence. Presence and Leadership Presence Because it’s about connections between people, presence is useful for anyone who engages with others. That’s virtually every one of us. Connecting authentically with the thoughts and feelings of others can only improve and deepen our relationships. You don’t have to be a leader to enjoy the benefits of presence. But leaders, in particular, need presence, because at its core leadership is about the interaction, the connection, the relationship between a leader and the people she leads. When we talk about leadership, you may think first of those in organizations who have positions of formal authority-the CEO, the director of marketing, the supervisor of customer service, and so on. The people in these positions are leaders by definition. Maybe you’re one of them. Copyright © Belle Linda Halpern and Kathy Lubar, 2003, All rights reserved What we say about presence for leaders obviously applies to them. But when we talk about leaders, we include anyone who tries to foster achievement and positive change in any group of people. It can be a family, a PTA, a social club, a volunteer organization, a huge government agency, or giant corporation. A leader is anyone who tries to move a group toward obtaining a particular result. You don’t need a title to lead. But with or without a title you do need presence. Leadership is about results and outcomes, and so leaders want the hearts and minds of others directed toward some purpose, some result desirable for the group or organization. Presence is the fundamental way a leader can engage the full energies and dedication of others to a common end. This use of presence we call Leadership Presence: the ability to connect authentically with the thoughts and feelings of others, in order to motivate and inspire them toward a desired outcome. The elements of Leadership Presence Combining our years of theatrical and performance experience with what we’ve learned from teaching presence to leaders of all kinds, we’ve developed a model of Leadership Presence. In that model we break Leadership Presence down into four elements, each of which represents both a state of mind and a way of behaving. Here are the four elements of Leadership Presence: We call this the PRES model. The PRES Model of Leadership Presence P stands for being Present, the ability to be completely in the moment, and flexible enough to handle the unexpected. R stands for Reaching out, the ability to build relationships with others through empathy, listening, and authentic connection. E stands for Expressiveness, the ability to express feelings and emotions appropriately by using all available means-words, voice, body, face-to deliver one congruent message. S stands for Self-knowing, the ability to accept yourself, to be authentic, and to reflect your values in your decisions and actions. Copyright © Belle Linda Halpern and Kathy Lubar, 2003, All rights reserved Leadership Presence is more than the sum of these elements. When we’re around someone with Leadership Presence, we feel it and know it as one thing, not the accumulation of four related but disparate skills. Each element possesses both an interior and an exterior aspect. The interior aspect has to do with the state of mind and heart from which each element springs, while the exterior aspect has to do with the behavior that reflects and reveals the interior aspect. Focusing on the exterior and ignoring the interior is like being courteous without caring. It may work for a short while, but its hollowness soon becomes obvious. The four elements are a convenient way to teach and learn Leadership Presence because each builds on, and gains power from, the preceding element. They’re cumulative. Being Present is the first step. Reaching Out and Expressiveness cannot work in practice unless you are fully present-in the moment, focused, completely there. Being Present allows you to effectively reach out to others, to really listen and to see things from their perspective. Expressiveness is certainly possible all by itself. But unless it builds on a foundation of being present and Reaching Out, it will only lead people to think of you as loud or flamboyant. To be Self-knowing, to know where you came from and what you stand for, to be authentic, enables you to integrate all the previous elements of the PRES model in your interactions with others. Copyright © Belle Linda Halpern and Kathy Lubar, 2003, All rights reserved The Benefits of Leadership Presence The applications and benefits of Leadership Presence are widespread. Throughout large and small organizations leaders need to move, influence, inspire, and motivate people to achieve goals. Leadership Presence is a powerful tool for mobilizing and energizing people, sometimes toward great achievement. We have worked at the senior levels of Fortune 500 companies, in government, in nonprofits, in education, and even in the prison system. The list of ways to apply the skill of Leadership Presence grows with every client. Consider the following list. • Developing deeper and more trusting relationships with your clients • Inspiring your teammates to sprint to the finish on an important project • Persuading a reluctant