THE EASTERN GAZETTE Jack and Jill of America, Inc., The MIGHTY Eastern Region Volume 1, Issue 3 November/December 2012 Inside this Issue ... • The Power to End Hunger: Chapters Rise to Regional Community Service Challenge • Hurricane Sandy Relief Efforts • Teaching Children to Give • The Sergeant-at-Arms: Maintaining Order and Dignity Love Peace Joy LEGISLATIVE UPDATE: REFLECT, CELEBRATE, ADVOCATE! Page 8 MERRY CHRISTMAS! INSIDE THIS ISSUE 03 From the Regional Director 15 A Note for Teen Advisers 04 National Executive Board Update 16 Middle School Corner: Teaching Children to Give 05 A Season of Giving 17 06 A Well-Baked J&J Family Chapters Help with Hurricane Sandy Relief Efforts 06 A Note from the Secretary 19 Chapter Programming Around the Eastern Region 07 Membership Matters 32 Teen Hang Suite 07 Mothers Away from Home 48 Calendar 08 Reflect, Celebrate, Advocate 09 Maintaining Order & Dignity 11 Foundation MAL-Functions: Chapters Answer the Call to Donate Food ELECTED EASTERN REGIONAL OFFICERS Regional Director Joi M. Grady Regional Treasurer Elayna Rucker-Byers Regional Secretary Vicki West Regional Member-at-Large Karen Chaplin APPOINTED Associates Chair Melanie Johnson Fathers’ Auxiliary Chair Travis Langster Membership Chair Michele Courton-Brown Membership Task Force Chair Debra Henry 2 • THE EASTERN GAZETTE Each chapter is invited to submit up to two articles: one for Chapter Programming and one ‘Teen Hang Suite’ article. Each article should be no more than 250 words, and photos are limited to two per article. Submissions should be sent to Regional Editor Paulette Walker Campbell, [email protected]. Program Chair ShawnDya Simpson Walthour Sergeant-at-Arms Paula Magnus Teen Advisor Davida Twitty Middle School Advisor Ingrid Bentil Legislative Chair Mondi Kumbula-Fraser Regional Grievance Chair Gena Ashe Nominating Chair Susan Johnson Regional Editor Paulette Walker Campbell Event Planner Renee Gadson Community Service Chair Margaret Gibson Regional Protocol Chair Nikki Farrior Celebrate 75 Danielle Brown Regional By-Laws Chair Cathy Long Policies and Procedures Chair Lisa Evans-Chapman Strategic Relevance and Value Chair Juanita Thompson Chaplain Jill Parham National Officer Tammy King National Vice President From the Regional Director Dear Mothers of the Mighty East, Holidays! I hope that everyone had a fabulous Thanksgiving and that you are enjoying the time with family and friends over this holiday season. We all have so much to be thankful for as we are a blessed group of women with many talents and we have special treasures — our children. We are also thankful that there was no loss of life in our Jack and Jill family due to Hurricane Sandy. I am aware of families that were displaced and are just now able to return home; please know that your Jack and Jill family is here for anyone who may need any type of help. We are thinking of you as you continue to face the challenges of returning home and rebuilding. Fall has been a busy time in the East! We hosted four successful Mothers Cluster workdays. I heard from many of you that you enjoyed the workshops as well as the opportunity to meet new mothers from your cluster. Thank you to the regional team for your efforts in making the workdays beneficial and educational. In addition, there have been regional webinars conducted on various topics to keep members knowledgeable. Webinar information is sent to the Chapter President and to the chapter officer that is responsible for the area of discussion, but they are open to all mothers who would like to participate. Your regional team has been hard at work planning for the upcoming year. Next up is the Teen Leadership Summit, January 26-27, 2013; Teen Conference, March 21-24, 2013; Children’s Cluster, April 13, 2013; and the Regional Conference Cruise to Bermuda, July 20-25, 2013. Registration for the Leadership Summit has commenced, and registration for Teen Conference and the Regional Conference Cruise will open in January. We try to communicate to the entire region, but several e-mails are bouncing back. Therefore, we always send the information to chapter Presidents and Corresponding Secretaries and ask them to share with their members. If you are not receiving registration e-mails from your chapter, please let your chapter President and Regional Secretary Vicki West know. 1 in 4 Reminder: If you joined the organization in 2008 or prior and your youngest child is graduating out this year, your first cycle of compliance ended in August 2012. If you did not attend the Cluster Workdays, you must attend Teen Conference or the Regional Conference in order to graduate in good standing. If you joined in 2009, and you already attended a qualifying event starting in the Fall of 2009 through now, you are in compliance with the bylaw. If not, you will need to attend the Teen or Regional Conference to be in compliance. Remember, members are responsible for knowing the status of their attendance requirements. We do not want to lose a single mother in the East due to noncompliance. In closing, I am thankful for each of you and am always amazed at the dedication and heart that mothers bring to this wonderful organization. I am also thankful for my family and friends who understand what I enjoy and support me so that I may serve you. Merry Christmas, Happy Kwanza, Happy New Year and may 2013 bless you abundantly. Joi M.Grady 21st Eastern Regional Director Regional Director Joi Grady with the winners of the Middle School Great Debate at the Southern Cluster. THE EASTERN GAZETTE • 3 National Executive Board Update Greetings Eastern Region, The holiday season is typically full of excitement and anticipation, and this missive from me would normally be a cheerful greeting of Christmas wishes and expressions of a hopeful and Happy New Year,. But our nation has been silenced by a terrible disaster, and our moods are somber. Within the past few days the excitement of the season was turned into bewilderment for many. We are stunned. The unthinkable has happened. Children have been harmed. When a tragedy such as the Newtown, CT school killings occurs, we are all shaken to our core, because our children are supposed to be safe, happy, carefree and especially cherished by all. Parents are not supposed to bury their babies, especially not at Christmastime. Our world and our environment is changing every single day, and children are not as safe as we would like to believe. It only takes one disturbed individual to remind of us of this sad fact. Let us stand strong with our nation’s President as he commits his administration and American citizens en masse to rectify whatsoever is necessary so that a tragedy such as this never happens again; and let us find solace in His reminder that there is “an eternal house in heaven, not built by human hands.” Jack and Jill will continue to advocate on behalf of all children. One of our legislative focuses for 2013 has to be centered on protecting our most precious possessions: our children. Our mantra now is that we never want to see this happen again; “Not in a school, not Credit: http://cristaspeaks.wordpress.com/ 4 • THE EASTERN GAZETTE on a school yard nor on a school bus or anywhere that our children are supposed to be safe.” We pray silently and together as a nation for the loss of 20 young children at Sandy Hook Elementary and the six adults who gave their lives trying to protect them but we can gain strength from the Newton community as they support one another in their shared grief. Despite despair let us smile at the memories of beautiful carefree and innocent souls who are now remembered spirits and we can be encouraged that America cares. Amidst our anguish, as we hug our children and watch their glee on Christmas morning, let us all quietly acknowledge that we have much to be thankful for and that we are indeed thankful. God rest the souls of those lost, and may God bless you and your families. Long Live Jack and Jill! Tammy King 25th National Vice President ‘A Season of Giving,’ by Myrtle and Ethel Myrtle stood in Rockefeller Center, enamored by the enormous 80 foot Norway spruce Christmas tree, adorned by 30,000 beautiful LED twinkling lights. The tree had the most magnificent Swarovski crystal star brightly shining on top of it. As she stared up at the star that radiated a spectrum of brightly colored rays of light across the sky, Myrtle hummed CeeLo Green’s rendition of the song ‘Mary Did You Know’. Myrtle envisioned Mary giving birth to Jesus and she marveled with thanksgiving in her heart for Jesus giving eternal life to Mary. As she hummed the portion of the song with the lyric, ‘Mary did you know, that this Child you delivered would soon deliver you?’, Myrtle reflected on how her own son when he was 8 years old had led her to accept Christ after she was spiritually moved by her son’s performance in his role as Jesus in the Sunday School Christmas play. As she smiled looking up at that the rays of color spraying across the sky from the magnificent shining star, a child came and stood by her. The child looked up at the star too and began smiling. Another child and his mother came and stood by Myrtle and began staring up at the brightly shining star! As Ethel came out of The Coach Store with her arms full of presents, she spotted a large number of people crowded around the Christmas tree staring, smiling and pointing up at the shining star. Once Ethel was closer to the crowd, she saw Myrtle with tears in her eyes as she stared up at the shining star. Ethel could hear Myrtle softly humming ‘Mary Did You Know’! Ethel gently slipped her hand into Myrtle’s hand and quietly said, “Myrtle did you know, that the crys- tals on the Christmas pin you are wearing are reflecting on the star up there on that tree and making all those beautiful colors everyone sees in the sky?”. Startled for just a second, Myrtle looked over with amazement at her dear friend Ethel who turned and smiled at Myrtle. Knowingly, they tightly embraced and chuckled quietly in each other’s ear. Jack and Jill Mothers and Families, let your light shine so brightly within you that All will see Christ in you during this Season and out of this Season. Let God’s gift of Christ to all of us, be your encouragement to share the good news of Christ and his birth. For, He came to give the gift of eternal life to all who will receive it! Remember to KEEP Christ in your Christmas! And, Have a Wonderfully Blessed Christmas Season and New Year! By Jill Parham Eastern Regional Chaplain THE EASTERN GAZETTE • 5 A Well-baked J&J Family During this holiday season money seems to be top of mind for everyone. Buying gifts for family and friends, donating to special charities, purchasing travel tickets to destination locations and even paying for upcoming Jack and Jill activities. Through all these financial festivities, please remember how blessed we are this season to have what we have and be able share our good fortune with others. As we kick off the New Year and make resolutions, may I suggest we make sure that we are financially fit and make a few Jack and Jill financial resolutions? Financial officers: Ensure you are sending your financial reports to your chapter each month, rec- oncile quick books monthly, provide a back up file to your chapter president, start thinking about budget committee members, and take the time to review your financial guidelines and see if any chapter by-laws need to be updated. Members: Resolve to pay for Jack and Jill activities in a timely fashion; send your activity payments only to the chapter financial secretary, provide receipts and vouchers for any reimbursement. May you all enjoy my Jack and Jill Holiday Recipe: • Take 1 scoop of sisterhood • Stir in 2 teaspoons of understanding • Add 3 cups of commitment • Layer it with 4½ cup of working together • Fold in 5 tablespoons of no parking lot meetings • Mix it all together and blend well • Outcome: A well-baked Jack and Jill family Happy Holidays and Happy New Year! Elayna Rucker-Byers Eastern Regional Treasurer A Note from the Secretary Greetings of the Season Eastern Region Mothers, the event to your cart and follow the steps to check out. As our cluster season comes to a close, I want to reassure you that I am working to ensure each Mother that attended a cluster gets credit for attendance. If you logged your attendance for your cluster in MIS, signed in at registration and workshops, and received a certificate at the end of the cluster, you will get credit for that cluster. If you do not attend the event once you registered, I will reconcile registration sign in sheets at the end of the event. If a signature is not found on the registration sheets or workshop sign in sheets, those names are forwarded to the National office who will delete the event from your personal activities calendar. Even if you were not able to stay to the closing session, if you stayed for at least 2 workshops, you will get credit. I was happy to assist many of your with recording your attendance in MIS. Those of you that had technical difficulty, I will be working with the National office to resolve your problems. I want to reiterate to you Mothers you should log your attendance for qualifying events (Clusters, Teen Conference, Mothers Conference, and National Convention) when you register for the event. Events will be on the Jack and Jill Activities calendar until midnight once the event has occurred. Logging your attendance is like shopping on the internet; you add 6 • THE EASTERN GAZETTE The bylaw was passed to make our organization stronger and hold members accountable to the organization. We are only actively involved in Jack and Jill with our children for a ‘season ‘, so let’s make the most of it. Remember the experience you and your children have has a direct correlation to the time, commitment, and dedication you put into the organization. I will be conducting a webinar with Chapter MIS Administrators January 8, 2013 at 9 p.m. More details to follow. Wishing you and yours joy, peace, and love this Holiday season and throughout the New Year. Fondly, Vicki H. West Eastern Regional Secretary Membership Matters In the spirit of holiday sharing, I have a special request: Please share your chapter’s best membership practices with me so that I can expand on the membership resource tools available to all. At this fall’s Mother’s Clusters, chapter members shared a number of creative ideas for making the membership intake process more interactive and effective, for engaging moms (new and old), for deploying Associates and for surveying chapters for future membership needs. It would be helpful to have the following information provided: • Chapter Name/# of Members • Summary of Idea/Project/Tool? • How many mother volunteers are required and what do they do? • Costs, if any • How has this idea/project/tool benefited your chapter’s membership? If you send me your chapter’s creative ideas, I will share them with your fellow chapters via the ER Gazette, a special communication to Presidents and Vice Presidents, and via Eastern Region webinars. And, of course, your chapter will receive full recognition for your amazing ideas. Also, if your chapter has specific requests for information on membership issues, please let me know what you need to know. Please send me an email at [email protected]. I look forward to receiving the gift of proven effective membership ideas and tools. We can all benefit from the collective wisdom of the Mighty Eastern Region. Happy Holidays! Michele Courton Brown Eastern Regional Membership Chair Mothers Away from Home Project Happy Holidays, Seasons Greetings, and Merry Christmas! During this season when we often plan to spend time with our families … it makes me think of our Mother Away From Home Project. This is our National Associates Initiative connecting our Jacks and Jills across the country with a Jack and Jill mother member, graduate mother, or Associate member, who will act as a “Mother” Away From Home, for your son or daughter. It is the Mother Away From Home who lives in the city where your child attends college or boarding school, who can check on your child, when you cannot. The Mother Away From Home can give you a sense of security knowing your Jack and Jill sister is there for your child. The purpose of the program is to provide a “network” of contacts by which Jack and Jill College and boarding school students may be assisted in their transition and existence in their new environment. The major thrust is to continue to perpetuate the aims and objectives of the organization through educational, cultural, civic, recreational and social activities. Registration for the MAFH Project is open at anytime of the year; with the program implementation scheduled for November – April. Participating Associates/Mothers are asked to contact the colle- giate during those months and complete the MAFH Activity Log located on the Jack and Jill website, listing all activities performed during the above time frame. Some suggested activites include: • Providing school supplies or care packages; • Inviting the student to home-cooked meals; • Sending them cards (holidays, birthdays, thinking of you); and • Inviting the collegiate to speak with teens. Presently, we have 16 Eastern Region students registered for the program with: four attending schools in the Mid-Atlantic Region; one in the Mid-Western Region, and one in the Southeastern Region. We have 17 registered students attending schools in the Eastern Region, with: 10 from the Eastern Region, four from the South Central Region, two from the Far West Region and one from the Midwestern Region. These students have been assigned to the local chapters where their college/school is located. I hope YOU have an opportunity to participate in the program by registering your child, or as a Mother Away From Home for a collegiate attending school in your area. Complete instructions and forms are located on the Jack and Jill website (www.jackandjillinc.org) and contained in the Associates Guide Fall 2011 Yours in Jack & Jill, Melanie Johnson Eastern Region Associate Chair THE EASTERN GAZETTE • 7 Reflect, Celebrate, Advocate! Mothers of the Mighty Eastern Region, as we near the end of the year, it is a nice opportunity to reflect on our recent legislative endeavors, celebrate our nation’s leaders, and continue to advocate for our legislative priorities. REFLECT. Over the past few months, our nation has been consumed with election activities. As a nonprofit, Jack and Jill of America, Inc., cannot endorse or oppose particular candidates. However, under the leadership of National President Tamara Turnley Robinson and Eastern Regional Director Joi Grady, the Eastern Region made a difference by engaging in nonpartisan efforts to Get Out the Vote (GOTV). We partnered with the Black Women’s Agenda and issued a challenge to all members to vote, encourage others to vote, and bring at least three friends to the polls on Election Day. We also encouraged chapters to GOTV by volunteering with the NAACP, the Lawyers Committee for Civil Rights (LCCR) and the League of Women Voters. Many of our chapters engaged children in nonpartisan election activities such as passing out GOTV flyers, voter registration, call-a-thons encouraging members to vote, mock elections, mock debates, and vote counting. These experiences were very important, because such practical application helped our children realize that their young voices DO matter. During the time of the elections, many Jack and Jill families were dealing with the aftermath of Hurricane Sandy. Some Mothers volunteered to staff LCCR’s voter protection hotline in Washington, D.C., and many of the callers from New York and New Jersey were displaced from their homes and/or their polling places due to Hurricane Sandy. They were struggling with power outages, flooding and property damage. But despite these very real and personal challenges, people STILL wanted to find a way to vote and make a difference. CELEBRATE. On November 6, our nation re-elected Barack Obama as President of the United States. We also elected 12 new members to the U.S. Senate and 84 new members to the U.S. House of Representatives. During the weekend of January 18-20, 2013, Jack and Jill of America, Inc., will host two Children’s Inaugural balls at the Ritz-Carlton in Pentagon City to celebrate our elected leaders. The demand for tickets to these events was so high that both of them sold out in less than ten minutes! During Inauguration weekend, Jack and Jill also will host a legislative forum, an open house at National’s headquarters, a church service, a Martin Luther King, Jr. service activity, a 75th anniversary reception, a NASA space activity, and a museum activity. This is a wonderful opportunity to engage our children and these special memories will last a lifetime. 8 • THE EASTERN GAZETTE ADVOCATE. The legislative aim for Jack and Jill is “to support all national legislation aimed at bettering the condition of ALL children”. The Eastern Region supports this aim and our legislative theme is to: (1) educate our families and key decision makers about our legislative priorities; (2) empower our families to advance our legislative objectives; and (3) inspire our Jack and Jill children to pursue public office one day. We will continue to advocate for our legislative priorities: (1) quality education for all children of all socio-economic status; (2) adequate healthcare for all children, equal and impartial juvenile justice adjudication; and (3) redress of inequitable distributions of environmental burdens The Eastern Region has conducted legislative advocacy training through Cluster workshops and a webinar. We encourage chapters to host their own legislative advocacy workshops, so our members can learn the most effective ways to advance our legislative priorities. The signature legislative event for the Eastern Region is for all chapters to host or co-host at least one legislative meeting on the local, state or national level. A KEY component of these meetings is that children should pose the majority of the questions at the meetings, so they can learn how to advocate and feel comfortable conversing with our leaders. We want our children to understand that their young voices and opinions DO matter. Perhaps some of our Jack and Jill children will be inspired and empowered to pursue public office one day! In September 2013, we will continue to advance our legislative priorities by holding the On the Hill Legislative Summit at the Capitol Hilton in Washington, D.C. The OTH Summit is our biannual national legislative conference on Capitol Hill and provides opportunities for adults and children to meet face-to-face with legislators and their staff members. As chapters budget for the 2013-2014 program year, we encourage you to send representatives to attend this important conference. Legislative advocacy is an exciting area and we want all of our chapters to be successful in their endeavors. If you have any questions or legislative suggestions that you would like to share, please contact me at [email protected] or 301-802-4044. Mondi Kumbula-Fraser Eastern Region Legislative Chair The Sergeant-at-Arms: Maintaining Order & Dignity Sergeant-at-Arms – Why is the position needed? Indeed, the Sergeant-at-Arms constitutes the oldest royal bodyguard in England, dating from the time of King Richard I (around 1189 A.D). The position served as a personal attendant for the King and focused on keeping order. Jack & Jill’s Eastern Regional Sergeantat-Arms is an appointed position that: • Ensures orderly conduct at meetings, • Supervises the door(s), not allowing any member to leave or enter the room when business is being conducted and while a vote is in session. The Sergeant-at-Arms plays a vital role as to how order is maintained at various meetings at ALL times. Meetings. The Sergeant-at-Arms will ensure all bylaws and traditions are respected by everyone. During these meetings, it is the responsibility of this person to make certain attendance is taken, votes are counted, and parliamentary procedures are followed and to call to order as well as adjourn all meetings (a gavel may be used for this purpose.) Provide Support to the President. The Sergeant-atArms will always support the President by making sure she has all materials needed before the meeting and assisting in practical details of organizing the meeting. This means any outside materials or any additional support that may be needed. She also will carry out requests or orders from the President; and enforce the rules at the direction of the President Welcome Members and Guests. The Sergeant- at-Arms always provides positive motivation and enthusiasm to members and guests. This means that she is present at various functions early and is there to greet everyone who comes to any event. The position of Sergeant-at-Arms is extremely important to the flow of each meeting. Our time is valuable and limited; therefore we need to have a pleasant STRONG Sergeant-At -Arms. Starting and ending meetings and keeping them on track is the main purpose of this position. Is your Sergeant-at-Arms maintaining order at your meetings? If not...have a STRONG orderly talk and remind them of their responsibilities. With all that we have to do....a Sergeant-atArms is much needed in order to value and protect our time together! Paula Maagnus Eastern Regional Sergeant-at-Arms Up the Hill Deadline: January 15, 2013 Chapter Editors, hopefully by now, you have captured the attention of each and every Mother of a graduating senior, encouraging them to make sure that their soon-to-be Legacy is represented in this publication. And I know you’ve reminded your chapter Mothers that everyone can be represented in this annual yearbook with family portraits, memorials to loved ones and profiles of debutantes and beaus. On November 21, National Editor Regina Page distributed the Up the Hill guidelines and FAQs that clearly delineate the process for submitting your chapter’s files. If you can’t find your e-mail, drop me a line at [email protected], and I’ll resend the E-Blast. Remember that the Web upload site will be available until midnight January 15, 2013, Pacific Time, which gives us on the East Coast a three-hour grace period. In the coming weeks, you will be spending a few hours (maybe more) combing through your documents, making sure that the files are named correctly, ensuring that you have signed copies of Parental Consent Forms, and that each submission has a corresponding payment. Be sure to seek the input of your Chapter Program Director and Group Chairs when writing the Chapter News piece. Remember, the emphasis of the Chapter News should be our national theme of “Power & Potential: Parents Empowering Youth through Leadership Development, Cultural Heritage, and Community Service.” Hopefully you had the opportunity to participate in the Webinars held on Dec. 11 and Dec. 18 by NE Page. I’ll be scheduling a Webinar in early January to answer any lingering questions you might have about the process. Look for the notice the first week in January. In the meantime, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! Paulette Walker Campbell Editor, Eastern Region THE EASTERN GAZETTE • 9 FOUNDATION MAL-Functions MAL-F unctions WITH KAREN CHAPLIN, REGIONAL MEMBER AT LARGE When Regional Director Joi Grady, Regional Community Service Chair Margaret Gibson and I came up with the idea for the Eastern Region Food Drive Challenge, we knew chapters would rise to the occasion; but we did not anticipate the degree to which you all have thoroughly embraced the goal to alleviate hunger in the Eastern Region. Through food drives, walk-a-thons, serving meals, and other efforts, you all have stepped up in a magnificent way! The following is just a sampling of Food Drive efforts initiated in chapters across the region. Mothers, keep up the good work, and keep sending your pictures and write-ups! Washington DC Chapter Addresses Hunger The Washington DC Chapter has embraced the Eastern Region’s efforts to address hunger by engaging all age groups in multiple projects. The chapter is preparing meals, serving meals and raising funds to purchase food for meals. Middle Schoolers lead the chapter with their monthly visits to THRIVE DC, a group dedicated to preventing vulnerable individuals from becoming homeless by providing an array of services including daily meal service. The Tweens’ service involves preparing and delivering take home meals and serving as staff waiters for the daily dinner service. The Tweens have prepared take home meals and partnered with the younger groups, who cannot physically serve, to prepare 120 healthy take home meals which were delivered to THRIVE. In addition to the delivery of the take home meals, the Tweens have served a total of 202 dinners at THRIVE this program year. Early on November 17th, 49 moms, dads, teens and children from the DC chapter joined friends from the Alexandria-Mt. Vernon Chapter of Jack and Jill, 10 • THE EASTERN GAZETTE Howard University students and alumni, local sorority and fraternity chapters, Girl Scout and Boy Scout troops and other community organizations for the 18th Annual Project Giveback Thanksgiving Food Distribution. The groups sorted food items, built and filled boxes with the food items in order to feed area families. The Thanksgiving boxes, with cards made by the younger kids attached, supplied 1,100 less fortunate families with food for a week, including a Thanksgiving Day turkey! As a result of this collaborative effort, at least 8,000 meals were delivered to