recruit she has what it takes to charge up that hill • Convincing your investors to fund your next great idea • Inspiring a classroom of students to become lifelong learners • Encouraging your employees to hang in through tough times • Creating enthusiasm in your organization for a difficult change • Negotiating a complex contract that benefits all sides • Nurturing a corporate culture that engenders loyalty and retention Do any of these tasks look familiar? Are they similar to the challenges that you face? Would your ability to connect authentically with your audience help accomplish these things? In other words, would Leadership Presence help? We think so. It’s not hard to imagine all the relationships and situations where these abilities will be useful in building consensus around common goals, making a work group into a real team, creating longterm relationships with customers, improving collaboration with colleagues, anywhere relationships are critical to accomplishment. Leadership Presence-More than just charisma As we write this book, the notion of charisma has fallen into disfavor. Too many companies in recent years have come to wrack and ruin, led by so-called charismatic leaders who have led their organizations over the edge of the cliff, while making barrels of money for themselves in the process. Charisma itself is not necessarily the villain, but narcissistic charisma is. That’s the kind of charisma that allows an individual to sway the masses and stir up followers while maintaining emotional distance or even disdain for those followers. Charisma as an element of true Leadership Presence can be a tool for good, as long as the other elements are also in place. Leadership Presence combines power with humility. It’s about where you and those you lead want to go and what all of you want to accomplish and how all of you can benefit from your work together. It’s about relationships and connections between people. To use our PRES model again, Leadership Presence is about: Copyright © Belle Linda Halpern and Kathy Lubar, 2003, All rights reserved • Being Present-not pretentious. • Reaching Out-not looking down. • being Expressive-not impressive. • being Self-knowing-not self-absorbed. We said a moment ago that self-knowing is what integrates the four elements of the PRES model into one thing-Leadership Presence. Self-knowing is what separates Leadership Presence from selfcentered charisma. For Self-knowing involves knowing your values and living according to those values. A leader can possess charisma and still have Leadership Presence. But for the narcissistic charismatic leader, the chief value is “me,” and the problem is that followers inevitably discover that value, causing the luster to wear off. Achieving Leadership Presence is a Four-Act Drama Because our experience has shown us that Leadership Presence is most easily learned around the four elements, we have organized the rest of this book around them, in four acts. Each act contains two chapters that cover the interior and exterior aspects of the element. The second chapter in each act provides rules and practical advice to help you apply what you learned in the first chapter. Act I: Being Present Chapter 2 discusses the value of living in the moment, which is the state of mind that compels or energizes Being Present. Chapter 3 then uses improvisational theater to explore flexibility, the key feature of how you act when you’re fully present. Act II: Reaching Out Chapter 4 delves into empathy, the state of mind that drives Reaching Out, followed by Chapter 5 on making connections, which covers all the actions we can take to create a relationship with another person. Act III: Expressiveness Chapter 6 talks about expressing emotion and focuses on a concept every actor and leader will recognize-passionate purpose-which influences all the ways we express ourselves. Chapter 7 then describes the way we communicate our passionate purpose by congruently using all means of communication at our disposal. Act IV: Self-knowing Chapter 8 explores the heart of Self-knowing for a leader, which is the development of explicit beliefs and values through self-reflection. Chapter 9 discusses authenticity, which is based on accepting yourself and living your values. Copyright © Belle Linda Halpern and Kathy Lubar, 2003, All rights reserved Practices and Exercises At the end of each chapter we include easy-to-use practices and exercises based on our actual work training and coaching executives. These are the reference sections of the book, designed so readers can learn and apply the principles we discuss in each chapter. Some of you may jump into these right after each chapter, others may choose to return to them after digesting the entire book. We encourage you to pick and choose from these sections depending on your personal preferences and needs. The practices are actions and behaviors that you can apply, on a daily basis, to your everyday life. The exercises are to be done outside of work at a time you have set aside, in the same way you might do physical exercises to stay fit. These activities, which come predominantly from our acting training, are designed to maintain and strengthen your skills