families in Washington, Maryland and Virginia. On Thanksgiving Day morning, TEAM JACK AND JILL DC, 20 Jack and Jill moms, dads and teens, joined over 10,000 other runners and walkers for the 11th Annual Thanksgiving Turkey Trot for Hunger sponsored by SOME (So Others Might Eat). SOME serves lunch and dinner 365 days per year to the homeless and hungry. The Turkey Trot is SOME’s major fund raiser for food to feed the hungry in our community. TEAM JACK AND JILL DC contributed $600.00 to this cause. In addition to the runners, 27 other Jack and Jill moms, dads, teens, tweens and kids volunteered and greeted runners at the finish line with welcomed bottles of water. This event combined the Jack and Jill fitness initiative with community service. The Washington, DC Senior Teens serve lunch regularly at SOME. Stamford Norwalk Chapter “We can all be a drum major for service. There is nobody who can’t serve, nobody who can’t help somebody else.” — Barack Obama. On a crisp afternoon in November, the StamfordNorwalk Chapter participated in a community service event at the Food Bank of lower Fairfield County. The Food Bank, located in Stamford, Connecticut, collects and distributes food as part of it’s mission to alleviate hunger in Connecticut. It is the largest source of emergency food assistance in the state. This project utilized the skills of the Lords and Ladies, Dukes and Duchesses and the Jacils, all of whom showed up ready to work and committed to the goal of serving their community. The group sorted non-perishable food items, stacked shelves, packed up boxes, helped unload trucks and stacked turkeys for the Thanksgiving holiday. This project is part of an ongoing partnership with the Food Bank. With food banks at critical levels due to the impact of Hurricane Sandy, this community service project had particular meaning for the chapter and resonated with the children. Rockland County Chapter: Giving Thanks & Giving a Helping Hand On November 17, the Rockland County Chapter Thanksgiving Food Drive gave thanks and a helping hand to People to People of Rockland County, New York’s largest food pantry. Our Chapter Wide activity focused on giving food and clothes that would benefit children and families during this holiday season and beyond. Like many fam- ilies in New York, People to People was also impacted by Hurricane Sandy as they too experienced fire damage and loss of heat. Despite these circumstances, People to People was dedicated and determined to keep their doors open to provide food and warm clothes for families who were impacted by Hurricane Sandy and/or have difficulty meeting daily demands to feed and clothe their family members. Today, People to People serves over 2,000 families per month and every donation helps. The Mothers, children and fathers all gave a helping hand by donating food, stocking shelves and hanging clothes. Our Chapter donations tallied nearly 600 pounds of food with the value exceeding $1,700 and additional donations will be forthcoming in the weeks to come. We give great thanks to all who donated and especially to the retailers, Shop Rite Supermarkets and THE EASTERN GAZETTE • 11 Costco, who graciously responded to our requests and provided food and turkey donations. We are grateful for their support of our Community Service activity. National Harbor at Martha’s Table Newton Middle Schoolers Donate 102 Pounds of Food! The National Harbor Chapter’s Emeralds and Eagles (1st – 3rd grades) and Jade and Jaguars (4th – 5th grades) visited Martha’s Table on October 6th. The purpose of this activity was to make and donate sandwiches to the Martha’s Table food program. Each child made 25 sandwiches to donate. Several kids went to the home of mom Maranda Jones-Anderson the night before to fellowship and make sandwiches (peanut butter and jelly, ham and turkey). The Middle School children donated 102 pounds of non-perishable goods to the HOPE Food Pantry in Framingham, Mass. The children also spent their Saturday morning stocking pantry shelves and preparing bags of food to distribute to families in need in the Metrowest area. In addition to our chapter-wide community service initiatives, the Newton Chapter encourages our children at all age group levels to give back to their community. In September the Lower Elementary children spent an afternoon at Cradles to Crayons cleaning toys and sorting clothing. In February, the Preschool children will visit the Benjamin Health Center to make Valentine’s Day craft activities with the seniors. In April our Upper Elementary children will serve lunch to the homeless at the Pine Street Inn. The next day, the kids delivered the sandwiches to Martha’s Table and took a tour of the facility, including the food preparation operation, daycare, playground and thrift shop. This was a great learning activity and allowed the kids to gain a better understanding of how their donations actually benefit the population that Martha’s Table serves. Martha’s Table finds solutions to poverty in the short term with food and clothing programs and in the long term by breaking the cycle of poverty with education and family strengthening programs. Martha’s Table is a community-based non-profit organization located on 14th Street, NW, Washington, DC. It is open 365 days a year. They provide meals and learning activities for about 245 children every day. On behalf of the Jack and Jill of America, Rockland Chapter we send our warm wishes and many blessing to all during this Holiday Season! Pictured above, Emeralds and Eagles/ Jade and Jaguars at Martha’s Table; pictured to the left, Jade and Jaguar’s Kendall Brooks and Emeralds and Eagle’s Wesley Bracey making sandwiches for Martha’s Table. 12 • THE EASTERN GAZETTE Montgomery County (PA) at the Giving Tree The Montgomery County (PA) Chapter donated 421 pounds of food/$350 to the Giving Tree’s Working Hands Project. The chapter made snack bags for Ronald McDonald House, Meals on Wheels and the North Penn Boys and Girls Club. For the sixth consecutive year, the Teens worked at the food pantry at the Church of the Epiphany located in East Orange, NJ. Inspired by the gift of sharing, they prepared and distributed meals to those in need. As an added incentive, they issued a chapter-wide plea for coat and clothing donations to assist the local community who are still suffering from the devastation of Hurricane Sandy. After enjoying their delicious meals, patrons of the food pantry were allowed to select a few clothing items as well as take a prepared bag of canned goods and grains. At the end of their service project, their efforts served close to 240 families. At Toni’s Kitchen in Montclair, the Sr. Teens also plated meals for those needing additional assistance. Toni’s Kitchen is a food ministry that operates at St. Luke’s Episcopal Church. Essex Hudson and the Season of Giving The months of November and December are the time the Essex Hudson chapter comes together in our community service based holiday spirit of giving projects. This year, in a collaborative effort, the Junior and Senior Teens of spent a sunny Saturday preparing and distributing meals at two of our local food pantries. This is our teens second year working with this organization. The Sr. Teens took the lead in meal preparation, serving and cleanup. The church serves daily meals and for this particular event served over 65 meals with the assistance of the senior group. John F. Kennedy stated “To those whom much is given, much is expected.” Both the junior and senior teens were able to give back to their community and reflect on their many blessings during this season of giving. Burke-Fairfax Thanksgiving Food Drive On November 17, the Burke-Fairfax Chapter’s community service committee organized a Thanksgiving food drive in support of the Lorton Community Action Center (LCAC). This was a chapter wide activity where we worked in two hour shifts as either a solicitor or sorter. It was a great growth opportunity for our children who approached potential supporters as they entered Giant’s supermarket to request that they purchase one or more food items on a list provided to them. Many of the patrons were very polite and generous. Our children were encouraged to continue to smile and thank each person for their time and/or THE EASTERN GAZETTE • 13 donation regardless of their cooperation. We then sorted the items purchased according to instructions given to us by LCAC and loaded the items on a truck provided to us. Burke-Fairfax collected 1,413 pounds of food valued at $2,541.58. Additionally the chapter provided $180 in Giant Gift cards from supporters who opted to provide monetary contributions as opposed to purchasing food items. LCAC was able to create 41 Thanksgiving food boxes for families in the community from our collections. The contents of one box will feed one family. Larger families are given two boxes. Burke-Fairfax will also collect food items at our annual holiday gathering to contribute towards LCAC’s Christmas donations. Atlantic City Rises to the Challenge The Atlantic City Chapter donated 300 pounds of food, which equates to feeding 250 individuals, to the food pantry at the Jewish Family Services of Atlantic and Cape May Counties. Congrats to the Atlantic City Chapter for quickly responding to the needs of victims of Hurricane Sandy! DID YOU KNOW? Hunger prevents kids from reaching their full potential. It’s an epidemic that’s threatening America’s future. 48.8 million Americans — including 16.2 million children — lack the means to get enough nutritious food on a regular basis. They live in foodinsecure households and as a result, they struggle with hunger at some time during the year. • 16.2 million kids in America struggle with hunger. (Source: USDA Household Food Security in the United States) • 10.5 million kids eligible for free or reduced-price school breakfast do not get it. (Source: Food Research and Action Center, School Breakfast Scorecard) • More than 20 million kids get a free or reduced-price school lunch on an average school day. (Source: Food Research and Action Center, School Breakfast Scorecard) 14 • THE EASTERN GAZETTE • Six out of 7 eligible kids do not get free summer meals. (Source: Food Research and Action Center, “Hunger Doesn’t Take a Vacation: Summer Nutrition Status Report) • In 2010, 40.3 million people in over 18.6 million households across America got help through SNAP (food stamps); about half of those households (8.9 million) were households with children. (Source: USDA Food and Nutrition Services) • 15.7 million children (21.6%) in America live in poverty. (Source: U.S. Census Bureau, Current Population Reports). notes for teen advisors Greetings to the Mighty Eastern Region! I know we are all in full swing of the holiday season, so I am just sending out this “gentle reminder” to all Chapter Presidents and Teen Advisors to please make sure your chapter has enough “Certified” chaperones to assist at the 2013 Eastern Regional Teen Conference. Please also be mindful of the following announcements, distributed earlier this month by Regional Director Joi Grady. TEEN LEADERSHIP SUMMIT, January 26-27, 2013 Our 3rd Teen Leadership Summit, “Connecting to the Leader in You,” will be held Saturday, January 26-27 at Howard University from 8:30am-4:30pm. During our time on Howard’s campus, we will have a walking tour from our Jack and Jill alumni. At 4:45pm, we will depart from Howard for a mini tour of Washington DC and then return to the Marriott Wardman Park for a community service project. Teens in grades 8-12 will participate in studies on leadership and will work to develop their own leadership style. There will also be informative workshops for parents led by Howard University Faculty and Administration. The Eastern Region has a block of rooms at the Marriott Wardman Park Hotel at a rate of $119 per night. Registration opened on December 11, 2013 for a price of $70 per person and includes breakfast at the hotel on Saturday, lunch, dinner, and roundtrip transportation from the hotel to Howard. On Sunday, we will have a worship service at the hotel. TEEN CONFERENCE, March 21-24, 2013, Boston Marriott Copley Place By now you should have received the 2013 Eastern Region Teen Conference Guide. The guide gives everything you need to know to plan for Teen Conference including registration costs and attire. This year, in addition to signing the Chaperone Code of Conduct, we are requiring that all parents sign that they have reviewed the guide. Please note the following dates (webinar information and times will be sent at a later date): • December 17, 2012— Mandatory webinar for chaperones, teen advisors, and mothers of Teens attending Teen Conference • January 3, 2013 —Mandatory webinar for chaperones, teen advisors, and mothers of Teens attending Teen Conference (reprise of 12/17) • January 7, 2013 —Teen Conference Registration Opens • January 29, 2013 —Webinar for Lead Teen Advisors • January 30, 2013 —Webinar for Lead Teen Advisors and Graduating Sr. Mothers • February 26, 2013 —Online Chaperone Certification (fee applies) Please make sure that Regional Secretary Vicki West has the correct e-mail address for the Lead Teen Advisor in your chapter so that communication is received timely. THE EASTERN GAZETTE • 15 Middle School Corner: Teaching Children to Give Greetings Mighty Eastern Region! Sharing the experience of giving can be the most rewarding present you give your child this holiday season. The article below was published on GreatSchools.org, an online portal that leverages the power of digital media to inspire and support parents to solve education-related problems, raise expectations for their children’s learning, develop education-related parenting skills, and access helpful resources online and in their community. Ingrid Bentil Middle School Advisor Eastern Region By GreatSchools Staff It can be tough to teach children the value of giving in a season when they’re surrounded by messages about the value of getting. Here are five ways to start: Start small when the kids are small. Your young child might be happy to help bake cookies for a friend but end up wanting to keep the gift herself. Plan for this by baking enough cookies to keep and enough cookies to give. Young children need help in learning to share. Teach your child that he doesn’t need money to give. Help your child make gift certificates good for “one free car wash” or “breakfast in bed” that he can give to others in the family. Involve your child in selecting the gift. You may think that donating to cancer research is important, but your child who is an animal lover may be more interested in making sure the dogs at the humane society have an extra treat at the holidays. Help her find a way to give the gift she feels is important. Be a role model. Volunteer