of Leadership Presence. Notes Chapter One: (William Shakespeare) As You Like It. Act. II. Scene VII. Lines 139-142 (Peter Brook) Peter Brook, The Shifting Point (New York: Harper and Row, 1987), p. 232 (F. Murray Abraham) David Black, The Magic of Theater: Behind the Scenes With Today’s Leading Actors (New York: Macmillan, 1993), p. 228 Reprinted from Leadership Presence by Belle Linda Halpern and Kathy Lubar by permission of Gotham Books, a member of Penguin Group (USA) Inc. Copyright (c) Belle Linda Halpern and Kathy Lubar, 2003. All rights reserved. This excerpt, or any parts thereof, may not be reproduced without permission. Copyright © Belle Linda Halpern and Kathy Lubar, 2003, All rights reserved www.hbrreprints.org The stories that move and captivate people are those that are true to the teller, the audience, the moment, and the mission. The Four Truths of the Storyteller by Peter Guber Reprint R0712C The stories that move and captivate people are those that are true to the teller, the audience, the moment, and the mission. The Four Truths of the Storyteller COPYRIGHT © 2007 HARVARD BUSINESS SCHOOL PUBLISHING CORPORATION. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. by Peter Guber I’m in the business of creating compelling stories. As a filmmaker, I need to understand how stories touch audiences—why one story is an instantly appealing box office success while another fails miserably to connect. I’ve been fortunate enough to work with some of the world’s most talented storytellers—gifted directors, novelists, screenwriters, actors, and other producers—and from them I’ve gleaned insights into the alchemy of great stories. Make no mistake, a hit movie is still an elusive target, and I’ve had my share of flops. But experience has at least provided me with a clear sense of the essential elements of a story and how to tap into its power. The power of storytelling is also central to my work as a business executive and entrepreneur. Over the years, I’ve learned that the ability to articulate your story or that of your company is crucial in almost every phase of enterprise management. It works all along the business food chain: A great salesperson knows how to tell a story in which the product is the hero. A successful line manager harvard business review • december 2007 can rally the team to extraordinary efforts through a story that shows how short-term sacrifice leads to long-term success. An effective CEO uses an emotional narrative about the company’s mission to attract investors and partners, to set lofty goals, and to inspire employees. Sometimes, a well-crafted story can even transform a seemingly hopeless situation into an unexpected triumph. In the mid-1980s at PolyGram, I produced a television series called Oceanquest, which took a team of expert divers and scientists around the world—from Antarctica to Baja California to Micronesia—to film their aquatic adventures. The cast included former Miss Universe Shawn Weatherly, a novice who served as a stand-in for the viewers at home. One of the planned segments critical to the success of the series was to explore the forbidden waters of Havana harbor, where galleons and pirate ships had carried treasure since the sixteenth century. There was only one problem: Neither the U.S. government nor the page 1 The Four Truths of the Storyteller Peter Guber (petergmandalay@ gmail.com) has been the top executive at several multinational entertainment companies, including Sony Pictures, PolyGram, and Columbia Pictures, and has produced such movies as Rain Man, Batman, and The Color Purple. He is currently the chair and CEO of Mandalay Entertainment Group in Los Angeles, the host of the weekly film-industry talk show Shootout on AMC, and a professor at the UCLA School of Theater, Film & Television. Communist regime of Fidel Castro wanted a team of Americans filming there. Pleading that our mission was purely scientific and peaceful, we managed, with support from former secretaries of state Henry Kissinger and Alexander Haig, to get permission from the U.S. State Department. But the go-ahead from the Cuban government for underwater filming proved more elusive. Gambling that we could win approval, we sailed to Cuba, set up our equipment in Marina Hemingway, and filmed a few surface shots in various locations as we waited for word from the regime. Millions of dollars in sunk costs hung in the balance. A local official finally turned up with a surprise announcement: Fidel Castro had taken a personal interest in our project and would be visiting the harbor. (Castro, we learned, was an environmental advocate and scuba enthusiast.) “May we use this visit to ask for permission to film in the harbor?” we asked. The official shrugged. “El Presidente will be here for ten minutes only,” he replied. “But you are certainly free to tell your story. Just remember, no autographs and no gifts.” Of course, we’d already provided all sorts of information about our project to the Cuban government’s Washington office. But it was soulless data with no emotion, life, or drama. No wonder our request had elicited a perfunctory “no.” I was determined not to make the same mistake again. Castro (or Cool Breeze, as we’d privately code-named him) arrived, his entourage in tow. To make his experience interactive, we’d arranged a display of our most elaborate equipment on the deck of our main ship— underwater vehicles, diving suits, high-tech cameras. Cool Breeze was suitably impressed by it all—though he seemed most taken by the friendly welcome from Ms. Weatherly, still wearing her bathing suit from that day’s filming. The ice broken, I began telling the story of Havana harbor and its centuries at the heart of world commerce, diplomacy, intrigue, and war. The central motivation for early explorers of the New World had been the quest for treasure. As the focal point of Spain’s trading empire and the strategic “key to the Gulf of Mexico,” Havana had been integral to this quest, its port the shipping center through which the gold of the Americas flowed on harvard business review • december 2007 its way to the Spanish royal court. Pirates, privateers, spies, and rival imperial forces— including Britain’s Royal Navy—had plied its waters, seeking booty, probing for military and economic secrets, and vying for influence. I explained how we would use the latest technology to bring Cuba’s history to television viewers worldwide. As I spoke, I watched Castro toy with the equipment and listen with growing interest to the story of Havana harbor’s past. Finally, breaking the bureaucrat’s rule, I presented the Cuban leader with a giant tooth (seven inches long, five inches wide) from a megalodon, a prehistoric shark that had once prowled Havana’s waters. The upshot? Castro spent four hours visiting with our film crew, and he gave us permission to film anywhere in the harbor we wanted. We captured hours of compelling television footage. My impromptu story— and Havana’s story—won the day. “The seas belong to all humankind,” I reminded Castro, “and so does history. You are the steward of Havana’s history, and it is up to you to share it with the world.” This experience led me—not for the first time and certainly not for the last—to try to gather some basic truths about how storytelling can be used to get people’s help carrying out your goals and ultimately to inspire business success. Stories can, of course, take many forms, from old-fashioned words on a page to movies laden with digital special effects. In this article I’ll restrict myself primarily to stories like the one I used with Castro: oral narratives in which a single teller addresses one or more listeners. Whether the audience is a handful of colleagues or clients at lunch or 10,000 convention-goers listening to a formal address, the secrets of a great story are largely the same. The Leader as Storyteller As part of my continuing effort to unlock these secrets, I recently persuaded a diverse group of leaders and storytelling experts from the worlds of business, education, and entertainment to come together over a meal and exchange their insights about storytelling. One beautiful spring evening, we gathered at my home in Los Angeles. With a feast laid out on a great low table and the city lights twinkling in the hills below us, we luxuriated in a page 2 The Four Truths of the Storyteller For the leader, storytelling is action oriented—a force for turning dreams into goals and then into results. cascade of ideas. As the wine flowed, so did the jokes, stories, and observations drawn from the centuries’ worth of life experience in that room. And as varied as our backgrounds were, I found that we kept returning to one theme: the crucial importance of truth as an attribute of both the powerful story and the effective storyteller. Before I go further, let me clear up two misconceptions about storytelling that many businesspeople have. First, many think it is purely about entertainment. But the use of the story not only to delight but to instruct and lead has long been a part of human culture. We can trace it back thousands of years to the days of the shaman around the tribal fire. It was he who recorded the oral history of the tribe, encoding its beliefs, values, and rules in the tales of its great heroes, of its triumphs and tragedies. The lifeor-death lessons necessary to perpetuate the community’s survival were woven into these stories: “We don’t go hunting in the Great Wood—not since that terrible day when three of our bravest were killed there by unknown beasts. Here’s how it happened…” Storytelling plays a similar role today. It is one of the world’s most powerful tools for achieving astonishing results. For the leader, storytelling is action oriented—a force for turning dreams into goals and then into results. Second, many people assume that storytelling is somehow in conflict with authenticity. The great storyteller, in this view, is a spinner of yarns that amuse without being rooted in truth. The image of Hollywood as “Tinseltown”—a land of make-believe and suspended disbelief that allows us to escape reality, even manipulates us into doing so— reinforces this notion. But great storytelling does not conflict with truth. In the business world and elsewhere, it is always built on the integrity of the story and its teller. Hence the emphasis on truth as its touchstone in our dinner symposium. Reflecting on