your family’s time at a soup kitchen or senior center. Gather small-size toiletries, such as toothpaste and shampoo, and pack them in decorated gift bags to take to a homeless shelter. Ask your child if he’ll help you baby-sit for a neighbor’s toddler so she can do her shopping or help you rake the leaves for an elderly friend. Personalize giving. It’s faster for busy parents to write a check to a charity, but it has little impact on a child who can’t see where the money is going or imagine the people who benefit. Delivering canned goods to a food bank is more meaningful than dropping a check in the mail. 16 • THE EASTERN GAZETTE Your family could “adopt” a needy family through a community organization, choose the gifts and wrap them. Feeling too busy to organize an activity like this? Author Ellen Sabin has suggestions that can work for the most time-challenged parents. Sabin wrote “The Giving Book: Open the Door to a Lifetime of Giving,” an interactive workbook to help 6- to 11-year-olds discover the joy of giving and their power to make a difference. Sabin also offers free tools and guides for parents, teachers and religious educators to use with her book. Sabin suggests having a family conversation about what you’re thankful for. That will help your child realize that what she values may be missing in other people’s lives. Sabin also offers three activities to try. “These things don’t take huge amounts of time. They just take a few moments of thoughtfulness.” • Start a tradition in which family members set aside one of their gifts to give to someone less fortunate. • Think of someone without a family - a soldier, a distant relative, a friend in the hospital - and write a letter as a family to make the person feel loved and included during the holidays. • Talk about beginning the new year with a family giving box. Everyone can regularly add a small amount of money to the box to contribute to a group or cause the family agrees to support. Giving gives children a sense of self-esteem and pride, says Sabin. “Giving is addictive. It gets in your blood. It makes you realize that you and your actions matter.” Chapters Help with Hurricane Sandy Relief Efforts Hurricane Sandy caused destruction up the Eastern Seaboard from North Carolina to Maine, with much of the damage centered in New York and New Jersey. Many Jack and Jill families in the Eastern Region were affected, with damages ranging from extended power outages to loss of property. The Northern Cluster Mother’s Workday, originally scheduled for November 3 in Norwalk, CT, had to be rescheduled for December 15 because of power outages at the venue. But even as Mothers sought to recover – restoring power, rebuilding – chapters stepped in to provide assistance. Here are a few examples submitted by chapters. Bucks County: The Gift of Caring Hurricane Sandy affected many mothers in our chapter. Whether it was lack of power, damage to homes or even loss of property, we were all affected in some way shape or form; some more than others. The Bucks County Chapter chose to do our part in helping by donating canned goods, dry food items, household items, as well as items to help in the clean-up. Charity begins at home, so we give thanks for the ability to be able to support our extended Jack and Jill family. Greater Albany: Blood Drive and supplies to a chapter member’s family who lost their home and belongings. Our mothers collected hundreds of dollars for the purchase of necessary The Great Albany, NY Chapter responded to the recent devastation from hurricane Sandy by organizing a blood drive at the Red Cross of Northeast Region on November 3, 2012. The Northern Cluster that members of the chapter were scheduled to THE EASTERN GAZETTE • 17 attend in Norwalk, CT that day was cancelled, as a result of the wide spread power outages in the area. So, member Glinnesa Gailliard decided that the day originally planned for a Mother’s Workday could be turned into a great opportunity to donate much needed blood, as well as, a monetary donation to the Red Cross. Westchester: Clothing Drive The mothers and children of Westchester Chapter in Westchester County, NY, many of whom were also dealing with damage and loss of power from Hurricane Sandy, showed an immediate call to action and willingness to support others that were more seriously affected by the severe weather. The chapter held a chapter-wide clothing drive, in which mothers collected coats, pajamas, socks, hats, scarves, gloves and other essential winter items to be donated to displaced disaster victims at a Head 18 • THE EASTERN GAZETTE Start Program in the Rockaways where their school was completely flooded and over 100 families were devastated by Hurricane Sandy. The children in the Head Start Program are 3 and 4 years old. Additionally, individual groups came together to collect items for the hurricane victims as well! Group 2 (ages 6-9) collected toiletries for adult and children at their November event. Group 4 (ages 12-14) changed previous plans for their November event, and instead donated additional clothing, toiletries, small toys and snack items, and gathered together as a group to package and decorate individual gift “Boxes of Love” to lift the hearts of displaced children in the Rockaways. Two SUV loads of donated items were delivered to the program in the Rockaways. The Senior Teens also collected (and continue to) collect donations for other displaced victims. CHAPTER PROGRAMMING AROUND THE ARUNDEL BAY AREA Supporting our Military Service Members More than 50 Arundel Bay Area Chapter middle schoolers, teens, moms, dads and associates came together at the Baltimore Washington International Thurgood Marshall Airport to thank our military men and women for their service in our armed forces. Chapter families came with homemade signs and United States flags, and donated supplies (water, chips, cookies, crackers, candy) to the Operation Welcome Home Maryland (OWHMD) organization. They were most appreciative of being able to lend their voices to welcome the troops as they arrived on American soil after more than a year of service in either Iraq, Germany or Afghanistan. ABA Chapter members worked alongside Stephanie Chervenkov, the 2012 Miss Maryland Teen USA. What a wonderful way to observe Veterans Day and say “Thank you.” Also, our teens were able to complete the “Service and Sacrifice” leadership module. THE EASTERN GAZETTE • 19 BERGEN PASSAIC The Littlest Ones Enjoy their October and November Activities After an exciting Fall Festival to kick off the Program Year, our littlest ones are settling into their monthly group activities. Our Acorns (2-5) and Fledglings (6-8) enjoyed the action packed show “How to Train a Dragon”. They bonded through the screams of excitement watching the replicas of dragon storm the stage. The fun did not end there, playing with their gladiator toys and eating all the snacks they can get little hands on topped off the afternoon. The fledglings also enjoyed our very popular scavenger hunt activity. They stormed through the Bergen Mall, going store to store, looking for clues and treasures. The afternoon was topped with lunch with kids and Moms. In November, our Acorns had a mini lesson on the history of the cornucopia with a craft project. They even had a chance to make their very own cornucopias! Also in November, our Fledglings investigate d plant parts, their uses, and simple machines by using an oldfashioned screw press to make and sample fresh apple cider. They also learned about the history of cider making from colonial times to the present. BOSTON From Uptown to Downtown: Boston’s Early Teens Experience New York City On November 17, the Early Teens of the Boston Chapter of Jack and Jill strengthened their bonds of friendship as they experienced the cultural flare of New York City. After traveling by Amtrak and the NYC Metro system, our young people broke bread in hearty fashion over lunch at Sylvia’s Restaurant in Harlem. After, they walked up Malcolm X Boulevard to the Schomburg Center for Research in Black Culture, an extension of the New York Public Library, to view the Gordon Parks: 100 Moments exhibit, and Visualizing Emancipation, an exhibit celebrating the sesquicentennial of the Emancipation Proclamation, which was signed on January 1, 1863. Several Early Teens expressed their appreciation for the chance to learn more about our nation’s history from the African American perspective. Upon viewing Gordon Parks’ iconic photos depicting African American life during the 50s and 60s, one Early Teen commented, “Wow, there were so many people who helped us have better opportunities today.” Later in the day, the Early Teens (and their moms!) were able to unwind and do a little holiday shopping amid the spectacular lights, buildings and crowds on Broadway in the middle of Times Square. For many, it was their first trip to the “Big Apple.” Given all of the laughter and excited chatter about the day’s adventure as we returned to Boston, it certainly will not be their last. 20 • THE EASTERN GAZETTE BROOKLYN Building Quilts, and Making Strides Against Breast Cancer In November, Brooklyn Chapter children in the 5-7 Age Group went to the Children’s Museum of Art, where they designed quilt blocks that were later sewn and donated to those affected by Sandy. Building upon their efforts during Breast Cancer Awareness Month (whereby they donated 75 beauty bags to patients being treated for breast cancer at Kings County Hospital and SHARE centers), the chapter participated in the “Making Strides Against Breast Cancer Walk” at Prospect Park, raising $3,345 for the American Cancer Society. BUCKS COUNTY The Bucks County Chapter Making a Difference: The Gift of Literacy On November 19, the Bucks County Chapter of Jack and Jill delivered 275 books, donated by our children and mothers, to Timothy Academy located in North Philadelphia. Timothy Academy is an oasis to their students in the midst of a troubled environment, and provides a safe and caring environment, where students learn, grow, and achieve. The books were donated to the school, which serves children kindergarten through eight grades, to help build and enhance their library and classroom reading centers. Each of their 110 students personally received one book to help build their reading library at home. Ms. Freeman, the principal, and the children were very excited and happy to have received the books and appreci- ated the generosity of our mothers. Children are our future, and one of the greatest gifts that we can give to them is the gift of literacy. The Bucks County Chapter was proud and honored to make such an important contribution. THE EASTERN GAZETTE • 21 BURLINGTON-WILLINGBORO Creating Keepsakes to Mark the Election The Brothers & Sisters group participated in an election Scraping activity. They created memorable books which highlighted important facts about both candidates. In October, The Burlington-Willingboro Chapter moms volunteered for the Fresh Start Program, designed to educate and mentor middle school children who matriculate in the Willingboro School System. The Burlington-Willingboro Chapter was responsible for the program’s career exploration program. Several moms discussed their careers and what it took for them to climb the ladder to success. The moms presented to approximately 20 7th graders on careers in product marketing, software engineering, journalism and law. COLUMBIA The Gift of Giving: Stocked with Love On December 8, the Columbia, Maryland Chapter of Jack and Jill of America, Inc., continued its annual “Gift of Giving.” For the sixth year in a row, members of the Community Service Committee and age groups planned and organized “Corduroy’s Closet.” “Corduroy’s Closet” was inspired by the children’s book, Corduroy, written by Don Freeman and first published in 1976. In the story, Corduroy, the department 22 • THE EASTERN GAZETTE store stuffed bear, is used, worn and missing a button but is the perfect friend for Lisa, the little girl who is shopping that day with her mother. The event was a free wonderland holiday shopping experience at Swansfield Elementary School for children ages pre-school to grade 6. It gave parents and caregivers with limited income can fulfill their children’s Christmas dreams. The event provides the Senior Teens with an exceptional leadership experience. In addition, the other age groups provided gifts under our “Giving Tree” during our Annual Holiday Christmas Event on December 4. We decided to forego having Santa in order to share with our children the true meaning of Christmas, which is giving to others that are less fortunate than ourselves. There was a light breakfast and bag lunches for the children attending the event. GREATER ESSEX Chapter-wide Mock Debate and Election On October 21, the Legislative Committee sponsored Greater Essex County Chapter’s first mock debate and election at the Montclair Legislative Chamber. Children from grades 3-12 participated in the event. Debate topics included The Economy, Foreign Policy and Social Moral Issues. The participants broke into small groups for break-out and brainstorming sessions. Next teams were formed, moderators were selected and timekeepers were appointed. During the debate sessions participants presented their points and defended their issues. The event was capped off with a mock presidential election. On November 17, the chapter’s 5th and 6th graders spent the afternoon at St. Paul’s Baptist Church helping their coordinator to prepare for the arrival of four IHN families. The activity started with a discussion about homelessness. The kids were reminded that homelessness can happen to anyone. They watched a video which discussed how IHN assists the families during the time of need and works to transition the families back into a home of their own. The reminder of the time was spent decorating the IHN’s families living space at the church. The kids fill their rooms with Thanksgiving decor. This activity, right before Thanksgiving and right after Hurricane Sandy, was a perfect time for the kids to be reflective and thankful for their blessings. GREATER UNION Chapter Hosts Rock the Vote Registration Driver Moms, Dads, Jacks, and Jills from Greater Union County Chapter did not hesitate to spend some of their time empowering our Union county neighbors (and beyond) about the importance of voting. On October 6th, the chapter hosted a Rock the Vote registration drive at Shoprite in Hillside, NJ. The chapter-wide event took place from 9am-4pm and the initiative was simple: register and educate new voters. In addition to handing out voter forms and answering questions, the committee also rented a voting machine to conduct mock voting scenarios (some attendees had never seen a voting booth!). The components of thrust and leadership