the lessons and ideas from our conclave, I’ve distilled four kinds of truth found in an effective story. Truth to the Teller Authenticity, as noted above, is a crucial quality of the storyteller. He must be congruent with his story—his tongue, feet, and wallet harvard business review • december 2007 must move in the same direction. The consummate modern shaman knows his own deepest values and reveals them in his story with honesty and candor. Jim Sinegal, cofounder and CEO of Costco, tells a business story that embodies the values he’s helped build into his company. Back in 1996, he often recounts, Costco was doing a brisk business in Calvin Klein jeans priced at $29.99. When a smart buyer got a better deal on a new batch of the jeans, company guidelines calling for a strict limit on price markups dictated a lower price of $22.99. Costco could have stuck to the original price and dropped seven extra dollars a pair straight into its own pocket. But Sinegal insisted on passing the savings on to customers, because he saw the company’s focus on customer value as the key to its success. The story continues to be told in Costco’s hallways today. It vividly conveys a message about the company’s values—one that resonates, in part, because it’s aligned with the personality of its author. Sinegal answers his own phone, draws an annual salary of just $350,000 (a fraction of what most big-company CEOs earn), and has signed an employment contract that’s only one page long—all of which means less cost for customers to absorb. At the storytelling dinner I held, Oscarwinning screenwriter Ron Bass put it this way, drawing a parallel to the world of politics: “When I pitch a story, I have to sell myself— who I am. The same is true of every leader, in business or any other field. Take Barack Obama. His story is all about who he is. And everything about him is part of it, down to his physical presence: the eye contact, the hand on the shoulder, the sound of his voice.” Being true to yourself also involves showing and sharing emotion. The spirit that motivates most great storytellers is “I want you to feel what I feel,” and the effective narrative is designed to make this happen. That’s how the information is bound to the experience and rendered unforgettable. But sharing emotion isn’t easy. As Teri Schwartz, the dean of Loyola Marymount University’s film and television school, pointed out, “It demands generosity on the part of the storyteller.” Why? Because it often requires being vulnerable—a challenge for many leaders, managers, salespeople, and entrepreneurs. By willingly exposing anxieties, page 3 The Four Truths of the Storyteller fears, and shortcomings, the storyteller allows the audience to identify with her and therefore brings listeners to a place of understanding and catharsis, and ultimately spurs action. When I told the story of Havana harbor to Castro—standing on the deck of a ship strewn with expensive equipment that we’d essentially brought there on spec, trusting in my ability to win the confidence of Cuba’s all-powerful ruler—both my vulnerability and my enthusiastic commitment to the risky project were on full display. Here is the challenge for the business storyteller: He must enter the hearts of his listeners, where their emotions live, even as the information he seeks to convey rents space in their brains. Our minds are relatively open, but we guard our hearts with zeal, knowing their power to move us. So although the mind may be part of your target, the heart is the bull’seye. To reach it, the visionary manager crafting his story must first display his own open heart. Although the mind may be part of your target, the heart is the bull’s-eye. Truth to the Audience There’s always an implicit contract between the storyteller and his audience. It includes a promise that the listeners’ expectations, once aroused, will be fulfilled. Listeners give the storyteller their time, with the understanding that he will spend it wisely for them. For most businesspeople, time is the scarcest resource; the storyteller who doesn’t respect that will pay dearly. Fulfilling this promise is what I mean by “truth to the audience.” To meet the terms of this contract—and ideally even overdeliver on it—the great storyteller takes time to understand what his listeners know about, care about, and want to hear. Then he crafts the essential elements of the story so that they elegantly resonate with those needs, starting where the listeners are and bringing them along on a satisfying emotional journey. This journey, resulting in an altered psychological state on the part of the listener, is the essence of storytelling. Listeners must remain curious and in suspense—wondering what’s going to happen to them next—while trusting that it is safe to give themselves over to the journey and that the destination will be worthwhile. Truth to the audience has a number of practical implications for the craft of storytelling. harvard business review • december 2007 First, you’ll want to try your story out on people who aren’t already converts, to get a realistic sense of how your real audience might respond. Ron Bass finds this strategy useful: “In effect,” he says, “I have my own story development company. It consists of three or four young women who represent my ‘marketing department.’ I bounce everything off them—every new idea, scene, plot twist, character development, big speech. I study their reactions and then, even more important, study my reaction to them. I don’t necessarily follow their advice. What I must follow is my own deepest instinct, and this is best revealed to me as I see how I respond to the feelings and thoughts of other people.” Business leaders too need to be in touch with their listeners—not slavish or patronizing, but receptive—in order to know how to lead them. Getting your story right for your listeners means working past a series of culs-de-sac and speed bumps to find the best path. Second, you’ll need to identify your audience’s emotional needs and meet them with integrity. It’s not enough to get the facts right—you’ve got to get the emotional arc right as well. Every storyteller is in the expectations-management business and must take responsibility for leading listeners effectively through the story experience, incorporating both surprise and fulfillment. At the end of the story, listeners should think, “We never expected that—but somehow, it makes perfect sense.” Thus, a great story is never fully predictable through foresight—but it’s projectable through hindsight. Third, you’ll want to tell your story in an interactive fashion, so people will feel they’ve participated in shaping the story experience. This requires a willingness to surrender ownership of the story. The storyteller must recognize that the story is bigger than she is and must enlist her audience’s help. This can mean, as screenwriter Chad Hodge pointed out during our dinner, “helping people to see themselves as the hero of the story,” whether the plot involves beating the bad guys or achieving some great business objective. “Everyone wants to be a star, or at least to feel that the story is talking to or about him personally,” Hodge said. Business leaders need to tap into this drive by using storytelling to place their listeners at the center of the action. As Hodge advised: “Encourage page 4 The Four Truths of the Storyteller your people to join your journey, your quest, and reach the goal that lies at its end.” Recall, for example, how I shone a spotlight on the chain of history of Havana’s great harbor and placed Castro at the center of the story, as the harbor’s current steward. LMU’s Teri Schwartz picked up on Hodge’s idea: “Make the ‘I’ in your story become ‘we,’ so the whole tribe or community can come together and unite behind your experience and the idea it embodies.” Consider how Sallie Krawcheck—formerly the CEO of Smith Barney and now, in her early forties, the youthful chair and CEO of Citigroup’s Global Wealth Management division—connects with people who might be intimidated by her reputation for brilliance and her rapid rise to the top of the financial services industry. She often tells her life story in a way that anyone can identify with, recalling how she felt like an outcast at her all-girls school as a teenager—with glasses, braces, and corrective shoes—and how that prepared her for the rigors of her professional life. She has said in the business press that “there was nothing they could do to me at Salomon Brothers in the ’80s that was worse than the seventh grade.” When you hear Krawcheck describe her journey in these terms, you know exactly how she feels. You can’t help rooting for her—and if you’re a member of her team at Citigroup, you’re ready to follow her wherever she leads. Perhaps of equal import, business leaders must recognize that how the audience physically responds to the storyteller is an integral part of the story and its telling. Communal emotional response—hoots of laughter, shrieks of fear, gasps of dismay, cries of anger—is a binding force that the storyteller must learn how to orchestrate through appeals to the senses and the emotions. Nowhere is this more apparent than at the story’s ending. Getting the audience to cheer, rise, and vocalize in response to a dramatic, rousing conclusion creates positive emotional contagion, produces a strong emotional takeaway, and fuels the call to action by the business leader. The ending of a great narrative is the first thing the audience remembers. The litmus test for a good story is not whether listeners walk away happy or sad. Rather, it’s whether the ending is emotionally fulfilling, an experience worth owning, a harvard business review • december 2007 great “aha!”