were completed during this activity. Groups 4 and the Teens partnered with the legislative committee for the event and they represented the chapter well. The Teens exemplified leadership roles by educating the public on the voting process. Groups 1 and 2 helped distribute our pamphlets while the GUCC dads encouraged onlookers to visit the tables. It was a family affair indeed! As a result of our efforts, we registered 26 new voters, distributed more than 20 vote-by-mail forms, and raised awareness about GUCC with the many elected officials who were in attendance. THE EASTERN GAZETTE • 23 LOUDON COUNTY The Etiquette of Politics & The Politics of Etiquette November was a very busy time for Loudoun County Virginia Chapter (LCVC) moms, Tracy Johnson and Gail Whitted as they hosted a visit to the Obama Campaign office for children in “Sugar and Spice” (ages 6-8). The kids had a great time as they watched the busy campaign volunteers and learned more about the value and impact of everyday citizens on the election process. They were treated to patriotic games and treats that educated and added to the excitement of the 2012 Presidential Election. Loudoun County Virginia Chapter (LCVC) “Umoja Unlimited” (ages 9-12) children prepared for upcoming Family Celebrations, Holiday Parties and Inauguration Balls with an “Etiquette Workshop” hosted by LCVC Mothers, Renee Miller, Tracy Johnson, Gayle Rocha and Lisa Amazigo. The children had dinner at Travinia Italian Kitchen where the focused on good table manners, how to set a formal dinner table, and the top 20 No-No’s of good etiquette. The children were sent home with the homework assignment to set a formal place setting and send a photo of their work to the Mrs. Amazigo. The children enjoyed the workshop, the meal and the opportunity to spend time with their peers. MERCER COUNTY Handbags, Hats and Hope On November 18, the Mercer County Chapter hosted their second bi-annual Handbags, Hats, and Hope fundraiser. The event, co-chaired by Nicole Bailey-Williams and Michelle Armour, was held at Princeton’s lovely TPC Jasna Polana Country Club. The handbag bingo fundraiser will benefit Trenton’s Young Scholars’ Institute (www.youngscholarsoftrenton.org), a community learning center that provides a variety of educational opportunities including SAT prep, college tours, and tutoring. While perusing the twentythree silent auction and five raffle baskets, guests enjoyed the light, classical sounds of the chapter’s pianist-in-residence, Mom Renee LaMarre-Sumners. With thirteen luxury handbags donated by chapter members, guests played 10 rounds of bingo after a sumptuous lunch against the backdrop of a live harpist. In addition, those in attendance had the opportunity to purchase Hope bags, which contained surprise gifts including aromatic perfume sets donated by L’Oreal. Members and guests were encouraged to bring new/gently used children’s 24 • THE EASTERN GAZETTE books, which were donated to Young Scholars’ and Woman Space, a women’s help center. In total, close to 700 books were put into the hands of Trenton-area children. Chapter President, Paula Taylor, was quite pleased with the outcome, saying, “The event was a huge undertaking for our chapter, but when extraordinary women get together there is no limit to what we can accomplish.” The event was, by all accounts, a lovely afternoon. Co-chair Michelle Armour said, “The moms of Mercer County are a fabulously talented group of w o m e n who worked together tirelessly to make this fundraiser a success, I am so proud of my chapter!” METROPOLITAN Metropolitan Chapter does the Little Red Lighthouse On a sunny Saturday afternoon in October, Metropolitan Chapter’s Group 2 descended upon the Little Red Lighthouse. Conveniently located under the George Washington Bridge, it is one of the few surviving lighthouses in New York City. The Lighthouse was made famous in the 1942 children’s book The Little Red Lighthouse and the Great Gray Bridge and has New York City Landmark status. On a sunny and crisp afternoon Group 2 kids set out to explore this quaint reminder of the areas history. Led by a park ranger, the group climbed the long iron stairs to the top of the lighthouse where all enjoyed scenic views of the Hudson. The kids asked a park ranger questions about the lighthouse and how it was used. After the tour, Katrina Parris Pinn read the classic tale The Little Red Lighthouse and the Great Bay Bridge to the children. The afternoon culminated in a snack, play and rock climbing along the beautiful, grassy bank of the Hudson River. MONTGOMERY COUNTY (MD) Chapter Co-hosts Political Forum, Kids Work the Polls The Montgomery County Maryland Chapter was very active during this election season. The chapter co-sponsored, with 13 other organizations, “A Candidate’s Forum for the 2012 Election” on October 11 at The People’s Community Baptist Church Norwood Center. The event featured candidates from Montgomery County 3rd, 6th and 8th Congressional Districts and the Board of Educations, including JJMCMC’s Fathers Auxiliary member, Christopher Barclay (husband of Sambia Shivers Barclay) a candidate for re-election to the Montgomery County Public Schools Board of Education who successfully retained his seat on November 6th. Other election activities included the JJMCMC Mothers providing rides to the polls, the Teens distributing “Don’t Forget to Vote” flyers, and members of Group V and VI working at the polls as volunteers through the “Future Vote” program. In December, Theta Omega Omega Chapter of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. recognized the Montgomery County Maryland Chapter for its outstanding programming for middle school students. Theta Omega Omega has partnered with JJMCMC over the past two years to sponsor financial literacy, leadership, and legislative workshops for their Emerging Young Leaders program. The Emerging Young Leaders Program was established by the National President of Alpha Kappa Alpha, Caroline House Stewart, Esq. to provide opportunities for middle school girls. THE EASTERN GAZETTE • 25 NASSAU COUNTY Lead and Serve: Give Shoes, Give Love On November 17, the 5-7 and 8-10 age groups of the Nassau County Chapter of Jack & Jill joined forces to take part in a service and leadership activity to collect over 500 shoes for Sole4Souls.com, a 501(c) 3 organization that collects shoes from the warehouses of footwear companies and the closets of people like you. They collect new shoes to give relief to the victims of abject suffering and collect used shoes to support micro-business efforts to eradicate poverty. Since 2005, Soles4Souls has delivered over 19 million pairs of new and gently worn shoes. The shoes have been distributed to people all over the world. To maximum the collection efforts, the children mailed out flyers and rubber bands to all of the mothers in the chapter to request used shoes. They also submitted letters to family and friends to request donations, arrange pick-ups and collected shoes at the November mother’s meeting. Finally, the children met at the Little Gym in Levittown, New York for the final collection and drop off. They discussed what it means to be a leader and took action. They formed an assembly line to collect the shoes and packaged them for transport by the Little Gym. In the aftermath of Hurricane Sandy, thousands have been left homeless and suffered great loss. The children are confident that Sole4Souls will distribute the shoes to the many people affected by this storm. NEW CASTLE Producers Enjoy Halloween Musical Event The historic World Cafe Live at the Queen was the location for the Producer’s Halloween musical event. The Peanut Butter and Jams concert series featured the kid-friendly sounds of Ben Rudnick and Friends. The Producers dressed in their wonderful costumes and 26 • THE EASTERN GAZETTE danced the afternoon, away. The Producers enjoyed a light lunch and learned about historic importance of the Queen. The children laughed and talked giving the mothers a chance to re-connect. The event was well attended. NORTHERN VIRGINIA Teens Host Halloween Fun Event for Younger Kids The Northern Virginia Chapter Teens hosted a Halloween Fun event for the youngest age groups, the Tiny Tots (2 - 4 year olds) and Triple Js (K - 2nd grade) for the second year in a row, in what the chapter hopes to be a signature autumnal tradition! This year the group met at the historic Alfred Street Baptist Church in Alexandria, Virginia. Dressed in garb from the heroic and scary to the whimsical and colorful, the younger Jacks and Jills were treated to face painting, games, sweet treats and yes, mini manicures! The chapter mothers look forward to events where the younger age groups can interact with the older teens and were not disappointed. As Hurricane Sandy was making its way to the East Coast, the Halloween Fun went on to everyone’s satisfaction and despite the wind and rain the smiles were aplenty. NORTH JERSEY The Power of, and the Path to, the Presidency In this historic election year, the North Jersey chapter developed and executed an interactive legislative program. With modules specifically tailored for every age group, our chapter-wide program educated our children on the power of and the path to the Presidency. We had fun learning about everything from the symbols and beliefs of major parties to the biographies of major candidates, the requirements to the Presidency and the qualities important for the role. We broke into 2 major parties, selected party nominees, discussed key issues affecting our country and used those key issues to create campaign platforms, posters, and rousing campaign speeches. We demystified the electoral college by having a real life North Jersey elector, North Jersey’s own Tanya Freeman meet with our group. She shared the critical role and responsibilities of an elector and the importance of New Jersey’s 14 electoral college votes. The facts about the legislative process were revealed in a jeopardy style competition. Our legislative activity culminated with a trip to a mock poll to cast our vote for our candidates and an acceptance speech from our Presidential winner. This powerful inaugural activity was created by our own Legislative Chair, Andrea Fant-Hobbs and the Legislative Committee, Marian Grant, Margaret Cunningham, Karen Mosley-Davidson and Flora Taylor. THE EASTERN GAZETTE • 27 PHILADELPHIA Nestlings Focus on Financial Literacy On October 20, the Nestlings had their second activity for the program year focused on Financial Literacy. Hosted by Loren Hamilton and her son Sebastian, a Nestling the program focused on teaching our children the value of money though mini-stores set up throughout the room and using play money for purchases. The second store was Sebastian’s toy and book store. Utilizing the same principles and a different cashier the children choose various items that were within their budget, counted out the money and received change or realized that they did not have enough to purchase their ideal item and would choose an alternative item. The first store was Sebastian’s Bakery and one child was a cashier and all of the children were given play money and allowed to “purchase” an item from the store. The goal was to teach them the value of the dollar, understand counting principles and how much they could afford to purchase with their allotted amount. The children loved this activity due to the interactive nature, variety of items for “sale” and playing “cashier”. In the end they walked away with an item from each store, a better understanding of pricing, budget and teamwork as they all helped each other choose items and count money. PRINCE GEORGE’S COUNTY Chapter Host Game Day at Villa Rosa Nursing Home On November 17, more than 75 mothers and children from the Prince George’s County Chapter Jack and Jill, hosted Game Day at the Villa Rosa Nursing Home in Mitchellville, Md. Our goal was to create a fun, interactive event for the primarily elderly residents of the facility. On the day of the event the nursing home auditorium was transformed into a party room complete with vibrant fall decorations. We played bingo which is a favorite of the residents; other card and table games were available. Jack and Jill volunteers provided “spa” services including manicures, hair braiding, and barbering. To prepare the residents for the upcoming holiday season, one of our moms led an activity to help residents create their own greeting cards. The chapter also supported a Villa Rosa Christmas auction by donating 28 • THE EASTERN GAZETTE gifts. In order to reach as many Villa Rosa residents as possible, teams of moms and children read to or shared words of inspiration with residents who were room-bound. Groups of children and Moms walked the halls singing from a song book compiled by one of our members. Villa Rosa residents and Jack and Jill volunteers alike enjoyed musical performances by our own children and a professional saxophonist. All age groups participated in the event, from the kindergarten through 2 year olds who made tissue flowers for the residents, to the Senior Teens who adopted Game Day as a service project. The feedback from Villa Rosa about the event has been overwhelmingly positive and without exception our chapter members feel overwhelmingly fortunate to have been able to give our time and services. RESTON Staying on the Right Side of the Bench! On October 13th, Reston Chapter 7th-8th graders participated in a mock trial at the Alexandria, Virginia Courthouse thanks to Lt. Kapetanis with the Alexandria Sheriff’s Office. Jack & Jill Jr. Teens toured the courtrooms and lock up (jail). The fact pattern involved various drug-related charges stemming from a student who allowed another to keep his backpack in his locker. It was an eye opening, enlightening and riveting experience for all! Harvest Fun at the Corn Maze & Sleepover with the Sharks Have you ever shot pumpkins or corn cobs from a cannon? Reston Chapter’s 3rd and 4th graders did that and more as they enjoyed a fun filled sunny afternoon at Temple Hall Farm’s Corn Maize in Leesburg, Virginia. Jack & Jillers were “lost” wandering in the maze and followed clues to exit the 24 acre maze on this beautiful autumn day. Did you know that a shark loses at least one or two teeth per meal? Luckily for them, they grow back quickly. Our 3rd and 4th graders learned all types of fun filled facts about sharks and other sea creatures as they participated in the Sleepover with the Sharks Immersion Program at the National Aquarium in Baltimore, Maryland. The Reston Chapter Jack & Jillers enjoyed a behind the scenes tour of the aquarium and ended their overnight visit with a winning game of shark Jeopardy. Autumn in the Reston, Virginia Chapter! Local history came to life as Volunteer “Conductors” led 