—not just sticky fingers and a few uneaten kernels of popcorn. Orchestrate emotional responses effectively, and you actually transfer proprietorship of the story to the listener, making him an advocate who will power the viral marketing of your message. Truth to the Moment A great storyteller never tells a story the same way twice. Instead, she sees what is unique in each storytelling experience and responds fully to what is demanded. A story involving your company should sound different each time. Whether you tell it to 2,000 customers at a convention, 500 salespeople at a marketing meeting, ten stock analysts in a conference call, or three CEOs over drinks, you should tailor it to the situation. The context of the telling is always a part of the story. In the case of my pitch to Castro, the story had to seem spontaneous, a natural response to the inspiring historic setting of Marina Hemingway (itself named after one of the twentieth century’s great storytellers). And it did, though the information had been gathered in advance. Its organization and delivery were in essence the “premiere” of this particular story. There is a paradox here. Great storytellers prepare obsessively. They think about, rethink, work, and rework their stories. As Scott Adelson, an investment banker who uses storytelling to help clients raise capital in public markets, said at our dinner: “Sheer repetition and the practice it brings is one key to great storytelling. When we help companies sell themselves to Wall Street, we often see the CEO and his team present their story 10, 20, 30 times. And usually each telling is better and more compelling than the one before.” At the same time, the great storyteller is flexible enough to drop the script and improvise when the situation calls for it. Actually, intensive preparation and improvising are two sides of the same coin. If you know your story well, you can riff on it without losing the thread or the focus. At the storytelling dinner, scientist and science fiction writer Gentry Lee told us about appearing on a public panel about alien abductions. The other three members of the panel were two people who claimed they’d been taken by aliens, and John Mack, the late Harvard psychiatrist who believed in and page 5 The Four Truths of the Storyteller As a modern shaman, the visionary business leader taps into the human yearning to be part of a worthy cause. researched such stories. As you might expect, the two abductees had colorful, vivid, fascinating stories to tell. The listeners were literally standing on their feet, clapping and cheering. Mack poured fuel on the fire by testifying that these stories could be confirmed by many others he’d studied. Lee had prepared, from a scientist’s perspective, a detailed response to the abduction stories, showing how the power of the imagination can conjure up fantasies that look, feel, and appear compellingly real. But he could see that the frenzied audience was in no mood to absorb his lengthy presentation. Instead, he decided to avoid a war of dueling stories by simply using a single startling observation to deflate the abductees’ tales. All he said was this: “My friend Carl Sagan used to say, ‘Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.’ Well, we’ve heard some wonderful stories today, and they make extraordinary claims. I would just point out the following: Hundreds of people who believe they’ve been abducted by aliens have told stories like the ones we’ve just heard. And yet, despite all these hundreds of supposed abductions, not a single souvenir has ever been brought back—not a single tool or document or drinking glass or so much as a thimble! Given the total absence of any physical evidence, can we really believe these extraordinary claims?” This simple, unadorned statement—improvised on the spot to startle the audience into a fresh way of thinking—completely transformed the situation. Most of the throng changed from true believers to thoughtful skeptics in just a few moments. For the well-trained storyteller, spontaneity and economy can be elegant and powerful. Truth to the Mission A great storyteller is devoted to a cause beyond self. That mission is embodied in his stories, which capture and express values that he believes in and wants others to adopt as their own. Thus, the story itself must offer a value proposition that is worthy of its audience. The mission may be on a national or even global scale: To land a man on the moon and return him safely to Earth. To win the Cold War and bring freedom to millions of people around the world. To reverse global warming and save the planet. harvard business review • december 2007 Or the cause may be more modest but still important, at least to the storyteller and his audience: To turn around a company that is floundering and save hundreds of jobs. To bring a great new service to market and improve the lives of customers. In any case, the job of the teller is to capture his mission in a story that evokes powerful emotions and thereby wins the assent and support of his listeners. Everything he does must serve that mission. This explains the passion that great storytellers exude. They infuse their stories with meaning because they really believe in the mission. I truly believed that our program on the history of Havana harbor was important: We had shown up to do something that was bigger than the swirl of temporary political bargaining between our countries, and we had bet the farm on the journey. When truth to the mission conflicts with truth to the audience, truth to the mission should win out. The leader who knows his listeners is able to gain their trust and spend that currency wisely in pursuit of the mission. But this doesn’t mean telling people exactly what they want to hear. That’s pandering and, as Hollywood has learned, a formula for a mediocre story. Indeed, sometimes you need to do just the opposite. At our dinner party, Colin Callender, president of HBO Films, noted that several of HBO’s most acclaimed productions are ones that audience pretesting marked as losers. Even in today’s cynical, self-centered age, people are desperate to believe in something bigger than themselves. The storyteller plays a vital role by providing them with a mission they can believe in and devote themselves to. As a modern shaman, the visionary business leader taps into the human yearning to be part of a worthy cause. A leader who wants to use the power of storytelling must remember this and begin with a cause that deserves devotion. One of today’s most creative business leaders is Muhammad Yunus, founder of Bangladesh’s Grameen Bank and pioneer of the microcredit movement, which advocates providing small loans to the poor. When he addresses would-be partners to solicit support for microcredit, he tells some version of this story: “It was a village woman named Sufiya Begum who taught me the true nature of poverty in Bangladesh. Like many village women, page 6 The Four Truths of the Storyteller Sufiya lived with her husband and small children in a crumbling mud hut with a leaky thatched roof. To provide food for her family, Sufiya worked all day in her muddy yard making bamboo stools. Yet somehow her hard work was unable to lift her family out of poverty. Why?” (Of course, “Why?” is a rhetorical question. But posing it to the listeners engages their curiosity and makes them eager to hear the answer, which they trust Yunus to supply.) “Like many others in the village, Sufiya relied on the local moneylender to provide the cash she needed to buy the bamboo for her stools. But the moneylender would give her this money only on the condition that he would have the exclusive right to buy all she produced at a price he would decide. What’s more, the interest rate he charged was incredibly high, ranging from 10% per week to as much as 10% per day. “Sufiya was not alone. I made a list of the victims of this moneylending business in the village of Jobra. When I was done, I had the names of 42 victims who had borrowed a total of 856 taka—the equivalent of less than $27 at the time. What a lesson this was for me, an economics professor! “I offered $27 from my own pocket to get these victims out of the moneylenders’ clutches. The excitement that was created among the people by this small action got me further involved. If I could make so many people so happy with such a tiny amount of money, why not do more? “That has been my mission ever since.” When Yunus tells this story of the origins of microcredit, his listeners—including bankers, harvard business review • december 2007 CEOs, and high government officials—are moved. They are riding the emotional arc of Yunus’s tale, which culminated in 2006 with the awarding of the Nobel Peace Prize jointly to Yunus and Grameen Bank. When he concludes his story by asking his listeners to help bring affordable credit to every poor person in the world, he almost always receives a standing ovation—along with a flood of pledges. The Unchanging Heart of Storytelling Story forms have evolved continually since the days of the shaman. Literary genres from epic poetry to drama to the novel use stories as political or social calls to action. Technological breakthroughs—movable type, movies, radio, television, the internet—have provided new ways of recording, presenting, and disseminating stories. But it isn’t special effects or the 0’s and 1’s of the digital revolution that matter most—it’s the oohs and aahs that the storyteller evokes from an audience. State-of-the-art technology is a great tool for capturing and transmitting words, images, and ideas, but the power of storytelling resides most fundamentally in “state-of-theheart” technology. At the end of the day, words and ideas presented in a way that engages listeners’ emotions are what carry stories. It is this oral tradition that lies at the center of our ability to motivate, sell, inspire, engage, and lead. Reprint R0712C To order, see the next page or call 800-988-0886 or 617-783-7500 or go to www.hbrreprints.org page 7 Further Reading The Harvard Business Review Paperback Series Here are the landmark ideas—both contemporary and classic—that have established Harvard Business Review as required reading for businesspeople around the globe. Each paperback includes eight of the leading articles on a particular business topic. The series includes over thirty titles, including the following best-sellers: Harvard Business Review on Brand Management Product no. 1445 Harvard Business Review on Change Product no. 8842 Harvard Business Review on Leadership Product no. 8834 Harvard Business Review on Managing People Product no. 9075 Harvard Business Review on Measuring Corporate Performance Product no. 8826 For a complete list of the Harvard Business Review paperback series, go to www.hbrreprints.org. To Order For Harvard Business Review reprints and subscriptions, call 800-988-0886 or 617-783-7500. Go to www.hbrreprints.org For customized and quantity orders of Harvard Business Review article reprints, call 617-783-7626, or e-mai [email protected] page 8
© Copyright 2026 Paperzz