25 members of the Reston Chapter on a hike through a section of the historic Underground Railroad in Sandy Springs, Maryland. The group of 5th and 6th graders impressed the guides with their knowledge and their questions about the experiences of people fleeing to freedom and the people who helped them. The visit was a powerful reminder of the risks taken by thousands of enslaved people determined to be free. ROCHESTER Twixt Tweens, Young Teens Create a Family Tree In order to be leaders of tomorrow, we need to know our leaders of yesterday. The twixt teens and young teens, as well as the Moms, did an activity in which they created a family tree. We started out by discussing family trees and printed out a census record for each child. After scouring through the census records, and discuss- ing family facts with their mom, they transferred what they found onto their family tree and presented it to their peers. It was exciting to see children learning about their heritage and hearing parents tell stories of the past. Many parents expressed their delight at the activity and wished to continue digging up their history at home. THE EASTERN GAZETTE • 29 SOUTHERN MARYLAND Chapter Hosts Rock the Vote Event to Honor Carole Robertson The Southern Maryland Chapter of Jack and Jill of America, Incorporated celebrated “Jack and Jill Day” and honored the memory of Carole Robertson by joining together for a Rock the Vote event. All age groups participated in exciting activities to promote leadership in the community and civic responsibility. As part of the day’s events the teen group shared a presentation remembering and paying tribute to the life of Carole Robertson. This activity gave our chapter a wonderful opportunity to enlighten our friends and neighbors about the significance of Jack and Jill Day and promote the memory of Carole Robertson. Our goal for this event was to engage the children in the legislative process and promote the importance of a citizen’s right to vote. The Southern Maryland Chapter’s children had an opportunity to participate in a mock presidential election and design crafts to support their candidate. This was a joint activity with surrounding Jack and Jill chapters and allowed all the children the chance to understand the importance of voting in every community. In addition to the tribute to Carole Robertson, our most talented teens showed that they could really “Rock the Vote”! The Teens held a wonderful Rock the Vote party that included Teens from other local Jack and Jill Chapters and like-minded area teens. The event showcased the Teens ability to not only demonstrate their commitment to sharing the importance of registering and voting but of celebrating those accomplishments in a safe and fun environment. In addition to raising awareness about the important issues and need to participate in this, and each election, the Teens raised $531!! Great Job! SUFFOLK COUNTY Directing Attention to Those in Need As the holiday season is upon us, we find ourselves reflecting on the past year and the blessings of our Jack and Jill families. In the wake of Hurricane Sandy, we gratefully pause in thanks for a family of Mothers who pulled together with an outpouring of compassion to help one another weather this devastating storm. The impact of the storm reminded us to be grateful, not only for the daily comforts we often take for granted, but the fact that we have blessings to spare! As many in our community continue to struggle, we have directed our attention to assist those in need. A chapter wide turkey drive was executed by our teens and plans are underway to support our communities for the holidays 30 • THE EASTERN GAZETTE with toys, clothing and food. In October, we had the privilege of hosting the Metropolitan Cluster, and what a wonderful Cluster it was! The 49 Mothers of the Suffolk County Chapter were delighted to welcome over 400 cluster attendees and kick off the Eastern Region’s Cluster cycle. We were proud to celebrate our two Regional Officers, Lisa Evans Chapman, Regional Policy & Procedures Chair and Taylor Hamilton, Regional Teen Foundation chair as well as first place winners in the Oratorical Contest, sisters, Brittany Morris, Division I; Autumn Morris, Division II; and all the participants in the Oratorical Contest! The success of the Cluster was due in no small part to the dedication of our Cluster Chairs Lisa Evans Chapman, Melodie Laidlow, Denise Lowe, Mireille Lubin, Carmelia Taylor, and our chapter Mothers, but also to smiling faces of the Cluster attendees who warmed our hearts. We left the cluster, inspired and excited, looking forward to our 50th Program year! In closing, we wish you all the joys and blessings of Christmas and a New Year filled with health, peace and happiness. SYRACUSE Chapter Hosts Annual Mother’s Tea On a lovely Sunday afternoon on October 14, the Syracuse, N.Y. chapter of Jack and Jill participated in its annual Mother’s Tea. We were honored to be blessed with the presence of our National Vice President Tammy King who was in attendance. The day was filled with wonderful fellowship as our prospective Mothers had a chance to experience a small taste of what our dynamic organization is all about. One of our chapter founders, Dr. Ethel S. Robinson shared memories of her desire and passion to provide not only her child, but other children the exposure to enriching activities that would forever impact their lives. We also heard from Mothers whose children have graduated out about what Jack and Jill meant to their family and heard a letter of appreciation from a former Teen. Current Mothers shared some of their experiences and Prospective Mother’s reflected on their interest and what they hoped Jack and Jill could do to improve the quality of life for their children. The room was filled with warmth and the joyful sounds of talking and laughing as we enjoyed one another’s company. At the end of the day, we realized that we all share the same goal; to provide the best quality of life we possibly can for our children. As we press on full speed ahead with all we do as Mothers for our children, it was nice to sit back, relax and revel in one another’s company. WASHINGTON, D.C. Jill’s Chill: Mothers Unwind, Reconnect at Wine Tasting Event The Washington, D.C., chapter’s activities during the month of October mirrored the warmth and vibrancy that are typical of autumn days. The first “Jill’s Chill” of the year, organized by our Networking Committee, was a festive wine-tasting event hosted by Bernardine Evans on October 19. Her home provided the perfect setting for the 35 moms in attendance to eat, drink and be merry. Later in the evening, special guest/wine consultant Shari Sheffield opened three reds and three whites and demonstrated the basics of appreciating wine -- including swirling and sniffing, decanting, and storing. She also described how to pick a favorite. On October 21, Malaika JonesKebede graciously welcomed 51 current members, 22 prospective members and 2 legacies into her beautiful home for the Prospective New Member Tea. Mothers visited over a sumptuous spread. During the presentation that followed, the executive committee and committee chairs discussed organizational goals and highlighted chapter activities. Because induction this year is limited to Groups 1 and 2, the presenters offered a broad perspective, encouraging mothers to think about the Jack and Jill experience over the next 10-plus years. Seventy participants from the D.C. Chapter attended the Eastern Region Southern Cluster on October 27. A total of 59 mothers, 9 high school students, and 2 middle school students attended meetings and workshops that provided valuable information on our roles as parents and members of Jack and Jill. THE EASTERN GAZETTE • 31 TEEN HANG SUITE 32 • THE EASTERN GAZETTE ARUNDEL BAY Answering the Call to Service The teens of the Arundel Bay Area Chapter heard and answered the National Executive Board’s call to service. The teens partnered with the Lighthouse Shelter in Annapolis, Md. The Shelter provides food and housing to the homeless. Meeting at the home of two Chapter teens, the teens packed 100 lunches. Before they started, each teen read a quote about service and then reflected on what it meant to them. One of the quotes was from George Washington Carver. Mr. Carver said “No individual has any right to come into the world and go out of it without leaving behind him distinct and legitimate reasons for having passed through it.” It was good for the teens to reflect on this during the Thanksgiving season. Many of the teens gave thanks for what they had and committed to helping those who were less fortunate. The teens agreed as a group that giving through community service was very important. In an effort to be healthy, they packed each lunch bag with a sandwich, bottled water, fruit, cereal bars and applesauce. Afterwards, a retired Police Officer spoke to the teens about the proper way to conduct one’s self if stopped by the police. The activity was titled “Lunch and Learn” because the teens prepared lunch and then learned how to handle themselves if stopped by the police. Once done, the teens ate dinner and used the opportunity to bond. A great time was had by all. Everyone left feeling good about themselves and motivated to serve others. BERGEN PASSAIC Ready Set, Go! Bergen Passaic kicks off its Healthy Living and Literacy Project with The Paterson Boys and Girls Club In October and November the Junior and Senior Teens were an important part of making this program successful by participating in the planning of the activities. The teens and the Club children have enjoyed the experience and are looking forward to the activities throughout this Program Year. Each month we had approximately 80 3rd and 4th graders. October was the kick-off event and the Teens planned Ice Breakers, Line Dancing Lessons and Rely Races. The teens supervised a competitive game of obstacle course and relay racing. Afterwards, the Club kids completed a Reading exercise led by a Jack and Jill Mom and Educator, Lisa Brown. They were also provided book marks to track their reading. We capped off the afternoon with line dancing and a healthy snack. The teens led a lesson on the importance of eating healthy. Mothers also learned a few new dances! The fun was so contagious the K-2 got in on the action! November was all about literacy. The Junior Teens read a book about President Barack Obama and led a question and answer session, in our soon to be dedicated Jack and Jill Reading Room. Ms. Brown then led a Literacy Mini-lesson on reading just right books The 5 Finger Rule. Thereafter, students shared their favorite books, drew a picture of it and shared the experience in a small circle. THE EASTERN GAZETTE • 33 BROOKLYN Teens Help with Sandy Recover Efforts Brooklyn Chapter Teens participated in recovery efforts as volunteers who handing out food, water and other supplies to Coney Island residents recovering from the storm. Mercedes Mackie, President of the Jr. Teen President group, reflected on the experience in the essay below. “On Sunday November 4, I traveled to Coney Island 25 street and Surf Ave in Brooklyn NY. Several Jack and Jill Moms and Kids were there also. One of our Dads was a lead organizer. We didn’t know what to expect when we got there. It was cold outside; I could only imagine how the people living there at night felt. I was happy to see so many volunteers. It was sad to see a line almost a block long of families waiting for food, water and other supplies. I handed out food and water until the line disappeared. Walking to the car and driving through the area you could see the devastation of “Sandy”. My best memory of Coney Island was when my Dad and I would get Nathans hot dogs and ride the Cyclone rollercoaster. The Cyclone roller-coaster was still there, I hope they will re build Coney Island, especially Nathan’s. I hope people will be able to get back to their normal lives soon, but I think it is going to take a while. I am glad I could help.” COLUMBIA Lunches for the Grassroots Crisis Intervention Center The Jack and Jill Columbia, Maryland Chapter’s commitment to developing compassionate leaders of tomorrow was in evidence on November 17, as our Senior Teens gathered at River Hill High School for a full day of community service. With 44 pounds of food donations gathered by the age groups, our teens spent the morning packing nutritious lunches for guests of Grassroots Crisis Intervention Center, a local homeless shelter and crisis intervention facility. They then transported the lunches for 34 • THE EASTERN GAZETTE over 50 people to the center. The teens served and interacted with family residents walking around to shake hands and have light conversation. In addition, the teens planned activities and provided reading sources for the children. Notes of positive thoughts were created by the teens which were attached inside all the reading materials. One of the teens who participated said, “It was truly a life changing experience. To see so many people who live only a few blocks from us; who look like us, yet they can’t support their families and don’t know where their next meal or paycheck is going to come from. That just goes to show, no matter where you live or travel there are always going to be people less fortunate than ourselves. However, that’s where we come in to play. If more people kept volunteering to donate on a daily or weekly basis, maybe we could start to eliminate hunger.” ESSEX HUDSON Essex Hudson Teens Visit Columbia University The Essex Hudson Teens kicked off their programming year with their Teen Retreat. Invited speakers were Officer Alonzo Brandon of UMDNJ who presented on “How to Respond when Approached by An Officer of the Law or Authoritative Figure” and Mr. Steven Wilder, Market Manager VP of PNC Bank on “How to Manage Your Money and Start a Savings Plan”. Teens are focusing on their meetings, modules, and community service. In October, the Teens attended a college preparedness tour of Columbia University in Manhattan, NY. Organized by teen members Chancellor King and Micah Smith, they contacted chapter resources and scheduled a campus tour, financial aid workshop and information session. Essex Hudson boasts 9 seniors, its largest group of graduating teens in the chapter’s six year history. Led by a dynamic team of Teen Advisors, Tammy Williams, Janet Smith, Sheryl Stoessel Suarez, Linda Gadsby and Paige Graves our teens are looking forward to hosting their 1st chapter Fundraiser in the Spring. The teens will host a “3 on 3” Basketball Tournament and support our designated charities, NJ Seeds, the American Red Cross and the Jack and Jill Foundation. We look forward to your participation and attendance. GREATER ALBANY I’m Just a Bill ... The time period to receive an unrestricted license has been extended and you are restricted from participation in extra curricular activities. These are two of the New York State bills that were discussed by the teens of The Greater Albany Chapter of Jack and Jill of America on November 11 at the Bethlehem Public Library. The host teens, Bethany Caldwell and George Stain engaged 12 teens in activities to learn more about the impact of legislation on youth in New York State. After a short presentation by George on tips for public speaking, Bethany provided an overview on how Bills become Laws in New York State and the role of Lobbyists in this process. The public speaking tips were practiced as the teen became lobbyists (pro and con) for the afternoon for two bills; a bill that proposed changing the young driver permit law and a bill that barred some groups of High School students from participating in extra curricular activities. The team of three lobbyists deliberated and after much discussion, position papers were developed. Each lobby group presented their positions to their peers as well as ‘the ‘legislature’ (3 parents). After careful consideration the ‘legislature’ recommended that both bills be sent back to committee. The group was so concerned about one of the bills that they are contemplating writing their legislators to share their perspective. Many valued the exercise because they understand they will be in the position to vote during the next mid-tem elections. THE EASTERN GAZETTE • 35 GREATER ESSEX COUNTY Coat Drive Supports Jersey Cares Drew Kucy (3rd from left), the site coordinator for the statewide 17th Annual Jersey Cares Coat Drive, receives coats from members of the teen group of the Greater Essex County Chapter of Jack and Jill of America, Inc. The teens collected more than 50 coats as part of a recent community service initiative to support Jersey Cares, which will distribute the winter coats to men, women, children and infants in need. Pictured (l to r) are Teddi Mattox, Brittany Cooper, Mr. Kucy, Julian LaVergne, Courtney Stith, and Erica Ellison. The local Jersey Cares site, Unity of Montclair, 84 Orange Road, will be collecting new and gently used coats now until December 15. For more information visit www.jerseycares. org or contact the Montclair site at 973-746-0259. GREATER UNION Greater Union Trendsetters: Awesome October! Listen Up! It’s time for a math lesson, or possibly even a life lesson. Let’s start with a simple equation. Add Greater Union Teens, a Yale tour, a Slam Poetry contest, an after party and a fantastic road trip together and what do you get? If you haven’t figured it out yet, the results equal a great time for the teens on their Connecticut road trip. On the cool, fall morning of October 13th, the teens gathered in the Watchung, NJ Sears parking lot @ 6:00 a.m. and began their 2 hr. trek up to Connecticut. The first stop on the trip was Yale, where we were treated to a tour of the prestigious university. Our tour guides were three Yale students who provided us with a great tour, from an African American perspective. At Yale we were joined by several teens and their Moms from the New Haven chapter. Our tour began and ended at the renowned Afro-American Cultural Center, where we spent time learning about the African American influences on Yale’s history and participating in a Q&A session pertaining to Yale’s admissions process, educational opportunities, etc. After the tour, we walked around the area and visited the Yale bookstore, where we had an 36 • THE EASTERN GAZETTE opportunity to purchase lots of Yale gear. Afterwards, we enjoyed a scrumptious lunch of chicken wings, pizza and fries at the notable Wallingford, Connecticut restaurant, Archie Moore’s. After lunch, the teens went on a brief tour of Choate Rosemary Hall, led by Ryan Shepard, a Choate 11th grader. After the Choate tour, the teens had some downtime at the hotel, in order to rest up for the night’s events. Later that evening, the teens experienced Choate Rosemary Hall’s first ever interschool Slam Poetry contest, hosted by Ryan. Following the Slam Poetry contest, our teens then joined students from Prep Schools across the New England area, as well as teens from the New Haven chapter, for an exciting, jampacked dance. On Sunday morning we enjoyed breakfast together and had a teen meeting before heading back to New Jersey. In short, it was a fun-filled weekend, inclusive of education, cultural, recreational & social activities. Many thanks to our Teen Advisors, Ms. Jacqueline Miller-Shepard & Ms. Raquel Horn & teen mom, Ms. Hairston for a weekend of fun memories! METROPOLITAN Metropolitan Chapter Junior Teens Explore Debate As another historic presidential election approached, our Junior Teens were awash in politics. In an effort to provide Group 4 kids with a concrete experience with debate technique and an appreciation of its place as a means of communicating a candidate’s political view, the group gathered to learn why presidential debates are sometimes so influential. On October 28th, 18 members of Group 4 gathered for mock presidential debate. The afternoon started with a discussion on debate strategy and how to be successful. After watching a clip from the second presidential debate between President Obama and GOP candidate Mitt Romney, the kids had an opportunity to comment on the performance of both candidates. The kids were then divided into four groups and were given a topic to debate. The kids were responsible for preparing ideas and remarks that reflected the pro and con position for the questions they were to address in the larger group. After an animated exchange, a panel of three parent judges gave feedback to the subgroups based on presentation, content and teamwork. The activity culminated with a discussion and debate that addressed the characteristics of each of the candidates, and which man had what it would take to be the next president. The Junior Teen group worked well together and found learning to listen, as well as speak, was bonding for them. MONTGOMERY COUNTY (MD) Senior Teens Host Annual “Black Family Day” Thanksgiving Dinner On November 4, the Norbeck Country Club played host to the Senior Teen group, led by Senior Teen President, Angelique Perkins and her co-host, Jordan Perry as they presented a Thanksgiving/Black Family Day performance to commemorate “JJMCMC Celebrating our Family Legacy,” from the year 2000 to present-day that brought the crowd to its feet, singing, dancing and swaying to the melodic sounds of some of their favorite artists from the period but not before tissues were passed around as they were taken back to many tragic events that also plagued our National and local communities. fallen artists of the period in their rendition of the Soul Train show with performances by Jordan Dove, Robbie, Lee, Lauren Ruffin, Kayla Mims, Elana Harris, Taylor Reeves, and Kiev Gambrell. However, nothing could rival the famed Soul Train line and dancers as the crowd joined them to the sounds of Chuck Brown’s showstopper “Bustin Loose”. Closing out the show, all JJMCMC children dedicated their rendition of the duet between Whitney Houston and Jordin Sparks as they sang “Celebrate” to honor the fifty golden years of the Chapter! Act One began with a moment of silence in tribute to the most significant event to affect their generation; the slaying of Trayvon Martin. Act Two opened the highs and lows of the period with a video and lyrical dance dedication to the fallen heroes of terrorist attacks, racism, and natural disasters and the celebration of the 2008 election of the first African American President, Barack Obama. Angelique also serenaded the efforts of our Chapter past and present presidents with the Alicia Keyes solo “Super Woman”. Act Three brought the house down as the teen group put on holographic performances with THE EASTERN GAZETTE • 37 NASSAU COUNTY Junior and Senior Teens Join Forces with FEMA to Assist with Sandy Relief Efforts The devastation from Hurricane Sandy was far reaching and greater than anyone of us could have ever imagined. There are so many families on Long Island, including many from our Nassau County Chapter who continue to suffer from a myriad of storm-related challenges. Everything about scheduling the teen November activity was unconventional. Thanks to the commitment of our chapter members and our continued willingness to help those less fortunate, even when we are in need ourselves, on Saturday, November 17 and 18 teens from the Nassau County Chapter volunteered to work with FEMA at the Freeport Recreation Center in Freeport, New York. The FEMA workers appreciated having our teens join their relief efforts. Our teens greeted the community, handed out important storm-related informa- tion, unpacked boxes, gave out water, toys and help served food. Our teens enjoyed participating in a service activity in which they could see they were making a big difference. Moreover, they found that they could directly relate too many of the people they were serving. Many of our Jack & Jill families reside in Freeport where several areas in that community were completely destroyed. Not only has the physical landscape been altered greatly but the lives of many of the residents in this community are forever change The Nassau County Chapter Junior and Senior Teens continue to make us proud. They exhibited great selflessness and maturity. This was a great learning opportunity for them, where they demonstrated leadership skills, community service and team work. NATIONAL HARBOR Get Out the Vote Activities On November 3, the National Harbor Chapter’s Pearls and Panthers (9th – 12 grades) participated in a Get Out the Vote drive. Our teens and Regional Teen Legislative Chair Melanie Hutchinson distributed “Vote” flyers at the Bowie Gymnasium in Bowie, MD in support of the 38 • THE EASTERN GAZETTE regional legislative initiative to raise awareness and encourage voting in the national elections on November 6th. Also, Khayla Toyer, recent Jack and Jill graduate and former Teen Vice President of the National Harbor Chapter, worked the phone banks at Hampton University’s Barack Obama Campaign Office to “get out the vote”. The National Harbor Chapter’s teens exemplified the grassroots efforts that took place all over the country to encourage people to become active participants in the voting process. NEW CASTLE A Weekend of Leadership and Service at a Wilmington Back to School Drive The Sr. Teens of the New Castle County, Delaware Chapter gathered on August 24th - 25th to launch their program year. Newcomers participated in a weekend of leadership and community service. A c t i v i t i e s began on Friday evening with JMB Leadership Modules that focused on Personality Characteristics & Leadership, Interviewing Skills & Business Attire, and Risky Behavior. The workshops were led by Sr. Teen Advisors, Karen Jenkins, Carol Washington, and Lauren Wilson. Fathers, Michael Jenkins and Brian Washington, also facilitated modules. Staff from the Beautiful Gate Outreach Center conducted an interactive session enlightening teens on risky behaviors and the consequences. Following their workshops, the teens had a sleepover which gave them an opportunity to swim, get acquainted and have some fun. afternoon, teens culminated their retreat by kicking off a monthly commitment to volunteerism. Teens volunteered at a local Back-toSchool Drive held at the 30th Street Park in Wilmington. Teens would like to acknowledge UnitedHealthcare Community Plan of Delaware for donating backpacks & lunch boxes and The Congo Funeral Home for inviting them to volunteer at this event. Congo provided the school supplies, food and fun. The Newcomers are already making an impact on “Changing the World”. Community service is a way of life for the Newcomers. On Saturday NEWTON Volunteering at the Mass. Avenue Baptist Church Food Pantry On the Saturday before Thanksgiving the Newton Chapter Teens volunteered their time at the Mass. Ave. Baptist Church Food Pantry in Cambridge, MA. This Thanksgiving outreach activity has become an annual community service event that the teens eagerly look forward to by assisting those who are less fortunate. The teens distributed turkeys, an assortment of fresh seasonal produce and non-perishable goods to benefit 200+ families in need. THE EASTERN GAZETTE • 39 NORTH JERSEY Jack and Jill North Jersey Chapter Relief Efforts The North Jersey senior teens in keeping with tradition, collected over $400.00 in food and toiletry items to help with recent relief efforts. New Hope Baptist Church located in Newark, New Jersey will be the recipient of the donations. New Hope Baptist Church is working along with FEMA to distribute the donations in order to facilitate Hurricane Sandy relief. The North Jersey senior teens routinely collect five to eight bags of food monthly for distribution to various organizations. In addition to food and toiletries, clothing and money have also been donated to various charities. The Human Needs food pantry, located in Montclair, New Jersey, and KinderSmile, which provides dental care for impoverished children at home and abroad are other examples of community efforts by our senior teens. Annually, the teens prepare food, set up, serve and clean up at Christine’s Soup Kitchen, located in West Orange, NJ. And, for the past 3 years the senior teens have also worked with City Harvest located in Union Square, New York. For this charity, the teens collect fresh food and produce from vendors, (last year 300 pounds of food was collected) it is then taken to soup kitchens in the area, who prepare and distribute nutritious hot meals. North Jersey’s teens’ continue to demonstrate the meaning of volunteerism and community service. PHILADELPHIA Political Campaigning 101 The Hilltop I and II, our high school group, October Activity was ”Political Campaigning 101.” The focus of the activity, political campaigning could be applied to everything from school elections, community organizing, city, state and national offices. The teens were broken up into groups and asked to envision a “perfect community”, what would it contain, what type of programs and priorities? All of their ideas were written down and they were surprised to see that all of the suggestions would involve political action. We then discussed political messaging and the components of a campaign plan for either an elected office or an issue campaign. We had speakers that were involved in politics including a political director of a national campaign as well as a ward leader who did political organizing on a grass roots level. The kids then worked on a get out the vote mailing for the upcoming national election while they viewed the film, “The Young Candidate”, a documentary about 4 young people who ran for various elected offices in their communities. Open political discussions took place welcoming all opinions and topics. Congratulations to Chase Wilson for winning a President Obama’s Volunteer Service Award for 2012!! Chase Wilson 40 • THE EASTERN GAZETTE PITTSBURGH A Day of Giving The Pittsburgh Chapter of Jack &Jill (teen chapter) has become very interested and dedicated to addressing social issues that plague the area by participating in a variety of community service projects. On September 21, our teen chapter volunteered at the Greater Pittsburgh Food bank, a local ball recipient, as part of the Fall Food Share Day. During this service project, our teens spent their afternoon touring the food bank and learning about the wonderful services the food bank provides. The younger group of children engaged in activities such as making place mats for senior citizens and watching an educational video on an important social issue: hunger in America. While there, the teens donated the healthy snack options that were assembled snack bags for various after-school programs. The donations didn’t stop there! Our teens also donated school supplies that were packed into backpacks for deserving students. POTOMAC VALLEY Program Year Kicks Off with a Moonlight Cruise The 2013 program year looks terrific for Senior Teens of Potomac Valley Jack and Jill! In the midst of the graduation of last year’s seniors, Rachel Clayton, Emani Verlynne, and Billy Webb, the group is at its largest since 2006 (the graduating class of Brooklyn Wilkinson, Brandon Huger, and Chris Webb). This is due to the combination of an influx of high school freshman and new chapter members from last year. The new executive committee consists of President Kelsey Spencer, Vice President Kendall Mitchell, Secretary Ntebo Mokuena, Treasurer Kelsey Brown, and Skylar Mitchell as Editor/ Historian. The appointed positions of Sergeant at Arms and Parliamentarian have gone to Darren Williams and John Hale IV respectively. The Senior Teens opened the 2012-2013 program year with the 7th Annual Moonlight Teen Cruise on Sunday, October 7th, 2012. The event was the first of the year and was open to all Senior Teens of Potomac Valley. It provided an opportunity for all members to get to know each other in a less formal setting and almost all of the teens were in attendance. The evening began at Pier 4 in Southwest D.C. and by six o’clock the festivities were underway. The night was one of food, music, and dancing that allowed everyone to interact with each other as well as those from other chapters in the Eastern Region. All of the Potomac Valley teens are dedicated to working together to achieve a productive year and enjoy all upcoming events. THE EASTERN GAZETTE • 41 PRINCE GEORGE'S COUNTY Youth Empowerment Summit and Freshman Dinner Youth Empowerment Summit in their lives and the lives of others. On Saturday, October 13, more than 50 Senior Teens of the Prince George’s County Chapter participated in The Youth Empowerment Summit at the Camelot in Upper Marlboro, Md. This great event was organized by Prince George’s County Council Chairwoman Ingrid Turner, with additional support from the MarylandNational Capital Park & Planning Commission. Freshman Dinner The Summit’s theme was Educating, Equipping, & Empowering our Youth for Success. The interactive workshops on finance/entrepreneurship and leadership were a huge hit! This one day event provided the Sr. Teens with all the necessary modules needed to attend Teen Conference. The Senior Teens also learned hands-on, easy-to-implement techniques that will help them make sound decisions and foster positive change Prince George’s County Sr Teens gathered for our Freshman Dinner on November 10, in Glenn Dale, Md. This annual tradition, hosted by the Freshman Moms, is a seated dinner for all 67 Senior Teens and their Moms. The purpose of the event is to encourage bonding and fellowship, and have some fun too! This year’s Fiesta theme opened with each Senior Teen having to guess the celebrity personality taped on their back by asking questions to other Sr Teens. Next, the Senior Teens feasted on tacos, enchiladas, rice and beans, and nachos. Finally, each grade entertained the others by performing a karaoke song. It was great evening of camaraderie. RESTON Planning for Parties, Practicing for the Cotillion/Beautillion The month of November was very busy for the Reston Sr. Teens. During the monthly meeting, Reston Sr. Teens discussed the 2013 Eastern Regional Teen Conference, leadership modules, and holiday fundraising. They also began planning for the December Sr. Teen 42 • THE EASTERN GAZETTE Holiday party. The small ballroom in which they conducted their November meeting was also the practice area for the 2012 Reston Chapter Cotillion/Beautillion. Many of the teens immediately put on their dancing shoes after the meeting was adjourned! Reston Senior Teens performed the Carole Robertson tribute at our annual Jack and Jill Day Family Picnic held at Woody’s Golf Range in September. ROCHESTER Teens Assist at Ronald McDonald House On November 10, the teens of the Rochester, NY, chapter participated in an annual community service event at the Ronald McDonald House. The teens and their families donated and prepared healthy lunches for the families staying at the RMH. Families are able to stay at the RMH while their ill children are cared for at the Golisano Children’s Hospital. The teens also washed and put away dishes for the families. After preparing the lunches the teens were able to tour the house and talk with some of the families. ROCKLAND The Adventure Before the Storm All television and radio reports indicated that Hurricane Sandy was scheduled to hit the Northeast by Monday. So on October 27, the Rockland County Senior Teens bravely participated in a “friend raiser” with the Xinos/Kudos Club before the storm actually arrived. The Xinos/Kudos Club is a mentoring program for high school students sponsored by the National Sorority of Phi Delta Kappa, Incorporated ~ Epsilon Chi Chapter of Rockland County. They courageously hosted the trip to Six Flags Great Adventure in New Jersey in hopes of raising funds to help fund expenses needed to attend their Annual Teen Leadership Conference in March 2013. In attendance were nine Jack and Jill Senior Teens from the Rockland Chapter, five teen guests and one mother. Overall, we traveled safely to and fro with 26 teens and two chaperones. The teens were well behaved and responsive. The teens enjoyed a day of recreation and social engagement with one another, as they went on various rides and viewed several attractions. Everyone agreed that the real main attraction was when the sun faded to night and “FRIGHT NIGHT” was in full swing. The Senior Teens were honored to collaborate with the teens of the Xinos/Kudos Club for a worthy cause. They look forward to other opportunities where they can perfect their leadership skills and do public service with several local organizations in the near future. THE EASTERN GAZETTE • 43 SOUTHERN MARYLAND Piscataway-Conoy Tribal Council Election On November 3, the Southern Maryland Chapter of Jack and Jill proudly took part in the first PiscatawayConoy Tribal Council election. The Piscataway-Conoy Tribe is holdings its first Tribal Council Election following state recognition as one of two Native American Tribes indigenous to the State of Maryland on January 9, 2012 by Governor O’Malley. The Southern Maryland Chapter’s Teens helped the community by ensuring that the voting process was a fair and equitable process in the Native American community. To have the honor of the opportunity to assist as the tribe in seating the first official non-provisional tribal council was a wonderful opportunity for the chapter, the children and the mothers. The teens and mothers of our chapter were honored to participate in this historical event which gave our young people the chance to not only observe this legislative process, but take a part in it. SOUTH JERSEY Fall Fun with the South Jersey Teens Where can you find princesses, villains, butterflies and laughter in one place? At the South Jersey Chapter of Jack and Jill of America, Inc. Fall Fun Dress Up Party! In the spirit of “Changing Today for a Better Tomorrow”, the Lords and Ladies (Teen Group) of the South Jersey Chapter hosted a Fall Fun Dress up Party for the Chips and Twigs group. The Lords and Ladies expressed an interest in being mentors to our youngest group after attending many chapter wide events and not having the opportunity to interact with the future leaders of the group. Our youngest group truly looks up the teens and so 44 • THE EASTERN GAZETTE Mame Young, mother to both a Chips and Twigs daughter and a Lords and Ladies son, opened up her home for this activity. The teens came dressed up in a variety of whimsical costumes and ready to provide a fabulous night for the little ones. They organized activities such as pumpkin painting, contests and various games which included freeze dance and a pumpkin obstacle course. They each brought a bag of candy to be added to treat bags for the little ones. It was difficult to tell who had more fun, the teens or the little ones. There were smiles, treats, and beginning friendships for all! SUFFOLK COUNTY Suffolk County Teens Respond to Hurricane Sandy Hurricane Sandy roared in on October 29 and wreaked havoc on the lives of many in the Suffolk County community. After surviving days and sometimes weeks of lost power, heat ,internet services, and cable TV our teens had a new appreciation for the comforts of home and turned their thoughts to helping those in need. We received an urgent call from one of the many existing food distribution centers in our area to distribute food and for turkeys to feed 1,500 on Thanksgiving Day. With only a 48-hour turnaround time, our teens sprung into action to address the need. The teens unflinchingly offered themselves in service at Mercy House distributing food to those who came. In the four hours they spent at Mercy House, countless families came to collect food and clothing. In addition, the teens organized a chapter-wide turkey drive and were able to donate over 20 turkeys to be served on Thanksgiving Day. Hurricane Sandy relief efforts will be ongoing throughout Suffolk County for many months and the teens plan on being there to help! SYRACUSE Syracus Jack and Jill Teens Celebrate Election Day On Tuesday November 6, Election Day 2012, the Jack and Jill Teen members of the Syracuse Chapter gathered in Chapter Recording Secretary Paris Williams’ home to watch history in the making. They wore best Election Day appeal and brought, and devoured red white and blue treats. The event, the chapter legislative activity, allowed the members to watch the election unfold and see democracy in action. It was fun and informative to watch the election returns come in and electoral votes apportioned to each candidate. Witnessing the maps light up with red states and blue states, the chapter was reminded of President Obama’s dynamic speech to the Democratic Convention. The chapter saw just how committed the rest of the country was to vote and have their voices heard in this very important election, instilling in them the importance of having our voices heard as well. The Syracuse Chapter will remember this historic night for years to come. THE EASTERN GAZETTE • 45 WASHINGTON, D.C. DC Teens Have Fun and Serve the Community The DC Chapter “Tweens” started the month of October by spending a beautiful fall afternoon at Terrapin Adventures in Savage, Maryland. They enjoyed zip lining, team building, football tossing, pizza, lots of laughs and a special ride on the “big wing”. They also did two service projects for Thrive DC, an organization with a mission 46 • THE EASTERN GAZETTE to prevent and end homelessness by providing vulnerable individuals a comprehensive range of services to help stabilize their lives, which includes its Daily Bread/Daily Needs Program. The DC Chapter delivered 90 healthy take home meals for women and served meals to over 50 women at the Thrive DC kitchen. Group 5 has scheduled 9 service dates for Thrive DC, which, combined with our support for So Others Might Eat, will advance the Eastern Region’s community service goal of each chapter feeding 100 people this program year. SAVE THE DATE: JULY 20-25, 2013 28TH BIENNIAL EASTERN REGION MOTHER’S CONFERENCE ALL ABOARD! Start making plans NOW to attend this Jack and Jill “work and play” cruise, aboard Royal Caribbean’s Explore of the Seas, sailing out of Cape Liberty Cruise Port in New Jersey. Destination: BERMUDA! REGISTRATION OPENS JANUARY 2013! THE EASTERN GAZETTE • 47 MARK YOUR CALENDARS! FEBRUARY 2013 SEPTEMBER 2012 1 Associates Appreciation Program Year Begins Jack and Jill Day Celebrations CaroleRobertson Day Recognitions 25 Cluster Souvenir Journal Ads Due OCTOBER 2012 1 1 National Per Capita and National Conference Fee due to National Treasurer Regional Per Capita and Conference Assessment due to Regional 20 Metropolitan Cluster, hosted by Suffolk County Chapter, in Long Island, N.Y. 27 Southern Cluster, hosted by the Burke-Fairfax Chapter, in Falls Church, Va., MARCH 2013 3 21-24 Teen Conference, Hosted by the Newton (Mass.) Chapter, at the Boston Marriott Copley APRIL 2013 20 Program Books due to National Program Director and Regional Program Chair 3 Northern Cluster, hosted by the Bridgeport, Conn., Chapter, in Norwalk, Conn. 17 Delaware Valley Cluster, hosted by Chester County, Pa., in Newark, Del. DECEMBER 2012 1 Father’s Appreciation Events MAY 2013 National Black Family Day Celebration Chapter Evaluations due to National Program Director 7 Teen Conference Registration Opens 15 Up the Hill Submissions due 24 Jack and Jill Founder’s Day 26-27 Teen Leadership Summit, Howard University, Washington, D.C. 31 New Chapter and Officer Installations 15 Foundation and Loose Change due to Regional Treasurer 20 Distinguished Mother nominations due to Regional Secretary 31 New Member Joining Fees and Headquarters fee due to National 31 New member and teen joining fees New member and teen joining fees due to Regional Treasurer Grant Proposals due to the Regional MAL JANUARY 2013 Deadline for legacy requests 48 • THE EASTERN GAZETTE Children’s Cluster, Hosted by the Queens Chapter, New York Chapter Elections (Mothers & Teens) NOVEMBER 2012 1 Carol Robertson applications due to Regional MAL JUNE 2013 15 Roster of Chapter Elected Officers due to Headquarters and Regional Secretary 15 Deadline to complete Chapter Officer Transitions 30 End-of-Year Financial Reports due to National Treasurer JULY 2013 20-25 Eastern Region Mother’s Conference, hosted by the Greater Essex Chapter, Cruise to Bermuda (sailing out of Bayonne, N.J.)
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